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Speaker 1: More of this program we're pre recorded exciting.

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Speaker 2: There's a wonderful and exciting world out there when we

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Speaker 2: discover that we don't need TV.

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Speaker 3: To entertain us, She's said as Elister Ran in the

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Speaker 3: Morning Show, we're here talking with Froggy's beautiful, wonderful best

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Speaker 3: friend wife, Lisa. Hi, Lisa, Hi, Good morning.

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Speaker 4: So a conversation came up with Froggy and me Lisa.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about loving ourselves, like how do we treat

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Speaker 3: each other? How do we treat ourselves? Are we treating

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Speaker 3: ourselves as lovingly as we do our friends? And sometimes?

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Speaker 3: Froggy says that Lisa definitely treats everyone like the kings

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Speaker 3: and queens that they are in her life, but she

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Speaker 3: doesn't treat herself like that. Is that right?

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Speaker 5: Yep, Yep, you're exactly right.

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Speaker 6: I see the way that she uplifts other people and

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Speaker 6: goes out of her way to make everybody else's day

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Speaker 6: around her better. But then I see the way that

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Speaker 6: she talks to herself, see the way that she looks

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Speaker 6: at herself, and the way that she thinks and feels

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Speaker 6: about ourself, and it drives me crazy.

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Speaker 4: How do you feel about that?

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Speaker 7: Don't be true, it's correct. I mean, I am very

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Speaker 7: critical of myself. I'm never happy on how I look, ever,

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Speaker 7: whether it's my weight, or if it's my nose, or

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Speaker 7: if it's anything the clothes I wear, And then my

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Speaker 7: motivation's just off. I just feel like I can't do anything.

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Speaker 7: I can't I couldn't get that job. I'm not qualified

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Speaker 7: when probably I am so.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I've been like.

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Speaker 7: This all my life, but I do enjoy lifting others me.

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Speaker 3: You do a great job. But I got to say

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Speaker 3: something I don't think in my opinion. Keep in mind,

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Speaker 3: I'm not a trained psychologist whatever. You know how we

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Speaker 3: always talk about the most hateful people in life are

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Speaker 3: that way because they hate themselves. You see, here's what

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Speaker 3: I believe about you, Lisa, and anyone else that's feeling

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Speaker 3: as much as they can. I think you do love yourself,

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Speaker 4: This well if you hated yourself. So what's the deal.

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Speaker 3: I truly believe that there is a chance you have

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Speaker 3: a wall around your heart. It's refusing you to see

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Speaker 3: how great of a person you really are, and you're

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Speaker 3: not making You're not loving yourself more than other people,

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Speaker 3: and you're not. You need to make yourself the superstar

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Speaker 8: You right, You're right about that wall.

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Speaker 4: You are the most It's true you do love yourself.

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Speaker 5: We have to.

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Speaker 3: We have to make that connection, though you have to

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Speaker 3: find a way to do it. You are and need

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Speaker 3: to be the most important person in your life. I

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Speaker 6: That, and it sounds so simple because I always say

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Speaker 6: to her, I wish she could see what I see.

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Speaker 6: I wish she could see the person that I look

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Speaker 6: at and the person that I live with. I mean,

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Speaker 6: I can tell you that I would never have made

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Speaker 6: me every single day and making sure that everything was right.

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Speaker 6: And I've seen her do that for many people. And

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Speaker 6: I wish she saw what I saw when I looked

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Speaker 4: And Daniel, you're you're her best friend.

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Speaker 9: She It's so funny.

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Speaker 10: She is the first one when like I'm having a

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Speaker 10: She'll text me you need to talk, you need to talk,

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Speaker 10: or even if I'm like down on myself or down

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Speaker 11: And that's what I need.

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Speaker 10: A lot of times, you know. And she's just amazing

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Speaker 3: So Lisa a question what Danielle is describing. Are you

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Speaker 8: That I would think of ten?

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Speaker 7: And I yeah, definitely, you know how I see it

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Speaker 7: and I you're right, And I see it on social

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Speaker 7: That's really really nice. That's when I know that I'm

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Speaker 3: What about your dark side? What are some things about

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Speaker 7: I just as far as my self esteem is just crap.

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Speaker 7: I wish I felt better physically about myself. I wish

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Speaker 7: what do you you know? You can't eat that or

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Speaker 7: I used to have some type of small confidence somewhere,

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Speaker 7: I don't do any of that stuff.

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Speaker 8: I'm just not. I'm just it's just not me.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, you know what, I'll wash you something.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, you're not lacking anything. You've got it.

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Speaker 3: You have everything you need to live the greatest life.

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Speaker 3: It's already in there. You just got to uncover it.

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Speaker 3: You know what I learned a long time ago is

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Speaker 3: And I know it's easier said than done. I do have.

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Speaker 1: In the morning show, who are they hurting?

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm living a great life.

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Speaker 3: I really do think we all need to do a

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Speaker 10: I think a lot of times we notice these things too,

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Speaker 10: and other people don't even notice them, like the fat

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Speaker 9: Like nobody notices that, you know, they don't, right.

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Speaker 7: I know, And that's so funny you said that, because

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Speaker 7: I'm so insecure about my nose. I can't even I

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Speaker 7: I've been that way all my life. And Scott's my

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Speaker 3: Matter how much we tell you that, you're not gonna

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Speaker 4: You don't like your nose, then go with it.

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Speaker 3: Don't like it, I mean, just but understand it makes

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Speaker 3: you unique, and understand it's not the most important. It's

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Speaker 5: You know, right, nobody sees it but you, all.

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Speaker 8: Right, and I let it take over.

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Speaker 7: It's like it takes over my life, like oh, look

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Speaker 7: And you're right, I need the connection. I'm missing a connection,

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Speaker 7: and just say I can do this. I can overcome it.

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Speaker 7: I think if I would live a whole lot happier.

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Speaker 7: I think I just I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's going to hit you one day and you're going

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Speaker 3: to go, oh my god, I do love me. But

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Speaker 3: until then, you know, you have to find these little ways,

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Speaker 3: these little tricks. Think about all the things that have

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Speaker 3: happened into your life. I mean things that I don't

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Speaker 3: want you to talk about here. This is an inner conversation.

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Speaker 3: Any abuse, anything that was that came across that was

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Speaker 3: From when you're a kid all the way up to

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Speaker 3: surgery with his head open. You know, those things do

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Speaker 3: affect you, Okay, So add on top of those things

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Speaker 3: the fact that you don't like your nose and the

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Speaker 3: whole list of things. But I do think you love you.

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Speaker 3: I really truly think.

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Speaker 9: You're the one.

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Speaker 3: You love it, Lisa.

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Speaker 10: And she's the one who told me, Oh, you're gonna

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Speaker 10: get to a certain as, Danielle, that you're not gonna

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Speaker 3: You know, Danielle, She's obviously not at that age because

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Speaker 4: So yeah, you know, Lisa, you use that I'm.

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Speaker 3: Older than you, and when you're near my age, you're

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Speaker 3: not gonna give a crap about anyone. You're obviously not there.

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Speaker 3: Because when you do get to that age, this is

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Speaker 4: When you're gonna really understand how much you love yourself.

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Speaker 3: So maybe the key is we need to we need

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Speaker 3: to peel away all these things that we really shouldn't

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's that's a good way to put it, actually

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Speaker 7: peeling it away for sure.

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Speaker 3: Don't even start with yourself. Just talk talk about the

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Speaker 3: you know, people say rude things. Let it go or

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Speaker 3: jack ascid. You gotta you gotta drive away from it.

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Speaker 3: What's up frog?

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Speaker 9: You know?

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Speaker 6: Lisa always says that because I didn't know her when

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Speaker 6: that she in her group of friends, she was the

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, I was the fat friend. I was the

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Speaker 8: Oh look she's so nice. So for years years that

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Speaker 7: But if you liked me, boy, if you give me

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Speaker 8: Ounce of attention.

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Speaker 7: I was like, oh, I think he likes me. But

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Speaker 7: and then things never panned out. It should have panned out,

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Speaker 7: but that was many a times.

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Speaker 4: You're a lovely, lovely person.

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Speaker 3: And we could sit here and just scream that out

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Speaker 3: loud from the mountaintops as much as we want. But

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Speaker 3: until you start to see it, it's not going to matter.

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Speaker 3: But I do think you love yourself. Jess is online

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Speaker 3: twenty four. She feels the same way as you. You're

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Speaker 3: not alone.

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Speaker 4: There are a lot of people who feel this way.

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Speaker 3: You love making people feel better, right, Jess, But you

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Speaker 3: feel the same way about yourself. It's like, eh, oh

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Speaker 12: I absolutely do.

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Speaker 13: And Lisa, you are fabulous, and don't don't you ever

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Speaker 10: Many times, if you said or given someone advice because

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Speaker 3: Our friend Jamie is here. Can we just san we

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Speaker 9: You know, I do you want to start a family?

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Speaker 18: Literally quit my job, like just walked in there and

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Speaker 4: And there you good.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, scary, but I did it.

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Speaker 3: The reason why I'm so grateful that you came in

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Speaker 18: And I get that, Like I was paralyzed in fear

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Speaker 4: That's it.

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Speaker 9: I have to just do it now.

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Speaker 9: It doesn't have to be that.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, Okay, it's all good.

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Speaker 8: It's all good.

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Speaker 9: It's all good. I feel really good. I feel good.

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Speaker 18: It's like a base excitement because I know that great

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Speaker 10: And you're so talented, you have so many you know

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Speaker 18: Yeah, so I full disclosure. I jumped without having a

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Speaker 18: You just I will land somewhere. And but if I

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Speaker 4: You know who could be after you? Who's next in

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Speaker 3: So when we know who is ready for a family,

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Speaker 16: Oh yeah, plane until the plane comes to a safe land,

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Speaker 11: We crashed. She's going down with the plan.

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Speaker 3: He's ready for a family. He's ready to get out

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Speaker 9: Yeah, we're kind of the opposite, but I still love you.

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Speaker 3: Scary Okay, So what do you you know Jamie? For

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Speaker 16: you I know how long you've wanted all this and

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Speaker 16: there's no way that any of that could really happen

446
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Speaker 16: with the hours that you keep, the demands of your job,

447
00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,760
Speaker 16: distresses and the struggles. So I for one, am very happy.

448
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Speaker 16: And I got to say, I'm super proud of you.

449
00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,560
Speaker 16: You're a stronger person than me because you actually you're

450
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Speaker 16: taking a leap of faith here.

451
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Speaker 8: Thank you.

452
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Speaker 9: I appreciate you.

453
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Speaker 18: Do you want us to solicit for like a gom Yes,

454
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Speaker 18: Farmer's Only? So I mean, I'm ready.

455
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Speaker 11: She has Farmers Only?

456
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Speaker 3: Who is Candace High? Candace Hi? You did the same

457
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Speaker 3: exact thing back in May that Jamie's doing right now.

458
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Speaker 9: I did, and I'm.

459
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Speaker 21: So proud of you, Jamie, Like it's so scary, take

460
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Speaker 21: the leap. I'm so proud of you. I got out

461
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Speaker 21: of a toxic work environment. It was best for my

462
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Speaker 21: mental health. I have a ten year old son. I said,

463
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Speaker 21: you know what, I want more time with my kid

464
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Speaker 21: and more time for me.

465
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Speaker 3: Well see there's a kid involved here. So you walked

466
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Speaker 3: away from a career with a child because a lot

467
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Speaker 3: of people say, well, god, you know, I'm lucky I

468
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Speaker 3: can walk away because I don't have any children. You

469
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Speaker 3: have a child. How was that? Hew frightening? Was that

470
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Speaker 3: for you?

471
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Speaker 21: Oh my god, it was the scariest thing I've ever done.

472
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Speaker 21: Like she said, it's like jumping out of a plane

473
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Speaker 21: with no parachute, right, But the universe.

474
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Speaker 19: Had my back.

475
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Speaker 21: I picked up a bartending job. My son and I

476
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Speaker 21: have had the beach and let me tell you something,

477
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Speaker 21: it was the best decision ever. I'm happier. My mental

478
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:33,640
Speaker 21: health is through the roof.

479
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Speaker 22: You know, my.

480
00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:38,040
Speaker 21: Biggest rewarded friends and families saying, you know what, you're glowing.

481
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Speaker 21: You look like you're happy.

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Speaker 9: So happy for you. That sounds amazing.

483
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Speaker 5: Wow, thank you.

484
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Speaker 21: I'm so happy for you, Jamie.

485
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Speaker 9: Thank you, Candace.

486
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Speaker 3: As we hear the story between Candace and Jamie doesn't matter,

487
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Speaker 3: you can admit it. Maybe you're thinking, look what if

488
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Speaker 3: I did that?

489
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Speaker 10: Danielle's all I'm thinking, is Jamie, when we see you

490
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:05,199
Speaker 10: in like two weeks and you've reset from getting up

491
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Speaker 10: at this time of morning, you're gonna feel human again.

492
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Speaker 9: Yeah, so good.

493
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Speaker 21: We're ten years younger, sleeping in and getting your coffee

494
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 21: and going outside and grounding yourself and doing the bird

495
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 21: sturping and not stressing. Girl, You're gonna fall in love again?

496
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Speaker 3: Is that what happens in the morning when we're working.

497
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Speaker 10: Is that what happens birds out there?

498
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Speaker 23: I forgot.

499
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Speaker 22: Look at that.

500
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Speaker 21: It's amazing.

501
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Speaker 3: Well, Candace, congratulations and you know what, I love that

502
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Speaker 3: you hearing Jamie's story sparked you and made you reach

503
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Speaker 3: out to us. I love that.

504
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Speaker 4: Congratulations and all the best to you and your son.

505
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Speaker 21: Thank you so much. Good luck to you, Jamie.

506
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Speaker 9: Thank you, Candace.

507
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Speaker 4: So when you walked in, did you do the did

508
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Speaker 4: you know when you walked in?

509
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Speaker 3: This is it?

510
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Speaker 18: Yeah?

511
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Speaker 4: You walked into his office.

512
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Speaker 18: I was, Yeah, I was. I was shaking. I was shaking.

513
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Speaker 4: How did how did it roll out?

514
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Speaker 18: I just sat down and shut the door, and I

515
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 18: had this conversation in my head and I just said,

516
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 18: I don't even really know how to get into this.

517
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Speaker 18: There's really no easy way, but I have to give

518
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 18: my resignation. Wow, after twenty one years in this industry,

519
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 18: more than half my life.

520
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Speaker 9: That it was not an easy decision.

521
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Speaker 18: But I have to put my health first and just

522
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Speaker 18: what I want more than anything in this family, which

523
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 18: in this world rather than is a family.

524
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Speaker 3: That is wild. I'm so glad you told this story.

525
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Speaker 9: Yeah, Oh, thank you.

526
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Speaker 18: I'm so happy I hope I can just encourage at

527
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Speaker 18: least one person just to jump out of that airplane

528
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Speaker 18: and know that it will be okay and it will

529
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Speaker 18: change your life.

530
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Speaker 4: Wow, it will all work out.

531
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Speaker 8: Ye yah?

532
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Speaker 9: Well, thank you? Are they panicking over there?

533
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 3: I don't I think it is.

534
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 9: I love them all. That's why I have to ask.

535
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 9: You know, they'll find somebody.

536
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Speaker 18: Let me tell you, there's been three people that already

537
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 18: asked about it.

538
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Speaker 3: But my life.

539
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 9: He's not even cold yet.

540
00:21:59,359 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 3: True.

541
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Speaker 9: Sorry, that's about right good.

542
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Speaker 3: So I learned something about producer Sam. She's not in

550
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Speaker 3: the room, Issy good, No, she was talking about this.

551
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Speaker 3: I believe I've read it on social media somewhere. She

552
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 3: likes to have, and she says not in a sexual way.

553
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 3: She likes to have little little nibbles taken out of her.

554
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Speaker 11: Back oh, I could see that.

555
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Speaker 3: Maybe not taken out, that makes it sound like flesh

556
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 3: comes off. No, she likes it when will like bites

557
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 3: her back. How can that not be sexual? I'm sorry, Yeah, yeah.

558
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Speaker 11: It being like playful, like a playful bite.

559
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 10: But little love bites wouldn't turn you on. I would

560
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Speaker 10: think it would turn you on.

561
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna turn on just thinking about it.

562
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Speaker 3: Anyway. But Scary says something that he and his girlfriend

563
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Speaker 3: do is they talk like babies with each other. They

564
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Speaker 3: have baby talk?

565
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Speaker 4: Do you only in our most private moments?

566
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Speaker 3: And nobody has ever heard it except the two of us.

567
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Speaker 4: Well, we all agree that's so far from sexual.

568
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Speaker 3: It's not a sexual thing.

569
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Speaker 16: We're just kind of it's like I would love.

570
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Speaker 11: To hear it.

571
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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's hear it.

572
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Speaker 4: I'm sure she's advance to my girlfriend.

573
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Speaker 10: Robin, like I'm hungry, you hungry, Let's get some food.

574
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Speaker 3: That's awesome thing that we have and nobody else knows that.

575
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 10: Does anybody else run around slapping each other's privates and

576
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 10: and stuff like that, because that's a hill and I do.

577
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 5: Oh you do?

578
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Speaker 8: Oh?

579
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Speaker 10: Yeah, Like he'll be he'll be talking to me and

580
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 10: he'll be saying something and at the same time, I'll

581
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 10: put my hand forward and grab his stuff and he'll.

582
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Speaker 11: Be like, what we do stop?

583
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Speaker 10: We just stop, or he'll go and he'll grab my

584
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 10: boob while I'm running past the house, and we just

585
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 10: start cracking up, laughing at each other, just so stupid.

586
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Speaker 11: The boob grab is great. Brandon still has done the

587
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 11: thing a couple of times where he tries to lift

588
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Speaker 11: me up with one arm, but he does it by

589
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Speaker 11: like right under the crotch, like grabbing right under there.

