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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks so

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Speaker 1: much for joining us. We are so excited to be back,

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Speaker 1: particularly today, because where are we, sitizens.

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Speaker 2: We are own vacation, baby, We are.

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Speaker 1: In Saint Martin.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday's say Bart's, this place is amazing. We'll add to

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Speaker 2: that the minute. Absolutely. You know, we'll be answering more

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Speaker 2: of your fan questions, which we love doing, and you

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Speaker 2: your comments, your updates. We got a lot of updates

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Speaker 2: on of our own today, Like if you want to

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Speaker 2: on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. Before we get into

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Speaker 2: today's episode, the first thing we want to do is

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Speaker 2: wish everybody a happy v Day, a happy.

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Speaker 1: Galentine's Day and happy what else?

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Speaker 2: Gallantine? I'm quite just oh okay, and Valentine's that Galentine

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Speaker 2: whatever you're celebrating yo today.

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Speaker 1: But Susan, can we clude if we're celebrating life? Can

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Speaker 1: you tell we're a little bit on island tie, we're

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Speaker 1: a little bit. We all have island fever. But can

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Speaker 1: I just say it's amazing, it's absolutely what's your say

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Speaker 1: for drink here? I'll make you the coladas of course,

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Speaker 1: Pina colattas. I'm drinking tequila soda in line. We've been

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Speaker 1: at the beach, We've been at St Barts. What else?

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Speaker 3: Late?

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Speaker 2: I have to tell you two risks?

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Speaker 1: Let's she head on plus drama mean.

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Speaker 2: I was so proud of her because we had to

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Speaker 2: take this giant ferry boat over Saint Barts yesterday and

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Speaker 2: she did it.

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Speaker 1: Get We got wet, but not sick. Let me just

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Speaker 1: tell you I never used at sea sect. Literally, I

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Speaker 1: was praying. I would have done anything. I had the wristbands,

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Speaker 1: like she said the drama mean. But on the way home,

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Speaker 1: we met some great people. That's the thing about island

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Speaker 1: life when you're on vacation. We met these people the

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Speaker 1: other day. What were you in tre We're going to

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Speaker 1: dinner with them. They're taking us to the best French

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Speaker 1: restaurant on the island.

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Speaker 2: So we're here for twelve days this time, and we're

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Speaker 2: booking before we leave. I think we need three weeks here.

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Speaker 2: Every weeks.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thinking about really a month while that'll work.

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Speaker 2: That'll work.

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Speaker 1: And in the I hope everybody's enjoying the Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, it's not just about having a

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Speaker 2: man in your life. It's about having friends.

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Speaker 1: And we are having the time of our life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yes, anyway, I highly recommend vacation. Highly recommend vacation. And

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Speaker 1: if you can find a beach, like the beach just

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Speaker 1: hear the water, the turk poise.

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Speaker 2: Oh so I had to ask you one question, one

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Speaker 2: moment that stands out the most during this vacation so far.

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Speaker 2: What would it be? It would be looking out at

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Speaker 2: the beautiful water.

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Speaker 1: You two. And then oh and the food is delicious,

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Speaker 1: infect Susan, I have a green I said. One thing. Wait,

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Speaker 1: I guess you're together. I said one thing. I have

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Speaker 1: a great idea. We should work for the Saint Martin

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Speaker 1: Chamber of Commerce. How about we talk about that show

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Speaker 1: the other night. Okay, here we're gonna we're gonna get

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Speaker 1: into the batchlor of this week has happened like now, Ah.

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Speaker 2: So God, that first date, you're killing me. You're killing

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Speaker 2: I would have grab, I would have the Only thing

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Speaker 2: I liked about it was the money machine.

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Speaker 1: That was it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, first of all, wait before before we get into anything,

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Speaker 2: who was it wrong?

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Speaker 1: And you know, I mean I'm terrible unnames, particularly on vacation.

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Speaker 1: Who went home with I think appendicitis? No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I get it wrong. No no, oh my gosh. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So whoever had had to leave that is sad because

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Speaker 1: you know what, you work up a lot to going.

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Speaker 2: On this trip, so you know it reminds me of

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Speaker 2: gently Yeah, yeah, exactly. But let's get back to the

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Speaker 2: finance date. What did I hate? Here?

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Speaker 1: Do we have?

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Speaker 2: Italy? So here's the thing, guys, is Beverly, I'm sorry, Yes, okay, Beverly.

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Speaker 1: We hope you're feeling better. Leading we truly do. Back

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Speaker 1: to finance or finance depends where you're from. How you

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Speaker 1: say it, I don't understand. I mean I get it.

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Speaker 1: Grants in finance, I get it, grant money, grant, I

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Speaker 1: get it. But why is it like let me teach you.

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Speaker 1: I'll picture some of those women know a lot about

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Speaker 1: finn Yeah, you know, I just think there's a one.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, the money machine was my favorite part,

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Speaker 2: but then they get to buy the date or whoever won. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: now let's talk about the next day. The dog grooming.

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Speaker 2: So really, I mean, since about you and how about

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Speaker 2: you vaccination that I can tell you The next guy,

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Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be totally faced.

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Speaker 1: On how he washes the dog. That's it.

