WEBVTT - F-Boy Dean 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:04.320 Hell I Suck at Dating with the Nonglert and Dared 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:11.560 Haven and I heard radio podcast What's Up? Everyone, Welcome 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:15.400 to an all new episode of Help I Suck At Dating? 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.880 And you know, as it's kind of becoming a bit 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:23.400 of a trend lately, Jared is not here because he's 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:26.360 got bigger and better fish to be frying in his 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:29.600 cafe out there in Rhode Island. So I went out 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:31.680 and did something even better for you guys. I got 0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:33.839 Eastern and Hannah to want to jump on the podcast. 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:35.600 And let me tell you what, it took some major 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:39.559 convincing to get them to be on board with this idea. UM, 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:41.760 We've got a great episode for you guys this week. 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:45.320 We're gonna keep it pretty light, pretty lighthearted. UM. Once 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:46.960 Jared gets here, we'll just kind of be caught up 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.640 with him and what he's doing with his um with 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:53.920 his cafe out there in Rhode Island. We're not gonna 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:55.880 have any guests this week, so we'll just talk about 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.720 some hot topics. But we got some juicy emails that 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.440 we want to get to later. UM. I guess I 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:03.240 would be remiss if I didn't take the time to 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:07.360 update all of the listeners on my life, so I'm 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.320 sure if you follow along on Instagram, Caitlin and I 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:13.120 just had to put down Pappy the past this past 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:16.240 week and Eastern r Hahanna. Have you guys ever had 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:18.520 to put a dog down before? Yeah, I put I 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:22.600 put my childhood dog down, Um this Passatoon, So I 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:26.240 know how you're feeling and how hard it is. Yeah, 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.680 Eastern have you? Yeah, A long time ago, and it 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:31.480 was a it was a very old dog. So I 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.840 was like emotionally ready for it. Um, but you never are, 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:38.600 you know, You're never fully ready to say goodbye. I'll 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:40.080 be honest with you, guys. It was one of the 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.720 hardest things I've ever done in my entire life. I 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:44.440 believe it was like it was because it's it's just 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:46.080 so weird. When it's a dog, it's like you're the 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:48.960 one making the decisions for it. You're like just something 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:51.240 about making a decision of being like, you know what, 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.280 I think it's time for you to go, you know, 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:55.680 and like obviously you do it for its best interests. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:59.000 Like Pappy, for instance, he was diagnosed with like a 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.720 brain tumor three months ago. And it's crazy even looking 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:04.720 back when we made like our little videos for him 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:07.520 to like you know, commemorate him or whatever. As recent 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:10.160 as like August of this year, he was like running around, 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:13.560 hopping around, jumping on stuff, like smiling wagon his tail. 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:16.000 And then up until the end, he like never left 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:18.600 his bed, didn't eat his food, like, hated leaving the 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:22.040 house like all these things. So um, even with all that, 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:23.639 it was like one of the it was so hard 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:26.520 because you know, the the hospice comes to your house, 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.840 they you know, they give your heads up on what's 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:33.440 gonna happen. Um, they give two doses. The first doses 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:34.799 to like calm him down and get them ready. In 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:36.560 the second dose is the one that actually does the deed. 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:38.919 And the first one's going in and he's like Pappy's 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:40.959 like reacting and he's like barking and he's like shriek, 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:42.799 gig and pain, and in the back of your head, 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:44.480 like all I could think about was like, is this 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:46.560 Pappy telling us that he's like not ready to cross 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:49.359 over the Golden Rainbow road or whatever it is. So 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:51.760 it was, it was it was tough. And then like 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.320 obviously the aftermath of having an empty house, I think, 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:56.000 what we're gonna do next, because we are going to 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:59.480 foster and adoptive senior dog again because of the light 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:01.440 that he brought into our lives. But I think what 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:03.400 I want us to do next is get two dogs. 