1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 2: Part one behind a scene with a member of the show. 3 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Best Bits this weekend. Things are a 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: little different this weekend, Amy joins me. 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 3: But we are doing this all via zoom because Amy 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 3: has had herself a time the last forty eight hours. 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 2: We were supposed to record it at the station today. 8 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: But do you say station or studio? 9 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: I say studio sometimes I say station. 10 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: I know I feel like I say more studio in 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 2: the last year or so, but I always said station 12 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: early on because it felt more like a radio station. 13 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 2: But now we record so many other things that aren't. 14 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: Just like there's radio stuff and then there's I guess 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: and stuff and all the things. Anyway, just side note there. 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: I had to leave work early to get into the chiropractor, 17 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 2: so yeah, and the knees would have been knees up challenge. 18 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: I injured myself, but I think we're on the road 19 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: to recovery now. So I'm sorry Morgan that I deraled 20 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: our board, but here we are. 21 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: No. 22 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 3: It worked out, and I do hope you were on 23 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 3: the paths to recovery because back issues suck, and you 24 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 3: did get into a chiropractor so you are at least 25 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 3: halfway healing. 26 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: Now. 27 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like, look you that that challenge or whatever. 28 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 2: Like I was on the verge of needing to come 29 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 2: see him anyways, and the challenge is catapulted. Like it 30 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 2: sent me straight there because I probably would have put 31 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: off my hamstring pain forever. I had no idea that 32 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: my hamstring pain. Obviously, I knew that could come from 33 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 2: somewhere else in my body, but I had no idea 34 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 2: that a chiropractor could help that part. 35 00:01:56,280 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: But also, is he also a physical therapist? Does he help? 36 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 3: No? 37 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: I don't think so. But the way he explained it 38 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: to me with what my back issues tend to be, 39 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: is the way it was pulling and the way my 40 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: back was so twisted it was causing this overcompensation that 41 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 2: then my hamstring was just really screaming at me all 42 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 2: the time. And for months I've been dealing with hamstring pain. 43 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: I don't know if you notice. Sometimes at work, I 44 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: have this little ball that I get out of my bag. 45 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 2: It was my face fitness ball. 46 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 1: Okay, that's what I thought it was. 47 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm going to start using this on 48 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: my leg and I would massage it into my quad 49 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 2: and I would just put it under my leg and 50 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 2: my chair and massage my hamstring with it. And it 51 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 2: turns out if I had gone to just see him 52 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: three months ago. But I kept thinking I could just 53 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 2: stretch it out or it would figure itself out. And 54 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 2: it really wasn't that painful to where it was making 55 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 2: me go actually do something. But anyway, the knee up challenge, 56 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 2: that was something that led to something so excruciating that 57 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 2: I finally went to the doctor and I'm like, oh, gosh, okay, 58 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 2: here we are, so we're better. 59 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: So let us joys of getting older. 60 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 2: Uh No, because when I sneezed in my early twenties. 61 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 2: I brought this up on the show this week. I 62 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 2: sneezed and bent over when I you know, at chew, 63 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: and I could not get back up, like when I 64 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: tell you I could not stand back up. I was 65 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 2: bit over and you could see in the mirror my 66 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: spine was twisted like my mom My mom, no joke 67 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 2: had to come pick me up and help me to 68 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: her car, and she laid me down in her back 69 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: seat and she took me immediately to the chiropractor. And 70 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 2: so I don't think so I don't know what age 71 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: my back started to get bad. But obviously in my 72 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: early twenties I had issues. And you know, I will 73 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: say I was sort of proud of myself for my 74 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: back being good the last couple of years, but who 75 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 2: knew that my hamstring was actually my back? It just 76 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: said sort of was screaming in a different place. So 77 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: it wasn't a red flag of me. I'd never had 78 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: that issue happen before. But he was like, no, no, 79 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: I think with what's going on with you, if I 80 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 2: get your back and hips in alignment, your hamstring's gonna 81 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 2: feel great. And I was like, oh, so, anyways, all 82 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 2: this to just say, if you've got a little something 83 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 2: that's super irritating for several months but it's not driving 84 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: you to just go fix it, just go do it, 85 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 2: because then you're going to end up in a lot 86 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 2: of pain, and you're gonna have to leave work early, 87 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: and it's going to derail everybody's schedule. 88 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 3: And more than anything, you're going to be sitting on 89 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 3: the floor like any you have to sit straight up. 90 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: That's really more what matters. 