1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to bet your Happy Hour. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena. 3 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: We are here today with our lovely guests Adam and Raven. 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Welcome guys, the bet you having. 5 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 3: Thanks for having us, Thanks for having us. 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 4: It's been a while. 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 3: Really, this is our debut. I'm here. Actually, I think, 8 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 3: thank so we've never done it with Joe and Serena. Really, yeah, 9 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 3: I thought you. 10 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 4: I feel like we've I've helped. 11 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 2: I think we've had Raven, Raven, you've been on this all. 12 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we've never had couples couple therapy. 13 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 14 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 5: I'm blessed to be in y'all's presence because you guys 15 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 5: are like king and Queen and we're prince and princess. 16 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 4: So I feel honored to be here. 17 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: You are being too honest, But thank you so much 18 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 2: of Happy belated Mother's Day. 19 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 1: Raven. 20 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 3: Thank you what you guys do. 21 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 6: We're actually in at a wedding at Portufaire to where 22 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 6: we met. I'm bachelor in Paradise, surprisingly, and but Adam 23 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 6: did treat me to a ninety minute massage at the 24 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 6: Four Seasons while we were there, so it was pretty 25 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 6: pretty good. 26 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: Were you at the first seasons in Puntamita. Yes, okay, 27 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 2: I know my parents have stayed there and they're like 28 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 2: it is nice. 29 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, we had the best time. It was really needed too, just. 30 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 4: Us, and she was easy. I was like, hey, what 31 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 4: do you want for Mother's Day? 32 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 5: And she just said, honestly, like a massage and just 33 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 5: a day of like just peace and like boom say less. 34 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 4: And we were already at the wedding, so I was like, 35 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:25,839 Speaker 4: all right, it's perfect. 36 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 3: We'll just we'll double up and just so easy on 37 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: you this year. 38 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll take you. I'll take what I can get. 39 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 2: I feel like, I mean, I don't have kids, obviously, 40 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 2: I feel like a Mother's Day wedding is like maybe 41 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 2: unusual to like have a wedding on Mother's Day weekend, 42 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 2: But maybe this is a hot take, like is it 43 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: kind of nice to just be like what I want 44 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: for Mother's Day is to just chill and not be 45 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: with my kids? Is that bad? 46 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: I mean, it was nice being on the beach. 47 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 6: But Adam will tell you me both we get like 48 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 6: the first day we're there, we're like, yeah, kid free, 49 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 6: and then the second day we're like, oh, we wish 50 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 6: your kids were here, Like with with a nanny or 51 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 6: a grandma, but like still here, yeah. 52 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,679 Speaker 2: There with help there, with reinforcement, yes, exactly. 53 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: How do you guys feel? Do you guys go to 54 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: Mexico every year? 55 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 3: Right? 56 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: Do you do like an anniversary in Mexico every year? 57 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: Is that a thing? 58 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 3: We just go a lot because the so easy. 59 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, we do a lot. We do. We partner with 60 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 4: one of the hotels that's there. 61 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 5: And I mean we're in Dallas, like you're basically we're 62 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 5: two hours from Cabo, No. Two and a half from Cabo, 63 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 5: two from Portavar to two from Cancuns, so you can 64 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 5: just pop to each one and like and it's virtually 65 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 5: almost each of them is within an hour or two 66 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 5: hours of time change. So yeah, it's not crazy, but 67 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,839 Speaker 5: it's like an easy, easy, you know, pop over. 68 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 6: For us, it's like we could go to Florida or 69 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 6: even California. We could go to Mexico in less time 70 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,679 Speaker 6: than going across. 71 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: The true right, Like it would be like going to 72 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: Florida for us, Like it's like a two and a 73 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 2: half hour flight from New York to Florida exactly. But 74 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: then yeah, to go to Cabo, it's like five and 75 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: a half hours, whereas if it was closed. It's between 76 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: Florida and Cabba, like I'm probably choosing Cabo. 77 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never been. 78 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: We enjoy it really yeah. 79 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh that's surprising to you. 80 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: I've just told you that just now. You know you 81 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: don't listen to me. How far is? How far is? 82 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: How far is Austin from Dallas? 83 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 4: It's about three hour drive or it's a forty five 84 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 4: minute flight. 85 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: I'm going there the first week at June for my 86 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: brother's bachelor party. Oh nice, do you ever go out there? 87 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 88 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 5: I remember you. You posted something and you are like 89 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 5: restaurant recks. So yes, I'm gonna text you like three 90 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 5: that I really like. But I know you're a hard 91 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 5: critic when it comes to food. So i'm gonna give you. 92 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 5: I'm gonna give you the spectrum. I'm gonna give you, like, 93 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 5: obviously you got to hit the Texas barbecue. Yeah, and 94 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 5: then you need to have some kind of a swanky, 95 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 5: funky Austin local type thing. 96 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 4: And then I'll give you something that's a little bougie 97 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 4: as well. So I'll give you the spectrum. 98 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna need that. I'm gonna tell 99 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: you right now, I have reservations at the one restaurant. 100 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: Is he had. There's like ten or eleven of them going, 101 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 2: so he's like, yeah, that's. 102 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 4: A big party. 103 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 104 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: The one restaurant starts with a D. It's like Da 105 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: Day or something like that. And then I'm trying to 106 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: make reservations at this at x Coachina. Have you heard 107 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: of that? 108 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? I heard it? 109 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well you send you gotta send me that. 110 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 5: I think we're talking about day. I think, I think, 111 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 5: I know it's Uh, it's pretty cool. That's a good spot. 112 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 5: Do you know where are you staying downtown? 113 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm staying downtown Okay, And that we're going a 114 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: few days early to golf as well at the Omni 115 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: Barton Creek. 