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Speaker 1: Paul from Jen.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi Jen, is that you? Yes?

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Speaker 3: This is Jen.

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Speaker 2: Well, Jen, it's an honor, a privilege, and an honor

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Speaker 2: to talk to you. How's it gone?

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Speaker 3: Not that great?

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Speaker 2: Well? Do you want to talk about it? Or do

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Speaker 2: you want to talk about something else to distract from it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I kind of want to get

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Speaker 3: your input on it, to be honest. So, like, I

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Speaker 3: just recently went through a breakup, and so this guy

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Speaker 3: I was with for seven years actually left me for

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Speaker 3: someone he says he met online that he met like

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Speaker 3: in two weeks, and she actually lives in a different

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Speaker 3: country on top of that, so it's kind of like

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Speaker 3: hard to get over it.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. When a guy says he met

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Speaker 2: a woman on the internet in a foreign country, there's

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, realistically, I could give a funnier number,

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Speaker 2: but I'm gonna give a realistic number, A tw fifteen

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Speaker 2: percent chance twenty twenty twenty. All people meet each other

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Speaker 2: online pretty frequently these days, twenty percent chance she's not

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Speaker 2: a real person.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy because, like throughout our breakup, he kept saying that,

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Speaker 3: like he's never fell in love like the one he

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Speaker 3: has with her. And like all he could really think

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Speaker 3: of is imagining her face and her voice while he

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Speaker 3: was at work and mine to you be like, like

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Speaker 3: I said, seven years together, he had a ring, he

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Speaker 3: was ready to propose, we were like planning on having

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Speaker 3: kids to I'm just like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Well, I'm sorry, I'm sorry that things

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Speaker 2: didn't work out. Man, hmmm hmmm.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's definitely one of those things because like he

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Speaker 3: told me too, that he told his parents before me

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Speaker 3: that he was going to break up with me out

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Speaker 3: of the blue.

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Speaker 2: He told his parents before you that he was going

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Speaker 2: to break up with you. Yeah, how long ago was

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Speaker 2: all this?

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Speaker 3: This was like the week of Thanksgiving on top of

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Speaker 3: all that.

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Speaker 2: What have you been doing since?

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Speaker 3: Definitely still going through it emotionally because you know, obviously

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Speaker 3: this is someone who I thought I was going to

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Speaker 3: build a life with, and you know, he was very

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Speaker 3: like emotionally abusive throughout the whole process, you know, kind

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Speaker 3: of like different, completely different person from what I meant.

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Speaker 3: And so it's definitely like something you would think that

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Speaker 3: you would probably be like, you know what, like I

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Speaker 3: need to move on, Like this is not who I

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Speaker 3: was with, But you know, when you plan a future

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Speaker 3: with someone's kind of hard to forget all that.

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Speaker 2: Bro, life's fucking crazy, it really is. Yeah, it's fucking crazy.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm oh, I'm like it's so hard

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Speaker 2: to uh, I guess, like trust people, you know, Like

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean you should be able to,

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Speaker 2: but it's hard.

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Speaker 3: Definitely, yeah, Because like it really was like someone ripping

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Speaker 3: a rug from underneath you kind of scenario because it

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Speaker 3: just happened out of nowhere, and like he was just like,

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Speaker 3: we need a break up. I'm not in love with you,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I want to break up with you

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Speaker 3: before I meet the one, before I can open my

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Speaker 3: heart to someone. Mind you be he's already talking to

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Speaker 3: someone these last those last two weeks, well going on.

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Speaker 2: Well look here's the thing, And I know it's hard.

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Speaker 2: This is a difficult perspective to tap into it at

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Speaker 2: this very moment. But it's it's like these like breakups

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Speaker 2: and ship they're kind of always a good thing mm hmmm,

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Speaker 2: because like you know, if you're gonna if you're gonna be,

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Speaker 2: if you gonna marry a fucking guy and have kids

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Speaker 2: and get a house and really just you know, do

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Speaker 2: a intertwine your existences and you know, with a kid

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Speaker 2: and just just really fuck your lives together, you know,

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Speaker 2: like a Barbie and a Ken Doll. Right then then

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Speaker 2: then it should be somebody who's who's who's sure about you?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And if if this guy is not sure about you,

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Speaker 2: then it's I think it's a good thing that you guys.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's a it's a it's quite a relief.

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Speaker 2: I think that you know, at least this happened, you know,

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Speaker 2: the timing of this is a lot fucking better than

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Speaker 2: it could have been. And it could have been, you know,

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Speaker 2: because you don't want to be you don't want to

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Speaker 2: you don't want to have this conversation after Thanksgiving dinner

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Speaker 2: with the whole family and kids house, Right, So I

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Speaker 2: mean count that as a as as a good aspect

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Speaker 2: of all of this, even though there's there's you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you're I'm sure you're in a state of turmoil.

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Speaker 2: What so I I look, I know it's all fresh,

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Speaker 2: but are we are we gonna? Are we gonna go

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Speaker 2: find ourselves? Of fucking European hunk? Now he's got his.

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Speaker 3: Like I obviously like I'm not like him. So like

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Speaker 3: seven years. To me, it's seven years, so like I'm

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Speaker 3: still madly in love even though he's freed me over.

