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Speaker 1: and A. What's up Abby? How are you feeling?
Speaker 2: I'm good. Why do I always get a little nervous
Speaker 2: on these questions? I don't know why.
Speaker 1: Well, don't be nervous.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't need to be their hard hitting question
Speaker 2: the fifth.
Speaker 1: It's always an all of them.
Speaker 2: I mean I played the fifth.
Speaker 3: Maybe at least answer two of them. But yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: So we're gonna start with.
Speaker 1: Some compliments because we love doing that.
Speaker 3: So sweet Katie and Ashell wanted to say she loves
Speaker 3: the best bits and you and Abby are the best.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: Darcy and Texas said love you too.
Speaker 3: Jessica says I just love my fellow Wichita girlies. We've
Speaker 3: got Lisa who says I really hope you and Abby
Speaker 3: have found the right men and you're both happy.
Speaker 1: Same, same, same, same same. Emily said, awesome job on
Speaker 1: the half marathon.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you, that was so nice. I love compliments.
Speaker 1: Yeah, starting with some love. I'm trying to bring some
Speaker 1: more positivity into the world. You like that yeah, a
Speaker 1: struggling out here?
Speaker 3: Or are new guys okay with posting on social media
Speaker 3: and being talked about on the radio? Liz in Oklahoma, Abby,
Speaker 3: you start, because yours.
Speaker 1: Was the hard lone.
Speaker 2: What was the question? You didn't like?
Speaker 1: What were you doing lunchbox?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Like I heard, I just were our new guys? Oh
Speaker 1: man in uniform? And have you said his name? No?
Speaker 2: I haven't said. Okay, she's head and all right?
Speaker 1: She said that was the nickname we gave him. She's
Speaker 1: head okay with the uh?
Speaker 2: Are okay with?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Like? Are they okay with the posting on social
Speaker 3: media and being talked about on the radio?
Speaker 1: Liz in Oklahoma?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so mine, he doesn't care about the pictures. And
Speaker 2: then like he was like, do you want to just
Speaker 2: like say what you're gonna say? First? What you tell me?
Speaker 2: Because one time I think I talked about him, and
Speaker 2: then I think one of his friends or something heard
Speaker 2: about it and brought it up and they're like, oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, I can't believe Abby, blah blah blah. And
Speaker 2: he was like, what I didn't know she talked about it.
Speaker 2: So then he was like, oh, are you just out
Speaker 2: there like willy Nilly talking about me. He wasn't like mad,
Speaker 2: but like you know, he was just kind of like,
Speaker 2: let me be in the loop.
Speaker 1: That's why, let me know what's going on.
Speaker 2: Because so I don't really talk about him that much
Speaker 2: because I also feel like it's his life, you know,
Speaker 2: and so I don't need to go exposing all these
Speaker 2: personal things about him. So if it involves us, it's okay.
Speaker 1: But yeah, not like directly speaking just on him, right,
Speaker 1: I got you, Yes, my my man in.
Speaker 3: Uniform, good Caroloss. He like post and he's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's cool. He saw the photos are are soft launch
Speaker 3: that I pu. He's like, oh yeah, that's cool. He
Speaker 3: saw the video of me talking about him, He's like
Speaker 3: that's cool. It's very He's very chill, very calm, not affected.
Speaker 1: I'll randomly be like I talked about He's like, oh
Speaker 1: that's awesome. What'd you say? And You're like, oh that
Speaker 1: sounds good.
Speaker 3: Like very unaffected, unbothered in a lot of great ways.
Speaker 1: So yeah, he's a good.
Speaker 3: Now. I still tell him much like you. I always
Speaker 3: tell him when it happens and when it gets brought up.
Speaker 1: But I so.
Speaker 3: Far, no no cross paths nobody's like been like is
Speaker 3: that you, because I don't think anybody can put to
Speaker 3: into together yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, are you going to do a hard launch? Because
Speaker 2: I feel like the guys you've dated in the past,
Speaker 2: you've never added.
Speaker 3: I did my first, my first like as far as
Speaker 3: dating relationships on the show, I did my first boyfriend
Speaker 3: that I was dating on the show. He was on
Speaker 3: my socials. The second one I did not. I've done
Speaker 3: like polar opposites, I don't. I think I've realized that
Speaker 3: my social media correlates to how safe I'm feeling in
Speaker 3: real life and about it and how I feel about
Speaker 3: the situation in a way. Also in the first one
Speaker 3: that's like the polar not exactly true at all.
Speaker 1: It's weird.
Speaker 3: It's weird, but I've had at least like in that
Speaker 3: last relationship, I think there was a part of me
Speaker 3: that never wanted to share because I knew I had
Speaker 3: some gut.