116 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 4: Dude, you're gonna love that course. 117 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 3: Speaking speaking of Omni, we have an update about our lives. 118 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 4: My gosh, tell us oh our new. 119 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 5: We're building a house up at the new Omnia up 120 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 5: in Crystal, Texas, which is like north here in Dallas. 121 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 4: So we have a house that we're gonna build. 122 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 6: And Joe, if you're a golfer, a unstering to have 123 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 6: to come visit us when we get it. All built 124 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 6: because our house is between the seventh and sixth hole. 125 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 4: You got it, got it? 126 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:15,119 Speaker 2: Good job. 127 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 6: Wait, we're like Adam's like when we first started dating, 128 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 6: I think we were literally on the beach on Paradise. 129 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 6: Adam was like, there's two when we get out of here, 130 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 6: there's two things we're. 131 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: Going to do. 132 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 6: We're going to live off of Lover's Lane, which we 133 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 6: live off of Lover's Lane, and I think he was 134 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 6: just saying that to be romantic. And then he said, 135 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 6: and then we're going to live on a golf course. 136 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 3: Okay. 137 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 6: So when the PGA came to Frisco and started opening 138 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 6: lots and we got a lot, I was like, wow, 139 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 6: everything you have ever said, it's come to fruition. 140 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: So maybe it wasn't just about romance. He meant it, 141 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 2: and he was like, this is what we're doing, and 142 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 2: he may happen. So you guys have been in Dallas 143 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 2: for how long? 144 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 4: When did you move here? Twenty nineteen? 145 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 3: The beginning of twenty nineteen, like end of twenty eighteen. 146 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 3: I've been here, okay. 147 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 2: Okay, and then this move will be like far, just 148 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: a little down the road. 149 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 4: Twenty five thirty minutes north to here. 150 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: Okay, that's not bad. 151 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's the burbs, but it's fun. It has it's 152 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 5: its own low bubble up there. 153 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 4: Like where we live. 154 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 5: We're we're close to all the great restaurants we have. 155 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 5: You know, we're close to the American Airlines, which is 156 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 5: where the Mavericks play, and like the Dowstars, the hockey team. 157 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 4: I mean, we're just super central here. 158 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 5: We're like seven minutes from the airport and we're not 159 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 5: in the flight paths. 160 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 4: You don't really hear the planes, which is cool. 161 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 6: They call this area the incubator because everyone comes, like 162 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 6: to our area we're in right now, to have children 163 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 6: and they move out to the verbs. 164 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 3: So that's exactly what we're doing. 165 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: How is it building a house from scratch wall? Wait 166 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: before you answer that, Adam, what's your handicap? 167 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 4: Like A ten? 168 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're good. I get I knew I saw your swing. 169 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: You're good. Okay, how is it? 170 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 2: Joe's always start But I'm getting that. He's so hyper fixating. 171 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm getting there, getting it. I'm a twenty eight right now, 172 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: but I will be a fucking ten next year, I promise. 173 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 4: I love it. 174 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 5: And I know you have a great frame and like, 175 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 5: there's no reason why you can't hit that. 176 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: So I'm with you. 177 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to get there anyways. What is it like 178 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: building a house from scratch? 179 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 5: It's you know, to be in to be honest with you, 180 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 5: I'm god, I'm the I feel like I'm the driver 181 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 5: and all this stuff. Like Raven's definitely like if I 182 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 5: I just say, hey, this is this, this is what 183 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 5: I'm envisioning in my head, and here are three options 184 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 5: that we can go with. 185 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 4: Which one do you like? And She'll go I like 186 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 4: number two or number three or number one, whatever it is. 187 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 5: And that has made it probably really easy rather than also. 188 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 6: Like super cool about it. I'm like, you know what, cool, 189 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 6: we're moving all right, let's do it. You know, I 190 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 6: really don't have an opinion, so it actually makes it 191 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 6: really tough. 192 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 3: On him because I don't have a strong opinion. 193 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 6: And so yeah, if he can give me some options 194 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 6: so I can like see what I like or what 195 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 6: I don't like, and then we can go from there. 196 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 2: But I feel like the best Joe, I like we 197 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 2: kind of both play that role, but like it'll be like, okay, 198 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: I've narrowed it down to like three couches and he'll 199 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 2: be like, I hate those two definitely that one. I'm like, right, 200 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 2: That's all I needed, was like someone to make that 201 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: final decision. 202 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, totally. It's a It's been good though. Adam is 203 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 3: so ahead of the game. 204 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 6: He's he he's got everything all the way from the 205 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 6: permits from this city approved to I mean, we have 206 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 6: everything done. We just need to start breaking. 207 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 4: I think like it's that, you know, the only thing 208 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 4: that's left. 209 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 5: We've We've are tile picked, We've I think only thing 210 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 5: we got to pick out is color, like small little 211 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 5: police like wallpaper off. Fixtures are done, appliances are done. 212 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 5: We're just waiting on the lender. We have one lender 213 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 5: that like fumbled on us, and so we're trying to 214 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 5: We have another one that's picking back up. But I 215 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 5: got a file last year's taxes, I have an extension. 216 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 5: So it's just like there's just dominoes that need to 217 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 5: happen beforehand in order to get it done. But like 218 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 5: I will say is if you're dealing with a really 219 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 5: good contractor or a builder that's done these types of homes, 220 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 5: it really like it helps streamline the process because I 221 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 5: think a lot of people do get overwhelmed. Yeah, and 222 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 5: we got a good wet. We're a really good team. 223 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 5: That's kind of like helping push this in a good direction. 