1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Hey, PT six ers, this is Willie one show. You're 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: about to listen to an automated ad read after this 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: call to action. If you're on the Busting with the 4 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: Boys audio channel. If you want to listen to For 5 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: the Dads automated ad free, be sure to head over 6 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: to the For the Dads channel. And wherever you listen 7 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: to us on audio, enjoy this episode of For the Dads. 8 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: Papa Team six, Welcome to another episode of Four the Dads. 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: We are happier here. 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You have seventy 49 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 3: comments on our last episode. 50 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: I saw one you want to on. 51 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 3: Well, that's that's on YouTube. We had seventy on YouTube, 52 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: which is great for YouTube. But then, as your tech 53 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 3: said last night, I add in the sixty plus that 54 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 3: we had on Spotify. 55 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: That's crazy work. A lot of PT. 56 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: Six Milk Team six, Semen Team six, the Goon Berets, YEP. 57 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: The Semen Team sixer is going through buds training right now, 58 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: breeding until. 59 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: Dad status come on. 60 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: There's a lot of verbiage we use on this show 61 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: that we know that the community has has taken to YEP. 62 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 1: So again, if you are new, welcome for the Dads. 63 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: I did see a quote. You actually sent this to me. 64 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: I went and I went and dove in and found 65 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: the comment and I love the segment idea. 66 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 2: Do you want to share the segment idea? 67 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, this segment idea is just Dan Gable quotes segment 68 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 3: segment on four. 69 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 1: The Dad's Podcast is dan ca dan Gable quote. Dan 70 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: Gable quotes? 71 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 2: Why not? 72 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: And I will say when I was as a bit 73 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 3: to like do a dan Gable quote to you, when 74 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 3: I googled it, there was a good like forty or fifty. 75 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 3: So that's at least, you know, forty episodes worth of content. 76 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 2: It's a great idea. There's nothing like a good dan 77 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 2: Gable quote. 78 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I'm gonna save a dan Gable quote 79 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: for just a lesson quote topic at the end. 80 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 2: Of the episode. 81 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: Do you have a dan and so fourth, I have 82 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 3: a great one. Okay, good, I have a great one. 83 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: I also have one just to just to shout out 84 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: off the top of the episode. 85 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 2: Please the first period is one. 86 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: Ay and guys, if you don't know who Dan Gable is, 87 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: number one Q just kids show. Just bleep myself out. 88 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: Get to know Dan Gable. This is a guy. This 89 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: is a mindset of mentality, a discipline. That's a guy 90 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: that you want to learn from. 91 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: Can I shot? 92 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 3: Can I shout out my friend Dustin McLoughlin that put 93 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 3: me onto Dan Gable and said God to bring up 94 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 3: Dan Gable to Will hill Nutt. 95 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, believe me Dan Gables Like that's like, that's Lord. 96 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: If you mentioned dan Gable to me, I'm thinking, oh, 97 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: we just connected on a deeper level. Yeah, because I 98 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: feel like I do walk amongst around people that have 99 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: no clue who Dan Gable is, and that's sad to me. Yes, 100 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 1: because we again the VHS tape cycle with this was 101 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: a dan Gable family grow We were we were wrestling. 102 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: I didn't like wrestling, but my dad made us wrestle. 103 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: My brother was a stud at it. We were a 104 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: wrestling family. You're a wrestling family. You know who Dan 105 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: Gable is? Yeah, I got one off the top. This 106 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: one's on uh, this one's on wrestling and effort. The 107 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: first period is one by the technician. The second period 108 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: is one by the kid in the best shape in 109 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: the third period, the third period, the final period is 110 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: one by the kid with the biggest heart. 111 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: Three's up up, Get your threes up. Damn. This is like, 112 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: this is fatherhood right here. That really is love. 113 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 3: I love it because it's all facets of wrestling. He 114 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 3: just covered all facets. 115 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: All facets and encapsulated it inside of fatherhood. The first 116 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: ten years is one by the best technician. We are teaching. 117 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: We are teaching these young kids, Our young kids, our 118 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: little our babies are toddlers? What do they call them 119 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: once they get like out of the toddler face? 120 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: Ankle biters? 121 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 3: This is about are they called teaching them technique of 122 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 3: how to operate in life? 123 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: The second period, the second decade is one by the 124 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 1: kid in the best shape who fundamentally and foundationally Is 125 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: this kid gonna be ten through twenty and then beyond 126 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: that once they graduate college, it's gonna be one by 127 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: the kid with the biggest heart. Come on, all these 128 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: values and all these principles that we teach them, that 129 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: is what's going to carry them and make them the 130 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: man or the woman that they're gonna be throughout the 131 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: rest of life. 132 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 3: Come on, man, hey, say something that really pisses me 133 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 3: off that you just reminded me of with that whole 134 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 3: dan Gable thing, the saying a jack of all trades 135 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 3: is a master of none or whatever? 136 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 2: Yes, you know what I'm saying. 137 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 3: What is up with that? Why can't you be good 138 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 3: at a bunch of shit? 139 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 2: You can? How would that not be helpful or beneficial? Oh? 140 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 2: Super successful people are only good at one thing. 141 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 1: I feel like jack of all trades, master of none 142 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: is kind of like a there's a go go ahead, 143 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: the Derek jump in here. 144 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 4: There's just a common thing with that quote's not finished, 145 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 4: and so it always says, but it's always better than 146 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 4: a master of one. Okay, thanks, there is an ending. 147 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: I'm glad. 148 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, a jack of all trades is a master of none, 149 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 4: but oftentimes better than a master of one is the 150 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 4: full actual quote that people never finish. 151 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 3: You can be great and more more than just that's 152 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 3: been that's been grinding my gears toward literal years. 153 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: Dude, I'm like, what the fuck does that mean? 154 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 1: When I saw your piss hot about that, I'm thinking 155 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: to myself, I think that that, you know, I usually 156 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: think like the jack of all trades, master of notnehing 157 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: Like that's like a nod of that's kind of where 158 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: you want to be. You you can be better than 159 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: just being a master of filling the bottle with milk. 160 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: God, I'm one, I'm so glad that I misunderstood or 161 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: didn't have the full quote, and two that I went 162 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: against the grain. I really thought I was being rebellious 163 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: by like, hey, maybe being good at a bunch of 164 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 3: stuff is actually a really good thing. 165 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 2: Maybe that's good. 166 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: Read the headline didn't finish. It didn't finish the article. 167 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: Read the headline didn't finish the article. 168 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: What's this bull shit? This shows four jack of all 169 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 2: trades fathers. 170 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: This isn't just mastering taking out the trash, showing to 171 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: work and be like I'm the bread winner when I 172 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: get home. Yes, it's about being a jack of all trades. 173 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: You do the dishes, you clean the kitchen, pick up 174 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: the toys, you do bedtime, you make the beds, you 175 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: do all the things. 176 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: Along with your wife, along with your partner. Oh yeah, yeah, 177 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: team team teams, he king. This is Papa Team's six standard. Fellow, 178 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 2: Can I do a really really really quick shout out? 179 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: Please do because we do shout outs throughout the end week. 180 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: This is a special one. 181 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 2: Okay. 182 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 3: This was for at Jared Beeman's comedy show, which I'm sure, 183 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 3: well we might talk a little bit about that. 184 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 2: Bring a Lee. Yes, did you meet Lee? Yeah? 185 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 3: Lee? 186 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 2: God, dude, Lee's got to come on the show. 187 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: Oh oh, you're talking about comedian Lee. Comedian Lee needs 188 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 3: to come on the show. He's incredible. I'm talking about. 189 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 3: This is also Lee, who is a PT Sixer's his 190 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 3: daughter was born with a bunch of complications. There's a 191 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 3: there's a lot in that that I'll just to keep 192 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 3: it short. Finding a babysitters really hard for them. And 193 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 3: they were gonna come to Jared's show, both of them 194 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 3: because WiFi and husband, because they wanted to say what's 195 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 3: up to us? Because they're big for the dad's fans. 196 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 3: Babysitter canceled empty six Er says, you gotta go leave, 197 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: like I'll hold down the fort. You gotta go say 198 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 3: what up to the boys? Go enjoy the comedy night. 199 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 3: So I got to meet Lee and he literally said, 200 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 3: do not shout me out at all, which I'm breaking 201 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 3: that rule. He was like, I really just wanted you 202 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 3: to shout out my daughter. So shout out to Lee 203 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 3: Lee Rose, who is his little girl and they have 204 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 3: a precious little family. 205 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 2: Pick Lee was the man. Dude. 206 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 3: It made my night getting to meet Lee and shout 207 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 3: out six or Lee's wife. You're such a stud break 208 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 3: time play for going. Hey, you know what, baby Sarah 209 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 3: canceled last second And. 210 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: You said her canceled last second? Yes, And she literally said, 211 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 2: go have fun, go have a night. That's tough, dude. 212 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 2: The babysitter canceling a second. 213 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: I know, and you said it's been hard for him 214 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: to find a babysitter because of stuff with their. 215 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 3: She has a several palsy, the daughter. I'll reach out 216 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 3: to him and make sure that I can share all that. 217 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 3: I would assume so because he had shared a bunch 218 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 3: of pictures and their story. But yeah, dude, just very humbling. 219 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 3: It was like what I talked with you at brunch 220 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 3: about of just getting to meet some of these parents 221 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 3: and hear their stories and like seeing pictures and videos 222 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: from the hospital and like, I'm starting to tear up, 223 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 3: so I'll keep it short, but like, there's really good 224 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 3: people out there. There's some really good parents out there, 225 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 3: and the fact that we even get to touch and 226 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 3: meet some of these incredible parents is such a humbling, 227 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 3: awesome experience. 228 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 2: I love the show. Yeah, that's it. I'm with you. 229 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 1: I see the tears. I appreciate the tears too, because 230 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: you're you're just spot on. You hear so many stories 231 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: and get to talk to so many different parents who 232 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: have stories that are you know, almost feels like you 233 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: feel undeserving at times. Two right now, we have like 234 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: I have two kiddos that are both healthy and then sorry, 235 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: I'm laughing because I'm feeling myself here up as well. 236 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 2: But you just hear what parents go through. 237 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: Yes, and dude, there are grinders out there, bro brinders 238 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: that have just that go through things that are so 239 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 1: different from like the majority of parents that hopefully everybody 240 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: has healthy kids, but that's not the reality. 241 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: And just to feel their energy. 242 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 1: And personality, appreciation, their gratitude for everything, and just excitement 243 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: when you're just like God, Lee, man, it seems like 244 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: you go through the gutter, like you go through shit 245 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 1: to where I can't I can only imagine like being 246 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: in your shoes with some of these stories that I hear. Yeah, 247 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 1: just makes us. 248 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 2: I know. 249 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: So Sherman and I we had our first little brunch together, 250 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: we had a little daddy daughter date. But we're kind 251 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: of having the conversation on the stories and the comments 252 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: and the stuff that the parents out there share with 253 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: us that you just kind of it's it's like just 254 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: one of those step back things of one gratitude and 255 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: then it just again it feels like, uh. 256 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 2: It makes us appreciate. 257 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: What we have with our kiddo's And then also, I know, 258 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: For me, it feels like you feel undeserving at times 259 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 1: to be in a spot to where people are thinking 260 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: you about stuff. 261 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 2: And I know people are, oh, you're overthinking that, YadA YadA. Yeah, 262 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 2: I understand that. 263 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: It's just like the feeling that I have because you're 264 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: just like your heart goes out to these fighters that 265 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: are out there. 266 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 3: It is raising kids the best way they can. They 267 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 3: have to just have to they have to have these ego. 268 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: Deaths with themselves because they just understand and accept, hey, 269 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: we are in a different situation. 270 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 2: Yes, dude, meeting such selfless people. 271 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 3: Uh, And it is very grounding, like and not that 272 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 3: I'm like lost in the sauce of all the world news, 273 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 3: but like the world is so fast moving and there's 274 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,439 Speaker 3: always a different thing on social media and blah blah blah. 275 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 3: Getting to like read some of these stories like we 276 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 3: do on the show, or meet PT sixers out in 277 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 3: the wild, hearing their stories, it's just so grounding and 278 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 3: a reminder that like there are incredible humans out there 279 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: and they do. Just seeing the picture of his family 280 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 3: and uh, I just think to myself, I look at 281 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 3: those kids, and I go, they're so lucky. 282 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, they have such. 283 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 3: Loving parents, and god, it just makes my very happy. 284 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and because you know that there are also bad 285 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: parents out there, yes, like kids that you know, kids 286 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: from all different ranges can have bad parents, oh for sure. 287 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: And you knowing that this kid is going through something 288 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: what'd you say, ceubral palsy. Yes, like this kid has 289 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: has something going on, and they have these incredible people 290 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: looking after them. 291 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 2: You're just you're thankful for the kid. 292 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: You're you're appreciative that the kid has these parents because 293 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: very easily, Like it's not it's it's not rare to 294 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 1: have bad parents out there. 295 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 2: It's around us all the time. That's that's more common. Yeah, 296 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: that's more common. 297 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and so it is really cool and it's uh yeah, humbling, 298 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 3: I keep on saying humbling, but it's just like such 299 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 3: a cool reminder. I was telling Will, I was like, 300 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 3: I feel like such a phony that. 301 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 2: Uh. 302 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 3: The only thing we got worried about was Scarlet is 303 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 3: that she has a tear duct. 304 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: That's crew had one of those tear ducks so where 305 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: we'd have to massage your eye with like a like 306 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: a warm rag. 307 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, she had like a tear duck for like. 308 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 1: I know, it was maybe going into two years old, 309 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: but like a year and as long as a year 310 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: and a half at least, I believe. I know, my 311 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: wife might fact check me on that, but yeah. 312 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there in the morning's going i gotta 313 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 3: go get a hot rag. Oh my god, she's got 314 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 3: so many iboggers. Oh my god, I'm gonna have to 315 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 3: wipe all this down. There's another parent that's breaking out 316 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 3: the wheelchair, breaking out the ramp to the you know, 317 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 3: mini van, getting kiddo in there, getting them to pt, 318 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 3: getting them to that. And guess what that parents still 319 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 3: making it early to their job. They're kicking asset. 320 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 2: It's just like. 321 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: Handling all the nonsense that goes on at the workplace, 322 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: coming home, checking out, making sure they turn that off 323 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: while they get back to raising their kid. 324 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 3: Dude, shout out those parents. Yeah, we are so blessed 325 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 3: and lucky. If you listen to the show and you 326 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 3: were in that boat, I just want to shout out, 327 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 3: you are literally angels. 328 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 2: Your angels. Yeah, yeah, I just wanted to. 329 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 3: I want to get that off my chest right quick. 