1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Camera Judge. 2 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Teas and 3 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp. 4 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 3: And Tamra Judge. We are here in San Francisco, Sam Francisco. 5 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: Uh. We are here with Alexis Bellino in San Francisco 6 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 2: for the Janet Jackson concert. Janet Jackson is on tour 7 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 2: with special guests Nelly. Guys, I just realized. 8 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 4: This, Nelly. Oh my god, Hey yeah, did you save 9 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 4: this treat for me? 10 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 5: I did? I did. It's called Together Again. 11 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: Tour tickets are on sale now at live nation dot com. 12 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: Check out your dates and cities at livenation dot com 13 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 2: or Janet Jackson dot com. 14 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 5: I think we can interview Janet. 15 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 4: Listen. 16 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 5: Sorry, Lexa's Janet Jackson's nose. 17 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 4: I will take a hot backseat to her. 18 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 5: Listen. 19 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 2: We only have seven minutes for your pod because Janet 20 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 2: Jackson and Nelly are coming right in, so I don't hate. 21 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 4: You for it. I will be sitting right over there 22 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 4: in the corner watch it. 23 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 2: We wish we're not that cool. There's not that much 24 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: shame in my game. I mean I may have recorded 25 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 2: a video of us singing hot in here and tag 26 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: Nelly and hopes he's gonna meet us tonight. 27 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 3: Did not is the cringey things I'm telling you have 28 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 3: to stop doing. 29 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 4: You know what. 30 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: Listen, I embraced being cringe. Between that and crying in 31 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: the sauna. I just can't take it, Listen, I can't 32 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 2: take it. At least I'm aware of my cringe. You 33 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: think your cringes are iconic? 34 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 3: They are? 35 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 4: And she doesn't think she has any cringe? Hey problem? 36 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 5: Wait a minute, who s you on here? Oh my gosh. 37 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So first question, alexis the OC trailer just dropped 38 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 2: and we can already see that this is going to 39 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: be a dramatic season. 40 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 5: How do you feel since filming wrapped? 41 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 4: I mean, it depends on what minute you asked me. 42 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 4: To be honest, it's a lot, because it's my feelings 43 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 4: are truly into it. It's not just I mean, and 44 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 4: it involves so much of like more than anyone's ever expected. 45 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 4: Was two women going to be on the same cast 46 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 4: that have dated well, I mean, I mean we do 47 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 4: have the Slade situation. 48 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 5: However, did you date Slade? 49 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 4: Ever? 50 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: No? 51 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 5: Have we ever made out with them? 52 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 2: No what I'm paused, I No. 53 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 5: No, she didn't. 54 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 4: I meant there was three girls on the cast, and 55 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 4: here I am, and I just made fun of him 56 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 4: at them at that whole situation. At rob fledged dinner, 57 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 4: right No, at the Bravo con, I sat on stage, 58 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, well, was the only woman up here who 59 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 4: hasn't slept with Slade Smiley And I was poking fun 60 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 4: of it and here I am dating. It's like, that's 61 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 4: what God will do? Do you Well? 62 00:02:54,760 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 3: Evidently she went on. Gretcha went on Hot Mike, which 63 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 3: just Alex Baskin's podcast, and said that at Rabakhan, you 64 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 3: made it all about yourself and you kind of ruined 65 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 3: the moment well from I mean, because you went out 66 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 3: on stage and you made a comment basically saying that 67 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 3: you're the only one it was that on the script 68 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 3: or not on. 69 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 4: The ss off script, And Andy Cohen went up and 70 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 4: said it it was a I was off the cuff. 71 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 4: It was to make people laugh and it did. It 72 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 4: will roll on to the next thing. It was not 73 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,959 Speaker 4: about myself, And then we moved back on to VICKI 74 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 4: and I'm. 75 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 2: So sorry, cry me a river Gretchen Jeff Lewis said 76 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: that I killed people, So. 77 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 5: Like, let's get it in track and you're the way. 78 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 4: What she says isn't God. It's like, okay, she can 79 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 4: have that thought, but it's not fact. 80 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 5: No, it's not. 81 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: But let's move on. And I know we have a 82 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 2: lot of questions. But the first question that I have 83 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: is I have a small little bone to pick with you. 84 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 2: Oh okay, it's a small bone. Okay, Well I have 85 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: a bone to pick with you too, So there we are. 86 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 5: Well, great, well let's go. 87 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 4: Ship. 88 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: Now my bone is I was working for Extra doing 89 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: the red carpet at Kathy Hilton's party. You came up 90 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 2: to me, graciously, excited, said I'm going to talk to you. 91 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: You're going to be one of the only interviews because 92 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 2: I love Tamra. And then I asked you, are you 93 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 2: with John Janssen. You looked at me dead in the 94 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 2: face and said no. And then the next day it 95 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: was released to People magazine. 96 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 4: I could not tell you, But when I got in 97 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 4: the car, I told Emily we had just made it official, 98 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 4: like like not official, but moved past friendship level a 99 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 4: little bit before that. I could not tell you because 100 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 4: we had promised the exclusive to people. What are you 101 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 4: supposed to do in that situation, Teddy? 102 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 5: You could have winked well, I don't know. 103 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 4: You could have been or you could have under. 104 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 2: Like, I'm not going to give you the inside scoop 105 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 2: because I'm so close with Tamra, so. 106 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 5: I love you by association and then not give me any. 107 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 4: Crom Okay, well, if you give me, if you give 108 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 4: me the thing of all the to dos of what 109 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 4: you're supposed to do now that I'm back in this world, 110 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 4: then I will follow them. But it was very new 111 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 4: and I wasn't going back on Housewives at this point. 