1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode 3 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shaky. This is just all Bryance. What's up? 4 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so 5 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: much for joining us once again. We love you all, 6 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: we do. We love y'all. Thank y'all for listening. I'm 7 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: seriously like I know, sometimes me and Robin just be 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: sitting here talking about nothing, but y'all like listen to 9 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: us talk about nothing, and we really appreciate because yeah, 10 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: I mean, y'all, y'all make us happy. Y'all make us 11 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: keep going, and and we love the fact that y'all 12 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: love us. So thank y'all. Thank you, thank you, thank you, 13 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: thank you. Per usual, we've got our Reasonably Shady moment 14 00:00:50,680 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: of the week. Are you gonna go first? Sure? Okay, yeah, 15 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: I mean it's not that exciting because, like I said 16 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: the last time, I don't go anywhere, I don't do anything. 17 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: And I'm getting to myself once again because I'm the 18 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: shady person to myself. All right, So a few years ago, 19 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: you're shady? Yeah, okay, alright, what's up? So a few 20 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: years ago my assurance changed, which means I didn't have 21 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: access to my same dentist. So I kind of have 22 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: not been to the dentist in like I'm a couple 23 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: two years or so, it's a few years, like three 24 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: fo years. So you had like yuck mouth. Well, I 25 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: take very good care of my mouth. Okay, alright, somebody 26 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: mouth So no, I mean, in my opinion, no, I 27 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: didn't have yuck mouth. I take very good care of 28 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: my mouth. But I finally was like, and it's so 29 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: crazy because it's like the shady part is just like 30 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: not taking time to take care of myself, right, you know, 31 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: because we um, we make sure we get our eyelashes done, 32 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: we make sure we get our facials, we get our 33 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: hair done. And since I didn't have access to my 34 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: old dentist, like I just it just kind of slipped 35 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 1: my mind mine. You know, I didn't get my normal 36 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: reminder emails and stuff like that to make my appointment stuff. 37 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: You know. But I'm always my kids go to the 38 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: dentist every six months whatever. Um, So finally I went 39 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: to the dentist and yeah, she had a lot of 40 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: work to do. So you had yung MOUTHPA didn't know it. 41 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to call it. Don't call it yu mouth, 42 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: So what do you call it? Um? I just needed 43 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: some extra some some extra time. They spent a little 44 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: extra time in there, and I actually found out. So 45 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: I always thought that, like Invisiligne, was for cosmetic reasons. 46 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: So my bottom teeth, um are crowded. I had braces 47 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: when I was in high school. It clearly didn't wear 48 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: my retainers like I should have. UM. So she was 49 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: explaining to me, like, the crowding and my teeth is 50 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: not allowing me to like you know, clean them or 51 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: or you know, as good as I should be able to. 52 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: So like now like probably need to get invisil Ligne. 53 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: Probably you know, I got it. I got actually got 54 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: Smile directing Visiligne a little too expensive. I told you all, 55 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,559 Speaker 1: I'm the chiefest rich woman y'all ever met. Okay, But anyway, 56 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: because I grind at night, so I grind my teeth 57 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: and my teeth started shifting, so I needed to ship 58 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: them back with um Smile direct and which is a 59 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: third of the price of a vis align. But same thing, 60 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: the same thing. What do you mean the same thing 61 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: but you just don't go to they mail you all 62 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: of your stuff. You don't go to like a dog 63 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: our dentist every two weeks or whatever. But anyway, long 64 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: story show you I have to wear my retainer every 65 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: night or still shift back. Okay, yeah, so I'm I'm 66 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: making my point of mine to just take care of 67 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: my you know, all of my hygiene, hygiene, my health, 68 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: all of that good stuff. But by the way, and 69 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: I can say that today, it's oh wait, I'm sorry. 70 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: This is why it's really shady. It's like the really 71 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: shady part. You know, my father's a dentist. Yes, I was, well, 72 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: I was gonna throw that in there, like one of 73 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: the like top black dentists of his time. Right, So 74 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: it's like you can't even go to family dentist because 75 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: your father is gonna be looking like Robbins the last 76 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: time you got those teeth clings. Oh and and today 77 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: I got my pepsmere and my mamogram done, and just ladies, 78 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: definitely you want to take care of your mamogram, especially 79 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: because you just never know, Yes, absolutely, mamograms. What does 80 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: it every year when after after you turn forty, right, 81 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: some mammograms and then you know it's so crazy. So 82 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: the pep smear thing. Didn't They recently change it from 83 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: like we used to go every year and then they 84 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: would be like, oh, now you can go every three years. 85 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: And I always thought that sounded crazy. So that was 86 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: another thing. So because they changed it to three years, 87 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: I was not going to my doctor every year. So 88 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,799 Speaker 1: my doctor was like, no, you still want to come 89 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: to the doctor every year. It's just you know, the 90 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: PEP smear is supposed to be every three years. But 91 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: even the doctor like didn't really like that advice. But 92 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: so for me, I hadn't seen my o B or 93 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: my kind of collegist in like three years because I'm 94 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 1: waiting for my pepoint. You gotta they have to check 95 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: you out, make sure everything down there is good. Yes, 96 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: So everyone to care of your bodies, you know, do 97 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 1: your annual physicals with your you know, your primary physician, 98 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: you're guy in of colleges, you're you know, go get 99 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: your go to your dental appointments every six months. What 100 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: else is she doing? I don't know. I don't know 101 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: if we're just doing it. Okay, anyway, I'm going to 102 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: tell you about my shady moment of the week. Okay, 103 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: So my sister, of course we were your sister again, 104 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: my sister get right, but this is you know, I'm 105 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: actually bringing this up because I'm very proud of her, 106 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: But my sister is shady. So she got a knee 107 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: replacement surgery, okay, okay, I know, and she's doing so well. 108 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry she got any replacement surgery. And she 109 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: moved in with me so I could take care of 110 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: her because you know, she needs somebody to like help 111 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: her get foods. There being a nurse. I'm nurse Betty 112 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 1: up in my house. But that's not even a shady part. Okay. 113 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: So the day before her surgery, she comes over and 114 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: she like brings like all these bags, and she brings 115 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 1: cases of water, and she brings like piles and piles 116 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: of like toilet paper. Right, So I was like, yo, uh, sis, 117 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: I have toilet paper and I have water. And she 118 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: was like, I don't like your toilet paper. Your toilet 119 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: paper is cheap. It is actually isn't really you just 120 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: cheap toilet paper, Okay. So I was like offended. I 121 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: was like, I'm in toilet paper, just wiping your eyes, 122 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: Like why does toilet paper need to be like, I 123 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: don't know, Bentley, I need soft, nice soft toilet paper. Okay, 124 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: So I absorbed the kind of a I was gonna 125 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: call her shady. Maybe I'm shading. Haven't cheap like paper? 126 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: You got this stuff that but your wiping your boote 127 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: and your Jane okay, and it's going straight into the 128 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: toilet and your flashing. Well okay, but just in your 129 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: sister's defense, that's like some ship I would do, because 130 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 1: like you buy like the grocery store water, I buy, 131 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 1: you know, like I sent you right. So it's like, 132 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: you know, if I'm going to be somewhere for a 133 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: long time, I'm gonna bring my you know, my expensive water, okay, 134 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: instead of drinking like your you know, don know deer Park. 135 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not drinking your dear park water. Okay. 136 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: Yes she did bring her heavy and I do have 137 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: my dear part Okay, So she's okay. I don't mind 138 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: her the water. It was the toilet pap toilet baber 139 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: that took me out. I was like, I have cheap 140 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: toilet paper. Really, she was like some people were just 141 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: stuck in their ways, you know what I'm saying, Like 142 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: they're like creatures of habit and they're like, no, I 143 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: want my toilet paper. I want this, I want that. 144 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: I need my special lotion, my special soul, right like 145 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: she probably you know what I mean. Well, I'm not managed. 146 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: I'm okay, fine. I thought I thought my sister was shady, 147 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: but apparently it's me and my toilet paper and my cheapness. 148 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: But whatever, moving on, um speaking of somebody who's not cheap. 149 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: So this like struck me as like create a little 150 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: weird and not weird. I don't wanna say weird. It's 151 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: a man thing. Okay. So I was on the internet, 152 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: the Twitter or maybe the Instagram, and I saw that 153 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: Fat Joe and Kalid DJ Khalid were together. They were 154 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: in Kalid's about like a thousand pounds in the room, 155 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: robbing and shady. So they were in DJ Kali's closet. Okay, 156 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: there could have been and I'm not even exaggerating shoes. 157 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: Apparently he's like the King of sneakers, right, But like, okay, 158 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: so let's say these shoes he had like five hundred 159 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: that were like the same same color or like same shoe, 160 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: different color. No, that he could have had, like he 161 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: could have had a hundred Air Force ones that were 162 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: wiped the same. Explain to me, and the reason why 163 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm bringing this up, Robbers, because you live with three boys, 164 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 1: well two boys and a man could be a boy, 165 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 1: but who who knows. I look that up to you, 166 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: what is the fascination with these guy durned sneakers and 167 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: having like every single single sneaker under the sign? And 168 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: that job was like, man, you're killing it in here, yeah, man, 169 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: And calib was like, you know, I'm the King and 170 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: another one and another one. You know, I'm another one 171 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: and another one. Like what fascination sneakers? Okay, So I mean, yes, 172 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 1: there's a fascination. There's definitely. They're definitely collectibles at this point, 173 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, shoot, people, we're literally wearing the 174 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: same sneakers from like twenty thirty years ago. Really, yes, 175 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: Jordan's Air Force ones all that. So they haven't changed. 176 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: They've been the same pretty much. I mean maybe different 177 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: color ways, but like literally and it's and it's it's 178 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: almost like nostalgic, you know, especially for people probably of 179 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: Kalid's age, fat Joe's age, our age, it's like, oh 180 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: my gosh, those are the you know, the Jordan's Jens, 181 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: Like what you're getting the fine? No, so it's like 182 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: they're collectibles, they're nostalgic. I mean, they're flies. Still, um, 183 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: Carly got something stuff. This is our director of operations, Carlin. 184 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: Yes it is Carlin. She's speaking. Oh so you're coming up. 185 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: You really couldn't afford like the two hundred dollar Jordan's right, 186 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 1: and now you can afford five thousand of them? Right, Okay, 187 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 1: I got it right. But now to speak to like 188 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: why he has so many if you're saying he had 189 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 1: how many he could have had, Like I'm not even 190 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: like he had like rooms. Yeah, I think that's a 191 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: little excessive. I mean, but you know what I feel 192 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: like when you live like clearly he's living a huge life. 193 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: He used to really in a humongous house. And I 194 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: think that's what people do when they have these big 195 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 1: old houses. They fill it up with ship that they 196 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: don't need that ship ship not they have become ship. Yeah. 197 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: So it's like it's one of those things that's like 198 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: he does it because he can, not because he needs to. 199 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: But but you see a lot of these rappers and 200 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: like if you look go into their closets, nothing but sneakers, 201 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: a million of them. Well yeah, and I mean so 202 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: my thing is like, okay, if you buy like if 203 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: you buy new ones and get rid of the old 204 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: ones that you're not gonna wear anything. There we go 205 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: in one in one out right? Yes, I like that. Yeah, 206 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: Like why do they have to keep so because there's 207 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: only how many days in the year, But how many 208 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: does wine have? So he I mean he used to 209 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: have a ton so but one is the type he 210 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: doesn't like, even though it's closer everywhere right now. He 211 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: doesn't like, um, a lot of stuff. So he is 212 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: the type like he's not just first of all, if 213 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: they have a stuff on them, they're out of here. 214 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like if my shoes are dog, 215 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: I need some new shoes, okay whatever. So like he's 216 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: not wearing like you know, shoes over and over again. 