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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all.

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Speaker 3: At all at all, So.

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Speaker 4: Don't given them back the bus buss.

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Speaker 5: Listening to me, I don't join.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joy.

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Speaker 6: Show. You got to use that.

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Speaker 3: Turn you love, You.

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Speaker 8: I got to turn the mouth.

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Speaker 1: The turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out,

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Speaker 1: then up looking.

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Speaker 6: Come come on you.

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Speaker 4: All right, huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're

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Speaker 4: listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one

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Speaker 4: and all that Steve Harvey man oh man, got a

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Speaker 4: radio show.

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Speaker 9: Me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, trying to make it work too. I'm not trying.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting it. I'm getting it done to the best

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Speaker 4: of my abilities.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: Something funny my father taught me. He said, so when

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Speaker 4: you've done all you can do, if you've done your

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Speaker 4: absolute best and you look up and it didn't get

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Speaker 4: the job done, take a deep breath and do some more.

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Speaker 4: That used to bug me, man, when my father used

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Speaker 4: to tell me.

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Speaker 2: That is the son.

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Speaker 4: When you've done your absolute best and you think you

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Speaker 4: can't do no more. You've done all you can and

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Speaker 4: it still don't get the job done, take yourself a

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Speaker 4: deep breath.

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Speaker 2: And do some more.

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Speaker 4: And you know what I found that has worked every

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Speaker 4: single time, every single time, because what my father knew

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Speaker 4: was that what you think is your breaking point or

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Speaker 4: what you think is your all in all, he says, son,

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Speaker 4: it's just something about it. Man, if you just gather yourself,

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Speaker 4: you got a little bit more. Everybody got some more.

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Speaker 4: And you know, I gotta be honest with you. It

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Speaker 4: has worked.

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Speaker 2: It has helped me greatly, and you know it, everybody

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Speaker 2: does have some more.

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Speaker 10: You know.

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Speaker 4: I tell that to my sons all the time. Dad,

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Speaker 4: I did my best. Well, let me ask you something else.

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Speaker 4: Could you have done anything else?

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Speaker 2: Could you have.

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Speaker 4: Studied a little harder, Could you have shown up a

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Speaker 4: little bit earlier, could you stayed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well then okay, that's what you should have done.

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Speaker 4: Then see, there's always a way. But if you're going

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Speaker 4: to create excuses, if you're gonna make them up all

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Speaker 4: the time about why you don't get it done, I

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Speaker 4: have a very, very sad a statement for you right now.

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Speaker 4: You're never gonna get anything done. You're never gonna get

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Speaker 4: to the top.

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Speaker 2: Not to the top.

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Speaker 4: You can get halfway up. Now, you can get a

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Speaker 4: The top is only reserved for those that have the

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Speaker 2: It's just the top. There ain't but one top, then

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Speaker 10: You know?

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Speaker 2: The top, the top of the mountain halfway is.

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Speaker 4: A different view. At the top, things look different from

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Speaker 4: it is, you got to do extra.

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Speaker 11: You have to do more.

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Speaker 4: More is expected of you. More, but his is what's

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Speaker 4: really crazy. More is required of you. Don't live your

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Speaker 4: Na man have a say so in your life.

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Speaker 4: First of all, let me ask you something. Who has God?

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Speaker 4: Name the person that God has given authority over you.

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Speaker 4: letting people who do not know direct your path? Why

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Speaker 4: news flash, they don't know either. All these people that

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Speaker 2: Answers for, they need answers to stop. What are you

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Speaker 4: You have one source that will be there for you

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Speaker 4: to the end of time, and that is your relationship

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Speaker 4: with God. That is the one thing that's solid and

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Speaker 4: for show. He's behind the wall. He's in your jail cell.

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Speaker 4: He rides with you in the police car. He's with

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Speaker 4: He helps you. He's there to assist you. He show

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Speaker 4: guide you to your next job. When you lose your

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Speaker 4: behind it. Man, God is always working on your behalf.

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Speaker 4: To those that believe, you, just gotta believe. He don't

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Speaker 4: ask you for nothing else.

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Speaker 2: Believe in me. That's all He asks you to do.

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Speaker 2: What you're tripping for.

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Speaker 4: Man, And then when you make the decision to believe

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Speaker 4: in Him, and it comes out your mouth from time

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Speaker 2: Somewhere what you're worried about, what people say, what you're

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Speaker 2: worried about, what they think for? Why who are they?

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Speaker 4: They need God to you telling them you found something

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Speaker 4: new that you're gonna give this a shot right here now.

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Speaker 4: They got some yang ying yang and some yak ofy

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Speaker 4: yak to say about that when they need God too.

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Speaker 4: That's what amazes me, man about people sit up in here, man,

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Speaker 4: be knocking your dream and stuff. Look, if you're an atheist, man,

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Speaker 4: do your thing, do your thing. But you can't create

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Speaker 4: no laws. Why I can't do mine? That don't make

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Speaker 4: You have the right to go be whatever you want

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Speaker 4: to be. You know, if you don't you don't like

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Speaker 4: the fact that I'm in school, got my head bowed down,

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Speaker 4: and I'm saying a prayer for I take this test.

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Speaker 4: Just don't buy your head. Don't you pray. But if

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Speaker 4: That's what happened in our schools. We took prayer out

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Speaker 4: That's a whole nother thing right here. That's not what

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Speaker 4: relationship with God is essential to your success as a person.

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Speaker 4: It's essential to your existence. It's essential to where you're

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Speaker 4: trying to go and what you're trying to be. Because

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Speaker 4: He made you. Why would you not talk to the

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Speaker 4: Why would you not talk to your maker to see

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Speaker 4: If you're sitting and gotten yourself in a situation. You

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Speaker 4: doing some time, man, be a good time for you

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Speaker 4: to refle But whatever your situation is, man, God can

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Speaker 4: You just got a touch base with him. I need

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Speaker 4: God every single day of my life. And what He's

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Speaker 4: he'll do the same thing for you.

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Speaker 1: You're listening.

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Speaker 4: Show, ladies and gentlemen. It is upon us the arrival

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Speaker 4: of a new day is hell. The Lord has blessed

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Speaker 4: us to come along. We're our great fault, were our respectful,

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Speaker 4: and we are ever watchful. I for one, would like

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Speaker 4: I am in B steel mode today all the way

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Speaker 4: in a position where I just got to let God

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Speaker 4: handle this one. It's bigger than me. So I'm in

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Speaker 4: B steel mode. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Sherley Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Don't move, Steve, be still good morning calling for real.

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Speaker 3: That's right, Peace, be still, good morning? What up?

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Speaker 2: Junior?

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Speaker 3: Oh, blessed and hoighly favorite movie in the right direction.

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Speaker 2: If you tell me yes, sah, peace be steel. Wait on,

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Speaker 4: I ain't gonna tell you know, because you want to

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Speaker 4: but you a long time smite at them, know you

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Speaker 2: Over by the bush. You know.

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Speaker 4: You know your hand, you know how you break your

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Speaker 4: both your wrists.

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Speaker 3: Stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: You know, his head, his head want to be.

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Speaker 1: You're weighing on him to bless you. Remember I am.

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Speaker 4: I was just you know, That's why I was saying.

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Speaker 4: This is why I don't do that other stuff. I

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Speaker 2: I get the feeling that you are not one of

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Speaker 2: these people that pray for your enemies.

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Speaker 7: You're not.

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Speaker 2: You don't do that.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm not at that level of Christianity. I don't

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Speaker 4: that's gonna happen. Yeah, to do with it sixty Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You're talking about it.

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Speaker 4: Advanced Christianity, basic Christianity, you know basic Christianity four five

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Speaker 4: That not.

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Speaker 2: No basic is like you know stuff like you know,

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Speaker 2: doing to others as you would have and do unto you.

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Speaker 1: Ye love your enemies.

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Speaker 4: Now that that's the little that's that's what you're getting

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Speaker 4: into advance. Now once you thees in there, that's advanced.

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Speaker 5: Christian you know, you to pray for you.

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Speaker 4: I shall cover with thy neighbor's wife. Then I can stay.

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Speaker 4: I can drown it that when I do that, you know,

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Speaker 4: but you know I should not kill that that basic

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Speaker 4: I'm good with that one. I ain't got to kill nobody.

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Speaker 12: You know.

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Speaker 2: But now you know all you turn the chain, Oh no,

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Speaker 2: that's advanced. That's me.

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Speaker 1: You're asking him.

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Speaker 2: Strong hold on, hold school right all your life a PhD.

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Speaker 2: Right there, listen, I'm still doing one old walk.

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Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 9: right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening.

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Speaker 9: Morning show, all right, and it's time now to start

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Speaker 9: What you got for his nest?

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Speaker 10: This right here is stolen car. Stolen car, cat dog

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Speaker 10: if you would. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a

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Speaker 10: Trevor please.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's name, sir.

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Speaker 10: You purchased a Navy blue from a used car lot

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe six or seven months ago, am

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Speaker 6: Right? It was six months ago?

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Speaker 10: Now you've been paying notes on this car, I know,

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Speaker 10: is Detective Justin, and I'm giving you a call to

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Speaker 10: let you know that the actual vehicle, this two thousand

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Speaker 10: and one Navy Blue that you purchased, is actually.

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Speaker 2: A stolen vehicle.

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Speaker 10: And we've actually been looking for this car for the

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Speaker 10: this I work in the auto theft division. And hold on,

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Speaker 10: who Detective Justin, sir, and I'm in the auto theft

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Speaker 13: Hold on, I think you got the wrong I think

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Speaker 10: Was it No, sir, it's it's it's And I've done

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Speaker 10: a shock to you, but we're right on point with

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Speaker 10: blue You did buy it. You did buy it at

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Speaker 6: And uh.

