1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to 3 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am your girl, Giselle Bryant. 4 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. We are 5 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: back again, and thank you for being here with us. Yes, yes, yes, 6 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: y'all never fail us. Y'all are here with us every week, 7 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: week after week, and we definitely appreciate it. There's like 8 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: more and more of you coming. I'm hearing from people 9 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: are saying like they've been beinging, you know, like they 10 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: just gout on the Reasonably Shady train and even bening 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: and they're loving it, and we want more and we 12 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 1: love you guys, so thank you so much. We appreciate you. Yes, yes, yes, 13 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: and I mean I'm gonna tell you just this is 14 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: not easy work. So we hope you like it. Okay, 15 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: because we over here working hard. This is over here sweat. Yes, yeah, 16 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: I had to get out of bed and I had 17 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: to drive to Robin's house. Okay, we are at been 18 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: Dixon's new palatial estate. Yes, I mean, oh that I 19 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: mean it's very nice. Yes, yes, I like it. It's 20 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 1: nice and comfortable and I have a whole lot of 21 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: decorating and furnishing to do. So if anybody wants to 22 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: send me something, yes, yes, send Robin something because she 23 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: needs a whole lot of furniture, and furniture is expensive, 24 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, expensive, and then the lead time on 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: it is crazy, and then the delivery is crazy and 26 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: fraid and it's insane. Listen, it's so insane. But I 27 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: mean it's the cost of life. Yes, okay, So, at 28 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: per usual, we're gonna give our reasonably shady moment of 29 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: the week. Did you have one? Oh? Shoot, okay, so 30 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: why do you think about it? I actually have too. 31 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: So you know, the kids started school and every time 32 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: this happens to me every year because I always forget. 33 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: It's kind of like when you have a baby and 34 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 1: it's horrible, but then you forget, so you get pregnant again. Okay. 35 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: It's called the car line at school. Oh my gosh, 36 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: is the shadiest, most horrible thing that mothers and whoever 37 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: pick up these kids have to go through. You probably 38 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: try to be the first one, don't you. I don't 39 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: actually try to time it so that it's done. And 40 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: I catched the tail end of it. Okay. So for 41 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: those of you who don't have kids or don't understand 42 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: the car line, it is, you're sitting there in your 43 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: car waiting for your kids to come out, and the 44 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: line is the longest thing you've ever seen. And it's 45 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: not like your kid can come to your like can 46 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: bust out to school and just come to your car. 47 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: You gotta wait to you like inch up and you're 48 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: at the front, up all right, and you're at the front, 49 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: and then finally they can come if they do come 50 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: to your car. Because my kids in high school now 51 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: to get yelled at my teachers because it's a hazard. Yeah. 52 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: I hate the car line and cannot wait for it 53 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: to be out of my life. The car line is horrible. 54 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: Um gosh, and you just now, I um, you triggered 55 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: my my shady moment um. It actually goes back a 56 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: couple of weeks. So I moved and I posted that 57 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: I moved, and the next somebody called my children's school 58 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: the front office and told them, hey, I think they 59 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: moved and you need to find out where they moved to. 60 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: So who was that person? Who is that somebody that 61 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: they're a hater? Like? Really business? Yes? Mine your business. 62 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: So the person in the front office or whoever, they 63 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: instead of just calling me because you know they you know, 64 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: they can just look up my kids records and say, oh, 65 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: let me call the parents. They called my former real 66 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: estate agent that helped me get you know, the houses 67 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: where we live and asked him do you know if 68 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: Robin and Wan Dixon still live in their house? And 69 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: so he emailed me the email or she she emailed 70 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: and called him. So he forwarded me the email. This 71 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: is horrible and he didn't know because I was I 72 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: didn't I wasn't using him. I used a different real 73 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: estate and he didn't know what was going on. So 74 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: I called and I said, this is where I and Dixon. 75 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: The woman that you were snooping around trying to find 76 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: out information on um if you need to know something 77 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: about me in my life called me please Yes, lady. 78 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: Isn't that crazy? I was like so angry, Like why 79 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: do you need to snoop around? Is it almost like 80 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: you were trying to catch me in a lie? Right, 81 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: Like why not just call me and say, hey, we 82 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: got this to have been in information just trying to 83 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: check and see you know, I wouldn't even think to 84 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: go around you and call a real estate agent adult 85 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: if you move, Like, why don't you just call you? 86 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: Like you literally had to maybe like well, you know 87 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 1: how when um, well, your kids are in private school. 88 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: So when you're in public school, like you have to 89 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: send them, you know, your least agreement or your more 90 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: your deed or something. So he must have been on 91 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: the least agreement. So they had to pull that document 92 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: up right, So when they were doing just like looking 93 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: at you know, here's the foul okay, parent name, parent number, 94 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: parent email. I was, I was, I was through. I 95 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: was so angry. What what county is this? Howard County? 