WEBVTT - Thankfully Shady (Minisode)

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to Reasonably Shady.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Gezelle Bryants. What's up? What's up? Everyone?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Robin Dixon. I hope you all had a

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful Thanksgiving holidays. Black Friday, Yes, Super Saturday. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know sither thing. Super Saturday. Yeah, we're gonna go with this.

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<v Speaker 1>Super Saturday sounds good. And there's there's Cyber Monday. Cyber Monday,

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<v Speaker 1>get your discount. Yes, I I'm not. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>Black Friday girl. Oh no, I've right. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>done that, like stood in line at like four in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning at Walmart to get a TV? No, but

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you who does My brother and his

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<v Speaker 1>wife do it not to buy something, not for like

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<v Speaker 1>the discounts. They are excited about like the rush of it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, They're excited to like they want to people.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to be in the midst and they want

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<v Speaker 1>to be trampled. They want to run in to see

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<v Speaker 1>like the nonsense. So it's their tradition. Really. Yes, they

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<v Speaker 1>wait on the parking lot and they wait for the

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<v Speaker 1>stores to be open, and they run in and do

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<v Speaker 1>they buy stuff? They go to side and eat hot

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<v Speaker 1>in hot chocolate, promise you crazy? Do they like laugh

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<v Speaker 1>at the people fighting? Like fighting in the aisles. I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't talk about my brother because he probably want me

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<v Speaker 1>to tell y'all, but yeah, y'all are goofy my brother

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<v Speaker 1>and his wife. You know what, that's so funny. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like I've never done that, but I almost feel like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's something I should experienced once, just as a

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<v Speaker 1>life experience. There's that that we should have experienced. And

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<v Speaker 1>the have you ever been to New York when the

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<v Speaker 1>ball dropped New Year's even New York, I've never done that.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should do it once. I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. Yeah, we can't do it now though why,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Baseball hats on glass, it might be

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<v Speaker 1>a little problematic. I don't know anyway, the housewives outside,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's weird, would be weird. All those you just

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<v Speaker 1>peel like a hat on and okay, good, okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>The people. I'm not a Black Friday girl, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a huge Cyber Monday girl. Yeah, I love Cyber Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the biggest online shopper ever. I might be bigger

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<v Speaker 1>than you. I don't really, yeah, because you always have

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<v Speaker 1>body Yeah, you always have boxes coming to your house.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't go to rob the house, y'all. That doorbell gonna

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<v Speaker 1>ring about fourteen hundreds every fifteen minutes. It's UKs, FedEx, DHL.

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<v Speaker 1>They coming. And I'm like a good like I know

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<v Speaker 1>how to find all the discounts. Yes, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>used my you know, cash rewards cards and you know

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff. I'm getting my promo codes and yes,

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<v Speaker 1>my rewards yes, um so, yes. I love Cyber Monday too,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's kind of sad because I shop for myself

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<v Speaker 1>mostly on Cyber Monday, as you should. Oh so are

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<v Speaker 1>we supposed to be buying for the kids for Christmas? Now? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh kiss for Christmas? Okay, But I'm like, I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't focus on the kids because I see stuff

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<v Speaker 1>I want for myself. There's never been a time. This

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<v Speaker 1>is how terrible I am. This is horrible as a

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<v Speaker 1>mother that I didn't like when I buy stuff for

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<v Speaker 1>my kids. Like, for instance, if I if I'm buying

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<v Speaker 1>my kids like some new tennis shoes or something, here too,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't the only ones getting these gifts? Now? If they

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<v Speaker 1>want like sweatsuits or like some hoodies or something. I

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<v Speaker 1>meant to absolutely as the words you deserve it. I

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<v Speaker 1>totally freaking deserve it. Now. Thanksgiving it was like great,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I got all the food that I told

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<v Speaker 1>you I was gonna order. I slept on all my

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<v Speaker 1>crab legs. It was amazing. And you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>happy that Thanksgiving has morphed into like we're thankful, We're grateful,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what the holiday is about. Yes, because some

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all folks out here, y'all had Thanksgiving dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>you left in a worst place then you came in.