224 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 5: So I think it'll be fun. It'll be it's gonna 225 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 5: be really exciting. It's gonna take. 226 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 4: About like a year and a half. Maybe that's you're 227 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 4: gonna ask. 228 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 6: Okay, so you just come visit. Joe and Adam will 229 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 6: go go off and then we'll go to the omni Spa. 230 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 6: I love that, and we'll just hang out there for 231 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 6: the day. 232 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 4: I love that. 233 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: Do they give you like so, is it like a 234 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 2: developer that's like, hey, these are like the five different 235 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 2: house styles that you can choose from, and then you 236 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 2: can pick and then like customize slightly accordingly. 237 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 5: No, what you're referring to is that's what's called the 238 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 5: semi custom That's where it's like, hey, here are these 239 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 5: like five floor plans, and then you can pay like 240 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 5: your countertops, the color, you can maybe move like move 241 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 5: a toilet or a sink around. 242 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: Because I have a friend that that was what they did. 243 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 4: This is one hundred percent. 244 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 5: This is like you fill out a questionnaire form to 245 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 5: your architect and you ask you like, hey, what are 246 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 5: your hot buttons, what do you like how do you 247 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 5: envision your home? So you have a lot of like 248 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 5: inspo picks and vision boards that you share with them, 249 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 5: and then you talk to them about like small things 250 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 5: like hey, we have two kids, and so they're boys, right, 251 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 5: so let's have their own separate bathrooms. 252 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 6: And they're so like they're also first of all, he 253 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 6: is so precise and like very tough a that he 254 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 6: even like measures the hallways like how does it feel 255 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 6: down the hallway? And like our architect, he's everyone that's 256 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 6: involved is so thoughtful, like they're like, are you right 257 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 6: handed or left handed? Because that depends on where we're 258 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 6: going to put the dishwasher and that's where we're going 259 00:10:56,520 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 6: to put your silverware drawer. Because that makes me since 260 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 6: like how you're moving around your house like that's wild 261 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 6: about yes, Like even the position of the sun and 262 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 6: how it hits through the windows. And I mean all, 263 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 6: I mean the smallest tiniest things that you can think 264 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 6: of have been really thought thought out. 265 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 3: And I think it is because we have such a 266 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 3: good team. 267 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 6: But also like this is his dream and he's so 268 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 6: type a Like even the house we're in right now, 269 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 6: Adam has taken such good care of it that whoever 270 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 6: gets this house is going to be blessed if we 271 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 6: sell it. 272 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: True, Do you think that's why you don't care, because 273 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: you trust the fact that Adam's a maniac. 274 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll just. 275 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: Get it done. 276 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 3: Yes, I think I'm pretty easy going. 277 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 6: And to be honest, if you've had this conversation with 278 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 6: a few of my girlfriends, is like I grew up 279 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 6: in a world where I didn't have I didn't know 280 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 6: anyone but one person that had a two story home, 281 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 6: and so like in my brain, I haven't caught up 282 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 6: to the thought of, like this is going to be 283 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 6: my life, and it's just really hard for me to 284 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 6: envision because my dream home was the home I have now, 285 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 6: a very small home with my kids running around and 286 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 6: having a happy marriage, like that was my envision. And 287 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 6: so to have like a big house on a golf 288 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 6: course you can customize it, like you're even thinking about 289 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 6: where the sun is hitting in the windows, Like. 290 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 3: That is really really far fetched for me. 291 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 6: But like I'm along for the ride, like I love it, 292 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 6: but it's just like my brain is not there. 293 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: Adam's like, well, we're doing it, so fucking get there. 294 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 6: We have had an argument because he was like, you 295 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 6: don't care, and I'm like, it's not that I don't care, 296 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 6: it's just so hard for me to like get there. 297 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 3: We're from two different worlds. It's like, but I'm cool 298 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 3: with it. 299 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 2: Like, well, also you felt like Adam was like gonna 300 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 2: mess it up. I feel like that just shows you 301 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 2: also trust him to make the decisions as well, because 302 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 2: if you didn't, you would be way more involved. Just instinctively. 303 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 6: Yes, And then like when he showed me like the 304 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 6: the outside of the house and the stone work and 305 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 6: like everything that he was envisioning, I loved it. He 306 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 6: has such good taste I was. I was like, yeah, absolutely, 307 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 6: we agreed on like all the colors, all the like tiling, 308 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 6: like we were just so in it. 309 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 2: So it well, sometimes it's hard to envision too, when 310 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 2: it's like not in front of you, like I find picturing, 311 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: like you know, and it's complicated enough. You guys have 312 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 2: seen this movie when like. 313 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: That's my favorite home, I'm also in. I'm also really 314 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: in the homes to anim We're very similar. 315 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: He doesn't really like architecture and design scene at golf 316 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 2: at golf, but you know when Steve Martin is like 317 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 2: showing Meryl Streep the home and it's like all like 318 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 2: mapped out in the grass and she's like, Oh, it's beautiful. 319 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, what are we looking at? Like it's just 320 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 2: lines in the grass. Like how does someone really know 321 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 2: like what the feeling is until it happens. But I 322 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: feel like that's also just like you can do it 323 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: or you can't. Yeah, I know you would. You would 324 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 2: be like I get it, And I love that home though. 325 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: That's like my favorite type of home. 326 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a really nice, beautiful home. I agree. 327 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 2: What are the elements of your home now that you're 328 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 2: like we have to bring this into the new home 329 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 2: and then what are the things where you're like we 330 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 2: don't have this and like I can't wait to have it. 331 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 3: This house is just so different. 332 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so different. 