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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Javin Kramer and Michael Coffin and I'm

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Speaker 1: her radio podcast The Black Market and Nails.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird because I feel like, oh, sorry, before

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Speaker 2: we started this episode, I was showing everyone my nails

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Speaker 2: over zoom because I just got my nails done and

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Speaker 2: very festive, might iadd very christmasy.

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Speaker 3: But you didn't even get them done. You got them did?

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Speaker 2: I got them did? But Mark and them we're saying

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Speaker 2: that there's no nail salons. I forgot that. You guys

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Speaker 2: are in full lockdown in La pretty much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you want to get your hair done, you

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Speaker 4: got to go to some back alley, your garage somewhere

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Speaker 4: where somebody will do it on the down low.

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Speaker 2: I just, I mean, I don't know. It's I just

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It just sucks. I mean because we're

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Speaker 2: not really going out out. I mean we've we've we're

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Speaker 2: doing a few things for the kids, but we're limiting

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Speaker 2: like who we see. But I feel like when we

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Speaker 2: when I do do the nails, and I guess that's

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Speaker 2: going out. But I mean, you know, you're wearing the

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Speaker 2: mask and you're like, is this really doing anything? But

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Speaker 2: I still wear it and honestly, now, I kind of

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Speaker 2: find myself like leaving Whole Foods or wherever and still

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Speaker 2: have the mask on because I'm like, this is actually

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Speaker 2: with no issues because it's freezing in Nashville right now. Yeah, finally,

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Speaker 2: everything is so cold. And we just had our hvat

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Speaker 2: guy because our poor son's room is uh he woke up.

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Speaker 2: I mean literally like like he's the only house like

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Speaker 2: the only room in the house where it's you walk

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Speaker 2: in and it's like fifty degrees and I've just some

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Speaker 2: like listen, people, you've come five times now, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: you are not leaving until there is warm air blowing

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Speaker 2: out of my son's vent And they're like, just leave

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Speaker 2: the door open, and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, that's not the right answer. Fix it now, poor

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Speaker 3: little guy. I wish I could sleep out there some

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Speaker 3: days because it's so chilly and I love it, go

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Speaker 3: for it. But I think we have it text hopefully

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Speaker 3: we'll find out tonight.

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Speaker 2: It's whenever I hear that people don't sleep in the

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Speaker 2: same room, it makes me sad, But at the same time,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, that's because they're maybe not connected. But I

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Speaker 2: would be fine if we like did our thing in

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Speaker 2: bed and cuddled and then it's like okay, good night,

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Speaker 2: and then like you go to the other room. Because

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Speaker 2: I really like to spread out, you know, like I

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Speaker 2: really like to just like starfishes when she Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: don't like to just be, you know, just in the corner.

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Speaker 2: So sometimes it's really nice when we get into a

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Speaker 2: fight and I'm like, they go to the other room.

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Speaker 4: A lot of new homes are being built with two

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Speaker 4: master bedrooms.

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Speaker 5: It's a definite trend in this direction.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like that could be bad though, too,

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Speaker 2: unless like if you're not having the connection time before

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Speaker 2: you go to the other room, does that make sense?

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Speaker 2: Like I know a couple that doesn't do any connection

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Speaker 2: time before they go to their separate suites. I mean

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Speaker 2: it kind of makes sense, Like, you know, I do

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Speaker 2: like having someone next to me though, but every once

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Speaker 2: in a while it's maybe like hey, every Monday, like

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not opposed, but the whole trend of

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Speaker 3: this being a thing, I mean, that's just dividing.

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Speaker 2: No, that doesn't seem.

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Speaker 3: That's Yeah, that's just putting a bigger wedge in relationships

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Speaker 3: and monogamy, I feel like, because even sometimes it's those

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Speaker 3: things where you go to bed and just knowing the

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Speaker 3: other person's right next to you. Otherwise it might feel

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Speaker 3: like an apartment, you know what I mean. If like

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Speaker 3: you go to the other room and you have this

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Speaker 3: whole other setup and every night you're pretty much doing

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Speaker 3: your own routine, that'll just feel weird.

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Speaker 5: That's why I take a lot of comfort in her

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Speaker 4: That's why I say I don't like sleeping alone, because

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Speaker 4: I really like looking over and having her next to me.

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Speaker 4: But to underscore my point, Architectural Digest this year called

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Speaker 4: it the hottest new trend in home building double master bedrooms.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a fresh topic. We didn't even know we were

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Speaker 2: going to get onto. That's so interesting, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: definitely interesting. But then when I say that I could

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Speaker 2: I love cuddling and falling asleep, but that's not really

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Speaker 2: your thing. So I've kind of morphed into like, okay,

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Speaker 2: like you can go then if you want.

