WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Power of the Pinky

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 2>We talk a lot about how hard it is in

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<v Speaker 2>the dating world right now, especially for guys to just

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<v Speaker 2>get a pretty girl to agree to a date. But

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<v Speaker 2>you know something we rarely talk about what that could

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<v Speaker 2>be even more difficult is successfully locking down that second

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<v Speaker 2>date all on your own, because maybe you just got

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<v Speaker 2>lucky on the first one. She was feeling hungry that

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<v Speaker 2>night and just needed a free meal. She was bored

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<v Speaker 2>and was willing to lower her standards just for a

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<v Speaker 2>funny story to laugh about with all of her hot,

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<v Speaker 2>judgmental friends. Right one of our listeners told us that

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<v Speaker 2>over the last year he's been mixing it up in

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<v Speaker 2>the dating pool, trying all sorts of ways to secure

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<v Speaker 2>himself that second date.

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<v Speaker 1>But his latest.

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<v Speaker 2>Foolproof plan doesn't seem to be working anymore, which is

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<v Speaker 2>why he's on the phone with us right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Makes him the fool of the fool proof plan.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like, okay, well, Jared Brook has already called

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<v Speaker 2>you a fool before you've even said congratulations.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what's That's not what I meant, buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, if you call it fool proof and it doesn't work,

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<v Speaker 3>there's only one part that ends up true in that statement.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing, don't get man? How you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 3>All right? You got positive attitude still, that's a good thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So your email says that you're going out on a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of dates and you're trying these strategies to make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that you can secure another one.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it'd be like so frustrating and trying to get

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<v Speaker 4>like a second date, Like we have a good first one,

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<v Speaker 4>and then so as I start talking about the second one,

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<v Speaker 4>and a lot of times I just get ghosted. And

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<v Speaker 4>then I was like, okay, well, at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the first day of like shake on it, it's like

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<v Speaker 4>good eye contact. Hey, we're going to meet, let's do

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<v Speaker 4>a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Date like a business contract.

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<v Speaker 4>Right. Well, I'm just like trying to get that genuine vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Going, you know, Okay, that's okay, this was working well, Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't like the business handshake at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>a date.

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<v Speaker 3>No, because the handshakes ever. Period. What if he change

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<v Speaker 3>it to a pinky swear? Would you be.

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<v Speaker 4>More into that?

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<v Speaker 3>Slightly better?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Some rock paper scissors again?

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<v Speaker 1>What about mouth kiss to lock in.

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<v Speaker 3>That second dish doesn't lock in anything the tongues for

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<v Speaker 3>a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm not doing this.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, it's plain that you mentioned pinky promise because that's

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I went with, because that's sacred, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really you did.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, yo, pinky promise, but I'm like playful

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<v Speaker 4>with it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, is the pinky promise working better than the handshake?

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<v Speaker 3>What's our like percentage of success right here?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So I've tried it three times. Even one of

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<v Speaker 4>them actually turned into a pretty like decent relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So that's why you're confused why it didn't work,

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<v Speaker 3>because it worked the first three.

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<v Speaker 4>Times, I see, and now he's the only one did

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<v Speaker 4>not do it.

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<v Speaker 3>So who's who's this girl who's bucking the trends? What's

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<v Speaker 3>her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Mona?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, tell us about the date because that could give

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<v Speaker 2>us some clues for how this went.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys go to pf Chain's why is so specific.

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<v Speaker 2>Because those are my parents like to take me when

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<v Speaker 2>we do our pinky promise.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that fancy fancy Yeah it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you've probably never been your parents take you to

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<v Speaker 2>like what Denny's or something?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know the Missouri Mule.

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<v Speaker 4>Worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you go for your date? Jared?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we went to this, uh this gold cart place.

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<v Speaker 3>I love go carts to day.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like ChIL Go carts, like the ones we have

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<v Speaker 5>to wear a helmet because they go in a full suit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It was more like the high octing when I had

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<v Speaker 4>like windy tracks and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's awesome. That's a fun date because it's a

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<v Speaker 3>little competitive. You're all trying something new. You got some

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<v Speaker 3>adrenaline going. Were you super competitive with her? Is that

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<v Speaker 3>maybe an issue?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I kind of like lighting it up. I was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 4>we should do a shot for every lap we do. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I was kidding, but I would have done it just

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to see what you would say.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, they frowned drinking even if you do a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>No, yeah, we did a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, twenty shots. How call poisoning?

