1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Same as it ever was, same as it ever was, 2 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: same as it ever was, same as same as it 3 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: ever was, same as it ever, same. 4 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: As indexing, massive technology concentration, the rise of AI. It's 5 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: a brave new world, or is it? As much as 6 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 2: our era seems to be unprecedented, a lot more is 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: the same as ever. Human behavior, risk, opportunity, even living 8 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: the good life all tends to be well, if not eternal, 9 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: pretty close. We tend to focus on what's different while 10 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 2: ignoring all the things that remain the same. I'm Barry 11 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: Redults and on today's edition of At the Money, we're 12 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: gonna discuss why you should pay attention to the unchanging 13 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 2: nature of money and human behavior. To help us unpack 14 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 2: all of this and what it means for your assets, 15 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 2: let's bring in Morgan Housel. He is the author of 16 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 2: Same as Ever, A Guide to What Never Changes. The 17 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: book has received widespread acclaim for its insightful approach to 18 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 2: thinking about risk and human nature. So Morgan, let's start 19 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 2: with your central premise, how consistent is human behavior across 20 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: the millennia? 21 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 3: Well, Berty, this is a great quote from Voltaire, who 22 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 3: said history never repeats itself, but man always does. I 23 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 3: think that is such a good way to summarize history, 24 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 3: that the events never repeat themselves. The recessions, the wars, 25 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 3: they're different every single time, and that's what makes them 26 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 3: so difficult to predict. But the behavior how people respond 27 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 3: to recessions or bear markets, whatever it might be, is 28 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 3: very stable throughout history. How people responded to the risk 29 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 3: and the surprise of the Great Depression in the nineteen 30 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: thirties is exactly how they responded to the financial crisis 31 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: of two thousand and eight or the panic of March 32 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 3: twenty twenty, no different whatsoever. And that is important because 33 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 3: we cannot predict when the next recession is going to occur, 34 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 3: when the next bear market might occur. Nobody can do it. 35 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 3: But if you understand that the behaviors are stable over time, 36 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 3: then you can say, I have no idea when the 37 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 3: next recession is going to come, but I know exactly 38 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: how people will respond to it when it does come. 39 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 3: So it's putting your faith and forecasting the future in 40 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 3: something that is repeatable and predictable, versus fooling yourself into 41 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 3: trying to predict something that you can't. 42 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 2: It sounds like the focus is less on predicting events 43 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 2: and more on understanding our own behaviors. 44 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 3: That's right, that's exactly right. And you're doing that because 45 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 3: one is stable and predictable over time and one is not. 46 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 2: So let's discuss the power of narratives. Why is it 47 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 2: that stories are so much more influential than data and 48 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 2: reasoning when it comes to us thinking about things like money. 49 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 3: I think it's always been the case that the best 50 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 3: story wins, not the person who has the right answer 51 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: or the best answer, or the answer that makes the 52 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 3: most sense. It's always the best story that wins. People 53 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 3: see that very often in politics, when it's almost always 54 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 3: the case for generations that the person who wins the 55 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 3: presidency is not the most competent or has the best policies. 56 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 3: It's a person who tells the best story. That has 57 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: always been the case, and I think always will be. 58 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 3: People don't have enough bandwidth, whether it's in investing or 59 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: politics or anything else, to truly parse all the data 60 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 3: and sift through all the data to find the best answer. 61 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 3: They need a quick SoundBite, they need a quick story. 62 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 3: They need the best story to make sense of what's 63 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: going on in the world. So if you're talking about 64 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 3: the economy or the stock market going through all that data. 65 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 3: I mean, that's an incredibly difficult thing to do. But 66 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 3: if you could tell someone a quick story. Here's a 67 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 3: story about Nvidia, here's a story about the US economy, 68 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 3: they can wrap their head around that in three seconds, 69 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: and it's much more compelling because it takes less effort 70 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 3: to do. Every stock valuation is a number from today 71 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 3: multiplied by a story about tomorrow. You take a number 72 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 3: from today innings per share, and you multiply it by 73 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 3: a story about tomorrow. That's the multiple that you're you're 74 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 3: slapping to it. What's so important to there is that 75 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 3: the stories that people tell about what tomorrow might be 76 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 3: are so much more powerful and also fickle changing than 77 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 3: the number from today. And this is why there's so 78 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 3: much madness and chaos in the history of markets. It's 79 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 3: all just people clinging to and adapting to and telling 80 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 3: new stories about what the future might hold. 81 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: So a number from today multiplied by a story about tomorrow. 