WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Get Outta My Car

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<v Speaker 1>Second d Update. Today's second Date Update should be a

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<v Speaker 1>lesson to every guy out there listening. If you're ever

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date and some other dude comes up

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<v Speaker 1>and talks to the girl that you're with, you instantly

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<v Speaker 1>punch that guy in the face. You don't hesitate, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't ask what's going on. You just walk up punch

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<v Speaker 1>the dude in the face, because if you don't, you

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<v Speaker 1>look weak. One No, Two, she's not gonna respect you.

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<v Speaker 1>And three, your days just gonna end horribly. You've given

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of bad advice, but that may win right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Travis is on the phone and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second Date update today with a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Liz Travis. Don't you wish now that you would have

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<v Speaker 1>just punched that guy in the face. Oh gosh, jubil

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that was the first thing I would have done.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have just put the drinks down and put

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<v Speaker 1>one right in the ridiculous There's no way that's the

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<v Speaker 1>answer to any date ever. Travis, why don't you tell

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<v Speaker 1>everybody what happened on your date? It sounds like it

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<v Speaker 1>ended terribly. Yeah, I didn't go so well. I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I took this girl out, and while I'm at the

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<v Speaker 1>bar ordering us a couple of drinks, I look over

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<v Speaker 1>and this dude is talking to her, and she's not

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<v Speaker 1>like sending him away, She's just sort of talking to them.

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<v Speaker 1>Slow down, you're how far into this date? Fifteen maybe

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes in? I mean, the date was certainly in progress.

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<v Speaker 1>She was talking to a guy fifteen minutes to a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would that make you so angry? Well, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>angry at that point at all. I Mean, she was

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty girl sitting alone at a table at a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not surprised the guy's going to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, when I showed back up with the drinks,

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<v Speaker 1>the dude didn't leave. That's annoying. I was joking about

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<v Speaker 1>the punching in the face thing, but that is annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>When somebody's hitting on the girl that you're with and

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<v Speaker 1>then you walk up to the table and the guy

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't leave, It's like, Hey, I'm obviously here with her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you had plenty of opportunity to ask for a number.

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<v Speaker 1>She could have given it to you behind my back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you could leave and call her later. But

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<v Speaker 1>at least leave my date alone, right, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>clearly sat to drink down in front of her and

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<v Speaker 1>sat down right next to her. Did she seem uncomfortable? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, Like at first I wasn't even I thought

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she knew the guy, but it turns out she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you say to him then when you

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<v Speaker 1>sat down? I mean, he was there long enough that

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<v Speaker 1>I just finally introduced myself, like, hey, I'm Travis, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sort of on a date with the girl that you're

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<v Speaker 1>hitting on. Would you mind giving us just a few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes alone, sir? Right? And when did the guy finally leave?

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<v Speaker 1>He left, like shortly after I introduced myself. Whether he

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<v Speaker 1>got the drifts or not, I don't know. But when

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<v Speaker 1>she and I were leaving, I was like that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that was sort of weird, right, Like why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of let the guy know you were on a date? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And then she kind of was like it was no

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. And that's when I started getting annoyed, So

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<v Speaker 1>you were hoping that she would have taken the initiative

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<v Speaker 1>and been like, hey, you know, I'm sort of hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with my buddy Trav here Kidney, maybe move it

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<v Speaker 1>along and let me finish my date with this strapping gentleman. Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it could have been a little more subtle,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, at least just get rid of the dude.

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<v Speaker 1>So according to your email, it was in the car

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<v Speaker 1>on the ride home where things got awkward. Yes, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me about that. Well, she just kept insisting that it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a big deal, and I just told her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>any normal person would have just said, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you'll just excuse me, I'm on a date, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good thing to say to a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Any normal person would have done this. What is wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with you? I won't say. Maybe I got a little

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<v Speaker 1>out of hand and I stopped the car and told

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<v Speaker 1>her to get out. Why you made your date get

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<v Speaker 1>out of the car? Yeah. I was frustrated and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have anything to say to her anymore, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted her to get out of the car. I

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<v Speaker 1>told her to find another way. Oh that was the

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<v Speaker 1>most jackass thing I've ever heard. Yeah, I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>why you want to do a second date update with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl who you kicked out of your car, because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel horrible, and you know I liked her. I

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<v Speaker 1>just lost my temper a little bit. She was the

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<v Speaker 1>first date, and you kicked her out of the car. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I've kicked a few girls out of my car before,

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<v Speaker 1>but those are only girls. I was like, in a

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<v Speaker 1>year two year long relationship with that that I can

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<v Speaker 1>kick them out at that point. But on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't kick somebody out of the car, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I called you, guys, And if this works,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's going to be an excellent story.

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<v Speaker 1>No way. You sound like you have the worst temper

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<v Speaker 1>problem i've ever heard. I would tell this girl, if

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<v Speaker 1>she was on the phone, not to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>you again. Listen, I wasn't the onliest. She was raising

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<v Speaker 1>her voice and arguing right back with me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe that's what I liked. You got a little

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<v Speaker 1>fire in her eyes. What did you? What did she

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<v Speaker 1>do when you said get out of my car and walk?

