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Speaker 1: Ryan's roses Dear Ryan, insisting it says I'm concerned about

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Speaker 1: my husband. My fifteen year old daughter came to me

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Speaker 1: the other day and showed me something on her dad's phone.

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Speaker 1: His most recent emojis concerned her, so she asked if

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Speaker 1: he had been sending them to me. He hasn't, so

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Speaker 1: I lied and said yes, So Susannah is it? Susanna?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on in Covina. Can you tell

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Speaker 1: us what were the emojis that your daughter showed you

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Speaker 1: that your husband was sending to somebody else? Heart, eggplant,

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Speaker 1: the tongue peach like, the smiling face with his tongue out.

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Speaker 1: He's really random like that. But then the eyes and

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Speaker 1: the drooling face. It's kind of a weird combination. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you're for I mean, for sure he's not sending

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Speaker 1: those to you. No, none of them were sent to me.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I thought maybe he could have sent

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Speaker 1: them to a buddy, you know, just joking around, but not.

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Speaker 1: And why do you think your daughter was so alarmed

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Speaker 1: by these? I think because she's never it was. They

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Speaker 1: were so such a random coupling, and I was like

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Speaker 1: and we don't usually do that, like text each other

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Speaker 1: when we're all like there together, and it just seemed

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Speaker 1: off to her. I don't know. Okay, do you have

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Speaker 1: any idea who he might be sending them to. I

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Speaker 1: know you mentioned buddies, but do you have a woman

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Speaker 1: in mind? No, I have no idea, and my only

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Speaker 1: thought was someone that he works with. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's just never anything I've experienced with him before. Why

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Speaker 1: does your mind go to cheating? Like what is your

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Speaker 1: relationship with him now? I mean things haven't been great.

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Speaker 1: I mean on and off. We've talked about separating, but

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Speaker 1: then we you know, we want to stay together for

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Speaker 1: our daughter. UM. So I don't know. I just I

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Speaker 1: think worst case scenario in my head. I just go

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Speaker 1: down the rabbit hole, you know, like um and think,

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Speaker 1: like what else could it possibly because it's just not

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Speaker 1: it's out of his character. On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest, we are in it with

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Speaker 1: Susannah for Ryan's roses. This is and we're calling your husband.

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Speaker 1: I need to say, Ryan, you my permission to call,

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Speaker 1: and then your husband's name On kiss FM. Go ahead, okay, Ran,

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Speaker 1: you have my permission to call, and my husband's name

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Speaker 1: is all right. Here we go. So we're going to

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Speaker 1: call and see what we can find out. Now, remember

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Speaker 1: her fifteen year olds saw these emojis and her dad's

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Speaker 1: phone brings him to mom. Here, Susannah says, like did

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Speaker 1: he send these to you? And these emojis? Were you know, curious?

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Speaker 1: And she said, because she wanted to cover it all up, yeah,

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Speaker 1: of course he said to me, well he didn't. He

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Speaker 1: sent them to somebody else, but who? And just some

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Speaker 1: examples that what was the most like bothersome emoji that

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Speaker 1: you saw, I mean the heart and that it was

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Speaker 1: used several times, and then there was some one with

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Speaker 1: like the little face with a heart next to it,

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Speaker 1: and then like hngue out and I mean they were

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Speaker 1: all alarming, I guess, drooling face. They all just seemed

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Speaker 1: laden with something. Okay, something. We're gonna make this call

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Speaker 1: now so we can find I'll be very quiet what

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Speaker 1: we call your husband. Okay, so's on good luck? Okay, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Mark? Yes, hi Mark, my name is Michelle.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from Lush Garden. How are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all right great. You know, were delivering Covina

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Speaker 1: and most of LA and today we're offering local residents

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Speaker 1: of promotion. It's a free dozen red roses that you

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Speaker 1: can send to anybody that you would like. I don't

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Speaker 1: need any cash. They're absolutely free. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: promote my business. Is this something you'd be interested in?

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Speaker 1: I would just need the name of the person you'd

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Speaker 1: want to send them to. Well, yeah, is there a

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Speaker 1: delivery fee or something? This wouldn't cost you anything? Um,

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Speaker 1: which is the need? The name? And you can write

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Speaker 1: a note. They can receive them for lunchtime today. And

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Speaker 1: we do ask that if you do like the arrangements,

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Speaker 1: you return as a paying customer at some other time.

