Speaker 1: What's up this lift service?
Speaker 2: I mean Angela yee, I'm Gg maguire, I'm your girl,
Speaker 2: just Pam and it's your girl Millennie.
Speaker 1: All right.
Speaker 2: Well, as you can see, just Pam is guest hosting
Speaker 2: today with me and Gig and we have chick Lit
Speaker 2: and Millennie here. Thank you so much for having us.
Speaker 2: I'm excited to be you.
Speaker 3: Yay.
Speaker 2: I had you guys on way up when I first started,
Speaker 2: like early on, it was your year aniversary already.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Just casulation, how y'all? Like in reality TV they're on
Speaker 2: the Impact New York and it's SIT's new.
Speaker 4: It's like it's like a completely different thing than like
Speaker 4: on social media, you know.
Speaker 2: But it's exciting. What's your folks? She was like taking over,
Speaker 2: it's about Millennie. So I get that because the women
Speaker 2: are the ones who are the center of it.
Speaker 1: But you're on there a couple of times, real quick
Speaker 1: in and out.
Speaker 2: Not helping her do her scenes. Yeah, not helping her
Speaker 2: with her acting.
Speaker 1: Yes, she need to get somebody else for that.
Speaker 2: I'm crying, get somebody else to do it.
Speaker 1: Get somebody she's working so I'll be at home alone
Speaker 1: and stuff. She was doing that so I was kind
Speaker 1: of jealous.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that topic came up that you know, you're a
Speaker 2: little jealous. Yeah, but that's very vulnerable to admit that.
Speaker 1: Right, Yes, not jealous when it comes to like other
Speaker 1: men and so, but.
Speaker 2: You're jealous of like not having the time. Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: what it is.
Speaker 4: And in my head I'll be thinking like, oh, he's
Speaker 4: just he's jealous of my career, but he's jealous about
Speaker 4: me not spending time.
Speaker 1: And then she said that to me. I was tighty
Speaker 1: like what.
Speaker 2: They They were like, No, maybe I am a little
Speaker 2: jealous of, you know, you having other stuff.
Speaker 1: I really don't like doing much, so she and I
Speaker 1: have to work as often. I was like, I'm not
Speaker 1: really jealous of that.
Speaker 5: As a couple of y'all are together, y'all spend time together,
Speaker 5: y'all make y'all skits, and y'all work together. So I
Speaker 5: can see how when she goes off to do something
Speaker 5: on her own, you kind of like, what.
Speaker 2: Am I going to do?
Speaker 1: Well? The problem was the jealous part, because I could
Speaker 1: agree with the word jealous. I'm like, there's no other
Speaker 1: word for it. Was stuff that I'd be trying to
Speaker 1: get Melane to do she would give me resistance and
Speaker 1: stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Give us an example.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be specific because it was like I like,
Speaker 1: I like doing the content. That's more my thing. I
Speaker 1: like doing that, and like, yo, we got to be
Speaker 1: up at this time and today's Tuesday. We used to
Speaker 1: shoot on a specific day, and she'll be like with
Speaker 1: an attitude.
Speaker 2: The attitude thing.
Speaker 4: He'd be giving me attitude too, and then he'd be
Speaker 4: surprised when I give him atitude.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was it was at the time, that's
Speaker 1: what it is.
Speaker 4: But I would I would like wake up a little
Speaker 4: later because I know it's our ship, and I'll like,
Speaker 4: I'll take my time getting ready, you know a post.
Speaker 2: From like shooting, Like we shooting. It's like a team.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I need to be on time, like
Speaker 2: I make sure i'm professional.
Speaker 4: But for him, he's if he's not ready, I'm not ready.
Speaker 4: If the way he's moving, I'm moving.
Speaker 2: But he's like.
Speaker 4: Relying on me to be like that same, what's the
Speaker 4: world I'm talking about? Like pinning point, No.
Speaker 1: Don't look at me. We don't got to tell us
Speaker 1: tell us prompt?
Speaker 2: Okay, is it prompt? Maybe? No, it's another word point point.
Speaker 1: I think that's what she's going with, like.
Speaker 2: Well, we go on point. But it is to sometimes
Speaker 2: the dynamics of a relationship change because when you meet you,
Speaker 2: guys have a certain like you're doing this, I'm doing this,
Speaker 2: but doing these things together. But things do evolve and
Speaker 2: change and it takes an adjustment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was fine with the change. I was just
Speaker 1: when I was being vocal about it, she was like,
Speaker 1: that's not what's happening. And that's when I find I
Speaker 1: kind of started feeling neglected and stuff like so you're
Speaker 1: telling me you're not here, like, oh, you haven't been
Speaker 1: around off and you'd be like, yes, I have. I'm like,
Speaker 1: he's around for ten minutes. That's enough for me.
Speaker 2: Hours in the morning. I get home at ten, like
Speaker 2: that's enough time.
Speaker 1: I wake up earlier, so and she stays up later,
Speaker 1: so I'm in bed by the time she gets her energy,
Speaker 1: and when I have my energy, she's in bad So what.
Speaker 2: About instead it's somebody more cold and somebody likes a hat,
Speaker 2: Like what's that like? Because I know sometimes that could
Speaker 2: be tough to.
Speaker 1: We good on that dough. I like it cold though
Speaker 1: he likes it cold, but she does not got.
Speaker 2: Used to it, but I've got my blankets and stuff,
Speaker 2: and I just be cozy in now. Do y'all cut
Speaker 2: on all night or no?
Speaker 1: I don't like don't like to sleep, no, but before sleep,
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 2: I do like to throw my leg on the Okay,
Speaker 2: that's cute.
Speaker 1: I don't like that because she sleeps on the what
Speaker 1: would you call it a quilte quilt? Yeah, and you
Speaker 1: know they really warm the comfort so you hot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like right now, I think it's cute too, like
Speaker 2: you have something touching like your feet or something there.
Speaker 2: You know. I want to live in man's hurt because
Speaker 2: I was laying right here, scoot over next to me
Speaker 2: while playing TikTok mad loud, and I'm trying to sleep.
Speaker 1: Like It's so.
Speaker 6: Funny because y'all sound like like vice versa, like like
Speaker 6: he and Yang.
Speaker 3: He's not like the fief like normal stuff. That female
Speaker 3: not a comfortable like whatever.
Speaker 1: Exactly what it is. I'm like the like, I don't
Speaker 1: like that. Don't judge me.
Speaker 2: We like it. We're crying about how having been home. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but think if you would help up with her lines,
Speaker 2: that's more time you guys could spend together.
Speaker 1: But it's fun. It is fun. We do it now. Yeah, okay, good,
Speaker 1: glad we got through that one.
Speaker 2: And I gotta say I didn't see what happened, but
Speaker 2: I saw our little trailer of somebody wouldn't speak to
Speaker 2: you on the show.
Speaker 3: Oh that was Cleo.
Speaker 1: She wasn't talking to you.
Speaker 2: She had a back to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna have to stay tuned to find out why.
Speaker 4: That's a nice episode of what happened. I would saying
Speaker 4: about and she ain't acknowledged me.
Speaker 2: Why, Yeah, this air already by the time you listen
Speaker 2: to me.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, why you don't find out until No,
Speaker 4: not even I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Well win, but it's not all in
Speaker 2: the same one. Well, let me ask you this because
Speaker 2: Cleo has you know, she's been having some issues with
Speaker 2: things that have been happening, right, So I want to
Speaker 2: get everybody's opinion on what you think about this because
Speaker 2: Chinese Kitty has a stylist and Cleo and the stylists
Speaker 2: don't get along. Because I guess he was hired to
Speaker 2: do a job. She feels like he didn't do the
Speaker 2: job properly she paid him, so now she's got beef
Speaker 2: like until but Chinese Kitty, that's her people, and so
Speaker 2: she brings him around, but Cleo does not, you know,
Speaker 2: like that, So what do you think about that, like
Speaker 2: in real life?
Speaker 4: In real life, I definitely understand Clio's especially because you
Speaker 4: set that boundary, and like, I not get it. It's
Speaker 4: kind of like a weird place to be because that's
Speaker 4: like someone having a problem with Like I'm not gonna
Speaker 4: not bring him around because you have a problem with him,
Speaker 4: you know. So I definitely understand that. But if i'm
Speaker 4: if I want these two people around in the same
Speaker 4: room without any issues, then me I would try to
Speaker 4: mend the situation so that both parties are happy and
Speaker 4: like hold people accountable on where they are wrong.
Speaker 2: But let me ask you that since you said it, now,
Speaker 2: let's just say somebody had a problem with Chickilate, right,
Speaker 2: would you then have a problem with that person? Is
Speaker 2: it okay to be cool with somebody who don't like
Speaker 2: your man, your fiance?
