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Speaker 1: girl Dre and the code and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Mind, where drunk mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober thoughts. We got some gifts Sunday, Sunday. IM super excited. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I love you. We'll come in the studio. I have

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Speaker 1: great energy. Yes, this is the best. Mom and daughter

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm here, And we got doctor Mels and ari.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank y'all for joining us. Yes, so much.

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Speaker 1: Y'all look so cute. Y'all dressed the park coordinator and

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Speaker 1: we all love coordinating a little bit. We all got

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Speaker 1: our little hen and white on. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: a little one soon. Okay, So y'all introduce y'allself. Let

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Speaker 1: the people know everything about y'all that they need to know. Firstday,

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Speaker 1: you go first, this are you okay yet?

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Speaker 1: My name is Ariel, his own four princess and the

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Speaker 1: co founder of Meles Grills. I also work in sports marketing.

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Speaker 1: I do a little bit of everything, styling, greatit direction,

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Speaker 1: everything you need that's period. Yeah. So I'm doctor Mills

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Speaker 1: or Mells Grills. I'm the president, graduate of Howard University

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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety six, Real Dennis O. G from motherfucking West

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Speaker 1: Philly period drip. Uh brains looks everything and we are

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Speaker 1: so happy to be here. Thank you, so happy. Love

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Speaker 1: the energy, right, I love you know, love what users now?

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Speaker 1: I know that they call you Auntie, so we Auntie today,

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Speaker 1: I'm too. Auntie's cool.

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Speaker 3: Everybody calls her aunt doctor, Millia, Auntie.

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Speaker 1: You know. But you know what, I love the fact

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Speaker 1: You know, I've been a dentist for twenty seven years, doctor,

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Speaker 1: and it took him, like, you know, one hundred years

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Speaker 1: So I got y'all. Yeah, I got y'all. Yes, because

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Speaker 1: you said doctor, yes, thank you. Talk about that. You

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Speaker 1: went to Howard. I went to I went to Howard.

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Speaker 1: Say no, I graduated in nineteen ninety six from college

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Speaker 1: to dentistry and uh the HU experience was the ship.

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Speaker 1: So you know, when you earn a degree from HBCU,

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Speaker 1: I went to Stephen F. Austin State University. It's in Acadochia.

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Speaker 1: I definitely wish I would have went to AGE. But

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Speaker 1: Did you really? Yes? I take you the Southern University.

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Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I mean, well, obviously y'all don't

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Speaker 1: So moving into that trend, ah Loine, I went black

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Speaker 3: With a like only I'm the only child.

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Speaker 3: Right, So now, like we didn't talk for a year,

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Speaker 1: That's that's it. And she was like, you're so fucking stupid.

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Speaker 2: Went to church and came back home and take a nap,

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Speaker 3: I left males for a year.

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I wasn't. How did that make you feel,

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Speaker 1: As a parent. As a parent, you don't know because

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Speaker 3: And this happened right? And she ain't hard like I am.

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Speaker 1: I want my please, No, I won't give you that,

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Speaker 1: Listen said, I'm hardening in a different way, but like

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Speaker 1: was like, he used to drink a lot and stuff too,

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00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 1: and he used to smoke cigarettes, but then he found

430
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: out he had heart problems and he just stopped. Calls

431
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 1: her key got it's good, but then he started again.

432
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 1: He started like ten years later, not the cigarettes, but drinking.

433
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,959
Speaker 1: But yes, we the first topic we wanted to talk

434
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: to y'all about is running a mother daughter business. Okay,

435
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 1: because I want to talk like, get in on that

436
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,439
Speaker 1: because she said, like, you didn't respect her, right, because

437
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: I feel like the dynamic of a business with a friend,

438
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 1: it's still hard, but it's easier because we're equal. Yes, yeah,

439
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 1: we're peers. At the end of the day, this is

440
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: still your mom. Yes, So do you feel like whatever

441
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: she says, like, even if you have a great ideas

442
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 1: in a word, she's like, okay, I'm Mom, I have

443
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: the final say. So hell no, because respectfully she don't

444
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: know about this industrys media and I know that. Yeah,

445
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 1: she but it took her minutes to understand that. But

446
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: she has the business acumen. She has ran a private

447
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: practice for fifteen years, right, so she she knows like

448
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: how to discern with vendors and like you know, the

449
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: back end and just getting the money right, Like we

450
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 1: what I don't have have. She has what I have

451
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 1: she doesn't have, so it works well. But honestly, we've

452
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: always had I mean it sounds crazy, but we've always

453
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: had more of like a sister relationship because like, other

454
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 1: than the drinking, she's she's so cool.

455
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 3: Like my house was the trap house.

456
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, you know, everybody came down to smoke,

457
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like the girls was the

458
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: place to go. Like she didn't she didn't care, so

459
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 1: not really like and she now she knows. She sees

460
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 1: it for herself, you know what I mean. Like the

461
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: it's the it's there, like you know what I mean.

462
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 1: That's because of that separation we had. Yes, it wouldn't

463
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 1: have been that.

464
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 3: Way, it would have taken a lot longer.

465
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,360
Speaker 1: So going back to like you're saying, like you grew

466
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: up in the trap house, and everybody was there. Was

467
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: that from an angle of because some parts like Mama,

468
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 1: I used to have the party house, but my mom

469
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 1: looked at it like I'd rather the kids be here

470
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: and I see what they're doing. Then I don't know

471
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: where they're at, right. Yeah, So was that kind of

472
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: your view on it? Yea. And then it's like you

473
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: just want to be real with your kids, like, yeah,

474
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: we've had friends and they kids be old as hell

475
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: and they'll be like you just having a sex talk

476
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: at eighteen. I'm like, what the fuck? You know? You

477
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: gotta tell your kids real ship. Yeah, like if five, six, seven, eight,

478
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: it's a real hot ship. Because kids is different from

479
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 1: when I was growing up. You got to be real

480
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: one hundred with your children. So I had I wanted

481
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: them to come in my house. I got the food

482
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: and everything, and that way I knew they were safe.

483
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: And I think that's the best approach. I mean, I'm

484
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 1: not a parent yet, but I do think that that's

485
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: the best approach as a parent because at the end

486
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,719
Speaker 1: of the day, kids don't do it anyway. To pull

487
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: off the medical journals and show me pictures of like

488
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 1: STDs and stuff, and I mean, you don't do it anyways,

489
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: but I'm just showing you care. She put me on

490
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: my definitely out here I was and by a great guy,

491
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: by the grace and then and by the grace of God,

492
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: I am who got cheers on that.

493
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 3: Okay, look that one, because before I.

494
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: Got saved, you feel like, once y'all like got back together,

495
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: did you feel that pressure of like trying to prove

496
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: yourself to her? I work for Jesus Christ, so that's

497
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: the only person I need to like submit to through

498
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: I know my heart. You know what I mean.

499
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,919
Speaker 3: And she saw it. She saw the change.

500
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: Maybe I was humble, yeah, after I mean, let me

501
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 1: but let me let me tell you the shot of news.

502
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: I went from the couch to the sixteenth flowing Dallas.

503
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: Let me tell you about the rest of restore. Let's

504
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 1: talk about it, Okay. So I mean, no, I don't know.

505
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 1: It wasn't proving I just I wanted males Girls to go.

506
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: I was willing to do anything like I wanted it

507
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: to work in it. It started going like, I mean,

508
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: it's it's been slow. We're getting motion, but it's it's

509
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: been hard. Males Girls has been hard. It's been hard

510
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: from the jump. But you know what's crazy about a business?

511
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: And I tell people this all the time. I think

512
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: a lot of times people look at others and they

513
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, they just popped up out of nowhere.

514
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,120
Speaker 1: But the good thing about like you said, like social media,

515
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 1: it just takes one thing, that one thing, and it's

516
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: just be like nothing will never be the same. And

517
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: that's why I say it's so important to be consistent

518
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: and don't start because there's a lane for everybody. Excuse me,

519
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So do you feel that,

520
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: like the pressure though, just like make her proud? Because

521
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: I know when we start this, like our parents didn't understand.