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Speaker 2: If you can wash your dog, I am your woman.

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Speaker 2: I just say why, why why?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I have no words on that one. They like dogs, no,

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Speaker 2: but seriously, why, I mean, is it like you want

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Speaker 2: here's the thing. You get your checklist of men, right, Susan. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you want to be generous, right? You want to be chivalrous, right?

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Speaker 1: Yes, you want to dress well, be a gentleman, take

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Speaker 1: good care of you. You know what numbered five is

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Speaker 1: on your list? Wash your dog and bring.

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Speaker 2: It, really and get it. I didn't get it.

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Speaker 1: Sorry to whoever called by one, but you were at

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Speaker 1: We're not a dog love of it.

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Speaker 2: Can I just talk about the girl in the hot

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Speaker 2: red dress? What is her name?

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Speaker 1: Carolina?

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Speaker 2: Her body? Oh, I was getting sick. I mean that

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Speaker 2: her waistless? I don't think when I was born I

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Speaker 2: had that waistline. She looks so freaking amazed.

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Speaker 1: So you are the old woman in life. All all

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Speaker 1: the girls and guys they're talking about futures. Can we

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Speaker 1: talk about that for a minute. Every girl with Brantis,

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Speaker 1: they're all talking about the future husband he's talking about

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Speaker 1: she'd make a great mother. Let these people know each

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Speaker 1: other at ten then.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what. That's the name of the show, Like,

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Speaker 2: that's how that's what they're thosed to be looking into

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Speaker 2: these you know, bounchwaster. They still there and then they

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Speaker 2: could figure that a lot.

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Speaker 1: No, let's change the name of the show. Dog roomy

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Speaker 1: and a ten minute marriage we're in.

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Speaker 2: Let's get to Lettilla. I think her name is. That

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Speaker 2: touched me. That was a good moment. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: so hurry about Soday. I started in common.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about Stace. Something in common.

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Speaker 2: That was heartbreak that her dad passed and her mom

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Speaker 2: struggled and raised her. And when he reached out and

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Speaker 2: called the mother, I was so, so so impressed. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that was a beautiful moment. What here's my thing. I

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Speaker 2: did see a tear. He was genuinely feeling it. I

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Speaker 2: couldn't tell if he I saw it later that he

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Speaker 2: had her hand, but I wasn't sure the whole time.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't believe that he didn't react and go and

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Speaker 2: hold her or somebody, As she told me, that is

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Speaker 2: what you and I were saying.

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Speaker 1: Some here's my thing on the on the Golden Group,

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Speaker 1: like we're touching Philly. Oh, Susan, are you feeling okay? Oh? Guy?

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Speaker 1: Are you this with Grant? I feel like he's not

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Speaker 1: physically other than the guy can suck face better than

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Speaker 1: any guy I've ever seen in my life.

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Speaker 2: But out of than map like, I don't feel like

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Speaker 2: he's feeling touching, care bloring Harry Volore. He did cry though,

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Speaker 2: so that I think maybe Kathy on the opposite end

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Speaker 2: of that what our thoughts are. Yeah, he was giving

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Speaker 2: her that moment to get it out before then he

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Speaker 2: did hand or a rose, which was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: But that was a touching moment. But do you feel

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Speaker 1: like there's a I don't know. Susan and I keep

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Speaker 1: comparing this to the Golden Bachelor Show, and I feel

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Speaker 1: like they're in such a rush to call Grant their husband.

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Speaker 1: They're in such a rush.

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Speaker 2: You should know the name of the gin, though, it's

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Speaker 2: a leg not a competition, but it is a competition.

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Speaker 2: That's where they want to get you. Do you feel

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Speaker 2: that they're making the connection? That's I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: there yet. I don't either, That's my point. But they're

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Speaker 2: all talking about future husband. And when you talked about

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Speaker 2: Zoe En Rose and that stake rama, drama, drama? Why

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Speaker 2: would Rose share that and that said I'm sorry that

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Speaker 2: he was thinking about her while dancing with somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Who would do that?

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Speaker 1: You know what, I don't care if you're twenty thirty,

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Speaker 1: forty fifty.

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Speaker 2: You need to smack upside your head because that is ugly.

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Speaker 2: That is not nice.

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Speaker 1: Can I just tell you if I'd been in the house,

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Speaker 1: I would have missed that.

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Speaker 2: You know why.

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Speaker 1: I would have been really busy lining up the dog

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Speaker 1: to the million. They're out of nowhere. Here comes are

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Speaker 1: Golden Guy. What a sopranat Gary and keep the joy?

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Speaker 1: They're great. I wonder how they picked who who was coming?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, But can I just say it's smart?

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Speaker 1: First of all, who could ever get enough of looking

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Speaker 1: at Jonathan's botty?

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Speaker 2: Let it be honored.

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Speaker 1: Jack can cook for anybody. Yeah, Keith is a mile

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Speaker 1: of fun and missing Gary's heart felt.

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Speaker 2: Gary has got six card and the hugs like no other.

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Speaker 2: They were great, they were ready, they did a good job.

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Speaker 2: They did a good job, and I think they had

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Speaker 2: so funny you know what. I love Susan Again, we

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Speaker 2: look at these shows a little bit differently because we've

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Speaker 2: been on it. I love that you can see that

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Speaker 2: older bachelors and older bachelor apps can make connections with

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Speaker 2: them and it's almost like us.