Speaker 1: Feeling, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I do think there will be a time
Speaker 3: when I do a version of hard launches. I don't
Speaker 3: know if they'll be like full blown hard launches or
Speaker 3: if they'll just be like, you know, fun little like
Speaker 3: here's been some pieces of him kind of thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I struggle with that too, because people are
Speaker 2: always like, you know, because careful people like to ruin
Speaker 2: good things, you know, And so it's kind of a
Speaker 2: struggle between how much do I actually want to share,
Speaker 2: Like I'm okay with putting it on my personal like
Speaker 2: Facebook page because it's just my friends only that can
Speaker 2: see some things, I guess, so I think that's fine
Speaker 2: to keep them updated, yeah, and share with them, so,
Speaker 2: you know, just.
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know, Yeah, I know, I haven't.
Speaker 1: I haven't really decided yet. I do like I want
Speaker 1: to boast him.
Speaker 3: I'm like I said, I'm so giddy that I'm like,
Speaker 3: I want to share him with everybody.
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, never mind, I don't take it back.
Speaker 1: I know, we'll see.
Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever you want to do, really, it's what you're comfortable.
Speaker 3: But I do have a fun, like little video idea
Speaker 3: that I'm gonna throw on him that might be a
Speaker 3: cute little like another soft lounch will be a hard lunch.
Speaker 2: Mine is so against like social media. He never posts,
Speaker 2: you know, like it doesn't he's not on TikTok or
Speaker 2: he doesn't even have TikTok. He's just so like bond.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Like this man in uniform isn't ever On,
Speaker 3: Like he has an Instagram and it gets deleted from
Speaker 3: his phone and then he'll like read it and I'll
Speaker 3: get like a random message from him.
Speaker 1: He's like I'm back and he's gone again. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what are you doing?
Speaker 2: That's really funny.
Speaker 3: Never On doesn't know anything about social media either. He's
Speaker 3: hilarious about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's funny because it's like opposite of you,
Speaker 2: like you have to know everything about oh yeah, very much.
Speaker 2: So that's funny, and you're not on social media all
Speaker 2: that much. So I'm really not I know it works
Speaker 2: for you, guys. I posted for the first time in
Speaker 2: three months and then it was him, So yikes.
Speaker 1: Abby is not in her influence her era.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: Okay. Have you have you guys been on a double
Speaker 1: date with your new booze?
Speaker 2: I all I want to. We kind of almost did, yes,
Speaker 2: and I was really excited, Yeah that we do need to.
Speaker 2: There was an event we were both gonna be at
Speaker 2: and then something came up, and.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were both gonna go with both of the men.
Speaker 2: Dang, And I was like that's the speaking, but you
Speaker 2: won't even be here.
Speaker 1: I know I need too soon, but I should be
Speaker 1: back next weekend so we can.
Speaker 2: Get somebody realizing. That'd be fun. It would be so
Speaker 2: much fun because we need to know what each other
Speaker 2: is talking about.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 2: I've seen pictures and now I'm like, okay, I really
Speaker 2: want to see what's going on.
Speaker 3: Yes, so we are planning Natasha, and we have tried
Speaker 3: and it almost happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not quite yet. Okay, we'll be right back. Take
Speaker 1: quick break.
Speaker 3: We got some more questions, starting with Cabby and Boston.
Speaker 3: Would like to know if you've started writing another song yet.
Speaker 2: Oh man, things have taken that. The half marathon has
Speaker 2: kept me little preoccupied and busy. Okay, there's a lot personally,
Speaker 2: So no, I really haven't. But there is a song
Speaker 2: that I have ready I want to cut, like, go
Speaker 2: in studio and cut it.
Speaker 3: Okay, So technically you have already written another song, yes,
Speaker 3: but it's yeah.
Speaker 1: I have, you just haven't recorded it, right, I'm.
Speaker 2: Doing one at a time. You know, I'm not one
Speaker 2: of those. It's like I write a hundred songs, like
Speaker 2: most I just write record.
Speaker 1: Is it a love song?
Speaker 2: No, actually, this one is not. Oh it is the
Speaker 2: one that we wrote because it was before I met
Speaker 2: She said yes, she said yeah forgetting like before I
Speaker 2: met him. Yeah, before I met Cheeth heead So I
Speaker 2: was just like, oh, I don't need no man. It
Speaker 2: was like right after my love it, I love it.
Speaker 2: I was like, I want a feisty one, a sassy one.
Speaker 1: You got your carry on away before he cheats moment.
Speaker 2: Yes, kind of like basically yeah, kind of basically yes. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Eric would like to know if there are any plans
Speaker 3: for a Talk to Chuck podcast coming back.
Speaker 2: Oh, dang, I don't think so. I think that is
Speaker 2: in the past. It was really fun. I wish we
Speaker 2: would have done kind of like a last episode, like
Speaker 2: a farewell, but no, and I haven't seen Chuck in forever.