590
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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my goodness, like he's picking up a

591
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Speaker 3: bowling ball.

592
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Speaker 11: It's a lot of wedgies and the pulling down of

593
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Speaker 11: the pants.

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Speaker 3: So these are fun, froggy and we sha do that

595
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Speaker 3: all the time.

596
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry, did weep king?

597
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Speaker 6: No, I'm sorry. I got some sec on my throat

598
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Speaker 6: a second ago. I thought I had to give myself

599
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Speaker 6: the Hamblich maneuver. I couldn't get it out. Okay, we'll

600
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Speaker 6: stuck in my windpipe.

601
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Speaker 4: We'll come back to you later.

602
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Speaker 3: Hey, uh, don't don't you love when an old bank

603
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 3: becomes a restaurant. This is my thing. I love it

604
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 3: with those you know, when they build a bank, think

605
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 3: about the old school banks. All financial institutions were built

606
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 3: in a way to make you feel as if you

607
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,199
Speaker 3: could not penetrate the front door they want you to.

608
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 3: They wanted to make you feel your money was safe,

609
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Speaker 3: like big huge, twenty foot steel doors and big columns,

610
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 3: and you walk in it looks like, oh, this place

611
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Speaker 3: is going to keep my forty five dollars very safe.

612
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Speaker 4: And then you see in the back the big vault.

613
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Speaker 11: Oh I love the vault.

614
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Speaker 3: Well, then one day that bank goes boobs up, it's

615
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Speaker 3: no longer around, and it turns into a restaurant.

616
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Speaker 4: I love those places.

617
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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, But then this is the other thing, Like

618
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Speaker 3: when a pizza hut turns into a dry cleaning place.

619
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Speaker 3: You definitely see the architecture of the old pizza hut,

620
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Speaker 3: but now you know it has a drive through where

621
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Speaker 3: you can pick up your laundry. Yeah, it's just when

622
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 3: they build these places, they build them, you know that

623
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Speaker 3: they have a style guide.

624
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Speaker 4: If Pizza Hut builds a building, it has to look.

625
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 3: Like a pizza hut, right, Yeah, there's no way to

626
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 3: get away from that. Look.

627
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Speaker 4: It's always going to be a pizza hut in my mind.

628
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Speaker 3: Do you guys have any places you know of that

629
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 3: used to be something else and you can still tell

630
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Speaker 3: it used to be that.

631
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Speaker 8: Yeah.

632
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Speaker 11: In Boston, there's a club that used to be a jail,

633
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 11: so it has all of these little cells where you

634
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 11: can just sit and pop bottles, but people used to

635
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Speaker 11: be locked up there, so it's very weird.

636
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Speaker 8: But kind of fun.

637
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Speaker 3: Wow.

638
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Speaker 9: Wow.

639
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,360
Speaker 10: In Scranton, where they filmed the office they or where

640
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 10: it's based on, they have an old train station which

641
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 10: is now a hotel and it is the most gorgeous

642
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 10: hotel And when you're sitting in the lobby, you just

643
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Speaker 10: you picture all the people coming through the train station

644
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Speaker 10: and all the doors are still there, and it's just

645
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Speaker 10: it's so beautiful.

646
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Speaker 3: There's a restaurant in the South called the Gray It

647
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Speaker 3: used to be a Greyhound bus station built back in

648
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Speaker 3: the days where they actually had a waiting room for

649
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Speaker 3: people who were black. So what they decided to do

650
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: was stir that end too, the current design because it's

651
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Speaker 3: a piece of history, right and and of course the

652
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 3: chef is she's just incredible. But they wanted they wanted,

653
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Speaker 3: they wanted it to tell a story of days gone by.

654
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Speaker 3: Thank God, we're not in those days anymore.

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Speaker 20: Right.

656
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and look up the gray I forget if it's

657
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Speaker 4: in Charleston.

658
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Speaker 3: I found look it up. It's a restaurant I'm dying

659
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Speaker 3: to go to because they didn't want to erase the

660
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 3: stories that were in this lobby of this old great

661
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Speaker 3: Greyhound bus station. I find it fascinating. Yes, got Tobe.

662
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Speaker 2: There's a great website called not Fooling Anybody dot com

663
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Speaker 2: and it has all these restaurants that used to be

664
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Speaker 2: restaurants that aren't anymore. Like if you look in the

665
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Speaker 2: Zoom Room, that used to be an Arby's, but they

666
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Speaker 2: just call it Hat Creek now because they didn't want

667
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Speaker 2: to change the sign out front.

668
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Speaker 4: Oh they still use the Arby's hat.

669
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just a different place and they just

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Speaker 2: changed it to shape, you know, fit in the hat.

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Speaker 3: We don't. You can always tell an I hoop like

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Speaker 3: the old I hop designs. Like there's a place on

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Speaker 3: Long Island it used to be an eye Hoop. Now

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Speaker 3: it's a real estate office. Yeah, can you you can't

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Speaker 3: mix those up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I bet it still has syrup dripping down the walls.

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Speaker 11: I think there's one in Colorado. I don't know exactly where,

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Speaker 11: but it's an old airplane that they have taken and

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Speaker 11: gutted and you can go eat inside that airplane.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, cool too. There's a pizza place around here. Was

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Speaker 10: an old like trolley car and they gut it out,

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Speaker 10: the trolley car and it's like a little pizzaia.

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Speaker 9: It's so cool.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The gray by the way, is in Savannah, and uh

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Speaker 3: Mashama Bailey, who is the chef there, was originally from

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Speaker 3: Savannah and she always grew up with her you know,

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Speaker 3: eating her grandma's cooking. She left studied everything culinary arts wise,

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Speaker 3: and went back and now she's the chef. It's this

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Speaker 3: incredible restaurant and I want to go there. A former

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Speaker 3: Greyhound bus depot. I love that. See this is this

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Speaker 3: is the world we're living in. You know, you buy

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Speaker 3: a piece of real estate and you want to turn

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Speaker 3: it in to a retail office or whatever.

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Speaker 4: It already has a really cool piece of history on it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let that live. Why do we have to have

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Speaker 3: steel and glass as far as the eye can see?

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Speaker 23: Right?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 15: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I know Sarah on line twenty four. Let's go talk

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Speaker 3: to her. Hey, Sarah, what's going on?

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Speaker 24: Hi?

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Speaker 21: How are you?

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Speaker 22: Good morning?

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Speaker 3: We're doing Okay, what's going happening with you?

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Speaker 25: Oh I can't believe I'm talking to you.

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Speaker 22: I've been listening to you for so long. This is incredible.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you, thank you very much. Talk about that,

712
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,239
Speaker 3: talk about that liquor store in Jersey that you were

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Speaker 3: talking about on your tails.

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Speaker 22: Yeah, so in South Jersey we have an old pizza hut,

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Speaker 22: like the really old school with the brown roof, and

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Speaker 22: it had closed and it became a liquor store and

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Speaker 22: they just kind of rolled with it and now it's

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Speaker 22: called the liquor Hut.

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Speaker 9: That's so cute.

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Speaker 10: Well it's cute and nasty. But you know, I'm going

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Speaker 10: over to the liquor Hut. I mean you, but my

722
00:29:58,920 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 10: mind is.

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Speaker 3: You know, of course we know where your mind is.

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Speaker 3: All right, fine, So where in Jersey is the liquor Hut?

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Speaker 3: I may have to roll over there today.

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Speaker 22: Oh my gosh, it's in Turnersville. It's in South Jersey,

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Speaker 22: right outside of Philly.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you very much, and it's a pleasure

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Speaker 3: speaking with you. Thanks for listening to us.

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Speaker 22: You guys are amazing. I love you guys, Sarah, we.

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Speaker 3: Love you more. Thanks for calling. Be careful getting to

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Speaker 3: work today Georgia Online twenty three. A coffee shop. Well

733
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Speaker 3: we're doing okay. So you know of a coffee shop

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Speaker 3: that used to be a.

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Speaker 12: What no, a funeral home that turned into a coffee shop.

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Speaker 11: Oh, whoa.

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Speaker 9: I wonder if it's haunted.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it used to be a funeral home.

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Speaker 26: I don't know.

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Speaker 12: I would never go in there.

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Speaker 3: Why not?

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Speaker 26: I don't know.

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Speaker 12: I just feel if I was going in there, Yeah,

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Speaker 12: into funerals and lakes there, So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You have a memory there, yeah, I don't know. The

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Speaker 3: the coffee tastes a little like from aldehyde. I feel pickled.

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Speaker 3: All right, very good, Georgia, thanks for listening. I've meant

748
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Speaker 3: to do a good business for the people who are alive.

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Speaker 3: I'd like to order a corpuccino a corps China. Sorry

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Speaker 3: I messed up your joke, Brody.

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Speaker 10: Isn't there an old liquor store down the block from

752
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Speaker 10: us at the radio station that turned into like a clothing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was a liquor store. It turned into Snyder. Yeah,

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00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 3: before that, it was a it was a was it's

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Speaker 3: the chain of of stores. The Crew. It was a

756
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Speaker 3: JA Crew. It was a Drake J Crew offshoot. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: absolutely and it is, but it still has the liquor

758
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Speaker 3: store signed. I'm like, hey, let's go get some tinos. Look,

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Speaker 3: it's a Cardigan.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Nicki Minata. This is Rihanna.

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Speaker 3: Hey, this is Lady Gaga.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Elvis Durant and the Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: This in the Morning Show.

764
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Speaker 3: You know what. I love it when we get a

765
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 3: text from a listeners saying, hey, because I listened to

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00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 3: your show, you got me thinking, I think I deserve

767
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 3: a better life. I think I really am at a

768
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 3: dead end job. It's time to move on to something better.

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Speaker 3: We had a caller on if you remember she was

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Speaker 3: quitting yesterday. She said, I hate this job. I just

771
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 3: I'd rather just do anything than this. And she had

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Speaker 3: the guts to go in knowing she had a plan

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Speaker 3: and she said I'm done and she walked out. Now,

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Speaker 3: Amanda online nineteen so excited. How excited are you today, Amanda?

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Speaker 3: On the scale of one to ten, ten being the

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Speaker 3: most excited. What number are you?

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Speaker 9: You have no idea.

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Speaker 11: I'm like at one hundred.

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Speaker 3: That's a lot. Now tell everyone why you're so excited, Amanda.

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Speaker 3: This is great news.

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Speaker 27: Oh my god, So I got married and I youm

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Speaker 27: Sam and was like, oh.

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Speaker 22: My god, could I hear it from you guys?

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Speaker 9: And now I got.

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Speaker 27: A job at my dream place, this beauty company, and

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Speaker 27: I texted and Diamond called me and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh what, well, look, we wanted to talk to

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Speaker 3: you because your story is unbelievable. I mean, she said,

789
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Speaker 3: I am so excited to share with my favorite morning show.

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Speaker 3: I got the job of my dreams yesterday, so I'm

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Speaker 3: resigning my current job today.

792
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Speaker 4: So today you're marching in.

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Speaker 3: So what's going to be like? I mean, are you

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Speaker 3: leaving a job you hated or you're just going to

795
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 3: a job that you really really know you deserve? Which

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00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: one or both both?

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Speaker 27: I mean I didn't, I don't hate my current job.

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Speaker 21: I just know I deserve better.

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Speaker 27: I deserve a place where I can.

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Speaker 9: Grow and be more challenged.

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Speaker 25: And I mean, my company's going to be so screwed

802
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Speaker 25: when I leave.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, no, no, no, it's they'll be fine.

804
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Speaker 3: They'll be okay. They may struggle, they may miss you,

805
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 3: but they'll be okay. But this is this isn't about them.

806
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 3: This is this is about you. It's like relationships. We

807
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: talk about people who come out of a bad relationship.

808
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 3: They deserve better, but they still, you know, want to

809
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 3: go slash their exes tires and tear their pictures and

810
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 3: have It has nothing to do with them. It has

811
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Speaker 3: everything to do with you and what you want out

812
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Speaker 3: of life, and you're gonna chase it.

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Speaker 27: Good for you, Amanda, I'd thank you so much.

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Speaker 18: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 27: I'll probably start in two weeks and I'm going to

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Speaker 27: be doing what I love.

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00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 9: It's all that matters. So nice to hear.

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Speaker 3: How happy you Yeah, yeah, listen to that.

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Speaker 27: I mean, there's so much going on well good.

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Speaker 3: It's good when it arrange, it poors, and just just

821
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Speaker 3: understand that you deserve everything that's happening. I mean, are

822
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 3: you of that mindset anyway in life where the good

823
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 3: things happen You're like, yes, I deserve this. It's good.

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Speaker 27: Not all the time, I'll be honest, but right now,

825
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 27: in this phase of life, I am, and I'll take it.

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Speaker 3: There you go.

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Speaker 26: Congratulations Amanda on that good mindset.

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Speaker 3: Good for you, you know what, And I hope it's contagious.

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Speaker 3: I want the rest of us to feel it too,

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00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 3: because we all deserve. We all deserve to feel the

831
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Speaker 3: same way, go tackle what you got to do. Resign

832
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 3: from that job. But it's not about them. It's about

833
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 3: you and your new job. And good for you, Amanda,

834
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Speaker 3: congratulations standing out there, you go. Thank you, Amanda. So

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Speaker 3: a scariest interesting question on the tail end of that,

836
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 3: what is that?

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Speaker 16: Yeah, if you were at a job that treated you

838
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 16: like complete garbage and then you leave for a better opportunity,

839
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Speaker 16: why isn't it wrong for you to wish bad things

840
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 16: on that company because.

841
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 3: You can what comes from it, what comes from.

842
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 4: It, satisfaction?

843
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 3: Closure? Really yeah, they needed me.

844
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Speaker 16: See now it's crumbling as I walk away from that

845
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Speaker 16: dumpster fire.

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Speaker 11: I don't I feel like to wish for bad things

847
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 11: is bad for your personal karma cloud. But if bad

848
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 11: things happen and you just smirk about it, I think

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Speaker 11: that's difficult.

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Speaker 3: So Gandhi says, a smirk, A smirk is as far

851
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 3: as you should take that.

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00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 11: You shouldn't wish it.

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00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 9: But if it happens.

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Speaker 10: Whatever someone Plus, I feel like you had to be

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00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 10: one or two people at the company that maybe you

856
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 10: did like so you know what bad things to happen

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00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 10: to that person, but maybe other people I don't know.

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00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, So I'm you.

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Speaker 3: Know, I get yelled at several I've been yelled at

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00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 3: several times by my best friend Nate. He'll say, you

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00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 3: know what, that person really ft you over and now

862
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 3: you're just like, well whatever, and you move on.

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00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 4: How can you not despise them and hate them?

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00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 3: And you know in which awful things you've actually said

865
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 3: those words to me? Yeah, but it does It does

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Speaker 3: mean no good.

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Speaker 10: So there are some things that I know that I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 10: if it was me, you're a better person.

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Speaker 8: Than I am.

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Speaker 28: But Elvis does have the right mentality because when you

871
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 28: hang on too that it affects the rest of your life,

872
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 28: your outlook on life, and you should let it go.

873
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 3: But you shouldn't forget about it. What's that all?

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00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 24: Right?

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Speaker 6: What you're saying, Elvis is absolutely beyond the shadow about

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00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 6: the right thing to do. But I'm just not to

877
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Speaker 6: do that.

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00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 3: Okay. Well, I'm looking and you process whatever you need

879
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 3: to process the way you want to do it. But

880
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: you know, why, why do I want to despise people

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00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 3: who are no longer in my life or a part

882
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 3: of my life in decision making in my life when

883
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 3: I can just despise the people I work with every day.

884
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 3: Why waste it on those who can't receive it and

885
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 3: feel my hanger's truth?

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00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 11: Okay, say the best friend is best revenge is a

887
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 11: good life.

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00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 3: Right there you go.

889
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 11: Absolutely, maybe your life is so amazing that you can

890
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 11: just get past all of this stuff.

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00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 8: And are.

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00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 3: I'm not saying my life is amazing. I'm just saying

893
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 3: for me, I'm not speaking for everyone. It's easier for

894
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 3: me to focus on the positive and things that I

895
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 3: need to be focused focusing on because you know me,

896
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 3: I'm as flawed as flawed can be, and I'm the

897
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 3: first one.

898
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 10: And I could like to open the top and.

899
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 4: That Okay, let me find a way to do it.

900
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,399
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901
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Speaker 8: You kidding me?

902
00:37:59,800 --> 00:37:59,920
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903
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 3: I grew up listening to you. I grew up listening

904
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 3: on the way see Elvis Durant. Sometimes you guys veer

905
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 3: into quote unquote vulgar territories. When my dad would say,

906
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 3: you know so, I couldn't listen to it.

907
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:12,200
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908
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,680
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909
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 3: from testing their vehicles in desert heat and arctic cold

910
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 3: to creating AI that can anticipate your needs and preferences

911
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 3: on the road. They demand every car is worthy of

912
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 3: their star because it's Mercedes.

913
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 1: Benz, Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. That's weird, Elvis

914
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: dan in the Morning Show.

915
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. If I ask you, like what TV father most

916
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 3: influenced you when you're growing up, you know, look, you

917
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 3: look at these these sitcoms. You watch these shows on TV.

918
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: You are thinking, oh, okay, he's just a character on

919
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 3: the show. But sometimes they hit a nerve. Sometimes they're

920
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 3: really great dad. Sometimes they're goof ops whatever they are

921
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 3: who they are, and we're gonna put you to the test.

922
00:38:58,520 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 4: I see, I'm older.

923
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 3: I remember TV dad's like Ward Cleaver, the father of

924
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 3: a son named Beaver Beaver Cleaver.

925
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 10: Who the hell would do that to the kid?

926
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 3: Ward and his beautiful wife, June June Cleaver. She was

927
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 3: always worried about the Beaver. I'm the Beaver Cleaver anyway.

