1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,239 Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot. 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 2: I apologize. 4 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 3: I love was well for the ages, and I contained 5 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 3: us and all this ratchure shit, and we're more expensive now. 6 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 3: Not meant to cry and dial on in these mansions 7 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 3: or sleep with our back turn. We're supposed to vacate 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 3: till our backs burn. We're supposed to laugh till our 9 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 3: heart stop, and then we in the space when the dark, 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 3: where the dark stops, and let love light the way. 11 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: And like the men before me, I cut off my 12 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 3: nose to spite my face. I never wanted another woman 13 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 3: to know something about me that you didn't know. I promised, 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: I cried, I couldn't, I couldn't hold. I sucked at love. 15 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 3: I think I needed a do over. I think I 16 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 3: will be emotionally available if I invited you over, I 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 3: stew over. 18 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 2: What if you're over my shit? Hey, welcome to the 19 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: black Outis podcast. Your host Rod Ed Karen and we're 20 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 2: in the house. 21 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 3: On a Monday, Yes we are, the Monday after Father's Day. 22 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 3: Once again, special shout out to the father that wasn't 23 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 3: indeed documentary for Rachel doz ol Okay. 24 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: Just like to give him a very special shout out. Uh. 25 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 2: That's that's what the day after Father's Day is for 26 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: all those guys. 27 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: Uh, that's what you should do after Father's Day is 28 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: absentee Father's Day. Then everybody everybody convent you know that 29 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 3: way you have to ruin Father's Day with everybody getting mad. 30 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 3: Just the next day, everybody's like, Andy, fuck them niggas, 31 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 3: they ain't never here. 32 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 4: Day anyway. 33 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: I mean basically. 34 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 3: The official weapon of the show is an unofficial sport 35 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 3: at Boulevard Extreme lots of stuff to get into today. Uh, 36 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 3: I don't even know where to start. I do have 37 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: a few random thoughts that I could do. I guess, Okay, 38 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: where do people go to learn glory hole etiquette? 39 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: Y'all think about that? Okay? Like is that a class? 40 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 4: I don't know. It has to be some from an 41 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 4: etiquette to. 42 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 2: It online form. 43 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 5: I never thought about that, but yeah, everybody's organized and everything. 44 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,239 Speaker 5: Like from the point I've seen, there is some etiquette 45 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 5: to it. 46 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 3: Do you get like a tutorial when you signed give 47 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 3: the money to go into the glory Hole? 48 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: They tell you like, hey, this is the rule. 49 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 4: I guarantee you. Yeah, there's rules to it. 50 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 3: Like as a person that has some social awkwardness and uh, 51 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 3: social phobia is about him. I know, I wouldn't know 52 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 3: how to navigate a gloryhole. I mean, what's the rules, 53 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 3: you know, so it's a knock. 54 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 4: I don't know. 55 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 5: I don't know what the rules are. And the glory 56 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 5: holds vary. Uh, you know, because there's gloriholes for men, 57 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 5: gloryholes for women. Uh, I'm assuming transgender as soon as 58 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 5: glory across the board. 59 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 2: I mean, okay, you look through the hole? Is that 60 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: considered bad form? 61 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 4: I never know. I wonder has anybody else picked through 62 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 4: the hole. 63 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: And put a hand through the hole? You know? 64 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 3: What's the lines situation on the other side? You know 65 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 3: how long it's too long to be at your part 66 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 3: of the whole? You know, like, at what point are 67 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 3: you like holding up the line where people like, hey, 68 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 3: you know there like some pre some pre jacking situation 69 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 3: that's gotta be done just to make sure you ate 70 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 3: to pop. You don't just show up and you like, guys, 71 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 3: I'm gonna i'ma growing not show It's a little cold outside. 72 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: It's gonna take a while, sorry, everybody. 73 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 5: And it depends well because for the men, they normally 74 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 5: just stick that hole in the penis, I mean stick 75 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 5: that wall holding the stick. 76 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 4: We had stick the piece with. 77 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 5: The wall for both for both, you know, for men 78 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 5: and for women, because you know, you stick it in 79 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 5: a woman's normally if you're doing it like straight, is 80 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 5: the man putting this hole in there for a woman 81 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 5: on the other side? And you know, like you said, 82 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 5: I wonder what the what the etiquette is? 83 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 4: You know, does she have rules. 84 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 5: You know, for I'm just talking from a woman's perspective. 85 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 5: Does she be like I jerk off? But you know 86 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 5: I don't do this. I don't do that. You know, 87 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 5: it's interesting and you know most poems the glory hole 88 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 5: is somewhat you know, it's staged. But I don't know 89 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 5: what a real life will look like. All my gloryhole's 90 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 5: been staged. 91 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, what's the hygiene situation? 92 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 3: Come on, because it don't somebody somebody checking that before 93 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 3: before people come in? Or is that just you know, 94 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 3: do you just get the thumbs down you stick you know, 95 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 3: it's like, oh no, this is not what's up. 96 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 4: They have yopes on glory holes. I'm pretty sure they 97 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 4: got ratings. 98 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I got to doing a Reddit or something 99 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 3: to find out is a Craigslist for the gloryhole situation? 100 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: And is there like a countdown? 101 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 3: I mean, like what if you know, there's forty people 102 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 3: that show up at the glory hole on one side 103 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 3: and the person on the other side is like, man, 104 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: only tonight was only like a ten dig night dog. 105 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 3: I'm out, I can't. I got things to do, you 106 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. I just wanted to stop in 107 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 3: for a few minutes, knock a few dicks out and 108 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 3: get out of here, like whatever you know? Do is 109 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 3: the pay situation? Does the person in gloryhole get paid 110 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: to be in the gloryhole? Or do they pay to 111 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 3: be in the glory whole? Like does nobody pay? 112 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 5: You know, I've seen I've seen and I think this 113 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 5: is I think it's German. 114 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 4: I've seen one where they have the gloryhole. 115 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,359 Speaker 5: Is like a multiple glory hole where you have like 116 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 5: different women in different area. 117 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, but still don't change who get paid. 118 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: It's Germany because and then the. 119 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 3: Old lady all the money, dude, people people mean where 120 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 3: people involved know? So I mean I'm assuming if you're 121 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 3: in the gloryhole, hopefully you in that because you want 122 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 3: to be you know what I'm. 123 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 2: Saying, Like maybe you would pay. 124 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 3: Maybe it's like a sex party, like how you go 125 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 3: to a sex party, Like it's not just dudes that 126 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 3: pay something. I mean, well, depending on the party, but 127 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 3: you know, depending on the party, Like everybody might pay 128 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 3: to get in. You know, some people might pay less 129 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 3: because they're more you know, design they they're the ones 130 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 3: that generate everybody else coming. But you know a lot 131 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 3: of times everybody will pay. 132 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 2: I don't know. There's some shit to think about. 133 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 5: And do all gloryholes show faces because I've seen some gloryholes, 134 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 5: but they actually showed the face of the. 135 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 4: Person on the other side. 136 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: And I assume that I assume that's not a carpelanche thing, 137 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: that's individual glory whole situation. And then uh, like I 138 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 3: wonder if there's like a tour guide situation. Maybe that'll help, 139 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 3: you know, like you come during the off hours and 140 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 3: then somebody just walk you through the steps and then 141 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 3: you show up. Because I feel like the first visit 142 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 3: would be overwhelming unless you had somebody with you. 143 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 5: I could imagine, especially if you ain't ready or you're 144 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 5: not prepared. 145 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 4: You walk in there go okay, this is a lot. 146 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 2: I don't know. 147 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 3: If y'all have seen these commercials, but they got these 148 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 3: new commercials for Jimmy John's where they keep talking about 149 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 3: people being the employees there. 150 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 2: It's like, this is Dexter. 151 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 3: He loves and cutting meat. He gets freaky on that meat, 152 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 3: you know, something like he cuts me all day. He 153 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: gets at six am about like arbis we got to 154 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 3: beat And at the end they're like, he's a sub freak. 155 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 3: And then I seen one of the other day that 156 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 3: had a woman on there that's like, this is Mary. 157 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 3: She bakes the bread fresh every day at Jimmy John's. 158 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: She gets here at eight am to break break the 159 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 3: da da da da, and she's a sub freak. 160 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: And I was like, I wonder if. 161 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 3: They know what they're saying when they say that, because 162 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: sub freaks has a whole different turn to me. It 163 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 3: would you know, like, are they looking for dominant masters 164 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 3: to be the customers or somebody gonna show it to 165 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 3: Jimmy Johnson handcuffs oart tying people up and shit? 166 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, and uh, you know there are. 167 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 5: Porns where part of the sex appill is actually feeding, 168 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 5: so you might have somebody there, but I no, no, 169 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 5: I don't want yourself. 170 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 4: I bought my own suits. 171 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 3: That's not at all well I'm talking about but yet sure, 172 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 3: why not. I'm just saying so that you go no 173 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: sub freaks, submissive freak sub is. 174 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 4: You should explain that sup freaks, yes, and some sub 175 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 4: freaks out there. 176 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 3: You have to explain the whole jokes inness the snow 177 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 3: in the joke ton Oh you know, I was thinking, man, 178 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 3: you know, it was probably paranoid. Yesterday all the dudes 179 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 3: that you know they have a wife or girlfriend, fiance whatever, 180 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 3: you know, and old boyfriend. I don't know what they have, 181 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 3: but they have a significant other and they don't have 182 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 3: children together, and then they go out yesterday on Father's 183 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 3: Day and all these people see them and they're like, hey, 184 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 3: Happy Father's Day, Happy Father's Day. Like what if those 185 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 3: people have secret families? Those people probably paranoid the ship, 186 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 3: you know, Like it kept happening to me yesterday. It 187 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 3: is like, Happy Father's Day, sir, Happy Father's Day. I 188 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 3: was like, whatever, man, get that all the time. 189 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 5: Regardless of if they feel like you're within the range 190 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 5: of being a mama, You're gonna get that. 191 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just say thanks and keep it moving. Thing 192 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: to do. 193 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 3: But I was thinking like if somebody had a secret family, 194 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: I wonder it was like, hey, how you doing, sir? 195 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 2: Happy Father's Day? If they're like grabbing by your collar, 196 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 2: like what the fuck do you know? Ha man? You 197 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 2: god damn business, You're gonna blow my cover? Man? What 198 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 2: you think this is? Do I know you? 199 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 5: No? 200 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 3: I was just saying, Happy Father's Day and joy the movie, sir, 201 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: ha work at AMC. Serious, you mind your fucking business man. 202 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: You know my son you go huh you go to 203 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 2: school with him or something? You know. I think they 204 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 2: cover busted all the time. So pay attention is all 205 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 206 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 3: If you're out, would have dude, if somebody says Happy 207 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,599 Speaker 3: Father's Day, read his face, see if you see a 208 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 3: flash of panic. If you had to think to yourself like, 209 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 3: oh well my kids here, Oh you might be dating 210 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 3: they go to secret family. 211 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 6: Oh no. 212 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 5: But like like for women, most women over twenty something, 213 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 5: you just become accustomed to it. I've got to the 214 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 5: point where it's like fighting against the river. 215 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 4: Don't even get mad. 216 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 5: Don't it just be like okay, just keep trusting because 217 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 5: it ain't worth the explanation and all that other stuff. 218 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: One dude said, happy Father's Day if you are a father, 219 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 3: not just okay, Like what say to that? 220 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 2: Well, let's have a conversation. Actually I'm not a father, 221 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 2: but many people you know, And that's probably. 222 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 4: And response he's gotten before he went through the I'm 223 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 4: out of daddy. So he was like, if you are father, 224 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 4: just so he could just I just want to take 225 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 4: the chance. 226 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 2: Why take the chances? 227 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 4: All I'm saying I would say, would do that with mothers, But. 228 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: Why take the chance. 229 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot of women walk around with no kids. 230 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 3: You know, Like I can tip the dude who cuts 231 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 3: the fish at publics, I can't tip you, Like, what 232 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 3: are you fishing for, buddy? 233 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 2: Just get out of here. 234 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 4: I don't know. 235 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 5: I don't know if people get offended if you don't, 236 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 5: I mean, because it's it's kind of a mixture when 237 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 5: it comes to that. It's a hot day that everybody celebrates, 238 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 5: so everybody kind of want to be generous and just 239 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 5: uh celebrated or don't want people to feel left out. 240 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,479 Speaker 5: So it's one of the things you just said. Regardless, 241 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 5: this is salmon transaction. I don't care about any of that. 242 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 5: Just transact to salmon to my to my basket and 243 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 5: that's it. We don't need to have a conversation that 244 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:27,119 Speaker 5: bourbon salmon. Yes, I saw Gabrielle Union in the McDonald's 245 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 5: ad today. 246 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 3: And uh, Janelle James, I posted about it on Facebook 247 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 3: because because it is unbelievable that gabriel Union is fucking 248 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 3: in McDonald's telling people to eat McDonald's like like like 249 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 3: when it was Charles Barkley, I was fine with it. 250 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 3: Charles Barkley like he had a few quarter pounds in 251 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 3: his life, Like I'm not. That's not shocking at all. 252 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 3: Caparel Union like she she would die if she ate 253 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 3: like half of a chicken nugget. She would just be 254 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 3: like and then and I went into like an afelective. 255 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 4: Shop, I was a blood pressure would instantly go with. 256 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 3: I immediately caught seventeen types of disease from this ship 257 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 3: because I don't nothing but the finest foods my palate. 258 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 3: I mean, she ain't gotta make real body okay, like 259 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 3: like McDonald's just stretching the the limits of belief a 260 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 3: little too fucking far. Fossephos believe fine ass, Gabrielle Union 261 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 3: is is hopping up in there once a week. 262 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 5: Like those hard these commercials when they used to have 263 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 5: them models, and I'd be like, y'all know them models 264 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 5: wouldn't be caught daddy neck. 265 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, the McDonald's, I mean, the hard These commercials were 266 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 3: less agregious to me because it was clearly just like 267 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 3: look at this woman with fake titties rubbing on a 268 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 3: wet car holding a burger like that. 269 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 2: That that was much less offensive. 270 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 3: Gabriel Union was in here, just chilling like I'll be 271 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 3: on McDonald's all the time. Like, Gary, you know you 272 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:57,479 Speaker 3: ain't nothing stopped. If your driver stopped at mother fucking McDonald's, 273 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 3: you would fire the fuck out that neck. You would 274 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 3: be fired this second, right, even if he stopped for himself, 275 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 3: like I'm just gonna grab some McDonald's real quick. 276 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 2: At Union, she'd be like, sir. 277 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 3: While you're grabbing that, go ahead grab your application because 278 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 3: you fired, you might as well go work there now 279 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 3: the fuck out of here. 280 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 2: I'm glad you're getting paid. Though. I could believe that, 281 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: you know, I could believe that Mary J. Blige ate 282 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 2: some some chicken wraps, but I I gave believe Gaby 283 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 2: was up in there. 284 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 3: Hey, I can't believe Gaby was up in there eating 285 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 3: any not even like the water, you know what I'm saying, Like, 286 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 3: not even like the bottle water for McDonald's. 287 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 2: And she she'd be like, if you don't get the 288 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: fuck out of my face, what is this right? Uh? 289 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 3: She probably slapped the fries out your hand. Come you 290 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 3: want to fry gap and she slap slapped that shit 291 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 3: get out on my face. 292 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:52,959 Speaker 2: Let's see what else happened. Oh, you know who was 293 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 2: hurt the most. 294 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,079 Speaker 3: We don't talk about these people pretty much at all, 295 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 3: but I was thinking to day man, you know, it 296 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 3: was probably hurt the most in the digital theft economy. 