Speaker 2: I've texted Sammy and Chuck because we were both on
Speaker 2: it together. All three of us were on it together.
Speaker 2: We just kind of sometimes do updates, and they were like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, you got a man. They were shocked
Speaker 2: because like I was always a single one, like looking
Speaker 2: for a guy, you know, and so, but yeah, I
Speaker 2: don't think there's going to be sadly because I really
Speaker 2: liked that it was fun.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, well that's a bummer.
Speaker 2: Sorry Eric, Sorry.
Speaker 3: Favorite marathon you've done from Natalie and Okinawa, Japan.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it has to so I've only done
Speaker 2: I did two or three in Wichita and then all
Speaker 2: of the others I've done in Nashville, all the rock
Speaker 2: and that rock and Roll half marathon, the one for
Speaker 2: sent Jude, Like, I would definitely recommend if you're gonna
Speaker 2: do one, do the one in Nashville because there's music
Speaker 2: every two miles.
Speaker 1: That's why it's called rock and roll.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like there's live music, which is awesome. There's so
Speaker 2: many distractions, like you forget you're running sometimes and you
Speaker 2: go through different neighborhoods, Like you go through twelve South
Speaker 2: and there's like all these kids and families lined up
Speaker 2: to like high five years take a little parade, yes,
Speaker 2: And then in the gulch there's like all these workout
Speaker 2: gyms that are like in tents and they're like playing
Speaker 2: music and they have confetti and like signs and like
Speaker 2: so it's just you're always you're not actually thinking you're running.
Speaker 2: And then there's just so many like sites to see
Speaker 2: you're going through all of the cool neighborhoods in Nashville.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I've heard it's like a crazy courso at
Speaker 3: the same time, it's very hilly. It is very Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's off crazy. Yeah, it's rough, but you can kind
Speaker 3: of walk it and run it, you know. It's all
Speaker 3: about like for fun. If I walked it, I'd be
Speaker 3: there for ten hours. You wouldn't I would I do
Speaker 3: like a little jogd be like two says, I'd be like, okay,
Speaker 3: back to walking.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, would you actually do it? What do
Speaker 2: you think about doing it?
Speaker 1: Walking it? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Running? No, yes, jog run.
Speaker 3: There is not a world in which I run any
Speaker 3: I ran a five k and I wanted to cry.
Speaker 1: Oh I think I ran a mile.
Speaker 2: And a half.
Speaker 1: And by the mile and half, I was like I'm walking.
Speaker 2: Oh man.
Speaker 1: And that was a fun one. It was a powder
Speaker 1: It was like a paint run.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah. The Color Run. Yeah yeah, IVE always wanted
Speaker 2: to do that one.
Speaker 1: It was in such a county zoo. It was awesome.
Speaker 2: No way, that's cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a really cool run. But literally, by
Speaker 1: like a mile and a half done, I'm out.
Speaker 2: Oh shoot. I think the Glow Run sounds fun too.
Speaker 1: You heard that fun? I like those?
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, But like the most I will ever do
Speaker 3: is a five k, the most, Oh my gosh, Scoopa
Speaker 3: and I were talking about.
Speaker 2: There's one at Disneyland. Yes that I want to do
Speaker 2: so bad.
Speaker 1: I'll do the five k that one.
Speaker 2: Okay, I meant the half, but okay, you can.
Speaker 3: They're literally not a world in this lifetime of me running.
Speaker 2: A half in mirth, not on your bucket. I hate running.
Speaker 1: I hate running my I hate burpies. And that's a lot.
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, that is a lot. Did you get the
Speaker 2: runners high? Though there's two mile? There's user row keep going.
Speaker 3: There's literally no runners high for me. I even on
Speaker 3: a treadmill, Mike, this is the most boring crap I've
Speaker 3: ever done.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, treadmill. That's rough.
Speaker 3: Like you think I'm good. I can run a mile
Speaker 3: on trem I'm like, yeah, I got this. You put
Speaker 3: me outside, it's like half a mile. I'm like, I'm dead.
Speaker 1: Is not the same.
Speaker 2: The National one is hard because you start on Broadway
Speaker 2: and you get to go down by all the bars,
Speaker 2: but then you turn and you go all the way
Speaker 2: up to Membrand, which is and then up music row,
Speaker 2: so it's like two miles round pill. No.
Speaker 1: No, if there's a five day version, yeah, I'll do that.
Speaker 3: Okay, have you ever gone running with Mike D or
Speaker 3: Bobby Josie from West Virginia would like to know.
