1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: Guys. Another one of my theories is now in the mainstream. 2 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: Another one of my theories is now making news. And 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: I feel like Paulina. Now, yeah, I say stuff. And 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: then several months later, scientists, researchers come out and say 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: Fred was right. And they don't, I mean, they don't 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: say like that, but that's basically what they're saying. I'm 7 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: saying that. But one third of Americans said that they 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: occasionally or consistently sleep in another room than their bed partner, 9 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: the person that they would typically be sleeping with. And 10 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: I guess it works for a lot of people, and 11 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 1: millennials do it most rather than older people. According to this, 12 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: One expert said that achieving adequate sleep, which is usually 13 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: seven to eight hours for adults what's that like, is 14 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: important for healthy relationships. Studies have shown that people who 15 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: consistently experience poor sleep are more likely to experience conflict 16 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: with their partners. The key to making separate sleep spaces 17 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: work is about is talking about it beforehand. Apparently, according 18 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: to this, so you should you should not just start 19 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: sleeping in another room and not tell anybody. You should 20 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: you should tell your partner that you intended to sleep 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: in a different room. What also another piece of advice here, 22 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: there's research to show that there are benefits of sleeping 23 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: together as well. In general, though, you should probably seek 24 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: professional help before making a decision. Okay, But for those 25 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: of you who have other which is all of you 26 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: except for me, who have other people who expect to 27 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: sleep into bed with you, first of all, would you 28 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 1: let him know ahead of time that you weren't planning 29 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: to attend. First and foremost, where were you last night? 30 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want to sleep with you anymore. Yeah, 31 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: I was in the house. M didn't talk to you 32 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: about it beforehand. I talked you about it afterhand. So yeah, no, 33 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: I was in the house. I'm here. I still love 34 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: you and stuff. I just don't want to sleep with you. 35 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: Oh were you gonna tell me beforehand? 36 00:01:59,880 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: No? 37 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't. Could any of you though, imagine that benefiting 38 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: your relationship if you slept in separate rooms. Yeah, it's 39 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: not just saying just because I think there's like a 40 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: negative connotation like, well, if you're not sleeping together, then 41 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: things aren't going well because oh, you know, he's on 42 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: the couch or she's in a guest room or whatever. 43 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: But like what if it were conscious and you're like, hey, 44 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: you know this. I get up at this time, you 45 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: get up at this time. You know I want you 46 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: to sleep, I want you to rest. I want you 47 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: to be in a good mood. All this because if 48 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: I don't get enough sleep, I'm not a good mood. 49 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: And so like if I first start dating somebody and 50 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: we realize like we have you know, I keep I'm 51 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: keeping them up, They're keeping me up. You know, I've 52 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: dated people who like I already sleep on the extreme 53 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: left side of the bed. I don't know why. I 54 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: have no idea why I sleep alone in a king 55 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: sized bed. You think I sleep right in the middle 56 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: of the damn thing. Is there a dent where you sleep? 57 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: There's one? No, yeah, because I do the same thing. Yeah, 58 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: but I instead sleep for some reason, like damn near 59 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: off the left side of the bed. It's like, I'm like, 60 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: there is all this bed over here. And so sometimes 61 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: I date people who like they want to be super 62 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: close all the time. So I'm already on the extreme 63 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: left side of the bed, and now you want to 64 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: be close to me. So you're basically where I should be. 65 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: And there's a whole bed over here. I mean to 66 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: the point where I've gotten out of bed, walked around 67 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: the bed, and then slept in the huge empty space 68 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: on the other side of the bed. You know, because 69 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, I can't be like I get it. 70 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: It's nice at first, you know, maybe you fall asleep 71 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: that way, but then you you do it for a 72 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,239 Speaker 1: little while, then you spread out. Because I'm a large 73 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: hot man. Yes, people are always saying that about me. 74 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm a large hot san. You know, I'm a large 75 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: furnace of a human being, and I need a little 76 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: bit of I need a little bit of space. Yes, 77 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: you know, so I don't know. I could see it. 78 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: I could see it. But to answer that, you guys 79 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: can answer the question. Now, would it work for any 80 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: of you? Yes? 81 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: This will save relationships In my opinion, I feel because, 82 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 3: like you said the schedule part, I know a lot 83 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 3: of couples who do that. They're like on mornings and 84 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 3: someone's working overnight, ships whatever, So I think it works 85 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 3: for them. 86 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: And I don't know, I feel like I kind of 87 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: like those is anyone doing this, by the way, people 88 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: are texting? But eight five, five, five, nine, one one 89 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: oh three five, And did you seek professional help before. 90 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 4: You get it. 91 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: That's what I'm most concerned about that did you get 92 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: professional help? Did you let the person know I'm not 93 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: in bed with you anymore? Ray, I get into bed 94 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 1: and you're nowhere to be found. I spent several days. 95 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: You're not there, but you're there somewhere. I think I 96 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: hope he told him beforehand that you weren't planning to 97 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: attend Kiki. Hey, I feel like this might be something 98 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: that you would try and convince Big Tim to do, 99 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,239 Speaker 1: to have like on your terms, like when you felt 100 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: like it. No, I I hate tonight. Tonight's at your 101 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: room night. 102 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm a cuddlert until I get hot 103 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 4: and fall asleep, so like I need to be in 104 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 4: his skin like I need to. He hates it though 105 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 4: now now he would probably love a separate room. Him 106 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 4: and the dog would just be in there, vibe and 107 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 4: it would be Cheetos everywhere, you know, having a great time. 108 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 4: But me, no, I want you there and I want 109 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 4: to listen to my tiktoks out loud while you're trying 110 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 4: to watch TV. 111 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: There's another reason why there were a separate because you 112 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: got the wig room. You got the glamor room. You 113 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: got the bedroom, and there aren't any rooms left for him, 114 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: he'd have to sleep in the wig room. 115 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's how it should be. You don't need 116 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 4: any other options. 117 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: You don't want to sleep with me, Well, it sounds 118 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 1: like you're not doing much sleeping. 119 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 4: Well, no, I just like you know, I scroll until 120 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 4: I get tired, and then I roll over and I 121 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 4: lean on him until I fall asleep, and then he 122 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 4: goes and he probably lives his best life. 123 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm sleeping. I dated somebody else 124 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: who didn't sleep at all, like, never slept, and I 125 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: think that's because the person couldn't live with their own sins. 126 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: But I think they were kept up at night because 127 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: they were tortured by themselves. But nonetheless, it started to 128 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 1: make me feel anxious because I need to sleep, and 129 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 1: I'm very well capable of doing it, but I need 130 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: to I'm very good. I'm The older I get, the 131 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: more disciplined I find I need to be like when 132 00:05:58,279 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: I was. I don't know when I started doing this 133 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: schedule fifteen years ago or something, but more than that, 134 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: I mean I could stay out all night and then 135 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: come in here and do this and then take a 136 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: little nap and then I mean imagine, like college, you 137 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: could like stay up all night and still show up 138 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: for class now that you were paying much attention, but 139 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 1: like you could do it now. I need to be 140 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: asleep at a certain time and otherwise it is bad news. 141 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: It is bad news. So like that's another bad thing. 142 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: Like if you can't sleep, don't sit there up and 143 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: down and then you're on your You know you're doing 144 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: stuff when you're awake, because you can sense that as 145 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: a sleeping member of the of the of the bed. Yes, 146 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: you know that. Like it keeps me kind of awaken 147 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: on edge because like why the hell aren't you asleep? 