WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Mystery of Bar 5

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date, dear Brook and Jeffrey. This is

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<v Speaker 1>an email that we got, so I'm just gonna read

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<v Speaker 1>it for everybody. Dear Brook and Jeffrey, I'm mad at you.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I matched with a super cute girl the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and my date went horribly wrong and it's all your fault.

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<v Speaker 3>Why this time?

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<v Speaker 1>The least you can do is help me fix it

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<v Speaker 1>and get me a second date. Signed Jeremy, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, the complainer.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the nicer emails that we've gotten all week long.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know any more detail than that, so

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<v Speaker 1>let's just talk to him really quick.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeremy, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And first, I would like to apologize for whatever

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<v Speaker 1>misleading or ignorant thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooks said to purposely miss up your love life.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna deny it deep down though she is very sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sorry, but I told you she denied it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you're just coming at us so hard, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 3>telling us it's our fault your date went back.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you say the why is it our fault?

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<v Speaker 5>Because the sky is blue? Owls exists, you know, because.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just the reality of life. Can't argue with that

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<v Speaker 4>type of logic. It is facts. We don't help you.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, who'd you go out with Dana?

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<v Speaker 4>Dana? Okay, okay? And how did you meet Dana?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean, first of all, let me just say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let's send you guys all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Now, we like you, that's all I had to say.

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<v Speaker 4>We appreciate your sacrifice.

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<v Speaker 5>Your sacrifice, and you guys are I've always kind of

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<v Speaker 5>taken what you said to heart and really listened.

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<v Speaker 1>And all right, well, in our defense, that's your mistake

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<v Speaker 1>to keep going.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes decent advice that here.

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<v Speaker 5>So you guys are always pushing this whole thing about

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<v Speaker 5>do an activity, do something?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, don't do just a bar for a first.

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<v Speaker 5>A bar day. It's so cliche. It's this and that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's so boring. And I took that to heart and

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<v Speaker 5>and leading up to my date, all I can think

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<v Speaker 5>about it, I couldn't get it out of my head,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm going crazy on what do we do?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you're completely overthinking everything at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>But you are thinking about something and that's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And you middle though, yeah, because you want to impress Dana.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like.

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<v Speaker 4>Going with the plans. So what did you end up doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let me say, I guess my apartment, and there's

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<v Speaker 5>like a like a flyer. Okay, yeah, it's this Friday

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<v Speaker 5>night bar golf bar golf. Yeah, it's like appeared to

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<v Speaker 5>be interactive and unique, right, even us dressed like golfers.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's cool. That sounds like a fun day doing

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<v Speaker 4>mini golf inside of a bar.

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<v Speaker 5>Correct. And so we meet. I get there and it's

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<v Speaker 5>not at all like the flyer suggested.

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<v Speaker 3>What was it?

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<v Speaker 5>So it's patch first of all, I mean, like to

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<v Speaker 5>the point of it's not even fun like the bar,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, like five deep, and it doesn't actually like

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<v Speaker 5>involved golf per se. It's more like a like almost

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<v Speaker 5>like a bar crawl, like the par number, and like

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<v Speaker 5>each bar has its own special drink, right, So like

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<v Speaker 5>bar one be like a shot at fireball. So that's

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<v Speaker 5>like one like one point.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, that's a par one because it takes one sip

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<v Speaker 1>to drink one.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a drinking game, it's not a golf game.

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<v Speaker 5>And then like you know, you have a beer and

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<v Speaker 5>it's you know, they have it mapped out to seven

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<v Speaker 5>drink SIPs seven seven.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fast.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you don't like, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>do it. But they're so competitive. These guys are competitive.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, guys, I know that you're laughing at this, but

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<v Speaker 5>this is and was not uh many golf at a bar.

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<v Speaker 5>It was get wasted.

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<v Speaker 4>It's better than many golf at a bar.

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<v Speaker 5>I was so disappointed. And the way it was all

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<v Speaker 5>shut up. I get I got hammered, So you did?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well why did you do it?

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<v Speaker 5>Not because I was there?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she get hammered? Or was it just you wasted that?

