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Speaker 1: Kay thinks she Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: Dead ass. I was in that home Stockholm, Sweden that was.

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Speaker 3: For the first show maybe dead ass. Hey, I'm Kadeen

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Speaker 3: and I'm Devout and we're the Ellis's.

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Speaker 1: You may know us from posting funny videos with.

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Speaker 2: Our boys and reading each other publicly as a form

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Speaker 2: of therapy.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I make you need therapy most days? Wow?

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Speaker 2: Oh and one more important thing to mention, we're married.

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Speaker 1: Yes, sir, we are. We created this podcast to open

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Speaker 1: dialogue about some of Li's most taboo topics, things.

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Speaker 2: Most folks don't want to talk about.

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Speaker 4: Through the lens of a millennial married couple. Dead ass

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Speaker 4: is a term that we say every day. So when

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Speaker 4: we say dead ass, we're actually saying facts one hundred

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Speaker 4: the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

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Speaker 4: Were about to take philosof to our whole new level.

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Speaker 3: Dead ass starts right now.

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Speaker 1: This episode is dedicated to I'm still smiling, my queen.

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Speaker 3: Do you see me over here?

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Speaker 4: Yo?

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Speaker 1: Yo?

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Speaker 4: I got so much guys stuff to tell y'all about

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Speaker 4: this girl. I have I ever told you all about

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Speaker 4: how she refused to talk to Beyonce when we was

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Speaker 4: at the studio opening I'll tell y'all that.

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Speaker 1: But that's not what we talk about today. The first

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Speaker 1: a we're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: I didn't refuse to talk to be. I just got

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Speaker 2: cold feet.

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Speaker 1: You refuse to talk to yo. I'm not gonna jump

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Speaker 1: to that story.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 3: Today is gonna be a fun episode because we're just

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Speaker 3: recapping the opening show for the Renaissance tour in Stockholm, Sweden,

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Speaker 3: and how I got there.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, y'a.

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Speaker 3: So getting my hair done at home. Deval is in

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Speaker 3: Toronto filming, Yes, and my girl Essen shout out to Essence,

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Speaker 3: was putting in my full lox because I was getting

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Speaker 3: ready to go to Cabo and actually know she was

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Speaker 3: taking out my full lock.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's what it was.

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Speaker 3: So she's taking out my phon lox and Deval and

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Speaker 3: you know, he calls me and he's just like, hey, okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm like what but you know TP is about to

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Speaker 3: call you. Make sure your answer phone. He's going to

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Speaker 3: ask you if you want to go to Sweden. And

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Speaker 3: I was like, excuse me. He's like, he's gonna ask

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Speaker 3: you if you want to go to Sweden. Just make

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Speaker 3: sure you just say yes.

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Speaker 1: So just this is this is a funny story.

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Speaker 4: I had sent Tyler a video of you doing the

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Speaker 4: cufet challenge.

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Speaker 1: I believe we were on vacation. You had the whole catamaran.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that, and he was just like he was just like,

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Speaker 1: And I had told him the story. Oh that's how

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Speaker 3: And then I'm wondering if y'all know the actual Beyonce

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Speaker 3: story for us years ago.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna have to unpack up in this episode.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of sixty degrees of separation because that

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Speaker 4: story also includes Tyler Perry.

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Speaker 3: It does right, you're right. So he said, you've got

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Speaker 3: to answer your phone. So I'm like, okay, got you copy.

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Speaker 3: So I'm still thinking that that was probably delusional because

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Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, he's over it. I'm like, Teller's about

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Speaker 3: to call my phone. I looked down at my phone.

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Speaker 3: I missed the call from Tyler Perry and I was like, oh, shoot.

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Speaker 3: So he texts me shortly after and pretty much was

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Speaker 4: Oh, which is crazy to me because you always have

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Speaker 4: I'm sending through to you. I call her, she missed

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Speaker 2: I missed the call.

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Speaker 3: The phone was on my lap and I probably didn't

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Speaker 2: So I was just like, oh shoot, let me call

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Speaker 3: So I called him back and I said, Bro, you

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Speaker 3: and he's like, yeah, there's a rumor going around that

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Speaker 3: Beyonce is going to be performing in Stockholm, Sweden next week.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh yeah, oh yeah, there's a room.

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Speaker 3: So I'm starting to sweat at this point right because

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Speaker 3: So I was like yeah, and he was just like yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, if.

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Speaker 3: The rumor happens to be true, keeping in the loop,

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Speaker 3: That's pretty much what I said. And yeah, and before

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Speaker 3: I knew it, I was on a plane, not a plane,

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Speaker 1: So this is the crazy part wild.

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Speaker 4: He he called me first and he was just like, YO,

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Speaker 4: to go see Beyonce?

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Speaker 1: I was like I will feel. Please please this a

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Speaker 4: Like, yo, like give us something that's small about she's

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Speaker 1: Six weeks now to do please save her?

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Speaker 4: And he was like now, I just calling, you know,

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Speaker 4: Like do your think I think she would enjoy it?

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Speaker 1: That was him. Yeah, he told me he had a

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Speaker 1: group going, but he knew that you loved Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: And I didn't know that he knew.

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Speaker 3: That's how thought that that just that's a small testimony

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Speaker 3: to how amazing. This man isn't thoughtful because here I

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Speaker 3: didn't even think he still remembered me. But now that's true.

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Speaker 3: We have developed a really cute relationships. So yeah, y'all,

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Speaker 1: So question no matter of fact, I ask this question

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Speaker 2: Talk because listen, I've been humming and singing.

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Speaker 1: We got yo.

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Speaker 3: Literally, I told you, I told the val back in

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Speaker 3: I think we could put the Covert Challenge to rest

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Speaker 3: at this point, right, I think it's fair to say

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Speaker 3: got to see it Beyonce in America now, So that

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Speaker 1: This is evidence that is never enough.

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Speaker 3: It is never that's not it I'm just saying, he

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Speaker 3: owes me the Covert Challenge, but I owe you anything.

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Speaker 1: The man took you on a private jet to Sweden.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Beyond shows, and now you're talking about something you owe me.

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Speaker 2: No, this is proof.

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Speaker 3: You just owe me the cover of challenge together with

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Speaker 3: me simultaneously five six, ready ad together bye, but never enough.

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Speaker 2: That's it. You can even come do it at my

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Speaker 3: But no. We have a lot of songs that we

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Speaker 3: that has been a staple I think for this show.

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Speaker 3: Karaoke time. Okay, Baby, there's like a whole. I can

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Speaker 3: But I feel like at this point, you know, since

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Speaker 3: this is dead ass Podcast and Beyonce essentially wrote a

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Speaker 3: So if you were any of these shows, you knew

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Speaker 3: that this was the song, right, go ahead. I'm not nervous.

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Speaker 3: there's not really a song part to it. It's I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm in now.

