WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Abby 0:00:01.040 --> 0:00:03.640 The best Bits of the week with Morgan. It's Listener 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:06.480 Q and daytime. We're Morgan in a show member answer 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:11.920 almost all your questions. Welcome, It's time for listener Q 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:13.640 and A. What's up Abby? How are you feeling? 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:15.880 I'm good. Why do I always get a little nervous 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:17.400 on these questions? I don't know why. 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:18.640 Well, don't be nervous. 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:20.720 Yeah, you don't need to be their hard hitting question 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:22.360 the fifth. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:24.400 It's always an all of them. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:26.120 I mean I played the fifth. 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:28.360 Maybe at least answer two of them. But yeah, okay, 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:29.280 So we're gonna start with. 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:32.120 Some compliments because we love doing that. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.480 So sweet Katie and Ashell wanted to say she loves 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:37.000 the best bits and you and Abby are the best. 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:37.600 Oh. 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:39.440 Darcy and Texas said love you too. 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:43.280 Jessica says I just love my fellow Wichita girlies. We've 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.440 got Lisa who says I really hope you and Abby 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:47.159 have found the right men and you're both happy. 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:51.839 Same, same, same, same same. Emily said, awesome job on 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:52.959 the half marathon. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.640 Oh thank you, that was so nice. I love compliments. 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:57.480 Yeah, starting with some love. I'm trying to bring some 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:00.120 more positivity into the world. You like that yeah, a 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:00.959 struggling out here? 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:05.039 Or are new guys okay with posting on social media 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:07.919 and being talked about on the radio? Liz in Oklahoma, Abby, 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:09.080 you start, because yours. 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:09.440 Was the hard lone. 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:12.040 What was the question? You didn't like? 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:13.880 What were you doing lunchbox? 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:15.160 No? 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:18.840 Like I heard, I just were our new guys? Oh 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:21.520 man in uniform? And have you said his name? No? 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:23.600 I haven't said. Okay, she's head and all right? 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:25.720 She said that was the nickname we gave him. She's 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:27.080 head okay with the uh? 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:28.440 Are okay with? 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.880 Yeah? Like? Are they okay with the posting on social 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:32.679 media and being talked about on the radio? 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:33.920 Liz in Oklahoma? 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:37.560 Yeah, so mine, he doesn't care about the pictures. And 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.480 then like he was like, do you want to just 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:41.800 like say what you're gonna say? First? What you tell me? 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.039 Because one time I think I talked about him, and 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.920 then I think one of his friends or something heard 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:47.840 about it and brought it up and they're like, oh 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:49.480 my gosh, I can't believe Abby, blah blah blah. And 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.040 he was like, what I didn't know she talked about it. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.280 So then he was like, oh, are you just out 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:56.320 there like willy Nilly talking about me. He wasn't like mad, 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:58.560 but like you know, he was just kind of like, 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:00.280 let me be in the loop. 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:02.320 That's why, let me know what's going on. 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:04.640 Because so I don't really talk about him that much 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.840 because I also feel like it's his life, you know, 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.160 and so I don't need to go exposing all these 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:13.000 personal things about him. So if it involves us, it's okay. 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:16.519 But yeah, not like directly speaking just on him, right, 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:20.280 I got you, Yes, my my man in. 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:25.359 Uniform, good Caroloss. He like post and he's like, oh, yeah, 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:28.520 that's cool. He saw the photos are are soft launch 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:30.640 that I pu. He's like, oh yeah, that's cool. He 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:32.480 saw the video of me talking about him, He's like 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:38.040 that's cool. It's very He's very chill, very calm, not affected. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.160 I'll randomly be like I talked about He's like, oh 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:41.760 that's awesome. What'd you say? And You're like, oh that 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:42.360 sounds good. 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:46.840 Like very unaffected, unbothered in a lot of great ways. 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:48.160 So yeah, he's a good. 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.040 Now. I still tell him much like you. I always 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:52.720 tell him when it happens and when it gets brought up. 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:54.240 But I so. 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:58.040 Far, no no cross paths nobody's like been like is 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.679 that you, because I don't think anybody can put to 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:00.560 into together yet. 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:03.040 Yeah, are you going to do a hard launch? Because 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:04.640 I feel like the guys you've dated in the past, 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.040 you've never added. 