330 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 3: Could be an emotional episode, Yeah what that could be 331 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 3: an emotional episode'm I think I'm pass it, but shout 332 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 3: out Lead the comedian too. He was great. We should 333 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 3: have him on the show. 334 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to get Lead the comedian on the show. 335 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: Have I ever told the story about Rue having a 336 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: a seizure? 337 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 2: Not on the show? 338 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: Have not told it on the show? No, Rue had 339 00:15:56,160 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: a seizure when she was about a year and a half. 340 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: Fold I think again. 341 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: I know my wife is listening, but Rue had a 342 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: seizure at the daycare she was at, and Buddy, the 343 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: scariest thing in my life. Yeah, the scary, the most 344 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: terrifying thing ever. Like I remember the daycare lady called 345 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: in an absolute panic. The firefighter had to end up 346 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: taking the phone from her and just let me know 347 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: what was going on with Rue, and so much emotion. 348 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: Is just I was standing right over there. This is 349 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: when we just had this side of the shop. We 350 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: didn't have the other side of the shop. Everything was 351 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 1: in house right here, and I remember standing up over 352 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: over the table like taking this phone call and just 353 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 1: a panic going because at first I'm wondering, I wonder 354 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: why the daycare lady is calling me right now because 355 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: I knew Charle was the one that was going to 356 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: be picking Ru up later that day. Yeah, yeah, and 357 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: they say, hey, Rue, Rue's awake right now, so everything 358 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: is okay. We believe that she had a caesar. She's 359 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: very she's very out of it right now. She's she's 360 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: not like responding verbally or anything else. She's kind of 361 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: just sitting there. We're going to rush her to the er, 362 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: to the hospital. And I called my wife. She's just 363 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: getting out of the shower because she had missed calls, 364 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: and she just missed the calls. And we are obviously 365 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: sprinting to the hospital. I'm coming from here, Charles, coming 366 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 1: from home. In the whole thought in my head again 367 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: I hate it could be an emotional episode, but the 368 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: whole thought in my head like as I'm driving, I 369 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: had just lost I had lost my mom the December before, 370 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: because this was my I lost my mom the December 371 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: before Rue was Rue was born. Ru was born in April. 372 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: Saw him driving over just thinking like, you know, they 373 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: had her plugged up to IVS and everything like this 374 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: in this ambulance. Bro one year old in an ambulance, 375 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: just envisioning that in your head and knowing that mom 376 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 1: and dad. Mom and dad aren't around her, and I'm 377 00:17:54,760 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 1: driving just thinking, Yo, if I were to lose. 378 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 2: If I were to lose my daughter with all that 379 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 2: going with. 380 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: You know, everything the year that we had had, yeah, yeah, 381 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: and everybody. You know, I've shared a lot of stuff 382 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,919 Speaker 1: about my mom, but to go like I had no 383 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 1: clue what I was driving into. We run in the er, 384 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 1: we run in the hospital. Rue is just her little 385 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 1: body is plugged up. I'm talking IV's needles, everything to 386 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: try to get her vitals and everything else, and she's 387 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: just unresponsive. Bro Like, she's not crying. She's just like naked, 388 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 1: laying on the table. And dude, it was nuts. It 389 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: was nuts, man Like Charo was sitting there holding her 390 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: little hand and she's looking at us. But again, there's 391 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: nothing that's coming Like, you know, she's probably scared, she's not. 392 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: There's no emotion coming out of it. And I'm bawling 393 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: behind Charo. Oh dude, Like we're obviously both crying, but 394 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, basis side myself that you're just 395 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: seeing this happen. She had to stay overnight, she had 396 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: to sleep, she had to get all this stuff attached 397 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 1: to her brain, and uh, still over night to see 398 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: if this is something that's gonna be reoccurring, or if 399 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: it was a one off, like we don't know what 400 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,439 Speaker 1: it was, or trying to check all the levels. 401 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 2: They believed that she had a seizure. 402 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: But they didn't know at the time, like when the 403 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: firefighter called, So you just don't know what's happening, like 404 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: she has a pulse, she's breathing, she's okay, yeah, and do. 405 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: That experience was. 406 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 1: To see your baby going through something like that, and 407 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: we went to the Vanderbilt Children's Hospital just to think 408 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: about parents that go through a situation like that daily 409 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: weekly or you never know what's gonna pop up the 410 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: next time, and you just hope that hey they're checked 411 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 1: out right now and we might need to look for this. 412 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: We'll have to bring them back to check blood levels. 413 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: Like you just see your kid go through this stuff. Man, 414 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: that that moment was uh yeah, that's uh. It brings 415 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 1: back a little like you just have PETA and if 416 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: something you feel like might happen to rue because you 417 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: just don't know. 418 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 2: They believe it was a one off. They're like, you know, we. 419 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 1: Talked to one doctor that said this kid, this happened 420 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: with their kid, like you know, if it happens before 421 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: certain age. I'm just throwing it out there. Again, we're 422 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 1: not experts on the show whatsoever, but if it's weird 423 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: or not, if it's before three, this could be something 424 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 1: that's one off. Like we'll just we'll continue to follow 425 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: up like every week or two and if if she 426 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: gets you know, a certain time without having another one, 427 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: then that tells them it's not gonna be some reoccurring 428 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 1: thing to where she might have to take meds or 429 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:32,640 Speaker 1: something like that. 430 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, it was crazy. It was crazy. 431 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 3: I can't even imagine very funny too, because you've told 432 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 3: me that story before I died. 433 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 2: I mean, you didn't tear up the first time you 434 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:45,919 Speaker 2: told it to me. 435 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:49,640 Speaker 1: But walking through it and again, like in my head 436 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: as I'm walking through taking the phone call, I can 437 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: still visualize. I can visualize every detail that day, on 438 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: getting in the car, speeding to the hospital, walking in 439 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 1: those hallways. I see at the end of the hallway, 440 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: I'm like where she has She's like she's over here, 441 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 1: and we're just running in there. And then you just 442 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: see your little You just see your baby bro plugged 443 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:12,680 Speaker 1: into absolutely everything, and it is uh yeah. 444 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 3: Hearing that that now with Scarlet. That's just a way 445 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 3: that's like a completely different story. Now that's crazy. 446 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I'm. 447 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 3: So sorry that y'all had to go through that, but 448 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 3: also just makes me so happy just thinking of like 449 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 3: our brunch and just like seeing room now. 450 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: Oh bro, she's so full of personality. And even the 451 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 1: next morning, it's like as a parent, you're stressed the 452 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: entire time. Like when she's kind of coming out of 453 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: whatever it is, she's not like fully there. 454 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 2: You know, I go and get us some because we 455 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 2: pulling over. 456 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 1: You know, we're like we're just like staying at the hospital, 457 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 1: and I go and pick us up some Chick fil 458 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:52,680 Speaker 1: A and come back and try You're trying to get 459 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: her to eat a little bit of food, whether they 460 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 1: have apple sauce at the hospital or whatever it is, milk, 461 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,640 Speaker 1: And then to wake up the next one and kind 462 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 1: of see her like crawling around having a smile on 463 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: her face even though she's connected to all of this 464 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: stuff with her brain, but just to feel a little 465 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 1: bit of that relief because they're smiling, because you wake 466 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: up and you're kind of just, hey, how she doing? 467 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 2: Do we have any checkups? 468 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: You're like wanting to ask the doctor so many chois 469 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: or get him to keep coming in every five minutes 470 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: and know if there's an update going on. Yeah, and 471 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,959 Speaker 1: but just to see you're in like good spirits. It's 472 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 1: it was just such a weight feeling like it was 473 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,399 Speaker 1: lifted off, like you started to have like optimism about 474 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: what could be. You know that we're just gonna have 475 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: good news. I guess when the doctor comes in. Yeah, 476 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 1: but that was such a relief. But dude, our brunch, 477 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: seeing the seeing rou operate, seeing rou operate with Uncle 478 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 1: Shrham was a fascinating sight to see. We went to 479 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: Stay Golden, no free shoutouts to Stay Golden here and 480 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: here in like West Nashville off off of fifty first 481 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 1: shout out to them. They have some good coffee. 482 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:53,400 Speaker 2: They won me back. 483 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: Man, I know you had a bad first experience. This 484 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 1: was your second time. I can only imagine when I said, hey, 485 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 1: stay gold and what was probably going through your body 486 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 1: based on what you based on your the first experience 487 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 1: that you had getting some cold food, getting some service, 488 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: that was a little yeah, that was a little sus 489 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,679 Speaker 1: I've had nothing but good experiences with. 490 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 3: They blew me away on the second and not to 491 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 3: divert the story. I apologize, but they blew me away. 492 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,439 Speaker 3: I am fully on board with Stay Golden. Yeah, but 493 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 3: Sherman and I we planned out a daddy daughter date 494 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 3: and daddy daughter lunch or brunch. 495 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: We go over to State Golden. Uncle Sheram's ripping around 496 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: with Scarlet. She's in the she's in the stroller. I 497 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 1: have Scott, Zilla, Scottie and Roue with me. Oh yeah, 498 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,399 Speaker 1: there's a nice little line there. But we got seated 499 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 1: at this table and it was dude. Rue was on 500 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: one hunt r was on ten bro the entire time 501 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: with Uncle Sherham, the entire time with Uncle Sherman. 502 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 2: Scotty was on her best behavior. 503 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: She was eating, you know, she was trying to put 504 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: food in Scarlet's little cup that's attached to the stroller. 505 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: Scarlet was on her best behavior, dude, she was kind 506 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 1: of just chilling the entire time. Ru's playing with her, 507 00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: Scotty's eating her food. 508 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 3: I was about to say that was my favorite part 509 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,640 Speaker 3: is Rue was playing with me a bunch, But it 510 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 3: was I was not like the center of her attention. 511 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 3: It was really Scarlet. It was so cool to get 512 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 3: to watch Rue, who's three. Yeah, three, Just why does 513 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 3: she have two jackets on her? Because I forgot a blanket, 514 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,640 Speaker 3: go dad, So I got Jill's jacket that she left 515 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 3: in my car in Scarlet's jacket and put it on 516 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 3: Scarlet like a blanket. I was like, well, this is 517 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 3: this is Scarlet's jacket, the fuzzy one, and this bigger 518 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:38,199 Speaker 3: one is her mom's jacket. And I'm using it like 519 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: a blanket. And she goes, you need to put the 520 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 3: fuzzy jacket on her feet to make them warm. And 521 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 3: then Scarlett, your mama's jacket will go here, and she's 522 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 3: like going into full like maternal like the baby. And 523 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, god, this is so cool watching her. And 524 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 3: she's like, Scarlett, can. 525 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,400 Speaker 2: You blow kisses? 526 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,919 Speaker 3: Can you blow kisses? And I'm just seeing like the 527 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 3: love and the playful stuff that you and Charro have 528 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 3: put into Rue and then seeing Rue then doing that 529 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 3: to Scarlet, yeah, like kind of mimicking that behavior. It's like, dude, 530 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 3: this is so sick just to like see play out. 531 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 1: Right, just to like witness like development. And You're like, man, 532 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 1: I can't believe you're three, because again you got to 533 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 1: do all these you got to do all these things 534 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: to help Rue communicate with Scotty or be around Scotty 535 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: when Scotty's like pissing her off and doing stuff like, hey, 536 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: she doesn't mean this, like she just wants to play 537 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, you know, and she'll obviously sees us 538 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: communicate with both of them. But you got to be 539 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: on your p's and q's with Rue. 540 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 2: Now. 541 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 1: Last night I was on Charlie was working until like 542 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: six thirty. This usually this happens every Monday, and I 543 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: forgot to wash Rue's hair on Sunday night when it 544 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: was bathtime, and I could tell Mama was not happy 545 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 1: about that. She's like, well, why didn't she? Oh, She's 546 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: like she came up when Charle got done. Charle did something, 547 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: whether it was with Scotty or was coming up to 548 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: say good night to Rue. You know, it was kind 549 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 1: of looking at Rue and I am warming Rue up 550 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: with the towel and everything else. She was like, oh, 551 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: your hair dry, drive pretty fast? Oh gosh, is your 552 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: hair dry already? Drive pretty fast? And she's talking to 553 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: she's talking to Rue, but I know that she's talking. 554 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 1: She's basically asking me, like why is her hair drying? 555 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: What's going on with that I didn't, Oh, I didn't 556 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 1: wash your hair her hair tonight, and she's like, well 557 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: why not. 558 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: I was like, she said she was tired and she 559 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 2: wanted to go lay down. 560 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,200 Speaker 1: And I'm thinking in my head when she when Rue 561 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: gave me that, I was like, oh, let's do a 562 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: body We'll just wash your body bits and bits. You 563 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: can make it quick. You want to go lay down, 564 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: I'll get you to lay down because it's bedtime. Yeah, 565 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: And so she was on me about She's like, sweetheart, 566 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: you're you're in control. 567 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 2: Like she needed to wash her hair. 568 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: She hadn't washed her hair since like early last week, 569 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: and she's been telling me that their heads it, you know. 570 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I was just thinking, like it doesn't 571 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: look greasy or nothing like that, Like her hair looks fine. 572 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: This is one where I felt like I could have 573 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: just done a body a body shower, a body bath 574 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: with her. My sweeter, Is your head itchy? She's like, no, 575 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 1: her head's not itchy. She's telling me right now, heads not. 576 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 2: You heard her. 577 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 1: She's like she's been itching her head, Like these last 578 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: couple of days, have you been itching your head over 579 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 1: the weekend? 580 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:23,120 Speaker 2: She's like no, she hadn't been itching her head moment. 581 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: It's all good and char was on that, you know, 582 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: residual effect from that. After Rue goes down, I'm talking 583 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: to me and I'm like, sweetheart, look, i'll give her 584 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: bath tomorrow. 585 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,120 Speaker 2: It's all good. 586 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: You won't have to give her bath. I'll give her 587 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: a bath tomorrow. I'll wash your hair. 588 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 3: Well. 589 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 2: She's like, well, she also does bath. 590 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: She also does a bath, like after a swim lesson 591 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: on Tuesday, I'll give her a third bath. I'll give 592 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: her third bath where you don't have dude or Audi 593 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: will be able to give her a bath after swim lesson. 594 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. Either way, sweetheart, you won't have to do it. 595 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 2: You won't have to do anything. 596 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll make sure that hair gets washed before swim 597 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: lesson on Tuesday. 598 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 2: I'll make sure of it. 599 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: So fast forward to Monday, when I got home and 600 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm with the kiddles, I'm like, hey, Rue, She's like, daddad, 601 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 1: can I do a TV coupon? Like you can do 602 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: a TV coupon, but we have to listen to me. 603 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: We have to wash your hair before mama gets home. 604 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: Dinner's gonna be ready, everything's gonna you're gonna be in 605 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: your pj's, your pajamas, and you're gonna be ready to 606 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: go when Mama walks in that door, because she's gonna 607 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: know Daddad took care of it. 608 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,199 Speaker 2: Hey, I heard you loud and clear you wanted her 609 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 2: hair washed. 610 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:20,719 Speaker 1: Dad. 611 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: It's gonna get her hair washed. 