297 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 3: You know about napster and streaming and videos being available online. 298 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 3: The niggas they used to make them racist songs for 299 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 3: black porn. 300 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 2: DVD men use. Oh, like, what skill set do they 301 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:15,319 Speaker 2: have beyond that? 302 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 3: It's not like they cause you know they it's not 303 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: like anyone ever listened to those songs. 304 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 2: Because they like the music. 305 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 3: It was just like a thing that was on a 306 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 3: DVD that you had to listen to before you get 307 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 3: hit played and it was always terrible rap always. But 308 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 3: I imagine that was their only source of income, because 309 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 3: it's not like anyone else would pay them to hear 310 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 3: them rap. So what you know, those guys, you know, 311 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 3: they just don't get to do that anymore. It's kind 312 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 3: of sad, like that whole economy is gone and nobody 313 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 3: gets a fuck. I wouldn't even thought about that. I 314 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 3: thought you was gonna say the the mixtape. 315 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: Man, mixtape man. 316 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 4: Now, I won't know what the hell you call them. 317 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 4: The people did come in, like the bober shops. 318 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 3: And the blue leg the butleg man still still got 319 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 3: a job. Yeah, the boutleg man always because it's not one. 320 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 3: Everybody always reduces the bootleg man. The movies and DVDs 321 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 3: bootlet Man always have blut leg everything, blutleg clothes and shit. 322 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 3: It's always some type of hustle. So that's nothing but 323 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 3: the actual the dude that only exists to make songs. 324 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 3: It's like and we fucking bitches raw, oh, and we 325 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 3: fucking bitches raw, oh, go going to your jaw fucking 326 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 3: bitches raw. 327 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: And it's always like something. 328 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 3: Nobody booty oh, shake it, shake it, and nobody nobody 329 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 3: knows the uh, the actual rap part. But I always 330 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 3: appreciate that they actually did do the rap part because 331 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 3: it wouldn't just. 332 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 2: Be the chorus. It'd be like a full, like three 333 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 2: minute song, but nobody's ever gonna listen to it. 334 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 4: Why are you watching Booty Shake? 335 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, you know, fucking Bitches Raw twelve and 336 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 3: then there's a fucking Bitches raw on and we fucking 337 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 3: big draw Yeah, and then like before the dude can 338 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 3: start rapping us. 339 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 5: Yeah. 340 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 2: My, they was a little dn I know when you 341 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 2: heard it play, you know, I mean like click click too, 342 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 2: it's going too long. That's enough. I wonder what happened 343 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 2: to them. I know Wesley Pikes tried to be a 344 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 2: rapper for real and it didn't work out for him. 345 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. I think one of my favorite theme songs was 346 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 4: the free CODs and flows. 347 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Jake Steve, Yeah he was that. 348 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 4: I like the rap, you know him personally is a 349 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 4: completely different story. 350 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 2: I mean, listen, love you can love the art without 351 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 2: so right the art and the artist. I mean it 352 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 2: was bad. 353 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 4: The rapping was really bad. 354 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, he was a tarrible rapper, that was He was 355 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: literally was one of that. 356 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 3: I couldn't believe that that dude got to like the 357 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: thing is though, I guess porn sells itself So it 358 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: was like, if the niggas that make it want a 359 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 3: rap that that tells you how good porn is the 360 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: people is that these niggas also got to throw in. 361 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 2: Brian Purple would throw in like. 362 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 3: Twenty minutes of rap videos and those and those kg 363 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 3: men suits, untailored suits. He would he was fucking throwing 364 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 3: twenty minutes of rap videos between having sex with women. 365 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 2: And like he got to do that for like five years. 366 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 3: That's how much porn is good to people, is that 367 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 3: we all just rolled our eyes and skip past that 368 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 3: part and saying when do we get to the scene. 369 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 3: And meanwhile, he wanted to be the first like legitimate 370 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 3: porn rapper and shit, yeah, he was me. 371 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 4: Keep it d keep it red. I'm rapping what I'm 372 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 4: really doing? 373 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 2: Do they still have to borrows? Or have I just 374 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 2: not been to a mall since Amazon came to Providence 375 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 2: cause all the ones, I don't know, how can I say? 376 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 4: I don't know? I can't tell you last time I've 377 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 4: been to them all? What's them all? 378 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 2: Mm hm? 379 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,680 Speaker 3: So I mean I was thinking today I wanted some 380 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 3: pizza and I was like, oh man, it'll be a 381 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 3: good time to go get some shitty tomorrows pizza from 382 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 3: from Tomorrow. 383 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 2: Then I was like, what is today exist? Did they 384 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 2: go out of business? 385 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 4: Like how? 386 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 3: Because I mean the pizza was the reason that they 387 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 3: stayed in business. Because they're always in like places you 388 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 3: can't avoid. 389 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 2: Right, and they always do that. 390 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,959 Speaker 3: And the diabolical part of the Borrows is that they 391 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 3: they go they're always like they trap you ins on 392 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 3: like an airport, right, it ain't no a theme park, 393 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 3: you know, places where there's not a lot of good 394 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 3: food options. 395 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 2: And then they're like they take that sauce and they 396 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 2: just boil it. 397 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:30,680 Speaker 3: All day and the aroma spreads throughout the whole mall, 398 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 3: so you just smell it like tomato meat sauce all 399 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 3: day and you're like, I think. 400 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 2: I want some pizza. Yeah, I want some pizza. I 401 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 2: think I gotta go give me some pizza. And you 402 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 2: go up in there and one body then you're like, oh, 403 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 2: that's right, it's shitty pizza. Oh that's how I forget? 404 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 4: Right, they got me again? 405 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 2: How did I forget? 406 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what you put on this piece of 407 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 3: shit cardboard pizza. It's all terrible. 408 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 5: Cardboard tastes like cardboard. I don't care if you bake 409 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 5: it or fry it. As I take it, it's cardboard. 410 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 2: You have to fucking drowning in that that red sauce 411 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 2: and ship just to need you get heart burned from it. 412 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 2: But you got drowning in that red sauce just to 413 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 2: make it edible, like you. 414 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 3: I can only eat the fucking like deep dish Chicago 415 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 3: pizza from there because it's all smothered in red sauce. 416 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 3: Or you gotta get like a red sauce on the side, 417 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 3: a strong boli or something's. 418 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: But yeah, I was just I don't know. 419 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 3: Maybe they still exist, which is a you know, we 420 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 3: say that the economy is bad, but it's a borrow 421 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 3: still exists in this economy. 422 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 2: I mean, what ex use do we have? 423 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 4: You know, come on, n My piece of game is 424 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 4: stepped up a lot from that. 425 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 3: But yes, everybody always talking about fingering and fwisting, but 426 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 3: figguring and fisting, but what about towing and footing. 427 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 4: I've seen that. That's disturbing, but I've seen it. 428 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 3: Nobody talks about it though. You know, they're all used 429 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 3: to try finger girls at the movies. Somebody else I 430 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 3: try to tow them at the movies, no slipping, slipping 431 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 3: piggy up in there as a man. 432 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 2: Donald calls it. 433 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 4: A lot of pulling, y'all. So yes, I've seen that. 434 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know where he's getting that from, but 435 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 2: that good for you. I want shame your kink. 436 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 3: A lot of people got hole. You stopped going be 437 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 3: like what this click? Asked this question online? A lot 438 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 3: of people got upset with me, And I was like, 439 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 3: I just asked a question. There was like on Father's 440 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 3: Day and I said, how do y'all think y'all got here? 441 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 4: Come on? 442 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 2: Okay? 443 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 3: And I was like, well, that's not how I got here, 444 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 3: because that's not how children are born. I said, you 445 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 3: think you know everything about your parents sex. You don't 446 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 3: know what the fuck they did to have you. Okay, 447 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 3: you know the one to part where the sperm. 448 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,199 Speaker 4: Hit the eggs, that's how you show up. 449 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 3: You don't know if it was some footing involved in 450 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 3: that ship, like your dad might have had them size 451 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 3: twelves all up in there. 452 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 2: You don't know what you're talking about, and you don't 453 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 2: want to know, so shut the fuck up. 454 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 4: No, you don't want to know. 455 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 2: Just asking a question. See, that's what's wrong. Kanye was 456 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 2: partially right. 457 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 3: Y'all hate free thought? What's wrong with free thinking? I 458 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 3: can't wonder. That's not like I said, I'm gonna put 459 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 3: my fit foot up somebody. I just wondered, how come 460 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 3: one is more socially acceptable than the other. 461 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 2: That's it correct. 462 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 3: So Jay and Beyonce dropped their album yesterday, The Carters. 463 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 3: It's the new supergroup is called. My favorite thing about 464 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 3: when jay Z and Beyonce drop projects on the title, 465 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 3: it's how they immediately moved everybody ship off the front page. 466 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 4: Too. 467 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: Oh that's my favorite. 468 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 4: Who the fuck you want? I'm going to page? 469 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 5: Oh? 470 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 2: That is my favorite fucking thing. 471 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 4: Man. Like the rotation just changes. 472 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 3: I look forward to it every time. Like as soon 473 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 3: as we took a nap Saturday, right because I was tired. 474 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 3: We did a lot of stuff and then, uh think 475 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 3: I took it was Saturday, Sunday. 476 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 2: Which day did it come out? Saturday? Sunday? Saturday? Yeah, 477 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 2: because my dad was here Sunday and I was listening 478 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 2: to it, So it came out Saturday. 479 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 4: And you've been going off days. 480 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I came home when we had a you know, 481 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: we had. 482 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 3: Some good brunch from this this this nice bar up 483 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 3: the street, and I was like, I'm gonna go home 484 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 3: and just take a nap. So I took a nap, 485 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 3: woke up. I was looking at Twitter and it was 486 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 3: just tweeted. At the tweet about Beyonce, I said, Oh. 487 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: What happened? Did she put out the cause I knew 488 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 2: she was gonna put out something. I had faith. That's 489 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 2: why I didn't even like I saw the like we 490 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 2: didn't even cover on the show. 491 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 3: All the people that was mad talking about how you're 492 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 3: gonna go on to it you ain't got no new 493 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 3: music out. 494 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 2: I hope you don't say me to. 495 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 3: Buy this ship, and I'm like, oh, yeah, of little faith, Okay, 496 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 3: I am not even that indoctrinated into the church of Beyonce. 497 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 3: And even my black ass knew she wasn't about to 498 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 3: hit this motherfucking tour without breaking y'all off. Something correct 499 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 3: to memorize and celebrate during the motherfucking tour like that 500 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 3: was such a ridiculous thing to be mad. 501 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 2: I was like, whatever, you know, like, let the tour 502 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 2: date start and then then be mad, you know. 503 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 3: So they dropped this, which is funny because it was 504 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 3: on the eve of nas and Kanye teaming up to 505 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 3: make a Nazi or another one of Kanye's seven seven 506 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 3: song projects that he keeps doing with all these different artists. 507 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,400 Speaker 3: I haven't heard much about it, but it's funny because 508 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 3: I wanted to see if NAS was gonna address the 509 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 3: stuff about Calise, which she accused him of being abusive, 510 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 3: and because you know, he's the thoughtful, real rapper, the 511 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 3: guy who you know, you know, the thinking man's rapper 512 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:44,879 Speaker 3: and ship and apparently he didn't, so then I was 513 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 3: so for me personally. I didn't even listen to the 514 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 3: one he had with the dress on the cover, so 515 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 3: I was even less inclined to listen to this one 516 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 3: because I was like, he not, you know, I'm good. 517 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 3: I'm not a huge NAS fan, you know, so whatever. 518 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 3: But even with that ship dropping beyond say and jay 519 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 3: Z is just pretty much erase that ship off the 520 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:09,880 Speaker 3: map like it's every time. Yeah, like everything is love 521 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 3: dropped and that was it was a wrap. And then 522 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 3: it didn't just drop the title. It's exclusive to the 523 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,719 Speaker 3: title for like a day or two. This morning they 524 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 3: releastened to to Apple and Spotify so you can go 525 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 3: listen to it. You you don't have to you don't 526 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 3: have to only have you know title this time. But yeah, 527 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 3: I love that they just move everybody off the front page. 528 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 3: I don't even know that I'm one hundred percent raid 529 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 3: talk about the album yet, although I haven't, you know. 530 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 2: Listening to it. 531 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 3: I probably listened to it fully all the way through, 532 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 3: like four or five times. So I really feel like 533 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 3: I need to sit with it a little bit longer, 534 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 3: to like analyze the themes and stuff I'm not really 535 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 3: one for. I'm not really one forgiven like trying to 536 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 3: get the hottest take or the the quickest think piece 537 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck out. I've seen a lot of 538 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 3: people do that, you know, which They're entitled to their opinion, 539 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 3: but I feel like they're still a little more understanding 540 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 3: I have to do with the album, although I do 541 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 3: have some general thoughts about it, Like I think it's 542 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 3: funny how invested people got in the idea of Beyonce 543 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 3: and jay Z needing to be apart, being separate, to 544 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:36,199 Speaker 3: not be together while they're married and have three children 545 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 3: at this point, so much so that I feel like 546 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 3: people could have seen this coming if they wouldn't have 547 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 3: been in their agenda driven kind of bag of I 548 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 3: want to find a way to like this woman, but 549 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 3: not like or support her husband in any way correct. 550 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 4: Because to a lot of people got in their feelings 551 00:25:59,119 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 4: a lot. 552 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 2: I think. 553 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 5: From from our perspective, I've seen a lot of people 554 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 5: say a lot of different things, and I feel like, 555 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 5: regardless of if you like jay Z or not, that's 556 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 5: Beyonce's husband, and like any day. 557 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 4: Come, you can't fuck with the wife and be like, well, 558 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 4: fuck your husband. 559 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 5: I mean, most of the time, if you don't fuck 560 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 5: with the wife, you don't fuck with the husband. If 561 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 5: you don't fuck with the husband, you don't fuck with 562 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 5: the wife. 563 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 4: They're a unit. So it's funny to. 564 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 5: See how people complain and huff and puff and get 565 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 5: mad and get angry and why she got him in pictures. Well, 566 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 5: she loved him, she married him, y'all. She made that 567 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 5: choice and she made that decision. You know. I think 568 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 5: that a lot of people are angry because for some 569 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 5: people they feel like, I mean, you kind of talked 570 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 5: about this. If he'll cheat on Beyonce, who am I 571 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 5: a person just like she is, you know, flawed just 572 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:59,640 Speaker 5: like she is. And it's one of those things where 573 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 5: I think that people have been really really in their 574 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 5: feeling since Lemonade, and some people even say it was 575 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 5: all a hoax, it was all fake just to get 576 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 5: I don't think I personally don't think it was. 577 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 4: I don't, you know, it's just me. 578 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 5: I think that they're telling you what they want you 579 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 5: to know, because every everything about them is crafted. 580 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 4: Please don't get me wrong. 581 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 5: But at the same time, it's just real funny, almost 582 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 5: like the Kim Kate stuff that black women got out 583 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 5: of jail, and everybody want a huff and puffing. 584 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 4: Him and high and swing around Kim and don't want. 585 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 5: To give her credit for shit, like she didn't take 586 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 5: her glass up there and talk to Jonald Trump and 587 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 5: give him a list of names. 