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Speaker 1: Second d Update. Today's second Date Update should be a
Speaker 1: lesson to every guy out there listening. If you're ever
Speaker 1: out on a date and some other dude comes up
Speaker 1: and talks to the girl that you're with, you instantly
Speaker 1: punch that guy in the face. You don't hesitate, you
Speaker 1: don't ask what's going on. You just walk up punch
Speaker 1: the dude in the face, because if you don't, you
Speaker 1: look weak. One No, Two, she's not gonna respect you.
Speaker 1: And three, your days just gonna end horribly. You've given
Speaker 1: a lot of bad advice, but that may win right.
Speaker 1: You know, Travis is on the phone and wants to
Speaker 1: do a second Date update today with a girl named
Speaker 1: Liz Travis. Don't you wish now that you would have
Speaker 1: just punched that guy in the face. Oh gosh, jubil
Speaker 1: I wish that was the first thing I would have done.
Speaker 1: I would have just put the drinks down and put
Speaker 1: one right in the ridiculous There's no way that's the
Speaker 1: answer to any date ever. Travis, why don't you tell
Speaker 1: everybody what happened on your date? It sounds like it
Speaker 1: ended terribly. Yeah, I didn't go so well. I you know,
Speaker 1: I took this girl out, and while I'm at the
Speaker 1: bar ordering us a couple of drinks, I look over
Speaker 1: and this dude is talking to her, and she's not
Speaker 1: like sending him away, She's just sort of talking to them.
Speaker 1: Slow down, you're how far into this date? Fifteen maybe
Speaker 1: twenty minutes in? I mean, the date was certainly in progress.
Speaker 1: She was talking to a guy fifteen minutes to a date.
Speaker 1: Why would that make you so angry? Well, it wasn't
Speaker 1: angry at that point at all. I Mean, she was
Speaker 1: a pretty girl sitting alone at a table at a bar,
Speaker 1: so I'm not surprised the guy's going to talk to her.
Speaker 1: But you know, when I showed back up with the drinks,
Speaker 1: the dude didn't leave. That's annoying. I was joking about
Speaker 1: the punching in the face thing, but that is annoying.
Speaker 1: When somebody's hitting on the girl that you're with and
Speaker 1: then you walk up to the table and the guy
Speaker 1: doesn't leave, It's like, Hey, I'm obviously here with her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you had plenty of opportunity to ask for a number.
Speaker 1: She could have given it to you behind my back,
Speaker 1: and then you could leave and call her later. But
Speaker 1: at least leave my date alone, right, I mean I
Speaker 1: clearly sat to drink down in front of her and
Speaker 1: sat down right next to her. Did she seem uncomfortable? No?
Speaker 1: Not really, Like at first I wasn't even I thought
Speaker 1: maybe she knew the guy, but it turns out she didn't.
Speaker 1: So what did you say to him then when you
Speaker 1: sat down? I mean, he was there long enough that
Speaker 1: I just finally introduced myself, like, hey, I'm Travis, I'm
Speaker 1: sort of on a date with the girl that you're
Speaker 1: hitting on. Would you mind giving us just a few
Speaker 1: minutes alone, sir? Right? And when did the guy finally leave?
Speaker 1: He left, like shortly after I introduced myself. Whether he
Speaker 1: got the drifts or not, I don't know. But when
Speaker 1: she and I were leaving, I was like that, you know,
Speaker 1: that was sort of weird, right, Like why didn't you
Speaker 1: kind of let the guy know you were on a date? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And then she kind of was like it was no
Speaker 1: big deal. And that's when I started getting annoyed, So
Speaker 1: you were hoping that she would have taken the initiative
Speaker 1: and been like, hey, you know, I'm sort of hanging
Speaker 1: out with my buddy Trav here Kidney, maybe move it
Speaker 1: along and let me finish my date with this strapping gentleman. Exactly.
Speaker 1: I mean it could have been a little more subtle,
Speaker 1: but I mean, at least just get rid of the dude.
Speaker 1: So according to your email, it was in the car
Speaker 1: on the ride home where things got awkward. Yes, tell
Speaker 1: me about that. Well, she just kept insisting that it
Speaker 1: wasn't a big deal, and I just told her. You know,
Speaker 1: any normal person would have just said, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: if you'll just excuse me, I'm on a date, right,
Speaker 1: that's a good thing to say to a first date.