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<v Speaker 1>Make trying to figure out how did she react to

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<v Speaker 1>your joke?

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, oh, I don't think they let us

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<v Speaker 4>do that. She just kind of laughed it off.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, which is what the point was, right, But

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<v Speaker 3>she would have been the business. Did you guys squeeze

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<v Speaker 3>in dinner or drinks after the go carts or was

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<v Speaker 3>the go carts it?

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<v Speaker 4>No, we we did go carts and then afterwards we

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<v Speaker 4>did a little some hamburgers and milkshakes, and we did that.

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<v Speaker 4>We're there for like an hour and then headed out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, did this pinky swear feel different than the other

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<v Speaker 3>pinky swears? Like, did you notice if she was crossing

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<v Speaker 3>her fingers with the other hand while she did it?

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<v Speaker 6>That's important.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I didn't know see something like that. So, like

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I'm kind of confused. That seemed from my

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<v Speaker 4>I thought we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and so you pinky promised to see each other again.

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<v Speaker 2>She has not followed through on the promise. So the

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<v Speaker 2>real question is when we call her now, should we

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<v Speaker 2>do double pinky promises to really lock it in we call.

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<v Speaker 1>The police and arrest her for breaking the car.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously she we have to cut her pinky off. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the whole point.

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<v Speaker 1>Of a pinky problems. Oh okay, so we.

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<v Speaker 3>Just gotta let her know, say, audios, was it right

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<v Speaker 3>hand or left hand?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. I forgot about the rules of promising. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go get.

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<v Speaker 2>Our machetes ready, we'll sharpen them up and then we'll

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<v Speaker 2>come back and we'll call Mona for you. Cool.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, yeah, that's cool. But yeah that's not like

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<v Speaker 4>a like a real thing that they only cut off

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<v Speaker 4>your pinky finger for the promise, right. They don't do

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<v Speaker 4>that on your show.

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<v Speaker 6>We do.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never broken a pinky promise before.

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<v Speaker 1>We take it very very seriously, Jared. So you're losing limb.

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<v Speaker 2>Mona's gonna go out with you or she's gonna pay

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<v Speaker 2>the price out with your second date update right.

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<v Speaker 3>After this hold on Second Date update, you're in the

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<v Speaker 3>middle of a second Date update update, and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>find out how the couple is doing right after you

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<v Speaker 3>here Part two.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the pinky promise.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a sacred ritual that dates back hundreds, if not

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<v Speaker 2>thousands of years.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>All the greatest rulers in history have used it to

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<v Speaker 2>achieve victory. Julius Caesar did it, Genghis Con, Joey Chestnut,

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<v Speaker 2>even Pinky swore right before he downs sixty eight and

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<v Speaker 2>a half hot dogs at Coney Island.

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<v Speaker 1>To take home the crowd.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful, but recently somebody broke the eternal bonding promise

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<v Speaker 2>of the pinky Jared's date Mona because she promised that

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<v Speaker 2>she would see him again after they went go karting together.

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<v Speaker 2>But clearly the power of the pinky means nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>her and today, Pinky, we want some answers on Jared's behalf.

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<v Speaker 3>I want some blood, Jeff, take that pinky off.

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<v Speaker 2>Pinky, promise that you'll give the man a chance this

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<v Speaker 2>time and not turn on him the instant.

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<v Speaker 1>Another females on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like to make promises I can't keep. So

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<v Speaker 3>maybe okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Jared, we got him. Maybe Brooke will be on

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<v Speaker 1>your side.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, cool guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just don't know what else he's done. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>you got to hear both sides of his story. One

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<v Speaker 3>side right now. I'm all for Jared, all on his side.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm like saying yes to the terms and conditions

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<v Speaker 2>without even reading. Jared is right what this woman has

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<v Speaker 2>to say? All right, Jared, let's call her.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even tell you guys to talk about, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Good observation, keep up, thank you for your contribution. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>call this woman.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello, Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Mona?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Does this?

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<v Speaker 4>She?

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<v Speaker 3>Aren't you friendly?

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<v Speaker 1>Friendly?

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<v Speaker 2>The person who is speaking right now is the lead

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<v Speaker 2>host of a radio show called Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>And Jeffrey in the Morning. Why didn't my other host

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<v Speaker 1>laugh when I said.

