WEBVTT - Y’all Are Nosey & We Love It! 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.040 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:15.280 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:19.960 another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am your girl, Giselle Bryant. 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:22.440 What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. We are 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:26.920 back again, and thank you for being here with us. Yes, yes, yes, 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.120 y'all never fail us. Y'all are here with us every week, 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:31.639 week after week, and we definitely appreciate it. There's like 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:34.920 more and more of you coming. I'm hearing from people 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.400 are saying like they've been beinging, you know, like they 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.479 just gout on the Reasonably Shady train and even bening 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:42.960 and they're loving it, and we want more and we 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.639 love you guys, so thank you so much. We appreciate you. Yes, yes, yes, 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:48.320 and I mean I'm gonna tell you just this is 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:51.080 not easy work. So we hope you like it. Okay, 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:54.440 because we over here working hard. This is over here sweat. Yes, yeah, 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:57.600 I had to get out of bed and I had 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.240 to drive to Robin's house. Okay, we are at been 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:04.480 Dixon's new palatial estate. Yes, I mean, oh that I 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:07.520 mean it's very nice. Yes, yes, I like it. It's 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:09.680 nice and comfortable and I have a whole lot of 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.560 decorating and furnishing to do. So if anybody wants to 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:15.280 send me something, yes, yes, send Robin something because she 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:18.680 needs a whole lot of furniture, and furniture is expensive, 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:22.480 oh my gosh, expensive, and then the lead time on 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.800 it is crazy, and then the delivery is crazy and 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:32.200 fraid and it's insane. Listen, it's so insane. But I 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:35.120 mean it's the cost of life. Yes, okay, So, at 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.640 per usual, we're gonna give our reasonably shady moment of 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:46.600 the week. Did you have one? Oh? Shoot, okay, so 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:48.120 why do you think about it? I actually have too. 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.960 So you know, the kids started school and every time 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:54.440 this happens to me every year because I always forget. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:56.360 It's kind of like when you have a baby and 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:59.559 it's horrible, but then you forget, so you get pregnant again. Okay. 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:02.520 It's called the car line at school. Oh my gosh, 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:07.440 is the shadiest, most horrible thing that mothers and whoever 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:09.400 pick up these kids have to go through. You probably 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.400 try to be the first one, don't you. I don't 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.840 actually try to time it so that it's done. And 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:16.120 I catched the tail end of it. Okay. So for 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:18.000 those of you who don't have kids or don't understand 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:20.400 the car line, it is, you're sitting there in your 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:22.320 car waiting for your kids to come out, and the 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:25.960 line is the longest thing you've ever seen. And it's 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:28.240 not like your kid can come to your like can 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:30.360 bust out to school and just come to your car. 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:33.240 You gotta wait to you like inch up and you're 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.480 at the front, up all right, and you're at the front, 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:37.320 and then finally they can come if they do come 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:38.920 to your car. Because my kids in high school now 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:42.480 to get yelled at my teachers because it's a hazard. Yeah. 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:44.120 I hate the car line and cannot wait for it 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:46.360 to be out of my life. The car line is horrible. 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:51.120 Um gosh, and you just now, I um, you triggered 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.880 my my shady moment um. It actually goes back a 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:57.680 couple of weeks. So I moved and I posted that 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:03.960 I moved, and the next somebody called my children's school 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:08.079 the front office and told them, hey, I think they 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.640 moved and you need to find out where they moved to. 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.200 So who was that person? Who is that somebody that 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:19.560 they're a hater? Like? Really business? Yes? Mine your business. 