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:09.800 I did my first, my first like as far as 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:12.080 dating relationships on the show, I did my first boyfriend 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:13.360 that I was dating on the show. He was on 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.400 my socials. The second one I did not. I've done 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:20.880 like polar opposites, I don't. I think I've realized that 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.440 my social media correlates to how safe I'm feeling in 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:26.080 real life and about it and how I feel about 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:30.359 the situation in a way. Also in the first one 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:32.560 that's like the polar not exactly true at all. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:33.480 It's weird. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.000 It's weird, but I've had at least like in that 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:37.640 last relationship, I think there was a part of me 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.280 that never wanted to share because I knew I had 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:40.960 some gut. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:41.760 Feeling, you know what I mean. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:44.880 So yeah, I do think there will be a time 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:47.880 when I do a version of hard launches. I don't 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:51.840 know if they'll be like full blown hard launches or 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:53.960 if they'll just be like, you know, fun little like 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.040 here's been some pieces of him kind of thing. 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:59.000 Yeah, because I struggle with that too, because people are 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:01.280 always like, you know, because careful people like to ruin 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:05.640 good things, you know, And so it's kind of a 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.240 struggle between how much do I actually want to share, 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.160 Like I'm okay with putting it on my personal like 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.920 Facebook page because it's just my friends only that can 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:15.760 see some things, I guess, so I think that's fine 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.719 to keep them updated, yeah, and share with them, so, 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:20.600 you know, just. 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:23.200 I know, I don't know, Yeah, I know, I haven't. 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:25.520 I haven't really decided yet. I do like I want 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:26.160 to boast him. 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:28.440 I'm like I said, I'm so giddy that I'm like, 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:29.880 I want to share him with everybody. 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.960 And then I'm like, never mind, I don't take it back. 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:33.720 I know, we'll see. 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:36.320 Yeah, whatever you want to do, really, it's what you're comfortable. 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.400 But I do have a fun, like little video idea 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.400 that I'm gonna throw on him that might be a 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.640 cute little like another soft lounch will be a hard lunch. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:46.640 Mine is so against like social media. He never posts, 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:49.880 you know, like it doesn't he's not on TikTok or 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:52.720 he doesn't even have TikTok. He's just so like bond. 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:56.360 Oh yeah, Like this man in uniform isn't ever On, 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:58.479 Like he has an Instagram and it gets deleted from 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.000 his phone and then he'll like read it and I'll 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:01.480 get like a random message from him. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:03.680 He's like I'm back and he's gone again. I'm like, 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.240 what are you doing? 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:06.480 That's really funny. 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:09.440 Never On doesn't know anything about social media either. He's 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:10.840 hilarious about it. 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:13.719 Yeah, and that's funny because it's like opposite of you, 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:15.800 like you have to know everything about oh yeah, very much. 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:18.200 So that's funny, and you're not on social media all 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.320 that much. So I'm really not I know it works 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:22.039 for you, guys. I posted for the first time in 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:25.840 three months and then it was him, So yikes. 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.080 Abby is not in her influence her era. 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:28.960 I'm not. 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.320 Okay. Have you have you guys been on a double 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.000 date with your new booze? 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.440 I all I want to. We kind of almost did, yes, 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:40.760 and I was really excited, Yeah that we do need to. 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:43.240 There was an event we were both gonna be at 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:45.080 and then something came up, and. 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.719 Yeah, we were both gonna go with both of the men. 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.039 Dang, And I was like that's the speaking, but you 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:50.760 won't even be here. 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.520 I know I need too soon, but I should be 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.440 back next weekend so we can. 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:57.240 Get somebody realizing. That'd be fun. It would be so 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.480 much fun because we need to know what each other 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:00.000 is talking about. 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:00.800 That's true. 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.520 I've seen pictures and now I'm like, okay, I really 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.280 want to see what's going on. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.880 Yes, so we are planning Natasha, and we have tried 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:10.919 and it almost happened. 