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Speaker 1: So that's why you kept saying that.

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Speaker 3: It's not the diamonds, it's not the pearls.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm that girl.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I'm that girl.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I would help you sing that, but I'm not singing.

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Speaker 4: I'm that girls.

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Speaker 3: Stopping me, These montherfuckers stopping me these months, stoping me,

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Speaker 3: these mothers, stop at me.

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Speaker 1: I have a question.

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Speaker 2: You could pick up that part.

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Speaker 4: Well, I just got to know, like what is it

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Speaker 1: Like? What is it?

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Speaker 2: She's an amazing performer. It's the performance for me.

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Speaker 3: If I could see Beyonce in concert all the time,

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Speaker 3: that's what I would do all the time, Like just

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Speaker 3: do that. Since I'm not I don't need to buy

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Speaker 3: your products. I don't need to buy I just want

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Speaker 3: to watch you perform over and over again and that's

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Speaker 3: just it. And I will play your album on repeat

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Speaker 3: and I'm support in that way.

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Speaker 2: But that is it for me. Beyonce the performer.

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Speaker 1: I've seen my wife act like this.

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Speaker 4: You are acting like how Jackson would act if he

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Speaker 1: That's how you act essentially.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's she's mom, she's fly.

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Speaker 3: Everything that they've been able to do with Beyonce and

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Speaker 3: her image and just keep her so pristine. I love that.

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Speaker 3: It's aspirational for me. And in my next lifetime I'm

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Speaker 3: a singing dance just like that.

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Speaker 1: So here you can sing and dance. Now, why you

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Speaker 2: Saying did you just hear carry out leotard?

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Speaker 1: Go in that room and go I'm on that hole,

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Speaker 1: dead ass, I'm mad girl, I'm mad girl.

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Speaker 2: Stopping me, stopping me.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna take a break.

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Speaker 2: Like my shirt too.

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Speaker 1: She's been wearing that shirt for two weeks.

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Speaker 4: She ain't never watched it because she wore that shirt

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Speaker 4: and beyond you see it got makeup stings on.

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Speaker 2: Just now because I put it on after the fact.

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Speaker 3: I don't give a damn no how So anyway, let's

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Speaker 1: So we're back.

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Speaker 2: All right, We're back, y'all.

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Speaker 1: So let's let's dive in at a time. Let's dive in.

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Speaker 4: Okay, first we have to talk about this connection Beyonce,

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Speaker 1: Surprise. But I couldn't get these tickets.

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Speaker 4: So fast forward to twenty and nineteen, we're at the

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Speaker 1: It's Diddy. It wasn't Ludacris. It was Diddy. Oh Diddy,

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Speaker 4: to our left was jay Z and Beyonce. And I'm

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Speaker 4: to me. Kay love Beyonce. It's a lot of noise

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Speaker 4: I can't talk to Beyonce. I'm just like, yo, just

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Speaker 4: He was like what's up? And I was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: This is nice. This is very very nice what Todd

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Speaker 1: She said, your dress was pretty, your dress is nice.

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Speaker 4: Thanks, and you didn't even you probably didn't say you

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Speaker 4: Yes, So the funny thing is I told Tyler that story,

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Speaker 4: our relationship is not just you know, boss employee. You

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Speaker 3: So it's great and he speaks the same kind of

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Speaker 4: But not only just go, she had to fly in style.

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Speaker 3: You know, Stockholm is a beautiful I mean that city

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Speaker 3: to back shows. So it was an insane time. Yea

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Speaker 3: insane time. Got ready. Uh Eva called me last minute

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Speaker 3: and was like, hey, we were wearing all black to

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Speaker 3: know this now as I'm literally packing for us to

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Speaker 3: go away, So we were not all black, trying to

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Speaker 3: make it a vibe. Mister Perry was in white and

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Speaker 3: it was It was dope. We had a really good time.

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Speaker 3: i've been to two of them. Actually my best friend

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Speaker 2: I forget which one that was, but.

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Speaker 3: We were in the behive so funny story with this

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be like, that's where it's gonna be eventually.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be there eventually because I've had so many

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Speaker 2: Be shut up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah listening, y'all can't see me on Frozen? You can

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Speaker 1: you hear my? Y'all? Can I hear me Frozen?

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Speaker 3: So Tiffany is like, yo, I have tickets where we

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Speaker 2: In the hive.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, hive me, hive me, because on

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you remember it with you ont

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Speaker 3: But anyway, her hair had gotten caught in the fan

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Speaker 1: Oh, yes, see the disrespect I gotta deal with though

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Speaker 1: I don't be knowing the t yo. You can't tell

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Speaker 1: I knew that. I knew that.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna stay in my camera. I knew that why

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Speaker 2: are you gonna stay in my camera?

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Speaker 3: You could have said that your camera, bring my camera back,

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Speaker 3: let me finish my story.

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Speaker 3: Her hair got caught in the fan and I had

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Speaker 2: It was a middle park situation going on.

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Speaker 3: I was like, yes, I was giving Beyonce vice with

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Speaker 1: So let me guess you put your hand the fan.

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Speaker 3: So fan, right, So I'm getting some of the residual

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, clearly like I'm Beyonce in this moment.

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Speaker 2: As I'm watching.

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Speaker 1: Everybody don't get that, no.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, And I'm like, is it like pulling the crossover

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Speaker 2: Maybe you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So we're in the hive or whatever, and she comes

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Speaker 3: it's just the hair is flowing, and I'm like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god. Girl. She reaches down to me, grabs my

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Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, she spoke to me. She

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Speaker 3: She grabbed my hand and was like, girl, you better

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Speaker 3: in the mic.

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Speaker 1: Touched my hand.

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Speaker 4: You never wash that hand. Everything sticky ass. I knew

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Speaker 4: there was a reason why that hand was sticky. Don't

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that was a moment where I was just like, ohoot.

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Speaker 3: So I had been to that show before. And then

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Speaker 3: there was another show I had been to. I want

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Speaker 3: to say it was at the Barclay Central Madison Square Garden.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe, but it was when we were in New York.

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Speaker 3: So I finally feel like I was able to slowly

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Speaker 3: to that show in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 4: After I so blatantly told you, or after you so

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Speaker 4: blatantly didn't pay the credit card build or we didn't.

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Speaker 1: Have the money for the credit cards.

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Speaker 3: For those of y'all who have not heard the story yet, yo,

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Speaker 3: I was making payments on the credit card, senty dollars

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Speaker 3: and I paid sixty dollars to me, is giving more

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Speaker 3: the interest rate was Wow.

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Speaker 4: Crazy, It's terrible. We're supposed to be speaking to people

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Speaker 3: Guys. This is also Kadeen postpartum depressed after Jackson.