217 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: But he also doesn't like a lot of stuff. So 218 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 1: if he's like literally not wearing something, he will give 219 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 1: them away like his friends would make out. His friends 220 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 1: and his brother and cousin would make out like fat cats, 221 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: like literally, especially when he was in the NBA. He 222 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: would give them Gucci, Louis Vatton, Saint Laurent, like not 223 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: a Louis Gus And I think I think we might 224 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: have talked about this on on the podcast before, because 225 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute, I can sell that 226 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 1: on eBay, not robbing. Let me say, Rob has a 227 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: legitimate eBay business. That's how she got started with these hats, y'all. 228 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: And by the way, these are reasonable shady sweatshirts will 229 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: be available soon. Yeah probably actually by the time we 230 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: hear this, we'll have some. You gonna help me follold him? Yes, okay, yes, okay, 231 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 1: all right, so anyways, yes, I think the guys they 232 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: just they collect them because they can. But actually, like, 233 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: how many shoes are gonna we give him away? Right? Okay? 234 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: Now I do I do before we change gears too fast? 235 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: I want to. I do want to talk about this 236 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: one guy that we actually have not spoken on this 237 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: podcast about. Okay, his name would be Ray J. Oh, 238 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 1: we haven't. I don't think we've talked about I care 239 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: to speak about I don't care to. Until the other 240 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: day impressed me. Really, I felt like I might need 241 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 1: to dam Ray J. Like so apparently Ray J apparently 242 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: has done very well in business. He has some like 243 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: motor what is it? What is the business? Has motor? 244 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: And this might be why because this spot he has scooters. 245 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 1: I think he's got some headphones. Maybe, yeah, okay, So 246 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: ray J was very angry and he did a little 247 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: post on his little Instagram and he said, look, look 248 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 1: here's twenty two. It's twenty two, y'all. Don't schedule a 249 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 1: meeting with me and then go get left up the 250 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: night you know, the night before, and then the next morning. 251 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: You can't meet your obligations, your business obligations. If we 252 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: schedule a meeting at eight o'clock, it's at eight o'clock, 253 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: don't call me at seven talking about are we still 254 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: having a meeting at eight o'clock. We scheduled a meeting 255 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 1: for eight o'clock. It's at eight o'clock. Don't ask you 256 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: the night before when we're drinking, are we still having 257 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: a meeting the next day? And no, we scheduled to 258 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: meet for eight o'clock, it's at eight o'clock. He said, 259 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 1: don't play with my time. He said, don't play with 260 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: my time. It's two and I'm bout my time and 261 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 1: my business because time is money. Now you know this 262 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: spoke to me, Robin, because you know, I'm like, don't 263 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: go with him, because like Giselle, if she scheduled something, 264 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 1: she scheduled it, and we're doing a damn it. And 265 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: I asked me, are we doing it because we scheduled 266 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: We're doing it like it's no wiggle room here, We're 267 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: doing it. Okay, okay. So this made me feel like 268 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: ray J is a real dude, Like I like you, 269 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: ray J. He's probably a virgo. We need to look 270 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:12,959 Speaker 1: you need to look up ray j'sause he's probably a virgo. Yes, 271 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: and listen, he's successful, he's intentional. He wants to make 272 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: his money honey, and he does not have time for 273 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: people to get You can get drunk the night before 274 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: you can you can get high, you can do all 275 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: of your chosen drugs. But when it comes to the 276 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 1: meeting the next day, we're gonna have that meeting. I 277 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: got it. I got it. Mean when I'm the one 278 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: that's like if someone texts me, I'm like, oh, are 279 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: they texting me to say it's canceled? Please tell me 280 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: it's canceled, Rob, It's not canceling. We're having a day 281 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: of meeting. Because money is power, and power is money 282 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 1: or no, time is money, I don't know, whatever it is. 283 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: Time is money. Money is power. Yes, So ray J, 284 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: when you come to town, call me because we're gonna 285 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: schedule a meeting. I can do some big things together, 286 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: and we're gonna schedule a meeting and we're gonna follow 287 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: through me. You're not gonna have to confirm your meetings. 288 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: Show up, no confirmation necessary. We're gonna show up. I 289 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: know we talked about our O G meeting last week. Yeah, 290 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: I just wish y'all could just guess the timeline of 291 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: who ar I first? Okay, I can't believe. Okay. So 292 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: in between for those of y'all don't remember the O 293 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: G s of the show, Karen Robin, Giselle Ashley decided 294 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: what's gonna get together for lunch? Karen chose one o'clock, right, so, 295 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: and she chose the restaurant, and she made the reservation. 296 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: It was under her name, Hugo Party of four. So 297 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: it's at one o'clock and it's a reservation. It's not 298 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: like we're getting together somewhere and just having like a 299 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: miscellaneous meeting or is this a zoom call. This is 300 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: a freaking reservation at a restaurant. And mind you, we 301 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: have rescheduled this meeting. We have been we were trying 302 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: to get together before the holidays, but we didn't get 303 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: together until the middle of January. Okay, that's what, But 304 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: that's neither here nor there. So guests, who got to 305 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: the restaurant for Giselle did? She got there at one 306 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: oh one because the reservation was at one o'clock. I 307 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: was a minute late. I had to partner car whatever. Okay. 308 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: So then I'm sitting there and as soon as I 309 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: sit down, I get a text, and then Karen gives 310 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: a text saying I'm running ten minutes late the grand 311 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, she texted before and she 312 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 1: didn't put minute. She said, I'm running late. There's traffic 313 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: on Canal Road now, right, Okay, and me Karen have 314 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: to travel the same road to get to the same 315 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: restaurant because Karen I lived like five minutes from each 316 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: other and there was no traffic on Canal Road. Karen, 317 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: but your grand Dominus, you was just late, right, So 318 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: of course that text message came and I was like, yes, 319 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: because Robin hadn't even left house. Ye, okay, it's one o'clock. 