333 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 5: This is like so when we got this house is 334 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 5: like built in nineteen fifty two, but we gutted it 335 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 5: and then we like kind of modernize. 336 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 4: It a little bit. 337 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 3: For storage. We need much storage. 338 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 6: We just did not even consider how much storage, especially 339 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 6: after having kids. It's like, holy Molly, how do we 340 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 6: accumulate all this stuff? And I'm sure you feel the 341 00:14:56,080 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 6: same story of like being a quote unquote influencer on 342 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 6: social media, you get sent so much stuff all the time, 343 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 6: and it's just like you need a place to house everything. 344 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: We have a six hundred and fifty square foot apartment. 345 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: You know how many boxes. 346 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 4: It's insane maximum efficiency right now. 347 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh yeah. We really do our best to 348 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: keep this place organized. But like even my sister was 349 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 2: here and she's like, it's crazy. You get like three 350 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 2: boxes and you you feel it in the space because 351 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 2: it's so small, like you like it's a little messy, 352 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 2: and it feels so cluttered. Like I'm like just to 353 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 2: have a room, Like do you think you're gonna have 354 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 2: any sort of like office or like storage room that 355 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 2: strictly meant for like influencer stuff, content, pr boxes, all 356 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 2: the things. 357 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely it's already. 358 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 359 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 2: I was looking at and being like are we we 360 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: have that? 361 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 5: There's like I don't know, there's neat things, Like it's 362 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 5: it's like I call it a one and a half story, 363 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 5: so it's all the basic living spaces is down below. 364 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 5: We also have a game room that's like detached from 365 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 5: the family room, so that way like the kids can 366 00:15:58,240 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 5: be playing in there and you can have an eye 367 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 5: on the watch. But then where the kids sleep. They 368 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 5: sleep actually upstairs and there's only like two or three 369 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 5: bedrooms upstairs, and then downstairs is like you know, the 370 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 5: primary bedroom office, there's you know, a powder room, and 371 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 5: then we also have a casita which is for our guests. 372 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 5: So that's to mimic virtually like a hotel room. So 373 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 5: it has like a king sized bed, has a coffee bar, 374 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 5: has a washer and dryer, has you know, a nice shower, 375 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 5: and like sinks or whatever. So that way when in 376 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 5: laws come or guests come, they feel like, hey, like 377 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 5: they're in. 378 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 6: Their own separate Yeah. Yeah, the house, so they're away 379 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 6: from the kids. If they want to break they can 380 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 6: go over there. 381 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 4: So that's right. 382 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is. 383 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 5: Of course, Joe, I couldn't do it out a pool, 384 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 5: and I'm gona have a pizza oven just for you. 385 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: Wow, we're gonna be staying in that casida. 386 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, we will be there. You're gonna come outside and 387 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 2: Joe's going to be in your pool eating pizza. Okay, 388 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: welcome home. 389 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: Let's pivot a little. Let's pivot to Bachelor in Paradise. 390 00:16:55,920 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: It's it's coming back on the air filming Now and Rica. 391 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:05,239 Speaker 1: How long was it since your season? What year was that? 392 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 6: You remember? Right? 393 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: Seventeen seventeen because I was eight. 394 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 4: Years Yeah, it's been eight years since we exited the 395 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 4: beach together. 396 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 2: What season were you? Do you remember what number it was? 397 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 2: I think that would make sense because and then you 398 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 2: would have been five, and then there was six a 399 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 2: year off, and then seven is when we met. 400 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 4: Ye, So what season is on now? 401 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,919 Speaker 2: This will be season I think ten because there was 402 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 2: two seasons after us and then they took a year off. 403 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, okay, so getting getting engaged on the show, 404 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 1: not being married, having two children, obviously there's you know, 405 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: you reminisce and you think about it. Now it's changing 406 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 1: to Costa Rica. Do we have an issue with that? 407 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 1: And how do we feel about the Golden People being evolved? 408 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 4: Oh? Good questions all overall? Well, I think I think 409 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 4: Coasta Rica. I think the change of scenery is great. 410 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 5: You know, I'm you know, for what it's worth, it's just, 411 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 5: if anything, the logistics are harder to get people down 412 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 5: there and and get acclimated or whatnot. 413 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 4: But I I'm the. 414 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 5: Reason why I'm a huge advocate of the show is 415 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 5: because I tell everyone it's unlike The Bachelor, bachsl are 416 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 5: At or Golden. Instead of twenty five people going after 417 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 5: one person, it's just like it is a it is 418 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 5: a pool of playing matchmaker, and. 419 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 7: I feel like chances are higher meetings Like yeah, I 420 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 7: mean look at you guys, look at us, right, So 421 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 7: you have like you have these opportunities to meet people 422 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 7: and mingle and like you know, you get to see 423 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 7: some even sometimes you get to do like a little 424 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 7: scouting report you know before your season to be like. 425 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 5: Oh I saw you on your season or you know, 426 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 5: Josel Serena on her season before. And now I think 427 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 5: like the the success really comes out of the paradise. 428 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 4: I mean you can see it. 429 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 5: I think there's like eight or ten really really successful 430 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 5: couples that have kids. 431 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 3: Too excited about the Golden. 