612 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: And it's not gonna come after dinner time when we're 613 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: all at home and she's like, well, are you gonna 614 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: give bath? No, no, no, We're gonna have that knocked 615 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,199 Speaker 1: out of the park by the time you walk in 616 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: that door, and food will be ready, and food will 617 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: be ready. Yeah, So I'm washing Rufe's hair. But as 618 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: I'm getting everything set up, you know, when you got 619 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 1: a couple of minions. There's some parents out there have 620 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 1: more than two kiddos, but when they're all like I 621 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: got ruined Scottie, Ru's three, Scotty's one. Scotty's all over 622 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: the place, like I have to move tables because Scotty 623 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: will climb couches and climb the armres and trying to 624 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 1: climb on tables, and she's just you can tell she's 625 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: confident because she flirts with the edge of everything that 626 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: she climbs. 627 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:57,959 Speaker 3: On. 628 00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like you know how they kind of climb 629 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 2: up and then they'll kind of rock over to where 630 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 2: they'll be seated. 631 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 1: She'll sit right on the edge of the couch and 632 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: the whole time like, Scotty, you sweetheart, you have to 633 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: get on the couch here, because I'm telling you right now, 634 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna tip and you're gonna fall. You're gonna hit 635 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: your head and you're just gonna you're gonna cry, and 636 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna console you, and we're just you're gonna have 637 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: to learn the hard way by you being next to 638 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 1: the edge. And she's always climbing on stuff to where 639 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,959 Speaker 1: it's like a hard spot and a soft pillow. She 640 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: steps on both and gets tumbling down. And she's just 641 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 1: been lucky so far. 642 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 3: And she's not waddling when she's walking around. For your 643 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 3: parents at home to have a kid that's waddling. Right now, 644 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 3: Scotty is got the hand going and it is it 645 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 3: is truly like a very fast walk. Wherever she's going. 646 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 3: She's trying to learn to run. 647 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:42,959 Speaker 2: She be lines. 648 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 1: But as I'm getting some set up in Rue's room, 649 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: as I'm getting this bath ready to wash Ru's hair, 650 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: Scotty goes and throws her lama. Throws her Lama in 651 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: the bath soaked good. So I walk in. I'm going 652 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 1: to put ruin. I see Lama just sitting there drowning. Sweetheart. 653 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: I know you love you your Lama. 654 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 2: Nah. 655 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 3: Nah, And now and now we're gonna have to We're 656 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 3: gonna have to air dry. 657 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: We're gonna have to dry Lama now. And you're not 658 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: gonna get Lama in your hands, and all to circle 659 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: back to you gotta be on your p's and q's 660 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: with Rue. Ruth's walking me through how to wash your 661 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: hair or how she wants it done, and which I 662 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: already know. I'm like, sweetheart, I got She's like, we're 663 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: not gonna wash my body. Sweet we washed your body 664 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 1: last night. We don't have to wash your body today. 665 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: We can just get it wet. 666 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 667 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, So you don't have to do my armpits, No, sweetheart, 668 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: you'll do my private parts? No, sweetheart, No, we're just 669 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: washing your hair. 670 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: This is a hair night. 671 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 1: But why well you get in to explain why big 672 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: WiFi is right now, But get Rue all done. As 673 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying to corral Scotty Scott, he's mad, at me. 674 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm pouring the water on Rue's head. She's screaming because 675 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: she wants watered. She wants to be in the bath 676 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: water port on her head. Scotty just back up, give 677 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: Dad has some space. I'm gonna make this quick. Get 678 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: them all corral dry. You know, not not bult right off. 679 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 1: But you know, Scotty, you just always gotta wash because 680 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 1: she's just walking everywhere, getting into everything. Yeah, as I'm 681 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: trying to bathe Rue. So we get downstairs, we go, 682 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, we gotta dry Scottish. We gotta dry Scotty's Lama. 683 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: So I haven't given Lama and Tigy baths before the 684 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: bath being the washer and the dryer. 685 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 2: So I'm going down there. I'm like, all right, we 686 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: got to dry them off. 687 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 1: And I throw a Lama in there, and I'm like, 688 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 1: I hope nothing happens to Lama. Like as I'm trying 689 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: to dry Lama, so I turned, She's like I pushed 690 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: the button on. 691 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, you can push the butt. So we turned 692 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 3: on her roofs stands there and she's looking at Lama 693 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 3: in there and. 694 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 2: She goes. 695 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: Dead dead, Ad, you gotta get Lama out. I'm like, 696 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: why do I gotta get Lama out? She's like, you 697 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: got to get the bag. You got to get a bag. 698 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, Lama goes in a bag. She's like, Mama 699 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: always puts Lama in a bag. And I'm like, do 700 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know where this is? What bags 701 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: she's talking about. I'm like, do you know where this 702 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 1: bag is? She's like yeah. So I pause and stop 703 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: and I'm like, can you show me where the bag is? 704 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: She like points up to a She points up to 705 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: a cabin and I'm like, hey, I'm gonna lift you 706 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: up and you find this bag for me. 707 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 2: I lift her up. She goes and finds this netted 708 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 2: bag in the cabin. 709 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 3: She's like, this is the bag you got to use 710 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 3: when you're giving Lama bath. Yeah, like, okay, I did 711 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 3: not know that. I thank you for three year old. 712 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 2: Three year old? Let me know. 713 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: Hey, there's a certain way we operat in this house. 714 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: We don't wear two jackets shirm, yeah, what are we doing? 715 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? 716 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 2: Hey, the two jackets here? Where's a blanket? Yeah? I 717 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 2: forgot the blanket. Oh why did you forget the blanket? 718 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 6: Yeah? 719 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: No, She truly is like, hey, she wanted to be like, hey, idiot, 720 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 3: where's the blanket. But she was very sweet and just said, well, 721 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 3: maybe put the warmer jacket on the feet. You kind 722 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 3: of have this lighter one on the feet. 723 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 2: Let's switch that. Yeah. 724 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 1: Ru got pissed at me this morning, and I was 725 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 1: starting to get a little I had to let Rue 726 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: know that, Hey, when you feel big emotions and they 727 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: kind of coming out of nowhere and they don't make 728 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 1: sense and you're not calming down, Dad add starts to 729 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: feel big emotions too, oh yeah, yeah yeah, and dad 730 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: ass starts saying things that he doesn't mean. Yeah, so 731 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: we just we gotta start the day off on the 732 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: right foot. Like I go and wake Scotty up, I 733 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: bring her in there, Rue starts whining. 734 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 3: You know. 735 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: I opened the curtains and I'm trying to just be 736 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: in a great mood. I'm like Scotty, say hi to 737 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 1: the world. Oh, there's your big CC, there's our big 738 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: chipmunk uh huh, and going over there, and I can 739 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: just feel Rue wining already. 740 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 2: I hate that. I know. 741 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: Parents, it's like you never know what you're walking into 742 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: in the morning time with your toddler. You're hoping they're 743 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 1: just in a good moods. Sometimes they're just in great moods, 744 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: and sometimes they're in piss poor moods, and you don't 745 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: know why. 746 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 3: It's like, bro, we do the same routine every day. Yeah, 747 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 3: why are we just not in a good mood? She's like, oh, 748 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 3: it's too light in here. I'm like, sweet I haven't 749 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 3: even turned a light on. I'm just opening the windows 750 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 3: and I go and sit. I'm like trying to rub 751 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 3: her back. She starts crying. I'm like, well, sweeterar, what's 752 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 3: going on. She's like, you gotta sit down here, you 753 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 3: gotta sit on this side. 754 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 755 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: Mom always sits on this side of the bed when 756 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 1: she tells me good morning, and she's sitting in broken 757 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: language the word I'm not understanding it. At first, I'm 758 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 1: just like, sweetheart, you got to communicate clear with me. 759 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're saying. You're crying right now. 760 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 1: I don't know why you're crying. 761 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on? 762 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 1: Then I realize like I'm sitting on the wrong part 763 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: of the bed to sell her good morning and wake 764 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 1: her up. 765 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 2: And I'm just like I can't with these women. Did 766 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 2: what's going on? What's going on? 767 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my very first thought when you were 768 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 3: talking about the washing the hair and Ruth's telling one 769 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 3: story and Charo's telling another, like, we are going to 770 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 3: have to keep all these women in our lives happy. 771 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 2: It's not just one anymore. 772 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and when they're little like that, and you're like, 773 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 1: oh man, I'm so sorry, I said on the wrong 774 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 1: part of the bed. If I sit on this part 775 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 1: of the bed, can we kind of reset and redo 776 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: the morning to the point to where I'll walk out 777 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 1: of the room with Scotti, shut the door, close the 778 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: curtains and just pretend, Hey, we're restarting. Yeah, we're restarting 779 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: the period. Warm up wasn't good enough on the football field. 780 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: We're going to restart the entire practice over. So I'll 781 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: close the curtains, I'll leave the room, and then I'll 782 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: come in. Good morning, Let's open the curtains, Hey, Scotty, 783 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,400 Speaker 1: wave to the world, Wave to the world. And then 784 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: I'll sit down on the right part of the bed 785 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: and be like, good morning, how did you. 786 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 2: Sleep good to where it kind of like catches her 787 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 2: off guard. 788 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 3: Uh huh. 789 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 1: And she's not like acting with me, She's just like, 790 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,400 Speaker 1: I forget what she said, but I will completely restart 791 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,840 Speaker 1: the practice if need be. If I'm starting to feel 792 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: so much frustration boil inside me and I can control 793 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:58,919 Speaker 1: it to where I just don't project and like, yo, 794 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: stop crying. We're not doing this shit this morning, because 795 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: those times happen. 796 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 797 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 3: You just start saying mom, mom, Mom's not here, Moms 798 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 3: at work. Right now, you're with you with dad, right now, 799 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 3: Dad has the cap. 800 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 2: What may go throw on a wig in the dress? 801 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 2: Make you happy? Can you stop crying? Yeah? 802 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 3: You do the rewind noises when you reset having that. 803 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 2: That could be a good fun one. 804 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 3: That could be anytime, anytime there's an opportunity to just 805 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 3: go full dad mode and act the noxious they should 806 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:34,800 Speaker 3: rewinde really Dad, to go backwards. Just anything for a smile, anything, 807 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 3: just to switch the mood up a little bit. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 808 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 3: oh dude, we're in it. Just wait till she's like, Dad, 809 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 3: can I wear this jacket? Absolutely comes down the stairs, 810 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 3: Charro Caesar. You're not supposed to wear that jacket till 811 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 3: your birthday? Bah bah, Dad said, I could wear the jacket. 812 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 2: You're just sitting. 813 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 3: There the thousand yards stare or whatever. That painting is yeah, yeah, honey, 814 00:35:58,480 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 3: I don't know. 815 00:35:59,040 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know. 816 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: Or you just take the kiddos to meet up with 817 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 1: your wife and she's like, why why does she get 818 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: the rain boots on? And I just look, look, she 819 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 1: told me she wanted the rain boots. 820 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 3: That's a battle I don't care to participate in outain 821 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 3: of tears or rain boots. I went, so, now we're here, 822 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 3: it we're on time, and everyone's happy. 823 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, why she. 824 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,800 Speaker 1: Wearing jeans, rain boots, a dress or a two to 825 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 1: two over top? Listen, I said, he rue gets to 826 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:27,720 Speaker 1: dress yourself today. 827 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 828 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, some comments, let's get into some comments. 829 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 2: Got to keep it under now, you got to keep 830 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 2: it under an hour. 831 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: I got a couple of new dad comments here, one 832 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 1: from Johnny Nord on Spotify. Hey, fellas love the pot 833 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 1: and been listening to you boys since the first few episodes. 834 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: I myself was in Budge training at the time, but 835 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 1: officially getting a promotion to PET six in June, as 836 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 1: my wife and I are expecting a baby boy. Hey, 837 00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 1: damn it, Johnny, let's go. Congratulations to you guys. I 838 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,879 Speaker 1: remember one of the earlier episodes you boys mentioned books 839 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 1: you'd recommend for raising and having kids. Would you share 840 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 1: those suggestions again, as I'm hoping to dive into the 841 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: playbook early, so I'm ready to attack in June. Ps 842 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 1: Ollipop up beer not talked about enough. 843 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:16,320 Speaker 2: It's good. 844 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 1: I look, I stamped that I like rut beer. I'm 845 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 1: a rutber Allipop guy. I just have favorites that are 846 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: above that. 847 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 3: And we also so they sent us these Shirley temples 848 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 3: that we'll talk about later, but they send us some 849 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 3: rut beers, correct Rutier cream soda, and then this wonderful 850 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:34,240 Speaker 3: temple yep. 851 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: And cream soda. I haven't had the Shirley temple yet. 852 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it here on the episode. I was 853 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 1: gonna stay live, but obviously this is recorded. Yeah, cream 854 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 1: soda is a banger as well. Ruth's cream soda is 855 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: a banger. I just think there are better options out 856 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: there in the Allipop universe. That's okay, that's just my yeah, Yeah, 857 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 1: that's just my subjective opinion. Ollipop's okay with with hearing 858 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: that too. 859 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:54,720 Speaker 2: Books. 860 00:37:55,440 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 3: Yes, really, Strong Father, Strong Daughters is the only parenting 861 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 3: book that I have jumped into since before the birth 862 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 3: of Scarlett. Slash. Since she's been born, I need to 863 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 3: dive back into it. I think I'm only like forty pages. 864 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,359 Speaker 3: D Yeah, fifty pages for girl. 865 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,720 Speaker 1: Dad's out there. Strong daughters. Strong daughters is a should 866 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 1: be a state before you. If you just finished. You 867 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,480 Speaker 1: just graduated BUDGS training. Good, you graduated BUDG training. But 868 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 1: job's not finished. There are still missions to be had. 869 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: Sleep training. There's a couple options we have out there 870 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: for you. I'll let sure them say his mind was 871 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,320 Speaker 1: a twelve hours by twelve weeks or twelve hours and 872 00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 1: twelve weeks. Oh, got great sea training book just to 873 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,399 Speaker 1: kind of learn what goes on in those first eight 874 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: weeks and each kind of each kind of pocket of 875 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,879 Speaker 1: every four weeks to kind of look to or learn 876 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,759 Speaker 1: about and understand what your kid's going through. It's a 877 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: book to where you're the kid is adapting to your 878 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: world and you're not adapting to everything around their world. 879 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 1: So you're just not like a prisoner in your household 880 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,280 Speaker 1: and a prisoner to the routine instructure. 881 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,800 Speaker 2: Those things are very much needed. 882 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: But a lot of good insight, a lot of good direction, 883 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 1: and practical stuff to get ready to prepare for when 884 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 1: you are sleep training and try to get your kidd 885 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 1: to sleep within twelve weeks. Give her take like Rude 886 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 1: took sixteen weeks, Scott, he was down, was ready. It 887 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 1: was I got her train, We got her trained up. 888 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 1: Her technique was good by eleven weeks. Ruth took longer. 889 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 1: But it's just a great book to kind of to 890 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 1: kind of dive into what sleep training is because I'm 891 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,200 Speaker 1: telling you, sleep training those those first twelve hours and 892 00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 1: sleeping through the night is a goal and a light 893 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 1: that you and your wife both are gonna want to capture. 894 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 1: And you only wait till you're in it, and then 895 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: you're learning about it a week, nine, week, ten. Oh, 896 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,440 Speaker 1: they're sleep training out there. Too late, too late? Yeah, 897 00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: and it is too late. It's not too late, but 898 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,319 Speaker 1: not too late. It is too late. 899 00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 3: From the standpoint of I think that's the best advice 900 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 3: you could have given me as a new dat I 901 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 3: have a six month old. For any new listeners, you 902 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:52,840 Speaker 3: were big on twelve hours by twelve weeks, And thankfully 903 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 3: I have a nurse as a wife, Jill, who also 904 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,640 Speaker 3: is big on the sleep training stuff. 