1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,399 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 2: So welcome to wind Down. It's me and Kitty Gat. 3 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: Kitty Gat, So what you got going on there? 4 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: Girl? Dude? Is it just me? 5 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 3: Or Summer's the most stressful thing ever? I mean, I 6 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 3: don't know what I think. I'm on the like the 7 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 3: verge already of a mental breakdown. It usually doesn't happen 8 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 3: this early, so. 9 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: To explain and talk to me. I mean, I have 10 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 2: my thoughts as well, but talk. 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 4: I just I love being busy. 12 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 5: I thrive on that. 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 3: But I think at least during the school year, I 14 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 3: get it, like time. I'm just such an introvert and 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 3: I need such time on my own that at least 16 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 3: during the school year, I've got while they're in school 17 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 3: to get work done, to get laundry done, to do whatever, 18 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 3: and then we can be crazy in the afternoons. 19 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 5: That's fine, But now it's like go go, go, go go. 20 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: Oh. 21 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 5: I just I literally lost it the other day. 22 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 4: I felt terrible what happened. 23 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 3: Emmy was like, you know, we've got the new puppy, 24 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: and she had him and then she gave him to 25 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 3: Ramsey and then no one could find the dog, and 26 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 3: she's like sitting there trying to explain to me the 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 3: whole thing, and I just was like, just find the dog. 28 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 3: But I yelled at her and I felt terrible. But 29 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 3: I looked at Nick and I was like, mental breakdown. 30 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 5: He's like, it's coming earlier this year. Yeah, I just 31 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 5: don't do summer as well. I don't. 32 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: First question, did you find the dog? 33 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was in the house. He was lost, running 34 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 3: around getting hit by a car. That's why I was 35 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: screaming at her. But apparently Ramsey did do what she 36 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 3: was supposed to and brought him in. 37 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: So does it not get easier than when the kids 38 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: get older because they've got friends to play with? 39 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: So you would think, so I thought, and for a 40 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 3: short time it kind of did. The problem is is like, 41 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 3: for instance, right now, I think I have five boys 42 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 3: at my house that I just threatened out of my 43 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 3: kitchen and like one you cannot speak, you can't do anything. 44 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 5: You know, any had friends, you. 45 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: Know, it's just like they're all at my house all 46 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 3: the time, or it's driving them, like they just make 47 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: all the plans like I need you driving here and 48 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 3: driving here and driving here, and it's just it's a lot. 49 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 5: It's just it literally is enough to like, yeah, Mike. 50 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 2: I feel like so many people can relate to that, though, And. 51 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: How do I say this. 52 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,239 Speaker 2: In my situation, it's a little different because our summer 53 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: schedule's week on, week off. Now, last year I made 54 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: the mistake of and you you warned me against it, you, 55 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 2: but I I have you know, normally I don't go 56 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: a week ever without seeing the kids. In our parenting plan, 57 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: it's always every Wednesday and every other Friday Saturday. And 58 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 2: so with summer, I remember, it's stressing me out so bad, 59 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: like I'm going to go a week without seeing my kids, 60 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 2: Like this is going to be awful. So I decided 61 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: that we could have the kids just come to my 62 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: house while he's working on my non weeks so I 63 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: can at least see the kids. Well, then when I 64 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 2: had my week, I didn't have any help, so it's 65 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 2: like I never really got a break. And then I 66 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 2: felt that kind of what you were feeling, just like, 67 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: and they're littles too, so it's even so that adds 68 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 2: its own element of hard. And so this year I 69 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 2: was like, Nope, you can't, even though I want them, 70 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 2: I want to see them but I also know the 71 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: importance of that break because if not like, yes, you're 72 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: I'm going to have that mental crack. 73 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 74 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 3: Well, and even if you have help in that week, 75 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: especially with the littles, it don't you're still coming mommy, mommy, mommy, mommy. 76 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 4: You know. 77 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 5: So it's like, I don't think people fully understand that. 78 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 4: You know. 79 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 3: It's like, because you know, so many people are like, well, 80 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 3: you're fortunate to have help because there's been there's been 81 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 3: summers where I've had a nanny or I've had help 82 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 3: or whatever. It's like, but if they're in the house, 83 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 3: it doesn't really matter because they're just constantly coming up 84 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 3: to you and constantly needing something. 85 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 2: One million percent, Yeah, because I would have someone help 86 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: on his weeks. But yeah, I'm like, well, I might 87 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: as well not even have this person here because they're 88 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: coming to ask me questions twenty four to seven. So 89 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 2: and that's the same thing with kind of summer. Now 90 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: it's Jace is so he has to be so active. 91 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 2: Like even when I brought him on set, like Jolie 92 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: was the best set kid. She just like would just 93 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: sit there in color and watch Jace. He was there 94 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 2: for five minutes, He's like. 95 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: I bored. I want to go home or can we 96 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: go somewhere. 97 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh man, So that's another reason why too, 98 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 2: where the set time got cut a little short because 99 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: so now in summer I'm like, all right, on my weeks, 100 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: like we have to be doing something because he's just 101 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 2: very like wants to be like active and going. But 102 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 2: then I'm like, all right, for that week I can't work. 103 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: I will say, you're very good at like delegating your 104 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 3: time with that, and I think that because I mean, 105 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 3: i mean you're very like, I know, like, okay, you 106 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: have the kids in the summer, like at this time 107 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 3: we can talk about work or whatever. 