928
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 3: So uh, but you know what, there's still TV dads

929
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 3: that are very influential to this day. Let's go talk

930
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 3: to Chrissy from Superville, Ohio. Chrissy, Superville. I love the

931
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 3: name of your town, Superville. What makes Superville so super?

932
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 20: You know what, when I find out, I will call.

933
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 3: Back, Okay, love it all right? Well, the fact that

934
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,399
Speaker 3: you're living there, Christy, that has something to do with it. Hey,

935
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 3: So can you think of just off the top of

936
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 3: your head, can you think of some of the dads

937
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,280
Speaker 3: on TV shows you grew up watching.

938
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 4: They were like, you know, cool dads.

939
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 20: You liked them, cool dads. Well, I mean my parents

940
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 20: were influenced on my TV watching when I was little.

941
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 20: I also up watching Ward Cleaver, Herman Monster. What else

942
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 20: do we watch? A Little House on the Prairie? What's

943
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 20: your name?

944
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: Michael Landon?

945
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 20: Michael Landon? Yes, I mean call me Pickles. Dads, yeah,

946
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 20: like the old school dads, but also like the cartoon dads,

947
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 20: like Grandpa from Hey Arnold was a father figure, not

948
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:19,760
Speaker 20: necessarily dad, but a father figure.

949
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,879
Speaker 3: Christy, you do know your TV This is gonna be great,

950
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 3: all right, America's favorite TV dads ten dollars each. Of course,

951
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 3: if you get them wrong, you lose ten dollars and

952
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 3: you owe us money. I love this game. Yes, here

953
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 3: we go, you can win over one hundred dollars here,

954
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 3: let's go. TV Dad's number one.

955
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 30: So stupid, I'm so stupid, so stupid.

956
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 20: All right, name it who or Simpson?

957
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 4: Right, we're off to aging start.

958
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 19: All right.

959
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 4: Here is TV dad number two.

960
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 3: Cindy, you know you've done a very bad.

961
00:40:58,960 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 31: Thing with your tattling.

962
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 25: It's daddy.

963
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 32: I know it's difficult for a little girl to know

964
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 32: what to say what not to say.

965
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 25: Growing ups have that same problem.

966
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 4: But mm hm TV Dad number two.

967
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 20: Is that Michael Landon? Is that what hapened? Very?

968
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 33: Oh?

969
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: No, he was talking to little Cindy Brady about her

970
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 3: taddling before that was Mike.

971
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 20: Brady gone, okay, I.

972
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 3: Know, all right, your language? All right, Well you lost ten,

973
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 3: you're down to zero. We've just got ten bad guys. Yeah, yeah,

974
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 3: all right, let's see if we can move it up

975
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 3: a little bit.

976
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 4: Here is TV dad number three.

977
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 34: I mean, everybody makes mistakes with their kids. The important

978
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 34: thing is to admit when you're wrong and to apologize.

979
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 3: How come you won't never do that?

980
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 33: Question me?

981
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 3: Sometimes TV dads aren't dads, but they're another member of

982
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 3: the family. Who is that?

983
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:55,919
Speaker 20: Can I hear it one more time?

984
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and listen to that person he's talking to. Maybe

985
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 3: that voice will que you in.

986
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 34: Here we go, and everybody makes mistakes with their kids.

987
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 34: The important thing is to admit when you're wrong and

988
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 34: to apologize.

989
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 3: How come you won't never do that?

990
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 29: Don't question me?

991
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Uncle Phil from The Fresh Prince.

992
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 4: All right, here we go. Here's TV Dad number four.

993
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 6: If you get pulled over for speeding, tell the policeman

994
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 6: your spouse has diarrhea.

995
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 3: Philosophy.

996
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 20: Hmm, that's a doubt from Modern Family.

997
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Phil Dumphy, absolutely absolutely gotta. Here is TV Dad

998
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 3: number five.

999
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 32: It's seventy five and Sonny, which means our street squad

1000
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 32: is gonna be out looking for them super stickies. If

1001
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 32: you don't got one, get down to Linoleum Depot this

1002
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 32: Saturday from nine to two.

1003
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 3: I'll be there.

1004
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 32: How can you up fat one on your car? Win

1005
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 32: one hundred bucks? Now I'm looking around and I'm seeing

1006
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 32: the spin doctors with not one but two princes.

1007
00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 18: There you go.

1008
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 4: Not a good raw guy, but he was a dad

1009
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:03,439
Speaker 4: name TV Dad number five.

1010
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 20: I honest say that I'm stumped on that one.

1011
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 4: On That was from Family guy. That was Peter Griffin.

1012
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 20: O God, I can not even believe I missed that.

1013
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 4: You just lost ten We got ten back, guys.

1014
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, all right, it's not that we're against you,

1015
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 3: but we just hately mean to give away Budy.

1016
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 4: It's okay, you're up to ten dollars.

1017
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 3: Here we go.

1018
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 4: Here is TV Dad number six.

1019
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: You all know exactly who I am.

1020
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 33: Say my name?

1021
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 35: You what?

1022
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 36: I don't have a damn cool well.

1023
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 26: You are, yeah you do.

1024
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:37,720
Speaker 33: I'm the cook.

1025
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: I'm the man who killed Gus Fring.

1026
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:42,959
Speaker 15: Now say my name.

1027
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 3: Wow, Walter White out cooking it up in the kitchen.

1028
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,959
Speaker 4: All right, you're up to twenty dollars. Here is TV

1029
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 4: Dad number seven.

1030
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 3: But the best part is peg.

1031
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: They're dedicating it to the most famous Pokai football legend

1032
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: a hint four touchdowns in one game.

1033
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,800
Speaker 8: You well, it's not official.

1034
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 4: All right, there you go TV Dad number seven.

1035
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 5: Who was that.

1036
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 4: Talking to his wife?

1037
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 3: Peg?

1038
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 37: Oh?

1039
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 20: Albumy album?

1040
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 3: You're doing really well.

1041
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 4: You're up to thirty dollars. Here is TV Dad number eight.

1042
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 31: Your mother doesn't one listen to mister mob boss?

1043
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 23: What did you call me?

1044
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 18: Hm?

1045
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 3: Who's that.

1046
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 4: Mister mob boss?

1047
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 3: I don't know, Mom, Tony soprano from the soprano. We

1048
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 3: just got ten dollars back in. Now you're up to

1049
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 3: twenty dollars. We're down to twenty. Here we go.

1050
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 4: Here is TV Dad number nine.

1051
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 23: George Festivus, is your heritage spawn of who you are?

1052
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 20: I can't think it's first mister Costanzo.

1053
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go from Seinfeld.

1054
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 3: There you go.

1055
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 4: You were up to thirty dollars. Here we go, TV

1056
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 4: Dad number ten.

1057
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: Steve, what have you done to my window? But big guy,

1058
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 3: I thought you said me casa sukassa. No, what I

1059
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 3: said was mess with me cossa, and you're out on yurassa.

1060
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 4: Okay, TV Dad and number ten?

1061
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 3: Who was that?

1062
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 20: Can I hear that one more time?

1063
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1064
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,280
Speaker 4: Sure, Steve, what have you done to my window?

1065
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 10: But big guy, I thought you said me casa sukassa.

1066
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: No, what I said was mess with me cossa and

1067
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 3: you're out on yurassa.

1068
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 20: I don't know.

1069
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 3: That's Carl Winslow from Family Matt. My guys, we just

1070
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 3: got ten dollars back. Yeah all right, Well here we

1071
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 3: are at a very interesting spot.

1072
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 4: Chrissy.

1073
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 3: You were at twenty dollars. You did, okay, but this

1074
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 3: next one your bonus is worth fifty dollars.

1075
00:45:59,200 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 20: Here we go.

1076
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 3: Dsh you got such a good heart.

1077
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 38: You care about people, and that's why people care about

1078
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 38: you and everybody who knows the real DJ.

1079
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 3: I think she's pretty terrific.

1080
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 25: I love you.

1081
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 3: I love you too.

1082
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 4: There you go TV dead number eleven?

1083
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 20: Who was that dandy Tanner rip?

1084
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 3: I'm all right, you know seventy. I will make it

1085
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars because yeah, and you know you gave

1086
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 3: me goosebumps there at the end.

1087
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 4: We love you, Chrissy. That was awesome.

1088
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 20: I love you, guys, Thank you so much.

1089
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 3: This is the best you're of course.

1090
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 4: You got one hundred dollars. You just had to get

1091
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 4: names of TV dads.

1092
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 3: That's pretty good.

1093
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 20: Take my morning as well, every morning.

1094
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 4: Well, thank you for listening to us.

1095
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 3: You tell everyone in Superville, Ohio that we said, Yo,

1096
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 3: what's up?

1097
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 20: I will thank you guys. You have a good day.

1098
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 4: All right, Hold on one second, don't leave.

1099
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 9: What happened to Marty Bird?

1100
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 4: Well, you know we can't do all TV dads will

1101
00:46:58,520 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 4: be an hour.

1102
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 10: Isn't he a fantastic Dadrummond?

1103
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 4: Oh Dark, Yeah, it's okay dad.

1104
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,959
Speaker 3: At least he provides for his kids.

1105
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 11: Of course, Bill Cosby, Heathcliff Huxtable, Heaullist. No, but you

1106
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 11: know I just took him off this.

1107
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 9: We know what happened there.

1108
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your your beef with me? Nate? You would

1109
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 3: never make it as an accountant.

1110
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 38: Do you realize that person what won legitimately according to

1111
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 38: the rules of the game, thirty dollars and then at

1112
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 38: the end you're like fifty six, we'll give you one

1113
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 38: hundred dollars.

1114
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 8: He's generous.

1115
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 24: I don't know.

1116
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 4: I don't think anyone else is going to complain.

1117
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 38: No, no, listen, I'm just saying that if you were

1118
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 38: playing with anybody else's money this, this might be an issue.

1119
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 5: He'd be a great parent.

1120
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 6: Like if you had chores around the house and they

1121
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 6: were like five dollars a chore and you needed three

1122
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 6: and be like you don when here's fifty bucks. Here

1123
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 6: go ahead, just see you thanks for being a good kid. Like, see,

1124
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 6: you'd be a great parent, Elvis, there you go.

1125
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 4: I don't know why everyone, why were you bitching at me?

1126
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 3: Go away, Nate.

1127
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 5: I'm not bitching at you.

1128
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 3: No, I'm talking Nate, Nate us why you're great at

1129
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 3: what you do? Because I just don't he would have

1130
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 3: made it as an account Okay.

1131
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 4: Nice, thank you, Nate.

1132
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 15: I think.

1133
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Was that funny?

1134
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: Elvis Daran in the morning show, Don't Answer the phone,

1135
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: Elvis Duran, The Elvis Duran phone tapping, the Return of

1136
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:26,399
Speaker 1: Miss Mos.

1137
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 9: Oh, yes, all right.

1138
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 39: So Donna is working at a doctor's office. So her

1139
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 39: daughter said, I want to call my mom and phone

1140
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 39: tapper because she gets all weird people calling at the

1141
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 39: doctor's So miss moscallopsis.

1142
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 9: Is Josh trying to make an appointment?

1143
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:44,760
Speaker 8: She's just an old lady.

1144
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see what happens. Will she get the appointment?

1145
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 3: Let's play it out in today's Daniel phone Tap doctor office.

1146
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 1: Hello, I need to make an appointment.

1147
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 35: Have you been here before?

1148
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 40: No, I'm a new patient.

1149
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:00,399
Speaker 9: I can't sit down anymore, so I thank god.

1150
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 8: I need to come in, ma'am.

1151
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 15: I'm sorry.

1152
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 35: I don't understand it.

1153
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,800
Speaker 25: Do you have some sort of gental problem?

1154
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 40: My son Marvin when he bought me the you know,

1155
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 40: the cushion that you put on the knee when you

1156
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 40: having the problems, and I put it underne but I can.

1157
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 9: I still can't sit down.

1158
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 40: I'm in so much pain.

1159
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 9: I really got to come in and see the doctor.

1160
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 25: Uh huh, ma'am, this is a dentist office. Do you

1161
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 25: need to make an appointment for your teeth.

1162
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:27,399
Speaker 9: I need to come in for my hemorrhoids. You're why

1163
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 9: my hemorrhods?

1164
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 25: Wait a minute, you're a hemorrhoids do there? This is

1165
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 25: This is to do with the mouth, ma'am, this is cheeth.

1166
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 25: Are you having an issue like that?

1167
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 40: I don't have hemorrhoids in my mouth. I have hemorrhods

1168
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 40: in my my butt talks area. That's where I have

1169
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 40: my hemorrhoids.

1170
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 25: All right, well, ma'am, this is a dentist office.

1171
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 15: Like I said several times.

1172
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 37: I know.

1173
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 40: That's why I'm calling you, because you're a doctor and

1174
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 40: I need a doctor's help.

1175
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 11: My name is missus marskallopsis.

1176
00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 9: You want me to spell that for you?

1177
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 25: No, what I need you to do is hang up

1178
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 25: with me.

1179
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 40: And but if I hang on with you, I haven't made.

1180
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 8: My palming yet.

1181
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 11: So I can be there tomorrow morning at eight am.

1182
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 25: All right, No, you can't be here at eight am

1183
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 25: because we.

1184
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 11: Can't help you.

1185
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 8: You have do you open at eight thirty?

1186
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 25: Hemorrhids have to deal with the anal area.

1187
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 9: We do not handle that.

1188
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 40: I don't talk.

1189
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 11: That's my buttocks.

1190
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: Every ya, thank you?

1191
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 25: No, no, no, no, we handle teeth. Now, if you

1192
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 25: have a two days, I don't have TAF. You need

1193
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 25: an extraction or broom can out? Did you ever go

1194
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:35,919
Speaker 25: for cleaning or X rays?

1195
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,839
Speaker 35: The disk of your time?

1196
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 9: You need my my butttoks area clean.

1197
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 8: It's fine.

1198
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 25: I do a good job unless you have a problem

1199
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 25: like a hemorrhoid in your mouth, which we don't call

1200
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 25: it that. It could be an abcess. We're not handling

1201
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 25: your situation. We can handle peace, peace, but I don't

1202
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 25: need it.

1203
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 3: But you keep throwing out of your backside.

1204
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 9: Ma'am what are you talking now? You talk crazy?

1205
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 25: I'm not talking crazy. Do you understand two different openings?

1206
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 25: You not understand going in and the other one was

1207
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 25: fool going out?

1208
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 40: You're ridden out.

1209
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 9: You're being rude.

1210
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 25: I told you we don't sit here.

1211
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 12: Go.

1212
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:20,760
Speaker 9: You know you don't like old people?

1213
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 33: Is that what it is?

1214
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 5: You just don't like?

1215
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 9: It's not nice?

1216
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 40: Okay, I had not Well, maybe if my boss, if

1217
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 40: I have my boss and make the palm of woman

1218
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 40: you actually work.

1219
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have a boss.

1220
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 9: Yeah, my boss's name is Elvis.

1221
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 35: Elvis.

1222
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 30: Elvis is a performer.

1223
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 9: He dies like in the se.

1224
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 8: No, he's not.

1225
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 9: He's really my boss.

1226
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 40: This is Me and Arrow from Elvis Durant in the

1227
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 40: Morning Show.

1228
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 9: And you got phone to why.

1229
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 8: Your your daughter?

1230
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 25: She plays this O God, I am so I'm in

1231
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 25: a work now, Carrie, I'm like a lunatic.

1232
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: The Elvis Duran phone tab.

1233
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,959
Speaker 16: This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by all.

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00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: Participates the Elvis Duran phone tab only on Elvis Duran

1235
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: in the Morning Show.

1236
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 3: So Danielle, our girlfriend gandhi, Hello, is going through something

1237
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 3: that we've all been through from time to time. Oh yes, look,

1238
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 3: you have a good friend.

1239
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 8: Yep.

1240
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 3: You want you want them to be happy, you want

1241
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 3: them to be out there dating someone that's cool for them.

1242
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 3: It just so happens you hate the person they're dating.

1243
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 10: To have plenty of times.

1244
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,240
Speaker 3: So it's okay to talk about this, Yes.

1245
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 11: We can talk about it. I really dislike my friend's boyfriend,

1246
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 11: and it's really tricky because I know my friend is

1247
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 11: just so in love. So I don't know what to do.

1248
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 11: And at first I thought, Okay, maybe it's a me

1249
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 11: thing and I'm being a brat, I'm being possessive. I

1250
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 11: need to be more open minded to the person. Every

1251
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,839
Speaker 11: one of our friends who has met this boyfriend hates

1252
00:52:57,920 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 11: him too.

1253
00:52:58,800 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 5: So what to do?

1254
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 11: Do I tell my friend, Hey, uh, your boyfriend really sucks?

1255
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 11: Or do you just let it go? Because I know

1256
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:05,800
Speaker 11: I'm going to lose this battle?

1257
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,720
Speaker 3: So you know, So what's so weird here is Gandhi

1258
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 3: You never ever hold back, And I think it's so

1259
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 3: weird that your best friend you have not told this

1260
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 3: best friend how you feel about the boyfriend.

1261
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 11: Because I know how much my friend is in love

1262
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:20,240
Speaker 11: with this person.

1263
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 3: That's a tough one.

1264
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 11: It's a tough one.

1265
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 10: She said she'll probably lose her friend if that she doesn't.

1266
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 11: I think I will. Like, I just know how the

1267
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 11: relationship is. I know how smitten my friend is. I

1268
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 11: think they're gonna get married, and I'm like, oh god,

1269
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 11: she's gonna be part of my life forever.

1270
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 10: I guess she doesn't know how to be treated. Then

1271
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 10: she must never been in a relationship where she knows that.

1272
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 11: Yeah, Nic, it's tricky and like the boyfriend's not even

1273
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 11: nice to the family, which to me is the biggest run.

1274
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 3: So it's not you. It's not a problem you have,

1275
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 3: it's it's this person's a bad person. Yeah, all right, Hey, Rachel.

1276
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 17: Are you there?

1277
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 21: Yeah?