432 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 4: I'm fired up for it too. 433 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 6: Being on the beach, I think that's going to be 434 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 6: like another element that's going to be very interesting that 435 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 6: we've never had before. Obviously, But I mean what if 436 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 6: they start, I mean you could what if someone's a cougar, 437 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 6: like you know. 438 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 4: Is that what you guys are saying, they're mixing Golden 439 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 4: with we don't know. 440 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 6: We don't know. 441 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 2: That's a lot of speculation around. Man, that's there's speculation 442 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 2: on if it's gonna even like be allowed, if there's 443 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 2: gonna be an opportunity for it, if they're just going 444 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 2: to keep them very separate, or if it's like you know, 445 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 2: for sure to do it. 446 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 6: I think mix THEILM because it will be interesting and 447 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 6: then also like I feel like the Goldens can give advice, 448 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 6: like and then also like if they wanted to hook up, they. 449 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 3: Could, but and that would be very in. 450 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 4: Thirty years old. 451 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 3: But also I feel like the younger ones could influence 452 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 3: the Goldens too, Like they could be like really romantic 453 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 3: or like you know, very into each other, and the 454 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 3: Goldens could like kind of see that and be like, Okay, 455 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 3: let me just go for it. I don't know, Yeah, 456 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 3: I like that. 457 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 2: I also think, because I was thinking about this as 458 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 2: we were talking, there's a much smaller pool of Golden 459 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 2: contestants than there is regular season. I don't think, well, 460 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 2: there's no way that they can align the structure of 461 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 2: like both groups the exact same for the whole season. 462 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 2: Maybe they'll throw down like some parents, like some people 463 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 2: that have been on the show, Like, yeah, get some 464 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:32,640 Speaker 2: of the moms and dads with the regular contestants down there. 465 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 3: I love it. I think it'd be great. 466 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 6: I also think like our age people are kind of 467 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 6: like media trained and the Goldens are not. Like I 468 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 6: feel like there'd be more themselves and like we can 469 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 6: get some really outrageous things or like just maybe like 470 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 6: more sincere, genuine things out of them instead of like 471 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 6: our our generation, like we kind of know what not 472 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 6: to say on TV. 473 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 3: I don't think they do. 474 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 2: You know what we watched last night because we're gonna 475 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 2: be recapping it on this podcast. Is episode one of 476 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:10,360 Speaker 2: season three of Bachelor Pad. Like the way people are 477 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 2: talking about each other and oh, just like yeah, mediumly targeting, 478 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 2: ugly you, Shanna is bad, your dress is hideous. Like 479 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 2: the way people are coming for each other and they're 480 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 2: like black out drunk. You can just tell like social 481 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 2: media and they're even referring to like the tabloids and 482 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 2: like people have just as you said, like naturally become 483 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 2: media trained, just for sure having social media. 484 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 6: I remember waking up in the Bachelor House and like 485 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,919 Speaker 6: when we started traveling and I would have yaeger for 486 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 6: breakfast like that is diabolical. I would have pizza and 487 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 6: yeager for breakfast is disgusting. 488 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 2: Well, because you were probably just like constantly like buzzed 489 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 2: or hungover. 490 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, like my season of girls, they said that my 491 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 6: season of the girls on our Bachelor season was such 492 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 6: drinkers that so many of us we have all blacked 493 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 6: out at one point in time, Like we were all 494 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 6: just able to make good TV, but we don't remember 495 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 6: some of the episodes. 496 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's really difficult to do reality 497 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: TV and not drink. Like from day one of being 498 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: on the Bachelorette, Like the first thing I did was like, hey, like, 499 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: I'll take some bearrass to my room. I'm drinking. 500 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 4: I'm I can't do it. 501 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,119 Speaker 6: Just the nerves in general, I mean, I would not 502 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 6: drink like that again, and I never drink like that 503 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 6: in my life before. That was just a super unusual situation. 504 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 6: But like the nerves and like being aware of the cameras, 505 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 6: you need a little something to fizzle that out. 506 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not someone that drinks every day, but every 507 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 2: day on Bachelorette or so around Bauchlor and on Paradise 508 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 2: Sight was having a drink, drink like even if it 509 00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 2: was just like a glass of wine at night, like 510 00:22:58,680 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 2: I was having something. 511 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: Yes, like like us like we all failed on our 512 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: first attempt at finding love on the show, right, like. 513 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 4: Do you do? 514 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 1: And you guys, you know you're a success from Paradise. 515 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: Do you remember how you felt going into that Paradise 516 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 1: if you were optimistic, if you were just like I'm 517 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: just doing this because it's fun. 518 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 3: Oh, we were just doing it because it was fun. 519 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 520 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I A little bit of me was like. 521 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 5: Originally I had like even my partner that I work 522 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 5: with at work, he was like, don't go to that man, 523 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 5: that's where all the rejects go. 524 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 4: Don't waste your time, don't do this. 525 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 5: And I'm just like a part of me is like, 526 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 5: you know, my season was a little weird, right because 527 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 5: I made it to like right before Hometowns, but I 528 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 5: think did a lot of airtime, and I felt like 529 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 5: there was like a part of me where I'm like, well, 530 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 5: I feel like people didn't really get to see me 531 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 5: as a whole, and so I was like, well, let 532 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 5: me just there was just a couple of people had 533 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,959 Speaker 5: my eye on in Paradise and we talked about the time, 534 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 5: like Raygon was like she wasn't on my like my 535 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 5: radar per se, but I knew she was gonna be there. 536 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 4: But like when I went there and we. 537 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 5: Started to talk, and I started to like really like 538 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 5: again you start to really like just cultivate, you know, 539 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 5: a rapport and relationship with somebody, you're kind of like. 540 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 6: All right, this is We were surprised with each other 541 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 6: very sure we out he was not on my list 542 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 6: and I was not on his of like people we 543 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 6: wanted to meet, and then when we met, it was 544 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,399 Speaker 6: like there was chemistry there and then we were just 545 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 6: both really surprised, like, hmmm, I kind of want to 546 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 6: see Adam today, like I want to talk to him more. 547 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, and the rest is history. Here we are chastre. 