Speaker 1: Any normal person would have done this. What is wrong
Speaker 1: with you? I won't say. Maybe I got a little
Speaker 1: out of hand and I stopped the car and told
Speaker 1: her to get out. Why you made your date get
Speaker 1: out of the car? Yeah. I was frustrated and I
Speaker 1: didn't have anything to say to her anymore, and I
Speaker 1: just wanted her to get out of the car. I
Speaker 1: told her to find another way. Oh that was the
Speaker 1: most jackass thing I've ever heard. Yeah, I don't understand
Speaker 1: why you want to do a second date update with
Speaker 1: a girl who you kicked out of your car, because
Speaker 1: I feel horrible, and you know I liked her. I
Speaker 1: just lost my temper a little bit. She was the
Speaker 1: first date, and you kicked her out of the car. Listen.
Speaker 1: I've kicked a few girls out of my car before,
Speaker 1: but those are only girls. I was like, in a
Speaker 1: year two year long relationship with that that I can
Speaker 1: kick them out at that point. But on a first date,
Speaker 1: you don't kick somebody out of the car, I know.
Speaker 1: And that's why I called you, guys, And if this works,
Speaker 1: I just think it's going to be an excellent story.
Speaker 1: No way. You sound like you have the worst temper
Speaker 1: problem i've ever heard. I would tell this girl, if
Speaker 1: she was on the phone, not to go out with
Speaker 1: you again. Listen, I wasn't the onliest. She was raising
Speaker 1: her voice and arguing right back with me, you know,
Speaker 1: and maybe that's what I liked. You got a little
Speaker 1: fire in her eyes. What did you? What did she
Speaker 1: do when you said get out of my car and walk?
Speaker 1: She she just kind of stared at me for a
Speaker 1: second and dropped an F bomb on me, said she
Speaker 1: didn't want to hang out with anyway and got out.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, god, I mean it sounds like you
Speaker 1: think that this is kind of a funny story. It's
Speaker 1: kind of funny. It's kind of passionate. Passionate. Seen every
Speaker 1: couple fights once in a while. We just had ours
Speaker 1: on the first date. There you go. No, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you got you got it all out of the way,
Speaker 1: so it's all uphill from here. I'm assuming you haven't
Speaker 1: talked to her since you kicked her out of your car.
Speaker 1: He hasn't responded to any of my test You know,
Speaker 1: I've been a couple of apology tch. What did you
Speaker 1: say in an apology text? I'm sorry for kicking you
Speaker 1: out of my car. I said something like, you know, boy,
Speaker 1: the situation escalated. L listen, I know this whole thing
Speaker 1: was pretty stupid. I lost my tinper. It got out
Speaker 1: of hand, and I'm really just hoping for a second chance. Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song, come back, call her and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. All right, I'm good, Okay,
Speaker 1: hang on brooking jubil in the morning. Second d we're
Speaker 1: about to call Liz. Travis is on the phone with us.
Speaker 1: He and Liz went out on a date. You don't
Speaker 1: need to know too much about their date other than
Speaker 1: at the end of it, he yelled at her, kicked
Speaker 1: her out of the car, and made her find her
Speaker 1: own way home. So they haven't talked since, but I
Speaker 1: think it would be hilarious if we get her on
Speaker 1: the phone. I go, was it the fact that he
Speaker 1: yelled at you and kicked her out of the car,
Speaker 1: that's the reason you're not calling her back? And she goes, no,
Speaker 1: I just noticed that dinner he was using the wrong
Speaker 1: fork and I just can't go out with a guy
Speaker 1: like that. And that's not even the issue at all, Travis.
Speaker 1: Do you think that there's any possibility of that or
Speaker 1: you're pretty sure kicking her out of your car and
Speaker 1: yelling at her is what did you in I'm almost
Speaker 1: positive kicking her out of the car and almost you know, Travis,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't think in all the second
Speaker 1: date updates we've done, I don't think anybody has had
Speaker 1: a bigger hole to dig themselves out of than you.