Speaker 2: Okay, Mike D is at a whole other level. I
Speaker 2: mean I used to be really fast in high school
Speaker 2: in college, but when I moved here, I kind of
Speaker 2: got out of running for a little bit and got
Speaker 2: out of shape. Mike is insane. One time I saw
Speaker 2: him and his wife at a park and he was
Speaker 2: like sprinting, but I I think he did like ten
Speaker 2: miles that day.
Speaker 1: That's insane.
Speaker 2: His splits are ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's always like posting like twenty miles. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I just woke up.
Speaker 2: I know, yes, he always does. He's like Saturday or
Speaker 2: Sunday runs and I'm like, are you kidding me? You
Speaker 2: just went twenty miles. That's almost a half mirror, I
Speaker 2: mean a whole full marathons on a casual weekend.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: And then Bobby doesn't like to run, does he. He
Speaker 2: doesn't like to do long distances, so I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think so either. I'm not sure why she
Speaker 1: included Bobby, but she did so.
Speaker 2: I don't think he'd run with me. That would be
Speaker 2: the most random run ever. That'll challenged him to a race.
Speaker 1: He'd be like what.
Speaker 2: No, he'd be like, I'm busy, No, thank you.
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna take one more quick break. We'll
Speaker 1: be right back.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: This is kind of like a little advice one. But
Speaker 1: we're gonna start with Tracy from California.
Speaker 3: She wanted to ask us, how is dating in your
Speaker 3: thirties versus dating in your twenties?
Speaker 2: Oh? Man, well, I want me to go first. You
Speaker 2: can go first, I would say, like in your twenties,
Speaker 2: you're not as serious because you still have so much time.
Speaker 2: You know, You're just like, oh, the world is my oyster.
Speaker 2: Why would I want to just go with one? I'm
Speaker 2: just kidding. Why would I want to be tied down
Speaker 2: to one?
Speaker 1: I'm not gidding.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I had a lot more like commitment issues
Speaker 2: in my twenties, Like I was so scared to commit
Speaker 2: for some reason. Like I'd be like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: and then I would look around and be like, oh, shoot,
Speaker 2: is there someone better out there for me? Or you know,
Speaker 2: but now it's for one thing, I'm like, I feel
Speaker 2: like time's kind of running out, but I'm a lot
Speaker 2: more mature.
Speaker 3: I'm like, time is not running out, by the way,
Speaker 3: I know you like running.
Speaker 1: I don't know why I said that time is not
Speaker 1: running out. You're not even halfway through your life, not
Speaker 1: even a little bit.
Speaker 2: Why did I say that?
Speaker 1: It's making sure?
Speaker 3: You know that?
Speaker 2: Thank you? See I need the It's really thought, why
Speaker 2: do we keep getting dark lately on our show? No, okay,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't mean to. It's really not
Speaker 2: running out making sure, I guess in compared to your
Speaker 2: twenties it is, but still it's not anyway.
Speaker 1: You're still not even halfway through your life.
Speaker 2: Go on, there's so much time left.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2: I just more mature, I guess, and knowing that I'm
Speaker 2: If it's not someone that I'm compatible with, or if
Speaker 2: I see red flags, it's not going to change. Like
Speaker 2: you know, they're not You can't ignore them. They're not
Speaker 2: most likely not going to get better because it's really
Speaker 2: who they are, and so you just they're not for you.
Speaker 2: So I've learned that you just want to find someone
Speaker 2: that's that's easy. It should be easy, and that's what
Speaker 2: I feel like, I've finally found something that's not so
Speaker 2: difficult all the time, and you're like arguing or picking
Speaker 2: at each other.
Speaker 3: So yes, I'll piggyback on that and say, I've only
Speaker 3: been in my thirties for a very short time, so
Speaker 3: I don't know that I can speak to it so
Speaker 3: so much as Abby can.
Speaker 1: But twenties, for me, I learned a lot about who
Speaker 1: I was and what I was after. And I have
Speaker 1: always been a hopeless romantic.
Speaker 3: I've always believed in the best in people, and that
Speaker 3: definitely translated in my love life. So I think for me,
Speaker 3: the most glaring difference is that I became a little
Speaker 3: bit more pessimistic as I got older.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one.
Speaker 3: Like in my twenties, I was very much like, it's
Speaker 3: like the movies. I'm a Disney princess and everything's gonna
Speaker 3: be perfect, and I'm gonna have a white picket fence
Speaker 3: and fancy cars.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be like mash you know, like you play
Speaker 1: the game.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't you know.
Speaker 3: I had so much learning to do about what real
Speaker 3: life relationships looked like.
Speaker 1: And I still am that way.
Speaker 3: I still have that very much like hopeless romantic part
Speaker 3: of me that like, I do feel like we'll come
Speaker 3: back into play, especially I've already noticed it is feeling
Speaker 3: safe in something.