320 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: Robin has not left her house and she leaves the 321 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: furthest Okay, So Karen is like, twenty minutes late, but 322 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: it's okay because I'm sitting there and typically I save 323 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: like emails and stuff because I know I'm gonn waiting 324 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: for people by myself, So I like was going through 325 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: my emails all that posting on Instagram. Don't want to 326 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: do Karen gets there a guess who got there next? Well? No? 327 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 1: So then so Karen texted, and then Ashley was like, 328 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm ten minutes late. Yes, Now that was the lie, Ashley. 329 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: You were lying mind you actually lived ten minutes from 330 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: the restaurant, She says she was running ten minutes late. Ashley, 331 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: you didn't get there to one forty Ashley. Now I 332 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 1: know you a new mom and it's probably hard for 333 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: you to get out of the house. But Ashley, you 334 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: were getting your makeup done, Okay, that's why you were late. Okay, 335 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: because she's trying out a new makeup artist. Yes, I'm 336 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: telling her for her TikTok dancers. Yes, okay, And then 337 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 1: guess it was legitimately an hour later, Robin comes at Like, 338 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 1: Robin comes in the restaurant at one forty six, end 339 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: up parking the garage. You see you gotta you park? 340 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: I saw your car. You were like right across the 341 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: street from the restaurant, so I was like five steps. 342 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: I had to park in the garage, find my way 343 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: to the spot, find my way out of the garage, 344 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: go up the elevator. Turn, Oh where do I go now? 345 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: So okay, this is why I get annoyed because I'm 346 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: sitting there with Karen and we're talking and she's like, oh, no, 347 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: I want to say. I'm gonna say something, but I 348 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: have to wait for all the girls to get here. 349 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: So I'm like okay. And then we keep talking and 350 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: she's like on another subject and she's like, oh no, 351 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna give it to you yet. Just we've 352 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 1: got to wait for all the girls. So then Ashley 353 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 1: gets there and she starts talking about stuff with Ashley, 354 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: and she's like, wait, wait, wait, we've got to wait 355 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: for Robin before I tell you things. I've got to 356 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: tell you because I mean, I'm not gonna say it 357 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:35,880 Speaker 1: four times, I'm just gonna say it once. And why 358 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: didn't you even tell us Karen had nothing to say 359 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 1: your really, Jeff, Karen has no tea, no story, no nothing, 360 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: But we have to wait for whatever. How she gotta 361 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 1: tell us. Actually, no, she wanted to tell us that 362 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 1: Ray misses us. Oh yes, that's one of the things. 363 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: The other things I can't say in this podcast, but 364 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: one of the things is Ray misses us. But yes, Robin, 365 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: you're like Ray Jay and I want you to be 366 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: on top. Okay, all right, gosh, oh I would be 367 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: so scared. Okay, I'll be early if I had a 368 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: meetim at rage Ange. Oh lord, we have a new 369 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: segment guys that we uh premiered last week. Are you reasonable? 370 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: Are you sad? Yes? And we've got so many submissions, 371 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: keep them coming. Email your questions to us or your 372 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: scenarios to us at What's up at reasonably Shady dot com. Um, 373 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: But I'm just gonna go through a couple more. Yeah, 374 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 1: we have a couple more and then and then I 375 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:41,479 Speaker 1: want to talk about are you a good mate? Oh? Yes? Okay, Well, 376 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: well these are actually like perfect for that that topic. Okay, 377 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: So Jessica, she says, On New Year's Day, my living 378 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 1: boyfriend went out to the garage to work on his 379 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: car while I did some stuff inside the house. Okay, 380 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: I had texted him to let him know I was done. 381 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 1: When I didn't hear back from him. I walked out 382 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 1: to the garage and the door was locked. You know 383 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,719 Speaker 1: where this is going. I got a sinking feeling as 384 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 1: I was walking back inside the house to open the 385 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 1: garage doors with the remote. Oh so she's so she 386 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: took a She said, okay, well I can't get into 387 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 1: the garage from the house. I'm gonna go outside and 388 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: opened the garage with the remarks because I didn't see 389 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 1: what's going on? What are you doing? Right? Oh wow? Okay, 390 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 1: good thinging, Jessica. Okay, so I walked back into the 391 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: house to open the garage with the remote. He came 392 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 1: out and told me he was talking to a male 393 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 1: friend named Shane. I never heard of shame. Something did instant, right, 394 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: So I kept pressing. He finally acknowledged that he had 395 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: started talking to a female co former co worker. He 396 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: swore up and down the conversation wasn't anything inappropriate, But 397 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 1: I am stuck on the unusual behavior of him locking 398 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 1: the door to have an innocent phone call. He quickly 399 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 1: got defensive and said he locked the door because he 400 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: didn't want me to get mad that he was on 401 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 1: the phone instead of working on his car and has 402 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: essentially refused to talk about it since dismissing my concerns. Ladies, 403 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: please help me. This is indeed shady, isn't it. First 404 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: of all, what's the name Jessica? Jessica? He's cheating on you? Okay, 405 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 1: So I'm surprised he didn't have like a girl in 406 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 1: the car with him in the garage. That's what I 407 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 1: thought this was gonna. I mean, that's really bold, Like 408 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: that's really super duper bold. Okay, Um, but he clearly 409 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 1: I think I I my sense, my gut tells me, yes, 410 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 1: he was cheating on you because he wanted to talk 411 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: to her, because he just left her house, right, because 412 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 1: I mean, whether or not you or maybe because it's 413 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,959 Speaker 1: New Year's Day and he's not you