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Speaker 1: We've counted, we've talented, and we came up with some numbers.

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Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, the top ten second date updates of

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. These are the most downloaded, the most loved,

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Speaker 1: the most commented on.

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Speaker 2: Yay, So they came up with the numbers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he did, got it, got it stretch for us, Yes,

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Speaker 3: but today we're on to number eight in our countdown.

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Speaker 4: And for sure, the most annoying part of the dating

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Speaker 4: apps isn't the constant scrolling or the inappropriate DMS, or

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Speaker 4: even coming across Brooks secret cougar match profile again and

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Speaker 4: again and again.

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Speaker 5: I don't have that, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: Every time.

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Speaker 4: The thing is, it's all the wasted energy you have

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Speaker 4: to put in getting to know somebody only to never

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Speaker 4: actually meet up with them in person. And one of

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Speaker 4: our listeners is on the phone saying he's been there

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Speaker 4: way too many times. So now he has a method

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Speaker 4: to eliminate that headache for good.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna hear it in your number eight second date

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Speaker 2: update of the year. Yeah, next second date of day.

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Speaker 4: If you ask me and Brook you'll probably agree with this.

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Speaker 4: The dating world needs more ultimatums.

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Speaker 5: No job, yes, no, not ever.

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 4: I think maybe we need them because the more listeners

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Speaker 4: we talk to, everybody seems so indecisive, so wishy washy, like,

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Speaker 4: oh maybe I'll date her, or maybe that other hot girl,

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Speaker 4: or maybe I'll just stick with my wife.

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Speaker 2: I don't really know what fence here? Ultimatum suddenly sounding good?

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Speaker 5: Stick to your wife? What is happening?

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Speaker 4: That's why I appreciate somebody who's actually willing to lay

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Speaker 4: all their cards down on the table and say this

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Speaker 4: is it, Take it or leave it. And apparently that's

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Speaker 4: how our listener, Dustin rolls ultimatum style.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the vibe I got from his email, Dustin,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Hey, how's it going on?

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Speaker 1: You sound like such a nice guy for being such

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Speaker 1: a badasshole.

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Speaker 5: It's a made a maker.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, tell me if I was wrong.

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Speaker 4: But it sounds like you like to play the dating

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Speaker 4: game a little bit more straightforward.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, totally, let's go, man. I mean I don't have

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Speaker 6: that much time left. I'm not going to sit down

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Speaker 6: and text all day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what I want to extend?

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Speaker 7: Do you do this?

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Speaker 6: Here's my new rule. Now when I talk to people,

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Speaker 6: it's like if I don't meet up with them, right away,

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Speaker 6: it pretty much just kind of sizzles out.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I mean I can see how that could happen.

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Speaker 4: If you don't do that, you'll get strung along for

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Speaker 4: weeks and months and maybe never even any person.

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Speaker 5: What is right away to you? What does that mean?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I think like forty eight to seventy two hours,

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Speaker 6: we should at least have like some kind of plan

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Speaker 6: to hang out. But like if that plan's not established,

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Speaker 6: and it's probably never gonna work out.

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Speaker 7: Okay, that's actually kind of a rule.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that rule, like it's respecting everybody's time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dating runs on deadlines, and so that's good. Jess

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Speaker 4: you gave Jessica the dating deadline?

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Speaker 6: Well, I don't know. She I ended up just getting

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Speaker 6: her number and then I pretty much like kind of

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's an important step because otherwise the app,

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Speaker 2: So once it got off of the apps, how did

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Speaker 6: She's really really funny, So she pretty much was just saying, like, hey,

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Speaker 6: one time, no chat.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, did you turn it into an in person

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we went out for pizza. I love pizza. Oh

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Speaker 6: you want to know the crazy part about that?

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's the only part I want to know.

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Speaker 2: We'll start with the crazy part first. Start there.

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Speaker 6: She looked really different from the photos that one on

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Speaker 1: Wait again, no, do you mean like she colored her

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Speaker 2: Maybe a full face tattoo that wasn't there before.

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Speaker 6: No, nothing like that, but that would have been like

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Speaker 4: Okay, overall though you liked what you saw in person.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she was cute, it was just different than what

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Speaker 6: I expected. But could this be my perspective? A lot

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, sunglasses now cover like seventy percent of the

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Speaker 2: So now that we've covered.

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Speaker 5: The crazy eyes, that was the crazy part.

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Speaker 4: Now that we've covered all the crazy parts of the date,

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Speaker 4: bring us to the boring, you know, mushy stuff.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that's my favorite. Jose wants to know

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Speaker 6: Everything was normal about the date, but then there was

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, going back to crazy again.

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Speaker 6: It wasn't like super crazy, but it was just like

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Speaker 5: And I thought, okay, what happened.

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Speaker 6: Well, on her profile, like she talks about like pilates,

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Speaker 6: and a bunch of like Pilates stuff is on her profile,

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 1: So it's either like you no, it feels like she

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Speaker 7: That's what.

