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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who

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Speaker 1: talked back? What's up, y'alls your girl A j Welcome

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Speaker 1: to a new episode that we talked back. A Hey,

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Speaker 1: everybody is tim Bam. I love y'all, bitch. I know

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Speaker 1: you see this ship with the baby. Oh goodness, it's awful.

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Speaker 1: It's so awful. Charlotte had a good weekend. The Panthers

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Speaker 1: won the Hornets one and then now this bullshit. This

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Speaker 1: is why I like low Baby like he just seems

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Speaker 1: so much of a real niggative meat. See what little

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Speaker 1: baby got to do with that baby? Everybody keep putting

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Speaker 1: them against baby said. If somebody asked me if we

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Speaker 1: fucking I'm blocking you, that's a real niggat. If somebody

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Speaker 1: simply asked the nigga off, y'all fucking he's gonna block

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Speaker 1: your ass. So that's to me. He keeps people in line.

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Speaker 1: He's discreet, Yes, and that's what I like. The baby.

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Speaker 1: You went live and embarrassed, the embarrassed the mother of

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Speaker 1: your child. He started it all right, hold on, let's alright,

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Speaker 1: let's insert a clip real quick. So everybody, if you

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Speaker 1: were under a rock on Monday, this is what happened.

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Speaker 1: This is some trapl This some trapl black nigga ship

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Speaker 1: playing going wrong. That's what this is is. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is trying to trap a nigger going wrong. I'm not

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Speaker 1: going just came in last night, idiot. You'll be begging.

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Speaker 1: Somebody tell more to call begging man. Let me run

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Speaker 1: up a quick ten, let me run up, let me

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Speaker 1: run up a quick tending. Somebody tell more to common man.

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Speaker 1: Let's put this ship. Oh March, Charlie is mark more material?

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Speaker 1: Get about my career. Come on, get off my table.

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Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't skut it in the wrong thing.

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Speaker 1: I got to deal with what comes with it. But

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Speaker 1: my last name, kurtis what I do. So I take

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Speaker 1: whatever coe with it full responsibility. But shouted, it's cuckoo

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Speaker 1: for cocoa pod. Shout it is cuckoo for cocoa pulp

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Speaker 1: and shout is not my girl. I ain't never been

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Speaker 1: My girl is my side bitch. Sig Shot is a

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Speaker 1: certified side bitch, embarrassing like Shty is a certified side

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Speaker 1: bit just trying to Now, let's take it down. Her

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Speaker 1: parents know she's my side this. Everybody knows. She's a

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Speaker 1: sivage she don't want y'all want a side bitch. She

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Speaker 1: got to save her face. She got to crash all

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Speaker 1: the way out some bullshit. You know. I feel real

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Speaker 1: bad for this young girl. They're all young, maybe about

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Speaker 1: to be thirty. Yeah, he's about to be thirty years old, Like,

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Speaker 1: come on, man, what's up. It's a toxic situation that

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Speaker 1: we got to witness. Like, honestly, what they got going

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Speaker 1: on is what anybody. A lot of people have going on,

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Speaker 1: some toxic ship with a baby mama and the new

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Speaker 1: witness it because their celebrity status. But he's fucked up.

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Speaker 1: He's a fund up individual. But I also feel like

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Speaker 1: she gotta take some accountability to because do you know

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Speaker 1: who this nig it was before you got pregnant. But

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure because I feel like they don't broke

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Speaker 1: up before. I haven't seen the long, sad message messages

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Speaker 1: she put on Instagram before, Like he was playing with

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Speaker 1: you before you got pregnant. Right then he didn't he

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Speaker 1: have another baby while he was working with her. That's

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Speaker 1: her something. Yeah, he started it with the social media ship.

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Speaker 1: He went live while Danny's holding Nerd holding a child.

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Speaker 1: The world's never seen this child yet, right, and this

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I don't think she ever publicly

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Speaker 1: said me and John's baby. But that's that also shows

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Speaker 1: you how messy she isn't either, you see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: She just wasn't speaking on anything. He took it upon

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Speaker 1: already in hot water with the LGBTQ community. And give

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Speaker 1: maybe she has housing issues. Who knows what's going on?

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Speaker 1: like he was like, you get the funk, I'll leave

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Speaker 1: don't know, but I could not imagine a nigger playing

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Speaker 1: was co signing that song. They post pictures and videos

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Speaker 1: together in the same home you're trying to put her

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Speaker 1: was deciditch nigga No, and she you're you're she said

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Speaker 1: she she said that he's mad because she had a

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Speaker 1: is why I say use condoms. People use condoms a

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Speaker 1: j quiet. I do not support that message. I definitely

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Speaker 1: if you're just having fabulous sex, I hate Yeah, use

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Speaker 1: three episodes because it's very important. Yeah, I'm I'm definitely

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Speaker 1: not opposed to condoms. I don't want nobody think I'm

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Speaker 1: out here in some dirty bitch now because I'm not.