112 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 4: I did not had not signed any contracts. I'm still 113 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 4: my feet are still getting wet. 114 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 3: By the way, speaking of signing contracts, there was a 115 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 3: good month where you and I were communicating before we 116 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 3: started filming, and You're like, I don't want to do it. 117 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: I don't know should I do it, I'm not gonna 118 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 3: do it, I'm gonna do it, I'm not gonna do it, 119 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 3: I am not gonna it. 120 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 4: Was mostly I'm went down to the wire. 121 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 3: You call me the night before and you tell me 122 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, tam I know you want me back, but 123 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 3: it's just not gonna work out. 124 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 5: And then she signed her contract. 125 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 4: No, but do you want know what happened? 126 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 5: Can I tell you? 127 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 4: The fun part about. 128 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 2: This is it because you like to do like a touch, 129 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 2: like you want to lead somebody on a little bit 130 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 2: or No. 131 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 3: Nope, that's not at all. She likes to keep them guessing. 132 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 4: Nope, not at at all. One hundred percent was not 133 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,239 Speaker 4: in my mind. I was not going to do the show. 134 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 4: And then I was sitting on John's couch with him 135 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 4: and I had about like, they give you the time 136 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 4: where you have to decide, right, this is a great 137 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 4: story because you're gonna laugh at me when you hear this. 138 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 4: But they were giving me the time crunch, and I 139 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 4: so I called my psychic. My psychic at like eight 140 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 4: o'clock at night, I text her and she's in. She's 141 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 4: on the other side of the country, okay, And I go, 142 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 4: I know it's eight o'clock. I need to see you tomorrow. 143 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 4: I have I have to make a decision before I 144 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 4: have to talk to you sometime tomorrow. Can you get 145 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: me in? 146 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 5: Was she like this? 147 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 3: She had no, she had no clue. 148 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 4: I'm talked to her in a year had no clue, 149 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 4: and I just said it's super important, and she goes, 150 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 4: you know what, I don't. I'm full, and then she 151 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: take me back an hour later. So it's nine o'clock 152 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 4: at time, my time, midnight her time. She's like, I 153 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 4: can get you at one o'clock tomorrow. I said my time. 154 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 4: I said perfect. She puts me on zoom and we 155 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 4: have a session. And my mom came through and said like, basically, 156 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 4: alexis what are you doing. I'm back here working my 157 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 4: butt off on the other side. I set this up 158 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 4: for you. You're supposed to do it. And my mom 159 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 4: and my song no listen to this, no listen to this, 160 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 4: and this isn't just passed. My mom had just passed, 161 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 4: and this is I'm not I'm not gonna cry you guys, 162 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna cry. But listen, this is the best 163 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 4: part of the whole story. My mom said. Because I 164 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 4: looked at my psychics Tracy, I go, I just I 165 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 4: don't know. I just don't know how I can do this. 166 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 4: And Tracy looks at me and goes, your mom just 167 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 4: told me Jesus didn't take the will, baby girl, I did. 168 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 4: Now get your big girl pants on and go Jesus 169 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 4: take the Wheel as my mom and my song. So 170 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 4: when she's when my psychic said I go, I'm going back, 171 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 4: I called John or Yeah, because I was when John 172 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 4: at that one. I called John first, I then called 173 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 4: I called product or Spencer. Then I called all of 174 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 4: you are girls, you and Heather and said I'm back. 175 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 4: I'm going And from that point on I never looked back. 176 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 4: It was then on I'm going back. 177 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: Wow. 178 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 4: And I literally got judged in my shoulders all the 179 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 4: way down to my feet. No, Tracy doesn't know that's 180 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 4: my mom and my song. 181 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 5: That's crazy. But now I can't get this out of 182 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 5: my head. What Jesus jugs takes? They're smaller, said, they're smaller. 183 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 5: Now let's talk about your Jesus. 184 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 4: Jugs because I messed up boob right now. No, your 185 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 4: boobs are perfect. 186 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 5: I felt at the airport and it felt nice to me. 187 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 4: No, well, you didn't feel hard enough like. 188 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 5: Later long after we hang out with Mellie. Yeah, after 189 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 5: Janet Jackson, we'll be filling you. 190 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 3: So I have a question, what is it like being 191 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 3: back ten Was it ten years you were off? Did 192 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 3: you ever think that you were going to come back. 193 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 4: I never did. And even when I when I called 194 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 4: Spencer and said, I want to sign on with you 195 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 4: and I want to do something, but I never thought 196 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 4: and I told. My first word to him was I'm 197 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 4: ready to work as long as you're okay taking me 198 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 4: on without Housewives being an option. He said, I'll take 199 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 4: you anyway, and we started working. And then that was 200 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 4: basically in the same month almost that Housewives started reaching 201 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 4: out to me, and I was still affirm no. 202 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 3: I told you, O, can you confirm that Housewives reached 203 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 3: out to you before you even started dating John. 204 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 4: Housewives was connecting with me and asking me before I'd 205 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 4: even John. I even knew who John Jansen was. I 206 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 4: mean maybe i'd seen it who barely barely barely. I'm 207 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 4: letting you know, barely. I'd never met him. 208 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 5: I was never what did you watch the show when 209 00:08:59,559 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 5: you were not? 210 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 4: I watched a couple of the episodes from the season 211 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 4: when she first came back, and he was I think 212 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 4: there was flashbacks. I don't even know. 213 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 5: Did you think he was hot when you were watching it? 214 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 4: I didn't even I didn't look at him like except 215 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 4: he's just John, like just a character on I didn't 216 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 4: even I didn't wasn't looking at anybody thinking anyone's hot 217 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 4: or not or oh my gosh, I like this nothing. 