Speaker 4: See, I'm a gray area kind of girl. It's the
Speaker 4: circumstances I'm because, I mean, we've been together for a while,
Speaker 4: so there's definitely moments where I don't agree with the
Speaker 4: way he does. Certain things, so I'll tell him like, Yo,
Speaker 4: I didn't like that you did this. You're wrong in
Speaker 4: this aspect.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So that's the type of person I am, you know regard,
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna be here and be like, yo, that's
Speaker 4: my man. I don't give a damn what he did
Speaker 4: to you. No, no, because I'm not doing you any favor.
Speaker 2: But would you feel away if he was cool with
Speaker 2: somebody that you didn't like?
Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't feel no way if I have no If
Speaker 4: if I have an issue with somebody, I'm not gonna
Speaker 4: make it like I can't be around them. I'm not
Speaker 4: gonna do that. I'm just I'm just gonna we're just
Speaker 4: not gonna be best friends.
Speaker 2: You would have put them around? What do you think, Giji?
Speaker 2: Would you be cool with somebody that if you were
Speaker 2: dating someone? I am not.
Speaker 5: Again, it's the case by K scenario, but I am
Speaker 5: not okay with my significant other being friends with somebody
Speaker 5: that I'm not friends with.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my man would be like, yeah, we don't mess
Speaker 2: with them exactly. And he personally, I am very.
Speaker 5: I'm very understanding, I'm very forgiving, I'm very like, I
Speaker 5: get it right. So if I really don't like somebody,
Speaker 5: they really had to do something terribly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that because I did have a
Speaker 2: situation like that, and like the reason that he didn't
Speaker 2: like somebody was super like, it wasn't even that big
Speaker 2: a deal, and so I was able to, you know,
Speaker 2: go somewhere and have it be like dude. But if
Speaker 2: it was something major, like or somebody did something really.
Speaker 1: Bad, I can see it.
Speaker 2: But if it's just something stupid, it's like, get over it.
Speaker 4: It's definitely the gray area, like depending on what happened
Speaker 4: once the circumstances.
Speaker 5: Now with this instance with Cleo and the stylist, if
Speaker 5: Chinese Kitty knows that it's an issue, you know she's
Speaker 5: going to bring them around. Maybe she should facilitate a
Speaker 5: space for them to be able to try to, you know,
Speaker 5: so just so that it doesn't make everybody else uncomfortable,
Speaker 5: because you know how it is when you know two
Speaker 5: people don't like each other and everybody like looking at
Speaker 5: each other each other and everybody, so we don't want
Speaker 5: to create an awkward atmosphere. I would, you know, in
Speaker 5: my if it was me, then you know I would
Speaker 5: try to just like you said, mend the situation, figure
Speaker 5: out a way for them to get over it.
Speaker 2: Because I will say for clear, it's good that she
Speaker 2: is vocal about how she feels. She don't hide it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I love that about it.
Speaker 4: She transparent. She wears her emotion on her face, on
Speaker 4: her and her.
Speaker 2: Boy and she will say it. And I like to yeh,
Speaker 2: she's transparent, she's real.
Speaker 4: She's not going hod who she is because she's trying
Speaker 4: to make you feel better about your feelings.
Speaker 2: Like now, Pam, let's get to this because Valentine's Day
Speaker 2: right is coming up? Doesn't matter to y'all, like to
Speaker 2: everybody in this room, Pam, does Valentine's Day matter to you?
Speaker 2: Do you have expectations? No? Why you ain't got no
Speaker 2: expectations because you've been disappointed? No?
Speaker 6: Because my Valentine at the time, at this time, like
Speaker 6: he like loved me hard every day and he go
Speaker 6: hard every day, So the day really don't mean it
Speaker 6: like when we first met, it matter.
Speaker 1: But now I'd be like I made a video about that, watch.
Speaker 5: Every day Valentine to make it where I got it?
Speaker 1: You get it?
Speaker 2: Do you do anything for him?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 3: I used to?
Speaker 6: But it was like the same thing like I guess
Speaker 6: at the point we was like trying to prove to
Speaker 6: each other like I love you, I love you more.
Speaker 2: But now.
Speaker 1: We see all like we locked in.
Speaker 2: I love that. I'm about to just get in this
Speaker 2: press to watch a movie. Aye, come on, now, I.
Speaker 7: Know I'm unofficially official official and unofficially official, so.
Speaker 1: Well what it doesn't matter to you.
Speaker 5: So I'm single right now, So all of them run
Speaker 5: it up? Am I?
Speaker 6: So?
Speaker 2: Am I expecting anything?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I'm not. Will I be happy if something pops up? Absolutely?
Speaker 2: You know, like what would be nice for you? If
Speaker 2: you could say, if somebody was like, what do you
Speaker 2: want for Valentine's Day? A wire wire five digits? Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, that's really nice. That would be great.
Speaker 5: I mean if you said, if anything, you know, I mean,
Speaker 5: I want to go, you know, not want to be realistic.
Speaker 1: I want to be realistic.
Speaker 5: A five digit wire transfer would make me really happy.
Speaker 5: I'm also, I mean, I know it's a little bit
Speaker 5: too late because this is airing well no, it's airing
Speaker 5: the day before, so yeah, just in case, I'm also
Speaker 5: a size window seat in Delta first class.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and one if you're.
Speaker 5: Really feeling if you're really feeling like you want to
Speaker 5: do something.
Speaker 3: Listen and spirit, So everybody want to book me on
Speaker 3: a in the middle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, where are we going? The words of the relationship.
Speaker 5: I definitely am that that affectionate, lovey dovey girls.
Speaker 2: So I've done Valentine's Day.
Speaker 5: I've sent flowers to my guys job before, and I
Speaker 5: was surprised my significant other with like the lingerie and
Speaker 5: the dinner meat and that I've.
Speaker 2: Never sent a guy flowers. The weird sent almost crying.
Speaker 2: He was so yeah with the dollar bills with flowers.
Speaker 5: It was flowers and chocolate and the teddy bear, and
Speaker 5: he was so excited it was and it was like
Speaker 5: not even like two hundred dollars, but it was just
Speaker 5: the fact that there was a thought.
Speaker 2: He was so so guys like flowers. No, he appreciated
Speaker 2: the gestion. Try I goten flowers once and what happened?
Speaker 2: What do you think? You know, what did you think
Speaker 2: when I got you to me for all?
Speaker 1: Give him back, give me the flowers and put them
Speaker 1: in the vase. But that's for you, Yeah, that's for you.
Speaker 2: They're gonna live right here on the which I appreciated.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she likes them.
Speaker 3: No, but do you like him?
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: I still flowers to this guy job.
Speaker 6: He called me like, Bro, I know you ain't just sit.
Speaker 6: I was like, no, it was like a chocolate strubber.
Speaker 2: Was it Valentine's Day or just like Valentine?
Speaker 1: He was hot, Wow, don't bring him.
Speaker 2: All thought it was a cute work like, who's bitch
Speaker 2: of you?
Speaker 3: I thought it was so cute.
Speaker 1: Nobody ever did that before.
Speaker 2: And that's why bro again, And then you said lingerie.
Speaker 2: Do you like when MILLENNI where's lingerie?
Speaker 1: If she does? Yeah, but at the time, by the
Speaker 1: time she puts it on, I'll be tired at like
Speaker 1: five pm. That's great, beautiful love. She'd be like, I'm
Speaker 1: put on lingerie to night. I'll be there way and excited,
Speaker 1: get in the shower, and she did decided to start
Speaker 1: mopping and cleaning.
Speaker 5: Nights are always a surprise because I'm like teaming, no pennies.
Speaker 5: I'm already just straight to from close to straight Newds,
Speaker 5: so there's no you know that laund Yeah, but like
Speaker 5: I'll do like the wrap dress or like the trench coat.
Speaker 2: And then I've never done the trench coat. Yeah, I've
Speaker 2: done that. The trench me and like, no, I gotta go.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm about to come downstairs and some bullshit.
Speaker 1: It's about.
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know what now that we're talking
Speaker 2: about this, I felt like I don't look nice around
Speaker 2: the house. Really, my hair be all messed up. I
Speaker 2: don't like I just be slepping around.
Speaker 1: That doesn't matter. You put the naked. That's what he
Speaker 1: told me.
Speaker 4: I used to like to do the lingerie. We'll want
Speaker 4: to do it. But he was like, I don't give
Speaker 4: a damn about you doing the lingerery. And I was like,
Speaker 4: all right, you don't give a fun.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do it, especially that's gonna take another hour.
Speaker 1: That's like an hour to put it. Put it on
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: I gotta do the She got to make sure the
Speaker 2: house is clean.