148 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: Or or you wake up the middle night where is 149 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: the person? Oh, and they're like in the other room 150 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: doing something because they can't sleep, and it's like what, 151 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 1: I hate that, so, madam, so I can see why. 152 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: Or like again, somebody likes to eat in the bed food. 153 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: I don't like to eat food in the bed unless 154 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: I'm at a hotel, then I will because I don't care. 155 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: It's not my problem. But then I so then go 156 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: do that, Yeah, go do that in your own bed 157 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: if you want, right. 158 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 3: I think, So what about the alarm system though, Like 159 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 3: on the weekends, did you guys ever date somebody who 160 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 3: We're off on the weekend, So we want to sleep, 161 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 3: but they want to go to the gym or they 162 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: want to go do something, and alarm goes off at 163 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 3: seven and. 164 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: Seven fifteen and seven thirty, Like I want to throw up. Yeah, okay, 165 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: So how do we feel about what is this snooze rule? 166 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:23,559 Speaker 1: Like when I when I'm seeing someone, or like again, 167 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: someone's staying in the house, I tend to be very 168 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: sensitive to the snooze, Like there is no snooze. Oh yeah, 169 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: like when someone when someone is in bed with me, 170 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: there's no snooze. When I'm alone, there's five snoozes, easy, 171 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: five snoozes. But I don't I don't think I should 172 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: have to subject that to somebody else. It's nice. So 173 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: like it goes off once I get up, I turn 174 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: it off and I go by my business. Oh you're 175 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: so kind, because otherwise I'm when I'm waking up the 176 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: other person that many times too. Oh you don't, you 177 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: don't do that. No, I get the receiving end. 178 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 3: So he wants to go to the gym on the 179 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 3: weekends when I'm off, he wants to go to the gym. 180 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: You're a respectful snoozer, but he is very much so 181 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: he is not. 182 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 3: All I hear is Go Cubs Go fan song playing 183 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: over and over, and I want to just I just 184 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 3: want to pull my hair out. 185 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm so angry about that. I want to sleep. This 186 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: is my time. That's not okay. And Jason, you are 187 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: very respectful snoozer as well. 188 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think I've ever hit snooze. But I 189 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 5: have about zero point three seconds to grab the phone 190 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 5: once the alarm starts going off before he wakes up. 191 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: So literally, I wake up in a panic. 192 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 5: I'm like, grab the phone as soon as it starts 193 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 5: going off so it doesn't wake him up. And we 194 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 5: finally reached the point where I can get up in 195 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 5: the morning, get ready, shower or whatever, get out of 196 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 5: the house and he doesn't wake up and he's still sleeping. 197 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 5: We've just reached that point. 198 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: How's the sleep situation going with the new boyfriend? Well, 199 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: we're still new. So he gets up with me stop it? Yeah, yeah, stop? 200 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 6: She makes me coffee or if I'm hungry. I know 201 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 6: he'll get my uber yah, I know. Yes, he walks 202 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:53,439 Speaker 6: me to the uber. I know, I know it's disgusting, 203 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 6: I phone, I know, I. 204 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:02,719 Speaker 1: Know, my girl, you know this, it's so nice, but 205 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: that's so unsustainable. Yeah, I know you would never do 206 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: that for someone. 207 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 2: So it's very sweet and he's doing the most. 208 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, he does them. 209 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 2: He has like a notepad on his phone if I 210 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 2: say things like to like remind himself about things. I say, Oh, 211 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 2: I know, but like is it sustainable? I feel bad 212 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,959 Speaker 2: for him, like, how are you going to keep that up? 213 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: This is is almost is it too nice for you? 214 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: I feel like this is very nice and you're not 215 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: used to this nice. I don't know if that's a 216 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,199 Speaker 1: good thing. Like I think I feel like you and 217 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: I are typically attracted the things that are not nuts. Yeah, No, 218 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: I mean I do like a bad boy. 219 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 2: I mean he's he's got his little edge. 220 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: I am never like sometimes No, I mean he gets 221 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: you a medium coffee instead of a lock. No, he's 222 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: got an edge. 223 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 2: But no, I I'm grown and like learning to appreciate 224 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: people being kind. 225 00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: To me in the soft girl era very different. Yeah 226 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: it's not. 227 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I have to actively like be like 228 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 2: this is what love looks like? Yeah, you know, not 229 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 2: like butterflies are not wondering if someone's ever going to 230 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: talk to you again, you know, that's not what they are. 231 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: I think it's very nice. He's doing the most. I 232 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: just wonder how like once you start slowly backing out 233 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 1: of not like, like, how do you get away with 234 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: like it almost becomes a fight. Then when one day 235 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: you're like, I'm not getting up with you, say well 236 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: why not? Oh, I say, you don't love me? Right right? 