1278
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're going through the same thing Gandhi is

1279
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 3: going through. You hate your best friend, boyfriend, You argue

1280
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 3: with him all the time, so they know it's no secret.

1281
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 3: They know how you feel about him, right yeah.

1282
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 35: No, And me and him, we do argue all the time.

1283
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 35: He always thinks he's right. It's very annoying. So she

1284
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,239
Speaker 35: pulled me aside the other day and she goes, why

1285
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 35: don't you like him? And I was like, I know,

1286
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 35: you just got out of a relationship. He is a rebound.

1287
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 35: He is not here forever. And she was like okay,

1288
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 35: and she goes, well, can you tell me what you

1289
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 35: don't like about him? I look at her and I go,

1290
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 35: he crashed your brand new car and he did not

1291
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 35: pay you back. Let's just start with that.

1292
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 3: Oh no, okay, well that's you know, oh my god,

1293
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 3: he crashed cars. But overall he's just a not a

1294
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 3: bad guy. You're not a good guy.

1295
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:42,759
Speaker 35: No, he's not a good guy. And the reason he

1296
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,959
Speaker 35: was driving her cars because he doesn't have enough money

1297
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 35: to put his car on the road. But I mean,

1298
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 35: like whatever, I can still look past that. But the

1299
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 35: other day we all went out, well not the other day.

1300
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 35: It was in December, we went out for Christmas dinner,

1301
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 35: me and two of my girlfriends. We all bring our

1302
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 35: significant others, you know. She brought him and at the table,

1303
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 35: he randomly started that unbuttoning his shirt and we're like,

1304
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 35: what are you doing? And he's like, Mortimer needs to

1305
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 35: join the party, and we're like, who's he? He has

1306
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 35: a skull on his chest, it's a tattoo, and he

1307
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 35: like randomly unbuttons it and says that he needs to join.

1308
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:18,280
Speaker 11: The party, telling her to run the other director.

1309
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm sure like this guy, he and

1310
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 3: his friend Mortimer. All right, so okay, okay, any question?

1311
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 3: Does he treat your friend well? I mean, is he

1312
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 3: good to her?

1313
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 35: Sometimes? But not always? He's let me start off also

1314
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 35: by saying he's still married. He hasn't got a separation

1315
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 35: from his wife.

1316
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 4: Shot are they living together?

1317
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 3: He and his wife?

1318
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 35: No, they're not living together, but they He says he

1319
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 35: doesn't have enough money to separate from her. I don't

1320
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 35: know if that's true or not, but yeah, he's still,

1321
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 35: like I said, technically with his ex wife.

1322
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 19: He does live on his own.

1323
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 35: But he also has like anger issues too, And she's

1324
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 35: said that to me before, and I'm like, well, what

1325
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 35: are are you still doing?

1326
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 25: Then?

1327
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 35: She I love her, I do, I just she does

1328
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 35: not have the best choice when it comes to boyfriend.

1329
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 4: Well, you know, here's the thing, well one of the

1330
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 4: many things.

1331
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 29: Uh.

1332
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 3: You know, it's your friend, and you know she has

1333
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 3: decided through through all the bad points this guy carries,

1334
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 3: she likes him. She's she there's something there and even

1335
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 3: though you feel like he is bad for her, he's

1336
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 3: bad for everyone, including his skull Mortimer. You know what

1337
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 3: I'm saying. You had you have to like, but you

1338
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 3: have to back her up, and she's got to. She

1339
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 3: has to learn her own lessons, you know. I mean,

1340
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 3: I know you want to be a good friend. I

1341
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 3: don't know, I am I wrong? Maybe I'm wrong.

1342
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 11: No, it's it's just so hard.

1343
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 8: You don't want to lose a friend.

1344
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 3: You don't want to lose your friends.

1345
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 35: Right, And that's the thing too. I feel like since

1346
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 35: they started dating, me and her, I've hung out not

1347
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,720
Speaker 35: a lot anymore. And I don't know, it's just heartbreaking

1348
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 35: because I feel like I am this in one of

1349
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 35: my best friends and it's I just, you know, I

1350
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 35: don't feel like hanging out with him that's really what

1351
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 35: it's bad.

1352
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 3: Well, here's here's another way of looking at it. What

1353
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 3: if this guy was a great guy and you really

1354
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 3: did approve, but you still saw your friend less.

1355
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 4: I mean you to be upset you've come out.

1356
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 35: That would be, oh my gosh, that would be totally fine.

1357
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 35: I wouldn't understand that. I just want her to be

1358
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 35: happy in the end, and I want her to be

1359
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,800
Speaker 35: treated correctly and to be happy. But if she's not

1360
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 35: treated correctly, that's kind of the issue.

1361
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 18: Now.

1362
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 10: It's a lot of times just to be careful too,

1363
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 10: because they'll say, you're just jealous.

1364
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 11: You're just jealous, you know, mind your business.

1365
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 35: Yeah, it's I don't know, it's it's me, it's our

1366
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 35: other friends. It's her family too, Like the family doesn't.

1367
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 25: Like me either.

1368
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 35: It's just it's hard.

1369
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 3: All right, Okay, here's my here's my thought, Rachel. As

1370
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 3: you know, you heard Gandhi say the same thing you said.

1371
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 3: The difference is is her best friend doesn't know how

1372
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 3: she feels about the boyfriend. She keeps it quiet. She's

1373
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,919
Speaker 3: afraid of where that could go. She could lose her friend,

1374
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 3: her best friend. So what advice, Rachel, do you have

1375
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 3: for Gandhi.

1376
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 35: Okay, Well for me, she well, I mean, she flat

1377
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 35: out asked me why I didn't like him, and you know,

1378
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 35: I didn't say because I didn't say like he's discussing,

1379
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 35: he's annoying. I didn't say anything like that. I just,

1380
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 35: you know, flat out said a lot of us don't

1381
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 35: like him. And that's when I told her, I feel

1382
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 35: like he's your rebound and he's not your forever. Like

1383
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 35: I put it in nicer terms, I guess than what

1384
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 35: I could have, Like, I didn't want to. I don't

1385
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 35: want to, like, you know, unload all this negative stuff

1386
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 35: onto her. I was like I was said what I thought,

1387
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 35: but in a nicer way. You have to sugar quote

1388
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 35: it a little bit, like be very careful with the

1389
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 35: words that you choose to tell her.

1390
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 3: So, so you're telling Gandhi Gandhi, maybe you could sort

1391
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 3: of drive down that road a little bit, but proceed

1392
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 3: with caution.

1393
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 10: Maybe do a poop sandwich positive about him, and then

1394
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 10: make something up okay, and then a positive at the end.

1395
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 23: Right.

1396
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 3: Well, thank hey, Rachel, best of luck with you and

1397
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 3: your friend. And we're gonna we're gonna make a poop

1398
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 3: sandwich for a gandhi, thank you, thank you.

1399
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's rough, but she's she's not holding back.

1400
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 32: Now.

1401
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 11: I was kind of thinking maybe I put it on

1402
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 11: me and say, you know, so and so makes me uncomfortable.

1403
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 11: I'm not really sure how to explain it, but I

1404
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 11: feel weird around this person. Do you think that that

1405
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 11: would work? I don't know versus he sucks. I don't

1406
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 11: like your problem.

1407
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey, Katie, Hi, So you hate your brother's fiance and,

1408
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 3: in the words of Katie, you call her a joyless wench.

1409
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 3: Oh god, I.

1410
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 9: Can't even imagine.

1411
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 11: Then you got to live with the public. You've got

1412
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 11: no choice.

1413
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 9: You know, he is marrying her, so you have no choice.

1414
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, this isn't this isn't even a dating situation.

1415
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 4: They're getting married.

1416
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 3: So how do you feel about that? Katie? What are

1417
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 3: you doing? And have you told your brother?

1418
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 22: I feel sick over it.

1419
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 13: I feel absolutely sick, And I.

1420
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 22: Feel terrible for my brother because I feel like it's

1421
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 22: just similar to Rachel. It's a rebound gone wrong.

1422
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 25: It just went awry.

1423
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 22: And my brother is a great guy, but he's terribly lazy.

1424
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 12: And he just doesn't want to I think move on.

1425
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 20: So I oh, and I have told him how I

1426
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 20: felt our entire family.

1427
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:56,080
Speaker 3: You know, look, if you told your brother how you

1428
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 3: feel about his fiance, if your family has told him,

1429
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,160
Speaker 3: there's nothing else you can do because it at some

1430
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 3: point you got to let them live their lives. And

1431
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: if they're making a mistake, they have to make their mistake.

1432
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 3: You know, you got to stop chasing that car. You know,

1433
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 3: there's only so much you can do. Yeah, it really is.

1434
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 3: And after a while it turns into your problem.

1435
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 5: Right, you know.

1436
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 10: It's like, could there be something that maybe you don't

1437
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 10: see about her that he sees?

1438
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 9: That's good, you know what.

1439
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 13: That's interesting, And that's what I was going to ask Gandhi,

1440
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,439
Speaker 13: what does she think her friend sees in this guy

1441
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 13: that makes her happy?

1442
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 20: She's so in love with him?

1443
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 37: Well?

1444
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 20: Why why is she so in love with him?

1445
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 13: And that's what I want to say to my brother,

1446
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 13: like why what is it about her that you think

1447
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 13: is so wonderful.

1448
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 20: That we're not seeing?

1449
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 3: It's a fair question.

1450
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 11: Yeah, I think with my friend, what this person sees

1451
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 11: in the boyfriend is just a completely different version of

1452
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 11: a human than they've ever been in contact with. It's

1453
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 11: you know, this person is a different race and just

1454
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 11: comes from a completely different background and is introducing my

1455
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 11: friend to all of these new things, which I appreciate

1456
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 11: that stuff, and I get it.

1457
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 9: Yeah, this guy just sucks.

1458
01:00:57,520 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, the guy just sucks.

1459
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 3: I will Katie best of luck with your family. But

1460
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 3: like I said, you know, you can only beat your

1461
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 3: head against the wall so much. Did you got to

1462
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 3: find a way to let it go.

1463
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 8: I'm trying.

1464
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 11: I'm really trying to let it go because I've had

1465
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 11: conference calls with my friends who are on the same

1466
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 11: page about this, like what do we do? Yeah, and

1467
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 11: everyone has come to the same conclusion. We do nothing.

1468
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 11: We just have to be there for the fallout when

1469
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 11: it happened.

1470
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all you can do. Hey, Chris, hi, Hi,

1471
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,720
Speaker 3: You've lost three friends because of this. You did not

1472
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 3: approve of you. They were dating and you obviously you

1473
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 3: said something and that's why you lost your friends.

1474
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 15: Not quiet.

1475
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So would you do it again? If a

1476
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 3: friend number four comes up with a with a crappy boyfriend,

1477
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 3: are you going to say something or have you kind

1478
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 3: of learned your lesson to sit back or maneuver differently?

1479
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 13: I would still probably say something like honestly, I think

1480
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 13: it was worth it because they, like in all of

1481
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 13: those situations, they were putting their partner before their friends.

1482
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 13: And I was like, hey, this isn't a good situation.

1483
01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 13: You know, you're taking everything that they're saying and they're

1484
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 13: doing over top of what we're trying to help you,

1485
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 13: you know, and they, you know, they decided to cut

1486
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 13: me out instead, is how I see it ultimately, So well, wait.

1487
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 3: How much more could you have done? What else can

1488
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 3: you do other than say what's on your mind? I

1489
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 3: mean you can't.

1490
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:14,439
Speaker 35: Yeah, exactly, you know what I'm saying.

1491
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 3: There's only so much you can do. I always thought,

1492
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 3: and it's this is this is maybe Pollyanna ish of me.

1493
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 3: If you have a problem with something I'm doing or

1494
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 3: the way I'm doing it, give me the give me

1495
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 3: the evidence.

1496
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 4: Tell me what it is.

1497
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 3: That's all you can do. I have to at that

1498
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 3: point figure it out on my own, right Otherwise it's

1499
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 3: going to drive you crazy, to drive everyone crazy.

1500
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 4: I don't want you to lose friends with the.

1501
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 13: Second the second friend that I lost, I went about

1502
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 13: it completely the wrong way, Like I was pretty much

1503
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,479
Speaker 13: thing to both of them behind each other's backs. Trying

1504
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 13: to break them up, and it worked for a second

1505
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 13: and then they got back together and then yeah, that

1506
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 13: was a really bad.

1507
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 3: Sit Wait wait wait, how did how did you try

1508
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 3: to break them up? I'm curious, like, like, what did

1509
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 3: you do?

1510
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 29: Well?

1511
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 13: They like they had an age of difference, and they

1512
01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 13: had religious differences, which wouldn't have been a big deal

1513
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 13: if he wasn't constantly trying to like convert her. And

1514
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 13: I yeah, so I was trying to tell him, like,

1515
01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 13: if you can't wake up every day next to this

1516
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,960
Speaker 13: person that you believe could be going to hell, then

1517
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 13: like that's a problem. And he was like, well, we'll

1518
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 13: cross that bridge when we get to it. And I'm like,

1519
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 13: but it's been like a year and a half, so

1520
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 13: you can probably.

1521
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 29: Hear that out.

1522
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 3: We'll cross that bridge to hell when we get to it, exactly.

1523
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 3: So what Chris is saying, she's lost three friends over this,

1524
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 3: and she and she's willing to lose another one if

1525
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 3: she has to. But all right, you know you can.

1526
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 3: It's the old lead the horse to water thing. You know,

1527
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 3: there's only so much you can do. Chris, thanks for

1528
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 3: listening to us. I appreciate you listening to your viewpoint.

1529
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 13: Yeah, thank you.

1530
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 3: There you go.

1531
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: The Mercedes Benz Welcome home, Honey.

1532
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,919
Speaker 3: At Mercedes Benz, there's a reason they go the extra mile,

1533
01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:53,320
Speaker 3: from testing their vehicles in desert heat and arctic cold

1534
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 3: to creating AI that can anticipate your needs and preferences

1535
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,120
Speaker 3: on the road. They demand every car is worthy of

1536
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 3: their star because it's Mercedes Benz.

1537
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 1: Elvis dan in the Morning Show. Yeah, this is Elvis

1538
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: Duran in the Morning Show.

1539
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 3: So Alex and I went out to dinner last night

1540
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 3: and we're sitting at the bar. We love to sit

1541
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 3: at the bar, and someone said, hey, you know, where

1542
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 3: do you guys live? And I looked at him and

1543
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 3: it was a guy and his I guess his wife

1544
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 3: right with an attack, he hat, well, okay, you never

1545
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 3: know if they're listening, you know.

1546
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,960
Speaker 4: So we're like, oh, we live, you know, over that way.

1547
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 4: I didn't really give an address or anything. No, really,

1548
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 4: what town do you live in.

1549
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 3: We're like, well, we live in you know, blah blah blah.

1550
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 3: He said, well, we live right up the road. I

1551
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 3: mean really like right up the road. He said, yeah.

1552
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 3: He said, you guys should come over for dinner. And

1553
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 3: then that's when I said, what's your name? I'm not

1554
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 3: kidding you. That was exactly how the conversation went, right, Yes, totally.

1555
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 4: It was like from zero to sixty in three seconds.

1556
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 3: What are you doing? Or do you come here a lot?

1557
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 3: How long have you lived around here? Again?

1558
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 37: We live?

1559
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 3: You should come to dinner. I'm a great cook, and

1560
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh again, what's your name?

1561
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 37: I don't even remember if they gave us the name? So,

1562
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 37: you know, okay, So I believe that they were trying

1563
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:18,360
Speaker 37: to pick up Elvis.

1564
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 4: I think they were trying to pick up both of us.

1565
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 4: And this was a straight couple, a man and a wife.

1566
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:29,960
Speaker 3: Well straight to bed, well or he could like to go,

1567
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 3: you know, he could like to experiment and she watches.

1568
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1569
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 4: You can fill in the blanks anyway.

1570
01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 5: Anyway he hides in the closet while yeah, yeah, I

1571
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 5: don't know.

1572
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 10: Doesn't make you nervous because nowadays, like you don't know

1573
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 10: what the hell you could have and just to come

1574
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 10: up to you and be like, hey, there, come overrond

1575
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 10: make your.

1576
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 3: Dinner, Like, well, we're probably not going to make it

1577
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 3: for dinner, maybe dessert, I don't know.

1578
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 5: Nothing nothing now serving the big bragiole at dinner or no.

1579
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 3: All right, so look, you know it, there is a

1580
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 3: chance that we were way off base and it's just

1581
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 3: our gut feeling and they could be wrong.

1582
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 4: But I don't know, it seems pretty obvious. No, I

1583
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 4: think one hundred.

1584
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 3: I'm okay, that was all My gosh, that's so crazy. Well,

1585
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 3: I know, you did hear him say something like behind

1586
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 3: like we weren't he said, yeah.

1587
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 37: What I heard him whispering something that I forgot what

1588
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 37: he said, but I looked at Elvis. I said he

1589
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 37: said something about, yeah, that could be fun.

1590
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 3: That could be fund like that. Yeah, they could be fun.

1591
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 3: They could be fun. Anyway, So here's my here's my point.

1592
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 3: So we were assuming that we were approached. I'm not

1593
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 3: I'm at ninety eight percent thinking that that was it

1594
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 3: was like a swinger thing, right, So I'm guessing now,

1595
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 3: if you're a swinger and you like to, you know,

1596
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 3: approach people at bars or whatever, you have to be

1597
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 3: very aggressive. Otherwise it's just someone being nice. You know,

1598
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 3: you're like, oh the pleasantries, Hello, how are you? Other

1599
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 3: than that, it's like Hi, who are you? Where do

1600
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 3: you live? We live right up the street.

1601
01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 32: Come have dinner.

1602
01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 3: I mean, is that I got I got a swinger

1603
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 3: on the line. Let me go ask her Brittany online seven.

