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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl, lis Peek, and it's

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Speaker 1: Sugarl Drey and the Cold, and you.

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Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine wear.

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Speaker 3: A drunk mind speaks sober thought. What's up, girl, girl?

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Speaker 3: What's up? You look nice today? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: You know, I feel like it's a Valentine's date episode,

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Speaker 1: so we need to wear like a date night attire,

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Speaker 1: know what.

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad, Yes, girl, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's what I was trying to give

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Speaker 2: because I didn't want to wear red because I feel

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Speaker 2: like wearing red on Valentine's Day's kind of corny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so funny because I started to wear these

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Speaker 1: red dress that I've been having in my closet for

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Speaker 1: a minute that I got from Zara, and when I

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Speaker 1: put it on, I was like, yeah, no, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not really a red person when it comes to

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Speaker 3: Now. I love like a red lip.

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Speaker 1: I love like red punk, maybe a red purse, red pump.

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Speaker 3: Okay, no, we know about the maybe a red purse.

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Speaker 1: But the funny thing is when that person wasn't even

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Speaker 1: like I didn't even request that color. But it's a

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Speaker 1: pretty but you know, I would have never yeah, because

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Speaker 1: I would have never got that on my own actually,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I actually like the color be of.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't really wear red a lot though, so when

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Speaker 1: I put it on, I wasn't I wasn't feeling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I don't wear a lot of I think I have

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Speaker 2: like one red dress in my closet, but I threw out.

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Speaker 2: I told you, Like I said, I'm revamping my closet,

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Speaker 2: so I really think I threw it out. But I'm

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Speaker 2: not really into colors that much anyway. Like when I

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Speaker 2: was looking at my closet, it's pretty much white, black, tan, brown.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I don't have a lot of color in there. So, yes,

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Speaker 3: this is given date night a Tiger Girl. So that

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Speaker 3: what you been up too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, just staying busy. I got some new stuff

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Speaker 1: that I'm about to lunch for you. So I had

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Speaker 1: a few meetings about that this past week. So I'm

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Speaker 1: excited about that rollout that's going to be coming out soon.

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Speaker 1: I have like a whole, like really cute idea to

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Speaker 1: how I want to do the new photo shoot and

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Speaker 1: how I want to do the whole roll out. It's

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Speaker 1: going to be very much all inclusive.

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Speaker 3: I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be including everybody. A lot of people was

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Speaker 1: complaining about my last photo shoot, which is crazy because

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Speaker 1: And it also was just so last meeting because y'all

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Speaker 1: don't understand that photo shoot had me so stressed out.

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Speaker 1: All of the models that I was finding kept flaking on,

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Speaker 1: flaking on me, or they couldn't shoot the day that

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Speaker 1: being like, fucky, I'm gonna just ask Kiki can she

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Speaker 3: Because she's my lightest.

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Speaker 2: Liar and you have to show a little, you know,

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Speaker 2: a little Yeah, I was trying to show a little versatility.

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Speaker 1: But even still when using me and Kiki, people was

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Speaker 3: I mean, I get it, but I'm like going forward.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, these are all things that I plan on doing

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Speaker 3: But it's like, damn, y'all gotta cut cut me a

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Speaker 2: Had like six or seven model, yeah, and they were

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Speaker 2: and the pictures came out well, and the lip boss

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Speaker 3: Stop complaining, y'all, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Be easy on business owners.

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Speaker 1: So yes, but this time around, I'm definitely planning on

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Speaker 3: Yes, we love it, we love to see it. Well.

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Speaker 3: For me, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I fell off of the gym a little bit last week.

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Speaker 3: Like yes. So I'm back on it this week.

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Speaker 2: I went back yesterday, so I'm just like, Okay, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, I mean that's what I really love about

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Speaker 3: It's really like a release, you know.

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Speaker 3: So I've seen your tweet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now you said you can't wait to show us

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Speaker 2: the results and you don't bust a split on the show.

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Speaker 1: No, now on the show now because I was, but

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Speaker 1: I'm doing like a middle switch challenge, right is very hard,

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Speaker 1: it is. So I'm doing like this middle Switch challenge.

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Speaker 1: But then I'm also just doing this other challenge that's

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Speaker 1: on the app that I use called Flexibility boot Camp.

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Speaker 1: So that's for like ninety days, and then the Switch

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna once I finish the whole boot

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Speaker 1: show my results. And this is an app on your phone,

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Speaker 3: I feel you because there's an app that I used too.

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Speaker 3: Like it's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: But I've come a long way, you know, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So as y'all can see, I got me a little

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Speaker 3: bit til today. So a hooker, I do. I do.

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Speaker 1: So speaking of the cocktail, y'all know, we got tied

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Speaker 4: Purple Heart, all right, So we have forms Drea.

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Speaker 3: We have some Cosumigos Blanco. For Miss Lex, we.

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Speaker 4: Have some Tito's vodka. Both of them have some Grand Maritier.

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Speaker 3: So that's a little orange liquor with a little Kooniac

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Speaker 2: Look now I'm gonna paste myself because y'all know Toad

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Speaker 2: I just love this new segment. I feel like we

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Speaker 3: For ty y'all. Snap snap snap yes. So yeah.

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Speaker 1: So and then on top of that, so then I

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Speaker 3: I went to the dermatologies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I got these like bumps under my eye removed.

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Speaker 1: So apparently they are called seagoonas I think, which is

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Speaker 3: Who get moles or whatever.

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Speaker 3: But how much is a procedure like that car? Oh?

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Speaker 1: It was only it was like two fifty three hundred, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So it's really interesting. I was actually thinking about going on.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know what they were called. I don't know

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Speaker 2: I was gonna get some treaton on. I want something

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Speaker 3: You know what. And y'all know, I love me a

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Speaker 1: I would say my best Valentine's Day day is I

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's that's actually a really good Valentine's Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: It was never something I planned.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I never have a boyfriend around

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Speaker 2: I've never I maybe like have somebody I'm talking to, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I've been that way since I was little, Like my

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Speaker 3: I don't know what it is about roses. I just love,

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Speaker 2: But I think my my favorite day, I feel like

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Speaker 2: when it comes to Valentine's Day, I've always been simple,

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Speaker 2: you know, that was really it was really really thoughtful.

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Speaker 2: So I just think that men think that they have

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Speaker 2: it's like, just do something. Valentine's Day is really simple.

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Speaker 1: But I also I do think that you need to

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Speaker 1: I do think that you should make Valentine's Day special.

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Speaker 1: Like I definitely feel like, yeah, if you dating somebody,

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Speaker 1: yeah dude, make sure you do it little something. Don't

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Speaker 1: forget about her on Valentine's Day. You know, do something

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Speaker 1: you don't have to be something super extravagant, but.

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Speaker 3: Do something well, sorry, I don't even know this. Okay,

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Speaker 3: this is my thing.

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Speaker 2: This is my issue that I want to talk about

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Speaker 2: real quick, and I don't even need to make this

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Speaker 3: But I think it's so crazy. How like if you're casually.

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Speaker 2: Dating somebody, like say you start dating somebody casually January first,

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Speaker 2: So for me, it's like, I feel like sometimes men

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Speaker 2: But honestly, if you're just starting to date somebody or

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Speaker 2: been hanging out, going to dinner. You can just go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and that's absolutely a turn off.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't want to date somebody who you gonna

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Speaker 1: to Christmas or get close to Valentine's Day, because like

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Speaker 1: we said, maybe not necessarily a super extravagant gift if

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Speaker 1: you at least need to get some flowers. You at

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Speaker 1: least can go get something cute and small. They don't

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean. But it's just like you said,

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Speaker 3: the thought that counts. If you don't give me.

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Speaker 1: Nothing for Valentine's Day, I don't care if we started

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Speaker 3: If you don't give me nothing.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, no chocolate, no Harshi.

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Speaker 1: Kiss enough for you, you can at least get me

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Speaker 1: like the big ass hershey that they be heavy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I know, bear or something like.

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Speaker 2: Some men think not I can't speak for all men,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like a lot of times they feel

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Speaker 3: And again, we're not getting married. It's not that serious.

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Speaker 2: Like you can do something nice for the person that

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Speaker 1: Time with Yeah, I mean, and then at this point

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Speaker 1: and at this age, if you are not trying to

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Speaker 3: What are we doing? What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna think you my like, isn't that the goal

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Speaker 3: At this point?

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Speaker 1: Ain't you trying to be in a relationship? Are you

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Speaker 3: Well? Maybe'all think maybe me and you are.

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Speaker 1: At this age, and I feel like once you get

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Speaker 3: I don't think everybody know. I'll be honest.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people they don't really

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Speaker 2: I don't want to speak for everybody. That's why I

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Speaker 2: say something people really aren't looking for that. But if

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Speaker 2: can still do something. It doesn't mean we're walking down

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Speaker 3: You take me to dinner on the fourteenth. Yeah, makes sense.

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Speaker 3: So what's your worst date? No date, no day? Being lonely?

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Speaker 3: Caramel friend Day, Gallentine's.

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Speaker 1: Days aver Galentine's Day is a fucking words all much

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Speaker 3: Please do not invite men. And I too, and I

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Speaker 3: too have been apart you donal Yes, me and Lee

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Speaker 3: and that one last year.

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Speaker 1: It was kind of a gallantine because her cousin ended

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Speaker 3: But we ended up paying for everything saw me. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it was cool. It was cool.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, we definitely like made in a reservations at

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Speaker 1: Little Alley.

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Speaker 3: Oh y'all, y'all with beer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we definitely made inner reservations at Little Alley and

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Speaker 1: we both got each other agive, Okay, that was that's

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Speaker 3: It was just the two of us.

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Speaker 1: I don't some girls they like to do Gallentines and

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Speaker 3: Where the big niggas. I'm not doing no more. I'm

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Speaker 3: too old, I'm too you So you've done Galentines before.

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Speaker 3: I have not done Valentine's Day before. I barely do

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Speaker 2: I love my friends unconditionally, like y'all know my I

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Speaker 2: always say this, my friends are like my family. But bitches,

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Speaker 2: I love y'all, but I'm not trying to do everything

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Speaker 3: Got damn it. I'm not niver.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be with my friends on no holidays.

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Speaker 1: Where's my nigga?

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Speaker 3: Where is my man? Where is my man? Egg? For real?

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be with you on Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 2: Damn you strict now, I don't want to We can't break, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be with I don't want to

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Speaker 2: be with you on Columbus Day.

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Speaker 3: What God damn it. I don't want to be with

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Speaker 3: you on Mlkday.

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Speaker 2: Damn we can't even freedom March for freedom, No, damn.

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Speaker 3: I'm a march for freedom with my men. You're a

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Speaker 2: Okay, So before we get to the topic, somebody ask

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Speaker 3: One do you have plans for Valentine's Day this year?

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Speaker 3: And two? What are you getting?

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Speaker 2: What's a good gift to get a man for Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: I think I have plans. Okay, I think. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I do.

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Speaker 3: I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty sure I do. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: pretty sure I have plans. I know I'm at least

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Speaker 1: gonna go to dinner, right or something. What do I

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Speaker 1: think you should get a guy for Valentine's Day? I

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Speaker 1: think that you should get I think cologne is a

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Speaker 1: great Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: Great Valentine's cologne, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the only appropriate I think that Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day is the only appropriate time to.

440
00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:55,040
Speaker 3: Get a god cologne.

441
00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,840
Speaker 1: By the way, why because I feel like any other

442
00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,120
Speaker 1: time of the year is not thoughtful enough. I don't

443
00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,520
Speaker 1: think I don't think it's thoughtful enough for a birthday.