Speaker 1: She got to take it out the draw forget she
Speaker 1: took it out and remember ship I found it.
Speaker 2: So you can't put on lingerie in a dirty house.
Speaker 2: Got to clean the house. Whatever best you wear actual
Speaker 2: pajamas in your house or do you have on like
Speaker 2: a T shirt and sweats or what do you do
Speaker 2: in the house?
Speaker 1: Me like shorts and a T shirt.
Speaker 2: So you don't have official pajamas.
Speaker 1: Yeah, pajamas too, but that's like that's probably like my lingerado.
Speaker 1: I'll put it on. She likes that ship, so sometimes
Speaker 1: I put the jam on today myself.
Speaker 2: That's like, you really get me a good clone. Okay
Speaker 2: what you're wearing.
Speaker 1: I like wearing pajamas, but it's just really be like
Speaker 1: going to sleep early, shower and then really just go
Speaker 1: straight to bed, so there would be no point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you ever wake him up for sex since
Speaker 2: he goes early?
Speaker 4: No, he's a cranky waker upper cranky. I'm not you
Speaker 4: know what it is? Yeah, think no funny, want some showered?
Speaker 4: I really don't want to do anything. That's the time
Speaker 4: you went to No, I'm a morning person when.
Speaker 1: It comes to morning eleven so morning. Yeah, not that
Speaker 1: I be up cranky because she'd be trying to shed
Speaker 1: just be like you want some poom poom. You just
Speaker 1: try to just do something. And I woke up fine.
Speaker 8: She didn't telling me like, hey, do you want to.
Speaker 2: In case? Because no funny.
Speaker 4: If I'm like tired's all right, yeah, a wait for
Speaker 4: another day.
Speaker 3: Ain't trying to catch a charge or not.
Speaker 5: I don't have a penis, but I can probably say that.
Speaker 5: No man is going to say no, they don't want
Speaker 5: to do it.
Speaker 4: Sometimes he'd be like, I'm talry, like, but maybe maybe
Speaker 4: it's because I'm doing the you.
Speaker 1: Want boom boom doing stuff.
Speaker 3: If you just.
Speaker 1: Come like you want something, but I gotta walk the
Speaker 1: dog first, and then I got it. I'm good.
Speaker 5: That can say I don't do all of that stuff
Speaker 5: first and then be like, okay, let's get to it.
Speaker 2: But I don't get dish washer. Why are you doing
Speaker 2: your choice? You think about what you're about the world.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll be like two o'clock.
Speaker 3: Who's more spontaneous.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I know that. Yeah, so I wouldn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess on the phone. You can't win that about
Speaker 1: the fall, I'm not.
Speaker 2: Now, let's get this engagement ring for a second. So
Speaker 2: tell us the meaning behind because it's not a traditional
Speaker 2: you know jam So tell us about that.
Speaker 1: Tell them about she wanted a color drink.
Speaker 2: So I got ahead of time.
Speaker 4: I said to him, I sent him an example of
Speaker 4: a stone like this, and I completely forgot about it.
Speaker 1: But when she asked me what does it mean, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what.
Speaker 2: When we first started, like within the first year.
Speaker 4: I wanted this tattoo to symbolize our relationship, and it
Speaker 4: was this blue, like I kind of wanted to be
Speaker 4: like a cloud of color on me blue, okay, And
Speaker 4: I never ended up getting it because I wasn't sure
Speaker 4: where I wanted it. And then so I kind of
Speaker 4: feel like, that's the blue tattoo that I always wanted,
Speaker 4: my little cloud.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 5: I call it kind of ring the Monopoly ring because
Speaker 5: it looked like if you when you play Monopoly, the ring,
Speaker 5: the way the diamond sits like, okay, in the prong.
Speaker 2: I don't know any where your diamond sits in the prong,
Speaker 2: your gym sits in the prong like.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to, but the way it
Speaker 5: sits like that, that's how like if you google like
Speaker 5: the Monopoly ring, that's what it looked like. I always
Speaker 5: said that I would want my I would want my
Speaker 5: engagement ring to look like that.
Speaker 2: I don't want to Halo. I don't want a bunch
Speaker 2: of extra I just don't want and just you would
Speaker 2: have definitely told me to go to So I was like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I told him to go to Greg. You bro, yeah
Speaker 2: right there he makes some ship him. Are you gonna
Speaker 2: go to when you guys get married?
Speaker 1: Yeah, M like like that no flowers to I think.
Speaker 1: I think I want to ring with kind of like
Speaker 1: like a simple one with like a little stone in it.
Speaker 1: That's that color like that I like a little.
Speaker 2: A little sizzle was in Applebee's Real Quick. Okay, So
Speaker 2: now let's talk about your podcast, right. You guys just
Speaker 2: recently were talking about virtual sex a VR sex, and
Speaker 2: I was talking about a brothel they have like the
Speaker 2: first ever brothel, virtual brothel, Yeah, where basically they have
Speaker 2: like a like a I don't want to call it
Speaker 2: a dummy, what do you call it, like a like
Speaker 2: a fake woman, you know, yeah, kind of like a
Speaker 2: blow up, but I think it's more fleshy.
Speaker 1: Yeah you're talking about right.
Speaker 2: And so you path but then it's like a whole experience,
Speaker 2: a VR experience, so you get to like have sex
Speaker 2: and before. Yeah, so it's like a new thing that's
Speaker 2: going on. So you don't think it's cheating and Millenna,
Speaker 2: you think it is cheating.
Speaker 1: Wait, but that one was wild though. That's like doll
Speaker 1: in front of them console this video of the day
Speaker 1: of it's like you hold it by the side and
Speaker 1: it pumps you right, and you can put your phone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can put your phone on it. I'm like, that's
Speaker 1: cheating for sure.
Speaker 2: And then yeah, and then they can like text the
Speaker 2: text you. They do like this thing where they can
Speaker 2: send you text messages.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild, and that's that's too much, especially if
Speaker 1: I get like, if I'm doing that and she walks
Speaker 1: in on me, I'm gonna feel like I got caught.
Speaker 2: With AI.
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely that I consider cheating. I'm like, she ain't
Speaker 1: have to walk the dog.
Speaker 2: I will say, you guys had a whole conversation about it,
Speaker 2: and I was thinking about so MILLENNI is like a vibrator.
Speaker 2: Is that cheating in that case? It's just not attached
Speaker 2: to you know.
Speaker 4: What it is about the VR is that it looks
Speaker 4: you're like, it's the first person, like a first person
Speaker 4: perspective of you fucking somebody, regardless that you're doing the action,
Speaker 4: but you're like virtually fucking somebody else.
Speaker 2: It's really kind of like using your imagination.
Speaker 1: That's what I see.
Speaker 2: But that's what I said too.
Speaker 4: So I'm like, so when you like, do you be
Speaker 4: imagining me or you imagine if somebody.
Speaker 2: And then you said, you imagine it's somebody.
Speaker 8: Think about got you you cheating fall I'm.
Speaker 1: Not thinking about me stuff like that. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: so you're still with me even though I'm cheating in
Speaker 1: your mind. Somebodys we'll go cheat.
Speaker 2: Say that said, you might as well just go ahead
Speaker 2: and cheat with like a real person if you're gonna
Speaker 2: get in trouble.
Speaker 1: For cheating anyway.
Speaker 2: But then I'm an logic we call that.
Speaker 4: But it's dias because I asked him, like, yo, what
Speaker 4: if so if I think about, like me having sex
Speaker 4: with thor, is that cheated?
Speaker 1: I said you you say yes? I said yes.
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, let me ask you this because you know,
Speaker 2: I watched nance What if MILLENNI what right? What if
Speaker 2: her ex gave her some like, gave her some money
Speaker 2: and she just took it? Is that cheating?
Speaker 1: No if? He said for both of us.
Speaker 2: It was alone? Yeah, random alone.
Speaker 5: But he just was like he's tlexed him for some
Speaker 5: money to borrow my crazy. He asked him to borrow
Speaker 5: two thousand dollars and I gave it to her.
Speaker 1: And then and then.
Speaker 5: When she was like, well, I want to even back
Speaker 5: and he was like, no, it's a gift. Is a
Speaker 5: wedding gift? As crazy as they.
Speaker 1: Got to be more than that? Not even I texted
Speaker 1: asked the money is nuts.
Speaker 2: Well, they're still friends. My ex has to be more
Speaker 2: wealthier than in order for me to ask for money.
Speaker 2: He needs to be struggling in order for me to
Speaker 2: ask for money. All right, I'm.
Speaker 1: Struggling now, whoever was if you.
Speaker 2: Had hit me up? Let me ask the lady here.