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<v Speaker 3>That that's a weird way.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my title?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Hi, Mona, Hi, that's lead hosts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're all co hosts together on Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>in the Morning, and we're doing a segment right now

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<v Speaker 2>called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever heard of people?

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to do something where we're helping one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners to get a second date with you because

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<v Speaker 2>he had such a nice time when you hung out.

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<v Speaker 2>Originally his name's Jared.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, that's like Jared planned an awesome date for

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<v Speaker 3>you both.

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<v Speaker 1>What does mean?

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<v Speaker 6>I guess, like, did he tell you that we had

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<v Speaker 6>gone go karting?

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<v Speaker 2>We heard about most of the date from Jared, and

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<v Speaker 2>the highlights were go carts, there were burgers and milkshakes.

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<v Speaker 2>And then at the very end, this is kind of controversial,

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<v Speaker 2>you pinky promised him that you would see him a

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<v Speaker 2>second time.

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<v Speaker 3>It out right?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, you're kind of a liar, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure out why.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't know if we can count that pinky

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<v Speaker 5>promise because I kind of like I had kind of

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<v Speaker 5>maneuver myself out of it because why, oh well, it

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<v Speaker 5>was like he hooked the pinky, but then he also

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<v Speaker 5>like pulled me in and tries to go in for

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<v Speaker 5>a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone does.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he meant a kiss on the hand or

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<v Speaker 3>a kiss on the mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what I was talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, did he misread the moment because it sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>kind of a cute moment for a first kiss.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it was cute, but maybe just a little

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<v Speaker 6>cringe because I was like, is that your move? Is

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<v Speaker 6>that what you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you kiss him? Or did you not kiss him?

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't tell us.

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<v Speaker 6>I had to swerve or curve.

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<v Speaker 3>Well is it wait though, is it because you don't

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<v Speaker 3>kiss on a first date or is it because you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to kiss him?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I think like the bigger ick was a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>before that, So I think it was insulting injury.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't going to get a kiss no matter what

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<v Speaker 1>at that point.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't think so it was a bigger ick.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So I know how this will found I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>a mean or shallow person, like I'm promised, But.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we were.

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<v Speaker 6>We were go karting, right, so we had like the

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<v Speaker 6>full get up and everything, and it's just like Jared

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<v Speaker 6>just looked really kind of dumb, like the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was kind of a big turn off. I

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<v Speaker 4>got that.

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<v Speaker 1>It happens all the time for all the reasons.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's shallow. I just think that.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing could happen and you just look at someone

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<v Speaker 2>completely different.

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<v Speaker 1>But what about you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm sure that you didn't look like perfect

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<v Speaker 2>in your go cart helmets, just like to be fair.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a little hard, but I took the time to

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<v Speaker 6>kind of adjust it right of like you could fit

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<v Speaker 6>it properly. I put my hair in a way that

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<v Speaker 6>it was drop out kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's something you couldn't get over though, Like

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<v Speaker 3>you can't unsee it, Like you shouldn't see him in

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<v Speaker 3>a gokar that often after this.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, you know, it's just it's looms so big in

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<v Speaker 6>my in my mind, and so yeah, I know I

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<v Speaker 6>feel bad because he's been texting and I guess I

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<v Speaker 6>did pinky promise, but it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>So basically, you look super cute in your racing helmet

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<v Speaker 2>and he.

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<v Speaker 1>Looks super stupid in it. So he is not boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>material for that reason.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not second date materially to that yet. That's a

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<v Speaker 3>long way down the road.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. It's a little harsh to my ears, but

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<v Speaker 2>my ears aren't the ones that matter really.

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<v Speaker 1>Jared is the one.

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<v Speaker 2>He's probably going through it the most because he's on

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<v Speaker 2>the other line right now listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 6>My gosh, no, that's not nice.

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<v Speaker 1>What you said wasn't very nice.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's Jerry, Well, he looks in helmets.

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<v Speaker 3>Ugly, she said, stupid, like a big difference.