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Speaker 3: If I can't cut and fall asleep when you I'm out.

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Speaker 2: I want to starfish get out of their room.

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Speaker 3: That's so interesting. What is this? According to a twenty

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Speaker 3: seventeen survey from the National Sleep Foundation, almost one in

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Speaker 3: four married coupled sleep and separate bedrooms.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I bet it's probably like because they're I

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Speaker 2: will say this, I if you snored, I could not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right back at you, Like I'd be like, you have.

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Speaker 2: To leave because that would just be or if you

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes

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Speaker 3: to story.

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Speaker 2: Okay, mister e snore, wait more.

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Speaker 3: But if I do, it's because I'm really, really, really,

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Speaker 3: really really tired.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: My two roommates in college once we're all was off campus,

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Speaker 3: so the way our townhouse was set up, all was

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Speaker 3: two rooms were across from each other, above me, and

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Speaker 3: they both snore so bad you would think they're faking

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Speaker 3: it right, Like it was literally like you can't be asleep.

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Speaker 3: There's no way they're asleep because the story is that bad.

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Speaker 3: And they would be and it's like they would compete

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Speaker 3: be loud. The other one would get louder and just escalate.

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Speaker 3: And my room's underneath them. This is college housing, right,

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Speaker 3: so it's not like you can hear everything in every room.

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Speaker 3: And I would get upset with them. I oufter go

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Speaker 3: can hear you downstairs, like, stop snoring. Wake them up,

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Speaker 3: so I could try to go back downstairs fall asleep

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Speaker 3: before they start storing again. I hate it.

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Speaker 2: Is it like your vomiting noise? Like it's so overdone

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Speaker 2: that like it's like I'm vaking it. It's like you're

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Anyways, let's take a break and I have another

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Speaker 3: topic I want to bring up. Oh, okay, So the

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Speaker 3: this recently. I didn't really read any like facts.

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Speaker 2: About it or I didn't really read it, but I read,

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Speaker 3: Topic of it was interesting to me. And what was

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Speaker 3: something that you used to hate that now you love running? Running?

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Speaker 3: Yeah that was easy. Yeah, scary movies and in the

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Speaker 3: course of our relationship, like I've hated them, but I

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Speaker 3: want to watch them more. One thing I refuse to

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Speaker 3: what happens to like mustard.

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Speaker 2: No, never, oh never. We are a no mustard house.

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Speaker 2: No mustard is allowed. If we have burgers. We even

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Speaker 3: No, we do not purchase. We do not waste hard

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Speaker 3: earn money on mustard. But you know, another one for

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Speaker 3: you is that I thought you're gonna say it's beats.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well okay, I didn't know like food anything.

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Speaker 2: Oh right, but that's not where like my mind didn't

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Speaker 2: go to like food, you know. Ye, No, I like

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Speaker 2: love beats now. I used to hate beats. Now I like.

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Speaker 2: But they say your taste buds and I could be wrong,

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Speaker 2: correct me if I'm wrong, Becky, But your taste buds

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Speaker 2: change every seven years, so something that you might so

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Speaker 2: maybe mustard. I mean, we don't know, never refuse. But

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Speaker 2: I didn't think I would like beats. And then all

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Speaker 2: of a sudden I had this make this beat carrot

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Speaker 2: ever had in my entire life. And now I have it.

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Speaker 2: I almost have it.

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Speaker 3: Anytime I go to the store. She's like, don't forget

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Speaker 3: to get my beats. Like she's like like like she's

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Speaker 3: loved them. For ten years. It's just like you forgot

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Speaker 3: my beats. You know, my mom has got to have

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Speaker 3: her beats. I'm like, you just started liking them yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Anything you guys can think of for.

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Speaker 6: Me, cooking in general, I was not confident in it

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Speaker 6: for the very long time, and just this year I

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Speaker 2: So just cooking, cooking, I like it.

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Speaker 5: Mine is musicals.

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 4: My wife brings it up sometimes because when we first

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Speaker 4: got together, I was like, no way, no, how Once

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Speaker 4: I started singing, I'm out. Now I find them delightful.

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Speaker 4: They bring me great joy. And maybe part of it

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Speaker 4: is my daughter is so in the broad Away and whatnot.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like the transition had already started before that.

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Speaker 4: I really enjoy a good musical.

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Speaker 3: Is there one in particular that kind of what do

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 4: Wicked was probably a pretty big turning point for me

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Speaker 4: because I thought that was pretty spectacular.

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Speaker 3: And you saw the Broadway show.

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Speaker 5: In La the Pantagious, Yeah, major, Can you.

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Speaker 2: Here's my question? Can you watch them on like a movie.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I loved La La Land.