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:06.839 That way, inevitably, when one passes over, we'll at least 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:10.680 have a second dog, UM to tie us over. Because 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.280 the past five days, I guess this air is on 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.680 a Sunday, but we're recording on a Friday. We uh, 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:17.800 we haven't slept at home. We've slept at a hotel 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:19.760 every single night because we just can't bear being home. 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:24.200 We've like barely eaten. We uh, we have barely been 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:27.080 like drinking water. And I feel like such a drama 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.840 queen about all this stuff. But it's it's like, honestly, 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.239 been super super hard. But everyone has been so nice, 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:34.280 Like you guys all reached out and said very nice things. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.920 I really appreciate that, UM, and that honestly has made 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:38.600 a big difference. But it's been a lot harder than 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:40.839 I expected it to be. Uh. First of all, I'm 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:44.280 so sorry for your loss, Brouh. Pappy was an incredible dog, 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:48.800 and I just like I think about Lois and I 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:52.200 think about how dogs are truly a part of the family, 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:55.320 and it's just really sad. And Patty was an incredible 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:58.560 dog and what you guys did form towards the end, uh, 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:01.600 and giving him the life that he ad. I mean 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:05.400 you you made his life better and you gave him 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:06.960 so much love. And I guess that's all we can 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:09.000 do for our pets, but it never makes it easy. So, dude, 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:10.400 I just wanted to say, I'm so sorry for your 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.920 loss and it sucks. As weird is this to say. 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:16.520 I thought about you a little bit, uh over the 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:19.280 past week, just because I know you had mentioned a 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:20.680 couple of weeks ago on a podcast that you had 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:22.760 to put your childhood dock down at one point and 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:25.160 how difficult that was. And I know how attached you 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.000 are to your dogs too, so I was like, I 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:29.640 don't know why, I just I kept thinking about that 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.280 for something. Yeah, man, I mean dogs, they're part of 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.719 the family. Brow and we put our family dog down. Brady. 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:36.600 He was always known as the fat one. He was 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:39.719 always a little overweight, and he's like he had trouble 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.800 breathing towards the end, and he was like snorting, so 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:46.720 he sounded like a pig. So it was very cute. 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:49.400 But yeah, man, dude, Lois, I like, well, I'm at 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.760 the coffee shop right now and we have a blown 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:54.160 up you know, poster or Lois on the wall. That's 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:57.200 how much we love our dogs. So I, uh, you know, 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.320 I know it's not easy. So I wish you and 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.320 Cale and I send you guys all my loves and uh, 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:04.440 it's hard, it's really hard. We're off to get some 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:10.320 peppy tattoos today where you guys gonna get them. I'm 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.200 gonna get it right about my sock lines, so as 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.000 little years are poking right about my socks whenever I 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:16.359 wear socks. And as much as a mistake as that 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:18.480 might be to get a tattoo for a dead dog 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.440 that you have, um, it just feels right, you know, 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:23.560 So why would that be a mistake. I don't know. 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.000 It just seems like a weird thing. Like if you 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:26.800 get a tattoo for everything you miss in life, you're 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.720 gonna have a body full of random tattoos, which I 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:31.039 guess I already have. But it just seems like a 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:32.799 weird thing to do. And I'll tell you, the Pappy 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:36.440 tattoo is far better than the Instagram one, So you're 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:39.839 already improving your tattoo game. I'll tell you what. Secretly, 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:41.760 one of the reasons I got the Instagram tattoo is 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:44.239 that way every time I got a tattoo, after the fact, 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.479 I could always be like, well, it's not my worst tattoo. 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:51.160 You know, that's actually not the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.240 it's only like the third dobest thing. By the way, Dean, 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:55.839 you also got a haircut. I did. Yeah, so the 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:57.800 listeners won't be able to see, but um, I got 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:01.720 a haircut. I was. That's that's how um that's how 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.600 hard I took the death. I just needed to change. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:05.760 I didn't want to have hair anymore. I had to. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:08.680 I had to start fresh and begin a new um. So, 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:10.560 for the listeners out there, I've got my old stupid 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:13.280 little u F boy poof on the top of my 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:18.880 old Dean's back. And part of it, too, was you 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.240 were saying, you know, Dean, back when you tried, you 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.839 were one of the most handsome guys I knew, and 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:24.640 I was like, man, he's he said that way too 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:27.719 many times not to actually really mean it. Um So, 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:29.960 I just I want Calin to be able to tell 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.200 me how handsome she thinks I am, and actually mean it, 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:34.120 because she always tells me even when I have long hair, 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:35.880 But I always sense a little bit of a of 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:38.240 a lie. So now I know when she says that, 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:41.680 she actually means she liked long or short hair better. 0:06:42.440 --> 0:06:44.640 She uh, she claims she likes both, but I know 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:46.440 for a fact she likes the short hair better. And 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:48.680 also she's kind of been starved of the short hair, Dean, 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:50.360 you know what I mean, Like when we first started dating, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.480 at the long hair, at the mustache, and then I 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.720 went baald at one point, and then I just kind 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:56.160 of grew it all back at once instead of ever 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:58.680 getting styled. So she's never had the full luxury of 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:01.440 being my girlfriend with the short hair. But also the 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:03.400 short hair is like tied to uh, you know, my 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:07.840 f boy days. So I guess condolences to her because 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.800 she might have no. No, no, that's not true. That's 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:15.400 not how this is going down. Come back, it's going back. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.040 It's all gonna go downhill. As soon as he cuts 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.800 his hair, Dean's life just falls into shambles. Dude, it's 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.680 so nice having short hair, like you just jump in 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.040 the shower it's clean real quick. You don't have to 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:26.400 wear a hat. Seven. Like, as much as I love 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.800 my long hair, and I still find myself like grabbing 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.480 for my locks behind my behind my neck sometimes and 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:33.800 like being like, oh, yeah, I don't have hair anymore. Um, 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:35.840 and I do still I don't know. I guess I 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.800 still kind of wish I had long hair, but it's 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:39.960 just the convenience of having short hair so nice, you know, 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.840 you know a thousand percent. I cut my hair so 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:46.040 I can wear a hat because my hair is such 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:49.400 where it when it's long, it's so large and expansive. 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:51.960 I put a hat on just go r and falls off. 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:54.280 Even a beanie, well what about like a what about 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.440 like a cat like a cap, like a baseball hat. Yeah, 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:00.160 like they will not stay on. It's like it's so 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:03.320 annoying because it's like it just gets like so expansive, 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:06.720 it just grows and grows. Uh. So I got my 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.360 hair cut so I could wear a hat again. Like recently, 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:12.360 I'm I I wear hats all the time because I 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.080 have long hair, and I'm very excited to cut my hair, 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.480 so I stopped wearing hats. I agree and relate to 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:19.600 Dean because I'm I'm definitely gonna lose my hair. The 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.040 amount of times I wear hats because my hair just 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:24.920 falls on my face, it's impossible, Like now I will 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.960 be balding right Well, that's my big fear too, is 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:29.680 you cut your hair. There's gonna be one time where 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.600 you cut your hair and it never fully grows back. 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:33.920 You know what I mean? Oh thou, that's what I'm 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:35.719 terrified to cut my hair. I'm like, is it has 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:37.559 it receded in the past two years? I don't even know. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:39.280 Am I gonna have bald spots? Why don't I just 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.880 keep it long and deceive everyone? And that's the thing 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.559 is we're getting We're getting to that stage of life 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.160 I would say in your thirties is when you really 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.840 have to start worrying about that kind of stuff. So, 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:48.400 I mean, if my hair starts falling out, I'll get 0:08:48.400 --> 0:08:51.640 like hair plugs or something. Is we we have the 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:53.920 you know, like I talked to my friends about it 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:55.560 every onceince while. I not every once in a while, 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.120 but I've talked to my friends about it before. Like 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.480 they can't really grow their hair out because you know, 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.000 they got to go their office job, they got to 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:03.120 work at the five. You can't really wear a hat 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.280 in the office, right, But like you and I in Easton, 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:07.559 and Hannah already already has long hair, so I guess 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.960 she's exempt from this conversation. But like you can get 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:11.839 away with wearing a hat every single day, you know 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:15.520 what I mean. So it's kind of yeah, yeah, but 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:17.920 I don't think we need to talk about hair all day. Um, 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:19.959 I don't know, it's kind of fun. You missed the 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:21.440 rundown a little bit, so we don't have any guests 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:25.400 this week, be us talking about uh, just whatever we 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:28.200 want to talk about. And then we've got some emails. Um, 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.520 how is everything going at the cafe over there? Uh? Great, 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.719 it's really busy. We had our grand opening last night. 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:37.839 It was absolutely slammed. There was a line. There's probably 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:42.960 like fifty people waiting outside to get in. It was, uh, 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:45.640 and then like a hundred people inside. So and this 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:48.520 was consistent for like three hours, and so it was great. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.679 It was overwhelming. I'm actually here right now. I've been 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.200 working sixteen hours a day for the past week. Uh. 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:55.040 You know, it's just starting a new business life in 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:58.000 the NFL. So if I have to, like, I hope 0:09:58.000 --> 0:09:59.440 you guys don't mind if I have to like pop 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:02.480 in and out of the podcast, I promise, because it's 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:04.920 like I'm already getting knocks on the door. They're overwhelmed. 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.679 We're busy. We've gotta make sandwiches, people need drinks, and 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:11.000 it's just like it's great, it's overwhelming. But like I 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:12.960 just came back from the store. I spent like hundreds 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.560 of dollars because we're running out of everything. You know, hey, 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:18.959 life running a business, what is it, Cathay Like at 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:23.000 night it's a lounge. So we have couches and chairs 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:27.280 and to fireplaces going and very intimate lighting and really 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.040 want people to feel like they can come and get 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:31.839 a martini and where you know, I'm sweater weather, you 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:33.440 know what I mean, in front of the fireplace, have 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:37.680 an espressive martini, enjoy yourself, have some nice combo. You 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:39.800 guys do have a liquor license that huh Yeah, we 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:42.840 got a full air license. That was a very tedious process. 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:45.600 So I mean it took like probably about four months 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.280 and I'm still going through and now because as soon 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:49.840 as I got the liquor license accepted, I needed to 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.040 apply for a renewal for next year, so I had 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:54.640 to like go through everything all over again, which they 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.480 felt bad about, but they're like, hey, it's just the 0:10:56.480 --> 0:10:58.559 way it goes. I'm like, oh no, Worris. So it's 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:00.400 been fun men, as you can hear, like my voice 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.800 is a little rast probably right now. It's just been constant. 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:07.040 But uh, and then of course, like still doing my life. 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:09.400 I have a pregnant wife. You know, there's a lot 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.160 going on right now, but it's all good things. A 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:13.960 little overwhelming, but good things. Is that what you get 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:16.720 for opening up a restaurant or a cafe lounge on 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:19.000 December one instead of January one is having to do 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:22.120 everything for twelve months and then renew it January one 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:25.760 for the whole year pretty much. But it's yeah, I 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.120 mean it's cool, man, it's fun. Like I love running 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.480 on business, I love owning one. It's chaotic and it's 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:34.280 it's crazy. There's people outside and they're running around trying 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:36.960 to figure things out. And so we'll see. We'll get 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:39.120 through it though, and it's gonna be fun. And and uh, 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:41.360 I'm really proud of what we have those far, and 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:43.600 everybody seems to be enjoying it thus far. Knock on 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:46.040 wood obviously, like no thing is perfect. I've had I've 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:48.080 had to deal with people who have like waited twenty 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.880 five minutes for sandwich, has been like I can't wait 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:53.079 any longer. Like I totally get it, Like I'll refund you, so, 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:56.520 you know, definitely just customer service, we get it. You're 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:58.200 proud of the cafe, as you should be. I got 0:11:58.200 --> 0:12:00.240 a question for you, though, what are you more out 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.959 of cafe? What's it's? What's it called? Or help I 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:05.600 suck a dating obviously? Help I such a dating bro? 