548 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 2: How old are your boys now? 549 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,679 Speaker 6: Gates turned three in January and then Max will be 550 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 6: two in July. 551 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:50,359 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Have you guys thought about how and 552 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: when you might introduce how you guys met or do 553 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 2: you think it'll Like. 554 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 1: That's a good question because I I sometimes think about that. 555 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: I think about this too, to be honest, Like it's 556 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 2: like does it organically happen, like you work on social media? 557 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: Will like come up because eventually, like it might hit 558 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 2: and age where like they find they just like find out, 559 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 2: you know, like someone's brings it up to them on 560 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 2: a playdate. It's like, yeah, mommy was on the. 561 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,439 Speaker 6: Bachelor, totally. I think we're just gonna for me. I 562 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 6: guess I'm just gonna let it happen organically. But what's 563 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 6: so funny is my mom brought a bunch of my 564 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 6: like keepsakes over like a month ago, and I pulled 565 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 6: out one of the magazines and it had like one 566 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 6: of my hometown dates on it where I was obviously 567 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 6: kissing someone that was not Adam, and I like held 568 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 6: it up really quick and I like put it down 569 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 6: and Gates said, you're kissing daddy, and I was. 570 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 2: Like, and You're like, yes, baby daddy, And then I. 571 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 6: Just shoved that right back in there. I was like, Adam, 572 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 6: throw this into attic, like this is just too much. 573 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 3: But yeah, I think it just I didn't even. 574 00:25:56,440 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 2: Think about that element of like we're both on TV 575 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 2: kissing other people. 576 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, curiously, and you don't think about that when you're 577 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 6: in your early twenties, Like that's just that's such a 578 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 6: far fetched idea, Like to think that I was going 579 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 6: to marry this man that I met on the beach 580 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 6: on Bachelor, Like I didn't envision us having children. 581 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 4: It's life, just you know, yeah, and it happened. 582 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 5: We always say to tell everyone we're like, we would 583 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 5: have never probably crossed past any other way. Like even 584 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,919 Speaker 5: if I was like I was watching the show and 585 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 5: I like maybe DM Dur and I never went on it, 586 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 5: I don't think that it would even have It would 587 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 5: have never flourished into what it is today. So we're 588 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 5: thankful for the show, the show and the stage that 589 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 5: it gave us in order to kind of fall in. 590 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 4: Love and move forward. 591 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 6: And I also want the boys if when the time 592 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 6: comes and they see our episode or see our first 593 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 6: date together, I want them to also think like mom 594 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 6: and Dad did really like cool things. They took chances, 595 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,239 Speaker 6: and they did like silly stuff. They made mistakes, but 596 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 6: also like they live their life to the fullest and 597 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 6: like look what they did, and that's kind of like 598 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 6: how I hope that's kind of how I'm going to 599 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 6: approach it if when it gets brought up, is that, Yeah, 600 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 6: we want you guys to go live life, Go do 601 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 6: the wild, crazy stuff, Go do the stuff you never 602 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 6: thought you would do because you have no idea what's 603 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 6: going to happen. I just want you to have like 604 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 6: the best life and most fulfilling life ever. And if 605 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 6: had we not taken that chance, we wouldn't have have 606 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 6: met each other. 607 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 2: I don't think, well, yeah, do you think you'll try 608 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 2: to proactively have the conversation or do you think you'll 609 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,239 Speaker 2: just wait till it feels okay? Like these questions are 610 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 2: starting to get asked, Like now feels like the right time. 611 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 4: I think when it, I think the ladder. 612 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 5: I think the ladder because I'm just I don't know. 613 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 5: We have friends with kids, are I don't know, ten, twelve, thirteen. 614 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 5: I'm curious to know what age they even would start asking. 615 00:27:55,600 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 5: If they asked, yea, were you want did you meet 616 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 5: mommy on TV? 617 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 4: And you're kind of like yeah, and you know you 618 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 4: bring it up, then I. 619 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 5: Think that's the best way to handle it, because like 620 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,160 Speaker 5: they don't understand it, they're too young to understand how 621 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 5: the concept of it now, but like, yeah, we got 622 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 5: we got time. 623 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 2: We got time totally, you have time. I you know, 624 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 2: even like I think with my parents, like the story 625 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,120 Speaker 2: of how they met evolved and became more detailed as 626 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 2: I got older, Like certain elements were added, you know, 627 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: like and they met in a very like normal they 628 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 2: met like three friends and a party kind of thing. 629 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 3: So yeah, yes, exactly. 630 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna ask you guys both the same 631 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 1: question but in a different way. So Adam, you're gonna 632 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: go first. So if i'm let's say, I'm I'm Steve 633 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: and I'm going on this season of Paradise and I'm 634 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 1: and you and I are friends. I work for your company, Adam, Like, 635 00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: what do you like? What should I do? Knowing what 636 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: I know now, knowing what you know now, and I want, 637 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, like cliche like just be yourself. 638 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd say I'd say go for it. 639 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 4: You know, the old the younger you are, the more 640 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 4: risk you can kind of take in life. 641 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 5: And I feel like, whether that's dating, whether it's doing 642 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 5: something financially with your job, whether that's you know, traveling 643 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 5: the world and doing whatever you want to do, I 644 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 5: would say say go for it, because and have an 645 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 5: open mind and let allow yourself to embrace everything that's 646 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 5: going to come your way. Don't hold up a guard, 647 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 5: be authentic, and you never know where it's going to land. 648 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 5: And so whether you use the show for you know 649 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 5: how depending how open you are to like the whole 650 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 5: concept of love and meeting other people. Just going with 651 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 5: an open mind, and if it happens, it happens, and 652 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 5: you never know where it's going to lead you, and 653 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 5: you know, if it doesn't work out, at least you 654 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 5: can say, guess what I did it, rather than doing 655 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 5: the opposite, which is dang, like you know, five years 656 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 5: ago this opportunity I should have done it, and then 657 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 5: now you're going to have that regret in the back 658 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 5: of your head. 659 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 4: So go for it. 660 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 1: Good advice. I like that, Raven. What advice did you 661 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: give Tia before going on to Bachelor in Paradise? 