442
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 4: This is what year now, twenty twelve. This is a

443
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:10,959
Speaker 4: Beyonce fanatic. There's no listen. They are so deluded. They

444
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 4: are so delusional that she expected me to find a

445
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 4: way to get these tickets although she had spent the

446
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 4: money for the tickets.

447
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,760
Speaker 1: I was going to buy the way.

448
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,440
Speaker 2: We're planning for the Beyonce tickets.

449
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:22,639
Speaker 3: If I had known then, I would have put a

450
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,160
Speaker 3: little bit more on the minimum.

451
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,360
Speaker 4: Also that that would have been the reason you put

452
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 4: more on the minimum for the Beyonce tickets, not because

453
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,360
Speaker 4: it's just responsible.

454
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:36,679
Speaker 3: That was a sacrificial learning moment because in that moment.

455
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:41,240
Speaker 2: Now I had to. Then, in that moment, it clicked

456
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:41,480
Speaker 2: to me.

457
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 1: What clicked that You wasn't seeing literacy, That's what it was.

458
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 2: Yes, that's different. She told me a lesson. You taught

459
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,360
Speaker 2: me a lesson on how to be a little bit more.

460
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,840
Speaker 1: Yo yo, Beyonce, get credit for everything.

461
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 2: It was a group. It was a group effort between you.

462
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 1: You don't get no credit for that. I had to

463
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: pay that bill off. But I'm sorry.

464
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 4: Listen, I love Beyonce too, I love jay Z, but

465
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 4: you're not getting credit for me paying a credit card

466
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 4: bill that she ran.

467
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 3: Now, I'm talking about my mindset at that point, I

468
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 3: was just like, oh shoot, Like this was something that

469
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 3: I really wanted to do that I could not do

470
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 3: because I did not have a way to do it

471
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 3: because I was not being fiscally responsible.

472
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 2: Now I'm being physically responsible.

473
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 3: If I could think about a moment in time where

474
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 3: the tides turned for me, that was it.

475
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 1: That was the moment. I'll receive that.

476
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,439
Speaker 4: But I'm glad you brought that up, because since we're

477
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 4: talking about being fiscally responsible, I got a bone to

478
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 4: pick with FedEx. Feel all that part bone to pickle,

479
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:38,399
Speaker 4: So listen to this.

480
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: I know it was in the news. They've been talking

481
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 1: about this.

482
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 2: Before you did this. Can I take something real quick?

483
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 3: So I had done a TikTok video right of me,

484
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 3: acting as if I was texting Tyler Perry to say

485
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 3: I'm gonna need to.

486
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 2: Be to get raised and some time off so I

487
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 2: can get.

488
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 1: Yes. Yes, yes.

489
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 3: Oh so I didn't know so pretty much you had

490
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 3: me all set up in this.

491
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 2: I had not because when he hit me, I was like,

492
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 2: how does he even know that? I like piance like that.

493
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: I didn't even know, like what the deal was.

494
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 4: Now you posted on TikTok. I had posted it on

495
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 4: my Instagram. I remember I tagged him in it.

496
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: He was laughing.

497
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: He was laughing. Yeah, so I'm just like, listen, this

498
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:15,239
Speaker 2: is what we gotta do.

499
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 3: So after doing that, I was like, man, I was

500
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 3: really like hoping to get some tickets. And then we

501
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 3: fell into this situation that Deval was going to explain

502
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 3: to y'all.

503
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, so.

504
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 4: You know how they say, these motherfuckers ain't stopping me.

505
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 4: These No, these motherfuckers stopped us. They stopped us dead ass.

506
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 4: So the day the tickets came out, we were on

507
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 4: tour right. My driver said it was just like yo,

508
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 4: he's from d C. He was like, yo, I got

509
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 4: an end with FedEx Phil. I got box seats because

510
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 4: I'm a season ticket holder, I can get the Beyonce tickets.

511
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, say less.

512
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 2: Literally in the green room about to go on to.

513
00:22:55,880 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 4: The Today's Show. Right, how much is the boxing? He

514
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 4: goes twenty thousand dollars? I said, oh, man, So I'm like,

515
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 4: man said, like the fuck?

516
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: He started blinking like that.

517
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

518
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 4: I was blinking because I almost had a stroke just

519
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 4: thinking about all that money to go see Beyonce.

520
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 1: I was like okay.

521
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 2: Because it was a box that held ten ten.

522
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,959
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, So if I invite ten people

523
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 4: and it's gonna be food and drinks, it's gonna be

524
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 4: including stuff like that.

525
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna charge people because I'm getting my money back.

526
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 4: One thing I'm gonna do is I'm gonna make a

527
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 4: business out of something, Right, I'm gonna get a tour

528
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 4: bus or something, and I'm gonna invite people and I'm

529
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 4: gonna charge them to come on this fucking trip. This

530
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 4: is all I'm thinking, right, But I just wanted to

531
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 4: make sure I had a seat for me and my baby.

532
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 4: Because I was like, I just told the story on

533
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 4: the Sherry Shepherd Show, and these tickets is available and

534
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 4: had I went to the behive thing through American Express,

535
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 4: I got weightlisted. I went through my city car, got weightlisted.

536
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 4: So I was like, this is my only opportunity. Fine,

537
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna invest in this opportunity.

538
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 3: Y'all had to see the confidence with which Javal had

539
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 3: his laptop, like, I'm not to go tickets right now.

540
00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 4: If y'all watching a Patreon The minute them tickets and

541
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 4: I seen I was looking for ways and they said

542
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 4: city card.

543
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: I said, that's the same card.

544
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 2: That I paid it off.

545
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I paid it off. I said, this is

546
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 1: the sign. This is a sign I gotta get this.

547
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: I got my computer.

548
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: I was like he literally was like that he was.

549
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 4: It was like it was like he was like, babe, no,

550
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 4: don't worry about knowing. I said, Yo, don't tell me,

551
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 4: no Streuss, your man got you? Yo, didn't I say

552
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 4: I got you? Don't I get shit done? Don't I

553
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 4: get shit done? And she was just like, yeah, you

554
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 4: get see done. Daddy gets So I was like, I

555
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,239
Speaker 4: get ship done and I put this stuff in and

556
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 4: I said, I'm gonna get an email on Monday. They

557
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 4: know who I am. I'm a city car holder for

558
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 4: fifteen years. I'm gonna get period tickets. Period email comes

559
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 4: on Monday. I seen the joint pop up with the

560
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 4: Beyonce on the horse thing all that. I said, Okay,

561
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 4: I got that email. Open that bitch up. He said,

562
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:52,199
Speaker 4: you've been waitlisted. I was like, these motherfuckers, so that

563
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 4: all that happened to me twice. So now said tells

564
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 4: me he can get tickets. I go, boom, What I

565
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 4: gotta do? He said, you just gotta put the money

566
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 4: down for the box and it's yours, like you got

567
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 4: the tickets for August August Fair fakes Field, August August Fils.