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Speaker 1: But I loved at that. I love Bachelor Nation figuring

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Speaker 1: that out.

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Speaker 2: Since that's okay, how do you feel Kathy Grant seems

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Speaker 2: to be developing feelings for everyone that he goes up.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was saying, is that everything and that

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Speaker 2: bothers me a little bit, which I think gives hope

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Speaker 2: to these women of girls again that's the name of

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Speaker 2: the game. Yes, but you're getting hopeful and make up.

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Speaker 2: Is he developing all these That's what it just said

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Speaker 2: to you said, that's he's calling all that. I could

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Speaker 2: see a future with her, I see, I could see

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Speaker 2: her being the mother of my children. He sang it

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Speaker 2: to so many that as a viewer, I begin to

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Speaker 2: question his veracity. I begin to question is he really falling?

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Speaker 2: And I hope he does. And I told you Juliana

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Speaker 2: from Newton, she's got to be in the final group.

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Speaker 2: But I did not agree with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm concerned that he's feeling or says he's feeling

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Speaker 1: too much for too many way, do you feel like

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Speaker 1: there was any connection.

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Speaker 2: I don't think there was ever a big connection with Ellie,

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Speaker 2: Joe who lost barely, who left. I thought there was

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Speaker 2: a little connection with way Lowly and Chloe. So I

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Speaker 3: So I really want to start us off with this.

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Speaker 3: You have yourself, love your self, name, Happy Valentine's Day, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: What would you eat? Susan?

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Speaker 1: What are they mean?

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Speaker 2: I love them pure sugar? But you know what how

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Speaker 3: One more quick question, if you were dating someone, be honest,

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Speaker 2: On Valentine's Day? What I always told anyone who was

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Speaker 1: What do you want is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Do you want the traditional chocolate and flowers?

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Speaker 1: People, she's lying a night out? Or you would rather

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Speaker 2: A single rose in a night out?

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Speaker 1: Nice?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well.

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Speaker 2: Will you take me out tonight? Kathy?

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Speaker 1: I'll take you out. I'm not giving you a rose.

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Speaker 1: That's weird.

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Speaker 1: But I'll drink a glass of wine with you.

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, perfect, all of the episode, and

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Speaker 1: To me, this is so easy.

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Speaker 2: Ill come, I need romance.

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Speaker 3: Tomorrow's Valentine's Day. Today's Valentine. You know, whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: You what it would mean to me? It's communicating againstism.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have to yeah, inscribe it our foreheads. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Give them the direction. Men oftentimes need direction.

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Speaker 2: What do you think They're not the romantic type. They

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Speaker 2: Right, you have to and if it's that big of

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Speaker 2: Or perhaps like for in my case, when I was

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Speaker 1: So you bought yourself flowers and chocolate.

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Speaker 2: I bought men well box of chocolates and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: But see the difference between you and me. In this case,

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Speaker 3: I would say, you know, mister Wright, I would have

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Speaker 2: Sometimes men are so good to them every other way.

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Speaker 2: They're just not that romantic. But your life is per fifth,

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Speaker 3: Was just gonna say, if you do not admit that

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Speaker 2: Definitely would have a difficult time.

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Speaker 1: I mean we all like to be romance courted.

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Speaker 3: I mean what else. All right, We're gonna move into

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Speaker 3: is from Ashley. She says, Hi, Kathy and Susan, I

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Speaker 3: I'm literally already thinking about Valentine's Day and I'm stressed out.

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Speaker 3: Do I get him something? What do I get a

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Speaker 3: Is that weird?

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Speaker 1: Should he?

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Speaker 3: I haven't had a serious boyfriend ever during Valentine's Day

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Speaker 3: don't know how to navigate this. Please help me get

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Speaker 1: Do what feels right? You want to get them a gift?

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Speaker 3: Get them a gift if you want a gift, Like

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Speaker 3: about and say, hey, Valentine's Day is coming. How do

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Speaker 2: What would you? That's a good one too. I used

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Speaker 2: to run the Walmart and buy boxers with big Valentine's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did too, I did too. Yeah, that's funny.

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Speaker 3: I think I bought my husband boxer shorts too.

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Speaker 2: But they were two months dating, okay, and that weeks

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Speaker 3: And if he doesn't, wait, Susan, wait, let me do

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Speaker 3: the math for you here. They met two months ago

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Speaker 3: official that they're barely skinned to know each other.

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00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: Do not buy him a promise ring.

441
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:09,959
Speaker 2: Oh god, no, no.

442
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 1: But be cute about it.

443
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 3: Be cute about it, do some fun and cute, keep

444
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 3: it light and entertaining. And if you if you want something,

445
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 3: you know, do not ask for a trip to Tahiti.

446
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 2: But you know, say, don't overthink it, sweetie, don't you.

447
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: Don't overthink it? Out to get out of your hand.

448
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 2: If you feel like you'd be embarrassed if you didn't

449
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: have anything for him and he had something for you,

450
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 2: buy something that you could use to do that you

451
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 2: didn't have to give it. Oh no, that way a second,

452
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 2: but I would definitely get them. Wait a second, that

453
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 2: brings up a whole different things, Susan. Are you saying

454
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: if you bought a little gift, you're just a little

455
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 2: gifty for.