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<v Speaker 1>What no, I was gonna say, because I'm happy we're

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<v Speaker 1>not celebrating Christopher Columbus no more. Oh that too, Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's so funny, like I think about when

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, you know, younger, and in school you

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<v Speaker 1>learn about the the Pilgrims and the Indians, and like

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<v Speaker 1>we really didn't know what. We didn't put two and

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<v Speaker 1>two together. Yes, that this was like problematic that the

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<v Speaker 1>Indians got slaughtered because they don't put that in the books. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just happy we're we're moving away from that history. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean don't. It's wrong that happened. Oh but we're

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<v Speaker 1>not celebrating Christopher Columbus, right, No, we're celebrating just being

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<v Speaker 1>thankful for the things that you know, you have in

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<v Speaker 1>your life, your family, the blessings that you have. But

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<v Speaker 1>like I just remember, like wow, like when you think

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<v Speaker 1>of the imagery, it's just like that's horrible. It's beyond horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>and this country should be giving them a whole lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But on a nothing note, because it was Thanksgiving and

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<v Speaker 1>the families got to gether against robbin. Has never been

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<v Speaker 1>a time where your family got together for for holiday

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<v Speaker 1>and it got so crazy, it went so left that

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<v Speaker 1>it carried on to like Christmas for ever and ever forever. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so I can say my brother and my

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<v Speaker 1>cousin are kind of like oil and water. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>this two men, my brother and then my female cousins.

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<v Speaker 1>They're kind of like oil and water. It doesn't take

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<v Speaker 1>much for my brother to be annoying and irritating and

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<v Speaker 1>for and for my cousin to like be annoyed, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it just you know, like we're you know, we're

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<v Speaker 1>with you know, family, family stuff. It's nothing too bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but just there would be times when it's like, oh Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>like what is it now? Say now, what happened? And

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<v Speaker 1>then my brother is the type like he's he's very antagonistic,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he's just okay, so he's just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>poke the bear, Yeah exactly, exactly, Okay, you know he's

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<v Speaker 1>getting a response. So so, yes, we've definitely had issues

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<v Speaker 1>where it's like, um, I just I can't remember one time,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I just feel like, yes, like those they

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<v Speaker 1>we have an issue with between my brother and my

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<v Speaker 1>cousin and it carried on for like not even just

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<v Speaker 1>till Christmas, probably like for years where like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they just don't barely speak to each other to this day. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they're fine now, they're fine now. But it literally it's

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<v Speaker 1>just so funny how family like you can like really

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<v Speaker 1>hate your family, no question, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like really hate them, but like they're still your family,

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<v Speaker 1>so you like love them and care about them, but

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<v Speaker 1>like you spend time around them whatever. But like there

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<v Speaker 1>can be people in your family that just don't mix

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<v Speaker 1>and there's nothing you can do about it. There's absolutely not,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when there's dynamics of like because you know your

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<v Speaker 1>your core families, your core family, and then you your

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<v Speaker 1>family marries people. That's when it gets ugly. Y. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's always problems. So my this was maybe about ten

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<v Speaker 1>and twelve years ago. I hosted Thanksgiving at my house.

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<v Speaker 1>I had just kind of moved back to um the

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<v Speaker 1>Beesta area from Baltimore, and I hosted. And so my

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<v Speaker 1>kids were kind of young. They were like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>four or five, six is maybe very impressionable, sweet little girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what they are now, but back then

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<v Speaker 1>they were just the sweetest things ever. Okay, so you know, Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 1>it's right before Christmas. Okay, so my brother's family comes over.

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<v Speaker 1>He is older sons. They were all like about to

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<v Speaker 1>eat and like the kids were all together and so

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, on by what, my children start

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<v Speaker 1>coming to me and kind of like whispering to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what are y'all saying? Trying to tell me?