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Speaker 3: But like on top of all this, you know, when

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Speaker 3: I was trying to find this girl's number to talk

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Speaker 3: to her, I ended up finding out he was talking

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Speaker 3: to a dude back in August, and me and this

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Speaker 3: guy started talking, and he apparently told this guy that

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Speaker 3: he's been single for three years and that my car

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Speaker 3: was his car, and all these stuff that I bought him,

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Speaker 3: Like was apparently think he bought himself, when that's not

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Speaker 3: even true. So he was trying to select at the

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Speaker 2: He was flexing. He's a little gay and he's got

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Speaker 2: an international lady.

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Speaker 3: I yeah, everyone, well, how how how old is this guy?

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Speaker 2: How is this guy?

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Speaker 3: He's twenty eight?

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Speaker 2: Okay, he's going through like a he's you know what

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Speaker 2: is unfortunate. He's going through a midlife crisis. That's what

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Speaker 2: people think. People think midlife crisises happened at like fifty,

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Speaker 2: but no one lives to one hundred. That's ridiculous. This

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Speaker 2: guy's probably gonna you know, you know a lot of

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Speaker 2: people die at sixty. I don't know when this guy's

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Speaker 2: gonna die. I'm not gonna say anything, but it sounds

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Speaker 2: like he's going through a crazy midlife crisis or something

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because everyone was telling me that, like are you

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Speaker 3: sure he's not drugs or something or what is he doing?

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Speaker 3: Because like it's just so weird, because like he was

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Speaker 3: literally all of a sudden being a homophobe like towards

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Speaker 3: like it's just such a weird scenario. Like in my head,

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Speaker 2: You said he was being a homophobe towards the end.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you know, we went to the gym and

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Speaker 3: I can't believe like all these people are doing rich

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he was. It sounds you know, this

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Speaker 2: I'm about to get I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what I'm about to say is giving him the benefit

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Speaker 2: I don't I don't know. I don't know how confident

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Speaker 2: I am about to say. But he was like he

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Speaker 2: he wanted to do the thing. He wanted to stick

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Speaker 2: But then he started having all these like gay thoughts,

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Speaker 2: off on these people in the sauna and shit. But

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Speaker 2: but it just it, it took him in. And I

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Speaker 2: don't know why all those things are happening. I don't

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Speaker 2: know why he felt this crazy desire to make like,

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Speaker 2: that you are an innocent, uh, casualty in all of it,

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Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, But whatever that's for his therapy, get

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Speaker 2: go call this is yours.

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Speaker 3: So it's funny too, because like I actually took this

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Speaker 3: guy to confront him because he wanted closure and why

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Speaker 3: he ghosted him. So we when we confronted him about it.

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Speaker 2: Wait wait wait you wait. So the guy wait wait,

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Speaker 2: the guy that he was flirting with you and him

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Speaker 3: He knew where we lived because he googled his name,

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Speaker 3: so he knew where we lived. He knew the apartment number, everything.

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Speaker 3: He just asked if it was cool, if he can

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Speaker 3: meet up. Then I was like, sure, that's fucking nuts, man,

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Speaker 3: you just that's what I'm saying. It's like a movie.

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Speaker 2: What happened when you confronted him and his wife and

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Speaker 2: the guy from uh that he's cheating on her with

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Speaker 2: fucking show up? What did he say?

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Speaker 3: So we showed up at his dad's house because he

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Speaker 3: we knocked on the door and I told him, I

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Speaker 3: he looked all surprised, and then he pretty much told

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Speaker 3: you know what, we had cool conversations. It was all cool,

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Speaker 3: but then just the thought of doing anything with you

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Speaker 2: Oh he said that to the guy that he was

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Speaker 2: started with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, wild right.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, listen back to you. What's your name again, Jen?

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Speaker 3: Jen?

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Speaker 1: Jen?

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Speaker 2: Back to you?

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Speaker 4: Jen?

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Speaker 2: When's the last time he talked to your ex?

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Speaker 3: This was on maybe like two weeks ago on Thursday,

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Speaker 3: because we made plans on him taking up his stuff

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Speaker 3: this is when he was having a screaming battle with

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Speaker 3: being crazy and all this stuff. Because I told his

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Speaker 3: if you really know the truth about him, like these

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Speaker 3: are all the things that were leading up to the breakup,

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Speaker 3: and like we were still seeing each other and sleeping

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Speaker 3: what he told me he was single. Why are you

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Speaker 3: making it like my fam. I'm like, I'm not blaming you,

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you what happened towards the end. And so

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Speaker 3: he got all upset and called me and started screaming

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Speaker 3: at me. And then that's when he was like, I

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Speaker 3: need to take my stuff out of storage, which is fine.

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Speaker 3: Then he shows up to storage with cops because he

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Speaker 3: wanted the engagement ring back as well. So I gated

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Speaker 3: back to him, and I was just kind of like

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Speaker 3: like hates the cops, but he's been calling the cops

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Speaker 2: Crazy dude.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And this is a guy too that says he's

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Speaker 3: going through a spiritual journey because he wants to connect

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Speaker 2: I look, you were with this guy for seven years.

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Speaker 3: Just pretty much traveling, to be honest, because that's something

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Speaker 3: I still have planned and you know we both have

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Speaker 2: Please, please, dear God, oh my God, the best thing,

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Speaker 2: go where'd you get? Where are you planning?

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Speaker 3: Right, just see what he is? You know, Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: After it's not gonna I understand. I'm just I'm I'm I.