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Speaker 1: But I'm picky. No for come do come we want

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Speaker 1: raw dick. You're stupid? You see what that raw right?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's embarrassing. I was. I suffered from

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Speaker 1: to be getting nanny, get your assistant to watch watch

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Speaker 1: My ship would have looked like an episode of Cops

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Speaker 1: so playing house, okay, but they come over there all

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Speaker 1: right to switch gear as you guys, we got something

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Speaker 1: amazing coming up about marriage, relationships, sex, a lot of money, drugs, set,

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Speaker 1: coming to America. That's a good one. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: with love and basketball. But today this is not loving basketball.

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Speaker 1: Our episode is loving football, y'all. Hey, we gotta guess

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Speaker 1: on our show. The amazing Charles Johnson of the Carolina Panthers,

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Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the show. Y'all. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell y'all this getting this man to come on this show,

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Speaker 1: I had to go through Helen Howard. I asked you

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Speaker 1: if you still show emotion like men like they like

423
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: it's whack to show emotion. Like at what point is

424
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: that whack? You know what I'm saying. If you're feeling

425
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: some type of way, you could be uh, you could

426
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: be vulnerable with your homeboy at least if you don't

427
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: have like a woman or therapists, if somebody could be

428
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 1: vulnerable with you should have friends that you could talk to.

429
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: I would think, yeah, you gotta have a friend that

430
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: you can be vulnerable with, because if you can't be grownable.

431
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like when people married, they be

432
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: vulnerable with their husband or their wife, you know, what

433
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 1: I'm saying to a certain understand, but that's what you

434
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: want from them, where a certain Now you can't act

435
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: like your wife is your therapist, right because that I

436
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: feel like we're gonna get into that why I feel

437
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,239
Speaker 1: like men be wanted to be vulnerable, But then they

438
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:17,439
Speaker 1: put this big ass burden on the wife and they

439
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: expect the wife to respond to even this girlfriend. You

440
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,239
Speaker 1: expect them to respond in a certain way, and if

441
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: they don't, it's like, you know, you're shipping on him

442
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 1: or something like that, Like you can't tell me, I

443
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: don't know your fucking babysitter was smashing your ass at

444
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 1: fifteen or thirteen years old or something like that. And now,

445
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: and this is why you don't be respectful to women.

446
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: Who knows what it could be. So now I'm supposed

447
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: to use that little tip for the information and try

448
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: and justify why you retarded today. I don't. I can't,

449
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: but it might be part of the reason why he retarded.

450
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 1: And that's why you need to go to therapy. You

451
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: can't put that on me, like I got my own ship.

452
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: But sometimes women don't listen, y'all, don't listen. Listen, what

453
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: are you talking about? You hear it, and you might

454
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: listen to a certain extent, but do you really listen?

455
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Do you really hear what

456
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 1: he's saying, listen to the content of But I feel

457
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: like sometimes men have half the conversation in their head

458
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: and then the other half they say out their mouth. Right,

459
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: So now I'm supposed to put these contexts, like these

460
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: context clues together and figure out what you really mean.

461
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: Y'all don't say ship with your chests. Yes they do,

462
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: but they don't piece. I look at it. The more

463
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: you grow and the more you go through experience and

464
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: stuff like that, communication is how grown you are, how

465
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: mature you don't be. You know what I'm saying. Certain

466
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: guys ain't gonna have that communication like that because they're

467
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: scared of They're scared of being vulnerable. They're scared of

468
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: what somebody's gonna say, scared of how me and judge

469
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: and all that. So I don't know. I know women

470
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: don't listen, thought don't listen to. That's fair because I

471
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: typically will listen to respond and not listen to to

472
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: understand your head. Your story is already made up in

473
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: your head, you know, Like, But I'm working on that. Like,

474
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 1: so I'm trying to listen more to understand what you say,

475
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: and not just listen so I can have my rebuttal together.

476
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 1: I don't even like talking that much, so I really

477
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: be trying to listen to what they be saying. But

478
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: then if it sounds like some bullshit, I feel like

479
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: you're insulting my intelligence. At this point. It's not the

480
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: fact that you're lying in telling me some bullshit, it's

481
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: the fact that you think I fucking believe you. That

482
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: bothers me. So then I tap out, like I can't

483
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: listen no more because you want, like what he said,

484
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: you already got your story made up in your head.