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Speaker 3: We couldn't get through the first like ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: Wow, which is okay, maybe we should go back and

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Speaker 2: watch Lalla Land. I mean we didn't. We ended within yeah,

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Speaker 2: like five minutes. We're like, not a thing.

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Speaker 3: It's funny you say that, though, Mark, because literally last night.

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Speaker 2: Whatever night we were fighting last night.

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Speaker 3: Or the night before, I don't know, it's sorry to

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Speaker 3: keep track. Yeah, I'm a gambling man. Good odds here, Jana.

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Speaker 3: I was on my phone. Jana comes in and starts

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Speaker 3: going on Netflix and turns on the prom with James

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Speaker 2: As the minute that I didn't know what it was about.

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Speaker 2: I just was like, oh, Meryl Street, Nicole kidman, I

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Speaker 3: And as soon as they get to like the third

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I can't do this. But today

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Speaker 2: when I was running on the treadmill and I was like, ugh,

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Speaker 2: like I got nothing else to do while I'm running,

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Speaker 2: I'll watch it. It's hilarious, really, Ryan Murphy. Have you

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Speaker 4: No, but I'd like to wait, is it appropriate like

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Speaker 4: my daughter if I love it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's about this girl who is lesbian take a

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Speaker 2: to the prom and they cancel prom and so they

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Speaker 2: make this huge deal about it. And then the Broadway

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Speaker 3: That's where we do things.

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Speaker 2: What's the email? I want it. Let's do that, do

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Speaker 3: Jillian.

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Speaker 4: My husband and I have been married for four years

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Speaker 5: When I bring up my disappointment.

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Speaker 4: All he says is that it's too much to handle

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Speaker 4: I don't want to split up my family, but I

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Speaker 2: There it is the word I was going to bring up.

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Speaker 3: He's not gonna he'll get over that. He's gonna hold

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Speaker 5: I wonder if he realizes.

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Speaker 4: How passionate she is about this, because guys like you

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Speaker 5: But then that hassle is going to be behind you.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Him this is probably a terrible idea. You're welcome to

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Speaker 2: because I had a friend that got a puppy and

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Speaker 2: made that deal and she has not love you boo boo,

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Speaker 2: like she has not done what she's not held up

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Speaker 2: her under the bargain.

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Speaker 4: I was thinking more like, ask him what's the biggest

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Speaker 4: house is are going to be and tell him you'll

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Speaker 4: take care of it. And maybe maybe that's a terrible idea,

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Speaker 4: like that should definitely be a team effort. But maybe

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Speaker 4: it's the late night feedings you promise that he doesn't

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Speaker 4: have to deal with it, or maybe he sit in

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Speaker 4: a separate bedroom for the first year. I don't know,

447
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Speaker 4: but maybe there's a path where you figure out what

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Speaker 4: he's most concerned about and try to alleviate it.

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Speaker 3: For I think that's a great idea. Actually, what's your

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Speaker 3: biggest fear about having another and how.

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Speaker 2: Can I, you know, help help that, because, like he said,

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Speaker 2: it seems like it's going to be a lot. Well,

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Speaker 2: there you go. You're just saying, what is a lot?

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Speaker 2: Because I can do that and moms can do it all.

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Speaker 3: That you can.

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Speaker 2: I will say, I appreciate you foolding the kid's laundry.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's karma for the one out of

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Speaker 2: five hundred times. And I love how you do it too,

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Speaker 2: Like you like make all the noise in the room

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Speaker 2: when you're folding the laundry because you want me to

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Speaker 2: see that you did the kid's laundry. And that was

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Speaker 2: what the most annoying part of the entire thing was.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, honey, you want me to say thank

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Speaker 2: you for the one time out of five hundred that

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Speaker 2: you did the kid's laundry.

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Speaker 3: Oh, strategic boys, I did it when she was mad

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Speaker 3: at me.

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Speaker 5: What noises are you making?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: How do you make noise?

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Speaker 2: Like throwing the clothes?

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Speaker 8: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Just like really yeah, really making long, big arm movements.

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Speaker 2: When he folds our little baby two te pajamas.

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Speaker 3: You'd have thought all was folding flags and sheets in here,

476
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Speaker 3: baby whipping bedcovers and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, with kids, jam And I knew what you were doing.

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Speaker 2: You did it on the day that we were fighting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like, she can't be that mad at me.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing the kid's laundry.

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Speaker 5: Suck it.

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Speaker 2: Strategy, boys, what were we even fighting about?