108 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 5: I'm not good at that and I need to get 109 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 5: better at that. So then I just get stressed. 110 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 3: You know, I should be working when I'm doing something 111 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 3: with the kids or I'm working, I'm like, I should 112 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 3: be doing something with the kids. 113 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 5: And then it's just good. 114 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 115 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I think that's also the same. I 116 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: mean when I was packing, studying lines and then finishing 117 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 2: my book and then I had the kids there, I'm like, 118 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: I feel so guilty because I have them. You know, 119 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 2: I put the TV on for them. But then they're 120 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: asking me questions and I'm like, I just need one hour, 121 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 2: Like I will play with you, swim with you. I 122 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: just need one hour. And it's like it's the It's 123 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: funny because when you ask for one hour, it's the 124 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: hardest hour to get. But then they'll play with by 125 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 2: themselves for an hour when I don't ask them for that. 126 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the piece. 127 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is infuriating you guys just played for 128 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 2: an hour by yourself when and I was like, and 129 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: I usually just let them when I like see them, 130 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, this is this is great, but 131 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 2: then I'm doing something else. But when I want to 132 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 2: work for one hour, then it's like my mom my, ma, mama. 133 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 134 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say that gets a little easier as 135 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 3: they're older, Like, I mean, I have now threatened the 136 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 3: six boys in my house than Ammy. I'm like, you know, 137 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 3: it's it's a little bit better. Luckily, ramseason camp too, 138 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 3: so that's a little helpful. 139 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: But I mean I might as well just add a 140 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: baby on top of all this. 141 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, totally fine, six kids, but don't let us work 142 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 3: during the summer. 143 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 2: Now, I think what I'm gonna have to do is uh? 144 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:25,799 Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna have to hire help. 145 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you will for sure. I mean it's 146 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 5: like you're definitely gonna have the baby obviously full time. 147 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: Obviously, yes, you know the other ta Can you imagine 148 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 3: if I'm like, hey, Mike, here you go take the baby? 149 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 4: Hey pretty well? Am I taking the baby for a week? 150 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: There you go? 151 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 4: Has these? 152 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 1: Do you want any want to have these? 153 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 4: Uncle Mike? 154 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: I want to you. 155 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 3: The other day though, and I go, wait, I didn't 156 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 3: have as a mental breakdown last summer. 157 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 5: I was like, because we had fifty to fifty last summer. 158 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: Oh wow, I. 159 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 5: Was like, you want to go back to that. 160 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, what is something that you 161 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 2: can do? Like can you do that? I know you 162 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 2: said you want to get better at it? So is 163 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 2: it a Catherine like take a take thirty like I 164 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 2: don't know, an hour, thirty minutes like this is this 165 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: is mom's time, like mom needs from this time to 166 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: this time, and then you just like put your head 167 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 2: in Yeah. 168 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 3: So I don't do great with just like thirty minutes 169 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 3: or an hour. My biggest thing, So yesterday I asked 170 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 3: for it. I said I need everybody out so Nick 171 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 3: took the puppy. They went to the farm and just 172 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: stayed there all day because the puppy's also an element. 173 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 3: And then Kateen came home from football but then immediately 174 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 3: went with his friends, and then Andy was out and 175 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 3: Ramsey was at camp. And so I do feel more 176 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 3: refreshed today because I had that like nine to three, 177 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 3: which sounds terrible, but like I just need, like I 178 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 3: need a chunk of time one day and then I 179 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 3: think I'm better the rest the other days. 180 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: All right, good, So that's a since there's still so 181 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 2: much summer left, that's a good little goal to go. 182 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 2: But then also I think just to say too, just 183 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 2: to have your back. Oh, emails pop up all the time, right, 184 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 2: so it's it's socially like things come up, so you 185 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 2: need you need more than the hour, So I get that. 186 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 2: But we can do Friday at the pool like we 187 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 2: talked about when I get back. 188 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 3: Which will be helpful because then we'll be face to face, right, 189 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 3: And then like one night. I used to do this 190 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 3: a lot when I worked in an office, and then 191 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 3: you know whatever, I one day I was like, Okay, 192 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 3: I'm not going to stress. 193 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 5: I'm just going to make sure that my emails nothing's urgent. 194 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 3: And then at night and I know that my pupil 195 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 3: looks white email, but like sometimes then I can get. 196 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 5: Quiet and then I just like do a bunch of 197 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 5: work when everybody's in bed. 198 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: Hey you do you do you? And whatever works for you. 199 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: So anyway, cheers the summer, Cheers the summer. 200 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 2: I think again, a lot of moms can relate to that. 201 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 2: And I think, you know, you just got to find 202 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 2: that time. If it's one day, ask for whatever, like 203 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 2: you got this. We are going to take a break 204 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 2: and then we are going to get Kit Hoover on. 205 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 2: Do you remember her cat? 206 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: You've been with me when I've been around her before. 