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Speaker 10: I know this is a bit of a shock to you,

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Speaker 10: did not know that. I know that it was not

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Speaker 13: And no, no, I think you got the wrong first,

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Speaker 13: because this car is not stolen for real.

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Speaker 6: This is sir.

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Speaker 10: I can go all day with you and try to

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Speaker 10: it's probably some some blurry information that's not clear to you,

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Speaker 10: I am gonna have to either get someone to come

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Speaker 2: It or you.

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Speaker 13: No, no, I think y'all might need to go back

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Speaker 6: It's sir.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you once and I'm gonna tell you again.

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Speaker 2: You have a car that's stolen that I have to

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Speaker 6: Now, can't the end of the day? For real?

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Speaker 10: Man, you got, sir, you have a stolen car and

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Speaker 10: you're gonna need to bring that car into the police

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Speaker 13: For real, man, hold on, let me talk about this.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 13: I don't know the all that she's telling me.

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Speaker 10: For real, Sir, I understand what you're saying, but do

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Speaker 2: I am detective. I am detective justin.

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Speaker 3: I am who you are.

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Speaker 6: Man. I'm told them is.

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Speaker 2: No longer, sir.

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Speaker 10: We've had to actually shut them down for the time

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Speaker 10: I've got more than just your vehicle, sir, that's been

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Speaker 10: that that has auto theft tied to it. There's two things.

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Speaker 10: Either you're gonna bring it to me or I'm gonna

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Speaker 10: come get it now. Which one do you want to do?

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Speaker 13: You ain't coming to get for real, sir.

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Speaker 10: I don't want to have this to have to get

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Speaker 10: go to a level of where it doesn't need to be.

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Speaker 10: But I need to get that car in my possession.

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Speaker 13: Okay, look, look, look, listen while I'm telling you. Okay,

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Speaker 13: are you listening.

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Speaker 2: I'm listening, sir.

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Speaker 13: Okay, look from.

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Speaker 14: This, somebody gonna tay me my three hundred seventy fifty

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Speaker 14: two cents I've been paying for the last six months

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Speaker 14: unless you're gonna play me that give me back my

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Speaker 13: Get this, man, I ain't out here what you're talking

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Speaker 13: about for real? Now you're coming at me with man,

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Speaker 13: I worked too hard to be keeping up seat notes

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Speaker 13: like here, man, I got that? Am I ready to

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Speaker 13: take care? Are you coming to talk about? You tuldn't

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Speaker 13: take my car because something that happened before I part

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Speaker 13: and what I don't even know this is true? Like

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Speaker 13: I said, I thank you missing. I think you've got

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Speaker 13: me mixed over with somebody else. What y'all just not

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Speaker 13: coming in me talking this. I ain't heard nothing about

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Speaker 10: Sure, it's taking us a while to actually track down

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Speaker 10: I've tracked this car so for the last eight nine

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Speaker 10: months and I finally found that you are the one

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Speaker 10: that's actually has it in your possession.

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Speaker 2: It happens all the time.

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Speaker 10: It's an unlikely situation, but I got to get you

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Speaker 10: to bring it in, and I'm I ain't bring it, you.

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Speaker 13: Know what I mean, I ain't bringing y'all got coming

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Speaker 13: to get from me that somebody give me my three

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Speaker 13: the last six month, trusting my back.

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Speaker 2: Sure, I'm sure you're probably long gone by now. It's

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Speaker 2: probably that's what I'm something.

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Speaker 13: Okay, then then y'all can need at least just come

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Speaker 6: Come with the money.

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Speaker 13: I just don't get another rossing somewhere else, sir.

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Speaker 10: I'm not I can't sit here and negotiate with you.

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Speaker 10: I'm just a detective on this actual case. And I

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Speaker 10: know it's a trying situation, but I am going to

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Speaker 10: have to send some officers out there that that do

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Speaker 2: They pick up these cars and bring them into the

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Speaker 2: I wish you would.

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Speaker 13: Send somebody out here to get my car. And if

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Speaker 13: you can't, and okay with me, you need to find

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Speaker 13: somebody can no.

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Speaker 6: You know, you bring somebody out here if you want to.

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Speaker 13: I don't bring somebody. I got something I don't like to.

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Speaker 14: Man, I'm walking a breatship hunt up in all the

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Speaker 14: time the cat of State and they took man.

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Speaker 13: I'm working through out and try to get this car. Man,

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Speaker 13: So bring out here if you want to for real.

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Speaker 2: Sure, hush, sure, sir, come, I gotta get you calm down.

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Speaker 2: I mean call me.

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Speaker 13: You told me about my car stoning, and y'all talking

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Speaker 6: Get it from me.

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Speaker 10: I know this is a surprise, and I understand that.

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Speaker 10: And you got a great you got an honest living,

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Speaker 10: an honest job. I understand that. But some people have

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Speaker 10: done some dishonest things. And that's what's happened here. Somebody myself.

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Speaker 13: That my problem right there. That ain't the problem with

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Speaker 13: when I.

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Speaker 6: First got it.

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Speaker 13: Write for a problem now I'm not understanding that. All

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Speaker 13: I'm saying is with my car. I'm gonna y'all, look,

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Speaker 13: that's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I don't want to go any further.

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Speaker 2: Can I say one more thing than you can?

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Speaker 6: I do that?

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Speaker 10: What this is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mornings Show.

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Speaker 10: You just got pranked by your cousin Eric. This is

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: All right, man, let me ask you something.

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Speaker 10: You gotta tell me, baby, what's the baddest radio show

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Speaker 13: Man, It's that Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: All right, nephew, thank you coming up next week, you

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Speaker 9: asked the Chief Love Officer. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: All right, guys, time out for us the c l O.

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Speaker 9: This one is from Kim and Detroit. Kim writes, I

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Speaker 9: need your honest opinion about my man. I'm not an

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Speaker 9: insecure woman at all, So I don't mind that my

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Speaker 9: him at the swingers club that he works in. I

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Speaker 9: telling him I was coming, and I walked up on

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Speaker 9: him kissing a female at the bar. He turned bright

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Speaker 9: red when he saw me. He said, it's part of

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Speaker 9: his job as bartender to entice women to get more drinks.

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Speaker 9: Is it wrong to get mad if he's swinging at

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Speaker 9: work without me knowing it.

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Speaker 1: Wow, fellow, you.

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Speaker 4: And a relationship with a dude that you met at

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Speaker 4: the swingers club. Let me ask you something. When you

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Speaker 4: met him at the swingers Club, wasn't he in there swinging?

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Speaker 5: Hollywood?

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Speaker 2: So I'll give a damn if he do work there.

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Speaker 2: If you work there, you a swinger.

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Speaker 4: Ain't nobody at know swingers club watching all this activity

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Speaker 4: going and you ain't trying to participate. They don't pay

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Speaker 4: this due at the bar to kiss women to get

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Speaker 4: them to buy more drinks. You ain't got to do

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Speaker 4: that at the swingers club who? And they ain't drinking

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Speaker 4: who at the swingers club?

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Speaker 2: Ain't kissing.

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Speaker 8: Everybody in there?

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Speaker 2: Kissing and drinking.

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Speaker 4: That's what you're going hoping that lead to. Mo I

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Speaker 4: don't even understand what you're talking about. Am I wrong

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Speaker 4: for getting mad at your man swinging without telling me

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Speaker 4: he was in that swinging for you met him.

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Speaker 2: I'll give a damn what.

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Speaker 13: His job is.

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Speaker 4: If you take tickets at the door, why would you

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Speaker 4: get the job at the Swingers Club taking tickets at

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Speaker 4: the door if you weren't interested in a swinging.

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Speaker 2: You work at the strip club? Because you like strippers.

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Speaker 4: Okay, ain't nobody going down to Magic City talking about man? Hey,

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Speaker 4: you got any openings off for him? Anybody want to

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Speaker 4: fry broccoli?

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Speaker 2: What you're doing there for?

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Speaker 4: Don't so?

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, Come on lady, come on. Your man

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Speaker 2: is a swing?

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 2: You a swing?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 9: Thank you?

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Speaker 2: Sw sw he's swaying.

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Speaker 6: Oh.

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Speaker 10: I don't know what to tell you, man, And the

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Speaker 10: words of my grandmama, I'm with you when you're right,

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Speaker 10: all right?

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Speaker 13: Uh.

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Speaker 9: Moving on to Jasmine, who's a podcast listener, she says,

451
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 9: I've been dating a man for seven months and he's

452
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,959
Speaker 9: really sweet normally, but I don't know what's happened to him.

453
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 9: Last weekend. He treated me to a Mother's Day dinner

454
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 9: on Sunday and he bought the sandals I asked for.

455
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 9: The Only problem is he got a size nine and

456
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 9: I wear a seven. And later that night he did

457
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 9: stuff he'd never done to me sexually, and I didn't

458
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 9: like it. I think he's got a big foot side

459
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 9: piece that's freakiered and I am.

460
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 2: Come on nine because he was thinking about something. What size?

461
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 2: You want to give me a nine?

462
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 4: If she don't want it, I got somewhere to take it,

463
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 4: ye man, Yeah, yeah, yeah, she did something to you

464
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 4: and then you ain't like it.

465
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's somebody else. You wear a seven and he

466
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 2: bought a nine.

467
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can look at that shoe and no, that's

468
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 4: a big difference between seventy and nine. That'd be like

469
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 4: me sitting up at the shoe star talking about sir,

470
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 4: what size you want? Oh excuse me, bro, bro, you

471
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 4: want to eight?

472
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: And nothing?

473
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 9: No?

474
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: I got no nothing on my foot? Say eight? My

475
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: foot so big? It looked like I got eight big toes?

476
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 6: Like what?