1604
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 3: Hey Brittany, good morning, Good morning Brittany. So you you

1605
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 3: are a swinger. You're saying you liked they weren't swinger.

1606
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 3: It's just so dated sounding. I don't know, it sounds

1607
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 3: like something.

1608
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 14: From the nineteen I'm actually not a swinger, but me

1609
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 14: and my gay best friend, an older couple tried to

1610
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 14: pick us up and take us home to swing with him.

1611
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 4: Oh you've been asked to swing? Okay, I totally accuse.

1612
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 3: You of being a swinger.

1613
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 25: Okay, that's okay.

1614
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 4: Did you guys go home with him?

1615
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 21: No, we didn't.

1616
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 14: We were in our early twenties and they were probably

1617
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 14: in their sixties. But they were a great looking couple

1618
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 14: and they were so nice, just buying a shop all night,

1619
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:43,080
Speaker 14: and then all of a sudden, she was like, oh,

1620
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 14: do you want to come home with us? And we

1621
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 14: were like to hang out and she was like no,

1622
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 14: to like, you know, have sex, and I was like, oh, no,

1623
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 14: thank you.

1624
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 4: So there it goes my I think my theory is correct.

1625
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 3: If you want to pick people up, you've got to

1626
01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 3: be very direct and very aggressive and say no for sex.

1627
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 3: You have to love them up with shots. By the way,

1628
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 3: they didn't buy shots last night. I guess we're not

1629
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 3: worthy of shots.

1630
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:10,000
Speaker 14: They brought us a lot of shots. And my gay

1631
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 14: best friend was like, I don't get with women, but

1632
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 14: thank you.

1633
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, well there you go. So but you

1634
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 3: knew exactly what was going on because she got to

1635
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 3: the point and used the word sex. I mean there

1636
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 3: was no way to Yeah, yeah, exactly. All right.

1637
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 4: Well, best of luck to you. Thanks for sharing that

1638
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:27,840
Speaker 4: with you.

1639
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,360
Speaker 3: If ever you do decide to say yes to them,

1640
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 3: you've got to call our show promise definitely.

1641
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 20: Well.

1642
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 14: I listened to you guys every morning, and you guys

1643
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:37,639
Speaker 14: are great.

1644
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 20: I love you guys.

1645
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 3: Thank you Brittany. By the way, someone Brittany so much

1646
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:41,960
Speaker 3: just sent a text and I bet they wanted to

1647
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:42,599
Speaker 3: take you home.

1648
01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:47,599
Speaker 11: And eat you, mister kidney or something.

1649
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 8: You never know.

1650
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh god, you've heard the stories. Thank you, Brittany.

1651
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 3: Let's go talk to line four and Raven. Raven got

1652
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 3: invited over and actually went and she's swung talk about it.

1653
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 3: How was your night?

1654
01:08:58,840 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 33: Hi?

1655
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 30: Was very interesting?

1656
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 4: Interesting? Now is this something you've done before? Or was

1657
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 4: this a like a one off thing or what?

1658
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 30: No, this is a one time thing. It was a

1659
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,840
Speaker 30: New Year's party. They had an open bar, so we

1660
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 30: were drinking quite a bit and this couple approached us

1661
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 30: and we went home with them, me and my best friend.

1662
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 4: Right, and did you stay, did you spend the night

1663
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:26,880
Speaker 4: or did you do your thing.

1664
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 3: And head out?

1665
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 30: No, we spent the night and they drove us back

1666
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 30: to get my car after Well.

1667
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 3: And look, I'll be really clear, I'm I'm not condoning

1668
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,599
Speaker 3: anyone for swinging. That's that's not at all, that's not us. Well,

1669
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,160
Speaker 3: but you know, if you're trying to pick someone up

1670
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:46,200
Speaker 3: to go home with you and they don't, they're not

1671
01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 3: into it as we are. Not last night, we weren't anyway. Uh,

1672
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's okay, we're you do your thing, will

1673
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 3: not do that thing. But you do that thing?

1674
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 4: So Raven, would have you done it again since that night?

1675
01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:00,760
Speaker 15: Uh?

1676
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 37: No?

1677
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:05,480
Speaker 30: No, that was the one and only time that's ever happened.

1678
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:07,600
Speaker 3: Right, I know. But you look back on it and

1679
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 3: you laugh, and it's a part of your journey, part

1680
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 3: of your story.

1681
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:11,799
Speaker 22: Right exactly.

1682
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 30: That's one story that will stay with me forever.

1683
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:17,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you'll tell it on the radio, which

1684
01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 3: I'm loving. All right, Raven, Well, thank you, happy swinging.

1685
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 3: If you change your mind, we're right here calling all right. Thanks? Yeah,

1686
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:27,760
Speaker 3: But okay, let me ask you this. Can we just

1687
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 3: talk honestly?

1688
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 17: Now?

1689
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1690
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 3: What if you and I were out and it was

1691
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 3: a guy and he was like really attractive, would we

1692
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:38,520
Speaker 3: consider it? Yeah, we would have a conversation.

1693
01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 37: But the way they approached us last night, They're like, hey,

1694
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 37: I want to come over to Iowa house for dinner.

1695
01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 37: We didn't even get to know their names nothing.

1696
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 36: There was no ice breaking. There was to break the

1697
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 36: eel like, hey, you guys are cool. You want to

1698
01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 36: come over to our house for dinner. I'm a real

1699
01:10:58,040 --> 01:10:58,679
Speaker 36: great chef.

1700
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:02,559
Speaker 3: And I'm like why, Yeah, I was caught off God

1701
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 3: yeah frog.

1702
01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 5: Did either one of them have pineapples on of any kind?

1703
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 3: Okay?

1704
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 4: So you know the pineapple store?

1705
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 5: Yeah? I like, hope, I believe this.

1706
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:11,720
Speaker 6: And I asked this because I posted a picture on

1707
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 6: my Instagram story and it's got my dog standing at

1708
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:16,759
Speaker 6: the door and we said, this is the welcome committee.

1709
01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 6: Well on our door, is this artsy pineapple that's hanging

1710
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,680
Speaker 6: on the door, right, everybody says that's the way you

1711
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 6: welcome swingers over. Well, we've lived here for two and

1712
01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:28,040
Speaker 6: a half years with that pineapple in the door. Nobody's

1713
01:11:28,080 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 6: ever come over to our house. So either we're unattractive

1714
01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 6: or the pineapple thing is not true.

1715
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 3: Well, okay, to be fair, pineapples are not just for swingers.

1716
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 3: Pineapples like it's the universal old school sign of welcome,

1717
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 3: you know, that kind of thing. So if you see

1718
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 3: someone with a pineapple, don't automatically assume they want you

1719
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 3: to do them.

1720
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 6: Okay, what about the pineapple and the grocery cart upside

1721
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 6: down that's supposed to be looking for swingers.

1722
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, now you're out of your mind.

1723
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, gandhi.

1724
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 11: So for future reference for other people, I know you

1725
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 11: guys said that this guy approached you in an aggressive way.

1726
01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:57,200
Speaker 11: How would you like to be approached?

1727
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 9: What would work?

1728
01:11:58,680 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 25: Not like that?

1729
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 3: Small talk? Yeah? Yeah, let's just so you know, we're

1730
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 3: sitting next to you at a bar and we just

1731
01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 3: start talking, we and we and you don't just jump

1732
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 3: right into the where do you live? How far away

1733
01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 3: do you live?

1734
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 4: We live right down the street. Come on, come on, we're.

1735
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 3: Living right now. You don't need to know our names.

1736
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 3: I tell you what we've got. Katherine. Catherine is online

1737
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 3: twenty four. She can talk about how to approach people

1738
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 3: at a bar as a swinger. Catherine, you you have

1739
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 3: a little bit of experience. I'm not swing shaming you.

1740
01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 3: I'm just saying we've heard that you've done.

1741
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 20: That the game.

1742
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:33,240
Speaker 19: We have a lot of fun, so there's no shame here.

1743
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 3: Okay, go right ahead. Now, the way they approached this

1744
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:37,839
Speaker 3: last night, do you find it was a little abrasive?

1745
01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 19: Yeah, I mean I would have. I would have been.

1746
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:45,639
Speaker 19: You know, we kind of flirt or play with people

1747
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 19: or you know, get to see if anybody's looking at us,

1748
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 19: and if they are, then we you know, you just

1749
01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 19: it's kind of like dating. You know, you're not going

1750
01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 19: to sit in here and like go in and hurt somebody,

1751
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:57,600
Speaker 19: you know, emotionally. You're just here to have fun and

1752
01:12:58,160 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 19: enjoy them. And if it's not, you know, something that

1753
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,440
Speaker 19: everybody wants to do, then we certainly wouldn't.

1754
01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 23: Do what they did.

1755
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,000
Speaker 4: No, well, I don't know.

1756
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,640
Speaker 3: I've asked Alex three times. He has yet to give

1757
01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 3: me a yes or no. But I don't know. Something

1758
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:12,559
Speaker 3: tells me that we wouldn't rule it out.

1759
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 32: Night.

1760
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 19: No, last night, that was that we're in a stable

1761
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 19: relationship and I've been married to my husband for twenty

1762
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 19: five years, and to keep the spark alive, we like

1763
01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 19: we enjoy other people and other energy.

1764
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 3: So right now, I got that. But no, last night

1765
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 3: ruled out because there was a woman involved in I

1766
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 3: say that with all due respect. I'm sorry. Uh all right,

1767
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 3: Well look, Catherine, so you're saying more of a more

1768
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 3: of a flirty thing, like like you're talking to someone

1769
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 3: that you want to go out on a date with

1770
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 3: at a bar. It's just simple, no pressure, relaxing conversation

1771
01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:51,920
Speaker 3: and you and at that point you just kind of

1772
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:52,719
Speaker 3: see where it goes.

1773
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 4: You don't try to force it, right, No, no, no.

1774
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 19: And if if they're not comfortable, then we're not comfortable,

1775
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:01,599
Speaker 19: and that you know, it's not like we go out.

1776
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,320
Speaker 19: Yeah yeah, I would not have done what they have done.

1777
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 37: No.

1778
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't want to take someone home that's nervous

1779
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 3: and shaking. Sounds like kidnap, sounds like a scary states.

1780
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 3: Well anyway, uh, well, thank you, Catherine. So when you

1781
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 3: when you find out it's it's a no that they're

1782
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:19,599
Speaker 3: not interested. You're you're okay with that. You don't take

1783
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 3: it personally, right, No?

1784
01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 19: No, because it's not yeah, yeah, it's fine. It's you're

1785
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 19: either in to us, you or not. It's not something

1786
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:28,840
Speaker 19: that we would be hurt about.

1787
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 3: No, there you go, all right, Catherine. So great to

1788
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 3: hear your perspective. I appreciate it.

1789
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 19: Hey you guys, Doe you thanks mine.

1790
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 3: So Brody's asking some very can you get Brody on

1791
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 3: the phone. He's asking some very juicy questions. Hey Brody, Hey, alos,

1792
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 3: So Brody asks this. You have to know Brody to

1793
01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:48,639
Speaker 3: understand that this is kind of weird coming from Brody.

1794
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 3: Elvis and Alex take a hot guy home, who would

1795
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 3: go first? And who would sit back and watch? Oh lord,

1796
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:57,920
Speaker 3: oh my god, Brody, what do you mean?

1797
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 23: I don't know a dynamic of a threesome personally, and

1798
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 23: I don't know the dynamic between like Elvis and Alex.

1799
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 23: Like if one of you guys is like the more

1800
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 23: dominant one, would you like want to watch the other one?

1801
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 23: Like I would never want to watch my partner with

1802
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 23: another person, But you guys seem like you would.

1803
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:19,879
Speaker 3: Now look at that's Aul.

1804
01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 4: Yes, they gotta cut that off. Right, I'll tell you now,

1805
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 4: there's a lot.

1806
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 5: Of assumptions going on here, thank you.

1807
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:30,639
Speaker 3: Okay, No, no, no, you're you're making some assumptions about

1808
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 3: us and what we're possibly what we could do. You're

1809
01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:35,680
Speaker 3: we're not anywhere near any of that.

1810
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:38,680
Speaker 23: So I don't even so you're saying, you're saying you

1811
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 23: guys would go with the guy. At the same time,

1812
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:41,640
Speaker 23: I don't know.

1813
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:43,639
Speaker 5: This is not the guy in the closet looking through

1814
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:45,080
Speaker 5: the louvers, like, see what's going on.

1815
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 3: I didn't say that, okay, but I'm trying to tell you,

1816
01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 3: and I don't think you're not hearing what I'm saying.

1817
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 3: The dynamics of our relationship to this day are not

1818
01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 3: in a place where I could even answer that question.

1819
01:15:58,080 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1820
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 4: We haven't been there, have done that well not, you know,

1821
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 4: if we have, we're not going to talk to you

1822
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:06,559
Speaker 4: about it.

1823
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 5: Anyway.

1824
01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 4: What are you to say, Alex, isn't swingers? Two couples

1825
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 4: aren't swingers. You can swing with one swing with one person,

1826
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:21,080
Speaker 4: I don't.

1827
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 3: Know, that's just a threesome.

1828
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 4: Then you could swing with one person that's a three swinging.

1829
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 3: I think that the concept of concept of swinging is

1830
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 3: a couple are together and the other one is, oh, okay,

1831
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 3: have a great time. Yeah, I know this is so confusing.

1832
01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:41,680
Speaker 9: All the pineapple thing for a minute, Yes please, because.

1833
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 10: Froggy's wife Lisa gave me a bracelet with a pineapple

1834
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 10: on it, so I'm starting to think she wants to

1835
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:47,800
Speaker 10: swing with me.

1836
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:50,360
Speaker 5: Oh cool, I'm cool with that.

1837
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 3: My god, what has become of our show today?

1838
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 5: Won't mind?

1839
01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:58,880
Speaker 10: No, Sheldon will right in there.

1840
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:03,080
Speaker 3: All right, Well, there you go. So that's what happened

1841
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:07,880
Speaker 3: last night. The according to porn hub, actually Nate is

1842
01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:10,520
Speaker 3: telling us give us the definition of swinging.

1843
01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:13,200
Speaker 28: According to uh this is actually dictionary dot com, the

1844
01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:16,560
Speaker 28: practice of engaging in group sex, or the swapping of

1845
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 28: sexual partners within a group, especially on an habitual basis.

1846
01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's not so.

1847
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 11: Just one person doesn't count, not a swinger, not according.

1848
01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 3: To that definition. All right, are we all clear?

1849
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 20: Now?

1850
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:30,360
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1851
01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:41,800
Speaker 3: No, I'm not confused. Oh no, we gotta go.

1852
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 1: Elvis d Ran in the Morning Show. Elvis d Ran

1853
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 1: in the Morning Show.

1854
01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 3: They say, you know, you really find out how compatible

1855
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:00,559
Speaker 3: you are with someone when you go on a vacation

1856
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:00,920
Speaker 3: with them.

1857
01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:01,760
Speaker 8: You know, you've to.

1858
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 3: Wait for that you can actually pick things up at

1859
01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 3: the table.

1860
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:05,560
Speaker 36: No.

1861
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:10,080
Speaker 3: I mean they could have some really really offensive habits

1862
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:13,320
Speaker 3: and it makes you just go no, oh, my parents.

1863
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 11: I would break up with them if I went on

1864
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:16,280
Speaker 11: a date with either one of them because of the

1865
01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 11: way they act at restaurants.

1866
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 3: What do you mean?

1867
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:21,280
Speaker 11: So as soon as food is placed on the table,

1868
01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,040
Speaker 11: before they even try it, they will request hot sauce,

1869
01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:26,000
Speaker 11: and if the hot sauce is not out quickly, they'll

1870
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 11: ask again and again. They also immediately request a box

1871
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 11: to go and put half their food in it, then

1872
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 11: just leave the box on the table the whole time,

1873
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 11: and they just kind of harass the staff, like every

1874
01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 11: time our waiter or waitress will come back, they ask

1875
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 11: them for another thing. I'm like, for the love of God, parents,

1876
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 11: just leave them alone. And if one of them orders fish,

1877
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:47,680
Speaker 11: they have an issue. So my dad hates the head

1878
01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:50,280
Speaker 11: on a fish, my mom loves it. They'll fight with

1879
01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:52,920
Speaker 11: the waitress standing right there about whether or not the

1880
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 11: head can come out on the fish. It's so embarrassing

1881
01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:56,759
Speaker 11: everything that it's.

1882
01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:59,360
Speaker 3: Awful you break up with your own parents.

1883
01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:01,360
Speaker 11: I love it with my parents, I love them, but

1884
01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 11: I can't go to restaurants with them.

1885
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 3: Well, they're saying here in this article that Froggy sent me,

1886
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:09,200
Speaker 3: these food opinions basically make you undtable for some people.

1887
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:10,840
Speaker 4: Now look, I am a.

1888
01:19:10,880 --> 01:19:13,880
Speaker 3: Firm believer in uh hey, if you want to put

1889
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:16,280
Speaker 3: ketchup on your steak, it's offensive for some people.

1890
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 4: But if that's what you want to do, I support

1891
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 4: it because you like it. It's something you like.

1892
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,640
Speaker 3: And they say in some restaurants if you ask, if

1893
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 3: you ask the staff for ketchup, they'll go ooh no,

1894
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 3: if the chef found out, he would come out and

1895
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:32,320
Speaker 3: slice you in half.

1896
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 5: Of this butcher use, I'm paying for this steak whatever

1897
01:19:34,880 --> 01:19:35,280
Speaker 5: I want on.

1898
01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:40,960
Speaker 3: It, exactly. Yeah. If the if the chef becomes bigger

1899
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:44,040
Speaker 3: than the customer, then that that's a problem in that

1900
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:49,360
Speaker 3: restaurant in my opinion. So they were asking some people

1901
01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:55,559
Speaker 3: about what they find well kind of unattractive at dinner.