522
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: They was like, what the hell is it?

523
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 4: Right?

524
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm all in my mama and my daddy was like yeah,

525
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: Like my mom was definitely like what the hell is

526
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: You got a degree and this is what you're right? Right?

527
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: So do you feel like feel pressure to like make

528
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: her proud and you know, do like live up to

529
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: her standards? Yes? I mean I feel like my standard

530
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: for myself it's probably harder than her. I'm nobody is

531
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: harder on harder on me than me saying I have

532
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: that's that that's some Taurus that is I am. I

533
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: have very high standards for because I know what I know,

534
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 1: it got put inside of me and I'm I'm I'm

535
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: turning twenty five and some I have now have a

536
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: different perspective.

537
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 3: I'm not disappointed, but I was.

538
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not. I don't got this this this

539
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: this this, like I still need help in this this

540
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: this Like so I feel like it's turning for me now.

541
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 1: You know, you can feel like the shift, you can

542
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: feel the acceleration. But absolutely I want I want my

543
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: mom to live like in leisure, Like I want to

544
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: be able to pull out the ress. I don't worry

545
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: about it, like the house paid off, like you know

546
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like I'm sending my mom on vacation,

547
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: like I booked you this trip go, Like that's just

548
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: what I want to do for my mom.

549
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 3: Is what she did for me.

550
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: So yes, I feel that pressure immensely. That's some nice baby,

551
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: because she's always been a good baby, and you know,

552
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm really nice, but it's like, you know, there's nothing

553
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do for my daughter. And I'm really proud

554
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: of her and her accomplishments, and you know, she's a

555
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: good kid. I mean, and I could tell you babies,

556
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna call you babies because I'm sixty four.

557
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: But you know, right behind you, I'm just stop playing

558
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: because I'm like that, don't even business. But I just

559
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: love y'all because I love seeing young black women. Yeah,

560
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: push through it because just by this moment right here,

561
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: some vision person watching is gonna see right here and

562
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: be like I can do that? Who had given up

563
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: hope before? Yeah, And there's so many sisters and form

564
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: what ario be telling me like they be having babies

565
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: for all these apps and everything. You ain't got to do.

566
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: And I don't want to take your topic, but.

567
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 6: You have got to do that.

568
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: We get off topic all this, but look at what

569
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: y'all doing. You are making your own bag. So are

570
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: bloneous if you got a nigga that's contributed, but you

571
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: making your own bag, which you can't beach. Yes, and

572
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: you be surprised by the type of men you attract.

573
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: So we always say that you attract better men when

574
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: your own wind than ones who are coming at you

575
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: because again again, I mean honestly, you're kind of like

576
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: pray before you get your own money. Because niggas know,

577
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: like she needs me, So she gonna put up with

578
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: whatever because she needs what I'm doing. But she needs

579
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: what I'm providing. But when it's a woman who they

580
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: know you can provide for yourself, they gonna handle you

581
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: a little different. But I cannot even lie. I feel

582
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 1: like since I've came into my own and got my

583
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: confidence and making my own bag, I have been attracting

584
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: some like better yeah, better better, I have to go

585
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: terrible cow of Dalis. How is dating in dellist I

586
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: don't date right now, but it's I mean, I will

587
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: say the bag is different in Dallas. Yeah, Like I've

588
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: seen Kelly's burkins, like I've seen fer pulling up to

589
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: my like local coffee shop for uncle coffin, Like I

590
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: have a cappuccino.

591
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no no no, let

592
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 3: me say something. The white daddy's out there, and I've

593
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 3: never dated a white man.

594
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: Don't you really really need to look? I said this

595
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: is that with the but I need say this is

596
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: my last Negro relationship.

597
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 3: Why next question?

598
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: Why do you black women field? You need to stay

599
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: within your race? There?

600
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 7: I don't know, but I mean I'm stepping out after

601
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 7: the I'm I don't you don't know what I know,

602
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 7: but I'm not.

603
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it depends on the man, like you know,

604
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: if I'm attracted, but like I'm really attracted.

605
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 3: I have a I have a type.

606
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: I definitely, I definitely have a type. I feel like everybody's.

607
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 3: Okay, let me choose, give over the whole ship.

608
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: I'm about to give out weight, height, Okay, no no, no,

609
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: no no no no, well no, there is a high requirement.

610
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: But I like chocolate, Okay. I definitely don't like no

611
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,719
Speaker 1: light skinned chocolate guys. I don't. And I love men

612
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: with hair like loves like just braids. I love a

613
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: man with hair.

614
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then he got a I don't like, no, dad,

615
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 3: but not weight. Sit down, nephew, Mark, you can handle

616
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 3: all the sticks. S I don't wear you out. But yeah,

617
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 3: that's that's a yeah.

618
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: I like, I like, I like, like, yeah, scoop me

619
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: for me. I feel like because, like I said, I

620
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: went to all white school growing up, so my everything

621
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: first was you know, I dated white guys. Nothing bad,

622
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: you know what, I think for me, like the experience

623
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: I had, and like this is just my person already.

624
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: I think for me like that, just that I want

625
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: a black home. I want a black for my children.

626
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: I know me growing up to I had a lot

627
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: of confusion because I grew up around a lot of

628
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: white people. So I was just like, oh my god,

629
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 1: I want my hair to look like I want to

630
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: do this.

631
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 3: I want to do that. I can't my hair do this.

632
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 3: So that Dinny crisis for and thank God for me.

633
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: I had a black mother who poured into me and

634
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: let me know, like, you're beautiful, your hair is fine,

635
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: you look good. Because I can only imagine if I

636
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: have a son and not saying that white men can't

637
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: do this or you know, an Hispanic man or whatever,

638
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: but if my black son is coming home and he's

639
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: having problems, I just want a black father together to

640
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: talk to. That's what I feel about.

641
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 3: Why I wanted a black man.

642
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: You know who else? Got some fine men, them little

643
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: Middle Eastern men. The little that's a dress that she

644
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: gon that'd be fine and try.

645
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like everything needs you can try, you know,

646
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 3: to want.

647
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: Okay, can I ask you a question what the white

648
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: pean like? Because you know what's crazy? I feel like

649
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: I was so young man, you know what I'm saying.

650
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: So I feel like the sex I was having. It

651
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: is definitely not now. But I tell you one thing,

652
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna be like this because okay,

653
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: yeah it's like that. I'll be home super I went

654
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: out of that with a white man one time, and

655
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: I said I would never do it again. Yeah, but

656
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: I'm just losing faith in my boys. I'm scared white

657
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 1: like like this looks like ro like not raw chicken

658
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: in my mouth?

659
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 6: What did he hear me?

660
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: I really? I mean I like no, because he had

661
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,800
Speaker 1: like dark haired, dark eyes, He had dark features like

662
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: he was like ten.

663
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 3: Okay, so no, it wasn't like pink. It wasn't like

664
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:15,919
Speaker 3: arian race.

665
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: But I will say, like my first love, he was amazing.

666
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 1: He's super sweet. We still are actually friends, like we

667
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: still follow each other. So that's why I said, like

668
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: if something happened, like people always be like, oh, could

669
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: you date your first and show people your picture and

670
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,479
Speaker 1: be like this is my black ex girlfriend, probably because

671
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm that girl, but I and then he had a

672
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: little flavor. He was giving like Paul wall Bro. He

673
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: used to have realm. Anybody that's watching us from l CM,

674
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: y'all know, Steve used to have the rams on him.

675
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 1: He had the lights under his car. Bitch he was.

676
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: He won't really trunk. He used to be banging when

677
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: he came.

678
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 3: And picked me up.