know, what are 414 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,920 Speaker 1: you doing your New Years Day? You're at home? Right, 415 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 1: So for him to leave the house on New Year's Day, 416 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: he would have to have an excuse or a reason 417 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 1: like and what do you mean You're you're going to 418 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: go eat while I'm going with you? Since Jessica, Right, 419 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: So like it's New Year's Day and he trying to 420 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: talk to his boom and honestly, I don't even know 421 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: if this is a former coworker. I don't even I 422 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: don't even believe that this is a former coworker, Like 423 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: if it was, like, why does he There's nothing innocent 424 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 1: about this. This is somebody that he's in a relationship 425 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: with and he is trying to give her some time 426 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 1: and attention. So he goes to his car and I'm 427 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: just not I'm just happy he's not having sex with 428 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: her in the in the trunk. He was kind of 429 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: stupid for a lock on the door, though, Why would 430 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 1: you because because he should have like left the door unlocked, 431 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: been on the phone, and then if the girlfriend comes 432 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 1: open the door, then he should have been like, all right, man, 433 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 1: I'll talk to you later. You know what I'm saying, Like, 434 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: is this her husband or her boyfriend? Her boyfriend? Yeah, Jessica, 435 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: break up with him. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. He's 436 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,880 Speaker 1: shady and break up with him and it sucks because 437 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: they they lived together. Kick his ass out? Whose name 438 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: is on the least? Kick his ass out? I was 439 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 1: on that Instagram the other day and there was a 440 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: scenario of are you a good mate? Right? Because this 441 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: woman said it then when her man comes home from 442 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: the strip club at three am, if he wants to stay, 443 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: she hops up out of the bed and cooks him. Mistake. 444 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 1: Oh she's stripping. Well, god damn. So that makes a 445 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: good mate. That so the question game, would you do 446 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 1: this for your dude? And are you a good mate? 447 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 1: I'm if this is the criteria, I'm a horrible Oh no, 448 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: that's not happening. I want to see. I feel like 449 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,239 Speaker 1: when I hear stuff like that, she's gotta be like 450 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: twenty two, she's gotta be like you know, I just 451 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: feel like at my age. Oh no, right, but I 452 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: know one wakes you up in the middle of the night, Yeah, 453 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: to like tell me that his feet itch or something, 454 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, but I'm saying, like 455 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: I have made in my relationships disclaimers, don't wake me 456 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: up after it's it's quite frustrating. Yes, it's infuriating. Actually, 457 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: um like he talks to me because he'll play the 458 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: video game. He'll come upstairs three in the morning and 459 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 1: just like talk to me, like I have a regular 460 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: conversation and I'm like it in the morning. Us. Yeah, 461 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: I can't even put a sentence together, but anyway, um so, 462 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 1: but no, but this is why I'm like this person 463 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: has to be young and and probably has no kids. Okay, 464 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: but do you feel like you're a good mate, Robbin? Yes, 465 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: I know, I know I'm a great mate. I just 466 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,880 Speaker 1: think I think it evolves. I think I do think 467 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: when you're in a young relationship, it's an early relationship. 468 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: Of course. You know that if it's a male female relationship, 469 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: the woman is always been in over backwards so she 470 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: can keep a man. Oh, he went to the strip club. Yeah, 471 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 1: but you know he can't get it anywhere better than here. 472 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 1: You know those women at the ship. Let's fine, you 473 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: can go to strip club, baby, but I'm gonna treat 474 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: you great when you come home, you know, all that 475 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 1: type of stuff. I think women really just bend over 476 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: backwards sometimes to keep a man. And I'm sorry that 477 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: is not a reasonable thing to do for three or 478 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: four in the morning. It's it's first of all, it's 479 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: selfish on the the man's behalf, Like, you literally want 480 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: your woman to get out of bed to cook your steak. 481 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 1: First of all, you fat. You shouldn't be eating at 482 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: three in the morning anyway, And dam I'm sure not 483 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: a steak, okay, right? That the hell why I got 484 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 1: to be a fat. I'm sorry because it just like 485 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 1: as I like, see just what happens when I start 486 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: getting like when I started really processing something, I'm like, 487 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 1: wait a minute, yeah, listen, I'm not even making you 488 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: a peanut butter and jelly sandwich your three o'clock in 489 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: the morning. Okay, I'm doing nothing. Four ball of stereal. 490 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: Like the most I'm gonna do is make sure the 491 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: groceries are stacked, Like, stop, are you kidding me? I'm like, right, 492 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I used to get mad. I think 493 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: I've said this like a million times. Like Jamal used 494 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:38,719 Speaker 1: to wake me up in the middle of the night too, 495 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: because he would be packing, and he used to be like, 496 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 1: just does this shirt match this? Does this shirt mash? 497 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: This time matches? Jacket? Boy? I can't even see because 498 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 1: you didn't popped up all the light. I'm my vision 499 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 1: is blurry. But he used to do He used do 500 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: that all the time. He's driving me crazy. I hate that, 501 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 1: but like he knew better than to ask me to 502 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 1: make him a damn thing. Right, it will actually ever, 503 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: but it's definitely not. Nobody's doing that. So I had 504 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: to question myself and ask myself, am I a good mate, 505 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: Would I be a good mate? Yeah? No, I mean 506 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: I know there's certain things you're not doing, But I 507 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: also think I just think when that stuff, that stuff 508 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 1: gets old. Yes, those new relationships you've been over backwards especially, 509 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: I think a lot it's like a lot more young 510 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,639 Speaker 1: girls doing it because as we grow immature, we have 511 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: our boundaries, we know our worth. And the only way 512 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: I would say that's okay is if that same man 513 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: it's been and over backwards for me. So if I 514 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: come home from the club and he's gonna cook me, 515 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to stick at three in the morning. 