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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. As always, we're so excited to be here.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing today, Susan?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm nursing a broken arm. But other than that, absolutely, Susan.

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Speaker 1: Broke her wrist and she's going to be laid up

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Speaker 1: for a while, but it doesn't stop her.

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Speaker 3: She's a workhorse. She's here and we're so glad you're

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Speaker 3: here today.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and everybody out there, make sure to check out

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Speaker 2: our latest episodes.

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Speaker 4: We've been having so much fun.

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Speaker 2: We answer your questions and we're chatting with our Bachelor

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Speaker 2: Nation favorites.

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Speaker 1: And speaking of Bachelor Nation faiths, today we have a

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Speaker 1: really cool guy special guest, Andrew Spencer from Katie Thurston

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Speaker 1: season of The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Andrew, Welcome to Golden Hour.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for having me, Ladies, I appreciate it. I've

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Speaker 5: been waiting for a long time to be here.

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Speaker 4: Wow, since you met us in San Francisco.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, that's where you left your heart.

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Speaker 5: I know, I know it was almost like kind of

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Speaker 5: like a golden paradise in a.

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Speaker 4: Way that sounds interesting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to talk about all things. Tell us

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Speaker 1: what's been going on in your life.

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Speaker 5: Uh, you know, just just working with the stuff that

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Speaker 5: I've been doing, being able to you know, be with

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Speaker 5: my family and here in Chicago. I just got off

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Speaker 5: a trip with the boys after our four year in

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Speaker 5: versus of meeting each other from the show. We just

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Speaker 5: got back from the Dominicana Republic. So we you know,

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Speaker 5: we're just enjoying life. Everything's doing really well. You know,

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Speaker 5: some big family things have happened in my life so

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Speaker 5: far so or recently, so like what my dad has

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Speaker 5: just been released from prison after twenty five years.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, we're going to talk about that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're going to talk about that.

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Speaker 6: That's been crazy. I've hung out with him twice now.

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Speaker 5: So other than that, you know, just I'm really enjoying

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Speaker 5: this like stage in my life right now.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, how old are you, Andrew?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that also just happened.

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Speaker 6: I just turned thirty, so oh, welcome decade.

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Speaker 5: I know I'm feeling it after Saint Patti's Day more

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Speaker 5: than I did last year instantly.

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Speaker 3: Do you really think Susan and I have any sympathy

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Speaker 3: for someone turning thirty? I mean, really, what do you

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Speaker 3: like thirty thirty four. You know what, you're almost I'm

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Speaker 3: thirty five, but you were close.

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Speaker 4: When was your birthday?

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Speaker 6: January twentieth. Yeah, I'm a little quarious.

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Speaker 2: So I.

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Speaker 4: Don't like the count anymore.

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Speaker 3: I have an important question. How many dates did you

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Speaker 3: have in the d r dates?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Look at dates? What's that you were?

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Speaker 7: So?

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Speaker 5: We were there?

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Speaker 3: We were there.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys were Tennis fans raphae

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Speaker 5: on the doll Yeah, end up a new hotel and

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Speaker 5: we were invited to go there. Everyone there's spoke Spanish,

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Speaker 5: so I didn't really I couldn't really speak it. So

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Speaker 5: I download due Lingo. Not gonna lie to you because

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Speaker 5: of that.

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Speaker 3: There was there was.

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Speaker 5: A cute girl that my heart a little bit. We dance.

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Speaker 5: I'm really good at stating. Not gonna lie to you,

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Speaker 5: that's one thing I do. But shot that.

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Speaker 6: Cumbia, I do all of it. That's like one of

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Speaker 6: the things that you know.

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Speaker 5: I listened to reggaetone and it's like bad Bony is

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Speaker 5: my second plain artist in Spotify.

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Speaker 1: So okay, wait, if we ever meet, if I meet

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Speaker 1: you again at some point in the future, will you

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Speaker 1: saw some dance with me?

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Speaker 3: I took lessons.

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Speaker 5: I mean, my sauce gets a little, you know, a

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Speaker 5: little handsy, so I don't know if you can handle

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Speaker 5: that cat.

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Speaker 1: Andrew, I got a few years on you. Your hands

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Speaker 1: will not be the first that have touched me.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, Now, I mean I'm just saying, you know,

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Speaker 5: God gives me, It gives a lot of people, you know, blessings,

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Speaker 5: but these hands, Okay, we got you.