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<v Speaker 1>So they were like he told us about Santa Claus.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like what what? So my nephew told my

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<v Speaker 1>daughters in a private room in my house that Santa

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<v Speaker 1>Claus does not exist. That your mommy and your daddy

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<v Speaker 1>by your Christmas presents, and that's how it was your

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<v Speaker 1>nephew at that time. He is in high school. He's

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<v Speaker 1>he was in high school. Was in high school then, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so he knew better. He did. He did it on purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would say his name, but I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say his name. But he did it on purpose, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and my kids it was funny. My kids were horrified.

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<v Speaker 1>My kids were like what, So did you like say yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>or were you like, don't listen to him? I said,

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<v Speaker 1>he said what so my kids, and for me, exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what he said, and I said, Thanksgiving is over. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>needs to get that get the out. You spoiled Santa

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<v Speaker 1>Claus from my I was spurious. I was like freaking

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, if if I don't want my kids

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<v Speaker 1>to believe in Santa Claus anymore, that's for me, for you,

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<v Speaker 1>not for my bone head, and for you to do

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I was so angry. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it, never again, and y'all can get the hell out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. Okay, wait, so did you let them

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<v Speaker 1>believe like so then? So did you just let it

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<v Speaker 1>go and say, okay, right, Santa Claus doesn't exist, or

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<v Speaker 1>did you like make nothing else. No, I I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Sant Claus doesn't exist to me. That by you, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean Sant class was over in that moment when they

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<v Speaker 1>were five, there's like five six. Yeah. Look, my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>even to this day, they'll be like, we know Santa

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<v Speaker 1>Claus doesn't exist. I said, well, you keep thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>and see if Santa Claus brings you something, and they'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, no, I'm just joking at Santa Claus is real. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>for the record, your kids are too old to Santa Claus.

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<v Speaker 1>For the record, at this point, they just they're just

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<v Speaker 1>playing me. Yes. But but I that Thanksgiving when my

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<v Speaker 1>nephew did that, I was piste off for a very

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<v Speaker 1>long time. I've not hosted Thanksgiving dinner since then, not

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<v Speaker 1>because of that incident, but just because I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need all these people in my house and

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<v Speaker 1>in my space because I don't know what you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say out your mouth. Wow, and you're in my house,

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<v Speaker 1>was talking crazy. And I'm on a television show, which

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<v Speaker 1>I have to deal with that sometimes, so I da't shure,

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do it on my personal time. You

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<v Speaker 1>aren't on a television show that I know. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying now now, I damn sure ain't gonna do that anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'd like to keep my my dinners, my Thanksgiving

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<v Speaker 1>holiday dinners very small. Okay, yes, yeah, I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, And then and then I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that goes back to our last episode where I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had a really big family. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, you don't want that. I mean, don't get

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<v Speaker 1>me wrong, I think family is great, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>doses and doses. Yeah, yeah, and again, you know, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>raises their kids differently, and when kids come to your

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<v Speaker 1>house and they're talking, they're talking reckless about santi claws.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not cool. Now, have you ever had any moments

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<v Speaker 1>in which the food tasted like ship, because listen, let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you something. You've been going to people's houses

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<v Speaker 1>for Thanksgiving and the food is dry, or the food

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like some nastiness. And then you think to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have stayed home, or you think to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have just picked up some Popeye's chicken. Yes, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so okay, don't be mad at me if you hear this.

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<v Speaker 1>But one year, um my cousin, who at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>was a college student and like her college friend, were

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<v Speaker 1>volunteered to make Thanksgiving dinner. Okay, that's that's nice. But

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<v Speaker 1>who said didn't y'all said, okay, so yeah, we we

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<v Speaker 1>at that at that time, we were going over to

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<v Speaker 1>my aunt's house for Thanksgiving dinner. And you know, they said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly's gonna make Kelly and her friend are gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>Thanksgiving dinner. And their mother said, that's that's what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we're working with. Yes, the people who were hostings, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what we're doing for Thanksgiving. This get good. Okay. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so know I was, I was, you know, a little

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<v Speaker 1>a little skeptical a college student cooking Thanksgiving dinner. You

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<v Speaker 1>know you didn't. You didn't. You haven't lived enough life

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<v Speaker 1>to put enough season in in your food yet. So