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:24.600 So the person in the front office or whoever, they 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:27.280 instead of just calling me because you know they you know, 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:29.200 they can just look up my kids records and say, oh, 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:33.600 let me call the parents. They called my former real 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:37.640 estate agent that helped me get you know, the houses 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:41.720 where we live and asked him do you know if 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:45.000 Robin and Wan Dixon still live in their house? And 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:48.280 so he emailed me the email or she she emailed 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.960 and called him. So he forwarded me the email. This 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.240 is horrible and he didn't know because I was I 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:55.440 didn't I wasn't using him. I used a different real 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:57.600 estate and he didn't know what was going on. So 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:00.520 I called and I said, this is where I and Dixon. 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:03.080 The woman that you were snooping around trying to find 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:06.000 out information on um if you need to know something 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:10.360 about me in my life called me please Yes, lady. 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:14.080 Isn't that crazy? I was like so angry, Like why 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:15.960 do you need to snoop around? Is it almost like 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:17.720 you were trying to catch me in a lie? Right, 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:19.560 Like why not just call me and say, hey, we 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:21.320 got this to have been in information just trying to 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:23.880 check and see you know, I wouldn't even think to 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:27.320 go around you and call a real estate agent adult 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:29.279 if you move, Like, why don't you just call you? 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.560 Like you literally had to maybe like well, you know 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:33.919 how when um, well, your kids are in private school. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:35.760 So when you're in public school, like you have to 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:38.960 send them, you know, your least agreement or your more 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.440 your deed or something. So he must have been on 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:44.919 the least agreement. So they had to pull that document 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:47.960 up right, So when they were doing just like looking 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:51.039 at you know, here's the foul okay, parent name, parent number, 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:54.560 parent email. I was, I was, I was through. I 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:58.960 was so angry. What what county is this? Howard County? 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:01.280 They don't play up out their schools because they have 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:03.839 a really good school system. Today. Wanted to make sure 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.320 and my key was in the right school and they weren't. 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.719 I understand, but y'all are wrong for snooping around. Just 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.440 call the parents. Just call the parents. And it's not 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:14.160 like Robin can like fake where she lives. We're on TV, 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:16.920 like it's actually it is what it is, like come 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:19.440 on now and and trust me, my kids wouldn't meet 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:24.200 you fake where I lived. Secretly, Robin was trying to lie, 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.880 but I was like I can't know. I was like, guys, 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:28.960 I can't lie, Like, there's no way I can get 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:33.160 away with that because I am on TV. So whatever. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:36.599 So anyway, they hate their new school. Oh well, Corey 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:41.159 hates it, Okay, Carter's adjusting. Carter's all right, Corey's like, 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.840 you know, he misses his friends. Yes, he's in because 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:47.560 he's yes, So he misses his friends and he just 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.280 he hates it. But you know, hey, it's either going 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:54.640 to be a really long school year or he'll find 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:56.640 some friends and he'll like it. Yeah, I'm figuring he'll 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.159 figure kids. The kids are resilient and they typically figure 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:01.880 it out. They are. But I understand hating to school. 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:04.680 I've been there before. All right. So we have so 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:06.880 many hot topics to talk about. Okay, so there's this 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:09.320 one particular thing that I didn't want to talk about, 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:10.760 but I do. I feel like, you know, we do 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:13.080 have to talk about it because it's about people that 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:18.159 I love, called the Carters, Jay Z and Beyonce. We 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:21.720 love them, best friends. There are friends. I know. I'm 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.599 so mad at them because I didn't get the invite 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:28.680 for the trip for the forties birthday party. Yeah, like 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:30.920 on the boat and we're still looking at pictures. I 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:34.800 don't confus, very confused. But she's my Virgal sister. I 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.560 don't understand anyway. Oh, by the way, is still Virgal Nations? 