485
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe so you know, I'm already had my story

486
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: made up. So whatever the fund you saying out your

487
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 1: mouth be to match the story in my mind. How

488
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 1: about that we ain't gonna be vulnerable to you at all.

489
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: All right, So you did say that you're unmarried. Have

490
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: you ever been married? Married? So talk to us about

491
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: being a professional athlete and the difficulties in dating and

492
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: finding the perfect match. It's difficult, and you're a good dude.

493
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: If you only got one kid, congratulations, I appreciate it. Um,

494
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: I was with my mother. I mean I was with

495
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: the mother my son, and we have the same last name.

496
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: So when we broke up, I've been single for maybe

497
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: like two years and two years right now, and when

498
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 1: we broke up, I just found out. Man, I found out.

499
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: But everybody thought I was always married because he had

500
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: the same last name. So people think even I was

501
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: out when I'm dating people gonna cheating my wife or

502
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,239
Speaker 1: people because we got the same last thing, they'd be like, oh,

503
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: Charles doing this, Charles doing that. He was never married.

504
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: It was just together, you know what I'm saying. So

505
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: that had to deal with all that. Still today people

506
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: think I'm still married. But it's all good, um. I

507
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: mean for me, it's the not knowing, not knowing who

508
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: to trust, if not knowing that good intentions, not knowing

509
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: what they are all about. You know what I'm saying.

510
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: You can go through years and years with a person

511
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,479
Speaker 1: and you'll never see their true intentions to some hit

512
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: the fan until something in the wall. And since I've

513
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: seen that in experience, I'm just like scald from that

514
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: some like particular and kind of like nonchalant about you know,

515
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: really even yeah, trying to get to you know, because

516
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: you don't never know people a good intention, you know

517
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You don't never know until they get

518
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: put to the test, until you get to go court

519
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: or somebody that. That's when it happened to the whole time,

520
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: the truth come out, the lies come out to make

521
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: you look bad. Now that that come out, well, I'm

522
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: telling you never know until the press is put on.

523
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: So how long were you all together? Uh, let's get

524
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: about five six years? Okay? Yeah, my son, Um, I

525
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: had my son. I was twenty five, Prince of team. Now. Yeah,

526
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: so I had my son. I was twenty five and

527
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: I was running Charlotte hard. You know what I'm saying,

528
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: twenty five, I'm st Scharlotte. You know what I ain't.

529
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: I'm running. But once I have my son, Now you

530
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: need a daughter to settle you down. Now, you ain't

531
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: gonna set it down with the son, but the daughter

532
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: humble your ass, right, Dotar will humble years. I feel

533
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: paying for those guys that got like four or five

534
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: dollars and stuff like that, you know, but that ain't

535
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: for the week though, That ain't for the week. So

536
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm strong enough to even have that.

537
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: Don't I'm strong enough to have a son and raise

538
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: a king, But I don't know if I'm having strong

539
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: enough to raise a queen. You might not be enough

540
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: of it. Well, you may not. I feel like men

541
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: who have a bunch of girls usually they were womanizers

542
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: in their former a lot of times, you know what,

543
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: So they get those girls because your daughter gonna run

544
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: into the nigger like you, boy, and you're gonna cry.

545
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: You're gonna cry if no woman ever made you cry,

546
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: but that love girl gonna make you cry. Yeah, I

547
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: faith though, Man't they get older and you gotta you

548
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: gotta protect to I feel like with a son, you're

549
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: teaching him to lead a porch. With a daughter, they're

550
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: always gonna be around for you. You know what I'm saying.

551
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: That you're always gonna try to protect your daughter. You're

552
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: always gonna try to be there for your daughter. But

553
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: with a son, you're preparing him to be another protector,

554
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. So he's gonna grow up

555
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: to be protecting another woman. He's gonna have to do

556
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: his own thing with a woman. You still got his

557
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: dad and try to help out with But that so

558
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: so here's where the focus should be. Then the focus

559
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: should be on boys, because you're only concerned about your

560
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 1: daughter in that way because there's not enough men out

561
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: here to make sure she's good, you see. So you

562
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: you're raising the sun making sure he's straight, so he

563
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: could take care of somebody's daughter. But it's a lot

564
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: of people who only focus on the girls, like, oh,

565
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: you know, put you put so much pressure on little girls.

566
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: But then your son just out here running the fucking muck,

567
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, so that's kind of

568
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: back was like, we gotta we gotta make sure we

569
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: take we're looking out for young black men man for real,

570
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: for him. My son hasn't gotten into all that yet, um,

571
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: like crushes and stuff like that. You know. I'm kind

572
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: of good with that, you know what I mean. But

573
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: you know, so each his own. But he ain't got

574
00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: into like all that. I'm glad, kind of glad of that,

575
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: but I know it's coming, coming, coming for your ass.