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Speaker 2: I know I'm ignorant to your your particular don't know,

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Speaker 2: he'll Yeah, But are you still are you still friends

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Speaker 2: I mean I kind of think, I mean listen, I mean, Jen,

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Speaker 2: needing to plan a trip to Hawaii. Now that would

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Speaker 2: be tell me, that wouldn't be a movie. That's a

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Speaker 2: movie right there. You that guy going to Hawaii getting

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have to figure out the script.

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Speaker 2: That's a Jett Appatow movie. You you're Leslie Man, who's

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Speaker 2: the guy whatever? Who cares? Anyway? Well, Jen, how do

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Speaker 3: How do I what?

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Speaker 2: How do you feel?

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Speaker 3: I feel great after this conversation. I mean, like I

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I hope that when you think of this part,

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Speaker 2: associate this podcast yourself with it not being associated with him,

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Speaker 3: Oh for sure, that's on my Christmas list.

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Speaker 2: Jane, is there anything else you want to say to

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Speaker 3: I mean, thanks for all your guys' advice, for sure,

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Speaker 2: All right, take care, Jen.

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Speaker 1: Awesome, Thank you, hunk City All from.

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Speaker 4: My name is Omar?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Is this Omar?

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Omar? What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Just ship getting high? Playing City star lives, making like

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Speaker 4: little people move around the only.

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Speaker 2: Screen you're playing?

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Speaker 4: What that game is? Like? Fucking sim City and just

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Speaker 4: like make cities sounds. It's sucking sick.

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Speaker 2: You're getting high and playing SimCity?

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Speaker 4: Hell? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Wow? What made you want to interrupt such a beautiful

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I wanted to hear what you have

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Speaker 2: Want to hear what I have to say about life?

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Speaker 2: What do I have to say about life? Sometimes I

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Speaker 2: I wonder sometimes I'm I've been going back, you know,

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Speaker 2: I've been think about a lot, but going back and

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Speaker 2: forth about whether life is easy or hard? Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Because sometimes I'm like, wait, this is this is easy,

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Speaker 4: Did you get born into an easy life or a

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Speaker 2: You say, born into an easy life or a hard life?

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Speaker 4: Did you did you?

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Speaker 2: Which one did you get? Say? Where are you from?

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Speaker 4: I'm from London.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's why your phone is a little shitty

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Speaker 4: That's fair enough. I'll try and articulate a little bit harder.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Okay, So what did you just say?

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Speaker 4: Did you get an easy life or a hard one?

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Speaker 4: Which one did you get born into?

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Speaker 2: It's fun to make fun of British people because you

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Speaker 2: know they're also just white, all right? So oh fuck?

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Speaker 4: Sorry did you get did you get an easy life

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Speaker 4: or did you get a hard one? Which one did

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Speaker 4: you get born into? It?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I mean fu comparatively easy? God damn. I mean it

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Speaker 2: and drink water, that's pretty good. I don't know if

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Speaker 4: You know. Yeah, it's pretty sweet.

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Speaker 2: What about you? What do you think?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I hell, yeah, dude, I'm privileged out. I got

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Speaker 2: Where are you from? Where in Asia are you from?

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Speaker 4: No? I grew up in Singapore.

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Speaker 2: Oh I've heard of Singapore. Singapore is? Singapore is kind

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty cool when you're under eighteen, it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Why is it cool when you're under eighteen but not

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Speaker 4: Eighteen Cause you can have like a fun sheltered time now,

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Speaker 4: like you can go like cringe clubbing and shait. But

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. So you just said, yeah, living in Singapore

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, you grow up and you want to do

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Speaker 4: you can't do cooler stuff. You can't say weed, you

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Speaker 4: can't do drugs. You got to like live that cookie

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Speaker 2: Why were you you were clubbing? How old were you

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Speaker 4: You can go clubbing when you're like thirteen fourteen there

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Speaker 2: Really wait, so are you like so you're telling me

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Speaker 4: Bro, yeah percent, and like what's even with it? At

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Speaker 4: then you grow up and you'reze, how cringe that is

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Speaker 4: that this like dude who's like thirty is just like

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Speaker 4: When you liked makes oup where to go in high school?

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Speaker 2: Goddamn? So how old were you? How old were you

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Speaker 2: when you left Singapore?

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Speaker 4: I think I left when I was seventeen.

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you ever go back?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I used to go back when my parents said there,

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Speaker 4: but I don't go back anymore.

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Speaker 2: Do you still club Where are you now? Are you

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Speaker 2: in London? Are in London?

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Speaker 4: No? No? No, not really. I get a gig, but

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Speaker 4: I don't go clubbing. I'm older now, I'm like thirty,

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Speaker 2: What do you do with your life? Omar?

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Speaker 4: I'm a YouTuber?

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00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: Are a YouTuber? Are you?

443
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 5: Are you?

444
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 2: A YouTube? Has gotten so niche and so I feel

445
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 2: like you're You're a niche YouTube? You you're a weed

446
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 2: and sim City YouTuber those that's your nie?

447
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 4: No? No, no, no, Like.

448
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 2: You did a review on specifically the best strains to

449
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 2: smoke while playing SimCity, that's your No.

450
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 4: I wish I wish that was myself.

451
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 2: That's hey sports, Just so you know, if you want,

452
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 2: you can have that.

453
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 4: It's hard to here, dude. It's illegal here. It's illegal

454
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 4: and I think I'll get demonetized if I do that.

455
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 2: Really? Is we weeds?

456
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 4: Not?

457
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 2: Is we legal in London?

458
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 4: No? Everyone smokes weed, but it's all see.

459
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 2: You're saying you're breaking the law right now?