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:43.400 Still still Virgal season out here? Okay? Okay, So they 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:47.960 did that collaboration with Tiffany's right, and I wasn't we 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:49.919 weren't going to discuss it because it's kind of like 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:56.000 it caused like a fury of controversy and discussion. And 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.600 you know, Beyonce has she hasn't come out and said anything, 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:03.080 but it's we parted that she is feeling differently about 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:07.480 doing it than than she was before they did it. Um, 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:12.520 so here's my take, right, Okay, So she got to 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:14.960 wear the diamond that has not been worn by a 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:18.840 a black woman and be it's the diamond has been 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:21.520 around for like over a hundred years. Okay, So something's 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:23.360 been around for over a hundred years and ain't no 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.880 black person been able to get their hands on it. 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:31.400 I'm of the place and of the thought process. F you. 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:34.680 I don't. I don't want to participate. I don't want 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.080 to be invited to the barbecue. I don't want to 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:41.080 touch the diamond. Y'all can have it. And if you're 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:45.120 Beyonce and you're the baddest bitch walking, why do you 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:48.920 need that? You know what I mean? Well, I don't 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.200 know that it's about the diamond. I think it might 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:54.200 be about the big fat check that was probably written 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:56.040 to that. Okay, but if you're if y'all, if you 0:07:56.160 --> 0:07:59.160 and your husband are both billionaires, you don't need that check. Yeah, 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:02.040 they want to stay billy in there, I think, I 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:05.600 think honestly, like I know, we say, they're like, oh, well, 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:07.080 you're a billionaire, what do you need more money for? 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:12.400 Because rich people their ego is like it's it's fueled 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.920 by money, right, And you know, they want to be 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:16.680 the riches. They want to be on that list. They 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:18.520 want to keep they don't they can't. They can't be 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.880 knocked off the list. They all the list. Sorry, they 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:25.960 Tiffany wrote them a big fast we know that and 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:30.080 they said chitching cash it. So do you think that 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:33.319 if they knew about the backstory of these diamonds prior 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:38.640 to they wouldn't have done it? Possibly? Okay, all right, possibly, okay, 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.920 I agree with that. Possibly I agree with that because 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:44.600 I feel like they're very conscious and particular about the 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:47.960 moves they make. Well, look, Tiffany don't care if anyone's 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.880 upset because those commercials run all the time. Yes they do. 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:55.320 And let me just say this, I okay, a little 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:58.440 part of me felt like they don't need Tiffany's Tiffany 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:02.960 needs them. So they could have bowed out, they could 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:06.280 have walked away. I'm telling you that check, that check, 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:09.240 that check was bad because um, flat tummy time t 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.960 whatever they keep trying to they keep harassing me, and 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.440 I feel like I don't need them. Check is not 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:19.439 that good. If the check was good, then you would 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:23.160 do it. Listen, flat tummy t stop stop email like 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:27.880 that or whatever the hell? Y'all off anyway? Like like 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:32.559 can you post posts for two dollars? Like something's crazy? 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:36.920 I mean, I'm exaggerating, but I'm like kick rocks, rocks, 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.719 kick rocks. All right. I just want to give you 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:42.280 all an example. Now. Listen, Um, we are done obviously 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:45.320 with the Olympics. But the aftermath of it all is, 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:49.400 you know, someone Biles and those other ladies went to court. Now, 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:51.120 they didn't go to court. I don't really understand what 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:54.000 they did. They went Congress, They went to Congress, and 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.640 they were complaining, not complaining, but they gave a deposition 0:09:57.640 --> 0:10:00.440 on what happened to them as it really asist man 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:03.840 that got a hundred and fifty years for molesting them 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:07.240 and their beef. Their issue is when we went to 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:12.160 the FBI, y'all didn't game. That's crazy, that is insane. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.120 That is insane. The FBI did not feel like what 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:20.440 they were saying was important enough to investigate or Okay, 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:23.640 they did their little bit of investigation and whatever response 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:26.080 they got the FB. I was like, okay, I think 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:29.679 the FBI did not want to interfere because then would 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.679 we have an Olympic gymnast team. No, we would not. 