576
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: I could deal with it, though. I could deal with

577
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: it with him instead of a girl, because you know,

578
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: y'all y'all get hot in the pants. Y'all men't get

579
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: hot in the pass. What you mean, everybody get hot

580
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: in the pansions the only because it nefferences we can

581
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: get pregnant. That's the problem. We can get pregnant, that's it.

582
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: If women get If women it choose like, hey, I'm

583
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: gonna get pregnant for him, like and that's how we

584
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: were to get pregnant. We choose the person for real,

585
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: then I feel like it wouldn't be that much up.

586
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. We wouldn't

587
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: be looked at like we would be equal to a man.

588
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: It's because we have to have children and we're supposed

589
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: to be the nurturers and all that ship why they

590
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: put us on this pedestal. We're just humans. Do you

591
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: got kids? I don't, well, ain't got no kids. You

592
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: are not supposed to ask. Let me tell us for

593
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: all our listeners. Listen, Thanksgiving coming to funk up? All right?

594
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: Your bum ask aunt at the house who got five

595
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: kids and no daddy asking you why you don't have

596
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 1: no kids yet? Where you're nigger, tell her to admire

597
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 1: her funky ask business. Listen, I'm about that. I'm about

598
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: to kill us right now. And this is what I

599
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: this is This is exactly how I do people when

600
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: they ask me about my personal ship. I am thirty seven. No,

601
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 1: I don't have any kids, and I have had to

602
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: tubal pregnancies. That's why I don't have any kids right now.

603
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: So you see why you shouldn't ask women of a

604
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: certain age why they don't have children. It's not because

605
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: I don't want children. But that's not Yeah, it's not

606
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: because I don't want children. Why I don't have children?

607
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: What I'm saying so if God is willing for the

608
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: reason to like, you know, the downgrade your situation. But

609
00:34:55,960 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: it's so sensitive. So just going forward, just why you

610
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: ain't got no keys? Why because I shot off? Maybe

611
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say I'm working on it. That's what I'm

612
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: gonna say going forward, I'm working on it. If you

613
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 1: had a man, I do not say you don't know.

614
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: That's what you said, bitch. If on the question if

615
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: you had a man, yes, because I'm fresh out of relationship,

616
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: so yes, i'd so feel the same way. Yeah, then

617
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: I need a nigger right now to give me some

618
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: sperm to go get a vitro. That's what I need

619
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: right so I got I get to really pick my

620
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: baby daddy and he has to really be committed because

621
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: but look we see people like look at Mainglely Mingley

622
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: had her husband, her boyfriend or whatever, and they went

623
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 1: through in vitro together and now they're not together. Like

624
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: I can't imagine going through or for teaser where you

625
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: really signed up to be my kid's dad and then

626
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: we still end up not together. That's some bullshit. Yeah,

627
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 1: mainly that's the homie I know because I was running

628
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 1: back in the streets and the landing back of the day. Um,

629
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: nice woman, but I don't I don't know mama home.

630
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: Girls don't asked me, you know before, like she asked

631
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: me what i'd be her father her child. She was

632
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: like I signed paperwork all that, blah blah blah. Said.

633
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: She was just like, I know you're gonna take care

634
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 1: of your kids, and that's why I would love for

635
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: you to be the father. Why And I thought about

636
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I just came to her and you already

637
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 1: had your son at the time, you already got my son.

638
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: This is this is recent, yeah, so I mean I

639
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: would have told her, like, you know, maybe the next

640
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: person I have a kid with, I want to actually

641
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: be with him. So It wasn't even that because I

642
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 1: could see myself having because I know she she'll be

643
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 1: a good mother, and she got her own stuff. She

644
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: got everything taken care of. You know what I'm saying,

645
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: she's got her own things. Um, But I just know,

646
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: I think at a certain name for women liked, right,

647
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: they look at specific things like that, right right, Younger women, Damn,

648
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 1: they're just having babies with anybody, you know what I'm saying,

649
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: anybody that's attractive to him? Man, what a woman? Was

650
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: he taking his kids? He's in his kids like seven,

651
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: none of them this You don't see that a lot.

652
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: So you know, m I don't know. I just couldn't

653
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: do it. But I mean, I couldn't do it, but

654
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: I just I don't think I'm ready for it. That's

655
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: a huge responsibility to decide together. But we're not gonna

656
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: be together, right yeah, right, even though you ain't like

657
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 1: she's gonna put your on child's spots. She won't do nothing.

658
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't know until you

659
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 1: get the thing. I'm scared. What do you think I'm scared?