477
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 7: Yeah?

478
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 2: All right?

479
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 5: So she should she ask him?

480
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 2: Is the question?

481
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 5: What should she do?

482
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 2: Ask him? You think he gonna tell you?

483
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 6: Right?

484
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 9: What?

485
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 2: What search do your homewor might if it is volunteer?

486
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 2: No information for y'all? What makes them think? What should

487
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 2: I asked him? Is he seeing somebody else? Yeah?

488
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah you know no, no, ye go ask him. Yeah,

489
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 4: I promise you he's gonna say no. I told the

490
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 4: man four seven. I ain't checked the side nine.

491
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, what about why are you cheating?

492
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 3: What about the.

493
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: Other night when you was when you did all that

494
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 2: new stuff to me?

495
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

496
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 2: I mean we ain't got to do it no more.

497
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

498
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 9: I just know.

499
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 2: From where I get it from. You know, he's kind

500
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: of been thinking that, you know what I'm saying.

501
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: You know, they say change of behavior definitely means cheating.

502
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 4: You know that.

503
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 2: That ain't.

504
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 3: Who said that?

505
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 1: Who are you going there with it?

506
00:25:59,760 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 6: Who?

507
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 2: Damn s?

508
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: Always right?

509
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 2: Always? Oh, so you're gonna listen to them instead of me?

510
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm your man. Uh huh, Here we go, Here we go?

511
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: All right, We're moving on.

512
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 9: D Z in Alabama says, I'm a twenty five year

513
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 9: old woman and I'm pregnant with my first child. My

514
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 9: baby is by a married man, and his wife found

515
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 9: out about the baby. We live in a small city

516
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 9: and she's got a good job, so to avoid embarrassment,

517
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 9: she wants to act like I'm having the baby for

518
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 9: her as a surrogate. She wants to raise my child,

519
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 9: and she said, it's the only way my child will

520
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 9: ever see his father.

521
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 2: Wow.

522
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 9: If I take them to court for child support, everyone

523
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 9: will know our business. I'm stuck and feel like I

524
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 9: have no other options.

525
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 5: What should I do now?

526
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 4: Wow, you don't have any other options? For what can

527
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 4: nobody make you do that? Do you serve and raise nobody.

528
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 4: You don't let nobody buffalo you like it. You're the

529
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 4: mother of the baby. All that supersedes all other rights

530
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 4: and claims, and so what if everybody know your business?

531
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 4: You're gonna let this woman take your baby from you

532
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 4: because she got a good job. Hold up, Heffer, why

533
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 4: don't I post what you said on Facebook?

534
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 5: How about that?

535
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 4: You know?

536
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 2: Why don't I report to your job that you're trying

537
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 2: to bully me out my baby? Why don't we do that? Nah,

538
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: who got the upper hand?

539
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right.

540
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 4: You can't do that to this girl. And he got

541
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 4: to pay child support, paternity tests. It ain't nothing, give it.

542
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 2: Damn part of her good ass job gonna be paying

543
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 2: child support. Thank you very much.

544
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, clo. You're listening.

545
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 2: Show. Here's a question for you guys.

546
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 1: What do you do before sex to make it more incredible?

547
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: Is this tailor made for you?

548
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 9: Tommy?

549
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I can I can give you something. I

550
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 2: mean you're always talking about. I'm trying to.

551
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 5: It while you're editing.

552
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, spur of the moment.

553
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 9: Sex is always hot and exciting, but sometimes we have

554
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 9: more time to prepare for upcoming sexy time, and putting

555
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 9: that time to good use can make can help things you.

556
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: Know, go to the next level, so to speak.

557
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 9: Here's how to get into the mood in advance to

558
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 9: make sex more amazing.

559
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: Don't look bored like you already know this, Steve, Okay,

560
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: like you don't need any help in this area. Look

561
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: at all the guys in the room like.

562
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 2: Yes, like they could have written all the stuff about me.

563
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 3: Okay.

564
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 9: First of all, get in the mood. Time to start

565
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 9: thinking about what's going to turn you on later. So

566
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 9: that's how you get in the mood. You start thinking

567
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 9: about what's going to turn you on later. Okay, say

568
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 9: it's now, you know, when we get off you start

569
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 9: thinking about it now. So by the time we get

570
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 9: off work and you get.

571
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 2: Home, tell me if we're going to do something when

572
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: we get home. That's enough. That's enough for any man.

573
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 2: That's so easy that you do. I won't promise me something.

574
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: You know, we've been turning me on. L I've been

575
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 2: catching her hand and I don't know what it is

576
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: when I.

577
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 10: Just when I catch her hand, it happens right there

578
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 10: at the animals because he is don't really come into

579
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 10: launch and.

580
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: Part of me, bro, we'd be right down here and

581
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: that the whole weight.

582
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 2: Man, I like, I like that, Like when you're walking

583
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 2: up the steps and I'm behind. That's it.

584
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: Makes sense. Ironing is not sexy.

585
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 10: So you boy, when my baby lean over behind him, God,

586
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 10: that is the greatest thing in the world.

587
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 2: Now I'd be like, it's.

588
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: Because four to five damn dollar going down.

589
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 9: You have to hear about these pills every time, the

590
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 9: cost of the pills, all of that, every time.

591
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 2: Every single time.

592
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 9: Yes, okay, so here's another here's another tip, so you know,

593
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 9: when you're thinking about it early, start texting, because it

594
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 9: takes women a little longer.

595
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 1: We're not as as ready set go as.

596
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 9: You guys, so it takes us along time to warm

597
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 9: you know, longer time to warm up to get where.

598
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: You guys already are.

599
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 15: I have another problem with that because I'm such a

600
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 15: bad speller. And then I text I'm gonna tear that

601
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 15: grass up and.

602
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 8: I'm gonna that grass.

603
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 3: She's looking at the.

604
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 5: I'm like what she gonna say to say good, because

605
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 5: I mean asking you to.

606
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 3: Kill to take out that garbage.

607
00:31:54,920 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 9: You Okay, So they say eat frisky, friendly foods you know,

608
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 9: like like oysters, things like that.

609
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: You know, the foods that say that they're afrodisiacic.

610
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 8: Yeah.

611
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't want you to learn cool wrench.

612
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 4: Your breath is not cool exactly. It smells a lot

613
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 4: like a wrench. But cooless, your breath does smell like

614
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: a wrench, but it ain't nothing cool.

615
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 3: But that's exactly what they say.

616
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 9: Avoid foods that cause bloating and bad breath. That's exactly what.

617
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: The cigars are. Not helpful, no.

618
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 6: More.

619
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 2: You don't know how many times.

620
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: You love your cigars.

621
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know, I know, you know, before I

622
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 4: go to Big Gog, I have to I have to brush.

623
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 4: First of all, I have to wash my Mustang.

624
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 2: This is a whole, love of separate my lips is

625
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 2: a whole.

626
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 4: So I got to brush my teeth with toothpaste okay.

627
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 4: Then I brush them with listerine okay. Then I rest

628
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 4: with listen okay, And then you know, I go eat

629
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 4: something cool and refreshing.

630
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but don't come in there at all with cigar

631
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: because I actually live with the bloodhound. Smell like an

632
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 2: ass trak.

633
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 9: Come again, and it says, access your wardrobe. You know,

634
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 9: where's something sexy that your woman might like or your

635
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 9: guy might like.

636
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: So what would that be for you?

637
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 6: Jess?

638
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 2: I gotta suggestion. You know.

639
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 4: If you decorate a jack strapped on the whole another out,

640
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 4: you know, put a little print on it, leopard, you know? Okay,

641
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 4: all right, Tom, put a put a snake mouth on it.

642
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: I'm coming.

643
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 2: With a T shirt tied in a nat What the

644
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 2: last thing you want?

645
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: You don't want this shirt and go up?

646
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 2: You do not want this shirt to go up?

647
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 5: We gotta go.

648
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: You're listening.

649
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:40,439
Speaker 9: Morning show time now, guys, for would you rather? Would

650
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 9: you rather sleep without a pillow or sleep without a blanket?

651
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: Which one pillow?

652
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 4: I gotsay have a blanket? Yeah, because I'm naked. Yeah, yeah,

653
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 4: I sleep.

654
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: That part.

655
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,800
Speaker 4: Now that's gonna be rough without a pillow, but it

656
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 4: cannot happen without a blanket. The blanket provides too much comfort.

657
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you have a give pull.

658
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 4: Up and pull that extra blanket up and then that

659
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 4: extra warf just sank you into.

660
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:11,959
Speaker 2: That sleep deep.

661
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

662
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: They even have those weighted blankets now that help you sleep.

663
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 2: Weight them?

664
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: You got one?

665
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: I keep a blanket? What I got a bunch of them?

666
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 8: Does it?

667
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 1: Help you sleep.

668
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 5: I don't have one.

669
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: Does it help you? He said he has one?

670
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 2: I said I had one.

671
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 4: Well, she asked you a follow up question, and you

672
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 4: ignored hers. What she's angry about.

673
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 2: I couldn't. I couldn't hear.

674
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: I'm bad.

675
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 2: It helped me sleep better because Jackie got on fifty.

676
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 2: I just answered, are you all right? We're moving on?

677
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 2: And you are telling me that it's a little delay

678
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 2: right now.

679
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,320
Speaker 4: It's throwing off because you normally real shopping week and

680
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 4: right now you got that little dull marble thing working.

681
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: It's not me, okay, it's not me, all right?

682
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 9: What'd your we're moving on? Would you rather tell your mate?

683
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 9: Would you would your move? Would you rather tell your

684
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 9: mate everything you did yesterday? Tell your mate every single

685
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 9: thing you did? Or would you rather buy her a car?

686
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 2: Buy a car?