679
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 1: I used to be like, yeah, Bookie, No he didn't,

680
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: but yeah, well you know it was young Bookie. How

681
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: old was I was like, yeah, like fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, yeah, old, Yeah,

682
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: that was like my pa. It was a long Okay,

683
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: what's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex Peak and the

684
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: Sugarl Dre and the coat and guess what period it's

685
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: time for the tour in Our first stop is the

686
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, California. We ain't never had a show in La,

687
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: never been to La. Y'all been asking. So we're there

688
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 1: June seventeenth at the Regent Theater. Listen, doors open at seven.

689
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: When I tell y'all get there at seven pm, Please

690
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: get there at seven pm because we're starting at eight

691
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: o'clock on the dot and it's going down and it's

692
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: gonna be a crazy shot. We need all the Cali vives.

693
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: I can't wait. Oh, we got some Calie Bob's coming.

694
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: Y'all know we're gonna have some special guests. So one

695
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: thing about a PR Mind show, you're gonna have the

696
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 1: time of your life. So if you went to the

697
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: tour last year and you had fun, oh you ain't

698
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: seen nothing yet. June seventeenth, Regent Theater doors open at seven,

699
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: show starts at eight. Be there so get your tickets

700
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 1: at coor Mines dot com La. We're gonna see y'all

701
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: sung period.

702
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,839
Speaker 4: What's the words being Carlos mother Man, she gonna be handy.

703
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 4: And we got a special announcement. Man, we got something

704
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 4: special coming. But instead of us telling you what it's called,

705
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: we're gonna let them tell you.

706
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: Who we got coming. That's last get letty. We had

707
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 1: a tax we got admpleix chuestion. We gotta have flix chruestion.

708
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: We gotta taplex tack. We got a that plex est

709
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: we got in there. Please special U the twenty of

710
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: eighty five.

711
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 4: Word class works words.

712
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 1: So we're gonna switch up gears for a little bit

713
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: real quick before we get into the next topic. Because

714
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 1: you are actually a real doctoral real one agreed, Because

715
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: you know what I've been seeing a lot lately on Instagram,

716
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 1: the at home procedures people getting embraces at home. People

717
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:42,280
Speaker 1: have been there take a class on because because Carlos

718
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: had to tell me, okay, let me, let me just

719
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: take a dr No. But I actually ran into a lady.

720
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: This was like last year. I had went to this

721
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,959
Speaker 1: bar and she was like showing me. She was asking

722
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: me about my teeth, and I was like, oh, yeah,

723
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: I went to Columbia and I got my teeth done,

724
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: thank you. But I got porcelain veneers s okay. So

725
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: she's like, oh yeah, she was like, girl, you should

726
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: have came to me. I just took a class and

727
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: I'm doing compositive and there's and I say, boo boo

728
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: composite and resin it's not the same class. But then

729
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: also a class that you took, and now you doing

730
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 1: my show apartment, you know, thank you. Them type of

731
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: people like, you know, you got to get numbed up,

732
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,879
Speaker 1: you got to give bendestiesias. So even for the composite, yeah,

733
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're doing it, if you're doing it properly, right,

734
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: So my question is them type of motherfuckers? You know,

735
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: how are they numbing you up? Because see, you can

736
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: you are I just said, but you can hit the

737
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: wrong utery, the wrong veins, and you're fucked up for real.

738
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 3: I mean for real, Like, so my question is.

739
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: They really need to have them people arrested because the

740
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: people who are and this is real talk. You know,

741
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 1: you go to Columbia, you saved, you know, because somebody

742
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: told me you can get like ten on ten for

743
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: like five thousand dollars. Okay, but and they pop off.

744
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: You got.

745
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 3: No Dennis in America is gonna touch them.

746
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 1: So my thing is spend the money on somebody and

747
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: not saying they don't have proper training over there. But

748
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: the standards are a little high in the state. The

749
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: bar is set a little higher in the state. Can

750
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: you tell them not like the like the governing authorities

751
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: like in Dennis, like like they got the Georgia Board,

752
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: which is which is like the watch dog. So you

753
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: can't funck nobody up, you know, over here without consequence

754
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 1: over there. Once you get over there, they take your

755
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: money to your ship. If you that's it. You just

756
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: s o L. I've had people come to me and say, Doc,

757
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,919
Speaker 1: can you put these these veneers back on? I said,

758
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 1: fuck no, you know, let me let me call Delta

759
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: for you, because I mean, because you have licensed Dennis.

760
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: And again this is not taking no shine from them

761
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: over there. Right, right, right, But it's like going to

762
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: the doctor, like you you live in the States, but

763
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: you going to a family practici over the Bolivia. But see,

764
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: I was real big on like I was very particular

765
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 1: about who I wanted to do my teeth when I

766
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: decided to get my teeth done. And my doctor he

767
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: actually I think he had certification here and in Columbia, okay,

768
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 1: but because they offered me a deal because I have

769
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: a lot of followers, so they gave me a this time.

770
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: So I think normally he charged like nine crazy and

771
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: he gave me like a good deal, Like I think

772
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: I have paid like seven in exchange, like you know, Okay,

773
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: So I mean, but he's I'm not gonna lie on y'all.

774
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: If you're gonna go out the country to get your

775
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: teeth done, I always recommend people go to my doctor

776
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: because he's also not going to do veneers on you.

777
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: If you need like a root canal, or if you

778
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,359
Speaker 1: need if you need a feeling, or if you need

779
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: any of those things, he gonna send you back to

780
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: the States. He gonna be like, you need to get

781
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: your teeth underneath, or I'm not about to put something

782
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 1: over your teeth. If your natural teeth are not right?

783
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 1: But why you got to go over there when somebody

784
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: over here can tell you the same thing, girl, Because

785
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: I didn't want to pay thirty else That's why. So yeah,

786
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: talk about the prices here though here I didn't want

787
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: to pay the like my crany and dentistry is expensive

788
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 1: because you're paying for experience. Yeah, you're paying lab work

789
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: and it's very it's it's it's it's very artistic and

790
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 1: it's very like skilled. You know. It's just like when

791
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: you get like a like like a like a bag.

792
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: You you're paying for craftsman ship and the same thing

793
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: is in dentistry. Yeah, you know. So it is expensive,

794
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: But I'm a proponent of Am I worth it? Yeah?

795
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:48,479
Speaker 1: Something happens? Can I get it fixed quickly and properly? Okay?

796
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this though, because I have

797
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: a friend she went to the d R and got

798
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: her teeth done and she chipped it and she actually

799
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: found it different. Go to Columbia see what Yeah she wanted,

800
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: but I'm a doctor here that they fixed it, So

801
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: talk about that, like can she can a doctor get

802
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: in trouble? Is that a bad idea? It's really it's

803
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: really not the best idea because you didn't do the work.

804
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 1: So so if if you're fixing work somebody else did

805
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: and it go wrong, then you own that and they

806
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: can blame me.

807
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 3: And they can blame you, even though it may not

808
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 3: be your fault the first.

809
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: So I don't want to go behind people. But we

810
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 1: in the Georgia Board, we gotta stay credential. Like if

811
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 1: you're like like having certain specialties, you got to stay

812
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: on top of that. With classes you have here and

813
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,720
Speaker 1: we don't know what their standard is. You just got lucky,

814
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: but we know what the standard is here in the States.

815
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: And I will also say this too, because I think

816
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: I've said this before. I went and got my teeth

817
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: day in another country, understanding that like if something was,

818
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: say happen, I have to go back there. But I

819
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,839
Speaker 1: also feel like I can afford to. She's gonna pay

820
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: for her, nigga gonna pay for it anyway, She's going back, right.

821
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: It's like if my tooth was to get chipped today,

822
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: I would go to Colombia this weekend and go get

823
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: it fixed. So it's like I think that you have

824
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: to understand all of that stuff too when you decide

825
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 1: to get that stuff done with any anything.

826
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you make whether it be anything you do.

