1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: Because it you're life. You walk in and I go, 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: oh gosh, I don't know if I'm fully prepared yet, 3 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: and you go, I'm not prepared. I prepared at all. 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 1: You just asked me what are we talking about today? 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: Like this is going to be a great podcast, and 6 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: we're doing it sober. I know I have another interview 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: after this. I don't want to get too loose lipped, 8 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: you know. UM can be dangerous when you're coming in hot, 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: which hip is referring to. I finally have started taking 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: interviews again, Like there was a period of time where 11 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: I just could not do it because I was way 12 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: too emotional with the situations at hand in my life. Um, 13 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: but I feel more comfortable with it now and so 14 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: I can speak about it, just like more factually than emotionally, 15 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: which is better for me. Um. But the last one 16 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: I did, mean, he cut me riled up, like she 17 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: had the door locked. I was just like, I've literally 18 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: one to start drinking because I'm angry not at him, 19 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: but about something that he revealed to me about my life. 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's just interesting. Um. That was on the 21 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: Dominic Nattie Show, if anyone wants to go listen. But 22 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: I think I was pretty pixelated, and we did like 23 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: an Instagram live thing and it was pretty pixelated, but 24 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: you can you can hear what I said. There you go. Um, 25 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: So this week we were going to talk about so 26 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: I did an interview with my boyfriend. He finally was like, Okay, fine, 27 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: I'll do the podcast. Like he's very private, he's not 28 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 1: a person in the public eye, and so, um, I've 29 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 1: really tried to respect that, even though there have been 30 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: multiple occasions where it's honestly made my life more difficult 31 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 1: this past year with just all the very cavalry ship 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: that I was going through and stuff. Um, but it's 33 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: like I didn't want to drag him into that either, 34 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: you know, like that is just not Why would I 35 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: ever want to drag someone who I actually care about 36 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: into some bullshit drama in my life that I just 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: wanted to go away. And I mean he's also like 38 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: so not the type of person that wouldn't He's just 39 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: mixed up, no drama. He you know. Also, it's like 40 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 1: his kids, I have to think about his work life, 41 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: like that's just that world that he lives in. Would 42 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: be like wait, there's what, what's the rumor? It's just 43 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: they think it's dumb, you know, which is great because 44 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: it is dumb. Um. But anyway, I didn't want him 45 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: to get involved in any of that, and so we've 46 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: really kept it like as PC, sorry PC, what it's 47 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: above born Like, I really just meant private. My brain 48 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: is just like UM, as private as possible. And uh, yeah, 49 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: I talked about him, but I've never like revealed him. 50 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: And so he was so kind us to come on 51 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 1: the Velvet Edge podcast and we just did a couple 52 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: of answers if you guys have not listened, we answered 53 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 1: a bunch of y'all's questions and UM talked about where 54 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: we met, you know, just the basics of love. I 55 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: start are listening last night? Did Yeah, I haven't finished 56 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: it yet, but I like that You're like sexy voice 57 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: number one and he called you two and then I 58 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: go which one are you? And he goes, no, I'm both. 59 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: He does have this like raspy voice. You you literally 60 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: have said before was what is he like? Almost? What 61 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,119 Speaker 1: is he like smoke a pack of SIGs a day? 62 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: Like he literally does not smoke, but he just has 63 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: a super raspy voice that I love. UM. A lot 64 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: of people have commented on that, like, there's a guy 65 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: who wrote into me and he was like, I love 66 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: this podcast, and he was, God, I wish my voice 67 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: sounded like that. So the guys love it too. Um. Anyway, 68 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: the reason that I even like started thinking about doing 69 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: this podcast with him is because we've talked a little 70 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: bit about like the feet messages I get our request 71 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: for like the feet picks. But lately, for some reason, 72 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: I've been getting all these like really dirty requests and 73 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: it blows me away every time, because I mean it's 74 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: like y ry gross or like, you know, people requesting 75 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: that I do an only fans page or like which 76 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: we've joked about. We've joked about, but this one guy 77 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: recently has been coming at me and he he says 78 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: like such specific things like can I lick your ass? 79 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, does anyone actually ever respond to 80 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: this and say yes? I've always wondered, like, um, you 81 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: know the cat calling that happens when a woman walks 82 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: by like a construction site, Yeah, Like does it ever happen, 83 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: Whether they're like sure, yeah, I'm just gonna go up 84 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: there like, oh y'all gang bang me, Like that ever happened? No? 85 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: And it's like, so it's like some weird thing that 86 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: guys do. And I'm sure girls do it too, but 87 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: it's just my experience has been with guys where I'm like, 88 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: what is what are you doing? Like, what are you 89 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: getting off? I'm like, just actually sending me that even Yeah, 90 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. So I talked about that on Instagram 91 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: a little bit. I posted those pics and so I 92 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: got like picks of screenshots of that stuff. And so 93 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 1: I got a couple of messages from people, um, responding 94 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: to that, Oh my car just got here. Why don't 95 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: you tell people what you did? This is a sidetrack 96 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: and we'll get back to the comments from Instagram. So 97 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: my car just got redelivered to the house, and Um, 98 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: the reason it had to get picked up in the 99 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: first place is because we traveled to Asheville this weekend 100 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: for a friend of our's birthday and I I had 101 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: a nice drive there, but a shitty d great drive there, 102 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: windows down, sunroof open, and the sunroof remained open for 103 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: the entire weekend, where it continued to rain and rain 104 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: and rain in Asheville, and I had no clue that 105 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: my sunroof was open. So I went to go load 106 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: my car with my friend on our drive home, and 107 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: I like open my back door and I'm like, why 108 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: are their leaves in my back seat? Like it was 109 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: just one of those It didn't dawn on me yet, 110 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: Like I just couldn't. I was like, did I drag 111 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: something through my back seat? And then I like see 112 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: something else? And I look up and the sunroof is 113 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: a wide open open my front door. It's like dripping water. 114 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: I mean there's water everywhere. It's soaking wet. I mean 115 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: it was like whoop, whoop. Yeah. So yeah, we had 116 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: to drive home in that. And like at first I 117 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: was like, this will be okay. The mats are just wet. 118 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 1: The seats are leather, so I thought, oh, I mean 119 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: it'll be fine, right. Apparently seats just absorb water. I 120 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: had to change my pants halfway through the job because 121 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: they were so wet, and we like take clothes out 122 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: of my suitcase to sit on them. Then I had 123 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: to go bring it to this place because like apparently 124 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: you can think your car has dried, like if your 125 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: mats dry out, but if you don't drive the rest 126 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: of it, then it can get like turned into mold. Yeah, 127 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: I mean our friends told me that you thought I 128 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: might get sick this way. Oh yeah, I was where 129 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: I was like, that will mold, right, So I took 130 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: it to this this detailing place and they put those dryers, 131 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: you know, like if your house floods, they put those 132 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: huge ash dryers. Well they did that to my car, 133 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: but I had to work with Bobby that afternoon, and 134 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: so I had to go pick it up before it 135 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: was ready, and so it was still a little damp. 136 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: And I've been driving around and the second I would stop, 137 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 1: like I didn't have my radio one, I heard this 138 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: like slashing of water, and I'm like, where is this water? 139 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: My car is just literally like it's like your floor 140 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: an aquarium. Yeah, so they came and picked it up 141 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: again today and um, he said it was like the 142 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: battery something container was holding a bunch of water. So 143 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: they drained it, put the dryer's back on it. Apparently 144 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: hopefully it's clean. It's just been one of those weeks. Yeah. 145 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: I guess I didn't shut my freezer all the way too. 146 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: So when I opened my freezer on the road trip, 147 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: I mean when I got home, it's all completely frozen over, 148 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: like it's just you know those weeks mercury retro grade 149 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: maybe you know, And Halloween is Saturday, full Moon is 150 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: on Saturday and retrograde and it's when we turn the 151 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: clocks back. Oh my god, we get an extra hour on. 152 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: I do love when we get that extra hour. Okay, 153 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: that was a major tangent. I just saw my car 154 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: pull in and that was exciting news. Hopefully it's dry. Hopefully. 155 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: Um Okay. So I've got a lot of responses to 156 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: the kind of like your asshole message and some of 157 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: them made me laugh really a lot. So I wanted 158 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: to read some of these to you guys about how 159 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: people respond to this stuff. Also, one guy wrote into 160 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: me that he does do this, and I was so 161 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: curious that I just started engaging in him, and I'm 162 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: gonna read you guys at that he does what he 163 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: like randomly asked girls things like that, like I posted 164 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: a story and I said, do people actually ever respond? Yes? 165 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: And he wrote back, Yeah they do, and how do 166 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: you know tell me more? Yeah? It turned it a 167 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: little weird. So I'll read that to you guys as well. 168 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: Did the person in the original who originally sent you 169 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: those notice that you'd posted it and did he respond not, 170 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: but his wife was not happy. That's the sick part 171 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: about this whole thing. Yeah, I saw the original screenshots 172 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: and it's a guy and a girl. Yeah, I have 173 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: another story about I have so many tangents today. But 174 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: so I was in that auction that Keep Abreast Auction 175 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: with where did that breastcast? You know? And my cast 176 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 1: was awesome, Like the artists killed it. She made it 177 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: into this disco ball. It's your boobs. So it's a 178 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: little and whatever. It's interesting, but um, we raised money 179 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: for breast cancer awareness and prevention. It's an awesome organization. 