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Speaker 1: I gotta say, is I got to say right before

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Speaker 1: we started, I was saying to Andrew. We met Andrew

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Speaker 1: in uh, Susan and I did when we were in

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Speaker 1: San Francisco at an event and he was with Andrew,

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Speaker 1: I mean he was with Greg and uh Greg and

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Speaker 1: justin Glaize, and I said, you seemed like the really

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Speaker 3: And I've taken it all back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't stop. I'm the I'm definitely the y apper.

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Speaker 5: Of the group. But we all we're all we're all

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Speaker 5: very you know, outgoing in our own right, and uh,

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Speaker 5: you know, we kind of shared the stage with each other,

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Speaker 5: so it's kind of like a playoff of each other

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Speaker 4: It's like Kathy and I I just said to Kathy.

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Speaker 4: She said that to you.

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Speaker 2: It's like Kathy somebody saying you were quiet, Yeah, very shy.

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Speaker 5: Someone else had the spotlight that day and I just

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Speaker 6: You know, it's adjustable roles. You got to be able

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Speaker 6: to do it. Everybody.

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Speaker 1: Well so, and I'm loving this, But you still didn't

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Speaker 1: answer the question did you you have did y'all not

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Speaker 1: just did y'all have lots of dates in the d

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Speaker 5: No, we we were only there for three days. Three days.

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Speaker 4: You went that far for three days?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean they I mean they played for daylight.

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Speaker 5: So it wasn't like it. It was nice, you know,

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Speaker 5: it was like four days.

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Speaker 6: But you know the last.

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Speaker 3: Travel then all right, so we do we do?

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Speaker 1: Andrew, since you're not going to give me any scoop hair,

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Speaker 1: we're moving on. Uh uh, we do.

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Speaker 2: We're going to get to the scoop catch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to get to scoop. We're going to

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Speaker 1: force it right out of here. But we do a

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Speaker 1: question of the day. So my question to you today

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Speaker 1: is what is something you wish you knew about dating

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Speaker 1: when you were younger? And by younger, I mean twenty nine.

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Speaker 4: When you were first out.

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Speaker 5: That's a good question. That's a good question.

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Speaker 6: That's a really good question.

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Speaker 5: Something.

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Speaker 4: What do you know now that you didn't know then

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Since then?

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Speaker 5: It's hard to It's hard to say because there's so

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Speaker 5: many different things that have changed. I feel like one

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Speaker 5: being able to communicate that with another person. And you know,

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Speaker 5: sometimes I feel like I always have put my emotions

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm like, I'm gonna say people pleaser, but

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Speaker 2: It's a protect thing too, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a protect thing. And also I want to

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Speaker 5: make sure everyone's having a good time, and I never

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Speaker 6: So I would say, if I have something.

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Speaker 5: On my mind, I would speak and I would communicate

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Speaker 5: that obviously in a perfect tone to where he understands it,

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Speaker 5: rather than me, you know, talking at them. So I

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Speaker 5: think that was a big I'm sorry. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 5: that's the biggest thing for me, is being able to

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Speaker 6: Younger would have been probably helped me a lot more and.

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Speaker 3: Opening up the news, says Andrew, it's not too late.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well actually yeah, he just said he realizes it.

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Speaker 1: No one other thing before we get into some other questions,

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Speaker 1: because we really want to hear about your life.

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Speaker 3: On your Instagram.

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Speaker 1: It says, I got all excited when I looked at

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Speaker 1: your Instagram because it says that you're a you're a footballer,

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Speaker 1: and went, oh my cause I love soccer and I

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Speaker 1: was soccer. Sorry, oh I know, because I asked. They

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Speaker 1: said you need to change your Instagram. A footballer to

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Speaker 1: nine tenths of the world means you are a soccer player,

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Speaker 1: not a point.

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Speaker 5: That's the point though. You know, you get people to

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Speaker 5: ask questions, well he played soccer, was like, no, I

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Speaker 5: play actually football because I played in Austria and people

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Speaker 5: think I played soccer in Austria, but no, I actually

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Speaker 5: played American football in US.

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Speaker 6: That gets the ball rolling, you know.

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Speaker 1: Now, Okay, does this mean you and I have a date?

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Speaker 1: Is this what's going on here?

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Speaker 5: Cathol Es Right now it looks like we're going salsa

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Speaker 5: dance and maybe in Madrid.

