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Speaker 1: What did he do exactly? He walked up to me

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Speaker 1: did regress. It's kind of like going from first back

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Speaker 1: I feel your pain. That's the worst thing ever. I've

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Speaker 1: But think about it. Why would she embarrass herself put

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Speaker 1: nobody ever wants to tell somebody that they're spitter. Guy. So, Danny,

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Speaker 1: you're saying a Manda is a spitter, no question about it.

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Speaker 1: Oh she's yeah, you can't know that, And I kept back.

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