1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: Fred Show, Ashton, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: How are you good morning, I'm good. 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: How are you guys? We're doing great. Waiting by the 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: phone is what this is called. Of course, we're trying 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: to figure out what happened with this guy Noah, But 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 1: we got to know kind of everything. How did you meet? 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and 9 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 1: where things are now. Yeah, so we. 10 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,639 Speaker 2: Met on one of the apps, pretty standard, you know, 11 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 2: we sorted a little bit, and then he kind of 12 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: got straight to the point and asked me out to dinner, 13 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: which I loved that he was so direct. And then 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 2: our date went really, really well. He was a total gentleman, 15 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: gentleman honestly, like just absolutely wonderful and I absolutely want 16 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 2: to see him again. But then he stops responding like 17 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: a little bit after our date, like two days after 18 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: our date, and I genuinely don't know what happened. 19 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: Huh okay, So again I always always ask, you know, 20 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: let's a little self awareness here. Everything really went well, 21 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: Like you you don't think back on the date and say, ah, man, 22 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: there was this one weird part or one thing where 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: things may have been derailed. I mean, you honestly left 24 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 1: the date thinking I'm gonna hear from Noah. We're gonna 25 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: go out again. We're onto something here. Yeah, it was wonderful. 26 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: All right, I got to ask the question I just 27 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: got in total fairness show. I want to make sure 28 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: full transparency, like you were super into this guy and 29 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: very disappointed not to hear from him. 30 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, Okay, all. 31 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: Right, well let's stop. I'm gonna play a song. We're 32 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: gonna come back, Ashton. We're gonna call Noah. See if 33 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: we can get him on the phone for you ask 34 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: these questions. You'll be on the phone too. At some point. 35 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: You're welcome to jump in on the call. And the 36 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: hope here is that we can straighten this out and 37 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for. 38 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 2: Sound good, good, thank you. 39 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: Let's see what's up? Part two of Waiting by the 40 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: phone After a who year gonna be anur Iet radio 41 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: music festival in Las Vegas. We got trips on the 42 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: frend Show coming soon back in two minutes. The French 43 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: Show is on. Good Morning Ashton. Yeah, welcome back. Let's 44 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: call this guy Noah you met out one of the apps. 45 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: You got right to it. He asked you out. I 46 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: think that's a good way to go about things. Just 47 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: you know, you can't become penpals, right, You got to 48 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: get right to If we're gonna meet, let's meet. Let's 49 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: see if there's a connection. You felt like there was one, 50 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: and you were excited to see him again and see 51 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: where things went. Except you have not heard from him 52 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: since that date. You feel like you're being ghosted and 53 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: you want to know why. Yeah, okay, that's simple. Well 54 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: let's call him now. Good luck, Ashton, thank you? Hello? 55 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 1: Hi is this Noah? Yeah? There's no Hey, no a, 56 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,239 Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the 57 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: Fred Show, the morning radio show. I do have to 58 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now. 59 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue with the call. 60 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: Can which at for just a second? Do you mind? Yeah? Sure? 61 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 2: Why not? 62 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: Well? Thank you? Noah. We're calling on behalf of a 63 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: woman named Ashton. I guess you guys met recently and 64 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: went on a date. Do you remember going out with her? 65 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: I hope, yeah, I do. Okay, Well, she reached out 66 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: to us and was telling us about you. Liked you 67 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: a lot, thought there was a lot of potential between 68 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: the two of you, but says that she has not 69 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: heard from you, sends the date, and she feels like 70 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: you're ghosting her, and she kind of wants an explanation. 71 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: Well that kind of she wants an explanation. So what's 72 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: going on? 73 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 3: H okay? Yeah, So Ashton was beautiful and I had 74 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 3: a great time up until the end, honestly, because after 75 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 3: dinner I was walking her do her car, and you know, 76 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: I saw a guy who was homeless and he had 77 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:25,559 Speaker 3: a signed. 78 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: And he was asking for money. 79 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 3: So, you know, I grabbed a couple bucks and I 80 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 3: gave it to the guy and I kept walking, and 81 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 3: then like as we were walking away, she just went 82 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 3: on this huge rant about how I should never give 83 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 3: those people money because I use it to buy drugs. Anyways, 84 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and then she said, I bet the guy 85 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: wasn't even homeless and he probably had a BMW park 86 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 3: down the street. And I don't know that just really 87 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 3: like I was shocked that she felt this way, but 88 00:03:56,400 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 3: that she had like such a strong reaction to him 89 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 3: doing something that you know, like this guy was just 90 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 3: asking for money and I was just trying to help 91 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 3: out and it had nothing to do with there, So 92 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 3: that really turned me out. 93 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, so I forgot to mention that the aston 94 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: is here, Ashton. What's up with the yeah, really opinionated 95 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: perspective on homeless people and why why can't he give 96 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: his own money to someone like that's his prerogative, it's 97 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: it's his it's his money, it's his you know, it's 98 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: his decisions to make. And that's very judgmental, by the way, 99 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: we don't know any of that. 100 