Speaker 1: But I do feel like in my twenties.
Speaker 3: I was a lot more like Willy Nilly, very like optimistic,
Speaker 3: very open minded. I got into my thirties, and I
Speaker 3: wouldn't say I became close minded, but I just became
Speaker 3: a little bit more pessimistic and a little bit more.
Speaker 1: Real about what things really looked.
Speaker 3: Like might have been, just with the way that dating
Speaker 3: culture shifted too as I went through all of that,
Speaker 3: because that was definitely different than for I feel like
Speaker 3: a lot of times we were the spark of the
Speaker 3: dating online generation. So it's probably a lot different than
Speaker 3: if you ask somebody who is you know, in their
Speaker 3: fifties now and they're like, what was dating verse twenties
Speaker 3: and thirties look like? So I would probably say that's
Speaker 3: the most stark difference I could probably pinpoint mm hmm,
Speaker 3: but who knows. I mean, I got lost in my thirties,
Speaker 3: left so mine that could share.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm still in my early thirties. You
Speaker 2: are time like present.
Speaker 1: So you have a little bit worse experience.
Speaker 2: But I think it's so easy to be pessimistic and
Speaker 2: just have a bad attitude about dating. It is, but
Speaker 2: it's like you can't get wrapped up in it, you know,
Speaker 2: because I was just like I'm giving up. I'm giving up,
Speaker 2: and it's like you can't give up.
Speaker 1: You keep going, and you know, I R I never
Speaker 1: had that.
Speaker 3: I never had that. I always had this like I'm
Speaker 3: going to meet someone. I think it was this determination
Speaker 3: that I deserved to find so so I never had that,
Speaker 3: like I mean, I had the frustration of like this
Speaker 3: is so stupid, Why am I doing this?
Speaker 1: This is never going to happen.
Speaker 3: In moments, but there was always a part of me
Speaker 3: that was like, no, I'm going to find somebody, and
Speaker 3: this is going to happen.
Speaker 1: I always had a hope of it. Like the hope
Speaker 1: was never lost.
Speaker 3: I think the for you, like that's not true for me,
Speaker 3: And I think it's because I was so much of
Speaker 3: a hopeless romantic.
Speaker 1: It was still lingering in there. But the pessimistic side
Speaker 1: of me.
Speaker 3: Was just like that I couldn't believe everybody was good
Speaker 3: and I couldn't believe that, you know, people were who
Speaker 3: they said they were and that people are actually genuinely
Speaker 3: have your best interest at heart. That was where my
Speaker 3: pessimistic side came out in that, but it was still
Speaker 3: very weirdly believing that I was going to find it,
Speaker 3: which I'm not sure how that managed to happen.
Speaker 2: So and yeah, that's how it should be. You should
Speaker 2: have like a positive outlook.
Speaker 1: You should But so, okay, thanks Tracy.
Speaker 3: Yeah you advice I'm making friends in a new city
Speaker 3: from Sadie oh Man, I would say that you should
Speaker 3: go and do things that you really like, because the
Speaker 3: only way to make friends with things that are like
Speaker 3: minded for you is doing things.
Speaker 1: That you enjoy. So whether you join like a Rex
Speaker 1: sports team, you go join a gym.
Speaker 3: Or you I mean, you're not it isn't like this
Speaker 3: isn't like the movie scenario. You're not gonna go eat
Speaker 3: at a bar and you're gonna make friends that way.
Speaker 3: You know. My first friends that I had in Nashville
Speaker 3: were made through going to events for work.
Speaker 1: I would meet people that way.
Speaker 3: And if you can't do that, like one of my
Speaker 3: first friends was my hairdresser and I became great friends.
Speaker 1: Like just getting like services done, you're Sadie.
Speaker 3: I believe you're a beautiful lady and you're probably going
Speaker 3: out and getting services done on different levels. You might
Speaker 3: be able to meet people that way. It's another way
Speaker 3: or just yeah, going to try new thing if you
Speaker 3: like going to the gym, if you're a plates girl,
Speaker 3: or your yoga or weightlifting easily a way to start
Speaker 3: making friends. It's not easy to date that way, but
Speaker 3: it's easy to make.
Speaker 1: Friends that way. So joining things that you like, I
Speaker 1: think would be my tip.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Mine would be like, don't be scared to go alone, Like,
Speaker 2: don't be scared that you're going to walk in and
Speaker 2: everybody's looking at you, like, oh my gosh, what a loser.
