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Speaker 1: All thanks to Live Nation. This is the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. One O three five Kiss FM,

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Speaker 2: Chicago's number one hit music station. We're granting another holiday

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Speaker 2: wish every day this week.

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Speaker 1: We're doing it with our.

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Speaker 2: Friend Amy, with it right, one one hundred truck Breck

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Speaker 2: and your big bag of money.

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Speaker 1: Amy. That's right, that's right.

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Speaker 3: This is the best time of year. It's the best

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Speaker 3: time to shower people with kift and hope and money

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Speaker 3: of course to make it all happen. And one eight

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Speaker 3: hundred truck Ark. We have all of that, so let's

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Speaker 3: do it well.

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Speaker 2: I gotta thank you, Amy, because all year long you've

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Speaker 2: been super generous. Next year we've got stuff planned as well.

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Speaker 2: With you in one eight hundred truck wreck. But but

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Speaker 2: you jump the opportunity to help us with this, because

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Speaker 2: everybody on the show loves being able to do this.

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Speaker 2: But the budget is tight, but thanks to you and

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Speaker 2: that you've got one of those black American Express cards,

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Speaker 2: don't you. You got the kind that they only invite

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Speaker 3: That's right, because I don't have a budget. As long

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Speaker 3: as I'm the only one that owns all this stuff,

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Speaker 3: I have no budget. Fred, we can do whatever we

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Speaker 3: want to do. So let's do some good for Jackie

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Speaker 3: and her dad.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it right now. I'm going to welcome them

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Speaker 2: Jackie and Bill. Yes, Oh we got to go get Bill.

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Speaker 4: I told her she got answer alone and then make

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Speaker 1: We got it. I can't do it without Bill.

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Speaker 5: We wanted to surprise him.

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Speaker 6: Dad are here?

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Speaker 2: Hey Bill, Bill, Bill, you have no idea what's going

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Speaker 2: on right now?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: You know Jackie, absolutely no, none at all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Bill, I already like you for some reason.

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Speaker 2: I just I think you're a good guy. But Jackie

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Speaker 2: wrote to us to the Fred Show on Kiss FM

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Speaker 2: and wanted us to know about you. Jackie, will you

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Speaker 2: read the note that you sent us.

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Speaker 8: Yes, I will dear fred Show and Eni this year.

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Speaker 8: My holiday wish is for my dad. There's not enough

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Speaker 8: time to write down all the reasons that he was deserving,

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Speaker 8: so I'll highlight what he's done this last year. In

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Speaker 8: November of twenty twenty four, I fell very sick. I

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Speaker 8: was unable to work for a full two months, bed ridden,

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Speaker 8: was a terrifying time. My dad turned all of his time,

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Speaker 8: I'm so much better, and I credited to him. He

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Speaker 7: He's just the.

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Speaker 8: than anyone in my totally biased opinion. Thank you Jackie mine, No.

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Speaker 2: Not at all, and be like, this is what dad's

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Speaker 1: But you are that guy.

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Speaker 9: Well, thank you, But in my mind, that's just what

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Speaker 9: is everything to me and I don't care how old

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Speaker 2: Wow and I think a lot of people listening now

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Speaker 2: are going, yeah, yeah, I mean there are a lot

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Speaker 7: Yep, had to.

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Speaker 9: Don't even think about it. I don't know. I know

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Speaker 1: Amy.

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Speaker 2: We like, we like Bill a lot and Billy here.

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Speaker 2: Amy is my friend from one hundred truck creck. But

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Speaker 2: Amy also has infinite funds, okay, and so we call

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Speaker 2: Amy when we want to do something nice for someone

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Speaker 2: like you. Bill and Amy, what's that going to be?

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Speaker 3: Well, I think we got it's hard to Bill about.

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Speaker 3: You know, you got to get Bill stacked up, and

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Speaker 3: on a shopping spree and do something for yourself. What

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Speaker 2: Don't say give it to somebody else. That is an

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Speaker 10: You need to.

