Speaker 1: Second date up date.
Speaker 2: We talk a lot about how hard it is in
Speaker 2: the dating world right now, especially for guys to just
Speaker 2: get a pretty girl to agree to a date. But
Speaker 2: you know something we rarely talk about what that could
Speaker 2: be even more difficult is successfully locking down that second
Speaker 2: date all on your own, because maybe you just got
Speaker 2: lucky on the first one. She was feeling hungry that
Speaker 2: night and just needed a free meal. She was bored
Speaker 2: and was willing to lower her standards just for a
Speaker 2: funny story to laugh about with all of her hot,
Speaker 2: judgmental friends. Right one of our listeners told us that
Speaker 2: over the last year he's been mixing it up in
Speaker 2: the dating pool, trying all sorts of ways to secure
Speaker 2: himself that second date.
Speaker 1: But his latest.
Speaker 2: Foolproof plan doesn't seem to be working anymore, which is
Speaker 2: why he's on the phone with us right now.
Speaker 3: Makes him the fool of the fool proof plan.
Speaker 2: It sounds like, okay, well, Jared Brook has already called
Speaker 2: you a fool before you've even said congratulations.
Speaker 3: Oh what's That's not what I meant, buddy.
Speaker 1: I mean, I.
Speaker 3: Mean, if you call it fool proof and it doesn't work,
Speaker 3: there's only one part that ends up true in that statement.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: How you doing, don't get man? How you guys doing?
Speaker 3: All right? You got positive attitude still, that's a good thing. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So your email says that you're going out on a
Speaker 2: lot of dates and you're trying these strategies to make
Speaker 2: sure that you can secure another one.
Speaker 1: What are you doing?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it'd be like so frustrating and trying to get
Speaker 4: like a second date, Like we have a good first one,
Speaker 4: and then so as I start talking about the second one,
Speaker 4: and a lot of times I just get ghosted. And
Speaker 4: then I was like, okay, well, at the end of
Speaker 4: the first day of like shake on it, it's like
Speaker 4: good eye contact. Hey, we're going to meet, let's do
Speaker 4: a second.
Speaker 3: Date like a business contract.
Speaker 4: Right. Well, I'm just like trying to get that genuine vibe.
Speaker 3: Going, you know, Okay, that's okay, this was working well, Alexis.
Speaker 1: You don't like the business handshake at the end of
Speaker 1: a date.
Speaker 3: No, because the handshakes ever. Period. What if he change
Speaker 3: it to a pinky swear? Would you be.
Speaker 4: More into that?
Speaker 3: Slightly better?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Some rock paper scissors again?
Speaker 1: What about mouth kiss to lock in.
Speaker 3: That second dish doesn't lock in anything the tongues for
Speaker 3: a second.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not doing this.
Speaker 4: Actually, it's plain that you mentioned pinky promise because that's
Speaker 4: that's what I went with, because that's sacred, you know.
Speaker 1: Oh really you did.
Speaker 4: I was like, yo, pinky promise, but I'm like playful
Speaker 4: with it, you know.
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah, is the pinky promise working better than the handshake?
Speaker 3: What's our like percentage of success right here?
Speaker 4: Yeah? So I've tried it three times. Even one of
Speaker 4: them actually turned into a pretty like decent relationship.
Speaker 3: Okay, So that's why you're confused why it didn't work,
Speaker 3: because it worked the first three.
Speaker 4: Times, I see, and now he's the only one did
Speaker 4: not do it.
Speaker 3: So who's who's this girl who's bucking the trends? What's
Speaker 3: her name?
Speaker 4: Her name is Mona?
Speaker 2: Okay, tell us about the date because that could give
Speaker 2: us some clues for how this went.
Speaker 1: Did you guys go to pf Chain's why is so specific.
Speaker 2: Because those are my parents like to take me when
Speaker 2: we do our pinky promise.
Speaker 3: Like that fancy fancy Yeah it's awesome.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've probably never been your parents take you to
Speaker 2: like what Denny's or something?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know the Missouri Mule.
Speaker 4: Worse.
Speaker 1: Where did you go for your date? Jared?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so we went to this, uh this gold cart place.
Speaker 3: I love go carts to day.
Speaker 5: It's like ChIL Go carts, like the ones we have
Speaker 5: to wear a helmet because they go in a full suit.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It was more like the high octing when I had
Speaker 4: like windy tracks and stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's awesome. That's a fun date because it's a
Speaker 3: little competitive. You're all trying something new. You got some
Speaker 3: adrenaline going. Were you super competitive with her? Is that
Speaker 3: maybe an issue?
Speaker 4: No? I kind of like lighting it up. I was like, yo,
Speaker 4: we should do a shot for every lap we do. Oh,
Speaker 4: I was kidding, but I would have done it just
Speaker 4: I was just trying to see what you would say.