Speaker 2: If you're with somebody and you and your ex offers
Speaker 2: to give you some money because you got some things
Speaker 2: going on?
Speaker 1: Is that cheating as friends? There was already friends though,
Speaker 1: but I know.
Speaker 2: That, Well she'll tell you.
Speaker 1: She'll tell me after she got the money. Like that's crazy. No, no,
Speaker 1: you can't, you can't do it.
Speaker 5: She will have to be upfront friendship and work like
Speaker 5: that before then. I mean, technically I probably is cheating
Speaker 5: except a monetary gift from an ex. But again, like,
Speaker 5: clearly my man ain't got it. If I'm going to
Speaker 5: somebody else to get it, we need.
Speaker 1: It so heartbreaking? Wait, your ex.
Speaker 2: Would be for what Milenni's like, I'm going to do
Speaker 2: my feet on only fans with that with that, he'd
Speaker 2: be trying to get me to do that ship.
Speaker 1: It's just feet. I don't see the sexual because you.
Speaker 2: Could probably just get you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't want to do I'm not doing it.
Speaker 4: I'm like, it's a whole separate account where they don't
Speaker 4: know it's my feet.
Speaker 2: They got to know what's yours, that's you know what
Speaker 2: it is because I know what they're using it for.
Speaker 2: And I didn't stand by. I didn't think.
Speaker 1: I can't stand like, I know what you.
Speaker 6: Are okay with their woman doing a lot of guys,
Speaker 6: all the men they're like, yeah, put your feet on it.
Speaker 1: That are not like sexually attracted to feet, fine with
Speaker 1: it because like I don't see it. You don't like video,
Speaker 1: not like to get on never Maybe it's like a joke.
Speaker 2: I'm really a basic bitch.
Speaker 1: I think we got a couple, you know. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you had dirty already. Some things you gotta do, buddy.
Speaker 2: After you get married. What are you guys gonna try
Speaker 2: different in the bedroom anything? But you got engage. You
Speaker 2: said you was gonna eat ass.
Speaker 1: I'm with that show with it though that's a little ticklish.
Speaker 4: I'm okay show with whatever she is, though, I think
Speaker 4: I'm definitely put the I'm gonna do what you said.
Speaker 4: I'm a surprise spontaneity, you know, pick him up and
Speaker 4: put him on the counter.
Speaker 2: She didn't like that.
Speaker 4: Today, treat him like a woman want to be treated,
Speaker 4: and I bet you he's gonna be happy.
Speaker 1: What about it?
Speaker 2: Like, do you ever do any like slapping or anything
Speaker 2: like that?
Speaker 1: And you'll get a.
Speaker 8: Little basic if you watch this, we're doing a little bit,
Speaker 8: a little slap grab like up here right?
Speaker 1: What about your family like that?
Speaker 2: I like to get I don't like to be slapped.
Speaker 3: If you told me to do something, it's different. I
Speaker 3: can't be like going there and watching.
Speaker 1: Just like like that.
Speaker 6: It's like a thing like if you tap tap, flap,
Speaker 6: slap is different.
Speaker 3: It's not a moment.
Speaker 1: So different. When she let though, she be letting a lot.
Speaker 2: Of you get away with a lot when you're in
Speaker 2: the moment and it's over now. For the past years, if.
Speaker 1: She let, I be like, no, I'm good. I've always
Speaker 1: been like that. I don't find that it's not appealing.
Speaker 1: One time birthday, No, it wasn't my birthday. Different one
Speaker 1: time birthday, She's like right here. She threw us over
Speaker 1: on the floors, walked through the crib. She's like, right here,
Speaker 1: fuck me on the carpet. And I was like you
Speaker 1: a little you a little drunk for you that wasn't
Speaker 1: that drunk.
Speaker 2: I had to politely to climb right now.
Speaker 1: She was like, no, we're not doing this. I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, let's go.
Speaker 2: I got mad, like some spontaneity that was in the car. Yeah,
Speaker 2: there was this was like in the beginning.
Speaker 1: I was like lit.
Speaker 2: It was in the car and we're just making out
Speaker 2: in the back seat, but my boobs is coming out
Speaker 2: my shirt and he's under.
Speaker 1: Took them away.
Speaker 2: He's underneath me fixing my shirt.
Speaker 1: O my guy before me like anything. It wasn't even
Speaker 1: a relationship. Yeah, she was lit, and I watching it.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Ship is very sophisticating right now.
Speaker 5: Now.
Speaker 1: This is especially when I'm in shure to get for this,
Speaker 1: I'd be having an excuse, so I had I broke
Speaker 1: this for when I was like seventeen, so I'd be
Speaker 1: like lifting it and put it up here. The rest he's.
Speaker 2: Sitting like somebody who put your titties away.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never really was into that like if I'm
Speaker 1: sober or you're not even in your if she was
Speaker 1: like that soberly, like and she was making those moves soberly.
Speaker 1: But when you have that in your system and now
Speaker 1: you're acting different. She never done that before, Like, she's
Speaker 1: never I don't even think. I think we probably kissed
Speaker 1: once before that. Damn. Now for the fact that she
Speaker 1: was doing all that, I was like, she's definitely she was.
Speaker 1: She was lit. She had fell asleep right before this
Speaker 1: in the Pizza Rea bathroom. There was a line, so
Speaker 1: I knew she was going out of her mind. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah.
Speaker 2: The fact that she's yeah, most be like, yes, bitch.
Speaker 1: It's never if I was lit, then it's different because
Speaker 1: we're both stupid being aware And.
Speaker 2: Do you tell him no? Oh, it feels like he's
Speaker 2: always you know what ago it's when she asked you
Speaker 2: when she gets in bed late, and you're.
Speaker 1: Like, some boom boom, she should have did chat already.
Speaker 2: He woke me up for this.
Speaker 1: To tell me I might get it to you.
Speaker 5: I might you know, there might be some boom boom
Speaker 5: for you later. That's like a mom like if you
Speaker 5: be good, you'll get dessert.
Speaker 1: Tonight should do something like that, and they'd be like,
Speaker 1: all are we getting started and then letting me know
Speaker 1: and then start popping my pimpoos. I'm like, damn, oh
Speaker 1: my god, pulling out ingrowns and ship I'm like.
Speaker 2: This, this is not sexy. It's not sexy time.
Speaker 1: And she had kind of confused, like, wait, why is
Speaker 1: it going.
Speaker 2: Down so clearly she's aggrestles.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she shopped it. I don't know about aggressive.
Speaker 2: Funny, man, that's hilarious.
Speaker 1: It's so funny.
Speaker 2: It's great. It seems like you have really complimented about it.
Speaker 1: It's funny. I like it. Like she do this dance too,
Speaker 1: She goes, you want some boom boom?
Speaker 2: It was the dance that she about to get the.
Speaker 1: Work. He was like that dance.
Speaker 3: You know you can't ever call it poom boom after today, right,
Speaker 3: you know it's over right, you got to call it that.
Speaker 2: Now. Do you have a name for your penis?
Speaker 1: No? No, no more? What did I used to name?
Speaker 1: He's not the same? No more. We can't know what
Speaker 1: you used to call your delilah? The Lilah? Right? And
Speaker 1: then I don't know if I ever had a name.
Speaker 1: No more.
Speaker 2: We did, but I just can't remember it.
Speaker 1: You tease, And I felt like it was like a general.
Speaker 2: Or something like something like that. Wow, but maybe it wasn't.
Speaker 1: Not Daniel ship. General Yeah does not.
Speaker 2: Like in the in the in the like in the
Speaker 2: sense of like something having like stature at attention. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's not the general. But I thought we named.
Speaker 1: This right now.
Speaker 2: General assurance.
Speaker 1: Is way too powerful for.
Speaker 2: Network bat Yeah, oh my god, I remember the last
Speaker 2: time he insinuated sex.
Speaker 4: It's been me lately, but that's because I'm so flip floppy.
Speaker 4: Sometimes I would like push he he wants it at
Speaker 4: the most random times, and I'm soddy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she'd just.
Speaker 4: So I'm like running, I'm like doing things in the house,
Speaker 4: and then he'll try to make a move and I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm get them my way to unload the dishes.
Speaker 2: Maybe y'all just set appointment.
Speaker 1: Like hate it, No, I don't, because it.
Speaker 2: Seems like, you know, maybe it's like at least once
Speaker 2: a week, you'll have an appointment that, no matter what's
Speaker 2: going on, we're gonna have moves around a lot.
Speaker 5: You're like in the middle of you ready to go
Speaker 5: load the dishwasher where he come up behind you and
Speaker 5: start rubbing all that ass you just supposed to.
Speaker 2: The dishes can.
