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Speaker 1: Day to send welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: I'm Erica, Anaana, and what's up. It's Wednesday. Happy Wednesday, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I hope you guys are having a great day week.

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Speaker 1: If it's Thursday, you're writing to work, I hope your

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Speaker 1: workday is fucking awesome. Good morning. We have a special

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Speaker 1: guest today here. We have Terese Clark, the founder of

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Speaker 1: Ladies Sweet. And if you guys aren't familiar with Lady Sweet,

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Speaker 1: you guys should be because we post about it all

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Speaker 1: the time on our Instagram because we fucking love Ladies Sweet.

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Speaker 1: And I've been using the botanical oils, which I use

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Speaker 1: every single day, and it just smells really good and

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Speaker 1: it just feels like I'm like, I guess, you know,

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Speaker 1: like it's just like that the vulva is something we

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Speaker 1: neglect so much, and I never even realized it until

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Speaker 1: I got Lady Sweet, and I was like, I don't

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Speaker 1: ever put oils down there, right, And I'm putting oils

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Speaker 1: all over my face all day, picking my face and

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Speaker 1: like give my face, giving myself facial like I believe

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Speaker 1: in facials, vagina facial.

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Speaker 2: Saying I just needed it. It's actually a thing, but

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Speaker 2: it's misbranded. It's the jayshial of inime vagina. Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: should belvacal.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that doesn't a.

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Speaker 2: Little bit better, It's kind of more sexy.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna start offering it in my list

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Speaker 3: of services.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll do.

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Speaker 3: Alva is a you know, a mask on your lower

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Speaker 3: pubic area.

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Speaker 1: You're pick and grown hairs. I love that ship anyway.

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Speaker 1: I'm an ingrown picker. But are you supposed to do

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Speaker 1: that though?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you could take them out if you do gently,

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Speaker 3: if you know, like scaring.

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Speaker 2: Or so instead of like doctor pimple popper, do you.

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Speaker 1: Like vulbu pimple popper, bulbul popper.

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Speaker 2: Something that will work on that, work on that. But

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Speaker 2: we're going somewhere, you know, event please.

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Speaker 1: I love pimple popper. I like a lady sweet because

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Speaker 1: I like shaving with it.

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Speaker 2: I do too.

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Speaker 3: I used to us to sometimes do coconut oil, which

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Speaker 3: is a little bit thicker, but I like shaving with oils.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's less harsh. It creates like a barrier.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as you're razor, you're like cleaning it out.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it would be kind of isn't it

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Speaker 1: hard to clean? I feel like coconut oil especially, wouldn't

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Speaker 1: it be hard to clean the razor out, doesn't it?

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Speaker 1: And it gets hard it gets all hardened and yeah, no.

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Speaker 2: Not mine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hot water? Oh, tap tap tap hot water?

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Speaker 2: Cool?

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Speaker 3: Good to know.

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Speaker 1: Well, can you tell us a little bit about, lady sweet,

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Speaker 1: how you founded your company?

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Speaker 2: Like why why?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: First till I'm so excited to be here you guys.

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Speaker 2: I was listening to one of your podcasts on my

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Speaker 2: way and I was like, I'm not that cool.

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Speaker 1: Which one did you listen to?

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Speaker 2: I'm not a mom. I grew up with a mom

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Speaker 2: who delivers babies. Yeah, she actually still does. She's seventy

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Speaker 2: nine years old and she.

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Speaker 1: A midwife for OBG.

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Speaker 2: Interesting. It's funny because she's a Filipino, old school Asian

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Speaker 2: Catholic mom who is it's she's trained conventionally, but I

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Speaker 2: see her like Duela moments come out in real life,

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Speaker 2: like when she's actually working with babies and moms. But

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Speaker 2: she couldn't say the word of vagina growing up. So

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Speaker 2: it's really funny that I'm in this kind.

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Speaker 1: Of world because she felt ashamed to say it or Okay.

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Speaker 2: I think religion does a number on your ability to

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Speaker 2: save vagina let alone.

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Speaker 1: So what did she call it?

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Speaker 2: Nothing? She literally would leave the room if any issue

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Speaker 2: would come up. It was really weird now that I

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Speaker 2: think about it, because I didn't really become more attuned

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Speaker 2: to the wellness aspect of vulva vagina health until later

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Speaker 2: in life. And when you think about like part of

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Speaker 2: your podcast, like there was something on plastic surgery with

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Speaker 2: like getting your boobs done a flavor, and like we're

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Speaker 2: asking men what they think and or do no, we

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Speaker 2: ask women what they think, but we've never asked men

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Speaker 2: with something like that. And I think with vulvas and vaginas,

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Speaker 2: we asked what the men think, and we don't ask

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Speaker 2: ourselves that we think, let alone women. But when you

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Speaker 2: grow up in a household where it was sort of

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Speaker 2: out of sight, out of mind, plus the religion aspect,

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Speaker 2: and they're really for Like I remember sex said was

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Speaker 2: like here's the penis, here's the vagina. One goes in

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Speaker 2: the other it makes a baby. Don't do that and

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Speaker 2: don't get an stdor oriell die die, right that was

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Speaker 2: kind of no, it's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, It's like your entry into talking about sex is

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Speaker 1: always like a stangerous it's a negative.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's dangerous. Better not fucking doing Yeah. Yeah, And

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Speaker 2: it makes sex really, it makes it makes discovering herself

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Speaker 2: very shameful, shameful, and then so your first sexual experience

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Speaker 2: are more about them.

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Speaker 1: That's all.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, this is you, but that's not really why I

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Speaker 2: got into this. That's part of it. As I was

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Speaker 2: like reflecting on it, on doing research about it. I've

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Speaker 2: been in the beauty industry a long time because I

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Speaker 2: think I equated women wearing makeup just happier people. Like

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Speaker 2: my mom was mean growing up. She was kind of

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Speaker 2: a she'd throw shoe at you no matter what, it

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Speaker 2: always hit you kind of thing like asients have that

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Speaker 2: ability to throw shoe and it like hits you upside.

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Speaker 2: So she was just a tough mom. And then she'd

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Speaker 2: work nights, and then in order for her to get

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Speaker 2: herself together to face that night, she would put makeup

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Speaker 2: on it. She was like a different human And I

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Speaker 2: was like, what the fuck is that that made her?

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Speaker 2: You ID throw that right back at her. So she

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Speaker 2: throws a shoe at me throw the cream her. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: and but anyway she was and then she'd come back

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: She was kind of scary. But I think I equated

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Speaker 2: that magic with makeup. And so my whole goal was

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Speaker 2: and you know, just really I faked my way through that,

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Speaker 2: before S day Lotter slaughterized Bobby Brown. Yeah, and I

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Speaker 2: asked her, like, what's the part you like the best.

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Speaker 2: She's like, I really like developing the products and seeing

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Speaker 2: like how I change a woman's life, and like, that's

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Speaker 2: what I want to do. So I moved to LA

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Speaker 2: I was doing media on the side and then or

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Speaker 2: Was working with like those teen brands. And then I

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Speaker 2: met the owner of Hourglass and she had a consulting

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Speaker 2: business of product development. So I ended up working her

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Speaker 2: while we were with her while we were building Hourglass.

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Speaker 2: So I got to like work with so many companies.

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't until I was about twenty nine thirty

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Speaker 2: where I really understood the wellness piece of beauty. I

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Speaker 2: myself had a thyroid condition that was misdiagnosed for a

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Speaker 2: things when you need to sometimes, whether it's good or bad,

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Speaker 2: it always there's always some lesson. And I remember I

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Speaker 2: was one hundred and twenty pounds, went to one sixteen

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Speaker 2: started to fall out, and I'm in the beauty industry.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, shit, my eighties.

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Speaker 2: Z it's and now like a permanent melasma mustache. And

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Speaker 2: now I've got I like, go see this client, They're

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Speaker 2: gonna not believe anything I say. So I started to

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Speaker 2: really think about my health differently, but I was still

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Speaker 2: going to conventional doctors. It's just what I knew. And

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Speaker 2: I remember this doctor from UCLA, He's like, you had

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Speaker 2: then I what, Yeah, what kind of fucking joke is that?

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Speaker 2: Because he knew, I went around and around other health

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Speaker 1: Then I can't believe that was a joke. It was

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Speaker 2: And I went to a PCOS seminar because I was

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Speaker 2: told I might have PCOS. And you know what, it's

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Speaker 2: has a lot of symptoms and testosterone. There's a testosterone

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Speaker 2: have ovarian cysts. But sometimes you don't have those cists.