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Speaker 9: I never even think about it. I don't. I can't

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Speaker 3: You need to absolutely well, you need to figure out something.

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Speaker 3: Because behalf a one eight hundred truck wreck, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: make sure you can pay all your bills. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: make sure that. I don't know if you want what

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Speaker 3: do guys get new TVs main case, some sort of

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Speaker 3: If you want to take a trip somewhere, you're gonna

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Speaker 3: have money for that because on behalf of one eight

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Speaker 1: There you go, five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 9: Wow, that's unbelievable. That is absolutely unbelievable. Now what I

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Speaker 5: You deserve it.

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Speaker 1: Dad, you do Bill?

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Speaker 2: If I find out you spent one cent on anyone else,

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Speaker 2: I'm okay. You might be a bigger guy than me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm still gonna come for you.

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Speaker 10: That's right.

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Speaker 3: I'm coming too, and I'm tough.

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Speaker 9: I will have to fight my instinct, but I promise

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Speaker 9: that is unbelievable. Thank you so much. I don't feel

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we all disagree.

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Speaker 2: But Jackie, thank you for sharing your story about your Dad,

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Speaker 2: End and Bill have an amazing holiday and enjoyed the

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Speaker 2: You don't have to tell us. It can be moved,

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Speaker 2: it can be a little private thing, whatever you.

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Speaker 10: Thank you guys, so much, Thank you so much. Wait

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Speaker 1: Jackie. Have a good day.

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Speaker 10: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You did a good show.

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Speaker 2: You were nervous, you did a great John. You're gonna

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Speaker 2: be nervous about We're a bunch of clowns. It's all good.

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Speaker 7: You guys are unhinged today and I'm so hereful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really becoming that way. Thank you, Jackie, have

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Speaker 1: a good day. Fred's show is on.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday, December sixteenth.

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Speaker 1: The French Show is on.

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Speaker 2: Hi Jason, Hi, Hi, Paulina Hi, ke Kame Martin, Kayla

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Speaker 2: Chouse today sh but Sheddy will be here in about

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes. Six hundred and fifty bucks if you can

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Speaker 2: beat her in five pop culture questions. That money is yours,

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Speaker 2: which I'm sure would be very nice to buy Christmas

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Speaker 2: presents for yourself. Yes, yes, almost on other people. But

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Speaker 2: that was silly. The Entertainmer Report after Stay or Go Kikey,

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Speaker 2: what are you working on?

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Speaker 11: Well, Lizzo has broken her silence about those wild allegations

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Speaker 11: from her former background, answers, we'll talk about.

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Speaker 5: That coming up.

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Speaker 1: Look at you talking about that kelling. We'll talk about

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Speaker 1: that helling.

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Speaker 5: We'll try my bit.

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Speaker 1: Man, you're doing well. Frend show is on. It's stay

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Speaker 1: or Go, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, Jessica, Good morning, Jessica. How are you.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, How are you doing great?

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Speaker 2: Jessica. I've got your h your note here for stay

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Speaker 2: eight five five five one three five the trajectory for

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know if you knew this, and.

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Speaker 2: It's in a fine print, but like, whatever we decide

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Speaker 2: is what you're gonna have to do with your life.

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Speaker 1: So here we go.

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Speaker 2: You Unfortunately, we're recently in a car accident, and I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: but you're okay.

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Speaker 1: You're as okay as can be now right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, it was a year and a half ago,

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Speaker 7: I survived. I'm here and I'm really happy to be alive, good, and.

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Speaker 2: So there's some repercussions though, like the life is a

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Speaker 7: Yeah, of course, you know, I'm not really like able

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Speaker 7: to walk or really like act like myself. It's not

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Speaker 7: of a new version of me and that it would

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Speaker 7: be hard for anybody to deal with. But my husband

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Speaker 7: has never said anything about that I kind of look

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Speaker 10: But he has been.

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Speaker 7: Treating me a bit different. He doesn't really want to

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Speaker 7: have sex with me, and he's not really romantic.