180 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 1: If you guys haven't listened to the podcast I did. 181 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: But their founder, they Keep Abreast Foundation, is it's super 182 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: awesome and what they're doing is amazing. They have an 183 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: app for prevention. Blah blah blah. It's great. So yesterday 184 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: was the final day of the auction and I kept 185 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: getting messages from this one guy that was like, Hey, Kelly, 186 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 1: I'm bringing my daughter to Nashville this week, and if 187 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: I win the auction, can we hand deliver the cast 188 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: to you in a mutual like decided place. Are you 189 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: listening to me? I'm Sometimes he just starts looking at 190 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: the breasts. Oh wow, you would um, so he asked 191 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: me if they can do that, And like immediately when 192 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 1: I read that, for some reason, I sick in my stomach, 193 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:04,239 Speaker 1: Like it just felt kind of creepy. Also, the same situation, 194 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: he's in a picture. His profile picture is of him 195 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: and what I assume is his wife. So like I 196 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: just find that odd, Like I try not to go 197 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: to this place with people. Like I'm like, no, don't 198 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: be so skeptical, Like maybe this guy just wants to 199 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: give to charity. Maybe he thinks she would want this cast. 200 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: Maybe he's a really nice dude. I don't know, but 201 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: like it didn't feel right to me. And then he 202 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 1: continued to message me every day since, Like I never 203 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: responded because I was just kind of like something's not 204 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:36,719 Speaker 1: sitting right. Like even when I posted these these messages 205 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: from the guy saying like can I eat your ass? 206 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: He was like, God, what's wrong with people? And I 207 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're not that far. Like he wanted 208 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: to bring his daughter though, right, I guess he didn't 209 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: say that in the message. He said he was coming 210 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 1: to town with his daughter, and like she sounded young. 211 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe she is like watched the show 212 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: or like listen, I don't listens to the podcast or something. 213 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: Maybe she wants to look your asshole. She's probably under age. 214 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: It's definitely know the definitely I draw the lots somewhere guys. Um. 215 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: But anyway, it just like it was just something about 216 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: it was weird. So anyway, my boyfriend had he had 217 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: already said like I'm buying this cast, like he wanted 218 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: it first of all, and then he was also like 219 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: and I don't want some other dude having your boobs, 220 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 1: like sorry. Um, so he yesterday was waiting until like 221 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: the last minute to just do the highest bid, you know, 222 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: but he didn't want to get in a bidding war 223 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: with someone because he was like not trying to do that. 224 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: Well he did, and he got in a bidding war 225 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 1: with this guy, and I mean it got pretty expensive 226 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: and my boyfriend one luckily, but like they went back 227 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: and forth for a really long time and he was 228 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 1: kept being like, oh my god, I'm gonna have to 229 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: let this guy just have these. But I was like, what, 230 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 1: I wish we could figure out who it was if 231 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: it was actually had his Instagram. Yeah, but you wouldn't. 232 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, so my boyfriend was also with 233 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: a bunch of colleagues. They were doing like a board meeting, 234 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: and he paused to like get them all and they 235 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: all got in on it. They were like searching. This 236 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,079 Speaker 1: guy told me all about him, I know all about him, 237 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: but he is married in fact, so I don't know. 238 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 1: I guess if like my husband was like buying some 239 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: girls boobs in a different town and wanted to hand 240 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: deliver them, I might kind of like he couldn't show 241 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: back home like a show up at home with them, 242 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: I feel right, unless he had clued her into like 243 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: what was going on. Maybe maybe it was for his wife, 244 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: maybe she was the fan. Maybe totally I could totally 245 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: be like reading into this. I don't know why I 246 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: felt uncomfortable, but I did, And thank god that my 247 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: boyfriend one. But it goes back to that deal of 248 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: like it's always the ones who have women in their 249 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: profile pictures that end up sending you this weird stuff 250 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 1: which just makes me sad, mostly like just like what 251 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: social media has created in our world. You know, they 252 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 1: would never I guarantee most of these guys that are 253 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: sending that stuff would never say it to your face. 254 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: Absolutely not like there's no chance. I think it's like 255 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: that's kind of like the other thing we talked about, 256 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: like with haters and stuff, like everyone gets super ballsy 257 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: behind a phone or a computer. But anyway, Okay, so 258 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: when they're being interviewed, Okay, is that a shot at me? Oh? No, 259 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: I know who that's a shot at? Okay, Now I 260 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: like it. Okay, So I feel like I've been I've 261 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: had too much coffee today. Can you tell I'm just 262 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 1: surprised at how big some of these people's poops are 263 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: when they're cast, Like they just look so much bigger 264 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 1: as a cast on some people. Yeah, I think, I 265 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: don't know. And everyone's waist looks skinny in the cast too, 266 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: so you know, like you have to factor in full 267 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: body size. There's some really cool ones I'm kind of 268 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: bummed out of and get one. Yeah you should have 269 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 1: that are probably still available. Sure mine, We're amazing. I like, 270 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with the artist now she really really really 271 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: killed it. Anyway, let's get back to the real alright, 272 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: Can you like stop looking at your computer and I'll 273 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: focus you guys, if we even have any listeners anymore 274 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: on this one, cricket, I mean really were like, is 275 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: anyone out there? Hello? Hello? Okay? Um, this comes from Kelly. 