WEBVTT - #8 Second Date Update of 2025: That Name Sounds Familiar

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<v Speaker 1>We've counted, we've talented, and we came up with some numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Yeah, the top ten second date updates of

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty five. These are the most downloaded, the most loved,

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<v Speaker 1>the most commented on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yay, So they came up with the numbers.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he did, got it, got it stretch for us, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>but today we're on to number eight in our countdown.

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<v Speaker 4>And for sure, the most annoying part of the dating

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<v Speaker 4>apps isn't the constant scrolling or the inappropriate DMS, or

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<v Speaker 4>even coming across Brooks secret cougar match profile again and

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<v Speaker 4>again and again.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have that, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 6>Every time.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing is, it's all the wasted energy you have

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<v Speaker 4>to put in getting to know somebody only to never

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<v Speaker 4>actually meet up with them in person. And one of

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<v Speaker 4>our listeners is on the phone saying he's been there

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<v Speaker 4>way too many times. So now he has a method

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<v Speaker 4>to eliminate that headache for good.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna hear it in your number eight second date

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<v Speaker 2>update of the year. Yeah, next second date of day.

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<v Speaker 4>If you ask me and Brook you'll probably agree with this.

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<v Speaker 4>The dating world needs more ultimatums.

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<v Speaker 5>No job, yes, no, not ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Good.

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<v Speaker 4>I think maybe we need them because the more listeners

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<v Speaker 4>we talk to, everybody seems so indecisive, so wishy washy, like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh maybe I'll date her, or maybe that other hot girl,

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<v Speaker 4>or maybe I'll just stick with my wife.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know what fence here? Ultimatum suddenly sounding good?

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<v Speaker 5>Stick to your wife? What is happening?

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I appreciate somebody who's actually willing to lay

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<v Speaker 4>all their cards down on the table and say this

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<v Speaker 4>is it, Take it or leave it. And apparently that's

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<v Speaker 4>how our listener, Dustin rolls ultimatum style.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's the vibe I got from his email, Dustin,

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, how's it going on?

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like such a nice guy for being such

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<v Speaker 1>a badasshole.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a made a maker.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, tell me if I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>But it sounds like you like to play the dating

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<v Speaker 4>game a little bit more straightforward.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, totally, let's go, man. I mean I don't have

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<v Speaker 6>that much time left. I'm not going to sit down

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<v Speaker 6>and text all day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what I want to extend?

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<v Speaker 7>Do you do this?

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<v Speaker 6>Here's my new rule. Now when I talk to people,

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<v Speaker 6>it's like if I don't meet up with them, right away,

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<v Speaker 6>it pretty much just kind of sizzles out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I can see how that could happen.

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<v Speaker 4>If you don't do that, you'll get strung along for

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<v Speaker 4>weeks and months and maybe never even any person.

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<v Speaker 5>What is right away to you? What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I think like forty eight to seventy two hours,

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<v Speaker 6>we should at least have like some kind of plan

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<v Speaker 6>to hang out. But like if that plan's not established,

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<v Speaker 6>and it's probably never gonna work out.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, that's actually kind of a rule.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like that rule, like it's respecting everybody's time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, dating runs on deadlines, and so that's good. Jess

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<v Speaker 4>you gave Jessica the dating deadline?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't know. She I ended up just getting

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<v Speaker 6>her number and then I pretty much like kind of

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<v Speaker 6>took the conversation elsewhere off the app and then started

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<v Speaker 6>texting from there.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's an important step because otherwise the app,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't open it, you know, you don't reply check.

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<v Speaker 2>So once it got off of the apps, how did

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<v Speaker 2>you and Jessica vibe?

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<v Speaker 6>She's really really funny, So she pretty much was just saying, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>one time, no chat.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, did you turn it into an in person

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<v Speaker 1>date pretty quickly?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we went out for pizza. I love pizza. Oh

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<v Speaker 6>you want to know the crazy part about that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, that's the only part I want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll start with the crazy part first. Start there.

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<v Speaker 6>She looked really different from the photos that one on

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<v Speaker 6>the profile. Different, not like a cat fish. I mean

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<v Speaker 6>she was still like super cute, like for sure, but

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<v Speaker 6>like different, different, like different.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait again, no, do you mean like she colored her

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<v Speaker 1>hair a different color.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe a full face tattoo that wasn't there before.

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<v Speaker 6>No, nothing like that, but that would have been like

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<v Speaker 6>totally cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, overall though you liked what you saw in person.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she was cute, it was just different than what

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<v Speaker 6>I expected. But could this be my perspective? A lot

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<v Speaker 6>of the photos she had she was wearing sunglasses, so

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<v Speaker 6>it could be misjudged through that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, sunglasses now cover like seventy percent of the

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<v Speaker 4>face they are.