568
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,360
Speaker 3: I went so much as to scope out of ear

569
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 3: B and B book that joint say we're gonna have

570
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 3: a whole house party with whoever we invite to come along.

571
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 1: Was prepared. We was prepared.

572
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 2: But it was going to be a moment. Man, it

573
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 2: was gonna be a moment.

574
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 3: I was making personalized Beyonce boxes for everyone in attendance.

575
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 4: Yep, yep, she was. She was like so focused, and

576
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 4: I was. I was excited to be able to have

577
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 4: that full circle moment with you. So I was ready

578
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: to like, I was gonna do the behind thing with

579
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 4: her and do with the dance bred I was gonna

580
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 4: do all of that.

581
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,239
Speaker 1: I was gonna do everything right.

582
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 2: You were really gonna do it? Yes, rehearsal schedule too,

583
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 2: you have rehearsal.

584
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: I did I kid you not. She gets to call

585
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: from Tyler and I'm like, dang, I got these tickets.

586
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: It's twenty thousands.

587
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: You know what.

588
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 4: She can go with Tyler watching in Sweden. We're gonna

589
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 4: come back, make an experience of it for ourselves. While

590
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 4: she's away, I get a call from Said and I

591
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 4: see it sets calling. I don't know why he's called.

592
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 4: I start call him back. A couple of days go by,

593
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 4: A couple of days go by. Kay finally comes back.

594
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 4: She tells me everything is happening, and I say, let

595
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,120
Speaker 4: me call Said back.

596
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: Let me see you know why he called me. He

597
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: called me back. He goes, Yo, we got a problem.

598
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: What's the problem.

599
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 4: FedEx Field is now saying that the tickets that they

600
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,199
Speaker 4: sold for the box for Beyonce is no longer going

601
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 4: to be available. They're going to refund or they're going

602
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 4: to allow people who already have the boxes to keep

603
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 4: their boxes if they're willing to pay two times the price.

604
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, what, bruh, what like what kind of business

605
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 4: is this? And he was just like, this is the

606
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 4: business of Beyonce. Everybody else is trying to make so

607
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 4: much money off of Beyonce that they're doing all of this.

608
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 4: Un Like, this is like morally wrong, Like we we

609
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 4: booked these tickets months ago. What if we booked plane tickets?

610
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 4: Uh Airbnb's what? Like what if we had plans? And

611
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,479
Speaker 4: now you're telling me you're just going to either refund

612
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 4: me my money or I got to pay two times

613
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 4: more for the tickets.

614
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 3: It was it like some fine print or something in

615
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 3: there that you have because that doesn't seem like it's

616
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 3: even ethically allowed, Like is that even a thing?

617
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 2: Can people do that?

618
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: To be honest us, they can because they're doing it.

619
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: I mean that's why NBC.

620
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 3: Like, I'm surprised they wouldn't have like lawsuits or like something,

621
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 3: because that's that's essentially.

622
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 2: Not scalping.

623
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: But that's the key gouging.

624
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, tickey gouging sounds like it's me but I guess

625
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 4: this is a private event. It's not a sporting event.

626
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 4: They reserve the rights to, you know, do whatever they

627
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 4: want to do.

628
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what the legal thing is.

629
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest.

630
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 4: I didn't look into it that much because you would

631
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 4: already went to go see Beyond, right, So I was like,

632
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 4: fuck fed Xfield.

633
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 1: I'm not giving them no.

634
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 4: More my money, you know what I'm saying. At first,

635
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 4: I was trying to figure out a way, but I was.

636
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 2: It's all good.

637
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 3: I mean, if we were to be blessed enough to

638
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 3: stumble upon another opportunity where we can't go and like,

639
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: because I wanted also for us to make it an

640
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 3: experience with some of our closest friends too, You and

641
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 3: I you know bus for a long time.

642
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: But it won't be Field though. No, I'll tell.

643
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 2: You that we'll find somewhere else to go.

644
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: Like that pissed me up.

645
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: Somebody else to do it.

646
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 4: And when they say you can't, ain't stopping me them,

647
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 4: Nigga shot me sure, because I ain't paying forty thousand dollars.

648
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: I don't care how close I am to that damn fan.

649
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 3: And you wouldn't even have been close to the fan

650
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 3: because like for example, in Stockholm, we were in the suite,

651
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 3: but the suite is of course all at the very top,

652
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 3: and then we had access to the Ace of Spades platform.

653
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: But I'm assuming down low.

654
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: But I'm assuming that's what it is.

655
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 4: If you buy a shoe, it gives you access to

656
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, You get access.

657
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: To certain things.

658
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: Now that makes sense.

659
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 4: Now we're not going to be in the Bee High,

660
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 4: but will be in that Ace of Spades lounge or

661
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 4: some other lounges.

662
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: Because just because you're in the suite don't mean you

663
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: stay up there.

664
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 4: You can still go down into the concert right right,

665
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 4: And that's that's what I was hoping for.

666
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 2: Right and I was literally in a suite right next to.

667
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: Blue and Root, Me and Jay, So you felt like family.

668
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 2: It was it was given family, It was given Auntie.

669
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: It was.

670
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: Well.

671
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 3: Beyonce was busy. It was her first show. I understand this,

672
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 3: it was your first show. Lots of press. I know

673
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 3: that we couldn't connect in that moment. I'm gonna let

674
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 3: you rock. You know what I'm saying, because I understand

675
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: what it's like. You know what I'm saying. It's a

676
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 3: lot going on. You got a press room.

677
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 2: On tour.

678
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: I understand international pop stars.

679
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: I never said that.

680
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 3: I am saying I can empathize with what I can

681
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 3: imagine the pressure is like.

682
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 2: So it's all good. The kids were good.

683
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: Let me tell you right now.

684
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 2: Jay was cool.

685
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 3: You know down your mama mss Tina was there in

686
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 3: full effect on the Ace of Spades platform having a

687
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 3: random time, having a random time.

688
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 4: Kay went out with the family after listen.

689
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 2: She's like, girl, lear can you sit that is? I

690
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:00,959
Speaker 2: got you.

691
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna watch you. I'm not gonna watch you.

692
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 4: I hope to God that I am successful enough as

693
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 4: an artist, as an actor to have the type of

694
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 4: fans that Beyonce has like that. In all honesty, yo,

695
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 4: I hope people ride for me the way the behive

696
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 4: rides for Beyonce, because.

697
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: There's a difference. There's a difference, you know, there's a difference.

698
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: Beyonce was on the.

699
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 4: Horse Kadeen being a leotard on me, glitter and everything.

700
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm in that hope. I'll

701
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: be in that hope all the way in there.

702
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 4: Four boys came out that hope too, So that's.

703
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 3: The fact, take a break, nobody, nobody else.

704
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 2: It's coming, without doubt. But you're gonna have that baby.

