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Speaker 2: Lady at Dunkin Donuts this morning. Duncan not dunkin Donuts.

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Speaker 2: It's just Duncan. They don't pay me anymore, so just

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Speaker 2: I don't have to get it right. But anyways, well

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Speaker 2: I used to feel bad because I dunkin Donuts. It

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Speaker 2: just rolls off the tongue. This is what I've always

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Speaker 2: said my whole life. And then you know it is

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Speaker 2: Duncan because they saw more than donuts. And then I

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Speaker 2: felt bad because I'm like, well they pay me, they

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Speaker 2: don't pay me anymore. Yeah, right, right, So that she's

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Speaker 2: right exactly. Shout out to her. Apparently, wait, Bellahmy, get

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Speaker 2: bellamin in here. Bellahmin has to tell the story because

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Speaker 2: I won't I won't do it justice.

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Speaker 1: But I just I just wanted.

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Speaker 2: I want to thought some prayers to the lady Duncan

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Speaker 2: this morning because I'm feeling I'm feeling for her and

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling for Kiki. And I'll tell you why in

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Speaker 2: just a second. The entertainment report is on the way

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Speaker 2: we'll do stay or go well? Debates in relationship drama

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Speaker 2: that I mentioned waiting by the phone. I don't know

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Speaker 2: it's coming up to why did somebody get ghosted? What

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Speaker 2: are you working on for?

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Speaker 1: Reports?

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Speaker 3: K health update from Miss jesse Ja, a very long

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Speaker 3: awaited upcoming album, and I will tell you who invited

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Speaker 3: their ex to their wedding.

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Speaker 1: Okay, don't let it slam, don't Okay. We're learning.

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Speaker 2: We're learning because why would we have soft quiet doors

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Speaker 2: in a radio station? Why would we do Bellahamine, you

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Speaker 2: went to get the coffee this morning, Yes, and and

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Speaker 2: and and what happened exactly like like the woman there

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Speaker 2: shared something very very private with you as she was

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Speaker 2: giving you things that she prepared for us to consume

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Speaker 2: in our bodies.

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Speaker 4: Very personal, which I kind of appreciate it. I was like,

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Speaker 4: she feels safe with me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you you walk up to get because she

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Speaker 2: didn't say it to me, because I went in there

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Speaker 2: got my cast, she didn't say anything, and she also

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Speaker 2: didn't have a lot to say. She wasn't real talkative.

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Speaker 2: And now I think I understand why all I said.

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Speaker 5: Was hey, how are you?

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Speaker 6: Because I did that every time I pick.

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Speaker 4: Up my coffee and she goes, oh, I'm not feeling

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Speaker 4: like maybe she's got a cold, like I was sick

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Speaker 4: last week when I was going.

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Speaker 1: Right, or I'm hot, you know it's so hot.

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Speaker 4: She goes, oh, my stomach's not feeling too good, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, that's too bad.

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Speaker 6: She goes, yeah, like I had an I.

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Speaker 4: Was trying to get into a twenty four hour duncan

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Speaker 4: before I got here because I had to go to

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Speaker 4: the bathroom and apparently it was clothes, which is weird

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Speaker 4: because it's twenty four hours and I.

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Speaker 5: Didn't make it.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, she shared with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that she she she she pooked herself. She did

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Speaker 2: this morning and then and then my first thought was

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Speaker 2: as I'm sipping, sipping my drink, I'm thinking, hmmm, yeah, wow, okay,

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Speaker 2: well that's thank you for the neurovirus that I just

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Speaker 5: More questions.

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Speaker 2: Well, then thank you for the follow up, because I

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Speaker 2: might have walked away and just and as I walked away,

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Speaker 2: throwing the coffee out. But but but no, you asked

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Speaker 4: Which were, well, I wanted to make sure we were safe,

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Speaker 4: you know, like, how did she get this stomach virus?

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Speaker 1: You know what was going on?

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Speaker 4: I was like, you know, because I had neuro virus

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Speaker 4: I was like, you know, like did you eat something wrong?

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Speaker 4: And she goes, oh, yeah, like she had well I

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Speaker 2: You say no one can tell, like what, Like, I'm

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Speaker 2: so glad. I'm so glad that you mumbled it like that,

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Speaker 2: because now nobody she had a particularly bad event with them.

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Speaker 2: But then she also shared with you that she she

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Speaker 2: did go home somehow, between between that incident and opening

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Speaker 2: her own duncan store this morning, she went home and

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Speaker 2: took a shower.

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Speaker 1: She did share that with you as well. Of her

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Speaker 1: very polite. I don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's that's the only option. I mean,

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Speaker 2: if something like that happens to you, then you know

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Speaker 2: it sounds like.

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Speaker 6: She needs to call off poisoning.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you're not going to have a good time.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the dedication of the craft.

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, you know, wait a minute, she got

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Speaker 7: to get it back up and then she can call off.

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Speaker 1: Ye see, you got a coffee.

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Speaker 2: And I don't mean to I'm not going to really

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Speaker 2: get like too much into detail, but you guys get

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Speaker 2: a little a little risky with with that within the

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Speaker 2: how do I say it? With the number two type activities,

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Speaker 2: like if I wake up in the morning, right like

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Speaker 2: let's say I wake up at four thirty and my

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Speaker 2: in the middle of the night, if I think that

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Speaker 2: we might have an issue that's going to prevent me

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Speaker 2: at a time, then you just get a text from me,

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Speaker 2: I'm not coming, Like I just don't leave. Like I'm

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Speaker 2: at a point in my life where I don't if

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Speaker 2: there's any chance that leaving the house is a dangerous activity.