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<v Speaker 2>So now that we've covered.

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<v Speaker 5>The crazy eyes, that was the crazy part.

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<v Speaker 4>Now that we've covered all the crazy parts of the date,

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<v Speaker 4>bring us to the boring, you know, mushy stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, that's my favorite. Jose wants to know

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<v Speaker 2>how the rest of the date went.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything was normal about the date, but then there was

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<v Speaker 6>like this one part that was really weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, going back to crazy again.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't like super crazy, but it was just like

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<v Speaker 6>one of those another different things.

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<v Speaker 5>And I thought, okay, what happened.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, on her profile, like she talks about like pilates,

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<v Speaker 6>and a bunch of like Pilates stuff is on her profile,

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<v Speaker 6>all right, Yeah, so I was kind of I thought

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<v Speaker 6>that was kind of cool about her. But every time

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<v Speaker 6>I would talk to her about Pilates, I swear she

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<v Speaker 6>would just kept redirecting the conversation into something else.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's either like you no, it feels like she

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<v Speaker 1>either lied on her bio or you're talking to a

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<v Speaker 1>different person than what you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 7>That's what.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean confusing girls.

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<v Speaker 4>But Alexis you put stuff in your profile that you

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<v Speaker 4>don't actually care much about.

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<v Speaker 2>It's more of like a I love sports. I do

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<v Speaker 2>like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Collegiate athletes, more athletic than you, Jack.

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<v Speaker 4>But she also says that she enjoys baseball even though

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<v Speaker 4>she thinks it has a halftime. I enjoyed the half

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<v Speaker 4>times in the game accurate halftime in the second inning, Jen,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying maybe she isn't fully into pilates as

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<v Speaker 4>much as she claims on.

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<v Speaker 2>Easier to put on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I will say there is there is a

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<v Speaker 1>phenomenon right now that if you aren't a die hard

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<v Speaker 1>fan of something, you're not allowed to say that you

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<v Speaker 1>like it.

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<v Speaker 2>How long has it been since you last spoke to Jessica.

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<v Speaker 6>It's been like six days.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, which is a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>When you were moving so quick, you know, you had

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<v Speaker 1>a pacing going, and it's dead.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't understand because we both had such a great time.

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<v Speaker 6>She said she had a great time. I had a

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<v Speaker 6>great time. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's try and keep the great times going.

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<v Speaker 4>And we come back and we give this girl another ultimatum, saying,

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<v Speaker 4>I am it's either go out with Dustin now or

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<v Speaker 4>lose him forever.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's always the Yeah, that's just like or not.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it just sounds more scary if you say ultimatum.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to come back and do it with your

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<v Speaker 4>second date right.

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<v Speaker 2>After this one.

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<v Speaker 4>Today's second date update begs the question can you fully

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<v Speaker 4>trust what you see in someone's dating profile? Because our

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<v Speaker 4>listener Dustin met up with a woman from Bumble who

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<v Speaker 4>looked a little different than her picture.

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<v Speaker 5>Not bad though, just different.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like a good, good different.

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<v Speaker 4>And even though her bio talked about pilates a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>she didn't really want to discuss it much on their date,

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<v Speaker 4>which is.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of strange.

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<v Speaker 4>To be fair, My old dating profile said I'm Jewish,

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<v Speaker 4>but any woman who met up with me would discover

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not kosher and not good with money, so probably

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<v Speaker 4>equally confusing. That's a really good point, Jeff, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>mean you can't trust it fully from the dating profile.

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<v Speaker 4>The good news is Dustin, despite the differences, really had

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<v Speaker 4>a good time with her. He felt like they vibed

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<v Speaker 4>in ways he hasn't in the two years that he

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<v Speaker 4>has spent on this half before.

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<v Speaker 1>God, I really want this to work out for you,

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<v Speaker 1>justin just because you've put in the time and the

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<v Speaker 1>effort and you seem like a good guy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, thanks a lot, Brooke. I really do appreciate that

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<v Speaker 6>about Youah.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you appreciate that she compliments you well her her

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<v Speaker 4>fingers are crossed right now when she said that.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, you wanted to tell everybody everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, God, I feel like there is some part of Brook,

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<v Speaker 4>that really is rooting for you today.

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<v Speaker 5>Jess Yeah, I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is going to be a simple like

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<v Speaker 1>miscommunication or something.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I mean, yeah, possibly, I mean, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>as long as you guys get me another date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, all right, Well, let's style Jessica right now.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll see if she picks up and hopefully has a

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<v Speaker 4>simple explanation for why she hasn't hit you back colin

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<v Speaker 4>her right now here we go.