237 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Yeah. And I've also not had 238 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: the best experience with coming in hot off the top. Yeah. 239 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: In fact, I tend to the slower intends to work 240 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: better for me. Like if I come in that hot, yeah, 241 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: I find that, Like it's for some reason, I seem 242 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: to do better when I come in cold. Yeah. If 243 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: I were doing all that for somebody, I don't know, 244 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: I feel like they bail. Yeah. 245 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 2: I mean, remembering things your partner says is kind of 246 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: like minimum and then you. 247 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: Know if you want to make them. 248 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 2: When I first meet him, I just try to Never 249 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 2: someone was walking Kiki to her car for a little while. 250 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 4: They did it, like the first week I worked here. 251 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 4: After that week, I ain't seen him. Yeah, would he 252 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 4: stop doing it then? Was there an issue like were 253 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 4: you mad? No? I was just like, Okay, I mean 254 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 4: it was cute, the effort was cute, you know, but 255 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 4: that is really sweet that he's doing it. It is 256 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 4: hard like when you get a nice guy to turn 257 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 4: your gangster down. Have you been able to like turn 258 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 4: your thug down? Because I know you and know the Missjia. 259 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's it's we're a work in progress. 260 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 2: Like I have to be like, oh, it's you know 261 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 2: bringing it okay, Yeah, put your d away. 262 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I tell myself I'm serious talking about it beforehand? Though, 263 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,959 Speaker 1: Have you saw professional help to discuss all this? Is 264 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: that that's the advice in the story. 265 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 2: No, he better seek professional help if he stops. 266 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: And I'm going to be like, oh, you just don't 267 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: think I'm pretty anymore. This is what I'm saying is no, 268 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: he's gonna have to get up at this time for 269 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: the rest of his life, because I mean, again, when 270 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 1: you're this nice from the beginning, how do you grow? 271 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: But you can only it can only be degraded from there. 272 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 2: He has a seven am weekend alarm that sometimes goes off, 273 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 2: so he can't do break up. Yeah, I literally am like, 274 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 2: you're if one more time, if that. 275 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 1: Goes off prayers to you, that'd be the end. Yeah, 276 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: Hey Tammy, Hey hike Sammy. You sleep in separate beds 277 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: as your partner? Yes? Did you talk about it beforehand? 278 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: Because apparently that's there that's a key to all this. 279 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: Do you just started doing it? Do you like forget 280 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 1: about it? 281 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 6: Well? 282 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: Kind of it first it bothered me. 283 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 2: Well, he worked different shifts than I did, so on 284 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 2: the overlap time you would come home, go to sleep 285 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 2: on the couch and it would bother me. 286 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: Will we find about it? But then it just kind of, 287 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, became normal. But we have separate. 288 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 2: Rooms and we both discovered we just sleep better. 289 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so then I have to ask and I'm I'll 290 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: try and be like PG about it. But then when 291 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 1: it's like special time, you know, because like if you're 292 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 1: in bed together every night and you kind of can 293 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: just roll over and do the poke thing and then 294 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: like you know, the special time starts. But when you 295 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: like consistently sleep in different rooms, do you then have 296 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: to be like, hey, why don't you come to my 297 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 1: room right now? Or like do you plan it ahead? 298 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 1: Like kay, tonight you should probably sleep in my room. Like, 299 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: when it's special time, how do you get to it? 300 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 3: Walk in special time? 301 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: Oh? I see, okay, because again, like that's a nice 302 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 1: convenient part about having somebody right there. It's like you 303 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: can sort of feel it out. You know, they're right there, 304 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: so while we're here, you know, we may as well. 305 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 1: But then if they're in another room, then I feel 306 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: like we're dating again, and it might have to sort 307 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: of be a little more regimented about making sure we 308 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: get to get it in. You don't get poked in 309 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: the back. Oh the morning pope. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I 310 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: know that one. I know that trick. All right, Tammy. Well, 311 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: I'll leave it there. Have a good day. I hope 312 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: today's a special day for you. About that, Oh, I'm 313 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 1: sure it will be, sody bye, Tammy. So yeah, so 314 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,719 Speaker 1: it's not hurting their special time at all. 315 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 4: No, there, feel like you got a little visitor in 316 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 4: the house. 317 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 1: Oh, Rick, pretend like you don't know the person. Yeah, 318 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: back there, that's another thing that's not gonna last very long. 319 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: I know who this is again. They talking about it? Yeah, 320 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: they talk better than they say. Tell me about it. 321 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred show I'm 322 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: running in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We 323 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: call them blogs. Kiki, dear blog, baby, you're ready to 324 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: take it away, deer blog. 325 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 4: Yesterday I came to the realization that I do not 326 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 4: trust double drive throughs. Okay, And I don't know what 327 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 4: where this started or why, but you know how all 328 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 4: of the fast food restaurants now they have rebuilt their 329 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 4: little space and they got two drive throughs where you 330 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 4: can pull up on either side, and they make you 331 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 4: think that it's moving faster, but it's really not, because. 332 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: It's the number of people right actually like and usually 333 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: the same person working them both. 334 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then once I get to the onond do 335 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 4: I gotta re order my order because I gotta verify 336 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 4: that I was I was the car that you were 337 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 4: talking to, but you try to make me think that 338 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 4: I it was still a y'all. 339 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 1: It was really one of y'all. 340 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 4: Take them my order, and then I only trust the 341 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 4: original drive through side. So like if my McDonald's now 342 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 4: has two, I only go to that one that was 343 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 4: there when it first. 344 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: Got one was closest to the establishment exactly, the one 345 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: that's a little further out. We're not doing this, I 346 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: don't trust it. 347 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 4: And sometimes there's a column there and then it's open 348 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 4: and you just don't know what to do. Like I 349 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 4: just feel like, if I go over there, that's the 350 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 4: bootleg side. I need to stay with the original lane 351 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 4: because I don't trust the other side. 352 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, yes, if you The other day, 353 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: I was going through one and I realized that everybody 354 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: was only lining up for the internal side, the one 355 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: closest to the establishment, that's me. The outside one was 356 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: wide open and nobody was going to it. So I 357 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: drove out around for the cars and I just went 358 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: right to the open one because it was like, look, 359 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: I sat, I waited, it didn't appear that anybody was 360 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: going to go over to the other side. I took 361 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: the risk because it's possible that if I had gone 362 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: over there, that it was not it was closed or 363 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: broken and I had missed it, and then we had 364 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: to go all the way back around and get in 365 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: the back of the line. Turned out that just that 366 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: nobody's paying attention. 367 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 4: Really, and they let you merge, because that's another thing. 368 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 4: Once you go through that, now we gotta murder. I 369 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 4: gotta look at you an eye you gotta let me 370 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 4: and eye, I gotta no. 371 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: Can I merge? 372 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 2: Then it should be every other if we're both done. 373 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,119 Speaker 2: But people will just cut you right on off exactly 374 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 2: like all right. 