96 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 1: They don't play up out their schools because they have 97 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: a really good school system. Today. Wanted to make sure 98 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: and my key was in the right school and they weren't. 99 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: I understand, but y'all are wrong for snooping around. Just 100 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: call the parents. Just call the parents. And it's not 101 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: like Robin can like fake where she lives. We're on TV, 102 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: like it's actually it is what it is, like come 103 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: on now and and trust me, my kids wouldn't meet 104 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: you fake where I lived. Secretly, Robin was trying to lie, 105 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: but I was like I can't know. I was like, guys, 106 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: I can't lie, Like, there's no way I can get 107 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: away with that because I am on TV. So whatever. 108 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 1: So anyway, they hate their new school. Oh well, Corey 109 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: hates it, Okay, Carter's adjusting. Carter's all right, Corey's like, 110 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 1: you know, he misses his friends. Yes, he's in because 111 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: he's yes, So he misses his friends and he just 112 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: he hates it. But you know, hey, it's either going 113 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: to be a really long school year or he'll find 114 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: some friends and he'll like it. Yeah, I'm figuring he'll 115 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 1: figure kids. The kids are resilient and they typically figure 116 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: it out. They are. But I understand hating to school. 117 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: I've been there before. All right. So we have so 118 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: many hot topics to talk about. Okay, so there's this 119 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: one particular thing that I didn't want to talk about, 120 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: but I do. I feel like, you know, we do 121 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: have to talk about it because it's about people that 122 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: I love, called the Carters, Jay Z and Beyonce. We 123 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 1: love them, best friends. There are friends. I know. I'm 124 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: so mad at them because I didn't get the invite 125 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: for the trip for the forties birthday party. Yeah, like 126 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 1: on the boat and we're still looking at pictures. I 127 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: don't confus, very confused. But she's my Virgal sister. I 128 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: don't understand anyway. Oh, by the way, is still Virgal Nations? 129 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: Still still Virgal season out here? Okay? Okay, So they 130 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: did that collaboration with Tiffany's right, and I wasn't we 131 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 1: weren't going to discuss it because it's kind of like 132 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: it caused like a fury of controversy and discussion. And 133 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 1: you know, Beyonce has she hasn't come out and said anything, 134 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: but it's we parted that she is feeling differently about 135 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: doing it than than she was before they did it. Um, 136 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: so here's my take, right, Okay, So she got to 137 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: wear the diamond that has not been worn by a 138 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: a black woman and be it's the diamond has been 139 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: around for like over a hundred years. Okay, So something's 140 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: been around for over a hundred years and ain't no 141 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: black person been able to get their hands on it. 142 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm of the place and of the thought process. F you. 143 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to participate. I don't want 144 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: to be invited to the barbecue. I don't want to 145 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: touch the diamond. Y'all can have it. And if you're 146 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: Beyonce and you're the baddest bitch walking, why do you 147 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: need that? You know what I mean? Well, I don't 148 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: know that it's about the diamond. I think it might 149 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: be about the big fat check that was probably written 150 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: to that. Okay, but if you're if y'all, if you 151 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: and your husband are both billionaires, you don't need that check. Yeah, 152 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: they want to stay billy in there, I think, I 153 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: think honestly, like I know, we say, they're like, oh, well, 154 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: you're a billionaire, what do you need more money for? 155 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: Because rich people their ego is like it's it's fueled 156 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: by money, right, And you know, they want to be 157 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: the riches. They want to be on that list. They 158 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: want to keep they don't they can't. They can't be 159 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: knocked off the list. They all the list. Sorry, they 160 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: Tiffany wrote them a big fast we know that and 161 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: they said chitching cash it. So do you think that 162 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 1: if they knew about the backstory of these diamonds prior 163 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: to they wouldn't have done it? Possibly? Okay, all right, possibly, okay, 164 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: I agree with that. Possibly I agree with that because 165 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: I feel like they're very conscious and particular about the 166 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: moves they make. Well, look, Tiffany don't care if anyone's 167 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: upset because those commercials run all the time. Yes they do. 168 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: And let me just say this, I okay, a little 169 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: part of me felt like they don't need Tiffany's Tiffany 170 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: needs them. So they could have bowed out, they could 171 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: have walked away. I'm telling you that check, that check, 172 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: that check was bad because um, flat tummy time t 173 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: whatever they keep trying to they keep harassing me, and 174 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I don't need them. Check is not 175 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 1: that good. If the check was good, then you would 176 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: do it. Listen, flat tummy t stop stop email like 177 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: that or whatever the hell? Y'all off anyway? Like like 178 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 1: can you post posts for two dollars? Like something's crazy? 179 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm exaggerating, but I'm like kick rocks, rocks, 180 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: kick rocks. All right. I just want to give you 181 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: all an example. Now. Listen, Um, we are done obviously 182 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: with the Olympics. But the aftermath of it all is, 183 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: you know, someone Biles and those other ladies went to court. Now, 184 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: they didn't go to court. I don't really understand what 185 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: they did. They went Congress, They went to Congress, and 186 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: they were complaining, not complaining, but they gave a deposition 187 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: on what happened to them as it really asist man 188 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: that got a hundred and fifty years for molesting them 189 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: and their beef. Their issue is when we went to 190 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: the FBI, y'all didn't game. That's crazy, that is insane. 