207 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 5: I's much to say. I thought, yeah, I thought I had. 208 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 2: So I was just with her back in when we 209 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 2: were promoting the Mario Lopez movie. She's on Access Hollywood 210 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 2: and Access Daily weekdays on NBC, but she's been a 211 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,839 Speaker 2: host for a really long time. She was on Fox 212 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 2: News ESPN funny enough, our baby Mama isn't here, obviously, 213 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 2: but Kit was also on MTVS. She was the first 214 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: season of MTV's Road Roles. So that's crazy, I know, 215 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 2: so funny. 216 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: But let's take a break and then get her on. 217 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 4: Congratulations, sayank you. Last time I saw you, I had 218 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 4: no idea this was coming. First of all, I have three. 219 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 4: How excited are you? Well? 220 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 1: That's I was so excited to talk to you. 221 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 2: Because you know, my bestie up there, Catherine, she's got three, 222 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 2: and I'm now I'm just like, I just need to 223 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 2: talk to moms that have three, because I just need 224 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 2: to understand what And also I'm kind of worried about, 225 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 2: you know, is the age gap too much or so 226 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 2: I'm curious what's your age gap? 227 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 4: And so first of all, how old are your other two? 228 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 5: Right? 229 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 2: So, well, when he's born, my son will be my 230 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: son will be turning five, and my daughter will be 231 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 2: turning eight. 232 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 4: Perfect. I think that's great. So mine are there's a 233 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 4: four and five year age gap between. My daughters are 234 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 4: twenty one twenty and then my son's sixteen. And the 235 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 4: third though, Danna, you're just gonna it's like they're they're 236 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 4: like the pet, you know what I mean. I was 237 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 4: such a nerd and such a dork. I stood outside 238 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,319 Speaker 4: her preschool class and just walked three hours like a lunatic. 239 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 4: And then by the third literally He drove himself to 240 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 4: school at like age seven, like I just got I honestly, 241 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 4: I can't find him. He is so self sufficient. He 242 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 4: does his laundry, he makes his breakfast. Really for a 243 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 4: third little guy, it's so funny, it really is. 244 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: It's so great. 245 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 4: What about the pregnancy, Like, how are you feeling this time? 246 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: I actually feel okay, I think, and just uh, you know, 247 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 2: I'm older, so I'll be my due dates on my 248 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 2: fortieth birthday. So I think that kind of makes. 249 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: Me a little like, you know, I didn't. I didn't. 250 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 2: I didn't think I could get you know, like I 251 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: didn't think i'd get get pregnant. I just didn't think 252 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 2: I could. 253 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. 254 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 2: So it's just it's all just like wow, it's really 255 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 2: just sinking in, like this is really happening. 256 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 4: So I got access Hollywood at age forty. I'm going 257 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 4: to be fifty three in July. Janna, You're gonna love 258 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 4: your forties so much. And then the fifties I'm just 259 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 4: obsessed with sort of everything comes into focus. You know 260 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 4: where you're going, you know what you want to do. 261 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 4: It is one of the best decades ever. I always 262 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 4: say to age like gratefully, like, now you're gonna have 263 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 4: three little chickens, right, unbelievable career. I just I'm so 264 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 4: happy for you. I just wonder, I will say. With 265 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,439 Speaker 4: my third pregnancy, though, some stuff was a little more interesting, 266 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 4: Like I had something going on down there that I 267 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 4: call the bloomin onion. I don't know what happened, but 268 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 4: there was a lot of pressure. And I had my 269 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 4: girlfriend meet me at Grand Central station and like look 270 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 4: under there, and she was like, oh, Nelly, I don't 271 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 4: And my doctor was like, don't look below the belt, 272 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 4: just say stay up here. So things are a little 273 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,439 Speaker 4: different as you get a little older with each pregnancy. 274 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: How old were you with your third, so. 275 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 4: Let's help me do the math here. So I was 276 00:12:55,880 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 4: thirty eight maybe so about the same as you it was. 277 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: I mean, I agree, I've got a hernia, I've got 278 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 2: a large fibroid. I've got I mean like I've just 279 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: got I'm like I look down the other day and 280 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, holy swollen good. 281 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 4: And I thought are like stretch marks, which I didn't 282 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 4: get with the first two. I just think my body 283 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 4: was like here we go. I do think maybe I 284 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 4: bounced back quicker or maybe I just was so focused 285 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 4: on the other two and now this baby. Oh this 286 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 4: was funny. Were you lucky enough to have a night 287 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 4: nurse with your first two? 288 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 2: So what we did is we did like two nights 289 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: a week just to get a little sleep. 290 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: But my fiance is like, no night nurse. I'm like no, no, no, no. 291 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: Like you don't like it's so I was like, it's 292 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: so good for both of us to get sleep, Like 293 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 2: even if it's just one night a week, like for 294 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 2: the first month. 295 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 4: Tell him to slow his role because with my first 296 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 4: two we had no money. Oh there was no night nurse. 297 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 4: And I remember I got mestitis and I was just like, 298 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 4: this is exhausting. And I remember thinking, oh my goodness, 299 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 4: like I don't know how people do this. So with 300 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 4: the third the same thing. I got mistitus. The breastfeeding 301 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 4: thing was tough for me, and by that point I 302 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 4: didn't care and I was like, I need a night nurse. 303 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 4: And I'm not kidding Janet, like a fourteen year old 304 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 4: somebody that I I showed to put my door, that's 305 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 4: what I felt like. I didn't do any background check. 306 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 4: I was like, nice to meet you, here's the baby, 307 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 4: and it changed my life, like and the same thing. 