82 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: That could be growth rate, that could be earnings, that 83 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 2: could be market share, it could be any sort of story. 84 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 2: And but that's a total unknown. Is that the power 85 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 2: of narrative? 86 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if you were to say, you know, 87 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 3: just making this up, that Netflix stock will be trading 88 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 3: at x dollars per share in three years, that sounds 89 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 3: like a reasonable thing to try to predict. But what 90 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 3: you are really saying is, you know what story investors 91 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 3: are going to believe about Netflix three years from now. 92 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 3: You know what kind of mood investors are going to 93 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: to be in three years from now. And when you 94 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: frame it like that, it's absurd. How could anyone possibly 95 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 3: know what people are going to believe about the future 96 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: three years from now. Most people don't really understand what 97 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 3: people believe about the future today, let alone what they're 98 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 3: going to think about it three years from now. And 99 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 3: so when you realize that it's all narrative is driving 100 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 3: it's whatever people want to believe. The memes Stock revolution, 101 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: if you want to call that, over the last couple 102 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 3: of years, has been the perfect example of that, where 103 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 3: the number from today was almost meaningless, or there was 104 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 3: no number from today, but the story about what it 105 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: could turn into tomorrow was extraordinary. And this is one 106 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: of those things that has always been the case. That 107 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 3: was true one hundred years ago, it is so much 108 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: more powerful today when social media allows the number of 109 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 3: stories and the power of those stories to proliferate in 110 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 3: a way that we've never seen. 111 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: Huh. Really fascinating. So let's talk about the nature of risk. 112 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: Why is it that we really don't understand it, and 113 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: why do we always seem to be so surprised when 114 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: a low probability event occurs. 115 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 3: I think, look, if there is a one percent chance 116 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 3: of a very bad recession in the next year, and 117 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 3: a one percent chance of a very bad pandemic, and 118 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 3: a one percent chance of a war, and a one 119 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 3: percent chance of a natural disaster going down the list, well, 120 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 3: the odds at any one of those will occur are 121 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 3: very low, but the odds at at least one of 122 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 3: them will occur are pretty good. And so if you 123 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 3: have a once in a century event, but there are 124 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: hundreds of possibilities, a one in a century recession, once 125 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 3: in a century, bear mark, whatever it is, the odds 126 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 3: that one of them are going to occur this year 127 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 3: or in the next five or ten years are very good. 128 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: So this is why we are constantly surprised when there 129 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 3: are big risks. So I've been an investor for twenty years, 130 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 3: You've been investing for longer. Than that. But what's happened 131 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 3: in the last twenty years, Well, it was the aftermath 132 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: of nine to eleven and the war in Iraq and 133 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 3: then Lehman Brothers now COVID. In twenty years, you've had 134 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 3: like five once in a century events, and I think 135 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 3: that'll be the case going forward as well. Over the 136 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 3: next twenty years, I think we'll have five or ten 137 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 3: or maybe more events that are easy to call once 138 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 3: in a century events, But since there are so many 139 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 3: different versions of it, they tend to happen much more 140 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 3: frequently than we'd like to believe. 141 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you need a new name for these once in 142 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 2: a century events that we get every five to ten years, 143 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: to say, that's right to say the least. So I'm 144 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 2: glad you're putting this into a historical context. How can 145 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 2: we better understand history to both comprehend what's going on 146 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: today and to conceptualize what might happen tomorrow. 