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.400 Yeah, not quite yet. Okay, we'll be right back. Take 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:13.840 quick break. 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:19.000 We got some more questions, starting with Cabby and Boston. 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.480 Would like to know if you've started writing another song yet. 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:25.840 Oh man, things have taken that. The half marathon has 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:29.839 kept me little preoccupied and busy. Okay, there's a lot personally, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.240 So no, I really haven't. But there is a song 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.120 that I have ready I want to cut, like, go 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:36.080 in studio and cut it. 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:39.000 Okay, So technically you have already written another song, yes, 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:39.960 but it's yeah. 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.159 I have, you just haven't recorded it, right, I'm. 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:43.800 Doing one at a time. You know, I'm not one 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:45.640 of those. It's like I write a hundred songs, like 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:49.120 most I just write record. 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:50.720 Is it a love song? 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.800 No, actually, this one is not. Oh it is the 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:56.960 one that we wrote because it was before I met 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.880 She said yes, she said yeah forgetting like before I 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:02.800 met him. Yeah, before I met Cheeth heead So I 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:05.520 was just like, oh, I don't need no man. It 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:08.040 was like right after my love it, I love it. 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:10.640 I was like, I want a feisty one, a sassy one. 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:13.160 You got your carry on away before he cheats moment. 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:17.360 Yes, kind of like basically yeah, kind of basically yes. Yeah. 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:18.920 Eric would like to know if there are any plans 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.000 for a Talk to Chuck podcast coming back. 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:24.240 Oh, dang, I don't think so. I think that is 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.120 in the past. It was really fun. I wish we 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.600 would have done kind of like a last episode, like 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:33.040 a farewell, but no, and I haven't seen Chuck in forever. 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:35.720 I've texted Sammy and Chuck because we were both on 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.679 it together. All three of us were on it together. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.600 We just kind of sometimes do updates, and they were like, 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:42.360 oh my gosh, you got a man. They were shocked 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:45.400 because like I was always a single one, like looking 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.600 for a guy, you know, and so, but yeah, I 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:50.040 don't think there's going to be sadly because I really 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:51.320 liked that it was fun. 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.000 Oh okay, well that's a bummer. 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:54.480 Sorry Eric, Sorry. 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:58.920 Favorite marathon you've done from Natalie and Okinawa, Japan. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:02.000 Oh my gosh, it has to so I've only done 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.320 I did two or three in Wichita and then all 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.920 of the others I've done in Nashville, all the rock 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.000 and that rock and Roll half marathon, the one for 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.360 sent Jude, Like, I would definitely recommend if you're gonna 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.480 do one, do the one in Nashville because there's music 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:14.920 every two miles. 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.200 That's why it's called rock and roll. 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:19.520 Yeah, Like there's live music, which is awesome. There's so 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.960 many distractions, like you forget you're running sometimes and you 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.920 go through different neighborhoods, Like you go through twelve South 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:28.240 and there's like all these kids and families lined up 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.360 to like high five years take a little parade, yes, 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:33.080 And then in the gulch there's like all these workout 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:35.600 gyms that are like in tents and they're like playing 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:39.280 music and they have confetti and like signs and like 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:42.679 so it's just you're always you're not actually thinking you're running. 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.160 And then there's just so many like sites to see 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.439 you're going through all of the cool neighborhoods in Nashville. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:48.560 Yeah, but I've heard it's like a crazy courso at 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:51.840 the same time, it's very hilly. It is very Yeah, 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:55.079 it's off crazy. Yeah, it's rough, but you can kind 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:56.360 of walk it and run it, you know. It's all 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:58.959 about like for fun. If I walked it, I'd be 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:02.439 there for ten hours. You wouldn't I would I do 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:04.520 like a little jogd be like two says, I'd be like, okay, 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:05.160 back to walking. 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:06.760 Oh my gosh, would you actually do it? What do 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:07.640 you think about doing it? 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:08.680 Walking it? Yeah? 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:10.360 Running? No, yes, jog run. 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:13.240 There is not a world in which I run any 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:15.680 I ran a five k and I wanted to cry. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.079 Oh I think I ran a mile. 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:18.360 And a half. 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:20.240 And by the mile and half, I was like I'm walking. 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:21.319 Oh man. 