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Speaker 1: Watch then, and I speaking of Spanish to get a spy,

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Speaker 1: so you're in luck.

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Speaker 5: I want to do a lingo. I'm gonna catch up.

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Speaker 2: So tell me who were the guys that went with you?

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Speaker 5: Justin Greg? Like I said, it was our four year

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Speaker 5: the Katie season the Bachelorette. So we were like, oh,

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Speaker 5: let's just do this. You know, it's a perfect time world.

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Speaker 5: We have nothing on our schedules right now.

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Speaker 5: You know they do Greg. Greg does a lot of dancing.

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Speaker 5: He does a lot of dancing. But you know some

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Speaker 5: people like it, you know that's that's.

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Speaker 1: So Wait, do you have to be a good dancer

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Speaker 1: to get a date with you? And with all you guys?

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Speaker 1: Is this part of it?

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Speaker 5: I would say no, more so me, I would prefer

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Speaker 5: good dancer then, you know, I feel like anyone's probably

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Speaker 3: Are you a good lead?

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Speaker 4: Can you direct really well? Strongly? Y?

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Speaker 5: good time dancing, it's really not a serious thing.

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Speaker 3: When did you learn to dance?

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Speaker 6: You know some people would say it's you know, it's

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Speaker 6: in my.

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Speaker 2: Jeans, but I would say born with.

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Speaker 5: People, always always was dancing, And like I, like I said,

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Speaker 5: I'd taken a like into the Latin culture. So that's

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Speaker 5: kind of how that came about.

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Speaker 3: Wow, can you cook?

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Speaker 5: You know what?

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Speaker 6: I If you guys knew what I eat to day,

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Speaker 6: you would not like it.

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Speaker 3: Tell me, I want to hear what do you eat?

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Speaker 6: I eat yogurt in the morning. Uh, and then I'll

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Speaker 6: have some almonds.

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Speaker 2: You and Kathy are a match. That's it, Kathy, that's

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Speaker 2: it's like a bird.

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Speaker 5: And then for lunch, I'll have a sandwich maybe or

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Speaker 5: some two boiled eggs, and then for dinner chicken.

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Speaker 6: And sparagus and rice every day.

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Speaker 5: Well, as of right now, I want a severe diet.

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Speaker 5: Why cut back from what I from my activities that

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Speaker 5: I was doing.

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Speaker 2: I got a little heavy, So okay, so have you

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Speaker 4: I have to eat asparagus, chicken, and rice every day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that was crazy, crazy good friends with Serene.

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Speaker 3: I'm writing a book.

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Speaker 2: Are you willing to tell us?

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Speaker 5: There was a girl who I had talked to before

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I have a question, who, if anybody, would

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Speaker 2: It's just like Kathy and I and and people reach

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Speaker 5: Know, I like things. I'm very approachable and I'm very.

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Speaker 3: You know, you're handy and handsy.

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Speaker 5: I don't just walk up and touch people.

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Speaker 8: Okay, that's not hands talking about.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Waka tell me about hash Brown?

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Speaker 3: Hash Brown the dog tell us.

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Speaker 1: There he is there, he's in the voice change Oh.

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Speaker 4: My too cute Brown?

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Speaker 3: Hello hash Brown? How old is Hash Brown?

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Speaker 6: He just turned on his birthday? Is in January as well.

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Speaker 3: Oh and what kind of dog is Hash Brown?

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Speaker 6: He's a English bulldog in Australian cattle dog.

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Speaker 3: There is not a drop of English bulldog and that.

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Speaker 5: Dog full English bulldog.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I need to see the papers on that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not buying that.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So wait, you clearly love this dog more than you

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Speaker 6: Well most of the timebody.

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Speaker 3: Oh jeez, you're one of those guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to get back to uh, you're

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Speaker 1: How because we all struggle with that, how do you

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Speaker 5: List flirting with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I'm writing this down, I'm recording. I

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Speaker 6: I love to be able to control my own narrative.

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Speaker 5: It kind of gives you your own power, and that's

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Speaker 2: Like when you ask somebody out, you go on a date,

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Speaker 2: do you tend to go somewhere that's a little more private,

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Speaker 2: so there's not a bunch of bands. Yes, Like let

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Speaker 6: People don't really care as much anymore, which is nice.