827
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: You need to have education, yeah, you need bro fortunate

828
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: that you can afford to go back. But that's what

829
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying here somebody's garage. Yeah, yeah, I get it done. Yeah,

830
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: And that's a no. No they should not do that.

831
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: You shouldn't do that. But I feel like that's why

832
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: people do it though, because they like, Okay, well I

833
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: can't afford to get my teeth done here the right way,

834
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 1: and I can't afford to go to Columbia and pay

835
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: seven eight thousand dollars to get it done, so I'm

836
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: gonna just get it done. And so and so garage.

837
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: They just took a class and they started fire. I

838
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: got a question, why don't people just get bracist or

839
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: visible like my mom is big on just.

840
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:01,240
Speaker 3: Like saving your teeth.

841
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you can, and like you, all it takes

842
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,240
Speaker 1: is just straighten them out and then get some whitening

843
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 1: and you look at it. I'm not gonna lie. That's

844
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: what we were talking about before, because I said, I'm

845
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: back and forth if I want veneers or if i

846
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: want in visil line or like braces, because I like

847
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: my teeth. I do like my teeth, but they can

848
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: do a little little straightening, you know what I'm saying.

849
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: But that's why I've just like waited so long because

850
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: I don't know what I want to do. So talk

851
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: about that, like the difference between like in visilne, the

852
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 1: braces and veneers. So most people, let me start with

853
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: most people want it right then and there. Yes, so

854
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: most people they want that perfect look right then and there.

855
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,879
Speaker 1: So that's why they don't do braces. All right. I'm

856
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,240
Speaker 1: a fan, like I told you of traditional ortho because

857
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: orthodontists are trained to move teeth and bone a certain way.

858
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: With with with the visiline, you may be overmoving it

859
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 1: or undermoving it, which will minimize or maximize the look

860
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: that you want because you want a certain look, so

861
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: you don't want to overshoot, you don't want to undershoot.

862
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: But with the orthodontis, they are tracking the movement of

863
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 1: teeth and bone. That's number one. And visit line I

864
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: ain't a fan of because they don't really track it

865
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: like that. They have braces where you can't even tell

866
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: you got braces on. Are the ones that go like

867
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 1: behind the see you can't tell. So so teeth are

868
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: moving but you don't know, and you have a specialist

869
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: that's tracking that movement. So I'm a fan of traditional.

870
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 1: So with veneers, there are some veneers where you don't

871
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: have to prep, which is alter or shave the teeth.

872
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: I am not a proponent of shaving natural healthy teeth.

873
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: If you got sucked up teeth, you.

874
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 8: Know, get you a bride yet, that's just.

875
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: Mother, But you're right ship, Oh my god, and it

876
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 1: going over there and then they put them over on

877
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 1: and and some some people just need to just like

878
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: people need to brush their teeth. Yes, And the few

879
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: days I have seen visit plaque and I'm just, how

880
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: do you guys not see that? Is foul? And veneers too.

881
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: It's like if you already don't take care of the

882
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: teeth that the Lord gave exactly exactly, but that's what

883
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:37,479
Speaker 1: I'm If you're already not taking care of the teeth

884
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: that God gave you, what makes you think that you're

885
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: gonna take care of these new teas? Come on? And

886
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 1: the thing is with with veneers, you can do no prep.

887
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 1: You can do minimal prep, or you can do aggressive prep.

888
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 1: It depends on the alignment of your teeth. But the

889
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: bottom line is consult a professional and consult somebody who's cool,

890
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: who's gonna keep it real. And you bag right, And

891
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: let me ask you one more question about the teeth.

892
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: So what happens when people be getting them horse teeth?

893
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: The chick lits, oh my, what be going on with that?

894
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 1: And then you know how sometimes they have the gray

895
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: around They don't that's happening like the teeth, right, they

896
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: fucked us, right, and then they be putting that shit

897
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: fucking on top of the natural tooth. When people have

898
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: horse teeth, that's because they have fucked up teeth. They

899
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 1: got fucked up teeth and they didn't get the teeth

900
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 1: altered because if you make the natural tooth smaller, then

901
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: the actual veneer will be more cosmetic. Right, Okay, very good,

902
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: Niche Okay, see I had before it too. Yeah, yeah,

903
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: but I just I don't know. I got I had

904
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: braces from like I think nineteen to twenty four, and

905
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,479
Speaker 1: my teeth. The funny thing is, my natural teeth looked

906
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: very much like this. Like when I went to my doctor,

907
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: I was very intentional. I was like, I want my

908
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: veneers to look as close to my nest because I

909
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 1: was tired of getting my teeth white and and honestly,

910
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: I had lost my retainer and then when I wouldn't

911
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,359
Speaker 1: wear it for a long period of time, my gap

912
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 1: would come back.

913
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 3: So you know, now you are locked into that ship

914
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:11,959
Speaker 3: for the rest of your life.

915
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: But I ain't tripping. I can. I mean they said

916
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 1: that I could. They said that my teeth should last

917
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: like sevent to ten years, So I'm like, I could

918
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: deal with that. I could deal with getting them redoinge

919
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: every ten years. I could do that, But by then

920
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I probably ain't gonna go back

921
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: to Columbia because you know, hopefully in ten years i'd

922
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: be way more rich and I just pay the fifty

923
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: thousands here. I'm gonna come see you, all right, So

924
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 1: now we're gonna get into w a oou boubou about bow.

925
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: I ain't even I don't even know the song. Yeah,

926
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 1: it's real catchy.

927
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 3: Gain for the bad topic.

928
00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: We want to talk about men who be pressed for pussy.

929
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 3: Oh when y'all chose the right.

930
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 1: Topic today, I got something to say because I want

931
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: to know y'all's first thoughts. When you meet a man,

932
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,399
Speaker 1: you feel like he cool whatever, and then you really

933
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 1: get to talking to him, you realize he pressed for

934
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: the pussy. What is your first thought when you meet

935
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: a man and you realize he's pressed for sake? All right,

936
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: So so I'm gonna give you the O G history

937
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: and ship. Okay, I'm kind of past that stage, so

938
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: my rolling this ship and to put y'all motherfuckers on game,

939
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: you know, like, yeah, so when you and I'm just

940
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: gonna be honest with.

941
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 3: Why you're so icy.

942
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 2: I don't even mary, I have to say, I wonder

943
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 2: why I wasn't hot over here, But I'm just okay,

944
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:46,240
Speaker 2: I have seen the people.

945
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:49,839
Speaker 1: You meet a man that's pressed for pussy, what's your

946
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: first thought? And you said you're gonna put us on game?

947
00:50:53,280 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: Because men be pressed. My first thought, if he press

948
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 1: you for some pussy, you get the bag. Hm hmm,

949
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 1: that's some og. You get the bag because first of all,

950
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: it's my untun because he ain't respecting you as a queen.

951
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: Because a man who respecting you as a queen ain't

952
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 1: gonna pull up on you like that, right, He's gonna

953
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: hold off when trying to get the pussy. He's gonna

954
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: be patient. He's gonna be patient and and and he's

955
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: gonna respect that sacred time when y'all do get together.

956
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: So my ship is like he trying to push up

957
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: on you. Get the fucking money, get which you can

958
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: out of them. I mean I normally get a lot

959
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: of push back for I g fucking mother always keeping

960
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: it one hundred.

961
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 3: But if he pressing you, press his ass right back.

962
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: But I don't even think that City girls time, because

963
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you pressing me, then I'm gonna

964
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: press you. That's it, Like you know what I'm saying.

965
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: You already know what he you know, So that's that's

966
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 1: my that's your first thought. What's your first thought? My

967
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: first thought when a nigga is pressed for pussy is

968
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: like you a lamee because why you so pressed?

969
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 3: Nobody wants to fuck you?

970
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 1: Because I always like when you meet a new nigga,

971
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: everybody fucking somebody. I'm still fucking my ex because I

972
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck you yet. But I'm done with

973
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: that nigga. I'm just trying to move on. So you're

974
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: so pressed for my pussy, like nobody is fucking you?