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Speaker 2: And it was confusing for me because you had the

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Speaker 2: and things like that. But you're not supposed to eat

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Speaker 2: you have you know PCOS was problement in the times

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Speaker 2: where circuses were huge and like bearded ladies like just

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Speaker 2: second male information for me, Like, yeah, you know, and

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Speaker 2: I waste my time coming here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And my mom, who I can't talk to at the

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Speaker 2: time about a lot of things, she was sitting there

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Speaker 2: I was given the run around and my and then

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Speaker 2: I went to a dermatologist for the first time. Here

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Speaker 2: I am making skincare products, but I wasn't really paying

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Speaker 2: got to change everything. But it turns out I was

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Speaker 2: eating a shit ton of soy, and soy is a

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Speaker 2: zino estrogen and mimics estrogen, especially like gmo soy. And

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Speaker 2: remember at that time, it was like soy coffee, soy

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Speaker 2: Trader Joe's that was just soyy. Before Alman got bit. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and this guy was like really adamant about it, and

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Speaker 2: then that pill got recalled years later. But so I

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Speaker 1: Well, I think also that made me feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: I think she feels like am I doing something bad?

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Speaker 1: she needs to also know that it's called a vagina.

437
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 1: I agree, you know, and it's like, you don't have

438
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,359
Speaker 1: to be scared of that word. It's not it's not

439
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 1: a pretty word. I wish they could have named it

440
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:52,160
Speaker 1: something cuter, but I say, that's really not cute.

441
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 2: It's not a fun word. This isn't just I mean,

442
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 2: I kind of hit vagina. Well when you say like that,

443
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,080
Speaker 2: when you.

444
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 1: Have because Jamila has sex operator voice, I'm like, vagina,

445
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's not I mean, but I think it's

446
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 1: really important that little girls and boys know not how

447
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 1: to identify their body parts. We have. I have a

448
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 1: friend who works in and hasn't worked on a nonprofit

449
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 1: that deals with like sexual abuse amongst women and children,

450
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:19,880
Speaker 1: and a lot of times she before I even had

451
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 1: my daughter, she's like, it is so important that I

452
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 1: really knows how to identify her body parts by their

453
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,639
Speaker 1: actual names, because we've seen cases where we go to

454
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,400
Speaker 1: court and the little girl is too embarrassed to acknowledge

455
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 1: it or butterfly and get off, and people get off

456
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: because they can't identify. So that's why, really it's so

457
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 1: important to protect yourself.

458
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 2: I agree too. I think one my first event was

459
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 2: with Free People and it was a love your Lady

460
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,800
Speaker 2: Parts like seminar and I brought out a giant chart

461
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 2: of a volva with and I sort of erased. It

462
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: was like one of those dry erase ones. And I'm like,

463
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 2: can anyone point out.

464
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 1: What no one could? Oh my god, that's a good one.

465
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 2: One person thought her clittering was her belly button, like

466
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 2: just just not familiar and I and I feel like,

467
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 2: get off. No, I'm not kidding, Like what kind of

468
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 2: sex is she happened?

469
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, her belly buttons.

470
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 2: It's just that ankle was threw her off. And I

471
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 2: think there's a lot of women off until I found that,

472
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 2: until a lot of women are grooming, they're just not

473
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 2: as attuned to that area. And even with grooming, I feel.

474
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, you know, I wax some of vagryness in

475
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,119
Speaker 3: my life, even for myself when I get when I

476
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:32,360
Speaker 3: get it back, I feel like it's just.

477
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: Like a oh la la la, you know, like someone

478
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 1: just down there is like almost like a curtain over

479
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: your feeling. It's not happening. Looking, this isn't happening.

480
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 3: And then even after you don't really look, in the marriage,

481
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,679
Speaker 3: they're gone, you know, they've just been all on your

482
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 3: I think it's really it's interesting to be a parent

483
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 3: right now because we actually have absolutely no guide to

484
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 3: how to not shame or damage our kids in there,

485
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 3: like in a sexual space. Like I think we're just

486
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 3: not realizing how important it is to address private parts

487
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 3: and to address sexuality and like you know, just pleasure and.

488
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 1: All those things.

489
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 3: But like, damn, I just realized we don't have nothing

490
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: to really.

491
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: Like, nothing to reference. Well men, well, thankfully now there

492
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: are a lot of ress. Well there's the internet. Yeah,

493
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: there's a lot of resources, but from personal experience, right yeah,

494
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, how fucked up am I?

495
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 3: Because I didn't get these conversations because I I yeah,

496
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,959
Speaker 3: I was promiscious early, Like who you discover it?

497
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 1: You go crazy?

498
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 3: But like, how different would my behavior maybe have been

499
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 3: had someone been comfortable enough to just be like yeah.

500
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 2: And I think you know it's not necessarily wrong and

501
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: to write it's more about being able to talk about it.

502
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 2: Like I had two sisters, why can't we talk about that?

503
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 2: We talked about now we can. I saw them give birth,

504
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: like seeing everything, and we all look kind of alike

505
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 2: down there, right, But yeah, it just wasn't a thing

506
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:57,360
Speaker 2: I think until late as of late and then even

507
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: in the beauty industry, I remember sitting at tables with

508
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 2: a bunch of dudes like trying to tell women what

509
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,159
Speaker 2: they need. It's like, I'm right fucking here, No, we

510
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 2: don't need to clean out our vaginas.

511
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 1: We don't need to do jush. You know.

512
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 2: It's it's just misinformation that even the beauty industry has,

513
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 2: you know, part partaken in. And so I think it's

514
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 2: so fun and so empowering for me personally because Lady Sweet,

515
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 2: actually I thought I was going to take it back

516
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,159
Speaker 2: to medical kind of what I did with the probiotic

517
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 2: skincare line and my business partner on another thing that

518
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: I do, She's like, it needs a bigger it needs

519
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: a bigger voice, you know, it needs that retail voice

520
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: to really validate this category and like really help people

521
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 2: understand that this is like a very a very real thing.

522
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 2: These things really happen whether you have dryness, ingrowns, redness,

523
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 2: hyper sensitive conditions, hyper pigmentation, acne down there. I'm in

524
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: the world of navigating investors now, and even my investor

525
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 2: deck has to change. They're giving me advice to change

526
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 2: it for a man, like make it more money driven,

527
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 2: make talk about your traction, you know. But when I'm

528
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 2: talking to a woman, then I you know, you know.

529
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 1: Like two different decks, the man deck and the woman deck,

530
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 1: because how they understand is different.

531
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 2: Like I hate that. Yeah, yeah, the struggle is fucking real.

532
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: Wait, so is it like more sensitive for the men?

533
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: It is like, don't say vulva. They don't get scared.

534
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: They just like to go in it.

535
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: Then they don't want to know anything about it.

536
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: They just want to enter.

537
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, and unfortunately, you know, that's what you have.

538
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 2: I don't even want a man investor, I've decided unless

539
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: he's really cool and he understands it and he has daughters. Maybe,

540
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 2: but I don't know. It's it's definitely an interesting world.

541
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,360
Speaker 2: But it's more my age I'm forty three. It's more

542
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 2: my age group and above that buys it but doesn't

543
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 2: talk about it, where like the twenty five to thirty

544
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: fives are like all about it. I'm learning more things,

545
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 2: you know, when we develop new products. It's not about

546
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 2: developing eighteen products. It's about really listening to my audience

547
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 2: because truthfully, I only went out with one product because

548
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 2: that's all that I felt.

549
00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: Was neat at the oil.

550
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, because at the time when I was going some hypothyroid,

551
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: I went through a perimenoposit thirty ish, I don't I

552
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: can't have kids. I feel like everything's a lot drier

553
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 2: than maybe it should be at this time in my life.

554
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 2: But shaving with became more irritating. I did waxing, I

555
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 2: did laser, and it just hurt more. And you know,

556
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 2: spinning hurts. You know, you're just being banged and not

557
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: in a good way. And so I looked at the market.

558
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: There wasn't a compelling voice. Things were too sterile. There

559
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: were a couple of brands starting to emerge, but I

560
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 2: didn't know enough about it, and so it was a

561
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 2: three year process to create this sort of multi functional

562
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 2: oil that's really about rebuilding the skin barrier. And a

563
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 2: lot of times, you know, women wait till they have

564
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: like an issue, like wait till you get an ingrown

565
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 2: to give your skin down. There's some love, but if

566
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: you're grooming, you're basically exfoliating every day, and it's sort

567
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 2: of like your skin. If your hyper's fully like addicted

568
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: to exfoliation, you have created sensitive skin, you know. I've

569
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: given talks in a room like how many of people

570
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: will have sensitive skin, and everyone raises their hands, and

571
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 2: it's usually because we've created our own hyper sensitivity. I've

572
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 2: had questions like, well, why do we even need skincare,

573
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 2: and like we probably wouldn't if we didn't, you know,

574
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 2: use harsh chemicals, or our formulas were better our you know,

575
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: habitat nature were I was.

576
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: Talking to my friend too about like men and their

577
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: skin because they like don't really do anything. I mean now,

578
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 1: I think men are a little bit more conscious of

579
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 1: like maybe I should be a lotion on my face.