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.120 Like they probably would have had to suspend the ladies 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.400 or doing I don't know. They just didn't They didn't 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:40.080 do their job. No, that's horrible. That's horrible, and that 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:43.920 they're here to do stuff like that. If there's a job, right, 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:46.280 if there's anyone that's going to find out the root 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.319 of the problem or what's going on, it's the FBI. 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:51.200 Like that, that's insane. But I think it's just it 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:53.800 shows you a lot. There's probably a lot of stuff 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.360 that goes on that the FBI is aware of and 0:10:56.400 --> 0:11:00.360 they choose not to investigate, which is scar Yeah, it's very, 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:02.840 very scary, and it makes you feel it makes you 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:06.360 feel I'm sure that you're just totally helpless, that who's 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:09.520 going to listen to you, who's going to have your back? Um? 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:13.480 And these were like fourteen fifteen year old girls. It's horrible, 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:15.920 that's horrible. I felt so bad, like it was like 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:18.640 you can and then it almost I felt like watching 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:22.560 someone bios talk. I almost felt like, Okay, I even 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:26.360 understand her more now with the Olympics and her you know, 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:29.760 not wanting to compete, like she probably just has so 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:34.600 many emotions and anxiety and just she's just been so scarred. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:38.200 And it's like, shame on you for allowing these adults 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:41.440 to scar these children, because you're scarring them for life. Yeah, no, 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:44.000 no question about it, Absolutely no question. I really feel 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:46.120 bad with those girls. And guess what they have. They 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:49.800 have displayed so much courage, way more than balancing on 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:53.520 the balance being like this, I'm very happy that they 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:56.240 stepped forward because they're helping the girls coming behind them exactly, 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.080 They're helping the girls coming behind them, and then they're 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:01.600 just helping other, you know, girls or people with similar 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:04.720 types of experiences, whether it's in you know, other sports 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:07.840 or other industries, to you know, to pay more attention 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:10.200 to stuff and to say, Okay, this actually is really real. 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.720 I guess they probably felt like, oh, you know, if 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:14.840 they're if they're going to say, oh, the doctor is 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:16.920 touching me inappropriately in the fos where we're like, oh, 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:18.760 but the doctor's just doing his job, you know what 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:20.520 I mean. Like but no, it's like, no, you need 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:24.360 to look farther into this, yes, not stuff. So I 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.839 was I got my um right after I got married. 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:31.280 I my gallbladder damn near exploded, right, so I had 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:34.600 to go to the doctor. Was that like most excruciating 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:37.679 pain ever? I hear that, It's like really really really painful. 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:39.200 It's hard, like it was. Pain was so bad I 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:43.480 passed out. Wow, woke up in the hospital. So I 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.280 got you know, it's kind of like an emergency surgery. 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:48.280 I got my gallbladder removed. And I remember the hospital 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.000 that I was in, actually in Baltimore, is a teaching hospital, 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.000 so they have the doctors come in and they have 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.120 like the new residents with the doctor to like check 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:59.400 out the patients. So you know, I was. I had 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.000 just got my hair was all done in a in 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:04.400 an orange yellow color, and I was looking cute. I 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.520 had a hand and everything, your hair is yellow. I 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:12.600 don't know that. I don't know this is Look, there's 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:15.360 a point of this story where they are okay. So 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:19.760 in the middle, so I was recuperating. I'm half on drugs. 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.120 I remember I told them all to go home, right 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:25.960 because he had been staying in the hospital with me, 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:30.280 and one of the interns residents came back into the 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.040 room and he was like, I need to check your 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:35.560 your scars or whatever, and he was kind of filling 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:39.200 me up, like my boobs, and I was like, the 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:41.600 way he was touching me, I remember, it wasn't I 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:46.640 didn't feel right about it, and I was pissed. So um, 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:50.320 the next day I asked to see the head doctor 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:53.600 and I told on that guy and um, I never 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:55.120 saw him again, and I was like, I do not 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:57.600 want that guy in my room anymore. But I was 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:03.720 like livid, My gosh, and imagine if he's a doctor today. Yes, 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:07.280 Like there's always creepy people out there. If you're ever, 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.319 if somebody's ever in the hospital or just in an 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:13.520 In a situation in which you can be compromised, you 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:17.440 need to have somebody with you. Yeah. Wow, that's horrible, scary. 