660
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I don't never know. So

661
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,959
Speaker 1: he just jumped off the phone though. Yeah, that's weird

662
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: m hm. So if you could give a lesson about

663
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: being in a relationship while in the NFL to like

664
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:14,240
Speaker 1: the rookies, what would you say, asked gus as every teammate,

665
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: ask them about if you mean to check, ask do

666
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: your research, do your background. Go ask a dude. I'm

667
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: telling you, I'm being honest with you, Like, go ask

668
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: your o G on the team, Ask your guy old

669
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: head who's been in the streets on the team. That's

670
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: something like, do you know this chick? Do you know this?

671
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 1: Go through an instagram, go to see what she followed,

672
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,959
Speaker 1: Go through all that. That's gonna save you time. Telling

673
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: you gonna save your time because she followed one of

674
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: your teammates. Unless she followed I guarantee you she ain't

675
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: following for no reason. I don't just think we like sports.

676
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 1: I ain't saying she likes what It could be chance,

677
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So just ask. They can

678
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: do that with regular women, y'all always trying to fucking

679
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: get a fan. Why y'all likely a woman? Seriously, why

680
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 1: not you gotta do all that, man, because you don't

681
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: want to just have yourself looking stupid I am. You see,

682
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: all these guys are just getting messed up. I mean

683
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: NBA players, look at it. They they for them to

684
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: be so get all this money and all this. I

685
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: feel like yall like that. But I feel just like,

686
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: just like in the in the music industry, like I

687
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: feel like people be targeting the same women. They passing

688
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: around the same women. Don't get all that that's the hot.

689
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: I don't know what's up with that. Like me, if

690
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 1: I break up with somebody, it's gonna take me like

691
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: four five months, six months. Get old people they get

692
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 1: married in four five six months. You know what I'm

693
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: saying to another person. I can't do all that. It's

694
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: too much and two less of a time. Like I

695
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: don't know, I can't do I can't do multiple a

696
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,760
Speaker 1: woman that's been with guys who know they've been around

697
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: and I might have done a song with him or

698
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 1: on the hung around this dude multiple times, and you're

699
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 1: telling about the wife this is the same this woman.

700
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: You're gonna wipe this woman. Go ahead him right, I've

701
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: been saying a bitch all day now telling him this. Right.

702
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: It's kind of like nigga, you know, like I could

703
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: say no, I feel that, so all right? Should a

704
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 1: woman feel the same way about the guy she's dating, Like, yeah,

705
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,919
Speaker 1: I don't like a nigga who I know he doesn't

706
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 1: smash a few bitches that I know personally, I don't

707
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 1: like that, Like I probably feel like how men men Field,

708
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: It's like you got your community dick, and now I'm

709
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: around here like in love with community dick. See, but

710
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: that don't matter to me honestly, as long as you're

711
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 1: not community dick, no more with me. You could have

712
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 1: sucked every girl in here because you're my nigga. Now,

713
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: so you wanna marry that community dick. If he's you

714
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: have a baby for community? Why was it? Yeah? Why

715
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 1: can you worry about what something else going on? If

716
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: it's good for you? Like if we're happy, he ain't

717
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: worry about what everybody else has got? Worrybody else? Do

718
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,919
Speaker 1: you know? Just love to tell us and my old girl.

719
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: He had tried to talk to me, oh guy used

720
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 1: to fun with him? Well you don't now, Like I

721
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 1: don't feel like dealing with all that ship, like that

722
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: ship getting back around to me. Like I like that though,

723
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: I like that from a woman like if if if

724
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: you're aggressive tours like a woman saying, well, I used

725
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 1: to talk to him when you don't know he mind.

726
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: Now I like that, but I don't feel like having

727
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 1: to tell that tell hunted bitches though, Okay, I wanted

728
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: to to y'all that's me. You may sit down. A

729
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: lot of you get like I gotta tell all these

730
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: bitches you mind now, Like come on, man, you community dick,

731
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:03,760
Speaker 1: let me stop playing, because I like hose you communic.

732
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: Of course, I like I like men who can get

733
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,320
Speaker 1: women right, and the men who can get women usually

734
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: have had quite ye therefore. But I distinctively remember being

735
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: out one night in a place and a friend of

736
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: ours birthday party and I just standing next to the

737
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: dude I used to talk to. But now he's like

738
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: pointing out to the different bitches and ill crew that

739
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: he doesn't fun. And I'm like, I'm laughing. Yes, I'm

740
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: laughing because I already know I'm never working with you again.