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<v Speaker 1>She she just kind of stared at me for a

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<v Speaker 1>second and dropped an F bomb on me, said she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to hang out with anyway and got out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, god, I mean it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>think that this is kind of a funny story. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny. It's kind of passionate. Passionate. Seen every

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<v Speaker 1>couple fights once in a while. We just had ours

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date. There you go. No, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you got you got it all out of the way,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's all uphill from here. I'm assuming you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her since you kicked her out of your car.

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<v Speaker 1>He hasn't responded to any of my test You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been a couple of apology tch. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>say in an apology text? I'm sorry for kicking you

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<v Speaker 1>out of my car. I said something like, you know, boy,

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<v Speaker 1>the situation escalated. L listen, I know this whole thing

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty stupid. I lost my tinper. It got out

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<v Speaker 1>of hand, and I'm really just hoping for a second chance. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. All right, I'm good, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on brooking jubil in the morning. Second d we're

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<v Speaker 1>about to call Liz. Travis is on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>He and Liz went out on a date. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to know too much about their date other than

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of it, he yelled at her, kicked

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<v Speaker 1>her out of the car, and made her find her

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<v Speaker 1>own way home. So they haven't talked since, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it would be hilarious if we get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I go, was it the fact that he

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<v Speaker 1>yelled at you and kicked her out of the car,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reason you're not calling her back? And she goes, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just noticed that dinner he was using the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>fork and I just can't go out with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And that's not even the issue at all, Travis.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that there's any possibility of that or

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<v Speaker 1>you're pretty sure kicking her out of your car and

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at her is what did you in I'm almost

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<v Speaker 1>positive kicking her out of the car and almost you know, Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't think in all the second

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<v Speaker 1>date updates we've done, I don't think anybody has had

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<v Speaker 1>a bigger hole to dig themselves out of than you.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, Well, that's why I called you. Guys, have

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<v Speaker 1>you been thinking a lot about what you want to

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<v Speaker 1>say to this girl if you do, in fact get

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her. I mean, I don't think there's

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<v Speaker 1>much else to say other than dear God, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to apologize and to sort of explain

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<v Speaker 1>myself and just let her know that if she does

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<v Speaker 1>give me a second chance, that sort of thing would

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<v Speaker 1>never happen again. Okay, I'm going a dillar phone of

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<v Speaker 1>her right now. All right, Okay, Hello, Hi is this Liz? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hi? Liz? How are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who that is. Oh, just hurt my ego a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit there, Liz. This is Jewil from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. All right, good

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<v Speaker 1>for you, Yeah, thanks, I like it. Listen, Liz. I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's probably weird to receive a phone call from

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<v Speaker 1>a radio program, but we recently got an email about

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<v Speaker 1>you from one of our listeners and they asked us

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<v Speaker 1>to call you. Really. Yeah, his name is Travis. Travis. Yes, really,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy called you. He did. I'm gonna what did

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<v Speaker 1>he say? What he's emailing you about me? What he said?

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<v Speaker 1>He is? I'm going to take a stab in the

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<v Speaker 1>dark and say that you probably remember going out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with him, that geys idiot. That's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>nicer word than I would have used. Travis emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you because you're not answering

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<v Speaker 1>any of us text messages after your date. Understandably, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your date. He said that he started

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<v Speaker 1>like he got upset with you in the car, and

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<v Speaker 1>you guys argued, and then he ended up kicking you

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<v Speaker 1>out of the car. He actually told you that he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us all about the date, and he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>us to get you on the phone to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that he feels really bad, Oh my god, and would

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<v Speaker 1>like an opportunity to try to explain to you what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just so weird because you know, we got

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<v Speaker 1>along and I thought, you know, it's like the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the date and we've got to stay fight and

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<v Speaker 1>I just I understanding to call myself a cab from

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<v Speaker 1>a gas station. Do you mind talking to us for

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<v Speaker 1>just a second to explain the date in your words?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he said that he came back and a guy

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<v Speaker 1>was hitting on you and that's what started the argument.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what happened I'm sitting at the table.

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<v Speaker 1>He gets up. This guy comes over from bar and

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<v Speaker 1>starts talking to me. He's not being grosser or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>He just starts chatting with me. And we were just talking,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was just trying to be kind of

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<v Speaker 1>friendly or whatever, and Travis came back to the table

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<v Speaker 1>with drinks and there was kind of an awkward moment there,

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<v Speaker 1>but then it was fine, and you know, the date

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<v Speaker 1>went on and we kind of had a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then nothing happened until the car when when we

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<v Speaker 1>started fighting. Tell us how that happened. We got into

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<v Speaker 1>the car and he basically said, you should have said

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<v Speaker 1>something to that guy. And I said, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you wanted to leave, why didn't you say something

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<v Speaker 1>to the guy? And then if he came back with

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<v Speaker 1>something else, you should have said something to that guy. Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>you're supposed to wait. I can't wait with all this