Speaker 3: You know, they frowned drinking even if you do a lot.
Speaker 4: No, yeah, we did a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, twenty shots. How call poisoning?
Speaker 1: Make trying to figure out how did she react to
Speaker 1: your joke?
Speaker 4: He was like, oh, I don't think they let us
Speaker 4: do that. She just kind of laughed it off.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, which is what the point was, right, But
Speaker 3: she would have been the business. Did you guys squeeze
Speaker 3: in dinner or drinks after the go carts or was
Speaker 3: the go carts it?
Speaker 4: No, we we did go carts and then afterwards we
Speaker 4: did a little some hamburgers and milkshakes, and we did that.
Speaker 4: We're there for like an hour and then headed out.
Speaker 3: Okay, did this pinky swear feel different than the other
Speaker 3: pinky swears? Like, did you notice if she was crossing
Speaker 3: her fingers with the other hand while she did it?
Speaker 6: That's important.
Speaker 4: No, I didn't know see something like that. So, like
Speaker 4: I said, I'm kind of confused. That seemed from my
Speaker 4: I thought we had a good time.
Speaker 2: Okay, and so you pinky promised to see each other again.
Speaker 2: She has not followed through on the promise. So the
Speaker 2: real question is when we call her now, should we
Speaker 2: do double pinky promises to really lock it in we call.
Speaker 1: The police and arrest her for breaking the car.
Speaker 3: Obviously she we have to cut her pinky off. That's
Speaker 3: the whole point.
Speaker 1: Of a pinky problems. Oh okay, so we.
Speaker 3: Just gotta let her know, say, audios, was it right
Speaker 3: hand or left hand?
Speaker 1: That's right. I forgot about the rules of promising. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna go get.
Speaker 2: Our machetes ready, we'll sharpen them up and then we'll
Speaker 2: come back and we'll call Mona for you. Cool.
Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, that's cool. But yeah that's not like
Speaker 4: a like a real thing that they only cut off
Speaker 4: your pinky finger for the promise, right. They don't do
Speaker 4: that on your show.
Speaker 6: We do.
Speaker 3: I've never broken a pinky promise before.
Speaker 1: We take it very very seriously, Jared. So you're losing limb.
Speaker 2: Mona's gonna go out with you or she's gonna pay
Speaker 2: the price out with your second date update right.
Speaker 3: After this hold on Second Date update, you're in the
Speaker 3: middle of a second Date update update, and we're gonna
Speaker 3: find out how the couple is doing right after you
Speaker 3: here Part two.
Speaker 1: Oh the pinky promise.
Speaker 2: It's a sacred ritual that dates back hundreds, if not
Speaker 2: thousands of years.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 2: All the greatest rulers in history have used it to
Speaker 2: achieve victory. Julius Caesar did it, Genghis Con, Joey Chestnut,
Speaker 2: even Pinky swore right before he downs sixty eight and
Speaker 2: a half hot dogs at Coney Island.
Speaker 1: To take home the crowd.
Speaker 2: It's beautiful, but recently somebody broke the eternal bonding promise
Speaker 2: of the pinky Jared's date Mona because she promised that
Speaker 2: she would see him again after they went go karting together.
Speaker 2: But clearly the power of the pinky means nothing to
Speaker 2: her and today, Pinky, we want some answers on Jared's behalf.
Speaker 3: I want some blood, Jeff, take that pinky off.
Speaker 2: Pinky, promise that you'll give the man a chance this
Speaker 2: time and not turn on him the instant.
Speaker 1: Another females on the phone.
Speaker 3: I don't like to make promises I can't keep. So
Speaker 3: maybe okay.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jared, we got him. Maybe Brooke will be on
Speaker 1: your side.
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, cool guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just don't know what else he's done. You know,
Speaker 3: you got to hear both sides of his story. One
Speaker 3: side right now. I'm all for Jared, all on his side.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm like saying yes to the terms and conditions
Speaker 2: without even reading. Jared is right what this woman has
Speaker 2: to say? All right, Jared, let's call her.
Speaker 1: Here we go.
Speaker 4: I don't even tell you guys to talk about, but yeah,
Speaker 4: let's do it.
Speaker 1: Good observation, keep up, thank you for your contribution. Let's
Speaker 1: call this woman.
Speaker 6: Hello, Hi?
Speaker 1: Is this Mona?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Does this?
Speaker 4: She?
Speaker 3: Aren't you friendly?
Speaker 1: Friendly?
Speaker 2: The person who is speaking right now is the lead
Speaker 2: host of a radio show called Brook.
Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the Morning. Why didn't my other host
Speaker 1: laugh when I said.