1902
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 3: How do you prefer your steak? Well, this person says,

1903
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:04,519
Speaker 3: well done steaks are for mons. If you want your

1904
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,160
Speaker 3: steak well done, in my opinion, you go for it.

1905
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 3: That doesn't offend me.

1906
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 9: Yeah, like hockey puck well done.

1907
01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 3: Well, I know, but if that's what they want do

1908
01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:15,839
Speaker 3: you do you is it really gonna ruin? Okay, Danielle,

1909
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 3: if you were dating Sheldon and you found out he

1910
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:21,600
Speaker 3: likes his steak incinerated hockey puck done, would that be

1911
01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 3: a deal breaker in your row?

1912
01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 4: Okay, I think that's what we're getting to here.

1913
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, here's got to cook it that way for the

1914
01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 5: rest of your life if you stay with them.

1915
01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:36,640
Speaker 3: Okay, it's a pile of carcinogens. I agree, right, all right,

1916
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 3: here's one for Nate. This person, she says cow cow's milk.

1917
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 3: Drinkers like a whole glass of cow's milk and nothing else.

1918
01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:46,880
Speaker 5: No, that is a no.

1919
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 20: No.

1920
01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:52,439
Speaker 4: Nate loves to drink a big frosty glass of milk

1921
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 4: with every meal.

1922
01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:57,679
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, that's wrong. Whoever wrote this is just wrong.

1923
01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 4: Okay, oak is fantastic.

1924
01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 3: I had a glass this morning.

1925
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:05,800
Speaker 9: Not only babies are supposed to drink well, some.

1926
01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:12,600
Speaker 3: Doctors physicians say that drinking cow's milk is only for

1927
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:15,000
Speaker 3: babies because it's what they need to jump start their lives.

1928
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 4: And then once you get to the prime age of four,

1929
01:21:18,400 --> 01:21:19,000
Speaker 4: you could start.

1930
01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:20,760
Speaker 21: Uh.

1931
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:23,960
Speaker 3: This person says deal breaker. Last person I went with

1932
01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 3: said she never gets hungry. For pizza.

1933
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 4: Oh, she never craves pizza, she said.

1934
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:31,320
Speaker 3: And this guy goes on to say, this is our

1935
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 3: first and last date. No, that's okay. Person. Now about sharing,

1936
01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,599
Speaker 3: she says, I would never date someone that wouldn't share

1937
01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 3: their food with me. If you ordered fries, they're our fries.

1938
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:46,200
Speaker 3: But there's something you agree with that, there's something totally

1939
01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 3: If you get your fork near my plate, I will

1940
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:49,800
Speaker 3: take my fork and I will stab your face. Oh

1941
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:50,439
Speaker 3: my gosh, I.

1942
01:21:50,479 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 11: Find that so horrible. I am such a food sharer.

1943
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 11: As soon as I get it, I offer it to

1944
01:21:54,560 --> 01:21:56,799
Speaker 11: other people. And if someone doesn't do the same thing, I'm.

1945
01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 4: Like, who raised you?

1946
01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 10: Oh God, my dad, God rest his soul. When my

1947
01:22:01,520 --> 01:22:03,760
Speaker 10: mom put her fork in his plate once he threw

1948
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:04,360
Speaker 10: the salad.

1949
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:08,320
Speaker 29: Hell like that.

1950
01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 3: Someone who doesn't eat dessert or has convinced themselves that

1951
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:14,679
Speaker 3: they don't like desserts or sweets, are you human?

1952
01:22:15,160 --> 01:22:16,600
Speaker 4: June says, I will not date you.

1953
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:17,840
Speaker 9: I agree.

1954
01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 3: What's scary?

1955
01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:20,800
Speaker 4: Well, I got to eat a lot, as you know,

1956
01:22:21,160 --> 01:22:22,080
Speaker 4: and I do.

1957
01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:25,439
Speaker 3: I eat a lot. Okay. Deal breakers for me are

1958
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 3: if you eat, if you treat.

1959
01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 16: The staff like crap, of course, and people who dumb

1960
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 16: down the dish, don't order buttered macaroni. And meanwhile they

1961
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:35,960
Speaker 16: had the Catchua pepe on the menu and it was

1962
01:22:36,000 --> 01:22:38,200
Speaker 16: all descriptive and beautiful, and you just say.

1963
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 4: No, I just want a plain pasta with butter, But

1964
01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:47,560
Speaker 4: that's what they want. That's me scary. Then, you know what,

1965
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:48,800
Speaker 4: here's my question.

1966
01:22:49,479 --> 01:22:51,479
Speaker 3: I mean, Okay, look, I can see some things can

1967
01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 3: be a little offensive at dinner. But if I want

1968
01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:55,960
Speaker 3: my meal done a certain way, it may be a

1969
01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 3: pain they asked to listen to. It may be asking

1970
01:22:58,080 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 3: for too much of a chef. I get that, But

1971
01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:03,639
Speaker 3: that doesn't make me a total jerk, but it makes

1972
01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 3: you a pain in the ass in life. Then, because

1973
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:07,719
Speaker 3: I read these lives everywhere, Okay, okay.

1974
01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:09,160
Speaker 4: You know what, I kind of see that, all right.

1975
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 9: I can totally see that.

1976
01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:13,439
Speaker 3: Here's someone I couldn't date anyone with a delicate stomach

1977
01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:15,719
Speaker 3: because they wouldn't be able to handle my Mexican food

1978
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:17,559
Speaker 3: that I love to cook. My sister's boyfriend gets sick

1979
01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:20,280
Speaker 3: every time we go to Mexico and she gets super

1980
01:23:20,320 --> 01:23:20,920
Speaker 3: annoyed with it.

1981
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:23,639
Speaker 4: So you got to be able to eat spicy food

1982
01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:26,080
Speaker 4: or you're not in my life.

1983
01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:29,920
Speaker 3: Let's see. Once I went on a coffee date and

1984
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:31,760
Speaker 3: went to put my milk in my iced coffee. She

1985
01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:35,720
Speaker 3: was informed by my date that that's illegal. It's a

1986
01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:38,760
Speaker 3: deal breaker. You can't put milk in. You can put

1987
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 3: milk and coffee, but you know, in Italy and in

1988
01:23:41,800 --> 01:23:44,519
Speaker 3: your some European areas they say, you know, you only

1989
01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:47,160
Speaker 3: have milk in your coffee for breakfast after breakfast time.

1990
01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:53,400
Speaker 3: No cappuccinos. Oh for some people in Italy. Also putting

1991
01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:56,519
Speaker 3: cheese on fish is oh yeah, I've heard that that's

1992
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:57,519
Speaker 3: a big milk yeah, gandhi.

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Speaker 11: So one of the things that is a big deal

1994
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Speaker 11: break for me, and I think Danielle can relate to this.

1995
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Speaker 11: If you ever watch ninety Day Fiance, they're obviously from

1996
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Speaker 11: different cultures, and when one meets the others, typically there's

1997
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Speaker 11: a giant meal involved, and one person is always extremely

1998
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:14,200
Speaker 11: rude about what that food is. If you're rude about

1999
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Speaker 11: another culture's food without even trying it, without even thinking

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Speaker 11: about how much they've put into it, how much effort

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Speaker 11: has gone into this, I find that disgusting. I think

2002
01:24:22,840 --> 01:24:25,120
Speaker 11: it's so awful when people see foign dishes and just

2003
01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:27,479
Speaker 11: immediately ew if you're not gonna try it, don't say

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01:24:27,520 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 11: anything about it, and even if you try it, be

2005
01:24:29,520 --> 01:24:31,759
Speaker 11: polite to the other people. That's horrible.

2006
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Speaker 10: It does it does happen on ninety day fiance every

2007
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:36,680
Speaker 10: time I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Gonna eat that, try it, I can't carry its mouths. Okay, well,

2009
01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:41,720
Speaker 3: you know what you need to eat it, you know,

2010
01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:43,559
Speaker 3: and if you don't like it, and you form an

2011
01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 3: opinion and say, you know, here's why I don't really

2012
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 3: care for curry, then I can buy that. People who

2013
01:24:47,920 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 3: are cheap tippers, goodbye. Anyone who doesn't like cheese, good day, sir.

2014
01:24:52,960 --> 01:24:57,040
Speaker 3: Unless you're lyctose, intolerant, and something you said earlier, I

2015
01:24:57,120 --> 01:24:59,479
Speaker 3: think I think it was scary. If you're rude to servers,

2016
01:24:59,520 --> 01:25:01,720
Speaker 3: Oh my god, my biggest pet peeve, you're out of

2017
01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:02,120
Speaker 3: my life.

2018
01:25:02,160 --> 01:25:02,559
Speaker 32: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: Picky eaters are a turnoff for some people in general.

2020
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 3: Are eating with someone who's eating with someone is a

2021
01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:11,640
Speaker 3: good barometer for personality. This person says, you don't have

2022
01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:14,200
Speaker 3: to like to eat weird things, but if you refuse

2023
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:17,840
Speaker 3: to try and make the decision after trying, you're not

2024
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,680
Speaker 3: an adventurous person and won't like and try new things

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01:25:20,720 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 3: in life as well.

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Speaker 4: You're out of my life, says this person.

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01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:26,759
Speaker 10: Yes, see, I'll try the food, but I can't promise

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Speaker 10: I won't spin.

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01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:28,599
Speaker 11: It across the table.

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Speaker 9: It just happened several times.

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01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:34,000
Speaker 4: Okay, at least that's a very honest opinion.

2032
01:25:34,320 --> 01:25:36,040
Speaker 3: So there's this one guy, and I'm not going to

2033
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:38,640
Speaker 3: give his name, but he was on Hot Chef or

2034
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 3: Best Chef or whatever the show is called, and he

2035
01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 3: does cooking videos with these crazy foods.

2036
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,799
Speaker 4: He does this thing where he'll go to taste the food.

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Speaker 3: He made, and he'll scrape his teeth on the fork

2038
01:25:50,960 --> 01:25:52,599
Speaker 3: as he pulls the fork out of his mouth. Oh,

2039
01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 3: it makes my skin crawl. Stop it. Just use your lips,

2040
01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:01,280
Speaker 3: don't use your teeth on the for you know, you

2041
01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:02,400
Speaker 3: know that sound I'm talking about.

2042
01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:02,680
Speaker 21: Yes?

2043
01:26:02,880 --> 01:26:05,120
Speaker 4: Does anyone have a fork with him right now?

2044
01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:05,880
Speaker 20: Late?

2045
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 28: Oh?

2046
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:09,320
Speaker 3: It drives me nuts.

2047
01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 4: Jennifer Online twenty two.

2048
01:26:12,360 --> 01:26:13,160
Speaker 8: It's true, Jennifer.

2049
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:15,559
Speaker 3: If you're on a date with someone and things pop

2050
01:26:15,680 --> 01:26:17,839
Speaker 3: up at the table that turn you off, it sometimes

2051
01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 3: ends that relationship, doesn't it.

2052
01:26:21,240 --> 01:26:21,479
Speaker 20: Yeah.

2053
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:26,120
Speaker 12: I was just telling Nate that there's a place in

2054
01:26:26,240 --> 01:26:27,840
Speaker 12: New Haven called Lose Lunch.

2055
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 4: What's it called?

2056
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:30,800
Speaker 18: He Lose Lunch?

2057
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:31,160
Speaker 14: Oh?

2058
01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:31,760
Speaker 3: Lose lunch.

2059
01:26:31,760 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 12: Okay, okay, yes, and so he claims to make the

2060
01:26:35,439 --> 01:26:37,760
Speaker 12: first like steam hamburg or they're amazing by the way,

2061
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:41,640
Speaker 12: but if you ask for a ketchup or any other condiments,

2062
01:26:41,920 --> 01:26:42,960
Speaker 12: he will tell you to leave.

2063
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:46,559
Speaker 3: If you want him, he'll tell you to leave. All right, Well, okay,

2064
01:26:47,360 --> 01:26:52,479
Speaker 3: obviously that's his thing. Okay, lose lunch a little drastic, but.

2065
01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:56,800
Speaker 12: No, it's amazing though I'm not bashing him. It's amazing.

2066
01:26:56,920 --> 01:26:58,640
Speaker 12: And if you guys are ever in New Haven, you have.

2067
01:26:58,760 --> 01:26:59,240
Speaker 8: To try it.

2068
01:26:59,720 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 5: And there a lot what he does.

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01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:07,240
Speaker 3: I will, well, look, you know, I bet the Histemburgers

2070
01:27:07,240 --> 01:27:10,920
Speaker 3: are famous actually, but uh and there I hear they're fantastic.

2071
01:27:11,120 --> 01:27:12,880
Speaker 3: But gosh, you know, if someone wants to catch up,

2072
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 3: I don't know. If you're in the if you're in

2073
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:17,560
Speaker 3: the business to make a living, and sometimes you have

2074
01:27:17,680 --> 01:27:20,200
Speaker 3: to bend to what a customer wants. Sometimes you have

2075
01:27:20,280 --> 01:27:22,160
Speaker 3: to bend to what a customer wants. But I guess

2076
01:27:22,160 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 3: he's doing so well that he's fine. Thank you, Jennifer,

2077
01:27:25,080 --> 01:27:27,559
Speaker 3: have a great day, thanks for listening to us. I'm

2078
01:27:27,600 --> 01:27:29,519
Speaker 3: coming up for some clam pie really soon.

2079
01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:35,479
Speaker 22: Yes with you, even though I don't eat it all right.

2080
01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:36,240
Speaker 25: I didn't know.

2081
01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 9: I didn't think Elvis did either.

2082
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:39,040
Speaker 5: I didn't know you like clam pie.

2083
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:40,040
Speaker 4: Okay, thank guys.

2084
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:43,479
Speaker 3: If you want to do the old he's gay, doesn't

2085
01:27:43,520 --> 01:27:46,800
Speaker 3: eat clam jokes. It's wow. Wow, there's a there's a

2086
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:53,519
Speaker 3: new way of being funny than you. Hold one second, Jennifer,

2087
01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:54,360
Speaker 3: thank you for your.

2088
01:27:54,320 --> 01:27:55,400
Speaker 4: Call and I appreciate it.

2089
01:27:55,640 --> 01:27:56,559
Speaker 21: Thank you, guys.

2090
01:27:56,920 --> 01:27:58,360
Speaker 3: Now what we're saying, Danielle, I was.

2091
01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:00,599
Speaker 11: Saying, it's the old way, but it's ill funny.

2092
01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 5: Jesus, Why it's it always just Danielle and I?

2093
01:28:06,000 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 24: Why?

2094
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:09,080
Speaker 3: What are you four years old?

2095
01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:09,479
Speaker 10: Yep?

2096
01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 3: Sometimes Ashley Online twenty four Ashley, you're together with your husband.

2097
01:28:15,840 --> 01:28:17,920
Speaker 3: Obviously he loves you, but there's something you do with

2098
01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:19,760
Speaker 3: your steak that drives him nuts. What is that?

2099
01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:23,080
Speaker 13: I did my steak in ranch dressing?

2100
01:28:23,640 --> 01:28:23,920
Speaker 3: Okay?

2101
01:28:24,000 --> 01:28:26,200
Speaker 12: Oh wow, it's what you want to promise.

2102
01:28:26,280 --> 01:28:26,679
Speaker 20: It's good.

2103
01:28:26,760 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 11: Don't knock it.

2104
01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:29,800
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not.

2105
01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:31,960
Speaker 4: I'm never gonna yuck your youm you know what I'm saying.

2106
01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:35,479
Speaker 3: Where are you from, Ashley, South Georgia?

2107
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:37,320
Speaker 4: Okay, so you're close.

2108
01:28:37,120 --> 01:28:39,760
Speaker 3: To Stek Country down there, and I'm sure there are

2109
01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:41,160
Speaker 3: a lot of people who eat steaks, they have to

2110
01:28:41,240 --> 01:28:43,040
Speaker 3: have it a certain way. It's like up here in

2111
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:44,720
Speaker 3: New York. If you pizza isn't a certain way, then

2112
01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:48,200
Speaker 3: you really are stupid. They hate you. But yeah, you know,

2113
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:50,599
Speaker 3: but I gotta be honest. I'm a little picky about

2114
01:28:50,600 --> 01:28:54,519
Speaker 3: pizza too. If you like breakfast pizza, no, can't do it.

2115
01:28:55,240 --> 01:28:56,519
Speaker 20: What is breakfast pizza?

2116
01:28:56,720 --> 01:28:59,040
Speaker 3: Well, they did put eggs and bacon on it. And also,

2117
01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:02,200
Speaker 3: oh and here's what I'm gonna get my ass kicked

2118
01:29:02,200 --> 01:29:04,760
Speaker 3: for this Hawaiian pizza with pineapple and ham on it.

2119
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:06,280
Speaker 5: I'm with you.

2120
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:13,960
Speaker 3: Speaking speaking of ranch dressing. Actually, a lot of people

2121
01:29:14,000 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 3: love to put ranch dressing on their pizza. And I

2122
01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:18,600
Speaker 3: was and I was like, I'm like, I don't know,

2123
01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:20,680
Speaker 3: and I tried it. I loved it, So you know

2124
01:29:21,080 --> 01:29:21,439
Speaker 3: who am I?

2125
01:29:21,600 --> 01:29:25,439
Speaker 12: Yeah, ranch is just one of those staples you always

2126
01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:26,200
Speaker 12: have to have around.

2127
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:29,360
Speaker 3: Well, don't take it to uh lose lunch in New Haven.

2128
01:29:29,800 --> 01:29:32,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, kicked you right out, all right.

2129
01:29:32,720 --> 01:29:35,400
Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Thank you, Ashley, have a great day,

2130
01:29:35,400 --> 01:29:38,400
Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. Love you more. We love you. Have

2131
01:29:38,479 --> 01:29:40,679
Speaker 3: a great day. There you go, just kind of picky

2132
01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:43,800
Speaker 3: about our foods, but please, please don't use your teeth

2133
01:29:43,880 --> 01:29:46,759
Speaker 3: on the fork as you pull it out of your Yeah, okay,

2134
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Speaker 3: Mother Knows Death.