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Speaker 10: He's just kind of different. I guess, okay, and everything,

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Speaker 10: you know, go ahead, no, no worries.

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Speaker 7: I tried to talk to him about it, and he

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Speaker 7: keeps assuring me that he doesn't feel differently about me,

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Speaker 7: and he does say that I'm beautiful, but I don't know,

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Speaker 7: the actions aren't really saying the same thing and saying

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Speaker 2: Are the keys, like like you're not you're not exercising

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Speaker 2: as much, or like you sort of form his change?

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Speaker 2: I mean, what what is what has changed exactly.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I used to take classes every single day, different

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Speaker 7: You know, right now it feels like he sees me differently,

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Speaker 7: I don't know. It's hard because he's my husband and

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Speaker 2: And it's very easy for all of us to say, well,

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Speaker 1: Who really wants to have to do?

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Speaker 7: And then?

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Speaker 1: But that's what we agreed to.

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Speaker 2: But I guess what I'm trying to get to is

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Speaker 7: I don't know, you know, is it another year, is

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Speaker 1: But I don't know, and you.

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Speaker 11: Don't suspect that there's any shenanigans going on, like he

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, I mean he's he's like word wise, he's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is really sad and I'm really sorry that

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Speaker 4: And yes, not everybody's equipped to be that, I understand,

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Speaker 5: Like we are now a unit. So like I feel like, well, that's.

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Speaker 2: then you step it up and you go, Okay, no,

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Speaker 2: It's it's deeper than that. And it sounds like maybe

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Speaker 2: Well, the timeline is yours, by the way I started

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Speaker 2: I give you six months to get your act together

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Speaker 11: I don't think she should give up on him, because

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't want to tell you throw your

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Speaker 2: No, I definitely think maybe there's a different Maybe some

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Speaker 2: A year and a half is a long time for

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Speaker 11: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's hard.

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Speaker 2: then I think is it wrong to say, okay, well

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Speaker 2: you're not the you weren't actually in this for sickness

444
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Speaker 2: in and hell, so we got to move on. I

445
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Speaker 2: gotta do something else. I got to find somebody who

446
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Speaker 2: values this version of me. I thought it was you.

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Speaker 2: But it's not tough because otherwise you just live your

448
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Speaker 2: whole life the rest of your life like this. I mean,

449
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Speaker 2: if you tried everything, is there any shame in prioritizing yourself?

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe there's shame on his side, because well,

451
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Speaker 2: he didn't live up to his end of the deal.

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Speaker 1: But hey, Holly, Yes, Hi, Holly, Hey, good morning. Say

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Speaker 1: or go? What do you think?

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Speaker 6: I think definitely say it sounds a lot like my

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Speaker 6: husband when I had gone through cancer chemo radiation.

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Speaker 3: And I told him that I, you know, felt comfortable.

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Speaker 6: Being intimate, but he was so afraid of not wanting

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Speaker 6: to hurt me, not wanting me to feel coomfortable, not

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Speaker 6: wanting me to feel pressured. And it's just it sounds

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Speaker 6: like he's very supportive of her and these are the

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Speaker 6: bumps in the world.

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Speaker 12: That we go through in a marriage.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, But do you think but that's I guess

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm getting at, is that's what you think,

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Speaker 2: and that's what you hope your partner thinks when they

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Speaker 2: agree to be with you for life. But do you

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Speaker 2: think that at this rate, that's really the commitment that like,

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Speaker 2: do you think that's really where his head is?

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Speaker 6: I do from just hearing what she's saying about him

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Speaker 6: being so supportive. I don't think we have a right

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Speaker 6: to tell anybody, you know, what to do with their

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Speaker 6: bodies and how to change.

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Speaker 3: And I think that it does.

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Speaker 6: Sound like he is willing, you.

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Speaker 12: Know, to be there through thick and thin and talk

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Speaker 12: to her about it, and I do feel sorry for

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Speaker 12: her that she feels it that's a certain way, But

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Speaker 12: I hope that she can get a little bit of.