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Speaker 2: If there's any chance that we might find ourselves banging

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Speaker 2: on the door of a twenty four hour duncan, that's

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Speaker 2: not open. If we're finding ourselves in a position where

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Speaker 2: the public bathroom is going to be a mandatory experience,

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Speaker 2: then I probably am not leaving the house. That's where

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Speaker 2: I'm at in my life.

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Speaker 6: It never comes on fast for you, Like I've had.

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Speaker 3: Something come on, like within seconds, can then be time

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Speaker 3: to party?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, not unless there were there were signs okay,

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Speaker 1: No, Like I'm not just.

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Speaker 2: Sitting here right now drinking my coffee and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: in ten seconds, I'm gonna have to go home and

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Speaker 2: take a shower. Like no, that's never No, I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: say it's never happened, but no. But like if I wait,

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Speaker 2: if i'm if I know that we're a little touch

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Speaker 2: oh boy, I don't think I can get till six

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Speaker 2: fifty four whatever, I don't think I can do it, well,

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Speaker 2: then then I'm I'm just gonna go ahead and not

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Speaker 2: yeah for the day, and I'm not gonna I'm I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna stay at home and I'm I'm not gonna get

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Speaker 2: too far away.

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Speaker 5: I followed that role, I'd never be here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what point do you ask yourself? Like self, that's

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Speaker 2: not a normal way to live. So maybe I'm allergic

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Speaker 2: to something. Maybe I'm consuming something I shouldn't. Maybe my

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Speaker 2: diet's not right, you know what I mean? Like, I guess,

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Speaker 2: at what point are we living under this sort of

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Speaker 2: direst before we say like lifestyle changes.

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Speaker 1: Are in order.

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Speaker 5: I mean, there's always a chance.

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Speaker 2: That's no way to live, like honestly, like I give

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Speaker 2: up cheese though, Like we're here because we care about you, Jason,

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Speaker 2: but your friendship is affecting me, affecting me negatively in

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Speaker 2: the following ways.

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Speaker 5: There's a fifty to fifty shot.

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Speaker 9: I might put myself every single time right every day,

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Speaker 9: depending on what I eat.

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Speaker 2: I don't know anyway. So she didn't look okay or

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Speaker 2: in a good mood. But we did get a shower

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Speaker 2: in like some handwashing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, she's soy fine, Okay, she needs to

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Speaker 4: go home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah for her, there should be no part of this

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Speaker 2: coffee that she touched except for the cop So we

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Speaker 2: should be okay because no one got food.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she.

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Speaker 6: Always use a clean honestly, you know, I love a clan.

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Speaker 4: Yeah what not like that that an emergency shower cleanse

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Speaker 4: either way, honestly.

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Speaker 6: That weight shops then I'm very happy.

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Speaker 1: That is not a healthy Wait, don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 2: Like after you know, a few weeks of healthy eating

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Speaker 2: and exercising. Sometimes I think I'm just one stomach clue

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Speaker 2: away from being like in Men's Health or something, or

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm real close.

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Speaker 2: Like that's all it would really take is maybe just

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Speaker 2: one night stomach flu. Yeah, you know, to get me

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't wish it on anybody, especially the

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Speaker 2: Lady of Duncan, because an essential part of our day. Nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well she's alive.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, I just had to grab I grab my pearls.

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Speaker 2: I clutched my p She's alive, said rip now someone'

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Speaker 2: sid to say, texted someone talking about going number two

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Speaker 2: for for some of reason, makes me have to go

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Speaker 2: some messed up all right, Well.

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Speaker 6: That's all it takes.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, Yeah, right, if you're nearby the facilities.

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Speaker 2: That's good now, Kiki, I'm worried about you because you said, wait,

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Speaker 2: I love how okay?

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Speaker 1: Guys that No it's not no no no, don't do it.

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Speaker 2: No no no no no no no, you're bad now, you're

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Speaker 2: bad at all.

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Speaker 1: But we I've shared it before.

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Speaker 2: People ask sometimes the last meme over the weekend, the

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Speaker 2: guys the guys trip were like, hey, so how does

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Speaker 2: it work get a boys trip?

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Speaker 10: How?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I I got?

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Speaker 2: I got text alled because now I'm only I'm on

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Speaker 2: the boys trip. Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 1: I was.

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Speaker 2: I was accused of agism by the group like oh you,

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Speaker 2: oh you were old or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you're older than me. You are.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you're close to sixty, you're significantly older

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Speaker 2: than I am.

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Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with that. I'm I mean, that's you.

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Speaker 1: These are just facts.

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Speaker 2: But but we have They're like, how do you guys

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Speaker 2: do like different topics and and stuff like that. I said, well,

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Speaker 2: you know, I go through a bunch of stuff and

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Speaker 2: then everybody contributes to we have this shared document. We

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Speaker 2: For some people it's more of a diary. It's more

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Speaker 2: of a decompression sort of just a just a memory dump,

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Speaker 2: because sometimes I'll read the topics and say, now, how

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Speaker 1: Well, you wrote it down, you owe it?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, so it says here Google told me that I

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Speaker 2: It'll be like Colina will be I rode a bicycle yesterday. Period.

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Speaker 2: Figure it out and then it's like, so, Paulina, now

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Speaker 2: They would for an hour, well they would for an hour,

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Speaker 5: I touched my leg. I'm like, oh man, it's warm.

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Speaker 2: What did Google tell you that you had and you

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Speaker 2: and he'll be like, okay, we'll tell me more. Why hot, Well,

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Speaker 2: You know, you don't have that, but it will tell you.