662 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 6: Oh, I said so much to Tiya. I'm trying to 663 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 6: like condense it into like two minutes. I think the 664 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 6: biggest thing was to keep your mind open, like you have. 665 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 6: I think a lot for girls, especially us girls, like 666 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 6: just where we grew up and stuff. You have a 667 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 6: picture in your head of like who you're going to marry, 668 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 6: or like the type of person you're going to marry, 669 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 6: and like you may not know that you're doing this, 670 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 6: but by doing that, you may be really limiting yourself 671 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 6: and limiting your family. Like Adam and I are so 672 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 6: different in so many ways. Like I if I had 673 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 6: just said, Okay, I'm going to marry this tope of 674 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 6: man and he's going to be from here and all that, like, we. 675 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 3: Would not have worked. I wouldn't have even like given 676 00:30:58,440 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 3: him a chance. 677 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 6: But I was completely My mind was completely open, and 678 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 6: I think that's the biggest thing. I really just saw 679 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 6: the riding on the wall with Tia because I knew 680 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 6: Colton was going to be there and like that whole situation. 681 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,959 Speaker 6: So I was like, just keep your mind open to 682 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 6: other people, like people you would never think in a 683 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 6: million years you would end up with, like talk to them, 684 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 6: just see if there's something there, because people can surprise you. 685 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was a lot of that. 686 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 4: There was no talk like it was. 687 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: And you guys came down and hosted a date which 688 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: I didn't physically see you guys because you couldn't actually 689 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: come to the pool side or wherever we were. Yes, 690 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: crazy though. 691 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 4: That was the year after, right, right, yeah, it was 692 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 4: the year after. I'm just bummed. 693 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 5: I asked him, I said, Hey, are we going to 694 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 5: make a cameo in Costa Rica. 695 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 2: We're also trying to go to Coasta, ricad. 696 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 3: This is the hot take. 697 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 5: No, Batman, Bradne was built break by break by people 698 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 5: like us and you so guess thank you, let's lean 699 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 5: on that. 700 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 6: That is my hot take is that I think the 701 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 6: successful couples should it be on a pedestal when it 702 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 6: comes to Bachelor in Paradise because we're all so different, 703 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 6: we all have such different lives, are all such different 704 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 6: couples that it can really prove a point of like, hey, 705 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 6: your person may be here, and that's what the show 706 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 6: needs to keep going, is that successful couples coming out 707 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 6: of it. 708 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 2: But yes, well that was the issue with the last 709 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 2: two season is there was no successful couples, like they 710 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 2: had two years of like like it's like which is 711 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 2: just proving your point, Like they took a your off, 712 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 2: like they reroof like you need. The show is based 713 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 2: on producing love stories. As much as the drama is 714 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 2: important for the success of the show. The longevity I 715 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 2: think is partially based off the success of the relationships. 716 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 6: Yes, and I don't know if you guys feel this way, 717 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 6: but if there's a couple that comes out of Paradise, 718 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 6: Adam and I are always rooting for them so hard, 719 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 6: like we are devastated by the factor the breakups. 720 00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 3: We like hate it so much. 721 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 6: There was like one couple we were so invested in one, 722 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 6: like sucking each other's toes. 723 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. 724 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 6: On the we were like so we're like, you know what, 725 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 6: they can go the distance, and then when they broke up, 726 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 6: we were just like so sad about it. 727 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 1: But did you guys think we would go to the distance? 728 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 3: Oh yes, yes, Okay. 729 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 4: The reservation. I was like, depends how fast Areena gets 730 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 4: her green car. But I'm like, it's gonna work. It's 731 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 4: gonna work. I promise it's gonna work. 732 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 2: No. 733 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 6: I always always always thought y'all would go the distance. 734 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:29,480 Speaker 3: Y'all just made sense to me. 735 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:30,840 Speaker 6: Thank you. 736 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: Do you think there is there anybody that you've watched, 737 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: like recently that you hope to see down there? And 738 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: if you're not paying attention, that's totally fine too. 739 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 4: What do you mean to see down there? 740 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 3: You know? 741 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, yeah, past seasons like. 742 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 5: Man, I'm gonna be honest, Joe Man, this last year 743 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 5: with the kids, like the kids go down You know. 744 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 2: You guys don't really watch a lot of TV. That's 745 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 2: like you want we. 746 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 3: Have only ever watched movie together and it was last year. 747 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 1: Ship here, you've only watched the one movie together your 748 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: entire relationship. That's that's the craziest thing I've ever heard. 749 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 6: Wow, We're on like a date with another couple. They're like, oh, 750 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 6: are you watching this? Are you watching this? And we're 751 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 6: like nope, nope, nope. And then we were like driving home, 752 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 6: We're like, you know what, maybe we should try to 753 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 6: watch TV because we can talk with other couples more, 754 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 6: because it's such a reoccurring theme with couples watching TV, 755 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 6: and like we we kind of get to a stand 756 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 6: because like when you're watching a show and you're so 757 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 6: invested in it and you're on a date with another couple. 