91 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am sort of being straight up on the 92 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 2: floor and then I've got to go over to the 93 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 2: wall in a minute and do my homework, which are 94 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: these butt exercises. Apparently my glut muscles have completely turned off. 95 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 3: Okay, so I did learn this because when I broke 96 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: my tailbone going rollerblading, I. 97 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: Started, like you, I know, stupid. 98 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 3: I started using like my hips more to do a 99 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 3: lot of things. My back was in like my tailbone, 100 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 3: like I was doing a lot of compensating, and so 101 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 3: basically I ended up injuring one of my hip flectures 102 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: and then it went down to my knee and it 103 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 3: was all connected. And yes, do your at home exercises, 104 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 3: because sometimes I didn't and it failed to help me heal, 105 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 3: and so it took me like a year when it 106 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 3: should have taken me like six months. 107 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: So people are getting a lot of reminders right now 108 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 2: of not to do so they can just be on 109 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 2: top of it, unlike us. So yeah, or or not 110 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: to hear that I need to do the homework. And 111 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 2: of course I'm motivated tonight because I'm still in a 112 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 2: little bit of pain, but he said I need to 113 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: keep up with it. So I can imagine in a 114 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 2: couple of weeks, if I'm feeling a little better, I'm 115 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: gonna be like, eh, I don't need to do these 116 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 2: stand on the wall kicking my glute out thingies. 117 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 3: Or just you know, maybe don't go rollerblading without any 118 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: pads on, or don't do a random fitness death at 119 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 3: your work because you do. 120 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 2: That's also well, but more man, I don't think they 121 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: make a tailbump pad. 122 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 3: No, but you know, I probably would have like landed 123 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: on my knees or my elbows had I had any 124 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: version of pads on. I had nothing, So yeah, sure, 125 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 3: you know, just better things. Anyways, you are about to 126 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 3: have like a fun vacation though, which is a fun deal. 127 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: Are you excited? 128 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really excited. There's another reason why I was 129 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 2: motivated to get help because I've been looking forward to 130 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: this vacation so much that I thought, if I feel 131 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: this type of pain like that's almost gonna lead me 132 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 2: to tears doing certain simple day to day tasks, then 133 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 2: this trip is going to be miserable. 134 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 1: And flying on a plane. 135 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, the sitting so much doesn't bother me. It's more 136 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: when I stand up and have to like walk, and 137 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, if my kids want to go do 138 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 2: some activities and we're supposed to go you know, snorkel 139 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 2: and all this stuff. I mean, I guess swimming might 140 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 2: be kind of good, but I was just thinking walks 141 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 2: on the beach, sunset, sunrise, like, and I'm just gonna 142 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 2: be like hunched over, like limping along. 143 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: Wait for me, guys, just put her in a wheelchair 144 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: and just bring her along. 145 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that would be me deplaning, like sitting on 146 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 2: the plane. Fine, when we have to get up after 147 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: a four hour flight, I'm going to stand up and 148 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 2: be like, I need assistance. 149 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: I think you should just do it for the bit, 150 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,559 Speaker 1: just be like, hi, guys, I got I go winter 151 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: off the plane. 152 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. And if anybody asks what happens, I just showed 153 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 2: them the Bobby Bone Show video of me trying to 154 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 2: jump up and do that. I mean, honestly, y'all made 155 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: it look so easy. 156 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: So well also, you guys make other things look easy. 157 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 3: It's just all it's all relative to your experiences, things 158 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 3: that you've done. 159 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 2: Right. 160 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 3: If there's anything I've learned about our show and our 161 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 3: challenges and all the things, it's all relative to like 162 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: your experiences that you've had in your life. 163 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: So that's what I talked that out too. 164 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: But yeah, I am very excited for vacation. I don't 165 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 2: even I'm going to take my computer. 166 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: Oh I'm so jealous. 167 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: I said that with the nexhail, and I'm like, I 168 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 2: don't think, but I imagine what would pop up and 169 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 2: and sort of force myself to do that. And even 170 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 2: my friend that I'm meeting down there, I've been friends 171 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: with her, gosh since we were twenty three years old, 172 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 2: so I mean over twenty years. She was in my wedding, 173 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 2: like we go way back, and I told her that. 174 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 2: I said, I don't even think I'm bringing my computer, 175 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: and she's just like, oh, are we going to get 176 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 2: present Amy? And I said, yeah, you are. But it 177 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: made me realize, like, oh, even my friends of a 178 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 2: long time, I know that. You know, sometimes I can 179 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: be like, oh I need to work on this real quick, 180 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 2: or I need to type this up, or oh oh 181 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 2: that could be a good show. Prep let me type 182 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 2: that up real quick, and you know, I guess my phone. 