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<v Speaker 1>Broadcasting live from the Abraham Lincoln Radio Studio, the George

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<v Speaker 1>Washington Broadcast Center, Jack Armstrong and Joe Getty, Armstrong and

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<v Speaker 1>Getti and no he Armstrong and Yetty.

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<v Speaker 2>And finally no, everybody has to start getting a little

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<v Speaker 2>more excited for America's birthday. Come on, our big two

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<v Speaker 2>point fifty is coming up. It's on July fourth for

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<v Speaker 2>the kids in our public school. And I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>a pretty big.

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<v Speaker 1>Deal a joke.

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<v Speaker 3>I get it, and I get why people laugh, but

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<v Speaker 3>it angers me. Since I got two kids in school.

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<v Speaker 3>It angers me and just reminded me this is not

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<v Speaker 3>a school thing. But my son was watching I think

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<v Speaker 3>it was Netflix. They got a bunch of biography documentaries

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<v Speaker 3>on about.

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<v Speaker 1>Various big names.

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<v Speaker 3>Throughout our history, and Henry started watching the Teddy Roosevelt

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<v Speaker 3>one and he came to he so I had to

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<v Speaker 3>turn it off.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, all they do is talk about what a

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<v Speaker 1>racist he was.

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<v Speaker 3>Just, you know, just the way everything is now, everybody

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<v Speaker 3>from the past in America, let us explain to you

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<v Speaker 3>why they were actually terrible and why what America doing

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<v Speaker 3>this was terrible?

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<v Speaker 1>Right right, Which is a deliberate tactic, but it's also

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<v Speaker 1>that horrible egotism of presidentism where you pick out an

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<v Speaker 1>Abraham Lincoln and explain how you're so much better than

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<v Speaker 1>Lincoln was because you have modern attitudes. It's just so

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<v Speaker 1>self serving and it's you know, Orwellian trying to pervert

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<v Speaker 1>your history so you don't know who you are as

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<v Speaker 1>a people anymore. So Bill Maher was talking about patriotism

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<v Speaker 1>and the two hundred well specifically the two hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fiftieth birthday of the country, and we're going to play

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<v Speaker 1>some of that. I was struck, and we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>this last week that back in two thousand and one,

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<v Speaker 1>pre nine to eleven, by the way, nearly of Americans

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<v Speaker 1>were extremely are very proud of their country, just under

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<v Speaker 1>ninety percent, and in twenty seventeen it was seventy five percent.

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<v Speaker 1>And now overall it is fifty six percent, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>ninety percent of Republicans and just under thirty percent of Democrats.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the twenties for Democrats, twenty nine yeap

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<v Speaker 1>of all ages. Yeah, correct, wow, and Democrats. Democrats are

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<v Speaker 1>a much younger cohort in general than Republicans. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would argue, and I'll keep this brief and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll get back to Bill Maher. As I often say,

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<v Speaker 1>kids learn what they're taught, and they've been taught by

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<v Speaker 1>their entire by the school system, their entire lives for

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons we've talked about, that they should be ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>of being Americans, they should be ashamed of their privilege,

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<v Speaker 1>and that it's a bad country. It's the most racist

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<v Speaker 1>country on earth. They actually were saying that during the

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<v Speaker 1>War Woke Apocalypse.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and if you don't feel that way among your

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<v Speaker 3>young hip crowd.

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<v Speaker 1>You're kind of an idiot, kind of yeah, you're really

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<v Speaker 1>really a poultroon right. So I was glad to hear

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<v Speaker 1>Bill Maher talking about this the other night.

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<v Speaker 2>Every election year, Democrats seem to remember patriotism for about

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<v Speaker 2>an hour at their convention when they're trying to win

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<v Speaker 2>back swing voters. The whole message of Kamala's speech in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty four was.

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<v Speaker 1>Take back the flag.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why she talked about America like a pageant contestant.

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<v Speaker 1>The greatest privilege on earth, the privilege and pride of

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<v Speaker 1>being an American. Hard to believe she lost.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh, Well, you can't take back the flag in an hour.