687
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 12: You can't tell her what you do, yes, because it's

688
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 12: every other day always somebody mate. I mean this, you know,

689
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 12: just in case you do something real crazy.

690
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 2: You know the argument I'm trying to avoid.

691
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 3: Sure, I so you're.

692
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: Gonna buy her a car?

693
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so you gonna so? So when I called a fleet,

694
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 2: you didn't have time to talk to me.

695
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 4: But you would swear at the golf store with who

696
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 4: let's see now here, here's a car?

697
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: Hell here? Yeah? Oh okay, like that all right?

698
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 9: Would you rather do five different positions every time you

699
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 9: were intimate?

700
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: Or only one position forever?

701
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 2: Variety, spice of life?

702
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 9: I just five different times every single time?

703
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, or only one position forever?

704
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 9: No?

705
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 12: I like that?

706
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: Five them five al right lovers?

707
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, alright, note every single time.

708
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: Hold on, man, you're getting bored.

709
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: All right.

710
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 9: That's today's version of would you rather you're listening hard

711
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 9: Morning Show?

712
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 6: All right?

713
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 9: Steve, our very own j Anthony Brown is always here

714
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 9: with the foolishness. Can count on him, and he's got

715
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 9: details in his brand new book, tell Us about It.

716
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 15: You just my new book, Steve, and it's called one

717
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 15: hundred and one Ways to Start an Argument. Several chapters

718
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 15: in the book. Chapter one, you know, laugh on the

719
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 15: phone for no reason, just just laugh.

720
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 2: So argument.

721
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, it would start an argument.

722
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: This is.

723
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Chapter Chapter seven is a real good chapter.

724
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 15: Take a shower in the middle of the day, just

725
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 15: just shower. Yeah, what are you going showering?

726
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: That's on Sunday.

727
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 15: This is a good one for Sunday, say say I'm

728
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 15: going to a different church by myself.

729
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 2: That's what you say. There's gonna be well over there.

730
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 15: Here's another ways to start an argument. Yeah, put an

731
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 15: empty bag in the closet and just walk away. Just

732
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 15: put it up there and just walk away.

733
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 8: Once and there. Don't war about that. Don't go up there.

734
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 8: Don't go up there.

735
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: What you mean, don't go up there?

736
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 8: Don't go up there?

737
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 15: All right, ways to start an argument. Say this phrase

738
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 15: right here. This really works. Say I'll be right back

739
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 15: and leave, just leave, just leave right where you're going.

740
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 2: I'll be right back.

741
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 8: Don't worry about where I'm going. I'll be right back.

742
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: I mean, don't wear everybody. Yeah, just walked out of here.

743
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 8: You just phraised right here on the phone. This really

744
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:32,720
Speaker 8: gets an argument.

745
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 15: Say good job, Becky, I'll see you tomorrow the phone,

746
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 15: Becky with the good hair.

747
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 2: Why the hell you got to encourage Becky? You doing

748
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:53,439
Speaker 2: some damn good job, Becky? What's she doing? Something? Gots

749
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 2: to be commenting on it.

750
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 15: From my new book, How to Start an argument as

751
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,720
Speaker 15: your mate, your lady, when's the when's your friend coming

752
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 15: over here?

753
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 6: You know, when.

754
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 2: She's been over here.

755
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 4: In the while?

756
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:18,800
Speaker 2: Where is she coming here. Oh no, yeah, that starts

757
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 2: right off.

758
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a pretty good jay.

759
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 15: Argument waves and started argument. No matter what movie she

760
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 15: says you want to go to, you say, oh, I've

761
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 15: seen it already.

762
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 3: I oh, you're you're going to movies.

763
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 8: Okay, you have time to go see it.

764
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 2: I've seen that.

765
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 8: That's good. I've seen that.

766
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 2: I've seen it.

767
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 8: I seen it. Here's another one, here's another one. Ways

768
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 8: the starting argument.

769
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 15: You're on the phone and you laugh real damn loud,

770
00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 15: and then you start whispering.

771
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: You've been man a bunch of boys. This is why

772
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 2: he's divorced. You know how to run somebody off? Can

773
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 2: I get you one?

774
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 8: Give me one, Give me one. I'll put it in

775
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:18,919
Speaker 8: the book.

776
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: Buy your wife some running shoes.

777
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: Far color.

778
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 15: Yeah, man, yeah, buy some running shoes that do it. Yeah,

779
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 15: all of us setting in the middle of the day.

780
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 15: You put on a clean shirt.

781
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 2: You woke up in one shirt and put on another.

782
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 5: What you change your shirts for?

783
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 8: Can I just put on a new shirt?

784
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 9: No?

785
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: No, you cannot. What was wrong with all?

786
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: Can just go with the books?

787
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 7: Jack?

788
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 2: Can I just add one more? You ready?

789
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 7: Yeah?

790
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 2: Ways to start an argument in your house guarantee.

791
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 4: Come on what come in from work and pull your

792
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 4: pants off and ain't got no drawers.

793
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: All Thanks Jay and Steve. You just command you up

794
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: next with today's today's brank phone call. Right after that,

795
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: you're listening.

796
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour.

797
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 9: Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today.

798
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 9: The subject she acts like a bitter old bitty girl.

799
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 9: You and your subjects, your oh BITI let me be clear,

800
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 9: I know, I know, wait till you hear the T

801
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 9: T y O all of that, all of that. But

802
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 9: right now it is time for the nephew and the

803
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 9: prank phone call for today.

804
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 5: Now what you got?

805
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 2: I left my medicine in your house? All right?

806
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 10: That is a cat dog, if you would, We're going

807
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 10: to strategically dive into this one. If you're driving right now,

808
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 10: I think you should pull over because this one right here,

809
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 10: this home running here, this classic nephew, Tommy, I left

810
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 10: my medicine in your house.

811
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 6: Let's go Hello Hello, want said to Claires yet he Claire,

812
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 6: Hey money sherman dog your house is the one that

813
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,959
Speaker 6: got broke into last week? Right yeah, man, just waiting

814
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 6: on the police to get back with me, tell them

815
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 6: if they found these people or not. Man, So now

816
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 6: hold on, what's your name again?

817
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 2: There?

818
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 6: Sman them? How you here about it? You know, I

819
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 6: stay a couple of streets, so everybody in the neighborhood

820
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 6: kind of heard that y'all had got broke in on. Yeah, man,

821
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 6: everybody being kind of kind of real good around here.

822
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 9: Man.

823
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 6: It don't make no sense.

824
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 15: Man.

825
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 6: You go out here and work hard for stuff and

826
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 6: then you know, people just do your like this.

827
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 5: Man.

828
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,839
Speaker 6: It just I'm just glad it wasn't nobody hurt. Man.

829
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 6: My wife and my son they alive and that's you know,

830
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 6: that's the best thing.

831
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 10: Man.

832
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 6: So you know, trying not to cousin something like this happened.

833
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 6: You know, I understand.

834
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 11: Man.

835
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 6: You stay a couple of streets over you say yeah, yeah, yeah, hey, hey,

836
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 6: let me let me let me say this to you.

837
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 4: Man.

838
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 6: I want to say, pirty all. I hate what happened,

839
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 6: you know what I mean? Yeah? Man? And uh, I do, man,

840
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 6: you know, and I'm glad you're your family and so yeah,

841
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 6: he said, Man, well, hey, man, can I just can

842
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 6: I just say this here?

843
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 14: Man? Uh?

844
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 6: And I don't really know how to say it, but uh, I.

845
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: Was.

846
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 6: I was with the two dudes that had broken there.

847
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 6: I was with them when they did that. Okay, you

848
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 6: did you just say you was with them that broke

849
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 6: in my house? Oh so you broke in my house?

850
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 6: No saying, no saying, See, that's why I'm see them claims.

851
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 6: That's what I'm I'm calling you trying to tell you.

852
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 6: I was trying to talk them out of it. You

853
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Well, what the happened? Because they

854
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 6: did this, I couldn't talk them out of it. But

855
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 6: you know I was when I wasn't there taking nothing,

856
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay, Well who was

857
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 6: in the ittation then? And I can't I can't be

858
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 6: doing I can't do that. I can't see I ain't

859
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 6: trying to get in the middle of that. No, no, no,

860
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 6: you can't do that. You just got my phone. Oh

861
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 6: you can tell me who broke in? Is you was

862
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 6: one of the you was? Wasn't with you? That? That

863
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,439
Speaker 6: ain't that? That ain't in the reason why I called man.

864
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 6: I don't give a damn what the reason you called me?

865
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 6: You called me the broken Who who was with you?

866
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 2: Who was with you?

867
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 6: Man, I'm matter of fact, what street you stay on

868
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 6: the Let me say this to you, man, This reason

869
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 6: why I called. And when we was in there, and

870
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 6: then they started screaming and hollering at each other and

871
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 6: then saying we got to hear him get out. You know,

872
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 6: like I say, I was in there trying to talk

873
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 6: them out of that. I don't give it. If you

874
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 6: tried to talk them into it. You walk into my

875
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 6: broken my eye. You you got the more danced to

876
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 6: call me okay, but listen, man, listen, listen, listen to me, man.

877
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 6: I'm listening to you for while I was in there, man,

878
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 6: and and you know they was we was getting out

879
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 6: of there in a hurry. I actually left my uh

880
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,240
Speaker 6: my pills fell out my pocket, my bottle of pills

881
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 6: and my medicine. And I don't I don't got no

882
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 6: more retails on it, man, And I need my medicine.

883
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 6: That's why I'm all you to see. If you don't

884
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 6: man me coming back over there to get my peek.

885
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 6: They don't give them about your medicine. Who gives us?