2135
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2137
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2138
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2139
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Speaker 24: dropping listener stories.

2140
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2141
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2143
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2144
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2145
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:29,480
Speaker 1: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, Elvis Duran in the Morning.

2146
01:30:29,240 --> 01:30:32,840
Speaker 3: Show, what are you driving to have to fall apart?

2147
01:30:32,920 --> 01:30:35,720
Speaker 3: You know our friend Scotty Bee here, the eater of

2148
01:30:35,760 --> 01:30:39,880
Speaker 3: the Big Banana. He says every time every morning he

2149
01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:43,479
Speaker 3: gets into his jeloppy and he prays it starts, and

2150
01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:45,200
Speaker 3: then he praised the wheels don't fall off on the

2151
01:30:45,360 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 3: l ie on that right, and he prays that it's

2152
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:49,960
Speaker 3: gonna start again after he turns off the ignition.

2153
01:30:50,400 --> 01:30:52,840
Speaker 2: I just one morning, I'm gonna call Nate and be like, dude,

2154
01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:54,800
Speaker 2: I can't make it in because the wheel fell off.

2155
01:30:56,479 --> 01:31:00,240
Speaker 3: My question is how many people are driving this that

2156
01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 3: kind of nightmare every single day, Like, at the very least,

2157
01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:06,120
Speaker 3: maybe the check engine LIGHTE is on every day?

2158
01:31:06,479 --> 01:31:07,200
Speaker 25: What is it?

2159
01:31:07,320 --> 01:31:07,719
Speaker 3: Exactly?

2160
01:31:08,160 --> 01:31:08,200
Speaker 37: What?

2161
01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:12,200
Speaker 3: It's a two thousand and five Chevy Tahoe Okay, with

2162
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:14,200
Speaker 3: lots and lots of miles on it, I guess because

2163
01:31:14,200 --> 01:31:15,840
Speaker 3: you're coming in and out of Long Island.

2164
01:31:15,600 --> 01:31:17,640
Speaker 2: And yeah, over one hundred and fifty thousand miles. It's

2165
01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 2: older than my kids. Okay, Well, so he's just waiting.

2166
01:31:23,160 --> 01:31:24,960
Speaker 2: He's waiting for that day where it just dies. It's

2167
01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:27,120
Speaker 2: gonna die, you know that it's on its last leg.

2168
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Speaker 2: So people started calling and texting.

2169
01:31:29,600 --> 01:31:33,000
Speaker 3: So many people are right now as we speak, probably

2170
01:31:33,120 --> 01:31:37,000
Speaker 3: right next to you in traffic. They're driving something that's

2171
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:41,519
Speaker 3: that shouldn't even be street legal. Maybe it just barely

2172
01:31:41,600 --> 01:31:44,120
Speaker 3: started today. You should see all these things people were

2173
01:31:44,120 --> 01:31:44,880
Speaker 3: sending out texts.

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Speaker 11: Have you seen some of these I used to be

2175
01:31:48,320 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 11: one of these people, but yeah, I've seen some of

2176
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:51,799
Speaker 11: the stuff that's going on, and it makes me nervous

2177
01:31:51,840 --> 01:31:53,400
Speaker 11: to even be on the road with anybody.

2178
01:31:53,479 --> 01:31:53,559
Speaker 21: Now.

2179
01:31:53,640 --> 01:31:54,800
Speaker 11: I'm like, oh, you're tireds.

2180
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:55,360
Speaker 4: About to fall off.

2181
01:31:55,439 --> 01:31:56,200
Speaker 3: Oh oh my god.

2182
01:31:57,080 --> 01:31:59,519
Speaker 6: Well, nobody texted in their car has no sway bar,

2183
01:31:59,640 --> 01:32:01,800
Speaker 6: and we're like, what's that. That's the that's basically what

2184
01:32:02,000 --> 01:32:03,760
Speaker 6: keeps your car from swinging then flipping over.

2185
01:32:04,120 --> 01:32:06,320
Speaker 9: Wait, I never even heard of that. What is a

2186
01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:10,040
Speaker 9: swee bar? He just told you that's exactly in the car.

2187
01:32:11,000 --> 01:32:13,000
Speaker 6: It's under in the suspension and he keeps the car

2188
01:32:13,120 --> 01:32:15,720
Speaker 6: going straight instead of starting to flipping over.

2189
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:18,479
Speaker 3: Maybe that's why you've had so many wrecks. You should

2190
01:32:18,479 --> 01:32:19,599
Speaker 3: buy a car with a sway bar.

2191
01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:22,880
Speaker 9: I guess I forgot to do that my next one.

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01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:25,479
Speaker 3: I didn't know the sway bar was an option. Anyway,

2193
01:32:25,880 --> 01:32:27,600
Speaker 3: here's it take. Someone tried to steal my cars. They

2194
01:32:27,640 --> 01:32:29,840
Speaker 3: bashed the window out. Now it's the garbage bag and

2195
01:32:29,920 --> 01:32:33,040
Speaker 3: a rolla duct tape and the steering wheel. Call umn

2196
01:32:33,160 --> 01:32:33,400
Speaker 3: is gone.

2197
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Speaker 4: How could you drive a car without a steering wheel?

2198
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Speaker 3: Call them? That doesn't make sense to me. I can't

2199
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Speaker 3: turn my head because my neck fell off. I have

2200
01:32:41,160 --> 01:32:43,759
Speaker 3: a two thousand and eight Ultima. We put transmission fluid

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Speaker 3: every week, and every week the car acts like it

2202
01:32:46,640 --> 01:32:49,000
Speaker 3: will stall out when idling and intersections when we slow

2203
01:32:49,080 --> 01:32:51,680
Speaker 3: down and two tires are about to blow. That's the

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01:32:51,800 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 3: day they're facing. Someone else in the text it earlier

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01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:56,600
Speaker 3: saying they had to put a new anti freeze in

2206
01:32:56,760 --> 01:33:01,080
Speaker 3: every single day, every day. What does the cost on that?

2207
01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:03,920
Speaker 3: It's more of a gas per gallon?

2208
01:33:04,080 --> 01:33:04,240
Speaker 37: Right?

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Speaker 3: I don't know? God? Yeah, Line twenty is Laura. Let's

2210
01:33:11,840 --> 01:33:13,640
Speaker 3: see if she's still there. She named her.

2211
01:33:13,840 --> 01:33:15,600
Speaker 4: Okay, Hey Laura, how are you.

2212
01:33:17,080 --> 01:33:17,200
Speaker 19: Hi?

2213
01:33:17,400 --> 01:33:17,599
Speaker 20: Good?

2214
01:33:17,680 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 3: How are you guys doing well?

2215
01:33:19,120 --> 01:33:20,639
Speaker 4: Why did you name your car Karen?

2216
01:33:22,400 --> 01:33:28,160
Speaker 26: Because she always freaking needs something from my life. She's

2217
01:33:28,360 --> 01:33:30,160
Speaker 26: always demanding something.

2218
01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:31,240
Speaker 15: Karen.

2219
01:33:31,320 --> 01:33:33,840
Speaker 3: The demanding Karen, your car is asking to speak to

2220
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:36,120
Speaker 3: the manager. Hey, so you took Karen to the shop

2221
01:33:36,200 --> 01:33:38,320
Speaker 3: yesterday because you heard a weird noise.

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01:33:38,439 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 26: Right, yeah, So the weird noise was something that came loose,

2223
01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:46,600
Speaker 26: and the guy at the shop was actually like, but

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01:33:46,800 --> 01:33:49,080
Speaker 26: that's the sound that concerned you. I said, yeah, why

2225
01:33:49,160 --> 01:33:51,720
Speaker 26: is there another sound? And he said, yeah, you have

2226
01:33:51,800 --> 01:33:53,960
Speaker 26: a lot wrong with your car. So he put it

2227
01:33:54,080 --> 01:33:56,400
Speaker 26: up on the lift and showed me that my exhaust

2228
01:33:56,600 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 26: is literally falling off.

2229
01:33:59,240 --> 01:33:59,960
Speaker 35: It's really bad.

2230
01:34:00,360 --> 01:34:02,120
Speaker 26: I'm the one with the sway bar that's missing.

2231
01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:03,680
Speaker 23: No.

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01:34:05,360 --> 01:34:08,000
Speaker 3: Froggy says that without a sway bar. You're probably gonna

2233
01:34:08,040 --> 01:34:10,200
Speaker 3: just fall off a bridge at some point.

2234
01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:11,080
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

2235
01:34:12,479 --> 01:34:12,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2236
01:34:12,880 --> 01:34:15,320
Speaker 26: So I asked him, I said, is that really dangerous

2237
01:34:15,400 --> 01:34:17,280
Speaker 26: for me to be driving without the sway bar?

2238
01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:19,479
Speaker 11: And he was like, well, apparently you have been for

2239
01:34:19,600 --> 01:34:20,000
Speaker 11: a while.

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Speaker 13: So we're gonna get We're gonna get that thing.

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01:34:28,560 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 3: Okay, is there anything on the car that does work?

2242
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:35,360
Speaker 3: I mean, like winschle wipers and and like you the

2243
01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:36,679
Speaker 3: wiper fluid thing.

2244
01:34:38,400 --> 01:34:41,960
Speaker 26: So well, the fluid thing is a little broken. So

2245
01:34:42,120 --> 01:34:44,400
Speaker 26: when I spray my winchleed wiper fluid, it just goes

2246
01:34:44,600 --> 01:34:45,840
Speaker 26: right over the hood of the car.

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01:34:50,160 --> 01:34:52,040
Speaker 4: So, now, how much longer do you think?

2248
01:34:52,360 --> 01:34:54,120
Speaker 3: How much longer do you think she has in her

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01:34:54,200 --> 01:34:56,320
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, at what point do you do

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01:34:56,439 --> 01:34:56,920
Speaker 3: you give up?

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01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:00,599
Speaker 26: He gave me a week to get it all things.

2252
01:35:00,840 --> 01:35:02,439
Speaker 26: He said, if you don't come back within a week,

2253
01:35:02,520 --> 01:35:05,040
Speaker 26: then you're you're going to be in trouble when you're

2254
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 26: on the road. So you need to make sure that

2255
01:35:06,439 --> 01:35:07,439
Speaker 26: you got this fixed quickly.

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01:35:08,560 --> 01:35:10,160
Speaker 3: Would please do us a favorite?

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01:35:10,160 --> 01:35:11,599
Speaker 26: And we're going to get this fixed within the next

2258
01:35:11,680 --> 01:35:12,080
Speaker 26: couple day.

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01:35:12,479 --> 01:35:14,920
Speaker 3: Okay, Laura, do us a favorite. When it's fixed, will

2260
01:35:14,920 --> 01:35:16,840
Speaker 3: you call us and let us know you're okay. Please.

2261
01:35:18,120 --> 01:35:19,760
Speaker 19: Oh well, it's so good to talk to you.

2262
01:35:19,880 --> 01:35:20,080
Speaker 27: Guys.

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01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:22,439
Speaker 3: Thank you, it's good to talk to you. But we're worried.

2264
01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:25,840
Speaker 3: We're very, very concerned about you. Right, okay, thank you,

2265
01:35:25,960 --> 01:35:28,320
Speaker 3: Thank you, Laura, I have a safe day. I ask

2266
01:35:28,360 --> 01:35:30,240
Speaker 3: a friend to give you a ride. A line twenty

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01:35:30,280 --> 01:35:33,120
Speaker 3: one is Bonnie? Now, Bonnie like the rest of us,

2268
01:35:33,240 --> 01:35:35,160
Speaker 3: you know, you look down and that check engine light

2269
01:35:35,280 --> 01:35:37,280
Speaker 3: is on. It's like, okay, I'll get to it right

2270
01:35:37,920 --> 01:35:42,760
Speaker 3: YouTube forever? Yep. Yeah, So tell us what happened. Take

2271
01:35:42,840 --> 01:35:45,120
Speaker 3: us back to the first moment you saw the check

2272
01:35:45,160 --> 01:35:46,839
Speaker 3: engine light on, and then what happened?

2273
01:35:48,120 --> 01:35:49,800
Speaker 21: My check engine light is on?

2274
01:35:50,439 --> 01:35:52,439
Speaker 3: So I just kind of look the other way for

2275
01:35:52,520 --> 01:35:52,920
Speaker 3: a while.

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01:35:53,280 --> 01:35:56,320
Speaker 35: Then I turned my car on one day and apparently.

2277
01:35:56,000 --> 01:35:59,599
Speaker 20: My car fixed itself. The check engine light is lost there.

2278
01:35:59,520 --> 01:36:02,040
Speaker 5: You or maybe the bull burned out.

2279
01:36:04,479 --> 01:36:05,880
Speaker 11: She has an amazing car.

2280
01:36:06,439 --> 01:36:08,880
Speaker 3: Well that's a miracle. That's a good old fashioned miracle

2281
01:36:08,960 --> 01:36:11,960
Speaker 3: right there. Well, so you're just so you never knew

2282
01:36:12,000 --> 01:36:13,960
Speaker 3: why the check engine light was on at all.

2283
01:36:15,040 --> 01:36:18,360
Speaker 20: Nope, I'm still driving it now. My amazing car fixed itself.

2284
01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:20,240
Speaker 20: Check every time it's still on.

2285
01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 25: I don't know.

2286
01:36:22,680 --> 01:36:22,960
Speaker 29: I don't know.

2287
01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:25,639
Speaker 3: If my check engine light went off, I would assume, okay,

2288
01:36:26,120 --> 01:36:28,280
Speaker 3: some fluid found out where it needed to go and

2289
01:36:28,360 --> 01:36:31,759
Speaker 3: it found its way. That's what we don't I agree, all.

2290
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:34,920
Speaker 6: Right, cars don't fix themselves. What happens is probably the

2291
01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:35,720
Speaker 6: bull burned out.

2292
01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:36,880
Speaker 8: That was something like that.

2293
01:36:37,000 --> 01:36:39,519
Speaker 3: All right, you have the censor fried. All right, Well,

2294
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:41,000
Speaker 3: good luck with that, Bonnie. Let us know what it

2295
01:36:41,040 --> 01:36:43,040
Speaker 3: comes back on, because it may come on today. Maybe

2296
01:36:43,080 --> 01:36:43,479
Speaker 3: you'd never know.

2297
01:36:43,960 --> 01:36:46,320
Speaker 11: Oh, dear God, thank you guys, I love you all.

2298
01:36:46,600 --> 01:36:50,759
Speaker 3: Thank you. Bonnie. On line twenty four, is Alyssa my favorite? Hey, Alyssa,

2299
01:36:50,800 --> 01:36:52,439
Speaker 3: how are you good?

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01:36:53,120 --> 01:36:53,680
Speaker 4: My favorite thing?

2301
01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:56,600
Speaker 3: I heard Nate pick up your call? Uh while the

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01:36:56,640 --> 01:36:58,639
Speaker 3: song was playing, and I go and he goes, hey,

2303
01:36:58,760 --> 01:37:04,000
Speaker 3: So tell me about your Chevy and Paula. And I

2304
01:37:04,600 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 3: knew we were going to talk to you. What is

2305
01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:07,679
Speaker 3: going on with your Chevy and Paula?

2306
01:37:08,479 --> 01:37:08,799
Speaker 20: Okay?

2307
01:37:08,920 --> 01:37:10,799
Speaker 19: So at the two thousand and eight Chevy.

2308
01:37:10,640 --> 01:37:15,400
Speaker 29: And Paula and it has like things in miles right now.

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01:37:15,800 --> 01:37:18,960
Speaker 29: My husband bought it just before reading each other. It's

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01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:22,080
Speaker 29: like back in and eight with like twenty thousand miles

2311
01:37:22,120 --> 01:37:24,479
Speaker 29: on it. So he hasn't driven all of those miles,

2312
01:37:25,400 --> 01:37:28,679
Speaker 29: and the very first few years he lived in Florida,

2313
01:37:28,800 --> 01:37:31,519
Speaker 29: so the body is into in really good shape because

2314
01:37:31,520 --> 01:37:32,720
Speaker 29: he never had to deal with the salt for like

2315
01:37:32,800 --> 01:37:35,400
Speaker 29: the first five or six years of his life. But

2316
01:37:35,760 --> 01:37:39,600
Speaker 29: he moved up to Illinois. But so now when you

2317
01:37:39,880 --> 01:37:42,840
Speaker 29: about forty miles an hour's a stake and then.

2318
01:37:42,920 --> 01:37:44,680
Speaker 3: Ship wait hold on, let me I'm writing this down.

2319
01:37:44,760 --> 01:37:45,240
Speaker 3: I'm riding this.

2320
01:37:45,479 --> 01:37:47,479
Speaker 4: He starts shaking at forty miles per hour.

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01:37:48,400 --> 01:37:49,120
Speaker 3: Oh okay, you.

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01:37:49,200 --> 01:37:52,439
Speaker 29: Had about like fifty or fifty five. It starts to

2323
01:37:52,680 --> 01:37:55,240
Speaker 29: the back out and then you don't want to go

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01:37:55,360 --> 01:37:57,000
Speaker 29: over sixty five miles an hour.

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01:37:57,160 --> 01:37:59,599
Speaker 3: That's okay, Okay, let me get this straight in case

2326
01:37:59,600 --> 01:38:01,960
Speaker 3: I have to orrow your Chevy and Paula, Alissa, it's

2327
01:38:02,040 --> 01:38:05,519
Speaker 3: gonna start shaking right around forty, but it levels out

2328
01:38:05,600 --> 01:38:08,200
Speaker 3: right around fifty five. So between forty and fifty five

2329
01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:12,360
Speaker 3: that's like a sweet spot of just vibration. And so

2330
01:38:12,600 --> 01:38:14,840
Speaker 3: fifty five is as probably as fast as you want

2331
01:38:14,880 --> 01:38:17,960
Speaker 3: me to drive your own Paula, right sixty five about

2332
01:38:17,960 --> 01:38:22,120
Speaker 3: the limit, okay, So I have a sweet spot between

2333
01:38:22,160 --> 01:38:25,759
Speaker 3: fifty five and sixty. So right in there's Okay, no shaky.