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<v Speaker 2>If the rest of the time you treat patriotism as

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<v Speaker 2>something vaguely embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>Vaguely embarrassing, I would say specific contemptibly embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if some if you're I can picture certain picturing

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<v Speaker 3>certain specific people, But if they are like standing around

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<v Speaker 3>having a drink or whatever, and somebody said something up

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<v Speaker 3>with America ish, it would be vaguely embarrassing. It would

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<v Speaker 3>be kind of uncomfortable with that person, uncomfortable for them

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<v Speaker 3>that they said this sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Out loud, right, Yeah, yeah, indeed, Yeah, he goes on.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember from nineteen seventy six. Oh yes, I remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I was twenty and I wore a Bison tennial T

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<v Speaker 2>shirt that whole summer. Inflation was around six percent, mortgage

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<v Speaker 2>rates were almost nine There was actually a thing called

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<v Speaker 2>the misery index. The average person earned far less than

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<v Speaker 2>they do today. They had a smaller house and watched

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<v Speaker 2>a tiny TV that had three channels, mostly I love

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<v Speaker 2>Lucy reruns. The closest thing we had to euphoria was

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<v Speaker 2>Three's company.

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<v Speaker 1>Our AI was cliff Notes.

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<v Speaker 2>Women had just won the to get a credit card

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<v Speaker 2>without their husband signing off on it, and there were

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<v Speaker 2>no women on the Supreme Court and only nineteen in Congress.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think filling up your tank is a headache?

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<v Speaker 1>Now? Back then, being online.

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<v Speaker 2>Meant you were waiting for gas.

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<v Speaker 1>We ran all those. That's a week or so ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Somebody pointing out how much worse the situation was for

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<v Speaker 3>the average American in nineteen seventy six than it is now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet we were more fond of our country, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>almost universally final clip.

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<v Speaker 2>La had smag days, buildings had asbestos, radio had disco duck.

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<v Speaker 1>Things were bad, man so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I was forced to sell everyone drugs just to cheer

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<v Speaker 2>them up. And yet, and yet it didn't stop us

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<v Speaker 2>from making nineteen seventy six one big p. Did he

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<v Speaker 2>freak off for America? Because ask Joe Biden, you only

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<v Speaker 2>turn two hundred once, so so come on, it's the

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<v Speaker 2>fourth go let this year's fourth because another excuse for

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<v Speaker 2>partisans soaking. Let it be an excuse to be really

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<v Speaker 2>hungover on the fifth.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's interesting that he is willing to say

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<v Speaker 3>or notices that the Democratic Party is not patriotic. It's

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<v Speaker 3>almost hard to imagine not being in favor of the

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<v Speaker 3>country you live in. I can't quite wrap my head

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<v Speaker 3>around that. He can be very unhappy with a current

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<v Speaker 3>administration or various policies, But you really, you're not patriotic.

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<v Speaker 3>How often has that ever happened anywhere on Earth in

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<v Speaker 3>the history of the planet, Where people aren't patriotic about

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<v Speaker 3>the country they live in.

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<v Speaker 1>And failed miserable countries, it's pretty common there. Even then

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<v Speaker 1>there's a certain national right. So do you just said

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<v Speaker 1>something there? So in failed miserable countries it's come to

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<v Speaker 1>not be patriotic. How about in successful will continue to

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<v Speaker 1>be successful countries? Does that happen? Oh? Yeah, well it's

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<v Speaker 1>happening now in ours because those who want to overthrow

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<v Speaker 1>the system have gotten hold of education, so they've convinced

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of generations of kids. This is a failed

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<v Speaker 1>and miserable country in spite of all the evidence. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really it's rough. Rich Lowry was writing about this, and

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<v Speaker 1>he says, even if you have contempt for the party

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<v Speaker 1>in power, and this, you know, the whole let's not

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<v Speaker 1>make this about Trump, for God's sake, is true on

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<v Speaker 1>both sides of the aisle, and we'll get to that later.

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<v Speaker 1>But even if you have contempt for the party in power,

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<v Speaker 1>there's the country's founding, it's constitutional system, it's stupendous wealth,

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<v Speaker 1>it's great heroes, it's victories in two world wars, it's

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<v Speaker 1>natural beauty, it's endlessly interesting, fair minded and inventive people

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<v Speaker 1>to feel proud of. Many Democrats are unmoved by these things,

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<v Speaker 1>or consider them sources of embarrassment. The founding tainted by racism,

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<v Speaker 1>the constitutional system an antiquated obstacle to progress, the economy

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<v Speaker 1>rigged by in four billionaires are heroes, feet of clay

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<v Speaker 1>or worse. And the keyword here is systemic is in

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<v Speaker 1>systemic racism, which suggests that racism is not a product

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<v Speaker 1>of historical circumstance, but endemic to the American project itself,

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<v Speaker 1>probably irredeemable.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's all internal, domestic stuff. How about the view

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<v Speaker 3>you're taught about our role in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>We make the.