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Speaker 2: Come here and I tell me, and I will look,

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Speaker 7: My doctor actually has a sign in her office that says,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it is like she's sick of us coming in

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Jason and I used to be convinced that he

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Speaker 5: I don't have lime disease. No, just some just some

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Speaker 2: Google told me I was pregnant, but you and you

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Speaker 2: Doctor just wants to make money for consultation. No, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And every time it's a new engine, huh yes. Wow, man,

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Speaker 10: Oh that's exactly what I thought too. So they replaced

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Speaker 10: Yeah, And then when I brought it to the shop

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Speaker 2: And I'm sure this isn't true at mechanic Mike at

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Speaker 2: But let's be honest, there are some unscobul, unscrupulous folks

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Speaker 1: Are gonna be like, yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, you do. Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I want to see if I'm right, And second of all,

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you know, that's kind of what I did. I

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Speaker 8: So I just like a lot them do it.

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Speaker 2: This is a Sebastian Maniscalco bit about not only the garage,

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Speaker 2: And then there's always the one guy that they this

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Speaker 2: I don't think woo. You know, normally we'd be able

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Speaker 7: My favorite ism always being like, I don't know how

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Speaker 9: I'm like, you should not be dry, like you are

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Speaker 9: a hazard.

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Speaker 1: I guess that could be.

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Speaker 2: But the workman that comes over and is like, you know,

445
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Speaker 2: in thirty years, I've never seen anything like this really,

446
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Speaker 2: or the Semashian Maniscalco bit about the guy, and it's like,

447
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Speaker 2: you know, if you want this, this wall is crooked,

448
00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:33,960
Speaker 2: If you want it to be crooked forever, that's fine.

449
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Speaker 2: We'll leave it like this. We can leave it like this.

450
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Speaker 2: But if you if you want a crooked wall, that's fine.

451
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Speaker 2: And you looking at your wall like well, I don't

452
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Speaker 2: want a crooked wall. It looks fine to me, Like, hey, hey,

453
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Speaker 2: if you're okay with that, then we'll leave it. You know,

454
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Speaker 2: we'll leave it.

455
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Speaker 1: We'll leave.

456
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Speaker 2: And it's so true though, Yes, anyway, I don't know

457
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Speaker 2: how we got from lady at Duncan pooping herself to

458
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Speaker 2: crooked walls, but we did be careful out there, fam

459
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Speaker 2: when it comes to Google examinations. But I don't think

460
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Speaker 2: you have a blood cut. I don't But here's the thing.

461
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Speaker 2: If you thought you did.

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Speaker 7: Now, why would you think not that you winked your eye?

463
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Speaker 2: Is it because I don't think you do? Because because

464
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Speaker 2: I don't think Google's right. Very often I think I think,

465
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Speaker 2: I think it goes to the worst extreme. But if

466
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Speaker 2: there's any possibility, why wouldn't you just go to the

467
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Speaker 2: doctor and then I'll tell you.

468
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Speaker 7: Yeah, you're just talking crazy? You know how long man,

469
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Speaker 7: that's a whole process.

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Speaker 3: That is, if your only symptoms are one shooting pain

471
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Speaker 3: and a warm leg, I would venture to say that

472
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Speaker 3: you're okay, I mean stretch.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Kim, good morning, how you doing.

475
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Speaker 1: How are you hi, Kim? Google? Are you pregnant currently? No?

476
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Speaker 2: Okay, but you were, and you were googling things all

477
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Speaker 2: the time. Do I want to know what you were googling? No?

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Speaker 8: It was just like the randomst things like if I

479
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Speaker 8: had like a weird pain, I'd be like pain here

480
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Speaker 8: and here?

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Speaker 5: While pregnant?

482
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Speaker 6: Is this normal?

483
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Speaker 1: Oh no?

484
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Speaker 2: And before long it's like there are seven babies in

485
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Speaker 2: there with foreheads. Oh no, not the seven babies with

486
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Speaker 2: four heads. It's suation. I mean, it tells you the

487
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Speaker 2: worst thing.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, and then it's always like, okay, consult your

489
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Speaker 4: medical professional.

490
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, they're gonna think I'm wild if I

491
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Speaker 1: call them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm surprised that the doctors aren't calling up people well,

494
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Speaker 2: mainly because they don't listen to us. But if they did,

495
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Speaker 2: I think they would be like that. They would tell

496
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Speaker 2: you that Google's the worst possible thing, because if everyone

497
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Speaker 2: walks you in thinking that it is the worst possible scenario,

498
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Speaker 2: and it is usual in my experience, it has never

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Speaker 2: been what Google said it was ever.

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Speaker 13: Yep.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, everything's okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, everything's okay now, but you know the you know,

503
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Speaker 4: thinking about it in the past and like, uh this,

504
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Speaker 4: I just don't want it to get worse and keep

505
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Speaker 4: doing that.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, you stay off there, You stay off

507
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Speaker 2: of there, Kim. All right, have a good day, you too,

508
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Speaker 2: Love you guys, Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Love you too. If you have an initial call here,

510
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you it's not what you think it is.

511
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you.

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Speaker 2: I'll talk you out the ledge, even though I'm doing

513
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Speaker 2: the same thing myself. Hey Karina, Hi, Hi, So what

514
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 2: happened with Google?

515
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Speaker 14: So my friend has a thing with searching every sign

516
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Speaker 14: and symptom. Ever, so she would record herself crying at

517
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Speaker 14: three am and send it to us after convincing herself

518
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Speaker 14: that she's like, oh, I have cancer now, and then

519
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Speaker 14: we would have to talk her off.