183 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 2: You can still be on socials, but I think I'm 184 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 2: going to be really intentional about that as well. But 185 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 2: to hear her say present Amy, which she was there 186 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 2: with me from the beginning, like when I was auditioning 187 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: for the Bobby Bone Show and that entire journey, and 188 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: so she's been with me in my entire career, and 189 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 2: I just thought, oh, it felt good to know that 190 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 2: I'm being really intentional about being present. But then also 191 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 2: kind of like, oh, dang, you know, some people in 192 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: my life just have this impression of me that I'm 193 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: going to find a way to work and not that 194 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: I'm a I'm not like a someone that has to 195 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: work all the time, but I just still will bring 196 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 2: my stuff, or oh, I should probably watch this because 197 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 2: then I can talk about it, or or you need 198 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 2: to be up to speed on what's going on here, 199 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 2: so anyway that you get what I'm. 200 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 3: Trying to say, no, And I can totally relate because 201 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever gone on a vacation where 202 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 3: i haven't brought my laptop because there's always something that 203 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 3: I have to do or some fire to put out 204 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 3: or and if I leave it then it's just going 205 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 3: to be a hot mess. 206 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: And I can't do a lot of things on my phone. 207 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: So I get it, like. 208 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 2: Your job title, Yeah, I'm sorry, Yes, it's okay, though 209 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 2: I have gotten really good at like okay for an 210 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 2: hour if I have to do this. 211 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 3: I do this, and then you know you're not going 212 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 3: to see me for the rest of the day. So 213 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 3: I've learned to my boundaries. But it's it's a balancing act. 214 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: Well. 215 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 2: Also, I'll say this about taking my computer, is I 216 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 2: would like to read more on this trip. And I 217 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 2: think even on the plane sometimes I default to just 218 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 2: watching something on my computer or trying to get ahead 219 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 2: on something, and I'll be like, well, I'm forced to 220 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: sit here. But if I don't have computer, then I 221 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: will hopefully choose to read. So that's another reason why 222 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: it's not necessarily just about work. It's also about trying 223 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 2: to enjoy other things that are out there besides my computer. 224 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 3: No, it's trust me, it's a good thing and I'm 225 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 3: proud of you for doing it. 226 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna take a quick break. 227 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 3: I do have a follow up question about your vacation, 228 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 3: but we're going to take a quick break real quick, and. 229 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:24,959 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. 230 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm assuming vacation. The boyfriend is potentially coming. 231 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 2: Maybe, yeah, yeah, he's going. 232 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: Is this first vacation. No, you guys went to Charleston 233 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: for your birthday? 234 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: We did? Yeah, Okay, to me, which we went like 235 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 2: a month after my birthday and that was so fun. 236 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 2: I could go back there easily. So, yeah, we're going 237 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: to do this trip. He's easy to travel with. We've 238 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: we've also gone to another place before, and I I 239 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 2: almost now it just feels like normal, like, oh, yeah, 240 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 2: you're coming. It'll be fun. 241 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: Oh I love that. It feels normal. 242 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels really normal, except for you know, I 243 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 2: guess he's going to be meeting my friend Jill and 244 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: her husband, you know. 245 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 3: So that'll be that's a big deal because that's a 246 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 3: friend that's been part of your life for a long time. 247 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, they met on the phone the other night, so 248 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 2: they talked on speakerphone and he kind of talked to 249 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 2: her husband and I sort of like maybe they might 250 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 2: go golf or do whatever. 251 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 3: So oh, it's always fun when like the the two 252 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 3: boys get along, because that doesn't always happen. 253 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: Like, yes, boys can get along, they're easy to like, 254 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: you know, they can mesh or whatever. 255 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 3: But when they actually get along and they want to 256 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 3: hang out with each other, that's also fun because then 257 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 3: they're like, Okay, yeah, go do your thing and I 258 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 3: can hang out with my friend. 259 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think that that will happen, especially if 260 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 2: they go golf. I don't know, Jill and I might 261 00:12:56,200 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 2: go do something, but it should be a pretty good 262 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: trip and I'm very much looking forward to it. 263 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: What about you, Oh, I'm this is the first trip 264 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: I'm taking you and my boyfriend. 265 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 2: Okay, So I already know that traveling with mine is easy. 266 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 2: You have no idea because I feel like you travel 267 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: with someone, you learn a lot. 268 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 3: Yes, And it's always important to me to travel early 269 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 3: on with whoever I'm going to be with because I 270 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 3: love to travel, and Romy's coming with us too, So 271 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 3: this is also a test of like how he handles 272 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:30,199 Speaker 3: traveling with me. 273 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: And we're going on a road trip, so lots of 274 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: driving together. And but I don't I don't foresee anything. 275 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 3: He's already been such a like just easy going person 276 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 3: that I really don't see anything being an issue. But 277 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 3: you never know, Traveling brings out the crazy parts of 278 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 3: people sometimes, so who knows. 