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<v Speaker 3>World worse and cause wars and make it more violent,

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<v Speaker 3>not make it less. Yeah, I'm very cynical about this,

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<v Speaker 3>like incredibly cynical about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it'll turn around. I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Growing pause, aggressive, happy cultures have a lifespan to them,

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<v Speaker 3>and for some of it, for whatever reason, they just

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<v Speaker 3>they have a lifespan to them, and.

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<v Speaker 1>We've turned into.

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<v Speaker 3>Spoiled, entitled trust fund country that is going to complain

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<v Speaker 3>about our amazing lot in life until.

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<v Speaker 1>We've destroyed it. Yeah, I think that is part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the whole cycle of strong tough times and strong people, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>That we all know. The Other half of it is, though,

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<v Speaker 1>as I said, we allowed the far left to get

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<v Speaker 1>hold of our education system, and you think the battle

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<v Speaker 1>is probably lost. Maybe I just can't admit it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>reminded of certain tragic circumstances where an infection got out

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<v Speaker 1>of control in the patient turned septic and died, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>at a healthy young age. I've got to admit, if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody put a gun to my head and made me

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<v Speaker 1>bet in some weird compulsory casino, I would bet that

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<v Speaker 1>we can't save the patient. I hope I'm wrong. I

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<v Speaker 1>pray i'm wrong. I work, I get up in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning trying to make myself wrong that the infection of

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<v Speaker 1>our education system, thereby the hearts and minds of our children,

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<v Speaker 1>it's too late to solve. I hope I'm wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we used to think a cataclism could turn it around.

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<v Speaker 3>The pandemic was a cataclysm and it made it worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, but this is yes because it's fundamentally different

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<v Speaker 1>than it ever was before. That supports my theory. Before

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<v Speaker 1>we were a family that but bickered like crazy. We

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<v Speaker 1>were a couple of brothers that fought a lot, but

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<v Speaker 1>if by God, somebody threatened our sister or threatened our family,

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<v Speaker 1>we would band together and be absolutely inseparable. That was

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<v Speaker 1>the United States for a couple of centuries. But now,

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<v Speaker 1>because kids have been taught to hate their country, if

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<v Speaker 1>a threat comes, they divide to their camps. They're no

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<v Speaker 1>longer part of the family. They're ashamed of the family.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the difference.

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<v Speaker 3>I think nine to eleven happened George Bush went to

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<v Speaker 3>ninety some percent approval rating. Would that happen with any

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<v Speaker 3>president of either party at this point?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. Not a chance unless they transcended party.

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<v Speaker 1>And this too shall pass the incredibly divided Trumpian era.

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<v Speaker 1>But what happens next, I don't know. Because of the

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<v Speaker 1>factor of the kids, like I've been talking about, I

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<v Speaker 1>could see a Marco Rubio or a Rama Manual or

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<v Speaker 1>somebody like that doing the right things in the right

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<v Speaker 1>way and rallying the country and it being a lot

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<v Speaker 1>better than it's been lately, but it won't be like

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I don't think until we get control of

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<v Speaker 1>the education system again and get the infection out of

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<v Speaker 1>our bloodstream. So you got some pot, Yes, I am

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<v Speaker 1>calling for detention camps, very cush, very maane, perhaps prison

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<v Speaker 1>islands for gen z oh. I got a thing about how.

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<v Speaker 3>The young crowd is so tired of they're burnt out

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<v Speaker 3>at work. If you're already burnt out and you're twenty three,

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<v Speaker 3>life is going to be long.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so funny. I can't even summon up a laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like so funny, it's horrifying. I got the stats

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<v Speaker 1>on that. I think I might have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Reason why they might be right, or where they might

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<v Speaker 3>actually be feeling that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so anyway, lots of stuff on the way,

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<v Speaker 1>stay here, bart hey, Yeddi.