308 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 4: We did it two nights a week and it just 309 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 4: allowed you to catch up. So for any mom if 310 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 4: they're lucky enough. I know it's expensive and I couldn't 311 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 4: do it my first two, but holy cow, that's a 312 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 4: game changer. That's why fancy celebs can have all these 313 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 4: babies because I'm like, oh my goodness, if I had 314 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 4: a night nurse, I would have had seventeen. 315 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 5: You know what I mean. 316 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, they're so expensive. But again, it's that's 317 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 2: what I was trying to tell Alan. I'm like, babe, 318 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 2: it's worth it, Like for you, you are going to 319 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: be exhausted and then like that'll then affect just everything 320 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 2: else the next day. So you know, like we just 321 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: let's just let's just signure try it a better person. 322 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 4: It's also did you have any postpartum with your other. 323 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know, luckily. 324 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I had the random like I remember 325 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 2: my ex walked in. 326 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: I was just crying and I was like, I don't 327 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: even know why I'm crying, but it's just coming. 328 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 4: Out, you know what. I think it's the sleep deprivation 329 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 4: for a lot of us, right with those first who 330 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 4: it's like, oh my god, it's just ground Paul Day right, 331 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 4: just living for icemom. We used to live for nap 332 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 4: time and when there was two naps, it was like yes, 333 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 4: and then they go to one nap and then of course, 334 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 4: wait till the teenagers like, oh, Nelly, it gets so fun. 335 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, Kat Scotts, she's got a teenager. 336 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: And then well, I guess Emmy as hell old out. 337 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 3: She's eleven, so she's a preteen. Caden's sporteen, which I mean, 338 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 3: he's great. I feel like boys, I don't know, they're 339 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 3: not too crazy, not too hard, but I mean this 340 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 3: year is like he's living his best life. 341 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 5: He's the most. 342 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 3: Social, like you go everywhere, wants to do everything, which 343 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 3: I love. 344 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 5: But I'm just like, I can't keep up with him. 345 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 4: It's great. So Kat, tell me what you have, what 346 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 4: ages and what sex? 347 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 5: Fourteen year old boy, eleven year old girl, seven year 348 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 5: old girl? 349 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 4: Okay, so that's yeah. Boys I think are effortless. They're 350 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 4: just on the move and so fun. I feel like 351 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 4: my son's like a golden retriever, you know what I mean, 352 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 4: on the move. Wait till you get both of you 353 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 4: and your daughters get teenagers. I thought, oh my gosh, 354 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 4: Campbell and Hayes are never going to turn on me, like, 355 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 4: never go through that phase. Boom, was I wrong? They're 356 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 4: going to go through it all. My best advice for 357 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 4: both of y'all with middle school. I don't know why 358 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 4: they saved me, but middle school girls they're just they 359 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 4: can be nasty. There's a lot of like movement which 360 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 4: I don't really remember as much in school, but maybe 361 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 4: I'm just you know, waxing poetic and remembering it like 362 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 4: it was all great. But I stayed home on Friday 363 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 4: nights with my husband. I never asked my daughters if 364 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 4: they had planned. I just felt like Friday, when I 365 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 4: picked them up from middle school, I wanted to come 366 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 4: home and let them have like a safe haven. So 367 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 4: never asked they had plans. I always made like a 368 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 4: fun dinner and we'd just put a movie on and 369 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 4: not even ask like do you want to watch? Just 370 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,360 Speaker 4: make it so if they were home, it was effortlessly 371 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 4: fun and it turned out to be great because that way, 372 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 4: if they were ditched at school or if somebody was mean, 373 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,239 Speaker 4: Friday night just evolved. You know, it was just a 374 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 4: fun family thing. So it was a really nice thing. 375 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 4: Looking back. They both told me they didn't know that 376 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 4: I was doing that by design. They're like, MOhm, that 377 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 4: was awesome. 378 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 1: Oh I love that. 379 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's great. 380 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 4: Never ask if they have plans, because if they don't, 381 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 4: they already feel bad about it, you know what I mean. 382 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 4: I just was of like, we're awesome. Like I just 383 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,360 Speaker 4: would pick them up, you know, go make our ice 384 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 4: cream sundays, whip up a dinner. We'd put on Farris 385 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 4: Fielder's Day Off or some silly movie and just made 386 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 4: it like an effortless thing. And then sometimes they'd have 387 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 4: friends over or not. But middle school girls are very funky. 388 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's already started for fifth grade for my daughter. Yes, 389 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 5: this is crazy. 390 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 3: And you know they have phone when where my daughter 391 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,360 Speaker 3: has a phone, and so I you know, I go 392 00:17:58,440 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 3: through it and stuff, and I'm just like, I'm not 393 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 3: ready for middle school. 394 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 5: If this is what's going to be, like, well. 395 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 4: Think about it like when we were younger. And again 396 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 4: I know I sound eighty seven, but like you never 397 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 4: looked at pictures of yourself, right, I mean Schmer just 398 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 4: did this in her stand up and it's so true, 399 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 4: like you maybe had like one picture a year that 400 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 4: or maybe two. If your friends developed now they're constantly 401 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 4: looking comparing, know where everybody's going. I would hate that. 402 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 4: I think I was oblivious to who was doing what it's. 403 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 3: Been knowing where everyone's going that has just been the hardest. 