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Speaker 3: I don't know who knows, No one ever knows. She

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Speaker 3: comes with a marriage territory, all right. So we have

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Speaker 3: a guest coming up here soon, Leanne Lockin, who a

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Speaker 3: couple of years ago. Yeah, she was. We had her

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Speaker 3: on the show in the early days. And she's a

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Speaker 3: real housewife or was a real housewife of Dallas and

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Speaker 3: she recently left the show. So we're gonna have her

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Speaker 3: on and talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Hikuti. Hi, how are you? Are you drinking a mountain dew?

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Speaker 3: That's amazing?

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 7: the caffeine of any other soft drink.

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Speaker 2: I used to drink those, the ruby redkind in high school.

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Speaker 2: Every single day I get one. I love those nine

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Speaker 2: in the morning.

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Speaker 3: So many cavities, Okay, let's not.

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Speaker 7: You can get diet though, and it has the same

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Speaker 7: amount of caffeine with no sugar.

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Speaker 2: I stop drinking pop like a pop you know? I

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Speaker 2: like a diet coke is that I'll do a fountain

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Speaker 2: drink every once while I don't drink caffeine. So mountain

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Speaker 2: dew you can have. You can't have caffeine free anyways. Hi,

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Speaker 2: how are you? Your Christmas setup looks beautiful?

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Speaker 7: I have a little elf here.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: How is how's how's quarantine? Four years marriage going awesome?

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Speaker 7: Aw I gotta tell you, you know, I'm the kind

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Speaker 7: of person that I'm always gone. I mean, last time

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Speaker 7: I saw you, I was there and being forced to

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Speaker 7: stay home and like, look at every corner of my

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Speaker 7: house while I constantly have to remind myself it's okay,

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Speaker 7: take your time.

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Speaker 9: I'm enjoying the hell out of redoing everything.

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Speaker 7: I mean, my husband maybe not so much.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's why there's a home goods store

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Speaker 3: or tej Max. I think it is right outside this

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Speaker 3: little my gym place our kids go to, And every

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Speaker 3: time I leave, that store is opening, and there's always

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Speaker 3: a line outside the door. And I'm like, it's probably

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Speaker 3: because everyone's just redoing everything in their house.

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Speaker 7: You know what, I will say this, I have a

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Speaker 7: lot of people who are like in construction, and so

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Speaker 7: during the summer when COVID first hit the summertime, everybody

576
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Speaker 7: was like putting him. You can't even schedule to get

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Speaker 7: a pool put in your house right now because they're

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Speaker 7: so backed up on orders. So people were putting in

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Speaker 7: pools and redoing their outdoors. I redid an entire I

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Speaker 7: have like a half fake or so one half of

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Speaker 7: my yard. I'd never even touched that patio before, because

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Speaker 7: of course we focused on the pool side and I

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Speaker 7: fixed it all up. I used reclaimed ship black wood

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Speaker 7: and put up a stucco wall, and it's I loved

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Speaker 7: every second of it. My husband cannot say the same.

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Speaker 7: I have several pictures of him going like.

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Speaker 2: This, do you miss not being on the show?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 2: No, is it one of those things? Where do you

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Speaker 2: Because there was backlash like do you do you regret?

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Speaker 2: Do you regret any part of it?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I think all human regret things. If you

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Speaker 7: don't regret, you're basically just an ass right, So certainly

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Speaker 7: there are things that I regret. But I also I

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Speaker 7: will say this, there are a lot of things that

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Speaker 7: got twisted and are so you know what's hard for

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Speaker 7: me is and I feel this so deeply. And maybe

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Speaker 7: it's because I live with you know, an ex law

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Speaker 7: man who you know, first responder, but I get so

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Speaker 7: tired of sheic. I want independent, educated thinkers, and so

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Speaker 7: it gets sometimes it can be a little overwhelming to

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Speaker 7: not to have a conversation with someone that's just guided

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Speaker 7: by what they saw.

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Speaker 9: And not by what reality really is.

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Speaker 3: How's it been. I know, you know, you quoted saying

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Speaker 3: part of the reason you left the show is to

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Speaker 3: spend more time and focus time on your husband and

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Speaker 3: family and everything like that. How's it been with you know,

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Speaker 3: being recently married in the spring, and really it's like,

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Speaker 3: all right, pandemic time, you really get that call time?

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Speaker 7: Yeah you do, Hi, honey, how are you gonna?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: You know, I will say my husband is really kind

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Speaker 7: of a genius, not really kind of. He really is

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Speaker 7: a genius. He quarantines himself in his man cave, and

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Speaker 7: he he has since the pandemic hit. He was just like, look,

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Speaker 7: we can beat up each other's butt twenty four to

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Speaker 7: seven and you know, just do this little or we

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Speaker 7: can set time that we There are projects we work

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Speaker 7: on together, there are projects that we work on independently.