456
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 3: Your boyfriend of six minutes three weeks? Are you telling

457
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:52,239
Speaker 3: your exclusive boyfriend for three weeks? Are you saying that

458
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 3: if he didn't give you the gift, you wouldn't give

459
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 3: him yours because you bought something that was unison.

460
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 2: Maybe it was candy, But I probably would because I

461
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 2: want to prove a point. But I would because I

462
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 2: like to give somebody something on that day. See that's me,

463
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 2: And that would make them feel bad though you would,

464
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

465
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 3: So I mean whether it did or didn't, to me,

466
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 3: it's an expression of love or care or just the

467
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 3: joy of giving someone.

468
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 2: Showing somebody you were thinking of them. That's what all

469
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: it is. It doesn't matter the dollar amount, it really doesn't.

470
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 3: Well it does for me, Susan, and I'm waiting for

471
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 3: a really nice gift. So cough it up.

472
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 2: Oh gush, thanks for asking me, good luck to get

473
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: out of there.

474
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 3: Wait, actually write us back. We want to know if

475
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 3: you got a gift, what you got him. Ride us back.

476
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 3: We'll need the update.

477
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 2: But get out of your own head. It's all good

478
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 2: and this is the beginning. So it's only three weeks.

479
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 2: This is going to show you what it's going to

480
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 2: be like every Valentine. I'm hoping he surprises.

481
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 3: You, Susan. It's like the wedding, you know, the first anniversary.

482
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 3: I think it is paper. If my daughter's first anniversary game,

483
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 3: she goes paper, Hell would that?

484
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: I don't want anything on paper, Harper.

485
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: I said. I said, no, it could be really good.

486
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: It could be plane tickets to Europe for six months.

487
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like, she thinks big, Kathy, you think big?

488
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:08,199
Speaker 1: All right.

489
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 2: Next question is from anonymous. Anonymous asks, Hi, Golden Hour,

490
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,959
Speaker 2: I need some Valentine's Day help. This is going to

491
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: be my twelfth Valentine's Day with my fiance, and my

492
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 2: brain is out of ideas. We've been dating since college

493
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 2: and have always had a great date ideas for V Day,

494
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 2: But now I am tapped out of ideas. I really

495
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 2: don't want to start giving up on making moments like

496
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 2: these special, but I feel like I've run out of

497
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: things to do. What do you suggest? And what am

498
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 2: I going to do next year? And on and on

499
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 2: and on? Please help? I love you guys so much.

500
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 1: I can tell you. An ultimatum does me dressing?

501
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: What about him? Gef coming up with ideas?

502
00:24:58,800 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: Doesn't? I don't know.

503
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 3: Here's the thing when this is why I'm old fashioned.

504
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 3: When I read fiance, a lot of people just get

505
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 3: engaged with no intentions of getting married.

506
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: But I'm reading this twelve years a fiance.

507
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 3: How about surprising with a match set of wedding How

508
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 3: about how guys with a date circled, a wedding dress

509
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 3: and an ultimatum you want a thirteenth Valentine's dam you're

510
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 3: gonna marry?

511
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I do have an idea. Actually, what I

512
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 2: do have an idea? When you run out of ideas,

513
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,959
Speaker 2: so you go away for a few days, and every

514
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: year you go somewhere. It can be somewhere different. It

515
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 2: doesn't have to be an airline ticket. I don't know

516
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: where you live, but you can go to a wine

517
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 2: thing for the weekend, or if it's during the week,

518
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 2: take two days.

519
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: Or it doesn't it have to be overnight. I love

520
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: your idea.

521
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 3: It could just be take a picnic somewhere, or you know,

522
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: do a fun activity, go bowling, do something you've never done.

523
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: I would not want to go bowling on my romantic

524
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 2: V day.

525
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: But what again, you and me? If I'm spending it

526
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: with the person I love.

527
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: It does don't care where I am or what I'm doing. Well, Anonymous,

528
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: I hope that helps, but I would plan a little getaway.

529
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 2: That's what I would get.

530
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: I think that's a great idea. Or or you know,

531
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: put ideas in a bowl and let him pick one out.

532
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 2: That's a fun thing.

533
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: I like, you know, let him pick something out, cook

534
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 1: a meal together.

535
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 2: He gets the throw in a few and that'll buy

536
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: you the next five years.

537
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be something big.

538
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 3: I think that we all sometimes fall into that trap

539
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 3: and every year has to be bigger and better.

540
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 1: Anonymous. It doesn't just do something, but you just write

541
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: him a note and tell him how much you love

542
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: him and how much you're looking forward to your wedding day.

543
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: Did he That was a joke?

544
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 2: Obviously, it's a fiance. Yeah, plan a day that on

545
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: Valentine's Wait.

546
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: Find a lot of people who have who are fianced,

547
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 1: as they say in Gay Parrie, but they have no

548
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: intentions of getting married.

549
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: I could do that. I would be a fiance forever. Well,

550
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: I'll see if I can dig up a fiance for you.