276 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: She says, uh, sorry, that's the wrong thing this. You 277 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: know what the sick part is is we're sober in 278 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: this where podcast goes. It's like they're better when we're drinking. Um. 279 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: This girl, this is from Denise. She said, I've never 280 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: have I ever gotten a d M like that, but 281 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm single. It's COVID so desperate times. I 282 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, seriously, if the right person did it, 283 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: I feel like though, if like so it was like 284 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: some super hot guy, I would be really skeptical too. 285 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: Well probably see, I mean, I was just trying not 286 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: to get murdered when that one guy was trying to 287 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: bring me my breastcast. You know, I'm not trying to 288 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: get murdered this year when you're doing charity works. Pretty 289 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: been hard enough. I'm just trying to raise some money 290 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: for breast cancer awareness. So one of um, this guy 291 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: that actually knows so I'm going to call him a 292 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: different name. We'll call him um Bob. That's always my 293 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: go to. Uh. He messaged me back and he said 294 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: that he had in fact received these messages and he 295 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: said the guy was really hot. This was way back 296 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: in the day, and he goes, oh. He goes, oh, 297 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: I've I've said yes to that kind of stuff, and 298 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: I go, of course you have, but tell me everything. Um, 299 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: he's gay. So this was another guy, and so he 300 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: said the guy was a trainer at the private gym 301 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: that he was going to. So I kind of knew 302 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: who he was, but like he had never actually met 303 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: him or spoken to him. He followed me immediately. It 304 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: followed me immediately, d MMed me and said sit on 305 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: my face and I said sure, and then I did 306 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: a few days later. So some people do say yes. Uh. Yeah. 307 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: He continued to tell me about that, and I was like, 308 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: I'm just so I just I'm so curious. And he 309 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: was like, he said the guy still d ms him 310 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: picks of his dick every year on his birthday and 311 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: like our friend is married now. So I was like, what, 312 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: this is crazy, but he was like, it's like a joke. 313 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: It's like fun, right the gays man, Um, okay. So 314 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: he Another message we got was from Courtney and she said, 315 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: when I was on a dating app, I'd received these 316 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: type of messages or unsolicited dick picks. I've heard of 317 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 1: this too, which I always saved, and then I just 318 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: sent them to the next guy who sent me one 319 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 1: pay forward. Could you imagine? So you get she goes 320 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: responding to an unsolicited dick pick with one of your 321 00:16:55,720 --> 00:17:00,120 Speaker 1: own really pisses the guy off. I would always say, oh, well, 322 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: I thought you wanted to see mine since you showed 323 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: me yours. Honestly, I want to meet one woman who 324 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: sincerely enjoys this behavior from someone she doesn't or barely knows. 325 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 1: And now I'm laughing remembering all the fun I had 326 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: sending my dick pics to the guys. You always said 327 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: that too, like when our friends are getting unsolicited dick 328 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: picks chipple Google like big or you find like the weirdest, 329 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: like naked pictures of a woman. He tells, he like 330 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: makes our friends send them to these guys as big 331 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 1: bushes got me hot. Um. This one was funny. From April, 332 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: she said, I get sick of that hey baby, what's up? 333 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: Kind of messages, So I've started responding with unloading on 334 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: them about what an absolute dumpster fired, what I really 335 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 1: think about Donald Trump, and anything else that is annoying 336 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: me at the moment for some reason, they don't respond, 337 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,239 Speaker 1: Hey baby, what's up? And you're like, well, actually, let 338 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: me tell you it has been weird. Well, I you know, 339 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: left my sunary fope and flooded my car, broke my freezer. 340 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm going, um, okay. So this is the 341 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: guy his name is Sam, who said yes all the 342 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: time that women respond. So I wrote back and I said, 343 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 1: oh wow, very interesting. So do you send these messages 344 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: to girls you don't know and they just say yes? 345 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 1: He goes, I mean, if she's single and not too 346 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: famous on i G and just trying to have some fun. 347 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: Lots of guys are weird, so if they don't find 348 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 1: the guys, lots of guys are weird. So if they 349 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: don't find the guys charming after a few conversations, they 350 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 1: won't do it. I write back. Fascinating, he said, lots 351 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: of board and lonely women out there. Okay, Sam, God, 352 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 1: it doesn't hurt to release some stress sometimes. And so 353 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 1: to that, I said, guess so they also make vibrators 354 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 1: for that. Thanks for sharing. Very interesting send, he writes Sam. Cute, Hey, 355 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,479 Speaker 1: it's not bad to me. He looks like he might 356 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 1: murder me. Him. Um, he said, vibrators don't have a tongue. 357 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: Not no warm and soft not all of them don't. 358 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: Don't Also like some of them do, don't knock a 359 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 1: vibrator to you've tried it, saying okay, Um, he goes, 360 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: there's no warm and soft moisture. And then I decided 361 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 1: I needed to stop writing back. Um, Jessica says, I 362 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 1: always wonder that also for the sugar daddy requests. Um, No. 363 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 1: Five is not going to make me want to be 364 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: your sugar baby five millie and maybe we'll talk. That's 365 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 1: kind of how I feel. I'm like I should ask, 366 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 1: should I just start riding back to these people and safe? 367 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,880 Speaker 1: How much? See? What is that prostitution? If you ask? 368 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: Do you have to receive the payment? Like I'm actually 369 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 1: going to like go through with it. Come to think 370 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 1: of it, man, you know what actually as could you imagine? 371 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: The next one he wrote was eat keyword, yeah your 372 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: front ass. I never thought of it that way. Front. 373 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 1: But what would you do if have you ever gotten 374 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: an unsolicited dick pick? Yeah? Solicited? Yeah? I mean some 375 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 1: people just start with them and it's just like gross 376 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: if you're leading with your dick pick are you just 377 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: really fond of your own dick? I think that there's 378 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: there's probably two. It's probably a twofold sort of thing. 