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Speaker 5: I mean confusing girls.

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Speaker 4: But Alexis you put stuff in your profile that you

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Speaker 2: It's more of like a I love sports. I do

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Speaker 1: Collegiate athletes, more athletic than you, Jack.

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Speaker 4: But she also says that she enjoys baseball even though

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying maybe she isn't fully into pilates as

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Speaker 2: Easier to put on there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I will say there is there is a

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since you last spoke to Jessica.

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Speaker 6: It's been like six days.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, which is a long time.

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Speaker 1: When you were moving so quick, you know, you had

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Speaker 6: I don't understand because we both had such a great time.

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Speaker 6: She said she had a great time. I had a

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Speaker 2: Let's try and keep the great times going.

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Speaker 4: And we come back and we give this girl another ultimatum, saying,

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Speaker 4: I am it's either go out with Dustin now or

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Speaker 5: Well that's always the Yeah, that's just like or not.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it just sounds more scary if you say ultimatum.

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Speaker 4: We're going to come back and do it with your

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Speaker 4: second date right.

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Speaker 2: After this one.

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Speaker 4: Today's second date update begs the question can you fully

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Speaker 4: trust what you see in someone's dating profile? Because our

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Speaker 4: listener Dustin met up with a woman from Bumble who

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Speaker 4: looked a little different than her picture.

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Speaker 5: Not bad though, just different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a good, good different.

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Speaker 4: And even though her bio talked about pilates a lot,

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Speaker 2: Kind of strange.

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Speaker 4: To be fair, My old dating profile said I'm Jewish,

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Speaker 4: I'm not kosher and not good with money, so probably

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Speaker 4: equally confusing. That's a really good point, Jeff, Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: The good news is Dustin, despite the differences, really had

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Speaker 4: a good time with her. He felt like they vibed

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Speaker 4: in ways he hasn't in the two years that he

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Speaker 1: God, I really want this to work out for you,

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Speaker 1: justin just because you've put in the time and the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, thanks a lot, Brooke. I really do appreciate that

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Speaker 4: Oh, you appreciate that she compliments you well her her

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Speaker 5: So yeah, you wanted to tell everybody everything.

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Speaker 4: Okay, God, I feel like there is some part of Brook,

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Speaker 5: Jess Yeah, I am.

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Speaker 1: I think this is going to be a simple like

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Speaker 6: You know, I mean, yeah, possibly, I mean, I don't know,

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Speaker 6: as long as you guys get me another date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, all right, Well, let's style Jessica right now.

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Speaker 4: We'll see if she picks up and hopefully has a

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Speaker 4: simple explanation for why she hasn't hit you back colin

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Speaker 7: Huo, hey is this Jessica?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Hey, Joe, she's so cute. I know.

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Speaker 4: It's so nice to talk to someone who's like positive

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Speaker 4: a second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: Most of our listeners are like, who is this?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sorry what.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Sorr, I've got threw a lot at you. We're

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Speaker 4: a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 4: which you're on right now. Congratulations. Hi, okay, Hi, And

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Speaker 4: this segment is called second Date Update. I don't know

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Speaker 4: if you've heard it before, but it's a thing where

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Speaker 4: if somebody blows you off and you're not sure why,

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Speaker 4: we can try to call that person for you to

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Speaker 4: maybe figure out if there's a reason for it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't blow anyone off.

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Speaker 1: What Yeah, I mean I guess talking she said sick.

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Speaker 1: I mean he said six days. So maybe that's not

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Speaker 1: blowing someone off to you. Maybe that's not enough time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because six days ago you went out with a

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Speaker 2: His name is Dustin.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I.

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Speaker 5: Forgot about that one. Huh.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to blow him off. I just don't

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Speaker 5: I think it's pretty simple. You should text him and

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Speaker 3: No, I mean, like I don't know how much she

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Speaker 1: A year and a half, he said that you guys

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Speaker 3: And that you Yeah. So when I got a text

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Speaker 3: confused because it was like, wait, this is weird, just

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah. He said that you made a joke that

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Speaker 3: It wasn't a joke. It really was a long time.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, confused.

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Speaker 1: So you hadn't talked to Dustin in a year and

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Speaker 1: a half on an app at all, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 3: Right, it was just a half ago. You never replied

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Speaker 3: to one of my texts, and then all of a sudden, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I get a text from him.

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Speaker 5: And then you guys went to pizza, right, you did

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 3: We got pizza, And I was kind of like, I

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Speaker 3: I was just like, yeah, sure, let's get pizza.

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Speaker 5: And is it you're in a coma for a year

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Speaker 2: And that seems like a big miscommunication. What about that?

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Speaker 5: It has to be the same person.

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Speaker 3: It's the same He kept talking about pilates and how

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Speaker 3: like he kept asking about it, and I was like plate,

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Speaker 3: He's like, I don't have that in my bio.