Speaker 3: That that's a weird way.
Speaker 1: That's my title?
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, Mona, Hi, that's lead hosts.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're all co hosts together on Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 2: in the Morning, and we're doing a segment right now
Speaker 2: called a second Date update.
Speaker 4: Have you ever heard of people?
Speaker 2: We're trying to do something where we're helping one of
Speaker 2: our listeners to get a second date with you because
Speaker 2: he had such a nice time when you hung out.
Speaker 2: Originally his name's Jared.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's like Jared planned an awesome date for
Speaker 3: you both.
Speaker 1: What does mean?
Speaker 6: I guess, like, did he tell you that we had
Speaker 6: gone go karting?
Speaker 2: We heard about most of the date from Jared, and
Speaker 2: the highlights were go carts, there were burgers and milkshakes.
Speaker 2: And then at the very end, this is kind of controversial,
Speaker 2: you pinky promised him that you would see him a
Speaker 2: second time.
Speaker 3: It out right?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you're kind of a liar, and we're
Speaker 2: trying to figure out why.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't know if we can count that pinky
Speaker 5: promise because I kind of like I had kind of
Speaker 5: maneuver myself out of it because why, oh well, it
Speaker 5: was like he hooked the pinky, but then he also
Speaker 5: like pulled me in and tries to go in for
Speaker 5: a kiss.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone does.
Speaker 3: I think he meant a kiss on the hand or
Speaker 3: a kiss on the mouth.
Speaker 1: That's not what I was talking about.
Speaker 3: Wait, did he misread the moment because it sounds like
Speaker 3: kind of a cute moment for a first kiss.
Speaker 6: I mean it was cute, but maybe just a little
Speaker 6: cringe because I was like, is that your move? Is
Speaker 6: that what you do?
Speaker 3: Did you kiss him? Or did you not kiss him?
Speaker 3: He didn't tell us.
Speaker 6: I had to swerve or curve.
Speaker 3: Well is it wait though, is it because you don't
Speaker 3: kiss on a first date or is it because you
Speaker 3: don't want to kiss him?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 5: I think like the bigger ick was a little bit
Speaker 5: before that, So I think it was insulting injury.
Speaker 1: He wasn't going to get a kiss no matter what
Speaker 1: at that point.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't think so it was a bigger ick.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I know how this will found I'm not
Speaker 6: a mean or shallow person, like I'm promised, But.
Speaker 4: Okay, we were.
Speaker 6: We were go karting, right, so we had like the
Speaker 6: full get up and everything, and it's just like Jared
Speaker 6: just looked really kind of dumb, like the whole time.
Speaker 1: I could see that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was kind of a big turn off. I
Speaker 4: got that.
Speaker 1: It happens all the time for all the reasons.
Speaker 3: I don't think that's shallow. I just think that.
Speaker 2: One thing could happen and you just look at someone
Speaker 2: completely different.
Speaker 1: But what about you.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure that you didn't look like perfect
Speaker 2: in your go cart helmets, just like to be fair.
Speaker 6: It's a little hard, but I took the time to
Speaker 6: kind of adjust it right of like you could fit
Speaker 6: it properly. I put my hair in a way that
Speaker 6: it was drop out kind of cute.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's something you couldn't get over though, Like
Speaker 3: you can't unsee it, Like you shouldn't see him in
Speaker 3: a gokar that often after this.
Speaker 6: Right, you know, it's just it's looms so big in
Speaker 6: my in my mind, and so yeah, I know I
Speaker 6: feel bad because he's been texting and I guess I
Speaker 6: did pinky promise, but it's just.
Speaker 2: So basically, you look super cute in your racing helmet
Speaker 2: and he.
Speaker 1: Looks super stupid in it. So he is not boyfriend
Speaker 1: material for that reason.
Speaker 3: He's not second date materially to that yet. That's a
Speaker 3: long way down the road.
Speaker 2: You know. It's a little harsh to my ears, but
Speaker 2: my ears aren't the ones that matter really.
Speaker 1: Jared is the one.
Speaker 2: He's probably going through it the most because he's on
Speaker 2: the other line right now listening to this conversation.
Speaker 6: My gosh, no, that's not nice.
Speaker 1: What you said wasn't very nice.
Speaker 2: But let's Jerry, Well, he looks in helmets.
Speaker 3: Ugly, she said, stupid, like a big difference.
Speaker 1: Jared, are you there?
Speaker 4: Are you serious? I looked dumb in a go cart
Speaker 4: helmet and that's why, Oh my god, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: We're riding go carts. Everybody looks stupid and like an
Speaker 4: idiot writing.
Speaker 6: Do you think you were pulling it off?