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:07.679 Come on, we've been doing this for years. Audrey has 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.280 just opened up. That's the right answer. But if you 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:11.800 were to go out in the Audrey's right now and 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:13.959 somewhere we're to ask you that same question off the air, 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:16.360 what would you answer be thousand percent? I'm so proud 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.559 of Audrey's bro worked so hard and put so much 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.000 investment in time into this place and help us like 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:25.079 a dating allen do once a week. I just here's 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:26.840 my concern, Jared. I just don't want you to get 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:29.160 caught up in this pipe dream of yours, you know, 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:31.440 Like I don't want you to forget us a little people, 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:35.439 because you're you're blasting off in this outer space with Audrey's. 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:37.240 You know, something tells me I'm not going to figure 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.480 about my I Heart Radio podcast that I'm very grateful 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:46.520 for having. So I'm saying, is man less work, less money, sure, 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:49.640 but less works. More specifically, just an hour a week 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:51.120 is all we oh, we need from you, so as 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:54.600 long that that's all we need? Um All right, Well, 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.000 we do have some hot talks, hot topics coming up, 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.199 and we do have to answer some emails. But before 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:12.080 we do that, let's take a quick break. All right, everybody, 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:15.439 welcome back to help I suck at dating um lo 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:18.480 and behold, we lost yet again. He's got his his 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:20.199 his pipe dream to take care of over there in 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:22.400 Rhode Island. So I guess we're gonna get in some 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:25.360 hot topics, but before we do, because it's rare that 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:29.000 we get Hannah and Easton as active participants in this podcast, 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:32.120 active hosts, if you will. And Hannah knows first hand 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:34.040 how much I despised the hot topics, not for any 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.760 not for anything that she's done wrong. I just don't 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:39.640 want to talk about machine gun Kelly and um and 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.079 what's d Megan Fox. You know, I don't want to 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.600 talk about toy Boy and it's eighty two year old 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.400 over which is actually pretty interesting and maybe we should 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:48.400 talk about that. But I just want to know what's 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:49.880 going on with you guys. Can you guys give us 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:51.839 some updates in your lives. I know Easton is a 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:54.640 busy guy working on seacrest. I just got shipped a 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:59.040 new box of carmel candy corn princess Um candy corn, 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:03.120 right that what it's called caramel corn? I think they 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.760 just sent you the regular popcorn. I don't think my 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:09.000 my flavors in there. But but your that's like your 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.000 caramel corner or do you just have like a special thing. 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.320 I did a flavor with Thank you Popcorn. They're they're 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:16.640 a popcorn company out of Massachusetts, and uh, they're they're 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.800 very good stuff. It's they did a peppermint bark for 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:21.760 the holidays. It's very good. I think they wanted you 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.480 to to try it. What about you tell us what 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:27.200 you've been up too lately? Please? You don't even want 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:30.320 to know. I have such a boring life. I just work. 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:33.800 I'm pretty sure you don't, because you're you're always traveling 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:36.160 up and down the California coast. Be you work on 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:39.080 a lot of amazing I heart radio podcasts, so there's 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:43.600 gonna be some something's going on. Well, I am going 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:46.760 to New York next week for a genle Ball, which 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:50.000 I'm excited about, and then I'll be home with my family. 