379 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: Either that's going on or people assume that that's what 380 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: everyone's looking for on you know, those dating apps and 381 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,239 Speaker 1: stuff like, oh, just they're looking to funk. So like 382 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: let's just get right to that, like skip all the 383 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,120 Speaker 1: small talk, let's not waste our time. Yeah, pretty much. 384 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: It's just interesting because as a woman, who you know, 385 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: I have a lot of female friends, and we talked 386 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: about this, like none of us are really that interested 387 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 1: in getting dick picks, like just not like I would 388 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: now for my boyfriend if he was like, oh my god, 389 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm like so needing you or something, you know what 390 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 1: I mean, and like we were both turned to on 391 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: that would be one thing to me. But I love 392 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: him and like we're in a relationship, like I don't 393 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: really care to just get dick pics. Like it's just 394 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: not I'm not like, oh yes, it doesn't like it 395 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: just does there comes another one? I mean, my luck, 396 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 1: it's the kind of ship that would like I would 397 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: get someone would send one Jimmy while I'm having somebody 398 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: like look at my computer and up, you know what 399 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: I mean. Like I'll be showing somebody a picture on 400 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: my phone and like pick pops up, showing one of 401 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: your artists something. You're like, hey, come look at this, 402 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: figure out this edit. Yeah, and they're like, wow, unsolicited, 403 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: need to put that blocker up A dick block I 404 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: actually put into Google. When guys send unsolicited dick picks? 405 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: Do they really think a girl will respond? And there's 406 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: tons of articles about this, this say is like a 407 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 1: pandemic in and of itself. Honestly, like, guys do this 408 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: apparently a lot. And they were saying like that, Um, yeah, 409 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: a lot of guys just think that that's normal and 410 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: like like kind of what you said, they're just trying 411 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 1: to speed up the process. But also if they're sending 412 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: one to you and you just met, how many dick 413 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: picks are they sending around? You know, they're just like 414 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 1: throwing it out. How many You're throwing a bunch of 415 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: dicks against the wall and see which one sticks. I mean, 416 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: that guy Sam said there's a lot of lonely women 417 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: out in the world, and I think there probably are. 418 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: It's not even just women, just lonely people. I think 419 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: that's right, Like, you know, it's like, how do you 420 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: verify that it's their dick when it's that's that early 421 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: on and that's but also how do you like you 422 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 1: get there and you're like, that ain't the dick you 423 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: sense You're like, that's the dick that ain't Are you 424 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: a grower? Yeah? I just can't imagine. Yeah, right, Like 425 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: what if it looks totally different. Yeah, it's a stolen pick. 426 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure it happens all the time. When I researched, 427 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: there was this one article that made me actually think 428 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: though about the danger in this, Like I because I 429 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: feel unsafe sometimes getting these messages and like kind of 430 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: what I was explaining to you guys about the breastcast 431 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: I thought it was super creepy and it just made 432 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: me feel like I but I started thinking, I'm like, 433 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: nowadays there's so many young girls. This is like a 434 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: major parental situation that you have like to worry about, 435 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: you know, like if men are sending them to me, 436 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: who's to say they're not finding like these young girls? 437 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: How do you block that? I don't know. I mean, 438 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 1: I guess you hope that people are like abiding by 439 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: the law, But I guess it's you probably just have 440 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: to monitor what your kids are looking at and like 441 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: check their phone occasionally. I mean, I would assume that 442 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,719 Speaker 1: it's just you know, not even just old men doing it. 443 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,640 Speaker 1: There's probably like kids in their schools that are they're 444 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: also sharing nudes with each other. Can you imagine that pressure? No, 445 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 1: I'm just super grateful that I didn't grow up in 446 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 1: a world like that. But like, also having children in 447 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 1: my life now has really made me think like, oh 448 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: my god, you know, especially girls, like what, you know, 449 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: what is their teenage life going to look? Like? It's 450 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: so wild. I've got a niece who is twelve now, um, 451 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: and she like, as far as I know, she's isn't 452 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: really interested in dating yet, Like she's Um. I've got 453 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 1: another niece who's much younger. She she's three and a half, 454 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 1: and so I think she's kind of keeping the older 455 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: one a little younger and more innocent, because you know, 456 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: when I think back to when I was twelve, like 457 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 1: there were definitely people doing sexual things at that point, 458 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: Were you the younger kid that I was the younger 459 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: I feel like young kids grow up faster, Like the 460 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 1: oldest one I was the oldest and so I was 461 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: really naive. I mean we I've talked about that on here, 462 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 1: Like you're really naive until your friends start telling you 463 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: stuff with older siblings, right, you know what I mean, 464 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 1: because that's how you find stuff out. Yeah, I mean 465 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 1: this is crazy. You know what? The un elicited picks 466 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,199 Speaker 1: made me think about just dating online in general. And 467 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 1: you brought up an interesting topic because, um, when we 468 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: went to Asheville, one of our friends did like the 469 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: bumble thing and met a guy, and you brought up 470 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 