218 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 4: It's so organic the way it happened, and it's it's 219 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 4: really weird. It's just all God. And I believe to 220 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 4: this day that my mom is who brought John Jansen 221 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 4: into that restaurant. 222 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 3: That chills again. 223 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 2: Do you think once this happened with the psychic and 224 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 2: you talk to John, what were what was his thoughts on. 225 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 5: You going on? 226 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, he hated that I called my psychic, 227 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 4: and that was one because he's Christian and doesn't believe 228 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:44,199 Speaker 4: in that. 229 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 3: I was going to ask you, does Jesus approve of this? 230 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 4: I said, you know what, I will deal with all 231 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 4: of the things I've done in correctly in my life 232 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 4: at the at the Parly Gates, and everyone else can 233 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 4: f off, because that's the only judge I have, Jesus, 234 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 4: jugs I love. Well, it's all the only one that 235 00:09:58,280 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 4: matters is me and God. 236 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 2: I mean, we're all human. We all make mistakes and 237 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 2: we all do things. But speaking of mistakes, let's talk 238 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 2: about below deck. 239 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 4: Oh good God, hold on. 240 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 5: First off, how much should it? How much should it 241 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 5: cost to. 242 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 2: Go we heard to go on below deck if you're 243 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 2: not a crew member that you have to pay. 244 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 5: How much does it cost to go on below deck? 245 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 4: Well, okay, I have things I'm not able to disclose. Okay, 246 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 4: you like that? 247 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I appreciate it. She got a wink. 248 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 4: I'm trying to learn your what you need. It's not 249 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 4: a nudge, it's a lot. 250 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 3: I know what it is because they asked me to 251 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 3: be on. 252 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's is it more or less than twenty 253 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 2: thousand dollars? 254 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 4: So what is? What is not? Undisclosab Well, i'll tell 255 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 4: you what I can't tell you. Let's just say it 256 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 4: was one hundred thousand dollars for per person to attend 257 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,719 Speaker 4: this yacht that you're going or mega yacht that you're 258 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 4: going on, for this experience that you have for three days, 259 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:54,839 Speaker 4: they have you pay a very minimal amount. Like it 260 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 4: is like us go into the four seasons? Did you 261 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 4: have fun? 262 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:59,599 Speaker 3: And it was the only thing I saw as a 263 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 3: clip you wrapping your arms and legs around your then fiance, Drew. 264 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 4: He was not my fiance at that point, he was 265 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 4: my boyfriend. 266 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 5: Did he proposed on below deck? Please say no? 267 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 4: He did not, damn it, and we were we were 268 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 4: too new. But honestly, I hadn't kissed a man at 269 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 4: that point in my life for probably like eight seven years, 270 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 4: so years. 271 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, well, by the time you got 272 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 2: divorced from your ex husband, when was the last time 273 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 2: you guys had kissed. 274 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know that. I just know it'd been 275 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 4: a while. And I did like Drew and love I 276 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 4: did love Drew. I did have a love for him. 277 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 4: There's not there's no denying that. I'm not gonna say 278 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 4: yes to a proposal to someone if I don't love 279 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 4: them and feel like I can see our future working out. 280 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 4: Did things start to happen in the last year and 281 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 4: a half of our relationship. Yes, my mom's death is 282 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 4: was just the There was no recovering from that because 283 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 4: I was alone for twelve or twelve to fourteen days. 284 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 4: I have to go back to the calendar. It's between. 285 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 4: I flew out, thought I was leaving in three days, 286 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 4: only packed two outfits. You guys would be proud of me, 287 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 4: But I still packed a big suitcase. 288 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 2: Was the only one that checked a bag, and I, honestly, 289 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 2: I had to take deep breaths. 290 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,719 Speaker 4: I know, I'm sorry, but I did, and so I 291 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 4: did keep doing laundry because I ended up staying for 292 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 4: fourteen days and it did not My mom was passing 293 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 4: over at this time, like she when I told her, 294 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 4: she pat like she was like, okay, I'm going. 295 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: And I was alone. I was alone with my brother 296 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 3: flew out his meaning he wasn't there for you emotionally. 297 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 4: I was just alone and I had to drive to 298 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 4: the airport by myself two and a half hours after 299 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 4: just sending the body bag off to the You know, 300 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 4: it's just there's so much and it wasn't like we 301 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 4: just I broke up with him pretty soon after that, 302 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 4: but it wasn't like we it just ended. We were 303 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,559 Speaker 4: still it's an engagement. 304 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 3: Now when we reconnected at Pravo Con, you were broken 305 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 3: at the time time you had told me like that's we. 306 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 5: I never forget it. 307 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 3: You and I had this deep conversation with Andy Cohen 308 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 3: standing over us. 309 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 4: And I told you things I shouldn't have, but I 310 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 4: was I was an open book because I. 311 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 5: Don't think things you shouldn't have. 312 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 4: I don't think so I mean that I was being 313 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 4: We haven't spoken in how many years. 314 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 3: I know what, we're both the same way. We just 315 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 3: have like diarrhea of the mouth and we just talk 316 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 3: and you know, we don't expect for somebody to a 317 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 3: peak thing, and we didn't. And I never repeated anything, 318 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 3: and I will not repeat anything that thank you said, 319 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 3: but we've kind. 320 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 4: Of thought, yeah, what I did tell you at that 321 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 4: moment is not meant for this podcast. 322 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 3: It was very yes, yes, but you what I'm trying 323 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 3: to say is you were kind of you were in 324 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 3: a bad place. 325 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 5: Your mom had just passed. 