588 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 4: You know, they don't want to give her credit. Like 589 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 4: they glad the women free, but they don't. They don't 590 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 4: want to give credit. It's a lot of people out 591 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 4: there out there like that, where see people. 592 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 5: Do things and they don't like the person, and so 593 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,880 Speaker 5: they'll do everything but to get that person in credit 594 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 5: where credits due. I can say job well done, and 595 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 5: you you did something, even though I might not care 596 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 5: for you. I can't erase the actions and the things 597 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 5: you've done, and so you know, it's really funny when 598 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 5: it comes to Beyonce because most happily married couples you 599 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 5: take them as a unit. So it's just really really 600 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,479 Speaker 5: funny to see, you know, how people get in their 601 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 5: feelings and act like jay Z's the worst thing ever 602 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 5: and how he's quote unquote. 603 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 4: Hurt her career and shit like that, and I'm not 604 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 4: what the fuck is wrong with y'all. 605 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it doesn't fit the agendas that people 606 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 3: have because there's so many things at play with the 607 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 3: idea of like Beyonce coming of age, where she first 608 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 3: was doing a lot of you know, independent girl anthem type. 609 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 3: You know, hey, we we sisters, we bad, we women, 610 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 3: we bad blah blah blah, and she's kind of evolved 611 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 3: in a bunch of different directions, one of them being 612 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 3: she is the kind of person that does want to 613 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 3: be in a relationship, She does want to be a mother, 614 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 3: she does want to be well married. 615 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 2: Even like. 616 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 3: She is very pro black, she is very intersectional things 617 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 3: that I think people didn't necessarily see coming to some extent, 618 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 3: or if you did, you kind of treated like wishful thinking. 619 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 3: But if anything, at this point, I think everybody should 620 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 3: have at least gotten a memo. 621 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 2: She's not to be controlled. 622 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 3: She's not really doing shit simply for the well, this 623 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 3: is what y'all think, y'all want, so let me just 624 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 3: fake whatever it is y'all want, you know, I still 625 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 3: see people trying to put that on her on some 626 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 3: like it's funny. I saw a tweet that was making 627 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 3: a rounds. I'm not I didn't share it or nothing. 628 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 3: It was just funny seeing people's reactions. But this woman 629 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,719 Speaker 3: was like, she doesn't even understand all the artistic images 630 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 3: in her own video and shit, it's like, how could 631 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 3: you possibly know that everybody's worked with her says she's 632 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 3: a control fucking freak, that she's like looking into every 633 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,239 Speaker 3: aspect of everything involving her image, her art, every thing. 634 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 2: The idea of her putting out music she doesn't understand 635 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 2: is ridiculous to me, Like. 636 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 7: But. 637 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 2: Or videos and images she don't understand. 638 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 3: Like, I think it's very convenient to try to reduce 639 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 3: her for a lot of people, and it's hard for 640 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 3: people to accept the full vision of her when she 641 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 3: doesn't neatly fit into what people want to see. But 642 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 3: I think one of the things about this album and 643 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 3: about them as a couple, is there's a type of 644 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 3: revolution in this them loving each other. And I think 645 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 3: often people think of it more from her part because 646 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 3: that's how most people view cheating in our society, right. 647 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 3: They view it as the woman giving something up, and 648 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 3: we pretty much make that that's what women supposed to do, 649 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 3: quote unquote, is a man like you, you need to 650 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 3: give up everything, settle down, just take whatever the fuck 651 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 3: he give you and be happy and shut the fuck up. 652 00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: Right. 653 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 3: So, I think a lot of people, especially when it 654 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 3: comes to something like infidelity, uh that was public with 655 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 3: them or whatever. And I still, in my opinion, feel 656 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 3: like they didn't start releasing music about it till they 657 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 3: probably had handled it already correct, even if people in 658 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 3: real time thought they were getting like some juice. I 659 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 3: think they was like, we only can tell y'all this 660 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 3: because it's already taken care of. But I think people 661 00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 3: see that power, dynamic ass Beyonce, the biggest star on 662 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 3: the earth, dealing with a nigga that cheated on her? Well, 663 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,160 Speaker 3: what hope do I have? What does that say about me? 664 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 3: What was it say about her feminism? What was it 665 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 3: say about blah blah blah, which you know, I don't think. 666 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 2: I think. I think if you think about. 667 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 3: Men women in uh CIS had relationships dealing with CIS 668 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 3: had men, Nigga, it's a fucking needle in a haystack 669 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 3: to fucking find that dude that never will ever fuck up, 670 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 3: knows everything completely blah blah blah. So there's so they're 671 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 3: that part like all women that probably end up going 672 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 3: through something fucked up. And much like the season Sorry 673 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 3: thing with the me too movement, this her situation in 674 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 3: her marriage is probably more emblematic and relatable to a 675 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 3: lot of women in the world who don't talk up 676 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 3: about it because a lot of times you get shamed. 677 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 3: Uh if you if you find someone finds out not 678 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 3: to mention, it's embarrassing. If someone were to publicly out 679 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 3: you as the woman who got cheated on the stage, 680 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 3: it's like, wow, Wow, you have no respect for yourself, 681 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 3: like a bunch of negative things when which you know, 682 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 3: some cases, I'm sure it is that way, but in 683 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 3: some cases people make mistakes and y'all can work it out. 684 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 5: It's a lot of married couple that have been together 685 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 5: for years where infidelity has happened and not only for 686 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 5: the man, sometimes it's the women. 687 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 3: But for women it's like extra hard because it's like, 688 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 3: how dare you get the pussy a way? 689 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 5: But when it comes to that, it had. When it 690 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 5: comes to that that, it doesn't matter which partnersteps out, 691 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 5: it happened. Sometimes you're able to repair it, and then 692 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 5: sometimes you're. 693 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 4: Not able to repair it. 694 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 5: And like I said, there are couples today, some of 695 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 5: y'all parents and great grandparents and aunts and uncles that 696 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 5: moved past that and they don't have fucked up relationships. 697 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 5: They moved, they learned, they grew, and they moved on 698 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 5: with their lives and they're not staying there. 699 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 2: And you wouldn't know all necessarily either. 700 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 3: I mean, so like that episode of Insecure when Molly 701 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 3: found out her parents had been together through infidelity and 702 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 3: she lost everything, And. 703 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 2: I think it's the same thing. 704 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 3: But with Beyonce, a lot of people have put her 705 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 3: on a pedestal of almost idle worship, and like the 706 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 3: symbolism of what that she needs to represent for them 707 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 3: is bigger than what a human being can. 708 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 2: Actually do in real life. 709 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 3: So it's like her relationship becomes a reflection of all 710 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 3: your relationships which is unfair to do to anybody, And 711 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 3: it's already gross and wrong to shame women for being 712 00:33:59,080 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 3: cheated on anyway. 713 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 2: People say it either snarkily or sometimes just on some like. 714 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 3: Petty jealous shit where it's like, well she got cheated on, Uh, 715 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 3: well what y'all think? 716 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 4: Fine? 717 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 2: Women don't get cheated on? 718 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 3: You know this idea of like ha haha, laughing at 719 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 3: the person who got cheated on, as opposed to well, 720 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 3: what does it say about men that they would do 721 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 3: this to somebody? 722 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like, what does it say 723 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 2: that you can be you can check all these boxes? 724 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 2: And men would do this? 725 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 3: And instead of us empathizing with the person who's been 726 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 3: going through this shit, we end up turning on the 727 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 3: on the dude and then eventually turning on them like 728 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,879 Speaker 3: like we're like, it's the dude is bad? 729 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 2: Leave him this? 730 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 3: Well, actually, you know, we're gonna go therapy, counseling, We're 731 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,439 Speaker 3: gonna work this out, we're gonna figure something out, would 732 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 3: give a shot at trying, you know, marriages, blah blah blah, 733 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 3: and you know till depth d you part. And I'm 734 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 3: actually did believe in that shit, and I'm gonna try 735 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 3: to figure this out. There's a lot of people that 736 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,759 Speaker 3: reject that because of their own pride and ego and 737 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,800 Speaker 3: their own experiences with men, you know, their own experiences 738 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 3: with giving somebody a second chance that didn't value that 739 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 3: second chance. And honestly, you can be made to look 740 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 3: like a fool twice, you know, and people have even 741 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 3: less sympathy because they're gonna blame the woman period. They're 742 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 3: gonna blame her for staying she gets cheated on one time, 743 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,160 Speaker 3: They're gonna blame her for getting cheated on if she 744 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 3: leaves the dude that cheats on the look at the 745 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 3: era she left, they still blamed her because our society 746 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 3: set up to blame women no matter what. So with Beyonce, though, 747 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 3: what I find interesting in their story it becomes about her. 748 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 3: But there's this other side that we don't talk about 749 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 3: because want a privilege. But I was amazed on this 750 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 3: album so far by how much jay Z's giving up 751 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 3: of the male patriarchal ego thing. 752 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 2: It's not completely gone. I mean, he's still a human being, 753 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 2: he still has ego. We all do. He's still gonna 754 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 2: brag blah blah blah. But if you would have told me. 755 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:08,000 Speaker 3: Fucking fifteen years ago, twenty years ago, this nigga would 756 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 3: be wrapping about being in love so fucking like unabashedly. 757 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 2: Like soft quote unquote. And I don't mean that in 758 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 2: the mean way. I mean that in it like I 759 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 2: can't think of a better way to describe what the 760 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:23,319 Speaker 2: fuck he's talking about. 761 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 3: He's talking about making love in the summertime and being 762 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 3: grateful that music helps his kids sleep now and saying 763 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:39,439 Speaker 3: like thanking his wife for saving them from his own 764 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 3: destructive tendencies, that he let his own self destructive tendencies 765 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 3: extend to destroying his marriage and his family almost and 766 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 3: if it hadn't a been for her having some sort 767 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 3: of forgiveness in her heart and not just forgiveness, but like. 768 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 2: That's the best phrase I have for it, is like 769 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 2: redemptive awareness, Like we can, we can redeem this thing 770 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 2: if you're willing to work for it. But I gotta 771 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 2: see it in you. 772 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 3: To not just be living her life for everybody outside, 773 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 3: even though they have a life. Like he has a 774 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 3: couple of bars about fame on here where he talks 775 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 3: about how they're rich and famous, but they're not really 776 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 3: trying to be famous, like like he's like you know, 777 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 3: because if you. 778 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 2: Think about that life, you're like, well, how does that 779 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 2: make sense? 780 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 3: But it kind of does. Like they tell us what 781 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 3: the fuck they want us to know when they want 782 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 3: us to know it. They're very secretive. I mean they 783 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 3: used in the artwork for like some of the photos 784 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 3: for this album, they had actors as the twins for 785 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 3: that when they took photos, so it's not their actual babies. 786 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 2: Like people will. 787 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,319 Speaker 3: Speculating like, oh, we finally see Roomy and Sir Carter 788 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 3: and they're like, actually you did not. 789 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 2: We hire those babies, okay, Like that's our business, fuck y'all. 790 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 2: So it's kind of this. 791 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:08,919 Speaker 3: So I think it's kind of this thing where, unfortunately, 792 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 3: because it's so wrapped up in how people view Beyonce 793 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 3: and not how people view the total package of who 794 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 3: the Carters are, I feel like we're missing out on 795 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 3: a great transformation of a dude who a lot of 796 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 3: dudes idolized, and he was the symbol of like I'll 797 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 3: never settle down. 798 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get holds forever. I don't. 799 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 3: I'm sorry I made you cry, but you will never 800 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 3: see me crying. I'll make the song cry before I cry, 801 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 3: because I don't cry. I'm a man's man quote unquote. 802 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 3: I to see that dude quote unquote when but not 803 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,720 Speaker 3: when in the stereotypical Oh, he won because he's fucking 804 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 3: the baddest chick on the planet, like to win on 805 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:02,280 Speaker 3: some like he won because he overcame his emotional scars, 806 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 3: his insecurities, his a lot of the toxic masculinity that 807 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 3: he's working through. 808 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 2: The things people say they really do want from men. 809 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 3: But the codharted truth is a lot of everybody's you know, 810 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,839 Speaker 3: favorite Twitter personalities and most active like blah blah, they 811 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 3: don't actually want that shit. They like being mad at people, 812 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 3: and they really prefer for these niggas to fall short 813 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 3: so they can like point out how they're not perfect 814 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 3: as opposed because like a lot of times people quote 815 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 3: unquote do the work that people ask for them and 816 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 3: they get mad at them for doing the work. It's like, well, 817 00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 3: I apologize, and this is the state, this is where 818 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,319 Speaker 3: I'm at right now, and I realize I was wrong 819 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 3: about that, and I'm working on You're only doing that 820 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 3: for the Selle albums. Okay, what does it look like 821 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 3: when I do this to not sell albums. You know 822 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, What do you want to come back 823 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 3: and talk? But what you can't Well, I can only 824 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 3: talk about my life. I can be an example to 825 00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 3: the people that used to think like me, and they're 826 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 3: now watching me, you know, one of the most storied 827 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,760 Speaker 3: rappers and business mogus in the planet. 828 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:06,920 Speaker 2: On the planet. 829 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,720 Speaker 3: You're not watching me turn this page in my life 830 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,399 Speaker 3: to be like, yo, I fucked up, and I'm being 831 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 3: vocal about it. Not I fucked up. I've played to 832 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,759 Speaker 3: the back, kept it to myself, and I'm gonna reap 833 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 3: the benefits of the image that I crafted for twenty years. 834 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 3: I'm gonna reap that benefit of everybody thinking I'm the 835 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 3: coolest p play a hustle on the planet. But I'm 836 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,760 Speaker 3: just I'm just not gonna talk about how it's fucked 837 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 3: up that I cheated on my wife. It's fucked up 838 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 3: that you know I almost destroyed my family. It's fucked 839 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,439 Speaker 3: up that you know I was the kind of person 840 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 3: where my mom was in the closet and I didn't 841 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 3: even really notice or care and never understood until like 842 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 3: I had to get to a place where she was 843 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,359 Speaker 3: ready to tell me to understand what she went through 844 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 3: not telling me, you know that kind of shit that 845 00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:00,120 Speaker 3: we kind of it kind of gets glossed over if 846 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,520 Speaker 3: you let other people tell the stories, which is why 847 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,640 Speaker 3: a lot of times I can't read or really I 848 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 3: don't really interact with people about their music opinions because 849 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 3: it's so biased. 850 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 2: We're really more talking about our own opinions. Anyway. 851 00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 3: I just think, like other things that hit me right away, 852 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:21,720 Speaker 3: it was that, like, because Beyonce already just being that nigga. 853 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 2: I mean, she rapping now, like on like almost every track. 854 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:30,320 Speaker 4: I made a joke. 855 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 5: Today, but I meant did Beyonce came out with a 856 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 5: country song, she came out with a rock song. She 857 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 5: dropping them them sixteen bars. Next album, you' Gonna Suck 858 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 5: Around and Fly. 859 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, she hit that like bottom of jet I said, 860 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,680 Speaker 2: Oh my nigga, come on, like she like she's on 861 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 2: some whole other level. Shit. 862 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 3: She's always had a shit together, Like we've never really 863 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,840 Speaker 3: seen her without her shit together. But it's been interesting 864 00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 3: watching the dude that to a certain extent, probably one 865 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 3: of the most I'm trying to think of others, but 866 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,880 Speaker 3: I would say, in my mind, he's one of the 867 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 3: forebears of toxic masculinity within the black community. And I 868 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 3: don't mean that as a as a disc I just 869 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,239 Speaker 3: mean it because I think a lot of our music 870 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,960 Speaker 3: is like that and we just don't think about it correct. 