375 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: So I just don't trust this. 376 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 4: And I think, you know, we grew up with one 377 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 4: drive through window, and it taught us patience, you know, 378 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 4: it taught us appreciation for that drive through worker. Now 379 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 4: you got these kids growing up with two sides. They 380 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 4: think everything's supposed to happen fast. I just I'm not 381 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 4: here for it. 382 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 1: The other problem with the double drive through is sometimes 383 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: I don't have great hearing, but sometimes I don't know 384 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 1: if which speaker they're talking Are you talking to me? 385 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: Are you talking to the person? So that I start 386 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: to order and it's like, oh no, wait, that was 387 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: for the that was for the one over. That wasn't 388 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: for me. 389 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: And do you guys wait for them to greet you 390 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 2: or do you just start talking? 391 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: That's another thing. You got to wait to agree, don't you. 392 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 4: But now they got AI, so it's hi, you're using 393 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 4: your reward. I'm having a whole conversation and then I'm like, 394 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 4: hey girl, yeah, let me get it. And then it's 395 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 4: a hello, Yeah, what's your order? I'm like, but I 396 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 4: was just talking to Sarah, So how did you get 397 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 4: hit Jack? It's very weird. 398 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 399 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,479 Speaker 2: Sometimes they'll wait for a while and they won't greet you, 400 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 2: and then they'll act rude to me. 401 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: Like as if I was supposed to just know to order. 402 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I need the signal. Fam. I know 403 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: you're working a lot of jobs. It's too much, it is. 404 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 1: Jack corucks me up. That reminds me of when you 405 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 1: call like a customer service line and it will be like, 406 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: thank you for calling the bank. My name is Teresa. 407 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 1: How may I help you? And then the person goes, 408 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: what do you want? Yeah, because they recorded that ahead 409 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: of time, you know, like on their first day of work. 410 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: They recorded their greeting, you know, and they were so 411 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 1: happy to be there, like I got a job now, 412 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: like benefits and it pays all right. So it's like, hey' 413 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: written in your bosses right there, Hey, record your greeting 414 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:46,439 Speaker 1: for the customers. You don't have to say no, hello, 415 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: thanks for calling the bank. My name is Teresa. What 416 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: can I do for you? And then when it finally 417 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,719 Speaker 1: goes to them, I'm like, four years of working there, 418 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: they're like what do you want? Yeah, exactly, And the 419 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: same thing happens at the drive through. It'll be welcome 420 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: to mc It'll be like a woman like somebody who's up, 421 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: Welcome to McDonald's. Time may help you today? What do 422 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: you want? There's some guy? What do you want? Wait? 423 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 4: Hold on? 424 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: Hold on? 425 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 4: And then after we finally get through all that, it's 426 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 4: almost time to merge my anxieties. 427 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: All up? Do you want to donate, bro? Please? Like 428 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: I can barely afford this meal. I don't want to. 429 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 4: I don't want to donate today, Like it's just a 430 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 4: lot I don't know. 431 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: Or like when you're in the store and you're deciding 432 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 2: if you go up to the counter or use the screen. 433 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: I had that this morning. Oh yes, you know what 434 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: I mean? 435 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: Yes, right? Like what would they prefer me to do? 436 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 2: Because I'm here to help, Like whatever's easiest on you. 437 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 2: I love the women who working on McDonald's. But do 438 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 2: they want me to order from them? Do they want 439 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 2: me to order on the screen? I don't know. 440 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: The only way I'm using the kiosk is if the 441 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: lines are busy. I prefer to deal with the human 442 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: being if I can. I just feel like I trust 443 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 1: the process better, and there's poop on those things. I 444 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: don't know. But what I really feel like I feel 445 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,919 Speaker 1: like a rebel is and I don't know why I 446 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: feel like a rebel. Like I was at the airport 447 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: the other day. I was a rebel and there was 448 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: a Starbucks and it was the line was very long. 449 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: But then I had mobile ordering, so I kind of 450 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: like stood there for a second. I'm like, why is 451 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:09,160 Speaker 1: no one doing that? So I mobile ordered. This same 452 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 1: happened to me at Midway the other day at the Duncan. 