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<v Speaker 7>Huo, hey is this Jessica?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, Joe, she's so cute. I know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so nice to talk to someone who's like positive

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<v Speaker 4>and perky when we're talking to them. Because we're doing

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<v Speaker 4>a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>Most of our listeners are like, who is this?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm sorry what.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Sorr, I've got threw a lot at you. We're

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<v Speaker 4>a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 4>which you're on right now. Congratulations. Hi, okay, Hi, And

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<v Speaker 4>this segment is called second Date Update. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if you've heard it before, but it's a thing where

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<v Speaker 4>if somebody blows you off and you're not sure why,

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<v Speaker 4>we can try to call that person for you to

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<v Speaker 4>maybe figure out if there's a reason for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I didn't blow anyone off.

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<v Speaker 1>What Yeah, I mean I guess talking she said sick.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he said six days. So maybe that's not

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<v Speaker 1>blowing someone off to you. Maybe that's not enough time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because six days ago you went out with a

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<v Speaker 4>guy who, at least according to him, felt like you

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<v Speaker 4>had a really good connection. Afterwards, he feels like you've

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<v Speaker 4>been pulling away a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Dustin.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Forgot about that one. Huh.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to blow him off. I just don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what to do.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's pretty simple. You should text him and

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<v Speaker 5>go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean, like I don't know how much she

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<v Speaker 3>told you or what you know. But I actually matched

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<v Speaker 3>with Dustin a year and a half ago.

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<v Speaker 1>A year and a half, he said that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>just met on the app.

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<v Speaker 3>And that you Yeah. So when I got a text

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<v Speaker 3>from him like a week ago, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 3>confused because it was like, wait, this is weird, just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of out of the blue. But I was just

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<v Speaker 3>like whatever, and I was just like, long time to chat.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah. He said that you made a joke that

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<v Speaker 5>you were joking because you had just been chatting with him.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't a joke. It really was a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, confused.

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<v Speaker 1>So you hadn't talked to Dustin in a year and

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<v Speaker 1>a half on an app at all, is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, it was just a half ago. You never replied

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<v Speaker 3>to one of my texts, and then all of a sudden, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I get a text from him.

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<v Speaker 5>And then you guys went to pizza, right, you did

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<v Speaker 5>meet up?

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<v Speaker 6>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>We got pizza, And I was kind of like, I

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<v Speaker 3>wonder why all of a sudden he wants to talk

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<v Speaker 3>to me now, But I was like, I remember he

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<v Speaker 3>and I got along really well on Bumble, and so

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like, yeah, sure, let's get pizza.

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<v Speaker 5>And is it you're in a coma for a year

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<v Speaker 5>and a half and he doesn't remember told us he

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<v Speaker 5>went from the ap to that, Yes, he made a

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<v Speaker 5>year and a half.

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<v Speaker 2>And that seems like a big miscommunication. What about that?

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<v Speaker 5>It has to be the same person.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the same He kept talking about pilates and how

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<v Speaker 3>like he kept asking about it, and I was like plate,

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, I don't have that in my bio.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the other girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Oh no, But then I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 3>Jessica is a really common name and thinking about it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh, shoot.

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<v Speaker 4>You think that he went out with the wrong Jessica

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<v Speaker 4>or texted the wrong Jessica in his fea.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>It could have been another Jessica from Bumble.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, then you have him as Dustin Bumble.

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<v Speaker 2>He probably has multiple Jessica Bumbles. That makes so much sense.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you have fun with them? I did?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, I had a lot of fun with him,

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<v Speaker 4>even though you had to keep dodging his questions about pilates.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, honestly, I didn't know what to say. I

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<v Speaker 3>was kind of embarrassed, but like, we were really enjoying ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>So this makes sense why Dustin told us that she

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<v Speaker 4>didn't look like the pictures from the girl that he

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<v Speaker 4>matched with a.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait he said that, yeah, but he added that you

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<v Speaker 1>were super cute. Oh, it's not like it was a disappointment.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's important to know.

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<v Speaker 4>I also say, you're both in the same spot, because

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<v Speaker 4>he's like, I don't know where to go from here,

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<v Speaker 4>and she just said, I don't know where to go

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<v Speaker 4>from here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're both in limbo.

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<v Speaker 7>This is kind of perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, I guess that's it. Sorry, No, she tell her.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeff tell her. She doesn't know how to tell him,

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<v Speaker 5>and now she doesn't even have to.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess the other option is if you are interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Dustin has been listening to this call on the other

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<v Speaker 2>phone line.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he knows everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, if he hasn't fainted already, Dustin you there.

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<v Speaker 6>Holy I can't believe this happened. I'm such an idiot.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm such an idiot.