871 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,359 Speaker 3: But I mean as far as propagating it, profiting out 872 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 3: of it, spreading it, I mean, Jay was, and I 873 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 3: mean and I'm like, I have empathy for it because 874 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:34,240 Speaker 3: I'm not saying, Oh, he had all this this information 875 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 3: and he just said, fuck it, I'm gonna be this. 876 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 2: Like he was the thinking man's drug dealing rapper. 877 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 3: You know, he did feel bad about selling drugs to 878 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 3: these people, but understood like I still, I'm still gonna 879 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,400 Speaker 3: do this, you know. 880 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,359 Speaker 2: And you know he rapped about such, you know, selling 881 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:55,759 Speaker 2: drugs is own family and shit back in the day. 882 00:42:55,840 --> 00:43:00,520 Speaker 3: You know, he rapped about the somberness of having all 883 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 3: this money, but you can't really enjoy your money because 884 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 3: of the one how you got it, but two you're 885 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 3: still in a place where people are gonna take it 886 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,320 Speaker 3: from me. You know, when when he's like, you know, 887 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 3: you think I'm lucky, but how lucky am I? You know, 888 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 3: like I'm poisoning to my people? And then also like 889 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:24,319 Speaker 3: niggas want to kill me over the shit, I'm never 890 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,360 Speaker 3: gonna have a relationship with a woman on any level 891 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 3: beyond just trying to fuck him or something, you know, 892 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,600 Speaker 3: like he had like he was trapped in that box. 893 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:37,080 Speaker 3: And if it hadn't been for this woman, which is, 894 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 3: you know, a sad story, but just kind of the 895 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 3: story of a lot of men, if it hadn't been 896 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 3: for this woman loving him, he was never going to 897 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:48,399 Speaker 3: wake up to that shit, right. 898 00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 5: And the thing about it, particularly in my opinion, because 899 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,759 Speaker 5: of a toxic masculinity. It's a lot of dudes who 900 00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 5: have a lot of women that literally loved the hell 901 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 5: like like like they love them to break their walls down, 902 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 5: they they soften their hearts, you know. But my thing 903 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 5: is that depending on a woman, that's every that's not 904 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 5: every woman's responsibility, it's desire. 905 00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:16,319 Speaker 2: Well, see that that point you just made is why 906 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:17,600 Speaker 2: I think people. 907 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 3: Don't like him and they don't like her with him, 908 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,640 Speaker 3: and they don't like the album with them being together, 909 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,600 Speaker 3: they don't like to tour them together. It's that exact thought, 910 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 3: Like women are just kind of fed up with it. 911 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:36,000 Speaker 3: So why would this icon do something that women are 912 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 3: fed up with so I think that's where it comes from. 913 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,080 Speaker 5: And to an extent, I can under I can understand 914 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 5: bad frustration, particularly as you get older. 915 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:50,840 Speaker 4: You like, nigga, you ought to have your shit together. 916 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 4: We all old. Ain't nobody got time, nobody got time 917 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 4: to raise a child. 918 00:44:56,360 --> 00:45:00,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you didn't marry that nigga. Correct, man's it's 919 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,640 Speaker 3: kind of like the Kim Kardashi and Kanye thing. 920 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 2: I wouldn't. Then. 921 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,640 Speaker 3: That's why I didn't accept Kanye's proposal, because I don't 922 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 3: know what to do when the nigga come home and 923 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 3: say slavery is a choice, kill must because. 924 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 2: They figured it out my black ass would do. I 925 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 2: don't know what I could have done, you know. 926 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 3: But one of the things I was gonna say too, 927 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 3: even when Kanye, you know, even with jay Z, with 928 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 3: a lot of men, women are tired of hearing men 929 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,360 Speaker 3: learn how to respect and treat women and think of 930 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 3: women as human beings until they have a daughter, come on, now, 931 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:34,319 Speaker 3: till they get married, you know, things of this nature. Right, 932 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 3: It's tired to y'all the same way it's tired of 933 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 3: me as a black person. 934 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:37,799 Speaker 5: Right. 935 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 3: Well, I'm like, I mean, you're obviously a black woman, 936 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,200 Speaker 3: but when you hear a white person hit the you know. 937 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 3: And then my daughter married a black man, and I realized, well, 938 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,840 Speaker 3: you know something, I started dating this guy or I 939 00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 3: got a friend and he lived up the street, and 940 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 3: I saw someone call him a nigger, and I realized 941 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 3: how wrong it was. And a lot of us who 942 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 3: lived that experience are like, well, what the fuck took 943 00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:57,960 Speaker 3: you so long to give? 944 00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 5: Right? 945 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,480 Speaker 4: You're looking like nigga women you've had around you forever. 946 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 5: It took you bear, you know, having a child by 947 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 5: a woman, having a child before you go, oh, I 948 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 5: need to treat the mother of my child better, and 949 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,399 Speaker 5: I need to treat my daughter better. You know, it's 950 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 5: weird when it comes to love because people will have 951 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:23,360 Speaker 5: unconditional love for children, but they won't have love for 952 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 5: the person that bought that child. They won't have you know, 953 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 5: respect for the person or anything like that, but they'll 954 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,560 Speaker 5: love that child. It's really, really weird that we can 955 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 5: have this love for children and not have the same 956 00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:37,799 Speaker 5: love for one. 957 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,200 Speaker 4: Another, even if we're not with that person. At least 958 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:41,320 Speaker 4: have some form of respect. 959 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, people don't even really have that love for children. 960 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 4: In my opinion, not like they should their own. 961 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 3: I'm talking about their own. They don't really have that 962 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 3: love for the children either. Let that child be gay, 963 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,840 Speaker 3: Let the child tell them I'm trance. You know, like 964 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 3: a lot of people got a very conditional love even 965 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 3: for their kids. It's just it's the closest we can 966 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,399 Speaker 3: get to unconditional love, I think is the people's love 967 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,279 Speaker 3: for children. But it's still a far cry off in 968 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 3: a lot of cases. 969 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 4: You know, is a problem. 970 00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:17,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, look how many people you know, and 971 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 3: people are flawed, conditioned human beings. They're loving you the 972 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,800 Speaker 3: best way they know that they think they can. But 973 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 3: but we don't all have money and time for therapy 974 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 3: and all this extra ship that comes all of us 975 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,400 Speaker 3: not going to school for philosophy and ship. Not everybody 976 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 3: knows what they're supposed to know. And that's why you 977 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,399 Speaker 3: have a lot of people you know that I beat 978 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,520 Speaker 3: my kid, my kid is scared of me, but also 979 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 3: unconditional love for my kid. 980 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 2: Well, how can they be both? 981 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 3: You know, how can it really be both, especially when 982 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 3: you have a black kid, because there's an extra level 983 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 3: of fear there when they're whenever they're out on their owner, 984 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 3: out of your sight, you know. So one of my 985 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:03,560 Speaker 3: favorite passages though so from the from the album Isn't 986 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 3: even the Uh by Beyonce jay Z. This is an 987 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 3: older black woman. I don't know her name. I'm sure 988 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,360 Speaker 3: I can look it up, but so and asked her, 989 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 3: can you tell us about love? And she said what us? 990 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 3: Love of children, love of self, love of God, love 991 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 3: of a partner. All of them have a different shape, 992 00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 3: but all of them is the same. And it's about sensitivity. 993 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 3: It's about passion. It's about unconditional giving of self to 994 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 3: another person. And there's love of humanity. That's the love 995 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 3: that is right now needed most love of humanity. But 996 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,279 Speaker 3: in everything and all of that love, there's a soul. 997 00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 3: It's like when you take some eggs and break them, 998 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 3: and you take the shells and mix them up, trying 999 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 3: to find the ones that match, and you find the 1000 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,080 Speaker 3: perfect match. When you find the perfect match, that's compatibility. 1001 00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:50,239 Speaker 3: That compatibility results in passion, results in unconditional giving of self. 1002 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 2: Like that's probably the. 1003 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:58,360 Speaker 3: Closest to what I think love is anyway. But I 1004 00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 3: just thought it was interesting to see like that put 1005 00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:07,800 Speaker 3: in this album because to me, I think this is 1006 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 3: what jay Z had in mind when he did Best 1007 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,400 Speaker 3: of Both Worlds. And I'm not saying obviously an album 1008 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,760 Speaker 3: R Kelly different than the album with his wife Doug correct, 1009 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 3: but I mean sonically, I think he had this in mind, 1010 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,000 Speaker 3: like he's kind of been preparing to be the artist 1011 00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 3: that can do this for a long time because he 1012 00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:30,400 Speaker 3: he has done so much work with Beyonce already, with 1013 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,440 Speaker 3: these singles, having each other on each other's albums and shit, 1014 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,960 Speaker 3: and then his collab with like Kanye's collab with R Kelly, 1015 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 3: He's kind of had these like moments of wanting to 1016 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 3: do something kind of new, and I think he really 1017 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 3: did stumble onto something kind of new here for a rap. 1018 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 3: I don't think it's new for R and B as much, 1019 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 3: but I mean, and you know, Beyonce is always breaking ground, 1020 00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:57,680 Speaker 3: so it's kind of like, you know, she drugged this 1021 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 3: nigga along or whatever. But to an extent, this this 1022 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:08,839 Speaker 3: idea of a rap love album by a couple, it's 1023 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,640 Speaker 3: kind of some new shit. It's kind of cool. You know, 1024 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,440 Speaker 3: it's kind of corny, but I think love is corny. 1025 00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,320 Speaker 4: I think it is a lot of you can't be 1026 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,799 Speaker 4: cool and being loved. Who is these people? That think 1027 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,320 Speaker 4: you can be in love and be cool. 1028 00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 5: Sometimes y'all laugh back corny as jokes with each other. 1029 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,719 Speaker 5: Sometimes y'all do stupid dance in front of each other, 1030 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 5: you know, like that that's that that's the part of 1031 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 5: being in love that's actually cool to me for the 1032 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,360 Speaker 5: fact that I ain't got to be cool with you 1033 00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 5: all the time. 1034 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 4: You ain't got to be owned all the time. 1035 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, I just. 1036 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,680 Speaker 3: I find it kind of in a way, kind of 1037 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:51,839 Speaker 3: cool that like this is the first time that they've 1038 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 3: done something together. And my initial impression has been more 1039 00:50:55,960 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 3: about jay Z than Beyonce, because one, Beyonce is always impressive. 1040 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,719 Speaker 3: But like Jay sound like a battery is in his back. 1041 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 3: He sounds refreshed, He sounds younger almost, he sounds you 1042 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,279 Speaker 3: know what, you know what is he sounds like. 1043 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 2: Since four forty four too. 1044 00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:16,520 Speaker 3: But this four forty four was like a very apologetic 1045 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:19,880 Speaker 3: album because he had to be contrite, he had to 1046 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 3: be honest, he had to be transparent in the way 1047 00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:26,040 Speaker 3: he's never been before. But and I don't mean to 1048 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:30,680 Speaker 3: say the other albums were anyway, this album sounds like 1049 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,720 Speaker 3: the first time where he really is comfortable being himself. 1050 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's what it is. 1051 00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's for that for artists. 1052 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 5: As artists grow, sometimes you can tell as they grow 1053 00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:43,799 Speaker 5: they become comfortable and just. 1054 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 4: Being in the moment. I am here, right here, right now, 1055 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 4: I'm just going to enjoy this moment. 1056 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1057 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 5: I like. 1058 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,880 Speaker 3: Something about this album made me think about just like, 1059 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 3: I know, I never thought I'd see this nigga rap 1060 00:51:58,120 --> 00:51:58,279 Speaker 3: like this. 1061 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:01,360 Speaker 2: I don't know that I see another nigga rap like 1062 00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:01,920 Speaker 2: this period. 1063 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,919 Speaker 3: Everybody, no matter how even when we call it artist soft, 1064 00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,640 Speaker 3: like say Drake, how much of his music is still 1065 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 3: kind of tied up in like i'mna still treat women 1066 00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 3: like shit though I still have to make sure that happens. 1067 00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 3: And you know, and Jay, I'm still I'm sure still 1068 00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:21,600 Speaker 3: has some more growth and maturity that he can do 1069 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,800 Speaker 3: as we all do. But I appreciate him giving me 1070 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:30,760 Speaker 3: a window into his process. And like I said, Beyonce 1071 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,759 Speaker 3: is always excellent. So it's kind of like, not to 1072 00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 3: sound shady, but she kind of drug this drugging out 1073 00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,160 Speaker 3: of this nigga in a way. And I'm not saying 1074 00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,400 Speaker 3: drug like she like it was a fight. But just 1075 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,480 Speaker 3: like his career has been not wanting to do what 1076 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 3: he's doing right now, Like he's always kind of been like, 1077 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,839 Speaker 3: let me be the cooler than cool guy. 1078 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,280 Speaker 2: Let me not give you too much insight into my life. 1079 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,560 Speaker 3: Let me it's cool. Let's calm down on the personal details. 1080 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,759 Speaker 3: Y'all don't need to know my political stance. This and 1081 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 3: he just fucking has been on some like some other 1082 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:10,359 Speaker 3: like like this this, I'm also very like political. He's 1083 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,920 Speaker 3: talking about the they ain't really fuck the how the 1084 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 3: f beyond stuff, start investigating them after the calif for 1085 00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,439 Speaker 3: out of documentary, and he don't give a fuck because 1086 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,840 Speaker 3: he about to do a Trayvon Martin documentary, And I'm like, 1087 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,360 Speaker 3: who's this it? I remember when this nigga was like, 1088 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 3: I don't talk politics. I just doing dope boy rap. 1089 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 3: Leave me the fuck alonge hey. Lyrically, I could be 1090 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 3: to lil kwality, you know, truthfully, I want to rhyme 1091 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 3: like common sense, but I did five mil. I ain't 1092 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 3: been rhyming like common sense. Like I can't believe that 1093 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,560 Speaker 3: nigga is this nigga, But it's kind of beautiful in 1094 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 3: a growth in terms of growth, that's for Beyonce, man. 1095 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 3: I just think she makes everything look good, like legitimately, 1096 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 3: like she was rapping, and at no point in the 1097 00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 3: album was I like, oh my god, she can rap, 1098 00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 3: you know, because she's already kind of been doing this stuff, 1099 00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,120 Speaker 3: you know, the Flawless Remix and stuff, like she's been 1100 00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:09,040 Speaker 3: doing this for a while, but like she fucking did 1101 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,759 Speaker 3: it on this album. And it's like like, if I 1102 00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,759 Speaker 3: introduced somebody to this album first, they'd be like, oh, 1103 00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:18,239 Speaker 3: so she like a rapper slash singer, Like does she 1104 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:20,319 Speaker 3: how many other albums she have like this? And I'll 1105 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,920 Speaker 3: be like, well, actually, dog, that's kind of thing. 1106 00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:27,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like you know, and truth be told, I've been 1107 00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,040 Speaker 5: paying attention, y'all gonna fuck around, and she gonna do 1108 00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:33,800 Speaker 5: like an entire country album and entire rock album. Like 1109 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,240 Speaker 5: I could see her being like, oh, y'all was mad 1110 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,640 Speaker 5: and wouldn't invite me to the Country Music Awards. I'm 1111 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:45,600 Speaker 5: gonna make a whole goddamn album, right and see if 1112 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:49,000 Speaker 5: y'all don't and see if y'all get mad because I be. 1113 00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 2: Number one, Yeah she would. Yeah. 1114 00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,719 Speaker 3: So I mean it's funny because the other part of 1115 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:57,759 Speaker 3: this I think that and maybe it's just necessitated because 1116 00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,799 Speaker 3: he didn't have a choice. He's never gonna be bigger 1117 00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 3: than her m so he could never sell on an album. 