705
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,959
Speaker 3: And you know why it's gonna be even great, right,

706
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 3: because you're just so relatable, so personable. You're just like

707
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 3: a good dude. You're a bomb ass dude that your

708
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 3: bomb Yes, shout out to TPS. TPS made it happen

709
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: for me too, man.

710
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 4: Psy, I said, look, Yo, because of you, I ain't

711
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 4: had nothing on Mother's Day. Yo.

712
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 3: I texted them and said the same thing too. I

713
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 3: was just like when everybody asked me what I want

714
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: for Mother's Day?

715
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: Nothing nothing. She want nothing.

716
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:26,959
Speaker 2: I didn't want anything. All I did.

717
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: All I wanted on Mother's Day was to sit at

718
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 3: home with my husband, my boys, Mom and dad were here.

719
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 3: Y'all grilled for me, made dinner, made lunch. The kids

720
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 3: were in the pool. It was the first official pool

721
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 3: day of the year.

722
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 4: She split my American Express card in Sweden shopping, So

723
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 4: don't forget that though for somebody who ain't want nothing

724
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 4: came back with a lot of bags.

725
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: It's only because you're looking around.

726
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 3: To me, because I got some deals out there and

727
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: it's tax free, so I got the tax back taxes

728
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 3: coming back to the car. So you know I'm you know,

729
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 3: I'm a frugal shopper. I'm gonna fign me a deal

730
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna make it make sense. And I'm a

731
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 3: ball on a budget period.

732
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: Kadeen, dead ass Kadeen. And now a couch? See a couch? Right?

733
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 4: She would buy a couch for twelve thousand dollars. And

734
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 4: I'll say, Kadean, why you buy this twelve thousand dollars couch?

735
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 4: It was on sale?

736
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: It used to be twelve thousand, five hundred. How could

737
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: I beat that sale? The foul? And I'll be like,

738
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: and that be her face right there, this demonic last.

739
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 3: Right would you be to same one? Throw me over

740
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 3: that couch? And I'm like, see it's so comfy. It's

741
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 3: the right height, your leverage perfect.

742
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: I'm glad you. That's all I looked at.

743
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 2: That's all I'll be thinking.

744
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: The couch is the right height so that I could throw.

745
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 3: You firmness, you know, absorb the shock, give you give.

746
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: She's been this happy ever since she's been bad. Episode.

747
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 2: I love that for us, and I love that for

748
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: y'all who are listen.

749
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 4: This is how happy she's been she's she walking around skipping,

750
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 4: making lunches and dinners.

751
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 3: And shit, and I g le's go put some energy

752
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 3: on these bills and now we'll be back. All right,

753
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 3: listen to letters. We are back and I'm going to

754
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 3: dive into this first room right here. Hi, kending and vow.

755
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 3: I love y'all, Love you back, man. I'm just so happy, y'all. Okay,

756
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 3: go ahead. I just wanted to know, after being together

757
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 3: for twenty years, how do you become so obsessed with

758
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 3: each other?

759
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 2: Chill?

760
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 3: I'm asking because my previous relationships never worked out. And

761
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 3: during the relationship, I became tired of my partner. I

762
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: guess because he was and emotionally abusive. I think that'll

763
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 3: do it for you. There were legitmy days where I

764
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 3: did not want to be in his presence because it

765
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 3: was that bad. I want marriage one day, but a

766
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 3: part of me is scared. What if I get tired

767
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 3: of my partner? Vice versa. Any help would be appreciated.

768
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: My advice is never the advice people want to hear.

769
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 4: That every time I give people this advice, men and women,

770
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:25,240
Speaker 4: they always get upset.

771
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 1: But it is just a fact.

772
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 2: What is it?

773
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, is make sure your kids don't

774
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 4: be screaming in the background when you're trying to do

775
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 4: a podcast.

776
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: That's the first advice.

777
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 3: The number of cameos that Coda has probably made y'all

778
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: have to forgive us. You know, we working from home

779
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 3: parents take our kids to work every day type shit.

780
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is always my advice, right, And it's contrary

781
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,760
Speaker 4: to what people are preaching. Right, Okay, people always preach except.

782
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: Me as I am. There's going to be change. There's

783
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 1: going to be this in this Sener.

784
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 4: You gotta deal with me the whatever the way I am, right,

785
00:34:54,960 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 4: I don't believe in that. I honestly believe that Kadeen

786
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 4: fell in love with me, lusted for me, and became

787
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 4: infatuated with me a certain way. And that was when

788
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 4: I was healthy, I was working out, I was doing everything,

789
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 4: you know, I looked a certain way. I feel like

790
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 4: it's my responsibility to continue to strive to be that

791
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 4: version of.

792
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 1: Myself even through the change.

793
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 4: Of course, I'm getting older, my mind changes, the things

794
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 4: I like change and stuff like that. But if there

795
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 4: are things that I can control that you like, I

796
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 4: wanted to keep myself that way, and I would want

797
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 4: you to do the same thing. For example, when you

798
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 4: met me, I was a Division one elite athlete, so

799
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 4: I was ripped, I had abs, you know what I'm saying.

800
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 4: I worked out a lot. I was I was always

801
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 4: motivated to do more. I want to always be that person,

802
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 4: no matter how old I get, because I know that

803
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 4: that's what intrigued you. So not just the physical but everything,

804
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 4: the fact that I'm always going to keep going. Like

805
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 4: even people say, like, why do you go so hard?

806
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,959
Speaker 4: I go so hard because that's who I was when

807
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 4: my part and fell in love with me. That's who

808
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 4: I was when I was trying to be the best

809
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 4: version of myself. Just because I found someone doesn't mean

810
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,919
Speaker 4: that I stopped trying to be the best version because

811
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 4: I'm comfortable. So ultimately, my message to people is stop

812
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 4: being comfortable. You meet someone, you fall in love, and

813
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 4: you get comfortable, and you just say they're gonna accept

814
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 4: me this way, I'm staying here. No, that person met

815
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 4: you on a journey of you trying to be the

816
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 4: best version, so you should continue to try to be

817
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 4: the best version for that person throughout your life, not settling.

818
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 4: And it's the same thing I want for k which

819
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 4: is why I think I'm still so infatuated with K.

820
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 4: The last couple of months, I watched K say, you

821
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 4: know what, you gotta respect me. I don't have to

822
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 4: have kids no more. I'm no longer worried about getting pregnant.

823
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 4: I'm about to put everything I can into being the

824
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,280
Speaker 4: best version of myself.

825
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,240
Speaker 1: You work out more, You work out days.

826
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 4: I've never there's been days where I was going to

827
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 4: take a day off and I seen K walking on

828
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 4: a treadmill, and I was like, I can't take a

829
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 4: day off if she's working.

830
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,959
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I've watched you just work.

