1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: One eight hundred d ui away now offering free remote 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: consultations by phone or video conference for any criminal offense. 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: Trust Brooke, Jeffrey and Jose's Friends with a free remote 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,159 Speaker 1: consultation from Bradley Johnson Lawyers. Visit one eight hundred d 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: Uyowa dot com or call. I'm gonna give you a 6 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: scenario here. Okay, let's say your meal at a restaurant 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: sucked and you want to complain to the manager about it. 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: How do you envision that conversation going. I mean, I 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: used to be a server, so pretty cut and dry. 10 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: I mean, is it kind of awkward? Is it gonna 11 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: be helpful? Or is it gonna make you even angrier 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: than you were before? I mean, you're probably not expecting 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 1: the ladder, but that's what you get. On this show today, 14 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: our own Brook Fox calls a guy who recently had 15 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: a less than satisfactory dining experience and all he wants 16 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: is a refund. I'm just trying to help in other ways. Instead, 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: is going to give him something even better? Yeah? Oh, 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: no perspective and I must stay it's your brand new 19 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: phone right now. Hello, Hello, this is Rachel calling from Seiner. 20 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm looking to speak with Brett. Uh, yeah, this is him. 21 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: Hi Brett. So what if my employees forwarded me an 22 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: email that you sent about an unpleasant experience you had 23 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: at our restaurant? Yeah? Yeah I did. Okay, can you 24 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: tell me a little bit more about what happened? Yeah? Sure. Um. 25 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: It started when my girlfriend and I sat down and 26 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: the table was really dirty. How did that make you feel? 27 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: It made me feel not good? Okay. Um. And when 28 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: we asked for one of the servers to clean it, 29 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: I think her name was Lisa, she gave me kind 30 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: of like attitude about the whole thing. Okay, Okay, I'm 31 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: hearing you, and let's just take a breather really quick 32 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: and relax. Okay. Um, it's easy to get worked up 33 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: about these things. Okay, you know what. We're going to 34 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: fix this situation right now. Great, thank you. Okay, So 35 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: go ahead and close your eyes and let's begin. Um. 36 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: What what is that? What's what's going on? Are you relaxed, Brett? No? 37 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: Not really. Okay, we'll get there. I am, and I'm 38 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: going to walk you through this process. I'm going to 39 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: hold your hand. What is going on? Okay, keep your 40 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: eyes closed and let's go back to the moment when 41 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: you sat down at the table. Can you picture it? Yeah, 42 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: I can picture it. Okay, I can see it too, Brett. 43 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: I can see it. To the dirty cups off, the 44 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: used napkins, old food still on the forks, disgusting. Um, 45 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: excuse me? Do you stop? Whatever that music is? Is 46 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 1: there something wrong? I don't understand what's happening. Oh yes, 47 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: I should have explained. I'm sorry. Yes, I am the 48 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: restaurant manager, but I also work part time as a healer. 49 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 1: What so sometimes I use my gifts to heal customers, 50 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: you know, kind of two birds one stone. Fantastic. That 51 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: sounds great, But I don't need healing. I need a 52 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: refund on the meal that I had at the diner. 53 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: Are you listening to your heart? No, I'm not. I'm 54 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: listening to my head. Yes, and I'm exactly the problem, Brett. Okay, 55 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: let's bring that calm back. Can we get back to 56 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: the conversation though about the refund? I need you to 57 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: imagine walking back into our diner and imagine the table 58 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: was in perfect condition, Okay, just sparkling clean. He's ready 59 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: for you to sit down and have the best meal 60 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: you've ever had in your life. Okay, I've imagined it, 61 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: and now i'd like to get back to refund. Yes, 62 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: after you're full, you smile at that waitress, Oh yes, 63 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: and give her the biggest tip you've ever given anyone. Really, 64 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: this is not necessarily to her. Split this with your manager. 65 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: What is going on? Well, you would want to tip 66 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: me too, because I helped you through this. Of course, 67 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't split the tip with you, because I'm never 68 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: going back to your restaurant. This is some kind of 69 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: imaginary thing that you're trying to do just to distract 70 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: me from getting my money back for really terrible service. 71 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: Imaginary I think your conscience would say otherwise. Yeah, you 72 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: know what, I actually just checked in with my conscience 73 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: and it says that you're a crook and abroad. So 74 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: which one should I believe. I'm not going to take 75 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: that personally. That's you wiping away the anger. No anger 76 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: growing though, that's for sure. I'm not listening to what 77 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: you're saying. I'm listening to your soul. Okay, both my 78 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: soul and my voice. Just want to refund. That's that's 79 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: all I want. And I want you to envision me 80 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: saying that this is a prank phone call. Wait, what 81 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: did you just say? I said, this is a joke. 82 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: I've actually broke from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey 83 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm doing a phone tap on you. Okay, hey, 84 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: don't blame me. It's your girlfriend, Chelsea. She emailed us 85 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,679 Speaker 1: and said you had some horrible dining experience. Okay, well, 86 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: I am gonna blame you and Chelsea, but that's neither 87 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: here nor there. But we both want you to take 88 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: a big, deep breath. Breath. Yeah, I'm taking deep breath now. 89 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: Oh I'm envisioning you saying this. That was hilarious. All right, Okay, 90 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: wake up every morning with phone tap weekday morning Lub 91 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 1: the twenty Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.