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Speaker 6: Comfort, maybe thinking that that's how he's feeling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess he's a year and a half of

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Speaker 2: words and actions that don't match the words. That's that's

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Speaker 2: a long time to wonder if if he's going to

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Speaker 2: come around, if he's going to accept the new normal.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know how I mean to use it.

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Speaker 2: A year and a half is in two years?

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Speaker 1: Is it three? Is it five? Is it ten? It

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Speaker 1: is it?

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Speaker 2: We married each other, So if the if the intimacy

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Speaker 2: aspect of this relationship is now fundamentally changed, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: We just stick with it. Like I guess, that's my question.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, So Holly, thank you, and

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry you've been through that. Yeah, final thought, no,

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Speaker 2: final thought, go ahead.

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Speaker 12: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 13: No, I do I know, So, I do know that

496
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Speaker 13: it's a long time. I just want to know that

497
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Speaker 13: I have been there. It was quite a while, but again.

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Speaker 12: It was just on his side mostly, and so I'm

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Speaker 12: sorry that she's going through it, and I thank you.

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Speaker 3: Guys, I love you.

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Speaker 12: I will listen to you every day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much, have a good day.

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Speaker 12: Thanks you too.

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Speaker 1: Glad you called Michelle.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Michelle, good morning, Hey Michelle. So just to recap here,

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Speaker 2: if you just tune in, this woman, Jessica in Sergo.

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Speaker 2: She had an accident and it sounds like she's I mean,

508
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Speaker 2: she's not completely immobile by any means, but she's sort

509
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Speaker 2: of not the version of herself sounds like physically that

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Speaker 2: she was prior to the accident.

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Speaker 1: She's working at.

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Speaker 2: It, but she feels kind of rejected by her partner

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Speaker 2: now and he says that he doesn't feel any differently,

514
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Speaker 2: but his actions don't back that up. And it's been

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Speaker 2: a year and a half of this and they have

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Speaker 2: had the conversations and they've tried to work through it,

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Speaker 2: but it's not changing.

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Speaker 1: You know, what do you do?

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Speaker 14: You know, I've been married now twenty seven years, and

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Speaker 14: that's kind of what marriage is.

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Speaker 3: You're going to have those ups and downs. Those ups

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Speaker 3: and downs might last a couple of years, but it's

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Speaker 3: not I mean, it's a matter if you're in it

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Speaker 3: for the long run.

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Speaker 14: And it really really sounded to me like she's carrying

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Speaker 14: baggage that she's feeling less of herself and she might

527
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Speaker 14: be putting that on him. I think they should go

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Speaker 14: talk to some But I don't think that's why you

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Speaker 14: walk away. I mean, when you see these couples that

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Speaker 14: have been married sixty years, you don't think they've had

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Speaker 14: their stuff. And I'm my husband and I have had

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Speaker 14: our stuff and we're finally, twenty seven years later, getting

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Speaker 14: to the other side, I hope, with that rainbow and

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Speaker 14: where it's just like fabulous.

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Speaker 2: So that's an interesting perspective because a year and a

536
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Speaker 2: half that was like a long time, But then when

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Speaker 2: you think of it over the course of a lifetime,

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Speaker 2: a year and a half is nothing, I guess. But

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Speaker 2: that's the thing that that's what we're trying to get

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Speaker 2: to here, And of course we're not dumb radio people

541
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Speaker 2: going to figure it out. But it's like, you know,

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Speaker 2: in five years, if nothing changes and you saw the signs,

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Speaker 2: then is it like, well, I maybe maybe this isn't

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Speaker 2: the guy that I thought I married. Maybe he's not

545
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Speaker 2: actually committed the way that I thought he was, and

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Speaker 2: so we probably should have moved on a while ago.

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Speaker 2: You know, I guess it's how do you know, Michelle,

548
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Speaker 2: And I guess what you're saying is you don't necessarily know,

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Speaker 2: but hey, we made this commitment, so we're going to

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Speaker 2: stick with it forever.