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<v Speaker 1>Jared, are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you serious? I looked dumb in a go cart

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<v Speaker 4>helmet and that's why, Oh my god, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>We're riding go carts. Everybody looks stupid and like an

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<v Speaker 4>idiot writing.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you think you were pulling it off?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I don't care how I looked. I was

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<v Speaker 4>excited to get on the go cart and go around

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<v Speaker 4>to do left. I didn't like it's not this is

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<v Speaker 4>the Daytona five hundred. I don't know like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have to look you know cool, Okay, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually would look pretty cool if you were written

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<v Speaker 1>the day.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the point is is you found a guy

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<v Speaker 3>who's willing to look dumb and do fun things, and

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<v Speaker 3>like that's really what you want in partner.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's presumably not going to be wearing a helmet

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<v Speaker 2>the whole time that you guys did.

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<v Speaker 4>When I took off the helmet and I look, go.

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<v Speaker 6>To what, oh the image has been burned into my

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<v Speaker 6>and it's like forever associated I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we'd love to get the opportunity to burn a

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<v Speaker 2>brand new image into your with no helmet on his head,

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<v Speaker 2>because we're going to offer to send you on another

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<v Speaker 2>date and we'd pay for.

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<v Speaker 4>It, and you pinky promise that's sacred, that is true.

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<v Speaker 3>You should give him another chance. He's a funny guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't unleash the wrath of the pinky gods on yourself.

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<v Speaker 6>Are steel bad, Jared, I mean, if your ego is

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<v Speaker 6>at gruthed.

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<v Speaker 3>That badly, I mean, Jared, tell her why she should say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, because you know, besides, then you look at Dominah,

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<v Speaker 4>how we had a good time even after we had

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<v Speaker 4>when we had molk chasen Burgers. You were laughing and

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<v Speaker 4>having fun. We had a good time, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I was.

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<v Speaker 6>My mind was taken off of the helmet for a

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<v Speaker 6>little moment, so I think maybe it could happen again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, that's a yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Then yay, yes, yes, yeah, that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>Pinky promise has been restored.

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<v Speaker 2>We can put them a set away, all right, and

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<v Speaker 2>make sure you burn any headgear that you own right now.

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<v Speaker 3>That he's like concussions, it doesn't matter anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I'm gonna wear a cowboy hat.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a bold choice.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh I don't know if you can pull that off?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, No country bars, Good.

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<v Speaker 3>Luck freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you get over the first date?

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<v Speaker 4>Ick?

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<v Speaker 2>Mona said she'd give it a try, and now she

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<v Speaker 2>and Jared are back for a second date Update update,

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>You two.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't wait to hear how many you've had since the first.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Mona, how does it feel to be one of

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<v Speaker 2>our rare second date success stories on this show?

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<v Speaker 4>Is?

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<v Speaker 6>Wait?

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are together? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you'll want to hear about it. Yes, I'll be

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<v Speaker 6>honest when y'all set us up for the second date.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't really take it too seriously. I pretty much

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<v Speaker 6>thought like, let's just get the second date over with.

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<v Speaker 6>But I think something kind of funny happened.

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<v Speaker 1>What what's funny?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So like this is according to him. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 6>our first date was on land, so he wanted our

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<v Speaker 6>second date to be in water.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't tell me he wore goggles.

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<v Speaker 6>It's gonna be a well Okay. Yeah, so our second

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<v Speaker 6>date was scuba diving lesson.

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<v Speaker 3>It really was.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, man slippers and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm gonna say, can I just give it up

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<v Speaker 3>to Jared right now? Like he got blasted for wearing

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<v Speaker 3>a helmet and then he was willing to get into

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<v Speaker 3>a bathing suit for the second date. Jared, think that

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<v Speaker 3>you have so much confidence and I love you for it.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, no, it really worked in his favor because that's

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<v Speaker 6>goooba as it was really working for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Really.

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<v Speaker 6>He was really cool in it, like kind of like

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, like Seal Team six or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was picturing Scuba Steve from jig Daddy.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, sweet, So now it's been a while that

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<v Speaker 3>you guys have been together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, where are you guys at in your relationship third date.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we're doing great. We're exclusive. You know, it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, we really hit it off, and yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm really happy.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I'm gonna see guys in scuba of

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<v Speaker 3>if it's not not.

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<v Speaker 2>Even in the water, just like going into like Applebee's

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<v Speaker 2>like the regulator is Jeff Chavin Studio tomorrow, it's like, up, guys, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye shucking date? Update coming up right after this. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on your relationship. Guys. It's awesome. Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.