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Speaker 7: But it's just really been a bunch of like love

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Speaker 7: on the house, love on each other. It's funny, you know,

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Speaker 7: if we get to a point where we're ready to

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Speaker 7: pull each other's hair out, He'll just like order a

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Speaker 7: meal in and a bottle of wine, and.

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Speaker 9: I'm happy.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's got to be hard to when

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Speaker 2: when he said that they twist things, and I think

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Speaker 2: it's that's where I don't think I could ever do

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Speaker 2: a reality show because you don't really have that full

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Speaker 2: control be able to go.

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Speaker 9: You have no control.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like no control.

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Speaker 7: You are who you are and that doesn't matter. They

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Speaker 7: will make you who they need.

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Speaker 9: You to be for the show.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, that's just got to like that just has

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Speaker 2: to be just soul sucking.

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Speaker 7: It can be when they.

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Speaker 9: Take it too far, it's ridiculous.

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Speaker 7: And the problem I think that you have is, especially

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Speaker 7: with a city like Dallas, you know, there isn't a

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Speaker 7: lot of storyline.

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Speaker 9: So because there wasn't a lot of storyline, I.

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Speaker 7: Ended up having to be a lot of other people's storyline,

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Speaker 7: which is just exhausting. I mean, I do believe I

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Speaker 7: have the most famous unexhausted line ever, but I mean

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Speaker 7: it like it can get exhausting. And I knew that

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Speaker 7: as long as I stayed, I would continue to be

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Speaker 7: the target.

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Speaker 9: And I just book break cut the tie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's it's like you don't want to be there,

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Speaker 2: and it's like you can if that's like your frame,

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Speaker 2: and it's like okay, great, like you're I'm going to

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Speaker 2: be the villain I don't care, like, you know, cash

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Speaker 2: the checks goodbye, But when you have that, I personally

657
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: couldn't do it because it's just like I want too

658
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 2: many people to know my heart and know my you know,

659
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: the reasoning for things, and if it's always being twisted

660
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 2: like I would just be, I could see how that

661
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 2: would cause a strain in my marriage and just in

662
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: general and work in life like that would be really tough.

663
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 2: So do you still talk to any of the girls.

664
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 7: Yeah? I do, Yeah, I do. I mean, I will

665
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 7: say that last season was my hardest, both in my

666
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 7: marriage and personally. And you know, it's just really devastating

667
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 7: what people are willing to say about.

668
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 9: You and you have no control over it.

669
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 7: So I think, yeah, I think since leaving the show,

670
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 7: my marriage and my home life and my friends, Oh

671
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 7: my god, my friends. Can I just tell you when

672
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 7: the season ended and everybody's like, who's going to come back?

673
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 7: Who's going to come back? I legit. I had a

674
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 7: friend invention where all my friends came over and they

675
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 7: were like, Leanne, we love you, we just got you back.

676
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 7: You're funny again, You're lighthearted. We don't want to see

677
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 7: you go through that anymore. We don't want to listen

678
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 7: to you cry for another year. We just don't you

679
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 7: deserve better. And you know what's funny is when you say, like,

680
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 7: cash the check and just not worry about it. Well,

681
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 7: that would be great if I had like an Atlanta

682
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 7: household check, but I don't. I had a Dallas check

683
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 7: and the ratings are barely higher than Salt Lakes.

684
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 9: So you can imagine it went.

685
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: Very big, right, I guess, like you can look at it,

686
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: it's like, okay, then you use it to like build

687
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: a brand. But at the same time, you're like, is

688
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: that even worth it at the end of the day,

689
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 2: you know, I mean you see how fast things can

690
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 2: your brands. If you get canceled off a show, your

691
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 2: brand can go away. The same time, well, I think

692
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 2: I will say this.

693
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 7: You say, I'm sure, stay on and build a brand.

694
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 7: But if you're on and the choices they may are

695
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 7: to show you in a light or twist you into

696
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 7: something that nobody wants a piece of that brand, well

697
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 7: then what's the purpose. So now you're barely making six

698
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 7: figures and your brand and your name are in the

699
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 7: gutter because of what other people have decided to say

700
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 7: about you. Whether it's fact or not doesn't matter. The

701
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 7: truth doesn't matter in reality TV.

702
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so leanne on a positive note, are what do

703
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 2: you want to do now? Like, what's your vision for

704
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 2: twenty twenty one with everything that you know you can control?

705
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 7: Yes, I'm excited.

706
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 9: I'm so excited.

707
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 7: You know my life hasn't changed from leaving the show.

708
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 7: I'm still out there. Sunday night, I was doing the

709
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 7: virtual gala for Unlikely Heroes, which is based there in La.

