1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to Reasonably Shady. 3 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: My name is Gezelle Bryants. What's up? What's up? Everyone? 4 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. I hope you all had a 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: wonderful Thanksgiving holidays. Black Friday, Yes, Super Saturday. I don't 6 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: know sither thing. Super Saturday. Yeah, we're gonna go with this. 7 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: Super Saturday sounds good. And there's there's Cyber Monday. Cyber Monday, 8 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: get your discount. Yes, I I'm not. I'm not a 9 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: Black Friday girl. Oh no, I've right. Have you ever 10 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: done that, like stood in line at like four in 11 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: the morning at Walmart to get a TV? No, but 12 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: let me tell you who does My brother and his 13 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: wife do it not to buy something, not for like 14 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: the discounts. They are excited about like the rush of it, 15 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: all right, They're excited to like they want to people. 16 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: They want to be in the midst and they want 17 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: to be trampled. They want to run in to see 18 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: like the nonsense. So it's their tradition. Really. Yes, they 19 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: wait on the parking lot and they wait for the 20 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: stores to be open, and they run in and do 21 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: they buy stuff? They go to side and eat hot 22 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: in hot chocolate, promise you crazy? Do they like laugh 23 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: at the people fighting? Like fighting in the aisles. I 24 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: shouldn't talk about my brother because he probably want me 25 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: to tell y'all, but yeah, y'all are goofy my brother 26 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: and his wife. You know what, that's so funny. It's 27 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: like I've never done that, but I almost feel like 28 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: maybe that's something I should experienced once, just as a 29 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: life experience. There's that that we should have experienced. And 30 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: the have you ever been to New York when the 31 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: ball dropped New Year's even New York, I've never done that. 32 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: I feel like you should do it once. I agree, 33 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: I agree. Yeah, we can't do it now though why, 34 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. Baseball hats on glass, it might be 35 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: a little problematic. I don't know anyway, the housewives outside, 36 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: but it's weird, would be weird. All those you just 37 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: peel like a hat on and okay, good, okay, all right. 38 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: The people. I'm not a Black Friday girl, but I'm 39 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: a huge Cyber Monday girl. Yeah, I love Cyber Monday. 40 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: I'm the biggest online shopper ever. I might be bigger 41 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 1: than you. I don't really, yeah, because you always have 42 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: body Yeah, you always have boxes coming to your house. 43 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: Don't go to rob the house, y'all. That doorbell gonna 44 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: ring about fourteen hundreds every fifteen minutes. It's UKs, FedEx, DHL. 45 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: They coming. And I'm like a good like I know 46 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: how to find all the discounts. Yes, you know, I 47 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: used my you know, cash rewards cards and you know 48 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: all that stuff. I'm getting my promo codes and yes, 49 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: my rewards yes, um so, yes. I love Cyber Monday too, 50 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: but it's kind of sad because I shop for myself 51 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: mostly on Cyber Monday, as you should. Oh so are 52 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: we supposed to be buying for the kids for Christmas? Now? Yeah? 53 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: Oh kiss for Christmas? Okay, But I'm like, I can't. 54 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: I can't focus on the kids because I see stuff 55 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: I want for myself. There's never been a time. This 56 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: is how terrible I am. This is horrible as a 57 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: mother that I didn't like when I buy stuff for 58 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: my kids. Like, for instance, if I if I'm buying 59 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: my kids like some new tennis shoes or something, here too, 60 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 1: ain't the only ones getting these gifts? Now? If they 61 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: want like sweatsuits or like some hoodies or something. I 62 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: meant to absolutely as the words you deserve it. I 63 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: totally freaking deserve it. Now. Thanksgiving it was like great, 64 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: you know, I got all the food that I told 65 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: you I was gonna order. I slept on all my 66 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: crab legs. It was amazing. And you know what, I'm 67 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: happy that Thanksgiving has morphed into like we're thankful, We're grateful, 68 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: and that's what the holiday is about. Yes, because some 69 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: of y'all folks out here, y'all had Thanksgiving dinner and 70 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: you left in a worst place then you came in. 71 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: What no, I was gonna say, because I'm happy we're 72 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: not celebrating Christopher Columbus no more. Oh that too, Yes, yes, yes, 73 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: you know it's so funny, like I think about when 74 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: we were like, you know, younger, and in school you 75 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: learn about the the Pilgrims and the Indians, and like 76 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: we really didn't know what. We didn't put two and 77 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: two together. Yes, that this was like problematic that the 78 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: Indians got slaughtered because they don't put that in the books. Yeah, 79 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: So I'm just happy we're we're moving away from that history. Yes, 80 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: I mean don't. It's wrong that happened. Oh but we're 81 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: not celebrating Christopher Columbus, right, No, we're celebrating just being 82 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: thankful for the things that you know, you have in 83 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: your life, your family, the blessings that you have. But 84 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: like I just remember, like wow, like when you think 85 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: of the imagery, it's just like that's horrible. It's beyond horrible, 86 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 1: and this country should be giving them a whole lot. 87 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: But on a nothing note, because it was Thanksgiving and 88 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: the families got to gether against robbin. Has never been 89 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: a time where your family got together for for holiday 90 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: and it got so crazy, it went so left that 91 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: it carried on to like Christmas for ever and ever forever. Yes, 92 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: I mean, so I can say my brother and my 93 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: cousin are kind of like oil and water. So it's 94 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: this two men, my brother and then my female cousins. 95 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: They're kind of like oil and water. It doesn't take 96 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: much for my brother to be annoying and irritating and 97 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: for and for my cousin to like be annoyed, and 98 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: then it just you know, like we're you know, we're 99 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: with you know, family, family stuff. It's nothing too bad, 100 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: but just there would be times when it's like, oh Lord, 101 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: like what is it now? Say now, what happened? And 102 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: then my brother is the type like he's he's very antagonistic, 103 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: you know, he's just okay, so he's just trying to 104 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: poke the bear, Yeah exactly, exactly, Okay, you know he's 105 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: getting a response. So so, yes, we've definitely had issues 106 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: where it's like, um, I just I can't remember one time, 107 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: I don't. I just feel like, yes, like those they 108 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: we have an issue with between my brother and my 109 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: cousin and it carried on for like not even just 110 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: till Christmas, probably like for years where like you know, 111 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: they just don't barely speak to each other to this day. Well, no, 112 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: they're fine now, they're fine now. But it literally it's 113 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: just so funny how family like you can like really 114 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: hate your family, no question, you know what I mean, 115 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,119 Speaker 1: like really hate them, but like they're still your family, 116 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: so you like love them and care about them, but 117 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: like you spend time around them whatever. But like there 118 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: can be people in your family that just don't mix 119 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: and there's nothing you can do about it. There's absolutely not, 120 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: especially when there's dynamics of like because you know your 121 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: your core families, your core family, and then you your 122 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 1: family marries people. That's when it gets ugly. Y. Yeah, 123 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 1: that's always problems. So my this was maybe about ten 124 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,559 Speaker 1: and twelve years ago. I hosted Thanksgiving at my house. 125 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: I had just kind of moved back to um the 126 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: Beesta area from Baltimore, and I hosted. And so my 127 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: kids were kind of young. They were like, you know, 128 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: four or five, six is maybe very impressionable, sweet little girls. 129 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what they are now, but back then 130 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: they were just the sweetest things ever. Okay, so you know, Thanksgiving, 131 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: it's right before Christmas. Okay, so my brother's family comes over. 132 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: He is older sons. They were all like about to 133 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: eat and like the kids were all together and so 134 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,119 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, on by what, my children start 135 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: coming to me and kind of like whispering to me, 136 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: and I'm like, what are y'all saying? Trying to tell me? 137 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: So they were like he told us about Santa Claus. 138 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: I was like what what? So my nephew told my 139 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: daughters in a private room in my house that Santa 140 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,559 Speaker 1: Claus does not exist. That your mommy and your daddy 141 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: by your Christmas presents, and that's how it was your 142 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: nephew at that time. He is in high school. He's 143 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: he was in high school. Was in high school then, yeah, 144 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: so he knew better. He did. He did it on purpose. 