831
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 4: I've watched you up into this laptop and focus on

832
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 4: booking more deals and doing more content and just being

833
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 4: the go getter that you were when I met you

834
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 4: when we were the teens.

835
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 2: You're right, that actually makes so much sense.

836
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 4: That made me, That makes me just fall like, that

837
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 4: keeps me my fire going, like look at her goal.

838
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is.

839
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 3: You're right, because both of us when we met had

840
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff going on.

841
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, I had just won a pageant.

842
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 3: You were just getting into football, and well you did

843
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 3: it in high school, but you just got a scholarship

844
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 3: to have ship. Well, you walked on you earned it.

845
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 3: I loved from day one the drive that you had.

846
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 3: And I think for me to answer her question, were

847
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 3: you done with your thoughts? Sorry, yeah, I'm done, go ahead, okay,

848
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 3: for her to answer her question, like, what is it

849
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: that keeps me?

850
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: Like?

851
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 3: So it's the doing life with someone having set so

852
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 3: many goals and watching the dreams unfold and strategizing. There's

853
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 3: a fun for me in that strategizing on how we

854
00:37:55,600 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 3: can actually achieve these things, and the curiosity that also

855
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 3: lingers when I think about who this man is becoming. Right,

856
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 3: So the growth, the growth and seeing him evolve in

857
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 3: different phases of our life from being a husband and

858
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 3: then being a father. Seeing you as a father, for

859
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 3: me is probably some of the biggest turn ons, Like

860
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 3: when you don't even know because I'm just watching you

861
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 3: in a different facet other than just being devoured my

862
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,959
Speaker 3: friend or devout my partner, devout my lover. I'm seeing

863
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 3: you as devour the father and how much you pour

864
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 3: into our sons, and that in itself is exciting. So

865
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: there's just all these moments of excitement over our life

866
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 3: that I just can't wait to see what you're going

867
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,760
Speaker 3: to do next, and that's just me, you know, along

868
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 3: for the ride with you, but also to being a

869
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 3: spectator in a sense that for me is just like

870
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: it's everything. Her saying that she was emotionally and physically

871
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 3: verbally and abused, like, yeah, that's that girl.

872
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 2: That was exactly what it is like at.

873
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 4: Some point when someone's doing something to you that you

874
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 4: don't want, you're gonna get tired of it, so that

875
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,760
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even consider that someone that you should try

876
00:38:58,840 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 4: to keep the fire burns.

877
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: You got to remove yourself from that situation.

878
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 4: But as far as keeping the fire going, you did

879
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 4: bring up a good point about how we keep setting

880
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 4: new goals for ourselves.

881
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: And this will going on.

882
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 4: Don't mind sharing with y'all having friends who are in

883
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 4: a different point of life than you, who are doing

884
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 4: better than you, and those lives it has always been

885
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 4: inspiration for Kadeen and I.

886
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 1: For example, and this is the truth.

887
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 4: Kadeen's best friend Tiffany, who took you to Beyonce the

888
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 4: first time, was married to one of my best friends,

889
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 4: Steven Bowen, who played in the NFL and was making

890
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 4: five million dollars a year as a defensive lineman for

891
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 4: the Redskins and us going to events and looking at

892
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 4: their life was inspirational for us, and it made us

893
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 4: get together in the car rides home coming from their

894
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 4: million dollar mansion in Leesburg, Virginia, and look at each

895
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 4: other and be like, Yo, we're gonna get there. And

896
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 4: I think about it now, Tyler Tay making you on

897
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 4: a private jet and then you're coming back home and

898
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 4: we're having these talks. We look at each other and

899
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 4: we go, we're gonna get there.

900
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 3: It's like the parallels there, you know, parallel. Like we

901
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 3: would leave our apartment in Brooklyn and Crown Heights with Jackson.

902
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 3: He was a baby at the time, didn't have Cairo

903
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 3: and Kaza. Jackson was maybe like two three, and we

904
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 3: do road trips to visit them in Virginia and we

905
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 3: just pull up to.

906
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: The house and be like, oh, yep.

907
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 3: I remember the first time I pulled up to their

908
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 3: house and I was like, look at this house. I

909
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 3: mean huge, it was like eight bedrooms. It was a huge,

910
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 3: huge backyard, beautiful everything. And then we would spend a

911
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 3: weekend having a great time with our friends, and then

912
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 3: we would drive back home and then you know, turn

913
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 3: the key to the apartment and be like, damn one day.

914
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah we but one.

915
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 4: The thing is, though, we would be with them and

916
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 4: always talk business. Boat was playing football, but Tiffany always

917
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 4: had an entrepreneural mindset and she and I would sit

918
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 4: down and talk about like what would be next, like

919
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 4: what are we doing.

920
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 2: At the time the next business.

921
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,760
Speaker 4: I was focused on TV film and Kadeen was doing makeup,

922
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 4: so she was starting Harlem hookah and opening other businesses.

923
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: Haven't been definitely a staple in Harlem.

924
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 2: Great finger foods and who could all that drinks?

925
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 4: We used to go there enjoy festivities. But it was

926
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,720
Speaker 4: the inspiration from seeing a lifestyle that you don't see

927
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 4: growing up being from Brooklyn. So I say all that

928
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 4: to just be like, if you're with somebody and you

929
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 4: want to figure out how to keep the fire burning,

930
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 4: set goals with your partner right once again, shameless plug

931
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 4: We Over Me. The main premise of We Over Me

932
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 4: was the way it started was Kadeen said to me,

933
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 4: what do you want to do with your life? I said,

934
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 4: I wanted to do that. Martin was on TV. She said,

935
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 4: how are we going to get there? That gave us

936
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 4: her common goal, and that always gave us something to

937
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 4: work on.

938
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: So even when we're at our worst or when we're

939
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: like not.

940
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 4: Feeling each other, we would always sit down and be like,

941
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 4: don't you want to be able to do this? We

942
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 4: can do this. We could be out in the middle

943
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 4: of an argument and business comes around. We find a

944
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 4: way to work together to make it work. And that's

945
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 4: allowed us to continue to push through those rough times,

946
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 4: and after a while, the rough times are fewer and

947
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 4: smaller and farther in between. That's the fact, and that's

948
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 4: just where we are now, like, and it.

949
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 3: Just becomes a testimony or an added piece of the

950
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 3: story of how you got it, And that makes the

951
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 3: road so much sweeter when I really think about it. Absolutely,

952
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 3: Like in those moments, a lot of the denies and

953
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 3: the nose and everything, you question things like why am

954
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 3: I even doing this?

955
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 2: Or am I even on the right path?

956
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 3: Or we should maybe not be you know, thinking of

957
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: these dreams that we had set out right, and then

958
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 3: it just makes sense it just wasn't the right time,

959
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 3: or you know, everything has to happen, even some things

960
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 3: that we have in the works now. I'm like Deval

961
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 3: we weren't prepared for these things absolutely, so always trust

962
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 3: God's timing. That's off topic, but on topic.