444
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,120
Speaker 1: I don't think it's thoughtful enough for Christmas.

445
00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:10,320
Speaker 3: Really, I feel like it's minimal effort, like getting cologne.

446
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,399
Speaker 1: Because because my thing about fragrances and stuff too is

447
00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not really like a person

448
00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,760
Speaker 1: who enjoys people gifting me fragrancies.

449
00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,399
Speaker 3: Because Okay, you don't know what I like.

450
00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:22,720
Speaker 1: Even if you think you know what you what I

451
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,280
Speaker 1: like or smell good on you, That don't mean it's

452
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:28,520
Speaker 1: gonna smell okay, you know. But but I do think

453
00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,520
Speaker 1: that it's like a minimum. I think it's a bare

454
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,239
Speaker 1: minimum type of gift. But I think that Valentine's Day

455
00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 1: is about.

456
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,720
Speaker 3: The world, right, Okay, it is about the girl. But

457
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,159
Speaker 3: I do think you should get your men a gift. Now,

458
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I think cologne is a good gift.

459
00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,119
Speaker 2: So that's just me because I don't guess it's a

460
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 2: Nigga's colone.

461
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,840
Speaker 1: I gifted me in cologne, but it wasn't for like

462
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,399
Speaker 1: I'm gifted me in cologne just because, you know what

463
00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,600
Speaker 1: I mean, just because I'm like, oh this shiit smells

464
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 1: really good, and I think it'll smell good on you.

465
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,000
Speaker 1: Let me buy you this, you know what I mean.

466
00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:00,240
Speaker 1: But like on, I wouldn't give no men colone.

467
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 3: On Christy his birthday. I just wouldn't.

468
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,399
Speaker 1: Why I get something. I would just be something a

469
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,399
Speaker 1: little bit more thoughtful.

470
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 2: I'm a bathroom bodyworks show ass down mahogany teak wood motherfucker.

471
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:14,520
Speaker 1: But I do but I do think that for Valentine's

472
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 1: Day it is appropriate.

473
00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,200
Speaker 3: And then let me think what else? What else would

474
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,520
Speaker 3: I get? While you think? I think a good gift too?

475
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 3: I did this. One year. I got a basket made

476
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 3: of like mealts and cheeses. It's not a charcooterie board. No.

477
00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,560
Speaker 1: I remember one year my mama gifted my daddy with

478
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:33,920
Speaker 1: a basket of salami.

479
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,919
Speaker 3: Pause, why do you do that? I don't know, but

480
00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 3: she did because he likes it and he likes salami,

481
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,440
Speaker 3: all right, he did. No, I didn't like it's necessary

482
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 3: to say pause after that. But she got him a

483
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 3: basket of things that he likes.

484
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, but I don't want to no basket of

485
00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:51,880
Speaker 1: summer sausage.

486
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,640
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm not gonna lie, Nigga, I be in cheat.

487
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,119
Speaker 2: Nigga gave me a basket of bood ad it's going down.

488
00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:01,000
Speaker 3: You know. I love me with some crakud. But that's

489
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,159
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. One year for a.

490
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 2: Guy, I got a big old basket of like all

491
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 2: his favorite stuff. So I had got like you know,

492
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 2: you can get the henney see bottles like made with

493
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 2: like their initials on it.

494
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 3: So I got like a so you can do that

495
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 3: with any liquor, Okay, you can get them personalized so

496
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:18,919
Speaker 3: like it has their name on it. So I got

497
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 3: him like a because he.

498
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:20,919
Speaker 2: Used to drink Henessy all the time, So I got

499
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 2: him like a personalized like Hennie Bottle. I got like

500
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,199
Speaker 2: his favorite candies in there. Like I have like some

501
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 2: like what are those underwear called the guys used to

502
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 2: wear that expensive?

503
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 3: No, not Haynes Bitch. Is it Hugo Boss or something

504
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:39,479
Speaker 3: that the boys used to wear? Che Hugo Boss.

505
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what it was, but I had got

506
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,639
Speaker 2: some nice expensive underwear. It was just like an assortment

507
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 2: of things. He was a gamer. I got him like

508
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 2: the games that was coming out that he wanted.

509
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 3: It was like a huge nice task que.

510
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 2: It was yes of personalized stuff, Like don't just go

511
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 2: buy a basket from Walmart that just got beers and

512
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 2: candy in it. You have to get a basket made

513
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: with specifically stuff that you know that he wants in there.

514
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 3: Do you think the niggas out there that like flowers

515
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 3: they like I think I.

516
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 2: Think it's more so of the thought I would never

517
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 2: get my man flowers me either.

518
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: But I wonder if it's men out there who would

519
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: like to, like, you know, get some flowers delivered today.

520
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 6: Job.

521
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 2: But that's why to the job. Now, you're funny what

522
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 2: you mean because I don't know. I just feel like

523
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,760
Speaker 2: you should maybe get that delivered to the highest unless

524
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 2: he likes it.

525
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 3: Okay. Is it like masking? Do you gotta get like

526
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 3: Black Ross song, don't give me, don't give maybe spread

527
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 3: with a little satin mood. Oh, now you know that

528
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 3: that's my ship? Okay.

529
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 2: So I feel like this is why it's important that

530
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 2: we have these conversations. But we also say do what

531
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 2: works for you, right, because I'm not gonna lie. I'll

532
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 2: just be tired of people saying this specific. Maybe there

533
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: is men out there that like flowers and there's nothing

534
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 2: wrong with that.

535
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but just find out what your man.

536
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,920
Speaker 2: Likes, find out what your girl likes, and do something thoughtful.

537
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 3: Absolutely one hundred percent agree. There's Joe Valentine's Day tips.

538
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: So men, if your girl watches Poor Minds and she

539
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 2: didn't get you a gift, she don't like you because

540
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: we just gave her two great ideas too great gifts.

541
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: I do like a couple's massage, like you can always

542
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: and you can always do. I think them the best

543
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 1: type of gifts of Valentine's Day too, is a gift

544
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: you can include jo Selphie, Hello, absolutely make reservations for

545
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: you and your men to go get a massage, to

546
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: have a spot day, to get a facial here because

547
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: you can, you know, get you one too, And well,

548
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,160
Speaker 1: I guess you should have paid ahead of time.

549
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 3: He probably paid.

550
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I will say you're actually a really good

551
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: gift giver.

552
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 3: I think you're very creative. You're very creative with it.

553
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 2: I feel like when it comes to giving gifts to.

554
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 3: Men, because you don't mess with a lot of bad

555
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 3: b's and y'a tell yeah, so you don't have to

556
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 3: get creative. I do get.

557
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 1: I do get because the things about messing with guys

558
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: are dating guys that have a lot of money or

559
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: like they don't really want anything. It's just kind of like,

560
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: what do you get somebody that can get everything for

561
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: theyself or probably already have everything that they want. You

562
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: have to be thoughtful, like you gotta think outside of

563
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: the box. Like that's why I said I wouldn't get cologne,

564
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,160
Speaker 1: because I feel like the type of guys that I'll

565
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: be dating, they look at me. If I just bought

566
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 1: him some cologne on Valentin's Day, They're gonna be like

567
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: for real, But you said Valentine's Day when Colonne was cool,

568
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: I mean not Valentine's, Christmas and birthdays.

569
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, they gonna be like what see the type of

570
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 2: niggas I day. I bought that nigga draws. He was

571
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:37,919
Speaker 2: happy as fuck. Yeah I was young though, Okay, draws

572
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 2: is cool to.

573
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 1: Give him like a little three pair of aasachi. It's

574
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: like on point where niggas used to love Paulo draws.

575
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: I remember I did buy my ex boyfriend back in

576
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: high school Paulo draws.

577
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

578
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 2: I'm to Valentine's d I have Valentine's Day plans.

579
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. Well.

580
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 2: I don't know what they are either, but I'm gonna do.

581
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get them a little, you know, a little one.

582
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 3: So that was a really cute Valentine's Day. I had two.

583
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 3: I forgot about that with my age. No, I was

584
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 3: that wasn't all time day in the summertime. That was

585
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 3: a long time.

586
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: I like my ex boyfriend, like we was broke up,

587
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: but like I didn't have a Valentine, and so he

588
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 1: had came to my apartment and he had got me

589
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of balloons, and he had got me

590
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 1: some flowers, and he had got me a beer and

591
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 1: some candy he.

592
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 3: Got like stuff like that.

593
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he had got me like a cute little

594
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,360
Speaker 1: bracelet and then he took me out to eat.

595
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,640
Speaker 3: And it was fun. See that's thought he was gonna

596
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 3: get some kuchie. But it was like, you know, we

597
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 3: broke up. You know what's crazy, Drea. I don't know

598
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 3: what it is.

599
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 2: All my exes haven't texted me like the past two weeks,

600
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: all literally every single one, Like.

601
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 3: Wasn't it just mercury retro gray girl?

602
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 2: Let me read this text that I got from my

603
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: x O day actually last night, and I said, what's

604
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 2: going on? He said, any and every time I've ever

605
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 2: been around, you been pure dopamine.

606
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: I said, that's why you retweeted that, that's why you

607
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 1: post on your whole.

608
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: I posted on my store and I think he saw

609
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: it and he was like telling me, like I said, baby.

610
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: No, you know, okay, somebody that I used to talk

611
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: to have been calling me a lot lately too, and

612
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: I don't understand what that's about, because they need to stop.

613
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 3: They need to stop, no chance, they need to stop. Okay.

614
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 3: I just feel like, how do you let niggas up?

615
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 3: We always getting off tope? How do you let niggas

616
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 3: down gently? Like?

617
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

618
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: I don't even want because I do feel like men

619
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: definitely try to act like they don't care, but they

620
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,719
Speaker 1: feel it's me getting hurt too, And so I just

621
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: feel like, how do you let a nigga down gently

622
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 1: and let him know I don't like you no more?

623
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to stop calling me like, especially if

624
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: I already told you stop calling me? Do I gotta

625
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: spill it out to you like I'm fucking somebody else.

626
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: Look fucking again, see that's no Look who I'm not fucking.

627
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 3: Well to see that's me.

628
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 2: I'll spend the block, But I'm not spending the block, no, Moore,

629
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 2: I'm not doing that no more.

630
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: But like, yes, Greg, yes, allowd my girl for me.

631
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 3: I'm not spending the block anymore. But I don't mind

632
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 3: like we can. It ain't no beef like we can

633
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 3: be cool.

634
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: It's not no, you know, we don't have to like

635
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 2: But as far as us just like hanging out all

636
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 2: the time, texting all the time. This is not that

637
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 2: I'm trying to move on and have healthier relationships, but

638
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 2: I just think it's so weird because men will try

639
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: to act so tough and when you have good energy

640
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 2: and you're really a good person. I can say that

641
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: for all of my friends around me, like our energy

642
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 2: just be different.

643
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is, but these men really

644
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 3: be fall in love with us. It's like and they always.

645
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: It's just it's a different type of connection. But one

646
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: thing I will say is you can't take a good

647
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: connection that you have with somebody when you know you

648
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: have somebody solent and take it for granted, because that's

649
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 2: that shit does not come around often.

650
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 3: So I mean, yeah, and you want to be looking crazy,

651
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 3: looking crazy.

652
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: And the person I don't want to fuck with you

653
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: no more, and you finally realize I fucked up a

654
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: good thing. I think that that's where niggas be at

655
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: witty when it comes to us a lot of the time,

656
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like with everything, we

657
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: always been good people, you know, but I think with

658
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: everything that we have going on now and stuff too, niggas.