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<v Speaker 4>A family is searching for answers after a Tesla crashed,

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<v Speaker 4>killing seventy six year old grandmother Martha Avila. Her daughter,

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<v Speaker 4>Jennifer Barber, was in the backyard when authorities say a

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<v Speaker 4>Tesla Model three was speeding before veering off the road,

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<v Speaker 4>slamming into the family's home in Katie Tech, where Avila

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<v Speaker 4>was inside. The forty four year old driver Michael Butler,

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<v Speaker 4>allegedly told deputies he was using his car's automated driving system.

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<v Speaker 4>Now investigators are working to determine if that technology played

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<v Speaker 4>a role.

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<v Speaker 3>Was having this conversation with someone over the weekend? Go

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<v Speaker 3>interesting to watch the rollout of this. Every time a

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<v Speaker 3>self driving car makes a mistake makes national news. People

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<v Speaker 3>human beings make mistakes thousands of times across this country

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<v Speaker 3>every single day, including fatal ones, right, that don't make

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<v Speaker 3>any news.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was thinking about that as I listened to it.

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<v Speaker 1>The you know, you spend your life trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out humanity and by the time you do, you die. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, here's a new technology that's unquestionably great. But wait,

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<v Speaker 1>it caused a problem. And everybody's like, really, what what

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<v Speaker 1>happened with this new technology? Right?

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<v Speaker 3>And I am I'm really concerned. I think this will happen.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna have the right to drive taken away from us.

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<v Speaker 3>I do think this will happen at some point, and

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<v Speaker 3>the argument will be these things are safer. They don't

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<v Speaker 3>even need to mandate it. No insurance company will give

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<v Speaker 3>you insurance I'm not gonna let you pilot this with

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<v Speaker 3>your hands and wreck the be much more likely to

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<v Speaker 3>wreck the car, and we have to pay for it

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<v Speaker 3>as an insurance company. When in a you know, self

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<v Speaker 3>driving car, my risk goes way way down. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>what will happen over time, but for right now anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>we react to the rare somebody getting hurt by.

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<v Speaker 1>A computer.

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<v Speaker 3>Much more than we react to human beings, and there

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<v Speaker 3>is some psychological weirdness there. If my kid got run

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<v Speaker 3>over by a self driving car, it would somehow be

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<v Speaker 3>like worse than if a person made a mistaken I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure, or seem more unfair, not worse where you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how it could be worse, but more

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<v Speaker 3>unfair somehow, or more preventable somehow, or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what I'm trying here. The person

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<v Speaker 1>making human error is part of the world we live

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<v Speaker 1>in and always has been. You just accept it as

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<v Speaker 1>being human. But a company introducing a technology that goes

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<v Speaker 1>sideways and kills somebody that's rectifiable, Maybe that's it. Ellen.

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<v Speaker 3>I've grandfathered in the chance that a idiot twenty five

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<v Speaker 3>year old driving way too fast in our neighborhood might

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<v Speaker 3>run over a kid, right, but a self driving car.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody was ever predicting robots killing someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Or, as you pointed out many times, a middle aged

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<v Speaker 1>soccer mom in a minivan driving way too fast and

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<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but I don't know where this is going.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if states will allow the self driving

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<v Speaker 3>cars like fully autonomous vehicles for those of a stone,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know when that will happen. Insurance companies are

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<v Speaker 3>still allowing you to drive, then when they turn out

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<v Speaker 3>to be safer.

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<v Speaker 1>This, this is all going to happen fairly soon. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I could see you could self ensure for collision

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<v Speaker 1>and damage to the other vehicle. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have enough money, you can, but liability insurance if without

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<v Speaker 1>the you know, you know how insurance works. You have

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<v Speaker 1>a huge pool of people and you dilute risk in essence,

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<v Speaker 1>you spread it out so you pay a fraction of

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<v Speaker 1>it because only small percentage of people ever need to

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<v Speaker 1>make a claim. But if they do what you've suggested,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll do and I think you're right, Yeah, you will

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<v Speaker 1>have to like have your own ability to pay off

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<v Speaker 1>any liability claim, which could run into millions of dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>So driving by driving yourself could become the province of

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<v Speaker 1>the very very rich and nobody else unless you're a

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<v Speaker 1>law breaker. I could see that easily. I think it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how many decades this will take, but

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<v Speaker 3>it'll be really frowned upon the idea of a human

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<v Speaker 3>being piloting a two ton vehicle down the street.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. Thoughts on fatherhood coming up, stay with us,

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<v Speaker 1>Armstrong and Getty.