191 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: That is insane. The FBI did not feel like what 192 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: they were saying was important enough to investigate or Okay, 193 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: they did their little bit of investigation and whatever response 194 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: they got the FB. I was like, okay, I think 195 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 1: the FBI did not want to interfere because then would 196 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: we have an Olympic gymnast team. No, we would not. 197 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: Like they probably would have had to suspend the ladies 198 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: or doing I don't know. They just didn't They didn't 199 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: do their job. No, that's horrible. That's horrible, and that 200 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: they're here to do stuff like that. If there's a job, right, 201 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: if there's anyone that's going to find out the root 202 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,319 Speaker 1: of the problem or what's going on, it's the FBI. 203 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 1: Like that, that's insane. But I think it's just it 204 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: shows you a lot. There's probably a lot of stuff 205 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: that goes on that the FBI is aware of and 206 00:10:56,400 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: they choose not to investigate, which is scar Yeah, it's very, 207 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: very scary, and it makes you feel it makes you 208 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 1: feel I'm sure that you're just totally helpless, that who's 209 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: going to listen to you, who's going to have your back? Um? 210 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: And these were like fourteen fifteen year old girls. It's horrible, 211 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: that's horrible. I felt so bad, like it was like 212 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: you can and then it almost I felt like watching 213 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: someone bios talk. I almost felt like, Okay, I even 214 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: understand her more now with the Olympics and her you know, 215 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: not wanting to compete, like she probably just has so 216 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: many emotions and anxiety and just she's just been so scarred. 217 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: And it's like, shame on you for allowing these adults 218 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: to scar these children, because you're scarring them for life. Yeah, no, 219 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: no question about it, Absolutely no question. I really feel 220 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: bad with those girls. And guess what they have. They 221 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: have displayed so much courage, way more than balancing on 222 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: the balance being like this, I'm very happy that they 223 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: stepped forward because they're helping the girls coming behind them exactly, 224 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: They're helping the girls coming behind them, and then they're 225 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: just helping other, you know, girls or people with similar 226 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: types of experiences, whether it's in you know, other sports 227 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: or other industries, to you know, to pay more attention 228 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: to stuff and to say, Okay, this actually is really real. 229 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: I guess they probably felt like, oh, you know, if 230 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: they're if they're going to say, oh, the doctor is 231 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: touching me inappropriately in the fos where we're like, oh, 232 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: but the doctor's just doing his job, you know what 233 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: I mean. Like but no, it's like, no, you need 234 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: to look farther into this, yes, not stuff. So I 235 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,839 Speaker 1: was I got my um right after I got married. 236 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: I my gallbladder damn near exploded, right, so I had 237 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: to go to the doctor. Was that like most excruciating 238 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 1: pain ever? I hear that, It's like really really really painful. 239 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 1: It's hard, like it was. Pain was so bad I 240 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: passed out. Wow, woke up in the hospital. So I 241 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: got you know, it's kind of like an emergency surgery. 242 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: I got my gallbladder removed. And I remember the hospital 243 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: that I was in, actually in Baltimore, is a teaching hospital, 244 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: so they have the doctors come in and they have 245 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: like the new residents with the doctor to like check 246 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: out the patients. So you know, I was. I had 247 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: just got my hair was all done in a in 248 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: an orange yellow color, and I was looking cute. I 249 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: had a hand and everything, your hair is yellow. I 250 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: don't know that. I don't know this is Look, there's 251 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: a point of this story where they are okay. So 252 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: in the middle, so I was recuperating. I'm half on drugs. 253 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: I remember I told them all to go home, right 254 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: because he had been staying in the hospital with me, 255 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: and one of the interns residents came back into the 256 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: room and he was like, I need to check your 257 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 1: your scars or whatever, and he was kind of filling 258 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: me up, like my boobs, and I was like, the 259 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: way he was touching me, I remember, it wasn't I 260 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: didn't feel right about it, and I was pissed. So um, 261 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: the next day I asked to see the head doctor 262 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: and I told on that guy and um, I never 263 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: saw him again, and I was like, I do not 264 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: want that guy in my room anymore. But I was 265 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: like livid, My gosh, and imagine if he's a doctor today. Yes, 266 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 1: Like there's always creepy people out there. If you're ever, 267 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: if somebody's ever in the hospital or just in an 268 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: In a situation in which you can be compromised, you 269 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: need to have somebody with you. Yeah. Wow, that's horrible, scary. 270 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: That's that's why I honestly don't have male doctors like 271 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: that are like like my my, my, my O B 272 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: G y N is a female. Yes, my um primary 273 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: care doctor is a female. Like you know, no offense 274 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: to male doctors. But but now, I mean it is 275 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: what it is, y'all suck anyway, moving on, Okay, So 276 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm so excited because it's almost the holidays and Broadway 277 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: is bad, so like just f y, I always take 278 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: my kids around the holidays to see some play on Broadway, 279 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: musical something that's like our thing. It's our tradition, and 280 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: we didn't get to do it in because of the pandemic. 