710
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 7: They're out there rescuing and recovering children and women from

711
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 7: sex trafficking all over the world, but mostly in Mexico

712
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 7: and Thailand. And so did that Sunday night. Today at

713
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 7: four o'clock, I'm building a gingerbread house for alcohol recovery center.

714
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 7: You know, I did a food drive on Sunday for

715
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 7: Aid Services Dallas. Here in town, I don't stop the need. Listen,

716
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 7: when the need stops, i'll stop. But the need in

717
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 7: my community doesn't end. So because of that, I want

718
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 7: to be present and I want to be a positive

719
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 7: ripple that shows people.

720
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 9: How they can help one another. You know, I think

721
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 9: a lot of people.

722
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 7: I think more people would help if they knew how

723
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 7: So I'm going to continue my nonprofit. I'm an ambassador

724
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 7: for Bryan's House here in Dallas, which takes care of

725
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 7: critically and medically sensitive children and emotionally and physically sensitive children,

726
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 7: so they really handle special.

727
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 9: Needs and I love what they do, so I'm I'm

728
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 9: you know, doing that.

729
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 7: I still work with Della Street Dog advocates with strays.

730
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 7: The nonprofit world doesn't end. Not my nonprofit world in

731
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 7: this city still relies on me to make a difference,

732
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 7: and as long as they.

733
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 9: Need help, I'll be there.

734
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 7: Personally, what I'm looking forward to is getting way back

735
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 7: into what I wanted to do in season one, and

736
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 7: that is get back into motivation and inspiration and encouraging

737
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 7: in my own unique way because you know, I'm not

738
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 7: you know, I'm not politically correct.

739
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 9: I'm not a non bad language using human.

740
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 7: I say it how it comes out, and you know,

741
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 7: just stuff so kind of falls out. So I just

742
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 7: want people to know that you can still be you

743
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,959
Speaker 7: can still focus on making yourself better without being perfect. Listen,

744
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 7: nobody's perfect, and I think you know, if you find

745
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 7: someone that you think is perfect on Instagram, beware fire beware,

746
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 7: because you know we all broken one way or another.

747
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 7: And when you learn to accept that you're broken and

748
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 7: you learn to take where you are and grow, that's

749
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 7: when you can really become not only an amazing human

750
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 7: for yourself, but for your family and for your friends

751
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 7: and for the community around you. So I'll be doing

752
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 7: getting back into that, writing a couple of inspiration books

753
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 7: that I've got coming out for January, February and March,

754
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 7: relaunching all of my affirmation books, which I have thirteen

755
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 7: affirmation books. Those will relaunch New Year's Day starting. I'm

756
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 7: working with two jewelry companies.

757
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 9: We're building a huge brand.

758
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 7: I'm calling it a candy land, because you know I

759
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 7: think of jewelry and stuff like that as candy.

760
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

761
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm you know, still taking my DJ lessons.

762
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 7: I'm still wanting. My goal in life is still one

763
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 7: day to DJA a party. You know, I don't slow

764
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 7: down just because you know I'm not on that particular show.

765
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 3: Well, that's amazing, And a few things. First, the fact

766
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 3: that you had that friend intervention from your friend. I mean,

767
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 3: that's some real friends right there that they're able to

768
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 3: do that. I mean, that's the kind of people you

769
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: want to surround yourself in life, which is amazing. Second,

770
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 3: it seems like you are full of life and energy

771
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 3: since leaving the show, and just you're able to do

772
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 3: all this, So that's encouraging for us, you know, being

773
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 3: able to talk to you a couple of years ago

774
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 3: and seeing you now, that's amazing and we're happy for you.

775
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 3: And last thing before we let you go, we talked

776
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: earlier in the show about something that came up and

777
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 3: we read a survey that a few years ago that

778
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 3: said the National Sleep Foundation that almost one and four

779
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 3: married couples sleep in separate bedrooms. Do you and Richard?

780
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 3: I know, Jane and I are like what, But we

781
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 3: also talked about we can kind of see how it's

782
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 3: enticing that times do you and Richard sleep every single

783
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 3: night together?

784
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 7: At times makey like when he's like right now, he's

785
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 7: got a fever and he's been was coughing all night.

786
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 7: Trust me, at three am when he was coughing, I

787
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 7: was like, if I could pick you up and carry

788
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 7: you into another room, I would, but no, but no, no,

789
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 7: laying down in bed at night and talking about what

790
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 7: you want to accomplish the next day and what's important

791
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 7: to you and I mean so sweet. My husband every

792
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 7: night says, honey, are you mad at me? And I'm like, no, baby,

793
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 7: not at all. I'm just falling asleep, And I love

794
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 7: that we fall asleep holding hands. We're best friends. If

795
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 7: you are at a point where you're not communicating or

796
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 7: feeling love from your spouse and you're.