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<v Speaker 5>I wish I knew. This is what I remember. I

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<v Speaker 5>remember seeing her at bar four, okay, and then at

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<v Speaker 5>that point I lost her. And the next thing I remember,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm at bar five and I'm I'm literally crying and

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<v Speaker 5>some random dude is consoling me.

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<v Speaker 3>Bar day.

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<v Speaker 5>But here's but the last thing I do remember there

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<v Speaker 5>she was Bar six.

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<v Speaker 4>You kept going.

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<v Speaker 5>With her and just kind of grabbed her arm, like

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<v Speaker 5>where were you? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like she went to the bathroom and you

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<v Speaker 3>ditched her or something and she ditched him.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, honestly, and I'm sorry, but I blame you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, well we did a fun event, and we

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<v Speaker 1>told you to do fun events. I accept one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>responsibility for this steak disaster. Sties.

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<v Speaker 4>It falls on us sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you accepted responsibility.

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<v Speaker 4>That is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 3>You should be were roadman.

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<v Speaker 1>We are a team much like a bar golf team,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, and we need to be there for our

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<v Speaker 1>other team member, our listener, Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I will, because that sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>What Jeremy really wants is a mulligan, which is golf

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<v Speaker 1>speak for a duo.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh right, that's what it is, Jeremy. You knew that.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's so here we go. We're gonna try and get

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<v Speaker 4>you a mulligan. When we come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call your date Dana for you and try

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<v Speaker 1>and get to a second date update right.

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<v Speaker 4>After second date update golf themed bar crawl. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Awesome idea for a fun night out. Probably not a

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<v Speaker 1>great idea though, for a romantic first date.

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<v Speaker 3>We're romantic or just a conscious first date? I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the activity Jeremy did on his date the other

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<v Speaker 1>night with Dana.

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<v Speaker 4>And it didn't go well, he golfed hard, which is

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<v Speaker 4>one hundred percent our fault because we're always.

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<v Speaker 1>Telling people it's good to be thoughtful and creative with

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<v Speaker 1>your date night ideas. Don't just do a regular old

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant or a bar and expect things to go amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Do eight bars and take multiple shots at each one.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy took our advice to heart when he saw a

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<v Speaker 1>flyer advertising this you know, golf bar event, and what

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<v Speaker 1>happened got so shmammered.

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<v Speaker 4>He lost his date.

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<v Speaker 3>D Darning but the founder, and then lost her again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>as much as he can.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember the night that he visualized in his mind. But

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<v Speaker 1>we're hoping to make things right, fix our own mistakes,

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<v Speaker 1>and we connect Jeremy with Dana on a much better,

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<v Speaker 1>much more boring date night.

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<v Speaker 4>Isn't that right?

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<v Speaker 3>We're boring is probably good for him, Jeremy, Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't ask you. Have you texted or called to apologize

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<v Speaker 3>for I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't know why he would do that. We're the ones

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<v Speaker 4>who are calling to apologize.

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<v Speaker 3>Have we texted?

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm text a couple of times like Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just I can talk, Please give me a call kind

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<v Speaker 5>of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, nobody wants to hear let's let's says when she

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<v Speaker 3>has something, but it's never a good message.

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<v Speaker 1>No, But here's the thing. Maybe she doesn't even remember

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<v Speaker 1>what happened that night the same way.

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<v Speaker 4>That Jeremy does. And we're going to call her right

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<v Speaker 4>now and find out. What if she's embarrassed, like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that would be ideal.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, it would be ideal.

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<v Speaker 3>I doubt that that's the case, but it would be ideal.

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<v Speaker 4>We're hoping.

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in a Dillar number right now. Hello, Hi, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>hoping that this is Dana.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, this is she.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Dana. Sorry for the awkward call that's about to

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<v Speaker 1>happen right now. But you're on the radio with a

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning this morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And we shouldn't even apologize. We should be like, congratulations

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<v Speaker 1>on being on this segment called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's a listener of ours who is desperate to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date with you, desperate a strong word,

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<v Speaker 1>who's very excited to see you again for another date night.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry for the D word.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not talking say Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I didn't say Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't say his name.