281 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 1: But now Broadways back and they've like opened up in 282 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: like full throttle, like they had what the Lion King 283 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: I think um on Hamilton's. So I'm so super excited. 284 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: That is so exciting. And I must say that I 285 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: have never been to a play on Broadway. Robin No, No, 286 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: I think I did go to one, damn it, and 287 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: I can't remember what it was. What do you mean 288 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: it was a long time ago. Okay, so Robin, you 289 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: didn't it might have been lion King. Oh my god, 290 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: the word memory is so bad. Okay, so you didn't 291 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: go to a play on Broadway, but you were a 292 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: video home. Sure, I was, And I know that you 293 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: always like to tell people that you were a video home. 294 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm proud. I'm proud of my one shining moment. 295 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: Would you like to tell the world about it? Yeah? 296 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: So so actually those are some of the questions that 297 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: I got. Was like, you know, tell us about your 298 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: story about being a video home because we shared um 299 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: on a recent episode of the House as of Potomac 300 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: that you know, well, we were auditioning for Candice's video 301 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm not a new it is, I'm 302 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: true to this, I've been here video ho So anyway, um, 303 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: that opportunity came about because then we kind of follow me, 304 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: my brothers, sons, baby Mama's boyfriend. I'm lost exactly. Cousin 305 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: was successful music video director Chris Robinson. He has he 306 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: directed tons and tons of tons of great music videos. 307 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: Yes we know Chris Robinson. Yes, Chris, so we I 308 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: was at a birthday party for my nephew and he 309 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: was there and later that week, like they called, my 310 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: brother's son's mother called and was like, hey, Chris, Chris 311 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: is directing the video in l A Puffy Do you 312 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: want to do? You want to go? And Chris, he 313 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: wants to know if you want to be in it? 314 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: And I was like, in a video for shot, Puffy 315 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: says bad boy days. Yes, this is when he remember 316 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: he went to jail for the gun chars Yes, Puff. 317 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: This was his first song and video after he got 318 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: out of jail. This is a big deal. This is 319 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 1: a comeback, huge, huge, And I was like so confused. 320 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: I was like me, why, huh what? No? Like oh, 321 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: like you you got the wrong person right because you 322 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: you didn't You hadn't perfected your work game at that point. No, 323 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: I mean they weren't working back then. It was more 324 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: you know, I don't. I don't know. That just wasn't 325 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: on my radar. So I told one. I was like, 326 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: this is so crazy. But someone, you know, Chris Robinson 327 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 1: asked me being a Puffy video and I'm like, I'm 328 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: not doing that. Why would he ask me? And he 329 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 1: was like you should do that. That sounds amazing. I 330 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: was like actually really surprised that he encouraged me to 331 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 1: do that, and thinking back, I'm like, maybe he was 332 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: just trying to get me out of town so he 333 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: could like No, he was not ribbing. He wanted you 334 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: to fulfill your dreams as a video hole. That is 335 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: what he wanted. Yeah, fine, all right, I'll take that. 336 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 1: But but but I was just so surprised that he 337 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 1: was like excited about that opportunity for me and encouraged 338 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: me to come. So I went. I flew all the 339 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: way from Maryland to lt They paid for my flight, 340 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,119 Speaker 1: they paid for my hotel okay, budget, they paid me 341 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: seven hundred dollars budget, okay, And it was like such 342 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: a cool experience. It was on the Universal Studio lot 343 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: where they filmed Desperate Housewives and I love desperseive Like 344 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if a justper Housewives are before this 345 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 1: video or after, but like I recognized, like, oh, this 346 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: is a Desperate Housewives step. Super cool. And it was 347 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 1: all these celebrities there, Shack Ice Cube, Ben Stiller, like 348 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: it was a big deal because it was like bad 349 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: boyfriend life, He's coming back to the neighborhood. And I 350 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 1: mean it was a long day. You know, sun up 351 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: to sundown. It was all these different scenes. I was 352 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: literally in like four different scenes. But when you watch 353 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 1: the video, you see me for like point to five seconds. 354 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: But doesn't matter, Robin, you made it. It doesn't You 355 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: can see me, you can pause and I can pause 356 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: it and I say, there, I am in one of 357 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: the funny parts. So we were, um, like, I was 358 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 1: in a jacuzi with like three other girls on the 359 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: front yard and it's like a party outside in the 360 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: front yard. And then so standing outside of the jacuzi, 361 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 1: it was in above ground jakuzi. Um did they still 362 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 1: have what what does it means? Like a big tub? 363 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 1: You mean like a big Yeah, literally, that's what it 364 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: seemed like. It sucking above but think of a jacuzi. 365 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 1: But it's above sounds a little unsanitary, it's a little weird. 