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Speaker 5: It's that question.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean, it's just that's kind of what you

553
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Speaker 14: signed up for. I mean, I guess that's how I

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Speaker 14: view it. It's you know, and you know, maybe they

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Speaker 14: don't have kids.

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Speaker 3: You know, maybe it's not complicated as complicated.

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Speaker 14: I have four kids, so you know, maybe it's not

558
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Speaker 14: that complicated without kids, but with kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, now I think that's good.

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Speaker 14: It's part of what when you see the people that

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Speaker 14: have been married sixty years and you say, you know,

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Speaker 14: what's they have secret sauce. It's like it's times like

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Speaker 14: this when you have rush rough patches, that that's the

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Speaker 14: secret sauce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Michelle, have a good day.

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Speaker 3: I love you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Hey love you to When she makes a good point.

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Speaker 2: My grandparents are married for almost seventy years, it's like,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna tell me, in seventy years, there weren't you know,

570
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Speaker 2: lots of the health issues.

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Speaker 5: There was a decade Granny probably was like, but.

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Speaker 2: But do we even still have those same like and again,

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Speaker 2: this is now, this is getting even like more deep.

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Speaker 2: But do we even still have those same values anymore?

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Speaker 14: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is that even that?

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Speaker 2: And I guess that's what I was getting at prior

578
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Speaker 2: is are people really getting married anymore? Truly thinking in

579
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Speaker 2: their head no matter what happens, this is for life.

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Speaker 2: Because if you if that's not your mentality, then what

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Speaker 2: Michelle is saying doesn't really matter because that person isn't

582
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Speaker 2: isn't feeling the same thing, like, they don't see it

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Speaker 2: the same way. They're already out and so this is

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Speaker 2: just not to hurt her feelings. This is almost to

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Speaker 2: make it her idea, you know, so to assuage some

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Speaker 2: form of guilty.

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Speaker 1: Rachel, Rachel, who are you talking to?

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Speaker 7: I'm talking to like three people.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm going to listen to your you know, external

590
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Speaker 2: dialogue there. But I can think I came in mid sentence,

591
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Speaker 2: what did you want to say?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? And welcome.

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Speaker 6: Good morning?

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Speaker 15: I was just saying he is in caregiving mode right now,

595
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Speaker 15: that part of his brain is just turned off. He's

596
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Speaker 15: obviously in love with her and wants to take care

597
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Speaker 15: of her. They need to see an intimacy therapist. And

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Speaker 15: to put it lightly I think she in that intimacy

599
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Speaker 15: department needs to take things into her own hands and

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Speaker 15: make some purchases.

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Speaker 2: Purchases. Oh oh, okay, all right, we can leave it there. Purchases.

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Speaker 2: I think we can fill in the blank on that one.

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Speaker 2: So she needs to sort of maybe she needs to

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Speaker 2: make you're saying she used to spice things up in

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Speaker 2: some ways, maybe see.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, And honestly, they really do need to see a

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Speaker 15: sex therapist, because I don't.

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Speaker 1: Put this all on her at all.

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Speaker 2: Like maybe partially, I mean, maybe she's emitting or emoting

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Speaker 2: some kind of you know, feeling of insecurity, which is unattractive,

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Speaker 2: but like you know, it's also his job to sort

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Speaker 2: of meet her where she is. If in fact, we're

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Speaker 2: doing this whole lifelong.

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Speaker 15: Things on her at all. I do not think this

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Speaker 15: is on her at all. He has that part of

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Speaker 15: his brain has just turned off because of whatever she

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Speaker 15: went through. It was trauma, and he's been through trauma too, right,

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Speaker 15: watching her get better and watching her body possibly be

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Speaker 15: broken in places he doesn't want to hurt her, and

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Speaker 15: he's in mommy mode. He is taking care of her,

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Speaker 15: and it's sometimes hard to turn that part of your

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Speaker 15: brain back on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. Thank you, Rachel, have a good

624
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Speaker 1: damn glad you called.