1118 00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 2: Yeah it's me and like I'm I got my woman 1119 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:13,520 Speaker 2: behind me. 1120 00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:17,399 Speaker 3: Supporting her strong black king, Like he was never gonna 1121 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,759 Speaker 3: be able to sell that and dimn her star. So 1122 00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 3: it's almost like by necessity he has to rid himself 1123 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 3: of ego because if that's a world tour, is that 1124 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 3: a world tour, that's your girls tour, it's this girl's tour. 1125 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:32,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, he just the opening act. 1126 00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like now they'll be doing I don't like, 1127 00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,160 Speaker 3: now they'll be doing stuff together, probably in the middle 1128 00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,920 Speaker 3: of the thing that they wouldn't have been before because they. 1129 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,200 Speaker 2: Just made out his music together. So last time it 1130 00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:47,560 Speaker 2: was like he was the opening act. 1131 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,640 Speaker 3: But now I'll bet you'll be more even quote unquote, 1132 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:52,600 Speaker 3: but only because he made these songs with her. 1133 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:55,040 Speaker 2: You know, they being fair. 1134 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,719 Speaker 3: You know, she could still like do her discography to 1135 00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:02,640 Speaker 3: end the fucking uh set every night and nobody would 1136 00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 3: be mad at all. Or they could do like these 1137 00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,600 Speaker 3: new songs together that in the act, Like they still 1138 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:09,440 Speaker 3: could do it. 1139 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,279 Speaker 5: And I think he's so comfortable with his manhood in 1140 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:16,360 Speaker 5: my opinion, and where he is that when people go 1141 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 5: it's a Beyonce album, he like cool, like like it 1142 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,040 Speaker 5: doesn't even FaZe him. 1143 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 3: Because as far as I'm concern, everybody's featuring you, right, 1144 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:28,080 Speaker 3: as far as everybody's can turn this nigga is on 1145 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 3: her album. But but but, like, like I said, I 1146 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:36,399 Speaker 3: think it's just unfortunate. Agendas are what agendas are, people 1147 00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 3: gonna have them. It's just unfortunate because I'm very inspired 1148 00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:48,800 Speaker 3: by the idea of this couple in a in a 1149 00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:52,440 Speaker 3: time where we are so fractured amongst black men and 1150 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 3: black women. 1151 00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,280 Speaker 2: Sits head like in the community, not to mention the many. 1152 00:56:57,120 --> 00:57:00,840 Speaker 3: Of the divides amongst other groups, you know, and the 1153 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 3: CJ kind of turn it to a dude that is 1154 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:12,400 Speaker 3: cleaning up himself in a very public way, very becoming 1155 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:18,440 Speaker 3: very pro black, becoming very outspoken, becoming very pro like 1156 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:23,920 Speaker 3: openly a father, like openly supportive of his woman, his 1157 00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,840 Speaker 3: own like her her best hype man is him now, 1158 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 3: Like he's just like, I'm gonna be Kelly Michelle, y'all, 1159 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 3: you got this, Beyonce, You're still the star. And then 1160 00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:36,800 Speaker 3: and then the fact that she loves him and hypes 1161 00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,760 Speaker 3: him up to like this album with them hyping each 1162 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,640 Speaker 3: other up is like, it's something cool about that shit 1163 00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,640 Speaker 3: in a in a way because it's kind of corny, 1164 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:47,840 Speaker 3: but it's kind of but it's kind of beautiful because 1165 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 3: in a way, not exactly like them, but a lot 1166 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 3: of people want this, Like they want their. 1167 00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 2: Person hyping them up always. 1168 00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,640 Speaker 3: They want their number one fan and to be wearing 1169 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 3: the wedding band across from them. 1170 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:03,080 Speaker 2: They want. 1171 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:10,160 Speaker 3: They want to be forgiven for making a mistake, and 1172 00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:16,040 Speaker 3: they want people that make mistakes to be sincerely apologetic and. 1173 00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 2: Resigned to being better. 1174 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,560 Speaker 3: Because like when we talk about this marriage shit, everybody 1175 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 3: just and I guess it's the way we're indoctrinated, and 1176 00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 3: I hate. I'm not trying to not you know, do 1177 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 3: what you want to do. I'm not trying to tell 1178 00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 3: you how to live your life. But this idea that 1179 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,360 Speaker 3: you married a person that's never gonna change and will 1180 00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:37,960 Speaker 3: forever be perfect for the entire rest of your life 1181 00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,480 Speaker 3: is such a fucking. 1182 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 2: Pipe dream. 1183 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:47,760 Speaker 3: Come that's scary that we as adults. I still know 1184 00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:49,640 Speaker 3: adults who they don't want to. 1185 00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 2: Come out and say, but they really do have a 1186 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:55,080 Speaker 2: very childlike belief of like what love is going to 1187 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:59,080 Speaker 2: look like. But and we're now. 1188 00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 3: Watching now obviously the sanitized crevices they're showing us. But still, 1189 00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:08,120 Speaker 3: somebody took the time out and said, here's how things 1190 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,840 Speaker 3: aren't always perfect, even when you think they look perfect 1191 00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 3: on the outside. 1192 00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 2: Here's some real shit. 1193 00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 3: And I feel like for a large part, people have 1194 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,720 Speaker 3: not been able to handle it because they actually would 1195 00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:25,680 Speaker 3: prefer the sanitized, cleaned up, flawless images, even though behind 1196 00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:28,520 Speaker 3: the scenes we could be like at war with each 1197 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,880 Speaker 3: other and hate each other. They actually would rather have 1198 00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,880 Speaker 3: the fake shit so they can like put it on 1199 00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:37,080 Speaker 3: a T shirt and say it's perfect, then the real shit. 1200 00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:39,439 Speaker 2: But the real shit is the only thing in life 1201 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:40,520 Speaker 2: that's valuable. 1202 00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:44,920 Speaker 4: Right And I and I like it, and I you know, 1203 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 4: I appreciate that part. 1204 00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:51,280 Speaker 5: And it's one of the things you're talking about partners, 1205 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:54,479 Speaker 5: you know, particularly if you're with your partner for any 1206 00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:59,120 Speaker 5: extensive period of time. If you marry somebody ten years later, 1207 00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,520 Speaker 5: they should not be the same person, nor you should 1208 01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:02,880 Speaker 5: should you twenty years later. 1209 01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:03,960 Speaker 4: Y'all should not. 1210 01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 2: Be the same if you're not if you're not married, 1211 01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:07,880 Speaker 2: you won't be the same person. 1212 01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:08,320 Speaker 5: Right. 1213 01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 3: Why, Like marriage isn't like a status isn't like a 1214 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 3: static like a whole. It's not like a box that 1215 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,920 Speaker 3: puts you in a whole position you can't move. You're 1216 01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,520 Speaker 3: gonna like the way you're growing without a mate. You're 1217 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:22,480 Speaker 3: gonna grow with one or with multiple mates, or however 1218 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,600 Speaker 3: your life is gonna be set up. You're you're not 1219 01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,680 Speaker 3: who you were ten years ago, and you're not who 1220 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:29,080 Speaker 3: you're gonna be ten years from now. 1221 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:30,520 Speaker 2: Nobody is. 1222 01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:35,240 Speaker 3: And we got to watch a very public black couple 1223 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 3: that's rich, famous and all this shit be like, Hey, 1224 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,960 Speaker 3: this shit isn't easy, and it's not it's not always fair, 1225 01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:45,640 Speaker 3: and it's not always right, and people on the outside 1226 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,840 Speaker 3: aren't gonna know what the fuck's going on, and they're 1227 01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,800 Speaker 3: not they're not gonna it's really like something where they're 1228 01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:54,280 Speaker 3: gonna have their opinions. But love, like I always I 1229 01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:56,360 Speaker 3: think when I talk about love on the show sometimes 1230 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,560 Speaker 3: or specially on Twitter and stuff, people are retweeted and 1231 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,280 Speaker 3: oh my god, it's so great, But I don't know 1232 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 3: how much they really listen, because I'm like, I'm not 1233 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 3: saying it to be pessimistic. I'm just saying the reality 1234 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,919 Speaker 3: of what I've experienced is that love only care about 1235 01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:13,320 Speaker 3: itself correct. It really can't afford to be caring about 1236 01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 3: how the fuck is gonna look. So there's certain things 1237 01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:21,000 Speaker 3: when I like read or talk about, and I'm like, man, well, 1238 01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:23,760 Speaker 3: if two consent an adults agree to this arrangement, what 1239 01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:25,520 Speaker 3: the fuck do I know? I don't live with them? 1240 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,360 Speaker 3: Like there's it's a good, perfect example. This is not 1241 01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:35,000 Speaker 3: about love, it just in general opening doors. Right, there's 1242 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 3: some women that are like, yo, don't just open the 1243 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:40,000 Speaker 3: door for me, open the door for everybody. 1244 01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:40,520 Speaker 2: Fuck you. 1245 01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:43,560 Speaker 3: I don't believe in that, right, Like, I fucking I'm 1246 01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,120 Speaker 3: a human being with you open the door. If I 1247 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:47,080 Speaker 3: was a man, they treat me like a man. Close 1248 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,120 Speaker 3: the fucking door. I don't give a fuck at least 1249 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:52,000 Speaker 3: you being real, Right, there's some people that staunchly believe that, 1250 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,160 Speaker 3: like you open the door for them. They might even 1251 01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:56,720 Speaker 3: get an attitude or not walk through it right. Very 1252 01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,120 Speaker 3: I think it's very rare, but still there are people 1253 01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:02,600 Speaker 3: like that. But there's a lot of women that are like, 1254 01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:05,200 Speaker 3: if I go on a date with a guy and 1255 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:09,000 Speaker 3: this motherfucker don't open a goddamn door for me, I 1256 01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 3: know right then he ain't shit and he ain't get 1257 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,640 Speaker 3: nothing like nah, fuck you Like I don't like I 1258 01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:16,320 Speaker 3: can go home now. Actually, we don't even have to 1259 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,720 Speaker 3: go in this fucking restaurant, you fucking piece of shit, 1260 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:21,200 Speaker 3: non gentlemen ass nigga. 1261 01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,080 Speaker 2: There are some people that think like that. 1262 01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:23,960 Speaker 7: Now. 1263 01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:25,720 Speaker 2: I don't really give a fuck about who's right or 1264 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,840 Speaker 2: wrong in that situation. I know that there's a person 1265 01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 2: out there that will open the door for question person B, 1266 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,000 Speaker 2: and there's a person out there that won't open the 1267 01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 2: door for person A. So that if that's the thing 1268 01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,960 Speaker 2: that makes either one of them happy, correct, And that 1269 01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:44,600 Speaker 2: is that's to me what love looks like on the outside, 1270 01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:47,520 Speaker 2: but what it feels like on the inside. Do you 1271 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:48,840 Speaker 2: want me to open the door for you or not? 1272 01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:50,040 Speaker 2: That's between me and you. 1273 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1274 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:53,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, But if I make my life. 1275 01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:57,000 Speaker 3: About living my life for everybody outside of do you 1276 01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,880 Speaker 3: want the door open for you or not? I might 1277 01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:03,440 Speaker 3: look better to a bunch of motherfucking strangers, but I 1278 01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 3: might be letting you down and I only have to 1279 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:07,120 Speaker 3: care about you. 1280 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:11,400 Speaker 2: That's the idea. Isn't how do I make everyone around 1281 01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:11,920 Speaker 2: me happy? 1282 01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,439 Speaker 3: It's you know, so, I mean, we were talking about 1283 01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,400 Speaker 3: consenting adults and we're not talking about like abusive situations. 1284 01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:20,160 Speaker 2: Obviously, that's kind of the that's. 1285 01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,400 Speaker 3: Kind of the whole gag with love, that's the whole 1286 01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:26,680 Speaker 3: fucking Cash twenty two of it. So I think Beyonce 1287 01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:29,240 Speaker 3: and Jay kind of let people in and see that, 1288 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,680 Speaker 3: And for the most part, I don't know that we're 1289 01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 3: mature enough to see it, because you still got people 1290 01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,160 Speaker 3: being like, I don't want him on the album, I 1291 01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:38,600 Speaker 3: don't want him on the tour, Like what do you 1292 01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:41,920 Speaker 3: want to Like, it's too bad you didn't marry a nigga. 1293 01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:43,800 Speaker 3: You only get one choice by a ticket of a Don't. 1294 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:46,200 Speaker 3: But I listen to the album of Don't, you don't 1295 01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,280 Speaker 3: really get a lot of choice about her personal life. 1296 01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:52,439 Speaker 2: You know. It's but you know we've talked about before. 1297 01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 3: It's that selective kind of like you said, fuck Kim Kardashian, 1298 01:03:58,240 --> 01:03:58,840 Speaker 3: fucked that bitch. 1299 01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,320 Speaker 2: She gets no ready for getting that woman out of prison. 1300 01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:04,040 Speaker 3: Meanwhile on TV, the woman sitting next to her crying, 1301 01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 3: thanking her because I'm gonna finally go see my family again. Yeah, 1302 01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,400 Speaker 3: it's a little harder to remove Kim from the narrative 1303 01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 3: when that's the truth, right, Like, we can either be honest, 1304 01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:15,720 Speaker 3: or we can just live in these agendas, which I mean, 1305 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:17,560 Speaker 3: people are perfectly happy to live in the agendas. 1306 01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,600 Speaker 2: But you know, the truth of the matter is she's. 1307 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 3: The nigga that got corn rows in the in the 1308 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:28,200 Speaker 3: fucking video and it's disgusting and everybody hates that shit. 1309 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,480 Speaker 2: And she's also the woman that got that person that 1310 01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:34,720 Speaker 2: that get woman out of jail. I don't know. I'm sorry, 1311 01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:35,320 Speaker 2: it's not clean. 1312 01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 5: People are complex, and either you're complex in your own 1313 01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:41,400 Speaker 5: personal life when it comes to certain things. You know, 1314 01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 5: because like I said, when you're talking about open up 1315 01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 5: the doors, I know for me, I like you opening 1316 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 5: it up the doors for me. But that's just my 1317 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 5: personal preference. 1318 01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:48,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1319 01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to get necessarily into all that, but 1320 01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:54,320 Speaker 3: you know, I mean, my point is, the bigger point 1321 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,040 Speaker 3: is not about the door. It's about I can open 1322 01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:58,720 Speaker 3: that door for you because I love you and you 1323 01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:01,600 Speaker 3: like that, or I cannot open the door for you 1324 01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:05,240 Speaker 3: because people on Twitter say, uh, you shouldn't open the 1325 01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 3: door for your one wife because she's a woman, or 1326 01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,000 Speaker 3: blah da dah, you just open the door for everybody 1327 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:10,360 Speaker 3: or whatever. 1328 01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:10,560 Speaker 5: You know. 1329 01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:12,200 Speaker 2: It's like I hear you. 1330 01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:14,920 Speaker 3: But this my life, you know what I mean. I 1331 01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:16,840 Speaker 3: had to live my life in the way that that 1332 01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,000 Speaker 3: I've set my life up. I married a woman to say, 1333 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 3: open the door. The door getting open? Fuck you want 1334 01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:23,520 Speaker 3: me to do like to make the point for you. 1335 01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 3: I get some retweets over this, like I can't live 1336 01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 3: my life for that, you know, But I think that 1337 01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,480 Speaker 3: shit matters in that context, you know. 1338 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,640 Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean you don't do it for me 1339 01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 4: all the time. I know, I just walk up to 1340 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:36,080 Speaker 4: a door and just look at it like a door. 1341 01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:38,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, yeah, it's I mean, it's never been 1342 01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:41,000 Speaker 3: a thing, you know, you never like got mad at 1343 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:41,520 Speaker 3: me or something. 1344 01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:44,040 Speaker 2: But the but the point being, like, I. 1345 01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:45,880 Speaker 3: Know that's something you like, So I do it when 1346 01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 3: I can, as opposed to you know, I don't know 1347 01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,040 Speaker 3: how he got on this door. 1348 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:51,280 Speaker 5: Shit. 1349 01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:53,040 Speaker 2: I was trying to make it an Now it's an analogy. 1350 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:56,800 Speaker 3: It's not about the door, you know, to to Basically, 1351 01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:00,920 Speaker 3: it's like, if uh, I give you another If a 1352 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:03,360 Speaker 3: woman says I want a man that takes care of me, 1353 01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:04,760 Speaker 3: makes all the money, and I stay at home and 1354 01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:05,760 Speaker 3: I cook and clean and raise the. 1355 01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,200 Speaker 2: Kids, a lot of people will down her for that. 1356 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:12,880 Speaker 3: But if that's what the fuck she won't that's what 1357 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,760 Speaker 3: she wants, and she marries a man that's gonna do it. 1358 01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:18,680 Speaker 2: Then that's what the fuck's that's their marriage. 1359 01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:21,120 Speaker 3: And as long as they not going outside and telling 1360 01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:23,200 Speaker 3: everybody you better do this or you won't be happy, 1361 01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:24,360 Speaker 3: the fuck do I care? 1362 01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:27,800 Speaker 2: That's what make you happy? But we lost something. 1363 01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:30,720 Speaker 3: I think when you put people on a pedestal and 1364 01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:34,600 Speaker 3: you worship them, or you put their relationship up as 1365 01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,400 Speaker 3: something to achieve, as opposed to just this is how 1366 01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:39,880 Speaker 3: they decided to live their life, you end up any 1367 01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 3: situations where you like. 1368 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 2: But she didn't do it the way I would do it, 1369 01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:43,520 Speaker 2: so clearly it's fucked up. 1370 01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,600 Speaker 4: And also something I realized. 1371 01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:50,000 Speaker 5: Is that everybody wants to take the choice away from 1372 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 5: everybody but them. I want the right to choose, but 1373 01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,000 Speaker 5: I want you, but you better do what I want 1374 01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 5: you to do. 1375 01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:57,520 Speaker 4: That's not choice, you. 1376 01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:02,080 Speaker 5: Know the thing about That's why it comes to Beyonce 1377 01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,440 Speaker 5: and feminism and all that stuff. People want to heat 1378 01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:06,800 Speaker 5: that upon her and all that type of stuff. But 1379 01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:10,400 Speaker 5: how she lives her life is her choice. How you 1380 01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:11,800 Speaker 5: live your life is your choice. 1381 01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:15,960 Speaker 4: If you want to marry somebody and marry multiple people, 1382 01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,440 Speaker 4: have multiple relationships. 1383 01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:24,040 Speaker 5: That's your choice. Lgbt QI, that's your choice. And have children, 1384 01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:26,360 Speaker 5: not have children, that's your choice. 1385 01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:30,360 Speaker 4: Having abortion not having an abortion, that's and that's the right. 1386 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:34,160 Speaker 5: But it's amazing how people claim that they want everybody 1387 01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,000 Speaker 5: to be free, But do you really want everybody to 1388 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:38,720 Speaker 5: be free when you're constantly putting chains on other people 1389 01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:40,640 Speaker 5: because they don't do the things that you want them 1390 01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:43,880 Speaker 5: to do with the know, you really don't want everybody. 1391 01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:46,280 Speaker 4: To be free. You only want to control people. 