147 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 3: This is a great quote that I love that says 148 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 3: everything feels unprecedented when you haven't engaged with history. So 149 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 3: if you're not a student of history, then every morning 150 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 3: you wake up and read the news and it feels 151 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 3: like this is the first time it's happening. This is 152 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 3: the first bear market, this is the first recession, this 153 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 3: is the first presidential assassination attempt, whatever it might be. 154 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 3: If you're student of history, you know that there have 155 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 3: been a million different flavors of virtually everything that's going 156 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 3: on today, and it's the same movie over and over again. 157 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 3: It's a different cast of characters, it's a slightly different script, 158 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 3: but it's the same movie again and again and again. 159 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 3: That doesn't necessarily make things more comfortable, because you deal 160 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: with things that are painful in your own life, painful 161 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 3: for other people, but you realize that it's not unprecedented. 162 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 3: This is the same thing, and that really pushed you too, 163 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 3: towards understanding the behaviors of how people respond to these 164 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 3: things versus trying to predict exactly what's going to happen next. 165 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 3: If you understand how people respond to what's always occurred, 166 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 3: then you have a good sense of how they're going 167 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 3: to respond next time. 168 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 2: So one of the things that has always occurred is 169 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 2: that we tend to go through these cycles of calm 170 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: and chaos. Why is it that during the good times 171 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 2: we seem to plant the seeds for the chaos that 172 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 2: invariably seems to follow. 173 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 3: Well, look, when things are good in the economy or 174 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 3: the stock market, people naturally, normally rationally take more risk. 175 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: If the economy is really strong, you feel better going 176 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 3: into debt in your business and building a new factory, 177 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 3: or if the stock market looks really strong, you feel 178 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 3: better allocating more assets to there. It's a very rational 179 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 3: thing to do. But when you do that, you, as 180 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 3: one of hundreds of millions of actors in the US economy, 181 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 3: have planted the seeds for the next decline. The more 182 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 3: risk you're taking in your business, the more risk you're 183 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 3: taking in your portfolio, makes the market more fragile, more vulnerable. 184 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: And so the irony is that if we never had 185 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 3: a recession, people would very rationally take a lot of 186 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: risk in their business go into debt if we're never 187 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 3: going to have recessions, and the fact that they're going 188 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: into debt is what makes the economy fragile, and the 189 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 3: fact the economy becomes fragile is what causes the next recession. 190 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 3: So it says, irony of if we never had recessions, 191 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 3: you would guarantee that you're going to have a very 192 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 3: bad recession in the future. And it's the same as 193 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 3: the stock market. The lack of volatility is what plants 194 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 3: the seeds for future volatility, because you get complacency and 195 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 3: people take on more risk. And so when you view 196 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 3: it like that, you view volatility as completely unavoidable. When 197 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 3: the lack of recessions plants the seeds for the next recession, 198 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 3: it's guaranteed that we're going to have future recessions, future 199 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 3: bear markets. You view it as much more inevitable rather 200 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 3: than something that requires the economy to break or for 201 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 3: policy makers to make a mistake for it to occur. 202 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 2: So we've been talking about how history sets our expectations 203 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: for what might occur in the future. Let's talk about 204 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 2: a gap between expectations and reality. What happens when that 205 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 2: gap gets to be too large. 206 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 3: It's always been the case in the US economy that 207 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 3: if you look over a multi generation period, there's economic growth, 208 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 3: and it's usually substantial economic growth. If you look at 209 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 3: how we are living relative to our grandparents and their grandparents, 210 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 3: we've grown so much. It has also always been the 211 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: case that people look back and say, look, it's not 212 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 3: as good as it used to be. There are things 213 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 3: that were different in the past, and I think what 214 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 3: so often happens is that people's incomes grow, but their 215 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 3: expectations grow by even more. The average middle class American 216 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 3: today is living a life that John D. Rockefeller could 217 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 3: not fathom. They have technologies and medicines at Rockefeller, or 218 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 3: the richest man in the world in his day, could 219 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 3: not fathom. But you cannot say that the average American 220 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 3: should feel richer than Rockefeller, because that's not how people's 221 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 