Speaker 1: Wait, That's what I said. I said, you can't every.
Speaker 2: Single time, but everyone just be there.
Speaker 4: I think that yesterday though, I cut my chores short,
Speaker 4: so I cont you in the role.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I cut my chores should be wild like that,
Speaker 8: like the dishwashing is between like you gotta walk past
Speaker 8: and then she she'll funk with it like today she
Speaker 8: did it.
Speaker 1: She opened the frustations like you like that. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: she wants to boopoo again. And I was like, She's like,
Speaker 1: you do right, and then she starts eating. She goes
Speaker 1: start changing the chair.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you what I've been talking about chores
Speaker 2: a lot, But what are some things that are your
Speaker 2: responsibilities in the house? And what are some things that
Speaker 2: are your responsibilities in the house?
Speaker 1: Hers is everything.
Speaker 2: That's why she'd be tired.
Speaker 1: But she likes doing everything. Like I'm saying, like that
Speaker 1: shipped to me that don't like like this, right, that's
Speaker 1: not a mess to me organized, She'll start cleaning that ship,
Speaker 1: put in.
Speaker 2: The bottles I throw.
Speaker 1: I like doing stuff in the morning.
Speaker 2: Okay, I got it.
Speaker 1: Like the trages that night she wanted done, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: i'll do. I wake up way before you I could
Speaker 1: get it out. You're gonna be sleep while that's there, right,
Speaker 1: So I throw it out in the morning and I
Speaker 1: washed dishes and dishes there.
Speaker 2: Okay, you watched dishes.
Speaker 1: You're useful. Yeah, I watched. This is one. I stopped
Speaker 1: though a little watough because I washed them and put
Speaker 1: them on the We don't have like space for a
Speaker 1: dish rack, so there's a stove right next to the city.
Speaker 1: Put on the stove to dry. It's electric, so you know, you.
Speaker 4: Put that shirt on the stove and leaves put them
Speaker 4: in a dish wash away.
Speaker 2: You know, I washed all my dishes before I put
Speaker 2: him in the dishwasher too. It's crazy, but wash wash,
Speaker 2: I really wash them like I wash them so they're clean,
Speaker 2: and then I still put them in a dish washing electricity.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 4: I got the best little pause. I ain't washed my
Speaker 4: I ain't wrist them at all. I made a blue
Speaker 4: cheese sauce, I made a ranch. I put all the
Speaker 4: things that I use in the dishwashing with it.
Speaker 2: I'm just this clean.
Speaker 1: And she was like to do it twice because she
Speaker 1: thought it was.
Speaker 2: And why you didn't rink the off? I didn't need to.
Speaker 2: Why would I frint the off when they when the
Speaker 2: dishwasher did his, y'all, but they did say you were
Speaker 2: supposed to at least rinse them off. I'm gonna have
Speaker 2: to go with chickling on this, wash washed. Okay.
Speaker 1: So what's so?
Speaker 2: You take out the gary base every now and then
Speaker 2: you wash dishes, do laundry.
Speaker 1: I do my own, Okay, I don't do both of them.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that. I do not like nobody to do
Speaker 2: my lunch because there be things you gotta hang dry,
Speaker 2: and guys don't do that. They don't care like they
Speaker 2: put in the dry. He cares, Okay, you're drying and
Speaker 2: all that, and you don't get.
Speaker 1: I get.
Speaker 2: That's the reason he started.
Speaker 1: My mom my mama's boy wash her do stuff the
Speaker 1: way she do everything, you know. So I kind of
Speaker 1: picked that up, be like that. I didn't always watch
Speaker 1: my we'll send out clothes to get washed. I don't
Speaker 1: doing it, We'll just send it. But they kept coming
Speaker 1: I like wearing white teas and kept coming back like
Speaker 1: stains and ship So I'm like, let me try this
Speaker 1: myself and try to It's the sober ship though for
Speaker 1: me too. That's when I started doing more stuff. I
Speaker 1: was bored, Like what do I do now that I
Speaker 1: don't drink.
Speaker 2: Time?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally like what it is though. I work
Speaker 1: out now I do laundry.
Speaker 2: And now let me ask you guys, if we were
Speaker 2: reading this article about humor and relationships, does humor ever
Speaker 2: hurt your relationship?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, this motherfucker sometimes he jokes too much, and I'd
Speaker 4: be like, yo, chill every now and then we'll get it.
Speaker 2: We'll do a little you know, flaming each other just
Speaker 2: for fun.
Speaker 4: And then he starts dying and he starts laughing at
Speaker 4: his own jokes, and.
Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, relax, cut it out.
Speaker 4: And he has to throw in a little two more
Speaker 4: jokes and now little dumb and I'm like, Noah, now
Speaker 4: you're pissing me off.
Speaker 2: Now you're pissing me.
Speaker 5: Off, because sometimes human could be mean and we don't
Speaker 5: think about like as you're China, but I'm.
Speaker 2: Saying that's what it is. Sometimes it is mean. And
Speaker 2: Pam your a comedian.
Speaker 6: Yes, and so it's my best friend. He so hes
Speaker 6: like the king of roasting. You have like a roast
Speaker 6: championship crying and he has no chill. Yesterday, we was
Speaker 6: watching the super Bowl and I tripped over the hookah.
Speaker 2: You'll have the house.
Speaker 6: So I tripped over the hookah and he was like, whoa, whoa, whoa,
Speaker 6: We're all about to be in Vegas if you.
Speaker 2: Say the damn this ship.
Speaker 3: Oh like, and I can't go back and forth because
Speaker 3: I know he's gonna go.
Speaker 6: I say one thing and he'd be like, that's one I.
Speaker 2: Want.
Speaker 4: I throw my one in and I'm like, all right,
Speaker 4: that said, that's what I.
Speaker 1: Want to keep going with this. You don't like the house.
Speaker 1: I'm not really a hookah person here.
Speaker 2: This is funny to me because some people bring hookah everywhere,
Speaker 2: but not anymore. I used to like people have their
Speaker 2: own hookahs. I remember I went on vacation with somebody
Speaker 2: once and they brought their own hookah and it actually
Speaker 2: made their luggage get like stopped and everything. If you
Speaker 2: do it through, if you check it in, not check
Speaker 2: it in if you do sa yeah, yes, because the
Speaker 2: colds are flammable.
Speaker 1: Probably the other ones the circle ships.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm not really like a big hooka person.
Speaker 2: I don't know, how does it make how does it
Speaker 2: make you feel like this?
Speaker 7: Who?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I used to go a lot. I used to
Speaker 5: have my own who guys to travel with hooka and
Speaker 5: all of that.
Speaker 1: Literally every since I stopped, I be doing hookah and
Speaker 1: I take that first hit, they'd be like what.
Speaker 2: A little A little like.
Speaker 1: I think it's more of just signed for me to
Speaker 1: do though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, people have like a they called an oil like
Speaker 2: because I'm like, this is who could do anything? Because
Speaker 2: that's like I'm like that with we a lot of weed.
Speaker 2: But I really just be wanting to smoke. You know,
Speaker 2: I've been here for.
Speaker 5: The vib.
Speaker 2: Just chilling.
Speaker 1: I like it when I don't smoke either. She has
Speaker 1: what she actually?
Speaker 2: Have you ever gotten so high that you were like
Speaker 2: praying to come down?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Man, I've had some strips one time, he had. I
Speaker 2: did a I took an edible the night before and
Speaker 2: it was like a ten dollar nerves rope, but I
Speaker 2: didn't feel it. Like I took one third of it
Speaker 2: and I didn't feel it. So I was like, oh
Speaker 2: that ship was a trash ass nerves rope.
Speaker 4: The next day, I go hang out with a friend
Speaker 4: and were about to do some errands, like we do
Speaker 4: errands and get high, and so she said, you want
Speaker 4: to do some edible and I was like A So
Speaker 4: I take another piece of.
Speaker 2: Nerves rope another third, and that shit hit me. In
Speaker 2: like two seconds. Everything was probably in that spot, pacing
Speaker 2: back and forth.
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, I feel this. I don't know what's
Speaker 1: going on.
Speaker 2: She's like, I don't even feel my I was like,
Speaker 2: am I that much of a crackhead?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't know, but this ship.
Speaker 2: I pick up a box and I'm like, Yoda is heavy.
Speaker 2: This is heavy, girl.
Speaker 1: She's like she picks it up.
Speaker 2: She's like, no, it's not.
Speaker 4: I help her move to bring stuff downstairs. I'm hyperventilaining.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I get in the car. I'm about to
Speaker 4: put it in drive to put to pop a U turn.
Speaker 4: I look at her and I said, I ain't going nowhere,
Speaker 4: you yo.