Speaker 2: She's alone, Like, no one's looking at you, you know,
Speaker 2: in that way. And I was so scared for a
Speaker 2: while that i'd walk in they're like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: you see that girl sitting over there. No, And I
Speaker 2: feel like moving to a city, that's the perfect time
Speaker 2: because you can be like, hey, you can walk up
Speaker 2: to a group, go to a writer's round, like that's
Speaker 2: where I met a lot of mine was. I used
Speaker 2: to go to like writers' rounds and we'd be just
Speaker 2: standing in line or like in the bathroom and I'd
Speaker 2: be like, hey, I just moved here, like how long
Speaker 2: have you lived here? And that's all you have to
Speaker 2: do isould be like, hey, I just moved here. I
Speaker 2: don't really know anybody. How long have you been here
Speaker 2: or you know, how long is this your first time
Speaker 2: at this venue. I feel like that's like the prime
Speaker 2: time versus I think it's harder now for me since
Speaker 2: I've been here so long. I can't just be like, hey,
Speaker 2: I've been here ten years, but you want to be friends.
Speaker 3: You know, so like if you technically could just be like, hey,
Speaker 3: I'm I'm kind of new here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then they realized that that was a lie.
Speaker 1: Like hey, i've been here a while.
Speaker 2: I've been here a while, but I'm always looking to
Speaker 2: meet new people.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think people really are open to it, like yeah,
Speaker 3: And I think to your point too, like when you
Speaker 3: are out and doing things, just being open to meeting people.
Speaker 1: I think we when we.
Speaker 3: Go and do things is nate Like naturally, as human beings,
Speaker 3: we kind of want.
Speaker 1: To be closed off and keep to ourselves.
Speaker 3: When you want to make new friends, you kind of
Speaker 3: have to be open and just like smile, like be
Speaker 3: a friendly face, and more people are willing to talk, you.
Speaker 2: Know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, yes, when I would like one of the times
Speaker 3: I would say at the Tin roof bar, I had
Speaker 3: a girl cheese and I had a beer in front
Speaker 3: of me, and I was just talking to random people
Speaker 3: that would walk by, like because they'd say something like
Speaker 3: oh yeah.
Speaker 1: I'd chime in. Was I probably weird for sure? But
Speaker 1: it allowed me to.
Speaker 3: Look friendly and feel and I made friends that way,
Speaker 3: you know, So to your point, I think being friendly
Speaker 3: is part of that.
Speaker 1: Also it is, and we're willing and wanting to be friendly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't there Also I mean there's like Facebook groups too,
Speaker 2: like girls groups.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do think those works. There's girls that go
Speaker 1: on walks. That's the big one. I don't know what
Speaker 1: it's actually called.
Speaker 3: It's like girl walk girls girl walk now, I can't
Speaker 3: remember it, but they do like big walks. And I
Speaker 3: know a lot of people have made friends that way,
Speaker 3: just depending on what cities you're in.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm sure like a bumble of friends. Actually
Speaker 2: I was on there, but I didn't.
Speaker 1: I did that, but I made one girlfriend that way.
Speaker 3: We didn't other friendship did not like go anywhere. We
Speaker 3: hung out like twice, so it was kind of weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was a bizarre one.
Speaker 2: That does feel like interesting. The first meeting could be
Speaker 2: a little awkward, and I don't know that just unless
Speaker 2: you're like, hey, I'm going to this show or I'm
Speaker 2: going downtown with other friends if you want to join
Speaker 2: maybe something like that. I don't know, And I.
Speaker 3: Think Saiti you're in Nashville, there's nash there's a Nashville
Speaker 3: Girls group that you can post on and I know
Speaker 3: a lot of people who have like gotten a concerts
Speaker 3: together from that page.
Speaker 2: I've seen that too.
Speaker 1: We love that. Okay, advice this is our last one.
Speaker 3: Advice on dating apps, like which dating apps to use
Speaker 3: and for somebody who's newly dating. These coming from also
Speaker 3: from Sadie, Lindsay Jinny. I think there was also a Sarah.
Speaker 1: To ass so we had a few of these.
Speaker 3: But yeah, advice on dating apps, what dating apps to use,
Speaker 3: We'll start with that.
Speaker 2: I liked hinge the best because I felt like it
Speaker 2: was just I like how there's prompts you know, and
Speaker 2: the way cheese head and I.
Speaker 1: I love that you have to keep remembering.
Speaker 2: What I know because I just don't. Your sounds a
Speaker 2: lot better. Mine sounds like I'm calling.
Speaker 1: In all fairness, I asked you for a nickname and
Speaker 1: you came up. What he said, he's.
Speaker 2: A Packers fan. Yeah, and so he has like a
Speaker 2: big cheesehead that he wears the games and stuff. But okay,
Speaker 2: what's fine. He would be he likes the name cheesehead,
Speaker 2: or he would anyway he was. His was like a
Speaker 2: two truth and a lie and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I bet this is a lie and he was like, nope,
Speaker 2: it's actually this one. So it's easy to like start
Speaker 2: conversation I think in that or like comment on a picture,
Speaker 2: or I just yeah, but do you like it better?