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot I keep forgetting the look up ones the

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<v Speaker 3>next time the United States plays soccer. We kicked the

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<v Speaker 3>ass of Australia on Friday, and I've looked this up

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<v Speaker 3>like three times and I can't remember it because I

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<v Speaker 3>don't care, so damn it.

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<v Speaker 1>You care enough to look but not enough to remember. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll figure that out. While you're speaking of sports. I

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<v Speaker 1>love this. Then we'll get into the substance of the segment.

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<v Speaker 1>But the Babylon B, which rarely disappoints, MLB rebrands to

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<v Speaker 1>MLBTQ plus in an effort to better reflect the league's values.

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<v Speaker 1>Major League Baseball announced that it had officially rebranded from

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<v Speaker 1>MLB to MLBTQ plus on the yiels of a controversy

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<v Speaker 1>over players writing Bible versus on their league mandated Pride uniforms.

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<v Speaker 1>Commissioner Rob Manfred felt it was time to make the

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<v Speaker 1>league stance on gender and sexuality crystal clear. Quote. This

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<v Speaker 1>is who we are now. Nothing is more critical to

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<v Speaker 1>the mission of Major League Baseball than gay stuff. This

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<v Speaker 1>rebranding reflects the core purpose of our league, which is

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about who is having sex with whom. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not here to just throw a ball around or collect hit,

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<v Speaker 1>saves and wins. This isn't about some game. This is

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<v Speaker 1>about sexual deviancy. Wow, this isn't about some game. This

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<v Speaker 1>is about sexual deviancy. According to league sources, several players

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<v Speaker 1>push back against the change, asking if they could instead

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<v Speaker 1>just play baseball. Quote. I'd like to just throw the ball,

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<v Speaker 1>said one pitcher, on condition of anonymity. You know, like baseball,

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<v Speaker 1>try to throw strikes and get people out and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not quite making the connection between this game

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<v Speaker 1>and gay stuff and publishing time. Manford announced further plans

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<v Speaker 1>for the league to promote tolerance by banning all Christians

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<v Speaker 1>from playing. That's pretty good, right, that's really fun soccer.

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<v Speaker 3>The world's most popular sport are So I'm told so

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<v Speaker 3>in Australia to nothing. We're in first place in the

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<v Speaker 3>group D standings by a lot and we take on

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<v Speaker 3>you got to play everybody in your group. So we

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<v Speaker 3>beat Paraguay, We beat Australia. The only other team left

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<v Speaker 3>in our group is Turkey and we play them on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 3>They have zero points so far because they have accomplished

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<v Speaker 3>nothing in their first two games.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy, we are gonna smoke Turkey. Huh oh, let's see,

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<v Speaker 1>or we're gonna what a deep fright, We're gonna deep fraight. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a thing and ring their next Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go winner, love it. And I'm sorry when do

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<v Speaker 1>we play? Have you forgotten already? I don't have five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes because I don't care. Turkey Thursday, Turkey Thursday. That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah exactly, That's how I'll remember. Thank you. So I

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<v Speaker 1>thought this was wonderful. None of this is anything we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't talked about. But Alex Berenson wrote a piece for

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<v Speaker 1>the Free presses that fathers are not mothers. And he

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<v Speaker 1>writes about and we have decried this for the longest time,

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<v Speaker 1>the stereotyping of fathers in the last fifty years or so.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he says it starts practically at birth. He remembers

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<v Speaker 1>reading The Berenstein Bears for his kids, and in every book,

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<v Speaker 1>hard working, practical Mama ran the house, she cooked clean,

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<v Speaker 1>took care of the cubs, pot bellied, and titled dopey

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<v Speaker 1>Papa got in the way. He was surprised at how

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<v Speaker 1>unsubtle the message was, and it shouldn't have been. The

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<v Speaker 1>idea that father knows best is long gone, and for decades,

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<v Speaker 1>if not generations, the media hystereotyped fathers is goofy, hapless

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<v Speaker 1>fools who depend on their superhero wives to pay the

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<v Speaker 1>bills and take care of their kids. When did they

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<v Speaker 1>write Berenstein Bears?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I actually had this conversation over the weekend as

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<v Speaker 3>we're trying to nail down When did the turn happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Where all the sitcoms TV shows portrayed Ad as a

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<v Speaker 3>just really more in the way than helpful. Did the

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<v Speaker 3>family tried to succeed despite Dad being in the way

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<v Speaker 3>all the time? Early nineties sometime because you know, you

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<v Speaker 3>had a Huxtable in the eighties with the Cosby Show.