580
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: But I'm like a lot of men like their skin

581
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: is amazing, and it's because they like, well they're maybe

582
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: they're shaving, but also like they're not really doing too much.

583
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: You're not putting makeup on, they're not picking at it,

584
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: They're not like doing all these things. And I'm like,

585
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: because I'm looking at like even like Freddy, I was like,

586
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: how is their skin so perfectly right? You don't I was,

587
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: I asked him the other day, I'm like, when did

588
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:54,719
Speaker 1: you get it once? Last time you got a facial

589
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't know, like three years ago.

590
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 5: I was like what.

591
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 2: I was like, how they'll also get a wrink on

592
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: care and it's crazy. I'll also like, get is it

593
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 2: and it's fine, Like.

594
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 1: They don't touch it, touch it just goes away. Yeah,

595
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: like me whim over here like picking every and visible pimples.

596
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, that looks like no.

597
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 2: It's crazy. And I and you know, so I just

598
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 2: I think less is absolutely more, And it's not about

599
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: giving your skin a bunch of shit it doesn't know.

600
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 2: It's about restoring the piece with ingredients that are already there,

601
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: like probiotics, like fatty acids like certain yeah, you know.

602
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 2: And it's not it's not rocket science. It's just made

603
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: composing a formula in a way that does does you know,

604
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: allow your skinberry to readily receive it, process it, get

605
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: the nutrients it needs, and then break it down because

606
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: the last thing you want to do is, you know,

607
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 2: give someone a skincare product that actually secretly turns on

608
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 2: inflammation that then degrades the shin you know, from the

609
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 2: inside out. And I was working with an immunologist for

610
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: many years who would run an ingredient through DNA micro

611
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 2: array so I could see if an ingredient will actually

612
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 2: change the genes behavior of a cell. And so I

613
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: was looking at things that in my thirties I'd be like,

614
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 2: can you dumb it down? He's like, no, you need

615
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,959
Speaker 2: to smarten up. This is not just skincare. No, this

616
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: is skin food. This is you know, this is really

617
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 2: affects your body and not in it. And you know,

618
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 2: we talked about my hypothira condition and Mike, why did

619
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: it take two years? And it's so obvious now. He's like,

620
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: you know, most physicians don't know a the integrative piece.

621
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: You know, you're you don't just study this you see

622
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 2: know your throat, you study the whole. But skincare works

623
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: the same way. If you put something inflammatory here, your

624
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 2: cells like to talk to each other and they're going

625
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 2: to start talking to other cells and talking to your organs,

626
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 2: and you know, so you have to really think about

627
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 2: it's hard to be perfect. Skincare is not perfect. That's

628
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 2: why you see in the media. One day it's parabins,

629
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 2: the next day it's in all the next day it's

630
00:29:54,400 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 2: essential oil. Yeah, because it's not perfect. It's it's you know,

631
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 2: technologies change, and the brands that are more transparent with

632
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 2: their their ingredients, you know, the way they formulate, you know,

633
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: and the brands that look at newness and try it

634
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: out and not just stick with the same thing because

635
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 2: it sells. I appreciate those brands. And I think the

636
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: brands today, more of the wellness clean beauty brands are

637
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 2: the retailers are forcing brands to be better. So I

638
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 2: really appreciate this. People care more exactly. And so when

639
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 2: it comes to lady parts, it's the most absorbent part

640
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 2: of the body. It takes in everything we know.

641
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: I mean I knew that, but it takes it.

642
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 2: Takes in everything. So anything you formulate for the outside

643
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: the vulva, it's gonna eventually be right. So you can't

644
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 2: just think about you know that, you have to really

645
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 2: look at the vulvo vaginal health. So when I was

646
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: developing this oil really for the vulva, because there really

647
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 2: wasn't anything that existed, I still had to think about, wo,

648
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: how does this affect the inside of my exactly? And

649
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: I didn't go out to make a lube like I

650
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 2: give the question a lot. Well, it was this a lubricant, No,

651
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 2: it's not. It's before this kid.

652
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: If someone used it as a lube, it'd be bad.

653
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: I didn't test it, like, I didn't go Durm test.

654
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: It for a lube for like.

655
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 2: But I've had a lot of anecdotal the research said

656
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 2: my personal it works, it sounds great. And I had this.

657
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: I had a woman I think she was from like

658
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: Mississippi or something, and she was seventy nine or something.

659
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 2: And they don't email or DM you, they call you.

660
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 2: So it's like my first phone call ever. I'm so excited.

661
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 2: And she's like, girl, I just have to tell you

662
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 2: that I have sex five days a week. And I'm like,

663
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: hold on, and I pressed you and I'm like, fuck

664
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 2: to my husband, what are you doing getting getting late

665
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: five times a day? So and she's like, I have

666
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: to tell you this has really helped because I'm so

667
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 2: dry externally that it makes it uncomfortable and I don't

668
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: want him to spit down like hit on his hand.

669
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: And she's like, I don't like the.

670
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: Way lupe feels on the outside. I don't like to

671
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: feel like looby.

672
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

673
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 2: But then she had specific questions about sex and it

674
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 2: can I use this anally and all.

675
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: The oh wow, she's seventy nine. My god.

676
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 2: It was great when it was great to hear someone

677
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 2: so open about it. But it really helped me build

678
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: my FAQ's.

679
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, yeah, let me think this.

680
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 2: But no, it's it's just it's really interesting. It's because

681
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: I think women are just used to cleansing and loubing,

682
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: so to actually have something for your skin, it's like retraining.

683
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 2: But if you have a full bush, which is great,

684
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 2: I think a lot of women go in and out.

685
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 2: You're just not as cognizant, but you still need to

686
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 2: I would say loup.

687
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: Like I mean, it's literally it's the most delicate skin

688
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: on your body. And honestly, like you think about it,

689
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: you're wearing thongs all the time. It's not really ge

690
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: The things are rubbing on it constantly, like way more

691
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: than your face and just chafing.

692
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 2: Also, it's not getting it's.

693
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: Not getting a lot of oxygen. Now you know, all

694
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: these tight pants I'm wearing spandex working out, going to

695
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: the gym, the spending my whole day out with my

696
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: wet underwear on, and it's so gross. Disgusting. It's a

697
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: little swampy, like it needs some TLC and that's my ventilation. Yeah.

698
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: So that's why I really have been enjoying using your

699
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: product because I feel like, because I'm really into skincare,

700
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: and like now time I'm into like La now, I'm like,

701
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm moisturizing down here, and it just feels refreshing and good.

702
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like now that I've used I've

703
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 2: had vulven and securities. I'm like, what my Lady of

704
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 2: Manora not hanging like hanging out of the majority.

705
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: I shouldn't say me. I just had this cover.

706
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

707
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: We literally had this conversation and I was telling her

708
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: the chart. I was like, my vagina. I was like,

709
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: my vulva. I don't know, is it your when the

710
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: lips hang out? Is that considered still vulva? Okay, so

711
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: you can see Okay, So my vulva, I was saying

712
00:33:58,120 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: to Jamila. I was like, it's kind of long like

713
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: and I remember, like when I was younger, feeling insecure

714
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: about it because it didn't look like Barbie or whatever

715
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: the hell. And then like you know, men would like

716
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: categor rise you have the set plus or whatever. And

717
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: I was like, is it good? Is that a good thing?

718
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 1: Like I don't even know what that means, but you

719
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:18,879
Speaker 1: know what it means in the cards. I was dealt,

720
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. And then I was telling Jamila and

721
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: she's like, no, you don't. You don't have lung. I'm like, bitch,

722
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: trying to tell me what I have. And then I

723
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: came out of the bathroom and I was like, look,

724
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: look it is number seven. I'm like, look, it's number

725
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: seven on the Bulba chart. I was like, oh yeah.

726
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 2: She's like, oh yeah, there's like this.

727
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: Well there's like a few on the internet.

728
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 2: They have like all these different I saw that. Oh

729
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 2: I know, I feel like I'm around I'm like around

730
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 2: number thirteen. Yeah, there's like different ones. And I was like,

731
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: I can I can put.

732
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: It like a seven or maybe like a ten, Like

733
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: there's it just depends because actually, when I actually showed

734
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: you my blul Ba, I was like, it actually looks

735
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: like a little more like Compact right now. And then

736
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 1: the other day I was looking at the mirror. I

737
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: was like, oh, she's out, yeah, fully out.

738
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 2: So I have a my my business partner and my

739
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 2: other company, we build beauty brands too, and we're at

740
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,280
Speaker 2: a trade show. She used to work at the company,

741
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 2: the medical company I had the probiotical skincare line. And

742
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 2: we're at a trade show and we were my ex

743
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 2: partner business partner used to make us wear stupid uniforms.

744
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, and these pants were so tight.