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<v Speaker 1>so I was already not I was already very skeptical.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we go. But I had a backup plan.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a whole Thanksgiving meal that I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to serve at my house after Okay, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>how did the food taste? Okay, that's your that your

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<v Speaker 1>cousin made, the college kid, so it's okay. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>even have to tell me what it was. I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to say it, but it was not good.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the dishes was green bean casserole like on

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<v Speaker 1>the back of the Campbell suit. Yeah. Yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like with with those crispy onions time. Okay, no shade

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<v Speaker 1>to white people, but that's what white people do. So

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<v Speaker 1>so the college from was white, Okay, Okay, So I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I appreciate the effort. I appreciate somebody taking

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<v Speaker 1>the wheel and saying I'm going to help, but yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not I on thanks, Just did y'all leave because because

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<v Speaker 1>you saw that that was just disgusting? How fast did

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<v Speaker 1>you leave your Yeah, we stayed and we fellowship and

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<v Speaker 1>and and I feel like like like it's like me

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom, Me and my mom and wanting But

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<v Speaker 1>anytime somebody says fellowship, that means they don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be there. Okay, Oh I stayed and I fellowship with people.

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<v Speaker 1>We just yes, we just knew, like because my mother

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<v Speaker 1>is from the South, She's from North Carolina, and and

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<v Speaker 1>she typically, you know what, cook a lott of like

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<v Speaker 1>thanks Giving and Christmas meals and and and my father

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<v Speaker 1>is very peaky with this food, and so I think

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<v Speaker 1>they just knew, like they didn't know what they were

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<v Speaker 1>walking into. And so we arranged to have our own

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<v Speaker 1>little situation, yes, in case of emergency meal. And the

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<v Speaker 1>emergency cracked the bottle like it's just cracked the bottle case,

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<v Speaker 1>mecy crack this, crack the glass. But I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>love them, you know, I love the aft. I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>the effort. But but y'all are wrong for not being

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<v Speaker 1>honest to say this is some ship, this is some

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<v Speaker 1>not good food because she's gonna make it again. We

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<v Speaker 1>haven't had that again. I don't. I don't think anyone's

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<v Speaker 1>letting that happen. And I'm sorry, I will speak up

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<v Speaker 1>if they were. If someone is like, Okay, some and

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<v Speaker 1>so always cooking, please know you could skip the green

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<v Speaker 1>being casserole. You can skip it. Don't don't make that

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<v Speaker 1>off the back of the cable soup. Don't make that.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm also get y'all to stop doing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all of y'all posting y'all's Thanksgiving plates on Instagram? They

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<v Speaker 1>look nasty, look like a bunch of mush. Stop posting

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<v Speaker 1>y'all look likes giving plate on Instagram look like a

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<v Speaker 1>jailhouse meal talking about Yeah, it's gonna go down. I

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<v Speaker 1>put my foot nets. No, it's it looks like mush.

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<v Speaker 1>Some somebody threw up slops. Listen, stop doing that. Stop

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<v Speaker 1>posting these pictures. They don't look right. No, No, So,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm gonna need y'all next year because y'all blew

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<v Speaker 1>it this Thanksgiving because y'all was posting that nasty as ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Next year, do not post any Thanksgiving food pictures. No,

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<v Speaker 1>unless it's like a cake, Yes, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to see a plate full of stuff. Yeah. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like on top of each other, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>like like you're literally about to eat fifty pounds of food. Rights, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>who are you barbarians? Y'all are barbarians. Y'all have a

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<v Speaker 1>little plate and it's a mound of food. Y'all are

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<v Speaker 1>greedy cook. God, we gotta get out of here, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>because this is just back to shot. Let's get back

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<v Speaker 1>to shopping, all right, I'm going back. Yes, it's cyber Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>Get your cyber Monday. And thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>listening to reasonably shady. This is, you know, we just

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<v Speaker 1>want to come in here today and just say Happy Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you're enjoying your family or you enjoyed your

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<v Speaker 1>family over the past long weekend. We love y'all. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>be back next week. Don't forget to live your life,

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