905 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 2: We went with. 906 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,680 Speaker 3: Mom's on Call is the title of the book, and 907 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,280 Speaker 3: It was written by nurses, and it's the same principle 908 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 3: as twelve hours by twelve weeks. 909 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,480 Speaker 2: It's just a little bit of a different strategy and 910 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,280 Speaker 2: different iterations. There's a lot of iterations out there. 911 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 3: And when I talk a little bit different, I am 912 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 3: talking about like six thirty and so of six forty five, 913 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 3: or you know, don't give them a passing until ten 914 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 3: minutes in the crib. Very minute, small difference. 915 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 1: It coops you with these toolbags, like while you're going 916 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: through sleep training. 917 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 3: Yes, dude, the overarching theme of allowing you to be 918 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 3: able to live your life, dude, like being able to 919 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 3: go to brunch. No sweat for me, because I know 920 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 3: that Scarlet slept almost you know, twelve ish hours. She's great, 921 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 3: she's in a happy mood. She took a little nap 922 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 3: like on the way to brunch, and then she made 923 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 3: like two noises at brunch and they were minor, little 924 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 3: like like. 925 00:40:58,680 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 2: She's not crying. 926 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. It gets the baby on a schedule. It helps 927 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 3: you with maintain your schedule. It helps give you philosophies too, 928 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 3: to where. 929 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,840 Speaker 1: You know, you learn about it and then you realize, 930 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: like if you're somebody's asking you out to whether it's 931 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,160 Speaker 1: a breakfast or a lunch or dinner, whatever it is. 932 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: You more have like the mindset of we can figure 933 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,800 Speaker 1: this out, like we can do this versus just a 934 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,439 Speaker 1: quick response I kind of can't this time baby goes down. 935 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes that is just gonna be what happens, especially if 936 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 1: they're new born and everything else. But it helps shift 937 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 1: your mindset to we can figure things out based on 938 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: the knowledge you're kind of teaching yourself. Because I think 939 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 1: the sleep training stuff is just a big win for 940 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 1: dads in general because a lot of times, like when 941 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: your wife's pregnant, baby's born, and everything else, Like, as men, 942 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,360 Speaker 1: we really lean on our wives to have all the answers, 943 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 1: and sometimes our wives are like they're their whole thing 944 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 1: is like dude, we're learning it just like you are 945 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 1: and finding intention and learning learning some tricks or the 946 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 1: trade along the way. I feel like the sleep training 947 00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: stuff is a good way for dads to kind of 948 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,200 Speaker 1: dive in before the baby comes. 949 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it also shows your partner that you're invested. 950 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 1: You're investing your time and energy to learn about something 951 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,279 Speaker 1: to where you might have input as well to where 952 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 1: you're having a conversation with your wife, and I just 953 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,000 Speaker 1: feel like it sets Dad's up for just a good. 954 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 2: Early win, and you just you're learning new information. 955 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: You're kind of educating on you yourself on what's happening, 956 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,399 Speaker 1: so that way you're privy to it as the baby's there, 957 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: so you're just not sitting there, You're you're not sitting 958 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 1: there when the baby's worn, with your dick into your hand, 959 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: wondering like we hey, sweetheart, like, so what do we 960 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 1: do here? How do I how do I feed this? 961 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,399 Speaker 2: Like? What time does the baby? What times a baby 962 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:32,799 Speaker 2: go down? 963 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 3: It empowers the dads of a perfect example of my 964 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:40,399 Speaker 3: solo saturdays. I usually just to keep Jill happy while 965 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 3: she's at work, and I know it gives her peace 966 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 3: of mind. I text her with updates of feeds, and 967 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 3: I text her at eight thirty I said, hey, let's 968 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 3: Scarlet sleep in this morning because she was out, you know, 969 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:55,799 Speaker 3: passed out, and instead of seven thirty feed, I fed 970 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 3: her at eight thirty. And uh, I'm going to tear 971 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 3: out her three hour intervals of feeds to where I'm 972 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,919 Speaker 3: doing fifteen minutes early on every single line, so I'll 973 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:09,040 Speaker 3: get her back to the seven thirty schedule, so then 974 00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 3: she'll be she'll be out tonight by seven thirty pm, 975 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 3: not even worried about it. Jill, Well, yeah, have a 976 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,760 Speaker 3: good day. Yeah yeah, yeah, exactly. 977 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: And as far as books go, too, there's a lot 978 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:18,799 Speaker 1: of oh sorry, you got a question show. 979 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 5: I'll say, do you want do we want to take 980 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,680 Speaker 5: this time take a quick break while you go do 981 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 5: k oh shit? 982 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,839 Speaker 1: Once we will knock out another We'll just knock out 983 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: another comment then we can because that's a ten ten correct. 984 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, ten ten. 985 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 1: I always going to say, as far as books go, 986 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 1: there's just a lot of good stuff out there wherever 987 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 1: you might have it interested. It's like how to raise 988 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 1: kids not to be assholes. The Daily Dad has been 989 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 1: a staple in our household for at dinner, we'll read 990 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 1: a day, you know, a day and daily Dads. I 991 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: honestly need to get on because I've been off that 992 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: for about a month. But the Daily Dad's ago, and 993 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:48,439 Speaker 1: there's a lot of good stuff out there. 994 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 3: My dad got me Daily Dad. I've yet to I 995 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,800 Speaker 3: need to start doing that too. Elijah dot W fourteen 996 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 3: on Instagram says what's up boys, huge Packers fan? 997 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 2: Here? Oh man? 998 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 3: Sorry, Elijah born in Wisconsin, moved to Canada because of 999 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:09,279 Speaker 3: my dad's job. Obviously, never missed a game. Tonight had 1000 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 3: me thinking about losses and man, we had a big 1001 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 3: one crying emoji. However, because of the inspiring words of 1002 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 3: Sherman Willie Spit week after week, I was able to 1003 00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 3: get out of my seat while Jordan Love was making 1004 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,720 Speaker 3: the drive of his life to change my beautiful baby 1005 00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,759 Speaker 3: girl's dirty diaper. She's three months old now. Never thought 1006 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,800 Speaker 3: I'd love anything so much. You guys are the best 1007 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 3: and have taught me more than I could know. And 1008 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 3: keep doing your thing. PT six all day. 1009 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 2: Let's go a lot, Let's go Elijah. Sorry for the L, dude, Yeah, sorry, 1010 00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:42,239 Speaker 2: that's a tough l. 1011 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,080 Speaker 1: Being up twenty one to three, blowing that lead. Yeah, 1012 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 1: still have an opportunity in the second half to miss 1013 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 1: field goes a miss extra point. 1014 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1015 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 3: Oh hey, what I would do is I would I 1016 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 3: would hop on there would he obviously has an Instagram 1017 00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,480 Speaker 3: If you have a Twitter as well, I would just 1018 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,680 Speaker 3: hop in Clay's Clay Matthew MS. 1019 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, why not? 1020 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,760 Speaker 3: I would just DM Clay Matthews. Tell him how you're feeling. 1021 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 3: Maybe send him a screenshot of the bikini pick that 1022 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 3: will generated on Twitter and say what's this nonsense. 1023 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,440 Speaker 1: We'll just say, hey, I'm wearing a bikini with you 1024 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 1: right now. Brothers join on them bring back bikini. I'm 1025 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 1: right there with you, bro. 1026 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 3: PT six Sicko. By the way, I love you, Clay Elijah. 1027 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 3: Thank you for writing in shout out Elijah PT Sichos. 1028 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,919 Speaker 3: We come to you guys with just a special little 1029 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,600 Speaker 3: segment we wanted to do this week because we have 1030 00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:39,360 Speaker 3: been backlogged on Thank yous. A lot of PT cicicos, 1031 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,919 Speaker 3: a lot of empty cichos will share some of their 1032 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 3: entrepreneurial endeavors, some of their products with us, which we 1033 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,600 Speaker 3: are so appreciative of, and we'll reach back out on 1034 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,680 Speaker 3: social media and say thank you obviously, but we we 1035 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,799 Speaker 3: love to do it even bigger. Thank you, like our 1036 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,160 Speaker 3: friend at Arkansas that send us stuff the awesome PT 1037 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 3: six signs that we got in the past. What else 1038 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 3: USF's equipment manager sent us some stuff, So we just 1039 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 3: wanted to take the time today to say thank you. 1040 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 3: I am wearing a polo from American Waters. American Waters 1041 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 3: is a apparel company that sells polos that are all 1042 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:33,360 Speaker 3: American made and they're incredibly comfortable, incredibly stylish. And McCrae Morehouse, 1043 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:37,399 Speaker 3: who's the owner and founder of American Waters, sent a 1044 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:41,839 Speaker 3: letter and like three polos, right, like two or three 1045 00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 3: polos each to every single member of for the dads. 1046 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Chef is a sicko. 1047 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 3: For American Waters, as we all are. But Chef has 1048 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,399 Speaker 3: worn these out two golf. 1049 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:54,319 Speaker 2: In I have. 1050 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,960 Speaker 5: I wore it to Christmas Mass got a lot of 1051 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 5: compliments from the family that was really nice. And I 1052 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,840 Speaker 5: don't know if we have I'm wanting to start a 1053 00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,759 Speaker 5: PT six golf division because I know there's some sick 1054 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,239 Speaker 5: oh dads out there that love to golf absolutely and 1055 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 5: I'm sure that we can all talk about well I 1056 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 5: can't because I don't have a kid, but you know, 1057 00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,160 Speaker 5: trying to get out on the course and whatnot. 1058 00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 2: That's a conversation for a later day. 1059 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:21,600 Speaker 5: But yeah, However, these American Water polos, Sherman are some 1060 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:25,120 Speaker 5: of the comfiest polos I've ever worn, and they scream 1061 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 5: to me. We live in Tennessee, gets really hot out. 1062 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,000 Speaker 5: It's a moisture wicking material. It's great for the summer, 1063 00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 5: but it screams to me spring golf right when it 1064 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,920 Speaker 5: starts to warm up. And it's a good look. It's classy, 1065 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,400 Speaker 5: good colors. And let me tell you, the fit on 1066 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,560 Speaker 5: them is unlike anything else. There's nothing like a shirt 1067 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 5: that fits great. And just to reiterate, we are not 1068 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 5: sponsored by American Waters at all. Yeah, he just sent 1069 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,000 Speaker 5: out clothes, you know, from the nicest of his heart, 1070 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 5: and they're incredible. I cannot speak highly enough to these. 1071 00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, and wrote an incredibly kind letter to each one 1072 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,760 Speaker 3: of us. And also the other thing that I'll point 1073 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,840 Speaker 3: out that I haven't brought up before on these polos 1074 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:13,600 Speaker 3: is with the dryfit material of other polos, you'll sometimes 1075 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 3: like it'll be really cold outside and you wore the 1076 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,799 Speaker 3: pollo like underneath the jacket and you can feel the 1077 00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 3: coldness still, like the it almost sticks to you. This 1078 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,080 Speaker 3: is like that moisture wicking that also has like a 1079 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,480 Speaker 3: nice little cotton in it. Yeah, it's got a nice 1080 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 3: little layer to it. So really love these and thank 1081 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,840 Speaker 3: you again McCray for sending them. You also might have 1082 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,840 Speaker 3: noticed Chef is wearing one currently. 1083 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,320 Speaker 2: We have these don't. 1084 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 3: Have to you get to hats from the Get To 1085 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:46,440 Speaker 3: Foundation We also had a very kind note sent to 1086 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 3: us from the founder, Nate Jones, And I know that, Derek, 1087 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,319 Speaker 3: you know a bunch of the backstory of the get 1088 00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,680 Speaker 3: To Foundation. You want to let the pet Sikos know 1089 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,440 Speaker 3: a little about a little bit about that. 1090 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe it's It was Nate's brother, Ben was 1091 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 4: a football coach and preached the you'd get to, not 1092 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 4: have to, get to, not have to is their foundation. 1093 00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,080 Speaker 4: It's a mindset around the fact that everything in life, 1094 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 4: people are like I have to do all these things, 1095 00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 4: you know, you get to, and how blessed we are 1096 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,680 Speaker 4: to have that mindset for it. But he had tragically 1097 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 4: passed away, so they started the foundation and they get 1098 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 4: to was kind of how he was remembered through it all. 1099 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,360 Speaker 4: And so obviously we love you know, the hat and 1100 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 4: everything about it, but really it's it's the foundation. It's 1101 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,919 Speaker 4: donating to it and what they they kind of fight 1102 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 4: for over there. So it's a beautiful foundation that just 1103 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 4: saw our clip about saying get to instead of half to, 1104 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,319 Speaker 4: and so it's just a really really cool cause we 1105 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:36,919 Speaker 4: can get behind. 1106 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:42,240 Speaker 3: He also sent us these posters, he sent us these hats, 1107 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 3: he sent us some bracelets. 1108 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 2: That Derek's rocking one right now. 1109 00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:51,040 Speaker 3: All that being said, thank you very very much for 1110 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:56,880 Speaker 3: sending that. We also have a book that was written 1111 00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:57,759 Speaker 3: by J. 1112 00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 2: T Roy. 1113 00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,400 Speaker 3: It was his first go at writing any book, and 1114 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:08,960 Speaker 3: it's a children's book called Milli Bananas Can't Sleep. I 1115 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,200 Speaker 3: have read Milli Bananas Can't Sleep. I've read it to Scarlet. 1116 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 3: It is a fantastic book about Milli Bananas and her 1117 00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:20,120 Speaker 3: parents going through the checklists of all the things that 1118 00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,799 Speaker 3: need to be done in order for Milli Bananas to 1119 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 3: be ready for bed. And guys, it is really fun 1120 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:29,000 Speaker 3: if you're looking to build a nighttime structure with your 1121 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,960 Speaker 3: kid of just all the little things, so brushing the teeth, 1122 00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,879 Speaker 3: combing the hair, taking a bath. These Milli Bananas run 1123 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:40,400 Speaker 3: through like all this stuff with her parents. The illustrations 1124 00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 3: are extremely well done. 1125 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 2: Those were done by Yanna Kozak. 1126 00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:46,600 Speaker 6: But J. 1127 00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 3: T Roy, who is a pt SIKO, wanted to just 1128 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 3: send this our way and we can't think of enough. 1129 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 3: He also sent us a little care package which this 1130 00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 3: looks like a marketing care package that and maybe it 1131 00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:04,239 Speaker 3: comes with the book. I don't know, but we got 1132 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,399 Speaker 3: this awesome care package that came with like a Milli 1133 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 3: Banana's stuffed animal. It came with a toothbrush like a 1134 00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 3: toddler toothbrush. When I showed it to Jill she lost 1135 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 3: her mind. Jillie Bean loved it and we love the book. 1136 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 3: So JT thank you. Let's see what else? Oh, we 1137 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 3: have not only a DM but a nice little treat 1138 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 3: from Christy. This comes from Christy Schlessinger. She is a 1139 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 3: speech pathologist. She is also a feeding specialist. Christy wrote 1140 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 3: in to the for the Dad's Podcast instagram from her 1141 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:49,040 Speaker 3: Instagram feeding with confidence. So she said, Hey, I'm Christy. 1142 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:53,359 Speaker 3: I'm a speech slash feeding therapist and I run an 1143 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:57,799 Speaker 3: account helping moms and dads in parentheses because you know 1144 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 3: Papa Team six feed their baby in toddlers and I 1145 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:05,240 Speaker 3: had to reach out after your podcast clip about feeding 1146 00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 3: your daughter. My husband is a Tier one fan of 1147 00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:11,360 Speaker 3: for the Dad's in Busting with the Boys. So here's 1148 00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 3: the download for the guide I sell to parents. I 1149 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 3: had to hook you up, but really, if you have 1150 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,439 Speaker 3: any specific questions, I'm also happy to help big hug 1151 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 3: signy kisses. My husband told me to say that. Christy, 1152 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 3: thank you so much for reaching out. I've already run through. 1153 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:36,480 Speaker 3: So Christy sent her thirty day solid feeding plan for 1154 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:44,240 Speaker 3: newborns for toddlers, which is titled the Milk to Meals Blueprint. Christy, 1155 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 3: I've already run through some of it with Jill. Her 1156 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:50,200 Speaker 3: being a registered nurse, she is going into the solid 1157 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:53,919 Speaker 3: stuff with like a whole gang of stuff that she's 1158 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:57,400 Speaker 3: learned from the hospital, et cetera. A lot of stuff 1159 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 3: that Christy talks about in this piece of literature. And 1160 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:06,240 Speaker 3: Jill was like, Chris, Chrissy knows what she's talking about. 1161 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:10,000 Speaker 3: She's on one, and so we're just kind of laughing 1162 00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:13,440 Speaker 3: and going through some of the meal prep stuff and 1163 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,399 Speaker 3: some of the feeding techniques and how do you want 1164 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:18,760 Speaker 3: to have your baby set up in a high chair 1165 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 3: and eliminate distractions. Christy touches on a lot of cool 1166 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:26,040 Speaker 3: stuff in this, so make sure to check her out 1167 00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:31,040 Speaker 3: on feeding with confidence and Christy Celessinger, thank you for 1168 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:31,799 Speaker 3: sending that in. 1169 00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 2: Guys, we hope you enjoyed the rest of this episode. 1170 00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:36,719 Speaker 2: The rest of this pod. 1171 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:41,319 Speaker 3: Put put a little emoji down at the bottom. What 1172 00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:46,320 Speaker 3: emoji should we do? If you listen to this entire segment, 1173 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 3: Thank you segment The little beach, the little Beach. Thank 1174 00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 3: you guys, enjoy the rest of the episode. 1175 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:56,120 Speaker 1: I got one to hear from Ashton car pri Oh Ashley, 1176 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: Ashton Carper. 1177 00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,160 Speaker 2: This one is This one is a new dat. 1178 00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,919 Speaker 1: Shout out Willie one show Fat Stafford, Chef Bama owns 1179 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:09,280 Speaker 1: Tennessee Jack and Deep the Wise. The time has come. 1180 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,839 Speaker 1: It is two thirty am, currently sitting at the foot 1181 00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 1: of the bed of an absolute trooper. She is housing 1182 00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 1: a greater than ninety ninth percentile terrorist whom I thought 1183 00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,840 Speaker 1: just pissed herself. Turns out her water broke. Good good. 1184 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:26,879 Speaker 1: I just want to reach out and thank you all 1185 00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,800 Speaker 1: for the not professional advice and all of the under 1186 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 1: an hour sodes. When that test showed positive, I was 1187 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:35,879 Speaker 1: completely filled with joy and fear. This podcast has taught 1188 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,200 Speaker 1: me that the suck will happen and then trenches are 1189 00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 1: dug deep. But when y'all have But what y'all have 1190 00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,839 Speaker 1: also shown from your deeperot love and passion for your 1191 00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,440 Speaker 1: girls is that it is all worth it. So hopefully 1192 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:47,880 Speaker 1: here in the next twenty four hours we will be 1193 00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:53,440 Speaker 1: welcoming our first daughter, Maple Joe. Yeah, let's go shout 1194 00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,239 Speaker 1: out Ashton shout out you guys man and good luck. 1195 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,000 Speaker 1: I hope everything went well. I love the name Maple 1196 00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 1: by the way out. 1197 00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:01,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, maple Joe. 1198 00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 1: Maple Joe makes you think of Scottie Joe and I 1199 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,400 Speaker 1: do you love maple Just a little syrup, a little something, 1200 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 1: little Vermont maple syrup. 1201 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 2: Maple Joe. Yeah, maple Joe. That's hout. Maple Joe. 1202 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:18,839 Speaker 3: Sounds like they could give you good advice at anytime. Yeah, yes, 1203 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 3: mapel Joe. You run that by Maple Joe. Maple Joe 1204 00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 3: sounds kind of like an Auburn fan name. I think 1205 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 3: she might make a great one. 1206 00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,759 Speaker 2: He came with the boys show. Yes, she gets firing back. 1207 00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 2: Congratulates your four day old daughter. She's gonna make a 1208 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,799 Speaker 2: great Auburn fan. No, I didn't go for Tennessee. I 1209 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:42,480 Speaker 2: went for Auburn. I suped a little well. 1210 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it don't wear her. Congratulations that's amazing or 1211 00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:52,120 Speaker 3: eagle maple uh. Michael panel four three three five on 1212 00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,799 Speaker 3: YouTube set joining pt six in May recently found this 1213 00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,080 Speaker 3: podcast that I Am an episode I am on episode twelve, 1214 00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 3: already got the wife. He hooked on it as well, 1215 00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,200 Speaker 3: and we hope to be all caught up by the 1216 00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:08,360 Speaker 3: time baby boy comes. Congratulations Will, I'm a lot like 1217 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,600 Speaker 3: you when it comes to building things, embracing the suck 1218 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:15,200 Speaker 3: already in regards to the nursery, commenting on the most 1219 00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:18,600 Speaker 3: recent episode and hopes to see uh it shared on 1220 00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:21,719 Speaker 3: the show. Keep up the good work, boys, Michael, thank 1221 00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:23,480 Speaker 3: you for speed touring. 1222 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, Michael, Michael one shelf, Mike Mikey one shelf, 1223 00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,840 Speaker 1: Mikey one shelf, Mikey one shelf. If he has my mentality, 1224 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:32,600 Speaker 1: I know he's embracing the suck right now. If he 1225 00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:37,880 Speaker 1: has if he has my mentality playing chess, you jump 1226 00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,399 Speaker 1: on task, grab it or something else. 1227 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well get somebody over there with the 1228 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:42,520 Speaker 2: hours when mom's out. 1229 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,920 Speaker 1: Haven't put together that crib, haven't put together that shelf, cabinet, 1230 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,759 Speaker 1: whatever it is. And then when mom walks in the 1231 00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,360 Speaker 1: doorbell you a lot of people Mikey one shelf, handled. 1232 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,319 Speaker 3: That, a lot of people sleeping on one shelf. This 1233 00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:58,200 Speaker 3: is your cube that you used a power saw and 1234 00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,319 Speaker 3: you're able to cut out a square where of wood. 1235 00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,000 Speaker 3: I thought you operated quite nicely. Thank one shell, Thank you, 1236 00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 3: And yeah. 1237 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,040 Speaker 1: Look I'm not I'm not like a third grader out 1238 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,440 Speaker 1: there operating on somebody to struggle to read directions the 1239 00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 1: times they will remain unnamed, but we had some people 1240 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:13,719 Speaker 1: strip some screws. 1241 00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you did not strip your screw You did a 1242 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 3: great job. 1243 00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 2: Thank you for Willy. 1244 00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,040 Speaker 3: One shell from yeah yeah really one show from where 1245 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,200 Speaker 3: I'm at in the in the pecking order, Yes sir, 1246 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:27,439 Speaker 3: yes sir, very quickly. I wanted to kick it over 1247 00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 3: to crack a cold one. 1248 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:30,760 Speaker 2: Wull we crack a cold one. 1249 00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,160 Speaker 1: Just you remind people please for chances to be featured 1250 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,440 Speaker 1: on the episode again you you you write in comments 1251 00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:39,680 Speaker 1: and or comments sections on YouTube, Spotify, social media. The 1252 00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:42,440 Speaker 1: boys find them. We feature a lot of stuff on 1253 00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,959 Speaker 1: this on this show. Also, we'll get to the voicemails later, 1254 00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 1: but you can always write in uh six on one 1255 00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 1: of the dads, call in and leave a voicemail, or 1256 00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:52,720 Speaker 1: write in if you're international, or would rather write in 1257 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,520 Speaker 1: an email six on one of the dads at gmail 1258 00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 1: dot com. 1259 00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:59,720 Speaker 3: And as we discussed and kind of decided on last 1260 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:00,720 Speaker 3: week's episode, you. 1261 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 2: Get a hat. You get a hat and get a 1262 00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 2: mail in So email is hat? 1263 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, cap, you get a cap. It had to 1264 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:17,920 Speaker 3: be read on the show, and they have to be 1265 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:19,960 Speaker 3: an international ride in. 1266 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 2: I believe they. 1267 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,200 Speaker 1: Just get get picked out because there's some people that 1268 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: might not just just prefer to write in the email, 1269 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,680 Speaker 1: gather their gather their thoughts, put it down on put 1270 00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:32,480 Speaker 1: it down on the computer. 1271 00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,760 Speaker 3: They're in witness protection. They can have their voice on 1272 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,520 Speaker 3: a podcast. Yeah, you know, but they're pet sick. 1273 00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:39,440 Speaker 1: It would be fun to get a voicemail where you 1274 00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,360 Speaker 1: kind of got the automated. 1275 00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 2: Voice Willie won show. That would be fun. They have 1276 00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:47,400 Speaker 2: to hide. 1277 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 1: Behind that voice because they're going to continue to like 1278 00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:52,640 Speaker 1: call out people in this family by name. 1279 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:58,440 Speaker 3: My daughter's starting to act more and more like my wife, 1280 00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:03,000 Speaker 3: and it's driving like, what this guy do we have 1281 00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 3: his phone number? We need to locate this guy. Craig 1282 00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,360 Speaker 3: A cold one, Crack A cold one brought to us 1283 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:18,840 Speaker 3: by tell them Ollipop. It's official, boys, We're Ollipop Podcast 1284 00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:19,320 Speaker 3: right now. 1285 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 2: Ollipop Podcast to. 1286 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:24,960 Speaker 3: Cold One will be brought to you by Ollipop. 1287 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1288 00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:28,560 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of conversation out there about Ollipop. 1289 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,040 Speaker 1: I feel like I put out stuff now and I 1290 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 1: could just be I could be talking about just classic 1291 00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,680 Speaker 1: grape and people are wondering why it's slid down in 1292 00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:41,560 Speaker 1: the rankings. Hey, where's the love for Ridge Rush? Where's 1293 00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:45,160 Speaker 1: the love for Ridge Rush? Where's the love for Vintage Colo? 1294 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,720 Speaker 1: Where's the love for root beer? Were somebody was talking 1295 00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:49,400 Speaker 1: about root Pier. I think you're sleeping on I think 1296 00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:52,040 Speaker 1: root beer is a quality Ollipop. But if there's one 1297 00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna be with you guys on this podcast, 1298 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:57,560 Speaker 1: it's honest. It's honest, and I think that's why Ollipop 1299 00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:01,200 Speaker 1: trusts for the dads. But this episode is brought to 1300 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:02,240 Speaker 1: us by Ollipop. 1301 01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 3: It sure is, it sure is. This episode is brought 1302 01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:14,040 Speaker 3: to us by Ollipop, and they sent us some Sureley temples. 1303 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:15,880 Speaker 3: I can't wait to try I haven't tried it yet. 1304 01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:18,919 Speaker 3: Get in there, get in krackical when. 1305 01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:25,240 Speaker 2: That's it sounds good? 1306 01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 3: How's it taste? 1307 01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 1: That's quite lovely. That's quite lovely if I think about 1308 01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:34,000 Speaker 1: where my rankings are with Ollipop. And by the way, guys, 1309 01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 1: we talked about it on every episode went into a 1310 01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:40,960 Speaker 1: big time last week. But nine grams of pre bodic fiber, 1311 01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,480 Speaker 1: two to five grams of sugar per can and each 1312 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 1: of these can. So if you're a big if you're 1313 01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,600 Speaker 1: a soda drinker, and you're looking to find a good substitute, 1314 01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 1: a quality substitute that's good for your gut and good 1315 01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: fear taste buds, it's Ollipop. If you don't like drinking 1316 01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,000 Speaker 1: water all the time, you like to switch it up 1317 01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:01,880 Speaker 1: a little bit. Ollipop. They're everywhere. Go find Ollipop everywhere. 1318 01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 1: It's how I walk into a gas station. I had 1319 01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,960 Speaker 1: to find the ollipops. Yeah, my local gas station, my 1320 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 1: local spot that I go to three four times a week. 1321 01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:16,280 Speaker 1: They have watermelon lime. Oh and watermelon lime is which 1322 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:21,680 Speaker 1: right now cemented, cemented, written in pencil, not pin, not sharpie. 1323 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:25,440 Speaker 2: Yep. But my number two slot is taken up by 1324 01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 2: watermelon lime. Really yeah. 1325 01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:31,120 Speaker 1: Number one is chrisp Apple, okay. Number two is watermelon lime. 1326 01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,960 Speaker 1: Number three is classic grape. These are all phenomenal jicks. 1327 01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,080 Speaker 1: It's just you gotta you gotta rank them, you know. 1328 01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:44,760 Speaker 1: My number four is cream soda. My number five might 1329 01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 1: be the Shirley Temple. Really yeah, I like it. I 1330 01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:51,000 Speaker 1: think very pleasant, the Shirley Temples. This is the same 1331 01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 1: note that I give with almost every ollipop flavor. It's 1332 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 1: so light, dude, It's so light. It has really really 1333 01:01:57,760 --> 01:01:58,320 Speaker 1: good taste. 1334 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:00,400 Speaker 3: But I don't know how to describe it other than 1335 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,960 Speaker 3: it kind of it's like I'm drinking water on the lightness, 1336 01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:07,960 Speaker 3: full effect of like bubble guts all that stuff. I 1337 01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:11,200 Speaker 3: feel like I'm drinking water, but it tastes like traditional soda. 1338 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 3: I don't know what a big soda guy, A big 1339 01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 3: you were. You were a big soda guy was. Now 1340 01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:18,520 Speaker 3: I'm just a big lollipop guy. 1341 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,720 Speaker 1: Because we'd be good and you beg I'm sitting here 1342 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,320 Speaker 1: with this thirty two ounce I just got down to 1343 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 1: the gas station. So soda buddy, he'd be bubble. You'd 1344 01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:31,800 Speaker 1: have to take breaks. A leader, leader of cola. Now 1345 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,200 Speaker 1: I need a leader at Lollipop. 1346 01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,000 Speaker 2: That's what I need. I got. 1347 01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:40,560 Speaker 3: You can get a free can of lollipop will if 1348 01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:44,080 Speaker 3: you buy any two cans of lollipop in store, and 1349 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:47,080 Speaker 3: they will pay you back for one of those lollipops 1350 01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:47,760 Speaker 3: on the back end. 1351 01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 2: Works on any flavor at any retailer. 1352 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,880 Speaker 3: All you have to do is go to Drinkollipop dot 1353 01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 3: com Forward slash busting with the boys. So that's buy 1354 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,880 Speaker 3: any two cans of lollipop in store and they will 1355 01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 3: pay you back for one of them. 1356 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,360 Speaker 2: So buy one get one. Dude, it's Bogo Bogo. All 1357 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:07,040 Speaker 2: you got to do is get two lollipops and you 1358 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,320 Speaker 2: can get one free. Come on bye yeah. 1359 01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,800 Speaker 3: By any two KANDID you'll get one free Little Bogo 1360 01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:17,880 Speaker 3: Action ollipops sold online drinkollipop dot Com plus Amazon and 1361 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:22,000 Speaker 3: available in the soda aisle and with the chilled beverages 1362 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:27,200 Speaker 3: at thousands of really retailers nationwide, including Walmart and Target. 1363 01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:30,960 Speaker 2: Ollipop A team six Ollipop a tenci uh. 1364 01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:36,080 Speaker 3: Crack a cold one goes to our brunch, which I 1365 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:41,080 Speaker 3: thought it would be, And dude, it was just so 1366 01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 3: much fun. I for so many reasons. We already talked 1367 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 3: about Ru interacting with Scarlett. I got to play with 1368 01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:51,160 Speaker 3: Rue a bunch. It was fun getting to see her 1369 01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:55,880 Speaker 3: interaction with Scottie, her sister. It was fun getting to 1370 01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:59,120 Speaker 3: see her interactions with you. She was really wanting to 1371 01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:03,600 Speaker 3: pull me into pulling a prank on Willie one shelf. 1372 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,280 Speaker 3: She wanted to get you so bad with that. She 1373 01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:11,320 Speaker 3: was invisible, Where Where's real? Where's real? And she's like 1374 01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:15,919 Speaker 3: uncle sherm, you ask ask my dad does where is reu? 1375 01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:18,760 Speaker 3: She's getting me in on it. She's hiding behind me. 1376 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:22,680 Speaker 3: Will walks out the damn restaurant. He walked out in 1377 01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:23,440 Speaker 3: the room. 1378 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:23,960 Speaker 2: Because where's Rue? 1379 01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:25,880 Speaker 1: And I just see like Ru's little head popping behind 1380 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:27,640 Speaker 1: his back like he's just sitting on a beach. He's 1381 01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,360 Speaker 1: sitting on like the bench in the boot, like the 1382 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:33,160 Speaker 1: booth side, and 's just high mind. And he's like, Hey, 1383 01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:35,880 Speaker 1: where's Rue? And I was like, oh, where's Rue? 1384 01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:41,040 Speaker 3: Nobody Will? And I'm being serious, this isn't a game. 1385 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,800 Speaker 3: Where's your daughter? 1386 01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 2: Like I really? 1387 01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:46,880 Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, he's playing to I was like, oh, 1388 01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 1: anybody seeing Rue? Hey, guys, is Rude back there? I'm like, 1389 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:52,800 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I don't know where who is. I'm 1390 01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 1: gonna have to go check the car. I'm gonna have 1391 01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: to go outside. So I get up and start walking 1392 01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, where's Rue. 1393 01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 2: She is losing it. 1394 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,960 Speaker 3: I just feel this vibration on my back of her 1395 01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,440 Speaker 3: losing it behind me thinking it's deep, funniest thing in 1396 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:06,680 Speaker 3: the word. 1397 01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:08,720 Speaker 1: And I'm thinking in my head hopefully she says something, 1398 01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,720 Speaker 1: so Dada, as I have to go outside and pretend 1399 01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:11,400 Speaker 1: to walk to the car. 1400 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:15,440 Speaker 2: You could you hear me? Yeah? I get hear I 1401 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:15,960 Speaker 2: get here, sir. 1402 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,680 Speaker 3: I'm trying to get her to say, like, hey, tell him, 1403 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,720 Speaker 3: tell him, Like, and I walk outside and I'm like, well, 1404 01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:22,720 Speaker 3: now I'm outside, and I got to walk around the 1405 01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:23,280 Speaker 3: corner here. 1406 01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: Then I see the windows. I'm like, all right, maybe 1407 01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:27,040 Speaker 1: I can look in the windows and so I don't 1408 01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:29,520 Speaker 1: have to walk all the way to the carcause I'm 1409 01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,600 Speaker 1: trying to think. Okay in her mind, and she knows 1410 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,680 Speaker 1: that Dad is leaving and leaving the building, maybe she'll 1411 01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:35,480 Speaker 1: panic a little bit like Dad, I'm right here, I'm 1412 01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:37,440 Speaker 1: right here. It's all good. Oh yeah, But no, she 1413 01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:39,440 Speaker 1: kept the prank alive to where I'm in the window. 1414 01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:40,520 Speaker 1: And then I look and I'm like, oh. 1415 01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 2: My god, there you are literally what he did. He 1416 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 2: goes the window. 1417 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,160 Speaker 3: Another party sitting there like looking over at me, probably wondering, 1418 01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:51,640 Speaker 3: like looking at them, They're like this, Psicho, what are 1419 01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:52,440 Speaker 3: they like? 1420 01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god? Walk inside. I'm like, dude, where were you? 1421 01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:00,280 Speaker 2: She's just not even talking, she's laughing. So, yeah, what's 1422 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,760 Speaker 2: the story? I heard? You did not defend her from 1423 01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:05,680 Speaker 2: a bear? There was a bear? Can we hear about 1424 01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:05,880 Speaker 2: that one? 1425 01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 6: Sure? 1426 01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:11,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? Wait did you post that the bathroom thing? The 1427 01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:15,400 Speaker 2: bathroom thing? When when she went to the bathroom. Oh yeah, 1428 01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:17,600 Speaker 2: my story, Oh my story. I storied it. 1429 01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I storied it. I mean I can give the 1430 01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:23,320 Speaker 3: video for context. Okay, yeah, video for context. I want 1431 01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,960 Speaker 3: to give my video too, because that was hilarious. 1432 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,880 Speaker 2: But you go, that's a matter of fact. There we go. 1433 01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:30,760 Speaker 1: I can build on the crack of cold one. Yeah, 1434 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:34,400 Speaker 1: the moment that rus like, Dad, I need to go potty. 1435 01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:38,600 Speaker 1: I want Uncle Sharm to take me potty. You know, 1436 01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:40,960 Speaker 1: I'm being scotty And I'm already laughing in my. 1437 01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:46,600 Speaker 2: Head because just as a new dad, like when your daughter. 1438 01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm thinking more of girl dads, because boys, I don't 1439 01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:53,520 Speaker 1: see it being it wouldn't feel this way, but having 1440 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,479 Speaker 1: your daughter and then she gets the to the point 1441 01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:57,560 Speaker 1: where she can go potty on her own as long 1442 01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,760 Speaker 1: as like somebody's there to you know, shaperone or like 1443 01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 1: take her. And I just remember the first feelings I 1444 01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,080 Speaker 1: had when I was in public and She's like a 1445 01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:07,640 Speaker 1: dead out, I need to go potty. I want you 1446 01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:09,200 Speaker 1: to take me potty, and Mom's sitting right there, and 1447 01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:10,720 Speaker 1: then I'm like do what do I Just take her 1448 01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:12,560 Speaker 1: in the men's bathroom. 1449 01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:14,200 Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, just take her into the cell of the. 1450 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 1: Men's bathroom, like okay, but just feeling what I was 1451 01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:20,120 Speaker 1: feeling with my own daughter, being like, oh, I guess 1452 01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:22,120 Speaker 1: I just take her into a stall in the men's bathroom, 1453 01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:25,920 Speaker 1: just knowing that she wanted Uncle Shrm to take her. 1454 01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:28,919 Speaker 1: And I'm laughing to myself because I'm like, yeah, Uncle 1455 01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:29,640 Speaker 1: Sherm can take you. 1456 01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:30,720 Speaker 2: It can take you potty. 1457 01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:32,840 Speaker 1: And I'm like, sure, you gotta go. She wants you 1458 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,280 Speaker 1: to take her potty, and I'm just assuming. Surem's like 1459 01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:37,320 Speaker 1: is this really gonna happen? Are you kind of messing 1460 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,080 Speaker 1: with me right now? I'm like, dude, she wants you 1461 01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:40,760 Speaker 1: to take her. Boy, you want Sherman to take your potty? 1462 01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 1: And she's like yeah, Like SUREM take her to the 1463 01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 1: bathroom man, And He's like, oh, do I just do? 1464 01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:47,200 Speaker 1: I just I'm like, dude, she knows everything to do. 1465 01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 1: You're just she just wants you. She she just wants 1466 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 1: you to take her. 1467 01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:53,880 Speaker 3: I'm outside of the bathroom because this is my first 1468 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:58,720 Speaker 3: potty trip of all time. I look in the bathroom. 1469 01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,640 Speaker 3: There's no stall, so I'm like I look at will 1470 01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:02,080 Speaker 3: and I'm like. 1471 01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:04,760 Speaker 2: It's just a like it's just a room. With one toilet. 1472 01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:06,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, do I do I go in there? Or 1473 01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 2: am I right here? 1474 01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,320 Speaker 1: And looking at me like with like panic in his 1475 01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:16,680 Speaker 1: eyes and I'm looking at smiling. Yeah, I'm looking at 1476 01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 1: his smile. I'm like, She goes and sure he's gonna 1477 01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:24,160 Speaker 1: go and he'll just wait outside, all right. I took 1478 01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:25,519 Speaker 1: your body, like go in there and do. 1479 01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 3: Do you know what you do? She sits on the 1480 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:30,479 Speaker 3: toilet and I'm just looking at like toilets over here, 1481 01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:33,479 Speaker 3: and there's like a mirror and uh hand dryer, paper 1482 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:35,840 Speaker 3: towel and soap thing, and I'm just like kind of 1483 01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 3: staring at I'm staring at the soap thing. I'm kind 1484 01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 3: of like eyes are like grass like over here, and 1485 01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:45,080 Speaker 3: Ree's over here being and she goes, I'll go, Saram, 1486 01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:47,960 Speaker 3: why why do you not watch? And I go, h, 1487 01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:49,800 Speaker 3: that's a good question. 1488 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:50,200 Speaker 2: Real. 1489 01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:54,120 Speaker 3: I was like, I am, you know, I'm just kind 1490 01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,160 Speaker 3: of looking at the secret now. 1491 01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:55,519 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1492 01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:58,400 Speaker 3: I'm just because I'm thinking in my head to answer 1493 01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:01,960 Speaker 3: why I'm not watching. It's just a whole other that's 1494 01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:05,120 Speaker 3: a whole other avenue to go down. So I'm like, 1495 01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:08,000 Speaker 3: that's a great question. And then she goes oh, the 1496 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:11,680 Speaker 3: toilet paper is far and it was really far from her, 1497 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,360 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, to Will's exact point. Hey, 1498 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:16,080 Speaker 3: there's gonna be stuff out of reach for it. You 1499 01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 3: just like you put it in her vicinity, and so I. 1500 01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:19,840 Speaker 2: Moved it over. 1501 01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:21,720 Speaker 3: And then there is a little thing to put your 1502 01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:23,640 Speaker 3: phone on top of the toilet paper. And she was like, 1503 01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:26,280 Speaker 3: I'll gole Seran, what's this And she's just sitting on 1504 01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:29,120 Speaker 3: the toilet and I'm like, that is you know, probably 1505 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,680 Speaker 3: you put some soap there, you put some you put 1506 01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,720 Speaker 3: your phone there. And as I'm talking to her, she's 1507 01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:37,960 Speaker 3: getting bored and she just goes, there's a bear. There's 1508 01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,599 Speaker 3: a bear. And she grabs the toilet paper and starts wiping, 1509 01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,439 Speaker 3: gets off the toilet. She goes, I go, there's a bear. 1510 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:47,479 Speaker 2: We gotta go, We gotta go. And I'm like, you 1511 01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:49,360 Speaker 2: gotta wash your hands. You gotta wash your hands. 1512 01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,599 Speaker 3: She could reach the soap thing, and she couldn't get 1513 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,360 Speaker 3: her hand like high enough. So I just do the 1514 01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,000 Speaker 3: soap thing and I scrape it on. 1515 01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:01,240 Speaker 2: As you go like you can't reach it. Let me 1516 01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:04,559 Speaker 2: just here you go. You rue turn on the sink. 1517 01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:10,200 Speaker 3: Oh man, that was That was an experience, dude, that 1518 01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:11,120 Speaker 3: was an experience. 1519 01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:12,720 Speaker 2: Anytime, I don't want to be in a conversation with 1520 01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:13,559 Speaker 2: someone from now and to. 1521 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:15,360 Speaker 3: Be like, there's a bear in this room. You get 1522 01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:17,880 Speaker 3: out of here right now. There is a bear that 1523 01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:21,080 Speaker 3: will attack us, and we need to go. It feels 1524 01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:22,880 Speaker 3: like you didn't try and save it from the bear. 1525 01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:25,439 Speaker 3: I said, no, we're out of there. 1526 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:27,680 Speaker 1: We're just like breaking it down. However, we didn't save 1527 01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:30,760 Speaker 1: it from the bear. And I just look over for 1528 01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:31,600 Speaker 1: sure in MyD how to go. 1529 01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,400 Speaker 2: It's good. She's wondered why I wasn't looking at her? 1530 01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:38,240 Speaker 3: Why do you not watch? 1531 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:40,560 Speaker 2: Why do you not watch me? 1532 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:40,920 Speaker 5: Oh? 1533 01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 2: No, real, it's a yeah, there's a good call. I 1534 01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:46,839 Speaker 2: don't know why I don't watch, dude. She's so adorable. 1535 01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:50,720 Speaker 1: She says, like, instead of like I really say, I 1536 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:53,599 Speaker 1: really want to do that, she says, I very want 1537 01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:57,000 Speaker 1: to do that. Oh, it's it's just very she substitutes 1538 01:10:57,360 --> 01:11:00,519 Speaker 1: very very really. It's adorable, bro. 1539 01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:06,640 Speaker 3: Her forgetting to hug Scarlet and I they were like 1540 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,240 Speaker 3: ninety percent of the way to will Scarr and she 1541 01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:11,439 Speaker 3: turns the well and goes, I I. 1542 01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,320 Speaker 2: Didn't say by the uncle Sherman. 1543 01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:16,679 Speaker 3: Scarlet and she just comes running down that little wind tunnel. 1544 01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 2: I'll go German, Uncle, German. She's sprinting at me. 1545 01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:25,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, this is unreal levels acute. It was 1546 01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 3: unreal levels acute. 1547 01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have went sideways quick as she not 1548 01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:31,639 Speaker 1: said goodbye to you guys. Oh yeah, he'll go sideways 1549 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,840 Speaker 1: quick with us if she didn't tell us like goodbye, hugs, 1550 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:37,800 Speaker 1: GISs three squeezes, like three different times. Yeah, or because again, 1551 01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:39,640 Speaker 1: her sign off is don't let the bed bugs by 1552 01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,720 Speaker 1: go be great. Like, look, don't let the bed bugs 1553 01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:44,120 Speaker 1: by in any situation. It could be eleven in the morning, 1554 01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,479 Speaker 1: don't let the bed bugs by go be great. And 1555 01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:48,720 Speaker 1: you got to see it back to her. Yeah, you're like, 1556 01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,160 Speaker 1: don't let the bed bugs by go be gray. It's like, 1557 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:53,080 Speaker 1: oh you too, She's like, don't let the bed bugs 1558 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:55,120 Speaker 1: by go be g don't let the bed bugs by 1559 01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:55,639 Speaker 1: go be great. 1560 01:11:55,760 --> 01:12:01,200 Speaker 2: That's good game. That'll be in my repertoire for next time. Yeah. 1561 01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:05,000 Speaker 3: So, man, dude, the little hug that she gave Scarlet too, 1562 01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:09,240 Speaker 3: she and turned her around like the yeah, you know, 1563 01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:11,799 Speaker 3: thing was facing that way and I turned the stroller 1564 01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,840 Speaker 3: around and she put her whole body on top of 1565 01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:18,480 Speaker 3: Scarlet in the stroller and put her cheek on Scarlet's 1566 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:19,840 Speaker 3: cheek and just pat it like this. 1567 01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:23,160 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, dude. 1568 01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:27,000 Speaker 1: Every night, whenever I'm putting Scotty down, every night, Roue 1569 01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:29,800 Speaker 1: has to go in, like when your lights can be off. 1570 01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:32,280 Speaker 1: Lights can be on when you're getting ready, but uh, 1571 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:33,920 Speaker 1: like last night, lights are off. 1572 01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:36,040 Speaker 2: She walks in. She just comes in quietly. She knows 1573 01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 2: the drill. 1574 01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:38,639 Speaker 1: All she wants to do is give Scotty a hug, 1575 01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:41,599 Speaker 1: kissing three squeezes. Oh yeah, she comes over. Scotty will 1576 01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,800 Speaker 1: just be knocking the bottle out and she just lean 1577 01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:45,200 Speaker 1: in and kind of do the hug, give her a 1578 01:12:45,280 --> 01:12:47,200 Speaker 1: kiss on the head and then just grab like her 1579 01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:50,080 Speaker 1: wrists her forearm that's on the because her hands attached 1580 01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 1: to the bottle, and she would be like one, two, three, 1581 01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:52,320 Speaker 1: I love you. 1582 01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:53,960 Speaker 2: As she shut the door. 1583 01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:57,720 Speaker 1: Okay, don't de bedbugs by, Scottie, go be great every 1584 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:00,160 Speaker 1: night when she walks out. There was chaos happening the 1585 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:02,559 Speaker 1: other night because we were flying out to New York. 1586 01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,839 Speaker 1: Charo had a workshop, and so we had the babysitter 1587 01:13:05,920 --> 01:13:07,920 Speaker 1: over helping me out with bedtime because I had to 1588 01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:11,400 Speaker 1: leave before like eight o'clock, and so I was. 1589 01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,080 Speaker 3: Putting Scotty down. I'm like, hey, and she knows, like, 1590 01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:15,439 Speaker 3: we will walk you through the whole routine. 1591 01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:17,800 Speaker 1: But I hear Rue losing it because she's trying to 1592 01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:20,400 Speaker 1: basically ask Ava if she can go in She's like, 1593 01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,519 Speaker 1: I always go in there and give Scotty hugkis and 1594 01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:23,120 Speaker 1: three squeezes. 1595 01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:23,760 Speaker 2: But Ava doesn't know. 1596 01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:26,280 Speaker 1: She hasn't been in this situation and where she's like, no, 1597 01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:28,200 Speaker 1: you know that has putting down Scotty, you can't go 1598 01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 1: in there, and Rue's just losing her mind, going bad 1599 01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:31,519 Speaker 1: shit outside the door. 1600 01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:33,679 Speaker 3: And I can hear it really when you said mind 1601 01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:36,840 Speaker 3: your pie's and cues with Rue, it will could not 1602 01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:37,880 Speaker 3: be more correct. 1603 01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:42,439 Speaker 2: Of like everything is like Defcon one and in Ree's life. 1604 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:45,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like if we aren't going by the books, 1605 01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:47,760 Speaker 3: this is not good. 1606 01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're not going by the structure, she knows 1607 01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:52,120 Speaker 1: and understands thoroughly. 1608 01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:54,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, there will be problems, yes, And she's like, I 1609 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:57,880 Speaker 2: do it every night. I do it every night. Leave 1610 01:13:57,920 --> 01:13:58,719 Speaker 2: me alone, Ava. 1611 01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:02,360 Speaker 3: I'm just like I'm trying to text ay, but you 1612 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:03,880 Speaker 3: can let her in here and I'm like, ruh, come 1613 01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:04,280 Speaker 3: up here. 1614 01:14:04,800 --> 01:14:06,960 Speaker 2: And then she comes in. I'm like, what's wrong. She's like, 1615 01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:08,840 Speaker 2: I just wanted to give Scottie hug kids. I'm like, 1616 01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:11,000 Speaker 2: here you go. She gives her huggets three squeezes. Then 1617 01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:13,639 Speaker 2: she's from there. She's just in the mood's fine, yeah, 1618 01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,479 Speaker 2: then worried. Yeah, we're off to the races. She just 1619 01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:17,800 Speaker 2: let her know I do this every night. I'm telling 1620 01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:21,680 Speaker 2: you you were wrong in this situation. Remind reminds me 1621 01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:22,599 Speaker 2: of some fun. 1622 01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:28,559 Speaker 6: Dude. 1623 01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:31,880 Speaker 2: I'd real I have some I have some dad hacks here, 1624 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,880 Speaker 2: some write ends. Yes, please want hit some dad hacks. 1625 01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:39,479 Speaker 1: By the way, ordered the uh ordering that that's not 1626 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:41,960 Speaker 1: sucker system that operation? 1627 01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:43,639 Speaker 2: Did you really? Yeah? 1628 01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:47,040 Speaker 1: I still got to do it like like like seventy 1629 01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:49,240 Speaker 1: five bucks. I'm like, what are we talking about here? 1630 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:51,800 Speaker 1: This could be a much easier experience for the kids, 1631 01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:53,560 Speaker 1: Like we have a pretty good life. We can we 1632 01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:56,760 Speaker 1: can get a seventy five dollars not sucker number one. 1633 01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:57,920 Speaker 1: I want to play with that. I want to use 1634 01:14:57,920 --> 01:14:58,519 Speaker 1: it for my notes. 1635 01:14:58,880 --> 01:14:59,599 Speaker 2: I will say. 1636 01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:04,400 Speaker 3: Hopefully Charlie uses it one time and says worth every penny, 1637 01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,840 Speaker 3: because that's how that's how I felt in comparing it 1638 01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:09,400 Speaker 3: to the manualsnot sucker. 1639 01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1640 01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:13,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, we got one here a dad hack from Ryan 1641 01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:17,679 Speaker 1: Ridley on Spotify. Ryan Ridley top three most inspiring people 1642 01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:20,479 Speaker 1: in my life other than my wife and mother. One 1643 01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:25,160 Speaker 1: Thomas Jefferson, two Kobe Bryant, three Will Compton. Thank you 1644 01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:27,040 Speaker 1: for all you guys do makes the Daily Grind a 1645 01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:29,639 Speaker 1: little bit more entertaining. Pa Sherman, you are my top 1646 01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,439 Speaker 1: ten favorite people in the podcast world. Taylor Lawan is 1647 01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 1: nineteen Okay who it was under the dad Hacks file? 1648 01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:38,240 Speaker 2: Anythink? 1649 01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:39,720 Speaker 3: Who's that? 1650 01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:41,240 Speaker 2: From Ryan Ridley? 1651 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:45,720 Speaker 3: Ryan, Thank you. That is extremely flattering. Thank you very much, 1652 01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:50,280 Speaker 3: Ryan crack the top ten. I got one from Maryanna Graham. 1653 01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:55,200 Speaker 3: She says, boys, my boy, this is a DM on Instagram. Boys, 1654 01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:58,519 Speaker 3: my boyfriend Jay Hernandez and I love your podcast so much. 1655 01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:03,200 Speaker 3: His birthday is Jane Uuary seventeenth, and I so badly 1656 01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:05,439 Speaker 3: want to shout him out on the pod if possible, 1657 01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:08,080 Speaker 3: even if it's not the same day. Just for him 1658 01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:11,280 Speaker 3: to hear at any point would be crazy. Please tell 1659 01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:13,800 Speaker 3: me anything I can do to make this happen. We 1660 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:16,680 Speaker 3: love the hearts that you have for your family and 1661 01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:19,160 Speaker 3: one day when we're married. The way I want to 1662 01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 3: tell him he's a dad. The way I want to 1663 01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,160 Speaker 3: tell him he's a dad is literally by putting out Pt. 1664 01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:30,080 Speaker 3: Six merch on the table. Thanks so much for the consideration, 1665 01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:33,720 Speaker 3: and God bless y'all. He's a strong, compassionate and so 1666 01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:37,080 Speaker 3: patient and just the funniest and most handsome guy. I 1667 01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:41,439 Speaker 3: know the definition of nothing is not my job. Such 1668 01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 3: a hard worker, and I am so proud of the man, 1669 01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:48,040 Speaker 3: the man of God that he is. If anyone deserves 1670 01:16:48,080 --> 01:16:50,040 Speaker 3: a b day shout out, it's my man, Jay. 1671 01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:52,960 Speaker 2: Dude. Happy birthday, Jay. 1672 01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:56,040 Speaker 3: Jay, you already got the best gift of all time. Bro, 1673 01:16:56,920 --> 01:17:03,320 Speaker 3: that's crazy. Sounds like Jay crushes it, dude, Jane crushes. 1674 01:17:03,640 --> 01:17:06,640 Speaker 3: They're not even married yet, and She's like, this is 1675 01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:10,559 Speaker 3: this is the guy I'm telling you. I can't wait 1676 01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:12,680 Speaker 3: to have kids with him, can't wait for him to 1677 01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:19,360 Speaker 3: be a father. Seemen Team six, Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Bro, 1678 01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:22,760 Speaker 3: Jay Hernandez, Good lord. 1679 01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:25,200 Speaker 2: What's the was it was that a dad hack pile 1680 01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:28,360 Speaker 2: the dad hack steck. Yesterday was a tough day for me. 1681 01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:33,200 Speaker 2: I need a little grace here, dad. 1682 01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:35,840 Speaker 3: Hack finds you a woman that's going to write something 1683 01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 3: like that to be featured before the. 1684 01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:39,360 Speaker 2: Day it was good dad hack. 1685 01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:46,160 Speaker 3: My second dad hack is this one comes from Cheney 1686 01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:49,400 Speaker 3: Got It PT six Siko on YouTube to all PT 1687 01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 3: six this Jilly Bean situation fellas is something we should 1688 01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:52,639 Speaker 3: not take lightly. 1689 01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:52,960 Speaker 2: Again. 1690 01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,280 Speaker 1: If you listened to the episode last week, Jilly Bean 1691 01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,320 Speaker 1: wrote a comment in on Facebook and somebody. 1692 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:00,200 Speaker 2: Said yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 1693 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:02,519 Speaker 1: What was the comment back is like, hey, how about 1694 01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,920 Speaker 1: you stop asking for people to raise your kids and 1695 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,879 Speaker 1: you raise them, you raise them yourself. Yeah, you stripid 1696 01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:10,760 Speaker 1: B word. Yeah no, truly like you you F and 1697 01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:14,479 Speaker 1: B and you're a piece of shit right Because Jilly 1698 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,400 Speaker 1: Bean was asking if there were any sitters in the area, 1699 01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:18,960 Speaker 1: went to a Facebook group and was just trying to 1700 01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:21,519 Speaker 1: vet like, Hey, any recommendations out there for babysitters me 1701 01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:22,920 Speaker 1: and Hppy we're trying to go on a date night. 1702 01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:30,519 Speaker 1: Can we set up a sting operation? These are the 1703 01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:36,920 Speaker 1: pt Siccos I've been waiting this is Cheney Got It 1704 01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:41,000 Speaker 1: PT six Siko. Can we create another profile and post 1705 01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,200 Speaker 1: something similar to what Jill posted so we can lure 1706 01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:45,800 Speaker 1: this jackass out again? Because you know this isn't the 1707 01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:48,639 Speaker 1: first time he's had something on that Facebook group dot 1708 01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:49,679 Speaker 1: just an idea. 1709 01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:53,680 Speaker 2: Hey, those are people you go to war. 1710 01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:59,120 Speaker 3: I'll tell you right now, Channing Channing, Channing Chane. 1711 01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:01,519 Speaker 2: Cheney Cheney. 1712 01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 3: I will find this Facebook group and I will post 1713 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:09,720 Speaker 3: it in there, and i'll uh, you know, put the 1714 01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:12,519 Speaker 3: babysitter thing out there, and we'll see if we can't 1715 01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:12,960 Speaker 3: catch one. 1716 01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:16,519 Speaker 2: We'll see if we can't catch one, because I would 1717 01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:21,840 Speaker 2: love here we go again. There's another one that doesn't 1718 01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:24,080 Speaker 2: want to raise their kid. They want the village to 1719 01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:24,519 Speaker 2: raise it. 1720 01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:27,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's time to set up this sting operation. Shout 1721 01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:30,320 Speaker 1: out Cheney for this. That's a bad hack. That's adad hack. 1722 01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:33,720 Speaker 1: Lure him out, lure him out. That is a good dad, 1723 01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 1: a good dad hack. You thought dad's worked together, Yes, 1724 01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:37,880 Speaker 1: this is our dad's worked together. 1725 01:19:39,080 --> 01:19:44,240 Speaker 3: Our dot canner five seven one seven. On YouTube, he said, 1726 01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:48,360 Speaker 3: I've recently graduated from buds to p PT six. 1727 01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:50,479 Speaker 2: Congratulations wife. 1728 01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:53,679 Speaker 3: He went into labor on New Year's Eve and after 1729 01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:58,720 Speaker 3: a very few, very stressful moments in the hospital, our 1730 01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:01,280 Speaker 3: firstborn boy h I was brought into the world on 1731 01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:02,360 Speaker 3: January second. 1732 01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:03,639 Speaker 2: Couldn't be happier. 1733 01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,800 Speaker 3: And I have our very own bear cub to call 1734 01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:10,560 Speaker 3: our own dude January second. That was literally last week. Congratulations, 1735 01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:13,240 Speaker 3: a few dad hacks I was already able to pick 1736 01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:16,320 Speaker 3: up even after only being a dad for less than 1737 01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:19,439 Speaker 3: a week. I bought wife a pair of cheap walkie 1738 01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:21,800 Speaker 3: talkies for Christmas for us to use while we're in 1739 01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:25,000 Speaker 3: the newborn trenches. I can already tell you that saying 1740 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:27,439 Speaker 3: this is Papa Bear come in, Mama Bear over the 1741 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:31,920 Speaker 3: radio has already been useful and brought some fun into our. 1742 01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:34,599 Speaker 2: New journey of perra. This is great. That was awesome. 1743 01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:38,600 Speaker 3: I want Walkees immediately for expecting dads. Go ahead and 1744 01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:42,600 Speaker 3: buy yourself some Halo brand baby swaddles. We couldn't for 1745 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:45,400 Speaker 3: the life of us get the traditional swaddle or even 1746 01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:48,640 Speaker 3: velcro swaddle to work the first few days, but the 1747 01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:51,760 Speaker 3: Halo has been a godsend. Do yourself a favor and 1748 01:20:51,840 --> 01:20:54,679 Speaker 3: get on that. I have heard Jill bring up Halo before. 1749 01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:58,840 Speaker 3: That's like a big brand. Biggest thing I was worried 1750 01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:01,679 Speaker 3: about before becoming a father was whether or not I'd 1751 01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:04,519 Speaker 3: be able to quote unquote lock in and think clearly 1752 01:21:04,600 --> 01:21:07,400 Speaker 3: in terms of helping out mom, taking care of our 1753 01:21:07,439 --> 01:21:10,760 Speaker 3: little man et cetera. However, if you just follow what 1754 01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:13,720 Speaker 3: these guys say and embrace the suck, both in the 1755 01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:16,080 Speaker 3: hospital and at home, you'll be hooked in terms of 1756 01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,920 Speaker 3: being a father, which will in turn help wife you 1757 01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:22,600 Speaker 3: get more sleep and get through this very difficult adjustment 1758 01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:26,559 Speaker 3: period skin to skin. Decluttering the house and picking up 1759 01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:28,920 Speaker 3: a lot of the late shifts might sound like more work, 1760 01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:32,320 Speaker 3: but just embracing it all will actually one make it 1761 01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:33,439 Speaker 3: easier to navigate. 1762 01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:34,960 Speaker 2: Love what you guys do? 1763 01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:38,000 Speaker 3: You guys truly help me prepare for this new journey. 1764 01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:40,679 Speaker 3: Your boy Ryan aka Smalls Dude. 1765 01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:43,040 Speaker 1: Shout out Ryan, that's good. That's a good right in. 1766 01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:44,640 Speaker 1: That's a lot of good Dad hecks in there too, 1767 01:21:44,920 --> 01:21:49,040 Speaker 1: fabulous right in. Ryan murdered it with the walkie talkies. 1768 01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:53,560 Speaker 3: Murdered it with the walkie talkies coming in sneaky, Sneaky 1769 01:21:53,920 --> 01:21:57,080 Speaker 3: is decluttering the house and picking up picking up late 1770 01:21:57,200 --> 01:22:01,360 Speaker 3: night shifts. Yeah, just like viewing it that way is 1771 01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:03,600 Speaker 3: he doesn't know how much of a w that is 1772 01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:05,639 Speaker 3: extra miniature dad hack. 1773 01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:09,200 Speaker 2: When they tell you that's okay, I can do it. 1774 01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:13,320 Speaker 3: Go ahead and do it without telling them, do without 1775 01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:16,000 Speaker 3: telling him doing it, bro, And then they'll go oh 1776 01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:18,400 Speaker 3: did you move that blah blah blah. Oh yeah, yeah 1777 01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:19,200 Speaker 3: I did that earlier. 1778 01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:22,720 Speaker 2: No, you don't have to do that. It's fine, that's 1779 01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:24,840 Speaker 2: an immediate go do it and know you and tell 1780 01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:25,760 Speaker 2: him about it. Yeah. 1781 01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:29,160 Speaker 1: And then when you see him going to come across 1782 01:22:29,400 --> 01:22:32,400 Speaker 1: whatever it is, like, say, you cleaned off the island. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1783 01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:35,000 Speaker 1: She gets up from the couch, she goes over. She 1784 01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:37,519 Speaker 1: might get herself an lollipop out of the fridge, of course, 1785 01:22:37,640 --> 01:22:40,400 Speaker 1: and then she notices the island. You have to be 1786 01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:43,760 Speaker 1: ready for when you were sitting back in the chair 1787 01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:45,320 Speaker 1: and you're kind of watching like when she's gonna when 1788 01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:46,920 Speaker 1: is she gonna pick this up? And then she sees 1789 01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:48,560 Speaker 1: and she kind of like looks around and then like 1790 01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:50,680 Speaker 1: like looks over at you, and you're just gonna be 1791 01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:51,200 Speaker 1: sitting there like. 1792 01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:57,560 Speaker 2: Ask who did that? Go ahead and ask I'm on 1793 01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:03,679 Speaker 2: top of the world. I'm on top of the wood. Truly. 1794 01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:07,080 Speaker 3: There is no better feeling, none, and that is the 1795 01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:09,400 Speaker 3: best feeling to hit him, either with the handwipes or 1796 01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:11,280 Speaker 3: the who loves you baby? 1797 01:23:11,479 --> 01:23:11,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1798 01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:13,800 Speaker 1: I was hoping to set something up like that last 1799 01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:17,080 Speaker 1: night whenever I didn't wash Rue's hair on Sunday night 1800 01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:18,960 Speaker 1: and got it washed last night. We're recording right now 1801 01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:23,760 Speaker 1: on Tuesday. Yeah, but Mom calls to like check in, 1802 01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:26,840 Speaker 1: let her know she's on her way, and you which dinner? 1803 01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:28,679 Speaker 1: Which dinner we got rolling tonight? 1804 01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? Something. 1805 01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:32,920 Speaker 1: We were catching up on something, and Rude just leans 1806 01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:35,200 Speaker 1: in because she's got her pjs on, fresh shed and 1807 01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:38,680 Speaker 1: just braying new, clean hair. It's like, Mama washed my 1808 01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:41,920 Speaker 1: hair and kind of blew the surprise before Mama came home, 1809 01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:43,800 Speaker 1: because I was waiting for Mama to see Rue. 1810 01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:44,040 Speaker 3: Oh. 1811 01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:46,280 Speaker 1: Ruin gives her hug, like, oh, you're clean, and then 1812 01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:50,000 Speaker 1: I was just gonna be standing there like you doubted me, 1813 01:23:50,080 --> 01:23:53,120 Speaker 1: didn't You told you wasn't gonna have to do nothing, 1814 01:23:54,280 --> 01:23:55,679 Speaker 1: told you I get her hair washed. 1815 01:23:57,560 --> 01:23:59,960 Speaker 3: Rus spoils it before you, even after. 1816 01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:02,800 Speaker 1: Your because I'm sitting there on speaker, and then you know, 1817 01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:04,320 Speaker 1: Scotti hears Mom's voice. 1818 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,120 Speaker 2: She's by the chair, Usa like leaning over top of 1819 01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:07,479 Speaker 2: the chair. 1820 01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:10,280 Speaker 1: Oh this was over the phone, over the phone on speaker. 1821 01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:13,680 Speaker 1: When you're gonna be home or Rue, she's fifteen minutes away. 1822 01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:15,400 Speaker 1: She's like, Mama, I washed my hair, and I just 1823 01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:15,960 Speaker 1: go damn it. 1824 01:24:16,080 --> 01:24:16,280 Speaker 5: Rue. 1825 01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:19,439 Speaker 2: She goes dang it, dang it, yeah, dang it, Roue. 1826 01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:26,640 Speaker 3: Hey, I think Rue is very intelligent. I'm not just 1827 01:24:26,720 --> 01:24:29,439 Speaker 3: saying that Real is very intelligent. She's at that that 1828 01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:31,560 Speaker 3: phase that I think you could have the talk with 1829 01:24:31,640 --> 01:24:37,080 Speaker 3: her of Ru. You you could really be uh, dad 1830 01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:40,880 Speaker 3: Dad's number one girl if you. What I need you 1831 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:44,639 Speaker 3: to do is make Daddad look as good as possible 1832 01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:48,040 Speaker 3: in front of Mama's This is what's gonna happen. These 1833 01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:51,479 Speaker 3: are the steps that we're gonna take you. I am 1834 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,439 Speaker 3: fully bringing you to my side. These are the ways 1835 01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:56,960 Speaker 3: that you can assist me. Yeah, I think she might 1836 01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:57,599 Speaker 3: be ready. 1837 01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:01,080 Speaker 2: For that talk. Framing a way to empower her. Opportunity 1838 01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:01,760 Speaker 2: that she has. 1839 01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:03,960 Speaker 3: This is a big opportunity for you, Rue. 1840 01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:07,519 Speaker 2: Let her know it's not for me, Oh, no, for her, 1841 01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:07,920 Speaker 2: for you. 1842 01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:12,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you could really do some damage here, real. Yeah. 1843 01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:18,040 Speaker 3: Oh the kitchen smells so good. Oh really, Rue, Oh 1844 01:25:18,080 --> 01:25:20,400 Speaker 3: my gosh. Oh yeah, the kitchen does smell good. 1845 01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:20,719 Speaker 2: Honey. 1846 01:25:20,880 --> 01:25:23,800 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well I cleaned it. I guess I don't 1847 01:25:23,800 --> 01:25:25,000 Speaker 3: know what Roue's talking about. 1848 01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:26,880 Speaker 1: Just ride when mom comes home. Dad did a really 1849 01:25:26,880 --> 01:25:30,360 Speaker 1: good job playing in the entire kitchen. Sweetheart, you don't 1850 01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:34,320 Speaker 1: have to say that a cookie on the side. Keep 1851 01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:39,160 Speaker 1: it up, keep it up. Hey, there we go. Okay, 1852 01:25:39,320 --> 01:25:42,559 Speaker 1: I have two voice smails, perfect, let's rip them. Uh, 1853 01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:43,679 Speaker 1: just a reminder. 1854 01:25:43,880 --> 01:25:46,360 Speaker 3: You call in, you get free merch six and one 1855 01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:48,160 Speaker 3: the dad six on one of the dads that's the 1856 01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:50,280 Speaker 3: call in number. You don't want to call in, you 1857 01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:52,839 Speaker 3: ride in six. On one of the dad's at Gmail, 1858 01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:57,240 Speaker 3: you get a hat boom. This one's titled don't eat 1859 01:25:57,320 --> 01:25:58,080 Speaker 3: my Oreos? 1860 01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 7: What up? 1861 01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:04,280 Speaker 6: Boys? On my emergency gas station? 1862 01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:04,720 Speaker 8: Run? 1863 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:08,320 Speaker 6: My wife is thirty five weeks pregnant. 1864 01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:11,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's in the turches. Baby here any day. 1865 01:26:13,880 --> 01:26:16,679 Speaker 6: We kind of have an unwritten rule on our house, 1866 01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:22,360 Speaker 6: but I'm not allowed to eat anything if it's the 1867 01:26:22,560 --> 01:26:27,599 Speaker 6: last like thing of it, like last cookie in the jar. 1868 01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:32,640 Speaker 6: So that ties into this story. We had some oreos 1869 01:26:33,439 --> 01:26:37,760 Speaker 6: in the cabinet and there was like three left for 1870 01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:41,120 Speaker 6: about a week, and I just followed that unwritten rule 1871 01:26:41,200 --> 01:26:45,920 Speaker 6: and didn't need them. Well tonight comes along. It's been 1872 01:26:45,960 --> 01:26:48,599 Speaker 6: about a week, like I said, and your. 1873 01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:52,200 Speaker 8: Boy was hungry. Dad's hungry, So I snacked on three oreos. 1874 01:26:53,000 --> 01:26:57,360 Speaker 8: It's currently eight point fifty. My wife's laying in bed. 1875 01:26:59,640 --> 01:27:01,360 Speaker 8: Kind of some of those oreos that are left in 1876 01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:01,840 Speaker 8: the cabinet. 1877 01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:03,519 Speaker 2: God damn it. 1878 01:27:04,880 --> 01:27:08,760 Speaker 6: Thank god the gas dish was open though, you boy 1879 01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:09,679 Speaker 6: got some ordos. 1880 01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:15,080 Speaker 2: This is a broken man. God damn. 1881 01:27:15,800 --> 01:27:19,599 Speaker 1: Hey, that's a broken man right there. That's a man 1882 01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:22,240 Speaker 1: who's just been overruled. You can't have the last of 1883 01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:24,320 Speaker 1: whatever it is in the pantry that I might want. 1884 01:27:25,280 --> 01:27:26,640 Speaker 1: He doesn't know what to do. He doesn't know how 1885 01:27:26,680 --> 01:27:28,880 Speaker 1: to communicate. Right after life thirty five weeks breakant. He 1886 01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:31,559 Speaker 1: can't really say a whole lot, you're you're not doing 1887 01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:32,400 Speaker 1: anything wrong. 1888 01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:35,160 Speaker 2: It's okay. You should be a broken man in thirty 1889 01:27:35,280 --> 01:27:38,880 Speaker 2: five weeks. And can I say this, he made the 1890 01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:41,400 Speaker 2: right call eating the last three. He did. 1891 01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:45,360 Speaker 1: If they've been sitting there for a week, nobody only 1892 01:27:45,600 --> 01:27:48,840 Speaker 1: psychos might eat one or two oreos at a time. God, 1893 01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:52,080 Speaker 1: if there's a three piece in there that's like the 1894 01:27:52,200 --> 01:27:53,360 Speaker 1: serving size. 1895 01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:56,680 Speaker 3: And the and the little just glass of milk slides 1896 01:27:56,800 --> 01:27:59,639 Speaker 3: and right next to those three oreos, Oh my god, 1897 01:27:59,760 --> 01:28:00,599 Speaker 3: who leaves. 1898 01:28:00,400 --> 01:28:02,679 Speaker 2: Three oreos in the pack? He goes, Yeah, we're gonna 1899 01:28:02,760 --> 01:28:05,080 Speaker 2: leave three left to me. That's it. 1900 01:28:05,200 --> 01:28:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't mind the thought of the three oreos. But 1901 01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:09,760 Speaker 1: it gets confusing because there's three that's been sitting there 1902 01:28:09,800 --> 01:28:11,599 Speaker 1: for a week. And when I go in and I'm 1903 01:28:11,640 --> 01:28:13,639 Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna get me some oreos, you're gonna eat 1904 01:28:13,640 --> 01:28:16,280 Speaker 1: a few oreos at least if there's three left. 1905 01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:18,600 Speaker 2: That's a fine serving right there. That's decent. It's not 1906 01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:20,040 Speaker 2: gonna it's not you know, it's kind of. 1907 01:28:20,080 --> 01:28:21,800 Speaker 1: Like a reminder. Okay, I don't need more than three, 1908 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:24,800 Speaker 1: but there's three here that's good enough to operate. Yeah, 1909 01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:26,600 Speaker 1: Because when you're pouring a glass of milk, you're not 1910 01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:29,320 Speaker 1: just pouring like an inch of milk. If it's one oreo, 1911 01:28:29,400 --> 01:28:31,519 Speaker 1: like you're pouring yourself a glass of milk, you might 1912 01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:33,400 Speaker 1: cut it in half, just do half the glass. 1913 01:28:33,680 --> 01:28:35,840 Speaker 2: And that right there tells you I'll make those. 1914 01:28:35,760 --> 01:28:38,040 Speaker 1: Three work with this milk that I have a hundred 1915 01:28:38,080 --> 01:28:40,840 Speaker 1: per You sit there and four a quarter of milk 1916 01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:42,920 Speaker 1: in the glass. You're not gonna pour anything in between that. 1917 01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:44,680 Speaker 1: You want a glass of milk and you can't be 1918 01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:46,960 Speaker 1: stuck there. You eat one or two oreos and then 1919 01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:48,880 Speaker 1: you have a lot of milk left. It just doesn't 1920 01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:49,439 Speaker 1: work like that. 1921 01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:52,240 Speaker 3: It does not work like that, dude. I will say 1922 01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:54,920 Speaker 3: this is only this is a special occasion. I hate 1923 01:28:54,960 --> 01:28:57,519 Speaker 3: to put the pressure on Allipop here because I definitely am. 1924 01:28:59,160 --> 01:29:01,840 Speaker 3: I think this guy needs more than just merch. He 1925 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:04,400 Speaker 3: needs something a little sweet. I think we I think 1926 01:29:04,600 --> 01:29:07,479 Speaker 3: he needs a little lollipops in his way too. He 1927 01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:08,320 Speaker 3: needs a little tree. 1928 01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:10,120 Speaker 2: Oh do you think we can get the power to 1929 01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:12,439 Speaker 2: send ollipop to people? I thought Surean was gonna pitch 1930 01:29:12,439 --> 01:29:16,720 Speaker 2: Allipop milk. Oh for a solid lollipop milk could be 1931 01:29:16,840 --> 01:29:18,839 Speaker 2: good too. I'm just gooda reach out to Allipop. 1932 01:29:18,920 --> 01:29:21,000 Speaker 3: We could reach out to Ollipop, give the information and 1933 01:29:21,040 --> 01:29:25,120 Speaker 3: say he listen, this this broken, broken man called in 1934 01:29:25,840 --> 01:29:29,439 Speaker 3: and uh, I mean he's eating table scraps. He's eating 1935 01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:31,920 Speaker 3: table scraps as he should be thirty five week you know, 1936 01:29:32,120 --> 01:29:34,599 Speaker 3: pregnant mommy first time dad. 1937 01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:35,240 Speaker 2: I believe. 1938 01:29:36,040 --> 01:29:38,760 Speaker 3: I just think that could be a good opportunity of 1939 01:29:38,880 --> 01:29:41,280 Speaker 3: just give them a little sweet tree. Get that a 1940 01:29:41,280 --> 01:29:41,960 Speaker 3: little sweet tree. 1941 01:29:42,320 --> 01:29:43,720 Speaker 1: We'll see if we could do it. We'll work the 1942 01:29:43,760 --> 01:29:45,680 Speaker 1: back channel. We'll work the back get the power of 1943 01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:48,519 Speaker 1: sending people from us, sending like call ins. Maybe right, 1944 01:29:48,640 --> 01:29:50,600 Speaker 1: whatever it is, we will see if we have the 1945 01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:51,919 Speaker 1: power to dish out ollipop. 1946 01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:54,560 Speaker 2: That could be fun. They could be smart for Ollipop. 