975
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: Why why you ain't even give your little big suck

976
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: a little bit. So what you be thinking? What you

977
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: be thinking? Honestly, I haven't really been outside dating niggas

978
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: for a while, but I'll say for me, it's.

979
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 3: Like like you said, you're laying, Yeah, like you. I

980
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 3: don't like a man that doesn't have sexual discipline.

981
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: Yeah that's huge, that's okay. I like that. I like

982
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 1: a man who has sexual disciplines. Like, I like a

983
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: man that will tell me no, because that's gonna make

984
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 1: me look you are why I'm gonna be like take

985
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: them pants up, trying to Yeah, but it's like yeah,

986
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: all that, like I'm trying to or oh my god.

987
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 1: This was like when I was younger, they'd be like,

988
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 1: oh yeah, like so what's this looking like, what's this

989
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 1: looking like? I'm like, give me a picture?

990
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm a lady Cutch my church pearls.

991
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Because I like a man who has sexual discipline,

992
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 1: it says a lot about his care. Yeah, he cares

993
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 1: about because he probably really like, no, let me get

994
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: to know you first, because exchanging energy. So it's very

995
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 1: rare and that's sexy. That's that's intimate for a man

996
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: to get inside your head and your soul. Your pants,

997
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,880
Speaker 1: you feeling how I be thinking? They got an STD

998
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: they trying to give away. That's why do you want

999
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 1: to down together? It makes soun easy. It's like, why

1000
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,879
Speaker 1: are you so race? Because kind of like what leg said,

1001
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 1: you mean to tell me nobody fucking you, you're not

1002
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 1: getting no pussy from nowhere? Like, why you so that?

1003
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 1: It's very suspicious. I like what you got on suspicious.

1004
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,879
Speaker 3: That's why you get the Yeah, I don't.

1005
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 1: I don't get what you mean.

1006
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 3: Oh like the literal bag like, oh okay, and you

1007
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 3: get that you can use it to you.

1008
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no no no. Let me

1009
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: tell you first of all, provision is a non negotiable

1010
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: at this point, at twenty five, I'm not going back

1011
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: and forth because as a woman, we have to work

1012
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: so hard to make money. You have to work so

1013
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: as a black woman, we don't get to be mediocres.

1014
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 4: We have.

1015
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: You gotta be in top time put me people. There's

1016
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: a lot of people of other races that get to

1017
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: be videocren. We gotta be and the time we put in.

1018
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: So if I'm putting in over time, I don't have

1019
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: time to just sit around, excuse me and just get

1020
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:57,720
Speaker 1: to know you and top top top top top top talking.

1021
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: Some bitches got time. I don't have the time, no

1022
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: time for the ship. If you gonna if you're gonna

1023
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: make me step away from this bag, you're gonna be

1024
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: putting somebody I want.

1025
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 3: The counter.

1026
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: Hello. People be like, oh, well that's hot standards, and

1027
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, they got it. No, he can get on

1028
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 1: my ass. How many ever, since we started this show,

1029
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: people have always said that I have like unrealistic standards,

1030
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: and I say, let me tell you something. Number one,

1031
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: you never give a fucking I still stand on the

1032
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 1: same ship that I've been standing on. It's a little

1033
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 1: different now because I will say I don't put as

1034
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 1: much emphasis on how much money a nigga got, no more,

1035
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: just because I'm getting my own right right. I feel

1036
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: like that was coming from a place of like, well,

1037
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: I ain't got it, so I got to make sure

1038
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: he got it, which he's still gonna have it. I'm

1039
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:55,399
Speaker 1: still not gonna but at the end of the day,

1040
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like people used to

1041
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: always be like, she always be saying she got she

1042
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: only gonna fuck with a nigga who got a bag, Yes,

1043
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: a lot Why would I fuck with somebody who don't

1044
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 1: got no money but just don't make money to me?

1045
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: And I know you can do. I know you can

1046
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: do whatever I'm asking. You want my time? Why you

1047
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: want eventually you gonna want my exactly Why you can't

1048
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: contribute to what I'm trying to build is a man

1049
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 1: who on your shit and you successful, you got it.

1050
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: You should want a woman money, more money, and you

1051
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: want to put more money in my pocket. But when

1052
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: you real and hear me carefully with that microphone, when

1053
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: you when you when you know yourself, yes, and you

1054
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 1: know who you are? Like she had Louis Vatan at

1055
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: two years old because I wanted her to know her

1056
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: value and not that it was just like materials ship.

1057
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,799
Speaker 1: But I wann't like you're worth it. You all are

1058
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: worth it. So if a man can't contribute to your

1059
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 1: worthiness as a black queen, what are they doing? What

1060
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: are you doing? Say that? Because it's not about materialistic

1061
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 1: I feel like I just want to feel like you're

1062
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: going above and be on and you're doing the most

1063
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: to make me happy, you know what I'm saying. So

1064
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: thank god I'm in the position to where you know

1065
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: I can buy myself extravagant things, and that makes me

1066
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 1: feel good. I can go on extravagant vacations and I

1067
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: love to travel, and I always say this for me,

1068
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 1: I would rather a trip than a bag. Like just

1069
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: because you were dating this girl, she wants to bark

1070
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: and I don't want that. Take me on a trip,

1071
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: on a trip, y'all. You know what I'm saying, trip

1072
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 1: and I don't have a little trip. I love it

1073
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: like a tree. Y'all. Let the girls know we're going

1074
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: to a Visa. I ain't been saying okay to a

1075
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: Let's go to a Viza if y'all want to go. No, seriously, No,

1076
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: Viza is the ship I want. I want who told

1077
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: you to go Abiza? Who told you to go as

1078
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: I told her to go to the week Piza got

1079
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: wealthy Europeans period like Princess and ship. No, seriously, if

1080
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 1: girl watching hate, I'll be watching Prince.

1081
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 6: To what I'm saying, Beza, you Visa has night life

1082
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 6: like nighthood.

1083
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: I want to go and make sure we get your number,

1084
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: but you will plan a trip to a Biza. I

1085
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: mean I mean that, I mean that ship for real. No,

1086
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: don't play with me because that's what I said. I

1087
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: love out way outside the ZA and that's like going

1088
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: back to what you said. I just feel like you

1089
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: need to study your woman. Not every woman is gonna

1090
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: require you know, like fifteen cat this and that. It's honey,

1091
00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: your woman, your woman that you want something is passible

1092
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: to be mad because she wants this, she wants that.

1093
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: Guess what if you're a guy and I don't want

1094
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: somebody who doesn't want as much, There's a woman out

1095
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 1: there for you that's gonna love you today and pay

1096
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: attention and may not attend. It's okay to date. They

1097
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 1: people who like you. That's how I feel. That's the

1098
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 1: best day advice. They's somebody that actually like somebody who

1099
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: likes you. That is somebody who wants the same once

1100
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: as you want. Stop telling people that they're stupid for

1101
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: their standards. You know what I'm saying. I like to date. Man.

1102
00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: Now I realize. I was like, damn, you know what

1103
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 1: I realized I had. I was dating a guy who

1104
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 1: would buy me everything, and I was like, this is cool,

1105
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: but it's like I want to go somewhere. I want

1106
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: to do something. I was like, you know what, I'm

1107
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: gonna start paying attention to the guys who travel, the

1108
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: guys who like yeah outside, the guys who like different days.

1109
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm having a ball, you know what I'm saying.

1110
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: You gotta date you definitely gotta date guys who are

1111
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: into the same thing. But they goes into your love

1112
00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: language and stuff too, like they people who care about

1113
00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:04,520
Speaker 1: your love language. Okay, so now we're gonna get into

1114
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 1: the bop. Hey, the bob bow the bow. So the

1115
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: bop of the week for me? What I've been jamming

1116
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: this week. I hope I didn't make this my BAP

1117
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: of the week already all I've been drinking. It's a

1118
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: song by Go Gomorrow. It's called Don't Stop. So she

1119
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 1: sampled Aleah rocked the Boat. Oh, and I'm a big

1120
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 1: Aliah fan. Now, I feel like sometimes the samples go overboard,

1121
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: but she sampled this perfectly. It was like she wasn't

1122
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 1: trying to sound like Aliyah. She wasn't doing too much.