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Speaker 8: The ledge every single time for every new disease that

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Speaker 8: she has.

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Speaker 2: Di I think your friend needs to seeks a mental

523
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Speaker 2: health treatment because anyone who's taking video of themselves crying

524
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Speaker 2: and then sending it to is that necessary? Like can

525
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Speaker 2: you just call me crying and then I'll know you're crying?

526
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 2: Like why do I need to mass distribute my drama?

527
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Speaker 14: The visual reference just always helps, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I would believe you, Like if you called

529
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Speaker 2: me a saidman, I was crying all night because I

530
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Speaker 2: think I have cancer from Google told me that, Like

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Speaker 2: that's good enough. I don't need to see the video

532
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Speaker 2: of your crying necessarily true, right, But anyway, she's okay,

533
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Speaker 2: though I bet she didn't have it, right.

534
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Speaker 14: No cancer, no cancer. Yeah, because of Google search, she

535
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Speaker 14: did diagnose her for your husband with like a weird mole,

536
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Speaker 14: so she'd actually caught him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well you've just done did everything we did for

538
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Speaker 2: the last twenty minutes. Here's that Google was right, So

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Speaker 2: Karina have a good day. She's like for the last

540
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Speaker 2: twenty minutes by Google's never right. Yeah, but then we did.

541
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Speaker 2: We were able to discover a very rare mole and

542
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Speaker 2: save the man's life. See okay, well, don't listen to us.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people don't know I'm the guys sure

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Speaker 2: the harpist not on that track, No, No, I mean

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Speaker 2: I am a studio art and I've been known to

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Speaker 2: the session artist.

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Speaker 1: I've been known to do a lot of different things.

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Speaker 2: On this one, I'm the boom boom guy. Yes, every

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Speaker 2: time you hear boom boom, you ate right on Alexplorin

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Speaker 2: that that's really kind of my thing.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know them. Yeah, yeah, thanks for.

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Speaker 2: Keeping that a secret because there was a non disclosure

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Speaker 2: and stuff because I think the guy who actually plays

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Speaker 2: the bongos, who is sick that day, he don't want

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Speaker 2: people to know. Hey, Jamie, good morning. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what the instrument's called, but I play it. You just

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Speaker 2: hand me one. I just can do it, Jamie. Hi, welcome,

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Speaker 2: so welcome to stair Goo. Thank you for your note

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Speaker 2: to us Fredshire Radio on the socials freadshare Radio dot com.

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Speaker 2: You can get us that way too. You are married, right, yes, okay,

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00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 2: you're married and you recently got into your husband's car

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Speaker 2: and what happened?

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Speaker 8: So I got into my husband's car and I saw

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Speaker 8: that another woman had connected to his bluetooth.

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Speaker 2: No boy, and how did you see that? Because it said, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, big movie, big movie, Paulina his car phone

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Speaker 2: or again, I don't know, like what people people name

583
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Speaker 2: their phone right, so like sometimes people are funny about it.

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Speaker 2: But so, how did you know because it said someone's

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Speaker 2: iPhone or something.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I went to connect my phone so I could

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Speaker 8: play some music when we were going to the store,

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Speaker 8: and I saw that Stephanie's iPhone was the one to

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Speaker 8: last connect to his car.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did he loan his car out? I mean, who's Stephanie? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't mean to bury the lead here. Who's Stephanie?

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Speaker 1: Do we know?

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Speaker 8: I I didn't know until I asked my husband. I

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Speaker 8: had never heard of a Stephanie. He had never mentioned

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Speaker 8: a Stephanie, and so when I asked him who Stephanie is,

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Speaker 8: he immediately told me that it was his coworker, and

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Speaker 8: he explained that they went one day to go get

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Speaker 8: lunch and she wanted to play music on the way.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, if Kaylin and I left here to

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Speaker 2: go to breakfast right now, we drove somewhere, that would

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Speaker 2: not necessarily be an uncommon thing for Kaylin to want

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Speaker 2: to do. Because Kaylen actually has great music taste and

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Speaker 2: and she takes over the ox court. I don't have

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Speaker 2: a problem with it because she has a good job.

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Speaker 2: Some people take over the ox cord, and I'm like, like,

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Speaker 2: my bluetooth doesn't I'm not looking at you. I'm just

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Speaker 2: saying like, there I have friends who I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: my bluetooth doesn't work, you know, or something so like

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Speaker 2: the fact. But but Cala and I aren't doing anything

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Speaker 2: like anymore. I mean we obviously we obviously used to.

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Speaker 2: But that was everyone's speculation. But but so that wouldn't

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Speaker 2: be I guess if I were seeing someone they got

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Speaker 2: in my car and I said, Kaylen's iPhone on my car,

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Speaker 2: I don't that wouldn't mean anything, right. That would mean

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Speaker 2: that she was in the car with me and wanted

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Speaker 2: to control the music. That's what that would mean. But

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Speaker 2: you're saying you didn't know who this woman was, and

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Speaker 2: you don't know why she's connecting to the phone and

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Speaker 2: and and so what else concerns you about this? Or

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Speaker 2: could the car phone to the car rather?

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Speaker 8: I mean, even though he was honest right away, it's

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Speaker 8: just to me, it's unacceptable behavior to have another woman

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Speaker 8: in your car if you're married.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think that's what.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Now wait, whoa wa wa wa?

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Speaker 15: Why wasn't he.

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Speaker 8: Could have driven herself to lunch. She drove herself to work.

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Speaker 8: She clearly has a ride, so I don't understand why

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Speaker 8: she had a ride with my husband.