551
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 2: Here I am on this beautiful island and no one

552
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 2: asked yet.

553
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, we're gonna go looking all right. Question

554
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 3: three is another anonymous question. Hi ladies, I've gotten myself

555
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: into a bit of a situation and I really need

556
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 3: your help. I got divorced from my husband, who is

557
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 3: also the father of my ten year old daughter, about

558
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 3: six years ago, and it wasn't a pretty split. He's

559
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 3: a great father, but he was honestly a shitty husband

560
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 3: and an even shittier ex. Wow, that clearly is something

561
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 3: that gets under my skin. So it's made me pretty

562
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 3: cynical when it comes to romance. So the other day

563
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 3: I was at the store with my daughter and I

564
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 3: asked what candy she wanted me to buy for the

565
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day tree we're making for her class. She scoffed

566
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 3: and said, this love crap is a lie. I've literally

567
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 3: said that on the phone to my girlfriends. When we

568
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 3: got home and talked about it, I realized she's absolutely

569
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 3: starting to absorb the pessimism I unknowingly spew about love.

570
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: How do I fix this?

571
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: I want to talk to her about the wonders of

572
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 3: love and finding your person, but I'm still so hurt

573
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 3: that I don't know where to start. Thanks, ladies, Wait,

574
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 3: can I just say before you're going to take the

575
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 3: first wrap on this? But this is what we were

576
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: just talking about on another podcast. Children listen to our behavior.

577
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: They in this case, she listened to what she said.

578
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,719
Speaker 3: But I'll bet you Anonymous is so negative about her

579
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 3: ex husband and her daughter's and so maybe, but the daughter's.

580
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: Absorbing the behavior.

581
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 3: So Anonymous, when you say that you want her to

582
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 3: believe in the wonders of love, you haven't taught her

583
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 3: that much.

584
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: But what do you say?

585
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 2: Says it's a shame because what's done is done. But

586
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 2: when you sit down with your daughter, tell her about

587
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: the happy times when you married her father, and it

588
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: was good, it was great. People do change, Things do happen.

589
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,959
Speaker 2: There's no guarantees. But don't give up on love because

590
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: it is a special, beautiful, beautiful thing. I love that.

591
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah.

592
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 3: And I think also she can explain to her daughter

593
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 3: that just because her marriage didn't work out and it's

594
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 3: been bad for her, she can apologize. I would encourage you,

595
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 3: in honors to apologize and say, you know, I did

596
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 3: the wrong thing. I did the wrong thing. Just because

597
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 3: your dad and I don't love each other anymore doesn't

598
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 3: mean that either one of us can't find love again.

599
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 3: And I think that's a point she needs to make

600
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 3: to her.

601
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 2: And maybe share with her that you're open to find

602
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: love again.

603
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know what, an honust be the bigger person.

604
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: Yeah's a shitty ex and a shitty husband, be the

605
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 3: bigger person, because your daughter, as she grows older, she's

606
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 3: going to see him for what he was. It's not

607
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 3: about turning her against men or her father.

608
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: Just let and do yourself a favor. Stop with the

609
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 2: being so cynical about romance. Open yourself up again. No,

610
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 2: you had a bed ride, Okay, it's over. Put it

611
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 2: behind you.

612
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: And well that's easier said than done, Susan, And she said,

613
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: she's still so hurt.

614
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: It's six years ago. Say so, let it go. Why

615
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 2: hold on to that negativity. He might be a shitty ex.

616
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: You know what, I don't. She said she's hurt, she's sad.

617
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: We don't know the circumstances around right, No, the anonymous says,

618
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm still so hurt. So we don't know the circumstances

619
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: around it. We don't know what happened. And maybe she's

620
00:30:55,600 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: just really hurt by what he did or what transper

621
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 2: in their relationship. So I think there's no We've said

622
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 2: it before, there's no time limit on grief. I think

623
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: there should be a time limit on anger. I agree

624
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 2: with you on that, But I don't think there's a

625
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: time limit on grief for a lost relationship.

626
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: I don't.

627
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know there isn't. There isn't. But do your

628
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,719
Speaker 2: daughter a favor and share with her the good parts,

629
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: because there are good parts. And I hope for her, Kathy,

630
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: that she can let it go and open herself up

631
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 2: to trust me.

632
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 3: I guess you know, like us, Susan, I hope she

633
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 3: finds love again. I hope her daughter learns how to

634
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: love and can change her opinion. But let us know, anonymus,

635
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 3: Please let us know what happens, and hopefully, hopefully you

636
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 3: can turn this around. All right, you're ready to play

637
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 3: another game, Susan, Here we go.

638
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: It's called in or out.

639
00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 3: Of course, it's V Day or galde a, you know,

640
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 3: G Day addition. So what we're gonna do is we're

641
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 3: gonna be playing it's called in and out.

642
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: In or out.

643
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 3: We'll switch off reading the prompts about dating, relationships and more.

644
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 3: We're going to give our thoughts on it. If it's

645
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: in or out, Susan, go ahead and start us off.

646
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: Okay, expensive preset dinners that are Valentine's Day themed out

647
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: out out. I do not like a preset dinner. I

648
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 2: want to go order what I want to order. I

649
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 2: would definitely move to the next restaurant.