741
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 1: But you know how to happen to it, right, because

742
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: it'll be your crew and say if she fuking with

743
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: me right and she don't win and told your home

744
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: girl just on the logo, like man, damn, he got

745
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: some good dig or down. He did this. He did

746
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: this even though she might have just just bullshit telling

747
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: that you don't put some ship in back of her head,

748
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: like well if it was drunk night one night and

749
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: I see him out some ship, girl, girl hold, black

750
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: women are innocent, all right. But the thing is, I

751
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: like super sneaky links, So like, I'm not gonna be

752
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: the one that communicate to these other women that I

753
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: didn't funk with this guy, So I'm not gonna know

754
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: sh about him, you know, So I'm up gonna know

755
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: he didn't sunk with all this. He had to literally

756
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: put bitches out, And I'm like, God, damn, I would

757
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: have never funcked with you if I knew that. But

758
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: I don't have girls that knew I was messing with

759
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: hung girl, and she still trying to give me the

760
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: box like she knew, did you still take it? But

761
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: she was throwing it at me. You're a good man, Chucky.

762
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm not allowing spens for best friends like same time

763
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: I one afterno, but they knew about each other. They

764
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: did that to themself so that after they know about

765
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: each other, they take best friend pictures and stuff. To

766
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: this day, it's still besties there was like, they the

767
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: best bitchy. That'll be us everybody mus black women. You

768
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: you passed around, chucky, I was going hard to paint.

769
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,359
Speaker 1: Now they passed you around, right, Like girl, try a girl.

770
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 1: He like he might be for uber meats. We're gonna

771
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: drop that like that. Younger days, you're trying to get on,

772
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,959
Speaker 1: trying to get off, you know what I'm saying, trying

773
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: to get off. Before we move into the next segment,

774
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775
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776
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777
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Speaker 1: we have the guys tell a story where they got

778
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: plagued before, like where a girl did them dirty, Like damn,

779
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: I thought you funk with me for real. Nah. It

780
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: was just one time where minute she was talking and

781
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: I think either we were leaving the club together and

782
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: she was like, all right, you go get the room

783
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: or at the room and I'm gonna come through, go

784
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: get the room. I'm sitting there waiting on the ship.

785
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: Win on the ship. She never showed. Just have a

786
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: look on social media, Shawty and Onyx with some basketball

787
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: niggers that came in some basketball niggas that came in

788
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: through the thing with So she I'm being petty. I

789
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: go to HONYX, you know what homeboys to go to honest,

790
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 1: maybe like two thirty in the morning, get a table.

791
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: I'm just being petty and ship, I'm throwing ones all

792
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: over on this side and said because they don't even

793
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: see me and stuff like that. Whatever, but she's finally

794
00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: seen me, try to come talk blah blah blah. I

795
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: just left after that. I just left. I really wanted

796
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: her to just see me, and then I just left.

797
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: So I damn, I thought you was gonna say I

798
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: took a hunt at once, and I just like, I'm

799
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 1: kind of like the low key, sneaky petty like I'm

800
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna be real low key about it. But

801
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: if you do some petty ship, I'll definitely hit your

802
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 1: ass back with some PA. Did she apologize? I ain't.

803
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 1: I ain't talked to you, never spoke to her. I'm

804
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: quick to be like, what's your son, my counsel. Oh,

805
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm quickly to be like, I'll never talked. I ain't

806
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: gonna talk to you over again. Of life, right, So

807
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: you cut people off real easy, easy, hite work. Oh

808
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 1: that's not good though, not because everybody's flawed. You know,

809
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna be perfect. That was a whole he was

810
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: telling her to get the room. That's why you could

811
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: just discard her. But what about somebody love I'll come

812
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: off anybody I cut off you just because you're associated

813
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: with a person I don't like. Really interesting, because if

814
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 1: you can associate with a person that I don't like,

815
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: don't mean you really a friend of mine if you

816
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: like them, because friend of mine, you don't like him,

817
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: don't like I wouldn't deal with him, But I wouldn't say, oh,

818
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't like them, But I just wouldn't if I

819
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: know that you're you're my best friend. I know that

820
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: you don't like this person. I don't like him either.

821
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,720
Speaker 1: At this I went, I don't like them, but I friends.

822
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: If we and then y'all just just um if we're

823
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: all friends. If we're all friends, then and y'all fall out.

824
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: I don't know, I cause ain't no FA with my friend.

825
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Two guys I've been running with for decades.