460
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 4: I mean, are you breaking a little fatually? If you

461
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 4: say weeds O? You're in Canada?

462
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 2: Why do you think I was? I'm not in Canaday?

463
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 2: Do you think I was in?

464
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,679
Speaker 4: Oh? I don't know, that's what You're in? Galla? Who

465
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 4: are you?

466
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: I'm oh? Mar? I got a question? Is there? And

467
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: it's okay if not. I'm enjoying talking to you. We

468
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 2: can talk about all kinds of things. But is there

469
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 2: a particular thing you wanted to talk about on the phone.

470
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 4: I don't know, man, There's a few things going on,

471
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 4: but I don't know if I want to talk about them online.

472
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 4: You know. What I've been playing with though recently, is

473
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 4: like when you realize that you know nothing really means anything,

474
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 4: it's kind of hard to get psyched to do anything.

475
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 4: Like like I get that, like you know, the end

476
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 4: game is that you're just enjoying every moment as it comes,

477
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 4: because that's really all you get. You don't get the future,

478
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 4: you don't get the past. You just get now, right,

479
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 4: But like, I don't know, when you do that forever,

480
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 4: it feels reckless and you're like, damn, in like ten

481
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 4: years time, I'm gonna fucked up because all I was

482
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 4: doing it's focusing on the present.

483
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 2: Is your version of focusing on the present getting high

484
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 2: and playing sim City?

485
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 4: No, not all the time?

486
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 2: What's your version of focusing on the present?

487
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 4: I guess heating isthing like I don't know, like going

488
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 4: out to dinner, going to the pub, getting fucked up?

489
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,439
Speaker 4: All right, shit like that.

490
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: So you're thirty, right, yeah, do you feel like you

491
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: fucked up your future?

492
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 4: No? But I'm worried that I'll get there and it'll

493
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 4: be too late. You know, you'll figure that out.

494
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: Okay, what are you doing here?

495
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 4: All right?

496
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 2: What do you I mean, what do you like? Give

497
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 2: me some specifics. What do you think you fucked up?

498
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 4: Well, it's just like, okay, so I'm a YouTube I

499
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 4: aren't like pretty decent money, but it's like, you know,

500
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 4: same and popularity that they're not solid things. But all

501
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 4: my other thirty year old friends they have legit jobs there.

502
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 4: They're like fucking some of them bankers. They I mean,

503
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 4: they have a ship time, but they're earning ships on

504
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 4: the cash. They're locked in for like a future that

505
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 4: will last for ages, And it's just that security looks

506
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 4: so sweet, but it's like the price you place that

507
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 4: is very high, and it's just like, am I making

508
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 4: the right choice for not doing that? Well?

509
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: Omar, I have good news. If you want to talk

510
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: about fake jobs, you've come to the right professional Geko.

511
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 4: Good point. What do you think about the future? Like,

512
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 4: how are you? How do you are you? Are you

513
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 4: worried about these things?

514
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: Dude? If you want to know my real answer on this,

515
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 2: I just like am thinking, I've thought about a few things.

516
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, I'm just right now. I'm just

517
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 2: like I do like and I'm gonna get practical with

518
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: you right now. I'm just like, Okay, let me like

519
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 2: save as much money as possible so that, yeah, you know,

520
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 2: I can like have a nice cushion before I, you know,

521
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 2: ever have to get a real job if I ever do.

522
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 2: But and I think about that a lot. I think

523
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 2: about the future. I think about like, oh man, when

524
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: am I gonna you know, I I because you know, right,

525
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: we're in the same but I have no security in

526
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 2: what I do really but h and you know, and again, bruh,

527
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: I think about this every single day. I'm like, I'm like,

528
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 2: you know, I'm I'm twenty I'm almost I'm twenty six

529
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 2: next week, and I'm like, what the fuck am I

530
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 2: going to be doing when I'm like forty? You know,

531
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 2: am I still gonna be imagine?

532
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 4: Like, you know, I be squashed? You have the classic

533
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 4: YouTube is ship. I can't imagine being like a fifty

534
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 4: year old dude being like yo, I can send off

535
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 4: a squaes click my link, Like, I just can't imagine

536
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 4: doing that, right.

537
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 2: I Mean, here's the thing, though, is I will you

538
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 2: you you have to understand that certain things are outside

539
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: of your control. So for me, I'm like, all right, well,

540
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 2: how hard I work is in my control. So that's

541
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 2: why you know, I again post clips for my to

542
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: promote the podcast, and I work really hard to make

543
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 2: sure that the show is good, and I work as

544
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: hard as I can to be the best Gecko as

545
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: I can. And uh, outside of that, I mean, none

546
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 2: of this shit is really in my control. All the

547
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 2: people listening could be like, hey, you know what, this

548
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 2: is fucking stupid and turn it off, and you know,

549
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: then I, you know, have to go. But I don't know,

550
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean I've I've talked when I

551
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 2: talk to my friends and family about this kind of thing.