516 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, Like, if he would 517 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 1: do the same, that's the only way I would do that. 518 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: If if I know that he would be doing the 519 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: same or something equivalent, something something equivalent, like are you 520 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 1: rubbing my feet after I've been wearing heels all day 521 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: working like at an appearance or something? Right? Yeah, Like okay, 522 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: all right, I like that. Yeah. So Jessica, your boyfriend sting, Yeah, 523 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: you get you getting cheated on sis and just figure 524 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: out whether or not you want to deal with it, 525 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 1: because if if it was me, he'd be gone because 526 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,439 Speaker 1: he's going he's going to the other part of the 527 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: house to talk to his whole on the side. So listen, 528 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: that's a mess. Yeah, don't. I hate it because he's 529 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to talk about it because he can't 530 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 1: wiggle his way out of it. Just when you let 531 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: it go? Um, So really, jessicaes up to you. Are 532 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: you letting it go? Or are you just letting him 533 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: go like what you want? Are we doing? Okay? All right? 534 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: So Karen, Okay, this is a new one, yes, says Okay. 535 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: Here's here's my question. My sister is getting married in 536 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: the next few months and her fiance is an absolute 537 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: bride zilla. It's a lesbian wedding. Her fiance is demanding 538 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 1: that bride'smaids where this horrible, corporate looking navy pants suit 539 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: or they can pick any navy pants suit. I'm the 540 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 1: maid of honor and I have been fighting with my 541 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,639 Speaker 1: sister about this because the pants suits are awful and 542 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: I just want to look good at my sister's wedding. 543 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: I went shopping for a navy pant suit and look 544 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: so bad and literally everything, and my mom agreed. My 545 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,399 Speaker 1: sister has now said I can wear a navy dress nice, 546 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 1: but I cannot stand at the front under the chip 547 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: a thing. It's called a chippa. This is a Jewish 548 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: wedding choppa. Um, I think that's fair, But my mom 549 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 1: is like w t F. Blood is thicker than water. Allah, 550 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 1: Caroline Manzo, you know she said that on housewaves in 551 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: New Jersey. Blood is thicker than water. Yes, So do 552 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: you think my sister is being being reasonable or shady? 553 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: Her fiance is shady as for wanting everyone to look 554 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: horrible at her wedding? What do you think? So that 555 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: would be a note like? Okay, why is the fiance 556 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: able to determine what the rides maids are wearing? Like? 557 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's reasonable. You think it's 558 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: reasonable to brides means to wear a pants suit. If 559 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: you're in my wedding, you're gonna wear whatever I ask 560 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 1: you to wear. I don't care if it's pantsuit. I 561 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: don't care if it's a crop top, booty shorts in 562 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: a halt to top. I don't care what it is. 563 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: Like you're in my wedding, You're going to wear what 564 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: I ask you to wear. If you say yes, If 565 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: I ask you be in my wedding, you say then 566 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 1: you know what the deal is? Where would I say? Okay, 567 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: but it's weird. It's like she's putting it on the 568 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: fiance as the bridezilla so like so so she's so 569 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: she wants to know her sity. Okay, is her sister 570 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: being reasonable or shady? I think both the people getting married, 571 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: the lesbians getting married, both of them. And keep in 572 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: mind these two women, so they're both bridezilla at this point, right, Okay, 573 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: both of the bridezilla's are very reasonable really because it's 574 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: their wedding, because it's their like their wedding, their way. Yes, 575 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 1: and it's if it's it's a blue pant suit, you 576 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: can guess what you now have a blue pant suit 577 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: you can wear to work. If you can wear to 578 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: work one now it's a twopa one. Use some of 579 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: those bridesmaised dresses I've worn. You'll never ever wear you 580 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: will never wear that bridesmaids dress again. Okay, but you 581 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: can wear a pantsuit again. Okay, So then this is 582 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: what we say to Karen. Okay, yes, I I see 583 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 1: your point is out. It is and and I'm so 584 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: surprised at you, to be honest, like nothing's ever reasonable 585 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: for you um, so I'm surprised because I'm like, my 586 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: first thought was, like with the a pants suit at 587 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: a wedding, like that's just that's just corny, like that's 588 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: but hey, if that's their wedding, if that's what they 589 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: want to see in their pictures and they were other 590 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: people to look like, fine, and if you agree to 591 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: be in their wedding, fine. Now if you if it's 592 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: something where people feel like they look horrible because they're 593 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: not happy with like, you know, the skin showing, well, 594 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: you know a lot of times in like some dresses, 595 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 1: they're they're too revealing. They just you know, they don't 596 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: like the way their body looks. But a pant suit, 597 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 1: it's like something you can get it cut right. So 598 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 1: my advice to Karen, because this is your sister and 599 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 1: you want to be next to your sister. You are 600 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: the maid of honor. You should be next to your sister. Girl. 601 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: Get you a bad makeup artist, get you some pretty jewelry, 602 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: get you, you know, do something amazing to your hair 603 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: to make you feel great, because when you are trying 604 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: on these suits, you're probably going in with no makeup, 605 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: no hair, and it probably is you're probably looking like 606 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 1: I look really boring a plain, but just picture yourself 607 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: with the suit on, with some heat, some pretty maybe 608 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: some beautiful heels if you have the freedom of picking 609 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: your own shoes, some pretty sparkly heels, you know, So 610 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 1: figure out how to like really yes, jig it up. 611 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: Make that pants suit look bomb on you, you know, 612 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: get you know, figure out what your look is gonna be. 613 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure you're gonna look beautiful. And fix 614 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: your face, put a smile on your face, and be 615 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 1: there for your sister because it's not about you. It's 616 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 1: about your sister and the beautiful bride Chee is marrying. Yeah. So, 617 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 1: although Giselle says there being reasonable, I think it's kind 618 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 1: of shady. But hey, it's their wedding, you know, do 619 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: what they ask for you to do. I do think 620 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: you should be there next to your sister, you know, 621 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 1: and not you know, outside the chipper. I hope I'm 622 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: saying it right. But get inside that you inside that 623 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: chip and get your makeup done, your hair done, put 624 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: on some pretty heels, and feel really good about yourself. Yes, yes, 625 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: the end. Take one for the team. Take one for 626 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 1: the team, because guess what, one day you're gonna ask 627 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: her to take one for you. Okay, So that's that 628 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: on that Now, I know we have some old school 629 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: news school. This actually might be a new segment because 630 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: we got some We did it one way and they 631 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: do it a different way. Right, Well, I mean I 632 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: just came across this list um on bus feed. Busfeed 633 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: is great for for some topic starters and for reminiscent 634 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: so it's funny. It's a list about boomers. I guess 635 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 1: we're are we boomers? You're definitely a boomer. I'm definitely 636 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 1: a boom. Is your boomer? What are we? My parents 637 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: are boomers? What are we? Generation X? Listen, I'm just zelle. 638 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: Don't be putting me in a box a boomer? Okay, 639 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: I'm back in the day, are you? I don't know 640 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: what we are generation? So there's I think we're Generation X? 641 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: Are we? Okay? I'll take that all right? Whatever, So 642 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: people are sharing so boomers Generation X, like old school 643 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: people like us are sharing things that Generation zers and 644 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 1: millennials will never understand. Right, So, like, is that twenty 645 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 1: you know, it's probably twenty five and younger, or maybe 646 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 1: thirty and younger. Probably thirty and younger. There's not thinking. 647 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: All right, let's see, like the internet came about in 648 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 1: like nine so many years ago that like what see, 649 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: I can't do math? Okay, so let's just say younger, 650 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: y'a don't understand this, but it's but it's so funny. 651 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: This is like so okay. So do you remember calling 652 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: the movie theater to hear the recording with the movie 653 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: times on it? Yes? Yes, and you had to like sit, 654 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: oh wait wait, get a sit with a pad and 655 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: a pencil and right down the times of the movies 656 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: and the name of the movies, right, and then you 657 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: had to actually go to the movie theater and stand 658 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 1: in line and buy your ticket instead of buying it 659 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 1: online ahead of time. Right, right, Well I still don't 660 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,359 Speaker 1: do that, right, I mean right, you can still buy 661 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: your ticket, but it's like you at least know online 662 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,319 Speaker 1: whether the show was sold out or not, you know, 663 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 1: So going to the movies was a whole different thing, right, 664 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: going so calling but it makes me remember I remember 665 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: getting dressed and calling the weather man in the morning, 666 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: calling the time, So weather was was that three nine 667 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 1: three six one to one too? That was the weather huh? 668 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:50,319 Speaker 1: And time was um eight four four one too? Once 669 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: I remember that, yes, And it's so crazy because like 670 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,279 Speaker 1: back then we didn't even remember. We didn't even have 671 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 1: like area codes and stuff. And then oh yeah, then 672 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: air Hills came out and the area codes came out 673 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 1: because it was like so many numbers they needed area 674 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 1: codes so crazy. So in d C the area code 675 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 1: is two oh two. I just heard the other day 676 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,879 Speaker 1: that there that they ran out of two o two 677 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,360 Speaker 1: area codes and there it's now going to be like 678 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: five or it's gonna be something from And everybody's like, 679 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: hell no, I want to keep my two o two 680 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: right exactly. You know. It would be funny though. I 681 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: want to get a phone and like just put it 682 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 1: by my kids and just see if they even like 683 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 1: know what to do with it, like an old school 684 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:33,479 Speaker 1: phone when you pick up yeah, right, or a rotary phone. 685 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: Oh yes, you don't remember that roll so like it's 686 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,319 Speaker 1: like a circle. And if you were and if let's 687 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: say that the number was eight to nine, because our 688 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,880 Speaker 1: numbers was eight to nine, four, five, nine, six, So 689 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 1: the eight, you have to press the eight and take 690 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: it all the way around to the front and then 691 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: let it going and then get the to bring it in. 692 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 1: Let it go listen. We were struggling back in the day. 693 00:35:54,840 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: Struggle lane, Oh my gosh, you have a good okay. Um, 694 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: So because we didn't always have cell phones, people could 695 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: not always get ahold of you, and it was a 696 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: good thing. Like you could literally like go on about 697 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 1: your day and you people would would have to wait 698 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:14,759 Speaker 1: to talk to you when you got home and check 699 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: your answer machine. Yes that was a box, but literally 700 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 1: you could everyone around could hear right, and you press 701 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:25,879 Speaker 1: it right, they could hear the message I used to get. 702 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 1: I used to make sure I didn't get busted. Like 703 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,800 Speaker 1: so if I came home with the dude, I was 704 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 1: not checking that answering machine because then he could hear 705 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:38,759 Speaker 1: what the answer, But all the my messages were right right? 706 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: Or how about our phone? So if you want to 707 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: talk tobout, we didn't have a cell phone, so you 708 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: had to talk on the phone in the house. Yes, 709 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 1: but anyone could pick up a phone in another room 710 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 1: and listen listen to the conversation you were talking about. 711 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 1: So there was there was a technique to pick up 712 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: picking up the phone in another room couldn't hear you, 713 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,760 Speaker 1: so they couldn't hear that somebody else got on the phone. 714 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: You would have to like slide the phone off, holding 715 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 1: down hold the little and then gently pull your finger 716 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 1: off of the little. Let me tell you something. We 717 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 1: were sneaky back in, so sneaky and you can hear everything. 