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Speaker 2: Yep. It's just so hard to know, and everyone's saying

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Speaker 2: stay like all the text, all the things, it's just

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Speaker 2: so hard to know, like is this a phase or

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Speaker 2: is the switch off?

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Speaker 5: I think only time will tell.

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Speaker 11: I think if you're in a marriage, got to you

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Speaker 11: gotta kind of go through it first before you make

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Speaker 11: such this hard decision, which would be leaving.

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Speaker 2: Because I mean, you know, maybe he's like if I

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Speaker 2: just sort of stick around and try not to hurt

635
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Speaker 2: her feelings, then that's better than admitting to myself and

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Speaker 2: to the world that I don't like the new version

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Speaker 2: of her and I want out, because then that makes.

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Speaker 1: You the bad guy.

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Speaker 2: So you know, that's that would be My biggest concern

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Speaker 2: is like are you hanging on like you you love

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Speaker 2: me or maybe you're in love with me, but like

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Speaker 2: are you still attracted to me? And if you're not,

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Speaker 2: how long do we play that game?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 11: But explore I say, explore all options before you make

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Speaker 11: that decision.

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Speaker 1: Purchases, Yes, purchase purchases. Caitlin's entertainment report is on the

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Speaker 1: pressure sitting for Kaylin.

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Speaker 5: And take it away all right.

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Speaker 11: Lizzo spoke out after her former dancers dropped the fat

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Speaker 11: shaming allegation from their lawsuit following a judge's finding about

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Speaker 11: a secret recording and an Instagram reel. Lizzo said the

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Speaker 11: claims were officially dropped and that the accusers conceded it

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Speaker 11: had no merit in court. Lizzo insisted there was no

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Speaker 11: evidence that I fired them because they gained weight, adding

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Speaker 11: that the dancers were fired for recording her without consent.

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Speaker 11: She emphasized I have never fired an employee for gaining weight.

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Speaker 11: She says she has always supported bigger bodies. While call

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Speaker 11: the moment of relief after suffering in silence, Lizzo confirmed

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Speaker 11: she is not subtling and will continue to fight the

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Speaker 11: remaining claim. So good luck with that girl and fred

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Speaker 11: I know you touched on this earlier, but in case

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Speaker 11: you missed it. Nick Reiner, the son of filmmaker Rob

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Speaker 11: Reiner and Michelle Singer Reiner, has been arrested and booked

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Speaker 11: on suspicion of murdering his parents after they were found

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Speaker 11: dead with stab wounds in their Los Angeles area home.

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Speaker 11: Nick is currently being held without bill and according to reports,

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Speaker 11: Rob Reiner and his son reportedly had a very loud

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Speaker 11: argument at a holiday party hosted by Conan O'Brien. This

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Speaker 11: all happened the night before Rob and his wife Michelle

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Speaker 11: were killed. Sources say that Nick was freaking everyone out

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Speaker 11: at the party, acting crazy and kept asking if people

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Speaker 11: were famous, leading Rob and Michelle to.

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Speaker 5: Leave the party.

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Speaker 11: Sadly, the couple was found dead in their Los Angeles

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Speaker 11: home the following day.

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Speaker 5: So the depths of stunned Hollywood.

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Speaker 11: Given Rob Reiner's legacy as a celebrated actor and director

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Speaker 11: behind major films of the eighties and nineties, and Nick

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Speaker 11: was previously spoken about in the long struggle with drug addiction,

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Speaker 11: telling People magazine in twenty sixteen that he had been

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Speaker 11: homeless at times and in rehab since the age of fifteen.

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Speaker 5: So such a sad ending to their story twisted Yeah,

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Speaker 5: May they rest in peace.

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Speaker 11: On a lighter note, some good news for Eminem fans

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Speaker 11: fifty cents he's a possible Eminem collaboration for the soundtrack

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Speaker 11: of the upcoming Street Fighter movie. Fifty has good reason

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Speaker 11: to type up the movie, considering he's playing the boxer

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Speaker 11: ball rog. I'm not into the street Fighter universe. But

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Speaker 11: I'm here for the movie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, both you know, tell me about Street Fighting.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna find out together.