552
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 2: They always tell me that I'll figure it out, and

553
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 2: I've started to try to want to believe them that,

554
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: you know, I have. I feel a certain sense of

555
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 2: confidence and security and my own brain and my own

556
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 2: skills and my own experience that you know, I'll be

557
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 2: okay regardless of what happens to the sure I'll figure

558
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 2: it out. And you know whatever, I mean, if it's

559
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: just if it's purely a money thing, I mean, there's

560
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 2: a thousand different ways to make money in the in

561
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 2: the world, So you know, I'm sure I'll figure out

562
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: uh something, But for now, I'm almost I'm like, you know,

563
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: there's a there's you guys are balancing actor, right, because

564
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: the more I stress out about the future and the

565
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 2: more I wonder what the hell I'm gonna be doing

566
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 2: when I'm thirty seven, the less I'm focused on doing

567
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: what on what I'm going to be doing when I

568
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: am right now alive? You know, So I'm like robbing

569
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 2: from Yeah, I'm like, I'm robbing from my present geckoss

570
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: to think about, you know, how I'm gonna afford to

571
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 2: eat food when I'm you know, forty five. So uh,

572
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 2: you know, I I don't know. I don't. I think

573
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 2: about this stuff all the time. I mean, what do

574
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 2: you think?

575
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 4: I mean? I thinking about it all the time too.

576
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 4: It's like, to be honest, I'm just we like. It

577
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 4: also starts to play back to this thing where like

578
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 4: you know, people like, oh you have on your own

579
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 4: is your memories? Because I don't even like really know

580
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 4: if my memory is even legit?

581
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 2: Do you do?

582
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, You're like you trying to

583
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 4: recall something? You know? Am I even remembering that? Is

584
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 4: this just like some boss? It's like right where else

585
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 4: I going at that point, because it's like, you know,

586
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 4: when you're living in the now, you're trying to create

587
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 4: create memories for later, so you like have a really

588
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 4: good life in your head. But it's like I don't

589
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 4: really remember those things. So it's like I'm living for

590
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 4: the now, but the now it's literally just as my bleeding.

591
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 4: So it's like, really weird, A is there any reason

592
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 4: why I'm putting happy into this? Now? I've kind of

593
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 4: lost my point. But basically it's fucking complicated and I

594
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 4: can't figure it out.

595
00:32:55,160 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. So I mean, well here's here, there's another

596
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 2: aspect of all this stuff that I was thinking about.

597
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 2: And I don't know if this is true. I don't

598
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: know if I agree with this, but it's a thought

599
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: that I've explored in my head, which is that kind

600
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: of bro in general, security is like kind of a myth.

601
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if I agree with that, but but

602
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 2: I do. I do think about it. I mean, think

603
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: about the pandemic. Right, like a bunch of people who

604
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 2: like had you know, quote, real stable jobs just got

605
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:35,959
Speaker 2: fucking fired, you know, and you know, layoffs happen all

606
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: the time. People get with real secure jobs get fucking fired.

607
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 2: And hey, besides even that, people get people who are

608
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: in like good health have fucking brain aneurysms and die

609
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 2: when they're fifty. And people get into car accidents and

610
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 2: die when they're thirty, even though they had security and

611
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: they had good health and this and that. So so

612
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: I mean security, it's like you can you can get

613
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 2: pretty short that everything's gonna be okay, but that's that's

614
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: like the best you could never you could never be

615
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 2: one hundred percent sure that everything's gonna be okay. You

616
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 2: is never unless if you like, stayed inside your room

617
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 2: and eight lettuce and did push ups and never left

618
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 2: and anything. But you can't live like that. And even

619
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 2: if you did look like that, you'd only get to like,

620
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 2: you know, ninety percent sure that everything's gonna be okay.

621
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 2: But even but that version of life is not things

622
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 2: being okay. So I you know, security does feel like

623
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: a myth in that way. You can never be one

624
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 2: hundred percent sure that everything's gonna be okay. And so

625
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 2: to that point, I kind of surrender thinking about it,

626
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like if I if I'm

627
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 2: never gonna be one hundred percent sure that everything's gonna

628
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 2: be okay, then why the what's the fucking point of

629
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 2: worrying about if things are gonna be okay?

630
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 4: You know, se man, you just you know, you just

631
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 4: like let go with the flow. But that's not an

632
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 4: active mentality you have to maintain like it's norse. It's

633
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 4: not passive, you know.

634
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course no I'm talking about I'm talking a

635
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 2: bunch of ship to you right now. But you know,

636
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 2: after the stream is over, I'm gonna be like, what's

637
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: my YouTube revenue for this for this uh month? And

638
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: how am I.

639
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 4: Gonna bro I I I created a straight up. It

640
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,439
Speaker 4: was like driving me instead, right, right right.

641
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, huh, Well what am I allowed to ask you

642
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 2: what your YouTube channel is? Or are you trying to

643
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 2: remain anonymous?

644
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's bouldering.

645
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,479
Speaker 2: What dude, what did you just say?

646
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:39,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, bouldering just such, boba, you'll find us rock.

647
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 2: Climbing, bouldering, bullbark.

648
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 4: The b o b a t.

649
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 2: B o b a t oh bulbering, Man, you got

650
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 2: you got it bro bulbering, bulbart.

651
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 4: Just talking in complete, You'll be fine.

652
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 2: All right, Well, it's nice talking me.

653
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: Man.

654
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,280
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't have all that many people

655
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 2: who I know that do actually know I have a

656
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 2: good you know, I wish I could talk to I

657
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 2: wish I had more people to talk to about having

658
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: a fake funny job.

659
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, me too. Man. It's like it's it's leading. Everyone's

660
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 4: all serious, and it's like, can someone else, Like my

661
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 4: parents have no idea what I did. Your parents know

662
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 4: what you do?

663
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:32,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, but like they understand it to fine understand.

664
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 4: Like your fucking parents fully understand how he dressed them

665
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 4: as a gecko because of the casting your back down.