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Speaker 1: But this promotion is free, right, It's totally free, totally free,

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Speaker 1: all right. Uh yeah, I'll send some names of many well,

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Speaker 1: put Mandy, um to Mandy and uh, do'll know what

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Speaker 1: it means? I'm sorry, wolf like free wolf wof? I

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Speaker 1: guess got it. I never spelled it. Okay, and then um,

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Speaker 1: I'll just sign your name love Mark, No justfoof. She'll know. Okay, Mark,

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Speaker 1: your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I need

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Speaker 1: you to know that, and I've got your wife listening

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Speaker 1: to this on theline. Susannah, Mark, who is Mandy? What?

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Speaker 1: Who is this? Who is Mandy? I'm sorry? What just

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Speaker 1: happened here? Mandy is a person that I'm sending flowers to.

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Speaker 1: What is going on? That's our question? You just I'm

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Speaker 1: just want to tell you what you did here? Um,

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Speaker 1: you sent roses to a woman named Mandy and you

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Speaker 1: signed the card. Woof, woof, woof? What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: It's it's like an inside joke? Well, can you bring

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Speaker 1: us inside? Well? The thing about inside jokes is that

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Speaker 1: people on the outside really aren't invited into them. Got it?

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Speaker 1: So your wife is excluded from this conversation, is what

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Speaker 1: you're saying? What do you talk about? My what? Susannah?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to tell Mark what's going on here? Oh? Hi, Mark,

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Speaker 1: it's me Hi? Okay, okay? So is this? Are you

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Speaker 1: behind this? Susannah? I? Yes, maybe I am, Um, but

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Speaker 1: it's because it's because ZD saw text messages with a

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Speaker 1: me concern and we're now both concerned. You're having I

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Speaker 1: don't know, having an affair and I lied to her

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Speaker 1: and I told her that you sent them to me,

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Speaker 1: but you didn't. They're not on my phone. It's not okay,

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Speaker 1: did you whoever you're talking to, did you tell them

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Speaker 1: the whole story? What's well? She's saying I'm having an affair.

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Speaker 1: There is no affair now because she had the affair

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Speaker 1: and that broke the whole trust, and so affairs don't

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Speaker 1: happen with us anymore. Okay with my cousin. How's that

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Speaker 1: all right? That's z yeah, yes, and it was yes,

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Speaker 1: and it was a one I told you, and you

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Speaker 1: know it was a one time thing, and I'm deeply sorry.

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Speaker 1: Hold on for a second, mark, are you Are you

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Speaker 1: having an intimate relationship with Mandy? What I'm doing is

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Speaker 1: really none of your business. But there is no affair.

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Speaker 1: If there is no relationship in a couple of years,

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Speaker 1: what is like? What am I? What are you saying

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Speaker 1: to Mandy? Sounds like I'm asking I don't know if

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Speaker 1: you said it three times? Yeah, Well, if you don't know,

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Speaker 1: then maybe you ought to, you know, read a book

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Speaker 1: or something. I don't know a lot of books about wolfing,

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Speaker 1: but I will look at it. But I don't know

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Speaker 1: a lot of resident author here, so she might help

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Speaker 1: me out. Maybe you're that's right, no clue, Oh you've

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Speaker 1: got an author, Well, maybe she can read the book

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Speaker 1: to you. In that case, I mean, what is going

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Speaker 1: on here, Mark, him? I'm using my life okay. I

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Speaker 1: oh do you think so good for you? You're the

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Speaker 1: one who's doing this whole thing all right, Susannah, if

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Speaker 1: you already it cheated and you guys decided that there

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Speaker 1: is no such thing as affairs after this, and he's

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Speaker 1: just doing what you did, maybe to get you back

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Speaker 1: or whatever it is. This is all bad, it's all unhealthy. Um,

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Speaker 1: you guys need therapy probably, you know you need to

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Speaker 1: need it worked out in a couple of years when

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Speaker 1: when when Zadi goes to school, it's you know, we've

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Speaker 1: got it all forged, Mark, So I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. You don't need the phone intervention, Mark. I

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Speaker 1: didn't want you seeing anyone else, and they didn't know

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Speaker 1: else how else to find out? And but but but,

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Speaker 1: Susannah sounds my cousins. I mean he's upset. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you finally did to Trust and Susannah, but

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Speaker 1: we didn't know that. Yeah, we're gonna let you guys go,

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Speaker 1: but you should find a therapist for your relationship and

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Speaker 1: you can. They should just separate at this absolutely