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Speaker 5: Oh we care, well, people will just wait until after

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Speaker 5: I just want to say I you know, I loved

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Speaker 2: Me know about you. Are you fall in love quick?

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Speaker 2: Are you a slow burned? Do you believe in love

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 5: Uh? I I am a true romantic when it comes

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Speaker 4: Now we're gonna match.

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Speaker 6: Here we go, Okay, yeah, I'm obsessed with rom comms.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm obsessed with rom comms. So I I it

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Speaker 5: And if it's a slow burn slow burn, sometimes you

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Speaker 5: you always know, but you're you're just like I just

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm very adaptable.

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Speaker 6: I'm very available to me.

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Speaker 3: Oh do you hear that he's very available?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I have I have some more questions. Speaking

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Speaker 1: of your day and life, I know you broke up

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Speaker 3: And a couple of things. I mean, anything you want

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Speaker 5: I mean a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I'd loved here. But in researching you, because you know,

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Speaker 1: I did you. I loved what you said about green

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Speaker 1: that seeing how your potential partner interacts with your family

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it's the most important thing.

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Speaker 5: I think it is.

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Speaker 6: And when they when you can leave them alone, they

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm looking for, you know, everyone, you know,

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Speaker 5: I do love to be attached to him at times.

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Speaker 5: But I just want to make sure that you feel

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope that guys your age are listening to that,

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Speaker 1: because I really read that and I went, oh, my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I had to give you a shout out for that

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Speaker 1: because that's it. But but now I'm going to ask

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Speaker 5: Uh? You know, part of it, you know, and then

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Speaker 5: you know it's maintaining a long distance relationship while also

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Speaker 3: Just it just.

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Speaker 5: Piles on because you know, over phone, over text, you

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Speaker 5: can't communicate how you want to communicate things, and you know,

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Speaker 5: it just got to a point where you know, it's

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Speaker 5: if we just you know, separated and kind of Okay,

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Speaker 5: well that's that's we're great friends. Everything's good.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's generic, but I'll let you off on it.

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Speaker 3: But there's the.

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Speaker 4: Long distance relationship.

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Speaker 5: Well okay, there was just there are disagreements about things

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Speaker 2: That was literally, So it wasn't just distance. You think

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, yeah, no that I could definitely do distance.

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Speaker 5: But once there's like.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about Austin, Texas? I love?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so can we talk about your dad for a sec.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: One of the things you said, your goal has always

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Speaker 5: I know. I you know, you go back and forth

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Speaker 5: You know, some people like my best friend you know,

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Speaker 5: it's like there's opportunities that I can forgive my forgive and.

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Speaker 4: Think he wasn't there at certain times of your life

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Speaker 2: It's a struggle.

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Speaker 5: It's slow, it's a slow process, it's a slow burning

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Speaker 5: and you know, I'm I'm moving forward with it. I'm

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Speaker 5: That he's met my friends. They were here for Saint

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Speaker 3: Was were you able to see him while he was

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Speaker 3: in prison?

450
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 6: See, I'm just growing up. I don't know what it

451
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 6: was about me.

452
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 5: I was just in grind mode and I was just

453
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:16,399
Speaker 5: only thinking about the future and I couldn't go that

454
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 5: that part. I don't know. I don't know what I

455
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 5: would say anger. I was just saying, like I can't.

456
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 5: I can't worry about something that you know that. Yeah,

457
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 5: so like you're in there, that's what you have to

458
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 5: worry about. I'm not worried about what you're doing in there.

459
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,479
Speaker 5: I have to focus on my life out here, and

460
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 5: I think, like I put pin the paper with sports

461
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 5: and do whatever I can to make my life successful.

462
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 5: Do you have siblings, Yeah, I'm the baby.

463
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 3: So am I Another thing we have in common.

464
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 2: So with man these two.

465
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Speaker 3: How many How many siblings do you have?

466
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Speaker 6: I have three, one girl and two boys.

467
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Speaker 3: Do you watch out who your sister's dating.

468
00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 5: My sister's the oldest, so she's like.

469
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 4: He has no control? Then who you would allow to

470
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:07,360
Speaker 4: date your sister?

471
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Speaker 1: Okay, so when you're dating, which you know you're you're

472
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 1: you're going to be dating, you're not dating.

473
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Speaker 3: By the way, would you go back on paradise.

474
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Speaker 6: If if if offered, I would definitely take a look

475
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Speaker 6: at it.