666
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: My parents understand that I dress up as a gecko

667
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: and talk to people on the phone and uh do

668
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 2: tours and make videos and stuff. Fad Ugh, my dad

669
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: used to be in the chat, but I don't think

670
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: he's in the chat anymore. Wait, there's a couple. There's

671
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: like a dude and the wait, there's a dude in

672
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 2: my chat right now who says he watches you?

673
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 4: Oh? Hell yeah, what's up?

674
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 2: That's cool? How many subs do you have?

675
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 4: Like?

676
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 2: Now that's sick?

677
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 4: Man?

678
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 2: Are you happy? Are you still?

679
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 4: We're kind of like, you know, what're like on the

680
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 4: you know, when your channel was like peaking before. We're

681
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 4: on like the down end of our peak. But that's okay.

682
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 4: We we opened the gym in real life.

683
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 2: Open you opened the gym.

684
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 4: In real life? Yeah, because we didn't want to run

685
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 4: on YouTube, so we were like we need to make

686
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 4: something brick and mortar. So we we opened the gym

687
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:39,240
Speaker 4: in London.

688
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's see, that's something I want to do. I

689
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 2: want to I want to diversify my life, you know, like,

690
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 2: uh yeah, I love I love doing the podcast and

691
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 2: the podcast is sick, but I'm like, oh what else

692
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: could I also I'm thinking about that, I'm like, what

693
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 2: could I do in real life? That's like, you know, it.

694
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 4: Keeps like the It keeps like the creativity fresh as well.

695
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 4: Doing ship in different aspects that all that kind of related.

696
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 4: It like helps you just get ship coming out of

697
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 4: your mind.

698
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: That's how I feel like. Ah what oh he hung up?

699
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: Well that sucks. Well wow, that's a real bummer way

700
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 2: to end that call. Hold on, let me see if

701
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:26,439
Speaker 2: I can get him back. No, I don't think I can.

702
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 2: But that's okay. We were on the We were on

703
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 2: the much as he much as he said we we

704
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 2: we had peaked much as he said he had peaked

705
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 2: in his channel. I think we had peaked in that call.

706
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 2: That was a good call. Shout out to what's his

707
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 2: name again, Bobert, Bouldering Bobert. Shout out to Bouldering Bobert.

708
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: That's good talking to you. Let's collab. Should we do

709
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: a collab? But what did he say he what kind

710
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 2: of stuff did he say he makes? I'll go to

711
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 2: his gym, That's what we'll do, Bobering Bobert. If you

712
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 2: hear this, I'll go to your gym in London and

713
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 2: we'll make a video. Maybe depends on how strenuous you

714
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 2: want the activity to be. All right, thanks for calling, Bobert.

715
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 2: Hey folks, it's Lyle. So we have reached the end

716
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: of the phone call portion of this podcast because I

717
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 2: wanted to end with an excerpt from this video that

718
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 2: I just put out on my YouTube channel today, So

719
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: to give some context, I was in Australia on tour

720
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 2: over the summer and one day I went to the

721
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:39,240
Speaker 2: beach in my gecko suit and I filmed a video

722
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 2: just running around talking to various strangers on the peer

723
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 2: of this beach in the same freeform way that I

724
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,839
Speaker 2: talked to callers on this podcast, and the conversation that

725
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 2: you're about to hear now is probably my favorite one

726
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: from that day. So I had already been filming for

727
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: like four hours. It was nighttime. I was done. I

728
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 2: put my camera away and I was just walking around

729
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: and this dude on the docks starts asking me why

730
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 2: I am walking along the water in a frog costume,

731
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,359
Speaker 2: which is a good question, and we started talking and

732
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 2: he told me he's taking a walk to clear his mind.

733
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: So I asked him what he's trying to clear his

734
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 2: mind from, and we just got into this very open,

735
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: honest conversation as two complete total strangers on a pier

736
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 2: at night and it was really cool, so I wanted

737
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 2: to share it on here. So let us transport to

738
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 2: the docks of Saint Kilda Beach in Melbourne, Australia to

739
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: talk to a stranger. I walk around as a gecko

740
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 2: and I just try to I'm like going on little adventures,

741
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying?

742
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 5: Yeah? And then what people lock your adventures?

743
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

744
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 2: I guess sometimes.

745
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: Man.

746
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,240
Speaker 2: What's your name? Man, Nice to meet you, Tim. What

747
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: what brings you out to the docks this evening?

748
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 4: Oh?

749
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 5: Why wouldn't you be out here?

750
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: Look, it's beautiful, It is beautiful. So you were saying

751
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: to me before I turned this on that you were

752
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 2: just going on a walk to like clear your head

753
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 2: and stuff.

754
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 5: Of course, what.

755
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 2: Kind of stuff do you or you can't think of?

756
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 5: Experience anxiety while you walk? Yeah, there's a little known

757
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 5: staff and I've got a big footy game.

758
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 6: My team's playing tonight, so I've want to try and

759
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 6: relax before that.

760
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: What's been like stress?

761
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 4: And yeah, I've.

762
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 6: Been working up in Broken Hill for three months and

763
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 6: then I came back and worked three days this week

764
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 6: after a ten hour drive. And now that's over. Relationship over,

765
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 6: moved back in my house. Yeah, it's a change, So

766
00:41:58,800 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 6: you need.

767
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: To what what you what were you working at?

768
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 4: What were you doing?