963
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: Yes, l'am all right. I hope that helps you.

964
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 2: Yes, you want to read this? Sext one is just

965
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 2: no longer, but number two.

966
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 4: Hey, Davalen Kadeen. First off, I love y'all and you

967
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 4: guys are doing amazing. Thank you so much. More wins

968
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 4: for sure speaking into existence. So I previously wrote to y'all,

969
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 4: but this is an edits. I have been with my

970
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 4: boyfriend for about six months now. I love you, guys.

971
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 4: I love this guy so much, and he loves me.

972
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 4: I can feel it, and I know everything is going amazing.

973
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 4: He supports me more than anyone ever has. We're literally

974
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 4: each other's hype man, know what that's like. He's twenty

975
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 4: four and I'm twenty. We're currently both in school. He's

976
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 4: in aviation and I'm studying for my bachelor's degree. Hopefully

977
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 4: we're both done by this year. He wants us to

978
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 4: get married by next year. I want that too, but

979
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 4: I'm really conflicted because I feel financially he's not doing well.

980
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: He pays his fees for school and other expenses. I'm

981
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 4: accustomed to a certain way of life, and I want

982
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: him to be secured financially before marriage. I don't know

983
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 4: if I'm being selfish, but he doesn't make an effort

984
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 4: to spoil me with even the least amount of money.

985
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 4: We split bills on almost everything, even the small things.

986
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 4: Sometimes it's awkward that I want to pay everything, but

987
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 4: I don't want to.

988
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: Hurt his ego. He makes some slight jokes, like I'm

989
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: rich and got money when I tried to pay for

990
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: some stuff for me or both of us. I see

991
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: that as a red flag. I see a lot of

992
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: potential in him.

993
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 4: I want to stick around, but what if things keep

994
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:20,839
Speaker 4: going on this way even when he makes a lot

995
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 4: of money one day? To be honest, I love seeing

996
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 4: I love to be honest. I see love as giving,

997
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 4: but don't see him doing as much. What do y'all

998
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 4: think about this? Thank you joy?

999
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 3: She's twenty four, child twenty four and twenty and year twenty.

1000
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:41,240
Speaker 3: Now you might be spoiled by your parents, families, somebody else,

1001
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 3: you know. I don't know who you've been spoiled by

1002
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 3: in your twenty years of life, But twenty four, syst

1003
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 3: if I looked.

1004
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: At and judged Deval.

1005
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 3: On the number of the amount of money that he

1006
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 3: made at twenty four, granted, and what he was doing

1007
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 3: in his mindset, Like, granted, it was a little different

1008
00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 3: for him because you did have your short stand in

1009
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 3: the end, but then lost everything and we went back

1010
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 3: to being broke in Brooklyn and having to rebuild.

1011
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 2: You cannot base your entire.

1012
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 3: Idea of what life will be like with him at

1013
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 3: twenty four.

1014
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 2: Are you in it to build with him? Or are

1015
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 2: you being in it to see what he can give?

1016
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 2: Now that's what it sounds like to me. Yeah, so

1017
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 2: that's you guys.

1018
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 3: Are Yeah, career girl, Where is he supposed to be

1019
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 3: getting this money from If he's trying to put himself

1020
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 3: through school and he's paying his school bills and whatnot,

1021
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,439
Speaker 3: that's exactly what he should be doing. If he's paying

1022
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 3: his bills now, is it to avoid having debt later

1023
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 3: having to repay loans? Like? What does that look like?

1024
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 3: I think we need to practice a little patience here,

1025
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 3: give him a little grace. And Deval has said time

1026
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 3: and time again on this podcast that men have it hard,

1027
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 3: particularly because in their twenties they don't have it all together.

1028
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 3: You can't expect for anyone in their twenties, male or female.

1029
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 2: To have it all together.

1030
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 3: So I would say to you, sis, if you feel

1031
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 3: like there's a connection there.

1032
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 2: You guys love each other. It's very much giving.

1033
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 3: De Val and I when we were kid bro where

1034
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 3: if I had it, he had it, and vice versa

1035
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 3: if he had I mean, there were so many moments

1036
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 3: where it flip flopped.

1037
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,720
Speaker 1: Can I just I just this is what I don't.

1038
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 2: And I didn't feelin way about it.

1039
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 4: He's twenty four, she's twenty. There both in school when

1040
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 4: you were twenty, I was twenty. We were both in school.

1041
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 4: It never crossed my mind to be able to pay

1042
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 4: for things for you. I just didn't have it. I

1043
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 4: was in school and you never asked me if anything.

1044
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 4: We lived off of the stipend you got from your

1045
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 4: ra bonus yep, to get food and when we when

1046
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 4: we went to your plan and my meal plan.

1047
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the money I got from my dad.

1048
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 4: I got one hundred dollars a month, and my brother

1049
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 4: sent half of his pel check, so it was one

1050
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 4: thousand dollars I got for the entire year, which gave

1051
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 4: me an additional one hundred dollars, So I got about

1052
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 4: two hundred.

1053
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: Dollars a month gas money.

1054
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 1: That was good gas money we would go to Fridays.

1055
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: I will put it on my credit card.

1056
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 4: But I don't remember this whole idea of who pays

1057
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 4: for what in our twenty we will build him this

1058
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 4: generation is I don't get it.

1059
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: But it's all about what can I get? Who is

1060
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: paying for what?

1061
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 3: You're paying for what? Yes, a lot of that going on.

1062
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 3: Just don't get it, like I need all of this

1063
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 3: right now. Showing me means purchasing these things or giving

1064
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 3: me this lifestyle. I mean, it's unfortunate because I just

1065
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 3: look at I know social media has a lot to

1066
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 3: do with it. We saying time and time again, like

1067
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 3: the standards that people have around what it looks like

1068
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 3: to be courted and wooed in this time is just

1069
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 3: very skewed.

1070
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: It is.

1071
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: It's very skewed.

1072
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 4: I what's crazy is she says, I want him to

1073
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 4: be financially responsible before we get married. Right, he pays

1074
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 4: for his school and stuff, but he doesn't splurge on me,

1075
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 4: or he doesn't do anything special for me. I'm like,

1076
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 4: what if he's being responsible by saving whatever money he has,

1077
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 4: or he can propose and buy a ring because she

1078
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 4: doesn't have to buy You know, I'm not even getting

1079
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 4: to this.

1080
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: I've said this so many times. Yeah, I feel like men.

1081
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 4: Are responsible to do all of these things and we

1082
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 4: have to do it on your time. When you get

1083
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 4: to sit back and say, well, I'm waiting, I'm waiting,

1084
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 4: lay sis.