886
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 6: But I tell you what I tell you. I can

887
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 6: ask me about some medicine. God, I was just caught

888
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,439
Speaker 6: up in a bad situation. Man. I swear to God,

889
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 6: if I see you over, I swear to God, I'm

890
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 6: gonna beat your ass. No, I'm gonna beat you. You

891
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 6: better be glad shy. I wasn't in my house. Man. Listen, man,

892
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to get you. Have no problems with nobody.

893
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 6: I just need my medicine. Man, kill medicine. You got

894
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 6: problems with me, but I don't have no more real

895
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 6: feels on that medicine. I need my medicine. I'll get sick.

896
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 6: I tell you what. I tell you what come, Come

897
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 6: get your medicine. You know exactly where I said. I'm

898
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:48,959
Speaker 6: gonna have to get the front door over. You ain't

899
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,760
Speaker 6: got the break in this time. Come get your medicine.

900
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 6: I swear to God. Is gonna need more than just

901
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 6: that a medicine. I'm gonna put some on your I said,

902
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 6: why are you doing out on me? Man? And I'm

903
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 6: the one that was in there time to talk them

904
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 6: out of it. He was with them because that's the

905
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 6: point ill, that's what bring them to telling them to

906
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 6: help you. Come get your medicine. So all I want

907
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 6: to do is get my medicine and be through with this.

908
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 6: That's all I'm trying to say to you. I ain't

909
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 6: trying to start no trouble with you. Start, no trouble

910
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 6: you bo can't tell my come house, you know what.

911
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 6: I tell you what I all this? You know, I

912
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 6: tell you what. Come get the medicine. Come come, come,

913
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 6: get the medicine right now. I'm in what what street

914
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 6: you stay on? I bring it to you.

915
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 4: Man.

916
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 6: I'm not finna go back and from arguing with you. Man,

917
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 6: I'm finna come over there and get my medicine. And man,

918
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 6: you're gonna be through with each other. You ain't got

919
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 6: to go back and for a moment. I tell you what.

920
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 6: Come on over here, get your some medicine right now.

921
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 6: This even if you're gonna need some moment, medicine ain't

922
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 6: gonna come break in my some houses you go can't

923
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 6: tell my I take care of my wife and my

924
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 6: kids in this house. I understand that. And I will

925
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 6: not be back in your house after I get my medicine.

926
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 6: I'm gonnase you hollering at No. I tell you what

927
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 6: you know. No, no, no, you ain't gonna be back

928
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 6: in my house after you get your medicine. You're gonna

929
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 6: have a permanent new residence. I swear to God, you're

930
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 6: gonna be living in the cemetery. I got one more

931
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 6: than I need to say to you before I get

932
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 6: over there. I say that on your way over here.

933
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 6: I'm going. I'm on my way now. I want my fan.

934
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 6: I need to say it. You say you want to

935
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 6: say it, then that's when you promptly from the Steel

936
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 6: harb In morning show. You just got branked. But your

937
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:48,280
Speaker 6: sister bring hello, Who the is this? Hey? Man? Hey, class,

938
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 6: this nephew telling me man from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.

939
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 6: Your sister breed got me to brank you. Man, boy

940
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 6: you you oh, you need say too much. I don't

941
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 6: believe this, she said, Man, they broke in my brother house.

942
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 6: He means the spirits lives, he said, come on calling

943
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 6: me get it. You know what you damned that had

944
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 6: you a well with band? Oh man, what y'all wrong for?

945
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 16: This is?

946
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 6: Oh man? Oh man? Man? Ask you something. What is

947
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 6: what is the baddest radio show in the land. It

948
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 6: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Listen, bro hey, and

949
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 6: if the that that broke in my house is listening. Uh,

950
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,800
Speaker 6: you can come back over here. If you left your medicine,

951
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 6: come on, come back and get it. I'm at home

952
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 6: right now. If they listen, they come on back over

953
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 6: there now, yeah, right right now. Bring y'all wy y'all

954
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 6: wrong for that, Rephew, tell me.

955
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 2: I don't know nobody better than me. I hate to

956
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 2: say that. You know what I mean? I am the

957
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 2: I am the I am the Steph Curry Lebron Price.

958
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 10: When you leave your medicine in somebody house that y'all

959
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 10: broke into, come on, man, come on and you call

960
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 10: back for your message that you was whipped them blankety

961
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 10: banks and what they got the nerve a boy, boy.

962
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: You are really a dumb criminal?

963
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, what are you robbing people?

964
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 10: And you're sick for any right right right, But let's

965
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 10: not let me go through any more complications. You know

966
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 10: what I'm saying, understanding, stole your stuff? I got that,

967
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 10: But help me out here with my medicine, all right?

968
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 5: Do me a solid a heart, brother, have a heart?

969
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:40,720
Speaker 2: Wow?

970
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 8: All right?

971
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 6: Thinking of you.

972
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 9: Coming up next it is the Strawberry letter subject. She

973
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 9: acts like a bitter old bitty. We'll get into it

974
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 9: right after this.

975
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 5: You're listening hard Morning show.

976
00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

977
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:03,760
Speaker 9: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

978
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 9: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

979
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 9: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.

980
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

981
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: just like we're going.

982
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 5: To read this one right here, right now. It could

983
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 5: be yours.

984
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: You never know.

985
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 2: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

986
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 2: you here.

987
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 10: It is.

988
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 1: Subject. She acts like a bigger subject, shicks like a

989
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: bitter old bitty engage trouble.

990
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: Great day in radio.

991
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: No, it wouldn't know, it wouldn't have junior.

992
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 5: People will be talking, we'll be trending.

993
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

994
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 9: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty year old married man,

995
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 9: and my wife and I have been married for eleven years.

996
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 9: When we got married, I was working on my doctorate

997
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 9: degrees and I worked full time and was struggled to

998
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 9: take care of her and our newborn child. She decided

999
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 9: to start school herself after having our second child. She

1000
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 9: got her master's degree in twenty nineteen, and I expected

1001
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 9: her to apply for a job, but instead she decided

1002
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 9: to get her doctorate degree. This led to more financial

1003
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 9: stress in our family. The little I made barely covered rent,

1004
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 9: and the financial strain was great. I had to take

1005
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,439
Speaker 9: side hustles just to make ends meet, and I think

1006
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 9: this led to a change in attitude for both of us,

1007
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 9: and we began snapping at each other over the tiniest things.

1008
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 9: I began to think of what to do to improve

1009
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 9: our situation, and finally, by the grace of God, I

1010
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 9: got a great job. I figured it would improve our marriage,

1011
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 9: but things got worse. She is still snappy, complains all

1012
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 9: the time, nags me about everything, and she's always tired

1013
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 9: from school. She hardly takes care of herself, and when

1014
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 9: I come plane, all she says is who am I

1015
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 9: trying to impress. Sex between us has dwindled to once

1016
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,959
Speaker 9: or twice a month, and even then it's a chore.

1017
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 9: She only allows me to do a quickie and she

1018
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 9: starts complaining if I take too long to finish. We

1019
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 9: hardly talk as husband and wife, and I started sleeping

1020
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 9: in another room anytime she's not home and I'm with

1021
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 9: our kids.

1022
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:24,439
Speaker 1: We're all in a good mood.

1023
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 9: Soon as she walks in the atmosphere's tense she acts

1024
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 9: like an old, bitter, elderly woman, but she is only

1025
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 9: forty one. Is this how ladies act after a while

1026
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 9: in marriage or is this a special case? How can

1027
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 9: I get her back to how she was? Well?

1028
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, first of all.

1029
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 9: You guys can talk more as husband and wife, you know,

1030
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 9: And you got to consider this huge load that she's

1031
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 9: taken on. She's studying for her doctorate degree, she just

1032
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 9: had a baby. You know, there's a lot of things

1033
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 9: going on here. And I'm going to to tell you,

1034
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 9: I honestly think she needs to see a doctor immediately.

1035
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 9: I mean, she might be suffering from postpartum depression. It's

1036
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 9: been a while, but if maybe if it's untreated. You know,

1037
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:14,879
Speaker 9: there's still some residual effects here from having this baby.

1038
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 9: It happens a lot in women, many women after having

1039
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 9: a baby. And again, she's got a lot on her

1040
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 9: plate with school, the financial stress. You know, that doesn't

1041
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 9: just affect you, it affects her and the whole family.

1042
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 9: Even though you say you have a great job. Now,

1043
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 9: it doesn't seem that easy for her to snap back.

1044
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 9: I'm asking you to be a little more patient with her,

1045
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 9: and if you guys can afford it. Maybe you can

1046
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 9: get someone to help her with the kids and around

1047
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 9: the house for a couple of days a week, you know,

1048
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 9: maybe send her to the spot to see if she

1049
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 9: can invite her girlfriends over or ask them to take

1050
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 9: her out for a girl's night out. Sounds like she

1051
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 9: needs to get out of the house, do something different

1052
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 9: than what she's been doing.

1053
00:55:56,040 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 5: And it seems like, you know, working on her is

1054
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 5: really really hard on her.

1055
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 9: Please be more supportive as a husband, but by all means,

1056
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 9: make sure she she sees a doctor.

1057
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 4: Steve supportive, I don't. I don't know how she can

1058
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 4: be anymore supportive. I really don't great answer, though, Cheryl.

1059
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 4: I like your answer, uh, to protect this woman, But

1060
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 4: in this case right here, I don't see how she

1061
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 4: needs protecting. I think this woman has to step up

1062
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 4: and get herself together and make some changes. Now, if

1063
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 4: it's medical, then, like Shirley said, it could be this postmodel.

1064
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 4: But the maybe was eleven years ago.

1065
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 9: Now, no, she had another one in a second style

1066
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 9: no space between there. You're right, but she figured the.

1067
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 2: Old man man, my wife and I be married. Eleven

1068
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:56,240
Speaker 2: years we got married.