Speaker 2: Like on Bumble, the girl has to initiate. Well, I
Speaker 2: guess they may have changed it.
Speaker 1: Now now apparently, which is stupid.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you liked it better than they. I mean,
Speaker 2: the guy would initiate.
Speaker 3: So I loved Bumble mostly because I had such a
Speaker 3: strong personality and it allowed me to weed out people
Speaker 3: if they couldn't handle my strong personality already, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, if you can't handle a woman
Speaker 3: coming to say I do, we're gonna have lots of issues,
Speaker 3: But you know, my view of that changed a little bit.
Speaker 3: Hinge ended up being where I met Man in Uniform.
Speaker 3: And actually what changed about Hinge. I had been having
Speaker 3: such a bad experience on Hinge and I realized it
Speaker 3: wasn't because I was getting.
Speaker 1: Matches or whatever.
Speaker 3: My profile was so like fun and flirty, which is
Speaker 3: how I am, That's my personality. But I realized it
Speaker 3: was too fun and flirty, like I was too trying
Speaker 3: to be fun versus me showing that like I'm serious
Speaker 3: I want to meet somebody, because apparently just saying like
Speaker 3: I want to life partner wasn't enough. That everything else
Speaker 3: needed to be like dead serious.
Speaker 1: Kind of in a way.
Speaker 3: So I did change my whole like I revamped my
Speaker 3: profile actually right before I matched with Manuniform, and it
Speaker 3: was like it was still flirty and it was still
Speaker 3: like cute, but it was really much more serious, like
Speaker 3: I was like green flags, I'm looking for, this is
Speaker 3: what I want to happen on a first date. It
Speaker 3: was very much like about intentionally dating versus it being.
Speaker 1: Like hah, I like tuckle bell, which is what it
Speaker 1: used to be.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I think it is important to put exactly
Speaker 2: what you want, so it's like I'd love.
Speaker 1: To write the right people. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So that was attracting like fun and flirting people, which
Speaker 3: was great and they were fun, but it wasn't serious.
Speaker 2: So you really have to think about it, is this
Speaker 2: person knows nothing about you. They are solely going off
Speaker 2: of your pictures and your descriptions of yourself. So if
Speaker 2: you don't have much on there, they don't have much
Speaker 2: to go with. So it's like I feel like, kind
Speaker 2: of like what you did, that's great, you know, to
Speaker 2: put like the what you're exactly looking for, and like
Speaker 2: I used to like put you know not sure, no,
Speaker 2: no, no no, I did say relationship, Like I made it
Speaker 2: clear I'm looking for a relationships, so they're like, okay,
Speaker 2: she's not about hookups, you know, Like that was very
Speaker 2: clear to me that that's not what I.
Speaker 1: Well see, that's what I thought too. Mine literally, is
Speaker 1: that looking for my lobster?
Speaker 3: Do you know that?
Speaker 1: Reference?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Friends, yes, good job.
Speaker 3: I wasn't sure if you were going to get a
Speaker 3: second is I'm looking for my lobster like in parentheses
Speaker 3: life partner and because that was like the option on
Speaker 3: there or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I'd still have people on there, that were like,
Speaker 1: want to hook up?
Speaker 2: No, oh my god, I'm.
Speaker 1: Looking for my lobster. Do you think lobsters hook up?
Speaker 3: What? No?
Speaker 2: Then did people read did they not get any sigh?
Speaker 3: So it was revamping my brofi will definitely think change.
Speaker 3: I did get even like in that timeframe of a
Speaker 3: meeting man in uniform, I did have a lot of
Speaker 3: really good, like actual legit matches that were happening from that.
Speaker 2: So I also liked it better is I used to
Speaker 2: like talk back and forth so much for like two
Speaker 2: weeks or three weeks, and just like they you string
Speaker 2: each other along, I'm not here to be a pinpal, right,
Speaker 2: just meet up? Like I love that. He was like, hey,
Speaker 2: what are you doing Friday? Like can I take you here?
Speaker 2: And I was like yes and hello, same like.
Speaker 1: And in uniform it was like five messages and we
Speaker 1: were off.
Speaker 2: Yes, Cause it's like, it's so much better an hour
Speaker 2: of conversation rather than texting back and forth for two weeks.
Speaker 2: You're gonna you're gonna wait, save so much time doing that.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you the difference, because it's just top
Speaker 3: of mind for probably people who have been listening Cowboy Twister,
Speaker 3: Cowboy Yes, yes, we talked on bumble for like two
Speaker 3: and a half weeks and I should have.
Speaker 2: Known that sign.
Speaker 3: And that's how he was when we were dating. Never
Speaker 3: wanted to make a plan, never could come anything. Then
Speaker 3: Man in Uniform, it's like we're off to the races.