326 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,559 Speaker 4: You know, just broken up with Drew, just had another 327 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 4: life threatening family emergency. 328 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so a lot of things had gone on in 329 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 3: your life and you were just I don't think that 330 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 3: Housewise was even in your it was it was. 331 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 4: Not your focal point. But they did start reaching out 332 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 4: pretty much right after that. 333 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 5: So it was first they did after you went on 334 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 5: stage and said that. 335 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 4: And that was not my intention. By the way, now 336 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 4: that's going to be said that, Oh first it's John 337 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 4: Jansen is what got her back on the show, And 338 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 4: then it's going to be that now it wasn't. 339 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 5: It was funny. 340 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 4: I thought it was, well, you got the audio. 341 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 5: I was in the audience, we were rolling. 342 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 4: Everybody needs a laugh. Okay, let's make fun of ourselves. 343 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 5: I think that was a fine thing. 344 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 4: I have sloppy seconds too, Okay, people, I'm not I'm 345 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 4: not sitting here gonna pup fun. 346 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 5: And then you know, I mean, you're not sloppy, but 347 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 5: you are seconds right now. 348 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 4: I got sloppy, So I got, I got and he's 349 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 4: not sloppy, but I did get seconds of something. But 350 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 4: this is what this is what makes me understand life 351 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 4: is different now that you're forty seven finding love again. 352 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 4: I'm not going to find a virgin. So guess what 353 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 4: He's had sex with somebody at this point in his life. 354 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 5: Right. 355 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 2: I have this gut feeling and I don't know if 356 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 2: I'm just making it up, but I feel like probably. 357 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 4: No, you don't even know where she's going. I know her. 358 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 5: I could finish her sentences. I feel like you're about 359 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 5: to get engaged. I do shells again? 360 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 4: Well, is that because of the red carpet statement? When 361 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 4: they asked us in John's answer and I froze, and 362 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 4: John's answer. 363 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: Was, by the way she can find out if somebody's 364 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 3: pregnant before they're psychic. 365 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 5: Jesus jugs Unfortunately. 366 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: I do know if somebody is cheating, if somebody's lying, 367 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: like I can always feel it. 368 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 4: I am not swear you never said a word, because 369 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 4: you do know some things that have happened in the 370 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 4: past couple of months. 371 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: No, she does not want because she doesn't tell me 372 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 2: too much because then I'm going to come on the pod. 373 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 5: And her mouth to be honest. 374 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 2: But I feel like, and if he hasn't yet, or 375 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 2: if you guys haven't looked at rings, I do feel 376 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 2: like it's happening in the near future. 377 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 4: So I'm doing it up. I will be honest with you. 378 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 4: We have looked at rings and we are talking about it. 379 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 4: It could happen tomorrow, it could happen six months from now. 380 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 4: I just I do know it's coming because we've already 381 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 4: talked about our entire future. We already have a plan 382 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 4: in place. 383 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 3: So will you let it be known on social media afterwards? 384 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 4: I don't know, because I don't I don't know when 385 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 4: it's It would depend on I don't know when it's 386 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 4: going to happen. So I could say yes to that 387 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 4: now and if it's six I don't don't. 388 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 2: Know when, but let's say it's it doesn't happen within 389 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: the next year. 390 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 5: Would you would you want to leave? 391 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 4: No? 392 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 3: Like, do you have any and it's very organic? No, 393 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: it's very organ How long have you been divorced? Now 394 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 3: divorce six years. I'll have to be I'll be honest 395 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 3: with you. I never thought that you would get divorced. 396 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 3: I really thought neither did I Now I really did. 397 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 3: This is this is something I want to touch and 398 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 3: I love it. You're saying that because I feel like 399 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 3: America thought I was living a facade and you honestly 400 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 3: are in Heather always felt that there was something amiss 401 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 3: with jem Andi. 402 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 4: Yeah there's something, and that's okay because but we were 403 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 4: still fighting for our marriage, both of us. We were 404 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 4: in therapy. We were fighting, and we're not going to 405 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 4: sit there and say no married couple that thinks, you know, 406 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 4: you have three kids. You want your unit to stay together. 407 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 4: You want to keep your family unit together. No one thinks, 408 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I'm going to get divorced tomorrow and 409 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 4: then we go tell old Universe. You know, I was 410 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 4: still fighting for it and never believed divorce was an 411 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 4: option at that point. I really didn't on the show. 412 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 4: When I was on the show before. So now fast 413 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 4: forward ten years later and I've been divorced six of 414 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 4: those years. A lot of things crumbled and it was 415 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 4: not the show. I'm letting you know right now, Housewives 416 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 4: of Orange County is not what ruined my marriage, right there. 417 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 2: Was a lot. 418 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 3: I always say that when people say, oh, you know 419 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 3: reality shows ruined marriages. 420 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 5: No, your marriage is going to marriage. Yeah, yeah, it's 421 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 5: going to be highlighted. 422 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 3: If you're on a shaky ground, it's going to get 423 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 3: but it's also not I don't even believe that if 424 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 3: you're on shaky ground, I don't think it's going to 425 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 3: get worse. 