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:24.280 And that was a fun one. It was a powder 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:25.200 It was like a paint run. 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.480 Oh yeah. The Color Run. Yeah yeah, IVE always wanted 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:27.880 to do that one. 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:29.640 It was in such a county zoo. It was awesome. 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:30.679 No way, that's cool. 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:32.719 Yeah, it was a really cool run. But literally, by 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:35.920 like a mile and a half done, I'm out. 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:38.200 Oh shoot. I think the Glow Run sounds fun too. 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:39.720 You heard that fun? I like those? 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:41.680 Yeah yeah, But like the most I will ever do 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:43.959 is a five k, the most, Oh my gosh, Scoopa 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:44.680 and I were talking about. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.880 There's one at Disneyland. Yes that I want to do 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:47.600 so bad. 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:48.720 I'll do the five k that one. 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.800 Okay, I meant the half, but okay, you can. 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:56.479 They're literally not a world in this lifetime of me running. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.600 A half in mirth, not on your bucket. I hate running. 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.280 I hate running my I hate burpies. And that's a lot. 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:04.599 Oh gosh, that is a lot. Did you get the 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:09.360 runners high? Though there's two mile? There's user row keep going. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:13.320 There's literally no runners high for me. I even on 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.400 a treadmill, Mike, this is the most boring crap I've 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:15.840 ever done. 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:17.360 Oh yeah, treadmill. That's rough. 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:21.320 Like you think I'm good. I can run a mile 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:23.079 on trem I'm like, yeah, I got this. You put 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:25.040 me outside, it's like half a mile. I'm like, I'm dead. 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:26.400 Is not the same. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.559 The National one is hard because you start on Broadway 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:30.000 and you get to go down by all the bars, 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:31.760 but then you turn and you go all the way 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.959 up to Membrand, which is and then up music row, 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:37.400 so it's like two miles round pill. No. 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:40.080 No, if there's a five day version, yeah, I'll do that. 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:42.040 Okay, have you ever gone running with Mike D or 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:44.080 Bobby Josie from West Virginia would like to know. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:47.240 Okay, Mike D is at a whole other level. I 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.440 mean I used to be really fast in high school 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.280 in college, but when I moved here, I kind of 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:53.600 got out of running for a little bit and got 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:56.160 out of shape. Mike is insane. One time I saw 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:58.560 him and his wife at a park and he was 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:01.400 like sprinting, but I I think he did like ten 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:02.160 miles that day. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:02.920 That's insane. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.600 His splits are ridiculous. 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:08.280 Yeah, he's always like posting like twenty miles. I'm like, 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:09.280 I just woke up. 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:13.000 I know, yes, he always does. He's like Saturday or 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:16.120 Sunday runs and I'm like, are you kidding me? You 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.719 just went twenty miles. That's almost a half mirror, I 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.880 mean a whole full marathons on a casual weekend. 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:22.320 Right. 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:24.760 And then Bobby doesn't like to run, does he. He 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:26.560 doesn't like to do long distances, so I don't. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.120 I don't think so either. I'm not sure why she 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:29.480 included Bobby, but she did so. 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:32.319 I don't think he'd run with me. That would be 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:36.960 the most random run ever. That'll challenged him to a race. 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:38.120 He'd be like what. 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:40.520 No, he'd be like, I'm busy, No, thank you. 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:43.520 All right, We're gonna take one more quick break. We'll 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:44.120 be right back. 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:47.400 Right. 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:49.880 This is kind of like a little advice one. But 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:51.560 we're gonna start with Tracy from California. 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.280 She wanted to ask us, how is dating in your 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:57.160 thirties versus dating in your twenties? 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:01.520 Oh? Man, well, I want me to go first. You 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:03.800 can go first, I would say, like in your twenties, 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.520 you're not as serious because you still have so much time. 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:09.520 You know, You're just like, oh, the world is my oyster. 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.560 Why would I want to just go with one? I'm 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:14.000 just kidding. Why would I want to be tied down 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:14.240 to one? 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:15.000 I'm not gidding. 