1069
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 4: I was working on a doctor degree, I worked full time,

1070
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 4: struggling to take of her and our new born child. Okay,

1071
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 4: she decided to start school herself. After having our second child.

1072
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 4: She got a master's degree in twenty nineteen. I expected

1073
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 4: her to apply for a job, but instead she decided

1074
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 4: to get a doctor degree. Now, obviously this is too

1075
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 4: much the children and the doctor to be. This led

1076
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 4: to more financial stress in the family. The little I

1077
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:29,919
Speaker 4: made barely covered rent, so financial strain was great, which

1078
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 4: is always a big cause in marriages struggling. I took

1079
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 4: sideline hustles to make ends meet, and I think this

1080
00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 4: led to a change in attitude for both of us.

1081
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 2: We both began snapping over the tiniest things.

1082
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 4: I began to think of what to do to improve

1083
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 4: our situation, and finally, grace to God, I got a

1084
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:49,919
Speaker 4: great job.

1085
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 2: I figured it would improve our marriage, but things got worse.

1086
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 4: She still snappy, complaints all the time, nags me about

1087
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 4: everything as.

1088
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 2: She's tired school.

1089
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 4: She wanted to go to school. She's snapping. She forty one,

1090
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 4: the dude doing all he can do. Now, let me

1091
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 4: tell you something, sir, you can't make another person happy.

1092
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 4: Bishop Jakes told me this one time. He says, Steve,

1093
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 4: you can't make another person happy, nor is it your job.

1094
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 4: And if you take on that job to make another

1095
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 4: person happy, you have taking on like daunting, daunting responsibility

1096
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 4: because you can't do it. She's not a happy person

1097
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 4: right now.

1098
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, hang on, Steve.

1099
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 9: All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming

1100
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 9: up in twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

1101
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 9: letter subject she acts like a bitter old bitty. We'll

1102
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 9: get back into it right after this.

1103
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 5: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

1104
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 9: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter subject.

1105
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 9: Watch collar curringe when I say this, she acts like

1106
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 9: a bitter old bitty.

1107
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 4: Fifty year old man married, got a wife eleven years.

1108
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 4: He was working on your doctor degree, and you work

1109
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 4: full time, and y'all was struggling taking care of her

1110
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 4: in a newborn. She decided to start school herself after

1111
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:17,840
Speaker 4: having our second child.

1112
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 2: She got a master's degree in twenty ninety. I expect

1113
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 2: her to apply for a job, but it's there. She

1114
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 2: decided to get a doctor degree. So y'all like degrees

1115
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 2: if y'all like.

1116
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 4: Making money as much as y'all like having degrees. Y'all

1117
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 4: might be on to something, but we'll just leave that alone.

1118
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 4: That ain't my business. You know, some people like degrees,

1119
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 4: so go ahead and get you another one. Somebody once

1120
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 4: told me though, a very very rich man was talking

1121
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 4: to a group of college students at a big event,

1122
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 4: like it was some type of conference going on, and

1123
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 4: this guy was standing up. Then he was talking about

1124
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 4: his degrees and how much he made a year, and

1125
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 4: he was going to go back to get another degree

1126
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 4: because he wanted to make a little bit more a year,

1127
00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 4: and if thought necessary, he'd get a third. He said, Son,

1128
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 4: let me ask you something. If you have a degree

1129
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 4: that ain't working for you, why would you go get

1130
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 4: another one of them? And I kind of I just

1131
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 4: thought about that, so I'm I'm just saying that because

1132
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 4: this might be that problem with this letter.

1133
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 2: So now you all barely got through this.

1134
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 4: So finally, by the grace of God, you got a

1135
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 4: good job and you thought it would smooth everything out

1136
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 4: when it didn't. She still snappy, complains all the time,

1137
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 4: nags me about everything, and she's tired from school. She

1138
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 4: says she wanted to go to school. Sometimes, man, you

1139
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 4: make decisions and na, I hate to get spiritual on you,

1140
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 4: but I gotta tell you this because I've done this

1141
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 4: myself several hundred times. You make a decision without asking

1142
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 4: God anything about it. You just go through your plan.

1143
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 4: And now you're miserable cause that might not have been

1144
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 4: the best way to do it. Just because you make

1145
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 4: a decision, don't and you want to do it, don't

1146
01:00:58,400 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 4: make it the right decision for you.

1147
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 2: So now you're.

1148
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 4: Miserable, And now you're making the man miserable. Nags you

1149
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 4: about everything. She's already tired for school. Now hit the

1150
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 4: part she hardly takes care of herself, he would go,

1151
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 4: Now we're in the dangerous part of the letter.

1152
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 2: She don't take care of herself.

1153
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 4: And then when I complained about that, all she says is,

1154
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 4: who am I trying to impress?

1155
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 2: Hell?

1156
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 4: How about me? But see this woman is tripping a

1157
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 4: little bit because it's just about her. Now, I went

1158
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 4: back to school to get me a doctorate degree. I'm tired,

1159
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 4: I ain't fit to do nothing else. Who am I

1160
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 4: trying to impress me? Your husband? See that she'd have

1161
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 4: forgot the same thing it took to get your baby hook.

1162
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 2: It's gonna take the same thing. Keep it.

1163
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 4: Sex between us has drained her down to once or

1164
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 4: twice a month. See, we're in trouble now. Now you

1165
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 4: ain't taking care of yourself, and now we having sex

1166
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 4: once or twice a month. He fitted with got problem

1167
01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 4: without probably anybody final to do this one twice a month. Okay,

1168
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, I'm just I'm just trying.

1169
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 2: To because it hurt them everything. Yeah, hurt with everybody.

1170
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 2: I know that this is time to change your tone

1171
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 2: because things is finish. Change.

1172
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 4: Let anybody finish it up here and do this what

1173
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 4: you Wantsing twice a month, he'dne got the good job.

1174
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 4: Somebody down there walking past him looking just like he

1175
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 4: like it. She taking care of herself and everything. Now,

1176
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 4: I'm all for the institutional marriage. I try to make

1177
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 4: it work. But now even when you make love, it's

1178
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 4: a chore. She only allows me to do it quickie,

1179
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 4: and she starts complaining if I take long to finish.

1180
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 4: We hardly talk as her husband and wife and I

1181
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 4: started sleeping in another room anytime she got home, and

1182
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 4: I'm with our kids were all in a good move.

1183
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 4: Soon as she walk in the atmosphere's tenth that reminds

1184
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 4: me of a person we used to know. It's called

1185
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 4: black cloud. See black You got some people who walk

1186
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 4: in the room, but just a black cloud. It's just

1187
01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 4: people walking room, just dark black cloud. Just he the

1188
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 4: ass come damn thunderstorm walking in the room. Weather change.

1189
01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 4: She acts like an old bity elderly woman, but she's

1190
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 4: only forty one. Is this how ladies act after a

1191
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 4: wildly marriage? Know, by any means, nowhere near all of them,

1192
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 4: but you got the one that do though? Is this

1193
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 4: a special case? Yeah, it's kind of special. Now, changes

1194
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 4: happen in all marriages, and you got to make adjustments,

1195
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 4: but she ain't making them.

1196
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 2: So now how can I get her back to how

1197
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 2: she was? I don't know. I don't know.

1198
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 9: Now.

1199
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:38,200
Speaker 4: Surely said get us some medical help, but I think

1200
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 4: it's a mental thing. If you tied all the time,

1201
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 4: that ain't medical. You done bit off more than you too.

1202
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 4: You try to get a degree in some and now

1203
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 4: you're on a doctorate. You know, y'all gonna just keep

1204
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 4: going to school. I mean you can do that. Education

1205
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 4: is great. I think smart is a gift. But sometimes

1206
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 4: you're doing more more than you can handle. And she

1207
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 4: done bid off a lot. We having sex once twice

1208
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 4: a month. You nagging and complain about everything you done,

1209
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 4: let yourself go, and you ain't taking care of yourself.

1210
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 2: Me and the kids at home having a good time.

1211
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 2: You walk in and the.

1212
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 4: Change because you're evil. I'm not staying with that. I'm

1213
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 4: not I'm not doing that. I'm not staying No, if

1214
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 4: you evil, I'm not staying with you. There's a scripture

1215
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 4: that says it is better to live on the corner

1216
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:32,439
Speaker 4: of a rooftop than inside with a quarolsome woman. That's

1217
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 4: in Proverbs. I'm not fit to do that, and you

1218
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:41,919
Speaker 4: can't ask a man to do that. Ladies, I feel

1219
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 4: like I'm dead. Once I feel like I'm dead, I

1220
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 4: gets out the.

1221
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:50,439
Speaker 2: Relations Today's Strawberry. That's what that part means, to death,

1222
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 2: do us part, and I feel dead.

1223
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 9: Time for us to part at Steve Harvey FM on

1224
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 9: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on

1225
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 9: demand listening.

1226
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:02,520
Speaker 5: Morning show.

1227
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 1: All right, sis, Steve, come on, introduce your boy.

1228
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. It's now time.

1229
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 4: I must warn you is dark in now. But here

1230
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 4: we go into the mind of j Anthony Brown.

1231
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 8: All right, Steve don't gonna need your help on this.

1232
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 15: The Bible says Peter cussed when he was asked the

1233
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 15: third time about rather fact he knew Jesus. So what

1234
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 15: I'm gonna give you, miss doll Harby, is some situations

1235
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 15: in the Bible, and like a little light cussing, nothing

1236
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 15: over the top, just a little light cussing when David,

1237
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 15: when David was in the lions, then just David and

1238
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 15: the lions. Give me a little light cussing, sir, Just

1239
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 15: a little light's.

1240
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 2: Dog, it's hell down here.