404 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 3: And I'm like, that's so true. Like you felt left 405 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 3: out if you were at school and someone was leading 406 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 3: you out. You didn't know what people were doing on 407 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 3: the weekends and in the summer. But now everyone knows, 408 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 3: and everyone's feelings are hurt, and I'm just like, it's 409 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 3: a lot. 410 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 4: It's a lot. And again, my girls had social media 411 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 4: way early in phones. I just sort of, you know, 412 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 4: I kind of I never took it away or whatever. 413 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 4: And then I had a deal when they were teenagers. 414 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 4: I said, look, here's the deal. I'm not checking your 415 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 4: phone unless you give me a reason too. But if 416 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 4: I feel like there's a need, I'm gonna get it. 417 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 4: Has you know, who knows what in the world. Sometimes 418 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 4: they're they're going through but it's uh, well, guys, I'll 419 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 4: be here for you for that, guys. Patience. 420 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be like every year, I'm gonna be like, okay, 421 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 2: am I on track? 422 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: What's going on? 423 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 5: Help me? 424 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 4: But I always tell my girls too, I'm like, look, 425 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 4: your looks are your least interesting thing about you? Like 426 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 4: be kind, funny, aren't be like it's just you know 427 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 4: this day and age, I think for both of you, 428 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 4: just leading by example and laughing. I just god, they're 429 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 4: so serious nowadays, So yeah, they really are. I just 430 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 4: like humor for girls and a little bit of self deprecation, 431 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 4: Like if you can laugh at yourself, you win, And 432 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 4: I mean that in a healthy way. So yeah, I 433 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 4: kind of it's a good thing for girls too. 434 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: I agree. 435 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 2: Switching gears to the interviewing side of things. By the way, 436 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 2: you are one of my favorite people to ever be 437 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 2: with an in an interview or just like you're just 438 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 2: your energy, all of it, Like I just I love you. 439 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:07,479 Speaker 2: Has it been because you've obviously done a lot of stuff. 440 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 4: Is there. 441 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: Something that you're like, I would love to do this 442 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 2: that I haven't done, Like would you want to have 443 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 2: your own show? Or I know right now you're with Mario. 444 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 2: Is there some like what are you like? This would 445 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 2: be awesome? 446 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 4: First of all, thank you for that, Dana. I appreciate that. 447 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:31,439 Speaker 4: I love interviewing people. I've never you know, I started 448 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 4: in the Winnebago in TV, So for me, it was 449 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 4: never about fame or looks or trying to do this. 450 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 4: I really just like connecting with people. And I think 451 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 4: my dream thing now would be, which is why this 452 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 4: is so great, is do sort of a podcast with 453 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 4: just straight interviews with women over forty fifty sixty kicking 454 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,360 Speaker 4: ass because I feel like it used to be as 455 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 4: a woman you were dead in the water no matter 456 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 4: what you did after thirty. I was just talking to 457 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 4: Halle Berry about this and I'll like, you know what, 458 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 4: and now she just did an MMA movie and nobody 459 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 4: looks finer than her, and it's less about looks and 460 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 4: more about an attitude. So I just think it's fascinating 461 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 4: what women are doing. You're having your third baby at 462 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 4: thirty nine or a right doing you turn forty, hitting 463 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:17,120 Speaker 4: the fourth level and your life is about to totally 464 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 4: open up for you and Kat I don't know how 465 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 4: you feel about that too, but I just I feel 466 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 4: this resurgence, which is great for us and our daughters. 467 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 4: And I mean, I'm gonna be fifty three and it 468 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 4: feels like I honestly feel like I haven't even gotten started. 469 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 4: For everything that I want to do, I think there's great, positive, fun, 470 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 4: raw stories to tell. So I love that. 471 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 2: Oh you would be amazing. I would listen to your 472 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 2: podcast and Harpy, It'd be so good. 473 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 4: I want to make it like The hen House, where 474 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 4: like we get together with a big group find out, 475 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,959 Speaker 4: like what do we really want to know? Like I'm 476 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 4: interviewing Janet Kramer, what do we want to know? When 477 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 4: I get all the questions from everybody, right, and then 478 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 4: we just dive in. 479 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: Is it hard for you though? 480 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: Like I remember when you interviewed me and my ax, 481 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 2: Like is it hard for you to hold back on 482 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 2: certain things you want to ask? 483 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm always for me. There's a couple of things. 484 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 4: I'm not a gotcha person, and I feel like everybody's 485 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 4: got a story that they can share what they want 486 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 4: to share. So like when you were on with your ex, 487 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 4: I just wanted to be careful, right, there's human hearts involved, 488 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 4: and especially if there's kids involved, and so I'm just 489 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 4: never one I care about the person more than I 490 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 4: do about the interview or the TV show or get 491 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 4: in a moment, oh my gosh. And for y'all, I'm 492 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 4: terrible on the red carpet because if you're talking to me, 493 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 4: I'm never gonna not talk to you. And they're saying 494 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 4: brad Ted's coming up behind you or whatever, like I can't. 495 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 4: I just want to be present with whoever I am 496 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 4: because I wouldn't want that to be me that somebody 497 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 4: like ditches to go to a bigger person. So in 498 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,959 Speaker 4: red carpet they're like, you're too long with Like, like 499 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 4: whoever I'm with, I can't. I'm like, I don't want 500 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 4: to make them feel bad because I'd be that person, 501 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 4: you know. And I also I feel like if somebody, 502 00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 4: especially when I'm live, if somebody says something natural protector like, 503 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 4: I just want to jump in and make sure they're okay. 504 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 2: So you're and you're great with that because there's so 505 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 2: many like you know, which outlet's going to go try 506 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 2: and like dig it in to get the story, and 507 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 2: you were so respectful. I think that's why I've always 508 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 2: just loved loved you. 509 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 3: On that note, have there been any certain celebrities that 510 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 3: have just been outright rude to you? 511 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 5: And let me think, let me think, I love these questions. 