1: the thing about dating while you travel and like thoughts 471 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:20,400 Speaker 1: on that. And nowadays I think that's pretty normal. Like 472 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: like you said, people are a lonely so they go 473 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 1: on a trip. I mean, well, this is I guess 474 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: pre Corona or in post Corona people will be doing this. 475 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 1: But like you meet a person in a different city 476 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: and like what does that look like? And is this 477 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: something that works for you? Like what do you think 478 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: about that? To me, it would be a little scary 479 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 1: because you have to be in such a like, um 480 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: a sort of concrete place with yourself to understand like 481 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 1: this is what it is. But like what if you 482 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: met the love of your life or like have this 483 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: like amazing weekend or whatever, and then you're like, Okay, 484 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: but now I gotta split, you know it depending on 485 00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 1: how far away it is from where you live. It 486 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: actually it could be feasible if you're you know, if 487 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 1: it's just like a weekend get away to something that's 488 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: a few hours away. But if you if you're doing 489 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: this and you're traveling the world to Paris or South 490 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 1: Africa or Japan or whatever, and you happen to like 491 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: find your soul mate, like God, that could majorly funk 492 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: with you. That sounds like a fairy tale. I know 493 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: it does, but like it does, it doesn't sound unlike 494 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: impossibly unrealistic. Yeah, and but because Bumble has like a 495 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 1: travel section, Now this is not an act you can 496 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,399 Speaker 1: like set your settings to where if you have a 497 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 1: vacation plan, you can say where you're going to be 498 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 1: and start talking with people that are there, versus it 499 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: being geographically. I think that's what happened where you are. Yeah, 500 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 1: it wasn't like just a like random oh hey I'm 501 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: here today, are you here right? Right? But I mean 502 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: that's also possible to like this was a little bit 503 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 1: more like premeditated. Yeah, I personally I am so bad 504 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: at the like casual sex. I can't do it, Like 505 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: it's just not really my deal. So I don't think 506 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 1: I could do it. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. 507 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 1: I feel like I'd be more inclined to do that 508 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: than just to like meet someone at a bar while 509 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: I'm on vacation, right. I guess that is the old 510 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:18,239 Speaker 1: school version in like, you know, there's definitely tons of 511 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: stories that like people that I know have about like, yeah, 512 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: you're just on vacation and you just I don't know. 513 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: I actually don't think I've ever done that. Another thing. 514 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of like it's the equivalent of 515 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 1: like your camp boyfriend or girlfriend, you know, like you do. 516 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: Camp was only like a week, you know what I mean, 517 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 1: But like I feel like everyone goes there with the 518 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: intention of like falling in love. Yeah, I mean, I 519 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: was going to ride horses and jump on the block 520 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: of horse horse camp into this camp called Pine Cove. 521 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: It's in Tyler, Texas, and um, it was so fun, 522 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: but you're in a cabin with like twelve girls. I 523 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 1: wasn't thinking about boys. I was also, yeah, maybe I 524 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,239 Speaker 1: was thinking about boys and I was older, and then 525 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: I got like I had a high school boyfriend all 526 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: through high school and college. Actually, serial Magmas. I mean, 527 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: we're here, man, there you go. Anyway, it worked for 528 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: our friends, I mean, and I think that it can work. 529 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: I think you're just right, like you have to understand expectations. 530 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: How do you keep from like the creep stirs though? Well, 531 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 1: I think that in this particular case, where there was 532 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: like conversation that led up to it, I think you 533 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 1: can kind of weed them out that way. I think 534 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 1: you're more likely to meet a creep at a bar 535 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 1: or just do the like, hey I'm here switching on 536 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: and find someone gelocated, because I mean for me, it's 537 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: like I haven't you know yet to find the slot 538 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: of plus of my life. Um, and you know, I'm 539 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: more attracted like to somebody through conversation, So you know, 540 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I would I would fare pretty well 541 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,479 Speaker 1: doing that, um, just because I would be willing to 542 00:28:56,560 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: like chat for a while before meeting, whereas the whole 543 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 1: like otherwise, it's just like you take the risk. Here 544 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: we go. Everything spelled right in the profile, you know, 545 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: I mean he hung out with us all weekend, which 546 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: I was shocked by because our friends are insane literally 547 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: was like, how is he still here? Like? How is 548 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: he not scared away yet? I mean we're pretty dope. 549 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: I mean yes, but do you not think that it 550 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: would be hard to walk into our friend group and 551 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: be like wow, totally? I mean I get a lot 552 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: to digect. I got there on Saturday because I had 553 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 1: work on Saturday, so I was late getting there and 554 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: everyone was turned when I got there. I don't even 555 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: really remember you arriving. Everybody was pretty pretty time you 556 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: got there. I think some people had already passed out. 557 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: Probably it was like because it was like ten, which 558 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: we had been day drinking, so it was just like 559 00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: game on. I't even him he was hanged in man. 560 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: I didn't even leave the cabin all weekend, hince my 561 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: car being fucking flooded. But it was worth it, I guess. 