1123
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 1: You know. It was a little one too. It's an

1124
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 1: R and B vibe. I absolutely love it. I got

1125
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: two boxs the week. Actually. Xavier Omar, y'all know I

1126
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: love Xavier Omar. I feel like he always has he's

1127
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 1: an R and B singer, listen to a lot of

1128
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: indie people. Yeah, I'm like, I'm like an indie. Yeah,

1129
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm an indie artist. Girl. Yeah yeah, they need sport

1130
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: because I feel like everybody's talking about oh, R and

1131
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: B is dead, Like it's not dead, y'all is not

1132
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 1: so period. So so Xavier Omar just dropped a new

1133
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 1: song called Magic, and I want to talk about the

1134
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: message of the song because it's so fire, because you

1135
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: know how people be like, oh, I want to love,

1136
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 1: that's magical. I want this. Dude was like, I'm not

1137
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: gonna give you no love that's magical. I'm give you

1138
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: some love that's real, because you know what I'm saying

1139
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: that Benny by b ship that ain't real. I'm gonna

1140
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: give you some real love. You know what I'm saying

1141
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 1: that hocus poking that ain't real. I'm not gonna give

1142
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 1: you love that's magic. I'm gonna give you love that's real.

1143
01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:36,479
Speaker 1: So that's like the message of the song. I was like, Okay,

1144
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: I never looked at it that way. So to give

1145
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: you a song that we like, yeah, yeah, yeah, she listened.

1146
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 3: She listens to the same playlist and.

1147
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 1: If you want to get into Xavier Omar, he has

1148
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: a song called say It. Listen to say It first,

1149
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 1: right now? Okay, say It by Xavier Omar. That's like

1150
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 1: my favorite song by him. Okay, but yeah, what dre

1151
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: what you've been listening to? Queen? Y'all are funny? Okay,

1152
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: So I don't remember saving you. I don't remember if

1153
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: this has been my bob already. I'm a little li too.

1154
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: Don't Fuck Me Up by am I. Okay, I don't

1155
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: remember if that has been my bob before. Okay, I don't.

1156
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: But that's about love that song. It's so good, especially

1157
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: when you really love a nigga, you be like nigga,

1158
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: don't play with me. I'm gonna fuck you up. I'm

1159
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: gonna fuck you up. That's what if you tell hell? Yeah,

1160
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: I said that song on him before, so I know

1161
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 1: what's the time we say? But if I haven't, if

1162
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 1: I have used that song before, I also like it's

1163
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 1: like an older song moving Mountains.

1164
01:02:55,760 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 3: That's a bob too. Don't know of his mother, I don't.

1165
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what either, yes of an indie artist too,

1166
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 1: But like I have been having that song getting heavy rotation,

1167
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: like I love the I love the beats, I love

1168
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 1: the vibe of the song. I suck with see it.

1169
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 1: I see what you been listening to, Bookie, not too

1170
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,479
Speaker 1: that came to mad Okay, I've been listening to Whoa

1171
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 1: by snow Alegra okay, yeah, and just how it is

1172
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: my young thug, free thug. Y'all. Let my boy go.

1173
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: He ain't mean it. He nobody's let by gun to

1174
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: be bogun. Hello, you ain't your mama l ain't been

1175
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: right since it ain't been right, and it ain't gonna

1176
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: be right. It ain't let it.

1177
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 8: I need to.

1178
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take y'all home. I love y'all. Okay, I

1179
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: don't past because I bet you don't mess. Really, don't

1180
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 1: say you gotta blame me.

1181
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 3: You listen, listen to listen to telling the artists. You

1182
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 3: listen to tell you we want.

1183
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: We want to know. We don't want to know.

1184
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 3: Please telling the artists.

1185
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no no for Pat Massinis in Okay,

1186
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: I listened to o gs like Pats like white Boys.

1187
01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 3: Okay, you would think the Best Boys is a white artist.

1188
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 1: I'm like and sting from.

1189
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:40,040
Speaker 3: Back yeah yeah and the police.

1190
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, please don't say oh I was thinking of, what's

1191
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 1: that man named os? I was thinking of, Oh, that's

1192
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: the ship.

1193
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 3: What you talking about?

1194
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: You got it? And I can't wait and.

1195
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 3: For the moment for all my life.

1196
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: Oh no, right, don't be, hadn't be.

1197
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 3: Damn Pat Metheny gets on my Damn.

1198
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: I heard him. I'm i to listen to this in

1199
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 1: the car. Please, don't.

1200
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 3: You're gonna turn it off on me?

1201
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 4: Is it?

1202
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 3: Why just listen to it?

1203
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 1: You got turn it on rock and roll? No, it's

1204
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: like Jay the first person that came up. Yeah, I

1205
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: put in pad He the first person came in, right,

1206
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 1: had been come up?

1207
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 3: We got some bundle fas.

1208
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 1: Got some. He got some hair on the baby got hey,

1209
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 1: not even on the least. And that's y'all need to

1210
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 1: pass time. He's from you. He from Houston. Yeah, we're

1211
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: gonna put you on it. I don't know. Was the

1212
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:09,640
Speaker 1: slim thum Houston rapper from like way making the day

1213
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: when screw first got started? Like in a night like

1214
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 1: I do? Like? Like is that alone?

1215
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 4: Girl?

1216
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 1: You from Houston? You're supposed to know? I just know

1217
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 1: people from Orange Why do why no rappers men in

1218
01:06:22,640 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: Orange Texas? They got me nigga you see Nigga, I

1219
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: come on, give him a bar.

1220
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 3: New music dropping soon.

1221
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: We're about to get this stew poor Minds me. Okay, okay,

1222
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into our favorite segment of the week,

1223
01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:49,960
Speaker 1: they Pour your Heart Out segment. If you want your

1224
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: question answer of the show, make sure you email us

1225
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you're

1226
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: a Patreon member, make sure you email I'm getting paid. Okay,

1227
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 1: and but that you're a Patreon you know in the

1228
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 1: subject line and you get to skip. Y'all ready to

1229
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 1: give some advice? Come on, do y'all feel like y'all.

1230
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 3: Give good advice?

1231
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: Yes, they ain't getting good advice all that I think

1232
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: that they. Yeah, so I'm just asking if they like

1233
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: you know what. I hope it ain't something that I

1234
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: laughed like a girl. Oh no, we got already seen them,

1235
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 1: so we got them printed out. That was okay, be

1236
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 1: ready question number one. Hey, ladies. Before I get into

1237
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 1: my question, I just want to give a little background

1238
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 1: about myself. I'm twenty one, working three jobs, also going

1239
01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 1: to school for a nail technician, no kids, single, on

1240
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 1: car and crib that I share with my sister. My

1241
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:44,479
Speaker 1: question is what advice do you have for a twenty

1242
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 1: one year old identity crisis? I feel like I'm behind

1243
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: on my goals, things I want to do and love life,

1244
01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:53,040
Speaker 1: especially with social media. I feel like I'm not where

1245
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: I need to be in life right now, and it's

1246
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 1: caused me to be depressed, strained, and hopeless. Please give

1247
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: me advice, any of ice that you have. Love y'all

1248
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 1: in the podcast. I'm gonna take that motherfucker. Yeah, go hey,

1249
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 1: I tee all right. First of all, what am I

1250
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 1: looking at one of them cameras right there? Look at

1251
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: that cameras? What's that baby name? She wet one? Precious?