512 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 4: You know what, I know, same, same, same, and I 513 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 4: want to give you an honest answer. The funny thing 514 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 4: with me, and this is with friendships and everything, I 515 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 4: sort of always forget if anybody's bad, and I just 516 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 4: sort of my add I'm just like onto the next 517 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,719 Speaker 4: like squirrel, So I forget a lot too. I'm going 518 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 4: to think about somebody as I'm thinking about that. A 519 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 4: funny one though, y'all, is I was on the red 520 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,199 Speaker 4: carpet with Mario for that I think it was the 521 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 4: Golden Globes, and I really wanted to interview Brad Pitt. 522 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 4: I was like, I was set for him, but at 523 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,120 Speaker 4: the time that Brad Pitt came up I was interviewing, 524 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,959 Speaker 4: I forgot who it was and said Brad Pitt went 525 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 4: to Mario and Mario did a great interview with him. So, y'all. 526 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 4: Then I started drinking champagne on the red carpet. So 527 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 4: it's wrapped and I go to leave and I bump 528 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 4: right into Brad like this, and I panic and I say, hey, 529 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 4: Brad kit Pit here, I'm like, and he said what 530 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 4: he stops and he's like maiden or married, and I 531 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 4: said maiden and I was like, And then I followed 532 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 4: up with and I love architecture and a lot of children, 533 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 4: and my producer's like, what are you doing? And then 534 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 4: the paparazzi started snapping pictures of us and I am 535 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 4: smiling like the cat he wait, the canary right there 536 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 4: like y And then his people were like, we got 537 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 4: to get you away from this lunatic. So it was 538 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 4: one of the funniest Like I just sort of geeked out. 539 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 4: I don't know what happened, and I went full kit pit. Okay, 540 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 4: let me think. I'm trying to think of who's been 541 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 4: who's been rude. I don't want say this is rude, 542 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 4: but it was the first the only person when we 543 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 4: were live that moved where they wanted to sit. And 544 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 4: keep in mind, on our show, we've had George Clooney, 545 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 4: Julia Roberts, Matthew McConaughey, like all these big names, and 546 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 4: Ariana Grande back in the day was the only one 547 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 4: that didn't like her angle. And I want to say, 548 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 4: at the time, I think she was on the Disney Show, 549 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 4: like she didn't really hit where she is yet. And 550 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 4: she was also just so young, like I mean, I 551 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 4: wouldn't know which side I've got it, you know, but 552 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,640 Speaker 4: she was the one that like needed certain things which 553 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 4: I just found interesting. 554 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 2: It's like being on Regis and uh, well now Mark 555 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 2: or sorry Kelly and Mark and being like can I 556 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 2: take can I take your ce Kelly? 557 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 4: I always say it, it's like the sit and what well, Jenna? 558 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 4: What about for you? On the opposite end, who's been rude? 559 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 4: With the interviews You've had to navigate and you've had 560 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 4: to You've been so raw and vulnerable and real, which 561 00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 4: I always appreciate as an interviewer or just somebody. That's 562 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,719 Speaker 4: that's why so many people love you too, and your 563 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 4: music translates. Who's been kind of do she to you? 564 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 2: I would say it's more reporters. Like there's a certain 565 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 2: reporter that I have a really hard time with because 566 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 2: something had happened and I even sent her proof of 567 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 2: something like this is not true. Why would you run 568 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 2: the story? AND's she goes, well, you can post about 569 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: it on your story and then I'll run that. I 570 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 2: go all you care about is the drama? 571 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I literally just sent you proof of something and 572 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 1: you're still going to run this other story. How could 573 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 1: you do that? 574 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 4: You know? 575 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: And so that was just like, oh my god, they 576 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 1: don't care. 577 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 2: So it was a publication that I was so I 578 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 2: try to really steer away from that publication now. 579 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 4: Like again, it goes back to like the middle school 580 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 4: like that people just. 581 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: Want the drama. 582 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I would say, I mean, I'd have to 583 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 2: think back to but normally. And Kat is also like 584 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 2: my day day manager. She's pretty like good, you know. 585 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,719 Speaker 2: And I also, like, I'm very open about things. So 586 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 2: I get you asking the question because I've been open, 587 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 2: so I don't fault someone for bringing up something. 588 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: I get it. 589 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 2: I've put it out there, so it's now mine to 590 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: then go, Okay, I've kind of moved on. I'm not 591 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 2: going to talk about it or I'm just going to 592 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 2: give a little snippet just because I get the question, 593 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 2: you know, so let me now how to figure out how? 594 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 2: And I think that's what I had to learn, is 595 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 2: how now I have to answer things. 596 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 4: Well, you're become so great at it, and again, never 597 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 4: stop being raw and real. I think that's kind of 598 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 4: all we have. And keep good people like Kat in 599 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,719 Speaker 4: your corner. I think that's it too, right. For sure, 600 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,160 Speaker 4: many people are around you, but it's the business has 601 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:45,199 Speaker 4: become so crazy and when I started it was very different, 602 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 4: and coming from sports was different because athletes are a 603 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 4: different perspective of what you're trying to get. By the way, 604 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,880 Speaker 4: I look so sporty that you know. 605 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 1: It looks so cute on a run after this. 606 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 4: So I was like, Okay, let me just do it. 607 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 4: But I was so excited to talk to you. But 608 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 4: so your athletes are different than celebrities, and musicians are different. 