366 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: They backed up. So then there at least like these 367 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: rapper guys like I don't remember their names, but it 368 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 1: was like all these bad boy artists and stuff. So 369 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: they're like standing around the jacuzi and I just remember 370 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,479 Speaker 1: the guy like, okay, when they started the camera, he 371 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: had he had a glass of like wine. He had 372 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: a wine glass or something He's like, I'm I'm gonna 373 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:48,239 Speaker 1: put the water all over your chest? Did he? I 374 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: was like, nah, you could do that to her, like 375 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: sad not me, not me. And it's so funny because 376 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: I'm literally like, you know, my my, I'm like, oh my, 377 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 1: same thing I say all the time. Oh my god, 378 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 1: my parents gonna watch this video and he won't see me, like, 379 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 1: you know, put put pushing my boobs outlet the man 380 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 1: poured the water all on my chest. I was like, 381 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 1: even do it to them? And so those other girls, 382 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: they was just moving a little booby. And that's why 383 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 1: they were in the video longer than you because you 384 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 1: were in zero point too, and they was like in 385 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,959 Speaker 1: it for like three minutes. They were like I'm going 386 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 1: to do whatever it takes, and I was like, hell no, 387 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 1: you better not likely touch with me. I mean, it 388 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: was really cool. I have a lot of pictures. I'm 389 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: gonna probably share them on my page and just show 390 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 1: all the little pictures. But it was it was just 391 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: it was such a cool and fun experience. Um and 392 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 1: that video was like bomb Like when you watch it, 393 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,199 Speaker 1: it's so entertaining. Now I remember that video. I definitely 394 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: because you're right, it was like his comeback and he 395 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: was in like a neighborhood. He was the neighborhood. He 396 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: was like coming back to the neighborhood, pulled up in 397 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: the big we're in the big bus and all these 398 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: I was on that bus, but they didn't show me, 399 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: and they show everyone getting off the bus, and you know, 400 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: come to the neighborhood and think, I think Puffy should 401 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 1: do a Robin do over because you did not get 402 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: your adequate tive me more time. Yes, So next time 403 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: you you have a shop Puffy combs, next time you 404 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: have a little video, make sure Robin gets her due. 405 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: But he's probably gonna be like, Okay, well let you 406 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: gotta let somebody pour something on you. And you can't 407 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: at this point you can't. I don't care, Okay, all right, 408 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 1: it's a couple more things that I wanted to discuss 409 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 1: because this this is intrigued to me. Okay. So l 410 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: Chopo one of his homes went up in Mexico went 411 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: up for auction. It was a lottery on his home. 412 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: The home on the cost a hundred dollars, okay, and 413 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: no one bought it, okay, And I that struck me 414 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: as very strange because I'm convinced there's some money hidden 415 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,360 Speaker 1: in the walls. This is my thought. Okay, so under 416 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 1: the in this particular home, if you remove the tub, 417 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: that was the whole for the underground way to escape. 418 00:21:56,560 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: So supposedly they've cemented that over and you know that's gone. 419 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: But I'm sure there is some cash. You don't think 420 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: they've looked everywhere all throughout this house. Well, I mean 421 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: you have to pull up the floor board. They probably 422 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 1: did that. Oh you think I would imagine like they're 423 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: dealing with El Chappo, Like you're not just gonna be like, oh, 424 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: this chop up for sale. No, You're gonna be like, 425 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: let me pull up every like it's probably literally just 426 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: like four walls. True, it can't be like how a 427 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: livable house. I don't know. I was just feeling like 428 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:31,679 Speaker 1: I want to go in there and like pull up 429 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: the toilets and everything. Imagine this was not his like 430 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: house of houses, Yes, this is one of his stash 431 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: It was actually yeah, there we go. So if you 432 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: are in the stash house, that's got to be cash 433 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 1: in the stash house. If they found that cash, that 434 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: cash is gone. I would be diging the backyard or 435 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: his people that like that that stuff is gone. It's gone, 436 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 1: It's gone. They probably looked at every inch of that property. 437 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: I was gonna tell my Mexican connect to go ahead 438 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 1: buy it, and it was gonna coming and I'm sure 439 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: it is. Did they Was there anything else for sale? 440 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: I thought that's the best they could do. Well. What 441 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 1: was interesting about it was that nobody wanted to touch 442 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 1: it right foot pole. Everybody was like, no need right, So, 443 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just saying, I'm just saying, I'm 444 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to be checking out. What else did they 445 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: auction off? That was l Chapo? Do you think El 446 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 1: Chappo is going to escape again? Yes? Do you think so? Hell? Yeah? 447 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 1: That was so amazing. Yes, So they haven't right where 448 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: they have them. He it's he's in a facility. But 449 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,959 Speaker 1: it's extremely luxurious, right, I mean luxurious? Is it? From 450 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,920 Speaker 1: what I understand, He's like running the whole thing, and 451 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 1: he you know, he has people coming in and people 452 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: leaving out, and he's he's got his hose on on rotation. 453 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, I need, I need, I need to 454 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: research L Chapo. I'm like always highly entertained by like 455 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: the drug lord cartel, Yes, the cartels. All that that 456 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 1: stuff is so entertaining. All right, so listen, we have 457 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: put it out there on our social media to ask 458 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 1: us anything. I mean, you guys a lot of times 459 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: individually on our d m s. You guys have all 460 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: kinds of crazy questions. So we just decided we're gonna 461 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 1: deal with them. Okay, um that are not related to 462 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: the show that we do call The Real Housewives of Potomac. 