3: brains work at all. Wealth is just relative to what 222 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 3: other people have around you. So you measure your life 223 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 3: relative to your neighbors and your coworkers and everybody else. 224 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 3: And in that situation, you can have a world where 225 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: people's incomes grow, their assets grow, and live a longer life, 226 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 3: but if everyone else is doing the same, you don't 227 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 3: feel any better off. And you can also imagine a 228 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 3: world in which our grandkids are living way better than us. 229 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 3: They're richer and they're healthier, but they're no happier for it, 230 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 3: because everyone else is going to be living that too. 231 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 3: They're all going to have the same cancer medicines, and 232 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 3: they're all going to have the same high incomes, and 233 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 3: so by comparison, they don't feel like they're that much 234 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 3: better off. When you realize that all wealth and happiness 235 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 3: is just comparison to other people, you realize that the 236 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 3: gap between your expectations and reality is really what you 237 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 3: want to go for to gain some sort of happiness 238 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 3: and contentment out of your money. 239 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 2: And perhaps that's why social media has become so toxic. 240 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 2: All it does is raise people's expectations and their comparisons 241 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 2: rather than appreciating what they have. 242 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean, it used to be that you 243 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 3: compared yourself to your neighbors and your coworkers. Now you 244 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 3: compare yourself to a curated highlight reel of a bunch 245 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 3: of strangers, fake performative lives. And so, no matter how 246 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 3: well you're doing, you can open up Instagram and be 247 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 3: bombarded with hundreds of people who appear to be doing 248 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 3: better and look better and look happier than you are, 249 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,839 Speaker 3: even if it's all bs and so, even though the 250 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 3: comparison game has always been the case, it is so 251 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 3: much more potent today than it's ever been. 252 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 2: What we see on Instagram is the car or the house, 253 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 2: but we don't see the monthly payments. 254 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 3: And you don't see the person bickering with their spouse, 255 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 3: or dealing with their health problems or whatnot. It's all 256 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 3: the highlight reel, and sometimes it's the fake highlight reel, 257 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 3: and it leads people to think that everyone else is 258 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 3: happier than you are. There's this great quote from Montesque 259 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 3: who said this three hundred years ago. He said, if 260 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 3: you only wish to be happy, that is very simple 261 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 3: to do. But people want to be happier than other people, 262 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 3: and that is very difficult because we overestimate how happy 263 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 3: those other people are. And he said that three hundred 264 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 3: years ago, well before social media. If you are around today, 265 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 3: I think he would look at that statement and say 266 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 3: it is ten times truer today than it's ever been. 267 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 2: Our final question, how can we balance optimism and pessimism 268 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: in our own lives With money? 269 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 3: I've always phrased it as you want to save like 270 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 3: a pessimist and invest like an optimist. You ought to 271 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 3: be very confident in where we're going for your investments, 272 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 3: but you want to be very realistic about how hard 273 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 3: it's going to be to get there. I hope to 274 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 3: be an investor for another thirty or fifty years, and 275 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: I'm very confident that fifty years from now the market's 276 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 3: going to be extraordinarily higher than it is today. I'm 277 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 3: equally confident that it's going to be a very painful 278 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 3: slog to get there. It's going to be a NonStop 279 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 3: chain of surprises and setbacks and recessions and pandemics, on 280 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 3: and on and on and so I think that's how 281 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 3: you balance it to very optimistic on where you're going 282 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 3: in the long run and very realistic about how difficult 283 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 3: it's going to be to get there. 284 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:41,079 Speaker 2: So, to wrap up, the world is changing faster than ever, 285 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: and we tend to focus on each incremental, unprecedented action 286 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 2: that takes place. We really should be focusing on all 287 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 2: the things that are the same as they've ever been. 288 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 2: I'm Barry Ridults. You're listening to Bloomberg's at the Money. 289 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: That's the same as it ever was, the same as 290 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: it ever was, same as it never was. The look 291 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: what our name was, Time isn't holding up? 292 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 3: Time is an after us. 293 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: The same as it ever was. 294 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 2: It's the same as it ever was, as it ever was. 295 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 2: H