745
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: So it's like five hours into the trade show. I'm like, oh,

746
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 2: like kind of like shifting, like it did I wear

747
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: the wrong underwear? Like everything feels split. I might have

748
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 2: the biggest cameltoe right now. What the fuck? So I

749
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 2: went to her and I'm like, hey, you know, can

750
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 2: you like man the for it because I'm like feeling uncomfortable.

751
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: She's like, well what She's like, oh my god, you too.

752
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: And then We've gotten a whole conversation around bulvas and labias,

753
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: and then more people started coming to the conversation. It

754
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 2: was like no one wanted to stop talking about it.

755
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 2: But I've literally taken my physically grabbed my outer lips

756
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: to like hug my inner lips again, like I've.

757
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: Like I want to push them in because sometimes my

758
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,959
Speaker 1: underwear will get like there's like this weird moment where

759
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 1: like it gets caught and it feels like you've got

760
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: a piercing right. It feels like it's piercing you. Every

761
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: time my walk it feels like I'm like, oh my god,

762
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: oh my god. And I'm like over here trying to

763
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 1: like move it around. I'm like, oh my god. It's

764
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 1: like having a dick like hanging out and it's funny, like.

765
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,879
Speaker 2: I'll talk to some of my friends and I'll ask

766
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 2: them like, no, I don't know what you're talking about.

767
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, And I'm like, I think it's like,

768
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 2: you know, some women just don't have that and that's

769
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: and that's yeah, and some wo would have it. And

770
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 2: I've asked my husband and every guy I've ever's ever

771
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 2: gone down.

772
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: On me, so like what do you think about my vagina?

773
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: I've asked you, esthetician, what's so? Am?

774
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: I like normal? And she's a.

775
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: Little girl, You're fine. I've only seen one really crazy,

776
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: and I'm well, can you expand on that? You know?

777
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: And she won't and does not even mean like what's

778
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: a crazy one? And so when I heard I started

779
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: reading about this subject profusely because I thought I was

780
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: the only one until like open dialogue like this, and

781
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 2: it turns out that girls in the UK were asking

782
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 2: for labiaplasts for their high school graduation, similar to when

783
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 2: I was in high school girls were asking for booboobs

784
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 2: and I was like, are you fucking kidding me? Just

785
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 2: one more thing we have to worry about. So that

786
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: put me down the path of like, all right, vulba care.

787
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: It is like I really just started thinking vaginal vaginally.

788
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean I think right now, like I was

789
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: telling you before we started recording, that I feel like

790
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: feminine health has become very trendy lately, and I'm glad

791
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: and I hope that it continues to be a trend

792
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: and not even a trend, just becomes just the norm,

793
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: because it's something that like we need to be able

794
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: to talk about and address and take care of, you know,

795
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: because everyone I've had like issues like for me, like,

796
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: we had a girl actually write in who was because

797
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: I told her that we're having someone come on that,

798
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: you know, was experienced with fem health care. Yeah, and

799
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 1: she was like, I she's like two years ago, I

800
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: had sex with a guy and my vagina has not

801
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: been this sense two years ago. She said. The scent,

802
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't doesn't smell the same. I went to different doctors,

803
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: and you know, I don't have a yeast infection. She's like,

804
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: now I'm at my like I'm at the end of

805
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 1: my journey, and i feel like I've realized that I

806
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 1: have BV bacterial vaginosis.

807
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: But that's a fishy smell, could she not?

808
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: I mean, well she said that, what do you mean

809
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: the bacteria legendosi, Yeah, that's what she was saying. She

810
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: said her odor hasn't been right since, and like she's like,

811
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: I've tried everything I did douching I did, you know,

812
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: which you know, it's a whole other thing. I think

813
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: a lot of women think that they're supposed to douche

814
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: after their period or like after sex, which you know,

815
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: it's totally killing all the good bacteria in your body

816
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 1: and you're more susceptible to having yeast infection or worse.

817
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: And for me personally, I've had BV before, and I

818
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: had BV the same reason that she had it. I

819
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 1: had sex with someone and I knew, like literally like

820
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 1: two days later, I was like, something's wrong.

821
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,479
Speaker 3: Sometimes I feel like sometimes you're like pheromones or whatever

822
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 3: don't matter.

823
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: No, you don't, they don't And it's not even that,

824
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: because she was like, come. She was like, she was like,

825
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: can you ask her how this dirty dick? And I

826
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: was like, that was the question. Yes, that's what she wrote,

827
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,839
Speaker 1: and I said, I was like, well, in my mind,

828
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: I was thinking, like, it doesn't does he might have

829
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: not had a dirty penis or whatever. You think. It's

830
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: just I think I think you're right. I think sometimes

831
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:20,919
Speaker 1: our like chemistry does not align and it throws us off.

832
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'm wrong. I don't know.

833
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 2: I'm not a health specialist. I'm not a doctor either,

834
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 2: but obviously this has been my work for a long time.

835
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: And and the thing is, so I've had my fair

836
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 2: share of stuff. I've had a few inspections, I've had

837
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,359
Speaker 2: BV and I've you know, and it's usually dirty dick.

838
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 2: And she was right, it is a dirty dick. That's

839
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 2: a dirty dick, but you know, and then it's it's

840
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 2: also a total different smell than our normal. But your

841
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 2: smell does change over times in the same way like

842
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 2: have you ever used a fragrance and then you can't

843
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 2: use it like four years later, like you know, too sweet,

844
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: or it went your body chemistry change, just but the

845
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 2: first reaction is to douche and to do all these things.

846
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: So and then if she's using anything with synthetic fragrance

847
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 2: or anything with dyes or anything that's too alkaline, like

848
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: the pH is too Alkaline's like taking a body product

849
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 2: or fruity body product.

850
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 1: And it's making it worse, like fishy fishy flowers.

851
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 2: How do you build balance if your day to day

852
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 2: washing or your day to day is disrupting the piece.

853
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: So if I'm her, I immediately just start over. I'm

854
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 2: I would look at my diet, you know, because a

855
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 2: lot of times if your body is you know too,

856
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 2: you know, it's it's good to eat acidic foods like

857
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 2: lemons and this and that, so your body goes more alkaline,

858
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 2: levy or sugar. It's the annoying things you have to do.

859
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: No, I was telling her because I went to the

860
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 1: doctor for this. I didn't even realize I had it

861
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 1: because I didn't feel like I had a fishy smell.

862
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: I knew like it was like I've had a different

863
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: scent that I wasn't used to and I wasn't like

864
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: necessarily a fan of it, but I was like, it

865
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: doesn't smell like fish. It's just maybe I need different, Yeah,

866
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 1: a little different. So my doctor, which is he's not

867
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: my doctor anymore recently actually because I went back to

868
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 1: him and he's just I just don't I don't think.

869
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: I don't think that. I don't think they have no

870
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: like tact. They're not like gentle like the way they

871
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: talk about things.

872
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 2: Why did you even get into this?

873
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know why. I'm yeah, he's done. But

874
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: so when I win when he went and he told

875
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: me that I had BV because I was getting tested

876
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: and he's like, you're fine, but you have BV And

877
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck is VV? He's like, well,

878
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not a st D, but I mean

879
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 1: it could. It's kind it should be labeled one because

880
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: it can come back. You might battle this. He's like,

881
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: you're probably going to have this for the rest of

882
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: your life. When he told me, yeah, he said, you're

883
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: going to have it for the rest of your life.

884
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: So what you need to do is I'm going to

885
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 1: give you this if flucano I don't know, it's like

886
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: a yeast infection medicine.

887
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:50,760
Speaker 2: It's dilu can, dive lue can.

888
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: And then what you need to do is you need

889
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: to put a probiotic up your vagina every day for

890
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. So so, so I took

891
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 1: the the the east infection medicine, I did the whatever

892
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: whatever the I started creating suppository. Yeah, and I was

893
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: thinking to myself, like, what, how is this gonna work

894
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 1: when I have sex? Like I'm just gonna like have

895
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: like weird like coming out of my pa anyway. But

896
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: I was like, so I was like, whatever, I'm not

897
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: gonna be having sex anyway for a while cause I'm

898
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 1: fucking distraught here. I immediately got the worst east infection

899
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: I've ever had in my life. Didn't have a East

900
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: infection to begin with, had BV but no use infection.

901
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: And then I was like, I called him. I was like,

902
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: I'm having the worst east infection ever. And he was like, well,

903
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 1: that's kind of what happens sometimes because it literally kills everything.

904
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: The medicine he gave me kills everything that. Then yeast

905
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: infections can occur, but it'll clear up. And I was like,

906
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Maybe you all the So then I

907
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 1: had to get through that, and then you know, I

908
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: just started taking probiotics all the time. I know, like

909
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: then you know, ha, having like you said, an alkaline

910
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: based diet, kombucha, like trying to eat things that are

911
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: very highly a set. And then I thought I was fine,

912
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 1: and then it came back again, like maybe a year later,

913
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, what the fuck so for me?