769
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 5: I was a medical advisor on a medical TV show.

770
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 2: Oh really, So now that that's over, what's uh what

771
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 2: do you think you're going to do now?

772
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 5: That's why I'm out here?

773
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 4: Yeah?

774
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. And you said there was

775
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 2: there was a relationship. What how long were you guys

776
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 2: together for a nice man? What do you think you're

777
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 2: going to like go out on the dating scene again

778
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: or are you going to wait a little bit?

779
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 3: Uh?

780
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 6: Oh, I definitely had a bit of time for the

781
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 6: dust as hittle. Yeah, and then and then see what's

782
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 6: out there?

783
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 2: What do you think makes like a good relationship?

784
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 5: It's a good question.

785
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 6: Used to always just be raw attraction was the most

786
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 6: important thing. But but then if you've got that but

787
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 6: no great human qualities, something to admire, yeah, something to

788
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 6: bring your joy, yeah, and a good sense of humor,

789
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 6: then you don't have much.

790
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 2: It's hard because raw traction, it can, it brings, it

791
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 2: brings the two people together, but it doesn't glue them.

792
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 2: Do you think there was something that you learned from

793
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:16,879
Speaker 2: it at all?

794
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 5: The recent finish one?

795
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, just to.

796
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 6: If something's not right, then then acknowledge it and talk

797
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 6: about it.

798
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 2: I guess not.

799
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 6: Not just internalizing everything and then because it won't it

800
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 6: won't go away. You need to You need to find

801
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 6: a way to express yourself and be receptive to the

802
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 6: other person's perspective. And then if both of those things happen,

803
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 6: you might be able to work it out but and

804
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 6: make that relationship work. But you also might quickly be

805
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 6: able to finish it and end it and then find

806
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 6: something with someone else that does have that missing ingredient.

807
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 5: That was troubling you with the last person.

808
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 2: Are you Are you good at like being alone?

809
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 5: I'm pretty comfortable, but I think I'm ready not to.

810
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 2: Be fifty of like a good good friends and family

811
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 2: and stuff. Yeah.

812
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, although all my friends and family are sort of

813
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 5: more involved with their own families.

814
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 7: At this stage in life, so it's there's you know,

815
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 7: there's a few out there, but it's not like it

816
00:44:55,920 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 7: was when we're teens and twenties and everyone's in the same.

817
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: Boat, right right. Do you do you do you have

818
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 2: kids or do you want you?

819
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 5: Yeah?

820
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

821
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 2: Do you do you keep in touch with like your

822
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 2: your parents or your parents still around?

823
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: Yeah?

824
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:18,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm talking to them ballet with them tomorrow.

825
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: Oh that's cool, man, that's nice.

826
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 5: You have my birthday dinner on Sunday.

827
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 2: Oh your birthday is this weekend. Have a birthday man,

828
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 2: Thank you.

829
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 4: Well.

830
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 2: How do you like when you how do you feel

831
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 2: about your birthday? Like?

832
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 4: Is it?

833
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: Is it a happy occasion or is it like a

834
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: time for reflection?

835
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 5: Okay, so it's a bit of both. Definitely the latter.

836
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 5: And that's what again while I'm here, Yeah, I didn't

837
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 5: mention it early, but.

838
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 6: It's yeah, I guess you've there's got to be a

839
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 6: time in the year when you take stock and like

840
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 6: everyone does it a bit at Christmas or whatever, but

841
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 6: it's a more personal stock taking moment when it's your birthday,

842
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,280
Speaker 6: I think, And particularly as you get a bit older,

843
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 6: it's in and you're closer to the end and the start,

844
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 6: you become more cognizant of all the of what's important

845
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 6: and time and who you are and where you're going.

846
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 2: Do you do you feel like the ride so far?

847
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 2: Has it? Has it been a good Has it been

848
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 2: a good.

849
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 4: Ride so far?

850
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 5: Definitely? And I don't want to let the poll of

851
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 5: recent events sort of sour o the so my view

852
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 5: of the forty three almost forty three years.

853
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 4: To now.

854
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 5: But I've been very lucky and I should be very grateful.

855
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 2: What what do you feel like has been the best

856
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 2: part of the raid so far? Like the stuff you're

857
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: the most grateful for?

858
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

859
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 5: It's a good question.

860
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:06,479
Speaker 6: I mean, I've had some amazing people in my life,

861
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 6: and I've just had a lot of opportunities to do

862
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 6: things too, to study things, to to play sports and

863
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 6: music and express myself artistically, and.

864
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 5: Those moments which you.

865
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 6: Don't get a lot and you realize as life goes on,

866
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 6: you know, it's just not going to keep happening. But

867
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,879
Speaker 6: I've had a lot of those and there will be more.

868
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 6: Sometimes you just got to make it happen a bit more.

869
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 6: And I guess I'm reflecting on that. How do you

870
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 6: make things happen? And when do you let things happen?

871
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Do you do you feel as though with

872
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 2: every passing year, like things happen naturally a little bit

873
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 2: us and there's a little bit more of a kick

874
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: to have to make them happen.

875
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, it's definitely the wheels turn And I guess

876
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 5: as if you get a bit creakier and older. You

877
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 5: have to make them turn.

878
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 6: As the years go by, they don't just it's less

879
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 6: downhill skiing, more cross country?

880
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: Does any Does anything get better as the years go by?

881
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 2: Like what anything particular you notice is getting better?

882
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 4: Uh?

883
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 5: There is something about experience and wisdom that means you can.