659
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 3: Be like that. I kind of kind can you with

660
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 3: the bag?

661
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: Okay, let's get into these goddamn topics.

662
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all show Girl XP and it's Chagirl Drey and

663
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: the Call.

664
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 3: And one thing about us, baby, we don't be outside

665
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 3: and we don't do some karaoke.

666
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: Y'all have been asking us for the longest to have

667
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: a karaoke night and we finally got.

668
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 3: That ship to get there. Yes. And on top of that,

669
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: not only is it just me a Lex, we got

670
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 3: music so child too.

671
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 2: So if you wanted to have your moment and really

672
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 2: sing in front of everybody and blow you, I don't

673
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: care if you singing.

674
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 3: Juggling, rapping, whatever you do. We want y'all to send

675
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 3: y'all tapes in.

676
00:28:59,000 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 6: Now.

677
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 3: There's only a few slots available. You have to be

678
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 3: in Atlanta.

679
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: This event is that City Winery in Atlanta on March first,

680
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 2: so you have to be at Atlanta to participate. So

681
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: if you're in Atlanta, send your tape in. We want

682
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 2: to hear you sing.

683
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: Rap, jel, blow fighting, whatever you do, whatever you do.

684
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 3: We want to see that ship and mind you.

685
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 2: This is a competition, so me music Andrea will be

686
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: judging you.

687
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: And on top of that, if you win, you getting

688
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 3: the grand prize. So make sure y'all come and see us.

689
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 3: And even if you just want to come, turn up,

690
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 3: come on city, watch the show.

691
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, come watch the show link below, See y'all soon, period.

692
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 2: So the first thing this is definitely relating to us.

693
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: And since we're already talking about our dating life today,

694
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 2: we're going to talk about do you automatically become a

695
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: topic when you're dating a content creator?

696
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, for the most part. But I think that we

697
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: used to be like that, but not so much no more,

698
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: Like I feel like now when I date guys, you

699
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 1: ain't I ain't necessarily got to really talk about RBS's

700
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: on the show. Like I feel like we became really

701
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: good at talking about so many other things. Yeah, that

702
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: we ain't got to talk about our personal life like

703
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: that no more, and who we dating and what we're

704
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: doing with who were dating.

705
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: Right cause I think for I mean, poor Mind started

706
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 2: off as a show where two girls dating and trying

707
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: to figure out life. Like it was about our dating

708
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 2: lives and us just trying to navigate it. But at

709
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: the same time, we've also grown as women so much,

710
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 2: and we there's a lot of other shit that we

711
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 2: care about, like we're not such male centered women because

712
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I hate people who are just

713
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 2: male centered, Like I don't like being around women like

714
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: that a lot. So for me, it's just like that's

715
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: why I'm happy that this show has grown, because you know,

716
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 2: we all had our characters. You know, I had Rapper

717
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: Bay Nigeria Bay Football Band, like, we.

718
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: Had some characters, Bad Houston.

719
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 2: Bab, mister FF like, you know, we used to have

720
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: all these characters.

721
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 3: And don't get me wrong, it was cool.

722
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 2: But for now, it literally like it's just a lot

723
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 2: because if I'm dating somebody, they didn't ask for this,

724
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: they didn't ask for Like if I'm out with somebody

725
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 2: and them to be like, ooh, I saw Lex out

726
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 2: with such and such, I wonder who this is, and

727
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 2: they'll find him on social media, start following him and

728
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like they didn't ask for

729
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 2: the attention that just because.

730
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 3: Me and you have this show.

731
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 2: So that's why I feel like I've backed away from

732
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: telling stories about a guy. I'm dady, Like I'll say, oh,

733
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 2: if I met somebody, or if I'm dating somebody, I'll

734
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: say that, but as far as like giving y'all updates

735
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 2: play by play, giving them character names like that, I'm

736
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: definitely like, I can't do that anymore, Like it gives

737
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 2: me anxiety sometimes.

738
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 3: Honestly, Yeah, I don't know.

739
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: I just stopped talking about people that I've dated on

740
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: the show because it's like, people find out you dated

741
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: one nigga and they eded like literally literally have went

742
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: on dates with like ten other people since I dated

743
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: a specific person, and people just know about a particular

744
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: person will take that and run witted. But that cold

745
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: lass team where everything you talk about got to do

746
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: with that person, everything is about the person, is just insane.

747
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 3: So it's like and.

748
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: Then on top of that, I think with maturing, you

749
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: just realize too that when you care about things, you protect. Yes,

750
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: when something is important to you, you protecting because it

751
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: be all that outside.

752
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 2: Energy up and people can't wait to see you take

753
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 2: an l right.

754
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: And not to say that you should keep your relationships private,

755
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: because I'm not an advocate for being privy. I feel like,

756
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 1: if I'm with you, people need to know, you know

757
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: what I mean, if I'm in a relationship, But you

758
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,479
Speaker 1: gotta keep your business out of people mind and out

759
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: of people. Because people don't know she, they ain't got

760
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: shit to talk about. That's why, like I said, with me,

761
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: people still be talking about a person I dated five

762
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 1: years four years ago because they have no one, They

763
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: have no new counting nothing, because you don't give them nothing,

764
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: because I don't give I get very much.

765
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 3: I think that's what happened with me too.

766
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 2: Like when I was when I was dealing with a

767
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 2: certain person I used to talk about on the show

768
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: a lot, everybody was everybody was talking about literally people

769
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 2: when they came to one of the live shows.

770
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna say what city was in. Some

771
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: people like.

772
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 2: Saw him and it was just like it was like

773
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: a fiend. And I'm like, that's why I completely just

774
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 2: stopped talking about it, because, like I said, if I

775
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: go through a breakup or if me and my nigga

776
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 2: going through it.

777
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 3: People can't wait to talk about it.

778
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: And like you said, I just I have enjoyed privacy

779
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: so much, Like my life has.

780
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: Been so much more peaceful since I'm not talking about

781
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: my dating life.

782
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's because it's it's hard. I mean, it's

783
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: already hard dating in this space because I'm not gonna lie.

784
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 2: When I'm dating somebody, I don't. I don't want them

785
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: to watch the show.

786
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't really care.

787
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 2: I care just because I think a lot of times,

788
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 2: like if it's new in the beginning, it might be

789
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 2: a lot for you. So I feel like, I think

790
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 2: we need to have develop a relationship out of outside

791
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 2: of what I do for a living. So once we

792
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 2: get comfortable, you understand, like this is a job I'm

793
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 2: literally working, and you understand that cause a lot of

794
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 2: men are insecure, Like when it comes to dating. A

795
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: beautiful woman who's comfortable in her own skin.

796
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 3: Makes her own money.

797
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: I can freely talk about having sex with people and

798
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 2: this and that.

799
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 3: But doesn't mean I'm going around fucking.

800
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: Everybody, Like you have to be a very secure man

801
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 2: to be with women like us, like super secure and

802
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,240
Speaker 2: you know, like, yeah, I ain't tripping.

803
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: This is her job.

804
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,399
Speaker 2: So I like to develop a friendship and really get

805
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 2: to know each other and have a bond so you

806
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: can understand who I am outside of lex P because

807
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 2: at this point it's just like it's much you know

808
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So, yeah, I don't like talking about that.

809
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 2: My dating life is too much on the show any more, or.

810
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: Do you think that you could do you think that

811
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: you can have like a healthy relationship if you're a

812
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: content creator and you're dating somebody who doesn't want to

813
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: be a part of your content, and absolutely.

814
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 3: How how do you how would you go about it?

815
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 3: I just won't talk about it.

816
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: I think my last relationship, like we had a conversation,

817
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 2: but I.

818
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,479
Speaker 1: Mean, like not a part of your content, not out

819
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like not in the

820
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: public eye like that.

821
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 2: Well, okay, so if we're in a relationship now, that's

822
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 2: a little different because you got to come outside with me.

823
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 3: Like if I've events to go to and I want.

824
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: To bring a plus one, like you're gonna come with me,

825
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 2: you know, Like when I go on tour sometimes I

826
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 2: want you there. You know what I'm saying, So you

827
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: cannot be I'm not saying you got to be on camera,

828
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: yeah you know. I'm not saying that you got to film,

829
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 2: you know, buck Bones. I'm not saying that we gotta

830
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 2: be one. Like I don't want to be a TikTok couple.

831
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to be a YouTube couple. I have

832
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: I have a YouTube couple right here.

833
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 3: I'm good on that head.

834
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 2: So I feel like you don't have to create content

835
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: with me, but you definitely need to show up for me.

836
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's gonna be known that your Alexpi's man.

837
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: Eventually is gonna be known that you are with me.

838
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 2: Oh you dating that podcast girl.

839
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 3: So you just gotta have thick.

840
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 2: Skin, right, So yeah, I can date somebody that doesn't

841
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 2: want to be a part of my content, but if

842
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna be a part of my life, you're gonna

843
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: have to be around.

844
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 3: Be around Yeah, yeah, for sure.

845
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like you have some people where

846
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: you'll get into a relationship with them or start dating

847
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: them and they just be like.

848
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,240
Speaker 3: These too many. Yeah, that actually happened.

849
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 2: Remember with Throwback Bay, he was not he was not

850
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: into it. We're not gonna we're not gonna talk about that,

851
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 2: but he was definitely not not feeling, not feeling the occupation,

852
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 2: and that was the main reason why it was just

853
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 2: kind of like you know.

854
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, but sometimes some many because I

855
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: feel like they don't be feeling an occupation because they

856
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: be feeling three what you mean, like like threatened by

857
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 1: your newfound success and fame.

858
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 3: Well, I'll say this, I'm not the Fello fame because

859
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 3: we ain't famous. I was abna say it, not fame,

860
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 3: we zeless. Come on whatever, blowzi, but no, I'll say

861
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 3: this with him.

862
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: I think the issue with him was, and I'm not

863
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 2: defending him, but I think the issue was he's already

864
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 2: kind of been through that with his career that he had,

865
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 2: you know, and he's like on the other end of it,

866
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 2: and he was just like I he didn't like the

867
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: fame part of it, Like he just wanted to do

868
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 2: his job, but fame unfortunately came with it. So he

869
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 2: hated being in front of the cameras. He hated all

870
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 2: that shit. So for him, once he was able to

871
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 2: retire and get away from that, he didn't want to

872
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 2: be a part of it at all. So in his

873
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: mind he's like, oh my god, I'm dating somebody who

874
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 2: people are gonna be wondering who the fuck I am,

875
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: And so just caused a lot of back and forth with.

876
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 3: Us, you know what I mean.

877
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 2: So I don't think for him it was like he

878
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: was intimidated or like insecure or wasn't.

879
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 3: He just didn't want to be a part of it,

880
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 3: and which is fine. You can make.

881
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 2: You know, you create boundaries with people and you have

882
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 2: to respect that, And that's one thing I'm learning to

883
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 2: this year.

884
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 3: I feel like people get so mad.

885
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: When people create boundaries with them, but you have to

886
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 2: respect that. Like, if somebody creates a boundary with it,

887
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 2: you can't be like, oh, this is bullshit. I want

888
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: to know, like, let people do what they have to

889
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 2: do what's best for them. If him not dealing with

890
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 2: me and not talking to me because he can't handle

891
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 2: my job is what's best for.

892
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 3: Him and his mental right. Cool.