609 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 4: Now you're both with the celebrity. 610 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, but Cat Katherine, you we were before 611 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 2: the show. We were talking about the view and so Kay, 612 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:14,719 Speaker 2: I know you wanted to ask her a question about that. 613 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,400 Speaker 3: So curious how that was, because it just every time 614 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 3: I watch it, I'm like, I can't keep up, Like 615 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 3: there's so much fighting, there's so many different Like how 616 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 3: was that co hosting of. 617 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 4: You, Kat Jannet? Let me tell you so. First of all, 618 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,199 Speaker 4: I had just had my first baby. So this is 619 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 4: twenty years ago and I was on with Barbara star 620 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 4: Joy in Meredith Okay, so like the ogs and I'm 621 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 4: so young, and I think they thought I'm from Atlanta. 622 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 4: I think they thought, Okay, here comes this like conservative Republican, 623 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 4: which I don't even know what I was at the time, 624 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 4: but I think they wanted me in a box. I 625 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 4: was scared to death, y'all. The funniest thing was I 626 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 4: agree with everybody. Yep, yes, Starr. You were in the backup, 627 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 4: see Barbara were like. I was like, I am not 628 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 4: doing this, and so I had my parents watch because 629 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 4: they had made me an offer, and my dad was like, no, 630 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 4: they are going this isn't your fact. I'm not a 631 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,719 Speaker 4: naturally conflict person. I don't enjoy fighting or you know, 632 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 4: all that kind of stuff. So they were wonderful with 633 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 4: me on, but I didn't get into it. You know what, 634 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 4: Donald Trump came on, isn't that hysterical? And I just 635 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 4: remember Meredith and I pulling his hair. That was oh. 636 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 4: And Sharon Stone came on, who I just love and 637 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 4: I'll never forget. And I hope if she hears this, 638 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 4: this is out a respect, not disrespect. I'm backstage and 639 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 4: right before she walks out, she goes like this and 640 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 4: then walks Nobra on and I thought, well you go, 641 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 4: and I thought she looked fabulous. 642 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 2: Well you can't have you know, hard titties on uh 643 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 2: National TV. 644 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 4: Like oh I love her love, oh I love that. 645 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I always because I I'll sometimes turn the 646 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 2: view on and a part of me always have I've 647 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 2: one of my little goals or future things as I'd 648 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 2: love to be on a round table. 649 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 1: I just think it'd be so much fun. 650 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 2: But that's the one round table that I just feel 651 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 2: like i'd get eaten alive at because I almost feel 652 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 2: like if you don't agree with their stuff, you're just 653 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 2: gonna get yelled at and hated, and I that piece 654 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 2: I just don't like. I'm like, can we just agree 655 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 2: to disagree and be kind when we do that? 656 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 4: Yes, one hundred percent. And on that, I mean you've 657 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 4: seen kind of the younger person in the seat. It's 658 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 4: funny for me to y'all because I was always like 659 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 4: the young one, like they brought me around twice for 660 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 4: each time to go on that. And now I'm like, 661 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 4: oh wait, I'm not that would be the young Like 662 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 4: I'm the old bird in the seat, like that's how 663 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 4: much time go by, which just cracks me up. But 664 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 4: you're right, that is one. Now the talk is different 665 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 4: because that's a great pan. I love that small guaranteee friendship. 666 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 4: What's in the zeitgeys that kind of thing. But yeah, 667 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 4: but the view is Wow, They've got a great group 668 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 4: around there and a good table. But for me, it 669 00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 4: was not a good fit. What's funny with life is 670 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 4: when it came around the second time and they were 671 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 4: interested in me. Now I'd had no I'm pregnant with 672 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 4: my second daughter. The same time, ESPN came to me 673 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 4: about hosting this two hour live sports show seven to 674 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 4: nine in the morning called Cold Pizza, y'all. At this point, 675 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 4: I had never been teleprompter. I'd never done live TV. 676 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 4: I love sports, but I don't know it like my 677 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 4: husband does. Why I thought this was a good idea. 678 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 4: I'm just dumb enough to like leap without looking that. 679 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,479 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I'll try this. So it was new baby. 680 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 4: I went to work after three weeks, Danna Kat, I'd 681 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 4: never like live TV is a nuanced thing, like you 682 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 4: got to know your thing. You got to know prompter, 683 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 4: you got to know that opening music would start and 684 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 4: sweat would go down my back. I did not know 685 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 4: what I was doing, and the joke was they thought 686 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 4: i'd get better a little quicker. It took a long 687 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 4: time for me. I think it was like six months, 688 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 4: and I was like, okay, I kind of know what 689 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 4: I'm doing, but two Hours Live was crazy. 690 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 2: Well, I mean again, look at you now, you're absolutely 691 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 2: crushing it, and you know you're I really hope you 692 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 2: do the podcast too, because it is it's inspiring people 693 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 2: to go because I know there's things that you know, 694 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 2: maybe Kat want to do, my Chris and are their 695 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 2: co hosts that just had a baby, like, there's things 696 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 2: that we all want to do, but we feel, well, 697 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 2: I'm forty, it's never it's probably not going to happen now, 698 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 2: and it's you know, you're you're proving that wrong and 699 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 2: you're going to have people come on that that also 700 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 2: proved that wrong. So I think I would keyes do 701 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 2: the podcast one thousand percent. And what's funny, So at 702 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: age forty, the joke was, at the time of my life, 703 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 2: I had three kids, our house had just burned down, 704 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 2: which is a whole other side thing. 