279 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: Oh, no, it definitely does. I mean I think that 280 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 2: you're you see exactly how they respond when things go wrong, 281 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: because normally when you're traveling, there's something that happens, something 282 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 2: that'll give you a peek into how they handle stress 283 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: and how they treat people and how go with the. 284 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: Flow they are well. 285 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 3: And I was already like I've already seen like a 286 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 3: really cool side of him because I've been dealing, you know, 287 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 3: with all of my stuff with my cat Hazel, and 288 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: there was a big part of me that was going 289 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 3: to cancel the trip because I just I felt uncomfortable. 290 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 3: I wasn't sure how she was going to keep doing 291 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 3: if I could find people who I felt comfortable to 292 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 3: give her all the medications that she needs to be 293 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 3: on right now to stay stable. And he really has 294 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 3: like shown up in that in a cool way of like, listen, 295 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 3: if we need to cancel, we cancel, Like this is 296 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 3: nothing in the world, Like we're in this together, Like 297 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 3: I love her as much as you do, and if 298 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 3: you want to be here, we're going to be here. 299 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: And like he responded super well to that. So it 300 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: wasn't like I had to. 301 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 4: Feel like this huge burden of potentially canceling a trip, 302 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like he understood where my 303 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 4: heart really was and like what was going to be important, 304 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 4: what was going to make me feel comfortable? 305 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: And thankfully, so far, I think we have it. 306 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: Figured out and who knows, Like we could be like 307 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 3: halfway on the trip and I'm like, we could just 308 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 3: have to turn around and like come back if something 309 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 3: hits the wall. But all of that so far, he's 310 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 3: just been like, yeah, like truly so easy going with 311 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 3: it and supportive of whatever I feel like I need 312 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 3: to do. And that's been a cool thing to see 313 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 3: through him because I don't feel like that type of 314 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 3: person comes around very often. 315 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, especially for a cat. 316 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like especially guys and cats, right, like a. 317 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: Dog maybe, but. 318 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a guy and a cat. Yeah, No, that's 319 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 2: that's huge. So you were able to find someone that 320 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 2: you feel good about. 321 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, his sister is actually one of the ones that's 322 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 3: helping us. And then one of my good friends are 323 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: kind of tag teaming it because she has to be 324 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 3: given medication like twelve every twelve hours. It's trying to 325 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 3: like she has she has an equal eye infection and 326 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 3: it's in her kidneys, so it's just really hard for 327 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 3: her body to fight without a lot of medication because 328 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 3: that's kind of what happened the first go round, and 329 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 3: it's just been a whole nightmare. I didn't even realize 330 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 3: that animals can. 331 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: Get equal eight. That was a new experience for me. 332 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 3: But it's just one of those things that she has 333 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 3: to be on antibiotics for like six weeks, so it's 334 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 3: not even just now, she has to be on it 335 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 3: for the next month and a half. But I think 336 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 3: so I feel really comfortable about who's watching her, and 337 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: I've like walked them through all the steps and have. 338 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: All of her food plan laid out. 339 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 3: But in true crazy cat parent mom mode in this moment. 340 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, so that hopefully it'll be chill enough that 341 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 3: I can enjoy it. 342 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 2: So yeah, what sounds like You've got two people that 343 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 2: you'll trust and so hopefully you can detach and relax, 344 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 2: because I know this last week with that has been very, 345 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: very stressful. 346 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I don't wish any version of hospitalization for 347 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 3: human or animal, upon anyone. 348 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: It's just not a enjoyable experience. 349 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 3: A lot of questions and a lot of waiting, and 350 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 3: a lot of just finances like that, everything, A whole 351 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: gamut of stuff pops up when you're dealing with that, 352 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 3: and also just the sadness that comes of spending a 353 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 3: lot of time in a hospitalization. I saw just so 354 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 3: many sad things happening around me as I'm like sitting 355 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 3: here crying over my own animal, you know. 356 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm ready for that part to be over. 357 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to do any more of that, hopefully. 358 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. So with y'all's road driven stuff, like you're gonna 359 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: be you're checking in like everybody's we've got you on 360 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 2: what life through sixty? Or your parents know where you're coming? 361 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, so many people have my location? 362 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 2: Okay, good? 363 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, are you worried I'm gonna get kidnapped or like 364 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 1: taken along the way? 365 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,719 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. I'm just like, Okay, first trip 366 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 2: with the boyfriend who we trust, I'm sure, and all 367 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 2: the things. It's not even really about him, but I'm 368 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 2: just picturing you out. I don't know. Maybe I just 369 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: watched too many things. I'm not going to bring up 370 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 2: Inny specific cases or anything, but you know, I just 371 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: making sure that everyone knows where you are. 372 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: Yes, plenty of location things. 