914
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: Like I told the girl too, I was like, you know,

915
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: boric acid has been like the thing that's made it

916
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: go away and stayed away, and I just I what

917
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 1: I do is I just do touch ups every now

918
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: and then whenever I feel like my gg what do

919
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 1: you imbalance that? You put it in the bathtub.

920
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 2: That's a positiby.

921
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: There is one brand in particular that I really like

922
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: called the Killer and it's Love with My Love Wellness,

923
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 1: and it's like really saved my life because I was

924
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: feeling so insecure about it. And it's something I think

925
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: a lot of women don't talk about because that's like

926
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: like because men are always talking about fishy vagina, like

927
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: they even refer to like whatever, even if you're talking

928
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: about vagina, they'll put like a fish or like a

929
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 1: kit a cat, I don't know whatever, but it's just

930
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: like you feel ashamed. You're like, you know, you don't

931
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: own now. Yeah, And like my my doctor didn't really

932
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 1: you know, made me feel like I was doomed forever

933
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: and you're not. You're not doomed forever.

934
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not. And you know it's funny. We wrote

935
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 2: an article blog on the esthetician health expert versus the

936
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 2: regular customer, Like what you think about when somebody is

937
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 2: getting on the table to have a wax laser sugar

938
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 2: and what we're thinking about as the customer. And like

939
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 2: one of the number one things is odor, Like I'm

940
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: so afraid it's gonna smell. But truthfully, there's every odor.

941
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: Everyone has a seprice and it's but you know when

942
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 2: it's bad. And I've had girls friends that are like

943
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 2: it's but they won't go to their health And I'm

944
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 2: not saying health experts are the best things. That's like

945
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 2: all of them are different, and you really have to

946
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 2: find your right gynecologist and your right healthcare expert for

947
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: down there. But when you notice something off, go to

948
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 2: your doctor because it could be an STD that you

949
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 2: didn't even know you had. I always say, go to

950
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 2: your doctor, figure that piece out, and then it's up

951
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 2: to you how you want to deal with it. I

952
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 2: needed to take an antibiotic, like I was at a

953
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 2: point in my life whe'm like not screwing around. But

954
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: then after meeting my nature path, I supplemented with the

955
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 2: probiotics and the kimchi, and like I did everything I

956
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 2: could to like rebuild my balance. And then a lot

957
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 2: of women who are using like daily cleansing. I think

958
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 2: a lot of women put cleanser up there.

959
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: You're not to use soap inside like even around I

960
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: don't even know if are you supposed to even like

961
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: I mean, I think I clean out a little bit,

962
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: but you're not. People are like opening it up and

963
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 1: putting so like, damn, you're inside of the vagina.

964
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: Don't do that in everyone, Like that's not good. We

965
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 2: always say a bird bath like the folds and it's

966
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 2: your vagina's self cleaning. But the folds and the vulva

967
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 2: and the external skin is not. But a lot of

968
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 2: your lubrication can be produced in the lab ya you know,

969
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:56,479
Speaker 2: by your clitoris, and so you're dried out there and yeah,

970
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 2: so it's a catch twenty two. So I always say,

971
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 2: you're vulva's the bound for your vagina. Think of it

972
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 2: that way, like make sure your volta is happy, resilient,

973
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 2: you're using the right thing so it can better protect

974
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 2: this area your vagina. But I think we just stick

975
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 2: too many things up there and then we're not attuned

976
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 2: to it. So if something does smell off, like maybe

977
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 2: you never smelled it before and now you're smelling it,

978
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 2: maybe your hormones changed and you have like you know,

979
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 2: like how your armpits start to smell. Sometimes that can happen.

980
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,479
Speaker 1: I mean, I noticed the way my overall body odor

981
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: period changes when when being a meat eater versus not

982
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: being a meat eater. Because so I don't really right now,

983
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't eat any meat, not even any fish,

984
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: and I know I can, I can tell the difference. Yeah,

985
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 1: and some people don't, Like some people smell just great,

986
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: and I just know for me, I feel like I

987
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: just smell better when I don't eat me and I

988
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 1: don't put those like extra added hormones into my body

989
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: or certain like.

990
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 3: Soaps, you know, like sometimes certain hotels in that fucking

991
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:52,320
Speaker 3: bar soap.

992
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 2: Well those are terrible, and but it immediately.

993
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: Goes terrible with the vagina.

994
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's like the worst, like the bar soap

995
00:46:59,320 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: at the hotel.

996
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: Who fucking picks this? It actually makes it smelt.

997
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm like, my guy was smell like this. Yes,

998
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: it's disturbing your balance because a lot of people, like

999
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: I've seen feminine care of products eight you know this

1000
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 2: will balance or something, and it's not that a product

1001
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 2: balances you out. The right one support your balance. So

1002
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 2: a bar soap is usually alkaline on a pH scale

1003
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 2: that measures like you know, acidity versus alkaline water based products.

1004
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 2: Only if you have a soap that's at like a

1005
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 2: beyond a five point five, which is the pH of

1006
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 2: your skin mantle here on your face, it's gonna fuck

1007
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 2: with your vulva health because your vulvas normal pH is

1008
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 2: around a four ish, you know, three eight to four five,

1009
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 2: sometimes a four seven, and then your internal your vaginal

1010
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:48,399
Speaker 2: pH is like around a three.

1011
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: Is there a way to test that?

1012
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: I take strips and I dip them.

1013
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: I have a okay, So I bought these strips and

1014
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 1: it was but I feel like it's for your pe

1015
00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: or is that no? No?

1016
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 2: I think whatever you do, you dip it in. If

1017
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 2: it's a water product, you'll be able to read it.

1018
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: And that'll get but that will give you that I

1019
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: have some yeah, because when I had when I had baby,

1020
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: I was like, well, let me. I was like freaking out.

1021
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 1: I was like, bought all types of ship. Yeah, and

1022
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: I peed on it and I was my balance was

1023
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: apparently fine. So I was confused on it. What are

1024
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: you supposed to do? Put your jetty juices on it? Right?

1025
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: Is that what you're doing?

1026
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:24,919
Speaker 1: You can't.

1027
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 2: I mean, anything that's liquid, you should be able to

1028
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 2: put a test and see. But there's different components, Like

1029
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 2: so like your vaginal pH you know, is what three

1030
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 2: two three five, and then you're all of the pH

1031
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 2: is different, so you might.

1032
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: So how do I do vulva? I rub it on

1033
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: my skin? I think it's sweating.

1034
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 2: It's actually more important to test your products, like if

1035
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 2: you're using anything down there, just so you don't screw

1036
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 2: with it anymore. Get I always say stop any topical product.

1037
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's your face, your elbows, your

1038
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 2: if you have an issue, like oh yeah, just let it, yeah,

1039
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 2: just let it, give it a minute, you know.

1040
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I I mean, like you said, I say,

1041
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: go see your doctor, but also like try to do

1042
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: it holistically, honestly, because doctors are so quick to just

1043
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:13,720
Speaker 1: prescribe you something to just knock something out and then

1044
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,240
Speaker 1: there's no like, okay, after it's knocked out, then.

1045
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 2: What That's why you have to pick the right one.

1046
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: Like I go to a nature path for my know,

1047
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: I don't go to a conventional gin. Yeah, I need

1048
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 2: to find any but there's some good conventions.

1049
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 3: Haven't even naturalists that specifies and just vaginal care.

1050
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 5: You know.

1051
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 2: She specializes in the entire female body and system. She's

1052
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 2: actually an Orange County and I can give you her name,

1053
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,839
Speaker 2: but she's not. It's not cheap, that's the thing.

1054
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: It's not.

1055
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 2: That's a whole other podcast. Insurance sucks. Have you guys

1056
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 2: ever done a hip bath?

1057
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: Is it the one that steaming?

1058
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1059
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,879
Speaker 2: I want to. I've never tried it.

1060
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: It's usually like Korean spas. I's wherever city you're at,

1061
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: you can find a Korean spa. Yeah, they're put that on.

1062
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:01,319
Speaker 2: Gwyneth Peltrow's that just steaming kind of steaming. Did you

1063
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: try it?

1064
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: Yeah? Did you like it? I did.

1065
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 3: I did it in Atlanta, And it's like Eastern medicine,

1066
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 3: the Korean sposed to it.

1067
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 1: So it's like literally I've seen it. I've seen I

1068
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: like walked by them.

1069
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, like sitting in a chair all these women you're naked,

1070
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 6: and then there's sometimes where I saw it, they put

1071
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 6: a movie on and then.

1072
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 2: You sit on like a wooden chair and there's a

1073
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 2: circle cutout kind of like a toilet.

1074
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, but then they put this like it looks like

1075
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 6: a cape, but it goes all the way around you

1076
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 6: and it hits the floor, so it's like it says

1077
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 6: warm in there. And they put all these herbs in

1078
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 6: a bowl and put hot water over it and then

1079
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 6: put it underneath you, and you sit there for like

1080
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 6: twenty minutes and you watch a.