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<v Speaker 3>Somewhere in the nineties, the dad became mostly a detriment

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<v Speaker 3>to the family. Thank god Mom can overcome his idiocy

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<v Speaker 3>and sloth and everything to make the family work.

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<v Speaker 1>The baron state bears actually started in nineteen sixty two

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<v Speaker 1>and stretched on for years and years after that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's when it became when you're talking about like

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<v Speaker 1>omni present, and I was thinking about this very thing

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<v Speaker 1>having read that paragraph back in the actual really male dominated,

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<v Speaker 1>paternalistic culture of the earlier part of the century and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>The idea of scure that was a way, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>humor does this. It questions power, and it suggests changes

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<v Speaker 1>that might be good. And it was fine during the

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<v Speaker 1>father Knows Best era or whatever to poke a little

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<v Speaker 1>fun at dads and their foibles. But then it passed

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of weird tipping point where it became not

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<v Speaker 1>a challenge to authority but like punching down in the

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<v Speaker 1>way that a lot of progressivism is that men are

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<v Speaker 1>stupid and toxic and must be kept down, and fathers

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<v Speaker 1>must be mocked at all costs, because to let up

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<v Speaker 1>on that beating would be to embrace the patriarchy. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's like, you know, you still see all these

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<v Speaker 1>programs for women in college and trying to get women

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<v Speaker 1>to college and women in law and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and like women dominate undergrad and grad school and law schools.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, all right, when do you stop punching

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<v Speaker 1>or when do you just admit it? Something different? And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that happened with dads anyway. He points out

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<v Speaker 1>that meanwhile, feminist academics crank out research claiming father's coast

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<v Speaker 1>and married households where both parents work, they don't do

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<v Speaker 1>any of the child caring or housework or blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 1>And he points out he knows lots of folks middle

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<v Speaker 1>upper middle class, suburban urban families. He knows, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody confront is conforms to that stereotype. He doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anybody who died. I don't much less everybody. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, not at all. Me neither. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>think I've met that down Nope. Yeah, anyway, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>in all the families he knows, childcare is split mostly equally.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes when the fathers are the primary wage journers, they

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<v Speaker 1>get a break a little bit. Same split in reverse, though,

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<v Speaker 1>when the women of the house make more, et cetera,

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<v Speaker 1>et cetera. In your home. This may not be the case.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not about everybody. This is true for everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that the stereotype is far far from accurate.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he goes into some stereotypes. The blue collar dad,

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<v Speaker 1>the emotionally distant blue collar dad who hardly notices his

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<v Speaker 1>daughters and whose interest in his sons begins and ends

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<v Speaker 1>with their ability to put a perfect spiral on a football.

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<v Speaker 1>But other than that, blue collar dad ignores the job entirely. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>the white collar dad, he describes, where is that, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't remember where the hell is that? It doesn't matter,

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<v Speaker 1>But the point is in both cases, dad is uninvolved,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much useless, and throughout academia Hollywood in the media,

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<v Speaker 1>the only good dad is a feminized gentle Oh there

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<v Speaker 1>it is. If the white collar dad father is a

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<v Speaker 1>fool who tries but fails to share parenting, is blue

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<v Speaker 1>collar counterpart ignores the job entirely, So at least white

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<v Speaker 1>color Dad's enlightened enough to know he should try, But

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<v Speaker 1>he's still an idiot in a buffoon. Throughout academia Hollywood

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<v Speaker 1>in the media, the only good dad is a feminized

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<v Speaker 1>gentle parent who never raises his voice, is always ready

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<v Speaker 1>with a hug, and never lets his kids take a

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<v Speaker 1>risk or get hurt. Otherwise, in other words, the only

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<v Speaker 1>good dad is a mom. And here he gets to

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<v Speaker 1>the point these lies, and they are lies, have real consequences.