562 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: I mean it was such a fun weekend. I do 563 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: recommend little road trips like that if you find a 564 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 1: small group to isolate with right now, because it helped 565 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: me so much to get out of town to a 566 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: beautiful place like Asheville, especially it fall. It's beautiful. We 567 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 1: all kind of anywhere near Asheville drive there absolutely beautiful. 568 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: Right now. We got a cabin. We've all kind of 569 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: been isolating together, so I felt safe, you know. I mean, 570 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 1: I feel like the virus is like on the rise again. 571 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 1: It's hard to say, but so yeah, obviously have to 572 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: be really careful about it, but if you can do 573 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: it in a safe way, it really was good for 574 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: the soul, don't you tell. I mean it was like, honestly, 575 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: we didn't really do anything different than we would have 576 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 1: done in Nashville, Like we went to the grocery store, 577 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 1: bought a bunch of food, but it was just changing. 578 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: It's a change of scenery. Go on hikes that I 579 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: go to the same hikes in Nashville over and over 580 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: and over, and so it's like it was just a 581 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: beautiful place to get a change of scenery. Much needed. Um. Anyway, 582 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 1: I mean, this week is just kind of a jumble, 583 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: but like, yah, we're just here to chat. We're just 584 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: here to chat. What are you gonna do for Halloween? 585 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: Are you going to be a costume? Do you have no? 586 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: I'm Halloween to me is a very important holiday, is 587 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 1: that right? But on the years where I don't have 588 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: an idea for a good costume, I kind of act 589 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: like it's not happening. What's your best costume that you've had? Um, 590 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 1: I was really proud of it. I was an upside 591 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 1: down person once, like a person doing a handstand. And 592 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: I built this costume that had legs that came off 593 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 1: of my shoulders and I, um basically were like a 594 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 1: really big sweatsuit upside down with my face painted and 595 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 1: and I had and it just was like a me. 596 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 1: I was the lunch Lady from SNL one year. That 597 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 1: was really good. That was in New York. Um, Santa 598 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 1: Claus is my old go too. I love being Santa 599 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: on Halloween. I've got a really ratchet Santa costume. Ratchet 600 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: meaning what like I mean it's made of felt and 601 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: a lot of Halloween costumes they're really it's real cheap. 602 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: And I bought it when I lived in New York 603 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: and I had no money, so it's like I had 604 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: to get it for less than a hundred dollars. I mean, 605 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: I've gotten five thousand dollars worth of weares that you know. 606 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: So I got my money. I got my money's worth. Um. 607 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: What are some other good ones? Um? I can't remembers, 608 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: but no, I think, UM, my neighbors and I usually, 609 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 1: UM will sit on my porch and hand out candy, 610 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: or their porch and hand out And they said that 611 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,720 Speaker 1: they have figured out a way to like do that 612 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 1: while keeping the kids away. Interesting, So I don't know 613 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: what their method is, but I'll probably just sit on 614 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 1: their porch on my porch, will slide candy to kids, 615 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: Like you're gonna do it. I honestly, I think it's weird. No, 616 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: probably just drink wine. Just be us. Maybe you could 617 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: be saying and think it's yeah, maybe I'll pull up 618 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: my Santa costume. You think it's what? Um, I think 619 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: it's interesting that people are going to go door to door. 620 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: I don't see I haven't heard of anywhere in Nashville 621 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 1: that's doing it normally. Like there's some streets that have 622 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 1: announced like, hey, if you have a balloon on your mailbox, 623 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: that means we're gonna leave candy on the front door. 624 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 1: Set that's still a lot of grabbing and stuff though, 625 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I haven't got any sort of notes, 626 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: so maybe there won't be anyone on my street. And 627 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: then some streets are just not doing it at all. 628 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: We have I live near a street that's like kind 629 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 1: of famous for Halloween like that, Like a bunch of 630 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 1: the houses go really over the top, and it's by 631 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: a grocer a Kroger, so um a grocery store for 632 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: those of you who don't know what Kroger is, but um, 633 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: so good. A lot of the churches will bust and 634 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 1: park of that Kroger and then walk you know, several blocks, 635 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 1: and so we usually get hit by pretty decent crowds. Um, 636 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: but I can't imagine that it's going to be nearly 637 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 1: as bad. All know, is that better get Like basically 638 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 1: when we get Last year was kind of cold. I 639 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 1: remember we were just like cold, and and we had 640 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: tons of candy and we finally, like as it starts 641 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: to really slow down, we're like, okay, the next kid 642 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 1: who comes here, we're literally dumping our bowls in their 643 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 1: bags and oh my god, and some kid like thought 644 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: they won the fucking lottery. Yeah, it was like two 645 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 1: pieces of candy just for that year, So you could 646 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 1: be like very Christmas. He's like, oh my god, Well, 647 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 1: my best Halloween costume, I would have to say is 648 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: two friends of mine. We made these huge felt hearts, 649 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 1: like that was our full costume, like we were tights. 650 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: And then these felt hearts and then we wrote on 651 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: them and one said I have a heart one. The 652 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 1: other one said I have a big heart one in mindset, 653 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: I have the biggest heart one. Um, that was really fun. 654 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 1: We went like bar hopping and so people like Dad, 655 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: you know, it was like they wanted to have their 656 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 1: picture taken with us because they loved it so much. Um, 657 00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,919 Speaker 1: this year, I am going to be a sexy deer, 658 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: which I'm very okay. I've always had this thing with 659 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 1: Halloween where I don't really get into it because I'm like, 660 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: this is literally it's like an excuse to be a slut. 661 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: Like it's like and then it's like a guy's best dream. 