1392 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:48,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you want them to make the choices you decide 1393 01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:50,960 Speaker 2: oka make right right, But you. 1394 01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:52,200 Speaker 4: Don't want that put on you. 1395 01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:54,600 Speaker 5: And that's the thing you huff and puff and you 1396 01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:57,240 Speaker 5: complain when these white folks come over here telling you 1397 01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,240 Speaker 5: what you can and cannot do. You want to hop 1398 01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,360 Speaker 5: and get an attitude when it don't turn around or 1399 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 5: press somebody else because they didn't do the way the 1400 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:05,120 Speaker 5: way you want it done. 1401 01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:08,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I said, man, So that's been interesting to 1402 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:10,959 Speaker 3: see that kind of analysis of the album and shit, 1403 01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,440 Speaker 3: and to see a lot of like people still mad 1404 01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:17,560 Speaker 3: at jay Z for cheating on Beyonce, which you know 1405 01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:21,479 Speaker 3: they singly have gotten over but you know, uh doesn't 1406 01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:22,840 Speaker 3: mean you as a fan have to get over it, 1407 01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:24,200 Speaker 3: you know, obviously. 1408 01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:24,080 Speaker 5: And. 1409 01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:28,519 Speaker 3: Uh and also people being you know, kind of fed 1410 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:33,879 Speaker 3: up and tired of men learning on the job, essentially 1411 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,719 Speaker 3: because women don't get to learn on the job. Women 1412 01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:39,080 Speaker 3: are prepared from day one to like, these are the 1413 01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:40,880 Speaker 3: duties you have to do to be a good mate, 1414 01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:43,280 Speaker 3: and men are pretty much told you can figure it 1415 01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:46,519 Speaker 3: out whenever the fuck you feel like it, get old 1416 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,080 Speaker 3: and and and do whatever the fuck you want to do, 1417 01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:51,320 Speaker 3: and then some woman will still be out there. 1418 01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:54,280 Speaker 2: So it's definitely an unfair system. I think a lot 1419 01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:55,320 Speaker 2: of people are reacting to that. 1420 01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and so that's how you end up with 1421 01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 3: the analysis of the album that's kind of like fuck 1422 01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:02,919 Speaker 3: him forever and it's fucking up my agenda. 1423 01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:08,960 Speaker 2: But I don't know, I mean, I'm I can't even say. 1424 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,560 Speaker 3: Sorry because as a dude, I'm still kind of impressed 1425 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:16,559 Speaker 3: that this nigga would put his ego to the side, 1426 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:18,560 Speaker 3: because I just don't I'm not used to men doing it. 1427 01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:22,240 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's kind of the that's the reality of 1428 01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:27,320 Speaker 2: it is. I've seen rap is getting old. It is 1429 01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:29,040 Speaker 2: what I love about rap. 1430 01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:32,240 Speaker 3: Is that it is getting older, it's growing up. We 1431 01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:34,720 Speaker 3: still have young people coming in, which is beautiful too. 1432 01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:38,160 Speaker 3: You know, these young niggas rapping and stuff. They're gonna 1433 01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,599 Speaker 3: make mistakes. They're gonna be wrong about things. They're gonna 1434 01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:42,400 Speaker 3: look up to the wrong people. They're gonna have the 1435 01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:45,719 Speaker 3: wrong We all did it, you know. I still remember 1436 01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:50,640 Speaker 3: see the Lords, Tucker, you know, like going in on 1437 01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:54,800 Speaker 3: cursing and and misogyny and hip hop and stuff. I've 1438 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,439 Speaker 3: been saying on the show for a minute that interview 1439 01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,080 Speaker 3: I heard. I think it was with Wynton marcell As 1440 01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,719 Speaker 3: or Winston marcell I can't remember his name, sorry, buddy. 1441 01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:05,200 Speaker 2: But I mean the nigga had a point. 1442 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,439 Speaker 3: I ain't gotta agree with the point, but I didn't 1443 01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:10,680 Speaker 3: find him to be some coon for being like, yo, 1444 01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:15,240 Speaker 3: this music might be as harmful as it is, more 1445 01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,840 Speaker 3: harmful than it has been good over the period of time. 1446 01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:20,400 Speaker 3: But I think part of that is that hip hop 1447 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:25,240 Speaker 3: didn't get to have elder statesmen until very recently. Yeah, 1448 01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,679 Speaker 3: all the old niggas had got fucked on their record deals, 1449 01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:29,040 Speaker 3: so they just disappeared. 1450 01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:33,240 Speaker 2: It wasn't like, you know, like we had eighties groups that. 1451 01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:37,760 Speaker 3: Had made music and should be looked at as like, oh, 1452 01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:40,599 Speaker 3: let's see what they're doing in thirty years, to see 1453 01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,599 Speaker 3: like what those dudes, you know now that they're sixty, 1454 01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:44,719 Speaker 3: Like what are they rapping about? 1455 01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 2: Where they're talking about? Yeah? 1456 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:49,960 Speaker 3: No, and they're just you know, they're not famous anymore. 1457 01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:53,080 Speaker 3: There's no record label there was. The Acts weren't seen 1458 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:56,920 Speaker 3: as having longevity. It took rappers being able to invest 1459 01:10:57,000 --> 01:11:03,000 Speaker 3: in themselves. Allata Nas Allata, jay Z, Doctor Dre, these people, 1460 01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:05,880 Speaker 3: you know, maybe not the best role models, but it 1461 01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:09,080 Speaker 3: took them being able to invest in their own music, 1462 01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,040 Speaker 3: to have control over their music so that in forty 1463 01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 3: years they could still be rapid. So you know, and 1464 01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,479 Speaker 3: maybe that's gonna be the always sold corny now da 1465 01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:22,520 Speaker 3: da da, But to me, that's actually been super refreshing. 1466 01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:25,560 Speaker 2: I didn't think this music would grow up with me, 1467 01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:28,719 Speaker 2: you know, because rap was new when we was kids. 1468 01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:30,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I had no reason to. 1469 01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:34,479 Speaker 3: Think that it was more than specific to our culture, 1470 01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,640 Speaker 3: and then it would eventually fade out when something. 1471 01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:38,080 Speaker 2: New came along. 1472 01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:40,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, compare to other genres for music, yes. 1473 01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:45,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so uh, it's kind of been interesting to see. 1474 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,240 Speaker 3: This music grow up. To see Fonte put out an 1475 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:55,400 Speaker 3: album like like no new news is good news, you know, 1476 01:11:56,040 --> 01:12:03,280 Speaker 3: to see people be able to say jay Z has 1477 01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:07,400 Speaker 3: grown into a nigga that went from essentially hating women 1478 01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:12,040 Speaker 3: overtly to a guy who's trying to undo his toxic 1479 01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,760 Speaker 3: masculinity in front of everybody at age fifty something or 1480 01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:18,360 Speaker 3: whatever the fuck, Like, yeah, didn't see that coming. I 1481 01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:22,479 Speaker 3: can still be surprised by this music, so I don't 1482 01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:28,040 Speaker 3: know that. It kind of gives me hope. So anyway, 1483 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:32,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I saw X ex Tentation died before we 1484 01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:33,559 Speaker 3: did the show. 1485 01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:38,160 Speaker 2: Start the show. He got shot. Well that's interesting because 1486 01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:39,679 Speaker 2: he talked about him several times on the show. 1487 01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:42,639 Speaker 4: Oh okay, I don't remember nobody's name. 1488 01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:43,720 Speaker 2: You don't even try. 1489 01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:50,240 Speaker 3: He's a rapper who he was also accused of raping 1490 01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 3: and sexually assaulted. 1491 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:53,400 Speaker 2: No girl that was like his girlfriend for like two weeks. 1492 01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,720 Speaker 3: Oh, the one that tried to like according to her, 1493 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:01,519 Speaker 3: forced some uh instruments it to her like a barbecue instrument. 1494 01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:05,919 Speaker 2: I know, we talked about it on the show. Anyway, 1495 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:06,559 Speaker 2: he died. 1496 01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:10,280 Speaker 3: He was shot and killed before the show, so I 1497 01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:16,679 Speaker 3: don't know if he did it himself or whatever. But Ren, 1498 01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:19,320 Speaker 3: when I said hip hop still got the young people 1499 01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 3: coming and making young people mistakes. They also got this 1500 01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:27,000 Speaker 3: rapper that's six ' nine dude that I'll team telling 1501 01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:27,720 Speaker 3: you about. 1502 01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:30,400 Speaker 2: With the rainbow hair. 1503 01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, he took Chief Keith's baby mom on like a 1504 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:38,680 Speaker 3: shopping trip and recorded it and like put it on 1505 01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:41,160 Speaker 3: like social media and stuff, because a lot of these 1506 01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:44,800 Speaker 3: dudes are really tuned into social media now. And you know, 1507 01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:50,080 Speaker 3: I remember, you know, thinking to myself like, okay, we've 1508 01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 3: been here before. You know, people laugh kind of at 1509 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:54,519 Speaker 3: the whole Drake J. 1510 01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:56,479 Speaker 2: Prince saying like it was no big deal when he 1511 01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 2: came and shut that shit down. 1512 01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 3: He said, look, this is when people started, you know, 1513 01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:03,920 Speaker 3: like threat it gets serious after this, the things he 1514 01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 3: said after this, it wasn't gonna be something you could 1515 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:06,960 Speaker 3: just take back. 1516 01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:11,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. I really do. 1517 01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:15,080 Speaker 4: Getting hurt, like really hurt. 1518 01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:18,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I really do think we might be due for 1519 01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,040 Speaker 3: more of that ship that we kind of came into 1520 01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:26,519 Speaker 3: with NAS and Big Era. When people start taking it 1521 01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:31,880 Speaker 3: so far for audience and you know, I forget the 1522 01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,320 Speaker 3: other It was another rapper who was like showing up 1523 01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:35,200 Speaker 3: in people's town. 1524 01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:36,320 Speaker 2: Oh maybe it's Chief Keith. 1525 01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:39,200 Speaker 3: THO was no, no, no, sorry, it's another dude shows 1526 01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:41,719 Speaker 3: up in people's towns and just like I'm in Chicago, 1527 01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,160 Speaker 3: y'all niggas ain't I'll hear y'all say, y'all kill me, 1528 01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:46,640 Speaker 3: fuck y'all nigga blah blah blah, and then like's back 1529 01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:49,479 Speaker 3: on the plane leaves. But it's that kind of shit 1530 01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,920 Speaker 3: where I'm like, okay, be careful, you know what I mean, 1531 01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:54,080 Speaker 3: Like shit is getting. 1532 01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:57,000 Speaker 2: And not everything is. 1533 01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:57,320 Speaker 5: You know. 1534 01:14:57,400 --> 01:15:00,920 Speaker 3: I think that dude got shot at six nine, got 1535 01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,040 Speaker 3: shot at and people laughed it off like all them 1536 01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:06,120 Speaker 3: shots wasn't close. Okay, So I guess we'll wait till 1537 01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:08,360 Speaker 3: he gets killed and then we'll go. Oh, I guess 1538 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:11,439 Speaker 3: people with guns don't really necessarily play like that, you know. 1539 01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:13,439 Speaker 2: I think it was. 1540 01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:17,120 Speaker 3: Was it a Lil Wayne who had his tour bus 1541 01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:19,160 Speaker 3: shot up? Or Rick Ross has to us shot up 1542 01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:20,040 Speaker 3: here and Charlotte like. 1543 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, yew years ago. 1544 01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,800 Speaker 3: Like I don't know, man, I just this is the 1545 01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,479 Speaker 3: ship is not a game for everybody, man, So motherfuckers 1546 01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:30,559 Speaker 3: need to be careful out here. 1547 01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:32,600 Speaker 5: And when you talk about people, you don't never know 1548 01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:34,280 Speaker 5: how they're gonna take it or perceive it. 1549 01:15:34,560 --> 01:15:37,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I don't know the dude that died today, 1550 01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 3: he off to himself or what the fuck happened. The 1551 01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,720 Speaker 3: details aren't out yet, but you know, obviously because he 1552 01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:46,519 Speaker 3: was an abusive dude, you're gonna have all the hot 1553 01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:48,320 Speaker 3: takes and all that stuff. So I just log out 1554 01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:51,400 Speaker 3: for social media because people are just gonna talk reckless 1555 01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:54,840 Speaker 3: right now, which happens, you know, just I'm staying out 1556 01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:55,040 Speaker 3: of it. 1557 01:15:57,920 --> 01:15:59,280 Speaker 2: Nicki Minaj is in the news. 1558 01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:06,720 Speaker 3: She says that she is staining from sex while she's 1559 01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:09,519 Speaker 3: single for the first time, and only a king can 1560 01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:15,800 Speaker 3: have my body. Spiritually, I've experienced more growth in the 1561 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:18,160 Speaker 3: last six months of my life, of my career than 1562 01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:20,600 Speaker 3: I have in the last eight years. She credits that 1563 01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:21,960 Speaker 3: change to the fact that is the first time her 1564 01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:24,160 Speaker 3: license she was fifteen years old, and she hasn't had 1565 01:16:24,160 --> 01:16:26,880 Speaker 3: a serious boyfriend. The time alone has given Nikki the 1566 01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:28,720 Speaker 3: power to realize that she can do just fine as 1567 01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:32,200 Speaker 3: an independent woman does not need a man. I remember 1568 01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,160 Speaker 3: feeling like I could do anything at one time in 1569 01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:36,479 Speaker 3: my life, and somewhere along line just start second guessing 1570 01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:37,719 Speaker 3: myself for whatever reason. 1571 01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:38,840 Speaker 2: As soon as I realized that. 1572 01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:40,679 Speaker 3: I could actually live and breathe and eat and sleep 1573 01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,160 Speaker 3: and walk and talk without having a boyfriend. Something clicked 1574 01:16:43,200 --> 01:16:45,320 Speaker 3: in me. Becoming single was one of the things that 1575 01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:47,720 Speaker 3: made me feel strong and powerful. The fact that I'm 1576 01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:50,920 Speaker 3: a young woman that doesn't need a man for money. 1577 01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:52,599 Speaker 3: I don't need a man for a job. I don't 1578 01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:55,760 Speaker 3: never have to fuck for beats. I never had to 1579 01:16:55,840 --> 01:17:00,000 Speaker 3: fuck for a record deal. I don't have those pressure. 1580 01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:05,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I really think that. Yes, she takes said CARDI, 1581 01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:08,320 Speaker 4: you can't tell me this is all this ship she 1582 01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 4: coming out. This is sound like personal beef. 1583 01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:12,759 Speaker 2: Ah, that was weird. 1584 01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 4: Maybe I might be wrong, but maybe she talking. Don't 1585 01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:19,600 Speaker 4: share it at somebody else. But I don't know. 1586 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:23,519 Speaker 3: Staining from sex had to zend my body. I ain't given, 1587 01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:26,120 Speaker 3: so don't ask. I don't lend my body. He gotta 1588 01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:28,559 Speaker 3: be king status to get in my body, she says 1589 01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:34,519 Speaker 3: on one song. She doesn't expand on who exactly fits 1590 01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:36,799 Speaker 3: to the bill of king status. 1591 01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:43,840 Speaker 2: So I don't know. Yeah, I guess. Uh. 1592 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,840 Speaker 4: She also did somebody asks for us. She's just offering 1593 01:17:46,920 --> 01:17:47,679 Speaker 4: this information. 1594 01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:50,439 Speaker 2: It was an interview. I don't know. You know, it's 1595 01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:51,160 Speaker 2: one of those things too. 1596 01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:52,680 Speaker 3: I wonder if we're gonna get our first picked me 1597 01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 3: out which is a whole untapped market of hotel Queen's 1598 01:17:57,000 --> 01:18:00,560 Speaker 3: out there, Like I don't know that, you know, like 1599 01:18:00,600 --> 01:18:02,560 Speaker 3: people knocking it, but like she might be able to 1600 01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:10,120 Speaker 3: make the switch from uh sex positive icon to a 1601 01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:14,720 Speaker 3: person that's able to be like the rest of y'all 1602 01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:18,639 Speaker 3: females ain't got a man because y'all don't appreciate your body. 1603 01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:23,360 Speaker 3: And maybe she'll be able to capitalize into the ash market, don't. 1604 01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:26,160 Speaker 4: We don't know, do you ash you spend money or 1605 01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:27,160 Speaker 4: the money ask you to. 1606 01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,720 Speaker 3: I mean, doctor Umar almost built, got enough money to 1607 01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:34,160 Speaker 3: build a school, just didn't build it. So maybe you know, 1608 01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:38,479 Speaker 3: maybe the money's out there. She also addressed criticism over 1609 01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:43,760 Speaker 3: her sex worker comments. She said the rapper came under 1610 01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:45,920 Speaker 3: fire course for that article we read last week that 1611 01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:49,360 Speaker 3: insinuated that women who are sex workers don't know their worth. 1612 01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:54,519 Speaker 3: She responded to a person on Twitter who took clips 1613 01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:57,640 Speaker 3: from the article and was like, what the fuck are 1614 01:18:57,640 --> 01:18:58,120 Speaker 3: you talking about? 1615 01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:01,000 Speaker 2: Nigga ded Nigga Minaj. The lyrics are hypocritical. 1616 01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:03,280 Speaker 3: You went over to l magazine to slutshake certain types 1617 01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:06,439 Speaker 3: of women because that wasn't your route. Allegedly, people need 1618 01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:09,000 Speaker 3: to stop trying to dictate and policewomen in their bodies. 1619 01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,800 Speaker 3: If you can't help, don't hurt at Nigma Minaj, So 1620 01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:17,479 Speaker 3: she responded, suck my dick, asshole. Had you read the article? 1621 01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:20,240 Speaker 3: I was critiquing myself more than anything I was said. 1622 01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:24,400 Speaker 3: What I said was I hope my overt lyrics and 1623 01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:28,479 Speaker 3: photos don't make my fans think I'm the type telling them, 1624 01:19:28,840 --> 01:19:33,200 Speaker 3: telling them to be promiscuous and to know their worth. Lyrics, photos, 1625 01:19:33,280 --> 01:19:42,519 Speaker 3: and fucking are all three different things. Uh, well, it 1626 01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:45,960 Speaker 3: gets worse. Oh, a woman can be a freak with 1627 01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:51,439 Speaker 3: her man, sexual sexual spit, explicit lyrics and exhibitionists, love, 1628 01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:54,519 Speaker 3: freaky girl talk with her girlfriends, require men to treat 1629 01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 3: her like a queen, et cetera. None of that equates 1630 01:19:56,960 --> 01:19:59,880 Speaker 3: to selling pussy. Now, pop my dick out your mouth, 1631 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:01,519 Speaker 3: and NICKI hate train has left. 1632 01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:02,240 Speaker 2: The building. 1633 01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:10,160 Speaker 3: That, uh you know, I find interested. I really do 1634 01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:12,200 Speaker 3: think she's trying to seniorate cardies out here fucking people 1635 01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:18,040 Speaker 3: for beats. But then the second part is you still 1636 01:20:18,280 --> 01:20:21,639 Speaker 3: kind of this the idea of sex work. 1637 01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:23,080 Speaker 5: Yes, you did. 1638 01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:26,240 Speaker 2: You did, like you said while saying you're not you, 1639 01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:28,559 Speaker 2: you just kind of doubled down on what the fuck, 1640 01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,200 Speaker 2: he said, you believe so. 1641 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:33,479 Speaker 4: Hmmm. 1642 01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 3: He said, they're MICKI Minaja's a response. I said what 1643 01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:41,280 Speaker 3: I said, I'll add it. I'll add to it before 1644 01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:43,200 Speaker 3: I change it. You did slut shame women in the 1645 01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:45,800 Speaker 3: L magazine article. Why call only me out? 1646 01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:46,040 Speaker 5: Oh? 1647 01:20:46,160 --> 01:20:47,080 Speaker 2: Because the truth stung. 1648 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:49,719 Speaker 3: Instead of worrying about my opinion, you should be getting 1649 01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,280 Speaker 3: that cement removed since oh, well you know better. 1650 01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:56,120 Speaker 2: Ah now, you just wout to shake her back and 1651 01:20:56,200 --> 01:20:56,760 Speaker 2: then I saw. 1652 01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:58,479 Speaker 3: I don't know if she took it down or not, 1653 01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:03,519 Speaker 3: but I know she also had told her barbs to 1654 01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:06,280 Speaker 3: beat up somebody if they saw him. I don't know 1655 01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:09,360 Speaker 3: if she took that ship down. Hopefully someone told her 1656 01:21:09,439 --> 01:21:14,559 Speaker 3: to to take that ship back down, because that's kind 1657 01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:15,600 Speaker 3: of dangerous. 1658 01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:18,320 Speaker 4: Public relationship people, public relations people. 1659 01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 2: He was like, no, ma'am, Yeah, that's that somebody get 1660 01:21:22,560 --> 01:21:25,880 Speaker 2: fucked up off of that. That's not gonna be good. 1661 01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:30,080 Speaker 2: So I'm looking at her thing. Maybe yeah, it like 1662 01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:32,000 Speaker 2: she must have took it down. I hope she did. 1663 01:21:34,120 --> 01:21:36,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, Dad, that's like that could be considered to 1664 01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,240 Speaker 3: be a threaten if something something happened to a person 1665 01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:40,880 Speaker 3: like that, Like. 1666 01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, mm hmm. So anyway, I really think she just 1667 01:21:50,479 --> 01:21:52,680 Speaker 2: need to come out and this card straight up and 1668 01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:53,439 Speaker 2: just leave it at that. 1669 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:57,599 Speaker 3: It's funny because it's the same thing Remy was saying. 1670 01:21:57,680 --> 01:22:00,920 Speaker 2: So maybe she's Remy said it about her, So maybe 1671 01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:03,120 Speaker 2: it could just be a reaction to that. I don't know. 1672 01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:11,800 Speaker 3: Supreme Court declines a curb electoral map manipulation. Yep, your 1673 01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:14,439 Speaker 3: Supreme Court on Monday delta step back to election reformers 1674 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:17,320 Speaker 3: by decline to use high profile cases for Wisconsin and 1675 01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:20,360 Speaker 3: Maryland the curved ability for state lawmakers to draw electoral 1676 01:22:20,479 --> 01:22:21,760 Speaker 3: districts purely. 1677 01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:24,519 Speaker 2: For partisan advantage side step in major rulings. 1678 01:22:24,560 --> 01:22:28,000 Speaker 3: The non justices decided both cases on narrow legal grounds 1679 01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:30,880 Speaker 3: and put off perhaps until their next turn, which begins 1680 01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:34,240 Speaker 3: in October, a more definitive ruling of the contentious practice 1681 01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:38,320 Speaker 3: known as partisan gerrymandering, and one decision the Core handed 1682 01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:41,760 Speaker 3: the victor the Wisconsin Republicans who drew state electoral electoral 1683 01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:45,759 Speaker 3: districts that helped entrench their party in power, by throwing 1684 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:48,519 Speaker 3: out a non to ozer vote, a lower court ruling 1685 01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:52,679 Speaker 3: that the districts on a nine oh vote. A lower 1686 01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:55,600 Speaker 3: court ruling that the districts deprived Democratic voters of the 1687 01:22:55,640 --> 01:23:01,439 Speaker 3: constitutional rights, including equal protection of the law. The Supreme 1688 01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:04,759 Speaker 3: who found that Democratic voters who sued to block Republican 1689 01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:08,759 Speaker 3: drawn electoral maps lack legal standing to bring the case 1690 01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:11,559 Speaker 3: because they challenged it on the state wide basis rather 1691 01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:14,960 Speaker 3: than focus on individual legislative districts. So basically, they kicked 1692 01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,000 Speaker 3: the ball down the road and they would have to 1693 01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:21,240 Speaker 3: bring the case back up based on individual districts or 1694 01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:21,679 Speaker 3: some shit. 1695 01:23:22,040 --> 01:23:24,919 Speaker 2: They did the same thing with the Baker vote. 1696 01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:30,040 Speaker 5: With that bullshit, Why that's pointless. Make us sweeping decision 1697 01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:30,880 Speaker 5: across the board. 1698 01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:36,960 Speaker 3: M All right, let's go to the next session before 1699 01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:39,960 Speaker 3: we get cut off. We'll be right back, guys, just 1700 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,559 Speaker 3: take a second. But yeah, these are all the things 1701 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:47,920 Speaker 3: people said well on the voting. You know, these are 1702 01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:51,040 Speaker 3: the kind of things where I wonder if some of 1703 01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:57,200 Speaker 3: the Democratic leaning justices are okay with kicking these decisions 1704 01:23:57,240 --> 01:23:59,160 Speaker 3: down the road to a certain extent. 1705 01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:05,840 Speaker 2: Partially because they're hoping, uh for some type of. 1706 01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:08,800 Speaker 3: Way to get aber another liberal justice in there, or 1707 01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:14,680 Speaker 3: a replacement for them things of this nature, because you know, 1708 01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:17,200 Speaker 3: they know if it comes to a ruling they they'll 1709 01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:23,200 Speaker 3: probably lose. And that was a very important ruling because 1710 01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:29,080 Speaker 3: more than anything, more than the candidates, more than anything, 1711 01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:34,280 Speaker 3: jerry mandering is fucking up our democracy. North Carolina's not 1712 01:24:34,320 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 3: even considered a democracy right now. Like, that's that's some 1713 01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:40,960 Speaker 3: scary ship to think about. We live in a state 1714 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:43,840 Speaker 3: that's not consider the fucking democracy because of all the 1715 01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:49,559 Speaker 3: way they've rigged the jerry mannering the voting to make 1716 01:24:49,600 --> 01:24:52,680 Speaker 3: sure our votes count the least in democratic situations, and 1717 01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:57,000 Speaker 3: especially black votes, which North Carolina got caught specifically saying 1718 01:24:57,040 --> 01:24:58,160 Speaker 3: the emails, we are. 1719 01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:05,200 Speaker 2: Trying to fuck up the black vote. Anyway, that's okay. 1720 01:25:05,280 --> 01:25:10,640 Speaker 2: I saw this on Facebook and I thought it was amazing. 1721 01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:13,599 Speaker 5: Uh. 1722 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:16,960 Speaker 2: It's called The Real Nigga Show is a video song 1723 01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:18,920 Speaker 2: on Facebook. 1724 01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:19,720 Speaker 6: Uh. 1725 01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:23,599 Speaker 2: Forget the woman's name who makes it, but she did 1726 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:24,679 Speaker 2: like all her. 1727 01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:28,160 Speaker 1: Own the realest show everybody, the physiest man in the day. 1728 01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,559 Speaker 2: Sorry, she did all her own voices, uh and all 1729 01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:34,559 Speaker 2: her the animation. 1730 01:25:35,400 --> 01:25:35,519 Speaker 5: Uh. 1731 01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:39,040 Speaker 2: It's called junk ju Ju Land is the name of 1732 01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:39,640 Speaker 2: the like. 1733 01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:44,240 Speaker 3: Uh well like the YouTube and uh and the Facebook 1734 01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:46,800 Speaker 3: j u n t Spaceland. 1735 01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:47,439 Speaker 7: Uh. 1736 01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:49,599 Speaker 2: Anyway, this can y'all see the chat. 1737 01:25:50,320 --> 01:25:55,240 Speaker 7: This is amazing game brought to you buy beard bomb 1738 01:25:55,840 --> 01:26:02,160 Speaker 7: for the man who isn't able. Good morning, everybody, Welcome 1739 01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:05,200 Speaker 7: to the show. I'm a real nigga. Thank you for 1740 01:26:05,400 --> 01:26:08,880 Speaker 7: joining me today. I want to talk about some things 1741 01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:12,320 Speaker 7: that I think is real beneficial for the world, but 1742 01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:18,680 Speaker 7: most specifically for females. So today's show is dedicated just 1743 01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:23,040 Speaker 7: to the females. I gotta do a disclaimer. If you 1744 01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:27,480 Speaker 7: want to do thinking, you strong and independent and the feminists, 1745 01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:30,200 Speaker 7: keep doing what you're doing, sweetheart. 1746 01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:34,360 Speaker 1: But if you want to get right and get a man, this. 1747 01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:35,400 Speaker 2: The show for you. 1748 01:26:36,080 --> 01:26:40,920 Speaker 1: We'll be right back right after this message. So I 1749 01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:44,120 Speaker 1: got a guess an even more real nigga. 1750 01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:47,600 Speaker 7: He can currently be seen in your DMS, thanking you 1751 01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:49,560 Speaker 7: for accepting his friend requests. 1752 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:52,840 Speaker 3: And to comment section, why does this dischedule say waiting 1753 01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:54,320 Speaker 3: to hear back from a temp service? 1754 01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:55,760 Speaker 2: Oh no. 1755 01:26:57,880 --> 01:27:01,160 Speaker 1: For the shade room and that's your gas station. 1756 01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:04,080 Speaker 7: Welcome to the show, man, blessed to be your man 1757 01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:06,040 Speaker 7: and your expert opinion. 1758 01:27:06,560 --> 01:27:09,640 Speaker 1: What do you think is the biggest problem with females. 1759 01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:15,880 Speaker 1: Let's play the blame game. Females love to play the 1760 01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:18,519 Speaker 1: blame game. Man. I'm gonna say this one time, for 1761 01:27:18,640 --> 01:27:21,640 Speaker 1: the one time, what kind of dude. Y'all, are your 1762 01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:24,760 Speaker 1: choosing the man you entertained is a reflection to you? 1763 01:27:25,040 --> 01:27:27,320 Speaker 1: So if he ain't shit, what that made you? 1764 01:27:28,280 --> 01:27:28,320 Speaker 5: Be? 1765 01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:30,000 Speaker 1: Most selective? 1766 01:27:30,720 --> 01:27:34,599 Speaker 6: Love yourself perfect, Get out there, hurried out your hearts. 1767 01:27:34,680 --> 01:27:36,479 Speaker 2: We are let a real nigga love you. 1768 01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:40,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I find a hypocrisy astound in this well. 1769 01:27:40,680 --> 01:27:43,120 Speaker 7: All right, were about to take some calls. First off, 1770 01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:45,519 Speaker 7: we got a female from Washington, d C. 1771 01:27:46,120 --> 01:27:46,240 Speaker 5: Hi. 1772 01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:49,600 Speaker 1: This question is for Amo. How do you feel about monogamy? 1773 01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:53,200 Speaker 1: Bela most not the thing in the world. We were 1774 01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:56,360 Speaker 1: kings of Queens of Africa, Kings they had tor one piece. 1775 01:27:56,640 --> 01:28:00,360 Speaker 1: Oh are you a king? Bless your heart, Mama King? 1776 01:28:00,880 --> 01:28:01,960 Speaker 1: And you a queen? 1777 01:28:02,280 --> 01:28:04,439 Speaker 2: Love wear your crown? 1778 01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:06,760 Speaker 1: So what about polyandry? 1779 01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:07,080 Speaker 5: Oh? 1780 01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:08,519 Speaker 7: I don't know. Huh. 1781 01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:12,000 Speaker 1: Let's call Why y'all take someone to text us back? 1782 01:28:12,280 --> 01:28:16,200 Speaker 1: Respect yourself? Next caller, why do you call us females? 1783 01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:18,920 Speaker 7: The hell are you talking back? I have to cut 1784 01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:22,120 Speaker 7: in right here. We're gonna keep it respectful. No attacking 1785 01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:24,599 Speaker 7: my guests. Oh, it was just a simple question. 1786 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:27,560 Speaker 1: What damn I'm supposed to call you? Are you not 1787 01:28:27,800 --> 01:28:30,840 Speaker 1: a female? You're supposed to call us women? Because that's 1788 01:28:30,920 --> 01:28:31,599 Speaker 1: what we are. 1789 01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:36,679 Speaker 2: Who you got calling in your male? 1790 01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:40,000 Speaker 6: Female could refer to literally any species. 1791 01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:42,960 Speaker 1: You could be talking about dogs. You don't hear women 1792 01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:47,360 Speaker 1: referring to men as males because it's stupid. I already 1793 01:28:47,479 --> 01:28:49,840 Speaker 1: warned you not to attack my guests. We're gonna have 1794 01:28:49,880 --> 01:28:52,160 Speaker 1: to let you go. No, no, no, let me respond. 1795 01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:54,320 Speaker 2: Every female got a diet. 1796 01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:57,240 Speaker 1: Or that, whether you a queen or you a thought, 1797 01:28:57,960 --> 01:29:00,120 Speaker 1: or you or you a male and. 1798 01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:04,479 Speaker 7: Hating feminists, no matter what y'all are, I always keep 1799 01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:05,280 Speaker 7: it respectful. 1800 01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:08,759 Speaker 1: But if you want me to call you a woman, okay, 1801 01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you a woman. You happy, stay, blessed. 1802 01:29:12,720 --> 01:29:13,840 Speaker 4: Love all right. 1803 01:29:13,960 --> 01:29:17,599 Speaker 1: I was gonna do a closing moneylog, but some things 1804 01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:19,040 Speaker 1: came up the end. 1805 01:29:28,360 --> 01:29:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what it was, Maneri Saiva Sophia Jones. I 1806 01:29:32,080 --> 01:29:34,559 Speaker 3: mean actually, let me make sure I can say that right. 1807 01:29:36,040 --> 01:29:39,519 Speaker 3: Uh yeah, Manera Sophia Jones. Oh my god, that ship 1808 01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:40,960 Speaker 3: cracked me up when I see that today. 1809 01:29:43,360 --> 01:29:45,320 Speaker 4: So that's what I've been going down. They got nothing 1810 01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:50,080 Speaker 4: where he going a date date? 1811 01:29:50,439 --> 01:29:53,160 Speaker 5: Yes, and they like talking about relationship and everybody on 1812 01:29:53,280 --> 01:29:55,120 Speaker 5: Facebook was talking about that when. 1813 01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:55,519 Speaker 2: I don't know what. 1814 01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:57,760 Speaker 3: All right, let me see if I can find this, 1815 01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:02,040 Speaker 3: it must be on a YouTube page. Oh my god, 1816 01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:03,680 Speaker 3: but this shit cracked me the fuck up because I 1817 01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:05,920 Speaker 3: was like, that is how niggas be talking for real? 1818 01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:10,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, respect yourself. 1819 01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:19,760 Speaker 4: Polly Enery was like, oh my, who is she? 1820 01:30:22,360 --> 01:30:24,759 Speaker 2: Oh man? Anyway? 1821 01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:27,760 Speaker 3: Man, John Land was where I saw that at. So 1822 01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:32,479 Speaker 3: you might be able to find it on Facebook, Twitter. 1823 01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:34,400 Speaker 3: I know I retweeted it. 1824 01:30:35,080 --> 01:30:40,479 Speaker 2: So oh. Dating in two twenty eighteen, How men communicate? Okay, 1825 01:30:40,640 --> 01:30:42,160 Speaker 2: thanks so much for a greet to meet me? 1826 01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:50,000 Speaker 6: Now, my schedule is so crazy morn and beautiful, good, 1827 01:30:50,200 --> 01:30:53,400 Speaker 6: good afternoon. I was just saying, I've never been to 1828 01:30:53,479 --> 01:31:00,519 Speaker 6: this restaurant and it seems really nice. What I am 1829 01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:05,360 Speaker 6: actually talking right now as a matter of a fact 1830 01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:07,240 Speaker 6: to you, that's cool? 1831 01:31:10,320 --> 01:31:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, that that is cool? 1832 01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:12,200 Speaker 5: So? 1833 01:31:12,960 --> 01:31:15,400 Speaker 1: Uh, what do you like to do? Mine? 1834 01:31:16,120 --> 01:31:16,639 Speaker 7: So much? 1835 01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:20,000 Speaker 1: You know too much to name? Could do you try 1836 01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:21,519 Speaker 1: to name them? 1837 01:31:28,120 --> 01:31:31,280 Speaker 2: These quick cuts to each other's faces? It's killery. 1838 01:31:33,280 --> 01:31:35,120 Speaker 1: You find all that out is we get to know 1839 01:31:35,320 --> 01:31:38,559 Speaker 1: each other, you know. You know what I'm saying? Oh okay, 1840 01:31:39,400 --> 01:31:43,080 Speaker 1: well what are you looking for out of dating? Are 1841 01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:46,400 Speaker 1: you wanting to be married with children? What do you want? 1842 01:31:48,200 --> 01:31:49,120 Speaker 2: He disappeared. 1843 01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:54,960 Speaker 4: I don't know he vanished, y'all. 1844 01:31:55,439 --> 01:32:04,320 Speaker 2: Heart of a question. Ah, that was good. She's really 1845 01:32:04,360 --> 01:32:06,400 Speaker 2: sitting at the table by herself drinking walk. 1846 01:32:06,520 --> 01:32:11,120 Speaker 1: Well, I guess that it's the end of that. Yeah, 1847 01:32:11,280 --> 01:32:14,880 Speaker 1: my bad. Wow, I had some things come up. So, uh, 1848 01:32:15,360 --> 01:32:17,919 Speaker 1: what you're doing? Are you serious? 1849 01:32:18,680 --> 01:32:19,200 Speaker 5: What you mean? 1850 01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:20,759 Speaker 1: You're serious? 1851 01:32:21,200 --> 01:32:22,000 Speaker 2: What's the problem. 1852 01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:25,040 Speaker 1: The problem is you disappeared, and I'm sorry. That's not 1853 01:32:25,160 --> 01:32:26,240 Speaker 1: the way I communicate. 1854 01:32:26,600 --> 01:32:29,120 Speaker 7: Look, I don't know what type of dudes you used to, 1855 01:32:29,320 --> 01:32:31,840 Speaker 7: but I got a lot going on. I'm a photographer, 1856 01:32:32,040 --> 01:32:35,760 Speaker 7: I promote parties. I'm running for city council. I got 1857 01:32:35,840 --> 01:32:39,960 Speaker 7: a plumbing business. I foot boxes at FedEx. I sell 1858 01:32:40,120 --> 01:32:43,040 Speaker 7: a little bit of dick on the side. I got ambition. 1859 01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:46,599 Speaker 1: And if you can't handle that, you know what I'm saying, 1860 01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:47,439 Speaker 1: let me know. 1861 01:32:47,760 --> 01:32:48,080 Speaker 2: You know why. 1862 01:32:48,080 --> 01:32:50,320 Speaker 6: I appreciate a man with ghosts, don't get me wrong. 1863 01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:52,600 Speaker 1: But I also appreciate a man who puts in the 1864 01:32:52,680 --> 01:32:55,519 Speaker 1: effort to get to know me. Also, this ain't effort, 1865 01:32:56,040 --> 01:32:58,519 Speaker 1: that's what you're saying. I ain't putting in the work. 1866 01:32:58,920 --> 01:33:01,479 Speaker 7: I don't mean no harm. Don't even think you the 1867 01:33:01,520 --> 01:33:05,880 Speaker 7: female for me. Man, you wear suits to dates. Man, 1868 01:33:06,000 --> 01:33:08,599 Speaker 7: I already knew you was one of them females, one 1869 01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:12,640 Speaker 7: of a nigga to bend over backwards. I'm only one man, sweetheart. 1870 01:33:13,400 --> 01:33:16,479 Speaker 7: I can't do it all. I ain't even worry about nothing. 1871 01:33:16,960 --> 01:33:19,800 Speaker 1: I got a beard. It just grew stronger fooling with you, 1872 01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:21,599 Speaker 1: and I know you see these eyes. 1873 01:33:21,720 --> 01:33:23,720 Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. I think we just need 1874 01:33:23,800 --> 01:33:26,400 Speaker 7: to go our own separate ways. You know what I'm saying, 1875 01:33:26,960 --> 01:33:31,040 Speaker 7: Go be perfect and not need a man for nothing? 1876 01:33:31,520 --> 01:33:35,240 Speaker 2: By why he disappeared? 1877 01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:38,120 Speaker 1: Hey, what you're doing? I missed you? 1878 01:33:41,720 --> 01:33:50,880 Speaker 2: Oh no, oh no, oh man, those are really good. 1879 01:33:51,160 --> 01:33:53,400 Speaker 4: Oh no, I hope y'all ain't out there having days 1880 01:33:53,520 --> 01:33:55,000 Speaker 4: like that ship. I don't want to date this. 1881 01:33:58,000 --> 01:34:02,960 Speaker 3: Oh man, this show's going off the rails. I don't 1882 01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:03,920 Speaker 3: know what we're doing anymore. 1883 01:34:07,080 --> 01:34:13,639 Speaker 2: Let me see silius so little dick. 1884 01:34:15,200 --> 01:34:15,360 Speaker 5: Throw. 1885 01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:19,360 Speaker 2: Oh man, all right, we've been going an hour and 1886 01:34:19,400 --> 01:34:21,800 Speaker 2: a half. Let's do uh fucking with black people and 1887 01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:29,479 Speaker 2: uh let's start, you know, wrap everything up? Where is 1888 01:34:29,479 --> 01:34:40,920 Speaker 2: it that? There you go. We're just fucking with those 1889 01:34:40,960 --> 01:34:43,920 Speaker 2: black people. We're just fucking with those blacks. We're just 1890 01:34:44,160 --> 01:34:48,439 Speaker 2: fucking with fucking with black people. That's right, guys, it's 1891 01:34:48,439 --> 01:34:50,320 Speaker 2: time to play the game, and we all hate to play. 1892 01:34:50,360 --> 01:34:52,160 Speaker 2: It's fucking with black people the game. 1893 01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:53,800 Speaker 3: We go all around the globe, we find different articles 1894 01:34:53,840 --> 01:34:55,640 Speaker 3: make us so fuck with the willside points scorse from 1895 01:34:55,680 --> 01:35:00,080 Speaker 3: zial T one hundred intervals of twenty five Today's contestants. Everybody, Hey, 1896 01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:03,599 Speaker 3: all right, let's who's fucking with his guys. 1897 01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:05,560 Speaker 2: Lorel. 1898 01:35:05,880 --> 01:35:09,439 Speaker 3: You know, the comedian Lirel Howardy stands up for the 1899 01:35:09,520 --> 01:35:15,840 Speaker 3: black press at the MTV Movies and TV Awards. There's 1900 01:35:15,840 --> 01:35:17,960 Speaker 3: been a series rip between black Hollywood and the black 1901 01:35:18,000 --> 01:35:21,519 Speaker 3: press lately, but get out. Lirel is putting his foot down. 1902 01:35:21,600 --> 01:35:24,000 Speaker 3: Make sure the journalists of color will get his attention first. 1903 01:35:24,880 --> 01:35:26,960 Speaker 3: The Los Angeles Times reported that the actor and comedian 1904 01:35:27,000 --> 01:35:30,400 Speaker 3: gave black journalists and press preferential treatment on Saturday Night 1905 01:35:30,800 --> 01:35:33,920 Speaker 3: Saturday Night's Red Carpet. I want to start with the 1906 01:35:33,960 --> 01:35:36,640 Speaker 3: people who are actually supporting me, have supported me, and 1907 01:35:36,680 --> 01:35:38,640 Speaker 3: will actually put the content out there, he said in 1908 01:35:38,720 --> 01:35:41,560 Speaker 3: an interview with The Times on Friday, talking about his 1909 01:35:41,720 --> 01:35:45,360 Speaker 3: upcoming movie Uncle Ted. Then I'll talk to everyone else, 1910 01:35:45,439 --> 01:35:48,639 Speaker 3: but that's who I'm going to start with first. Horry 1911 01:35:48,720 --> 01:35:52,000 Speaker 3: also told the Times that this topic came up at 1912 01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:56,639 Speaker 3: a recent National Association of Black Journalists panel in Los Angeles, 1913 01:35:56,720 --> 01:35:59,840 Speaker 3: and it really stuck with him. Some of us blacks 1914 01:36:00,720 --> 01:36:04,640 Speaker 3: forget what was sitting on that little table when we 1915 01:36:04,800 --> 01:36:07,280 Speaker 3: was growing up, he told the tard, speaking of the 1916 01:36:07,479 --> 01:36:11,240 Speaker 3: iconic publications Ebony, Essence and Jet, that was how we 1917 01:36:11,360 --> 01:36:14,320 Speaker 3: knew who was who. But we seem to have forgotten that. 1918 01:36:14,560 --> 01:36:16,560 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going to happen, but I just 1919 01:36:16,680 --> 01:36:22,360 Speaker 3: want fairness. His stance comes at the time where black 1920 01:36:22,400 --> 01:36:24,320 Speaker 3: journalist and film critics of color I have been extremely 1921 01:36:24,400 --> 01:36:26,719 Speaker 3: vocal about not having the same access to black celebrities 1922 01:36:26,720 --> 01:36:31,160 Speaker 3: compared to mainstream outlets with mostly writers in staff. This 1923 01:36:31,360 --> 01:36:34,639 Speaker 3: conversation also exacerbated last week when USC released a study 1924 01:36:34,680 --> 01:36:36,679 Speaker 3: that found that movie critics in the US are white 1925 01:36:36,720 --> 01:36:40,400 Speaker 3: and male, with white critics writing about eighty two percent 1926 01:36:40,439 --> 01:36:43,360 Speaker 3: of all film reviews found on Rotten Tomatoes in twenty seventeen. 