650
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: Well, and when it says Valentine's Day theme, you know

651
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: what came into my head.

652
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 3: Shaped shaped into our heart or you know, potatoes with

653
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 3: red food dyeing it. Getting your partner household appliances as

654
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 3: a present, and like a blender or a vacuum if

655
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 3: they're going to qualify that. If my husband is going

656
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: to use the blender to make me a drink or

657
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 3: he's going to vacuum the rugs for me, that's what

658
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 3: and he wants it, man, that's what he's getting for

659
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 3: Valentie's Day.

660
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: Other than that, it's out.

661
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say out. But unless, of course, you've

662
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 2: had a conversation and there's a gift involved, and he

663
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 2: says that's what you really want, then you tell him

664
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 2: what you really want. If that's the case.

665
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, all right, okayfe coffee dates with my

666
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: partner or does or say that just you? How do

667
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: you feel about.

668
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: It a coffee date? I think for a first meat

669
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 2: or something I say in me too.

670
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: For a first date. Actually, I got to be honest.

671
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: When my husband was live, it's.

672
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: At first meet, it's a first meet.

673
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 3: But can I just say when my husband's live, he

674
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 3: didn't drink coffee, but I do. But every once in

675
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 3: a while he would call me up and he would say, hey,

676
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 3: what are you doing. You know, I'm buying you a

677
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 3: vacuum cleaner so you can clean the house next week.

678
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 3: And he would say, why don't we meet?

679
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: Literally you want to go meet and have coffee or

680
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: do you want to meet for an early lunch? He said,

681
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 1: My good god, he was a good guy.

682
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying I loved those times like it

683
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 3: was it wasn't expensive. It was just you know, we

684
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 3: met at a solid place, had lunch, and eleven thirty.

685
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: I love just.

686
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 2: About meeting and being together a few minutes.

687
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, during the day, not after work when we're

688
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:35,240
Speaker 3: you know, we were both so tired. Anyway, Okay, dating apps.

689
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 2: Well, it's a personal thing right now out, but I'd

690
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 2: say in because it's it works for some people.

691
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. I wholeheartedly concur.

692
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 2: Okay candy as a Valentine's Day present.

693
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:53,240
Speaker 1: Out for me. For me, I don't want to age.

694
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 2: No, I don't want candy.

695
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 3: I'm going to go to the winery since the girl

696
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 3: who eats conversation hearts a night.

697
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: But I don't chocolate.

698
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: Candy that I want. Okay, talking stages Okay, if I

699
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 2: were to say talking stages, I would assume that means

700
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 2: you haven't met yet and you're just talking. I think

701
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: that's necessary. Yeah, I don't want to do it too

702
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 2: many times before we meet.

703
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I I agree. I like talking stages because

704
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 3: I'm I for one. If you know, when I've been

705
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 3: on dating apps and somebody reaches out to me and says, hey,

706
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 3: let's meet right away, that kind of gives me the

707
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 3: I I don't want to.

708
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 2: I would give you the ick because I say that

709
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to talk forever. I want to just.

710
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: No, I'm saying. It gives me the ick. If they

711
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 1: say they want to meet right away.

712
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I do. I want to know, That's

713
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: what I mean.

714
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to. I see that I want to

715
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 3: talk a couple of times. I want to have those

716
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 3: talking stages.

717
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 2: And I know if I want to have to ask

718
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 2: all the questions and get to know them, and I

719
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,240
Speaker 2: get and I feel say, Okay, texting.

720
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: All day every day innerrounces and.

721
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 2: I like attension, Guys. I don't think there's anything wrong

722
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: with it. Not all day every day, but a couple

723
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: of times. Yeah, I like it.

724
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 3: Well, since it says all day every day, I'm going

725
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,439
Speaker 3: to say out, okay, because you know what I think

726
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 3: that I question whether that's about what's she doing? You know,

727
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 3: where is she? If I text her and she doesn't

728
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 3: answer what shes doing? I don't like that, you know.

729
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 3: I don't like that.

730
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: Well, I like text thinking of you or you know,

731
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: how's your day? Things like that. That's where my mind goes. Okay,

732
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 2: but that's okay, Okay, singles event event, I guess in

733
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 2: I don't really go.

734
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 3: To Wait, I want you to know. You just said

735
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 3: with the most like you were smelling vomit. You made

736
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 3: a face like like events.

737
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, that's how you go meet people.

738
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: I guess. I don't think there's anything wrong with them.

739
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with them, but I don't like them.

740
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: I feel they very.

741
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 2: Feel like you're going to get hooked up.

742
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: Or I just feel like it's contrived, it's a meat market.

743
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 1: I don't like them.

744
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So a singles event, like, for instance, Kathy, if

745
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 2: we hosted a singles event, who.

746
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 3: Are you invitingism, Well, I would have very upper crust

747
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 3: people that are very interested in meeting people.

748
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 2: It would be very high end, well back around.

749
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 3: Can I just say, I'm laughing because if you knew

750
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 3: those quote unquote uppercrust people, you'd have already been on

751
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 3: a date with every one of them.

752
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 2: Well, I'm hosting this trying to get people together.

753
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 1: I know, But how you going to find the guys?

754
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: I don't know.