453 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: There there's a dunkin at Midway and there's a little 454 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: sign that said you can't dunk in mobile order, but 455 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 1: they have like an intern like a Midway mobile order 456 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: system or something. There's a little sign and the line 457 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: is like all the way down, like I don't know, 458 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,959 Speaker 1: Harry Carey's bar whatever, all the way down, and I'm like, 459 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: I'm waiting in the line, and then I see the sign, 460 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, why is no one doing this? So I did? 461 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: And then I go around to the backside and there's 462 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: my drink waiting right there. Now, Am I wrong? Yes? 463 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 1: Why if everybody else is not paying attention to the possibilities. 464 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: Then it's that's not on me. That's what's wrong with 465 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 1: the world. We need patience. 466 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 4: Okay, you need to get in the back of head 467 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 4: line like everybody else, but they have an option. 468 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: Reading is fundament that's available to everyone. Oka same with 469 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 1: swinging over to the other drive to like if no 470 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: one's doing it, why can't I? Because it doesn't feel right. 471 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: You need to stay in the back of the line. 472 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 4: Because now I'm in a line wondering how did he 473 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,159 Speaker 4: get all the way up there? How did he just 474 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 4: walk past me and go get his drink. I haven't 475 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 4: even ordered yet. 476 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: You gotta be a leader. But I felt like I 477 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: don't like the pink the pink panther or something. I 478 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: don't know, Like I saw the sign and er and 479 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 1: then I was like everybody and everyone's looking at me, like, 480 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: what is this guy? What is he to think I 481 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: have to wait in line? I don't there's a sign everybody. 482 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: Everybody had access to the same sign, so everybody had 483 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 1: the equal opportunity unless you didn't read or write English. 484 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 1: I suppose in that case you wouldn't have known. But 485 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 1: I gotta think most people in line could read English. Yes, 486 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: so it's not my phone, right, Yeah, whatever, stick to 487 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: the old school, right one life gotta be smarter, you 488 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: gotta work smarter more spreadshell. Next, that was a wild 489 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: That was a wild thing. Though we had the concert, 490 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: you know, our jingle Ball concert in December we have 491 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: every year, and Nicki Minaje of the night before said, 492 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,400 Speaker 1: you couldn't make it. Lowayne hopped on the PJ flu 493 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 1: to the airport furthest away from the venue. Even though 494 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 1: there's an airport next to the venue. There's literally an 495 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: airport next. The biggest airport is next to the venue, 496 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 1: and he went to the other one. I have a 497 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 1: video of you going get out of the round. And 498 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: then he pulls this van up shoot the stage. And 499 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 1: this is an hour after we had to go on 500 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: stage and tell everybody that he was going to be 501 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 1: laid and people were like tomato, like screaming it on, 502 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 1: like we had anything to do with it, right. 503 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 2: I had Fred in the fetal position bawling, and I'm like, 504 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: it's okay. 505 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: On the van. They're like, hey, do you want to 506 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: go out front of nineteen thousand people and disappoint them? 507 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,360 Speaker 1: I'm like sure, sounds like fun. Let that every day. Yeah, right, 508 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: well far fewer than that. And so then right and 509 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: then and then he shows up. And then I'm like, good, 510 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: he's here. Get out of the van and sing, hey, yeah, 511 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:01,120 Speaker 1: no he was. That was honestly like a like a 512 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: cheech and jong skid if you know, if then an 513 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 1: old reverence that's even before my time. But the door 514 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,679 Speaker 1: to the sprinter opens and like this waft of smoke 515 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 1: comes out, and say, oh, he's here, great little thing. 516 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: But it's amazing how much I believe that he probably 517 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 1: consumed of the THHC and then was able to perform 518 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 1: in that way. I take a little nibble off of 519 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: a gummy and I'm done for the night. Yeah, like 520 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: a gallon of ice cream. And I'm like, you know, 521 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: I'm comatose, and this dude's out there, you know, singing 522 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 1: and dancing and screaming and making money and doing whatever. 