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<v Speaker 1>bullets flying around. Come on, hey, Liz, Travis is on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening. That's Travis keeps the listening the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. Yeah he has. It's part of the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing that we do. But Travis just ruined it. Way

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<v Speaker 1>to go, Travis, Well, listen, this is this is why

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<v Speaker 1>they call. I want to say that I am very

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<v Speaker 1>very sorry. I just got I lost my tin for

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. That's not who I am. Whatever, Come on, Liz,

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<v Speaker 1>happens you should have sent that guy packing. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>should have, and maybe things would have been different, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's just not what happened. So I know and listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry. And all I've been able to do

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<v Speaker 1>is think about how bad I feel, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to make up for this. I want I want

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. What makes you think you deserve a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? Because on a second date, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>would make you feel really good. Whoa you deserve to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on the second date with a real man?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? If I was on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you, You're right, we get go on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating sometimes real men get upsessed, but a real man

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<v Speaker 1>also knows how to take care of business when the

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<v Speaker 1>time is right. Oh, I just you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>so attracted to you. The half of me wanted to scream,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, the other half of me wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>make out with you. What did you just say? I

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<v Speaker 1>could I couldn't decide whether I wanted to just yell

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<v Speaker 1>at you were like, you know, pull you in the

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<v Speaker 1>backseat and just start making out? You wanted to make

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<v Speaker 1>out with me? Yes? I would super are attracted to you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Anytime I want to make out with a girl, I

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<v Speaker 1>alwaysn't up kicking her out of my car? What else

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<v Speaker 1>did you want to do to me? Whoa? Okay? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you know anything you were up for? Like? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you actually attracted to him? Still? I don't know. What

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<v Speaker 1>did he want to do? What did you want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>What is going on? Well? I tell you this, it

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<v Speaker 1>would involved a lot less talking. I'm ready. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>afraid to tell people what it was you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do to me? I'm not afraid of anything. What is

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Why didn't you say it? Why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>say what you wanted to do to me? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys doing? Stop? What is happening? Well? You know that? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Travis and Liz, what are you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Say it? If you're so if you're so bold, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you say it on the radio? What you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do? Did you want to pull my hair? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do? Is this for real? Hey? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys screwing with us right now? Did you set

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<v Speaker 1>this whole second date up, so you guys, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know, then, what do you guys do it? How

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<v Speaker 1>is this turning into dirty talk between you guys? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>he talks to me pretty dirty online before we ever

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<v Speaker 1>even went out. I just want to hear it out loud.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still not getting it at all. You're not mad

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<v Speaker 1>at him for kicking you out of the car now

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<v Speaker 1>or you are? Yeah? I mad at him. I think

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he needs to make it up to me. This

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<v Speaker 1>is weird. I'm saying that maybe we can just channel

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<v Speaker 1>that anger and have a really good second date. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are just you guys are just with me right,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be. I'm noting with you, but Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, Liz, I'm just being honest. This guy, for

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<v Speaker 1>me is that we agreed on. He was an as

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<v Speaker 1>what happened to that? He is ans? But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes the girl's got to get hers go? All right? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Should I just pay for a hotel room? At this point?

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<v Speaker 1>You know how much I've been love you right now? People,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how jealous I am of you right now? Travis.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know what the hell is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like I won the online dating lottery. This

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<v Speaker 1>is so crazy, Travis. I'm letting you know we're not ding.

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<v Speaker 1>That is totally fine with me. Got this text message

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight five nine two about the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update that we just played. All it says is

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<v Speaker 1>in all caps, what is happening? It's Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. I think that's everybody's sentiment. Travis wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call this girl named Liz. Travis thought he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back because he got in an argument

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<v Speaker 1>with her and kicked her out of the car on

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<v Speaker 1>their first date. That is the reason that she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling back. But then they started arguing and then it

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<v Speaker 1>turned into like weird sexual tension and then dirty talk,

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<v Speaker 1>and they basically agreed to go out and just hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>Recapping it sounds just as weird as it was. I

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<v Speaker 1>still feel a little dirty. Another text in at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eight five nights he says, this is the first time

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<v Speaker 1>your show has actually turned me on. Now I have

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<v Speaker 1>to wait five minutes before I get out of my

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<v Speaker 1>hard to go to work. Thanks a lot, guys. Another

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<v Speaker 1>one that says Jebil ruined the second date update by

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<v Speaker 1>interrupting the conversation. It was just getting good, like we

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<v Speaker 1>still are on the radio and have to abide by

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<v Speaker 1>some guidelines. And as soon as she started saying, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to pull my hair? I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to. We have to take the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation off the radio. I think at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just proves how creepy some of you

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<v Speaker 1>listeners are. What are you thinking? Just the internet dating world,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where these two met. And apparently like when she

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<v Speaker 1>was arguing, she said, oh he was talking dirted to

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<v Speaker 1>me before we even went out, so why not do

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<v Speaker 1>it now? I think I need to start online dating,

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<v Speaker 1>is what I think. Remember, if you want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update I'll have to do is email the show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil at movie com We will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back.