755
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 2: I don't have to pay. I mean they're going to pay, jeez, yeah,

756
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: they have to pay to get there.

757
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 3: I think if I think if I if I were

758
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 3: doing it, I would want it to be You're gonna laugh.

759
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 3: I don't know why bowling's on my mind today, but

760
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 3: I was one and I used to bowl.

761
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: What do I know.

762
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I would want it to be something

763
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 3: where people weren't standing around going oh did you see him?

764
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 2: He just looked at me. Oh, Susan, have you ever

765
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: been on one of those? Not it's just lunch, like

766
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 2: a speed dating thing. You sit with one person and

767
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 2: you go around the I've never done it, but it

768
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 2: sounds interesting.

769
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: I have never done speed dating. No either, but I

770
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: kind of feel like, uh, I kind of feel like

771
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: if you're that really and having been on the Golden batchelor,

772
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 1: doing what you just said feels like a competition, like okay, ready,

773
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: set go okay.

774
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: And the idea behind it is to write your write

775
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 2: and down scores or whatever. When you talk to a

776
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 2: few each person and at the end you tally up

777
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 2: who it is that you'd like to have an in

778
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 2: depth conversation with.

779
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: I can only have won.

780
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I've never done it, but yeah.

781
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: Maybe, Susan, maybe listen. I got a great idea.

782
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 3: First, we're going to set up a primer for guys

783
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 3: going on dating sites what to do and what not

784
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 3: to do, and then we're going to put out an

785
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 3: advertisement or advertisement if you're from across the pond, and

786
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 3: we're going to say who wants to come to our

787
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 3: singles event that we're hosting. There will be lots of champagne.

788
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,720
Speaker 3: Susan's going to cook everyone dinner.

789
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: Not cooking, I know, I just.

790
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: Know what happen.

791
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: How about working out on the first date? Hell no, well,

792
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 2: just it depends how you do. I mean, if it's

793
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 2: in a gym, I think younger people might do that.

794
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 2: I work out in the gym first, you know what,

795
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 2: I would want to meet them before my first date.

796
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 2: We're going to the gym.

797
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 3: Well, I think younger people that might be appropriate. I

798
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 3: think I work out at the gym all the time.

799
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 3: But I don't want to meet a guy for the

800
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 3: first time he's never seen, you know what I mean,

801
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 3: in sweat clothes, with my hair pulled back and no

802
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: makeup on. I'm a little more vain than that. All right,

803
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 3: double dates in the beginning of the relationship.

804
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that.

805
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 2: I'm okay with that too. It's kind of comfortable.

806
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm in with that. I have no prop with that.

807
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 3: But Susan, what happens? What happens. I'm fantasizing what happens

808
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 3: if you I'm serious, I'm waiting, like.

809
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: I just want you to hear this. You and I

810
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: go on a double date. I'm with you know, some

811
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: great guy from Jones season. You're from some great guy

812
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: from Jones season. I told you, I'm fantasizing. And then

813
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: they both want to date me or they both want

814
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: to date you. That's my nightmare. I mean, how uncomfortable

815
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: would that be?

816
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 2: Well, how would you know?

817
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 1: How would you know?

818
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 3: Leans over me, He leans over me and says, Kathy,

819
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 3: I know I'm here with Susan, but could I get

820
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 3: your phone number? That would be uncomfortable, and that that

821
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 3: would be uncomfortable until I scribbled my number in capital

822
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 3: numbers with my name and address. And how about p

823
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 3: d A Yeah, I was just gonna say, I'm off

824
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 3: on a tangent here, p DR.

825
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 1: I'm in.

826
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm into. There's nothing wrong with it to a point,

827
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 2: like you know, it's the point where you're grossed out,

828
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 2: get a room, but there's anything wrong with it?

829
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: I agree, asking cute guys for their numbers, and it

830
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: absolutely I will never do I.

831
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 2: Think I could do it.

832
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: No, I don't.

833
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 2: I will know that there's anything wrong with it, but

834
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 2: I just don't think I could tell it.

835
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 1: Ghosting. Gee, that just happened to me, Susan, what ghosting?

836
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 2: Ghosting?

837
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely just you're apical use capital T.

838
00:41:55,120 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 3: Ghosting is never Okay, I'm going to tell everybody since

839
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 3: I brought it up, I'm going to tell everybody a

840
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 3: little bit about what happened.

841
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: I met this this guy reached out to me on Facebook.

842
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 2: Dating a very very very.

843
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 3: Very wealthy guy, probably the wealthiest guy I've ever met.

844
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 3: But you know what, money doesn't talk to me. I'm

845
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 3: not wealthy, but I got enough money to pay my

846
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 3: bills and you know, travel occasionally. I'm good. But this

847
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 3: guy had been married and had gotten burned, and then

848
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 3: he had had a girlfriend and he'd gotten burned both financially,

849
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 3: and so he was but he was. He said, you're beautiful,

850
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 3: you're smart, you know. He said all the right things,

851
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 3: said all the right things, took me out for dinner

852
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 3: the whole nine yards. Talked on the phone a lot,

853
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: and I alluded to this before I was telling my daughter,

854
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 3: and she goes, mom, WHOA, he needs to slow down.