1241
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 8: We don't know if that happened, but we just think

1242
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:57,080
Speaker 8: maybe he did cuss.

1243
01:05:57,120 --> 01:06:01,160
Speaker 15: How about this with miss Jonah in the belly of

1244
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 15: the well when he clothing well closed up and he

1245
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 15: in there by himself.

1246
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 8: Just a little like custom, mister Harpy, Just something real light.

1247
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 2: It's nothing over the time. What the hell did you eat?

1248
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 8: Okay?

1249
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 3: All right?

1250
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:23,439
Speaker 15: These are these are bi biblical situations where I think

1251
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 15: there was some cussing going on.

1252
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 2: Check this out.

1253
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 15: Sampson wakes up and he discovers all of his hair

1254
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 15: is gone. Look like customed, mister harp just something look

1255
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 15: like look.

1256
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 2: Like what did Joe ass do?

1257
01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: Delilah?

1258
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 7: Let me that again.

1259
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 2: Let me again. What did Joe ass do?

1260
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 3: Delilah?

1261
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 15: Okay, all right, David, David when he first laid eyes

1262
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 15: on Bathsheba naked on the top of the building, little light.

1263
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 8: Custing, mister Harvey, nothing nothing over the.

1264
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 3: What David?

1265
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 1: When he looked at.

1266
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 2: That's she?

1267
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 8: What did he say, miss the Harvey? A little lights?

1268
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 8: I'm like.

1269
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 15: When Eve came back and told Adam what she did?

1270
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 15: What did Adam say, little light cussing? Nothing over the top, sir,

1271
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:43,680
Speaker 15: nothing over hell?

1272
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 2: Now what.

1273
01:07:50,400 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 3: Did they tell you? We gotta go?

1274
01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 5: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

1275
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: Here's a question. Listen, guys, if you had to fight

1276
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 1: a wild animal, which animal would you choose?

1277
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:14,520
Speaker 2: And why?

1278
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 9: A new online survey by you Gov of twelve hundred

1279
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 9: and twenty four US adults aged eighteen and over ask

1280
01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 9: participants to answer the question which animal do you think

1281
01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:27,799
Speaker 9: you would.

1282
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 1: Win in a fight?

1283
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 9: Humans included the mighty elephant and fierce rhinoceros won out

1284
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 9: against more than thirty other predators and pray seventy four

1285
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:38,719
Speaker 9: percent of the time.

1286
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 1: So I got to ask you, guys, which animal? Which

1287
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: wild animal would you fight? Junior?

1288
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm telling you right, now now I'm gonna whoop a

1289
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:54,200
Speaker 2: wild rabbits ass. I got. I promise you I'm gonna

1290
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 2: win that one.

1291
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 8: I'm not going to.

1292
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 1: Lose to is rabbit.

1293
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 3: I'm going to fight.

1294
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 4: That's a weird question, but okay, yeah answer, yeah, yeah,

1295
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,080
Speaker 4: Oh I kick a squirrel ass.

1296
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:15,759
Speaker 2: Come on, squirrel, I'm telling you my name is squirreling.

1297
01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,880
Speaker 2: I ain't any squirrel in the country with my ants

1298
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 2: that running out in traffic, faking back and forth.

1299
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:25,680
Speaker 3: What was that you thought you saw in your car?

1300
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 9: That?

1301
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,719
Speaker 2: Oh that was awesome. Oh no, that was Tommy.

1302
01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 3: But you saw something too.

1303
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 2: No, no, no, a squirrel.

1304
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 4: I had left my windows open in the garage, and

1305
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,600
Speaker 4: a squirrel climbed up in the back seat and was

1306
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 4: in the window. And when I get in, the car

1307
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 4: started a cob and I looked in the rear view mirror.

1308
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 4: I thought a bell was in my because you know

1309
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 4: that little sign saying objects are closer than they appear.

1310
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 2: Hey, doc, let me tell you so. I thought it

1311
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 2: was a bell in that damn car.

1312
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 4: If you have seen me climb op that damn car

1313
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,679
Speaker 4: without opening the door.

1314
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:10,960
Speaker 1: And it was a squirrel.

1315
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 4: The squirrel just jumped out the car just hopped on

1316
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 4: down the driver because I let your garage do them.

1317
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 2: So but that damn Tommy with that possum store the.

1318
01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 1: Greatest birthday boy.

1319
01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 2: All right, So we're at LA and me and I

1320
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:29,639
Speaker 2: ste at YouTube shirt.

1321
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 10: We got to be on the air at three o'clock

1322
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 10: in the morning because we were syndicated to Dallas, which

1323
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:38,320
Speaker 10: is five o'clock in the morning in Dallas, so you

1324
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:41,719
Speaker 10: got to be there. So I'm leaving thirty thirty minutes

1325
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 10: ahead of time. I'm leaving so I can get there

1326
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 10: on time, so he ain't mad at me. But when

1327
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 10: I get to the when I get on top of

1328
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:51,640
Speaker 10: the park instruction, my car is backed up against the

1329
01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:54,840
Speaker 10: fence and it's got one of them listen, two forty

1330
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:57,840
Speaker 10: Nissan two forty Z and it's got that little pop

1331
01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 10: up sun roof. You know, it don't go back and forth,

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Speaker 10: it just pop up. Behind the car is a possum

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Speaker 10: on the fence.

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01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:12,679
Speaker 2: So I thene stomped. I stomped. I shoe shoe, shoes, shoe.

1335
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 2: I did all that.

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Speaker 10: Now now it's about two fifty I'm finna be late

1337
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 10: for work for show. So I said, okay, that's what

1338
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,000
Speaker 10: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna get in on the passenger

1339
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:25,000
Speaker 10: side since I bad then and then I just climb over.

1340
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 2: So I get in on the passenger side, and I

1341
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 2: closed the door.

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01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 10: Now, if you knew a thing, if you know anything

1343
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:35,040
Speaker 10: about a Nissan two forty, when you closed the door,

1344
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 10: there's a seatbelt track that comes right down the side

1345
01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 10: of your face autumn automatically.

1346
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:46,280
Speaker 2: And I thought his ass was in that car.

1347
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 10: I was throwing them hands like it was the end

1348
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 10: of the world. My knuckles were swollen, I was bleeding on.

1349
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 10: My face was scratched. The greatest ass.

1350
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:03,559
Speaker 2: You thought that seat belt was the possible I thought,

1351
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:04,879
Speaker 2: I thought that was that possum.

1352
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 10: Though I thought that was that part. I thought that

1353
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 10: possum had come through the top of that roof down

1354
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:18,280
Speaker 10: the greatest ass whooping I have ever taken. I gave

1355
01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:26,599
Speaker 10: it to myself, right, my man, s man, I got

1356
01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 10: the word. Steve looked at me, Man, what happened?

1357
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:29,599
Speaker 2: What happened?

1358
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 1: Who jumped on you?

1359
01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 6: Yes?

1360
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:34,599
Speaker 2: Man, you ain't gonna believe this right here. That's why

1361
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:35,759
Speaker 2: we had to go do something.

1362
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 3: All right, all right, we'll let more up the sea.

1363
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 9: Harby Morning Show coming up in twenty minutes after the hour.

1364
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening Hardy Morning Show.

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01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 1: All right, Steeve, you got some really good news about

1366
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:53,679
Speaker 1: your stick packs.

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01:12:53,720 --> 01:13:03,839
Speaker 7: You know, shoot, shoot, hey, people say I'm the life

1368
01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 7: of the par hearty calls.

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01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 2: I take my elevate your right.

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01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:18,240
Speaker 4: You say, my be fast lord, I'm dancing calls.

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01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:21,280
Speaker 2: I eat the girlies too.

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Speaker 11: So take a good look at my face. You'll see

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01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:33,639
Speaker 11: the smile stains on my face.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:40,120
Speaker 11: And if I get closer closer to you, uh huh,

1376
01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:43,759
Speaker 11: you'll see that it's called I take.

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01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 2: Elevate you.

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01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 1: Elevate the R version.

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01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Eva, you give your soul, Yeah, elevate you. Stick packs.

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Speaker 4: You can get these delicious daily Vital Green drinks in

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01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:04,920
Speaker 4: stick pack form. They got the original tart, cherry and chocolate,

1382
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 4: and we got gummies. The gummies are delicious like eating candy,

1383
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 4: but it's candy that's good for you.

1384
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 2: It's delicious. You can increase your metabolism with these.

1385
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,120
Speaker 4: They got some for your immune system and they got

1386
01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 4: one especially for your digestive system. If you need help

1387
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:22,639
Speaker 4: in all those areas, and most people do, try elevate

1388
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 4: you gummies and stick pack. It's in Walmart right now,

1389
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 4: go to Walmart?

1390
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: All right? Coming up in thirty three minutes, oaf to

1391
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: the hour. We'll play around it.

1392
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:32,639
Speaker 5: Would you rather?

1393
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: Right after this? You're listening.

1394
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 5: Morning show time?

1395
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 1: Now guys for would you rather?

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01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:46,920
Speaker 9: Would you rather sleep without a pillow or sleep without

1397
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 9: a blanket?

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01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:48,719
Speaker 1: Which one pillow?

1399
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 2: I gotta have a blanket? Yeah, because I'm naked. Oh

1400
01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 2: I sleep.

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01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 4: That part Now, that's gonna be rough with a pillow,

1402
01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 4: but it cannot happen without a blanket.

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01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:05,679
Speaker 2: The blanket provides too much comfort.

1404
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know you have a give pull and pull

1405
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 4: that extra blanket up, and then that extra warf just

1406
01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:12,959
Speaker 4: sank you into.

1407
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 2: That sleep deep.

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01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 8: Yeah.

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01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 1: They even have those weighted blankets now that help you sleep.