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Speaker 1: Do we not care about the planet lunch? We don't

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Speaker 1: care about the environment? Jamie? I mean, come on, not

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Speaker 1: really that, Jamie. Not Jamie.

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Speaker 5: No, really, like Jamie, don't play.

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Speaker 2: Your husband is not allowed to have other women in

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Speaker 2: the car.

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Speaker 8: Well, let me have this then, because this was the

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Speaker 8: other thing that really upset me was that he also

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Speaker 8: paid for her lunch. So not only did he have

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Speaker 8: her in his car playing music for him, but then

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Speaker 8: he went ahead and paid for his lunch.

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Speaker 6: Like is this a date?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Well, now that you bring up the music and the

645
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Speaker 2: and the lunch, okay, well now now come on.

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Speaker 6: Also pay for my lunch. And still nothing's happening.

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Speaker 2: I don't think either one of those things speak to anything.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing your stretches again? Over there? No,

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Speaker 1: Kiki go because.

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Speaker 7: Sheet Now now we're not gonna just act like Stephane's

651
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Speaker 7: feelings aren't valid.

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Speaker 5: That's she's right, You're.

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Speaker 2: Exactly right, Steveny. The coworker is getting free lunch and

654
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Speaker 2: control the music. Her feelings are valid. You're exactly right.

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Speaker 2: Jamie is the wise Jamie. So we're talking to you,

656
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Speaker 2: and Jamie is the one saying that this is inappropriate,

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Speaker 2: and I think that that is crazy talk.

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Speaker 7: I think Jamie's feelings are valid though she knows her husband,

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Speaker 7: and there's a reason she feels this way about him

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Speaker 7: having another woman in the car.

661
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Speaker 1: Yeah, why do you feel that way? Is there a reason?

662
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 2: Like because you wrote in your note to us that

663
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: you've never suspected this guy of cheating. So again, I

664
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 2: feel like there's a common theme in a lot of

665
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: these things we talk about when it comes to cheating

666
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 2: or infidelity, and it's it's trust in context, it's history. Like,

667
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 2: so the guy has a female coworker he goes to

668
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 2: lunch with. You've never suspected him of cheating, Jamie, So

669
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 2: why are we now saying that he is out of nowhere?

670
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: That's not fair to him.

671
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 15: Because it sends the wrong message to his coworker, Like

672
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 15: I don't think he's cheating, but in her mind like, Okay,

673
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 15: you just got a ride with him. He's all letting

674
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 15: you pick some music and buying your lunch. It's just

675
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 15: it's a terrible way to be if you're married, I

676
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 15: feel like it sends the wrong message to her.

677
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: I think I gotta be honest with you, Jamie.

678
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: If I were married or in a relationship and my

679
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: wife found out that, I was like, no, you can't

680
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 2: get your bluetooth.

681
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: Are you trying to control my radio station out?

682
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 2: Jamie's been trying to connect your trying to connect your

683
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: phone in my radio station. If my wife found out

684
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: that I a girlfriend or whomever that I I made

685
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 2: her drive a separate car and then wouldn't pay for

686
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 2: her lunch, all because I was afraid, and all under

687
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: the pretense that my wife would be upset. If I

688
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 2: did any of that, I would think that anyone I

689
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 2: would be with and be like, you're an idiot, Like

690
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: that's ridiculous, and I'm not going to get I'm not saying, Jamie,

691
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 2: that you're an idiot or that you're being ridiculous. But

692
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: I guess what I'm saying is I don't think that

693
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 2: either one of those things inherently leads to cheating. I mean,

694
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 2: it's not like you found a hotel room key in

695
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,479
Speaker 2: the car too, or like you know, condom wrappers or something.

696
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm being serious and whatever your concerns are

697
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: can be your concerns. But I don't think those two

698
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 2: things in and of themselves mean that someone is cheating.

699
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, I just don't want his coworker, Stephanie to think

700
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 8: that he's interested in her, and I really think this

701
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 8: opens that door for her. I mean, oh, I'll just

702
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 8: take you to lunch and I'll drive you, like it

703
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 8: just seems I wouldn't do that with my coworker.

704
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,239
Speaker 1: Did you get mad at him?

705
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 8: I mean we talked about it and I had to

706
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 8: walk away because I felt like I was getting really

707
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 8: upset about it and it wasn't going to be productive.

708
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 8: So I guess yes, I'm kind of upset.

709
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 2: With him because I'll tell you what happens then, is

710
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: now he's not going to tell you about stuff like

711
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: I don't know that he stops going to lunch with

712
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: a woman he's not cheating with. Let's just assume he's not,

713
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 2: because you don't suspect him of him infidelity and you

714
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: never have, so let's just give him the benefit of

715
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 2: the doubt for a second and say he's not cheating. Now,

716
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 2: he's probably not going to stop going to lunch with

717
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 2: his teammate, and so now he's not going to tell

718
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 2: you because he doesn't want to fight with you about it.

719
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 2: And I feel like, sometimes, you know, and this is

720
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 2: from the male perspective here, any You're right, I'm not

721
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 2: in a relationship, So maybe I got this all wrong.

722
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: But if I'm being respectful and honest and transparent and

723
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm not doing anything wrong, and then the person I'm

724
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 2: with tells me now all of a sudden, I can't

725
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 2: do that thing, then am I gonna stop doing that thing?

726
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm gonna I'm gonna listen to you, and

727
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take into consideration you're needs and concerns. But

728
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 2: if I'm not doing anything wrong and it's a normal activity,

729
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: then maybe I keep doing it and just don't tell

730
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: you anymore because I don't feel like an argument. And

731
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: I think sometimes that's what happens when we get upset

732
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 2: about things that might not be sinister. Is that then

733
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: we want to know why there's not more transparency in relationships.