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<v Speaker 6>You guys were talking about it. I was looking through

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<v Speaker 6>my phone and I saw all the different Jessica bumbles.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh how many Jessica even talking to I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm embarrassed though, I mean, I'm I'm so sorry. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>When you cut springing up Pilates, I was like, what

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<v Speaker 3>why did he bringing this up?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you want to see him move? I wasn't sure

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<v Speaker 3>what you're talking about, But I.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, I know now. I just I thought it was

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<v Speaker 6>very interesting at the time, that's all.

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<v Speaker 4>He was only asking because he thought that you were

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<v Speaker 4>super interested in it.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was a different Jessica Bumble.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, now you need to maybe tell him what

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<v Speaker 1>are your hobbies in interest because he has no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually love soccer and I love hiking and I

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<v Speaker 3>speak a little French and.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I think I remember that from a year and

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<v Speaker 6>a half ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Or was that the other Jessica Bumble like Jessica Bumble

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<v Speaker 4>number four?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have saved so much time and headache in

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<v Speaker 1>your life if you would have just gone out a

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<v Speaker 1>year and a half ago.

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<v Speaker 6>Brooke, You're so right again. I'm just such an idiot.

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<v Speaker 4>Women do like hearing that, So that's a good thing

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<v Speaker 4>for you to start saying. So, now that we've cleared

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<v Speaker 4>up the big misunderstanding and you realize who each other are,

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<v Speaker 4>you like each other at least it seems that way

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<v Speaker 4>from our perspective, we'd like to offer to send you

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<v Speaker 4>out on another date, Jessica, and we would pay for

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<v Speaker 4>it if you say yes.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe this could be like a mistake that was meant

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<v Speaker 6>to be.

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<v Speaker 5>See, that's why you need to turn it around. Come on, Dustin.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to hear something from Dustin, and depending on

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<v Speaker 3>what he says, maybe.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll say yes, Oh, what is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Out of all those Jessica's which one do you like best?

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<v Speaker 4>If he's tough an answer here, he's like Jessica eighteen.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, to be honest, Look to be honest, Jessica, You're

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<v Speaker 6>the only Jessica I had a real connection with all

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<v Speaker 6>the other jessicays I never even hung out with.

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<v Speaker 5>Look at that, you're the od.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the only one that would talk to me.

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<v Speaker 7>He's too honest.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that answer your question?

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<v Speaker 3>Jessica, it did. Yeah, I'll go out again.

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<v Speaker 5>I think they're so cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, congratulations you two. You're going out again, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>probably a good lesson for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Dustin. You got to put the year that you matched with.

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<v Speaker 4>The person next to their names in your contact I'm always.

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<v Speaker 1>Like today, I'm hoping after this he doesn't have any

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<v Speaker 1>more matches like this is it.

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<v Speaker 6>I think after this, I'm not going to use the

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<v Speaker 6>dating apps for a while.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, after two years, bro you need a break.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>See, that's why we do the second date updates. Jessica

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<v Speaker 4>said she didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what to do.

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<v Speaker 4>She was caught mid date with a guy who thought

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<v Speaker 4>that she was somebody else.

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<v Speaker 5>That is so it's my worst nightmare.

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<v Speaker 4>It would be a turn off obviously, but it was

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<v Speaker 4>like super awkward, Like, how do you even bring that up?

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<v Speaker 4>The thing is that she wasn't a total stranger. They'd

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<v Speaker 4>matched eighteen months before then, and like we heard, they

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<v Speaker 4>seemed to be actually pretty cute together.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, sometimes it's all about timing. You know, maybe

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<v Speaker 5>eighteen months ago he would have thought, oh, I just

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<v Speaker 5>got on the dating apps, it's gonna be awesome, And

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<v Speaker 5>then now he's two years in, he's like, wait, it's

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<v Speaker 5>not yah.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there a part of me that thinks Dustin is

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<v Speaker 4>texting the other Jessica right now, the one that he

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<v Speaker 4>ghosted a week ago?

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<v Speaker 5>How dare you even bring that up?

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<v Speaker 4>Let's remember he is a guy, and we're addicted to

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<v Speaker 4>the chase. Hey, hopefully he can just focus on the

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<v Speaker 4>current Jessica and the good thing that they have going.

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<v Speaker 5>Why would you even put that in his head? If

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<v Speaker 5>he's listening, if.

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<v Speaker 2>You're listening, change the other Jessica's to do, not text?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, just for now, just delete their number. That's even easier.

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<v Speaker 4>You never know, never say never, but remember you can

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<v Speaker 4>listen to all of our second Date updates on Spotify,

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<v Speaker 4>Apple

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<v Speaker 2>Or wherever you get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey