WEBVTT - Mon Early Bird: Cole Swindell In Studio + What Makes Us Most Uncomfortable 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:13.399 Transmitting, Hey, welcome to Monday show. More in a studio, 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:16.880 so they get to know your question is you have 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:21.080 a second to think about it? What makes you most uncomfortable? 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:26.600 Now do with it what you may, But what makes 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:30.520 you most uncomfortable? When you look up, I know you'll 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:35.720 have your answer. I'll start if I'm watching a movie 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:39.559 or a TV show and there is a dog at 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:43.440 risk of being shot. I was watching Mike what's it 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:47.680 called Fallout on Amazon one of many, and there's a 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:50.839 dog a part of the show. He's run along and 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:54.040 the dog. Things happen to the dog, and I'm like, 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:57.560 don't care about the humans. Makes me uncomfortable that the 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.200 dog is even there when you put I love dog 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.920 so much, I don't even want in the movie or 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.800 the TV show, And there are a lot of those. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.920 The movie with Will Smith back in the day Wall 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:10.920 where he's like fighting the end of the world. I 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:16.400 am legend the dog. So it makes me uncomfortable when 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:19.880 dogs have there's a chance that could be killed or 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:22.199 shot or hurt in a TV show or movie. Because 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.679 that's all I think about Amy. It's weird. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:28.240 My brain went a completely different action with this, and 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:30.200 I'm most uncomfortable when I have to pee. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:34.080 I know when Amy has to not always when she has, 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:36.480 but when it gets bad, she starts rubbing her thighs 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:37.720 and I know. 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.840 Okay, it's like a sensory thing. Go to the bathroom, 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:41.040 distract myself. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:43.200 That's that's our tell. I just to play a lot 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.080 of poker, that's our tell. That means she has to pee, 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:47.680 So yours is a physical. 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:50.160 Yeah, it's the worst feeling, Eddie. 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:52.160 I'm uncomfortable when a bunch of kids want to come 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:54.480 talk to me, like kids that I don't know, you know, 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:56.040 Like say, like I'm at a pool and these kids 0:01:56.080 --> 0:01:57.600 swim up and they're like hey, mister, and I'm like, 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.320 I uncomfortable, Like I don't want to be hear it 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:00.640 around kids I don't know. 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:03.280 So you're at the poll with your kids, Yeah, you're 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:05.160 uncomfortable when a bunch of kids come up to have 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:05.840 a conversation. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:06.760 Why would they I. 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:08.440 Don't know, dude, Like I've been in places where kids 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:09.720 it's just like, who, I like your shoes. 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:11.920 I'm like, cool, thank you got. 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:18.440 Lunch bikes. I hate it when women discuss that time 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:19.000 of the month. 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:20.480 Don't want to hear about it. 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:21.680 Still even have to be married. 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:22.639 Yeah, even when my. 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.239 Wife's like, oh you know my aye, Yeah, yeah, I 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:26.000 don't want to hear it. 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:27.519 You deal with that on your own. 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:30.160 That's interesting. That's there was a time and I was 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.760 un comfortable with that. I think age is twenty, like 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:35.440 twenty five. What's so bad about it? They're like, no, 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:36.520 I have it. 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:38.679 Yeah, it's just note that if y'all had it, we'd 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.600 be hearing about it all. 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:41.760 I've writen a book about it exactly. Yeah, but I 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:43.280 don't want to hear about it. Don't need to know, 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:46.200 don't need any of that, just like, hey, you take care. 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.840 Of that that I mean, but that's his I know 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.679 it is it just I can go to the store. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:55.800 And buy it. No, probably don't feel weird. It's just normal. 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:57.360 No, if I need to go, you can't buy it. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:01.160 Wouldn't do that. If your wife, what would you do? 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.079 Then she can figure it out? 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:04.600 Okay, No, you wouldn't even go. 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:05.440 No. 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.160 No, it's probably a hot button for me because my 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.920 ex husband couldn't talk about it or help with it 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:11.600 or do anything. 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:13.560 And it was the most bizarre like it was. 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:16.120 It impacted our relationship at times because I just couldn't 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:21.240 be my No, it's not why, but he knows that 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:23.280 it was a sore spot. 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:24.360 Like it was ridiculous. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:26.680 And now we have a daughter, and he's grown a lot, 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:28.560 I will say, And now that we're not together, he's 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:32.200 suddenly like, I'm really trying to erase I'm really trying 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:34.200 to embrace it and talk with her about it. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:38.000 And I get for him. Glad you guys are here, 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.000 Thank you very much. We got a big show today. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.280 Cole Swindell stopping by in the next hour, got engaged. 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:45.480 I wonder if he talks about. 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:47.080 That yet periods. 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:48.839 I mean, I wasn't going to yell that word. 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:52.119 Whether you just made uncomfortable. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:56.440 He's not rubbing his needs to leave. Let's open up 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.200 the mail bag. You send. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:03.520 All the air pick something we call Bobby's mail die. 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:07.120 Yeah, hello, Bobby Bones. I've been invited to a destination wedding. 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.520 It's in Hawaii, but I don't know what's proper protocol 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:12.040 is for these things. I've been asked to be one 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:13.680 of the grooms men, but it doesn't make sense to 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.160 go all that way just for a wedding. So my 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:17.800 girlfriend are not gonna make a vacation out of it. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.680 My question is, since the wedding is technically why we're there, 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:22.839 how much time should I set aside for the actual 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:25.400 wedding build up ceremony. How much of the time can 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:28.120 be our time? I want to live up to my responsibilities, 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:30.599 But if I'm being honest, it's more about a nice 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:34.520 Hawaiian vacation. What's the proper and respectful time balance on 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:41.160 these things? Signed? Destination wedding Dan good question. Destination weddings 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:44.240 are terrible unless they're very, very small. I know you 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:45.080 had one eddie. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:45.760 I did in Hawaii. 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:47.480 Yeah, but people that have them and then expect a 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.039 lot of people to come or even mid I feel 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.240 like this. I don't like that's tough. Yeah, unless they're going. 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:53.840 To pay for all. What we did is we got 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:54.520 married in Hawaii. 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:57.120 It was just the immediate family, brothers, sisters, and that 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:59.200 I'm not talking about you atter. I'm just saying, and 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:00.719 then we came back and you had a big party 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:01.240 for everyone. 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:02.920 Because people feel pressured that they have to go to 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:04.840 a wedding to spend money they don't maybe don't have. 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:07.240 I just feel bad for that type of situation. It 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:10.640 doesn't sound like that's the case, I think you will 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:13.839 hear in the invitation, or you can ask, hey, what's 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:15.960 up when do we need to be there? That's the 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:18.920 front side. And then the wedding happens, and there's probably 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:20.880 that night and then you're free and clear. 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:21.320 That's it. 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:24.520 There's nothing the next day. It's always pre so I 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:27.039 would make sure you schedule your vacation on the back, like, 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:28.520 have it start when the wedding's over. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:28.920 Yep. 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:31.119 That way it's not interrupted by like, oh, you're already 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.360 out here, can you help me do this? Oh doubt 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:39.240 that's spoil at all. Try to plan your wedding after right, 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:41.120 your vacation after the wedding, right. 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:42.760 That's a smart move. 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:45.440 Because then you know when everybody's expected to be there. 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:49.280 Because the other girls don't have the same criteria protocol. 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.400 You know when it's over. That night, it's over, everybody 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:54.360 goes home. You stay in Hawaii. That's the easy way 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:54.560 to do it. 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:55.719 Yeah, that's what my family did. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.400 Like once the wedding happened, the next day, we flew 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:00.480 out to go to a different island for a honeymoon. 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:02.440 And then they stayed had a great time for about 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:03.360 three days, and then they left. 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:05.200 What did it got there early? That was you asking 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:06.080 them for help on stuff? 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:07.919 Well, yeah, because you know you got to do the 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:09.760 rehearsal dinner and then you do all that. 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:13.200 So yeah, I all that's okay as long as it stated. 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:15.200 I wouldn't make any plans before the wedding because you 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:16.800 don't know what they're planning on doing, or. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:18.920 If you do, don't even tell me going out there. Yeah, 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:20.960 if you're gonna do that, we're not. We're still in 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:23.200 West Virginia. I swear to god. I just saw you 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:27.280 at Costco, so we got your game. 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:29.080 May laid on you. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:34.800 Now let's find the clothes. Bobby failed that damn you 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:37.599 named the nineties movie all three of these actors are in. Okay, 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:39.960 only one movie that all three of these actors have 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:42.240 been in the nineties. Named the movie? For example, if 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:45.560 I said Leo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet, and Billy Zane, that 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:48.359 would be Titanic. Titanic nineteen ninety seven. 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:48.960 Was that movie? 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:49.560 Great movie? 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:52.480 If I were to say Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, Robin Williams, 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:55.480 Goodwill Hunting, correct, you have five of these? 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:57.440 Here we go. 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:05.200 Jeff Goldbloom, Bill Pullman, Will Smith, yept cretch out. What 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:10.640 nineties movie are those three actors in? Jeff Goldbloom, Bill Pullman, 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:11.440 Meg Ryan? 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:12.960 Wait wait wait what? 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.720 Oh sorry wait, I'm really screwing this up. There's two 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:19.360 Bill Pullmans in a row here, Jeff Goldbloom, Bill Pullman, 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:24.560 Will Smith, Jeff Goldbloom, Jeff gold Bloom, Bill Pullman, Will Smith. 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:27.200 All right, we're gonna go with that one. 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:28.080 We're gonna change it. 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:33.520 Up, all right, Amy, men in black lunchbox, Independence Day, Eddie, 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.640 men and black. It's Independence Day? 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:37.960 Yes, Oh that's right. 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:40.880 I just don't remember that Goldbloom. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.920 Bl Bloom was like the friend of the president or something, 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.040 the president president. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:47.520 He was a smart guy. He was a scientist. 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:54.320 Yeah, he was president number two. Bill Pullman, Tom Hanks, 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.240 Meg Ryan. What nineties movie or all three of those 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:01.440 in I'm in lunchbox? You got the lead. I'll goe 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:01.920 to you first. 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:02.960 You've got mail. 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:05.880 Incorrect, Amy, you've got mail incorrect. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.400 Eddie, Well, you've got mail incorrect. 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:13.800 Sleepless in Seattle. Okay, yeah, I didn't even think. I 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:16.280 just heard make Ryan, Tom Hanks didn't even next up, 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:25.520 they're thinking carry in Moss Lawrence Fishburn, Keanu Reeves. Lunchbox 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.800 one of the worst movies of all time. Matrix Amy, 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:33.360 Matrix Eddie, the Matrix, Job, Good Job, two more to go. 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:40.559 Lunchbox has a big lead of one. Dennis Hopper, Sandra Bullock, 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:48.760 Keanu Reeves. I'm in for the wind, Lunchbox, Speed Eddie, 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:54.160 Speed Amy Speed correct That maybe good? Yeah for like 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:56.000 corny Ones. Okay, I liked it. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:58.640 Though Speed two is bad, but Speed one's good. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.520 It's like, Okay, we saw this, We're still speeding there. 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:05.680 Next up, this is the final one. If he Lunchbox 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:16.160 gets it, he wins. Rosie Perez, Wesley Snipes, Woody Harrelson. 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:17.640 You don't need to go to them. It's over. 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:19.080 Well, like to let him play. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.200 Though, Oh man, Eddie, white man can't jump. 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.000 Any white man can't jump? 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.920 What what what did you say? 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:29.400 Man can't say? 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:29.760 Run? 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:41.600 Yeah man, white man, white man, white man can't called 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:45.200 that white man can't jump. But white men can't jump Lunchbox, 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:47.320 white men can't. 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:50.840 I won the first one we have. 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:52.640 We're going to go sudden Sudden, Depth Amy, You're out. 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:55.600 I have a grand a grand champion. It's only one 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.800 we do speed Round Buzz in. Whoever gets this one 0:09:58.840 --> 0:10:02.679 ride will be grand Champion. Here we go, Morgan Freeman. 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.319 Lunchbox, Shawshank, Redemption. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.560 Yeah, your favorite movie. 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:10.320 I didn't make the movie. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.440 Yeah, that's your favorite movie and I took you out 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:16.480 on it, saw Shank. Get busy or get busy dying. 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:22.600 Get busy winning, or get busy losing. That is busy losing, incorrect. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:25.440 Loser. 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:27.920 You have to still get it. You can hear the 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:35.719 other two. Kevin Spacey, brad Pitt. You have Morgan Freeman. Yeah, 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:41.160 Kevin Spacey, Brad Pitt. Is that what's in the bog? 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.319 What's in the bogs? 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:46.000 Go with seven? 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:52.960 The answer is seven. Yeah, get busy winning or gets 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.000 beat at your own joke. Eddie, congratulations, thank you for 0:10:58.160 --> 0:10:58.920 the Grand Champion. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:10:59.960 Lunchbox, you wanta say anything. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:10.440 It's time for the good news. Last week, the Cleveland 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:13.560 Monsters were having their hockey game. The crowd's going crazy, 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.920 the seconds are ticking down when someone whack shoots a 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:23.920 puck deflected goes flying over the glass like a missile, 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:27.400 heading straight for a four year old's head. And this dude, 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.679 Andrew was sitting next to the four year old, didn't 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:34.120 know the kid but just hurrah, stuck his armouth and 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:36.480 block a puck right in front of the kid's head, 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:37.800 saved his life. 