718 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: I remember, Oh my gosh, I remember one time I 719 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 1: was on the phone with the boy. I swear I 720 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: was a little fast, and I think it was in 721 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 1: like fourth grade, of course, robbing fast, hot in the pains, 722 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:27,959 Speaker 1: And I think I remember I was on the phone 723 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 1: with this boy and I said something about ok sorrible. Okay, 724 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 1: robbing is laughing. She can't even get it out. I 725 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 1: can't wait to know what she said to the fourth grader. 726 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: I said something about wanting to see his nuts. You said, 727 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,840 Speaker 1: I want to see your nuts something like that, Okay. 728 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: And my father happened to be listening on the phone 729 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: on No No, not Mr brag and I think he 730 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 1: just like all of a sudden interjected. It was like, oh, 731 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 1: I think it's time for you to get off the 732 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: phone now, Oh my god, Okay, speaking of nuts. Okay, 733 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 1: so is it me? Is the person that's now dressing 734 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey has him in all of these nuts, scrunching pants. 735 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 1: I mean the past and two tights I crotch watched 736 00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,800 Speaker 1: and saw that his nuts are screaming for dear life. Okay, 737 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: they're like, please, I have to say, whenever I see 738 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 1: a picture of Steve Harvey, I quickly scrolled past it. 739 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't look at another picture of Steve 740 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,320 Speaker 1: Harvey dressed like this. Well, I mean, we love you, Steve, 741 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 1: but your pants are too tight, sir, and they're scrunching 742 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,759 Speaker 1: up your nuts. Okay, and Marjorie wants your nuts to 743 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: be free the end. Okay, So moving on, do we 744 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 1: have another one? Okay, yeah, we got plenty. I mean, okay, 745 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,840 Speaker 1: oh gosh, needing to do a report on a topic 746 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 1: in school and actually like having to go to the library. 747 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: I remember when I was in college and I had 748 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,719 Speaker 1: to go to the library. Yes, yes, absolutely, go to 749 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 1: the library and look it up. Look the Dewey decimal system. Yes, 750 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 1: you're looking at those cards, Okay, this is where the Okay, 751 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm looking for this book? Yes, okay, is that dot 752 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 1: nine dot five? Like so then so then you had 753 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 1: to go around the library and find that number that 754 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 1: was connected to that book, right, And like, how the 755 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: hell did we figure that out. They taught it in school, 756 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 1: just like they taught curs and then I would always 757 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 1: like run and get the goddamn library because I was like, 758 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: I can't figure this out, right, can you? Can you 759 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: find this book for me? So what's so funny? So 760 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 1: the Internet kind of started, I want to say, I 761 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:55,479 Speaker 1: remember the Internet being announced or you know whatever, coming 762 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: out when I was like maybe a senior in high school, 763 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: but it was still something that was like what is Yeah, Well, 764 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 1: by the time I was a senior in college, that 765 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 1: internet was on and popping because I would just purchase 766 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 1: my papers online. Okay, now all the time, I just okay, 767 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 1: it's just one time. It's just one time to a degree. 768 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: I think. I think the statute of limitations is past. 769 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,839 Speaker 1: You cannot take my degree away from me. But I 770 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,359 Speaker 1: do recall calling my dad and saying, Dad, I think 771 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 1: I was a senior. I was I heard you talk 772 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: about nuts. Yes, I said, Dad, Can I use your 773 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: credit card? I gotta buy a paper online because I 774 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: don't care about this class and I need to I 775 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: need to finish. Please, thank you. He's probably like, yes, 776 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 1: take it, because I want you to get out of college. 777 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 1: At that point, I was literally like, m, how many 778 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: classes can I take next semester so I don't have 779 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 1: to graduate, because you know, like I didn't want to 780 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: graduate and get a real job, like you know, I 781 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 1: think I like two classes. I was taking two classes 782 00:40:55,440 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 1: left in the just the winter whatever, the false and master. 783 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,520 Speaker 1: So I was. So I was in college for four 784 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: and a half years, so I think, take this damn card, 785 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: pay for that paper, yes, and good on up out 786 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: of there. I had my mother doctor a funeral program 787 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,800 Speaker 1: as well, Oh and my coin to get in trouble 788 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,880 Speaker 1: for Listen, listen, this podcast is over because Robin is 789 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,400 Speaker 1: telling on herself and it's just team to care. I'm 790 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 1: forty two. I don't care. Okay, So my mom like 791 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,680 Speaker 1: owns a printing company, right so she can, like she 792 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: she printed the funeral program and her aunt had passed 793 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: away recently, you know. And I had a paper. I 794 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: was in this awful international economics class and I had 795 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: to write a paper. I had an exam and I 796 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 1: just I just wasn't ready for it. So I didn't 797 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 1: show up to this. So your mother is participating and 798 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,719 Speaker 1: he's got my bag. Oh my god, what's my mom? 799 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,440 Speaker 1: I said? You know, Lottie's funeral program. Can you just 800 00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,880 Speaker 1: addit it and change the day. And and I'm taking 801 00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 1: to the teacher. Okay, Grace Angel and the doors children, 802 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:02,760 Speaker 1: I will never be ain'ting the date of a cousin 803 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 1: or auntie that dad, so you can get out of 804 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: a test. I'm just saying that. Now, isn't that great, 805 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: It's insane. Okay. On that note, people, we're out of here. Okay, 806 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: do not forget to live your life, either reasonable or shady. 807 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 1: And don't all these people that aren't chalenged right now listen. 808 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,720 Speaker 1: We'll see they can't get away with it now because 809 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,840 Speaker 1: now they have all these like okay, like buying papers online, 810 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,400 Speaker 1: like I think the teachers they're somewhere the teachers can 811 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 1: like find out put the paper in. And yes, I 812 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 1: was like I was lucky, started popping, but the teachers 813 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 1: weren't hipto it. Yeah, like, oh they're buying papers. Do 814 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 1: not listen around. My paper was on the Indonesian financial crisis. Okay, Okay, 815 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:51,920 Speaker 1: we're outing head our podcast today. Maryland is gonna come 816 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: knocking at Robbin's store and say give me that degree back. 817 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,440 Speaker 1: No to not prove it. We're out of here go 818 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:10,280 Speaker 1: buy Yeah. Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black 819 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: Affect podcast Network. 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