2334
01:38:25,960 --> 01:38:27,920
Speaker 3: Now are you planning on getting rid of your Chevy

2335
01:38:27,960 --> 01:38:30,880
Speaker 3: and Paula with over three hundred thousand miles anytime? Okay,

2336
01:38:31,520 --> 01:38:32,280
Speaker 3: keep it rolling.

2337
01:38:34,200 --> 01:38:38,200
Speaker 29: It's funny because even like the ignition, my husband can

2338
01:38:38,479 --> 01:38:40,439
Speaker 29: get in the car and start it right away. I

2339
01:38:40,640 --> 01:38:42,640
Speaker 29: have to sit there and like shake the key and

2340
01:38:42,720 --> 01:38:45,000
Speaker 29: try to like wiggle it because I think it kind

2341
01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:47,479
Speaker 29: of stunk at some point like within the if you

2342
01:38:47,520 --> 01:38:47,960
Speaker 29: sit there and.

2343
01:38:47,960 --> 01:38:49,600
Speaker 30: Wiggle it and wigle it, I do it, and I

2344
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:50,360
Speaker 30: do it, and I want.

2345
01:38:50,200 --> 01:38:51,160
Speaker 21: To do it, I know.

2346
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:53,760
Speaker 3: But you know what, we gotta we gotta give her

2347
01:38:53,800 --> 01:38:55,760
Speaker 3: some credit. She still gets you where you need to go,

2348
01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:57,479
Speaker 3: and she still starts if you just give her a

2349
01:38:57,520 --> 01:38:58,280
Speaker 3: little wiggle, you know.

2350
01:38:58,880 --> 01:38:59,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, best of law.

2351
01:39:00,200 --> 01:39:03,280
Speaker 3: Just be safe on the roads, okay, promise. Oh all right,

2352
01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:05,559
Speaker 3: thanks for listening to us. A Line twenty two is Ali.

2353
01:39:06,120 --> 01:39:08,680
Speaker 3: She has a two thousand and seven Honda Odyssey with

2354
01:39:08,840 --> 01:39:11,559
Speaker 3: one hundred and seventy three thousand miles on it. Ali,

2355
01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:12,320
Speaker 3: how's she rolling?

2356
01:39:13,320 --> 01:39:13,439
Speaker 33: Uh?

2357
01:39:13,840 --> 01:39:14,000
Speaker 37: You know?

2358
01:39:14,160 --> 01:39:15,680
Speaker 20: I mean it gets me a point A to point B.

2359
01:39:16,080 --> 01:39:17,639
Speaker 9: So can't complain too much.

2360
01:39:17,880 --> 01:39:19,479
Speaker 4: Right, Like, what's the problem?

2361
01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:23,160
Speaker 33: Well, so you know, one time I was driving on

2362
01:39:23,240 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 33: the highway and the automatic flighting door it just kind

2363
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:28,920
Speaker 33: of flew open and no real reason. I don't really

2364
01:39:29,000 --> 01:39:29,840
Speaker 33: know what happened there.

2365
01:39:30,720 --> 01:39:31,720
Speaker 20: Of course, my son was in.

2366
01:39:31,760 --> 01:39:33,160
Speaker 3: The car in his car seat.

2367
01:39:33,160 --> 01:39:34,439
Speaker 9: He's like, MoMA, door open.

2368
01:39:34,560 --> 01:39:37,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, oh, oh my god.

2369
01:39:38,160 --> 01:39:41,800
Speaker 33: So yeah, that was that was not great. And then actually,

2370
01:39:41,880 --> 01:39:44,280
Speaker 33: my favorite thing though, is so I got in twenty

2371
01:39:44,400 --> 01:39:47,920
Speaker 33: seven and twenty seventeen, this little alert popped up on

2372
01:39:48,040 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 33: my GPS. So that said, I'm ten years old, it's

2373
01:39:50,439 --> 01:39:53,280
Speaker 33: time to buy a new car, and I should have listened.

2374
01:39:53,680 --> 01:39:54,360
Speaker 26: Are you serious?

2375
01:39:54,439 --> 01:39:56,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, I'm read of that.

2376
01:39:56,479 --> 01:39:58,639
Speaker 33: I'm trying to find the photo to send to you guys,

2377
01:39:58,680 --> 01:40:00,519
Speaker 33: because I have it, and I because I saw it

2378
01:40:00,560 --> 01:40:01,959
Speaker 33: and I was in total displace.

2379
01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:04,479
Speaker 3: I would love to see that your car is actually

2380
01:40:04,520 --> 01:40:12,120
Speaker 3: saying just just kill me, just kill me. Oh my god.

2381
01:40:12,160 --> 01:40:13,799
Speaker 3: All right, we'll best of luck with that. Ali.

2382
01:40:14,080 --> 01:40:16,880
Speaker 4: When your car is begging for mercy, you know you

2383
01:40:17,000 --> 01:40:17,719
Speaker 4: got a problem.

2384
01:40:18,080 --> 01:40:18,320
Speaker 8: Yeah.

2385
01:40:18,600 --> 01:40:20,599
Speaker 3: Anyway, there you go, the two thousand and seven Honda

2386
01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:22,759
Speaker 3: Odyssey where the door just flew open on the highway

2387
01:40:22,880 --> 01:40:26,280
Speaker 3: and her son in the car seat almost perished. All right, Well,

2388
01:40:26,680 --> 01:40:28,719
Speaker 3: thanks for listening to us, Ali, you have a great day, Okay,

2389
01:40:29,760 --> 01:40:30,960
Speaker 3: who chooses to get up.

2390
01:40:30,920 --> 01:40:32,519
Speaker 6: At this morning?

2391
01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:45,479
Speaker 1: Elvis ter Ran in the Morning Show. Elvis ter Oran

2392
01:40:45,720 --> 01:40:46,639
Speaker 1: in the Morning Show.

2393
01:40:47,640 --> 01:40:50,080
Speaker 4: Hey, I don't know if you follow We see you

2394
01:40:50,280 --> 01:40:52,080
Speaker 4: Karen on Instagram?

2395
01:40:53,960 --> 01:40:57,519
Speaker 3: I know I do, we see you Karen. Oh, here's

2396
01:40:57,560 --> 01:41:00,760
Speaker 3: this lady on the bicycle. I have a right ride

2397
01:41:00,800 --> 01:41:02,960
Speaker 3: my bike on this street. Like you just yelling at

2398
01:41:03,000 --> 01:41:05,760
Speaker 3: the guy driving the car, you know, please? The thing

2399
01:41:05,880 --> 01:41:08,200
Speaker 3: is the guy driving the car. He's sure head that

2400
01:41:08,520 --> 01:41:11,800
Speaker 3: camera up really fast, yep to catch her. Sometimes do

2401
01:41:11,880 --> 01:41:15,720
Speaker 3: you wonder if these Karen videos are which one is

2402
01:41:15,760 --> 01:41:16,400
Speaker 3: the Karen here?

2403
01:41:16,960 --> 01:41:17,160
Speaker 33: Yes?

2404
01:41:17,840 --> 01:41:20,080
Speaker 3: Look, a lot of times they do catch people doing

2405
01:41:20,240 --> 01:41:23,200
Speaker 3: heinous things like going into fast food restaurants and throwing

2406
01:41:23,280 --> 01:41:25,759
Speaker 3: trays and throwing a fit. And you know I deserve

2407
01:41:25,800 --> 01:41:29,479
Speaker 3: to be I get that. But sometimes do you feel

2408
01:41:29,600 --> 01:41:33,040
Speaker 3: that having that camera roll up into your face makes

2409
01:41:33,080 --> 01:41:34,960
Speaker 3: a situation ten times worse?

2410
01:41:35,200 --> 01:41:35,599
Speaker 27: Of course?

2411
01:41:35,640 --> 01:41:36,600
Speaker 11: Absolutely?

2412
01:41:36,920 --> 01:41:38,960
Speaker 10: At Eggs, John, totally, I wonder.

2413
01:41:39,840 --> 01:41:42,040
Speaker 3: I mean, I've never had a camera like thrust into

2414
01:41:42,080 --> 01:41:45,160
Speaker 3: my face. I guess I don't not yet anyway, But

2415
01:41:46,360 --> 01:41:50,040
Speaker 3: the Karen videos, I don't know. Then it always goes

2416
01:41:50,080 --> 01:41:53,200
Speaker 3: up for debate. People posting, and a lot of times

2417
01:41:53,240 --> 01:41:56,000
Speaker 3: they side with the person who's being recorded and not

2418
01:41:56,160 --> 01:41:58,160
Speaker 3: the person who decided to turn them in.

2419
01:41:58,520 --> 01:42:02,000
Speaker 10: And sometimes I think people egg people on just so

2420
01:42:02,120 --> 01:42:04,280
Speaker 10: they can get a video. Like there was one video

2421
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:07,120
Speaker 10: where the guy chased this woman down in his car,

2422
01:42:07,680 --> 01:42:10,400
Speaker 10: went on sidewalks and kept following her. I'm like, there's

2423
01:42:10,479 --> 01:42:12,400
Speaker 10: really no need to keep doing this, but he was

2424
01:42:12,479 --> 01:42:14,880
Speaker 10: recording and he had a great video, so you know,

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Speaker 10: he was just kept going.

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01:42:17,080 --> 01:42:19,320
Speaker 3: Tell you what, it's a tricky thing, these videos. There

2427
01:42:19,400 --> 01:42:23,800
Speaker 3: have been so many situations in our society where people

2428
01:42:23,960 --> 01:42:27,840
Speaker 3: being wronged would never have been vindicated ever, if someone

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01:42:27,880 --> 01:42:30,360
Speaker 3: had not been there to record it right without doubt.

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01:42:30,400 --> 01:42:33,920
Speaker 3: I mean, we're talking about people losing their lives. We're

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01:42:33,960 --> 01:42:37,800
Speaker 3: also talking about people who see someone doing something a

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01:42:37,840 --> 01:42:40,920
Speaker 3: little jankity, then they whip out that camera and it

2433
01:42:41,200 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 3: automatically is multiplied by dozens of times of intensity. The

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01:42:48,000 --> 01:42:51,400
Speaker 3: level of intensity multiplies to the point where it doesn't

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01:42:51,400 --> 01:42:54,599
Speaker 3: make sense anymore. You know, have you guys ever caught

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01:42:54,640 --> 01:42:58,000
Speaker 3: anyone doing something on camera just to kind of try

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01:42:58,040 --> 01:43:01,040
Speaker 3: to froggy did? Remember what'd you get from?

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Speaker 32: Yeah?

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01:43:01,840 --> 01:43:05,280
Speaker 6: Remember the lady that she tried to she tried to

2440
01:43:05,320 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 6: raw a liquor store and she got it. She took

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01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:10,800
Speaker 6: money out of the liquor store and took out and

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01:43:11,000 --> 01:43:12,640
Speaker 6: they got her in the parking lot and blocked her.

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01:43:12,640 --> 01:43:14,000
Speaker 5: I recorded the whole thing.

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01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:17,519
Speaker 6: But at the same time, when you're doing stuff like that, you,

2445
01:43:18,040 --> 01:43:20,080
Speaker 6: like you said, sometimes they side with the other person,

2446
01:43:20,120 --> 01:43:22,080
Speaker 6: like why didn't you just leave her alone? Like so

2447
01:43:22,640 --> 01:43:24,360
Speaker 6: there really is no upside to it. But you see

2448
01:43:24,400 --> 01:43:27,400
Speaker 6: people doing stuff sometimes and then I think taking out

2449
01:43:27,439 --> 01:43:30,360
Speaker 6: the phone exacerbates the situations that.

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01:43:31,120 --> 01:43:34,439
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, but like I said, you know, you draw

2451
01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:36,080
Speaker 3: the line where there are things that do need to

2452
01:43:36,160 --> 01:43:39,639
Speaker 3: be caught, and we do have the power of video,

2453
01:43:39,800 --> 01:43:42,200
Speaker 3: so we can catch these people. So if you know,

2454
01:43:42,280 --> 01:43:44,640
Speaker 3: God forbid they hurt someone or kill someone, they are

2455
01:43:44,680 --> 01:43:47,160
Speaker 3: caught doing it and we got them. But you know,

2456
01:43:47,400 --> 01:43:51,479
Speaker 3: just you know, being a turd in public, I mean,

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01:43:52,320 --> 01:43:54,120
Speaker 3: I mean, you know what I'm saying, Yes, Producer.

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01:43:53,880 --> 01:43:56,280
Speaker 31: Sam, there are definitely those occasions where, like you're saying,

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01:43:56,360 --> 01:43:59,639
Speaker 31: someone kind of needs to be held accountable through the video,

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01:43:59,840 --> 01:44:01,879
Speaker 31: But there are other people I think who fool themselves

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01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:05,080
Speaker 31: into thinking they're helping just by recording. And there's a

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01:44:05,120 --> 01:44:06,800
Speaker 31: lot of situations where if you really feel like you

2463
01:44:06,920 --> 01:44:10,080
Speaker 31: need to help someone and nothing's actually dangerous, you could

2464
01:44:10,160 --> 01:44:12,760
Speaker 31: just like step in and say something instead of just

2465
01:44:12,840 --> 01:44:14,960
Speaker 31: pulling out your phone and staring at the person like

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01:44:15,040 --> 01:44:16,960
Speaker 31: I've done that. A woman was getting her assd and

2467
01:44:17,080 --> 01:44:18,680
Speaker 31: a couple of us went up to her instead of

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01:44:18,760 --> 01:44:20,160
Speaker 31: just recording it and watching it happen.

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01:44:20,840 --> 01:44:23,040
Speaker 3: How fast can you can you whip your phone out

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01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:23,679
Speaker 3: and start videoing?

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01:44:23,760 --> 01:44:28,200
Speaker 4: Let's see one fast, two, three, four, and you're on here.

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01:44:28,240 --> 01:44:31,400
Speaker 3: It took you five seconds to whip it out? Crazy now, no, gandhi,

2473
01:44:31,439 --> 01:44:33,080
Speaker 3: can you get it? Can you? Can you pull yours

2474
01:44:33,120 --> 01:44:34,880
Speaker 3: out of the holster faster and start recording?

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01:44:35,439 --> 01:44:37,800
Speaker 11: Bam, mine's usually in a pocket, Let's go.

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01:44:38,320 --> 01:44:38,519
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:44:39,000 --> 01:44:41,479
Speaker 11: But I agree, and I totally agree with what Sam said,

2478
01:44:41,640 --> 01:44:44,160
Speaker 11: And I definitely think that it makes a situation worse

2479
01:44:44,200 --> 01:44:46,400
Speaker 11: when you bust that camera out, And I wish people

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01:44:46,439 --> 01:44:50,400
Speaker 11: would understand sometimes people are having a mental breakdown when

2481
01:44:50,439 --> 01:44:52,959
Speaker 11: this stuff is happening. Recording it is not helping the situation.

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01:44:53,160 --> 01:44:54,960
Speaker 11: I know that there are situations where it needs to

2483
01:44:55,000 --> 01:44:57,080
Speaker 11: be handled that way, but when you post it for likes,

2484
01:44:57,120 --> 01:44:59,880
Speaker 11: it's kind of disgusting. And when you see somebody trying

2485
01:44:59,880 --> 01:45:02,680
Speaker 11: to you walk away from a situation. Let them go,

2486
01:45:03,360 --> 01:45:05,120
Speaker 11: Let people walk away. You don't know what's going to

2487
01:45:05,160 --> 01:45:05,920
Speaker 11: happen if you follow.

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01:45:06,520 --> 01:45:08,920
Speaker 3: Scary's afraid of whip his cameraun because he's afraid he's

2489
01:45:09,040 --> 01:45:11,120
Speaker 3: going to become a target. They're gonna come after him.

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01:45:11,160 --> 01:45:12,760
Speaker 16: Yeah, all of a sudden, if they see some a

2491
01:45:12,840 --> 01:45:14,720
Speaker 16: third party, you know, just whip out their phone and

2492
01:45:14,760 --> 01:45:17,680
Speaker 16: start recording. They may come after me because they know

2493
01:45:17,920 --> 01:45:19,320
Speaker 16: the consequences.

2494
01:45:18,720 --> 01:45:19,759
Speaker 3: If that ends up online.

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01:45:19,840 --> 01:45:20,439
Speaker 8: That is true.

2496
01:45:20,800 --> 01:45:22,360
Speaker 3: I don't want to be part of that. I walk away.

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01:45:22,400 --> 01:45:22,760
Speaker 3: There you go.

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01:45:22,880 --> 01:45:24,200
Speaker 4: It's a whole new world we're living in.

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01:45:24,560 --> 01:45:27,000
Speaker 11: Scary turns us back on the whole thing, leaves everyone

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01:45:27,080 --> 01:45:28,280
Speaker 11: to die exactly.

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01:45:30,520 --> 01:45:36,960
Speaker 3: People are on your own now, don't call me anyway.

2502
01:45:37,080 --> 01:45:42,320
Speaker 3: There you go. So that's why when you watch all

2503
01:45:42,400 --> 01:45:44,400
Speaker 3: these Karen's being called out in public, are you really

2504
01:45:44,760 --> 01:45:47,040
Speaker 3: being a part of the problem or not? I don't know,

2505
01:45:47,479 --> 01:45:48,439
Speaker 3: just a just a tho.

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01:45:49,600 --> 01:45:52,479
Speaker 1: This is Elvis Da ran in the morning show.

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01:45:55,360 --> 01:45:57,760
Speaker 3: All right, shows done, let's get out of here until

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01:45:57,920 --> 01:46:00,919
Speaker 3: next time. Say peace out, everybody, he said, everybody