463 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: So y'all really asked a hundred million questions. Okay, and 464 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: y'all a nosy. This is the title of this episode, 465 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 1: y'all a nosey, and we love it. I have like 466 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: a whole book. So of course we cannot get through 467 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: all the questions in this one episode. But what we're 468 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: gonna do is kind of like every now and again, 469 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna try to make this like an ongoing segment 470 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 1: and we'll answer questions, especially because y'all really want to 471 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: get to know us better. And we're just happy y'all 472 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: want to get to know us. I know, and I 473 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 1: love that we have the platform to do. So, yes, yes, immediately, Okay, 474 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: So Robin, you want to start sure, okay, and I 475 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: print romine reading all of this print. Okay, Um, have 476 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 1: you ever passed for another ethnicity or for white in 477 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: order to fit in or for safety or opportunity? Be honest? 478 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: So that's from Craig that that actually has never even 479 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: across my mind. Um, However, I was on a cruise 480 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: one time with my girlfriends. It was three of us 481 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 1: on a cruise and we're all light skinned, and we 482 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 1: met this white guy and played golf like we were 483 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: hanging out. You know how you when you're on a cruise, 484 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,439 Speaker 1: they like sit you at a table with strangers. Are 485 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: so he's at our table, our dinner table. So met 486 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,360 Speaker 1: this white guy. We were hanging out. We we spent 487 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: a lot of time, you know, at the casino and 488 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 1: whatever with this guy. And he said something about something 489 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: something nigger, I mean nigger, and we said the N words, yes, 490 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: and we me and my friends looked at each other 491 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: like what the funk? Like he doesn't know that we're black, 492 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like the way he said it, 493 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: it was like obvious that he didn't know we were 494 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: black women. And it was like, I mean, after that, 495 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: we just like we were out, like we we couldn't 496 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: even like confront the situation, we just said no more 497 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: of him. So no, I have never tried to pass 498 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: for white, but clearly I have passed, right, I'll be 499 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: known to you, passed for y. And actually that brings 500 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 1: me too much to something that somebody asked me, Um, 501 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: bring a B B. Why asked me? And my creole 502 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 1: which is a Louisiana thing. Typically, Yes, I am creole. 503 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,919 Speaker 1: If you watched season four of the Real Housewats of Potomac, 504 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: we went to New Orleans, we did my whole backstory. Um, 505 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: we rode a boat that was the Creole queen. Yes, 506 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: my whole family is creole. But to answer your question, 507 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 1: do we pass? I would never ever do that. But 508 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: my I have a cousin on my dad's side, and 509 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: my dad doesn't speak to him. And it turns out 510 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 1: that the reason why he doesn't is because this guy 511 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: was trying to pass, was passing for white, lives his 512 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,680 Speaker 1: life as a white man. He black, wow, and he 513 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,440 Speaker 1: lives his wife as a white man. And my dad 514 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: is like hates him, doesn't speak to him, and we 515 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 1: didn't exile him from the goddamn family. So that okay, yes, 516 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:17,119 Speaker 1: all right? Oh, oh your turn, Oh that was your question. Yeah, okay, alright, 517 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 1: Um so this one, I got a question. Yes, why 518 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 1: can't y'all talk about Potomac? I like all the other topics, 519 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: but rhop has a lot going on and people want 520 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 1: to hear what you'll have to say about it. So, um, honestly, 521 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 1: it is in our contract that we're not really allowed 522 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: to talk about Potomac outside of like Bravo sponsored stuff stuff. Um, 523 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: so we have to have permission from Bravo to be 524 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: able to talk about Potomac because I just wanted to 525 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 1: put it out there now. I feel like if it's so, 526 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: I can't really talk about what happened in yesterday's episode 527 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: and go in on that. Now. I think there's other 528 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: people that maybe do, Like I think Candy does that 529 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 1: on her YouTube page, but she must have something in 530 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: her contract that allows her to do that. She probably does, 531 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: but you know, to be honest with you, this has 532 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,719 Speaker 1: been refreshing not to be exact and talk about um 533 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,400 Speaker 1: Potomac and and this podcast is a breath of fresh 534 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 1: air for me personally. I'll just speak for me because 535 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: it's like we when the show was on the air, 536 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: that's all we do. All of our interviews with all 537 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: of these different outlets. It's like the show and what happened, 538 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: and I'm again and and a lot of times it's 539 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 1: just like I don't want to talk about that. Yeah, 540 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: I agree, And that's how I feel. I mean, I 541 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 1: I just think it's awesome that you all get to 542 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: learn more about us and our personality. And because I 543 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: think on the show, like you get you really get 544 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 1: a scale down, filtered version of who we are. And 545 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: we can't talk about the met gala and you know, 546 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: just other random stuff that's going on, and so yeah, 547 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, it's it's it's a slippery slope, 548 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 1: I think when it comes to being able to talk 549 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: about the show, because some people might reveal too much. 550 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: And I think instead of taking the risk of, you know, 551 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: allowing someone to reveal too much, then like we can't 552 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 1: reveal anything at all. Um So Kennedy Lana Laney asked, 553 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: are you and Robin still involved in Greek life or 554 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: go back to your undergrad chapter to visit and participate 555 