893
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: You know, you have to let people do what they

894
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: want to do and what's best for them and not

895
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: get offended. So that's something that like I learned from

896
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 2: that situation. Like if I set boundaries with somebody and

897
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 2: they don't respect it, I just know I need to

898
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: cut them off completely. Or if somebody sets a boundary

899
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 2: with me and I don't like it, it's like it's

900
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: not about me though, it's about respecting the boundary that

901
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: they're putting up. So that's how I feel when it

902
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 2: comes to it. I feel I feel like you've never

903
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: been like super open with talking about your day and

904
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 2: life though, like as a content creator like you be

905
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 2: kind of like you'll say a little one two.

906
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, But that's because that's just me personally, Like that's

907
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: just always being a preference of mind. I don't like

908
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: people in my business because I feel like people only

909
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: want to know your business to talk about it, right,

910
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: or it's a disciple body Like, people don't want to

911
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: know your business because they really be concerned, right, and

912
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: they want to be like, oh, I'm so I'm not

913
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: saying that it's not and I'm not saying that it's

914
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: not people out there that don't be concerned, you know

915
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: what I mean, they don't really care about this, because

916
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: I do feel like we have listeners for sure that actually.

917
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: I mean, it's more people that care about it's a

918
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 3: love case. I feel like we definitely have people that

919
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 3: care about us.

920
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: But I feel like, for the most part, like people

921
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,839
Speaker 1: just well, let me not even say for the most part,

922
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: but I do feel like it's a good amount of

923
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: people that they just want to have something to talk about,

924
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: because even though I don't give people nothing to talk about,

925
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 1: they see talk about. It's like, I have heard the

926
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: craziest scenarios about situations that I've been in. People that

927
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: I've dated stuff that I quote unquote did like.

928
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 3: So let me tell you something crazy though.

929
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: Probably one of the craziest rumors that I ever heard

930
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: about myself was that I was a scammer. I swear

931
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 1: to God, what the craziest rumors I ever heard about

932
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: my friends that I was a scammer?

933
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: Like what scammed?

934
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 2: Now?

935
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 3: You know what's crazy and too mother fucking scary.

936
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: I'm too scary anybody, anybody, But I ain't risking my.

937
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 3: You know what. You know what I discovered recently.

938
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 2: I don't know if I've told you this before, but

939
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,760
Speaker 2: you know how, like on Twitter, we'll search poor minds

940
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 2: to like resweet everything. I recently started searching lex Andrea.

941
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: You gotta search our names together, gir.

942
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: I never started seeing I don't even do that type

943
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: and stuff because people be dumb.

944
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 3: What do you say?

945
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 2: Well, I know, I will honestly say ninety five percent

946
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 2: of it was positive.

947
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 3: It was like a lot of other y'all me.

948
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 2: It was just a lot of like Lexi dre. I

949
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 2: can't believe y'all listen to them. Lexandrea bitch is. They

950
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 2: don't even like each other. Lex is dumb. I don't

951
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: see how Drea sitting on that couch with her Oh,

952
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 2: Drea stuck up, and it was just a lot of

953
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,240
Speaker 2: creative stories. It was a lot of I was like, damn,

954
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 2: I wasn't a I'm not gonna lie, y'all. I have

955
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 2: not been on social media really at all lately because

956
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 2: I like to I be on TikTok. I'm not gonna

957
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 2: lie because I can. I can consume TikTok content because

958
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 2: it's so it's a lot of different things, and you

959
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 2: can create your.

960
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 3: You know, for you page.

961
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, all that really be coming out there

962
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 2: is like working out stuff, meditation stuff, and cooking stuff.

963
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 2: So that's really what Like Instagram, I don't fool with Instagram.

964
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 2: I'm really like over Instagram. I don't fool with Instagram.

965
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 2: I be on Twitter. I kind of just tweak from

966
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: my mentions or whatever. So but anyways, I was searching

967
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 2: poor stuff and I was like, let me type in

968
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 2: our names and see what people.

969
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 3: Be saying when they went down. I bet you did.

970
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: That's why I don't even search that stuff.

971
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: But I've been staying off of social media for the

972
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: most part too, like I've been because that was a

973
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: part of my fast, like I was only getting on

974
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: there during certain hours.

975
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you made me started.

976
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm but even now that I'm done with

977
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: my FAST, I still plan on incorporating it as a

978
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: part of like my daily mental health routine, because like,

979
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: sometimes social media just really start to consume us and

980
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: we forget about the reality of what really be going

981
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: on in real life and focusing on real life she

982
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: what really matters.

983
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 3: But yeah, I ain't gonna lie only time.

984
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if you know this, but you always

985
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,280
Speaker 1: retweet stuff about poor minds on Twitter, and so I'll

986
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 1: just go to your page and look at your tweets

987
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: and just retweets, retweet. I never searched poor minds or

988
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: searched Drea in Wicks no more. Because people are just me,

989
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. Like you said, most of the

990
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: feedback definitely need positive and people are definitely nice, and

991
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: it's a lot of people that support us. It's a

992
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: lot of people that fuk with us and they have

993
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: positive things to say about us, but it's also just

994
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 1: a lot of negative as weird as people. Because my

995
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: thing is, if you can't believe people listening to us

996
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: or whatever the case is.

997
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 3: Why are you tweeting about it?

998
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: Why are you you still contributed because you still talking

999
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: about it, right, And I think people don't be understanding

1000
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 1: that too. I'm at a point in life where it

1001
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 1: really don't matter a lot of shit just roll off

1002
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: my bag because whether you say something.

1003
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 3: Good or bad, you saying something.

1004
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: And when you tweet Drea and Lex, if somebody's searchy,

1005
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: your tweets still gonna come up because you're talking about it, right.

1006
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: It's just it's just really crazy to me, cause, like

1007
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 2: I said, I don't even know you.

1008
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 3: E's ease. That's the crazy board, right.

1009
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 2: I just feel like with me, honestly, what I do

1010
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 2: now is if I check my Instagram because obviously it's

1011
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,720
Speaker 2: my job, so somebody mentions me or like something gets posted,

1012
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 2: of course I'm gonna repost it to my story if

1013
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 2: it's a poor Mon's club, But I long, I get

1014
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 2: right back off, I repost.

1015
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 3: The mind's content and I log right.

1016
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 2: Back, like I said, especially with Instagram, because that shit

1017
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 2: have you know, it kind of started facing your mood

1018
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 2: a little bit, and everybody knows me.

1019
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 3: I'm a leo, I'm sensitive.

1020
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 2: I got anxiety, I got depression, I got all that shit.

1021
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 2: So it's like, I gotta be careful to what I

1022
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 2: feed my mind.

1023
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to be careful about what you consume

1024
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: on a daily basis, Like, I don't be wanting to

1025
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 1: see people talking negative about it. Life is already hard enough, bitch.

1026
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: I don't need like I might be having a bad day.

1027
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: I don't need to see no stupid ass sheet that

1028
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: you're saying about me, dog.

1029
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 3: And that's alty I'm already on edge.

1030
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 2: Why I'm mad at myself too, because even before I walked.

1031
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: In here and when I wasn't drinking, Oh yeah, I

1032
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: really would have went off on somebody speaking of drinking.

1033
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 3: Can we get some two refills please? A man? Sister?

1034
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 3: Oh but no.

1035
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 2: That's why I'm actually mad at myself because I responded

1036
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:49,919
Speaker 2: to somebody today that pissed me off, and I shouldn't been.

1037
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 3: Old people when I respond to them.

1038
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: Most of the time, I just be like saying some

1039
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: smart ass sheet, or I just be saying some sheet.

1040
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 3: That I know, go upset you. I'm fucking weak. What

1041
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 3: is the part, Well, I don't want to No, it

1042
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 3: don't matter.

1043
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 2: She was just saying, like the tea paint Obviously, if

1044
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 2: you're living under a rod. We went on Tea Paints

1045
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 2: podcast and he had posted the clip on. I said,

1046
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: I had a net worth of three dollars and my

1047
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 2: wigs used to be three dollars and I would get

1048
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: my wigs from party City or whatever like that. We

1049
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: was all laughing, and somebody retweeting was like, Oh, this

1050
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 2: girl thinks that she was being humble by saying her

1051
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 2: net worth is three dollars, but she don't even realize

1052
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 2: her friend laughing at her and making her look like

1053
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 2: a clown. I said, bro, how did you take this

1054
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 2: fun moment and turned Oh? I didn't say this, but

1055
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 2: I'm thinking in my head, how did you take this fun,

1056
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 2: joking moment and turning into something mean?

1057
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 3: Like why do y'all do that? It was so weird.

1058
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 3: I said, Damn, I'm literally.

1059
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 2: Talking about how I moved to Atlanta with three dollars,

1060
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 2: which I'm not lying. I'm not trying to be humble.

1061
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all the motherfucking truth. And I'm like, Damn,

1062
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 2: y'all dumb and strict on this bitch. God, Damn, a

1063
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,760
Speaker 2: nigga can't say nothing.

1064
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: No, you can't say she like if people swear any

1065
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: time we laughed.

1066
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 3: And stuffed it, or the other person who stoked that.

1067
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: We'd be in shady weedo like, like, y'all, are.

1068
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 2: I told you when I was talking about my edges

1069
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 2: that time they called me textrophobic?

1070
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:07,959
Speaker 3: What did you say?

1071
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 2: I said, I got nappy edges and I was like, yeah,

1072
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 2: my hair, I got nappy. I got nappy hair. And

1073
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 2: they're like, I was like, I have four seat hair.

1074
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 2: My hair is nappy. They're like, oh my gosh, you

1075
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 2: made all the four Sea girls feel bad. You're being textrophobic.

1076
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 2: I can't even talk about my own hair.

1077
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 3: What is textrophobic?

1078
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, y'all in these terms, Auntie is old.

1079
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1080
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 2: I know how to make jokes and talk about myself

1081
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 2: because that's what I do. It's funny to me. I

1082
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 2: don't mind making fun of me. I love to laugh

1083
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 2: at myself.

1084
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 3: I love to laught hair. Damn, that makes me a

1085
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 3: bad freez. That's what I'm saying. It's not that big

1086
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 3: of a deal, So y'all need to relax. Fis that

1087
00:46:54,520 --> 00:47:00,359
Speaker 3: purple heart got me beating that purple wirthful? If y'all

1088
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 3: is your girl xp and it's Schagarltory, and Lacon. Now

1089
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 3: y'all know we on our health kick. We at the

1090
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 3: beginning of the year.

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Speaker 1: The next topic, we wanted to still keep going with

1138
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: the theme of Valentine's Day, so we wanted to talk

1139
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: about do you think side cheeks should get a special

1140
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day?

1141
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 3: Weavy Air come sit on the couch one day his head.

1142
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 2: Yes, I need to know why, so let me play

1143
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 2: Devil's advocate. I'm not gonna lie, Okay, old lex in

1144
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 2: my old days.

1145
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 3: Yes, I feel like you should do a little some

1146
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 3: something for you.

1147
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,800
Speaker 2: Know that you made the decision to fuck winner, You

1148
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: made the decision to fuck with so if you have

1149
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 2: a side chick, you need to get her something. You

1150
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 2: made the decision to cheat on your wife, your girlfriend.

1151
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 3: So I feel like and also as a side chick.

1152
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 3: I'm not speaking for the side chick because I'm not one.

1153
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 2: Okay period, Okay, but I'm saying and as a side chick,

1154
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 2: you already I have lowered your value by dealing with

1155
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 2: a man who's in a relationship. You know what I'm saying,

1156
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: You've already so at least bitch, have some pride. At

1157
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 2: least make the nigga send.

1158
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 3: You a hurshy kids.

1159
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1160
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 2: If a man, if you're fucking with somebody else's man,

1161
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: he don't do nothing. Don't say Valentine's they don't acknowledge you, Like, damn.