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I've just noticed time and time again so 101 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: many people who are scammers, and they'll even do it 102 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 2: like online. Like he looked, first of all fine. He 103 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 2: didn't look super rough for anything. He didn't look homeless 104 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: to me. 105 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: Let me put it that way. 106 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: Well, he didn't look rough, he didn't look dirty, he 107 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 2: looked fine. And I just seen that fair. 108 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that he doesn't have in trouble, doesn't 109 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: mean he couldn't use some help, you know. I mean, 110 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: of course, there are different ways to help. You don't 111 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: necessarily have to get people money on the street. You 112 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: can do a lot of other things. But it's as 113 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: far as like what what my progative is with my 114 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: money and what makes me feel good or what makes 115 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: me feel like I'm helping someone. I mean, that's kind 116 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: of up to me, right, I Mean, it wasn't like 117 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: he took money out of your person, gave it to 118 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: someone without your permission, or that you didn't agree to. 119 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. I just found it really odd though, that he 120 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: felt so comfortable just like giving this guy money when 121 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 2: he doesn't know anything about what he's going to do 122 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: with the money, like if he's actually going to use 123 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 2: it to you know, get food or the room for 124 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: the night or whatever. I mean, like it was just. 125 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 3: Really I just want to jump in here because like 126 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 3: it's just a couple of bucks, and like I don't 127 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 3: care if I was to get duped or something like that. 128 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 2: To me, it's just it's a nice thing to do. 129 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 3: And even if he was going to use it for 130 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 3: something else like whatever, I just wanted to help. 131 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 1: The guy's got some compassion, Like isn't that attractive. I mean, again, 132 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: it's up to you how you want to spend your money, 133 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: but likewise, it's up to him how he wants to 134 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: spend his He wanted to try and help somebody out. 135 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: Why is that a bad thing. 136 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: I just I stand by everything that I'm saying, But 137 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: I also think it's kind of dumb not to call 138 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: me back for that reason. Like that's such a. 139 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: I don't I was gonna be I'm gonna be honest 140 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: with you, Ashon, Like you sound, you sound a little callous. 141 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 1: You sound you sound kind of cold. I mean, again, 142 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: you may not help people that way, but I don't 143 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: think that you thinking that he can't, or giving him 144 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: a lecture for helping people that way simply because of 145 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 1: some stereotype that may be true in a small percentage 146 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: of instances, or may not be true at all. I mean, 147 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,679 Speaker 1: I don't think that's a reason not to help someone. 148 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: I definitely don't think it's a reason not to date someone. 149 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: I mean, if you were giving all of his money 150 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: away and you were paying his bills, I mean, that's 151 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: a whole different set of problems. But the guy gave 152 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: somebody a couple bucks trying to help him out, like 153 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: and and he got a lecture from you for that. 154 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: That's that's probably not the most attractive thing you could do. Okay, 155 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: Well it wasn't a lecture. 156 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 2: It was just me venting my opinion, and I feel 157 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 2: like I'm entitled in my opinion. 158 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: I mean, you are, but so is he. And he's 159 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: also entitled to see that as unattractive and think that 160 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 1: you don't have a lot of compassion. I mean, am 161 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: I right? No? Is that kind of how it came off? 162 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? 163 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 3: I mean that's how it felt to me. And look, 164 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 3: maybe I could have just said it straight up to you, 165 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 3: but I just didn't want to get into it and 166 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: start a whole thing because I'm not interested, and that 167 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 3: turned me off and that was. 168 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: The end of story for me. 169 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: I mean, that's the way he wants to help somebody. 170 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: You might have a different way. That's fine. It's his money, 171 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: it's his deal. But let me ask you, Noah, I mean, 172 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: would you give her another chance? She's kind of doubling 173 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: down on this opinion, but would you, I mean, we'll 174 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,679 Speaker 1: pay for another date. Would you be willing to try again? Honestly? 175 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: If she had walked it back and maybe just said 176 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: I understand where you're coming from, and that's totally fine, 177 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 3: I see, it doesn't really matter that much. But no, 178 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 3: since she doubled down and isn't going to give me 179 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 3: an ounce of credit for just trying to do something nice. 180 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: I'm not interested. Well, Aston, he's not interested. You might 181 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: keep that opinion to yourself. It's also not necessarily universally 182 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: accurate either. Your thoughts about not helping. Why you wouldn't 183 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: help someone on the street. Okay, I mean, I guess 184 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: there are probably scameras out there, but that's not the 185 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: way to go through life. I don't think I mean, 186 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: just not help anybody because everybody might be abut to 187 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: get I don't know. I don't love that perspective either, 188 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: but hey, that's your right to have your opinion, his 189 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: right to have his. It's not going to work out, guys. 190 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for your time. Best of luck to both 191 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: of you. 192 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. Thanks. 193 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report Kaitlin has it next seven hundred bucks 194 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: for showby is Shelley you win in ten minutes On 195 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: The Fred Show, We're back in two minutes.