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Speaker 2: That's the other girl.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh no, But then I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: Jessica is a really common name and thinking about it,

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Speaker 4: You think that he went out with the wrong Jessica

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Speaker 4: or texted the wrong Jessica in his fea.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it makes sense.

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Speaker 3: It could have been another Jessica from Bumble.

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Speaker 6: Wait.

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Speaker 5: Wait, then you have him as Dustin Bumble.

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Speaker 2: He probably has multiple Jessica Bumbles. That makes so much sense.

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Speaker 5: Did you have fun with them? I did?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I had a lot of fun with him,

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Speaker 4: even though you had to keep dodging his questions about pilates.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I didn't know what to say. I

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Speaker 4: So this makes sense why Dustin told us that she

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Speaker 2: Couple of weeks.

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Speaker 1: Wait he said that, yeah, but he added that you

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Speaker 1: I think that's important to know.

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Speaker 4: I also say, you're both in the same spot, because

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Speaker 4: he's like, I don't know where to go from here,

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Speaker 4: and she just said, I don't know where to go

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're both in limbo.

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Speaker 7: This is kind of perfect.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I guess that's it. Sorry, No, she tell her.

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Speaker 5: Jeff tell her. She doesn't know how to tell him,

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Speaker 5: and now she doesn't even have to.

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Speaker 2: I guess the other option is if you are interested.

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Speaker 2: Dustin has been listening to this call on the other

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Speaker 2: phone line.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he knows everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, if he hasn't fainted already, Dustin you there.

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Speaker 6: Holy I can't believe this happened. I'm such an idiot.

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Speaker 5: I'm such an idiot.

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Speaker 6: You guys were talking about it. I was looking through

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Speaker 3: Oh how many Jessica even talking to I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm embarrassed though, I mean, I'm I'm so sorry. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: When you cut springing up Pilates, I was like, what

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Speaker 3: why did he bringing this up?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: Did you want to see him move? I wasn't sure

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Speaker 6: Know, I know now. I just I thought it was

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Speaker 4: He was only asking because he thought that you were

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Speaker 2: But that was a different Jessica Bumble.

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Speaker 1: I mean, now you need to maybe tell him what

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Speaker 3: I actually love soccer and I love hiking and I

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I remember that from a year and

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Speaker 4: Or was that the other Jessica Bumble like Jessica Bumble

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Speaker 4: number four?

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's right.

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Speaker 1: You could have saved so much time and headache in

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Speaker 6: Brooke, You're so right again. I'm just such an idiot.

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Speaker 4: Women do like hearing that, So that's a good thing

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Speaker 4: for you to start saying. So, now that we've cleared

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Speaker 4: from our perspective, we'd like to offer to send you

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Speaker 4: it if you say yes.

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Speaker 6: Maybe this could be like a mistake that was meant

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Speaker 5: See, that's why you need to turn it around. Come on, Dustin.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear something from Dustin, and depending on

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Speaker 6: I'll say yes, Oh, what is it?

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Speaker 3: Out of all those Jessica's which one do you like best?

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Speaker 4: If he's tough an answer here, he's like Jessica eighteen.

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Speaker 6: Well, to be honest, Look to be honest, Jessica, You're

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Speaker 6: the other jessicays I never even hung out with.

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Speaker 5: Look at that, you're the od.

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Speaker 2: You're the only one that would talk to me.

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Speaker 7: He's too honest.

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Speaker 2: Did that answer your question?

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Speaker 3: Jessica, it did. Yeah, I'll go out again.

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Speaker 5: I think they're so cute.

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Speaker 4: Well, congratulations you two. You're going out again, and it's

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Speaker 2: Dustin. You got to put the year that you matched with.

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Speaker 4: The person next to their names in your contact I'm always.

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Speaker 1: Like today, I'm hoping after this he doesn't have any

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Speaker 1: more matches like this is it.

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Speaker 6: I think after this, I'm not going to use the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, after two years, bro you need a break.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: See, that's why we do the second date updates. Jessica

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Speaker 2: Know what to do.

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Speaker 4: She was caught mid date with a guy who thought

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Speaker 5: That is so it's my worst nightmare.

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Speaker 4: It would be a turn off obviously, but it was

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Speaker 4: like super awkward, Like, how do you even bring that up?

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Speaker 4: The thing is that she wasn't a total stranger. They'd

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Speaker 5: I mean, sometimes it's all about timing. You know, maybe

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Speaker 4: Is there a part of me that thinks Dustin is

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Speaker 5: How dare you even bring that up?

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Speaker 4: Let's remember he is a guy, and we're addicted to

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Speaker 4: the chase. Hey, hopefully he can just focus on the

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Speaker 5: Why would you even put that in his head? If

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Speaker 5: he's listening, if.

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Speaker 2: You're listening, change the other Jessica's to do, not text?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just for now, just delete their number. That's even easier.

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Speaker 4: You never know, never say never, but remember you can

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Speaker 4: listen to all of our second Date updates on Spotify,

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Speaker 4: Apple

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Speaker 2: Or wherever you get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey