WEBVTT - A Harrowing AND Heartwarming Listener Phone Call Extravaganza 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:13.160 What's that at the Bed's spooky? Hey, Judy, I'm pretty 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:15.480 sure it's dead. It's coming this way. 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:17.560 Wait a minute, I. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:23.440 Said, Nanda's. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:33.800 Collease hey boo, it's me Raz and welcome to Ghosted 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:38.080 by Roz Hernandez, the podcast where I talk to people 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.760 that I like about the paranormal. 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:47.880 Ah, it's my favorite. A listener phone call extravaganza. What 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:52.839 a perfect way to end this year. As always, if 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:56.040 you want to be on a listener phone call episode, 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:59.240 are you gonna do? Send me an email Ghosted by 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:03.800 Raz at email dot com. Subject line listener episode. 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This first one is Haley, 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:47.880 and Haley has had experiences with everything. We even get 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:51.240 a bigfoot. So let's hand it on over to Haley 0:02:52.720 --> 0:03:04.000 and with the show. I'm for Hailey from Alabama. 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:05.280 Hi. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:12.200 Hi, Okay you, according to this email I received, you 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:21.360 are the ultimate triple threat, honey, because you've got UFO, Bigfoot, 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:22.880 and ghosts. 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:24.840 I do it all, I do it all. 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:30.680 You could do it all that is, Uh, there's diversity 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:38.640 in these stories. You are well rounded in your paranormal experiences. 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.040 Which one do we start with? I gotta hear Bigfoot? 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:43.760 Can we start with Bigfoot? 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:46.800 Okay? So I will say being a triple threat. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.440 I come from northwest Florida, and I know everyone has 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:50.400 heard of Florida Man. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.640 And that's probably why we have so many stories. It's 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:54.400 been a lot going on. 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:58.680 So when I was nineteen, I was transferring to Florida State, 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:02.440 and like at your average nineteen year old, I wasn't really. 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.120 Thinking through what I was doing. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:07.600 When I was registering for my classes, and my hometown 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:10.200 is about an hour from Tallahassee. I send up for 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:13.680 a seven am class in Tallahassee, which is on Eastern Time, 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:18.160 not realizing that was a six am Central Time class. 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:20.240 So I was leaving my house every day I had 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:21.920 to be out by four forty five am. 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:24.720 Oh my god, I don't know how I did it, honestly, 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:28.360 Actually I didn't a lot of time. But one of 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.159 the day when I was. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.200 On the road, you have to pass through hense forests 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:35.640 to get to the interstate, and it's we had been 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.200 eclectrical and national forests and it was one. 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:40.560 Morning, it was like four thirty four to forty five. 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:42.880 I was driving through and all of a sudden, I 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:46.400 see something coming from the right out of the forest, 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.720 kind of like into the road, and it looked at me. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.720 We made eye contacts, and it was a sick but 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:55.560 I swear to gone a standing by that till the 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:56.200 day I die. 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:57.560 Tell me what I look like. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.800 It was what you would expect, I guess whenever people 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:05.960 say it, just like super tall, Harry, just I don't know, 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:11.960 you're as age generic, just good old fashioned, you know, 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:17.560 all is reliable. And we locked eyes and it chilled 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:21.600 me to my core. I was like terrified because I 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:24.279 knew that I had seen something that I wasn't supposed 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.200 to see. And all I can like compare it to 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:29.480 is if you saw like a huge crime going down 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.440 and the people that were committing that crime, like you 0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:33.760 guys locked eyes and they knew that. 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:36.279 You saw what they were doing, like witness protection. 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:38.040 Oh my god. 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:41.800 I started crying. I was calling my mom and she 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.440 was like, don't call me, just early. 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:45.040 You know. 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.640 There was no sympathy, but it was a memory like 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.120 I will never forget it, and I've told my wife 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:51.440 about that. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.800 I sway right, and she's just like, you know, I 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:56.920 believe it's out there, but not in Florida, but in 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.000 the Athletesiclon National Forest. 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:00.920 He has come shore where. 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:06.640 But so you you know, it was not a bear. 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:08.760 It was no, it was not a bear. So I've 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:11.880 seen bears several times. We have a lot of like 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:14.600 black bears, and it was not. 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:17.520 It was not a bear, like a more human face. 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:21.240 Yeah. And he was standing straight upright and it had 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:23.800 you know, those long arms and kind of like the 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:26.720 big steps and swinging arms. 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:28.960 And it was truly the. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:31.560 Most terrifying thing I've ever seen in my entire life 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:33.760 because I knew that I was not supposed to see it, 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:34.640 and it. 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.640 Locked eyes with you to see this could have been 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:42.440 like a round com It could have this bigfoot was 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:43.880 falling in love with you. 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:47.400 I mean, if you could have seen me in the 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.320 car looking like I looked, I think he would have 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.120 just turned away so quickly. 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:55.080 But he couldn't tell because of the headlights. 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:58.160 And that's where I really was able to connect for 0:06:58.240 --> 0:06:59.880 just a minute because he couldn't see what I looked like. 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:00.440 Inside. 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:06.240 Oh my god. Uh Okay, So we got bigfoot. Yeah, 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.880 let me hear about an alien or a UFO situation. 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:13.520 Okay, So these are the crazy stories that you're like, 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.680 no one's gonna believe me when I say this, and 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:18.400 it makes you want to not tell people because there's 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:19.680 anything that you're crazy. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.679 And so I get it, I get it. Don't worry. 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.920 I'm going to give you enough to just worry about me. Like, 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:27.520 so't I don't need to add this in. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:32.320 And so I was talking to my cousin, Caitlin, and 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:36.239 she was talking about how her and her then boyfriend 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.520 had gone out. They were in pen northwest Florida, driving 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.960 around like hunting, and they were going out of the 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.240 hunting leaves and they were just kind of chining and 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:46.160 seeing if they have like any deer that were kind 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:49.560 of like showing up out there, and they saw this 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:53.320 strange light in the sky. And we do have a 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:55.600 little airport in town, and they'll do a lot of 0:07:56.520 --> 0:08:00.520 kind of like army training exercises and so yeah, yeah. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:01.880 That's what they always say. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.760 Well, they'll give you a heads up and say like hey, 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.240 we're doing these exercises or we're you know, doing stuff 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:09.960 out in the woods, or we're you know, doing a 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:13.160 little practice man hunting situation. There's always something going on. 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:15.400 But they saw the same in the sky, and the 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:19.480 way that it was moving was just not average at all, 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:23.360 and it would kind of go vertical a little bit 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.560 and then kind of horizontal and just stay there. 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:30.640 And her boyfriend had this huge like maghlighte and just shined. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.480 It up at that to see if they if they 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:36.440 could see anything any kind of detailer you know, how 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:39.480 big it was. And immediately when they did that, it 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:42.680 like flashed its lights and just went off like completely black. 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:45.199 And we were talking about and she said that she 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:48.160 was like killed to the bone. She knew like that 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:49.880 wasn't right. We were not up just to see that, 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:53.160 and so we both had that same kind of experience 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:56.480 where you've seen something that you knew was not meant 0:08:56.520 --> 0:09:00.200 for you to see, and that just fear of oh 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:00.839 my god, are they. 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:01.480 Going to come for me? 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:04.200 She was sharing that, and that was what finally let 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:06.559 me be like, okay, let me tell you about Bigfoot. 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:10.000 Something about your family, you guys are or maybe you 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:11.319 are supposed to see it. 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:12.480 I well. 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:15.000 And then this was you know, obviously before the government 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:19.079 released all the information about aliens, and so after that 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:19.839 it all came out. 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:22.120 She's like, I knew it. I knew it. And I 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:23.640 was like, I'm just waiting on them to talk about 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:26.959 Bigwood now, yes, waiting for that to be let out. 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.360 Okay, now tell me a ghost story. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:35.280 Okay. 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:39.199 So my grandma we were very very close, and like 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:42.199 back in the seventies, she was super super skeptical, but 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:44.040 a few of the girls that she worked with were 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.520 really into going to this poem reader, so she went 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:47.520 with them a couple of times. 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:49.560 One time she went and. 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.199 The woman told her that she was going to have 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:56.800 some man expressed his admiration or you know, desire to 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:59.520 be with her in that week. And then another one 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:01.400 told her she was going to be married or sent 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.640 her life with a tall, dark haired man, and that 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:06.240 she would die in a fire. Oh god. 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.400 Well. Then also grandma told me that one time she 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:10.840 had done a weekly board. 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:13.920 Also I'm not sure this was before after the poem readers, 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.079 but that it also told her she would die in 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:20.480 a fire. So you know stuff, I'm like, okay, this 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:22.839 is crazy. Why would you even ask? The questions are like, 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.560 I wouldn't want to know. Well, you know, Graham didn't 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:29.240 believe it at all. And then the next week after 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.160 the first palm reader, she was picking her son up 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:34.199 from baseball practice and his coach asked her out on 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:34.640 a date. 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:36.840 And my grandpa was a truck. 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:38.840 Driver, so that wasn't around much, and the coach had 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:41.600 no idea that Graham was married. So that's the first 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:45.920 poem reader, you know, personal expressing admiration, wanting to you know, 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:46.480 be with her. 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:47.400 That came true. 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:52.440 Oh and then several years later said grandpa wound up 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.319 leaving her and the kids, and she moved back to 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.559 her hometown in Florida, and she wound up meeting and 0:10:57.600 --> 0:11:01.599 marrying my papa, who is a tall dark man. So 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:04.920 of course I'm existed in this and so in the 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.439 back of my mind, I'm just saying, like, Okay, this 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:09.599 guy's going out in a fly in a fire, like 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:11.199 just blaze of glory like that. 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:15.079 I would avoid every I wouldn't even go near a 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:17.240 lighter matches nothing. 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:22.360 Well, so here's where our family humor gets a little morbid. 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.839 So my grandma found like really bad help, and she'd 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.720 be lifelighted several times since I had a few year 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:32.640 death medical experiences, and she was my best friend and 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:35.400 I couldn't really bear the thought of ever losing her. 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.680 So whenever they would take her away and the joance 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:40.599 their helicopter, we would joke and it's like, hey, this 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.000 isn't your time, baby girl, just going out in that fire. 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:46.160 And she's like, you're right, You're right, this isn't it. 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:48.280 I gotta wait for the fire. And it would just 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:50.520 weirdly calm us to say that. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:53.559 I love that. 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:58.439 That's an old I mean, I like that. Well, at 0:11:58.480 --> 0:11:59.880 this point, she gets really bad. 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.199 She's on full time oxygen, so she plugged up the 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:07.480 machine NonStop. She is almost completely bedbound. She's basically able 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.319 to just get from her bed to her bathroom and 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:11.400 then back to bed. 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:12.199 That was all she could do. 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.280 And in twenty twenty one, she was in her bathroom 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:19.520 and she looked over into the laundry and that was attached, 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:23.200 and she watched as her electrical box caught on fire. 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.520 Knock it off, Sorry to God. So she is like 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:27.840 screaming for my grandpa. 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:32.320 He is in his little man cave across the house asleep, 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:35.199 and he's almost completely deaf, so obviously he could not 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:38.640 hear anything. So like naturally one would assume like this 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:42.719 is it homegirl's time something. I don't know if it 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:46.000 came over her or into her, but she was able 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:49.000 to get up. She took her oxygen off, she walked 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:52.160 across the house, got my grandpa called nine on one, 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:54.160 got dim and her dog out of the house. 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.720 So somehow she said all through it their lives. 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.959 I'm not sure what exactly happened that day, but Graham 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:05.240 was like a little different after after the fire, they 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:08.199 wounds up moving to my mom's house in Tennessee, and 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.760 you know, Graham's back to her usual help of you know, 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:15.360 oxygen full time, almost completely dead balanced. So when they 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.160 moved up there, my mom had told me, you know, 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:20.320 Graham's I think she's like declining a little bit. 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:23.480 She keeps talking to her parents like they're in the 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:24.120 room with us. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:26.839 And I was living in Tennessee, I'd moved there like 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:28.720 a year before, so I was glad I was able 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:32.760 to spend some time with them. And my parents went 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:34.800 to a wedding and so my then girlfriend and I 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:38.960 went to stay with my Grandmampapa and we were straightening 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:39.800 up the house. 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:42.400 And I was vacuuming, and as I'm vacuuming. 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:44.600 I don't know if everyone doesn't. So like, you take 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:46.760 a couple of steps for and the couple steps back. 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:48.360 You just trying to make sure you get it real good. 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:52.400 As I'm backing up, I'm back into a person. And 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:55.760 I just assumed it with my girlfriend because I knew 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.079 my grandparents were and their requiners, and so I just 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.559 turned around, was like, oh, I'm so sorry. I look 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.839 and she's in the kitchen and there was nobody behind me, 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:05.960 and my face went wide. 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.920 I was so cold. And my grandma just looked at 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:14.679 me and said, oh, that's just daddy. He's fine. I 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:18.720 was like, okay, okay, cool, cool cool. So then Graham. 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:22.000 June of twenty twenty two, they were back at their 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:23.720 house in Florida. Now we talked to her on sohone 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:26.600 all the time, and she really started to decline. So 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:28.560 you know, the whole family came in. 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.200 We were it was like a movie scene. When she passed. 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:34.880 We were all just like circled around her bed, telling 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:38.600 her how much we loved her. She kept telling us 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.360 that her mom had come to fear and wanted her 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.760 to go with her, and so we're like, Graham, you know, 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.120 it's okay, like we'll take care of each other, you 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:47.920 can go. And it was the sweetest thing. 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:49.040 I'm so glad I was there. 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.680 So grandpasses and one of her last things that she 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:55.320 asked was if I would do her hair and makeup 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:55.920 for the funeral. 0:14:56.680 --> 0:15:00.280 So I did. And I don't know if you ever 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:01.520 had people talk to you about this. 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:06.000 I'm imagining this is just gonna be this beautiful moment, 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.600 like me do my grandma's pair makeup for the last time. 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:10.800 It was not Uh. 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:13.560 They put me in a room and my aunt decided 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.560 she was going to come too, and it was my 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:19.720 grandma perst particular to my grandma, there were three. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:24.040 Other men deceased in the room with us, and. 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:27.760 Yeah, and the more cause she's like, all right, well 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:29.720 here she is, and you know, it's a small town. 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:32.120 So she's like, take care of my cousin. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:33.760 And I'm like, okay. 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:38.480 So as I'm like doing your makeup, I'm bumping in 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:42.400 to these men no, and I'm just like, oh, sor, 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:43.160 I'm so sorry. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:46.840 I'm so sorry. And my aunt, who I guess that 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:47.960 are morbid humor. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:52.440 Mentioned one of the gentlemen's noses and she's like oh 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:53.800 my gosh, the thing is huge. 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.120 You could just write it. And I was like, oh, 0:15:56.200 --> 0:16:00.440 dear God, and I am just like apologizing for please 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.040 with me, and I'm like you, we don't mean it, 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:04.440 we don't mean it. Please don't come back to haunt. 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:10.160 And it's like I think you look great, and so 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:12.480 I'm telling Grandma, like I want you to come back. 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:15.400 I don't want these men. I don't know. So we 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:16.960 had just kind of drug about that and kind of 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:19.040 light in the movie Oh my God. 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:25.760 One night in my apartment, I have, you know, just 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:27.520 really been talking to her every night and like, hey, 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.640 I love you, miss she please come see me if. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:30.640 You can, please come see me. 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:35.080 And one night I had this super vivid dream and 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:37.720 she was sitting next to me in the bed and 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.040 she told me, She's like, hey, I love you. 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:43.280 I'm okay, I want to come back. I'm trying to 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:44.880 come see you, but it's really. 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:45.480 Hard for me to do. 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:47.680 And she was like still trying to figure out how 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:50.840 to do it, and so she let me know like 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:52.760 she was there, she was coming, but it was just 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:54.200 kind of hard for her to figure out. 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:55.960 And it just gave me so much peace. 0:16:56.960 --> 0:16:59.080 A few months later, I wounded up meeting my now wife, 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:01.720 and I had brought her home to me my family 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:04.200 for the first time. And so at this point, my 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.040 mom is living in my grandparents house. She is taking 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.639 care of my grandfather, and my mom's bedroom is my 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.840 grandma's old bedroom where my grandma passed away. And I 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:16.960 take Beth in, and you know, we're getting ready to 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:20.679 go out, and everything's fine. Everyone seems to like get along, 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:23.720 We're great. A couple months later, we're back home in 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.879 Alabama and I said, hey, no, let's get ready to 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:30.720 plan Easter. We're going to Florida and I mentioned my 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:34.440 aunt Kim and Beth says, oh, I don't think she 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:34.879 likes me. 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:36.879 I'm like, why do you say that? 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:42.600 She just really wasn't wasn't feeling me the last time 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.600 I was there, and I said, best she was not 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:47.280 even in town when you came. She was like in 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:51.440 the Lucky and She's like, no, she came in and 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.040 she did not speak to me. She didn't really acknowledge me. 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:58.080 It was just really weird, and I knew any kim 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:01.119 usn't there. I even had to call my mom and 0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:03.960 my other aunt. She'd be like, hey, can you please 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:05.800 reasure best because she does not trust me. 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:08.280 Was Kin there and was not. 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.040 Beth describes a woman coming into Graham and Papa house. 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:15.240 She said that she walked her through this front door, 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:18.360 went to my grandpa's room to check on him, came 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:22.640 back out, went to my grandma Fuls bedroom, came back 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:25.800 out and was just standing by me and my aunt 0:18:26.080 --> 0:18:29.520 for a while. And I said, did anyone talk to 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:32.400 her Best? And she said no, nobody said anything. Really, 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:34.520 I thought maybe she was your aunt. But if it 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:37.240 wasn't her, maybe it was like a nurse coming to 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:40.840 see your papa. And I'm like, no, nobody came in, 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:41.879 I would have introduced you. 0:18:43.040 --> 0:18:44.280 What does this woman look like? 0:18:45.480 --> 0:18:51.040 She described in the perfect detail my grandma Cirka like 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:52.480 two thousand and two. 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:54.359 Oh my god. 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:59.880 It was the craziest, scarious, like all hum of comforting thing. 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:04.520 And I think, honestly Graham was there also trying to 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:07.159 check out best to make sure she was okay to 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.200 join our family, because that was like one of my 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:11.879 biggest things, Like, oh, I just wish you could have 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:12.359 met Graham. 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:15.720 That is incredible. 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:19.560 And since then my wife is so means that she 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:23.600 apparently can see quite a bit and has seen her 0:19:23.680 --> 0:19:28.520 debased grandfather and has seen my grandmother since been at. 0:19:28.440 --> 0:19:31.640 Our new house in Alabama. So apparently she has learned 0:19:31.640 --> 0:19:32.240 how to travel. 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:36.560 So do you think that she approves and they get 0:19:36.600 --> 0:19:37.880 along and everything's good. 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:41.359 I think so. But one of the funniest things I have. 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:43.800 I keep a couple of pictures of her in my car, 0:19:44.600 --> 0:19:49.200 and it was in the little passenger sun visor. Whenever 0:19:49.240 --> 0:19:50.800 you pull it down, there's a little cliff and it's 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:53.320 on there some reason that's pulled it down, and I 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:55.720 know she had to do it, like Graham. Grandma was 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:58.159 a little staffy, but she pulled it down and the 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.320 sis here Graham came flying and had the rest the 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:01.920 face and She's. 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:04.080 Like, tell her to stop. 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:07.960 Has she seen pictures of her from like two thousand 0:20:08.000 --> 0:20:09.600 and two and been like, yeah, that's the lady. 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:12.960 So she had never seen pictures of her before. Really, 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:16.000 she had seen my aunt who looked almost identical to her. 0:20:16.400 --> 0:20:19.280