1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: The autistic kid confessed his love for me. Now the 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: principle is pressuring me to go out with him. I 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: want to say no. So am I thea hole? 4 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: I know the. 5 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: Title is going to make me seem like a bad person, 6 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: but please hear me out. So I female fifteen, am 7 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 1: in high school. There's a boy near my year. Let's 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: call him Kyle. Kyle, male fifteen, has severe autism. He 9 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: can't be in public spaces for a long time without 10 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: a meltdown, can't make eye contact, struggles with social cues, 11 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: et cetera. Also, to preface, I am not ablests. I 12 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: will never ever dislike someone just because they're artistic. But 13 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: I hate him anyway, don'tid so. Anyway, Me and Kyle 14 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: are in the same math class. I didn't choose math 15 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: in the UK. In high school, you have to do 16 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: maths in English the whole time. And we sit next 17 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 1: to each other, with his assistant teacher near to him 18 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: in case he needs help. Kyle had, for whatever reason, 19 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,919 Speaker 1: taken a liking to me because ope, your snack, You're 20 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: a catch. 21 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: Oh come on. 22 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: He isn't a bad person, and I'm sure he would 23 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: be a great boyfriend. However, I'm a lesbian. Oh boy, 24 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: lot thickens. I also have a girlfriend the blot just 25 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: got thicker wow of nearly two years. So I am 26 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: not attracted to men in any way, and obviously Kyle 27 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: is a guy. So about how I got detention. Just 28 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: after class, Kyle decided it would be a good time 29 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: to confess to me, as in basically asked me to 30 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: be his girlfriend. His assistant teacher was right next to me, 31 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 1: so I had to watch my words. I politely declined, 32 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: saying it wasn't interested in relationships right now. The reason 33 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: I didn't just say I'm a lesbian or I have 34 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: a girlfriend is because one people in my school are 35 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,279 Speaker 1: pretty homophobic, so I prefer to keep it a secret 36 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: to avoid bullying. 37 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: That sucks. 38 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, and to my family's kind of homophobic too, so 39 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: I don't want them to find out by some chance 40 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: they don't know me and my girlfriend are dating. 41 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 2: Double suck. 42 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 43 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: Rough After I politely declined, Kyle was very mad. He 44 00:01:56,000 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: almost got violent. I understand his frustration, However, I'm obviously 45 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: not going to date him. His assistant teacher pulled me 46 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: aside and asked if I just go along with it 47 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: for his sake, to which I told her I'm not 48 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: comfortable with it, which is completely reasonable. To get a 49 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: long story short. She ended up telling my head of 50 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: year and the pastoral leader, and they gave me detention for. 51 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 4: Get this bullying, since what is not going out with 52 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 4: someone bullying? Hey, Sam, Yeah, will you marry me? 53 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 2: Yes? Wow? 54 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 4: I was, yeah, I have to arrest you because you 55 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 4: were going to say no. But no, Now I don't know. 56 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: What to do. 57 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: Uh you say, let's ride off into the sunset. 58 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 3: There we go. 59 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 4: That's right, that's right, into jail because it was a 60 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 4: ruse all along. 61 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 2: That's sad. 62 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: I thought it was just a sting op. He says, 63 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: How did I bully this kid? I was perfectly fine 64 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: with him until this. He won't talk to me anymore, 65 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: which is odd. Was I supposed to just accept his 66 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: dat and bite just because he's autistic? Which literally, if 67 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 1: you had to do that, like half of Reddit would 68 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: have girlfriends. I'm sorry, but that seems completely unfair to me. 69 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 1: I hope you don't all think I'm some horrible, ablest 70 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: person for this. I just had to get it out. 71 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: I still strongly believe I didn't deserve to be punished. 72 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: For not wanting to date him, and I'm really mad 73 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: at the way my school handled it. There are a 74 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: couple edits, but John is opda hole for not dating 75 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: the autistic kid. 76 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,119 Speaker 4: No, you have so many layers. First of all, say 77 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 4: that you're like man. Second of all, just in a relationship, 78 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 4: so it would be cheating. Third of all, you don't 79 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 4: have to date anybody because someone says you should do it. 80 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 4: Like it's just yeah, it's just so weird that like 81 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 4: one person in the school, like a teacher's assistant, it's 82 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 4: already weird. 