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:41.439 And they take some selfies and he leaves and the mom. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.520 Is like whoa, whoa, whoa, Like we should have done 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:47.360 something more of this guy. So she gets on TikTok's like, hey, guys, 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:49.120 I need to get ahold of this guy. 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:50.480 He saved my son's life. 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:53.840 TikTok reunited him, they had a reunion, and here's Andrew 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:55.320 talking about being a hero. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.960 I saw it soaring on through and my first instincts 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:00.719 was just a cover up. I had a couple other 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:03.080 kids sitting behind me as well, so I just tried 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:04.559 jumping in front of it, and I was able to 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:07.800 deflect off my hand and luckily go over top of 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.480 him and fall behind him into the seat. 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:11.560 Yeah you would have. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:14.200 There are lots of small children here. Get out the scene. 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:17.000 Hide from the puck. Yeah yeah, yeah, you took the 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:20.960 puck for the kids. Maybe trying to catch it. 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:22.520 I mean, it's not a pop fly, dude. 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:24.120 If we're gonna cover though, i'd try to lay me 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:25.640 in the back or the shoulder or something. Yeah, I 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.640 had to put my back there Yeah, he put his 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:29.599 arm out, maybe trying to or just it could have 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:30.640 just straight been reaction. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:32.600 Do you ever see the video of the dad who's 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.720 got a baby and the baby bjorn and a beer 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:36.440 and then he saves the lady from getting hit by 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:37.720 a ball baseball. 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:38.360 That's awesome. 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:39.880 I bet it was just a react, right, I mean 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:43.000 this guy has a reaction to just stick it out 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:43.440 and stop them. 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:43.960 Yeah. 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.439 Probably that's a great story. Hey, good for Twitter for 0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:49.720 doing something good and the four year old Twitter still 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:51.320 done nothing good. Well, and the four year old got 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:54.480 the puck. Yep, that's what it's all about. That was 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:59.839 telling me something good on the Bobby Bones Show. Now, 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:03.400 cool Swindow, Hey doing buddy good. Good to be here. 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:05.680 He always good to see you in this setting. So 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:07.679 a couple questions I want to ask you that have 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:11.240 nothing to do with your career. Cool, all right, cool, cool, 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:13.079 because I know you're getting married. 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:14.400 It's all cool. Love it. 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:16.280 You look happy all that. I just went through that 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:18.120 so like a few years ago. So it's awesome to 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:20.199 see because you and I talked about that so many times. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:22.960 Enough for both of us. I know you literally, I 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:24.679 was sitting right there when you said, you got to 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:26.080 make it happen. It's not just gonna happen. 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.840 And I don't think you and I think who knows 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:31.400 what I know, But I don't think like you forced anything. 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:33.800 I think it came and you were actually open to it, 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:35.320 which was the hardest thing to do. 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:39.120 Yeah, that's it's still hard to believe it happened at 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:41.640 the time it did and it was just perfect time. 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.560 How involved are you in the wedding planning process. 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:48.199 Just saying yes, okay whatever, that's uh, she's doing a 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:48.600 lot of it. 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.280 But where I got in the same right, same where 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:55.559 I got into trouble was I didn't present my availability. 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:57.720 I was just like, well, you're doing it all right. 0:13:58.000 --> 0:13:59.640 What I should have done. And my advice to you, 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:02.920 because I just went through this and we're both you know, 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:07.040 we're not twenty two, No, we're both established. It would 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:10.360 be just to say, hey, whenever you need me to 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:12.520 do anything, I'm happy to go anywhere with you. Right. 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:14.000 I didn't really do that. 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:17.560 Yeah, that's probably you were right in the middle of 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.880 it now and you know I'm there to help when 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:21.640 I can, but I know this is her day and. 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.720 No I hear you though, But I'm just saying, even 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:27.280 if she never uses that, it's just like, hey, I 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:29.600 would when you need me, I would let me know 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:31.440 because then it can never be used against you that 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:32.200 you had nothing to. 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:35.000 Do with it, right. Yeah, Okay, well that's good advice. 