884
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 6: Enjoy things from outside a bit more, Like you can

885
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 6: look at a situation and appreciate it.

886
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 5: Without being caught up in it as much.

887
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: Right, because you've been because because you feel like you've

888
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 2: been there before.

889
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, you've been there. You've got some conspection.

890
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, and.

891
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 5: Sometimes that's yeah, is a bit of a shadow.

892
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 6: But I think with that knowledge and awareness, there's some

893
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 6: satisfaction and you can't you just don't. You don't get

894
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 6: that from when you're there, you're coming up, you're doing

895
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 6: it for the first time.

896
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 2: Right, there's a little bit more emotion and raw anxiety

897
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 2: because it's it's new.

898
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 5: And then then maybe there's more adrenaline there too, but.

899
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, yeah, more adrenaline, but that's not everything.

900
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 6: And as you get older and you know, windows close, well,

901
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 6: there's more closed windows and open windows. Sometimes it's good

902
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 6: because you sort of accept that you're not going to

903
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 6: be able to do everything in this life, and that

904
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 6: acceptance has some.

905
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 5: Well when you when you resign to that fact, there's

906
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 5: some pace.

907
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 2: I think so too, because like there's this there's a

908
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 2: weird stress to like want to fucking do everything that

909
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 2: there is to do, and then if you're not doing it,

910
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: you're like you're beating yourself up about it. But then

911
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 2: as you get as you kind of realize just you're

912
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 2: not gonna be able to there's an acceptance and with

913
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 2: that acceptance, that anxiety, that beating yourself up about not

914
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 2: fucking doing everything, ever, it goes away a little bit.

915
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 2: It's kind of this kind of kind of nice because

916
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, I don't know if you

917
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 2: have to do everything. Sometimes just standing looking at cool

918
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: buildings is like that's it. You know, it's good enough.

919
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 2: What do you what do you you're talking about, like

920
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 2: stuff you want to make happen? What is what is

921
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 2: it that you want to make happen?

922
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 6: Well, you've got to make a family happen. You go

923
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 6: to you've got to make a career happen.

924
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 5: You've got to.

925
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 6: You know, I sort of move from dance for to

926
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 6: dance floor rather than stay in the same venue and

927
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 6: make that my permanent fixture. So I've got to find

928
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 6: a place and stays my It's the thing I've.

929
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 5: Got to make happen.

930
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 2: How long have you been on this dance floor.

931
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 6: For I've been back from another dance floor for a week,

932
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 6: not quite a week. And now I'm gonna go overseas

933
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 6: and that'll be another dance floor.

934
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 5: Oh where are you gonna go? London, Portugal and Spain.

935
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 2: Sick, what are you doing there?

936
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,280
Speaker 5: My friend's fortieth Oh cool.

937
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 3: Man and.

938
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 5: Her twin sister and yeah, just get out of the cold.

939
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're still good. You're going on a venture

940
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,879
Speaker 2: as you're making that's cool man.

941
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, and and and that's great.

942
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 6: But I also look forward to, you know, something that

943
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 6: a lot of my friends have, which is security and

944
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 6: stability and all the things I often think of boring,

945
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 6: but there they also have.

946
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 2: I was just talking to somebody over there about that

947
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 2: whole conflict between stability and adventure. You know, I feel

948
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 2: like it's it's a prevalent thing because because it also

949
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 2: I feel like it ties into all the stuff we've

950
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:36,919
Speaker 2: been talking because it's like, you want to be able

951
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 2: to do everything and that's like unstable but fun. And

952
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 2: then there's kind of that acceptance. But with that acceptance

953
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 2: comes a little bit more stability and security. I think, Yeah,

954
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 2: that's nice. Man.

955
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 5: We we've lost out a lot here, but I have

956
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 5: enjoyed talking to you.

957
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 2: I've enjoyed talking to mess to me, to Tim. Is

958
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 2: there anything else you want to say to the people

959
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 2: of the computer.

960
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 5: Oh, how long? People of the computer.

961
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 6: I wish you well in your adventure and finding your

962
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 6: inner peace and out of pace and being happy along

963
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 6: the road to that.

964
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 2: I have regress to the night, nice contemplative conversation to

965
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:27,240
Speaker 2: have under the beautiful lights of Melbourne, Australia. Good times,

966
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 2: good day, late to beach. Hey, it's me again. If

967
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: you guys enjoyed that conversation, then please go check out

968
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 2: the full video on my YouTube channel YouTube dot com

969
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 2: slash lyle forever. I'll also link the video in the

970
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 2: episode description of this podcast. Doing these kinds of travel

971
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 2: videos is something I want to do a lot more

972
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 2: of in twenty twenty four. So your support in watching

973
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 2: them and listening to them and liking them and all

974
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 2: that stuff helps me out a lot, because it's it's

975
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 2: the main direction that I want to go to, uh,

976
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,280
Speaker 2: you know, moving forward is doing a lot more talking

977
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 2: to people in various real life places. So definitely check

978
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 2: out the video if you want more of that, and

979
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 2: there's also a lot more videos like that on my

980
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 2: YouTube channel YouTube dot com slash lyle forever. All right, anyway,

981
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 2: thank you for listening to this podcast, and go kiss

982
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 2: a lion on the paw. It's an expression.

983
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Speaker 4: Really goes on the line taking your phone calls every night.

984
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Speaker 5: Never Beacon goes to what AI's teaching you. Cloud in

985
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