83 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 3: You got multiple people, the principals meet him. 84 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 2: He's so cute, he's such a good guy. 85 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 3: Just go along with what is wrong with you? 86 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 4: Like, I don't understand how in these scenarios, just like 87 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 4: all these people that are like so. 88 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: Insane, I know. 89 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: But also one simple hack to get a girlfriend, be 90 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: autistic and go to school. 91 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 3: I've been doing it wrong all my life apparently. 92 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: So there is some edits now the next day, and 93 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: I've told my parents about this. I actually told them 94 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: as soon as I got detention. Couldn't text them because 95 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: no phones allowed in school. They are just as mad 96 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: at this situation as I am. And they are going 97 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: to meet with a member of the school team to 98 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: discuss it tomorrow and I'm going with them. I'll post 99 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: another update tomorrow if anything happens. Wish me luck and 100 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: then it too. 101 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 2: Well. The meeting went well. 102 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: My parents were livid and they demanded that they take 103 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: the detention off my record, so they did, And now 104 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: the head teacher had to talk with the TA and 105 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: gave her a verbal warning. I don't think she'll get fired, 106 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: but I hope she does. I think that's the end 107 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: of it, and the school is never going to do 108 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: that again or will take it further. Thank you all 109 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: for the support. Wow, that's beautiful. I'm glad it ended 110 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: up well. Yeah, you know. But something that I'm not 111 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: glad is like, how are these autistic kids going to 112 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: get girlfriends if the principal is enforcing everyone they date? Bro, 113 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: they need the assist, they need the assist. 114 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 4: So literally, he literally took the ball and ran with it. 115 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm thinking new foundation, NODA Friends for Autistic Kids. What 116 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 1: a great and noble cause, one girlfriend for every autistic kid, 117 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: no questions. 118 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:07,679 Speaker 3: Asked, no questions asked. 119 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 2: But what would you do, guys, what would you do? 120 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 3: Yeah? 121 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 1: Like we want to know, but what we also love 122 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 1: to read is the comments from our public subscribers. 123 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 3: Oh my god, yes we do. 124 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,559 Speaker 4: And these comments come from the video My biracial sister 125 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 4: called my white parents racist? Do I kick her out? 126 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 4: This is where OPI disinvited the adopted sister from the 127 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 4: wedding because she called her white parents racist. This comes 128 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 4: from public subscriber Swordhorse as a mixed kid to adoptive 129 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 4: white parents. If what Opie said is true about the family, 130 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 4: then the sister is probably being manipulated for something. 131 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 3: The sister is probably known her whole life. 132 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 4: She has adopted, She had her entire life to work 133 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 4: through her feelings, find a community, build an identity, separate 134 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 4: from her adoptive family. Sounds as though the birth family 135 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 4: slash parents are planting seeds of dissonance. Whatever the motives, 136 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 4: the goal is to get their daughter to separate willingly 137 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 4: from her adopted family. I'm curious about what her birth 138 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 4: family is telling her. Something is rotten in the state 139 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 4: of Denmark. This, I think, is a great example of 140 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 4: a comment where it's like someone who literally lived the 141 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 4: experience described shares their thoughts from literally having lived the experience. 142 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: That's what we love. That's why we love you guys. 143 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: You guys come from so many diverse backgrounds and we 144 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: love hearing your story. So please keep them coming. Publicly 145 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: subscribe comment below and we just might read it. 146 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 4: So you my husband's mistress neglected my baby, so I 147 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 4: exposed her. 148 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 3: Am I the a whole? 149 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 2: I mean it's a mistress, So like, you. 150 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 3: Know, neglecting your baby. 151 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, definitely the neglecting the baby. But I think 152 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: that's like that's two negatives, right, negative. I think that 153 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: is worthy of exposing. 