Speaker 1: Right now, Well, that's why I called you. Guys, have
Speaker 1: you been thinking a lot about what you want to
Speaker 1: say to this girl if you do, in fact get
Speaker 1: to talk to her. I mean, I don't think there's
Speaker 1: much else to say other than dear God, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I just want to apologize and to sort of explain
Speaker 1: myself and just let her know that if she does
Speaker 1: give me a second chance, that sort of thing would
Speaker 1: never happen again. Okay, I'm going a dillar phone of
Speaker 1: her right now. All right, Okay, Hello, Hi is this Liz? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hi? Liz? How are you? This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh, I don't
Speaker 1: know who that is. Oh, just hurt my ego a
Speaker 1: little bit there, Liz. This is Jewil from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. All right, good
Speaker 1: for you, Yeah, thanks, I like it. Listen, Liz. I
Speaker 1: know it's probably weird to receive a phone call from
Speaker 1: a radio program, but we recently got an email about
Speaker 1: you from one of our listeners and they asked us
Speaker 1: to call you. Really. Yeah, his name is Travis. Travis. Yes, really,
Speaker 1: that guy called you. He did. I'm gonna what did
Speaker 1: he say? What he's emailing you about me? What he said?
Speaker 1: He is? I'm going to take a stab in the
Speaker 1: dark and say that you probably remember going out on
Speaker 1: a date with him, that geys idiot. That's a lot
Speaker 1: nicer word than I would have used. Travis emailed us
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you because you're not answering
Speaker 1: any of us text messages after your date. Understandably, he
Speaker 1: told us about your date. He said that he started
Speaker 1: like he got upset with you in the car, and
Speaker 1: you guys argued, and then he ended up kicking you
Speaker 1: out of the car. He actually told you that he did.
Speaker 1: He told us all about the date, and he wanted
Speaker 1: us to get you on the phone to tell you
Speaker 1: that he feels really bad, Oh my god, and would
Speaker 1: like an opportunity to try to explain to you what happened.
Speaker 1: It was just so weird because you know, we got
Speaker 1: along and I thought, you know, it's like the end
Speaker 1: of the date and we've got to stay fight and
Speaker 1: I just I understanding to call myself a cab from
Speaker 1: a gas station. Do you mind talking to us for
Speaker 1: just a second to explain the date in your words?
Speaker 1: Because he said that he came back and a guy
Speaker 1: was hitting on you and that's what started the argument.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what happened I'm sitting at the table.
Speaker 1: He gets up. This guy comes over from bar and
Speaker 1: starts talking to me. He's not being grosser or anything.
Speaker 1: He just starts chatting with me. And we were just talking,
Speaker 1: you know, I was just trying to be kind of
Speaker 1: friendly or whatever, and Travis came back to the table
Speaker 1: with drinks and there was kind of an awkward moment there,
Speaker 1: but then it was fine, and you know, the date
Speaker 1: went on and we kind of had a good time,
Speaker 1: and then nothing happened until the car when when we
Speaker 1: started fighting. Tell us how that happened. We got into
Speaker 1: the car and he basically said, you should have said
Speaker 1: something to that guy. And I said, well, you know,
Speaker 1: if you wanted to leave, why didn't you say something
Speaker 1: to the guy? And then if he came back with
Speaker 1: something else, you should have said something to that guy. Travis,
Speaker 1: you're supposed to wait. I can't wait with all this
Speaker 1: bullets flying around. Come on, hey, Liz, Travis is on
Speaker 1: the other line listening. That's Travis keeps the listening the
Speaker 1: whole time. Yeah he has. It's part of the whole
Speaker 1: thing that we do. But Travis just ruined it. Way
Speaker 1: to go, Travis, Well, listen, this is this is why
Speaker 1: they call. I want to say that I am very
Speaker 1: very sorry. I just got I lost my tin for
Speaker 1: a little bit. That's not who I am. Whatever, Come on, Liz,
Speaker 1: happens you should have sent that guy packing. Maybe I
Speaker 1: should have, and maybe things would have been different, but
Speaker 1: that's just not what happened. So I know and listen.
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. And all I've been able to do
Speaker 1: is think about how bad I feel, and I just
Speaker 1: want to make up for this. I want I want
Speaker 1: a second date. What makes you think you deserve a
Speaker 1: second date? Because on a second date, I think I
Speaker 1: would make you feel really good. Whoa you deserve to
Speaker 1: go out on the second date with a real man?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? If I was on a
Speaker 1: date with you, You're right, we get go on a
Speaker 1: dating sometimes real men get upsessed, but a real man
Speaker 1: also knows how to take care of business when the
Speaker 1: time is right. Oh, I just you know, I was
Speaker 1: so attracted to you. The half of me wanted to scream,
Speaker 1: and they're like, the other half of me wanted to
Speaker 1: make out with you. What did you just say? I
Speaker 1: could I couldn't decide whether I wanted to just yell
Speaker 1: at you were like, you know, pull you in the
Speaker 1: backseat and just start making out? You wanted to make
Speaker 1: out with me? Yes? I would super are attracted to you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Anytime I want to make out with a girl, I
Speaker 1: alwaysn't up kicking her out of my car? What else
Speaker 1: did you want to do to me? Whoa? Okay? Did
Speaker 1: you know anything you were up for? Like? What are
Speaker 1: you actually attracted to him? Still? I don't know. What
Speaker 1: did he want to do? What did you want to do?