1162
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 3: Bitch, how low can you get? How low can you get?

1163
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like, but do I think that they

1164
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 2: deserve a special Valentine's Day?

1165
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 3: No? I don't. I really don't. You know what I'm saying.

1166
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 3: I feel like deserve is the key work keyword deserve. Deserve. No,

1167
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 3: you need to get your old man. Yeah, Like, I

1168
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:38,360
Speaker 3: don't know.

1169
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: I just feel like, And I'm not gonna sit up

1170
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 2: here and say I've never dealt with a man in relationship.

1171
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm above

1172
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 2: you know. But you know I I I was young,

1173
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 2: I've done stupid things. I've grown a lot. I feel

1174
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 2: like one thing about me every six months, every three months, bitch,

1175
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 2: every month.

1176
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,240
Speaker 3: I have just done so much work on myself.

1177
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: So people probably gonna be kind of like, oh, next

1178
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 2: talking about this when she said in the pastor she's up.

1179
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 3: Yes, But that's the good thing about evolving. That's the

1180
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 3: good thing about me.

1181
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 2: Growth, growth, Okay, that's a good thing about me. You

1182
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 2: can't make me feel bad about something that I said yesterday, bitch, because.

1183
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,919
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't feel that way no more hope. Yeah.

1184
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 3: So with that being said, do I think side chicks

1185
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 3: deserve a special day?

1186
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 2: No?

1187
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 3: I don't.

1188
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 2: But I think that if you are a side chick

1189
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 2: and you already being stupid and fucking with a nigga

1190
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: that got a girl, he don't even acknowledge you on

1191
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, you're even more stupid.

1192
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 3: So my short answer, no, how do you feel about it?

1193
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 6: No?

1194
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: DC, No, I just feel like, no the fuck? Why

1195
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: do you deserve Valentine's Day?

1196
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 2: Yea? Is?

1197
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 3: I mean some okay? But holding it down? Yeah, they

1198
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 3: feel like they're the escape. I make my men feel

1199
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 3: good because his wife be stressing him out, his girl

1200
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 3: be stressing about he not happy.

1201
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: I feel like being a side beach and you are

1202
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 1: not living in the leaf of luxury.

1203
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 3: You are already to do me.

1204
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: It's long because I feel like you ain't never no

1205
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: past to be a side beach. But if you, but

1206
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: at least if you gonna be one, you need to

1207
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 1: be getting all the things everything you need to be

1208
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: getting all the things from this nigga. You shouldn't even

1209
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,840
Speaker 1: have to ask him for a Valentine's Day give. He

1210
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 1: should just already know how he gotta come. And especially

1211
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: if you're the type of beach they hold it down

1212
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna cause a rookie.

1213
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 3: Not you gonna cause I'm not gonna start a rise.

1214
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 3: She's gonna start a ride. I swear to God. Bit

1215
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 3: like me will start a riot. You are a firecracker, like, yes,

1216
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 3: I will start a riot.

1217
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: So if you gotta beat, you'll be keeping it quiet

1218
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: and low key and holding it down.

1219
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 3: I would give a nigga an ultimatum. I'm a type

1220
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 3: of beach.

1221
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: It would come into a situation as a side beach,

1222
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,840
Speaker 1: and you gotta make me your maybe try and.

1223
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 3: Not making the I want her spot, give it to him.

1224
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 2: Make it the c life be wild, it do be

1225
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 2: I just but you know, let me say this too,

1226
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm playing Devil's advocate.

1227
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 3: I had a friend within a situation. I'm sorry it

1228
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 3: wasn't me. It was the way you said it. It

1229
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 3: reminded me of it. Carl Tommy's emotionally a part No,

1230
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 3: please please, Okay. Anyways, I had newly had You can

1231
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 3: tell that.

1232
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 5: Cost me now today because I haven't had a drink.

1233
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 3: This is the first time you had a drink, right,

1234
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 3: It's the first time I had a drink since this year.

1235
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 3: The first was drinking on the first. So anyway, So

1236
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 3: I had a friend and she was dealing with times dealing.

1237
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,320
Speaker 2: With a married man, and but her thing was she

1238
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 2: just felt like, I'd rather deal with a married man

1239
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 2: or a man in relationship because it's no pressure on me,

1240
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 2: Like I can talk to you whenever I feel like it.

1241
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 2: I don't have the pressure of being a good partner

1242
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,879
Speaker 2: because that's not what I want right now. I want

1243
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: somebody who I can fuck on. We can go have fun,

1244
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 2: and we can go our separate ways. So that was.

1245
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 2: So I'm not saying that it's right or that it's okay.

1246
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 2: I'm just saying some women just are and men too.

1247
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:24,839
Speaker 2: It'll be a lot of side niggas out here.

1248
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 1: I just feel like that's not never a good reason

1249
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 1: today a merry nigga or a nigga in a relationship,

1250
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: because there's plenty of.

1251
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 3: Niggas out here who will fuck you and go they

1252
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 3: separate ways and they're single.

1253
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: So like, that's what niggas do until they like you,

1254
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 1: like once they like you or like that's a different story,

1255
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: but I feel like that's what niggas do. Niggas are

1256
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: well versed in fucking beches and going about their business.

1257
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 3: They'll take you on a trip, then't go about they besneys.

1258
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 3: They'll take you out town.

1259
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 2: But match getting ghosted after nigga take you on a trip.

1260
00:54:59,040 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 2: That's wild.

1261
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 3: No, that is wild. I don't know. I have done,

1262
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 3: I done. I've done the ghosting. No, I've definitely done

1263
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 3: a ghost after a trip. But sometimes, oh, you the

1264
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,439
Speaker 3: one doing the ghosting. I want you to go to hell.

1265
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 3: That's what I want. Okay, So let me ask you,

1266
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 3: let me ask you this. I gotta tap my card.

1267
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 3: I'm about to say something. Damn. Oh do you think

1268
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 3: a woman should get hurt gift? No? You don't. Okay,

1269
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 3: I am the gift. I am the gift. You should

1270
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 3: be happy that I'm cheating on my man for you.

1271
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 2: Absolutely period. Okay, all right, so we're done with that topic.

1272
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 2: So basically, do a side piece chick or man deserve

1273
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 2: a special Valentine.

1274
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 1: Way men haven side niggas is wild, I know, but

1275
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: that's so wild to me dealing with two niggas.

1276
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 3: They sound like a headache that I do not want

1277
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 3: to deal with. I do not want to experience. I

1278
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 3: don't want to have.

1279
00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: Enough.

1280
00:55:58,840 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

1281
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 2: I used to be about that life. I used to

1282
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 2: be about that. Like I love me a little shut

1283
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:07,399
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1284
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 3: I can't get home. I can date multiple men at

1285
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 3: one time.

1286
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: And when I say date, I mean like as far

1287
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: as texting, you know, hanging out, going on dates. But

1288
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: when it comes to sex, like I cannot have sex

1289
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: with two niggas at one time.

1290
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 3: I can't. I'm not gonna lie to you.

1291
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 1: So I could never have a side nigga because I

1292
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: can't be fucking two niggas at one time like.

1293
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 3: I have I before.

1294
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 5: Hell yeah, but but the auntie was young, the pussy

1295
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 5: was tender, you.

1296
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. Now, it was falling off the ball,

1297
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,399
Speaker 3: it was falling off the bone. Now you know, I'm

1298
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 3: a little I gotta cook it over there, I gotta

1299
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 3: you know, it got a bround, make a little bit.

1300
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 3: I'm not I am not fucking more than one man

1301
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 3: at a time. I'm just not doing it. It's yeah,

1302
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 3: I can't do that. It's too much work. It's too much, right.

1303
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 2: I like to really satisfy my man in bed. I

1304
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 2: like to know my nigga body. So it's too much

1305
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 2: trying to figure out he liked this, but he liked this,

1306
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,360
Speaker 2: and go on, uh uh, I'm not it's too much blood.

1307
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 3: And what if you said around nigga names, yes, and.

1308
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:09,760
Speaker 2: There's too much juices that be flowing. I like nasty, nasty,

1309
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 2: nasty sex. I can't have my sex that I really

1310
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 2: like with two different people.

1311
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 3: I just don't know what what I told you. You

1312
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 3: know that little elbow in the mom There ain't no

1313
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 3: juices coming from your elbow. Get all freaking now. You

1314
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 3: don't know, you don't know. They sounds like it might

1315
00:57:26,520 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 3: be in fifty y'all, y'all real nasty, We real nasty, y'all.

1316
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: Show girl next gee and it's suggirls right in the call.

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Speaker 1: And I got some really good news. But y'all all period, y'all,

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1320
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1321
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Speaker 3: We about to be doing blogs, were really.

1322
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Speaker 1: About to be dropping a lot of exclusive content for y'all.

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Speaker 2: twice a week. Well, this is your opportunity to see

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Speaker 1: And that's why we about to get into the bed

1339
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 1: bow bow.

1340
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 3: A little tipsy. That's crazy, because that's crazy. It's crazy

1341
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 3: because wonder you smile. I can see them, I can

1342
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 3: see your mallers.

1343
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 2: Bitch. Okay, so today we're going to talk about the

1344
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 2: arts of kissing. Kissing is so important kissing is literally

1345
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 2: so intimate.

1346
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I may ruffle some feathers.

1347
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 2: Y'all may not agree, but like sex is very intimate, yes,

1348
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 2: but there is something about kissing that is just a

1349
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 2: little different from me because I feel like if you

1350
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 2: just fucking on somebody, like he could just hit it from.

1351
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 3: The back, nutting you nothing. Y'all go.

1352
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 2: But like to have a man a missionary and you

1353
00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 2: know you're kind of choking him a little bit, he

1354
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 2: kissing you. You know he's spitting on you. I mean

1355
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 2: spitting down your mouth. I want to say, on you,

1356
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 2: you know, spitting in your mouth.

1357
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 3: You know, and y'all.

1358
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 2: Here, But anyways, that is so I look with that

1359
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 2: miggles makeup bitch dude. Okay, So anyways, I feel like

1360
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 2: being a good kisser is a deal breaker for me.

1361
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 2: Like if I I don't care how long we've been

1362
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 2: dating or talking or how much I like your personality,

1363
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 2: if I have that first kiss and my kouchie don't jump,

1364
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 2: I know it's not gonna work.

1365
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 3: Like you know that you know that koochie jump I'm

1366
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 3: talking about?

1367
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, when that kouchie jump you talk about h if

1368
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 2: that you don't jump when I die. Yeah, if I

1369
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 2: kiss you and my kuchie don't jump, it's not gonna happen.

1370
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 2: It's not gonna happen. Like, I love a good kiss,

1371
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 2: and there's an art to kissing.

1372
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 1: I like a lot of Like you have to be

1373
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 1: a good kisser, Like it can't be dry, and it

1374
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: also can't be too sloppy.

1375
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 3: You don't like the too juicy. And I don't know.

1376
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 3: It ain't nothing that a small lip nigga can do

1377
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 3: for me. Oh, I love I love me A juice

1378
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 3: lipt me too, love me. I like to suck on

1379
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 3: the lip. Yeah, come on, you gotta you gotta suck.

1380
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 1: You a nasty just I know thees, Yeah, you know,

1381
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: you gotta it. Just gotta be slow essentials. I feel

1382
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 1: like that's the builder. Kissing is the builder.

1383
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 3: Honestly. If I can tease it like gets you, it

1384
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 3: gets you aroused and gets you ready. I'm main attraction,

1385
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 3: the main event. I want that meat. Everybody, everybody relaxed

1386
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 3: because but all right, I've had a dry January. I'm

1387
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 3: I haven't had sex this whole year. I haven't had

1388
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 3: sex in a very long time. I've had a.

1389
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: Dry January, had sex this year either. I'm horny because

1390
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: that was a part of my fast too. Damn you

1391
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: is straying my choice.

1392
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 3: I know, well not I know, but that is strength

1393
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:23,439
Speaker 3: over there.

1394
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 2: It is.

1395
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 3: You, funny as fuck, it is are we. But that's

1396
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 3: a good thing. Though, that's a good thing, you know.

1397
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 2: I feel like that says a lot of I'm ready

1398
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 2: to be me to me personally, But that says a

1399
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,200
Speaker 2: lot about y'all's connection to that, Like y'all can do

1400
01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 2: that together.

1401
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 3: Like that's lit to me. That's good, you know, only

1402
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 3: reason you know. I ain't gave up. I'm just you know,

1403
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 3: I'm trying to, like I said, you know, go the

1404
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 3: slow route. I think that's good for you, it is

1405
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 3: good for me. But I won't. I'm not gonna lie.

1406
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:04,000
Speaker 3: I want that beat. I want that meat bad. Did

1407
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 3: you do like the the penis chick?

1408
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 2: Oh?

1409
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:06,919
Speaker 3: You know I did?

1410
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 2: You know?

1411
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 3: I that's why you want to be that meat was made. Wow,

1412
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 3: Mammy has summer sausage.

1413
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 2: The sausages be thick and oh I can't wait for

1414
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 2: that salami. They be salty though I like a little flavor,

1415
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 2: a robust flavor.

1416
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 3: I don't know. Shout out to Hello Fresh.

1417
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 1: I want be a robust The only busty you need

1418
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: to is that okay to be your robust.

1419
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 3: Be okay, Okay, maybe i'll too. You think too far, but.

1420
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like when you're a good kisser and

1421
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 2: lets me know a lot about that sex too. Good

1422
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 2: kissers most of the time.

1423
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 3: Like I feel like, I.

1424
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: Think, if you're a good kisser, you're attensive, you're attensive,

1425
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: you got some good meats, and you in tone, You're

1426
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: in tune.

1427
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 3: I promise you.

1428
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 2: I've never like when I've kissed somebody and it was like, okay,

1429
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 2: the sex ended up being like okay, you know, like

1430
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 2: when I kiss somebody and that that kid's gonna tell

1431
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 2: it all. Yeah, Like if you make my coochie jump

1432
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 2: from a kiss, I can only imagine you're gonna do

1433
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 2: when you kissing that coaching.

1434
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then it's like it's it's other actions involved

1435
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: in the kiss too.

1436
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 3: Like I like when somebody be kissing me and they

1437
01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 3: grabbed my throat, Oh my god, they grabbed my face.

1438
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,600
Speaker 3: I know, I like it. I like it. It gets

1439
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 3: rough and.

1440
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 1: Then you know, I also feel like, you know, you

1441
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: gotta kiss and then you gotta like kiss on the

1442
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 1: cheese kiss on the chin. I love a good forehead

1443
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 1: them collarbone kisses to do something to you.

1444
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 3: I can't wait for I need to stop drinking the sheep.

1445
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 3: I can't wait for this because you too horny, So horny, bro.

1446
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:56,439
Speaker 2: My vibrator is tired every time it sees me walking

1447
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 2: the door and be like brow mind went dead the

1448
01:04:58,840 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 2: other day.

1449
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 3: Oh that's I was so sad, Bro, that'll make me

1450
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 3: want to kill somebody. I was very upset. But I

1451
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 3: got like five, so well, I have a lot. I

1452
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:13,959
Speaker 3: have a lot, but I have my favorite one.

1453
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: No, I definitely was using my favorite one, but I

1454
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: was like, I mean the other one to get.

1455
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 3: The job done.

1456
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a sad, sad day with my bitch. I

1457
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 2: put it on the charges. She already know what time

1458
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 2: it is.

1459
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:26,479
Speaker 6: Mm hmmm.

1460
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 3: How often do you charge on vibertas? Honestly, I have

1461
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 3: one that has like a long battery life.

1462
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 1: So I think most of mine do because I only

1463
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: be charging the bitches like maybe one once a month

1464
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: if that, then I use them alight, Bro.

1465
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 2: My vibrator is tired. She's had a run these past

1466
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 2: few weeks not having sex.

1467
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: It's crazy, It's crazy. It's inhuman, it's low key stupid

1468
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 1: as fuck.

1469
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna still hold out.

1470
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: I think, I think, but I do think refraining from

1471
01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: anything app Well, let me say abstaining. Abstaining from anything

1472
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 1: is good for you.

1473
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is, it is, but you know it's still hard.

1474
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 6: It is.

1475
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the item of

1476
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 2: the week. So I have an item of the week

1477
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,960
Speaker 2: this week, and I have actually talked about this product before.

1478
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 2: I absolutely y'all know I'm a candle girl. I'm a

1479
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 2: sense girl. If I walk into your house and it

1480
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,920
Speaker 2: smells like the steak you cooked last night, the eggs

1481
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 2: you had this morning, I don't like that. I'll be

1482
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 2: judging if I walk in your house what it smelled like.

1483
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 2: So I'm a candle girl. Every time you walk in

1484
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 2: my house, it's gonna smell super good. So first off,

1485
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 2: let me tell y'all about this candle. So this is

1486
01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 2: from a company called the Keith and Call. It's a

1487
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:43,200
Speaker 2: black owned company, and this is the leather and Lace fragrance. Now,

1488
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 2: this is for the guys out here, and I feel

1489
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 2: like this could be a good creative Valentine's Day gift too,

1490
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 2: Like put some candles in the basket.

1491
01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Get them right.

1492
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 2: So this is leather and lace, and it kind of

1493
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 2: has like a masculine scent. It has like a masculine scent.

1494
01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 2: It smells really good. It's and then when it's lit up, y'all,

1495
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 2: it lit up my whole living room. It smells so good.

1496
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 2: So this is the first thing, y'all. Make sure you

1497
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 2: have a good candle in your house. These candles are

1498
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 2: absolutely amazing. I'm gonna put the link in the bio

1499
01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 2: and then I'll give y'all a promo code to I'll

1500
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 2: like maybe like Poor Mines or something.

1501
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 3: I'll reach out to her. And but this is the trick, y'all.

1502
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 3: Good woo.

1503
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 2: This is not like my type of party, my sea bitch,

1504
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 2: We are done with the bah bit. This is the

1505
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 2: trick to the This is the set the trick to

1506
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 2: having your house smell good. This is not air freshener.

1507
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 2: This is linen spray. This is the secret to having

1508
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 2: your house smell good. Y'all. If y'all don't know anything,

1509
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 2: I'm putting you on right now. You have to spray

1510
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 2: your couch. You have to spray your sheets as long

1511
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 2: as you don't like have like super sensitive skin, which

1512
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 2: I don't, But it doesn't have anything that will react

1513
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 2: to it.

1514
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 3: But I spray all.

1515
01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 2: I spray my curtains with this, and it just lingers,

1516
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 2: and like even if I don't have a candle, it

1517
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 2: has the whole house.

1518
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:03,240
Speaker 3: So I'm a spray in the air. See if you

1519
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 3: can smell it?

1520
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,360
Speaker 6: O you smell it?

1521
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 2: No?

1522
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 3: No? I okay smelling now? Yes, it smell good. It's

1523
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 3: m it only smell like. It has that musk that

1524
01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 3: I feel like it goes with the leather and lace

1525
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:20,679
Speaker 3: really good. Y'all.

1526
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 2: If you want your house to smell good and you

1527
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 2: feel like I'm burning candles, it's not working.

1528
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 3: You need some linen spring.

1529
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 1: Stop putting fabulau so in the pie, Stop putting fabulous

1530
01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 1: on the pie.

1531
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 2: Stop using for breeze, for breezes, for basic bitches, y'all,

1532
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 2: get you some linen.

1533
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 3: Spray so La Keith and Cole, damn not the for

1534
01:08:37,200 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 3: breeze it is it is. I'm straight so La Keith

1535
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:41,800
Speaker 3: and Cole, goodwood.

1536
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 2: It smells really good, But they have other fragrances and

1537
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 2: all that good stuff, and it's not even that expensive.

1538
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:49,479
Speaker 3: I think they're like fifteen dollars. So yeah, la Keith

1539
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 3: is cute packaging.

1540
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 2: It's cute, y'all know I love things that match, you know,

1541
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 2: a little decour.

1542
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, the candle's beautiful. All this is beautiful. Yeah,

1543
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 3: so show out to La.

1544
01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 2: Keith and cold period Lincoln the bio. I'll give y'all

1545
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 2: a little cold I'll put that description.

1546
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 3: So now it's time to get into the bi about

1547
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:12,840
Speaker 3: about about about Did we do the bad song this week? Yes?

1548
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:19,160
Speaker 3: We did, because damn bitch, we got a long day ahead.

1549
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:20,559
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm good.

1550
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:22,639
Speaker 2: I know, I'm just saying to need to eat something

1551
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 2: little one two Okay, So what's your BAP of the week?

1552
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 3: Grum girl on my PAP of the week. And I

1553
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 3: can't believe I haven't said that. This is my bop

1554
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:36,479
Speaker 3: of the week? Two million up by Peasy if we

1555
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 3: locked in and y'all like that, that is a mother

1556
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 3: fu And it's a remake of the song by Dennis Edwards.

1557
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 3: Don't look any further.

1558
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 1: WHOA and that was a hit too back in the day.

1559
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 1: Y'all gotta go do them do me a favorite because

1560
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 1: I know a lot of y'all youngest books.

1561
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 3: Y'all probably ain't seeing that video. You gotta go watch.

1562
01:09:57,439 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 2: It was.

1563
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: That nigga was rolling b was They definitely had just

1564
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:13,840
Speaker 1: did a little booger sugar. This was high its fuck

1565
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: me is definitely a that nigga was shanging and that

1566
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 1: lip was.

1567
01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 3: Very much shaky, shifting from lifts to right. I heard

1568
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 3: it or not like that?

1569
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: Okay, I know you told us, Oh God. Definitely a

1570
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 1: great song. And you know, classic sample.

1571
01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 3: We love a good sample. We love a good sample. Okay,

1572
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 3: So my bapa the week got to Detroit. What you know?

1573
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 2: Okay, my bop of the week is Ayana, Can you

1574
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:52,760
Speaker 2: take it? I think this is a good little Valentine's

1575
01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 2: Day song. It's a real sexual song. I have never

1576
01:10:56,720 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 2: actually heard of her. Somebody has sent me this song.

1577
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,000
Speaker 2: Y'all be sending me some fire music, so please keep

1578
01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:02,639
Speaker 2: sending me stuff.

1579
01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:06,000
Speaker 3: But I actually really like this song. It's just a

1580
01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:06,960
Speaker 3: little sexy song.

1581
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 2: I feel like one thing about me one of my

1582
01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 2: intimacy things is I love sharing music with somebody I'm

1583
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 2: dealing with, and I like for us to share each

1584
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 2: other's playlist. Like if you send me a song and

1585
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 2: you'd be like oh this reminded me of you. That

1586
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 2: is like I love that because now it's like every

1587
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 2: time I hear this song, I know, we think about it. Yeah,

1588
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 2: so sharing songs is very intimate to me, Like I

1589
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 2: love that, Like if I share, especially my playlist with you,

1590
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 2: because you know, you judge people off of the music

1591
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 2: they listen to. So if you listen to my playlist

1592
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:37,360
Speaker 2: and you really be fucking with her, I listen to yours,

1593
01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, Like it's just crazy. So

1594
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 2: I love having the same taste in music with men

1595
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 2: that I date. But anyway, so yeah, Ayana, can you

1596
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:49,400
Speaker 2: take it? She spells her name aa y A n

1597
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 2: n A can you take it?

1598
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 3: It's a very like, you know, sexual sensual song, you know.

1599
01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's my bop of the week per period.

1600
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: So now time to get into our favorite segment of

1601
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: the show, which is pour your Heart Out.

1602
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:04,360
Speaker 3: So you know, if you have any.

1603
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 1: Questions, you can always send them to ask Poor Minds

1604
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Askpo you are in my nbs

1605
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com.

1606
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 3: Okay, come on, they bring us the most. Come on that.

1607
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 3: Thank you, FA and he got the march on today.

1608
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 3: I know that you better be ripping for the series.

1609
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:30,639
Speaker 2: Okay, I have question number one, so I'll go ahead

1610
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 2: and open up first.

1611
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 3: Home on not long Okay, that baby.

1612
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So it says, hey, girls, I've been dealing with

1613
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 2: an older man since I was twenty five, and he's

1614
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,600
Speaker 2: now forty and I'm pushing thirty planning to move in

1615
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 2: with him. Backstory, I didn't like him early on, but

1616
01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 2: he grew on me because he took care of things

1617
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,759
Speaker 2: I needed. I was honest and told him I didn't

1618
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 2: want anything serious and he understood, but actions spoke a

1619
01:12:57,560 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 2: louder than words. We've been on at least tens and

1620
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:03,240
Speaker 2: everything is cool. We rarely argue, but I know for

1621
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 2: sure he's not my person. New Year's twenty twenty two,

1622
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 2: we went out with a bang to Tampa and had

1623
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:13,200
Speaker 2: the best sex ever over the weekend. The trip ended

1624
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 2: with us both in the airport crying.

1625
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 3: Because it was over. Fast forward to March and here

1626
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 3: I am now about to move in with him.

1627
01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:22,680
Speaker 2: I really want to say for a down payment on

1628
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 2: a property, and I honestly just want to see what

1629
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 2: it's like. I'm stable enough that if it doesn't work out,

1630
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 2: I will be good, and I'm not taking all of

1631
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 2: my stuff. Eighty percent is going to storage. My question is,

1632
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 2: how do you feel about me moving? How do you

1633
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 2: feel about moving in with men? And do you think

1634
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 2: it's a good idea? If you have a goal attached?

1635
01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:42,200
Speaker 2: Am I using him?

1636
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 3: You want to go first? You going first? Go first?

1637
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 2: Well, I've always said I don't it's not a big

1638
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 2: deal with me to move in with a man because

1639
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:51,920
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're stable enoughing it don't work out,

1640
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 2: just leave. It takes two seconds to get an apartment. Now,

1641
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,200
Speaker 2: with that also being said, like you do have a

1642
01:13:58,280 --> 01:13:59,760
Speaker 2: goal attached? Shit, are you using him?

1643
01:13:59,800 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 3: Yet?

1644
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 2: You know you're using him? That's why you asked. You said,

1645
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 2: you know this is not your person. So I think

1646
01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 2: that's just something that you have to decide within yourself.

1647
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 2: You know, like you are essentially wasting somebody's time and

1648
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 2: really wasting kind of your own. I guess, But I

1649
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 2: guess if you have a goal attached, like you're not.

1650
01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 3: But I don't know.

1651
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 2: I feel like moving in with a man is not

1652
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:23,599
Speaker 2: a big deal to me. But I would never move

1653
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:26,240
Speaker 2: in with a man just because I had a goal attached.

1654
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 2: I would never do that.

1655
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like in life, you have where sometimes

1656
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:33,840
Speaker 1: you will be dealing with somebody and you know that

1657
01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 1: y'all using each other right for y'all own personal reasons.

1658
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: And then you have situations where you're dating somebody and

1659
01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 1: you know that they like you or you know that

1660
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: they love you, and you don't feel the same way.

1661
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:46,880
Speaker 3: And I feel like that's when she can.

1662
01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:51,479
Speaker 1: Get dangerous maybe possibly, you know what I mean, because

1663
01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 1: you can't just be out here playing with people feeling

1664
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 1: And then on top of that, these men is older

1665
01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 1: than you, he more mature.

1666
01:14:58,280 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 3: Not to say he's more mature than you, but I

1667
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:01,000
Speaker 3: just me age wise.

1668
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 1: You know, he's older, so he's probably looking for something

1669
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 1: more long term, and he probably is kind of feeling like,

1670
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 1: you know, you you his person, and y'all building something together.

1671
01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 1: So I just feel like, if that's not what you're

1672
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 1: looking for, I wouldn't even want to get in a

1673
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:17,080
Speaker 1: situation like that because I think that sometimes like you

1674
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:18,720
Speaker 1: just never know what it be that can make a

1675
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 1: person snap and say you're crazy, and people hearts when

1676
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:24,560
Speaker 1: you break people's heart, that shit that will make some

1677
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 1: party make somebody snap.

1678
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 2: But I also feel like your home is your sanctuary

1679
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 2: in your safe space. So I would never want to

1680
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 2: live with somebody I don't have good intentions with. I'm

1681
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:35,000
Speaker 2: never gonna move like and you know this about me,

1682
01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 2: I always be like moving with that nigga, like y'all

1683
01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:37,680
Speaker 2: fuck on each other.

1684
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 3: Why not?

1685
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 2: But you I want you to have good intentions, Like

1686
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 2: if I like somebody we want to move in, I

1687
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 2: don't care.

1688
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna move in with that.

1689
01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:45,840
Speaker 2: Nigga because if it don't work, I'm gonna just go

1690
01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 2: get me another place. But my intentions are never I'm

1691
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:52,080
Speaker 2: trying to get ahead. I'm never gonna live in somebody's

1692
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 2: space that I don't have good intentions with, because you

1693
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 2: know where I sleep at a night, when I lay,

1694
01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,080
Speaker 2: when you lay your head down and close your eyes,

1695
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,880
Speaker 2: that's the most vulnerable oh you ever are. Anything can

1696
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:03,840
Speaker 2: happen to you while you sleep. So you want to

1697
01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 2: have somebody in your house that you're low key using

1698
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:09,320
Speaker 2: them and don't have good intentions with this person, I

1699
01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know about that, my goodness. So

1700
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:14,360
Speaker 2: I would say, you really need to rethink. We know

1701
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 2: your plan of action on what you got going on,

1702
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:17,959
Speaker 2: and if you really want to be with this person.

1703
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:19,479
Speaker 3: Or not agreed.

1704
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 1: All right, go ahead, Question question number two. Hello, beautifuls. So,

1705
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm a woman in my mid twenties. I'm fairly new

1706
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: to the BDB world. I haven't been looking for one,

1707
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,080
Speaker 1: but I have set the intention that I desire one

1708
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: or two. With that being said, I met this guy

1709
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 1: via social media and we really hit it off. He

1710
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 1: let it be known early that he was a trick.

1711
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: He took me on a really nice date after a

1712
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: few days of texting, and the Bible was immaculate. However,

1713
01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 1: after the day, we went back to his place to fuck,

1714
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:51,560
Speaker 1: and y'all, the deck was tiny, like too small for

1715
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:55,240
Speaker 1: the condom wouldn't stay in, so I suggested we just

1716
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: stop and try another time. To be honest, I was

1717
01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:02,560
Speaker 1: devastated because everything else what's perfect. I guess My question is,

1718
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 1: have y'all ever dealt with a little dick Hold on, wait, oh,

1719
01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 1: with a little deck baller?

1720
01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:09,599
Speaker 3: Would y'all?

1721
01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 1: If not, how do you tell them you're not fucking

1722
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,040
Speaker 1: with them because they dig little? But in a nice way,

1723
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:18,200
Speaker 1: laughing my ass off. Anyways, thank you so much for

1724
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:20,720
Speaker 1: everything that y'all are, and I love and appreciate you

1725
01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:25,840
Speaker 1: both beyond words. I feel like when you're young, like

1726
01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:28,200
Speaker 1: she said, she's in her mid twenties and you're just

1727
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 1: trying to have fun and get things, And like you said,

1728
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 1: sometimes people have understanding.

1729
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:35,080
Speaker 2: Maybe he's using you for sex or you know, for company,

1730
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 2: and you're using him forgets, whatever the situation is. I

1731
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 2: think y'all just need to have a conversation and figure

1732
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:41,719
Speaker 2: out what y'all are doing. Because if it's just something

1733
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 2: like lighthearted for him and he's dating other women, you're

1734
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 2: dating other men, but this is just kind of like

1735
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 2: your BDB that you want to get stuff from, then

1736
01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 2: if y'all have an understanding like that, then cool. But

1737
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:54,320
Speaker 2: if he's like really liking you and you're really looking

1738
01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:57,560
Speaker 2: for a relationship, sex is very important to me, so

1739
01:17:57,880 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 2: I need somebody who is like digging me down.

1740
01:18:00,439 --> 01:18:03,280
Speaker 3: So if you're looking for something more serious and.

1741
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:05,519
Speaker 2: You can't see obviously you can't see yourself being with

1742
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:07,720
Speaker 2: this person because the sex is bad, then in that

1743
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:09,880
Speaker 2: case I would move on. But if y'all are just

1744
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:11,240
Speaker 2: trying to have fun and you're just trying to get

1745
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:14,040
Speaker 2: some things, girl who cares, like, go sect that little

1746
01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 2: meat and go about your day.

1747
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:19,200
Speaker 3: I'm not telling nobody say a little decast nigga. Yeah,

1748
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 3: I'm not either. I'm not doing it. I feel like

1749
01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:25,240
Speaker 3: this is like fighting words because yeah, I don't know.

1750
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 3: Do y'all watch you you you? I told you to watch.

1751
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 3: I won't be watching it.

1752
01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:29,720
Speaker 6: No.

1753
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 2: I finished the first season, but I didn't finish it,

1754
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:33,200
Speaker 2: like I didn't go back.

1755
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm a spoiler alert spoiler like okay, okay, okay. So

1756
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:40,920
Speaker 1: this new season, one of them got beat up by

1757
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 1: these nigga because they had sex and she was like talking,

1758
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 1: she to the nigga about how his deck was little

1759
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:52,200
Speaker 1: and how he couldn't fuck and all these Yeah, because

1760
01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 1: she let him into his house, I mean to her house,

1761
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 1: and like, while he was in the house, he was

1762
01:18:57,920 --> 01:18:59,799
Speaker 1: like and I could tell about how he was reacting,

1763
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:00,839
Speaker 1: how he was responding.

1764
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:02,599
Speaker 3: He was about to slap the sheep out of hood,

1765
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:05,600
Speaker 3: and he did. Manny got him feel like a whole.

1766
01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 1: Little tussle over the fact that she said his dick

1767
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 1: was little. I just feel like, girl, if you was

1768
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:12,720
Speaker 1: talking to the nigga, tell him some other shit.

1769
01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 3: Ye ever, tell me, I'm telling nigga his dick little.

1770
01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 2: Their egos live in their balls, their proud and joy

1771
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:21,200
Speaker 2: lives in their fucking balls.

1772
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 1: And they're just let that nigga think his dick big girl, Like,

1773
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't need to tell him that shit. But like no,

1774
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 1: I said this before. I feel like I said this

1775
01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 1: on a recent episode. I've never dealt with nobody with

1776
01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:33,800
Speaker 1: like an extremely small deck, so where I was just like, damn,

1777
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 1: it's a little deck nigga.

1778
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 3: I fas sex with a little nigga. I have not

1779
01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 3: really came across little dick niggas.

1780
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 1: But I do feel like if I did how I

1781
01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 1: would approach it, I would just make up and I

1782
01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:48,720
Speaker 1: would just make up.

1783
01:19:49,520 --> 01:19:50,920
Speaker 3: I would just let it be what it is.

1784
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 1: I would be not satisfied and I just would come

1785
01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 1: up with something and I wouldn't talk to him again.

1786
01:19:57,080 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't date him no more. I would go on

1787
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:00,800
Speaker 1: a day with him, I didn't have stakes with him

1788
01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 1: no more, and it just be the end of it.

1789
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:03,479
Speaker 1: But I wouldn't tell him he's deep.

1790
01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 3: Little Yeah, I'm never find some of the excus.

1791
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:10,400
Speaker 2: I don't think you should tell me on his birthday. Girl,

1792
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:11,560
Speaker 2: Just move on if you don't want it.

1793
01:20:11,640 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 1: Everybody can have bitter, you know, oral hygiene anyway, if

1794
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 1: you don't you know, maybe they'll make him bloss a

1795
01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:17,200
Speaker 1: little more.

1796
01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 2: Okay that do we have a voicemail today? Okay, so

1797
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 2: we have a voicemail. Now listen, y'all told y'all listen

1798
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 2: to me. The voicemail is not to ask questions. The

1799
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 2: voicemail just to get whatever off your chest.

1800
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:31,360
Speaker 3: What is bothering you? What do you want to see

1801
01:20:31,400 --> 01:20:33,639
Speaker 3: more on poor minds? And I'm not gonna lie.

1802
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 2: I like the name shot line. I like I like

1803
01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 2: shot line. So for right now, we're gonna go with

1804
01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:45,040
Speaker 2: shot line. The name of the segment is the shot line. Okay,

1805
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 2: now we're still going through I'm a shot Ooh, I

1806
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:49,960
Speaker 2: forgot the person who sent that to me to let

1807
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:51,680
Speaker 2: me look it on for my cause I don't want

1808
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:54,560
Speaker 2: to give you somebody name. They're gonna be like, I'm

1809
01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 2: uh lex p Andre y'all in stall, So let me

1810
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 2: shout out, because you know I told y'all to send

1811
01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 2: the Oh I found it.

1812
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 3: No that's not it. That's not it. Okay, no, no, no, no,

1813
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 3: I can't find it. Sorry, y'all. Sorry, I'll try to

1814
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 3: find it.

1815
01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 2: I thought I did. But anyways, so yeah, if y'all

1816
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 2: want to leave a voicemail. We're gonna put the number

1817
01:21:21,200 --> 01:21:22,720
Speaker 2: in the description. The number is going to be at

1818
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:25,000
Speaker 2: the bottom of the screen. I'll make sure I'll give

1819
01:21:25,080 --> 01:21:26,880
Speaker 2: you a shout out if we stick with the shot

1820
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 2: line name.

1821
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:42,160
Speaker 3: Okay, anyway, so go ahead that play the voicemail. Wait,

1822
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:43,000
Speaker 3: can we start it over?

1823
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:43,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1824
01:21:43,439 --> 01:21:50,160
Speaker 6: Okay, Hey, girls, my name is Low and I'm calling

1825
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 6: unless I know one. I appreciate y'all show. I love

1826
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:56,519
Speaker 6: y'all show. I'm actually watching y'all show right now. And two,

1827
01:21:57,200 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 6: I just wanted to get off my chest. I have

1828
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:01,640
Speaker 6: the situation with this girl that I've been dealing with

1829
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 6: for like eleven years, and it's real toxic, and we

1830
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 6: just recently blocked each other on social media, but she's

1831
01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:13,640
Speaker 6: still trying to contact me through phone calls. But when

1832
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 6: I test her back of like what's going on, she

1833
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 6: tells me nothing. I really need to get off this

1834
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:25,520
Speaker 6: love roller coaster because it's really hindering me from accomplishing

1835
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 6: things that I need to accomplish because I'm so stuck

1836
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:30,720
Speaker 6: on worried about thinking about her and what she's doing,

1837
01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 6: who she's doing it with. And I just want to

1838
01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:37,920
Speaker 6: know y'all have any advice on how to shake this

1839
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 6: little love bud I got going on. But like I said,

1840
01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:43,800
Speaker 6: it been going on for too long, eleven years, on

1841
01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 6: and off, nothing but toxic. Like I can't deal with

1842
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:49,160
Speaker 6: it no more, and now I don't know how to

1843
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 6: shake it off. So I hope y'all got some good

1844
01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,920
Speaker 6: advice for me. And I love what I do. Please

1845
01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 6: keep it up, And I think y'all should call this segment.

1846
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:04,439
Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know, but I appreciate everything

1847
01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 6: y'all do. Thank you.

1848
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:11,519
Speaker 3: That Big could sound like he was about to cry. Y'all,

1849
01:23:11,680 --> 01:23:15,479
Speaker 3: I knew you live. I had a friend.

1850
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:18,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So my advice is, look, we're gonna let you

1851
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 2: slide this time and give you a little advice to

1852
01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,080
Speaker 2: This is Valentine's and we being sweet, but I will say,

1853
01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:25,519
Speaker 2: if you really want to get rid of it, like

1854
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:28,320
Speaker 2: y'all block you need to block her. You need to

1855
01:23:28,400 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 2: block her, like if she keeps calling you, you low

1856
01:23:31,040 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 2: key still want them phone calls. That's why you haven't

1857
01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 2: blocked her from your phone, Like, you need to create

1858
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:37,439
Speaker 2: a boundary. Like I said earlier when we were talking

1859
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:39,559
Speaker 2: about boundaries, create a boundary and.

1860
01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:41,479
Speaker 3: Stick to it and she needs to respect that.

1861
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 2: So if you feel like you want to have a

1862
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 2: conversation with her and let her know, like, hey, I'm

1863
01:23:45,400 --> 01:23:47,479
Speaker 2: gonna block you just because I'm ready to.

1864
01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:50,360
Speaker 3: End this so just moving forward. This is my boundaries,

1865
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:51,920
Speaker 3: and I would like for you to respect that.

1866
01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:53,920
Speaker 2: Or you know, if you just want to block her

1867
01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:55,920
Speaker 2: out the blue, whatever, but block her from your phone,

1868
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 2: block her from everything.

1869
01:23:58,320 --> 01:23:59,040
Speaker 3: I agree.

1870
01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:01,679
Speaker 1: Whenever y'all talk about people still being in y'all life,

1871
01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:03,320
Speaker 1: and y'all be saying y'all don't want them to be

1872
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 1: in y'all life no more, and they're still in there,

1873
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 1: it's because you still want the person here, unless stay

1874
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:10,639
Speaker 1: a fucking stalker, which majority of the time that ain't

1875
01:24:10,680 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: the case. Most people ain't that crazy, you know what

1876
01:24:13,400 --> 01:24:15,519
Speaker 1: I mean. So if a person is still in your life,

1877
01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:17,599
Speaker 1: it's because you still want them there. Are you still

1878
01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:21,200
Speaker 1: leaving the door of opportunity open. So if you no

1879
01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 1: longer want this woman in your life and you feel

1880
01:24:23,400 --> 01:24:26,280
Speaker 1: like she causing you so much turmoil and so much

1881
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:29,519
Speaker 1: pain that we can hear in your voice, I think

1882
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:32,320
Speaker 1: that you need to definitely block her or.

1883
01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 3: Maybe even change your number. Change number, number change. We do,

1884
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:38,640
Speaker 3: but we gonna be doing this year. I said I

1885
01:24:38,720 --> 01:24:40,120
Speaker 3: was gonna do it this year and I haven't yet.

1886
01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 1: We just be blocking people. I don't block people no more.

1887
01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 1: I'll be letting people call. I rather you call and

1888
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 1: ignore you. And you know how ignore you is.

1889
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:49,920
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna even block you. Yeah, I'm definitely be

1890
01:24:50,080 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 3: on my blocking shit lately.

1891
01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:55,240
Speaker 1: So but yeah, I definitely think change your number, Change

1892
01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:57,360
Speaker 1: your number and be done, Weedy, wash your hands of

1893
01:24:57,439 --> 01:24:57,919
Speaker 1: the situation.

1894
01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:02,280
Speaker 3: Keep us updated, pool, keep us updated, Pool, And y'all

1895
01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:06,479
Speaker 3: know it's karaoke time. Let's go, y'all at your girl expe.

1896
01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:08,560
Speaker 3: It is your girls joy in the cold, and we

1897
01:25:08,720 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 3: are here to talk to y'all about Good Day since

1898
01:25:11,600 --> 01:25:12,120
Speaker 3: dot com.

1899
01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:15,559
Speaker 1: Yes, I love me a good candle and good day

1900
01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:18,799
Speaker 1: sense candle smells so good, and their swey based candles

1901
01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:19,800
Speaker 1: my face.

1902
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Speaker 2: So there's nothing better than getting your house super clean,

1903
01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:27,559
Speaker 2: my fans, sweeping all that good stuff and lighting a candle.

1904
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:30,479
Speaker 3: And let me tell you, my favorite scent is black love.

1905
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:33,040
Speaker 3: I like to manifest that in the air because that's

1906
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:36,639
Speaker 3: what I want. Yeah, and so what's vanilla? I feel

1907
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 3: like you can never go wrong with the vanilla candle?

1908
01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 3: I mean it's fall time. That's the kind of sense

1909
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Speaker 3: we need.

1910
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Speaker 2: Daycents dot com and get your candle and use our

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Speaker 2: discount code to have your house smelling good.

1915
01:25:59,400 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 3: Even let me I was supposed to.

1916
01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 5: And put you to bed, girl, change into that Victoria secret.

1917
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 2: Thing that I like.

1918
01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:21,760
Speaker 1: All right, okay, tonight you're having me your way perfume

1919
01:26:22,080 --> 01:26:25,840
Speaker 1: straight there. I love in en now putting me right

1920
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:28,840
Speaker 1: next to you and raise the timp in the rooms

1921
01:26:28,880 --> 01:26:34,320
Speaker 1: from my back and like your door.

1922
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:36,559
Speaker 3: Right there, or touch me like you care. Now stop and.

1923
01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:39,639
Speaker 1: Let me repay your photo week that you've been through

1924
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:42,320
Speaker 1: working at night of five and staying.

1925
01:26:42,040 --> 01:26:45,639
Speaker 3: True like you do. Who who who?

1926
01:26:46,240 --> 01:26:46,800
Speaker 6: I love it?

1927
01:26:47,160 --> 01:26:50,040
Speaker 3: I love it, you love it. You love it every

1928
01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:53,560
Speaker 3: time every time we touch it, we touch it. I

1929
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 3: want it. I want it, you want it, you it.

1930
01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,120
Speaker 3: I'll see you. I'll see you in a month. I

1931
01:27:00,200 --> 01:27:02,200
Speaker 3: all my fingers through your hair.

1932
01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:04,599
Speaker 1: La.

1933
01:27:06,040 --> 01:27:08,759
Speaker 3: Oh okay, we asked that, bro, what about that? Niggas

1934
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:10,680
Speaker 3: can take my knee up in your lamb? All right,

1935
01:27:10,760 --> 01:27:13,479
Speaker 3: what's the y'all next? My y'all were looking