154 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 155 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: I think like one, you're you know, you're you're hooking 156 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: up with my hobby. Yeah, right, that's strike one. Strike two, 157 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: you're neglecting by baby. Strike three, I hate you. 158 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,919 Speaker 4: It's like, oh, I'm so sorry for telling you to 159 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 4: like exposing all the. 160 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: Rent the things you're doing. Yeah, I apologize, I know. No, no, 161 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: no apologies necessary. Put this person in prison, death penalty. 162 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: Well let's let's see hear mouth death. I don't want 163 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:10,559 Speaker 1: to hear about death. 164 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 4: So I have Female thirty three found out that my 165 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: ex husband male thirty seven was cheating on me when 166 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 4: I was seven months pregnant with our son. 167 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: I think there's like not a worse time to cheat. 168 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: It doesn't get worse. Yeah, Like you're like pregnant, Yeah yeah, yeah, 169 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: Well maybe the worst time is like cheating wall giving 170 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: birth to your son. That's that's that's worth, that's worth. 171 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 3: That's king. 172 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 173 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: Like imagine finding out that your husband cheated as you're 174 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: giving birth. Somebody's done it. Someone's done someone's done it. 175 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: Someone send us a story like. 176 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 4: Please please please say to this so we can d 177 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 4: had sex with my sister, I was giving birth. My 178 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: husband had sex with my doctor. I was giving birth. 179 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 4: It's out there. 180 00:07:58,800 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: We didn't read a. 181 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 4: Story where apparently the doctor was flirting with the patient. 182 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 4: Not that far of a stretch. Now, my ex husband's girlfriend 183 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 4: tried to get involved in my parenting several times. She 184 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 4: even commented on my son's name, implying that we should 185 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 4: agree on a name that we all want, not just 186 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 4: what I want. 187 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: But goal of the freaking mistress away and on the baby. 188 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 3: Name steal my husband. Now you're trying to steal my 189 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 3: baby's name. 190 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: Like, keep your baby's name out of your fucking mouth. 191 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: Get out of here with that. 192 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 4: And she tried to dictate what he should and shouldn't have, 193 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 4: and as a result, she started throwing his stuff away 194 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 4: that I paid for myself. 195 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: Dude, this mistress is like the worst. 196 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 3: Who knew that a mistress could be so bold? I 197 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 3: mean so point of. 198 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: A mistress is to keep the background, keep going, bro 199 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: be like be a background. 200 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 2: Care there. 201 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: You are not the main character. You are literally the side. 202 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: Ho go to the side, Hu to the side. 203 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 4: And honestly, it's frustrating because I'm barely getting by with 204 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 4: the money I have and I cannot afford to buy 205 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 4: replacements for all of the stuff she throws away. 206 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 3: But my ex. 207 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 4: Husband says it's her house and she gets to decide 208 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 4: what can and can't enter. 209 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 2: Yo oh, he is so accommodating. 210 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: Not only is she like okay with the mistress being around, 211 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: but she's like already making compromises. 212 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 2: It's it's so vast. 213 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 3: It's just the. 214 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 4: When everyone else is a maniac except op. It's just 215 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 4: it's just too much. 216 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 3: Now. 217 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 4: I made a crochet blanket for my son with his 218 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 4: name on it. Than cute, very very adorable. This blanket 219 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 4: is special to me, and the tools I used to 220 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 4: be able to make it cost me money. Not to 221 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 4: mention the time and effort it took to actually make 222 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 4: it makes a lot of sense. 223 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: Yep. 224 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 4: I sent my son to stay with his dad days ago, 225 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 4: and he wanted to take the blanket with him to 226 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 4: be able to sleep with it. I don't know exactly 227 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 4: what happened, but when I came to pick him up, 228 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 4: he told me his dad's girlfriend took it away from 229 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:18,679 Speaker 4: him and threw it out, leaving him with no blanket 230 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 4: to sleep with. You think that's bad, You think it's bad. 231 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 4: I do think that is bad. 232 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 2: That is bad. 233 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 4: She did this as a punishment for him not accepting 234 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 4: the blanket that she offered him. 235 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: What what kind of freaking punishment is that? Like the 236 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: minimum is you know, clothes, food, shelter, and you're taking 237 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:44,239 Speaker 1: shelter away. 238 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 4: Like it zero logic, zero logic, like a child, three 239 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 4: year old? 240 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 3: Three year old? 241 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 1: You're gonna take a blanket away from a three year old? 242 00:10:55,760 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: You're an evil step mother, step mistress, evil mistress, mistress, 243 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: evil mistress. 