Speaker 4: You know, I don't care how I looked. I was
Speaker 4: excited to get on the go cart and go around
Speaker 4: to do left. I didn't like it's not this is
Speaker 4: the Daytona five hundred. I don't know like I don't
Speaker 4: have to look you know cool, Okay, I know.
Speaker 1: You actually would look pretty cool if you were written
Speaker 1: the day.
Speaker 3: I think the point is is you found a guy
Speaker 3: who's willing to look dumb and do fun things, and
Speaker 3: like that's really what you want in partner.
Speaker 2: And he's presumably not going to be wearing a helmet
Speaker 2: the whole time that you guys did.
Speaker 4: When I took off the helmet and I look, go.
Speaker 6: To what, oh the image has been burned into my
Speaker 6: and it's like forever associated I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Well, we'd love to get the opportunity to burn a
Speaker 2: brand new image into your with no helmet on his head,
Speaker 2: because we're going to offer to send you on another
Speaker 2: date and we'd pay for.
Speaker 4: It, and you pinky promise that's sacred, that is true.
Speaker 3: You should give him another chance. He's a funny guy.
Speaker 1: Don't unleash the wrath of the pinky gods on yourself.
Speaker 6: Are steel bad, Jared, I mean, if your ego is
Speaker 6: at gruthed.
Speaker 3: That badly, I mean, Jared, tell her why she should say.
Speaker 4: Yes, because you know, besides, then you look at Dominah,
Speaker 4: how we had a good time even after we had
Speaker 4: when we had molk chasen Burgers. You were laughing and
Speaker 4: having fun. We had a good time, you know.
Speaker 1: Yes, I was.
Speaker 6: My mind was taken off of the helmet for a
Speaker 6: little moment, so I think maybe it could happen again.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that's a yes.
Speaker 4: Then yay, yes, yes, yeah, that's what I thought.
Speaker 1: Pinky promise has been restored.
Speaker 2: We can put them a set away, all right, and
Speaker 2: make sure you burn any headgear that you own right now.
Speaker 3: That he's like concussions, it doesn't matter anymore.
Speaker 4: Now I'm gonna wear a cowboy hat.
Speaker 3: That's a bold choice.
Speaker 6: Oh I don't know if you can pull that off?
Speaker 1: All right, No country bars, Good.
Speaker 3: Luck freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Can you get over the first date?
Speaker 4: Ick?
Speaker 2: Mona said she'd give it a try, and now she
Speaker 2: and Jared are back for a second date Update update,
Speaker 2: Welcome back to the show.
Speaker 1: You two.
Speaker 5: Hi.
Speaker 3: Can't wait to hear how many you've had since the first.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Mona, how does it feel to be one of
Speaker 2: our rare second date success stories on this show?
Speaker 4: Is?
Speaker 6: Wait?
Speaker 3: You guys are together? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, you'll want to hear about it. Yes, I'll be
Speaker 6: honest when y'all set us up for the second date.
Speaker 6: I didn't really take it too seriously. I pretty much
Speaker 6: thought like, let's just get the second date over with.
Speaker 6: But I think something kind of funny happened.
Speaker 1: What what's funny?
Speaker 6: Okay, So like this is according to him. Okay, so
Speaker 6: our first date was on land, so he wanted our
Speaker 6: second date to be in water.
Speaker 3: Don't tell me he wore goggles.
Speaker 6: It's gonna be a well Okay. Yeah, so our second
Speaker 6: date was scuba diving lesson.
Speaker 3: It really was.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, man slippers and everything.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna say, can I just give it up
Speaker 3: to Jared right now? Like he got blasted for wearing
Speaker 3: a helmet and then he was willing to get into
Speaker 3: a bathing suit for the second date. Jared, think that
Speaker 3: you have so much confidence and I love you for it.
Speaker 6: Well, no, it really worked in his favor because that's
Speaker 6: goooba as it was really working for me.
Speaker 1: Really.
Speaker 6: He was really cool in it, like kind of like
Speaker 6: I don't know, like Seal Team six or something.
Speaker 1: I was picturing Scuba Steve from jig Daddy.
Speaker 3: But yeah, sweet, So now it's been a while that
Speaker 3: you guys have been together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, where are you guys at in your relationship third date.
Speaker 4: No, we're doing great. We're exclusive. You know, it's like,
Speaker 4: you know, we really hit it off, and yeah, it's
Speaker 4: like I'm really happy.
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm gonna see guys in scuba of
Speaker 3: if it's not not.
Speaker 2: Even in the water, just like going into like Applebee's
Speaker 2: like the regulator is Jeff Chavin Studio tomorrow, it's like, up, guys, what.
Speaker 1: Ye shucking date? Update coming up right after this. We'll
Speaker 1: keep us updated on your relationship. Guys. It's awesome. Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.