1081
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 4: Movie with other women's getting their women they're like Yoni steamed,

1082
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 4: and then she puts some other shit in it and

1083
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,720
Speaker 4: she stirs it up and she puts it back and yeah, yeah,

1084
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,240
Speaker 4: but I'm really I feel like just paying more attention

1085
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 4: to the womb period, into the root chack around, to

1086
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 4: the health event and what we're putting in our bodies

1087
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 4: and being more conscious.

1088
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I literally have my Yanni. My I don't

1089
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: call it Yannie or yo Yoni. Someone said Yannie to.

1090
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 2: Me, that's that's a board yonie.

1091
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: I said, I said it was a ye y Yeah. Okay,

1092
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: Well I have my yoni and like egg in now

1093
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: you do. I've been wearing a lot, just the whole time,

1094
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:15,720
Speaker 1: not the whole time. You know, my vagina's very strong.

1095
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: I've been doing kegels day.

1096
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 3: Actually my pagana is very strong because I've been doing

1097
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 3: kegels since I was in high school. Like you do,

1098
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 3: you have a really strong vagina, She's said, very definite,

1099
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 3: matter of fact, like you're.

1100
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 2: Like, oh, well, actually my vagina is very strong.

1101
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: I've been lifting weights. Yeah, yeah, they have. I started

1102
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: doing kegels at a at a young age. I don't

1103
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 1: know why. I think I saw something on TV and

1104
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: I was like, huh, that's good to note. So the

1105
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: egg actually like I barely even feel it. I almost

1106
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: feel like I could do two or like a different

1107
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: I need a heavier one they have different because this

1108
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: one's pretty heavy. Like when I got it, I was like, oh,

1109
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 1: this is pretty heavy. And then I put it in.

1110
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, can I ask you a personal

1111
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 2: because I've never I haven't actually never i've done a

1112
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 2: YOI not because I don't want to. I just I

1113
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 2: tried to stick a lunette cup up there once and

1114
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 2: I didn't have good luck. I was in there for

1115
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 2: an hour?

1116
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 1: Is that the cut? Is that the meat?

1117
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 2: And maybe it's not.

1118
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,720
Speaker 1: I don't like those. I really wanted to try.

1119
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 2: And like a cup, I don't know the brand, I.

1120
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 3: Because a cup gonna get out.

1121
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 2: It was hard to get in and I was also

1122
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 2: be hard to get out.

1123
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: It was. It was very I put it in and

1124
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 1: I was like, is it in right? I don't know

1125
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 1: because my friend Jessica is like such an advocate for

1126
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: it and my girlfriend Natalita, and I was like, you know,

1127
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: I'll do it fine, and girl, I told that. First

1128
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: of all, I was like, how do you get it out?

1129
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: Second of all, well, when I put it, when I

1130
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: was bleeding out of it, like I had blood everywhere

1131
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:45,839
Speaker 1: because it didn't I wasn't like attached inside correctly, like

1132
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 1: around the area that huh, how would you know? Like

1133
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 1: I don't like because you have like tilted a certain

1134
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: like it sections it or.

1135
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes it hurt when it's wrong, like it.

1136
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: Kind of hurt. And then I took it out and

1137
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: then it just like spilled everywhere how And I was

1138
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: like what how? I'm like, and I kept asking my girlfriend.

1139
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, so when when if you're at work, where

1140
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: do you pour the blood and she was like in

1141
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: the toilet. She's like, but then you have to wash off.

1142
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, the sink. I'm like, ill not to

1143
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 1: like go in the sink where people are washing their

1144
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: hands and they oh, sorry, excuse me, let me just

1145
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 1: like wash my period blood off real quick. Oh I'll

1146
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 1: be right back, Like, no.

1147
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 2: Maybe the day three period, but not the table.

1148
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: And then my other friend was like, well, no, it

1149
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: lasts all day, and I like, I but the time

1150
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: I get home, that's when it's time to take it out.

1151
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,799
Speaker 1: So I never really have that issue. Or I'm using

1152
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: bathrooms and have sinks inside of the toy I'm like,

1153
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: what bathroom are you going to that always has a

1154
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: sink inside of the toilet? I was like, you know what,

1155
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna use cotton like try to like use

1156
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: like the but like generation free. What is it clear?

1157
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,360
Speaker 1: I don't know? Some organic brand of tampons un bleached,

1158
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: and that's fine. I'd rather use those, but I'm not

1159
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,399
Speaker 1: I'm noticed that. Sorry what was your question about they?

1160
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 2: So I felt the same way as you with the cup,

1161
00:53:57,239 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 2: and I still haven't mastered it was it were you

1162
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 2: nervous that the YI would just spell out on its.

1163
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 1: Own, like I wasn't. First. I didn't wear it out

1164
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: of the house at first because I was like, I'm like,

1165
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: I really don't feel it that much, but like, what

1166
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: if it just starts traveling down right, throwing down your

1167
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 1: pants like shattered, right, But no, it's kind of stays.

1168
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: It just stays up there. And then so this one

1169
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: doesn't have a string. So some of them have like

1170
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 1: are pre drilled and you put a wrap a string

1171
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 1: in so the string hangs down you can pull it

1172
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: out kind of like a tampon. So when I got

1173
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: this one, I thought it had a hole, and then

1174
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,439
Speaker 1: I was like, there is no hole home, so we're

1175
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: just we're just lay. So I thought it was gonna

1176
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,240
Speaker 1: be really difficult to get out, but it's actually really easy.

1177
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: You do have to squat and then you kind to

1178
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: kind of do a few keygels and then it kind

1179
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: of starts to push out a little bit and then

1180
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 1: you just scoop it out. Okay, But yeah, I've been

1181
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 1: using it for probably about like a week and a

1182
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: half almost two weeks now, and it's you know, I'm

1183
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: until like any type of healing. It's so I have a.

1184
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: It's a rose quarts which is supposed to connect your

1185
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: heart chakra, and I don't know if it's those benefits

1186
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: have hit me yet.

1187
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 2: You know, I love rose quarts. It's very it's a

1188
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 2: very I surround myself with rosequorts. We put it in

1189
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 2: the cleanser too.

1190
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: Right, We're because we did a post about that and

1191
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,720
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, i have a Yoni rose quartz

1192
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: egg inside of me and I'm going to watch myself

1193
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: with roase couards. I'm like, oh, the love is just

1194
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 1: going just abundant. How do you I really was like,

1195
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 1: how do you put rose quarts in a cleanser? Like

1196
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 1: it's like grind it up.

1197
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 2: It's it's cosmetic grade, but it's the vibration. But also

1198
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 2: it can be like gently exfoliating, like really gently, so

1199
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 2: there's not enough in there to be an exfoliator, but

1200
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 2: that the external skin can use like a tiny bit

1201
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 2: of expoliation. But it's so so minor so, but for me,

1202
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 2: it was like important that the self love piece is

1203
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 2: always in there. And I even like when I I

1204
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 2: have our formulators, make it, you know, make it. I

1205
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 2: can't always be at the runs, but I'm like think

1206
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 2: good thoughts, like put your intention right when you make

1207
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 2: these products. But so rose Quartz and me like, I

1208
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 2: just like love connection.

1209
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: To I feel like I'm double doing double duty. Yeah

1210
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: right now, because you got the and I just used

1211
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: the cleanser right now. I went to the gym and

1212
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:23,800
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to use my Lady Sweet.

1213
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: This is coming with my Lady Sweet and cleanser and

1214
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:32,919
Speaker 1: my I'm just health vaginal health up.

1215
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 3: I really love your social and like the brand and

1216
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,280
Speaker 3: that there is a lot of information and just about

1217
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 3: health and just fun stuff.

1218
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1219
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: Well it's me and Olivia, who really mays who's here.

1220
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 2: You can't see her, but she like, we really have

1221
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 2: the voice. The voice of the brand is our voice.

1222
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 2: So it's like really fun to just kind of speak freely.

1223
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: And but we do tell the line between because it

1224
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 2: because feminine health can get really political, you can go

1225
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 2: really spiritual, it can get real, you know. So we're

1226
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,799
Speaker 2: trying trying to find our voice a little bit in

1227
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 2: that because there's so much I want to say. If

1228
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 2: like Trump does one more stupid thing, I want to talk,

1229
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 2: but I mean, but for the platform, I just don't know.

1230
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 2: I'm still navigating because at the end of the day,

1231
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 2: it's a feel good brand. It's I want to be positive.