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<v Speaker 1>They discourage men from being fathers, and they discourage fathers

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<v Speaker 1>from being the kind of fathers they want to can

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<v Speaker 1>and should be. I believe that completely. Then he goes

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<v Speaker 1>into you know, some of the some of the things

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<v Speaker 1>to embrace as a dad that I also thought were terrific,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and he goes into a bunch of detail,

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<v Speaker 1>have fun, don't complain children, complain your stoic, be tough,

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<v Speaker 1>reject gentle parenting and its idiocies.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the underappreciated art, I think is probably the stuff

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<v Speaker 3>that's difficult to identify because you don't understand the way

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<v Speaker 3>you have just absorbed it being around you. And that

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<v Speaker 3>would just be that seeing someone who doesn't complain much

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<v Speaker 3>gets just the getting gump and going.

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<v Speaker 1>To work every day, just that without ever mentioning it.

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<v Speaker 3>But what that puts into your brain as a oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this is what people do without even thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like it's built in subconsciously to your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>This is what my life is going to be, because

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<v Speaker 3>this is what I've seen my whole life. There's no

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<v Speaker 3>value too high you can put on that as a

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<v Speaker 3>as a.

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<v Speaker 1>Just forming a worldview for a person. Mm hmm, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would agree. This is kind of a tangent. But

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when I was a lad or a young man,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a boy's I don't know, do we get

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<v Speaker 1>the heart for that? Yeah? I can see kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a fuzzy coming into focus me as a young fellow

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<v Speaker 1>with the harp. Yeah, it will be allowed glass well played.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and my slimmer handsome as a devil anyway, Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>what was I saying? Oh? Oh, that's right. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a boy's view of heroism. And there are certainly heroes

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<v Speaker 1>like this, the rushing into a burning building to save somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the hero in battle, which is absolutely a

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<v Speaker 1>legitimate sort of hero. But I had not not really

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<v Speaker 1>comprehended the idea that often heroism is the day after

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<v Speaker 1>day grind, because there's no burst of adrenaline and clarity

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<v Speaker 1>of purpose. No, it's just gutting it out. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>what's more heroic than that?

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I've talked about this before. That's what Richard Nixon was

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<v Speaker 3>talking about earlier in that clip we played with his dad.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've talked about this before, the whole a tough

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<v Speaker 3>guy thing where I have known some guys that are

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<v Speaker 3>really into being tough guys. It's funny most of them

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm thinking of were not dads in the traditional sense.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder what that's all about, but anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the tough guy was who could beat up who.

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<v Speaker 3>No, And they were also people that weren't great at

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<v Speaker 3>getting up and going to work every day.

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<v Speaker 1>For their whole lives.

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<v Speaker 3>That is what requires toughness, the going to just the

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<v Speaker 3>steady living life, denying yourself the things, the pleasures of life,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, to provide for your family. That's way what

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<v Speaker 3>it requires, way more toughness than an individual fistfight. But

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<v Speaker 3>that is not what's portrayed by some dufices I've known

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<v Speaker 3>in my life who consider themselves tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Same is true of you moms too, one hundred percent. Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>It's carrying the load and carrying it and carrying it

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<v Speaker 1>and carrying it. That's heroic. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, that always goes without saying. I just since yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Was Father's Day. Yeah yeah, indeed in the mood for

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<v Speaker 1>a blasted gentle parenting? Sure always. Here's how Brown University,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, explains it. Gentle parenting is all about the

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<v Speaker 1>parent child relationship. Parents are meant to display empathy, respect,

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<v Speaker 1>and understanding by communicating and connecting with their children. Contrary

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<v Speaker 1>to many other styles of parenting, punishments are not part

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<v Speaker 1>of gentle parenting. They are seen as unnecessary, disruptive to

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<v Speaker 1>the parent child bond and as training children to an

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<v Speaker 1>external reward rather than to their own internal emotional and

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<v Speaker 1>moral compass. Has this worked for anybody?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Never. Here's an example, a specific example, again from Brown

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<v Speaker 1>University and POI I take all my marching orders from Brown.