1947 01:29:54,680 --> 01:29:56,439 Speaker 2: That could be smart for Allipop. Don't want to put 1948 01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:56,880 Speaker 2: the pressure. 1949 01:29:56,920 --> 01:29:59,639 Speaker 1: Don't want to put the pressure, but they need to Ollipop. 1950 01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:04,599 Speaker 1: These understand that PT six is their strongest fan base. 1951 01:30:04,800 --> 01:30:07,920 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and you're gonna have a customer for life 1952 01:30:08,040 --> 01:30:09,559 Speaker 3: when that when that alley pop comes. 1953 01:30:09,600 --> 01:30:12,280 Speaker 1: Come on, man, come on, think about the photo he's 1954 01:30:12,280 --> 01:30:14,280 Speaker 1: gonna drop when he hits an Allipop at his front door. 1955 01:30:15,439 --> 01:30:17,360 Speaker 3: That's gonna be the best gift that he's seen. And 1956 01:30:17,760 --> 01:30:20,559 Speaker 3: this guy hasn't seen the light in weeks. 1957 01:30:21,200 --> 01:30:23,280 Speaker 2: He needs a win, He needs a dub. He needs 1958 01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:23,679 Speaker 2: a dub. 1959 01:30:24,320 --> 01:30:30,000 Speaker 3: Quinton from Washington joining PT six today literally today. 1960 01:30:31,840 --> 01:30:38,120 Speaker 7: Boy's name is Quintin from Washington. Pretty sure I'll be 1961 01:30:38,320 --> 01:30:42,479 Speaker 7: joining the club today. Had to let's call Quinn life 1962 01:30:42,520 --> 01:30:46,960 Speaker 7: flight My wife at thirty three weeks pregnant up to 1963 01:30:47,080 --> 01:30:50,840 Speaker 7: a bigger hospital. So I am currently making the hour 1964 01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:55,040 Speaker 7: drive to that hospital and just kind of going through 1965 01:30:55,080 --> 01:30:59,160 Speaker 7: the thought of what that's gonna be like. Just wanted 1966 01:30:59,200 --> 01:31:02,479 Speaker 7: to let you guys know it's great to be prepped, 1967 01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:06,040 Speaker 7: and without this podcast, there's so much stuff that I 1968 01:31:06,280 --> 01:31:09,439 Speaker 7: just wouldn't have ever thought about or crossing my mind. 1969 01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:13,640 Speaker 7: You guys do great you know, getting all of us 1970 01:31:13,720 --> 01:31:18,120 Speaker 7: prepped for that moment when it does come. So hopefully 1971 01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:19,040 Speaker 7: expecting a. 1972 01:31:19,120 --> 01:31:20,800 Speaker 2: Healthy little baby boy boom. 1973 01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:23,639 Speaker 7: A little premature, but we'll get through that. Come on, man, 1974 01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:27,920 Speaker 7: and uh yeah, appreciate you guys, love the brand, keep 1975 01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:28,280 Speaker 7: doing it. 1976 01:31:29,320 --> 01:31:31,040 Speaker 3: Quinn on the way, Win. 1977 01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:35,720 Speaker 1: I hope everything goes well with baby and mom. Yep, premature, 1978 01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:38,760 Speaker 1: maybe a couple of nick u knights, not sure either way, 1979 01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:39,240 Speaker 1: handle it. 1980 01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:41,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, you'll have to do the billy lights, probably 1981 01:31:42,040 --> 01:31:44,559 Speaker 3: the blue lights, and you'll just hold you know, little 1982 01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:45,439 Speaker 3: baby's hands in there. 1983 01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:47,400 Speaker 2: They're gonna be crying because they want skin to skin. 1984 01:31:47,479 --> 01:31:48,120 Speaker 2: You'll be crying. 1985 01:31:48,200 --> 01:31:52,639 Speaker 3: Who doesn't, but he's got Quentin is gonna be dialed. Yeah, wow, 1986 01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:55,080 Speaker 3: thank you for the calling, bro, Yes, thank you, shout 1987 01:31:55,120 --> 01:31:55,320 Speaker 3: out you. 1988 01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:59,439 Speaker 1: Quinn new PT six full on PT six member, Yeah, welcome, 1989 01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:00,920 Speaker 1: welcome them, left and right. 1990 01:32:00,960 --> 01:32:01,080 Speaker 3: Bro. 1991 01:32:01,920 --> 01:32:03,280 Speaker 2: I had I had something. 1992 01:32:03,560 --> 01:32:05,160 Speaker 1: I can't remember what it is. Maybe it'll drop my 1993 01:32:05,200 --> 01:32:07,040 Speaker 1: memory as we get into it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I 1994 01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:09,200 Speaker 1: got some emails. Yeah, a couple of email right ins here. 1995 01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:13,720 Speaker 1: This one is from Colin Staff for neck godly boy. 1996 01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:15,680 Speaker 1: These last some of these last names just sends me 1997 01:32:15,760 --> 01:32:17,080 Speaker 1: in a frenzy and every time, I just got my 1998 01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:18,960 Speaker 1: wife in my ear, like you always kind of mess 1999 01:32:19,080 --> 01:32:20,840 Speaker 1: up the names and you kind of you need to 2000 01:32:20,920 --> 01:32:22,560 Speaker 1: just say the name if it's right or wrong, and 2001 01:32:22,720 --> 01:32:24,880 Speaker 1: just go with it. Like you keep trying to repeat it, 2002 01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:32,840 Speaker 1: you just butcher it even more. Hey, boys, day one 2003 01:32:33,000 --> 01:32:34,920 Speaker 1: sick Oh. Just wanting to thank you guys for what 2004 01:32:35,000 --> 01:32:36,519 Speaker 1: you're doing in the content you put out. I'm a 2005 01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:38,560 Speaker 1: proud dad boy, dad of a two year old with 2006 01:32:38,600 --> 01:32:41,120 Speaker 1: another little man on the way in April. Congratulations to you. 2007 01:32:41,240 --> 01:32:44,280 Speaker 1: I have a question for Will about potty training. My 2008 01:32:44,439 --> 01:32:46,799 Speaker 1: son has shown some interest in the toilet and aware 2009 01:32:47,640 --> 01:32:49,519 Speaker 1: when he has to go in the bathroom. Do we 2010 01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:52,160 Speaker 1: start now or wait until after the new baby arrives. 2011 01:32:52,400 --> 01:32:55,040 Speaker 1: I've been told of a regression may happen once the 2012 01:32:55,160 --> 01:32:57,960 Speaker 1: newborn arrives. Just wondering if there was an issue during 2013 01:32:58,000 --> 01:33:01,080 Speaker 1: that time with Rue when Scott Zilla came along. Appreciate 2014 01:33:01,120 --> 01:33:03,960 Speaker 1: the PT six community. Shout out my brother in law, 2015 01:33:04,200 --> 01:33:08,560 Speaker 1: wife and sister for my Christmas Dad merch always go 2016 01:33:08,720 --> 01:33:09,200 Speaker 1: big Red. 2017 01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:12,599 Speaker 2: Hey GBR and JBR, thank you for getting the Christmas March. 2018 01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:15,160 Speaker 2: That's awesome. I know boys are there. It's a little 2019 01:33:15,160 --> 01:33:19,240 Speaker 2: bit different with with girls as far as potty training goes. 2020 01:33:19,479 --> 01:33:21,400 Speaker 1: I would say, if he's taking interest, like you take 2021 01:33:21,439 --> 01:33:24,960 Speaker 1: any opportunity you can to like expand on that interest of. 2022 01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:25,799 Speaker 2: Him going potty. 2023 01:33:25,880 --> 01:33:28,400 Speaker 1: I know when Rue, when we potty trained Roue, we 2024 01:33:28,520 --> 01:33:30,439 Speaker 1: just went no diaper, no nothing for like a good 2025 01:33:30,479 --> 01:33:33,680 Speaker 1: two three days. Because they're they're becoming more conscious of 2026 01:33:33,760 --> 01:33:36,479 Speaker 1: their body. It's just getting them to go to the toilet. Yeah, 2027 01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:40,560 Speaker 1: Like we'd have a Daniel Tiger has this song like 2028 01:33:41,280 --> 01:33:44,400 Speaker 1: would you like to go potty? Maybe yes, maybe no, 2029 01:33:45,760 --> 01:33:49,320 Speaker 1: Let's let's try and see if you have to go. 2030 01:33:49,560 --> 01:33:51,560 Speaker 2: It's something like that. It's something like that. He's not 2031 01:33:51,600 --> 01:33:51,880 Speaker 2: a fact. 2032 01:33:51,920 --> 01:33:53,080 Speaker 1: We got we got to print it out and put 2033 01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:55,160 Speaker 1: it on the wall in the bathroom because he's a 2034 01:33:55,200 --> 01:33:59,200 Speaker 1: big Daniel Tiger fan, a little baron Daniel Tiger, and 2035 01:33:59,320 --> 01:34:02,240 Speaker 1: so we would just always have like those conversations with her. Again, 2036 01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:04,800 Speaker 1: when when Ru went in and got into potty training mode, 2037 01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:08,519 Speaker 1: like my wife Danny, everybody was on board. Because I 2038 01:34:08,560 --> 01:34:10,160 Speaker 1: came home and r was just naked running around the 2039 01:34:10,160 --> 01:34:11,360 Speaker 1: house one day, I'm like, what's going on there? 2040 01:34:11,400 --> 01:34:12,080 Speaker 2: Like potty training. 2041 01:34:12,080 --> 01:34:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what if she piece on the floor. 2042 01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:14,960 Speaker 1: It's like, this is how you gotta kind of throw 2043 01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:16,920 Speaker 1: them into the fire. They got to learn because she 2044 01:34:17,080 --> 01:34:19,280 Speaker 1: was like interested in she was starting to feel it 2045 01:34:19,360 --> 01:34:20,840 Speaker 1: come along, or being like maybe I'll have to go 2046 01:34:20,920 --> 01:34:22,280 Speaker 1: potty and then you go down the potty and kind 2047 01:34:22,280 --> 01:34:23,519 Speaker 1: of sit there and nothing happens. 2048 01:34:23,600 --> 01:34:26,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that is how we did it. I know. 2049 01:34:26,320 --> 01:34:28,280 Speaker 2: Boys are a little bit different, like getting that getting that, 2050 01:34:28,640 --> 01:34:32,200 Speaker 2: you know, getting that private part game correctly. 2051 01:34:33,400 --> 01:34:35,639 Speaker 3: There's some there's some stuff that's got to happen. Yeah, 2052 01:34:35,720 --> 01:34:37,680 Speaker 3: the for the stand up game, you feel it. 2053 01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:39,400 Speaker 2: You just gotta let it go. Got let go. 2054 01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:41,320 Speaker 3: You gotta let it go, man, let go, Man, not 2055 01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:42,200 Speaker 3: right there, let's do it. 2056 01:34:42,240 --> 01:34:42,799 Speaker 2: In the toilet. 2057 01:34:42,960 --> 01:34:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess from that, I know I didn't 2058 01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:49,040 Speaker 1: really give you a full answer, but maybe coming up 2059 01:34:49,040 --> 01:34:52,200 Speaker 1: with a jingle or a song something that when potty 2060 01:34:52,320 --> 01:34:55,759 Speaker 1: time is upon us, you get something that like dives 2061 01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:56,439 Speaker 1: into that answer. 2062 01:34:56,520 --> 01:34:58,519 Speaker 2: So, oh, hey, you gotta go, Hey, this is awesome, 2063 01:34:58,720 --> 01:34:59,360 Speaker 2: celebrate it. 2064 01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:02,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, get your own little beat. Yeah, throw a little 2065 01:35:02,560 --> 01:35:06,479 Speaker 3: freestyle beat on and you come up with your own song. 2066 01:35:06,920 --> 01:35:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe that yeah, pee with him, pee with yeah. 2067 01:35:10,600 --> 01:35:13,160 Speaker 1: Man, trying to put myself into the brain of a 2068 01:35:13,240 --> 01:35:15,080 Speaker 1: boy that we're gonna figure this out. 2069 01:35:15,160 --> 01:35:15,519 Speaker 2: What's dead? 2070 01:35:15,560 --> 01:35:18,960 Speaker 3: I take a peek that you old man, does it 2071 01:35:19,960 --> 01:35:24,200 Speaker 3: watch this shit? I love that I have an email. 2072 01:35:24,280 --> 01:35:25,920 Speaker 3: This could be our last email and then lesson of 2073 01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:27,120 Speaker 3: the week. Okay, we're pressed on. 2074 01:35:27,160 --> 01:35:29,320 Speaker 2: Time, pressed on time. I gotta keys on the standard hour. 2075 01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:32,360 Speaker 3: This is Michael Benino, he writes in and says Willie 2076 01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:35,320 Speaker 3: one shelf and Fat Stafford been rocking with the boys 2077 01:35:35,320 --> 01:35:37,439 Speaker 3: since the Busting with the Boys' days and haven't missed 2078 01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:40,400 Speaker 3: an episode of for the Dad since you two are 2079 01:35:40,600 --> 01:35:44,800 Speaker 3: dangerously good at making grown men feel seen. My wife 2080 01:35:44,840 --> 01:35:48,200 Speaker 3: and I have been together since seventeen, married in twenty one, 2081 01:35:48,680 --> 01:35:51,960 Speaker 3: and now we are officially expecting our first kid. Found 2082 01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:54,479 Speaker 3: out it's a girl and her name is going to 2083 01:35:54,560 --> 01:35:59,800 Speaker 3: be Vianna. Congratulations, Michael, fired up and terrified in all 2084 01:35:59,840 --> 01:36:02,600 Speaker 3: the right way. Sure, hearing you talk about being a 2085 01:36:02,680 --> 01:36:05,320 Speaker 3: new dad has been clutch. I know I'm about to 2086 01:36:05,360 --> 01:36:07,920 Speaker 3: get humbled daily. I know I'm going to be running 2087 01:36:07,920 --> 01:36:10,120 Speaker 3: on fumes, and I know that I'm going to have 2088 01:36:10,280 --> 01:36:13,280 Speaker 3: to step up for my wife and my daughter like 2089 01:36:13,439 --> 01:36:14,080 Speaker 3: never before. 2090 01:36:14,600 --> 01:36:15,280 Speaker 2: I'm a plan. 2091 01:36:15,600 --> 01:36:19,800 Speaker 3: I'm a plan everything, control everything, execute, everything type of dude, 2092 01:36:20,200 --> 01:36:23,320 Speaker 3: and listening to you has helped me accept that I 2093 01:36:23,400 --> 01:36:27,200 Speaker 3: am about to get blitzed from every direction and still 2094 01:36:27,280 --> 01:36:29,280 Speaker 3: have to stand in the pocket and deliver. 2095 01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:30,439 Speaker 2: William. 2096 01:36:31,360 --> 01:36:34,479 Speaker 3: Your commitment to everything you touch is a big reason 2097 01:36:34,520 --> 01:36:37,439 Speaker 3: why I'm a diehard. The grind, the passion, the way 2098 01:36:37,479 --> 01:36:40,800 Speaker 3: you'd attack your day, I relate to that heavy. I've 2099 01:36:40,840 --> 01:36:43,320 Speaker 3: been stressing about how I'm going to balance being that 2100 01:36:43,520 --> 01:36:46,240 Speaker 3: dude at work while also being that dude at home. 2101 01:36:46,760 --> 01:36:48,040 Speaker 2: Hearing you talk about. 2102 01:36:47,800 --> 01:36:50,760 Speaker 3: It gives me the confidence I am that I am 2103 01:36:50,840 --> 01:36:53,840 Speaker 3: built for it. I am ready to find out what 2104 01:36:54,000 --> 01:36:56,400 Speaker 3: else I have in the tank and make sure I 2105 01:36:56,520 --> 01:36:59,040 Speaker 3: do not fumble when it comes to showing up for 2106 01:36:59,280 --> 01:36:59,840 Speaker 3: my family. 2107 01:37:00,400 --> 01:37:01,400 Speaker 2: My wife is a legend. 2108 01:37:01,720 --> 01:37:04,719 Speaker 3: She's slowly become a fan too, listens to the pod 2109 01:37:04,800 --> 01:37:07,160 Speaker 3: with me on drives, and she even hooked me up 2110 01:37:07,520 --> 01:37:11,040 Speaker 3: with your Christmas merch. Come on six, Come on MT six, 2111 01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:12,720 Speaker 3: stay tuned for Valentine's State. 2112 01:37:12,760 --> 01:37:14,120 Speaker 2: That's all I'm gonna say. MT six. 2113 01:37:14,720 --> 01:37:17,960 Speaker 3: I'm pumped about that, but I'm even more pumped to 2114 01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:20,840 Speaker 3: watch her crush this pregnancy and do all the things 2115 01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:25,519 Speaker 3: that make moms absolute superheroes, just like Jilly bean in charo. 2116 01:37:26,120 --> 01:37:31,439 Speaker 3: Keep it rolling, boys, we live for this shit. Keep 2117 01:37:31,479 --> 01:37:34,800 Speaker 3: it rolling, boys, we live for this shit. Sleepless nights ahead. 2118 01:37:35,240 --> 01:37:35,519 Speaker 2: Good. 2119 01:37:36,240 --> 01:37:39,880 Speaker 3: He then followed up seventeen hours later. Oh dear god, 2120 01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:44,920 Speaker 3: I almost forgot about chef the man dude. For those 2121 01:37:45,080 --> 01:37:47,960 Speaker 3: emailing in, if you give out hats, can we get 2122 01:37:48,000 --> 01:37:51,360 Speaker 3: a chef hat would be fire. It's been fun seeing 2123 01:37:51,400 --> 01:37:53,599 Speaker 3: your career get off to a hot star. Bro, don't 2124 01:37:53,640 --> 01:37:56,040 Speaker 3: forget to hit that record button and keep it under 2125 01:37:56,040 --> 01:37:56,439 Speaker 3: an hour. 2126 01:37:57,280 --> 01:37:58,559 Speaker 2: What a legend? What was his name? 2127 01:37:58,720 --> 01:38:01,720 Speaker 3: Michael Benino? Michael, thank you for the right end. 2128 01:38:01,760 --> 01:38:01,840 Speaker 5: Bro. 2129 01:38:03,040 --> 01:38:04,479 Speaker 2: It's all about handling the pressure. 2130 01:38:04,960 --> 01:38:05,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is. 2131 01:38:05,880 --> 01:38:07,720 Speaker 1: He is, he said, I'm Bill Fort. He is Bill Fort. 2132 01:38:07,720 --> 01:38:09,559 Speaker 1: He's a Papa Team sixer. He's a bet sixer. 2133 01:38:10,160 --> 01:38:10,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2134 01:38:10,479 --> 01:38:13,760 Speaker 3: And he he brought up like all the great things 2135 01:38:13,880 --> 01:38:16,720 Speaker 3: I think, like we bring up every single episode. The 2136 01:38:16,800 --> 01:38:20,840 Speaker 3: part that I find so funny is that he's like, Man, 2137 01:38:20,920 --> 01:38:23,800 Speaker 3: I'm a I'm a planet guy. I'm I'm an have 2138 01:38:23,960 --> 01:38:26,439 Speaker 3: it all down to detail guy, Man Sherman. The way 2139 01:38:26,520 --> 01:38:31,240 Speaker 3: that you're operating, I'm like the least planned out guy. 2140 01:38:31,920 --> 01:38:35,200 Speaker 3: I'm the least dialed in guy. And so the fact 2141 01:38:35,240 --> 01:38:37,400 Speaker 3: that he's giving me flowers for that, Michael. I'm not 2142 01:38:37,520 --> 01:38:39,920 Speaker 3: deserving of that, but I do thank you for your 2143 01:38:40,000 --> 01:38:42,479 Speaker 3: kind words. And if I'm able to trick you all 2144 01:38:42,479 --> 01:38:47,400 Speaker 3: into believing that I'm even somewhat planned out, it's because 2145 01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:50,320 Speaker 3: of the things that I've truly learned on the show 2146 01:38:50,360 --> 01:38:51,080 Speaker 3: and from my wife. 2147 01:38:51,200 --> 01:38:52,040 Speaker 2: But thank you, Michael. 2148 01:38:52,479 --> 01:38:55,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's said he's thinking the right way, and you 2149 01:38:55,960 --> 01:38:57,320 Speaker 1: just got to know that the plan is never going 2150 01:38:57,400 --> 01:39:00,000 Speaker 1: to go according to plan. Oh, any structure, because I'm 2151 01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:03,519 Speaker 1: big on prioritizing structure, like giving myself some control and 2152 01:39:03,640 --> 01:39:07,000 Speaker 1: power over what the daily operation is going to look. 2153 01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:07,559 Speaker 2: Like in my life. 2154 01:39:07,720 --> 01:39:10,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but just know whenever you structure out this plan 2155 01:39:11,360 --> 01:39:13,400 Speaker 1: right in pencil, oh, because it's. 2156 01:39:13,280 --> 01:39:14,200 Speaker 2: Not always change. 2157 01:39:14,280 --> 01:39:16,000 Speaker 1: It can always change, and then when it does change, 2158 01:39:16,000 --> 01:39:18,120 Speaker 1: it's all about handling the pressure. He's saying he's gonna 2159 01:39:18,120 --> 01:39:19,920 Speaker 1: get blitz He's got to know he gets blitzed. Yeah, 2160 01:39:19,920 --> 01:39:23,080 Speaker 1: but that QBR that passer rating can't drop below one hundred. 2161 01:39:23,280 --> 01:39:26,200 Speaker 3: Yes, And if his empty six er is built like 2162 01:39:26,520 --> 01:39:30,040 Speaker 3: me and he's more built like Jilly Bean personality wise, 2163 01:39:30,400 --> 01:39:33,120 Speaker 3: it does balance out. Like there there are some pros 2164 01:39:33,200 --> 01:39:36,640 Speaker 3: of like my I would say Laise Fair kind of 2165 01:39:36,800 --> 01:39:39,559 Speaker 3: like roll with the punches where you can really help 2166 01:39:39,600 --> 01:39:42,160 Speaker 3: bring your partner down of like, hey, it's not going 2167 01:39:42,200 --> 01:39:44,759 Speaker 3: to plan, but okay, look at this boom new options. 2168 01:39:44,800 --> 01:39:45,639 Speaker 2: Keeping that enthusiasm. 2169 01:39:45,720 --> 01:39:49,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we're good good, We're good good. Yes, dude, yes, 2170 01:39:49,960 --> 01:39:51,840 Speaker 3: goes a shit good. Those are shit good. 2171 01:39:52,320 --> 01:39:55,800 Speaker 1: The hardest thing I've been thinking about this question too, like, 2172 01:39:57,520 --> 01:40:01,200 Speaker 1: what is the hardest thing about parenthood? Would you be 2173 01:40:01,240 --> 01:40:02,160 Speaker 1: able to answer that right now? 2174 01:40:05,240 --> 01:40:07,440 Speaker 2: Hardest thing about parenthood? 2175 01:40:09,400 --> 01:40:13,800 Speaker 1: Because here, here's here's one of my thoughts. Okay, because 2176 01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:15,920 Speaker 1: again it's like it's it's it's all hard, like it's 2177 01:40:15,920 --> 01:40:18,479 Speaker 1: all difficult. Yeah, I feel like the hardest thing about 2178 01:40:18,600 --> 01:40:26,720 Speaker 1: parenthood is knowing that life that you knew it to 2179 01:40:26,840 --> 01:40:32,120 Speaker 1: be before parenthood is now gone, like killing your old self. 2180 01:40:32,200 --> 01:40:34,160 Speaker 1: Not like the values and the foundational things that make 2181 01:40:34,240 --> 01:40:37,519 Speaker 1: you who you are, but when you get in those 2182 01:40:37,600 --> 01:40:44,599 Speaker 1: moments of chaos with kids, your wife, work, Like when 2183 01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:46,519 Speaker 1: my man is driving to the gas station, he's having 2184 01:40:46,560 --> 01:40:50,519 Speaker 1: his emergency gas station run, but there's no thought of 2185 01:40:50,680 --> 01:40:55,000 Speaker 1: like it's the thought is this is every day, I 2186 01:40:55,080 --> 01:40:57,519 Speaker 1: guess until they leave the nest, you know what I mean? 2187 01:40:58,240 --> 01:41:02,880 Speaker 1: Like the responsibility of all of it is now all encompassing, 2188 01:41:02,920 --> 01:41:04,760 Speaker 1: and it's on you and the family. Like there's no 2189 01:41:05,200 --> 01:41:06,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a week off. I'm gonna take the 2190 01:41:06,720 --> 01:41:09,040 Speaker 1: weekend and go to my parents' house, you know what 2191 01:41:09,080 --> 01:41:10,560 Speaker 1: I mean, Like some people might do that. 2192 01:41:10,800 --> 01:41:12,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you need like no matter what. 2193 01:41:12,840 --> 01:41:17,400 Speaker 1: Like, the hardest thing is knowing that all the not 2194 01:41:17,560 --> 01:41:19,519 Speaker 1: like fun because there's a lot, there's all it's nothing 2195 01:41:19,600 --> 01:41:21,720 Speaker 1: but new fun in parenthood and everything else. Yeah, but 2196 01:41:21,840 --> 01:41:23,720 Speaker 1: you just have so many moments of being like, you know, 2197 01:41:24,320 --> 01:41:26,000 Speaker 1: Charle might bring up remember when we got to. 2198 01:41:26,040 --> 01:41:26,360 Speaker 2: Just do that. 2199 01:41:27,720 --> 01:41:30,200 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you kind of miss it sometimes, but 2200 01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:32,960 Speaker 1: you obviously love having the family and this new life 2201 01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:33,280 Speaker 1: that you have. 2202 01:41:33,600 --> 01:41:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2203 01:41:34,200 --> 01:41:36,360 Speaker 1: The fact, the hardest thing is knowing that that those 2204 01:41:36,479 --> 01:41:38,960 Speaker 1: chapters before parenthood, it's like those are things that you 2205 01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:42,320 Speaker 1: just reflect on. That's not you don't have those freedoms 2206 01:41:42,360 --> 01:41:44,160 Speaker 1: and everything anymore because you have to take on such 2207 01:41:44,200 --> 01:41:49,760 Speaker 1: a massive responsibility, a great responsibility, almost fulfilling responsibility. But uh, 2208 01:41:49,960 --> 01:41:51,439 Speaker 1: I think a question that I've kind of just been 2209 01:41:51,479 --> 01:41:53,760 Speaker 1: wrestling with, I would love for everybody too that's listening 2210 01:41:53,800 --> 01:41:56,519 Speaker 1: to this BT six milk team, Say, any parent out there. Yeah, 2211 01:41:56,840 --> 01:41:59,200 Speaker 1: you know, drop some drop of comment or anything else. 2212 01:41:59,680 --> 01:42:03,000 Speaker 3: I think the I think the in response to that too, 2213 01:42:03,400 --> 01:42:06,880 Speaker 3: the kind of cool and beautiful thing of just like, uh, 2214 01:42:07,680 --> 01:42:11,519 Speaker 3: there's like something built in us humans that maybe not 2215 01:42:11,640 --> 01:42:15,320 Speaker 3: in everybody, but I feel like and parents like it's 2216 01:42:15,400 --> 01:42:17,639 Speaker 3: a switch that just kind of turns on and you're 2217 01:42:17,640 --> 01:42:21,760 Speaker 3: all of a sudden like so happy to be in 2218 01:42:21,920 --> 01:42:25,160 Speaker 3: that new world too. Ye, Like, for sure, it is 2219 01:42:25,360 --> 01:42:27,720 Speaker 3: so hard, Like I'm not I'm not saying that that 2220 01:42:27,920 --> 01:42:29,400 Speaker 3: is I'm not going to again. 2221 01:42:29,439 --> 01:42:31,040 Speaker 1: This was like a question that's come to my mind, 2222 01:42:31,120 --> 01:42:34,639 Speaker 1: and I'm just kind of bouncing back and forth thinking 2223 01:42:34,720 --> 01:42:36,439 Speaker 1: of ways where it's like if somebody asked me, what's 2224 01:42:36,479 --> 01:42:38,519 Speaker 1: the hardest thing about parenthood? Like what would I What 2225 01:42:38,600 --> 01:42:39,960 Speaker 1: would I say? How would I respond? 2226 01:42:40,200 --> 01:42:43,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy, Like how stoked I am sometimes to 2227 01:42:43,640 --> 01:42:47,040 Speaker 3: just have uh, Scarlet just like sitting on my lap 2228 01:42:47,120 --> 01:42:49,519 Speaker 3: where I would have loved to have my favorite show 2229 01:42:49,600 --> 01:42:52,800 Speaker 3: on and I'm decompressing after work and all that stuff. 2230 01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:55,320 Speaker 2: But you're just like you're kind of playing with Scarlet. 2231 01:42:55,439 --> 01:42:59,360 Speaker 3: She's not doing anything cool if a third party was watching, 2232 01:42:59,800 --> 01:43:02,519 Speaker 3: But I'm every thirty seconds just like Jill. 2233 01:43:04,439 --> 01:43:06,280 Speaker 2: She's doing that. Yes, sureman, she's been doing that for 2234 01:43:06,400 --> 01:43:08,639 Speaker 2: like a week now. I haven't seen that. That's great. 2235 01:43:08,840 --> 01:43:12,360 Speaker 3: Like just all the things said, like you weirdly become 2236 01:43:12,439 --> 01:43:15,519 Speaker 3: obsessed with or we like three minutes, Yeah, we need 2237 01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:17,599 Speaker 3: to wrap now. That could be our lesson of the week. 2238 01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:20,720 Speaker 3: I had a I have a good just quote. This 2239 01:43:20,760 --> 01:43:22,080 Speaker 3: is Dan Gable quote right here. 2240 01:43:22,200 --> 01:43:25,240 Speaker 1: Let me google a dan Gable quote on mindset and sacrifice. 2241 01:43:26,120 --> 01:43:29,000 Speaker 1: When I'd get tired and want to stop, I wonder 2242 01:43:29,080 --> 01:43:32,200 Speaker 1: what my next opponent was doing, Think about what the 2243 01:43:32,280 --> 01:43:34,280 Speaker 1: enemy's doing, Think about what the next dad is doing. 2244 01:43:34,800 --> 01:43:36,080 Speaker 2: I try to visualize him. 2245 01:43:36,240 --> 01:43:38,559 Speaker 1: When I could see him working, I'd start pushing myself 2246 01:43:38,680 --> 01:43:42,080 Speaker 1: harder end quote, and. 2247 01:43:42,200 --> 01:43:44,320 Speaker 3: Wanted to Dan Gable wanted to leave you, guys with 2248 01:43:44,680 --> 01:43:46,320 Speaker 3: No one's ever drowned in sweat. 2249 01:43:47,680 --> 01:43:50,600 Speaker 2: Someone dan Gable, Dan Gable, we love you, guys, We 2250 01:43:50,760 --> 01:43:51,280 Speaker 2: appreciate you. 2251 01:43:51,560 --> 01:43:53,280 Speaker 1: We will see you next week. Make sure you take 2252 01:43:53,280 --> 01:43:56,439 Speaker 1: out the trash ride the shock wave of see you 2253 01:43:56,520 --> 01:43:56,680 Speaker 1: next