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<v Speaker 2>No, well, he's the only guy who've been out with

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<v Speaker 2>for the past month or so.

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<v Speaker 3>Well kind of impression did Jeremy leave quick question?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, I mean, I don't even how can I

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<v Speaker 2>even articulate what was like?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, before you give us your recap, he did tell

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about your guys date from the

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<v Speaker 1>other night. He thought that you were going to go

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<v Speaker 1>to a mini golf event in a bar, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Where you'd play a little golf drink a little beer.

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<v Speaker 1>But it turned out different than what he expected, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a bar crawl with a golf themed scoring.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun, it sounds fun, but very very intoxicated, dangerous.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know he was. He got really competitive with it.

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<v Speaker 4>You're saying, he's a man.

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<v Speaker 2>Naturally. The crowd was really like hyping him up to

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they were chanting Bertie.

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<v Speaker 4>Bertie so that he would drink his drinks faster.

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<v Speaker 3>What's a birdie again, It's like when you under it's

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<v Speaker 3>one under.

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<v Speaker 4>Par, one drink under par.

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<v Speaker 3>So people were chanting him, encouraging him to drink faster, essentially.

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<v Speaker 1>And you weren't chanting birdie at him, because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>a supportive person would do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, he was just starting to get sloppy. I

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<v Speaker 2>was just growing very tired of the whole thing by.

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<v Speaker 3>That point yourself. I'm curious about what happened between Bar

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<v Speaker 3>four and Bar six.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he lost you at Bar four and never

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<v Speaker 1>even saw you at the next bar.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not how I remember it, because I know at

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<v Speaker 2>one point I was hanging out with other people because

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<v Speaker 2>I was just over it, and I saw him and

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<v Speaker 2>was purposely avoiding him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, because he was just so wasted.

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<v Speaker 4>What bar was that?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that was whichever one where he was crying.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that was the fifth bar maybe, Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>he said.

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<v Speaker 3>He said he was trying to some guy because he

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<v Speaker 3>thought he lost you and he was upset.

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<v Speaker 1>The details helping, And then he said he was able

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<v Speaker 1>to find you again though, at the next bar at

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<v Speaker 1>Bar six, and he saw.

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<v Speaker 4>You and he ran up to you and was like

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<v Speaker 4>where were you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? No, I mean he must have seen somebody that

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<v Speaker 2>was dressed kind of similar to me, because that definitely

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<v Speaker 2>was not me.

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<v Speaker 1>You a stranger and shook him and we're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>where where were you you?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I had left by then, undone.

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<v Speaker 4>What who was he shaking?

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<v Speaker 2>Believe me, it was not me, because I distinctly remember

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<v Speaker 2>getting an uber like in the middle of the fifth bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, yeah, that's a different version of the story

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<v Speaker 1>than we heard slightly.

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<v Speaker 3>How did this?

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<v Speaker 4>We should probably let's uh.

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<v Speaker 1>We should probably ask Jeremy about that, because he is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line right now listening Dana and wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you listen to this whole thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's how the segment works.

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<v Speaker 3>He needed to hear it.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't remember. Jeremy there, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Dana, so awkward, I know, I am. I am

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<v Speaker 5>so sorry. I want to make sure that that have

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<v Speaker 5>a clean play here. That the reason, the reason that

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted you on this show is because this is

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<v Speaker 5>their fault one hundred percent, one hundred percent, and I

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<v Speaker 5>felt it.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't think she knows what you're saying. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think she listens to this show.

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you saying that it's our fault? Jeremy tell her?

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<v Speaker 5>So, okay, I listened to the show all the time,

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<v Speaker 5>and that always encouraging people like, Hey, when you go

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<v Speaker 5>on on the date, your first date of whatever, don't

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<v Speaker 5>know there's something cliche, don't just go to bar, don't

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<v Speaker 5>a little restaurant, there's something unique whatever, blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 5>and so and I'm you know, I'm nervous as it

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<v Speaker 5>is to meet you, and I've got this garbage in

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<v Speaker 5>my head now from them, and so that's why that happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Otherwise I would have made that decision. And I am sorry,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's their fault. And by the way, they admitted.

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<v Speaker 1>It before you got wowna.

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<v Speaker 4>How does that make you feel? What do you think

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<v Speaker 4>hearing that? I know we are sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people are just really impressionable, So it kind of

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<v Speaker 2>makes sense to me, especially when it comes to dating,

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<v Speaker 2>like you look to other people for advice.

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<v Speaker 5>So you know, he was doing exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like, I mean, he's just maybe a victim

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<v Speaker 3>of a lot of peer pressure, right. He was pressured

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<v Speaker 3>into this date idea, he was pressured to drink all

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<v Speaker 3>of that.

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<v Speaker 4>By the crowd.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if that's a sexy thing, but very impressionable.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy, You've blamed us for pretty much everything that went

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on your date night?

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<v Speaker 4>Is there anything else you want from us?

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<v Speaker 5>What I really want is for Brooke to apologize to you,

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<v Speaker 5>right Dane.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you know this, but Brooke has

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<v Speaker 1>actually already apologized to Jeremy earlier, and I think she

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<v Speaker 1>is ready to apologize to you right now. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to back up and Brooke. God, remember Brooke, Remember this

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<v Speaker 1>is not about you right now. This is about our listener,

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy and his dating life. It's not about how you

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<v Speaker 1>come off looking during this phone call. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>need to remind yourself you're insulting his date ideas without.

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke, come on, Brooks, with all due respect, all you're

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<v Speaker 5>illustrating to me are the ramifications of me following your advice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, for a moment, apologize.

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<v Speaker 3>He is right. I am very sorry that you went

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<v Speaker 3>out with a man who can't think for himself. But

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<v Speaker 3>I think he's going to change. Trust is intuition, trust

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<v Speaker 3>is got, and go with what he thinks it's best.

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<v Speaker 3>He might not listen to us ever again.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now with that sort of apology, it's out of

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<v Speaker 1>our hands.

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<v Speaker 3>It's as good as I got, and we're going.

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<v Speaker 1>To ask you, Dana, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Jeremy one more time? A date that we would

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<v Speaker 1>pay for but have zero other influence.

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<v Speaker 4>In other things.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, as long as it's a more traditional date,

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<v Speaker 2>no shots, no competition, I would be willing to give

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<v Speaker 2>it one more try.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, Jeremy, that's awesome. It ended on a really good note.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm going to thank everyone involved in Dana. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll make it worth your while. We'll have a good

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<v Speaker 5>time of promise. The one person I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 5>actually I'm going to exclude from this apology is Brooke.

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<v Speaker 3>Jerry, I hope you get another date, my man.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Brooke, I'm kind of busy right now. I'm planning

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<v Speaker 5>my next activity.

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<v Speaker 4>You Frisbee?

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<v Speaker 2>Next time.

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<v Speaker 4>Better, Jeffrey in the morning, does you know what we

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<v Speaker 4>totally missed there? What say? So hell bent on blaming

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<v Speaker 4>us for the horrible night that he had?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why weren't you standing up for me?

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<v Speaker 4>Ever, it's more funny along the side of entertaining.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing was he totally glazed over the mystery girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he was like talking to it bar number six.

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<v Speaker 4>That wasn't his date. We never even got to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, he doesn't remember. I don't guarantee that mystery girl

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<v Speaker 3>wanted nothing to do with him as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying she was probably freaking out, like, who is

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<v Speaker 1>this drunk guy acting like we're out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I cannot believe he got another shot after that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>not only after that, but also after not taking any

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<v Speaker 3>responsibility for it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the power of an apology, Brooke. You should try

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<v Speaker 1>it outside of the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Somebody he didn't apologize, No, you did, Oh it was mine?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, an apology can fix the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Mine was so so real. Yeah, so sincere.

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<v Speaker 4>Even a fake apology goes a long long way.

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<v Speaker 3>To fake it till you make it situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Never forget that, and never forget that.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ever need help with your dating life, you

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<v Speaker 1>can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll call that person

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<v Speaker 3>Wasn't calling you back, Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.