1232
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 2: I also want to be real. Sometimes the girl's a

1233
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 2: fucking grown hair and that's all she has. It doesn't

1234
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 2: have to be so deep, right, right, right, right, How

1235
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 2: we can make this caption right right? And I think

1236
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:36,439
Speaker 2: that sometimes turns like someone who barely even knows their

1237
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 2: what their vulva is doesn't need it to be a

1238
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 2: whole thing. So yeah, so we're still sort of align

1239
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 2: and we align with you know, the bloomy and you know,

1240
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 2: all bodies and like certain other femcare brands. What I

1241
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 2: love about the femcare brands there's so much more collaborative,

1242
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: Like where the other genres of skincare or color that

1243
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 2: I've been in like it's like us against them. Oh sorry,

1244
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 2: it's like have your knee. But this is so fun

1245
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: and we really do like exchange information and kind of

1246
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 2: understand the speak. I had actually had a call with Saxophont.

1247
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 2: Avenue really wants to bring sexual wellness to light and

1248
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 2: the girls that are doing it are cool enables who

1249
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 2: are like fuck this, like we need some we need Yeah,

1250
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 2: And we had a conversation on how to have that

1251
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 2: that talk at retail. So I love that at least

1252
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 2: the gears are turning with these bigger companies that wouldn't

1253
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 2: even look at it, you know.

1254
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: Well, and I hope that they don't you know, dilute

1255
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: me to dilute it, you know what I mean, And

1256
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: they really take you know, pride and navigate it in

1257
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: a delicate way and not just like it becomes just

1258
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: like kind of stuff after thought, right that that and

1259
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: just starts like just creating these pop up brands that

1260
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: really aren't like you, not even you, but like the

1261
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 1: ingredients aren't. Yeah, they don't care. And it isn't just

1262
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: about like having a beautiful Instagram feed that looks cute, which,

1263
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: by the way, your Instagram feed is real cute. And

1264
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 1: your packaging I love. I'm like packaging being junkie, so

1265
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: I really like, I really like your packaging. It's really

1266
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: clean and no.

1267
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 2: But it's true. I talk about this all the time

1268
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 2: with Crime Collective, who's our wholesale agency, and they helped

1269
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 2: really navigate the clean beauty space. And you know, if

1270
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 2: I didn't have them there, i'd be a little nervous

1271
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 2: to navigate some of the big guys. But they're really

1272
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 2: leaning on you know, they're really leaning on us to

1273
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 2: help them because they haven't figured it out. And if

1274
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 2: I wasn't part of a conversation, it would be harder

1275
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 2: for me to just like go in and make it happen.

1276
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 2: But it retails a funny world. It's it's a hard

1277
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 2: it's the hard part.

1278
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 1: Do you think that because you're in this clean space?

1279
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: And also, you know, I think obviously people are getting

1280
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: more comfortable talking about feminine health. People are also getting

1281
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 1: more comfortable talking about CBD and THHC and all those things.

1282
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 1: And I see so many brands again, like because it's

1283
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: becoming sort of like a fat I've seen because I

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Speaker 1: work in the beauty industry, I see a lot of

1285
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: like brands coming out with like to like CBD eyeshadows.

1286
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm like or like having like these influencer parties where

1287
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 1: they're like rolling joints and it's just to be cool,

1288
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, people actually need this for their health, right, yeah, yeah,

1289
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: of course, Like I smoked weed for stress anxiety and

1290
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: just because I like it, But like people like Natasha,

1291
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: We had a girl and she uses it because she

1292
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 1: has extreme PTSD, Right, would you ever consider like merging

1293
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: those two worlds together.

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01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 2: Lady Sweet absolutely and Lady Sweet. You know, while it's

1295
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 2: the intention, was underserved needs for women in a way

1296
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 2: that was better, like just better, the industry didn't do

1297
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 2: them care service. I've always pictured a more like well

1298
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 2: rounded brand ingestibles, like like a better probiotic and this

1299
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 2: and that. But I I have chronic pain and I'm thyroid,

1300
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 2: and so I have more joint You'll see when you

1301
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 2: hit forty it's hard enough, but then you layer on

1302
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 2: by both thyroid stuff.

1303
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: And my mom has thyroid disease. Yeah, she actually got

1304
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 1: her thyrod taken out, which I think now she regrets

1305
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: because there's so many other ways to like kind of

1306
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 1: regulate it.

1307
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 2: I know, it's like the old school, we were scared

1308
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 2: of it.

1309
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: Take it out.

1310
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it should be the last last resort. But I

1311
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:10,920
Speaker 2: have her needed discs. And I'm actually a bad pot smoker.

1312
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 2: I was so bad at any drug. I didn't do

1313
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 2: well except for cigarettes and rose and but CBD, Like

1314
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:23,439
Speaker 2: I really started to really look at this when Crime

1315
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 2: Collective was starting to really look at CBD brands like

1316
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 2: the Lord Jones is before a few years ago, And

1317
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 2: so I started testing this stuff and it really started

1318
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 2: to really work, and I would take less advil during

1319
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 2: my periods, and I'm like, I know advil is bad,

1320
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 2: but when you're desperate and you're I'm trying to feel

1321
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 2: my pain more and just get through those like hard parts.

1322
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 2: But I've had so much neck pain and so much

1323
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 2: of this, so much that lately, like I felt a

1324
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 2: little desperate. But CBD has really helped me. So now

1325
01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 2: we're working on a wellnesstinct show right now that's very

1326
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 2: women driven. And actually the chemist that's helping me, she's

1327
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 2: a woman who was an este latter chemist. She's young,

1328
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 2: got in a motorcycle accident and traditional medicine wasn't working,

1329
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 2: and she really dove into CBD and you know, cannabis,

1330
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 2: and she said, it's like the perfect ingredient in so

1331
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 2: many ways for its antioccident ability, but you know, just

1332
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 2: being able to work with so many receptors in the

1333
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 2: body to mitigate inflammation. So I didn't want to do

1334
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,959
Speaker 2: it because of a trend, but it's I don't really

1335
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 2: do anything unless i'm you know, a listen to our audience.

1336
01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 2: But I really have to, I really have to buy

1337
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 2: into it and I've read a lot of studies by now,

1338
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 2: I'm really trying to like get smart about it. But

1339
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: I wouldn't I pay I use it, so why wouldn't

1340
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 2: I Yeah, so so much more to talk about. I

1341
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 2: think next time we hang out, we'll do these themes. Well, yeah,

1342
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 2: we'll get doing it. Yeah yeah, right, show each other

1343
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 2: of us, you know what.

1344
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 3: Because just like there's all this sexual heat like health

1345
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 3: and stuff coming up. I mean, I know you'd notice

1346
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 3: like all these sex educators and sexual I don't know, exterals. Yeah,

1347
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 3: sex duels, right, that's a new word. I think there

1348
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:16,959
Speaker 3: was a workshop that I saw and like everybody pulls

1349
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 3: out their vagina and then look at it.

1350
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: It is so cool. Okay.

1351
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 3: So I was just wondering, like I wonder if I

1352
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 3: would be into something like that.

1353
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: Well I'm a newdist but I mean I don't know.

1354
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 3: I don't even examine my vagina alone that often, so

1355
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 3: I don't know if it'll be empowering strange, you know,

1356
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 3: like if it's any I think.

1357
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 2: I might need a couple of glasses as something. But

1358
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 2: I love the idea of being able to just do that.

1359
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:41,720
Speaker 2: I know that my girlfriend just went to Palm springs

1360
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 2: with a bunch of women that are a little older

1361
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 2: than her, and they finally were like, I'm just gonna

1362
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 2: show you mine. And it took like until fifties to

1363
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 2: be able to do that. I think that should happen

1364
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 2: a little earlier in life. But I think, yeah, it's

1365
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 2: whatever your comfort level is.

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01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: H I'm always exchangeable. I don't really think I need

1367
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: to show everyone you showed me, I know, but like

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01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,440
Speaker 1: why don't need to go to a volva party? Like

1369
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 1: sometimes like all right, like it's not for me, Like

1370
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 1: you want to go to the vulv of vagina party.

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01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,000
Speaker 1: It's womb healings whatever. You can be hippie, like just

1372
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: like go yoga is.

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01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 2: A thing, you know, if you do it, I might

1374
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 2: consider it. Okay, let me know how, I.

1375
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 3: Will say, you over here looking at each other's volves,

1376
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 3: I'll give you a call back.

1377
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 2: I'll just do the skincare application. But I do want

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01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 2: to say one more thing about this oil because I

1379
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 2: do get a lot of questions on like I have

1380
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 2: chronic and growns like what why why haven't I seen

1381
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 2: like a result? And I'm like, well, how long have

1382
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 2: you been using it? A couple of weeks. Well, how

1383
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 2: how many times have you used it? Well, I just

1384
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 2: you know, every four days. It's like that doesn't work

1385
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 2: to commit. Yeah, it's really about rebuilding the skins resilience

1386
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 2: and then you'll see less of that over time. But

1387
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 2: you have to use it.