Speaker 1: What is going on? Well? I tell you this, it
Speaker 1: would involved a lot less talking. I'm ready. Are you
Speaker 1: afraid to tell people what it was you wanted to
Speaker 1: do to me? I'm not afraid of anything. What is
Speaker 1: going on? Why didn't you say it? Why didn't you
Speaker 1: say what you wanted to do to me? What are
Speaker 1: you guys doing? Stop? What is happening? Well? You know that? Hey?
Speaker 1: Hold on, Travis and Liz, what are you guys doing?
Speaker 1: Say it? If you're so if you're so bold, why
Speaker 1: don't you say it on the radio? What you wanted
Speaker 1: to do? Did you want to pull my hair? Would
Speaker 1: you want to do? Is this for real? Hey? Are
Speaker 1: you guys screwing with us right now? Did you set
Speaker 1: this whole second date up, so you guys, I want
Speaker 1: to know, then, what do you guys do it? How
Speaker 1: is this turning into dirty talk between you guys? Listen,
Speaker 1: he talks to me pretty dirty online before we ever
Speaker 1: even went out. I just want to hear it out loud.
Speaker 1: I'm still not getting it at all. You're not mad
Speaker 1: at him for kicking you out of the car now
Speaker 1: or you are? Yeah? I mad at him. I think
Speaker 1: maybe he needs to make it up to me. This
Speaker 1: is weird. I'm saying that maybe we can just channel
Speaker 1: that anger and have a really good second date. You guys,
Speaker 1: You guys are just you guys are just with me right,
Speaker 1: you have to be. I'm noting with you, but Travis,
Speaker 1: Oh god, Liz, I'm just being honest. This guy, for
Speaker 1: me is that we agreed on. He was an as
Speaker 1: what happened to that? He is ans? But you know what,
Speaker 1: sometimes the girl's got to get hers go? All right? Well?
Speaker 1: Should I just pay for a hotel room? At this point?
Speaker 1: You know how much I've been love you right now? People,
Speaker 1: you know how jealous I am of you right now? Travis.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what the hell is going on?
Speaker 1: But it's like I won the online dating lottery. This
Speaker 1: is so crazy, Travis. I'm letting you know we're not ding.
Speaker 1: That is totally fine with me. Got this text message
Speaker 1: in at seven eight five nine two about the second
Speaker 1: date update that we just played. All it says is
Speaker 1: in all caps, what is happening? It's Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. I think that's everybody's sentiment. Travis wanted
Speaker 1: to call this girl named Liz. Travis thought he wasn't
Speaker 1: getting a call back because he got in an argument
Speaker 1: with her and kicked her out of the car on
Speaker 1: their first date. That is the reason that she wasn't
Speaker 1: calling back. But then they started arguing and then it
Speaker 1: turned into like weird sexual tension and then dirty talk,
Speaker 1: and they basically agreed to go out and just hook up.
Speaker 1: Recapping it sounds just as weird as it was. I
Speaker 1: still feel a little dirty. Another text in at seven
Speaker 1: eight five nights he says, this is the first time
Speaker 1: your show has actually turned me on. Now I have
Speaker 1: to wait five minutes before I get out of my
Speaker 1: hard to go to work. Thanks a lot, guys. Another
Speaker 1: one that says Jebil ruined the second date update by
Speaker 1: interrupting the conversation. It was just getting good, like we
Speaker 1: still are on the radio and have to abide by
Speaker 1: some guidelines. And as soon as she started saying, do
Speaker 1: you want to pull my hair? I was just like,
Speaker 1: I have to. We have to take the rest of
Speaker 1: this conversation off the radio. I think at this point,
Speaker 1: I think it just proves how creepy some of you
Speaker 1: listeners are. What are you thinking? Just the internet dating world,
Speaker 1: that's where these two met. And apparently like when she
Speaker 1: was arguing, she said, oh he was talking dirted to
Speaker 1: me before we even went out, so why not do
Speaker 1: it now? I think I need to start online dating,
Speaker 1: is what I think. Remember, if you want a second
Speaker 1: date update I'll have to do is email the show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil at movie com We will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back.