426 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 4: That can either build you or it can destroy you. 427 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 4: I feel like the show, if you're meant to stay 428 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 4: together and you both have the will in the way, 429 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 4: you're going to stay together regardless of the show. The 430 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 4: show is not what ruins people. And I know that 431 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 4: they say Housewives has the curse because look at how 432 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 4: you were divorced. So many people get divorced. I don't 433 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 4: believe in that. Here's what I don't understand and where 434 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 4: I want people to get where I'm coming from. I 435 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 4: don't need to hide my private life just because somebody 436 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 4: else dated the man I'm going to marry someday that 437 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 4: I don't have to hide my life. If I did 438 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 4: that a man to how many people's lives, I couldn't 439 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 4: do anything. We couldn't. We couldn't do anything. I've been married, 440 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,919 Speaker 4: he's been married. We have We obviously loved those people. 441 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 4: I was engaged. It's like we're our lives are so 442 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 4: similar John and I is that it's like we don't. 443 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 4: I have no jealousy, no regret about any of my 444 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 4: past or jealousy towards his, what he had with anyone else. 445 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 4: We only know what we have with each other. Yeah, 446 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 4: that's it. 447 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 3: What do you have to say to the people that 448 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: are saying, oh, alexis the only reason you're back on 449 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 3: the show is because you're dating John Jansen? 450 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 4: And I would say, I can totally see why you 451 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 4: would think that, And it's not because I was talking 452 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 4: to everybody before John's name even was in. 453 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 2: My universe and the quiet woman picture wink if wink, 454 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 2: if it's incorrect, But did you guys make out that night? 455 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 4: No? 456 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 1: What? 457 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 4: No, Teddy, you don't know the story, do you? She knows? 458 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 4: I know it. She knows the story. 459 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 5: So you guys aren't. 460 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 4: No, I don't. Really, you aren't sleeping together after Oh 461 00:18:58,280 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 4: those are rumors? 462 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 5: Are not having said? They do keep secrets? 463 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 2: No, we only tell each other's secrets to one another, 464 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,160 Speaker 2: but like other people's, we don't because we know this 465 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: is our job and it puts us in a compromising 466 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:16,479 Speaker 2: situation to know too much about other people on other shows, 467 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 2: because then we can push each other and it's not authentic. 468 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 4: I get it. I get it, because you do have 469 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 4: to keep the authenticity for it to be a good show. 470 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 4: And you guys have a great chemistry, so that's why 471 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 4: people think you actually make it. 472 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 5: But she does know all my secrets, and if you 473 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 5: ever fucking cry, I would. 474 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 4: Never, So don't talk about her. 475 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 3: Hym Right, Okay, I have two, right, I've actually there's 476 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 3: actually three, and I've seen them both, three, all three 477 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 3: of them. 478 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 4: Okay, so let me. I'm going to clear it up 479 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 4: with you guys. You guys, this is an exclusive except 480 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 4: people did already get this part of it. It is 481 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 4: true that that night we met and we took that photo, 482 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 4: and we asked Ricky and Ryan, who you know? Who 483 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 4: are my good friends? 484 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 3: I know Ricky, I don't know Ryan. That's his new husband, right, Yeah, 485 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 3: that's who I knew that because you were with Ricky, 486 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 3: which Ricky was in my wedding, and I. 487 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 5: Want to see the guy that did you dirty. 488 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, so Ricky was with her Lexus. 489 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, no. 490 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: What. 491 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 4: I don't judge people. I can't. 492 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 5: The person said judge people. 493 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 4: Let me finish your last name. 494 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 5: I don't judge friendships. 495 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 3: If you want to be friends with somebody that I 496 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 3: agree with that I just because I had a falling 497 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 3: out with somebody doesn't mean you don't have to like. 498 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 4: And if you have a party, you're going to say, Okay, 499 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 4: Alexis is coming, Shannon is coming. You want to come? 500 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 4: Come if you don't, yeah, I don't, I do. 501 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 502 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:32,439 Speaker 4: So what happened that night was November eighteenth, I remembered 503 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 4: as clear as day, and I was there with Ricky 504 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 4: and Ryan and we were getting ready to leave. By 505 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 4: the way, I officiated their wedding. Yeah, but we were 506 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 4: getting ready to leave and paid the check and all, 507 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 4: and then John sat down next in the booth next 508 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 4: to me. At this time, I didn't even know who 509 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 4: he was. He just there's people sat down and he 510 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 4: was with a few other people, quite a few other 511 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 4: people in the picture. There's like eight of us or something. Anyways, 512 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 4: one woman that was with him is she wanted She 513 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,160 Speaker 4: was like, well, John's over there, and you guys were 514 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 4: on the same show together. I go, really, and I 515 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 4: look over and it's John, you know, and I'm like okay, 516 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 4: and she's like, well, you guys should talk. So then 517 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 4: their group ended up joining our table. We took that photo. 518 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 4: We asked Ricky and Ryan John and I both looked 519 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 4: at them and said almost in sync, and said, please 520 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 4: do not post that, because you know, I literally just 521 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 4: met the man two minutes ago, and I knew what 522 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 4: would happen. Right. 523 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 3: Let me guess Ricky posted. 524 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 4: Ricky didn't understand my words, and he posted it. So 525 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 4: then all the rumors I. 526 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 2: Started, I cannot understand your words or does he like 527 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 2: to have a little clout? 528 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 4: Well, just he just posted it. He goes, I don't 529 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 4: give a fuck what any one thinks. But that's not 530 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 4: okay for me, because then of course it blew up around. 531 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 4: The rumors start flying that I'm dating John Jansen, and 532 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 4: that's when I got upset because I'm like, we're not dating. 533 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:44,640 Speaker 5: But did he get your number? 534 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 1: That night? 