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<v Speaker 1>They offer a potential speech to a gentle father that

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<v Speaker 1>he might give to his son, because you know, never

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<v Speaker 1>hold anybody accountable for what they do. You just sympathize

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<v Speaker 1>with them. So Sun hurls a toy at his sister.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that sort of thing. You were mad, so

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<v Speaker 1>you threw your toy at your sister. But throwing your

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<v Speaker 1>toy could hurt your sister. Let's think of some other

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<v Speaker 1>things we can do when we're feeling mad. That wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>hurt anyone or anything else. An he writes again, No,

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<v Speaker 1>two huge mistakes m M. First, you imply being mad

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<v Speaker 1>might justify throwing the toy. You're offering an excuse for

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<v Speaker 1>an unacceptable action. More broadly, you're implying to your child

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to justify your demands for him to

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<v Speaker 1>behave as you wish. You do not you'll behave as

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<v Speaker 1>I wish because I'm your father. Period, Then through time

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<v Speaker 1>whether your stewardship is wise and justified becomes clear. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to justify your orders every time you

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<v Speaker 1>give one. Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why before you become a parent, you can't imagine

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<v Speaker 3>yourself saying because I said so. But once you're a parent,

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<v Speaker 3>that is a very good reason for you to do

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<v Speaker 3>something because.

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<v Speaker 1>I said so. It's a very good reason. And of

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<v Speaker 1>course that doesn't mean you're acting arbitrarily. Means your children

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<v Speaker 1>need to understand that you may discuss choices with them

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<v Speaker 1>and consider what are reasonable objections they have, but once

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<v Speaker 1>you've given them an order, you expect them to follow it.

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<v Speaker 1>Your family has a chain of command. You are at

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<v Speaker 1>the top period period. With kindness and patience and compassion.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're at the top.

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<v Speaker 3>Most of the time, maybe ninety eight percent of the time,

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<v Speaker 3>But I can't claim claim always.

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<v Speaker 1>They came to me, did you have to mention that now?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. We will finish strong next final follow up

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<v Speaker 1>thought or two on what we were just talking about

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<v Speaker 1>are Alex writes, what's so dumb about the general parenting

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<v Speaker 1>model is that it presumes children don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>told what to do. Of course, children want to be

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<v Speaker 1>told what to do. Structure is comforting, particularly for children

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<v Speaker 1>who are just beginning to understand the world and it's complexity.

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<v Speaker 1>Too much choice can produce paralysis and anxiety. Yeah, guidelines,

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<v Speaker 1>I would put it like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dogs and kids both are happier when they've got

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<v Speaker 3>strict rules. Yeah, the choice makes them uncomfortable and scared psychologically.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just horrible to like feel it makes kids feel

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<v Speaker 3>from what I've been told, because I didn't grow up

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<v Speaker 3>this way, just like insecure to not have boundaries and.

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<v Speaker 1>Rules, right, Yeah, yeah, no sense in what's normal. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>reminded of something really thought provoking I came across a

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<v Speaker 1>few months ago about how, for the first time, one

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<v Speaker 1>of the reasons everybody has so much anxiety these days,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wish I had time to look into it more.

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<v Speaker 1>But is that, for the first time in human history.

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<v Speaker 1>You can live anywhere you want, You can do anything

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<v Speaker 1>you want for a living. You can be any generation

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, you can be any religion. You can have

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<v Speaker 1>sex with anybody. You can buy anything. It goes on

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<v Speaker 1>and on and on. Human beings have never been confronted

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<v Speaker 1>with so many choices about everything that was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of decided for you. You can marry anybody you want,

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<v Speaker 1>dump them, marry somebody else of the opposite sex. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just too much. We've got to talk about that more.

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<v Speaker 1>Check Clark, GISs time stop. Jack and Joe live, God

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<v Speaker 1>go and if they don't give can they'll be back tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's your host for final thoughts, Joe Getty. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>a final thought from everybody on the crew to wrap

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<v Speaker 1>up the day. Here he is pressing the buttons in

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<v Speaker 1>the controller of Michaelangelo. Michael, what's your final thought? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Bill Maher. Earlier in the hour, he mentioned cliff notes

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<v Speaker 1>back in nineteen seventy six. And I hate to confess it,

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<v Speaker 1>but there were probably times in my English class when

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't exactly read the book, and those cliff notes

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<v Speaker 1>came in. Well, maybe handy. You know that's shameful, Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you're still ashamed today. Check of final thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Boy, I never thought about that. I'll just use this

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<v Speaker 3>form my final thought with AI bots. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>anything you ever read. Give me a paragraph on what

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<v Speaker 3>that book's about. Give me a little more about this character.

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<v Speaker 1>That character. You could easily in ten minutes get everything

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<v Speaker 1>you need to know. Right, I tell you what I

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<v Speaker 1>changed my mind. Give me three paragraphs on it now?

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<v Speaker 1>Five Yeah, Oh craziness. Too many choices is making us insane.

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