373 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 3: We also have Remy with us, So I do think 374 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 3: Remy in times of crisis will come to my aid. 375 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 1: If Formy the. 376 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 2: Rescue pup, the teeny tiny little puppy, Okay, in all. 377 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 3: Fairness, would she rescue me now home invasion, No, probably not. 378 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 3: But if like it's funny, like my dad will mess 379 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 3: with me, and if he ever tries to like kind 380 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 3: of wrestle me, Remy will come and try and like attack. 381 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 3: She's not very scary, but she'll be like, no, that's 382 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 3: my mom, leave her alone. So I think she would 383 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 3: at least try, although probably unsuccessfully, she would at least 384 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 3: make an effort. 385 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 1: Do you not feel like Kara would for you? I 386 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:51,640 Speaker 1: don't know. 387 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 2: I mean car is at least a little bit bigger, 388 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 2: but I don't know. This is a good question. She's 389 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 2: laying with me right now. She definitely he loves me, 390 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,120 Speaker 2: like even the kids would be like, oh, Cara choose 391 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,239 Speaker 2: his mom over any of us all the time. And 392 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 2: even Ben, we used to do fifty to fifty with 393 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 2: Kara and then it just ultimately wasn't good on her anxiety. 394 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 2: And but Ben was like, I think it's a no brain, nurse. 395 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 2: She should be with you. Obviously, I can be homeward 396 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 2: during the day because of our work hours versus his, 397 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 2: and he travels more. But I think he also is like, 398 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 2: and Cara just freaking loves you, like she does want 399 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 2: to be around me. But I've never been in a 400 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 2: position where she's had to show any kind of get 401 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 2: away from my mom or I'm going to protect you, 402 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 2: so tbd, TBD. 403 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: Well, I hope you're never in a position where she 404 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: has to show that. 405 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 3: I think we'd, you know, we'd prefer not to have 406 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 3: to see that side of her. 407 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: I feel like Maggie could get a little spicy if 408 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: she needs to. 409 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 2: Oh, Maggie does not care. She can get. 410 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: Spicy with the On an Instagram post, I saw, Yes, she. 411 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 2: Gets spicy with me. She cuddles with me at night, 412 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 2: and then if it's daylight, she wants nothing to do 413 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:10,919 Speaker 2: with me. I think at night she does look after me, 414 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 2: but I don't know what she would do. She would 415 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 2: just grarow and then maybe squat at who whatever. But 416 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 2: she definitely is so near me at night, and it's 417 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 2: so sweet. I don't know what Hazel's like. But then 418 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 2: after she wakes up or night time is over, because 419 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 2: even if she's not sleeping, she's still buy me kind 420 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 2: of looking around right next to me. But then once 421 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 2: it's daytime, she doesn't want to be around me at all. 422 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: Like I could be laying in my bed doing the 423 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: same thing I do at night, and she's not going 424 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 2: to come late by me only at night. 425 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: That's interesting. 426 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 3: I would say that's like some version of nocturnal, but 427 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 3: that's kind of like the reverse. 428 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, she just I feel like that's ale. 429 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 2: Like a lot of cats are like that is Hazel, 430 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: not oh. 431 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 1: No, Hazel is a color. This was fun. This in 432 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 1: the midst of all the craziness at the hospital. 433 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 3: Hazel is such a lover that they were trying to 434 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 3: get her temperature, which I don't know if you've ever 435 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 3: had to see how they get a cat's temperature, you 436 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 3: could imagine, you know, go from behind. So they're doing 437 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 3: that and she's literally laying there in their arms purring. 438 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 3: They're like, why is this cap hurrying while this is happening. 439 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 3: Then they tried to get like her heart rate, and 440 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 3: they're like and she just literally wouldn't stop purring. They're like, Hazel, 441 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 3: we don't know how your heart rate is because you 442 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 3: just keep over purring the heartbeat sounds. 443 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: So that's just hers. 444 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 3: But I think that's also coming from such a bad 445 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 3: situation where who knows what happens in her life for 446 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 3: seven and a half years. That No, she just loves 447 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: attention so much, like if you even touch her, she'll 448 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 3: just lean right into you, like, oh you want to 449 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 3: give me attention? 450 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: Yes please? 451 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, or Maggie has had zero bit of a rough life, 452 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 2: so that makes sense. 453 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 1: Queen treatment, she's had it. She knows. 454 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, i'll talk to you later. 455 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna take one more quick break and we'll 456 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: be right back. How else is everything else going in 457 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 1: your life? 458 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 3: We talked about boyfriend, the vacation, the animals. How's yeah, 459 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 3: pre menopause, anything you want to talk about. 460 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: How's the change in podcast going? There's so many things? 461 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean my perimenopause is still there. 