535 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:49,640 Speaker 4: He did, and it was hard for him. It took 536 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 4: him a moment, but we were talking, and then we 537 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 4: planned a boating day together, all all eight of us, 538 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 4: and then and then but we ended up spending almost 539 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 4: every night on the phone together after that. I had 540 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 4: him come down to San Clemente to go to the 541 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 4: beach with me while I dropped one of my children 542 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 4: off for two hours and we sat and talked on 543 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 4: the beach, I mean, and there was no kissing, nothing. 544 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 4: We stayed friends and we went to lunch. And then 545 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 4: that's how that photo got leaked to TMZ, because someone 546 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 4: at his private yacht club snapped a photo of us 547 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 4: and sent it to TMZ. Rumors are they're still doing 548 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 4: They're dating. We had not even held hands or touched 549 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 4: or anything at this point. We're still friends. So I 550 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 4: was getting starting to get really mad, okay, and then 551 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 4: it was like we just couldn't fight it anymore. And 552 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 4: then the friendship turned into what it was. And that's 553 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 4: when everyone started seeing us out and we had to 554 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 4: make a statement to America just that okay, yeah, we 555 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 4: actually are dating. I didn't want people think you can. 556 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 3: You ember you sent me a message. 557 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 4: I tell you because you were in a podcast and 558 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 4: I was on a podcast and I was sticking up 559 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 4: for you. Guys were on your podcast and that you 560 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 4: I heard you say that, well, because. 561 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 3: EMIES and I were talking and I knew like the 562 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 3: conversations that we had, you know, I'm like, no, these 563 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 3: are not true. 564 00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 4: They're just friends. And that's what I and I told 565 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 4: that because that's true. We were just friends. 566 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 3: And then one day we were on the podcast and 567 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 3: she texts me, you always text me I'm on the pod. 568 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 3: I don't know what it is or either that or 569 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 3: I'm always on. 570 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 4: The pod you are? 571 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, five days a week at nine am 572 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 2: or on the pod. 573 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 3: So so she's like, can you call me? There's something 574 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 3: I have to tell you. 575 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 4: Because I didn't want you to defend me anymore about 576 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,199 Speaker 4: it when it wasn't the truth, because I wanted you 577 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 4: to know the truth, and we were one of the 578 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 4: first people. 579 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 3: It was like two months after you met him or 580 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:25,239 Speaker 3: something like that. 581 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 2: I have to ask another question, what I had possibly 582 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 2: seen at BRAVOCN or different times that I've hung out 583 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 2: with John. 584 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 5: They both were pretty big drinkers together. 585 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 2: Is he still a big drinker, because it doesn't You're 586 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 2: not a big drinker from what I've gathered. 587 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 4: Okay, well here's the real of that. And yes I 588 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 4: like alcohol and I have fun and party, but ian 589 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 4: a big drinker. My mom passed away and I started 590 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 4: to want to rely on something else for alcohol for 591 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 4: my pain and I was over indulging. And so when 592 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 4: I met John, I was not drinking at all. It 593 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 4: was I took a three four. However, along my hiatus 594 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 4: was I took time off, and I told John the 595 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 4: first time I met him, even a quiet woman, when 596 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 4: I met him, I wasn't drinking and we still went 597 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 4: to Shamrock and danced and where we're He's just like, 598 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 4: you don't want to Can I get you something? I 599 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 4: was not, and Ricky and Ryan were like, just have one, 600 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,479 Speaker 4: and I'm like, you, guys, I'm not. It's good. I 601 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 4: went that long time. He literally every time, even as 602 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 4: a friend or when we became more, would not drink 603 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 4: one drop out of respect for you, out to respect 604 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 4: for me. And then he got stem cells. Three months 605 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 4: into our relationship, he got stem cells and he can't 606 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 4: drink then, So then I support, I was ready to start, 607 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 4: and I'm like I can have a glass like I 608 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 4: could have a slipper champagne, I can have a glass 609 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 4: of wine. And he was doing that and he had 610 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 4: supported me, so I'm like, I'm not doing it. So 611 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 4: we went six to seven months of our relationship without 612 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 4: any alcohol and we just now started like here and there, 613 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 4: we'll have a glass of wine. 614 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 2: Or so when you had sex for the first time, 615 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,479 Speaker 2: was had Were you guys completely sober? 616 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:00,120 Speaker 4: Totally? 617 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 5: Yes? That was a weird question. 618 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 4: That is a very rare Why is everyone drunk on 619 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 4: the first time they ever have sex? I met? 620 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,199 Speaker 2: Was it a wild, crazy first night or was it 621 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 2: just like passion intimate? 622 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, how many times did day you have sex? 623 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 2: No, if you say door like Larsa, I'm going to 624 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 2: lose it. 625 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 4: Well it's more than that. 626 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 5: But whoa Alexis? Are the rumors true? 627 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 2: As he hung like a horse, Alexis, laid down and 628 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 2: unzip your pants because if you're having sex, I. 629 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 4: Did not know, donnically didn't know this was I told 630 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,439 Speaker 4: him I didn't know the human am anatomy could do this, 631 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 4: Like I did not know. And because I keep telling him, 632 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 4: I'm going to have to get like vaginal rejuvens. 633 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 3: I feel like the best sex of your life. 634 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 4: It is. 635 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 3: I mean, well, there's a lot of rumors about what 636 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 3: he's passed. I am not going to talk about my 637 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 3: when was the last of you? 638 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 5: And that he had sex five times in one day? 639 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,439 Speaker 3: Well, by the way, keep it my nineteen ninety five guys, 640 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 3: keep up. 641 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,399 Speaker 4: Keep in mind. The difference is we do stay together 642 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 4: almost seven nights a week now, but through our relationship 643 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 4: it has progressed to that because I have three kids still, 644 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 4: so we can't stay the night every single night together 645 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 4: unless he wants to come to me. I'll come over 646 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 4: to his house twice a month, twice a week, I'll 647 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 4: stay there, and then one night a week. We're really apart. 