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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 3: Spencer is on the phone today for it to catch Cheeter.

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Speaker 3: He's been married to his wife Lauren for three years,

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Speaker 3: but now he thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 3: we'll see if we can help him out. Spencer, Sorry

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Speaker 3: you have to come on the show this way, but

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Speaker 3: what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, me too, because I'm a really big fan. I

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Speaker 4: listen to your show all the time. Man. One of

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Speaker 4: the problem I'm having right now, I kind of recognize

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Speaker 4: from listening to your show so often the red flags

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Speaker 4: and such. So I've noticed a few of those recently

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Speaker 4: and it's really thrown me for a loop, and I'm

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Speaker 4: hoping maybe you guys can help me figure this out.

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Speaker 4: We've always been really close to my wife and I,

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Speaker 4: like you said, we've been together for three years. Red

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Speaker 4: slag number one, I guess wasn't really a red flag

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Speaker 4: until the second one came, and that is that our

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Speaker 4: intimacy has really just kind of fallen off. He's always

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Speaker 4: had a really healthy physical relationship, but lately it's just

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Speaker 4: kind of been non existent. And I know sometimes people

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Speaker 4: go through phases, and that's what I thought it was

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Speaker 4: until red slag. Number two. He has been staying up,

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Speaker 4: like texting at night on her phone with someone who

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Speaker 4: she says is her friend, which you know might be

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Speaker 4: the case, but it's weird because like when she gets

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Speaker 4: a text message, she responds with one or two words,

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Speaker 4: puts the phone down. She doesn't like to text. Right now,

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Speaker 4: she's like on the couch and night, sitting next to me,

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Speaker 4: not paying attention to anything that happened in the room,

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Speaker 4: looking at her phone, texting long conversations and smiling about it.

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Speaker 4: It just it feels weird. Yeah, it's making me a

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Speaker 4: little crazy. I gotta be honest. But she says that

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Speaker 4: she's talking to her friend Caitlin. Okay, so that was

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Speaker 4: what's likely for too long. Number three. My wife doesn't

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Speaker 4: really like to go out very often. She's not into

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Speaker 4: like the clubs in that scene. But last week she

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Speaker 4: went out with the girlfriends she says, which you know

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't have any problem with her she wanted to do.

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Speaker 4: It's just really strange because she doesn't do that sort

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Speaker 4: of thing. She went out all night and like went

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Speaker 4: drinking and stuff, which is great, But when asked her

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Speaker 4: what she did or where she was going it was

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Speaker 4: just going out. Well, we went out and that was

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Speaker 4: like the end of it, which is super weird. And

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Speaker 4: then red light flag number four is what made me

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Speaker 4: have to call you guys. When she came home from

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Speaker 4: that night out, she smelled like a man's cologne. It

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Speaker 4: wasn't mine. When I asked her about it, she said

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Speaker 4: that one of her friends she was out with meta

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Speaker 4: guy and he sat next to her at a bar.

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Speaker 4: I'm not buying that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, usually don't get you don't get smelling like

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Speaker 3: their cologne, usually for them sitting next to you.

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Speaker 5: I mean, unless he's one of those super obnoxious sprayers,

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Speaker 5: then there is a good chance you leave smelling like it.

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Speaker 5: But I think the texting and giggling while sitting on

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Speaker 5: the couch with you is kind of standing out the

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Speaker 5: most to me because that was just But isn't that

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Speaker 5: also kind of negligent if you're cheating?

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Speaker 2: That's so I think some people just open Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: think someone.

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Speaker 4: Was right next to me.

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Speaker 2: I feel like some people just assume, like, oh, they'll

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Speaker 2: never guess if I do it right here, you know,

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Speaker 2: get caught in plain sight sort of thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe did you happen to ask her what was

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Speaker 5: going on with her friend Caitlin, Like, is she in

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Speaker 5: some type of situation a breakup drama?

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Speaker 4: Actually, yeah, I did. She said that she needed moral support,

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Speaker 4: which I didn't get any more information than that. She

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Speaker 4: didn't seem very forthcoming, and you know, maybe that's the case.

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Speaker 4: I guess that's why I'm calling you guys, because I

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Speaker 4: want to believe my wife. I will, but I've got

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Speaker 4: this feeling in the pit of my stomach and I

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Speaker 4: don't know what's to do about it.

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Speaker 3: Well, so you said that you have a different way

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Speaker 3: to try to catch her than the flower thing that

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Speaker 3: we do normally.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, yeah, she knows that. I have really had

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Speaker 4: my eye on some gym equipment because you know, it's

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Speaker 4: a new year and all that stuff. And I think

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Speaker 4: it'd be a really great idea if maybe because at

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Speaker 4: her job, she has like bonuses, and her next bonus

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Speaker 4: is coming up very soon, and they usually give away

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Speaker 4: these big Amazon gift packages, like like a five hundred

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Speaker 4: dollars gift card kind of thing. I was thinking maybe

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Speaker 4: we could call her up and say, yay, get in

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Speaker 4: the gift card. Who do you want to send it to?

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Speaker 3: We could do a double gift card. She gets one

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Speaker 3: and then also this year giving it to somewhere. You

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Speaker 3: can send it to somebody special. Oh okay, keep.

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Speaker 2: It if it's just one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want her to be like no, I'll

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Speaker 3: take it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, we'll do that.

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Speaker 3: Then we'll play a song, come back, call her, and

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Speaker 3: then see if we can catch her cheating.