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: in activities. So I am, yes, an active. I'm a 556 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: member of my sorority, financial, I am a paid member 557 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: of of Alpha Cappa Alpha and Um, I try to 558 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: get back to Hampton and Gamma Theata as often as 559 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 1: I can. It's hard. Howard University played Hampton University and 560 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: I asked for all of my sore wars to meet 561 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 1: me there. So yes, I try to participate as much 562 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: as I can. And I am also financial. I am 563 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 1: a Diamond Life member of Stigment Data Get Straight, so 564 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: so I don't have to pay another national due because um, 565 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 1: we paid Diamond and for anyone who you know doesn't 566 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 1: know what that is, that means we paid well. My 567 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: mother when I crossed to Delta, my mother paid I 568 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: don't know, it's like twenty five hundred dollars or so, 569 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: a large chunk of money for me to be a 570 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: Diamond Life member, which means that I will always be 571 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: financial for the rest of my life in Delta. But 572 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: I am also a chapter member. I belong to the 573 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: Baltomore County Alumni Chapter of Delta Sigma Data. And my 574 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: mother pays those dudes too, Yes, gladys, and I pay 575 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: her back, but like she makes sure that, like I 576 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: stay financial because she knows when stuff is doing and 577 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: she's like, I paid your dude, now you owe me. 578 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: So just to answer. Somebody else also asked, like, what 579 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 1: was my line number? I was forty five. On my 580 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: line it was fifty of us and forty five is 581 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 1: like always a number that I use for stuff. So 582 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: I'm I was number ten and my Instagram pages Robin 583 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: Dixon ten. So if you've ever wonder what the ten is, 584 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 1: I'm number ten. But um also but to say, yes, 585 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: do I go back to Am I still involved in 586 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: the sorority? Yes, I'm very close with my chapter, my 587 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: my collegiate chapter at the University of Maryland cap of five. Um, 588 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: I would like to be more active though, definitely. Okay, 589 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: we'll get we'll get into it, get into it all right, 590 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 1: what you got? Alright? Um? Do you pack your kids 591 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 1: lunches or do they eat school lunches? Okay, what do 592 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: you do? I don't know the answer to this for you. 593 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I packed my kids lunches. Yes, my 594 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: kids are so stuck up. They will not eat school lunch. 595 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 1: Like if I send them to school without a lunch, 596 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 1: they will starve themselves. They refused to eat school lunch. 597 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: And it's so frustrating because I literally have to wake 598 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: up and make these damn ham sandwiches, turkey sandwiches and 599 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: cut up fruit and oh my gosh, And do you 600 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 1: know when we were vegan you mayby we were leaking 601 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: a few years ago and the kids were legan. I 602 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: literally would make them a spinach salad for lunch, spinach 603 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: and not strawberries and cucumbers. And I was doing that 604 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: like every morning. I couldn't believe I was doing that, 605 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: but oh, that's amazing. But yes, I hate packing school lunch. 606 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: And that's one reason I'll probably send my kids to 607 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: private school next year, because because the school lunch, because 608 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: the education. Yes, because my I went to private school 609 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: for high school and that lunch was balm. It was 610 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: like being a sizzler. Like, okay, so I too hate 611 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: packing their lunch, and they hate that I packed the lunch. 612 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 1: It's we agree, Okay, we are on won a core 613 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: in my house. So I give them money for them 614 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 1: to get their lunch at school, and the yeah, you're right, 615 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: it is Sizzler. They got a whole lot to choose from, 616 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: so typically it's like six or seven dollars a day. 617 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: So I tell them I give them some money at 618 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 1: the beginning of the week, and I tell them, look, 619 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: at here. You gotta budget just like ahead of time. 620 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 1: So they used to have like a car, right, but 621 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: they don't have that anymore because they're just now because 622 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: of COVID and I don't know anyway, sometimes in the 623 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: middle of the week, my kids said they ran out 624 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: of money. Right. That doesn't have nothing to do with 625 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 1: me now because because they went back for second because 626 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 1: I told them to budget accordingly. Yeah, now we're working 627 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: on this. We're working on this. Yes, yes, let me 628 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: tell you my school launch in private school what he 629 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: was like, have at it. Yes, I'm definitely going to 630 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 1: send in the private school. I can't take I cannot 631 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: make these launches anymore hilarious. Okay, So Gonzales asked me, 632 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: I think this is a really good question. If you 633 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,719 Speaker 1: or Robin could be CEOs of any company in the world, 634 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: which would it be. Which would you choose? This is 635 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 1: like an existing company. Okay, um, you answer first. Okay, 636 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 1: So I would be the CEO of like a whole food, 637 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: like a grocery chain, so like a whole food, a 638 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: safe Way or whatever, because at the end of the day, 639 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: I want to give of the food to people who 640 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: cannot afford food. So I feel like there isn't enough 641 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: intention about people that I can't tell you how many 642 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: times somebody's been in front of me inline and they 643 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: didn't have enough money to pay for their food. Right. 644 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 1: So if we had a system set up that, like 645 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: the food that was getting ready to go bad, like, 646 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 1: let's give it to people that really need it. As 647 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 1: a CEO, that is what I would do when when 648 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: I get to when I get to heaven, That's one 649 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 1: of my questions to God, Like why do people go hungry? 