648 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 4: So it's not like you guys are married. It's just different. 649 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 5: We hold on. Is there a big break in between? 650 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I need to know, Like, if you're having 651 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 2: sex four to five times a day, how long is 652 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 2: the break in between? 653 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,360 Speaker 5: Like I remember when you first get. 654 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 3: With somebody, is it like passing in the hallway You're like, hey, 655 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 3: you want to bang one out? 656 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 2: Like five times a day? 657 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: Die? 658 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 4: My poor children and his children have to listen to this. 659 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 3: So, okay, there was a time where you had to 660 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 3: turn off your comments on your Instagram because anytime you 661 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 3: would post about John so times. 662 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 5: Your comments you're what you would write in your post. 663 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,719 Speaker 2: I was like, she's looking for people to come in, 664 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 2: and that's it rich from you. 665 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 5: I know, and I did, but also comment. 666 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 4: You know what, guys, I am not having a social 667 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 4: media account that I have to squelch myself. I squelched 668 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 4: myself for too many years of my life, and now 669 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 4: I lost a lot in my life. Now I'm not 670 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 4: squelching for anything. I feel like everyone's like, why are 671 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 4: you throwing it in everyone's face. I'm not throwing on 672 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 4: anyone's face. Get off my Instagram. There's seven million people 673 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,439 Speaker 4: you can follow. Don't follow me if you don't want 674 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:32,120 Speaker 4: to see my life. 675 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 5: No, I agree with you today. 676 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 4: I agree. 677 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 5: You won me over on the plane and I followed 678 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 5: you after me. 679 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 4: That's all I know. 680 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 2: I said that, just warned you know what I Today 681 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 2: we're at baggage Claim and I looked at my Instagram 682 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,959 Speaker 2: and I said, Alexis, we're about to spend some time together. 683 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:50,680 Speaker 5: I think it's time that I followed you. 684 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 4: Only did that for the podcast. 685 00:27:52,760 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 6: You about anything for the pot Oh my god, I'm 686 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 6: gonna have to ask you a question now. 687 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 3: Fans have come forward and insinuated that you and I 688 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 3: have only mended our friendship because of the show and 689 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,439 Speaker 3: trying to get back at Shannon and all those kind 690 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 3: of things. When we got back together, me and Shannon 691 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 3: were still in a good place. 692 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 4: And by the way, you didn't even know John Jansen 693 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 4: and I were going to happen, because I hadn't met 694 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 4: John Jansen yet, so there was no You did not 695 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 4: even know, and you didn't even know I was getting 696 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 4: talked to by producers for the show. 697 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 3: Again, you didn't tell none of this. 698 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 4: None of this was in your mind when you and 699 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 4: I made up, not one thing soon. 700 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 5: It was magical moment. 701 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 4: Still, it was a magical moment. I was still two 702 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 4: or three weeks from ever even knowing John Jansen at all. 703 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 2: Something else that came up was I guess Megan King 704 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 2: Ques John of love bombing you. And then there was 705 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 2: some back and forth about this, what is your thoughts 706 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 2: on because this does not anything to do with the show, 707 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 2: so we can talk about it. 708 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 4: I just hate giving any of these people that used 709 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 4: to be my friends or thought they were my friends, 710 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 4: that decide they want to do that and do it 711 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 4: in the media, who are looking for a moment in 712 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 4: the spotlight to write John and I's unbelievably like horrible 713 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 4: at this point media coverage because we're the most hated 714 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 4: people in America, Like we are hated right now. 715 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 5: I can assure you I hated. 716 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 4: I'm hated way more John I. John and Eye's relationship 717 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 4: is so hated. And I don't even want to give 718 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 4: two cents to her or a couple others who have 719 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 4: gone to the media. If you're my true friend and 720 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 4: you're worried about somebody love bombing me, pick up the 721 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 4: fucking phone and call me and text me because you 722 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 4: have my number. So guess what it's not. It's not 723 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 4: a true friendship. And I'm also fucking pissed about it. 724 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 3: Can you tell I saw you my body lange like, 725 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 3: I like, I'm like my heart is about tobout myself. 726 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 4: You're not a true friend. 727 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 5: You are literally doing it for media exposure. 728 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 3: We have talked several times. Yes, Megan and I I 729 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 3: thought how I love I do love her. 730 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 4: She could have done as call me after she knew 731 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 4: she really hurt my feelings and said I'm so sorry, 732 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 4: Like that's how you down and talk. I think that 733 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 4: you don't need to sit down and talk. And then 734 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 4: how do you think that Vicky feels about parent because 735 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 4: Vicky is also one that has decided to jump onto the. 736 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 5: Well not I wasn't even gonna say. 737 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 3: I will sayin i've ever met in my entire life. 738 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 2: Do we think that Vicky is jealous that you're an 739 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 2: official friend of at this point? 740 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 4: Is that a title? Official friend of me? 741 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 5: Just not a question, that's a statement. 742 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 4: Official friend of means you're a piece of shit. You 743 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 4: didn't join the cast full So no, I mean nothing 744 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 4: to be jealous of. 745 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 5: Do you think that you will move in together with 746 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 5: John before getting married? 