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Speaker 1: Ball rock ball rod rhymes.

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Speaker 2: That's what the woman was trying to get her to

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Speaker 2: purchase for.

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Speaker 5: The boosting on Instagram fifty Road.

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Speaker 11: I'm gonna get Eminem on deck to make some music

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Speaker 11: for the movie street Fighter, adding new music is on

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Speaker 11: the way. The film, which recently dropped a trailer, features

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Speaker 11: a stack including Jason Mamoa, Noah Centennial or Reveal Pek

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Speaker 11: and Roman Reigns, and reportedly has Fifty even performing his

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Speaker 11: own stunts. Okay, fifty, that's your favorite act of Paulina,

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Speaker 11: but produce, excuse you, but the biggest stunt let me

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Speaker 11: look get his resume right, But the biggest stunt he

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Speaker 11: could pull off maybe getting eminem to drop some custom

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Speaker 11: music for the film. Street Fighter is scheduled to hit

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Speaker 11: theaters on October sixteenth, twenty twenty six, and I will

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Speaker 11: be there with my popcorn.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you know there.

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Speaker 11: If you miss anything from our earlier reports or in

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Speaker 11: the show, you can always catch up on the iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 5: Search for the Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show, guy. Do you have what it

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Speaker 1: takes to battle show biz. Shelley in the show Biz

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Speaker 1: showdown my shell. Oh boy boy, I'm excited, Jason. Are

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Speaker 1: the questions? Oh no, scared.

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Speaker 13: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's talking like five minutes be to your note. You know,

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Speaker 1: if they're right. I don't know if they're right, they're right?

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Speaker 1: Oh whatever?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Stephanie doesn't I don't care. I honestly I don't care.

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Speaker 13: You do that?

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Speaker 10: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Sevan? Good morning? I've just reached the point of the year.

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Speaker 1: I don't care, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm there with you, like I.

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Speaker 1: Deeply care, but I also don't care. Okay.

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Speaker 2: It's a real conundrum for it for a guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm really really struggling over here. Economy, get right, hanging

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Speaker 2: on for dear life. But Stephanie, six hundred and fifty

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Speaker 2: bucks is the price. Shelley has won a thousand, one thousand,

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Speaker 2: ninety five times seventy six losses. That's it, age straight.

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Speaker 2: I do need a fun fact about you, though, Stephanie.

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Speaker 8: Well, I'm heading into a cry.

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Speaker 7: I'm a microbiologist.

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Speaker 5: Oh I am, so.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how I'm.

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Speaker 7: Gonna do about culture, but I'll give it a trock.

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Speaker 2: That is fantastic because we're about to talk about Cels.

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Speaker 1: I am the Mite country. Yeah, it's so funny. Question

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Speaker 1: threes about Mite Conria.

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Speaker 5: Oh great, fantastical.

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Speaker 9: Okay, yes, what do you do?

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Speaker 1: Like what exactly do you like what we're going to

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Speaker 1: do today? What do you do? And like do you

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Speaker 1: listen to us and feel stupider?

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Speaker 10: Like?

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 7: Like? You?

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Speaker 12: I grew up on you guys.

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Speaker 6: I'm like so excited me.

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Speaker 12: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: That's the nicest compliment you can say, is that you

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Speaker 2: grew up with this show. That's the finest thing that

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Speaker 2: you could truly say. It's just like, my god, that's

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Speaker 2: why I have gray hair, Like it's it's.

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Speaker 1: The best thing. You know, Like we all try and last.

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Speaker 2: As long as we can in this business without getting fired.

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Speaker 2: But then it's like, oh my god, now I'm old.

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Speaker 2: I'm old When people say that, you know, it's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you know when I was in high school, now I

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Speaker 2: have seven grandkids.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean? Are you doing that

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Speaker 1: in fifteen years?

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Speaker 5: Plain that part.