797
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 9: Not in the same room, how are you not just roommates?

798
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 8: You know what I mean?

799
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 7: Like, I understand, I understand in the pandemic how that

800
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 7: can be convenient. But value yourself more and want more

801
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 7: for yourself because every human deserves, at their base core

802
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 7: unconditional love, So you need to find someone that.

803
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 9: Will love you that way.

804
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 3: I agree with that. It's almost like you're blurring the

805
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 3: lines there. If you start to act like roommates too much,

806
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 3: things get, you know, things get sticky, because then you're

807
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 3: not as connected.

808
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 7: You aren't connected, And I think that's the most Communication

809
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 7: is the most important thing in a relationship. In any relationship, communication,

810
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 7: I will say my husband loves to make me laugh,

811
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 7: not that he does it in ways that I would

812
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 7: ever share with another human that doesn't genuinely know who

813
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,439
Speaker 7: we are, because people would be like, oh my god,

814
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 7: did he just do that. I'm like, yeah, I mean,

815
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 7: you know, he'll pop me on the back of the

816
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 7: head sometimes and I'll be like, don't touch the driver.

817
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,240
Speaker 9: You know, we just we're kids.

818
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 7: When we lose the joy of being around each other

819
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 7: and laughing together and wanting to make each other's lives better,

820
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 7: then that's when you have to really look at what's going.

821
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 9: On with not just your relationship, but with you and

822
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 9: what you really want from life. And you have to

823
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 9: be honest. And so many people struggle.

824
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,479
Speaker 7: They struggle, not just to be honest with the world,

825
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 7: but sometimes I think people struggle to be.

826
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 9: Honest with themselves even more.

827
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 5: So.

828
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, you got you gotta get real if you want it,

829
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 7: if you want a real life, you got to.

830
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 3: Well, Leanne, thank you so much for your time. We

831
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: appreciate it. We're happy for you and so excited for

832
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 3: all the things that you got coming up.

833
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, Lianne.

834
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 7: You and I'm happy for y'all. You look a little skinnier.

835
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 2: Not pregnant anymore. Thanks, Thank you so much, Leanne.

836
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 3: We appreciate your time.

837
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 7: Thanks guys, Happy holiday Christmas.

838
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: Well, she's got a lot going on, she does, and

839
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 2: I feel like it's just such a curse. It can

840
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,720
Speaker 2: be such a curse if you are on a reality

841
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 2: show and then you don't have the capabilities of editing

842
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: it because you know, you've seen how people can get

843
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 2: so twisted, and then it's once people make their mind

844
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 2: up about you, it's it's hard.

845
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 3: To especially especially on that scale. Yeah, yeah, that's a

846
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 3: that's a gamble right there for anybody that does that.

847
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 2: I mean even with you know, we don't obviously need

848
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: to bring it up, but just when someone has a

849
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 2: preconceived notion of what they just see on you know,

850
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 2: websites or something, they you know, they don't want they

851
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 2: don't take the knowledge to get to know the person

852
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 2: or know the actual facts behind it, and they just

853
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,439
Speaker 2: read what they see and it's not always the truth.

854
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 3: Sorry, we can get real with it.

855
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 4: We don't.

856
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 2: I mean I don't, I don't.

857
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 3: I was just like, you know, no, I think it's.

858
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: If you want to talk about it, we can. That's

859
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 2: totally up to you.

860
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 3: And re marks behind his screen right now, like.

861
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 2: Hmmm, no, it's it's it's sad and it makes it

862
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 2: but it's the whole point. And what I was just

863
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: saying was you know that it people don't give the

864
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 2: benefit of someone's real heart, and they just read stories

865
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 2: and they make up their mind about people, you know,

866
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: and there's a lot of people that dislike us because

867
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 2: of our story. But something just happened recently with Mike

868
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 2: and if he wants to share it, but it was

869
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 2: just it's just so it's such a personal attack too.

870
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. Unfortunately, like one of my biggest fears was validated

871
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 3: from a professional standpoint where I was gonna Initially things

872
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: were looking good. I was going to partner with this

873
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 3: company to work on something that I've really wanted to

874
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 3: work on, and and you've.

875
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 2: Put a lot of hard work into it. I mean

876
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 2: a lot of hard work. The company was very gung

877
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 2: ho and also just you know, very receptive and very

878
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 2: involved for about I say, like two or three weeks. Yeah,

879
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 2: just like all like you know, and he took a

880
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 2: lot of time, a lot of nights, a lot of

881
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 2: the hours in the day, and really like worked hard

882
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: on this project.