476
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 5: I think that's something that's got a unique You know,

477
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 5: you can't really get like a month straight with someone

478
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 5: in the real world because uh, you know.

479
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Speaker 6: You got work you got to do.

480
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 5: So this is like, you know, people say, oh it's

481
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 5: sped up. Yeah, but actually I'm getting more time with

482
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Speaker 5: this person than you would get on a regular basis.

483
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Speaker 2: So you get pretty far on paradise. You get a

484
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 2: lot more time than you would on.

485
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, you have the most time with someone.

486
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Speaker 3: So do you think you could find your person on

487
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Speaker 3: paradise as possible? Yeah?

488
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 2: Hey, anything possible. Literally, if you think you could find

489
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 2: your person on a goal, I mean.

490
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, what a golden beach talking about? I want to

491
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 5: go to the Golden Beats.

492
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Speaker 1: You know what, if I go to the Golden Beach Andrew,

493
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, can Andrew please come because I need

494
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 1: to take sauce lessons.

495
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 3: That's what's happened there.

496
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 4: And come on down.

497
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 3: So okay, So wait a minute.

498
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Speaker 1: You you said you're perfect first date would be a

499
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Speaker 1: long walk or going to a Chicago Cubs game.

500
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, change, is that still where you are?

501
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 6: That's still where I'm at.

502
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 5: I mean, I've kind of met uh people in the middle.

503
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 5: I do not like dinner dates. I really don't tell

504
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 5: me why. I just feel like it's just it's too intimate.

505
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:49,120
Speaker 5: And one, you know, you're it's like too intimate, too intimate,

506
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 5: like serious, It's like you're.

507
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,239
Speaker 4: Looking at each other.

508
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 6: We're talking about like four year plans.

509
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 5: I don't want to get into that, you know. I like,

510
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 5: I like doing something that's an objective, like we're doing something.

511
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 6: Rather than just sitting there and you know, hey, how's that?

512
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 5: You know?

513
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 7: Stir fries a good want some topic I want to

514
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 7: go like And that's the thing. Also with the Bachelor Man,

515
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 7: they've given me the worst dates.

516
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 5: If I was in Paradise, they put me in a

517
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 5: Margarita Bowl while people are jumping off yachts and jetski

518
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 5: in and and riding four wheels. Who's who's doing this

519
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 5: to me? The thing that I would do in a date, like,

520
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 5: I would like walks. I say walks because like, if

521
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 5: I haven't met them organically, I would like, oh, let's

522
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 5: go get a walk and then we can just you know,

523
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 5: bop into somewhere like maybe ice cream the cases on

524
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 5: our route. But if I met you, like a night

525
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 5: out one time, and I'm just like I'm asking you out,

526
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 5: then I would we would go do something activity. We

527
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 5: won't go to dinner.

528
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 2: I like activity, that's good activity.

529
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean okay, I like it.

530
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 5: But I get a lot of I get a lot

531
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Speaker 5: of flag for it, though I really do. Why I

532
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 5: don't know, because I mean, you know, sometimes it's like

533
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 5: this narrative that, oh, you got to take a girl

534
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 5: to dinner and you got to pay, and I'm just like,

535
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 5: you know, I don't like that because that feels like

536
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 5: it's you're forcing my hand.

537
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 4: I want to be like, let's go do whatever we

538
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 4: want to do.

539
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 5: Just go do whatever dinner and then if dinner's like, hey,

540
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 5: should we get dinner later, I'll meet, we'll meet back up,

541
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 5: and we'll get dinner. That's how I want it to go.

542
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 6: I don't want it to be expected.

543
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 5: I don't want you to just like right expected and.

544
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I need you. He's not inside of box, Susan.

545
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 1: I'm gonna explain this so everyone understands. Do you know

546
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: why Andrew doesn't want to do dinner because he does

547
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 1: not want to see his He does not want his

548
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: date to see that. He orders boiled chicken and sparagus.

549
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, would you like the filet mignon

550
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: with the Holland days and the and He's like, no,

551
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: I'd have like boiled.

552
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 6: If we go out to eat. I actually have really

553
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 6: good days, especially in sushi.

554
00:25:58,960 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 5: If we go get some soup.

555
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:13,360
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, okay, they'll tell me in your words right

556
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 2: now today, describe a perfect relationship for you.

557
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 6: Perfect relationship, what would that look like?