855
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 3: I said, I know, it's a little uncomfortable for me,

856
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 3: and so I kind of told him.

857
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: That it was a little uncomfortable. And then there were

858
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: a couple of the things that I won't go into

859
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:04,360
Speaker 1: that he said that I thought you and I guess,

860
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: I guess I wasn't as subtle as I thought. I

861
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: was about Oh, thanks a lot, Susan, and he ghosted me.

862
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: And and here's the commendrum.

863
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: In fact, I would like some people to write in

864
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 3: I actually I've already asked Susan's advice. Do I I've

865
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 3: never been ghosted before. And this guy, what does he

866
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 3: loved bomb me? I mean he loved bomb me.

867
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: So I'm actually, because I'm a smart girl here, I

868
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: don't care. I actually was already trying to figure out

869
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: how to extricate myself. I was going to extricate myself anyway.

870
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: It was just I just thought it was going to

871
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: be too much with him, but to ed ghost but

872
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: never but he ghosted me. So here's the question, bator Nation,

873
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: what do you think I'm serious? I will I want

874
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 1: to hear your opinion. Should I reach out him and

875
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: say what WTF? Like why did you ghost me? Just

876
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: tell me? Never Susan said, not to do it.

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Speaker 3: I just I'm just done because we had so many

878
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 3: deep conversations about so many he.

879
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: Told me, I say something, but I wouldn't ask.

880
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 3: He told me things that he said he had never

881
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,439
Speaker 3: told anyone in his life, and of course I won't

882
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 3: repeat them here. But we had these deep conversations, and

883
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 3: in some ways it was great. In some ways it

884
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 3: was too much, too fast. But so let me know, guys,

885
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 3: should I reach out and say why did you gust me?

886
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 2: Or or perhaps and all of our listeners should she

887
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 2: say not classy like that's.

888
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 3: That's what Susan suggested. Susan said, I should text him

889
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: and say never so much.

890
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 2: Never ask why. You're not going to get a real answer. Obviously,

891
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 2: he has no class to do something like that. You know,

892
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 2: it's a simple text. You don't even have to look

893
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,919
Speaker 2: people in the eye anymore and just say I'm sorry,

894
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 2: I'm just not feeling it. Good luck to you. That's

895
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 2: so simple.

896
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 3: Well, as you said, it sounds simple, but it's high.

897
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: You know what.

898
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 3: I didn't want to and I wanted to give him

899
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 3: a chance, because you know, as we get older, As

900
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 3: we get older, sometimes we make snap judgments and go,

901
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 3: he's out. And that's why you and I have talked, Susan.

902
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 3: We're trying to give people more of a chance. So

903
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 3: that's what I was trying to do.

904
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Speaker 2: And we to expect them to give us a chance.

905
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what, in my heart of hearts,

906
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 3: Cathy's old intuition knew it wasn't him.

907
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 2: Okay, how about no sex until a certain date? You

908
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 2: put a date on it.

909
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: Well, I think it means.

910
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,399
Speaker 3: I think they mean a certain amount of time has

911
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 3: elapsed when you've been seeing someone. I would say, that's

912
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 3: how I think. It depends on the relationship the person,

913
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 3: how you're feeling all that.

914
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: How about letting the guy fly you out?

915
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: Absolutely, yes, in I wanted you to do it in Unison.

916
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 2: But wait, wait, let me ask you if you've never

917
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 2: met him before, Now that would be a little different.

918
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 2: I'd still let him pay for the flight.

919
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: But have you talked to him on the phone.

920
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: Well yeah, if he's going to fly you out, obviously,

921
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 2: but you're going to go stay with him.

922
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Speaker 1: Or oh well that's what Susan.

923
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Speaker 3: That was my next endaring question to you, would you

924
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 3: if a guy flies you out? Which I would let

925
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 3: a guy do that? You know what else, he'd be

926
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 3: paying for my hotel room. I will not stay with

927
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 3: a guy.

928
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 2: Because you haven't met him. He could be a serial.

929
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 3: I don't care if I met him. If i'm I mean,

930
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 3: let's keep it PG here. If if I go to

931
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 3: meet a guy and I'm standing in his home, I

932
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 3: know I'm probably gonna get flack, but I think the

933
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 3: expectation would be that I was going to sleep with.

934
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Speaker 1: Him out here.

935
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,959
Speaker 3: I know, Well, I'm not sleeping with a guy until

936
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 3: I'm comfortable sleeping with him.

937
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 2: Well, everybody listening, please help us with Kathy's answer. I

938
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,479
Speaker 2: really want to know what you think, because this does

939
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 2: it for this episode of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: I'm interrupted. Would you let a guy fly you out

941
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: and would you stay with him?

942
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 2: No?

943
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: You would let him fly us?

944
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd let him fly me out, but he'd have

945
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 2: to get me a hotel room.

946
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: Oh good, So I love you.

947
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 2: I love if I've seen him before, Yeah, he can

948
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 2: fly me out and I'll stay with him.

949
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: Just with checking that we were on the same page.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now, I'll try that again because we really want

951
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 2: to know what you think about Kathy's situation. So please

952
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 2: write us and let us know and check us out

953
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:38,399
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954
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 2: for tuning in.

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