1927 01:36:43,600 --> 01:36:47,800 Speaker 3: Come on, yes, one of the reasons, like, I think 1928 01:36:47,840 --> 01:36:49,600 Speaker 3: about this often, but I don't think I don't know 1929 01:36:49,680 --> 01:36:51,720 Speaker 3: a way to do it, But I wish we could 1930 01:36:51,720 --> 01:36:54,559 Speaker 3: take sport reviews from behind the paywall and like put 1931 01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:57,719 Speaker 3: it out cause I know, we're black people, black critic. 1932 01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:02,559 Speaker 2: We're officially we're official movie critic. But I wish there 1933 01:37:02,640 --> 01:37:03,800 Speaker 2: was a way to really do that. 1934 01:37:04,320 --> 01:37:04,479 Speaker 5: You know. 1935 01:37:04,520 --> 01:37:06,320 Speaker 2: I don't want to hurt our bottom line. Obviously we 1936 01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:07,160 Speaker 2: have to make a living. 1937 01:37:07,240 --> 01:37:12,960 Speaker 3: But but yeah, because I'm like, I want black people 1938 01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:16,360 Speaker 3: to hear movie critics that are black that aren't just 1939 01:37:16,439 --> 01:37:20,519 Speaker 3: giving them the typical recycled bullshit or you know, I 1940 01:37:20,600 --> 01:37:23,240 Speaker 3: didn't go to film critic school. You know, We're just 1941 01:37:23,720 --> 01:37:25,600 Speaker 3: people that happen to be good at what we do. 1942 01:37:25,760 --> 01:37:28,120 Speaker 3: We like a lot of stuff. Yeah, we might do 1943 01:37:28,439 --> 01:37:32,360 Speaker 3: something so separate, Yeah, something to think about, you know. 1944 01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:36,000 Speaker 3: But the point being, like the idea of what we 1945 01:37:36,200 --> 01:37:39,920 Speaker 3: do is kind of a big deal because we we 1946 01:37:40,280 --> 01:37:43,760 Speaker 3: aren't representative of a lot of people, and the people 1947 01:37:43,760 --> 01:37:46,719 Speaker 3: who shape opinions when it comes to movies are mostly 1948 01:37:47,120 --> 01:37:47,920 Speaker 3: white and male. 1949 01:37:48,400 --> 01:37:50,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's why anything that starts a female get 1950 01:37:50,760 --> 01:37:54,519 Speaker 5: shitted on, Anything that starts anybody brown either does not 1951 01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:56,160 Speaker 5: get covered or get shitted on. 1952 01:37:58,200 --> 01:38:01,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not even it's not even just that though, 1953 01:38:01,160 --> 01:38:02,080 Speaker 2: care it's something. 1954 01:38:01,920 --> 01:38:06,320 Speaker 3: Else, because it's not just this shitting on women's shows 1955 01:38:06,479 --> 01:38:09,719 Speaker 3: or whatever, cause they it's like when they like something 1956 01:38:09,760 --> 01:38:10,240 Speaker 3: with a woman. 1957 01:38:10,320 --> 01:38:12,640 Speaker 2: It's the type of woman they fuck with, you know 1958 01:38:12,680 --> 01:38:15,759 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So like Lady Bird can get critical 1959 01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:22,639 Speaker 2: acclaim in a way that in a way that say, 1960 01:38:24,880 --> 01:38:27,160 Speaker 2: I don't know you pick you pick up movie starring 1961 01:38:27,200 --> 01:38:27,880 Speaker 2: a black woman. 1962 01:38:28,280 --> 01:38:28,439 Speaker 5: You know. 1963 01:38:29,120 --> 01:38:31,320 Speaker 2: Uh, I'll tell you what. Lady Bird can get critical 1964 01:38:31,360 --> 01:38:32,599 Speaker 2: acclaim in a way that the Best. 1965 01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:35,840 Speaker 3: Man Holiday can't. Now I saw Best Man Holiday. It 1966 01:38:36,000 --> 01:38:38,759 Speaker 3: was a great movie, not just as in a black movie. 1967 01:38:39,080 --> 01:38:40,200 Speaker 2: It made a lot of money. 1968 01:38:41,120 --> 01:38:43,080 Speaker 3: Were reviewing with like this is fucking great, go out 1969 01:38:43,080 --> 01:38:46,960 Speaker 3: and seeing you'll have a great time. White critics a 1970 01:38:47,040 --> 01:38:49,559 Speaker 3: lot of times don't even see those movies. When they 1971 01:38:49,600 --> 01:38:51,960 Speaker 3: do see the movies, they just completely like and the 1972 01:38:52,120 --> 01:38:55,000 Speaker 3: checkout you know where, but they'll go see Meet the 1973 01:38:55,040 --> 01:38:55,799 Speaker 3: Foxers twelve. 1974 01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:58,519 Speaker 2: Like it's that kind of thing, that kind of energy. 1975 01:38:59,439 --> 01:39:03,400 Speaker 3: And so black press covering black media is super important, 1976 01:39:04,560 --> 01:39:08,200 Speaker 3: or just covering media with a black perspective, not that 1977 01:39:08,280 --> 01:39:10,400 Speaker 3: you walk into it going I'm gonna be so black, 1978 01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:13,120 Speaker 3: but just this idea of like I have lived experiences 1979 01:39:13,120 --> 01:39:16,080 Speaker 3: as a black person, and I might it might Taylor, 1980 01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:19,360 Speaker 3: how I receive things in a way that we never 1981 01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:20,840 Speaker 3: question when it's white. 1982 01:39:20,920 --> 01:39:24,080 Speaker 2: When it's white media people. It's just their opinion. White 1983 01:39:24,120 --> 01:39:28,160 Speaker 2: media people love Detroit. They just love Detroit. White people love. 1984 01:39:30,760 --> 01:39:31,240 Speaker 3: This is Us. 1985 01:39:31,320 --> 01:39:32,280 Speaker 2: They just love this is Us. 1986 01:39:32,840 --> 01:39:33,000 Speaker 4: You know. 1987 01:39:33,120 --> 01:39:35,120 Speaker 3: But if I'm black and I love it, and I 1988 01:39:35,280 --> 01:39:38,760 Speaker 3: go and well, you know, Detroit has some issues with 1989 01:39:38,920 --> 01:39:41,519 Speaker 3: it and I don't love it, it's you know, that's 1990 01:39:41,560 --> 01:39:43,640 Speaker 3: a issue. If I go, I like this is Us, 1991 01:39:43,680 --> 01:39:45,400 Speaker 3: but I like it because it's such a black show, 1992 01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:47,080 Speaker 3: it's like that's an issue. 1993 01:39:47,280 --> 01:39:49,040 Speaker 2: You know. Meanwhile, mad Max. 1994 01:39:48,920 --> 01:39:50,280 Speaker 3: Can put out they can put out a movie with 1995 01:39:50,640 --> 01:39:52,719 Speaker 3: like the only black people in there are wet nurses, 1996 01:39:53,479 --> 01:39:55,519 Speaker 3: and that's not a problem anymore. 1997 01:39:55,680 --> 01:39:57,760 Speaker 2: So yeah, I like that. 1998 01:39:57,880 --> 01:40:01,560 Speaker 3: He also singled out the black press because let me 1999 01:40:01,640 --> 01:40:05,360 Speaker 3: tell you something, these ratings on these shows, while they 2000 01:40:05,439 --> 01:40:09,400 Speaker 3: may get the critical acclaim from white spaces, we're watching them. 2001 01:40:11,600 --> 01:40:13,479 Speaker 3: You look at the numbers for Insecure, you look at 2002 01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:20,320 Speaker 3: the numbers for Atlanta. These are not ratings, commercials, smashes not. 2003 01:40:20,680 --> 01:40:22,400 Speaker 2: This is not a knock on them. I feel like 2004 01:40:22,479 --> 01:40:24,640 Speaker 2: they should be me too, but they're not. 2005 01:40:25,320 --> 01:40:27,479 Speaker 3: Because white people see a black face and check out 2006 01:40:27,479 --> 01:40:30,000 Speaker 3: a lot of times right away like, oh. 2007 01:40:29,920 --> 01:40:30,920 Speaker 2: That looks for the black shit. 2008 01:40:31,000 --> 01:40:34,519 Speaker 3: I'll just watch I'll wait till some more white people 2009 01:40:34,560 --> 01:40:36,360 Speaker 3: are on in the hour and I watch them. 2010 01:40:36,760 --> 01:40:39,120 Speaker 2: You know, it's that thing. It's how Black Lightning has 2011 01:40:39,200 --> 01:40:42,080 Speaker 2: worse ratings than some of the other CW shows. But 2012 01:40:42,160 --> 01:40:43,920 Speaker 2: it was clearly the best c W show this year. 2013 01:40:44,040 --> 01:40:46,760 Speaker 2: Yes it was, but it had worse ratings because a 2014 01:40:46,800 --> 01:40:48,360 Speaker 2: lot of times white people just go, I'm not even 2015 01:40:48,439 --> 01:40:52,680 Speaker 2: looking at this, right, So, who's carrying the show then? 2016 01:40:54,120 --> 01:40:56,080 Speaker 2: Who cares about the nuance of the show. Who's doing 2017 01:40:56,120 --> 01:40:59,599 Speaker 2: these podcasts about the show, who's recapping the show, who's 2018 01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:02,320 Speaker 2: doing you two videos of the show, who's taking the 2019 01:41:02,360 --> 01:41:04,320 Speaker 2: show and put it into that lexicon and saying the 2020 01:41:04,400 --> 01:41:06,800 Speaker 2: slang from the show? It's us. 2021 01:41:08,280 --> 01:41:11,320 Speaker 3: So when the root is there, when when Baller alerts there, 2022 01:41:11,439 --> 01:41:15,080 Speaker 3: when Boss Up's there, I don't even fuck eb any essence, 2023 01:41:15,160 --> 01:41:18,240 Speaker 3: When any of these black people show up, it does 2024 01:41:18,280 --> 01:41:21,000 Speaker 3: a disservice where white people put them in a corner 2025 01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:22,400 Speaker 3: to the back. 2026 01:41:23,080 --> 01:41:23,200 Speaker 5: Right. 2027 01:41:23,520 --> 01:41:26,240 Speaker 3: They the stars by that time have exhausted all their 2028 01:41:26,320 --> 01:41:27,479 Speaker 3: time on the red carpet. 2029 01:41:27,840 --> 01:41:30,599 Speaker 2: They don't have the time to normally talk at that point. 2030 01:41:30,680 --> 01:41:34,840 Speaker 3: Anyway, some person that's gonna escort them away, like hey man, 2031 01:41:35,200 --> 01:41:36,160 Speaker 3: Donald Glove is time to go. 2032 01:41:36,280 --> 01:41:38,439 Speaker 2: Man, you've wasted your fifteen minutes time to go. You 2033 01:41:38,479 --> 01:41:40,680 Speaker 2: know you already talked to Rolling Stone and so and 2034 01:41:40,720 --> 01:41:41,320 Speaker 2: so on and so on and so. 2035 01:41:41,560 --> 01:41:43,680 Speaker 3: And it's not like those white publications are gonna be 2036 01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:46,320 Speaker 3: courteous and think, well, hey, let's leave some time at 2037 01:41:46,320 --> 01:41:48,360 Speaker 3: the end so the black people can get some questions 2038 01:41:48,400 --> 01:41:48,680 Speaker 3: in too. 2039 01:41:49,160 --> 01:41:51,800 Speaker 2: No, they take over the best space. They push you 2040 01:41:51,880 --> 01:41:52,400 Speaker 2: to the corner. 2041 01:41:52,720 --> 01:41:55,640 Speaker 3: And then when your article doesn't have that personal anecdote, 2042 01:41:55,760 --> 01:42:00,240 Speaker 3: that quote, that exclusive, you don't get that access because 2043 01:42:00,280 --> 01:42:02,920 Speaker 3: no one's thinking about you. It's a big ass machine 2044 01:42:02,960 --> 01:42:05,240 Speaker 3: around these niggas. They still work at a white place, 2045 01:42:05,760 --> 01:42:08,760 Speaker 3: no matter how black and powerful or black and significant 2046 01:42:08,800 --> 01:42:11,040 Speaker 3: that art is, they still are working at some white 2047 01:42:11,120 --> 01:42:15,679 Speaker 3: person's behest as far as like some white dude could 2048 01:42:15,680 --> 01:42:17,599 Speaker 3: wake up the next day and be like, no more insecure. 2049 01:42:18,280 --> 01:42:20,120 Speaker 3: So you're still doing in that. You're still in this 2050 01:42:20,280 --> 01:42:23,799 Speaker 3: machine that mostly promotes whiteness. So they want white interviewers, 2051 01:42:23,840 --> 01:42:26,280 Speaker 3: white publications, they want white readership, they. 2052 01:42:26,240 --> 01:42:28,960 Speaker 2: Want white everything, white ratings. 2053 01:42:28,960 --> 01:42:32,360 Speaker 3: They still send everything around us the demographic of white men. 2054 01:42:33,120 --> 01:42:35,639 Speaker 3: Like when it comes to what's the ratings that matter? Well, 2055 01:42:35,680 --> 01:42:39,080 Speaker 3: in the men from fifteen to thirty five white men. 2056 01:42:39,240 --> 01:42:42,680 Speaker 3: We're doing this, so of course when it comes to 2057 01:42:42,880 --> 01:42:45,160 Speaker 3: who has me the access it carries over. 2058 01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:50,960 Speaker 2: So thank you, Littlerell. I hope other actors take c 2059 01:42:51,479 --> 01:42:53,720 Speaker 2: I've covered on here before, Starla K. Brown's done this. 2060 01:42:54,880 --> 01:42:56,639 Speaker 2: You know, you got asked a question from the black 2061 01:42:56,680 --> 01:42:59,400 Speaker 2: press and was like, yeah, this is fucked up. 2062 01:42:59,400 --> 01:43:01,920 Speaker 3: I've never even out about it before, because to him 2063 01:43:02,040 --> 01:43:05,360 Speaker 3: is just part of that machine. Yeah, you know, Sterling, 2064 01:43:05,439 --> 01:43:07,439 Speaker 3: go here, go here, do this, do that, smile here, 2065 01:43:07,520 --> 01:43:09,479 Speaker 3: take a picture. Hey, you just did the press run. 2066 01:43:09,640 --> 01:43:09,880 Speaker 4: Thanks. 2067 01:43:10,640 --> 01:43:13,720 Speaker 3: You don't even think to yourself like who made the 2068 01:43:13,760 --> 01:43:16,280 Speaker 3: decision on which press where I go for my press run? 2069 01:43:16,880 --> 01:43:17,920 Speaker 2: What station do I talk to? 2070 01:43:18,200 --> 01:43:21,080 Speaker 5: And press runs on more than just interviews, press runs 2071 01:43:21,200 --> 01:43:25,439 Speaker 5: is also photography too, because you know Brandon Brandon from 2072 01:43:25,439 --> 01:43:27,200 Speaker 5: WESB for because it's a lot of photographer he said, 2073 01:43:27,200 --> 01:43:30,080 Speaker 5: it's rare that you see brown people even out there 2074 01:43:30,680 --> 01:43:32,840 Speaker 5: doing that, and there are a lot of black people 2075 01:43:32,920 --> 01:43:36,639 Speaker 5: that actually in photography that are professional photographers and you're 2076 01:43:36,680 --> 01:43:37,400 Speaker 5: bypass too. 2077 01:43:38,280 --> 01:43:40,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's just an interesting thing to think about 2078 01:43:41,560 --> 01:43:42,040 Speaker 2: for people. 2079 01:43:43,120 --> 01:43:45,840 Speaker 3: And I'm glad Little Real has because that's because it's 2080 01:43:45,840 --> 01:43:49,759 Speaker 3: obnoestly gonna take the stars doing it up for themselves 2081 01:43:49,800 --> 01:43:53,160 Speaker 3: on the inside. The machine is never gonna break down 2082 01:43:53,200 --> 01:43:55,080 Speaker 3: and go oh wait, we've been treating these black people 2083 01:43:55,120 --> 01:43:57,479 Speaker 3: fucked up all this time. It's really gonna take people 2084 01:43:57,920 --> 01:44:01,680 Speaker 3: like Sterling K. Brown, Little real Uh and others who 2085 01:44:01,960 --> 01:44:03,640 Speaker 3: who he just get the bug in their ear to 2086 01:44:03,720 --> 01:44:04,000 Speaker 3: be like. 2087 01:44:04,479 --> 01:44:08,960 Speaker 4: Nah, this ain't right, like like who's on my interview list? 2088 01:44:09,080 --> 01:44:11,479 Speaker 5: You know? You know what, why don't we pick this 2089 01:44:11,680 --> 01:44:14,160 Speaker 5: independent media site? Well, I don't care, we don't know 2090 01:44:14,200 --> 01:44:16,600 Speaker 5: who they are. Let's pick this independent media site and 2091 01:44:16,720 --> 01:44:17,760 Speaker 5: have them inter be me first. 2092 01:44:17,800 --> 01:44:20,719 Speaker 3: Well, it's also sad we're not even talking independent media sites. 2093 01:44:20,840 --> 01:44:24,799 Speaker 3: I'm talking like big name black shit like you won't even. 2094 01:44:24,680 --> 01:44:29,360 Speaker 2: Give any essence Jack, you know the rude You won't 2095 01:44:29,439 --> 01:44:30,639 Speaker 2: give them a fucking interview. 2096 01:44:31,840 --> 01:44:32,519 Speaker 4: Like that's a lot. 2097 01:44:33,080 --> 01:44:35,640 Speaker 3: You're asking a lot of, especially when black people are 2098 01:44:35,640 --> 01:44:36,800 Speaker 3: the ones who watch it. You can get all the 2099 01:44:36,840 --> 01:44:39,519 Speaker 3: New York Times right up you want. Those white people 2100 01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:42,760 Speaker 3: are not coming there for that shit. It's gonna come 2101 01:44:42,840 --> 01:44:45,120 Speaker 3: down to us watching you or not watching you again. 2102 01:44:46,400 --> 01:44:48,960 Speaker 3: You know, you're talking about a million people or less 2103 01:44:49,040 --> 01:44:50,720 Speaker 3: watching Atlanta every week. 2104 01:44:51,920 --> 01:44:55,240 Speaker 2: You most of them gotta be niggas. It can't be. 2105 01:44:55,640 --> 01:44:58,080 Speaker 3: It can't be a lot of white people watching that shit. 2106 01:44:58,200 --> 01:45:00,600 Speaker 3: Not that there's none or anything, but a lot of 2107 01:45:00,720 --> 01:45:03,960 Speaker 3: your base. If you lost all your black watchers of 2108 01:45:04,080 --> 01:45:06,320 Speaker 3: your show, that ship would take immediately. 2109 01:45:07,040 --> 01:45:08,479 Speaker 2: So I just think people need to. 2110 01:45:10,840 --> 01:45:13,320 Speaker 3: It's I hate that it's extra labor on black people 2111 01:45:13,360 --> 01:45:15,880 Speaker 3: who are in the industry, But it is going to 2112 01:45:16,000 --> 01:45:19,679 Speaker 3: take stars reaching out on their own and having telling 2113 01:45:19,720 --> 01:45:22,720 Speaker 3: their publicists and the people that protect them from uh 2114 01:45:23,120 --> 01:45:25,680 Speaker 3: not protecting them, but the middleman, to say, like, hey, 2115 01:45:25,760 --> 01:45:27,760 Speaker 3: you get a call from a black publication, you need 2116 01:45:27,880 --> 01:45:28,639 Speaker 3: to make that happen. 2117 01:45:29,439 --> 01:45:30,960 Speaker 2: And if they don't, and if they don't, then it 2118 01:45:31,000 --> 01:45:31,519 Speaker 2: won't happen. 2119 01:45:33,240 --> 01:45:36,920 Speaker 3: All right, anyway, zero two hundred zero, Yeah, thanks Littrell, 2120 01:45:37,080 --> 01:45:42,000 Speaker 3: appreciate your dog. All right, now, let's go to you 2121 01:45:42,080 --> 01:45:44,800 Speaker 3: know what, how much time has it been. Let's do 2122 01:45:44,880 --> 01:45:48,759 Speaker 3: so ratchingess we'll play games tomorrow. We've done a lot today. 2123 01:45:49,400 --> 01:45:50,640 Speaker 4: We've been out over the place, ain't we. 2124 01:45:50,800 --> 01:45:51,000 Speaker 6: Yeah. 2125 01:45:51,000 --> 01:45:52,680 Speaker 2: I don't know if people like this show or not. 2126 01:45:52,840 --> 01:45:56,639 Speaker 2: Today it was a lot. It was everywhere. I always 2127 01:45:56,680 --> 01:45:58,519 Speaker 2: have fun. That's why I can't tell them they if 2128 01:45:58,560 --> 01:45:59,040 Speaker 2: they do or not. 2129 01:45:59,200 --> 01:46:00,920 Speaker 4: I really can't tell damn fun and not. 2130 01:46:01,120 --> 01:46:01,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, it was fun. 2131 01:46:01,920 --> 01:46:03,720 Speaker 3: We got to talk about the album kind of we 2132 01:46:03,920 --> 01:46:06,400 Speaker 3: talked about relationships, but I guess, but. 2133 01:46:06,479 --> 01:46:08,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll come back later on and do like an 2134 01:46:08,080 --> 01:46:10,880 Speaker 4: album recap recap. But I'm like, you were old. We 2135 01:46:11,000 --> 01:46:12,160 Speaker 4: got to digest an album. 2136 01:46:12,600 --> 01:46:15,000 Speaker 2: It's not even about being old. I just I've never 2137 01:46:15,160 --> 01:46:17,800 Speaker 2: been oneing to come to you and tell you within 2138 01:46:17,880 --> 01:46:20,000 Speaker 2: a day of listening to the album everything good and 2139 01:46:20,080 --> 01:46:20,600 Speaker 2: bad about it. 2140 01:46:20,680 --> 01:46:24,400 Speaker 3: It's fucking impossible. And also people that do that normally 2141 01:46:24,400 --> 01:46:25,719 Speaker 3: don't know what the fuck they're talking about. 2142 01:46:26,680 --> 01:46:26,840 Speaker 5: You know. 2143 01:46:26,880 --> 01:46:29,479 Speaker 3: I still remember when watched The Throne drop and being 2144 01:46:29,520 --> 01:46:31,559 Speaker 3: on Twitter and watching people call it trash and being 2145 01:46:32,360 --> 01:46:34,599 Speaker 3: and I was listening to it, and then I listened 2146 01:46:34,600 --> 01:46:37,439 Speaker 3: to it for a few more days, and I was like, Okay, 2147 01:46:37,840 --> 01:46:40,439 Speaker 3: this is one of the most revolutionary black albums I've 2148 01:46:40,479 --> 01:46:41,639 Speaker 3: ever heard of my fucking life. 2149 01:46:42,960 --> 01:46:45,479 Speaker 2: What were y'all listening to? You know? 2150 01:46:45,800 --> 01:46:48,120 Speaker 3: It's that kind of like that moment where you're like, Wow, 2151 01:46:48,200 --> 01:46:52,800 Speaker 3: they really made an album about how their coping mechanism 2152 01:46:52,960 --> 01:46:56,320 Speaker 3: is trying to attain wealth while knowing that wealth will 2153 01:46:56,439 --> 01:47:01,920 Speaker 3: never surpass their experiences of racism as black men in 2154 01:47:01,960 --> 01:47:05,160 Speaker 3: America like all the other ship they can worship and 2155 01:47:05,200 --> 01:47:08,680 Speaker 3: try to cope with, they'll still you know, Kanye. That's 2156 01:47:08,680 --> 01:47:11,560 Speaker 3: when Kanye was still rapping about people getting killed in 2157 01:47:11,640 --> 01:47:17,080 Speaker 3: Chicago and ship you rest in peace that Kanye al right, 2158 01:47:17,160 --> 01:47:42,640 Speaker 3: sore rats in this time A police have shot a 2159 01:47:42,760 --> 01:47:44,880 Speaker 3: woman who was willing a swer. Her mother says the 2160 01:47:44,960 --> 01:47:46,519 Speaker 3: officer has murdered her only daughter. 2161 01:47:47,680 --> 01:47:52,200 Speaker 2: The mother of the Okay, she was not plased, but 2162 01:47:52,240 --> 01:47:54,920 Speaker 2: it's still the mother of a woman family shot by police. 2163 01:47:55,160 --> 01:47:57,160 Speaker 3: She broke into a home willing a swarer has said 2164 01:47:57,200 --> 01:48:00,600 Speaker 3: officers murdered her only daughter. Ashley Dean Folker twenty eight, 2165 01:48:00,640 --> 01:48:04,759 Speaker 3: broke into a house in Kansas City. The report referred 2166 01:48:04,760 --> 01:48:07,640 Speaker 3: to her as Ashley some Minetti uh the name he 2167 01:48:07,720 --> 01:48:08,839 Speaker 3: was on Facebook profile. 2168 01:48:09,920 --> 01:48:11,880 Speaker 2: Focuson climbed outre. 2169 01:48:14,960 --> 01:48:18,439 Speaker 3: Sorry ad start playing uh focuson climbed out of a 2170 01:48:18,520 --> 01:48:21,240 Speaker 3: window to escape police and ran across the lawn of 2171 01:48:21,360 --> 01:48:25,320 Speaker 3: a neighboring property in a bridesmaid dress what well an 2172 01:48:25,320 --> 01:48:26,960 Speaker 3: a decorative samurai sword. 2173 01:48:27,160 --> 01:48:30,120 Speaker 2: She took for the property. Police officers shot bean bags 2174 01:48:30,160 --> 01:48:36,120 Speaker 2: at her and then she ran. She ran across the yard. 2175 01:48:36,560 --> 01:48:38,719 Speaker 3: She then tried to fail to enter other homes, eventually 2176 01:48:38,760 --> 01:48:41,280 Speaker 3: hit in the garage kind of burned out home. Police 2177 01:48:41,280 --> 01:48:43,479 Speaker 3: attempted to reason with her and deployed the robot tear 2178 01:48:43,560 --> 01:48:46,040 Speaker 3: gas to lure her from the garage, but following a 2179 01:48:46,080 --> 01:48:49,720 Speaker 3: two and a half hour standoff, officers open fire after 2180 01:48:49,800 --> 01:48:51,720 Speaker 3: they tried to enter the garage with a battering ram, 2181 01:48:51,800 --> 01:48:53,280 Speaker 3: and she crept out from under the door. 2182 01:48:53,840 --> 01:48:56,160 Speaker 2: She died. She died around four pm. 2183 01:48:56,640 --> 01:48:59,519 Speaker 3: Police confirmed her identity as Ashley Dean Focuson and said 2184 01:48:59,560 --> 01:49:00,439 Speaker 3: that she had they had. 2185 01:49:00,400 --> 01:49:01,680 Speaker 2: Recovered the sword beside her. 2186 01:49:02,200 --> 01:49:05,960 Speaker 3: Kansas City Police Chief Rick Smith told reporters at the 2187 01:49:06,000 --> 01:49:10,479 Speaker 3: scene they did what they thought was necessary. He said 2188 01:49:10,520 --> 01:49:12,720 Speaker 3: they negotiated with him for a long time, with her 2189 01:49:12,760 --> 01:49:15,200 Speaker 3: for a long time. I may see it differently if 2190 01:49:15,240 --> 01:49:17,280 Speaker 3: it was fifteen minutes, but they tried for a long time. 2191 01:49:17,320 --> 01:49:19,639 Speaker 3: Becomes at a time where she is running across around 2192 01:49:19,680 --> 01:49:20,360 Speaker 3: wheeling the store. 2193 01:49:20,760 --> 01:49:23,080 Speaker 2: They tried, They really did try. She couldn't be reason with. 2194 01:49:24,080 --> 01:49:26,439 Speaker 3: That's kind of interesting because she was trapped in the 2195 01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:29,120 Speaker 3: garage for two and a half hours. They tear gaster 2196 01:49:29,320 --> 01:49:32,960 Speaker 3: or whatever, and then they were like, we need to 2197 01:49:33,280 --> 01:49:35,840 Speaker 3: open up with a battering round. Like I wonder what 2198 01:49:35,960 --> 01:49:40,840 Speaker 3: the impetus to go in is in a situation like that, 2199 01:49:41,040 --> 01:49:43,360 Speaker 3: when they're not harming anybody, I guess they could be 2200 01:49:43,400 --> 01:49:44,240 Speaker 3: a harm to themselves. 2201 01:49:44,320 --> 01:49:48,080 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know how that logic. I don't know 2202 01:49:48,200 --> 01:49:49,599 Speaker 2: that logic to say. 2203 01:49:50,200 --> 01:49:52,560 Speaker 3: And Facebook post, her mother shared the image of the 2204 01:49:52,600 --> 01:49:55,720 Speaker 3: family showing actually as a child, the KCPD murdered my 2205 01:49:55,800 --> 01:49:58,080 Speaker 3: only daughter, she wrote, arguing she doubted the police officer's 2206 01:49:58,120 --> 01:49:59,439 Speaker 3: fear for their lives than the incident. 2207 01:50:00,040 --> 01:50:01,880 Speaker 2: They should have. They should have to pay for this 2208 01:50:02,200 --> 01:50:04,680 Speaker 2: sh for just killing whoever they feel like killing. At 2209 01:50:04,720 --> 01:50:05,000 Speaker 2: the time. 2210 01:50:05,360 --> 01:50:07,479 Speaker 3: My daughter probably weighed about ninety pounds. They could have 2211 01:50:07,520 --> 01:50:10,160 Speaker 3: shot her in the leg or anything. But this I'm 2212 01:50:10,240 --> 01:50:12,360 Speaker 3: totally devastated. I will never get the hug or tell 2213 01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:14,160 Speaker 3: her I love her anything again. 2214 01:50:16,760 --> 01:50:17,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2215 01:50:17,400 --> 01:50:20,040 Speaker 3: The neighbor, Caleb Gallaway, or neighbor who's thirty three, said 2216 01:50:20,080 --> 01:50:23,760 Speaker 3: she was obviously scared something was wrong with her. That's 2217 01:50:23,920 --> 01:50:26,120 Speaker 3: why we have If you have a mental health issue 2218 01:50:26,360 --> 01:50:28,600 Speaker 3: in America and. 2219 01:50:28,640 --> 01:50:30,400 Speaker 2: The police are called, you probably gonna die. 2220 01:50:31,160 --> 01:50:31,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, y. 2221 01:50:31,840 --> 01:50:34,240 Speaker 5: And that's the thing a lot of times because they're 2222 01:50:34,280 --> 01:50:37,080 Speaker 5: not trained in that field. So when they come they 2223 01:50:37,200 --> 01:50:40,000 Speaker 5: treat you like a normal functioning human being, you know, 2224 01:50:40,840 --> 01:50:45,320 Speaker 5: so you might. Uh, it depends on the scenario. Cause 2225 01:50:45,360 --> 01:50:48,880 Speaker 5: I know, like with my mama, police have been called 2226 01:50:49,240 --> 01:50:51,040 Speaker 5: in situations and they get. 2227 01:50:50,960 --> 01:50:53,839 Speaker 4: Scared in fear and they get super strong. 2228 01:50:55,200 --> 01:50:59,120 Speaker 5: For some people, uh, some people kind of uh, they 2229 01:50:59,160 --> 01:51:01,240 Speaker 5: don't know how to respect on and things like that. 2230 01:51:02,560 --> 01:51:04,479 Speaker 4: My mama she's in a home now, but when she 2231 01:51:04,680 --> 01:51:05,439 Speaker 4: wasn't in a home. 2232 01:51:05,400 --> 01:51:08,080 Speaker 5: She would be out with like her caretaker, and she 2233 01:51:08,160 --> 01:51:10,080 Speaker 5: would do things and she would have to kind of 2234 01:51:10,120 --> 01:51:13,080 Speaker 5: tell people, you know, like officers a you know, she's 2235 01:51:13,120 --> 01:51:14,479 Speaker 5: not a normal functioning person. 2236 01:51:14,600 --> 01:51:15,360 Speaker 2: You know, be aware. 2237 01:51:15,680 --> 01:51:17,840 Speaker 4: But if you don't have that person kind of advocating 2238 01:51:17,880 --> 01:51:18,559 Speaker 4: on your behalf. 2239 01:51:18,640 --> 01:51:21,240 Speaker 5: As far as the police officers is concerned, they'll shoot 2240 01:51:21,240 --> 01:51:22,360 Speaker 5: you in kid, you will keep it pushing. 2241 01:51:22,640 --> 01:51:24,200 Speaker 2: Also, where did you get the sword from? 2242 01:51:25,360 --> 01:51:25,720 Speaker 5: I don't know. 2243 01:51:26,280 --> 01:51:29,000 Speaker 3: Right, all right, we'll be back tomorrow, guys. Thank you 2244 01:51:29,080 --> 01:51:31,800 Speaker 3: for listening. Until then, I love you. 2245 01:51:32,000 --> 01:51:32,360 Speaker 4: I'll wait. 2246 01:51:32,479 --> 01:51:35,960 Speaker 2: I forgot to mention. Wednesday, the show will be at 2247 01:51:36,040 --> 01:51:38,160 Speaker 2: eight pm. We'll be doing it a little bit later, 2248 01:51:38,640 --> 01:51:43,240 Speaker 2: but we will have our some guests. We'll have h 2249 01:51:44,240 --> 01:51:48,360 Speaker 2: We'll have Queen and Jay from the team with Queen 2250 01:51:48,400 --> 01:51:51,000 Speaker 2: and Jay Podcast. Yes, I can't wait. 2251 01:51:51,960 --> 01:51:52,639 Speaker 4: That's gonna be fun. 2252 01:51:52,800 --> 01:51:52,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2253 01:51:52,960 --> 01:51:56,200 Speaker 3: I'll listen to them every week so I finally get 2254 01:51:56,280 --> 01:51:59,160 Speaker 3: to chop it up with them. So looking forward to that. 2255 01:52:00,040 --> 01:52:02,120 Speaker 2: Alright, guys, until next time, I love you. 2256 01:52:02,240 --> 01:52:02,760 Speaker 4: I love you too. 2257 01:52:03,000 --> 01:52:03,160 Speaker 3: Why