558
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 5: I would say balanced, being able to just play off

559
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 5: of each other's emotions and where we're at.

560
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 6: I think that's important to just find balance.

561
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Speaker 2: Ladies out there listening, man has it together?

562
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 1: Andrew, who do you want to see on Paradise if

563
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: you go besides Susan and me should we be lucky

564
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: enough to show up at the.

565
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 5: Twenty year Olds.

566
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Speaker 6: I don't know the names, that's the problem. I just

567
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 6: know the faces.

568
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 4: Somebody you've seen somewhere.

569
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 5: I mean on this I've watched.

570
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, like from gen season, I mean from uh whose seasons?

571
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: Like what give us a season?

572
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 4: We can find them.

573
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 5: I've seen majority of the seasons. I ain't gonna lie

574
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 5: to you. I just it's just like.

575
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 2: It's your you know what I mean.

576
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 5: It's like it's tough to say.

577
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 4: I wouldn't mind meeting her. I wouldn't mind.

578
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 3: If she was there.

579
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 2: I'd like to get to know about her.

580
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, so Andrew, one of the

581
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 1: things we do is we read fan questions and we

582
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: give advice. And since you seem to be so grounded,

583
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 1: a bit handsy, but grounded, we're gonna get you to

584
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: give some advice with us. Okay, all right, you want

585
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: to go, Susan.

586
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 4: Sure, Okay, this is from Michelle.

587
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 3: Hi.

588
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 2: I listened to your podcast weekly and listen to every episode.

589
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 4: Thank you.

590
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 2: I need some advice about an odd situation I'm in

591
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: with my neighbor. I'm twenty five and I live by

592
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: myself and my thirty seven year old neighbor recently, who

593
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 2: also lives by himself. Recently got my number and started

594
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: texting me daily. At first, it was nice and I

595
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: was excited to have a friend nearby. It was all

596
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: good for a bit, but the way he started teasing

597
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: and quotations, teasing me over text and his jokes started

598
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 2: getting more weird and rude. We started to hang out

599
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: as friends, oh boy like. We would have game puzzle nights,

600
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: and our building had a friends giving we both attended.

601
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 2: He was always way more pleasant and lovely in person

602
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 2: than over text, but the texting has gotten insufferable. If

603
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: I don't reply right away, he texts again. Additionally, his

604
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 2: apartment faces my parking spot, so every time I come home,

605
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: I get texts like what did you get me? Or

606
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 2: why didn't you say hi? It's kind of creepy. He

607
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 2: even comments on my packages. I tell him it's weird,

608
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 2: but he insists he's just teasing. He also constantly makes

609
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 2: rude generational digs. Because we are twelve years apart. If

610
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 2: he doesn't respect my age, why be friends. I told him,

611
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 2: if he had such a problem with me or my age,

612
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 2: we don't need to be friends. All of the joking

613
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: and overbearing texts have got to stop because to me,

614
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: this isn't teasing, it's just creepy and exhausting. Sincerely, mind

615
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: your MF business?

616
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 3: What says you, Andrew?

617
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 5: WHOA, Yeah, you know, there's a good there's a restraining

618
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 5: order you can also.

619
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would not.

620
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 5: But here's one of the biggest things is I feel

621
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 5: like to be honest with that.

622
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 4: It sounds like an age.

623
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 5: Of like letting people down easy. Nah, just be blunt,

624
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 5: just be like, hey, listen, not interested in talking in

625
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 5: that manner.

626
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 6: We can still be friends. But this is kind of

627
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 6: going a little bit too far.

628
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 4: And it sounds like he's stalking her.

629
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 5: He's watching, but he's she's gotta she's gotta say something.

630
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 5: And then the next time he continues to do it,

631
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 5: then that's when you got to go and start taking

632
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 5: some action legal stuff.

633
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:34,719
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm with you, Andrew.

634
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 1: I think it's it's creepy, it's it's borderlines, it's borderline stalking.

635
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 3: I think it is stalking.

636
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: And I would have a restraining order or I consider

637
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: moving like I wouldn't put up with that.

638
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's when I first started reading it, I thought, oh,

639
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: maybe she has a little interest or something, and it

640
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 2: was kind of cool. Twelve years is twelve years. It's

641
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,239
Speaker 2: I don't think that's a big of a deal. But

642
00:30:58,920 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 2: as she.

