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Speaker 1: This is the almost Famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi almost Famous Oge's it's Trista again and I get

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Speaker 2: to talk to Susie this time.

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good, so good to see you.

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Speaker 1: You too. You look beautiful, always looking beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm in my like fluffy sweater and everyone's

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Speaker 2: got these beautiful like glitterally glam.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding? You look gorgeous like a white sweater

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Speaker 1: like it's I mean, first of all, it's bold, like

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Speaker 1: you can't get anything on it, like you have comments

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Speaker 1: in yourself.

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Speaker 2: I literally was like, what am I going to drink?

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Speaker 2: I thought red wine? And I'm like maybe not.

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Speaker 1: Were do you champagne tonight? Because I.

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Speaker 2: Did just ask for a Moscow meal, but I might

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Speaker 2: need to switch that. That's safe, let's just do it. Yes,

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Speaker 2: how is life?

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Speaker 1: Life's pretty good? That's good. You're in La Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: like close to weeho area. Okay, yeah, so it's fun.

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Speaker 1: It's like West Hollywood. I like, what is that?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, West Hollywood. I'm trending now. I'm an La girl.

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Speaker 1: I abbreviate, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: This old one needs a little abbreviation.

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Speaker 3: Help every so often?

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Speaker 2: And are you and justin still you know, that is.

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Speaker 1: Like the question of the century, that is, you're not answering.

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Speaker 1: Answering last year I think that was the question of

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor Mansion as well, right last year. Yeah. We yeah,

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Speaker 1: we are like working on things and seeing if it

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Speaker 1: makes sense for us and taking things slow, taking things privately,

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Speaker 1: and just kind of like seeing like what really makes

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Speaker 1: sense for us, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But I think the cool thing about it is that

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Speaker 1: we have been able to maintain like a very positive

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Speaker 1: friendship through all of it. So good. Yeah, that's important,

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Speaker 1: grateful that we both. I think that's because we started

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Speaker 1: as such close friends that we were like, yeah, that

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Speaker 1: was the fear the whole time of like, Okay, if

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Speaker 1: we start a relationship, like we might lose the friendship been. So,

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Speaker 1: I think a big thing in life is just like

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Speaker 1: compatibility and huge. Yeah, and so I think that's something

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Speaker 1: where we're just at points in our life where we're

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Speaker 1: like we got to figure out if we're compatible. You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very important. I feel like that's what I

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Speaker 2: was looking for on the show. Yeah, compatibility, I mean,

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Speaker 2: amongst a lot of other things, but compatibility is huge.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys met.

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Speaker 3: How long ago?

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Speaker 1: I guess it would be like two years. Oh my gosh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess like two years ago. But we were just friends.

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Speaker 1: You were just last year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then and you met after you were on

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Speaker 2: the show or after she was on.

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Speaker 1: After both of us had been on the show and

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Speaker 1: off the show for a while, because I dated Clayton

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Speaker 1: for almost a year, right, and then yeah, we broke up,

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Speaker 1: and then Justin hired me as a videographer. We both know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know that. Yeah, we're from like only three hours

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Speaker 1: some videography work for him, and then we friends. We

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Speaker 3: I love hearing this story. Yeah, I love the backstories.

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Speaker 2: I know. Are you still doing videography stuff?

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Speaker 1: Not as much. I have been wanting to do it more,

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Speaker 1: just as like a passion thing, because I feel like

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Speaker 1: for a lot I did it for four years as

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Speaker 1: a wedding videographer. Yes, and then okay's with the white sweater,

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Speaker 1: I know, but I have to try it.

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Speaker 2: It looks so.

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Speaker 1: Absolutelyautiful and it's gorgeous with you. I feel like you

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Speaker 1: need a picture with it, even you know, it's fine.

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Speaker 2: This is beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Cheers, Wow, cheers.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's really I know that's so pretty.

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Speaker 1: That's so Jo.

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Speaker 2: Did you just bring me that drink?

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Speaker 3: Because thank you?

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. He was like, no, I was getting

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Speaker 2: Okay. So Clayton, you guys you left the show right separate,

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Speaker 2: you guys rekindled things afterwards, Yeah, and then you broke up.

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Speaker 2: How was like the public and either support or scrutiny

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Speaker 1: It was pretty tough because it was very divided. Like

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, oh gosh, everyone who's rooting for

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Speaker 1: So it was pretty brutal. I look back and I'm

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Speaker 1: like I was not well, Like I was like really

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Speaker 1: very motivated to be like things are going to be okay,

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Speaker 1: like I have a positive outlook.

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Speaker 1: But it was probably like three or four months after

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Speaker 1: the show had completely ended, where like I was getting

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Speaker 1: into therapy. I'd been in therapy, but I was like

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Speaker 1: stuff like post show, just like what do you want

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Speaker 1: to do? You have this platform now, And somebody was like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Like I was just like I was just not

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I just I think I was worried about

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Speaker 1: just get like torn to shreds online. I was just like,

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Speaker 1: And we learnt about it relationship. Yeah, and we laugh

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Speaker 1: about it now and we're like on great terms and

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Speaker 1: But like at some point I like looked at it

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Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, oh no, I feel that. Have you

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Speaker 3: ever done an Enneagram test?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what number?

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Speaker 1: I'm seven?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm a two.

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Speaker 2: It seems like you're you're You've probably got a little

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Speaker 1: Okay, we remind me went to helper. Okay, I'm I

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Speaker 1: would say, maybe that's like my wing.

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Speaker 2: Or whatever, probably because I like, I feel that what

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Speaker 2: you were just like you were speaking to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what you were just saying.

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Speaker 1: Putting out fires and like.

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Speaker 2: Like you want to help other people be happy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that sounds detriment of detriment of yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah huh, which is actually one of the reasons why

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Speaker 2: I just did this new show Special Forces.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I want to hear all about this.

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Speaker 1: I know we can't talk about it like right now.

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Speaker 2: Talk about it, but oh but I'm yes, I'll be

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Speaker 2: on season three.

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Speaker 3: And it was crazy.

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Speaker 2: But one of the reasons that I did it is

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Speaker 2: because I feel like I've put people, yeah before myself

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Speaker 2: with this opportunity, I was like, I can get back

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that's a really big thing to be like,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to do something for me, and I'm going

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Speaker 2: Well, not like it came up with the idea, but

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Speaker 2: And then I thought about it and thought, hmmm, I

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Speaker 1: And people women are going to get something out of it.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm excited to see like other women see themselves

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of women in nice guys as well.

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Speaker 1: They I'm not gonna say just all women, but a

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Speaker 1: So I think it's going to be really cool for

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Speaker 1: women to see you do something like this, which is

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Speaker 1: can I say, badass? You sure can, which is a

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Speaker 1: really badass Like that's thank you, freaking cool, thank you.

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Speaker 2: It was a crazy experience and I just am so

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Speaker 2: grateful that they actually did want me.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like I remember having the conversation, the

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Speaker 2: first conversation with the producers and they're like, well, why

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Speaker 3: And I said that reason.

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Speaker 2: You know, I've been pouring into my kids and my

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Speaker 2: family for almost eighteen years, and I kind of just

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Speaker 2: want to do something for myself and reconnect with the

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Speaker 2: me that I was before I had kids. Not that

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Speaker 2: there's anything wrong with it, Like, yeah, I have loved

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Speaker 2: my job. I would do it all over again if

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Speaker 2: I had to, but you know, maybe now's my time.

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Speaker 1: Did you train for it?

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 3: I did?

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Speaker 2: I called Hannah Hannah Brown. He's on the first season

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