1085
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 3: Don't lose out on a potentially great man who you

1086
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 3: could build with far into your twenties and thirties and

1087
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 3: beyond because you're concerned about what he can do for

1088
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,240
Speaker 3: you now in this moment. If he's a good person,

1089
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 3: if you guys are connected, if you love him, if

1090
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 3: you see ambition and drive, like Dval didn't.

1091
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: Have nothing, I had nothing in I had.

1092
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 3: Ambition, he had drive, he had charisma. I was like, oh,

1093
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 3: he's going to be like we could do this together.

1094
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't about what he could have done for me

1095
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 3: in that moment.

1096
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 4: Not to cut you off, I wonder if we grew

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Speaker 4: up in this generation, would we have made it because

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00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,959
Speaker 4: I had nothing and if your mindset was I need

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00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 4: to be with somebody who can do for me in my.

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Speaker 1: Twenties because not for you.

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Speaker 3: My parents we didn't live a lavish lifestyle, but I

1102
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 3: was able to get more than when I needed, I

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00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 3: got what I wanted, I was able to do extra.

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Speaker 2: So I came into it thinking like, Okay, well my

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00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 2: mom and dad can do it for me. But it

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00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 2: never crossed my mind like, oh well my mom and

1107
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:03,799
Speaker 2: dad were able to do all these things for me.

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00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 2: So there for you at twenty.

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00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 4: Crazy, Yeah, that's that's crazy. I'm going to pray for you.

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00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 4: It sounds like y'all have a great relationship, and I

1111
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,839
Speaker 4: hope that you put the basis of your relationship on

1112
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,359
Speaker 4: what you guys are building now and not on who

1113
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,240
Speaker 4: pays for what and what time.

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Speaker 2: And that keeping.

1115
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's rough.

1116
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's a lot of pressure to put on

1117
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 3: anybody in their twenties, male or female.

1118
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: Like, that's a lot. So just some food for thoughts,

1119
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 2: is you know?

1120
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, some food for thought.

1121
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, y'all.

1122
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 3: If you want to be featured as a listener letter,

1123
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 3: please email us at dead ass Advice at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 4: That's d E A D A S S A d

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00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 4: V I C E at gmail dot com.

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00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 3: That's right, cause why these motherfuckers ain't stop you. These

1127
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 3: motherfuckers ain't stopping you. Dead ass. Okay, sorry, I had

1128
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 3: a moment with y'all came back to me as a

1129
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 3: moment of truth.

1130
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 2: Time.

1131
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: Here's my moment of truth. You got your I got

1132
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: my moment.

1133
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 4: My moment of truth. First of all is fuck FedEx Field. Okay,

1134
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 4: that's number one. That's okay. I ain't never been a

1135
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 4: Redskins fan. Well now a Commander's fan. Shout out to

1136
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 4: my boy boy. I know you played for them, Hatch.

1137
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 4: I know you played for them, my boy bag, I

1138
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 4: know you played for them. You know I love y'all.

1139
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 4: Fuck FedEx Field. That's my moment of truth. And one

1140
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 4: number two, I've realized that being a fan of someone

1141
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 4: who was great right also gives you inspiration to be great.

1142
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,280
Speaker 1: In your own right. Oh my goodness, When I look.

1143
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 4: At how much Beyonce made you smile, going to the

1144
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 4: event made you smile, it inspired me to work harder,

1145
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 4: to be able to create the type of lifestyle that

1146
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,319
Speaker 4: you can do that all the time. And then I

1147
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 4: got stole this. We be on the same thing, on

1148
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 4: the same It's always about the biggest I look at

1149
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 4: where we was then and how it inspired us to

1150
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 4: get here. Now, I look at where we are now

1151
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 4: and how it's inspiring us to go further. And I

1152
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 4: say that because I know that people say that we

1153
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 4: are inspiration for them, and I hope when they listen

1154
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 4: to this they realize that you are inspired by people

1155
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 4: who are continuously looking for inspiration from others.

1156
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 2: A fact.

1157
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 4: And the funny thing is the inspiration isn't Beyonce. The

1158
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 4: inspiration was Tiff and Steve at that time. The inspiration

1159
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 4: is now Tyler, and the inspiration is also Beyonce for

1160
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 4: you because it's like I get to see someone who

1161
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 4: is doing something great and it's like, wow, if she

1162
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 4: can go out there and be brave and do her

1163
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 4: things great. And these other people who are bringing me

1164
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 4: to these things are inspiring me to live a life

1165
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,399
Speaker 4: stule to be great, I can do.

1166
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 2: That too, absolutely.

1167
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 4: So that's my moment of truth is continuous, continuously be inspired,

1168
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 4: Find people who inspire you, work to be in their

1169
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,919
Speaker 4: presence and work to be who they are in those

1170
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,240
Speaker 4: moments so that you can continue to ascend in life.

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00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 2: That's great.

1172
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say it's funny because it was

1173
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 3: kind of overlapping with your idea of that. But I

1174
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 3: was going to say, as my moment of truth that

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00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 3: it's bigger than Beyonce. Right, It's bigger than just seeing

1176
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 3: her in concert, meeting her a couple of times that

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00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 3: I did in passing. For me, it was what I

1178
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 3: took away from that moment, having that experience with Tyler

1179
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 3: and some friends. It just made me so invigorated to

1180
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 3: come back and find ways to be able to do

1181
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 3: that for me and my friends.

1182
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I want to be able

1183
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 2: to do that, and I.

1184
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 3: Has to share these experiences with the people who I

1185
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 3: love and be an inspiration to other people the way

1186
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 3: they inspire me. So it's bigger than going to Sweden

1187
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 3: on a private jet. Is bigger than seeing Beyonce perform,

1188
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 3: It's bigger than all of that. It's ultimately boiling down

1189
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 3: to surrounding yourself with people who are doing better than you,

1190
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 3: who are smarter than you, and not looking at that

1191
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:52,720
Speaker 3: as a failure because you're not there yet, but find

1192
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 3: it yet.

1193
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 2: Just finding ways to get there. Because since that trip.

1194
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 3: Since TP's opening up the studio, there's been so many

1195
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 3: moments where you and I were just like, Yo, this.

1196
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 2: Is this is feasible.

1197
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 1: It feasible. See it.

1198
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 2: This is feasible. We see it like, we can do this,

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00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 2: you know.

1200
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 3: So if there's nothing else that I took away from

1201
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 3: this entire experience is that I can do it.

1202
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 2: We can do it, and I love that I have

1203
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 2: a partner I can do it with.

1204
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: So let's get it.

1205
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Speaker 3: Let's do a baby, all right, y'all, be sure to

1206
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 3: find us on Patreon if you're not yet, because baby

1207
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 3: like an episode like this is funny.

1208
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 2: Y'all can listen to it, and it's funny, but you

1209
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 2: gotta get.

1210
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 3: Like the full effect with the facial expressions, the camera work,

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Speaker 3: all that stuff.

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Speaker 2: So Patreon gang.

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