643
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 5: Goes, I've gotten my last back. That was that was

644
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 5: eight year seven and a half. Actually age gap.

645
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: Would you ever date not? I'm not directing this with me.

646
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: Would you ever date an older woman?

647
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 3: Or is it not? Have you dated an older one?

648
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 5: We've gone on?

649
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: Oh gone on dates?

650
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 4: How much older? Is there a certain number?

651
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 5: Five years?

652
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 4: I date younger?

653
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm available, but she's not.

654
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 4: I did meet somebody, But.

655
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 3: What's the name that baby?

656
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: We don't give out personally yet, we don't call her later. Okay,

657
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: so Andrew, you are literally I'm being serious now you

658
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: have you seem to be older than your years.

659
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 3: You seem to have your ducks in a row.

660
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 5: I get that a lot. Actually, you don't have friends.

661
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 5: I'm the guy people go to when they have a

662
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 5: little bit of issue, they want to talk it out.

663
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 5: You know.

664
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 6: I'm always there for people, and I feel like I have.

665
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 5: A lot to you know, say, and I try to

666
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 5: be honest with it with everyone, even if it's not

667
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 5: in their.

668
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 6: Not in their best interest.

669
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 5: I was just all right, listen.

670
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: Man, you're a good so now now since you are

671
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: so wise, oh yeah, do you have Do you have

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Speaker 1: any advice or question for Susan.

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00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 5: And May any advice or questions?

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00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 4: What do you want to ask us?

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00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 2: If you have to interview us? What would you like

676
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: to ask or give me? What I like besides Kathy's number,

677
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: I guess you know, I get.

678
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 5: I find it very interesting that you guys are you know,

679
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 5: entering the social media space, which is really cool, very

680
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 5: different for you know, obviously people of your your age,

681
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 5: and I think, like I think it's amazing, and I

682
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 5: want to know what are you trying.

683
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 6: To do with your social media?

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00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 5: I would love to just kind of hear or like

685
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 5: any that's what you want like to I don't know

686
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 5: for me, trying to maximize the following that you have

687
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 5: and and kind of get people into you know, I.

688
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 2: Think I think for both of us and Kathy you

689
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: can answer for yourself as well. But when we came

690
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: off that show, it was such power that we had

691
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: to reach so many people telling them that life is

692
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 2: not over at sixty.

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00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 5: That's awesome.

694
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 2: It's about making friendships and change careers, falling in love,

695
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: whatever the case may be. You're not invisible. And we

696
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 2: ran with that and people, We've reached a lot of people.

697
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: How many strangers come up to us.

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Speaker 5: Do you so? Do you think more people in their

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00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 5: sixties and oh they're living again get on social media?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I think they're trying. I've been on social media.

701
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: I had a job where you know, I was on

702
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: Twitter when it had one hundred and forty character max.

703
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: You know you were even born then, but when first

704
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: came out, okay, well so did I. But you know,

705
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: I'm just because I had to for my work. But

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00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: I will say to you for me, Susan's right. It's

707
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: helping people, our age and our generation not feel invisible.

708
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 1: Get up off the sofa, live your life. All those

709
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 1: you know monikers that we've that we hear all the time.

710
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: But I will tell you for me, My my personal

711
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: thing is fitness. Uh, I'm a fitness free. I work

712
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 1: out every day, I lift weights. I post that because

713
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: I want people to see that. You know, fitness is is.

714
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: It should be a lifestyle. It should It's a decision.

715
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: It's not oh you're lucky, you're you know, you're fit. No,

716
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: it's get up every day and how are you going

717
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: to work out? Because I do it every day? And

718
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: I want people and not at our age, to get fit.

719
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: I want them to have healthier, better lives. So that's

720
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,280
Speaker 1: you know. I post a lot on on my Instagram,

721
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: but my worklo look Kathy.

722
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 4: Also, we don't mind being silly and filming.

723
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: Ourselves what we do.

724
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 5: Everyone loves to come at, you know, thirty year old

725
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 5: men for being on social media.

726
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 6: I just feel like, you know, when this fun end?

727
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 5: You know, why is it?

728
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 6: Why is it ever ever.

729
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 5: Time? So that's why it's always been my issues, Like

730
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 5: how do you guys see it when you're on social media?

731
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 5: Do you feel like people are kind of judging you

732
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 5: for being at an age being on social media? Or

733
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:29,399
Speaker 5: is it good?