1252
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 1: You know who you are. I'm gonna give you my

1253
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: office number seven seven. Oh not no, I mean it's

1254
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:26,879
Speaker 1: for real nine nine six eight seven seven. I got problems,

1255
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: you know, because because you you are not behind and

1256
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 1: and you really need to congratulate yourself. Okay, you twenty one,

1257
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 1: You working three motherfucking jobs. They're like eighty year old

1258
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 1: seventy year olds that ain't working one job. I got

1259
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: a cousin like that. So so you you're twenty one,

1260
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: you working three jobs, You're in school, you own a

1261
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: house or a car, which which with your family member.

1262
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 1: So you are well on your way twenty one. You know,

1263
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 1: twenty one you are a baby baby. You still got

1264
01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 1: like milk behind your ears. So so give yourself some grace.

1265
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: Give yourself some grace number one. Number two, find like

1266
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:15,920
Speaker 1: a mentor that can mentor you into a higher goal.

1267
01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: Because what I'm hearing from you is you got to

1268
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 1: hustle spirit in because you're working three jobs. You a

1269
01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 1: nail tech. It ain't meant for you to be no

1270
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 1: nail tech all your life. You need some line and

1271
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:31,680
Speaker 1: have other people exactly and so I'm on celebrities that

1272
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: fly you handsomely for it.

1273
01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 3: So auntie up seven seven nine nine six.

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Speaker 1: Now you know the other people everybody that was me, Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, but like the person seven nine nine

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01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 1: six eight seven seven two, I'm gonna put you on game.

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01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:55,560
Speaker 1: But give yourself some grace. One piece, take a like

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01:09:55,680 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: a fast from social media, like deleted, because it's not

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01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 1: real life is caps case caps.

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Speaker 3: I'm twenty five.

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01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 1: I feel behind and I have to constantly tell myself

1282
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:14,240
Speaker 1: like you're exactly where God needs you to be, Like

1283
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 1: we are not running this show. Somebody else directing and

1284
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: pulling the strings. So everything you're going through is for

1285
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:25,200
Speaker 1: a purpose, and it's for your higher calling. So my

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01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,640
Speaker 1: number one advice is get off social media, take like

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01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:31,680
Speaker 1: a month seriously, like and the really discipline yourself. And

1288
01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 1: when you feel like you're doing the comparison thing, hop off.

1289
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 1: Because I do that all the time. I'll go off

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01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 1: for a few days like, and I tell people all

1291
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: so it's just good to fast from everything. You need

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01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 1: to fast from social media. You need to fast from

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01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:50,639
Speaker 1: drinking sometimes, if you love, you need to fast from smoking.

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01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 3: Yep, you need to fast over eating.

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01:10:54,560 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: Literally fast ye think in your bag. Seriously, it's good

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01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:04,879
Speaker 1: to fast from things. And it also teaches you discipline

1297
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 1: because and it also just shows you people be thinking

1298
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 1: that they need these things to cope, and they need

1299
01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 1: these things every day. It's really a mind thing. You

1300
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 1: don't need yourself and God, mom, that's all you need.

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01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,800
Speaker 1: And I'll add my last little two cents. I say

1302
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:21,639
Speaker 1: this all the time. I'll use myself as an example.

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01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 1: Look at me. I'm thirty three. I just literally started

1304
01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:30,800
Speaker 1: being able to be comfortable two years ago when I

1305
01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: was thirty one. When I was thirty, I got fired

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01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: from my job walked to Drea's house cried. She gave

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01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:38,600
Speaker 1: me a shot of Hennessy and we was like, what

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01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:40,719
Speaker 1: the fuck we gonna don and we went to Jamaica

1309
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 1: and we went to Jamaica for you. I love that.

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01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 1: And then when we came in, it was like, so,

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01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:48,880
Speaker 1: what I'm telling you is when I was twenty one,

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01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 1: guess what I was doing in college, working two jobs,

1313
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 1: trying to figure out what the fuck I'm going to do,

1314
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: And shit did not click for me personally until ten

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01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 1: years later. Ten years so your stuff may clicking five, three, ten,

1316
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:07,760
Speaker 1: a few months, you never know. But you know where

1317
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: I fucked up at where I got behind Paris and

1318
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: I was I was comparing myself to this really serious

1319
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,840
Speaker 1: so instead of looking down and focusing on my plate,

1320
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: I got behind because I'm looking at what she doing.

1321
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I got this that when I stopped looking

1322
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 1: at other people ships and I was like, you know what,

1323
01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 1: let me focus on me. She started moving. She just

1324
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:35,760
Speaker 1: started and quickly advice, lady, that's good. Yeah, oh yeah.

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01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: So I felt like I spent my twenties looking at

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01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:41,280
Speaker 1: other people and feeling like I was behind. So stop

1327
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 1: looking at other people, and I spend my twenties playing. Yeah,

1328
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:51,280
Speaker 1: luckily poor mine started taking off, the bitch because I'm here, bitch,

1329
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:56,000
Speaker 1: I didn't make started taking off, but like I just know, man,

1330
01:12:56,160 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 1: Like I was really going thesa as I have one

1331
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:04,840
Speaker 1: more blue motherfucker, I said, large, we go to a

1332
01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 1: busy y'all. But that's the best advice I feel anybody

1333
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:10,639
Speaker 1: is just stay focused and be serious. Like people think

1334
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,640
Speaker 1: that your twenties is the time to play, it's not.

1335
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 1: It is balanced. It's about balance. I mean, it is

1336
01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: about balance. But it's like I used to really be

1337
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: out here winging it. Like by like I said, by

1338
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,880
Speaker 1: the grace of God, every day, day to day minds

1339
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 1: has started taking off, But I was out here winging

1340
01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 1: it in my twenties. I didn't know what the fuck

1341
01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to do for the for the most portion

1342
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 1: of my twenties, Like, I had no idea. So I

1343
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 1: would just say, like, try to focus on you and

1344
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: find yourself too. That's really important exactly because you don't

1345
01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:42,599
Speaker 1: want to be out here. Because the thing about it now,

1346
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 1: I'm thirty two, thirty creep up ass, forty gonna creep

1347
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: up as fifty gonna creep up as sixty gonna creep

1348
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 1: up ass and before you know, you're gonna be like, damn,

1349
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 1: I ain't need nothing right right. So the fact that

1350
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:56,559
Speaker 1: you're chasing your Yeah, but you already a step a hair.

1351
01:13:56,840 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 1: A lot of motherfucker people that you compare yourself, they

1352
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 1: wish they knew their passion. They don't know. They don't know.

1353
01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,760
Speaker 1: They I ain't know for a long time, Like I said,

1354
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: until twenty nine, I did not know where I want

1355
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 1: to say. And she's twenty one, working three jobs right

1356
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 1: in school and in school. Don't treat yourself.

1357
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 3: I'm here.

1358
01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: She gonna own something. So you on the right path. Girl,

1359
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 1: what's the number? Two? Hey, ladies, I'm a twenty four

1360
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 1: year old single mother of two from Vegas. So I'm

1361
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:29,439
Speaker 1: gonna just get right into it. This girl I used

1362
01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 1: to call sister in high school, we were super close.

1363
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm dating her baby daddy. Now she doesn't know yet.

1364
01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 1: Nobody really knows because one, both me and him are

1365
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:42,360
Speaker 1: not on social media. Two we don't know how to

1366
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:44,680
Speaker 1: tell her because we really really do like each other

1367
01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 1: and it's getting serious really fast. They are not together,

1368
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: and she's been in another relationship for some years now.

1369
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 1: And had another baby. Me and her haven't been close

1370
01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: friends since high school. I never knew he always liked me,

1371
01:14:57,120 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 1: But now I really like him, and I feel like

1372
01:14:59,320 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 1: he sees me. He's so appreciative, caring, and encouraging. Truly

1373
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 1: the opposite of all the toxic and heartbreak I went

1374
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 1: through last year. Toxics relationships and heartbreaks I went through

1375
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:12,720
Speaker 1: last year. I need some help. We really don't know

1376
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 1: how to tell her, and we're gonna have to eventually

1377
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 1: that you don't know her shit, Well, I'll say that

1378
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 1: she's twenty four, You've been out of high school for

1379
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:23,600
Speaker 1: six years. Y'all haven't been close in high school. I

1380
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: feel like if y'all feel like this is real, it's

1381
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 1: just a conversation. I mean it's been six years. You know.