662 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 1: And then so then it's like the girls are like 663 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 1: trying to outdo each other with how slutty and it 664 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 1: just kind of grosses me out. Well, then this year, 665 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,840 Speaker 1: I mean, when I say sexy, it's not really bad 666 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,879 Speaker 1: at all. I'll post a picture on my Instagram when 667 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: I wear it. But my boyfriend's kids are going to 668 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,319 Speaker 1: be these snow warriors is what they wanted to be. There, 669 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 1: the cutest costumes. They look like super fierce, you know, 670 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: they look like kind of like Game of Thrones and 671 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: so we were going to be their deers, like their 672 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 1: pet deer. So he was like, we were looking on 673 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: the site and I'm like, oh my god, these costumes 674 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 1: are terrible. It's like we were saying, they're so cheap looking. 675 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 1: And we scroll to one and it's got it's called 676 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: Sexy Deer and it's just these like it's basically like 677 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 1: tight pants in this little like furry crop top, and 678 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,760 Speaker 1: he goes, that's the one. You should wear it. Of course, 679 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,240 Speaker 1: a dude is like, you're the sexy dude, But honestly, 680 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 1: it was the cutest one. So I was a cave 681 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, fine, cave, I'll wear this furry 682 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 1: top somewhere else. I'll be able to get a second 683 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: way out of it. It's so cheap. It's totally a 684 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 1: one time where because it's probably gonna fault. He's gonna 685 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 1: melt if people didn't see my boobs in that breastcast, 686 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: they're really going to see him on Halloween. Hey. Um, anyway, 687 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,240 Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a great weekend, Happy Halloween, 688 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 1: Stay safe out there. Corona full Moon seems like a 689 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 1: lot happening. And then the election, you guys vote next 690 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you to vote for, but 691 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,440 Speaker 1: I think you know who I want you to vote for. 692 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:42,760 Speaker 1: Vote for that person and just vote. That's the biggest 693 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,760 Speaker 1: part is participate. I'm gonna try to vote local to like. Yeah, 694 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make it to early voting tomorrow. It's 695 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,360 Speaker 1: already closed. I think I thought it closes tomorrow. I 696 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: could be wrong. Oh my gosh, I'm gonna be so upset. 697 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: If not kind, I know, I'm gonna be up in 698 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 1: there in a mask. She held her something. I'll let 699 00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: you know where I'm working. You can because you have to. Yeah, 700 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 1: I've volunteered to work the polls on Tuesday. It's like 701 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 1: you got to be there at six am and we 702 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: don't fit. The polls close at seven pm. All right, Well, 703 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,720 Speaker 1: let me where you are. Maybe i'll just pop by, 704 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: or do you have to do it in I think 705 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: you have to do it at a specific place, but 706 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: maybe I'll end up in your district. Maybe well it's 707 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 1: just down the street, Okay. Um, anyway, big weekend, Halloween, 708 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 1: full moon, time change, and then you should vote and 709 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,239 Speaker 1: then hopefully the times will change. Oh my gosh, let's hope. 710 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:38,760 Speaker 1: So I feel a rise. I feel like it already 711 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 1: did it. I don't talk about politics, but I just 712 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: want everyone to go vote UM and also vote and 713 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,880 Speaker 1: then don't like judge other people for who they vote for. 714 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: This is why this is our country. So and just 715 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: so you guys know too, because I had to do 716 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:56,800 Speaker 1: some training stuff. Most states, you're not allowed to wear 717 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 1: anything a hat, a shirt, UM, promoting a candidate into 718 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: the polling places. You can be asked to leave because 719 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,360 Speaker 1: there are laws that that say that there's no campaigning 720 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,920 Speaker 1: within a hundred feet of the and even wearing a shirt, 721 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 1: a mask, a hat that promotes a candidate UM can 722 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 1: get you kicked out. So just I know that this 723 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,719 Speaker 1: is a really like divisive one and people are really 724 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,840 Speaker 1: proud of who they're voting for this year, so people 725 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: are probably going to be like thinking they should wear 726 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 1: hat certain hats in or but you should legally you 727 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: should not be allowed to be let in. I think 728 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: that they're you know, they're telling us to to try 729 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: not to escalate anything, and if someone like isn't wearing 730 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: a mask, get them in, have them vote as quickly 731 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 1: as probably possible, and get them out, Like, let's not 732 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 1: escalate anything. This year. So, but you can avoid issues 733 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 1: by just going in plain clothes and wear a mask 734 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 1: and wear a mask. Gosh, there's so much going on, 735 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,360 Speaker 1: big ear, big ear. Um. All right, well, thank you 736 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,359 Speaker 1: guys for listening this week. I think we should drink again. 737 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 1: Next week is so serious. We I mean, we don't 738 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 1: normally record it at two o'clock either, That's what it's right, 739 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,320 Speaker 1: We're in the middle of the day. We got to 740 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 1: have our little happy hours sitch you guys, send us 741 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,600 Speaker 1: your sex and dating questions to at Casual at velvet 742 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 1: edge dot com. 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Um, we'll have that up a sap for 750 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 1: you guys, and you can always DM me at Velvet Edge. 751 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:43,439 Speaker 1: Chip is at chip doors on Instagram and uh, we'll 752 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 1: be back next week with more at Casual Like I 753 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: meant it really in line, Okay, now we gotta go 754 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: by