734
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 4: Some do know?

735
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 5: Some do?

736
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: We get some comments we do and we laugh.

737
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: I coast everything, Yeah, I have to say, And for me,

738
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 1: I can't speak for Susan. You know, one of the

739
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 1: things about getting older is you don't really care these

740
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: people sitting behind their computers writing horrible things about me

741
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: or my looks or whatever, and Susan about whatever. You know,

742
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's there's negative out there, but I don't

743
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: absorb it because I am confident in who I am

744
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,240
Speaker 1: and happy with who I am, and so it doesn't

745
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: bother me. I think when you're younger, and I'm not

746
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: saying you expressed it, but I think younger people are

747
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:16,240
Speaker 1: intimidated more impacted more by negative attention on social media,

748
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 1: and I think as you get older, that's not as

749
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: big an issue.

750
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 2: I want my grandchildren like, if they're not popular on

751
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 2: social media, it's a thing, you know, And I think

752
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 2: that's sad, I really do.

753
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 4: We didn't grow up like that, you know.

754
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a lot more serious for young people, but like, yes,

755
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 5: I feel like it should be unseerious for people.

756
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: We have fun, you know what I mean? Did you

757
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 2: ever see our coffee talk?

758
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 5: If you don't.

759
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 3: If you don't, are you following us on social media?

760
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 7: No?

761
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 3: Get your phone out?

762
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:50,919
Speaker 5: Wait?

763
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 6: Oh wait no, I followed you back.

764
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I had to follow you first. You have

765
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 3: to watch our stuff. We are.

766
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 1: I'm just saying life, life is sure. Enjoy it right, right?

767
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 5: I agree?

768
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 4: Agree, Hey, we enjoy every minute.

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00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,280
Speaker 2: And the thing about getting older and for us, whether

770
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: it's on social media, live on TV, it doesn't matter

771
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 2: where we are. This is, as Kathy and I both say,

772
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: the last chapter, hopefully the longest chapter, but in the best,

773
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:28,320
Speaker 2: the best chapter, because I don't worry about everything people say.

774
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm not here to please you. You, you and you.

775
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 4: You make up your own mind. I'm living my life

776
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 4: and enjoying it. Right now. We did all the hard

777
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 4: stuff we raised our kids, you know.

778
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 3: So with with all this love and peace that we're having.

779
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: I really was hoping Andrew that you were gonna say Kathy, Susan,

780
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: not Susan anymore. Kathy, I have the perfect guid for you.

781
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 1: I'm going to send them to your Instagram. But since

782
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: you didn't do that, this is gonna We're gonna have

783
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: to wrap up this episode.

784
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 5: Sorry. I should have had a long list waiting for you.

785
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you know, it's all right. I'll give

786
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 3: you a redo. I'll give you a redo. But we

787
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 3: have loved having you on the podcast.

788
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 1: You are kind, you're funny, You're carrying all those ladies

789
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 1: out there.

790
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, all those ladies out there. Get in line right

791
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 3: behind me, right behind me.

792
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 6: Oh, you're in the front for sure.

793
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we love getting to know you more and

794
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 2: I know we're going to see you again. I just know.

795
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 3: So in the.

796
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 5: Meantime, I just do it.

797
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to see you in California again. We're going

798
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 1: to play golf.

799
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 3: So what does that have to do with it?

800
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: Do you have fun? I no, If you play golf,

801
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: that's all. If you haven't fun, that's that's it.

802
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:50,720
Speaker 4: The breakup.

803
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Andrew.

804
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 6: I didn't only play nine because it gets a little

805
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 6: too hot out there.

806
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, that's when you start liquor on the

807
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: back nine. I'll teach you the real world. So the Okay, listen,

808
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 1: thank you for joining us. Please, please please be sure

809
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: to follow Bachelor Happy Hour. We have new episodes coming

810
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: out every week, and if you enjoyed our conversation today.

811
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 3: With Andrew, you are gonna love what's coming up.

812
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 2: There's so much more, I'm serious. Make sure to submit

813
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 2: your questions to us or we won't be able to

814
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 2: answer you or give you advice. I mean, we say

815
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 2: it like it is and you know what to do, right.

816
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,160
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817
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 2: you can even dm us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour.

818
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,520
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819
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:43,040
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820
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Speaker 3: Until next time, have a great week.

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Speaker 2: Tell