1388
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 1: Every day, once a day. No, And that's what I

1389
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 1: was saying too, because I posted about it, and I've

1390
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: gotten some questions about it too. And it's like with

1391
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: clean skin, with anything clean and anything real and natural,

1392
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:06,680
Speaker 1: it takes time. You're not gonna see these like like

1393
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: if you go to the doctor and they give you

1394
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: that medicine, yeah, it's gonna wipe out that yeast infection

1395
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: five seconds. But if you're doing it naturally, it's gonna

1396
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: take time. It just like girls you said putting like

1397
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 1: garlic in their vagina with these infections. You know, I

1398
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: guess that does that work? Yogurt tampon my friend. My

1399
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 1: friend cured her HPV that way with what yogurt tampons? HPV? Yogurt. No,

1400
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 1: she had HPV and she used yogurt because it's full

1401
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 1: of probiotics to cure her HPV over the like, it

1402
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: was like it took about two months, but she did

1403
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 1: it every single day and it was gone and it's

1404
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 1: been gone since. So anything I feel like clean, holistic,

1405
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 1: it takes time. You're not gonna and you have to

1406
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: use it every day, like even me. The reason why

1407
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: I'm using Ladies because I want to lighten. I want

1408
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: to brighten that area. I don't have a lot of

1409
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: ingrown hairs and I have used it to shave, which

1410
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 1: I never even considered using an oil to shave. But yeah,

1411
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 1: like I think, it takes time, It takes time.

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01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 2: And in ingrown's I immediately hyperpigment, so I need to

1413
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 2: write in that area too, But it took So I've

1414
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 2: been on this oil for what four years. I haven't

1415
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 2: had an ingrown in three years. I still have a

1416
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 2: little bit of dark spots, but around my bikini line

1417
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 2: where I would just you know, shave rush there there's spot.

1418
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:22,960
Speaker 2: There's a few spots, but they're gone. And I sometimes

1419
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 2: wish on Instagram you could do both before and after

1420
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 2: its without scaring it.

1421
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 3: I know, you know what the crazy prices I took

1422
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:29,960
Speaker 3: before I could so I could clock it.

1423
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, well maybe you can even do like the sides

1424
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 1: like a bikini or.

1425
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 2: Least story them maybe really, and I use it's essential

1426
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 2: fatty acids. These are key components of of your cells.

1427
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 2: They really are a key component of that moisturization in

1428
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 2: your skin and being able to hold on to moisture.

1429
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 2: So I'm using this on my face.

1430
01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:53,840
Speaker 1: I put on my face. Yeah, I know you're gonna tell.

1431
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 1: Why do you tell me?

1432
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 5: Said?

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01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 1: She was, like, you know, the other day, I was

1434
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: doing this guy's facial and I realized I didn't have

1435
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 1: any my oils, so I put Lady Sweet all over

1436
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 1: his face. I think it was great.

1437
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 2: My person uses it religiously, Yeah, I did.

1438
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: I wonder if this is also a men's facial product.

1439
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: You're gonna be really.

1440
01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 2: Moisturized after that.

1441
01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: Take a deep breath.

1442
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,280
Speaker 2: He's gonna call you, what the fuck was that?

1443
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 1: And if you and if you guys are interested in

1444
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 1: anyone listening, if you're interested in trying Lady Sweet products,

1445
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 1: make sure to go to their website and you can

1446
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:28,120
Speaker 1: use our code good Moms fifteen for fifteen dollars off

1447
01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 1: of anything, or for thirty dollars. I beeve that's what

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01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:34,000
Speaker 1: it is, and I highly recommend you try it because

1449
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 1: you know it's time. It's time for us to relate

1450
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 1: vaginas and TLC. Yeah, especially mom. So we have to

1451
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 1: push humans out of these things. Okay, we need if

1452
01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 1: anyone needs some love and down there. It s true,

1453
01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 1: even if I didn't push her out of my vagina,

1454
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: still mad about that.

1455
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 2: I was speaking of vaginas, But you can use it

1456
01:07:57,120 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 2: during pregnancy and I have, oh yeah, using it on

1457
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 2: their c sex and scars and you know. So it's

1458
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 2: definitely one of those oils that's multifunctional and safe for

1459
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 2: the entire lady landscape.

1460
01:08:06,680 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: That's awesome. So okay, before we go, we have a

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Speaker 1: hory that we need to share. Who stories If you

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01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 1: guys are just tuning in, if you guys don't know

1463
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,839
Speaker 1: what a horror story is, a horri is a highly

1464
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: horrific hotel that was either terrifying, ridiculously funny, or just

1465
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 1: highly horsh highly horrish and embarrassing level ten horry. This

1466
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 1: is an anonymous horror horry and it's fucking hilarious, So

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Speaker 1: go ahead. Okay.

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01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:46,639
Speaker 3: So I once stated a man I met on tender

1469
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 3: and he was a southern boy, preacher's son and a poet,

1470
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 3: so you know, a secret freak.

1471
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,919
Speaker 2: The sex was hot, huge cock, great in bed.

1472
01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 1: So a few weeks into our.

1473
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 3: Folding around, he tells me he has always wanted a

1474
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 3: girl to piss on him. I'm pretty open. I'm a

1475
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 3: pretty open lady. So I was like, sure, let's do this,

1476
01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:08,320
Speaker 3: but in my shower. So I pissed on him. He

1477
01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:10,640
Speaker 3: went wild, wanted me to piss in his mouth, so

1478
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 3: I squatted over his mouth and pissed in his mouth.

1479
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 3: He went more nuts, was rock hard and wanted to

1480
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 3: fuck my brains out.

1481
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: I let him.

1482
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 3: I let him, but I also didn't let him kiss

1483
01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:24,000
Speaker 3: me after. So I'm thinking, let me be clear, ray,

1484
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 3: this is.

1485
01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 1: What didn't happen.

1486
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:30,479
Speaker 3: So so I'm thinking, okay, we did that, But then

1487
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 3: that's all he wanted all the time, couldn't get enough.

1488
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:35,679
Speaker 3: Wanted me to piss in his champagne glasses and feed

1489
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,640
Speaker 3: it to him, give him piste to take home. I

1490
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 3: was like, no, ma'am, once or twice is fine, But

1491
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 3: all the time it was a whole nother thing. It

1492
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 3: was like I opened up his freak portal and that

1493
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 3: was now his new and that was now his new norm.

1494
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 3: I called it off. No cock is worth all of that.

1495
01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 3: It became mature also a side note, This man also

1496
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 3: once sent me a video of him and shoulder stand

1497
01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:01,559
Speaker 3: plow pose blowing himself. His dick was that big and

1498
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 3: he was that flexible. I passed that video around to

1499
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 3: all my friends. I was like, that man has skills.

1500
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 3: That man does have skills, or he's using a river to.

1501
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: Self pleasure at its finest. Wow, that's a big dick.

1502
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 2: Do you think if you think, do you think she

1503
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 2: pH tested her? You're in right.

1504
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 1: It must have been very balanced. I like to drinking.

1505
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 1: Isn't that like, can't you like die from drinking? Peak?

1506
01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 2: No?

1507
01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:29,720
Speaker 1: I think people do it if they're like lost on

1508
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 1: a mountain, but you don't. You have to like boil

1509
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: it or something. I don't know. And also like if

1510
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 1: you could self pleasure yourself with your mouth, would you

1511
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: would you try that? Probably? I don't know. I don't know.

1512
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:45,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna say they make me a lession, but

1513
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: I kind of am. But whatever, I don't know. Does

1514
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 1: that make it? I don't know. I don't know. I

1515
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: make him gay. No, it's second own thing. I don't know.

1516
01:10:56,720 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 1: That's what you call a level ten hoary, So please

1517
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:03,439
Speaker 1: submit your level ten horries. Don't let them, be weak.

1518
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: It's fun. If you're questioning it, they're week then they are.

1519
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 1: Don't send them. We're not going to share them. But anyway,

1520
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 1: on that note, take care of your vagina, ladies, and

1521
01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 1: your vulga and you know, check out Lady Sweet, check

1522
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 1: out Lady Sweet. Where can we find you?

1523
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:23,679
Speaker 2: Right here? I'm never leaving.

1524
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 1: Your Instagram or your webstagram.

1525
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:30,679
Speaker 2: At ladies Sweet, underscore beauty our website, Lady sweet, beauty

1526
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:34,679
Speaker 2: and sweet as s U I T sweet, Yes, love

1527
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:35,759
Speaker 2: for the lady birds.

1528
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 1: Awesome. All right, well, thank you so much for coming

1529
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 1: on and chatting with us, and we will get it.

1530
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:47,719
Speaker 1: We will wow and we will catch you guys next week.

1531
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 2: Bye bye, Hi.

1532
01:11:55,479 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 5: Someday So some day know, someday some sound some girl,

1533
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 5: some know someday some sound some day some now, someday

1534
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 5: call

1535
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 1: M hm