1382
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 1: Why do you have to tell them anyway? I mean,

1383
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 1: whose business is it? I mean, why do you The

1384
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 1: reason I say that she does because it's her baby daddy.

1385
01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 1: So they have a child together, so she's probably gonna

1386
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 1: be around the child. Okay, So therefore, yeah, if you're

1387
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 1: gonna be around my child, her old close friend's baby daddy, Okay,

1388
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: so yeah, they got it's gott a if she if

1389
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 1: the the baby mother, not like the girlfriend now, but

1390
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:59,759
Speaker 1: the baby mother, if she's not mature enough to handle

1391
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 1: that conversation, it ain't gonna get ugly.

1392
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 3: Things are can probably going.

1393
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 1: You know that, she said that she's moved on, she's

1394
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:14,200
Speaker 1: had another baby. Yeah she shouldn't. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that

1395
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,000
Speaker 1: don't mean nothing. I was gonna tell what she should do.

1396
01:16:17,640 --> 01:16:20,640
Speaker 1: That's a good y'all need to do family mediation at

1397
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 1: that point, because that just they going. They need therapy.

1398
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 1: They need therapy for that one. Look, but black people

1399
01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:29,559
Speaker 1: ain't doing no therapy, especially at that age. So I agree,

1400
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 1: because you ain't doing no fucking therapy. You gotta go

1401
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:36,840
Speaker 1: through some shit like I need to see somebody. I

1402
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:39,000
Speaker 1: hate to say this, though, the kind of man I

1403
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 1: like that twenty four is very different than the man

1404
01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 1: I like in my thirties, so I know that. But

1405
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 1: she's in a different phase than her life. She has

1406
01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: two kids. She's probably looking for something more serious. So

1407
01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 1: I will say I think that if this is a

1408
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: man that you see yourself with, y'all trying to start

1409
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 1: a family, just rip the band aid off, yeah or not? Yeah,

1410
01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: that's no matter what happens. The longer you wait, the

1411
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 1: harder it's gonna be.

1412
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:03,840
Speaker 3: And the more Mexican.

1413
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 1: Eight months. If it's do that, do that ship and

1414
01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 1: do that, just be done with it. She didn't say

1415
01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 1: how long they've been talking, you know, stick to what

1416
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:17,800
Speaker 1: you said, Like, if that's your nigga, like stand beside him.

1417
01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 1: If don't be faltering and trying to Oh, I was

1418
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: so so sorry, Like you know, just be like, look,

1419
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 1: this is what it is. I hope you can't see that,

1420
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:28,600
Speaker 1: you know, and also explain her I went through a

1421
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:31,280
Speaker 1: B C, D, E f G. I was heartbroken, and

1422
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 1: you know, it seems real to me, you know. And

1423
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,080
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to I'm not trying to step on

1424
01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 1: nobody's toes. I'm just you know how life goes, girl,

1425
01:17:38,200 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 1: Like it's nothing against one thing, and you can relate

1426
01:17:41,040 --> 01:17:43,800
Speaker 1: to her. Be like I have my own children. I'm

1427
01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:46,639
Speaker 1: dealing with my baby father dating other women. I'm gonna

1428
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 1: love your child, is there my own? That's because your

1429
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 1: mother use that situation. I love. I'm a birthday baby.

1430
01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 3: I'm a reading a story butter her up real good.

1431
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,280
Speaker 1: But I feel like it's in the beginning, y'all. In

1432
01:18:02,360 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 1: the six months eight month range, wait do it?

1433
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:06,080
Speaker 3: Rip it off off?

1434
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:10,560
Speaker 1: Rip it off? Now you need to wait, don't need

1435
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:13,679
Speaker 1: to wait? Okay, So let the girls and the guys

1436
01:18:13,800 --> 01:18:15,720
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Speaker 1: melsgirls dot co dot com. Okay, and what is your sign?

1445
01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 1: I didn't need this. I'm trying to figure out what

1446
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: it gave me. Guess while yes, honey, okay, I don't

1447
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 1: feel like you a water sign. She's gonna be fire signs.

1448
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 1: I don't know which one it is, but somebody just

1449
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 1: just just give it to me. I don't know nothing

1450
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 1: to are you I'll.

1451
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:08,560
Speaker 3: Get she's a spring baby. I'll give you that.

1452
01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 1: Are you ever see you are? I'm a I'm a

1453
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:20,560
Speaker 1: gentle person until you funk with me, and when you

1454
01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come after you. Throat. I was gonna was

1455
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 1: not giving me water sign. But because water sign, people

1456
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Speaker 1: are like very emotional and you just how she is.

1457
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Speaker 1: She just you.

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Speaker 3: Home as a as a as A, as a out.

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Speaker 1: She's very emotional because I'll say something, She's be like real,

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Speaker 1: that's time to me. She would have been like maybe

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Speaker 1: a leo like she wasn't given a given love, but

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Speaker 1: I will. That's that's that's what I said. That's that's

1463
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Speaker 1: LEXP and I have a very special announcement to make now.

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Speaker 1: As you know, we're moving into a whole new studio,

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Speaker 1: were about to have all new everything, so we wanted

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Speaker 1: to hear from y'all. So if you have something you

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Speaker 1: want to get off your chest, something that's bothering you,

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Speaker 1: whatever you want to say, you have suggestions, anything, We

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Speaker 1: are having a segment that we're adding to the show.

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Speaker 1: So what you're gonna do is you're gonna call a

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Speaker 1: number and leave us a voicemail. Now, y'all know all

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Speaker 1: when y'all get long, winning and shit, don't be call

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Speaker 1: leaving no ten minute voicemail and nothing like that. So call,

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Speaker 1: leave us a voicemail. Like I said, if you want

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Speaker 1: to get something off your chest, you have a suggestion

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Speaker 1: for the show. And honestly, y'all can start leaving voicemails

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Speaker 1: right now because I'm trying to figure out what I

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Speaker 1: want to name the segment. You know, me and Dreven

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Speaker 1: brainstorming a little bit. So call this number six seven

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Speaker 1: eight eight two seven one eight two six. That's six

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Speaker 1: seven eight eight two seven one eight two six. And

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Speaker 1: if you leave a good voicemail, you're gonna be featured

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Speaker 1: on Poor Minds. So let us know what we should

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Speaker 1: name the segment. If y'all have any ideas, leave them

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Speaker 1: in the comments below. Talk to y'all soon. All right, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we got males and Ariel we finna kill the shit

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Speaker 1: hit that shit heavier. You know, bought a fan because

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Speaker 1: I always want one. Made a field with them bitches.

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Speaker 1: Ain't no one on one got this watch and this

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Speaker 1: and ain't just one. Got a few chains on, I

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Speaker 1: don't have a way, bought a few houses that I

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Speaker 1: never sleep in way and I can't have saying cars

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Speaker 1: and I would drive away. And when you make it

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Speaker 1: from the bottom, the Charles and one yo, you ready,

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Speaker 1: who're ready? I know this, I know this first Rich

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Speaker 1: Niggas's birth Louis BeO.

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Speaker 2: That ship we outside bottle Fedel because I always wanted

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Speaker 2: one Rich niggas.

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Speaker 1: Bottom brand new rubber driver, like about Wheler, gotta go,

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Speaker 1: hay Be Crystal, shout at your like momy, I won't

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Speaker 1: up the lady.

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Speaker 3: Hey, tuchure, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Let him do background Aria a mass of the better.

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Speaker 1: We'll se y'all next week.