758 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 3: That don't don't watch TV, it's like there's like a 759 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 3: brick there. 760 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:42,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're like, have you seen White Loatus? 761 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 5: You're like no, Like, okay, well here, how about our kids? 762 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 1: You're like yeah, but I bet you guys are a 763 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: better conversationalist just because you probably don't, you know, waste 764 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 1: your minds on television. 765 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 7: Wait. 766 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 2: What's the movie? 767 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 6: Oh? 768 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 3: It was Inside Out to Inside I was kind of 769 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 3: we both cried. 770 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 5: It was super super relatable though to like I think 771 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 5: individuals and even like parents, you're kind of like, oh 772 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 5: my gosh, this is like you really can see that 773 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 5: from both of them. 774 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 6: And then when we were like driving and we're like, 775 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,839 Speaker 6: that was the best movie we've ever seen, and then 776 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 6: everyone was like, that's the only movie you guys have seen, 777 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 6: Like it's a good. 778 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 1: That's a crazy, that's a crazy. 779 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 2: With your kids. 780 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,919 Speaker 6: No, we went by ourselves, surprisingly, And the only two 781 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 6: shows we've ever watched together all the way through was 782 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 6: during COVID when I had him hostage and he was like, 783 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,879 Speaker 6: I'm literally in hell right now being at my house 784 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,720 Speaker 6: because he can't sit still. And we watched Breaking Bad 785 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 6: and we watched Ozarks, and now I was like, that's 786 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 6: the only two shows we've seen either. 787 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 1: I haven't seen either of those. I mean, listen, I would, 788 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 1: I would if you were to binge any show. I 789 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 1: really love Succession, but like Game of Thrones is really 790 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 1: Thrones good want to be Okay, you'll become obsessed. 791 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 2: But if you're not really well, no, you watch Breaking 792 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:07,759 Speaker 2: bout an Ozark, so you're. 793 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 6: Got. 794 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,399 Speaker 5: We're almost into that routine now where I'm like, once 795 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 5: the kids are down. I'm like, I want to spend 796 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 5: just one hour, just one hour. It doesn't have to 797 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 5: be I'm not talking like we don't have to sit 798 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 5: for three hours and go to bed at one am, 799 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,839 Speaker 5: but like just take one hour and just chip away 800 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,919 Speaker 5: at an episode every night for like a month, right, 801 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 5: But like I'm I want to do the. 802 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,000 Speaker 4: Ones working towards watching TV like. 803 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,879 Speaker 5: Kids will just like I just tell you, like from 804 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 5: the time you get home to the time they go 805 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 5: to bed, then after that you're just like, dude, I 806 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 5: just I want to wind down and I'm ready to 807 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 5: go to bed, and so you know, life just gets busy, 808 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 5: but it's fun and you know, kids are the best 809 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,439 Speaker 5: thing in the world. It's it's a lot of work 810 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 5: for parents, but like truly super rewarding. But like you know, 811 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 5: your whole your your your structure and the way you 812 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 5: your priorities really do change. But I think we're at 813 00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 5: the point now where we can take a little bit 814 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 5: of a breathing and we're like, hey, let's start having 815 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 5: fun and watching things and connecting like like we used to. 816 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 4: So it's fun. Yeah, that's good. 817 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: Okay, Well we're running out of time. Any anything you 818 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 1: want to let our listeners know anything you got going on, 819 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: where to follow you, YadA, YadA, YadA. 820 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, we have we have a secret project we're a 821 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 6: part of right now. 822 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 3: So we may be back on TV soon. You may. 823 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 3: We don't know yet, but maybe. So that's exciting. 824 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 2: That's so excited. 825 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, you can always find us on Instagram. Of course, 826 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 6: we share. We've been doing a lot of couple's comedy 827 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 6: as of lately. Adam is such a store over there 828 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 6: and such a good sport for doing all the reels 829 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 6: with me. 830 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 4: So okay, trauma best and try my best. I gotta 831 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:47,359 Speaker 4: I gotta feel. 832 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,840 Speaker 5: Joe sits the bar really high, so I have to 833 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 5: I have to get I have to just be more active. 834 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 4: So that's that's the key. 835 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,719 Speaker 1: I'm terrible at social media. 836 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 4: Joe. 837 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 2: I lean into Joe. We'll just be walking. All of 838 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 2: a sudden, he's filming something talking to about I'm like, oh, 839 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 2: what are you doing? He's like, I just posted a 840 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:10,240 Speaker 2: real I'm like, just now, just what you just filmed? 841 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, No, Like I just you know, I 842 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:12,480 Speaker 2: just felt it in the moment. 843 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 4: That's amazing. 844 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 2: It takes like three days to do it. 845 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: Right now, I'll be like I should not posted that. 846 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 2: In regret. 847 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, Thank you guys so much for taking 848 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 1: the time out of your busy day. I really appreciate it. 849 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:26,359 Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. 850 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 4: Thank you. Thanks for having us, love you, thank you 851 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 4: for having us. 852 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 5: And I hope next time we go make a trip 853 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 5: to New York we can, uh, we can do a 854 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 5: little quick food tour with you guys and spend the day. 855 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 3: I love that. 856 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 1: Yes, and oh please please text me Austin Rex. 857 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 4: Yes, I got you covered nuts. When is that again? 858 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 2: Uh? 859 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 1: The first week of June. 860 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 4: Okay, so we got like three weeks. 861 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 1: Three weeks. I gotta I gotta put some reservations in though. 862 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 1: And to all our listeners, thank you guys so much 863 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: for tuning in The Bachelor Happy Hour. Make sure you 864 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: download it and subscribe to the podcast. 865 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 2: We will have new and excessive interviews coming your way. 866 00:38:59,200 --> 00:38:59,800 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. 867 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 3: By eight 868 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 5: Hm