734
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 2: But it's because you're sort of penalizing the guy for

735
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: not necessarily doing anything wrong.

736
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 8: Yeah, but it's not like he just straight up told

737
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 8: me you went to lunch with that girl. I had

738
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 8: to find out because of her phone being logged.

739
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 15: Into his car.

740
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 5: That's a good point.

741
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 8: You know. If he would have been like, hey, I

742
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 8: went out to lunch with Stephanie today, or hey, I'm

743
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 8: going out to lunch with my coworker, it would be

744
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 8: different than me having to find out.

745
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 3: So you want him to tell you every time he

746
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 3: does something with another woman, Yeah, so that.

747
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 8: We can have a conversation, because I would have told

748
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 8: him this is unacceptable to do before he did it,

749
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 8: and then this wouldn't be a problem one.

750
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:01,239
Speaker 1: Maybe that's a man.

751
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 2: Maybe that's why he didn't tell you. And again, Jamie,

752
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: I'm not coming down on you, but like I get it.

753
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 2: You that's a fair that's a fair request. Have you

754
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 2: made that request before? Have you said to him, Hey,

755
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: if you're going to hang out with any women that

756
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: aren't me, I need to know about it. Have you

757
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 2: said that to him?

758
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:16,479
Speaker 1: Well?

759
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: No, I know because by the way, I know we're

760
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 2: all laughing because in fairness, that sounds kind of ridiculous

761
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 2: to say out loud. But if he if you said that,

762
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: here are my concerns, and that he didn't, you know,

763
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: he wasn't receptive to communication. That's one thing but I

764
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: would imagine you've never said that to him, right, I mean.

765
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 8: We had conversations about going and hanging out with women

766
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 8: outside of work, but we never talked about co workers.

767
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 8: I guess I should have included that because I wasn't

768
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 8: comfortable with him going out with like his little girlfriends

769
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 8: when we first got together, because some of them were

770
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 8: kind of into him at scenes. So like we had

771
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 8: that conversation of how I wasn't comfortable with him going

772
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 8: out with them alone. But I didn't think I needed

773
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 8: to worry about coworkers. I thought he'd be professional at work.

774
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I h yeah, I don't know, Jamie. Let me

775
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: take some phone calls on it.

776
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 2: I've said enough on the topic, but eight five five

777
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 2: five three five, Jamie, thank you for the call, And

778
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 2: I honestly no judgment here.

779
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: I wish you the best.

780
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 2: I'd be careful maybe with some of this, because it's

781
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 2: like it seems a little controlling, and it seems a

782
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 2: little bit like you're giving this guy, you're penalizing him,

783
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: when in fact he may have done nothing wrong. I

784
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 2: mean again, like if I go out with people from work,

785
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: or I go out with clients, or I go out

786
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: with you know whomever, and they're female, and I don't

787
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 2: run that by you before I go out with you.

788
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean I'm cheating. It means I'm doing my job.

789
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 2: It means i'm It means I'm being a good teammate.

790
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: It means I'm bonding with the people I work with

791
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 2: every day and spend a lot of time with. I

792
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 2: don't think that inherently means that there's infidelity. But let

793
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 2: me take some calls and we'll see it. Maybe people

794
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 2: think I'm dead as wrong. Thank you, Jamie, have a

795
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: good day.

796
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: Thank you you as well.

797
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, she's gone nowt what do we really

798
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 2: think she's been hurt before?

799
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 5: And I think she needs to therapy and I think

800
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 5: she needs to work through stuff.

801
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 9: Oh, because it just sounds like if you have that

802
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 9: heart of a you know, opinion about your partner hanging

803
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 9: out with people. Like every time another man gets in

804
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 9: my car, I have to let my boyfriend know, Oh

805
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 9: there's a man entering my car. You better like that's crazy, Like,

806
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 9: I'm sorry, that's a little over the line.

807
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I don't know.

808
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: I think it's just yeah, like what there's a common

809
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 2: theme in all of these and it's trust. Like if

810
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 2: you don't trust him, even though you said, she said herself,

811
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 2: I've never believed that he was cheating on me. I

812
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 2: have no reason to believe that he's cheating. Well, then

813
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 2: we got to have trust because this is a slippery slope.

814
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,720
Speaker 2: Now he's not gonna tell you about Stephanie, and before

815
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 2: long you're gonna start finding things now that he's not

816
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 2: telling you because he doesn't want to get yelled at

817
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 2: and or penalized. He's not doing anything wrong, so he's

818
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 2: protecting himself and he's protecting a relationship from unnecessary arguments.

819
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 2: But then you're gonna accuse him of lying or omission,

820
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 2: and then it's going to lead to you believing that

821
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 2: he's hiding something. But he's not really hiding anything. He

822
00:34:59,080 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 2: just doesn't want to fight.

823
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 6: That's true. It's such a trust thing because in my

824
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 6: past relationships.

825
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 3: I would have felt that way, but like now, I mean,

826
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 3: just the other day, my boyfriend needed a plus one

827
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 3: for some dinner and he couldn't find someone and I

828
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 3: couldn't go, and I literally was like, oh, just take

829
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: one of my friends. Like that's how trusting I feel now.

830
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 3: So I think that's a good point. Yeah, Michelle, Hi, Hi, Hey,

831
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 3: good morning. What do you think there? Go?

832
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: I think go.

833
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 13: I think that if Stephanie is such a good friend

834
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 13: of the husband, then why did she not know about

835
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 13: Stephanie Pryor too? And I'm going to lunch.