462 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 3: Harry menopause or pre menopause, it's Harry, is there also 463 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 3: pre menopause? 464 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 2: Well that's what Perry. Menopause is. 465 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: Okay, they're the same. 466 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 2: Or menopause. Okay, Harry menopause is. It's a whole thing. 467 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 2: It's very unpredictable. It's fun. I think even my boyfriend. 468 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 2: I said something yesterday about how I was just feeling 469 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 2: really down, but I think it was because of my back, 470 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 2: but I also was just feeling down, defeated, like just sad, almost, 471 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,439 Speaker 2: but I think it's because I was frustrated and I 472 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,719 Speaker 2: couldn't move well, so I ended up laying around and 473 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 2: that just didn't help me. And he made some comment 474 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 2: and he's like, well, that could be any given day 475 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,199 Speaker 2: for you, because it is like a roller coaster. I 476 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 2: do go in and out of emotions and sadness or 477 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 2: feeling down, like life can be going so great and 478 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 2: like better than it has been in a really long time. 479 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 2: And then and I'm like, why can't I enjoy this 480 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: right now? I don't understand it. I really really really 481 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: want to, and all I could can do is just 482 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 2: maybe cry or not tap into those emotions of or 483 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 2: tap into the enjoyment of, like, look at everything that 484 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 2: is great. I literally could not tell you why I 485 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 2: feel down, because normally when you feel down or sad, 486 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 2: you can I can say, oh, well, this happens, so 487 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 2: that makes sense. Yes, two things can be true at once. 488 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 2: I can be happy about this and sad about this. 489 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 2: But it's like, Okay, I'm happy about this and I'm 490 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 2: sad about this, but I don't have a reason, which 491 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 2: really the reason is perimenopause. But it just sucks that 492 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 2: it's just there. It just don't know when it's going 493 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 2: to show up, and you don't. It's not always my 494 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 2: go to. I try to go through a checklist of like, okay, 495 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 2: well what happened here and what happened here? Is this why? 496 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: Or is this causing me to behave this way? Which 497 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 2: therapy cat speaking of my podcast and the change that 498 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 2: is going so great, the best decision we ever made. 499 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 2: I'm so happy, she's happy. We're both having a great time, 500 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 2: and she's on a fertility journey and she has some 501 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 2: stuff going on hormonally, and so we have a little 502 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 2: saying like if we because when you're working closely with 503 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 2: a friend, it can get weird because then you're like, shoot, 504 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 2: we want to maintain our friendship above all else. But 505 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 2: we're having to communicate about work stuff now too and 506 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 2: not just friendship stuff. And so we now have a 507 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 2: code if either one of us is a little hormonal 508 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 2: or you know, bitchy and we don't know why, but 509 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: so we just say sib SIB and it's sorry ib G. 510 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:28,119 Speaker 2: So it's our acronym that just helps us know. I 511 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 2: think this is what's going on. So don't take my 512 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 2: tone or how I'm saying or my overreaction or maybe 513 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 2: you know, maybe tomorrow we check in on this and 514 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 2: I'll have a totally different vibe, because that's how it 515 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: feels like that, if I could sum it up, it's 516 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 2: like you just never know, and I feel like I've 517 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 2: got stomach issues and I'm like, is that periman apostle 518 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 2: which I need to make an appointment with my OBG 519 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:57,440 Speaker 2: I in and go over some things. But I took 520 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 2: to share it to her first appointment, which that might 521 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 2: be team but anyway, she's eighteen now, and I didn't 522 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 2: know they don't. I was like prepping her for a 523 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 2: pap smear and you know all that. I was like, 524 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 2: this is what's going to be, like just take a 525 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 2: deep breath, picture happy things, ice cream, will go get 526 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 2: some after like this whole thing. And we get there 527 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, yeah, we don't do perap smears 528 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 2: till you're twenty one, I guess, unless, of course, maybe 529 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 2: you have other activities going on which we don't began. 530 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: Us and. 531 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 2: I didn't know that. And then they said, and we're 532 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 2: also we don't do a breast exam, like we don't 533 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 2: feel around on her boobs until twenty five and I 534 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 2: thought that seems late, Like, you know, I guess you 535 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 2: can do self exams, but at that young age, Like 536 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 2: I know, a girl I went to college with I 537 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 2: got breast cancer before twenty five, so I just thought 538 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 2: that was interesting to me. But they will meet with you. 539 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 2: So we went and we had a long talk and 540 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 2: she answered a lot of questions and I felt like 541 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 2: I learned some things. And then it just reminded me, oh, 542 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 2: maybe I need to book an appointment with my obj 543 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 2: in and just sit and have a talk, like I 544 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 2: just have questions and I want you to help me. 545 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 2: I don't even need the the pap smear because I 546 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 2: just go in for it. Made me think like maybe 547 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 2: I should just book an appointment to where I get 548 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 2: to have some time with her because I feel like 549 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 2: mine comes in, does my pap smear and she's like, okay, cool, 550 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 2: you're gonna go by, And then I'm like, oh, I mean, 551 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 2: of course, if I had things to talk about, but 552 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,360 Speaker 2: when you're when you have to have that part done, 553 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: I think I'm just focused on that and hiding my 554 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 2: underwear and. 555 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,239 Speaker 1: The whole process that goes. 556 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 2: But I don't like it would be much easier if 557 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 2: I just had all my clothes on and I could 558 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 2: just talk instead of laying there and stirrups trying to 559 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: think of things I want to ask, So anyway I 560 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:55,479 Speaker 2: might do that. 561 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 1: You know, it's really funny. 