145 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: And I would say his name, but I'm not gonna 146 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: say his name. But he did it on purpose, okay, 147 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: and my kids it was funny. My kids were horrified. 148 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: My kids were like what, So did you like say yeah, okay, 149 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: or were you like, don't listen to him? I said, 150 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: he said what so my kids, and for me, exactly 151 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: what he said, and I said, Thanksgiving is over. Everybody 152 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: needs to get that get the out. You spoiled Santa 153 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: Claus from my I was spurious. I was like freaking 154 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: because I'm like, if if I don't want my kids 155 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: to believe in Santa Claus anymore, that's for me, for you, 156 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: not for my bone head, and for you to do 157 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was so angry. I was like, 158 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: that's it, never again, and y'all can get the hell out. 159 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, wait, so did you let them 160 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 1: believe like so then? So did you just let it 161 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: go and say, okay, right, Santa Claus doesn't exist, or 162 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: did you like make nothing else. No, I I said, yeah, 163 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: Sant Claus doesn't exist to me. That by you, I 164 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: mean Sant class was over in that moment when they 165 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: were five, there's like five six. Yeah. Look, my kids, 166 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: even to this day, they'll be like, we know Santa 167 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: Claus doesn't exist. I said, well, you keep thinking that 168 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: and see if Santa Claus brings you something, and they'd 169 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: be like, no, I'm just joking at Santa Claus is real. Okay, 170 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: for the record, your kids are too old to Santa Claus. 171 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: For the record, at this point, they just they're just 172 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: playing me. Yes. But but I that Thanksgiving when my 173 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: nephew did that, I was piste off for a very 174 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: long time. I've not hosted Thanksgiving dinner since then, not 175 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: because of that incident, but just because I was just like, 176 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: I don't need all these people in my house and 177 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: in my space because I don't know what you're gonna 178 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: say out your mouth. Wow, and you're in my house, 179 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: was talking crazy. And I'm on a television show, which 180 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: I have to deal with that sometimes, so I da't shure, 181 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: don't want to do it on my personal time. You 182 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: aren't on a television show that I know. But I'm 183 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: saying now now, I damn sure ain't gonna do that anyway. 184 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: So I'd like to keep my my dinners, my Thanksgiving 185 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: holiday dinners very small. Okay, yes, yeah, I get that. 186 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: I get that, And then and then I feel like 187 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: that goes back to our last episode where I was like, 188 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: I wish I had a really big family. Yeah, and 189 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: you're like, you don't want that. I mean, don't get 190 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: me wrong, I think family is great, but you know, 191 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: doses and doses. Yeah, yeah, and again, you know, everybody 192 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 1: raises their kids differently, and when kids come to your 193 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 1: house and they're talking, they're talking reckless about santi claws. 194 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: That's not cool. Now, have you ever had any moments 195 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: in which the food tasted like ship, because listen, let 196 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: me tell you something. You've been going to people's houses 197 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving and the food is dry, or the food 198 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: it's just like some nastiness. And then you think to yourself, 199 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: I could have stayed home, or you think to yourself, 200 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: I could have just picked up some Popeye's chicken. Yes, yes, okay, 201 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: so okay, don't be mad at me if you hear this. 202 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: But one year, um my cousin, who at the time, 203 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 1: was a college student and like her college friend, were 204 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: volunteered to make Thanksgiving dinner. Okay, that's that's nice. But 205 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: who said didn't y'all said, okay, so yeah, we we 206 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: at that at that time, we were going over to 207 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: my aunt's house for Thanksgiving dinner. And you know, they said, oh, 208 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: Kelly's gonna make Kelly and her friend are gonna make 209 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner. And their mother said, that's that's what we're doing. 