244 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 4: Geez, that's a Disney story. I want to say, the 245 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 4: evil mistress. That's the off uh you off color, the 246 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 4: off color you. 247 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 3: Get take my alf off. Now. When I heard this, I. 248 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 2: Was furious dude, who wouldn't be? 249 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 3: Who wouldn't be? 250 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 4: I called his dad, but he hung up on me, 251 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 4: and I sent him a text explaining the situation, but 252 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 4: he texted back telling me that they should stop spreading 253 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 4: all the drama and go look for a job. 254 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 3: If I have so much free time on my hand 255 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: to be picking on. 256 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: His girlfriend, wow, Wow, dude, twisting the knife. 257 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: Not only did he cheat on. 258 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 1: You when you were sick seven months pregnant, but now 259 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: he is like, why are you starting so much drama? 260 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: Dude? 261 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: You were the ones starting drama. Maybe stick to your 262 00:11:54,679 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: your your d and your own lady's other lady and 263 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: this is his son, Like exactly, you should be mad too, 264 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: like it? Oh god, headache. I felt frustrated, and I 265 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: visitustrated as an understatement of the century. Frustrated, bro fucking 266 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: frustra Opie's too kind, Truly. 267 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 4: I felt frustrated, and I visited his family, who are 268 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 4: good to me, and I told them what their son's 269 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 4: girlfriend did. Now it's worth mentioning that she's been working 270 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,839 Speaker 4: hard for their approval and to get on. 271 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 3: Their good side. I suspect because she was the mistress. Yeah, 272 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 3: broke up the family. 273 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: You're kind of uh, you're kind of playing at a 274 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: at a handicap when in the mistress in terms of 275 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: family dynamics. 276 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 2: Seriously, Hey, it can be done. I'm just saying it 277 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 2: carry done. 278 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 3: But in eighties. 279 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm not sure you're getting points from taking 280 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 4: away the blanket from the baby. They were shocked to 281 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 4: know about what she did, and they all flipped out 282 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 4: on her and started calling her out. 283 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, call it, thank you, dude, She's terrible. 284 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 4: My sister in law took it further by putting it 285 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 4: on social media, which made other family members see what 286 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 4: she did. So, wow, she's gonna put a blasted. She's 287 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 4: getting ass blasted, is being blasted. 288 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 3: Mistress's ass gets blasted. 289 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: On social media. 290 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,479 Speaker 4: My ex husband called me yelling about my pathetic attempt 291 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 4: to turn his family against his girlfriend. 292 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: It's like when a pathetic is uh, is everything you are? Yeah, 293 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: good sir, that far and and two like, it's not 294 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 1: that hard to put your mistress in a bad light 295 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: because she sucks. 296 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 2: It's not like you don't have to try. 297 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it just happens. 298 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 4: I could hear her freaking out in the background while 299 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 4: he was lashing out at me, saying I ruined every 300 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 4: chance she had at a good relationship with her future 301 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 4: in laws. 302 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 2: Yikes. 303 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 3: I hung up and felt absolutely horrible. 304 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 2: Oh oh, people, you deserve better. 305 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 4: No, don't feel horrible, even though I was just venting 306 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 4: to his family about what happened, And because I felt 307 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 4: so frustrated, maybe I shouldn't have gone and told them 308 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 4: I'm not sure anymore since the whole family isn't speaking 309 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 4: to her, so that might have a lasting effect on. 310 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 3: Their relationship with her. 311 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 2: Good, yes, good. 312 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: Let them seems to be like abandoned and ostracized and banished. 313 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 4: Because like they're gonna banish, they're gonna share the kid. 314 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 4: Clearly they are right now. So it's like every time 315 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 4: you go over, you're sending it over to this, to 316 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 4: this hostile witch woman. 317 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, dang no, no, Please know this person needs to 318 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: be decapitated, ruin her life, in her life,