705 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 4: And so the joke is that I said to my 706 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 4: agents like, hold all calls, I'm gonna I'm going to 707 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 4: take a personal beat. But the reality Cat and Jane, 708 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 4: nobody was calling, nobody was looking for me, like nothing, 709 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 4: And then randomly I got this call for Access Hollywood, 710 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 4: and I only took it and moms can relate to 711 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 4: this to get away for the kids and like a 712 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 4: free trip to California we had, you know. So I 713 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 4: was like, I was like, I don't even care, just 714 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 4: take me to California for the interview. I went in 715 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 4: like this baseball had no makeup. I had strap throat actually, 716 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 4: and I was like, and everybody was real fancy in 717 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 4: this audition and like I was like, I had my 718 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 4: shoes that I just got it PJ Max, and I 719 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 4: had tanned myself, so my legs were real slippery, and 720 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 4: I botched the audition. And then afterwards they brought me 721 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 4: in and talked to me for a couple hours and 722 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 4: then I was like, wait, do y'all like like, are 723 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 4: you interested in me? And so the rest is history. 724 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: I love that. Well, we have someone that wants to 725 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: say hi to you too, because you were her former boss. 726 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:41,479 Speaker 4: Hannah wakeo, man, this better for you. Hannah was my 727 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 4: actually my second assistant, right because crazy Nadine Nadini left 728 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 4: and Hannah came and changed my life. Yeah for three years. Yeah, 729 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 4: Winkelman is such a star. And I remember she was 730 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 4: dating the cutest boy way back when. Now her husband 731 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 4: and they're baby. I'm obsessed with Hannah. All I was 732 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 4: thinking is how happy your mom must be. She's very excited. 733 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 4: She comes out to La about every three weeks like 734 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 4: she can't and Kat and Jane and I will be realistic. 735 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 4: Not everybody has like a cute baby. He is literally 736 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 4: a super mid I cannot get enough. I want to 737 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:20,520 Speaker 4: eat up that little face. 738 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 6: Chris had said that he was like, I think the 739 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 6: only person who thinks he's cuter than you might be 740 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 6: Kit Hoover. 741 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 4: I'm like, not everybody's got that. Wait, Hannah, and look 742 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 4: and now you're EP and you're doing so great at 743 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 4: work and have such a great life. I'm so happy 744 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 4: for you. Thank you. 745 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 6: It's so good to see you. I'm so happy you're 746 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 6: still doing well. And the kids and how about the kids, 747 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 6: Camberlin Hayes. I was just telling them that you're EP 748 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 6: of this podcast and I was going to get to 749 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 6: see you, and they were like, oh my gosh. She 750 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 6: was so nice at all the ihearts been used and 751 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 6: all that. 752 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 4: It's crazy, Hannah. 753 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 6: It's been a while ride, but a fun fact Kit 754 00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 6: introduced me to Amy Sugarman, who oh. 755 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 4: All the pod go and you know what I always 756 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 4: say about hand drive and commitment. She was always the 757 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 4: hardest worker, up for anything and for anybody getting in 758 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 4: whatever business you are, Like, Hannah, you couldn't have predicted 759 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,720 Speaker 4: this would be your trajectory, so I think it's so awesome. 760 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 4: Thank you. It's so good to see you. Baby. Is 761 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 4: he close? He's napping? Wake him up. I'm kidding, don't 762 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 4: wake a baby. I know we'll have to come visit 763 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 4: you and the Access crew. Please do, Hannah, you won't recognize. 764 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 4: It's all new people. I'm last man standing. We love 765 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 4: Bob and Weave. 766 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 1: Thank you so much and I'll hopefully see you when 767 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:42,439 Speaker 1: the baby's out. 768 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 4: Thanks Jana, listen, good luck with everything. I hope you 769 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 4: feel good, get a lot of foot massages and just 770 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,720 Speaker 4: enjoy third is so much fun. Okay, thanks guys, Thanks 771 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 4: Thanks Janna, Thanks kat Y, nice to meet you, and 772 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 4: bye bye, guys. 773 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 2: I love her so much. Like my cheeks hurt from smiling. 774 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,839 Speaker 5: Her energy is amazing. 775 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just she just is so and that's how 776 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 2: she is too in just interviews too, and just how 777 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 2: she is every time I see. She's always kind, she's 778 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,959 Speaker 2: always nice. 779 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 1: I mean, do you remember her now when we went 780 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: to do the Mario thing. 781 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the fact that she couldn't even really 782 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 3: think about who is rude to her because she just 783 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,360 Speaker 3: like moves on from it. I'm like, I'm gonna be 784 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 3: that way, like not even remember. 785 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 5: Anyone that's rude to me. Like I love that. It's 786 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 5: such a good quality, so true. 787 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 2: But yeah, I just I love her so much, and 788 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, because I sometimes think that we go, oh, 789 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 2: it's too late, but it's never too late. 790 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, oh no, yeah, never loving I love it. 791 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 2: Well, since I can't have my big fortieth blowout, we're 792 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 2: going to have a mad fifty. 793 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 4: So that's good because I honestly can't afford my fortieth 794 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 4: birthday party anymore with the new house. 795 00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 5: So I think it's because you're having anything under. 796 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 1: A little bit above. 797 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 2: I can't do it all and then plan a wedding 798 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 2: and have the wedding expense there was there We go, 799 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 2: oh man, all right, well we will see you next week.