1410
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 1: You got one?

1411
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,639
Speaker 2: I keep a blanket? What I got a bunch of them?

1412
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 1: Does it help you sleep? I don't have one? Does

1413
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:29,639
Speaker 1: it help you? He said he has one?

1414
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 2: I said I had one.

1415
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:33,519
Speaker 4: Well, she asked you a follow a question and you

1416
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 4: ignored hers. What she's angry about?

1417
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 2: I couldn't.

1418
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't hear. I'm bad.

1419
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:48,799
Speaker 2: It helped me sleep better because Jackie got on fifty.

1420
01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 2: I just answered, are you all right?

1421
01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: We're moving on, and you.

1422
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:58,880
Speaker 2: Are telling me that it's a little delay right now.

1423
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 4: It's throwing off because you normally real shop and quick

1424
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 4: and right now you got that little dull marble thing working.

1425
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 2: It's not me, okay, it's not me, all right?

1426
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 9: What'd your we're moving on? Would you rather tell your mate?

1427
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 9: Would you what'd your move? Would you rather tell your

1428
01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 9: mate everything you did yesterday? Tell your mate every single

1429
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:26,400
Speaker 9: thing you did? Or would you rather buy her a car?

1430
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:28,559
Speaker 2: About a car?

1431
01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 1: You can't tell her what you doing?

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01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 7: Yes?

1433
01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 12: Yes, because it's every other day always somebody mate. I

1434
01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 12: mean this, you know, just in case you do something

1435
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 12: real crazy.

1436
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 2: You know the argument I'm trying to avoid.

1437
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 1: Surely, So you're gonna buy her a car?

1438
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:50,400
Speaker 2: Okay, so you go.

1439
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 4: So so when I called a fleet, you didn't have

1440
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 4: time to talk to me, but you would swear at

1441
01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:01,439
Speaker 4: the golf store with who let's see here, here's a

1442
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:03,040
Speaker 4: car here here?

1443
01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh okay, like that all right?

1444
01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:12,600
Speaker 9: Would you rather do five different positions every time you

1445
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 9: were intimate? Or only one position forever?

1446
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 2: Theiet a spice of life. I just think five.

1447
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:25,680
Speaker 9: Five different times every single time? Yeah, or only one

1448
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:26,759
Speaker 9: position forever?

1449
01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 6: No?

1450
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 2: I like that five.

1451
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:38,760
Speaker 16: Them five all right, lovers, Yeah, yeah, we got five years,

1452
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 16: all right, not one five every single time.

1453
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 2: Same. Hold on, man, you're getting bored. All right.

1454
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 1: That's today's version of would you Rather?

1455
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 9: And at forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll be

1456
01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 9: back with our last break of the day and some

1457
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:59,599
Speaker 9: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right

1458
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 9: after you're listening.

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01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:03,679
Speaker 5: Morning show.

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01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we are last breakup the day.

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01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:08,679
Speaker 1: It's been a good Monday. It's been a good monday.

1462
01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 9: Yeah anyway, all right, Steve, So time for you now

1463
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:16,680
Speaker 9: to leave us with some closing remarks like you always do,

1464
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:18,320
Speaker 9: some good ones as usual.

1465
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 10: You know.

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01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 4: I was thinking the other day because this year my

1467
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 4: vacation was more spiritual than it's ever been. And I

1468
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 4: kid you not to keep saying it, but God really

1469
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 4: really opened up my eyes to a lot of things,

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01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 4: and I have no problem sharing it, man, And I've

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01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:42,080
Speaker 4: learned so much that I'm kind of aggravated at myself

1472
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 4: a little bit that I didn't take the time to

1473
01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 4: sit down and really let his presence speak to me

1474
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:54,760
Speaker 4: the way I did this year. I'm kind of aggravated

1475
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:58,800
Speaker 4: at myself that I didn't do this years ago, and

1476
01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 4: I found out real quick that I was wasting a

1477
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:05,360
Speaker 4: lot of time being mad at myself because how many

1478
01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 4: times have you said in your life? If I only

1479
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:12,760
Speaker 4: knew then what I know now, But you know what

1480
01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 4: I had to come to terms with, I just wouldn't

1481
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 4: have taken this information and appreciated it the same way.

1482
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:23,800
Speaker 4: And I think all of us when we sit back

1483
01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:26,679
Speaker 4: and people asked us questions like if you could change anything,

1484
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 4: what would you change in your life? Or if you

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01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:32,599
Speaker 4: were talking to your twenty year old self, what would

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01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 4: you say to your twenty year old self. I don't

1487
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:38,519
Speaker 4: mind answering that question what would I say to my

1488
01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:42,719
Speaker 4: twenty year old self? But the question is often asked,

1489
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:48,639
Speaker 4: if you could change anything, what would you change? Well,

1490
01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 4: I know a lot of stuff in my life that

1491
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:55,719
Speaker 4: lasted a lot longer than I wanted to. I didn't

1492
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,160
Speaker 4: think I needed to live in a car for three years.

1493
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,800
Speaker 4: After I learned what he was teaching me, it took

1494
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 4: three years for me to get it. I didn't think

1495
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 4: that I needed to get divorced, But after getting divorced, I.

1496
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,760
Speaker 2: Learned what he was trying to teach me.

1497
01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:20,639
Speaker 4: Because what you got to understand is behind and I've

1498
01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:25,120
Speaker 4: said this several times before, behind every moment of adversity,

1499
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 4: there's a lesson and there's a blessing. And so all

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01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:32,400
Speaker 4: the experiences that I've had in my life have led

1501
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:37,680
Speaker 4: to some incredible lessons and some incredible blessings. Now, the

1502
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 4: lessons you don't like them all the time, because being

1503
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 4: disciplined nobody likes that.

1504
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:45,320
Speaker 2: But the blessings you do like.

1505
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 4: But in every last one of those lessons, if I

1506
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:54,560
Speaker 4: stayed the course and paid attention, that was always a

1507
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:55,680
Speaker 4: blessing behind it.

1508
01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:59,720
Speaker 2: So I can't change anything.

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01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:04,920
Speaker 4: That's ever happened to me because that's how it became experienced.

1510
01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 4: That's how you've become experienced. That's why you know what

1511
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,760
Speaker 4: you know. That's why you can cope with what you

1512
01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:15,080
Speaker 4: can cope with. A lot of people complain about the

1513
01:21:15,280 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 4: hardships that they've had in their life, But what people

1514
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 4: sometimes don't look at is that in spite of those hardships,

1515
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 4: I mean, look at you. You survived every last one

1516
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:29,160
Speaker 4: of them. Not one of them took you out because

1517
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:34,160
Speaker 4: you still him. So instead of studying, reminiscenting and talking

1518
01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:36,880
Speaker 4: about how hard you done, had it Why don't you

1519
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 4: sow some gratitude for the fact that he brought you

1520
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 4: through it?

1521
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:46,680
Speaker 2: And I promise you you're stronger for it. You get stronger.

1522
01:21:46,320 --> 01:21:51,799
Speaker 4: Because you've been challenged, You get you get tougher because

1523
01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 4: you get you've been whooped on.

1524
01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:58,880
Speaker 2: You know things because you are now experienced. You know

1525
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 2: how to fight cause you've been beat. You know how

1526
01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:05,599
Speaker 2: to get up cause you kept getting knocked down.

1527
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:12,240
Speaker 4: Man, Ain't that amazing man that sometimes you have to

1528
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:14,519
Speaker 4: realize that you got to go.

1529
01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:17,719
Speaker 2: Through some things to end up with some things.

1530
01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:20,879
Speaker 4: I just would not be the person I am today,

1531
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:23,840
Speaker 4: and you would not be the person that you are

1532
01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:27,240
Speaker 4: today had you not gone through what you gone through. Now,

1533
01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,840
Speaker 4: I guess what I got that you was uncomfortable with

1534
01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:33,080
Speaker 4: the fact that you didn't meet your father or your

1535
01:22:33,240 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 4: mom passed early. I got you uncomfortable with the fact

1536
01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:41,160
Speaker 4: that you were adopted. I'm god that you're uncomfortable with

1537
01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,519
Speaker 4: the fact that you had to go through Falster care.

1538
01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 4: I got you uncomfortable with all of that. But ain't

1539
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:50,240
Speaker 4: you still here though it didn't break you? But see,

1540
01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:54,599
Speaker 4: if you don't move past the lesson, if you keep

1541
01:22:54,760 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 4: going over the lesson, you'll never make yourself available for

1542
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 4: the blessed. I had to go through this, and then

1543
01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:05,599
Speaker 4: I went through that. You keep going over the lesson.

1544
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:09,240
Speaker 4: I can't believe the Lord let me get adopted and

1545
01:23:09,320 --> 01:23:11,040
Speaker 4: I never met my mother and father.

1546
01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 2: I got that.

1547
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 4: I can't believe they put me in foster care. They

1548
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 4: must have didn't want me. I understand all of that.

1549
01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:21,600
Speaker 4: But when you get through saying all of that, have

1550
01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 4: you ever thought that just maybe in there, it made

1551
01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:30,759
Speaker 4: you a little bit stronger, made you a little bit tougher,

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Speaker 4: made your little bit wiser, made you a little bit

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Speaker 4: more experience, And in that that is the blessing. So

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Speaker 4: quick complaining and talking about the lesson and focus, because

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Speaker 4: behind every moment of adversity there is a lesson and

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Speaker 4: a blessing.

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Speaker 2: So now we came. None of us change what happened

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Speaker 2: to us. They probably shouldn't want to.

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Speaker 4: Class who wouldn't be who we are today shows of

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Speaker 4: my closer remarks today.

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Speaker 5: Amens swap the mic.

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Speaker 3: We can't.

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