747 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 4: Well, we've talked all these things through also, but well 748 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 4: probably we We probably will keep both houses. My twins 749 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 4: are still in high school and they're not out of 750 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 4: high school for two years, so I don't think there's 751 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 4: a move in looking in the future before marriage. I 752 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 4: think it would probably be after and my kids. One 753 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 4: of my kids is going to stay with me and 754 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 4: live in my house. The other one is going to go, 755 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 4: so I'll still have a child for a while with me, 756 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 4: So I don't know. We are looking at all Avenue. 757 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 4: So James just graduated high school. Yes, yes, he's going 758 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 4: to go off to college. Is he going away or 759 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 4: is he staying close by? He's staying close by? Oh good, 760 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 4: he is close And his funny comment was, Mom, I'm 761 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 4: just going to be at John's all the time, like 762 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 4: I'm just going to pop in there. I go. 763 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 5: So your kids ask kid, now, how tall is he? 764 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 4: Six five and growing? 765 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 5: Holy hell? How tall is your ex husband? 766 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 4: Well he's only six one, but my dad was six 767 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 4: three or six two and a half and his dad 768 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 4: was six four. 769 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 3: So James got can I tell you a sweet little 770 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 3: story about James. So I'm in the middle of a 771 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 3: lawsuit with your ex husband. 772 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 4: Which I had no by the way, which I had 773 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,480 Speaker 4: Please preface that with I had nothing to do. 774 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 5: You had nothing to do with it at all. 775 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 3: So we were at a restaurant, Eddie and I and 776 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 3: James was working at the restaurant. He came up and 777 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 3: he's like, Tara, hi, and I'm like hi, and he goes, 778 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 3: I'm James Billino. And I just went my. 779 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 5: Heart sunk because here I am in the middle of 780 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 5: the lawsuit. I'm like, is he gonna yell at me? 781 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 5: Your heart? I sung because you're like, fuck, I'm old. 782 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,680 Speaker 3: No, because because all this, you know, was around him, 783 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 3: and he was so kind and so sweet. 784 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 4: And my kids are good. My kids are so amazing, 785 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 4: and they don't let a lot of things fade. They 786 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 4: just they just are strong individuals and they know kindness 787 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 4: is the way through the world. And at the time, 788 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 4: you and I weren't in a great place. We weren't 789 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 4: well we. 790 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: Were, we weren't in a bad place. 791 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 4: Now we were still. I was still commenting on some 792 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 4: of your Instagram and we were doing something. 793 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we saw each other at Andy Cohen's 794 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 3: live show and all that. 795 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 4: We weren't like, Yeah, we weren't good, good place, but 796 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 4: it was weren't get made up. Let's say we had 797 00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 4: kissed and made up. Yes, what I'm saying is you're 798 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 4: a good Oh thank you. I just have good kids. 799 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I love that for you. 800 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 4: She's going to sleep in my room tonight, not yours. 801 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 5: Let's see where everybody ends up. 802 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 4: Oh god, it might be all four of us. 803 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 2: Other than Tam Right, you cannot do you have to 804 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 2: cut her out of this equation the play but killed No. 805 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 5: Probably well no, because I mean we've already crossed over on. 806 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 4: Hold on, I have something to ask you. 807 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 5: Oh you Oh, I forgot about the bony because. 808 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 4: Because you have been a little dirty to my man, 809 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 4: I have Okay, So I just wonder where you get 810 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 4: those feelings. 811 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 3: When you're inside it and you know the truth. You 812 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 3: your eyes are wide open and you're like, it's so 813 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 3: annoying and you want to fight for him because what 814 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 3: the public knows about him is not the truth. 815 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 4: You can figure out and piece together what you want 816 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 4: on this, but there's a lot of this part of 817 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 4: the story that you don't There's there's there's so much 818 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 4: to the truth, Teddy that you don't know. John is 819 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 4: one of the kindest, nicest, most generous, amazing, god fearing 820 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 4: humans I know, and gives back to the world and 821 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 4: constantly keeps getting beat down and still tries to rise 822 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:13,399 Speaker 4: above that. 823 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 3: Like I think the thing that people don't know about 824 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 3: John is John raised his kids by himself. He was 825 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 3: a single dad that raises kids, and that says a 826 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 3: lot for a man. There is no mother, did amazing 827 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 3: and never missed a soccer turn. I never missed any 828 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 3: never missed one thing with his kids, and his kids 829 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 3: are unbelievably incredible. 830 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,359 Speaker 2: I love them and there's nothing more that I love 831 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,040 Speaker 2: than as much as we joke about me wanting to 832 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,959 Speaker 2: be a know at all than to be proven wrong. 833 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 2: So so we'll be proven wrong this season too, because 834 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:48,320 Speaker 2: the truth will come out. Yeah, and in a lighter 835 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 2: note other than Tam you cannot bring her into this 836 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 2: on the show. 837 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 5: Who do you feel like you have the closest relationship with? 838 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,759 Speaker 4: I mean, obviously Heather and I are tight. 839 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,919 Speaker 5: Who would you tell your secrets to Heather? 840 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 1: Though? 841 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? Absolutely? 842 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 5: Can you tell your secrets to me tonight? 843 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:09,919 Speaker 4: I will tell you some of them? Yes, and you'll 844 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,320 Speaker 4: have to earn You just followed me so you could 845 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:12,919 Speaker 4: earn it more. 846 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 5: Baby Step, Oh my god, Baby Step. Thank you guys 847 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 5: so much for tuning in. 848 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 2: You will be so excited because not only do we 849 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 2: have this special pod that we just released, but you 850 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 2: will also get a double pod with both the a's 851 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 2: and both the t's, So make sure you keep listening 852 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 2: throughout the weekend.