883
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. And then once things got into you know,

884
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 3: paperwork being drawn up and more you know, legal teams

885
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 3: being involved in everything, all of a sudden things took

886
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 3: a turn and I started getting emails that It felt

887
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 3: like smoking me. It felt like just smoke, like, actually,

888
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 3: you know, we realized it wasn't a good thing for

889
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: Q one, but maybe Q two. It's something we can

890
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 3: revisit and this and that and the design of book

891
00:44:55,280 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 3: and everything. Every obstacle they stated, I've fired by Okay,

892
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 3: if this is a problem, let's do this, let's do that, like,

893
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 3: let's talk about it, let's all conform all, you know,

894
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 3: offered a solution for every single problem that they were,

895
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 3: obstacle that they brought up. I was like, it doesn't

896
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 3: have to be in Q one. Let's but let's keep

897
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 3: this train roll and let's talk about things for late.

898
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 3: And then, you know, after my last email last week,

899
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 3: heard nothing back.

900
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:21,959
Speaker 2: And then let's say they wanted to do a zoom.

901
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 2: They're like, okay, let's set a zoom to talk about

902
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 2: all of this.

903
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then our manager followed up, Well, that wasn't

904
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 3: even the last thing. The last thing was there were

905
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 3: more emails after the zoom talk yeah, because again they

906
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 3: were just kicking the can down the road. And then

907
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: ultimately our manager followed up this morning and they came

908
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 3: back with just a very direct like, yeah, it doesn't

909
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 3: seem like the direction we want to go. So if

910
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 3: that was the case from Jump Street, I wouldn't take

911
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 3: it as personal as I ended up taking it. And

912
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 3: my biggest fear since all of this stuff with jan

913
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 3: and I is that opportunities will be taken away from

914
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 3: me because of me publicly being a sex addict.

915
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 5: Oh wow.

916
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 3: And it's really hard because there's there was one hundred

917
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:09,760
Speaker 3: and eighty.

918
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 2: Degree shift once she brought in her team.

919
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 3: Once the legal team and stuff like that were brought.

920
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 2: In, and it's also part of a kid's company.

921
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I see, So you were vetted and then their

922
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 4: tone changed and you felt they said the playoff.

923
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it would be different if if as soon

924
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 3: as the team came in that was said kind of

925
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 3: from the get go, but it was the whole kicking

926
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 3: the can down the road and like smoking me, like,

927
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 3: don't give me this bullshit about well, you know, the

928
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 3: the financials and this size of an order and like

929
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: just tell me, hey, you know what, after further review,

930
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 3: it's not going to work out. So sorry, well okay, fine,

931
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 3: don't sit there and with me.

932
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 2: After a few weeks of everything was great. It was

933
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 2: until she brought in her other partner legal team is

934
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 2: what it.

935
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 3: It was just like, yeah, so it's you know, and

936
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 3: I did my best at in Janet you know, did

937
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 3: her best supporting me and being like, hey, you know,

938
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 3: it's we can't go there and think that it's that personal.

939
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 3: That's just my shame. And I was like, yeah, you know,

940
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 3: you're right, it's my coming up. It's just my fear.

941
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 3: But then just the way things unfolded even this morning,

942
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't see how it's not you know,

943
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: when we've offered solutions for every obstacle accent So it

944
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 3: just sucks.

945
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 7: Man.

946
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 3: It's it's one of those things that just it's like

947
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 3: the scarlet A in a way. You know, it's I mean,

948
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 3: I'll be naive to think that some opportunities wouldn't be

949
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 3: taken away because of society's lack of acceptance. Understandably so

950
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 3: with this disease at times and right now, so but

951
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 3: still it stings because it you know, I tend to

952
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 3: take take things more personally anyways, So when it a

953
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 3: fears validated around the most shameful thing that I have

954
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 3: as an individual, not a great feeling. So but I'm

955
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 3: just trying to do my work to not dwell on

956
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 3: it that this is where the stuff about. You know,

957
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 3: majority of people in twelve step programs live with inonymity

958
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 3: and be able to live that way. This is where

959
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 3: I'm just like, you know, must be nice. I love you, thanks, Anny,

960
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 3: and that's all I need.

961
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 2: I love you too, Mark. Why are you looking at

962
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 2: us just such a Yeah, we're gonna do something and

963
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,479
Speaker 2: we're gonna blow their company out of the water.

964
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 3: And there's my wife.

965
00:48:56,320 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 2: Go for the throat, go for the jugular. Okay, all right, Well,

966
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 2: we hope y'all have a marry marry, Marry, Mary, Marry, marry,

967
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 2: merry Christmas, and we can't wait to wind down after Christmas.

968
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 2: Fullis Nada and this Christmas we'll be