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:35.840 How did you propose? 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:38.720 We were heading to the ACMs last year and I 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:41.920 on the way out of town where the video shoot 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:43.920 for some habits is kind of that was like our 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:46.800 first date kind of deal, and just dawned on me. 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.880 I was like, I wanted to do it in Texas, 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:51.560 but I just thought on the way out of town 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:53.680 we'd stop by where we did the video shoot. So 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:55.920 that's where I did it, on that little dirt road. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:58.640 We shut the video and did you record it? 0:14:59.040 --> 0:14:59.400 Record it? 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:02.320 Yeah? I had my camera guy out there, so there's 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.640 clips of it. We hadn't really released a lot of it, 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:08.400 but yeah, it's somewhere in the field up there. Yeah 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:11.120 it was. Man, that's the most nervous I've probably ever 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:13.160 been in my life, other than talking to her dad. 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.440 So yeah, it's nerve wracking to ask, even though you 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.960 know the answer is probably the same way. Like, I 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:22.240 was nervous, but I felt like she was gonna say yes. 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:25.160 Yeah, but I mean, you're just there. And at one point, 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.200 I kept repeating myself, was like, just ask her, this 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:28.680 is getting out of hand here. 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:29.680 How did dad talk go? 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:34.080 It was fine, you know in person. Yeah, at her 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:37.240 house she grew up in. And that was definitely more 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:39.880 nerve wracking than than asking her to marry me, just 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:42.920 because I can't imagine being a dad and having a daughter. 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:46.600 And I don't know that I would think anybody's good 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.800 enough for you know so, and he's just he reminds 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:51.280 me a lot of my days. Just a great guy. 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.120 And her whole family. I mean, I think, you know, 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:55.640 losing both your parents so young to have a second 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:58.200 chance at you know, a family like that. And I 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:00.400 still have my brothers and some uncles and aunts and stuff, 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:02.160 but they are just I mean, I don't know, it 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.360 just reminds me of my family. And uh, that's a 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:07.000 big part of you know, the whole deal, getting to 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.560 you marry into a family like that, and I just 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:11.640 think it's been it's just been a blessing. 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:12.520 That's cool. 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:14.160 Do you say that. I don't, you know, have a 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:17.040 mom or dad and so, but her parents, my wife's parents, 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:17.520 my in laws. 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:18.120 They're awesome. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:19.920 Yeah, I mean that's a big deal. That's a big 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:21.640 part of it, I feel like, and it just they've 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:23.800 taken me in and it's it's like a literally like 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:26.840 a second chance that having something like that. 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:28.600 So I said on the air last couple of weeks, 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:29.840 like I never thought I would really love them. I 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:32.120 thought they'd be my wife's parents, like i'd always actly 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:32.920 like I love them. 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:34.960 We hear stories. I know it's like it could be 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:39.360 as we're lucky then because that is they're great people. 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:41.280 Did she know you were going to propose? 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:44.440 I mean I think she had a clue, but she 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:45.920 thought I was going to do it somewhere else. We 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:49.040 love Pinewood Social That was one of our first like 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.800 coffee spots and stuff. So she thought I was gonna 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:55.520 do it there. But I think when she saw me, 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:58.280 you know, wearing something on the bus that I probably 0:16:58.280 --> 0:16:59.040 wouldn't like, he's. 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:03.840 In a tuck, I'm proposing today. 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.159 Yeah, I mean she didn't know where I was going 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:07.840 to do it or whatever, But I think obviously, I 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:10.320 mean she had to let her know. You couln't just 0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:12.640 surprise somebody like that and her not be. 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:13.920 Like her nails. 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:16.679 Yeah, oh yeah, they were done. Yeah. She she had 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:19.600 a clue, but I honestly thought she thought it was 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:20.800 gonna be in Texas anyways. 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:23.440 So okay, so you brought up a CMS going there. 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:26.440 This is just me asking you because I feel like 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:29.440 I can. Yeah, if I'm comfortable, did you get heat 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:32.600 for not thanking her? And when you won? Because you 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:33.440 just proposed? 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:34.600 And did I not think? 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:38.080 No? No, no, I just wonder did anything I didn't? 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:40.440 I mean those kind of moments. It's like the proposals, 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:43.359 like I don't. I'm not used to that situation. You know, 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:45.840