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:21.320 That's that's why I honestly don't have male doctors like 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:23.680 that are like like my my, my, my O B 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:27.680 G y N is a female. Yes, my um primary 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:30.080 care doctor is a female. Like you know, no offense 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.280 to male doctors. But but now, I mean it is 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:41.160 what it is, y'all suck anyway, moving on, Okay, So 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:45.000 I'm so excited because it's almost the holidays and Broadway 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:49.520 is bad, so like just f y, I always take 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.800 my kids around the holidays to see some play on Broadway, 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:56.640 musical something that's like our thing. It's our tradition, and 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.080 we didn't get to do it in because of the pandemic. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.840 But now Broadways back and they've like opened up in 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.560 like full throttle, like they had what the Lion King 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.720 I think um on Hamilton's. So I'm so super excited. 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:10.920 That is so exciting. And I must say that I 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:14.160 have never been to a play on Broadway. Robin No, No, 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:16.480 I think I did go to one, damn it, and 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.560 I can't remember what it was. What do you mean 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.200 it was a long time ago. Okay, so Robin, you 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:23.640 didn't it might have been lion King. Oh my god, 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:28.000 the word memory is so bad. Okay, so you didn't 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:31.000 go to a play on Broadway, but you were a 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:36.240 video home. Sure, I was, And I know that you 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.040 always like to tell people that you were a video home. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:41.480 I mean, I'm proud. I'm proud of my one shining moment. 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:45.280 Would you like to tell the world about it? Yeah? 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:47.520 So so actually those are some of the questions that 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:49.440 I got. Was like, you know, tell us about your 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:52.880 story about being a video home because we shared um 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.000 on a recent episode of the House as of Potomac 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:58.440 that you know, well, we were auditioning for Candice's video 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.400 and I'm like, I'm not a new it is, I'm 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:06.080 true to this, I've been here video ho So anyway, um, 0:16:06.120 --> 0:16:09.960 that opportunity came about because then we kind of follow me, 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:19.000 my brothers, sons, baby Mama's boyfriend. I'm lost exactly. Cousin 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:24.000 was successful music video director Chris Robinson. He has he 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:26.640 directed tons and tons of tons of great music videos. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:29.680 Yes we know Chris Robinson. Yes, Chris, so we I 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:32.640 was at a birthday party for my nephew and he 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:36.160 was there and later that week, like they called, my 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:41.040 brother's son's mother called and was like, hey, Chris, Chris 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:44.160 is directing the video in l A Puffy Do you 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:46.360 want to do? You want to go? And Chris, he 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:47.560 wants to know if you want to be in it? 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:50.720 And I was like, in a video for shot, Puffy 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:56.160 says bad boy days. Yes, this is when he remember 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:58.360 he went to jail for the gun chars Yes, Puff. 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:02.080 This was his first song and video after he got 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:03.720 out of jail. This is a big deal. This is 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:08.120 a comeback, huge, huge, And I was like so confused. 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:11.440 I was like me, why, huh what? No? Like oh, 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:14.159 like you you got the wrong person right because you 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:17.359 you didn't You hadn't perfected your work game at that point. No, 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:20.560 I mean they weren't working back then. It was more 0:17:20.840 --> 0:17:24.280 you know, I don't. I don't know. That just wasn't 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:27.800 on my radar. So I told one. I was like, 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:30.520 this is so crazy. But someone, you know, Chris Robinson 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:32.640 asked me being a Puffy video and I'm like, I'm 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:34.080 not doing that. Why would he ask me? And he 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:37.080 was like you should do that. That sounds amazing. I 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.000 was like actually really surprised that he encouraged me to 0:17:40.040 --> 0:17:42.399 do that, and thinking back, I'm like, maybe he was 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:43.840 just trying to get me out of town so he 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:46.560 could like No, he was not ribbing. He wanted you 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:49.040 to fulfill your dreams as a video hole. That is 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.720 what he wanted. Yeah, fine, all right, I'll take that. 