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Speaker 1: But let's play the game, Stephanie, and let's seef you

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Speaker 1: can win this money. Good luck.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Okay, Yes, Shelley's actually been on the radio for

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Speaker 2: thirty years. I'd like you to do the math on that.

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Speaker 2: It's wild. Here we go, Question number one. Travis Kelce's

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Speaker 2: superstar fiance was spotted in their skybox playing with his

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Speaker 2: with his niece during the last Kansas City Chiefs game.

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Speaker 1: Name her, Oh my God, Travis girl.

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Speaker 3: Travis Travis Kelsey.

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Speaker 14: I'm sorry, I thought you were thinking about the brother.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, my girl, you micro biologist. Okay. Moving on.

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Speaker 2: Ben Affleck was reunited with both of his exes at

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Speaker 2: his son's concert over the weekend. Name the two exes

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Speaker 2: that share the same first name three, So.

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Speaker 7: Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Brin.

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 2: This Dirty Little Secret band was forced to stop their

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Speaker 2: show mid to help a fainting fan name them. Another

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Speaker 2: concert had to be halted over the weekend after a

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Speaker 2: dancer slid off the stage due to the rain.

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Speaker 1: Name the artist.

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Speaker 12: Two Weekend one, I Don't Know Okay.

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Speaker 2: And Santa Tell Me became the highest peaking holiday song

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Speaker 2: released this century on the Billboard Hot one hundred. Who

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Speaker 2: sings Santa tell Me? Yeah? We just played it so,

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Speaker 2: which was not on purpose by the way, that's a four.

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Speaker 2: That's a good score.

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Speaker 7: Okay, she got a four?

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Speaker 1: Okay, which is really good? All right? You ready?

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Speaker 14: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Travis kelcey superstar fiance, was spotted in their skybox playing

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Speaker 2: with his niece during the last Kansas City Chiefs game.

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Speaker 1: Name Her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Ben Affleck was reading at it with both of

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Speaker 2: his exes at his son's concert over the weekend. Name

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Speaker 2: the two exes that share the same first.

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Speaker 1: Name, Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez.

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Speaker 10: Yes.

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Speaker 2: This Dirty Little Secret band was forced to stop their

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Speaker 2: show mid song to help a fainting fan.

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Speaker 5: Name them, Oh Dirty Little Secret, Oh.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, three, two no, the All American recount hek

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Speaker 1: you forgot to count. You got four minutes. You have

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Speaker 1: four minutes.

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Speaker 2: To answer and listen to the song in that period

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Speaker 2: of time.

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Speaker 5: I know you're struggle girl.

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Speaker 2: Another concert had to be halted over the weekend after

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Speaker 2: a dancer slid off the stage due to the rain.

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Speaker 1: Name the artist Lady Gaga.

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Speaker 2: Yes and Santa Tell Me became the highest speaking holiday

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Speaker 2: song released a century on the Billboard Hot one hundred.

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Speaker 1: Who sing Santa tell Me?

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Speaker 3: Marian?

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Speaker 1: That's a four? That's a tie?

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Speaker 3: Is this time?

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to come back, but you may have

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Speaker 2: earned yourself some extra money. Seven hundred bucks will be

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Speaker 2: the prize the next time we play. But yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: a tiebreaker the next time we do it.

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Speaker 1: All right, okay, I culture you.

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Speaker 2: You may have some time to do that. Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but hang on a second and we will coordinate that. Bellahamine,

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Speaker 2: We'll schedule it with you. All right, Okay, thank you,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much for listening to say right there.

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Speaker 2: All right, Shelly, the next time we play, I don't

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Speaker 2: know when that's gonna be, but it's seventy will be

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Speaker 2: here and she will have she will have memorized all

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Speaker 2: of TMS's website by that, Yeah, exactly. And she's smarter

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Speaker 2: than all of us. So we're not moving all right.

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Speaker 2: I have a great table.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk to you soon, you too.

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Speaker 2: Bye, all right, waiting by the phone from the Hall

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Speaker 2: of Fame. Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll do it

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Speaker 2: more thread show next