826
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying guys I've been running with. I've been blessing

827
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: enough to have some tight knit apartments. Listen, you can't

828
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: be friends, no new bitch that I don't like, but

829
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 1: you can, like if we all cool and then I

830
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: stopped talking to them, I don't expect you to stop

831
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: talking to them. And if it's a bit you don't

832
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 1: funk with and she comes around and you're talking about

833
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: you I like her, No, bit we hate her? What

834
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: is your problem? She's still kicking it with the person

835
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 1: you don't like and kicking it. Yeah, if we were

836
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: all cool and now we fell out, I don't expect

837
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 1: you to stop talking with them because I don't look

838
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,879
Speaker 1: like them. But if you if we met, if you're

839
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: just meeting this person, no, we hate her? What are

840
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: you doing? I agree? Mm hmm, I don't be like

841
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: I hate you, but I just went with them. I ope.

842
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm using the word hate loosely. I don't

843
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: hate nobody. Now I'm just cut you off, like you're

844
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: gonna deal with Are you trying to get married to?

845
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: What what you got going on? You? Um? I don't know.

846
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 1: I ain't being on that label though, Like I want

847
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: to live my life like I feel like they're like

848
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: when my son get like eighteen, something like that, I

849
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: want to like traveling and be six months somewhere and

850
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: six months back here. Somebody so so you feel like

851
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,919
Speaker 1: getting married is not living your life. It's like dying.

852
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: I put it like this. I'm so comfortable when I'm

853
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 1: by myself. I can move how I want to move, move.

854
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: I can move quicker and go to this place and

855
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: have to worry about this place, and I'll go this

856
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: splot and I have to worry about waiting on another

857
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: person or seeing this person can go if they can

858
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: afford it, or if they gotta book they flag, none

859
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 1: of that. I ain't got time for that. I know

860
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: I go. I know I can go. Whenever I want

861
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: to go. I go to I go. You know you

862
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: can get you a woman that can go. If I

863
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 1: find me a woman like that, yeah, for sure. Like ship,

864
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: Hey baby, you can you can leave Friday, let's go.

865
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: We can leave tomorrow of the day. If I wake

866
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: up in the morning, I'm like, man, let's go catch

867
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: the fight at Twilve. Let's do it. You want a

868
00:49:51,120 --> 00:50:05,760
Speaker 1: bit with zero pointed But everybody everybody got careers, everybody

869
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: trying to you know, hustle, you know, do they thing

870
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: like that? You know, and I like mailbox checks. Well,

871
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: you could just what kind of chick mailbox? Okay, explain that.

872
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 1: Let me just wake up in the morning, you go

873
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: to the mailbox and there's a check in the meal.

874
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 1: Mailbox checks. A mailbox checks or check check. But what

875
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 1: I got to do? So when, like I said, mailbox checks,

876
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: like I could just wake up and I got a

877
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: check in the mail, I can go wherever I want

878
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: to go. I can go to one right, That's all

879
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I ain't say anything going to do it

880
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,239
Speaker 1: because I thought you was like so you woant have

881
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 1: beensually worked with the posters. I'm not working try trying

882
00:50:53,760 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: to ship a triple wammy pack man. I'm trying to

883
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,879
Speaker 1: How about y'all asking me the question? What y'all say

884
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna commitment, folks? So okay, I don't girls, stop

885
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: claiming would be like that for the rest of you.

886
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: To anything similar to you, like something serious does feel

887
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: like like it's just closing in on me and it

888
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 1: makes me feel claustrophobic. M hm. So you ain't committing.

889
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm never committing, but I mean, why

890
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:35,879
Speaker 1: do I need to do that when I'm having fun,

891
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 1: not what's right now. I have Charles Johnson onf we

892
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: talked that this is a lot of point look and

893
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 1: that might be that might be might be intimidating for

894
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: a boyfriend or husband. It could be a problem. I

895
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 1: distinctively remember just watching football is saying that and neked

896
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 1: cute and was in trouble. You hear me like, I

897
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 1: can't even say they're going t VQ. Yeah, that's definitely. Yeah.

898
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: But so my problem is I just want I have

899
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 1: to have a certain level of independence in a relationship.

900
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I understand as a union

901
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: and you're supposed to do ship together and that's I

902
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 1: understand all of that, but I want to be doing

903
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 1: my thing. You could do your thing. You don't feel

904
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: slighted by my thing. I don't feel no type of

905
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: way about your thing. It's just, you know, just I'm

906
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: a Gemini, like I need to be free. I need

907
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: to be free, and if I feel like I'm in

908
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: a fucking cage, it's gonna be a problem. Yeah, that's

909
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: what I mean. That's similar to what I'm saying. I

910
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 1: don't want to be caged up, but I feel like

911
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 1: there's like I wouldn't say I'm a commitment for because

912
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: I can commit. I've had, I have committed uh to

913
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 1: a relationship. But my next relationship, the person just has

914
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 1: to be like me. That's just it. Like we have

915
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: to have the same definition of love. You know what

916
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying, you're never gonna find Well, ain't no more.