Speaker 3: Person He's like, we're going on a date. I'm like okay, yes,
Speaker 3: and here we are. That's what he's like in person, So.
Speaker 2: Like you are.
Speaker 1: And I don't know that this is one hundred percent everybody.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I do think a lot of
Speaker 3: people act on the dating apps how they're going to
Speaker 3: act in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I do. I mean I was Man in Uniform, was Cowboy?
Speaker 1: Was were you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So that's four four at four. I don't have any
Speaker 1: other sample size to go off of here.
Speaker 2: But if they're like non responsive and taking forever or
Speaker 2: like canceling and stuff, it's like they're most likely that's
Speaker 2: kind of who they are.
Speaker 1: And it's hard.
Speaker 3: It is part of that whole, like you know, they're
Speaker 3: just not that into totally fine, but like pick up
Speaker 3: on that and be like okay, cool, I'm moving on,
Speaker 3: you know, Like it's not hard.
Speaker 1: We're humans. We literally like each other.
Speaker 3: Or we don't there's not a we want to make
Speaker 3: it really complicated and it just isn't right.
Speaker 2: It's really not And I would get so hung up,
Speaker 2: like I'm like, oh my gosh, that guy unmatched me. Why?
Speaker 2: And now then I was just like who, okay, bye,
Speaker 2: like your loss. I guess, like, I don't know why
Speaker 2: you're playing games, but I'm not here to play game.
Speaker 1: There was Abby.
Speaker 3: There was a guy this is before Man, like in
Speaker 3: the timeframe before Man in uniform, that.
Speaker 1: I had went out with and I had told you
Speaker 1: about it. I had came back and I was like,
Speaker 1: I that was such a great first say, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: we had so much chemistry. It's a great guy.
Speaker 3: I I mean, I got random, sporadic messages from him
Speaker 3: after and I was like, what is this like why?
Speaker 1: And I'm so glad that I just.
Speaker 3: Literally was like, yeah, no, I'm out, just let it go.
Speaker 3: I'm just not I'm not even I don't.
Speaker 1: Care that we just have this.
Speaker 3: I'm just whatever, We're moving forward, because no, we don't
Speaker 3: accept that kind of behavior men or women.
Speaker 1: It shouldn't go that way.
Speaker 3: You should be wanted, you should be pursued, and you
Speaker 3: should feel that way mm hmm.
Speaker 2: I totally totally agree. Yeah, you're like, you'll know, it
Speaker 2: shouldn't be confusing, you know, just just let them go.
Speaker 2: But you have nothing, you know, it's like you went
Speaker 2: on one day. Now they're being weird. Okay, you don't
Speaker 2: want that. You don't want weird. No, they can go
Speaker 2: be that with somebody else.
Speaker 3: Fight.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think we kind of answer the newly
Speaker 1: dating questions. I think we're good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just don't waste a lot of time, you know.
Speaker 2: I think it's better in person, and don't be scared.
Speaker 1: Yeah, to meet up on the conversation you're not trying
Speaker 1: to be a pinpal.
Speaker 3: If you are, then go for you. But if you're not,
Speaker 3: don't be a pin p. Film me on the receiving
Speaker 3: then one thing, they're in jail. If they're trying to
Speaker 3: be pinbal, you never know.
Speaker 2: Can I call you at one pm tomorrow? I have
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes to talk. They say that, and you're one phone.
Speaker 2: I liked call from Oh my gosh, someone from the
Speaker 2: called in the show from jail to me. Oh and
Speaker 2: I was like did you did you say yes? He
Speaker 2: was like yeah, and he was like I was like,
Speaker 2: is this serious? Or is this a prank? And he's like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm here. And it was like all these guys, like
Speaker 2: I heard a lot of guys. They were in like
Speaker 2: a correctional facility.
Speaker 1: What do you have to say?
Speaker 2: He didn't say much. He was just like I want
Speaker 2: to talk to Bobby. I'm like, what do you want
Speaker 2: to say? And he didn't really have much to say.
Speaker 2: So I was like, it's got to be interesting.
Speaker 1: But heyang he uses one call on nuts.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so think I forget your name. Thank you. I've
Speaker 2: never done I've never done that before. This is they
Speaker 2: never accepted.
Speaker 1: This is where I leave us. I swear we're gonna
Speaker 1: bow out gracefully.
Speaker 3: Okay, where they can find you all that good stuff
Speaker 3: on Instagram, Abby Lee Anderson and on x at Singing
Speaker 3: Appy all.
Speaker 1: Right, I'm at everything.
Speaker 3: Thanks for hanging out with us, Okay, I have I
Speaker 3: have no words, I haven't good week and everybody else.
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