523 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: It's why it's really wild snoops, the same way. I mean, 524 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 1: I realize it's probably like a you get conditioned to 525 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 1: it over time, you know, you get I don't know, 526 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: your body becomes acclimated. But my friends like that too. 527 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: I'm a maz Like he goes for a run. Oh, 528 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 1: those people like, if your state has those dispensaries, you 529 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: should ask take a survey next time and ask people 530 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 1: like how many milligrams the people that work there? And 531 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm just generalizing because typically people who work there are consumers, 532 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: like like higher level. I would say, it's fair, would't 533 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: you It's fair to say that if you work at 534 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: a dispensary, you might consume more than the average I 535 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: would would you say that's a fair statement, because because 536 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: my mom has a medical card in Arizona and she 537 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: was in there the other day and they were trying 538 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 1: to sell her fifty milligram gummies and she's a five 539 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 1: kind of girl. Yeah, and this dude was like, well, 540 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,719 Speaker 1: I don't get out of bed for less than three hundred, 541 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: three hundred milligram, Like, hey, take a break, Like a 542 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: ten knocks my six ' five ass out fifty I 543 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: kind of want to take one, he would have appen. No, No, 544 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: My problem is I'd eat the refra I would eat 545 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: everything in the refrigerator and then I would eat the refrigerator. 546 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: That's the that would be my problem with that. But 547 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 1: I know people who'd like consume a lot of THHC. 548 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: You know where if you're an adult and it's legal. 549 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 1: Of course, my friends work, Hi, some of them. I'm like, 550 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: how how how that's that's I go night night. I 551 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: have no idea how. I don't know how people are. 552 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 1: They're like, well, this strain makes you, you know, alert. 553 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, no strain makes me. No, no strain makes 554 00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:00,040 Speaker 1: me alert or it makes me alert. Yeah, sometimes the 555 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 1: show is on. Yeah, friend's fun. 556 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 3: Fact, Fred's fun. 557 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,959 Speaker 1: Learning so much guys, this is kind of crazy. Actually, 558 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: the longest time between twins being born is eighty seven days. 559 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: What eighty seven days? The longest time between twins being 560 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,719 Speaker 1: born is eighty seven days. Maria was the mother's name 561 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: in this case, went to labor four months early, giving 562 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 1: birth to a little girl named Amy. But Katie, the 563 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 1: other little girl, didn't arrive until three months later, so 564 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 1: one came out the other one stadium baked a little longer. 565 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 1: I guess everybody's okay, but they're eighties, they're twins, but 566 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: their eighty seven their birthdays or eighty seven days apart? Wow? Crazy? 567 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: How about that? You want your own day? Wait? Literally? Yeah, 568 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 1: much much later? Yeah, you want your own season? You 569 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: can get your own damn season. That must be crazy though, 570 00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: give birth and then like, all right, well, this one's 571 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: hanging out litt I got to go back for more. Yeah, 572 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: like I need you to hold it tight for another 573 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: eighty seven days. 574 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 7: Sneeze comes Katie More, Bread Show next, You've got to wait. 575 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: Bread Show is on now Hot This Morning Show. Hello everyone, 576 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 1: Good morning Thursday. Until I eleve it. The Pread Show's on. 577 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: Caitlyn's here, Hello, Hi, Jason Brown, Hello, Paul Lina, Hello, 578 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: Good morning show business. Here Arupio is out with this 579 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 1: new baby boy daddy of ch Harker Lee. Yeah. Man, 580 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 1: kids already famous. No, such a rock star name. I 581 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: know it is Harker Lee. It is, no, it really is. 582 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: I think he already thought about it. This kid's got 583 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: to be fair. I mean, Ashland's well on his way trademark. 584 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 1: This kid's got to be famous too. Yeah, website's already 585 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 1: bon everything. He's already got a Twitter for this kid. 586 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: An X. That's sounds a weird, man, the entertainer reports, 587 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: coming up waiting by the phone. Before that, why did 588 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: somebody get ghosted? What are you working on? K? Travis 589 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: Kelsey caught saying something on a hot mic. Oh, don't 590 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: get in trouble. Don't get in trouble with the boss. 591 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,920 Speaker 1: Don't hope, I hope. Whatever he said was okay, we'll 592 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 1: get to it right. Ex that's what you say to 593 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 1: her when I I captain salute. Yeah, at least that's 594 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 1: what I would do if I were dating exactly. Yes, 595 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: the answer is yes, whatever it is. Yes, I'll dress 596 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 1: up with the top add on and dancer. I don't 597 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: care whatever. Yes, I want to ride home on the PJ. 598 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 1: Whatever it's gonna take, it's fine. Yeah, we'll get to 599 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: the entertainer report after waiting, which is three minutes the 600 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: way after Miguel fred Show.