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:19.560 Yeah. And I had a lot more like commitment issues 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.000 in my twenties, Like I was so scared to commit 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.280 for some reason. Like I'd be like, oh my gosh, 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:26.400 and then I would look around and be like, oh, shoot, 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.520 is there someone better out there for me? Or you know, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.080 but now it's for one thing, I'm like, I feel 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.640 like time's kind of running out, but I'm a lot 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:34.200 more mature. 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.240 I'm like, time is not running out, by the way, 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:37.600 I know you like running. 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:38.920 I don't know why I said that time is not 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.440 running out. You're not even halfway through your life, not 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:42.120 even a little bit. 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:43.199 Why did I say that? 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:44.000 It's making sure? 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:44.360 You know that? 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:49.400 Thank you? See I need the It's really thought, why 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:52.439 do we keep getting dark lately on our show? No, okay, 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.680 I don't know. I didn't mean to. It's really not 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.600 running out making sure, I guess in compared to your 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:00.000 twenties it is, but still it's not anyway. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.000 You're still not even halfway through your life. 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:03.960 Go on, there's so much time left. 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:04.560 Oh my goodness. 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:08.160 I just more mature, I guess, and knowing that I'm 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.080 If it's not someone that I'm compatible with, or if 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.640 I see red flags, it's not going to change. Like 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.720 you know, they're not You can't ignore them. They're not 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:18.719 most likely not going to get better because it's really 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:21.720 who they are, and so you just they're not for you. 0:13:21.920 --> 0:13:24.559 So I've learned that you just want to find someone 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:28.240 that's that's easy. It should be easy, and that's what 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:31.320 I feel like, I've finally found something that's not so 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.600 difficult all the time, and you're like arguing or picking 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:35.120 at each other. 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:40.360 So yes, I'll piggyback on that and say, I've only 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:42.120 been in my thirties for a very short time, so 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.679 I don't know that I can speak to it so 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:45.920 so much as Abby can. 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:49.600 But twenties, for me, I learned a lot about who 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:53.000 I was and what I was after. And I have 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:54.720 always been a hopeless romantic. 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:57.360 I've always believed in the best in people, and that 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:02.400 definitely translated in my love life. So I think for me, 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.000 the most glaring difference is that I became a little 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:06.960 bit more pessimistic as I got older. 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:08.200 Oh that's a good one. 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:11.200 Like in my twenties, I was very much like, it's 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:14.160 like the movies. I'm a Disney princess and everything's gonna 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:17.120 be perfect, and I'm gonna have a white picket fence 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:18.559 and fancy cars. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:20.560 It's gonna be like mash you know, like you play 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:20.920 the game. 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:22.520 Yeah, And it. 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:23.120 Wasn't you know. 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:26.360 I had so much learning to do about what real 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:28.000 life relationships looked like. 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:30.120 And I still am that way. 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:33.200 I still have that very much like hopeless romantic part 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:35.840 of me that like, I do feel like we'll come 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:39.760 back into play, especially I've already noticed it is feeling 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:41.280 safe in something. 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:45.640 But I do feel like in my twenties. 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:48.720 I was a lot more like Willy Nilly, very like optimistic, 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:51.960 very open minded. I got into my thirties, and I 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.280 wouldn't say I became close minded, but I just became 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:56.400 a little bit more pessimistic and a little bit more. 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:58.040 Real about what things really looked. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:01.480 Like might have been, just with the way that dating 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.760 culture shifted too as I went through all of that, 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.800 because that was definitely different than for I feel like 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:10.760 a lot of times we were the spark of the 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:14.560 dating online generation. So it's probably a lot different than 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:16.600 if you ask somebody who is you know, in their 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:18.640 fifties now and they're like, what was dating verse twenties 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:21.720 and thirties look like? So I would probably say that's 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:25.000 the most stark difference I could probably pinpoint mm hmm, 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.440 but who knows. I mean, I got lost in my thirties, 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:28.760 left so mine that could share. 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:31.480 Yeah, I mean, I'm still in my early thirties. You 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.280 are time like present. 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.920 So you have a little bit worse experience. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:40.080 But I think it's so easy to be pessimistic and 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.480