210 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: That's what we're working with. Yes, the people who were hostings, Okay, 211 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: this is what we're doing for Thanksgiving. This get good. Okay. So, 212 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: so know I was, I was, you know, a little 213 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: a little skeptical a college student cooking Thanksgiving dinner. You 214 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: know you didn't. You didn't. You haven't lived enough life 215 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: to put enough season in in your food yet. So 216 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: so I was already not I was already very skeptical. 217 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: So you know, we go. But I had a backup plan. 218 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 1: I had a whole Thanksgiving meal that I was going 219 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: to serve at my house after Okay, wait a minute, 220 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: how did the food taste? Okay, that's your that your 221 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: cousin made, the college kid, so it's okay. You don't 222 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: even have to tell me what it was. I am. 223 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: I hate to say it, but it was not good. 224 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: One of the dishes was green bean casserole like on 225 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: the back of the Campbell suit. Yeah. Yeah, I was 226 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 1: like with with those crispy onions time. Okay, no shade 227 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: to white people, but that's what white people do. So 228 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 1: so the college from was white, Okay, Okay, So I like, 229 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I appreciate the effort. I appreciate somebody taking 230 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: the wheel and saying I'm going to help, but yeah, no, 231 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: not I on thanks, Just did y'all leave because because 232 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,680 Speaker 1: you saw that that was just disgusting? How fast did 233 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: you leave your Yeah, we stayed and we fellowship and 234 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: and and I feel like like like it's like me 235 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 1: and my mom, Me and my mom and wanting But 236 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: anytime somebody says fellowship, that means they don't want to 237 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: be there. Okay, Oh I stayed and I fellowship with people. 238 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: We just yes, we just knew, like because my mother 239 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: is from the South, She's from North Carolina, and and 240 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 1: she typically, you know what, cook a lott of like 241 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: thanks Giving and Christmas meals and and and my father 242 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: is very peaky with this food, and so I think 243 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: they just knew, like they didn't know what they were 244 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: walking into. And so we arranged to have our own 245 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: little situation, yes, in case of emergency meal. And the 246 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 1: emergency cracked the bottle like it's just cracked the bottle case, 247 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: mecy crack this, crack the glass. But I mean, I 248 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: love them, you know, I love the aft. I appreciate 249 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: the effort. But but y'all are wrong for not being 250 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: honest to say this is some ship, this is some 251 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: not good food because she's gonna make it again. We 252 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: haven't had that again. I don't. I don't think anyone's 253 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: letting that happen. And I'm sorry, I will speak up 254 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: if they were. If someone is like, Okay, some and 255 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: so always cooking, please know you could skip the green 256 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: being casserole. You can skip it. Don't don't make that 257 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: off the back of the cable soup. Don't make that. 258 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: This is what I'm also get y'all to stop doing. Okay, 259 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: all of y'all posting y'all's Thanksgiving plates on Instagram? They 260 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: look nasty, look like a bunch of mush. Stop posting 261 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: y'all look likes giving plate on Instagram look like a 262 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: jailhouse meal talking about Yeah, it's gonna go down. I 263 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: put my foot nets. No, it's it looks like mush. 264 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: Some somebody threw up slops. Listen, stop doing that. Stop 265 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: posting these pictures. They don't look right. No, No, So, 266 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna need y'all next year because y'all blew 267 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 1: it this Thanksgiving because y'all was posting that nasty as ship. 268 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: Next year, do not post any Thanksgiving food pictures. No, 269 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 1: unless it's like a cake, Yes, but I don't want 270 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: to see a plate full of stuff. Yeah. Yeah, And 271 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: and it's like on top of each other, like you're 272 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: like like you're literally about to eat fifty pounds of food. Rights, Like, 273 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: who are you barbarians? Y'all are barbarians. Y'all have a 274 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: little plate and it's a mound of food. Y'all are 275 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: greedy cook. God, we gotta get out of here, y'all 276 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: because this is just back to shot. Let's get back 277 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: to shopping, all right, I'm going back. Yes, it's cyber Monday. 278 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: Get your cyber Monday. And thank you so much for 279 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: listening to reasonably shady. This is, you know, we just 280 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: want to come in here today and just say Happy Thanksgiving. 281 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: I hope you're enjoying your family or you enjoyed your 282 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: family over the past long weekend. 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