Speaker 1: I was too hot.
Speaker 2: I felt like I was in a spaceship.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 4: I was like, she wanted to go get me like
Speaker 4: some a sandwich at the store something and get some ava.
Speaker 4: And a car left the parking spot, and I said,
Speaker 4: you know what I can do I can put this
Speaker 4: ship in park right now.
Speaker 1: That's what I can do. I put it in park.
Speaker 1: I called them. I said, yo, babe, I fucked up.
Speaker 1: He's looking at you like because he warned me. He
Speaker 1: had wanted me to stop doing so much edible because.
Speaker 2: You never know how it's gonna hit.
Speaker 5: I've learned that I can only do like edibles from
Speaker 5: the dispensary when I know the dosages.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, because.
Speaker 5: You know I'm gonna take them, because you man, you
Speaker 5: be out here just eating random ship and your homeboy
Speaker 5: made it and they system made it and you don't
Speaker 5: know how much is in it or what's in it
Speaker 5: for real, and then next thing you know, you can't drive.
Speaker 4: Oh I did have this coquito though one time that's infused.
Speaker 2: And this is the girl.
Speaker 4: She she makes some self. She has a home website
Speaker 4: and everything. Ten out of ten, okay, do that. She
Speaker 4: puts it on the website to put on the label
Speaker 4: that says you only take like four ounces, wait an hour,
Speaker 4: and then that's more.
Speaker 2: You gotta wait. You gotta take a little little bit
Speaker 2: and see how it affect you before. Yeah, and then
Speaker 2: maybe a little bit ain't no return return to cender.
Speaker 1: I ain't edible by accident, I thought I was, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, roll that I was. I was just everything
Speaker 1: was just came, you know. I was tweaking, but I
Speaker 1: wasn't like because I ate it. So it was it
Speaker 1: was a chocolate, but it looked like the rest of
Speaker 1: the stuff in the box was like foreign, So I
Speaker 1: assumed the chocolate was foreign, right, and I eat it.
Speaker 1: I ate a whole chocolate, and then I eat another
Speaker 1: whole chocolate. So I hat two whole chocolates like Hershey's sizes.
Speaker 1: And then when I'm into uber, I'm like, why are
Speaker 1: you looking at me like this? And we talking the
Speaker 1: whole time, and then I get in my elevator, I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: I don't smoke, so second hand smoke sometimes I feel it.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, damn studio. When I'm like, why do
Speaker 1: I feel like this? I laid down, like whoa, I
Speaker 1: get up. I stuck throwing water on my face. I
Speaker 1: get in the shower. I'm like, bag, wake up, what happened.
Speaker 1: I'm like, hein' addible? She goes you be okay. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I ain't, don't dare, so I just get out the shower.
Speaker 1: And I started running around the house. He ain't even showering.
Speaker 1: In fact, you say you got out the jow you
Speaker 1: didn't shot in the shower.
Speaker 2: No, you stuck your.
Speaker 1: Head and no I got any I just the water
Speaker 1: only hit my head, no soap or nothing. Nothing. I
Speaker 1: was like, I just need to calm down. And then
Speaker 1: I just started running around. And then I'm like, did
Speaker 1: you have clothes on? No? No, no. I was running
Speaker 1: around the curt naked and she's just on the couch
Speaker 1: listening to me. I'm like, yo, I don't know what
Speaker 1: it was. Though I didn't know, I still this time,
Speaker 1: I ain't know what was making me feel that way.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, they drugged me the uber driva. Yo.
Speaker 1: He wasn't in the Yeah, I know it. And she's like,
Speaker 1: calm down. I'm like, I know, I'm not oding to
Speaker 1: the point because I don't feel like I'm going to die, right.
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm going to die, yeah, but
Speaker 2: I'm not like out of breath or nothing like that.
Speaker 1: I can't breathe call the cops and gonna have a
Speaker 1: heart attack. I'm just like, yo, I can't. And I
Speaker 1: kept snapping myself out of it, but it was so much.
Speaker 2: All you could do is tell yourself I'm high right now.
Speaker 2: But you got to telling yourself throwing up. You threw up,
Speaker 2: you had a lot, yeah up.
Speaker 1: That helped, though. Yeah, it was that I kept going
Speaker 1: to the toiter to throw up, and I couldn't until
Speaker 1: I said, I'm not going no more. Right there, clean
Speaker 1: it up. Bro.
Speaker 4: When I had that double joint, the double peace, I started,
Speaker 4: I started shaking.
Speaker 2: I started having an out of body. I felt like
Speaker 2: I was loving to you out of my let me.
Speaker 6: I like that.
Speaker 2: No matter how many times something happened, you go back, Yeah,
Speaker 2: thank you. How to finish the story?
Speaker 1: You know? You know that's the topic we have on
Speaker 1: our pod. That's on our pod.
Speaker 8: That's what I've been like, Yo, bro, we left that
Speaker 8: subject twenty minutes to bring it back, bring it back.
Speaker 1: She won't even reply to the story that I told
Speaker 1: in the middle of her story.
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm gonna give you a guest's struggling.
Speaker 1: We get it better, though, we better we take therapy.
Speaker 1: And now.
Speaker 2: What is your does your therapist ever like take aside?
Speaker 2: I've never you know, I've seen couples there. No, she
Speaker 2: don't take us side. I'm stupid. She don't take us.
Speaker 2: She does really good at like questioning, like or just
Speaker 2: giving us clarity at what what each other are feeling,
Speaker 2: Like what's something you learned, something something I learned? You start.
Speaker 1: So to get through to my Lenny. You see how
Speaker 1: you said it was her leaving that was that I
Speaker 1: was jealous of or whatever. It wasn't it was when
Speaker 1: I tell her, like, yo, you haven't been around, so
Speaker 1: that was kind of like the.
Speaker 2: New so you need her to acknowledge how you feel that, and.
Speaker 1: It was it was even like a crazy thing. It's like, Yo,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen you. Yes you have. I was with
Speaker 1: you fifteen minutes yesterday. Yeah you haven't cooked. Yes I have.
Speaker 1: It was like six months ago. So it don't even
Speaker 1: really be like me like feeling away at that moment.
Speaker 1: It's the yes I have that I start to feel
Speaker 1: like we.
Speaker 2: Need some accountability.
Speaker 1: Damn bro. Like so if fifteen minutes was enough for me,
Speaker 1: you just was with this person all week, why you know?
Speaker 1: So I started doing that. So when we went to therapy,
Speaker 1: I was able to voice that because she was say,
Speaker 1: you're jealous. I'm like, I'm not jealous of the people.
Speaker 1: It's the fact that I'm telling you, hey, we haven't
Speaker 1: spent time and you're telling me, yes, we have. That's
Speaker 1: when the neglection and shit that I started to feel like.
Speaker 1: So the therapist would be like, do you get where
Speaker 1: he's coming from? And I mean where he's coming from? Yeah? Me,
Speaker 1: right right, And then she would she would explain it
Speaker 1: like she was explaining that her words calmer, and then
Speaker 1: like oh and then when she'd be like, oh, so
Speaker 1: that's what you mean, I'm like yeah, And then I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I feel better, Like it's not even the time away
Speaker 1: that's bothering me. It's the fact that you think that
Speaker 1: that that was enough, you know in your head. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So for me, that was way better. Like Maline started
Speaker 1: more just just hearing it, and I'm like, okay, now
Speaker 1: I want to know where you're coming from now because
Speaker 1: you heard me, because I feel like I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to tell you, like this is not even that deep
Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you. Why the fuck are we
Speaker 1: arguing about this?
Speaker 2: I just be wanting to know what what's the what's
Speaker 2: why are you saying it? Like you want me to
Speaker 2: spend more time with you? Say that? Don't be like oh,
Speaker 2: you haven't been home, you know.
Speaker 1: That's yeah, so I don't even.
Speaker 2: Know the real reason of why you're pregnant.
Speaker 1: Up, funny, I just said this to you like two
Speaker 1: days ago. That are you taking it there? Stealing my ship?
Speaker 2: Crazy? Do you guys ever film yourself in the.
Speaker 1: Bedroom when we was younger, when we.
Speaker 2: Were younger, we haven't done that in a while.
Speaker 1: You still have it like on your phone? Probably it do?
Speaker 1: I think I have a picture.
Speaker 2: I think I have a video.
Speaker 1: Do you look at it?
Speaker 2: It's fall I haven't, no, I haven't.
Speaker 1: The ship about recording now is that it's like thirty
Speaker 1: seconds last thirty seconds?
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm quickie, I like it quick? And do you
Speaker 2: like that efficient?
Speaker 1: She's done bad fast?
Speaker 2: It was like all right, I say, I'm one.