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:52.800 I have. I have been going up north. I'm to 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:56.360 northern California lot, just just because I can work as 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:59.360 a remote or like spending time with my family. So 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:01.640 I've been for it. If you can. I mean, I 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:04.920 don't see why not? Um question for you guys. I know, uh, 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:07.680 this podcast isn't live. But was there a jingle Ball 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:09.880 in Los Angeles this December? Or is that only in 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:13.120 New York? Yeah, there's a tour. They go all over 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.120 the country. It's well, why the heck did why the 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:16.840 heck did help I suck a dating not get invited. 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:20.520 I even texted Amy and Danielle on the side. I said, hey, guys, um, 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:22.800 Kaylin is really she really wants to go to a 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:24.600 jingle ball? Can we make that happen? And I just 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:30.400 got crickets. Wow. Yeah, Well so the jingle Ball in 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:35.000 Los Angeles as we record this is tonight. Um and yeah, 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:37.800 I mean Dean. I'm a I'm a valued employee of 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.120 my Heart for Media. I've been with the company for 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:43.600 ten years. I've worked on jingle Ball and Wayneo Tank, 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:46.080 all these events. I sent a text sing, can I 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:48.400 get Can my sister get a ticket too? I've never 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:50.240 asked for tickets ever. I was like, can I my 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:53.680 sister get a ticket? She loves do jaquet again crickets, 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:56.200 So what's going on with that? It's a hard ticket 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.640 this year. There's the line up for Los Angeles is very, 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.520 very good, and I think, yeah, everybody wanted to go. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.400 What's the lineup? Can you guys fill us in on that? 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:08.520 Oh my god, yes I can. Uh. This is like, 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:10.600 this is a good way to shamelessly plug iHeart Radio 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:13.000 and maybe get us some extra tickets for next year's 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:17.440 stingle Ball in Los Angeles. Can send videos, don't worry, thanks, 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:19.600 just post them on your stories. I'm sure I'll find 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.560 a way to get to watching them. We're gonna plug 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:25.600 an event that has happened already. H but if you're 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.280 an East Coast listener, you can also go see it 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:29.760 in New York next week. You know, even if you're 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:31.440 not an East Coast listener. Let's plug it right now. 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.840 The iHeart Radio jingle Ball presented by Capital One will 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:36.240 be streaming live on the CW dot com and the 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:40.120 c W app. That's this Friday, December. The lineup will 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.120 be different from the Los Angeles one, but he who 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:46.240 played in l A. We got ed Shearon bts, do Alipa, 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:50.800 doj Cat, Lil nas X, the Kid Learoy, So Weedie, 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:55.640 the Black Eyed Peas, Tate McCrae, Bozzi and TikTok Sensation, 0:16:55.760 --> 0:17:00.320 Dixie Demeleo And that's who was in l A New York, 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:04.280 which will be broadcast live on the c W and 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:08.760 the c W app starting at seven pm Eastern time. Uh. 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:12.320 That lineup is I'm pulling it up here. Uh we 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:16.320 got ed Sharon du Aalipa, the Jonas Brothers, doj Cat, 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:21.760 Little nos X, Sweetie a j R. Kane Brown, Tate, McCrae, Bozzy, 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:24.840 and once again Dixie Demeleo. That's who's playing in New York. 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:26.359 I'm gonna go ahead and say it. I think the 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:29.400 New York line it's just a little bit better. Yes, 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:31.919 it's pretty big in the K pop scene. We actually 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.040 met a nice young man last night. Who was a 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:37.720 big BTS fan, And um, have you guys listen to 0:17:37.720 --> 0:17:39.960 the music? I'm sure you have, right like in wanting 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.880 to work you're in. Yeah, I've listened to them alive. 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:45.159 What's your take? Could you guys love K pop or no? 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:50.960 I like aspects of K pop? I don't. I don't 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:54.560 see the um fanatic appeal of it, and I'm wondering 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:57.280 if I'm missing something. I think it's more geared towards uh, 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:02.440 young girls than a third five year old man. But um, 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:04.880 it's good. I mean I think Dynamites a hit song. 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.320 I think Butter is a hit song. Those are songs 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:11.679 by BTS for the uninitiated. But yeah, I'm not like 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:14.800 a K pop stand by any means. I don't like 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:20.720 anything about K pop Like wow, what why not? I 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:26.240