836
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: Thank you.

837
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 13: My friends at work. My husband knows about them, so

838
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 13: it wouldn't be a surprise if he found out we

839
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 13: was out to lunch. I think that when you don't

840
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 13: communicate cane to day's stuff with your partner, it can

841
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 13: look like you're hiding stuff, to which you probably are.

842
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: Now that's the jump, Michelle.

843
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 2: What do you do?

844
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 1: Michelle, I'm work in corporate, so let me ask.

845
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 2: You anything like this, Like when I got up this,

846
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 2: I got plans. You know, I'm traveling today, but like

847
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. Yesterday, I got up, I came to

848
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 2: work and we did our show. And then it's not

849
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 2: uncommon for us to be like, hey, you want to

850
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 2: grab lunch or go to go to breakfast, or hey

851
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 2: let's go do that whatever, hey whatever, And there's no forethought,

852
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 2: no planning, nothing, And people keep saying on the text

853
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 2: that the radio show example is not fair because we're

854
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: all close in friends in the back. But that's that's

855
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 2: that's no everywhere. That's no different than people people listening

856
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 2: have exposure to our relationship. But the fact is, there

857
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 2: are any business out there, there are friendships that exist

858
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: between men and women in the office that are not

859
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,720
Speaker 2: crossing the line. And and maybe I didn't know, Michelle,

860
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 2: that I was going to go to breakfast, so I

861
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: did not tell you because I didn't want you to know.

862
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 2: I didn't tell you because I didn't know.

863
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 13: I understand that. But I think that the wife should

864
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 13: have already known that her husband is good friends with

865
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 13: a coworker named Stephanie, so that it doesn't seem on

866
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,280
Speaker 13: warranton for them to be going out to lunch.

867
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm fair.

868
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 13: Such if I'm such good friends with a man that

869
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 13: my core friend job, my huntsband knows about them and

870
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,439
Speaker 13: knows their name because I'm talking about them and telling

871
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 13: them about what we do at work and different things.

872
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,720
Speaker 1: Like that, that's fair. That's fair. Thank you so much, Michelle.

873
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: Have a good day. I'm glad you called you too.

874
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 13: Love you guys, Yeah, I.

875
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: Love you too. Yeah.

876
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: My whole thing when we get into this kind of

877
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 2: topic is I just don't want people to feed into

878
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 2: a narrative that wasn't there before that then leads to

879
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 2: a whole bunch of other issues, when really the issue

880
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 2: is that you're not trusting for some reason, and let's

881
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: talk about that, like, let's talk about why you don't

882
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 2: trust for whatever reason. We don't have to talk about

883
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 2: Stephanie or anything else, because I will say, the more

884
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 2: that you start to control someone's behavior or criticize benign behavior,

885
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 2: then the more it starts to feed into this narrative

886
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 2: that something's going on. Because again, if I'm not doing

887
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: anything wrong and you're telling me I'm doing something wrong,

888
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: and now you're limiting my ability to make friendships at work,

889
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:56,919
Speaker 2: then I'm going to stop telling you because I don't

890
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: want to fight with you when I'm not doing anything wrong.

891
00:37:59,120 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: That's not right now.

892
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 7: But I think the issue here is being surprised. Right,

893
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 7: So we communicate every day when we go home, Hey,

894
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 7: how was your day?

895
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 5: What'd you do?

896
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 7: That would be something that you would bring up in

897
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 7: a conversation. I shouldn't get in your car and connect

898
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 7: my bluetooth and see Stephanie.

899
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 5: Who is Stephanie?

900
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 7: Because now now I got all kinds of things going

901
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 7: on in my mind, not that you've done anything wrong,

902
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 7: but you just didn't communicate that with me, And I'm like,

903
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 7: why why wasn't this communicated? Why you know, you didn't

904
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 7: think that was something to bring up.

905
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 6: So that's all it is. It's not the being in

906
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 6: the car or the paying for lunch.

907
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 7: It's just because I go out with my male friends

908
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 7: all the time and you know, we go to lunch

909
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 7: or whatever. But surprising. I just don't like being surprised

910
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 7: or left out. Who is Stephanie?

911
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 8: You know what?

912
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: Understanding I understand, like why do iant to know who

913
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: this person is? That's fair.

914
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: But I also think that maybe when I if that happened,

915
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 2: and I have a good explanation and I tell you

916
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 2: who Stephanie is and why, then that's the end of it,

917
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: because again, if you don't have any reason to doubt me.

918
00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 2: The worst thing in the world is when you're not

919
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: doing anything wrong and someone's telling you you're doing something wrong.

920
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: That's terrible in a relationship. Hey, Maya, how you doing,

921
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: good morning.

922
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 12: Good morning?

923
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: Hi?

924
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 1: What do you think Sara?

925
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 2: By the way, that the woman who called Jamie was

926
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: upset because she got in her husband's car. A woman

927
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 2: her phone was connected to the bluetooth or had been

928
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 2: connected to the bluetooth, and when she asked her husband,

929
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 2: it was, oh, that's my coworker.

930
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: We went to lunch.

931
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: I bought her lunch, and she connected her phone in

932
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 2: my car to listen to a song. And now Jamie's

933
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 2: saying that all of that was out of bounds.

934
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 1: What do you think.

935
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 12: I'm going to have to side with wife? It's wrong

936
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 12: what he did. I'm sorry. I'm not saying he necessarily

937
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 12: is cheating, but it's if you're married, you have no

938
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 12: business going to lunch with a woman coworker.

939
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 5: You just don't want to do it.