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Speaker 2: And hopefully she's not, but we'll see if we can

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Speaker 2: catch how she is.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, Blue, I'll come back.

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Speaker 3: You're to Catch a Cheater next if you're just joining

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Speaker 3: us for Today's to Catch a Cheater. Spencer is on

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Speaker 3: the phone and Spencer thinks that his wife, Lauren of

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Speaker 3: three years, might be cheating on him. So we're about

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Speaker 3: to call her and see if we can catch her.

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Speaker 3: But before we do that, Spencer, why don't you catch

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Speaker 3: everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I guess real short, I've noticed some really weird

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Speaker 4: behavior lately. She is like texting and doing like weird

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Speaker 4: giggles and stuff while she's texting, but she's not a

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Speaker 4: text so that's strange. He's towing out on like girls'

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Speaker 4: nights and drinking and stuff, and that's really outside of

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Speaker 4: her character. And then one night she came home smelling

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Speaker 4: like some other guys cologne, which kind of like made

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Speaker 4: me lose it a little bit, and I had to

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Speaker 4: call you guys understanding help me get to the bottom definitely. So,

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Speaker 4: you know, I thought it might be a good idea

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Speaker 4: if you guys called her and maybe said that you

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Speaker 4: work her job, giving her her bonus and this year

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Speaker 4: it's two five hundred dollars Amazon gift cards kind of things.

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Speaker 4: You should get them too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see if she sends one to you or

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Speaker 2: to somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey is this Lauren?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It hey Lauren, This is Pete up here in HR.

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Speaker 2: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: Oh good, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: How are you great?

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Speaker 3: Really good day to be in HR, because all we're

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Speaker 3: doing is calling up people and saying we got the

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Speaker 3: yearly Amazon gift card bonus is in and they're five

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Speaker 3: hundred bucks this year.

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Speaker 2: Congrats. Yeah. It's a nice day for.

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Speaker 3: An HR person when you don't have to call people

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Speaker 3: and be like, hey, you're fired, you know that?

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Speaker 4: Exactly? Nice?

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Speaker 1: Sweet, that's awesome. I'm excited.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And this year is actually cool because what they've done.

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Speaker 3: Is We're doing five hundred dollars Amazon gift card for you,

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Speaker 3: and then also another five hundred dollars gift card from

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Speaker 3: Amazon that you can send to somebody.

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Speaker 4: Special to you.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome, that's a nice you guys.

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Speaker 3: We will obviously get you yours. And then do you

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Speaker 3: want to send your other gift card to somebody?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure?

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Speaker 3: Okay, do you know who or do you want me

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Speaker 3: to you know, you want to send me an email

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Speaker 3: or I call you back or something.

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Speaker 1: No, I can you just type it in now and

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Speaker 1: like if you have it up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can just take the down the info now

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Speaker 3: and I'll say I'll send you all the stuff to

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Speaker 3: let you know how you send it out.

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Speaker 2: It will be still like a week or so.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, cool.

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Speaker 2: Well, then who would you like to send it to.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to send it to Gavin, all right?

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Speaker 2: And yeah, last name on that Gavin? Uh got you?

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Speaker 4: I can't stick Why who the Gavin?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Who?

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Speaker 2: Lauren? This is actually the Jewel Show. That's your husband

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Speaker 2: Spencer on the phone.

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Speaker 4: This isn't funny, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I know absolutely no. I planned that, whether you

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Speaker 1: guys know it or not. I set this whole thing

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Speaker 1: up and this pandemic?

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Speaker 4: Are you talking about? Who is Gavin?

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you Gavin is.

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Speaker 4: Are you? Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Who are you? What is this? Is this funny to you?

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Speaker 4: I don't is there? Like you're my wife? Well, I

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Speaker 4: don't understand what is happening? Why do you think this

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Speaker 4: is funny? You're growing some guy named Gavin and you're

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Speaker 4: laughing in my face about it.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, I'm not trying to think. Guy, here's it

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Speaker 6: for you?

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Speaker 4: Well? Who is Gavin?

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Speaker 2: Did you have some cocktails? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Gavin is the name of your child? You're a student

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Speaker 1: to be born child? Yeah, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 6: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: We both listened to the show. I know that Spenser

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Speaker 1: loves it.

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Speaker 6: He also loved the specific segment to talk to talk

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Speaker 6: about it all the time. So I kind of set

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Speaker 6: this up and planned it so that he would think

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Speaker 6: I was cheating.

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Speaker 7: I put all the pieces into play, and it felt

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Speaker 7: it literally felt exactly like I wanted it to. I.

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Speaker 7: I mean, now, some guy bought sheaf gas station cologne.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to.

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Speaker 6: Prank you you right away, But yes, I'm pregnant, and

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Speaker 6: this is what I wanted to tell you.

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Speaker 4: Amazing. She's an evil, super genius.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, that's amazing. So did you really need without talking?

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Speaker 1: It was something we talked about. You knew exactly what

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Speaker 1: I was talking about when I said that. Well, when

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Speaker 1: he got into.

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Speaker 4: Contact, my head was so clouded. I didn't even think

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Speaker 4: about that. Oh my god, this has made my day.

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Speaker 4: I cannot wait to see you. I love you so much.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I love you too.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations, thank you, thank you, thank you. Yeah, you did

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Speaker 3: lie to us, but I'm not that mad about it.

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Speaker 2: He didn't know. I think payback's fair too. Congrat thank you,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Guys, the Jewel Shows to catch a Cheater