Speaker 1: I don't need most.
Speaker 4: I told you.
Speaker 3: Definitely give.
Speaker 2: You're like yo, like you know what what about me?
Speaker 2: He's like.
Speaker 6: Fifteen minutes and you want to do like fifteen minutes
Speaker 6: is not enough?
Speaker 1: You can't say that, you know what's the crazy thought
Speaker 1: about it? I became like this way because Millenny wanted
Speaker 1: that right, like right, like the way that I am.
Speaker 1: But you're not leaving and at even complained about that.
Speaker 1: I wasn't like that, and then I became that she
Speaker 1: did the opposite cut balance. You know, you gotta have balance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the next three years I'll probably be like millennium and
Speaker 1: then we'll do it again.
Speaker 2: Do you know?
Speaker 1: Do y'all know the date for the wedding? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we do, okay it this year is Timber twenty
Speaker 4: twenty four, September, fast as hell.
Speaker 2: You're actually get married here in New York is eight years? Nice?
Speaker 2: How long before the engagement?
Speaker 1: How many eight years?
Speaker 2: We just got engaged?
Speaker 3: When did you get a game?
Speaker 1: Last year?
Speaker 2: Last? Yeah? Last? So one year engagement wedding?
Speaker 1: Yeah, basically yeah, a year when I was like, yes,
Speaker 1: by last time, I already had it and stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we talked about it for years. I had everything already.
Speaker 2: What took you so long to actually like do the proposal?
Speaker 1: Then? I don't really like the marriage is not really
Speaker 1: the thing on my mind, but it.
Speaker 2: Was on your mind because you had the ring.
Speaker 1: She wants marriage, right, you know, there was like ultimatum
Speaker 1: at one point. So I had it for a while
Speaker 1: and then I went to like two weddings that year,
Speaker 1: like back to back, and I saw how I made
Speaker 1: the bride feel like the bride was happy, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: isn't this the point of a relationship for her to
Speaker 1: be happy? So I was like, I could, I could?
Speaker 1: You know I could do this because somebody told me.
Speaker 1: I was like, what's the point of doing if nothing changes?
Speaker 1: And then they responded the same way. They was like,
Speaker 1: so why not do it if nothing changes?
Speaker 2: And they actually financially just for business purposes, you know,
Speaker 2: there's a lot of pluses to being married because really
Speaker 2: like the way things are set up here, Yeah, for
Speaker 2: a married couple, it actually is way more beneficial when
Speaker 2: it comes to those like Texas.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought it was only beneficial if one partner
Speaker 4: didn't work.
Speaker 2: No, it's beneficial all around. You get a lot more
Speaker 2: breaks than.
Speaker 1: Game.
Speaker 4: When I'll come to I want to convince him, like
Speaker 4: he was like, why do you want to get married?
Speaker 4: I told him, like the taxes, bro.
Speaker 2: True break, And he was like, I'm not marrying you
Speaker 2: because the taxes.
Speaker 1: This ship was that marriage wasn't always on her mind,
Speaker 1: so it wasn't you know. They'd be like, oh, white
Speaker 1: took so long, Like, well, she didn't care for the
Speaker 1: first six years, so.
Speaker 2: It wasn't no big deal. But now it's like, okay,
Speaker 2: we together together.
Speaker 1: And the thing was that I was trying to explain
Speaker 1: recently though, like even more recent I was trying to explain,
Speaker 1: like marriage, just because I didn't want to marry you
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I don't love you, because it doesn't mean
Speaker 1: that to me. That means that to you, love is marriage.
Speaker 1: I was like, just don't feel away if I didn't
Speaker 1: want to do it, because it doesn't mean that to me. Like,
Speaker 1: that's not what it means. It don't mean love to me.
Speaker 1: This means this to me. So I just wanted like
Speaker 1: that understand. You know a lot of people if you
Speaker 1: don't marry me, you don't love me. He's like, whoa,
Speaker 1: I knew how to commune it, Like that's not what
Speaker 1: that means for me because I just don't look at
Speaker 1: it this way.
Speaker 2: So you're not going to hyphenate your name.
Speaker 1: No, No, I have a Yeah, she's not having my
Speaker 1: last name either.
Speaker 2: You don't keep your name. Yeah, So now if you
Speaker 2: have kids, the kids would have your last name or
Speaker 2: their kids be hyphenated.
Speaker 1: They're going to have your name. Was Yeah, there's a
Speaker 1: weird story.
Speaker 2: They like her last name better.
Speaker 1: No, it's a weird story of my name. I can't
Speaker 1: explain it. But yeah, you can't explain it.
Speaker 2: No, okay, but okay with us, find it's on. You'll discussed.
Speaker 2: These are all things you have to discuss. Absolutely.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I never thought about the kids ones. That's interesting. I mean,
Speaker 2: I want the crew. Do you even want kids?
Speaker 1: I do? Okay, she wants to experience having kids.
Speaker 2: So experience. I don't want to experience having kids. And
Speaker 2: you know, I think I've heard people say they got
Speaker 2: married because the kids go to school and they're like,
Speaker 2: why is your mom's last name? Why is your name
Speaker 2: last name different than your mom's and so they wanted
Speaker 2: everybody to have the.
Speaker 1: Same Where the hell was that at. I've never even
Speaker 1: thought that people because.
Speaker 2: Kids go to school and like, especially when they're young,
Speaker 2: they don't understand, like, why don't I have the same listening,
Speaker 2: Maybe you should change your last name.
Speaker 1: I heard that was my work. It is I would
Speaker 1: have changed the son. That has nothing to do with
Speaker 1: make up. Make up.
Speaker 2: You would have changed change.
Speaker 1: I was gonna change the Yeah, like got it on
Speaker 1: and just changes. It was like, wow, I don't know,
Speaker 1: Stephen got my name is Stephen. Stephen got it on.
Speaker 1: That should sound fire.
Speaker 5: Sounds like a mobster from trying to give me no
Speaker 5: crime family, but you can't have no name.
Speaker 3: Stephen got it on talking over something, but I want to.
Speaker 2: So you ain't got to be Stephen Calderon.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna have to go on my thought and
Speaker 1: clean this whole ship up over here. And you're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's actually goes this way at home. I get what
Speaker 1: she says.
Speaker 2: Do you have a song?
Speaker 1: Oh she likes Madonna Drake exactly what I was? What
Speaker 1: if I picked you up from the house. You know
Speaker 1: what's crazy about reverse that used to pick me up
Speaker 1: from the crib and everything, Like, I ain't know how
Speaker 1: the job. I'm a passenger princess. Still, that's so funny.
Speaker 2: I was Drake and like singing it.
Speaker 1: I'm Drake and he picked you up from your house.
Speaker 1: You should get out. We haven't talked while.
Speaker 2: We should roll to see where it goes. So so
Speaker 2: you think if you guys got married, you would stay
Speaker 2: home and be like the manny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's a lot of people that have potential
Speaker 1: and goals and stuff. I'm not one of those.
Speaker 2: But you know what, Yeah, I'm not one of those.
Speaker 1: I don't I wouldn't mind being in the crib. I'm like,
Speaker 1: you have these goals of wanting to be an actor.
Speaker 1: I already knew that, but that's why I was mad
Speaker 1: about the kids situation. When she brong it up, I
Speaker 1: don't have kids, I'm like, what, so I could be
Speaker 1: home with.
Speaker 3: The gus.
Speaker 2: Just like I said, the future even looks like it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the roles reversed. That should be the name of
Speaker 1: like a movie.
Speaker 2: Or that's going to be the name of this episode
Speaker 2: reverse remember.
Speaker 1: Place places. It's so crazy when we put it in
Speaker 1: this perspective, because if anybody around us would never agree
Speaker 1: with your saying right now, really dead eyes. But when
Speaker 1: you put it like this, I'm a bitch.
Speaker 2: Some way who's normally on top in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: Whoever is up, Hopefully you're.
Speaker 2: Both You're only thirty seconds and then you're done. Whoever
Speaker 2: I'm done like that, what's not done? Then you racing
Speaker 2: in the finish line, we'll be both on the same time.
Speaker 1: That's why it's like strategic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've always been and tuned in that same way.
Speaker 2: That's good. I'm like, yeah, I'm satisfied.
Speaker 1: Once I started being like love and love that ship
Speaker 1: was just wait, what happened? What was that? I usually
Speaker 1: go for another six hours?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't never to go back to back. No,
Speaker 2: I'm afraid that you're gonna get pregnant when you go
Speaker 2: back to back.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what so recently we just we
Speaker 1: turned thirty recently, you know, September June, so we'll be
Speaker 1: thirty one soon already, So she would say that as
Speaker 1: an excuse. Now I'm like, I thought you want the
Speaker 1: kids he got me.