562 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 3: So you know obd wayans and you should definitely should 563 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 3: do this because right your obgyn is like a regular 564 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 3: doctor just for your lady stuff, so this. 565 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: Makes sense you should make that appointment. But it's really funny. 566 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: My obgyn is the. 567 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 3: Guy who gave birth to me. He gave birth to 568 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,360 Speaker 3: me and all my sisters. 569 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,920 Speaker 2: And I just had this thought of how I've gone 570 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,439 Speaker 2: to a man before. Don't get me wrong, I have. 571 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: It's fine, But I was thinking with Sashira because we 572 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 2: booked with a female, because I was like, there's no 573 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 2: way she's gonna go to a mail And then I'm like, 574 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 2: I could never go to a man, and that's so 575 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 2: wrong of me. I went once and then I saw 576 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 2: him at a barbecue and I was like, this is 577 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 2: over never doing this. An that's a good reason, but 578 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 2: it seems like your whole family knows him, and if 579 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:46,959 Speaker 2: he's in Wichita, I'm sure you could run into him 580 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 2: at the grocery store. 581 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 1: We you know what, and we never have. But it's funny. 582 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: He like keeps up with my life. He'll ask me, 583 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: he'll listen to us on the radio, and I'll be 584 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: like doing it. He's like, so, how's Nashville? 585 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 3: Because I always do it when I go home because 586 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 3: I don't right now I have a reason to have 587 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 3: one here, and so I've just kind of kept up 588 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 3: with that every time I go home for Christmas, and 589 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 3: and he knows all my history, and it's just you know, sometimes. 590 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: It's easier to keep it that way. 591 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 3: But yeah, he'll talk to me and I'm like, okay, 592 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 3: I'm like bracing for impact, and he's over here like so, yeah, 593 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 3: I heard you was talking about on the show and 594 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 3: like da dad d I'm. 595 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: Like, okay, yeah, that's that's lovely. 596 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 3: And but he's so great, like genuinely, I mean he's 597 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 3: in his i don't know, late seventies now, likes he's 598 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 3: given birth to all of us. 599 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: So I just don't think I've ever thought a single 600 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: thing about it. 601 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 2: What I don't think he gave birth to you? Hed, Yeah, 602 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 2: saved same safe, same, we know what you mean. 603 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so he delivered all of us. 604 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 3: But yeah, I've never really thought about that being weird 605 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 3: until this moment. 606 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 2: I shouldn't make it a thing. I guess I just 607 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: am like, what guy, Oh cars making noises? Sorry, but 608 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 2: what guy? I don't know. Well, I get maybe he's part, 609 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 2: but then the checking of vagina and getting to like 610 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 2: rub or inspect all day. I should have called him rub, 611 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 2: but like you know, like, yeah, I just never want 612 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 2: to make sure I'm I'm going to a legit doctor 613 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 2: that all he cares about is helping people. He's not 614 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 2: some weird now. 615 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 3: Maybe because he's like always been my mom's and everything. 616 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: That's why I didn't. 617 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 3: But it's funny that you say it that way, because 618 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 3: I don't choose like in a preferent situation. If I 619 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 3: have a choice, I always choose like a male massage 620 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 3: therapy or a woman massage therapist, and I always say. 621 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: No to getting a male. 622 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 3: So tell me why I always say, like, no male 623 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 3: in a massage therapist situation. 624 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 1: But I hope c y N. I have no problem. 625 00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 2: Well because that was sort of you know, you and 626 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 2: him like everybody in your family, so that seemed normal 627 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 2: and natural, and I think it is more medical and 628 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 2: you're like in you're out, it's more sterile. I think 629 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 2: a massage is more intimate and rubbing all over you. 630 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 2: I'm the same way, but I will also go to 631 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 2: a guide. Do I say I prefer a girl? And 632 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 2: you know, we had that whole thing on the show 633 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 2: not too long ago. My friend that her boyfriend was 634 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: so mad that she went so I can't remember exactly 635 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 2: how it went down, but I remember it was a 636 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 2: big deal, so much so that I brought it to 637 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 2: the show what would y'all do? Because he was not happy. 