917
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: I need a motherfucking twin. That's what the funk I

918
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: needed Like that nigger gotta be a Gemini, like I

919
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 1: need a twin. But uh, what you asked me? You're

920
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: sorry he asked me if I want a relationship, Oh,

921
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 1: because I'm not. It just didn't have I was engaged though,

922
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: but yeah, I was engaged for a while. So we

923
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: never planned a date and nothing like that. It was

924
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: filling off before that. But you know what motherfucker's think,

925
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: like you had a baby or you get married, it's

926
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: gonna change, Like, nah, that should be the same ship.

927
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: Now you just got a bigger commitment. So I don't

928
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: personally have a problem with commitment. I can commit to somebody,

929
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,280
Speaker 1: but it just got to be right all the way around.

930
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: And you know, every relationship you get in, like you

931
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: see what you want and what you're doing you know

932
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying to the next one, to be better.

933
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: So it's just lessons. I don't regret anything, just like

934
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 1: I feel like people forcing, like trying to force relationships

935
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: so quick, like like how quick do you think you

936
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: should be in a relationship with a person? Let me

937
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: tell you right fucking now, I'm supposed to be in

938
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: a relationship. If I need somebody, you better like me

939
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: at the same capacity, nigga. I don't have no time

940
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:32,439
Speaker 1: to play. Hey. Look, that's why i'm hey you better

941
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: you better like me today, nigger, because I don't want to.

942
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,399
Speaker 1: Maybe I do, maybe I don't. I have no time

943
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 1: for me because if you, if you, if you funk

944
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 1: with somebody, you you be wanting to be on them,

945
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So if you ain't on me,

946
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: you're gonna sunk with me. That's how I feel. But

947
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: you could They could be on you for that day. Yeah,

948
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: for that day. Oh yeah, I like you that day,

949
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: and then tomorrow you might do some ship and they

950
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: don't like you. So what do you see? Any better

951
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: like you? Now? If I like you, you better fucking

952
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 1: like me. I don't have no time to wait for

953
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: a nigga to like me no more, I've done that,

954
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 1: like you wait around you like a guard. Uh. I

955
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: mean it takes me a while sometimes if I've known

956
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 1: you a while and then we maybe start talking to

957
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 1: something like that, like you already know me, nigga, what

958
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: then are we talking about? But I'm not just saying

959
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: like somebody I just met yesterday and I'm like, oh,

960
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 1: you might niggat a day. No, that's not what I'm saying.

961
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: That's not But if it's somebody I've built a rapport with,

962
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 1: I would say six months, you know, if you funk

963
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 1: with somebody or not. Yeah, like you know, that's if

964
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 1: it's a new person that you never knew, you see,

965
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: But if we've built a rapport, we kind of know

966
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: each other. Why why why you need three years because

967
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:59,280
Speaker 1: I don't know you like it in them six months?

968
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: Y'all don't at sex, right, Yeah? Yeah, mostly you gotta

969
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: see you know with that dick, like yes, of course,

970
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: and nigga's women ain't starting the condom dick. So yeah,

971
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: it depends on how we fucking my nigga. We appreciate

972
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: you man, appreciate this was a fun episode. So all

973
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: tell people where they can find and if you want

974
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 1: them to find you, right, you can't find me. I'm

975
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 1: unnoticeable and I don't care if you find me or not.

976
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 1: Twitter is Randy Watson. That's my name. My Instagram name

977
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: is c J George nine nine, So my Twitter name

978
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 1: is Randy Watson. Just to be honestly, can you sing well?

979
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us today, and we

980
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 1: talked bad. You gotta come back and talk with us again. Yeah,

981
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 1: when you when you get an old lady, we want

982
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: to her. Yo, you come. I gave you everything you

983
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: got him, so you can't say what you said. I

984
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: told you to get one and done. There you go podcast.

985
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: So this first and last, this might be the last

986
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,479
Speaker 1: one you ever hear from me. So, yeah, you ain't

987
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: going nowhere. You're gonna be here a long time. I

988
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 1: got exclusive content. Thank you. We feel honored to have you. Yep,

989
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: all right, y'all, we got y'alls Johnson or we talked back. Hey. Look,

990
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: if you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune in every

991
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: Thursday on our Heart Radio app or wherever the fuck

992
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: you get your podcast at. It's your co host, A J.

993
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 1: Holiday two point on Instagram and I'm official tam BAM

994
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Y'all follow me. Thanks again, Charles sick about

995
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: it the folks, people, enjoy yourselves and jumping that naked DM.

996
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 1: He's singing with y'all. All right, by y'all,