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.159 But but but I was just so surprised that he 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:57.119 was like excited about that opportunity for me and encouraged 0:17:57.160 --> 0:17:58.920 me to come. So I went. I flew all the 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:01.840 way from Maryland to lt They paid for my flight, 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.119 they paid for my hotel okay, budget, they paid me 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:09.320 seven hundred dollars budget, okay, And it was like such 0:18:09.359 --> 0:18:14.040 a cool experience. It was on the Universal Studio lot 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:19.040 where they filmed Desperate Housewives and I love desperseive Like 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:23.320 I don't know if a justper Housewives are before this 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:26.160 video or after, but like I recognized, like, oh, this 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:28.840 is a Desperate Housewives step. Super cool. And it was 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:32.639 all these celebrities there, Shack Ice Cube, Ben Stiller, like 0:18:32.680 --> 0:18:34.800 it was a big deal because it was like bad 0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:37.639 boyfriend life, He's coming back to the neighborhood. And I 0:18:37.640 --> 0:18:40.399 mean it was a long day. You know, sun up 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:42.560 to sundown. It was all these different scenes. I was 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:44.640 literally in like four different scenes. But when you watch 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:49.120 the video, you see me for like point to five seconds. 0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:52.600 But doesn't matter, Robin, you made it. It doesn't You 0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:54.560 can see me, you can pause and I can pause 0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:57.159 it and I say, there, I am in one of 0:18:57.160 --> 0:19:00.879 the funny parts. So we were, um, like, I was 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:04.199 in a jacuzi with like three other girls on the 0:19:04.240 --> 0:19:06.119 front yard and it's like a party outside in the 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:08.760 front yard. And then so standing outside of the jacuzi, 0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:12.160 it was in above ground jakuzi. Um did they still 0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:14.280 have what what does it means? Like a big tub? 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:17.840 You mean like a big Yeah, literally, that's what it 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:20.200 seemed like. It sucking above but think of a jacuzi. 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:24.359 But it's above sounds a little unsanitary, it's a little weird. 0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:27.320 They backed up. So then there at least like these 0:19:27.400 --> 0:19:30.200 rapper guys like I don't remember their names, but it 0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:32.359 was like all these bad boy artists and stuff. So 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:35.760 they're like standing around the jacuzi and I just remember 0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:38.479 the guy like, okay, when they started the camera, he 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:40.000 had he had a glass of like wine. He had 0:19:40.040 --> 0:19:42.480 a wine glass or something He's like, I'm I'm gonna 0:19:42.520 --> 0:19:48.239 put the water all over your chest? Did he? I 0:19:48.320 --> 0:19:50.359 was like, nah, you could do that to her, like 0:19:50.920 --> 0:19:54.600 sad not me, not me. And it's so funny because 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:57.480 I'm literally like, you know, my my, I'm like, oh my, 0:19:57.680 --> 0:19:59.120 same thing I say all the time. Oh my god, 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:02.680 my parents gonna watch this video and he won't see me, like, 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:05.480 you know, put put pushing my boobs outlet the man 0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:07.840 poured the water all on my chest. I was like, 0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:10.000 even do it to them? And so those other girls, 0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:12.280 they was just moving a little booby. And that's why 0:20:12.320 --> 0:20:14.879 they were in the video longer than you because you 0:20:14.960 --> 0:20:18.919 were in zero point too, and they was like in 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:20.959 it for like three minutes. They were like I'm going 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:23.439 to do whatever it takes, and I was like, hell no, 0:20:23.600 --> 0:20:27.440 you better not likely touch with me. I mean, it 0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:28.800 was really cool. I have a lot of pictures. I'm 0:20:28.800 --> 0:20:31.480 gonna probably share them on my page and just show 0:20:31.560 --> 0:20:33.200 all the little pictures. But it was it was just 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:37.200 it was such a cool and fun experience. Um and 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:39.280 that video was like bomb Like when you watch it, 0:20:39.359 --> 0:20:42.199 it's so entertaining. Now I remember that video. I definitely 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:46.800 because you're right, it was like his comeback and he 0:20:46.960 --> 0:20:49.080 was in like a neighborhood. He was the neighborhood. He 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:50.760 was like coming back to the neighborhood, pulled up in 0:20:50.840 --> 0:20:53.560 the big we're in the big bus and all these 0:20:53.640 --> 0:20:55.240 I was on that bus, but they didn't show me, 0:20:55.760 --> 0:20:58.680 and they show everyone getting off the bus, and you know, 0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:01.560 come to the neighborhood and think, I think Puffy should 0:21:02.119 --> 0:21:04.560