638 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 2: It was causing a major issue in the relationship because 639 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 2: she didn't think it was that big of a deal. 640 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 2: And then I'm like, I didn't know if it made 641 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 2: him seem insecure or if he's just overprotective or he's 642 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 2: heard of terrible stories, but maybe something has happened. But 643 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 2: I know there's a lot of really great male missuits 644 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 2: or uh, you know, physical therapists, and you know, but 645 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 2: then you think about the the I do. Other people 646 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 2: might not, but my brain immediately goes to the US 647 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 2: Olympic Gymnastics. Oh yeah, guy that was doing all kinds 648 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 2: of shady stuff that those poor girls that that you 649 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 2: can that seem like oh, like, hey, I'm going to 650 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 2: do this. This is part of the adjustment, you know, 651 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 2: and it's not there's ways they get like sneaky with it, 652 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: you know, like I went to the carpactor today and 653 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 2: he was having to adjust me in certain places and 654 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 2: like he is a guy, But I mean I was 655 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 2: fully closed. It's not like he was like your pants 656 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 2: offer this. I'd be like, well, that's weird. I'm going 657 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 2: to leave out. 658 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: Uh. 659 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 2: Usually to use your discernment, I think it's not a 660 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: blanket statement. Unfortunately, sometimes I I probably present it is 661 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 2: that of like, no, I'm not going to ever see 662 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 2: a male whatever. 663 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 1: But anyway, it's definitely funny. 664 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 3: I just like, I had never thought about that until 665 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 3: you start talking about OBGBI and all of that, to 666 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 3: say that you should definitely go and get an OBGYN 667 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 3: appointment just to talk about all of that stuff, because 668 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 3: that's what they're there for. 669 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, they are, and I'm grateful for it, and I'm 670 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 2: grateful that I have the opportunity to do it. I've 671 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 2: just never booked an appointment in between my yearly, so 672 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 2: that's what feels weird. But I liked how it was 673 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 2: with Stashira being calm and fully clothed and like comfortable 674 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 2: and not having to because I tell you where, Yeah, 675 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 2: I am just so tense when I'm in there for 676 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 2: exam that I don't think I talk about all the things, 677 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 2: and I have more I mean keeping more of a 678 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 2: list and I have I think I have more questions 679 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 2: now than ever, and I don't even know for sure 680 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 2: that she'll really be able to answer them, because I 681 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,960 Speaker 2: feel like the more women are talking about it, the 682 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 2: more they're learning. It's not it's not until recently that 683 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 2: you see all of these women sort of talking about 684 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 2: it like you we don't even know how to pronounce 685 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 2: it right, Like this is something we should know. If 686 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 2: this was happening to men, we would already have a problem, 687 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 2: like a solution to the problem, because they would have 688 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 2: started researching eight years ago. But women have just you know, 689 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 2: dealt with it sort of. 690 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 3: I was gonna say it, because women have been dealing 691 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 3: it with it for decades. They've just never had the 692 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 3: resources or the information or research. 693 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 2: Yes, and so now that a lot of the women 694 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 2: that are in the medical field going through perimenopause and menopause, 695 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 2: and they are researchers, they are you know, they want 696 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 2: to figure out what's going on. This is their line 697 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 2: of work. They're very passionate about it, and they're watching 698 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 2: what's happening to their own bodies and so they're like, 699 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:55,760 Speaker 2: hold up, we need to figure this out. So thankfully 700 00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 2: this generation of women, that's what they're doing. And and 701 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 2: I'm very very grateful for it, and for Instagram and TikTok, 702 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,839 Speaker 2: because I mean, you got to take what you see 703 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 2: on there with the grain salt. But there are a 704 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 2: lot of medical professionals that are very credited that are 705 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 2: at least bringing light to certain things that help you 706 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 2: feel not crazy and not alone. And you're like, oh, 707 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 2: because also too, when you do have that, oh, this 708 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,760 Speaker 2: is likely what it is. It helps you feel better 709 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:29,759 Speaker 2: because you do feel you know, I hate using the 710 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 2: word crazy over and over again, but just sort of 711 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 2: how you feel. You just feel all over the. 712 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 1: Place, very out of body experience. 713 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, or just like who am I multiple? Multiple personality? 714 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 2: So anyway, sib sib. 715 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,279 Speaker 1: I like that saying I like it? Okay, well, and 716 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:54,360 Speaker 1: we tell everybody where they can find your how are 717 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:55,239 Speaker 1: you phrasing it? 718 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 2: Re branded? 719 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the word. Rebrandom podcast and I'll like that 720 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 1: stuff on Instagram. 721 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 2: It is at Feeling Things podcast and then I am 722 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,400 Speaker 2: at Radio with Me. 723 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, well, Amy, thanks for jumping on 724 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: to Zoom. 725 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 3: Words zoom with me, and we're gonna jump over and 726 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 3: do some listener Q and A. 727 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: Now, so go check out part three while you're here. 728 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 4: Okay, bye, that's the best bits of the week with Morgan. 729 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. 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