940
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm sorry. It's just it's a respect thing. You

941
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 12: should respect your wife. And the way that she found out.

942
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 12: I mean, if he came home and said, hey, I

943
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 12: went out to lunch you know with my female co worker,

944
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 12: that's different. But the way that she found out, I

945
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 12: think it's just it's not it's I just respectful.

946
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 6: What if it slipped his mind?

947
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: Like is that possible? Because there's nothing to it, right,

948
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: I mean, how.

949
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 12: Does it suit your mind?

950
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 2: Though?

951
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 12: How is your day, honey? Oh I went to lunch

952
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 12: with my coworker.

953
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 6: Oh, I mean, I don't know if it's benign, you

954
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 6: don't think about it.

955
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 7: I don't know.

956
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 12: I just I don't think.

957
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: It just makes me. It makes me sad, Maya.

958
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 2: It does make me a little sad that that's and

959
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 2: you're allowed to have whatever boundaries you want and establish them.

960
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: And by the way, if you communicate that, which she

961
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 2: admits she never did. She never said you can't go

962
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 2: to lunch with I'm uncomfortable with you having lunch one

963
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: on one with female coworkers. If you have gone to

964
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,800
Speaker 2: your husband, Maya, and said, hey, this is what I

965
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 2: need from you, and he agrees to it, and then

966
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: he does it anyway, that's the thing, I guess if

967
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: you both agree to it. But like, wouldn't you agree

968
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 2: that it kind of sucks that if you have a

969
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 2: husband that he's out there not able to make the

970
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 2: same kind of friendships and the same I have the

971
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 2: same kind of bonding experience with his coworkers because his wife.

972
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: Says, no, you know what, we live in a different world.

973
00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 2: Now.

974
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 12: It's sad, it really is, But I just I find

975
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 12: it to be a little bit disrespectful, just okay, that

976
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 12: she found out I feel if he came home and

977
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 12: told her, I feel she would feel differently about it,

978
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 12: do you know what I mean? But the way that

979
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 12: she found out, that's.

980
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: What, okay, all right, fair enough, fair enough, There could

981
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,439
Speaker 2: be more communication, and then that that that also takes

982
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 2: away from this sort of obscurity of it.

983
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got it. Thank you, Maya. I have a

984
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: good day.

985
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 13: We can't thank you.

986
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: I'm glad you called. I guess I'm team being a

987
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 2: relationship and team. I'm there because I trust the person

988
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 2: and team. I'm not going to ride ride them and

989
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: make rules for them that they can then walk them

990
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: walk into traps all the time for doing things that

991
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: are normal.

992
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, but team communicate as well, that's all.

993
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 2: So if Hobby had lunch with a female firefighter is yeah,

994
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 2: and didn't and didn't necessarily announce to you that he

995
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: was doing it ahead of time, that.

996
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: Would bother me.

997
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 16: Just tell you because we communicate with him, and I

998
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 16: have a relationship where we've established communication.

999
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 6: I'll say, oh, I'm going to lunch with Fred and

1000
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 6: Jason whatever. I'll tell him because it's just how we talk.

1001
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 16: Maybe that's the thing when every marriage is the same, really,

1002
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 16: Caya made a point we might have forgot. Maybe we

1003
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 16: don't go home in debrief right and have like a

1004
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 16: whole meeting of how your day was, me and my husband,

1005
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 16: my husband.

1006
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: And I, we have that.

1007
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 16: I think it's important to communicate, especially because that's kind

1008
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 16: of how we've built our relationship.

1009
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 5: It's always been very open communicator.

1010
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is jam Sarah, Hi, good morning,

1011
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 2: good morning. How are you I doing well? So you

1012
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: take the other side. You're saying stay, I'm saying stay.

1013
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 13: I don't think this is something that you get rid

1014
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 13: of your husband for.

1015
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 8: But I do think that if this.

1016
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 13: Is an issue that she has, she just needs to

1017
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:33,439
Speaker 13: be honest.

1018
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 8: And.

1019
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 15: It's what we do for each other.

1020
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,800
Speaker 13: We have to take in how.

1021
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 8: Other people feel and know that it's something that bothers

1022
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 8: her and maybe something that he just has to do

1023
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 8: to make her comfortable. Okay, I don't think it's something

1024
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 8: I don't think it's something we we get rid of

1025
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 8: our smiuse.

1026
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: For Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, Thank you, Stephanie.

1027
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 1: I have a good day.

1028
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,840
Speaker 2: Like I'll be honest with you. Like my someone just texted,

1029
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: what happened to being a gentleman? Well, my mom taught

1030
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 2: me that, you know, basically, it's a nice thing to

1031
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 2: do as and again just gets into don't don't at

1032
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: me for gender roles and all this stuff. But I

1033
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 2: was raised if I take you guys to lunch, that

1034
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 2: I should, I should make the move to pay for it.

1035
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 2: And I'm not doing anything with any of you. It's

1036
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: just a nice thing to do, right like, and I

1037
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 2: like doing it. And so whether there's a sexual relationship

1038
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 2: or not, if I go to lunch with a friend

1039
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 2: of mine who's a female, I buy lunch. And if

1040
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 2: that's objectionable to somebody, fine, and I would I would

1041
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 2: do it if I were married, I would still buy

1042
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 2: you guys lunch or dinner if we went out, because

1043
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 2: I think it's a nice thing to do and it

1044
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 2: was what I was taught and it has nothing to

1045
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: do with sex.

1046
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1047
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 2: I think that's the problem is immediately when it comes

1048
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: to men and women and gestures, we immediately jump to sex.

1049
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:48,800
Speaker 1: Why because y'all nasty