Speaker 4: I'm like, allright, just wait till thirty wait the one
Speaker 4: and getting lit on my back.
Speaker 5: Though I can see y'all having a joints bachelor Rett party.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that, having joint like we do it
Speaker 1: at the same time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, one don't even She's.
Speaker 6: Like, oh no, we ain't doing he like, but why not, honey,
Speaker 6: I don't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gonna have a spodcast, you boy, and you're
Speaker 2: gonna gett like for real.
Speaker 4: I like to travel, that's the thing, so I low,
Speaker 4: you want to go to either Turks and Cacos or Ruba.
Speaker 2: And we're gonna do her exploring.
Speaker 4: I don't even want to get like drunk drunk I
Speaker 4: just want to vibe. I want to vacation with my girls.
Speaker 2: Ready, Turx and Cacos, and then you could go to
Speaker 2: the tiki bar in.
Speaker 1: The middle of the weater with your girl.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and have a great time at the tiki bar.
Speaker 2: You gotta take like a little jet, you gotta take
Speaker 2: a little boat over it, and it's in the middle
Speaker 2: of the water. Don't be jealous, because my batch is
Speaker 2: better than I want to do that. Do you guys
Speaker 2: have honeymoon plans?
Speaker 3: Not yet.
Speaker 1: I actually wanted to go to Turks for the.
Speaker 2: Honey so save that for honeymoon and didn't do it
Speaker 2: with your girls. You're gonna see the flamingos. Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: what I wanted to do when I went over there.
Speaker 1: I don't have a bad to me, it would be
Speaker 1: crazy for me to excited for the bat and I
Speaker 1: don't care about the even enjoy your guys about me.
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't even marriage is not a thing
Speaker 1: for me, So to me to take advantage to celebrate
Speaker 1: the whole ship like I was like, I don't care
Speaker 1: for none of this.
Speaker 2: You have a lot of guy friends, a few, not
Speaker 2: really much.
Speaker 1: I have friends right now.
Speaker 2: They listen to this, like thanks, I have a couple.
Speaker 1: I have a couple. It's weird. I'm in a weird
Speaker 1: place right now. Like yeah, well like that ship. That
Speaker 1: ship right there changed a lot, like not drinking that
Speaker 1: ship a lot. Like I'd be like, like, I don't
Speaker 1: feel like who I was before a year next month, yeah, year.
Speaker 2: And that's a big deal though, congratulations a year.
Speaker 1: A year and a few weeks in a few weeks,
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, And it changed a lot, like throughout every
Speaker 1: month it was like something new, like a new thing
Speaker 1: I wanted to do, or like in August, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel lost. I don't know, I am no more
Speaker 1: because you know, you got emotions now when I drink
Speaker 1: a lot, so I I ain't really deal with nothing.
Speaker 1: It was just all were getting lit. And then now
Speaker 1: I was like, oh ship, and winter was harder than summer.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, how the fuck I.
Speaker 2: Could see that? Because winter, when you're inside it's cold,
Speaker 2: you don't want to you know what I'm saying. It
Speaker 2: makes you want to when you're home, nothing to do,
Speaker 2: let's have drinks.
Speaker 1: But and then the sun go down early and I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, oh nighttime.
Speaker 1: Oh ship, I need a drink, and that's when I
Speaker 1: saw it. Now there's mad bottles in the crab, but
Speaker 1: I saw it like that, oh ship, So yeah.
Speaker 2: I like being sober, and then that makes you slow
Speaker 2: down on your drinking too. I mean I was never.
Speaker 2: I was never. He's very easy drink.
Speaker 4: I prefer Yeah, but I'm a I'm a like cocktail.
Speaker 4: I'm a vibe kind of girl. Like that's the reason
Speaker 4: why I drink.
Speaker 1: I think she didn't notice how much she drinks till
Speaker 1: I stopped.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that too, Yeah, because sometimes you don't realize when
Speaker 2: you're out and you're like, I just drink when I'm
Speaker 2: OUTDC stopped drinking for a while. Remember you're like two years. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm back.
Speaker 5: Not really, I have a drink. Ye before I would
Speaker 5: drink it all. It went from not drinking.
Speaker 2: At all for a little over a year to occasionally
Speaker 2: have I had an occasional drink. So now I'll have
Speaker 2: red wine.
Speaker 5: Like if I'm out of dinner with my girls and
Speaker 5: everybody else was drinking, but I was just drinking the
Speaker 5: mini ages.
Speaker 2: Pam is like, I think.
Speaker 3: I only drink socially.
Speaker 2: To that's me. I drink socially and that's her being
Speaker 2: a comedian and being out because when you're out working
Speaker 2: these rooms like for just Pam like blow.
Speaker 1: That was one time when we were in this room
Speaker 1: full of people. I had just stopped drinking and I
Speaker 1: was in a corner. Bro. I was like, wow, I
Speaker 1: depended on that ship so much to get in the movie.
Speaker 2: At least with me, I smoked weed.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I really you know, I just smoked more
Speaker 5: or started eating edibles, you know, to.
Speaker 1: How much I depended on it, d a lot more water.
Speaker 1: So it's like I had to get out of that.
Speaker 1: Like I was not talking and Ship that was in
Speaker 1: a room and she's looking at me like the whole network,
Speaker 1: and I mean like, I don't even know.
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do.
Speaker 4: I can't I can network being high. I can't like
Speaker 4: if i'm.
Speaker 2: Working, keep it away.
Speaker 4: I'm like nope, because then I'm over thinking everything. And
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, did I just say something stupid?
Speaker 1: Sometimes you get giggly yo. I was like, you know
Speaker 1: what that was about me drinking? I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I could have potentially ruined so many opportunities. Bro, the
Speaker 1: way I used to get lived.
Speaker 2: Well, listen, I appreciate you for coming through check the
Speaker 2: m Lenny, you know, make sure ye, I mean everybody
Speaker 2: follows y'all already. I feel like, just in case they don't,
Speaker 2: make sure you follow.
Speaker 1: Us, just in case you don't. And I c l
Speaker 1: u s if they got that fast. You know, my
Speaker 1: boy used to say his name like that all the time,
Speaker 1: but then I started doing it to like with him.
Speaker 2: That was so listen the impact, But y'all do that
Speaker 2: again for for another season.
Speaker 1: How did you feel I would?
Speaker 4: I would do the impact? I felt really good doing it.
Speaker 4: You know, I made some friends. I love them and
Speaker 4: appreciate them, and yeah, it was fun being around everyone,
Speaker 4: like seeing how other people.
Speaker 2: Work and live. And it's been such a fun journey
Speaker 2: and you got to really do like your freestyles and
Speaker 2: music and for people to see that side of you
Speaker 2: even more, yeah, I get to. Yeah. But honestly, I
Speaker 2: always appreciate you guys, Like I said, they really helped
Speaker 2: me when I first started my show, coming on nice
Speaker 2: and early for way up with Angela and listen. I
Speaker 2: appreciate you guys, both of you honestly, and I'm happy
Speaker 2: to see that y'all are engaged now. I knew it
Speaker 2: was going to happen at something. I can't wait to
Speaker 2: hear weddings d and next time will be the wedding.
Speaker 1: The wedding.
Speaker 2: Would you televise it? Oh yeah, okay, I love to
Speaker 2: just you know network, I.
Speaker 6: Know I want to see the way I want to
Speaker 6: se which one of y'all getting given away.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna do like a spoof series
Speaker 1: of the wedding. So I'm gonna do ship like that
Speaker 1: for it, because that's really.
Speaker 2: The She's gonna be stone face, she's gonna be crying. No,
Speaker 2: I'm the one waiting for you at the our. Yeah,
Speaker 2: let me tell you something. Right now, when I walk
Speaker 2: down the ole, you're supposed to be crying.
Speaker 1: You really want me to grow, you better drop something.
Speaker 4: You gotta put some eye drops before, Like I think
Speaker 4: you are gonna cry, it's definitely then.
Speaker 2: When you see her walking down, Yeah, it's okay to cry.
Speaker 6: If you don't cry, I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: My let's see.
Speaker 2: Recently with that you you know you're not pregnant.
Speaker 3: Y'all have wait, y'all have a female or male best friend? Like,
Speaker 3: do you have a male best friend or do you
Speaker 3: have a female best friend?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: No best friends. That's how we started.
Speaker 2: Okay, as as we know, who talked to who first. Okay,
Speaker 2: here we are and here we are all right. Well
Speaker 2: that is lip service. Thank you all so much for
Speaker 2: coming through. We'll check back in after the wedding in September.
Speaker 1: Yes service service