650 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 1: Go hungry? Yeah? I think especially in the United States, 651 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 1: it's like totally unnecessary. We have enough food for everybody. Yeah, absolutely, 652 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 1: and I and like, so that's why food banks are 653 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: super important. Yeah, because there are so many people that 654 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: it's so crazy. It's like they're not they might not 655 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: be um homeless. What is it under dang? What's the 656 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: term they use at the food It's underserved. It's a 657 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 1: term and it really like because it'll be people, you know, 658 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,879 Speaker 1: working class people and they just can't afford to feed 659 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: their family. The U S Department of Our Culture estimates 660 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: that around eleven to twelve of US households or food insecure. 661 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: These individuals who have difficulty accessing meals, have to cut meals, 662 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: have to share meals, or may miss a day or 663 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,240 Speaker 1: two of a meal in the course of a period 664 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 1: of time because they're not able to afford those meals. 665 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 1: So you know, the kids they have to rely on 666 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 1: school to eat right. Yeah, and that that's so all 667 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 1: of that. I just need for it to be alleviated 668 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: gotten rid of in this country. Yeah, yeah, for sure. 669 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: That bothers me. Gosh, what would my company be? You know, 670 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,959 Speaker 1: I've always, since I was young, had like a love 671 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:42,879 Speaker 1: for like retail. Um, Like I would play like store 672 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 1: my house. I would put a price tag on like 673 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: everything in the house. So it definitely would probably be 674 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 1: something retail centered. Um, I don't I can't really say 675 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 1: like one company. I mean, can I just stay the 676 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 1: CEO of Embellished because you can grow, Yes, you can 677 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 1: add more things, which I'm working on, Yes, Gonzales, that's 678 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 1: the answer. Probably just be living her her life that 679 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 1: she living. I just want to expand Embellished in Yes, 680 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:11,399 Speaker 1: stay tuned. I'm gonna work on like some nice Yeah. 681 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: Speaking of Embellished and Robin taking over the fashion world, 682 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,439 Speaker 1: we are coming out with reasonably shady merch so stay 683 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: tuned for that. Stay tuned. Very soon. We're gonna have 684 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: some some fun hoodies limited supplies, so don't sleep. Trust 685 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 1: me when I tell you it's going to be limited supply. 686 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: You better get you better get on it. Yes, yes, 687 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 1: and speaking embellished one of the questions a lot. I 688 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,080 Speaker 1: got this question a lot. When will embellished be restocked? 689 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 1: In other words, robbing you're not doing your CEO. Can 690 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 1: I tell you how frustrating it is to not have 691 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,279 Speaker 1: I mean, it's a good thing, like okay, that means 692 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: like people are buying it, but to not have anything 693 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,720 Speaker 1: to sell, like my website is dormant and I hate 694 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 1: it because they have so many people who want to buy. 695 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 1: And that's one of the things as a small business owner, UM, 696 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 1: managing inventory that is is very hard. I think that's 697 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: like one of the biggest issues or problems. It's like 698 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: either you don't have enough or you don't want to 699 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 1: have too much, you know, so I don't want to 700 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: have too much. Embellition is just sitting there and I 701 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: can't and it's hard to predict and forecast you know, 702 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:25,400 Speaker 1: how many hats I'm gonna need. Um, So what's the 703 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: answer to the question do we have a we have 704 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 1: a roundabout dates so honestly, so I am expecting a 705 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: shipment next week. Honestly, by the time you hear this, 706 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm probably will probably be restocked, so any day now. 707 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: But when I do restocked, make sure you get it past. Okay, yes, yes, 708 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 1: but I appreciate. But it's it sucks because it's like, 709 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm where the show is on air 710 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: and people are reminded like, oh, let me, I want 711 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 1: to go buy a hat, and they have nothing to buy. 712 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 1: It's so frustrated. Listen, we gotta do bad without inventory. 713 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna have to just quadruple the number 714 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 1: or something. Okay, listen. So Alexandria asked me, this is 715 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 1: for you to Robin. Are those your real eyes? What? Okay, 716 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need for you all to get to know 717 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 1: the green eye Bandit's better, okay, because we were born 718 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: with these eyes. Absolutely. And you know what, It's so funny. 719 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: When I was a little girl, I can remember people 720 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: coming up to me, you know, at adults, Like I 721 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 1: would be in the store with my mom and adults 722 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: will be like, oh my gosh, your eyes are so pretty. 723 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,759 Speaker 1: And I literally honestly had no idea what they were 724 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: talking about. I I did not know that my eyes 725 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 1: were green and that my eyes look different from anyone else's. 726 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:50,280 Speaker 1: So I literally be like, like, are they talking about 727 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,280 Speaker 1: the shape of my eyes? Y'all not have a mirror 728 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 1: in the house. No, we did, But I didn't know 729 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: that I look different. You know, I'm saying like, I 730 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,480 Speaker 1: had no idea that because maybe because like my brother 731 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: has like eyes, my mom has hey, my grandmother has 732 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 1: blue eyes. My cousin has blue eyes. So maybe for me, 733 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 1: it's like, okay, everybody got light eyes, like you know, 734 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 1: so so for me, like light eyes, green eyes was 735 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:14,320 Speaker 1: nothing special. And I never noticed that I was different 736 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 1: because I had green eyes. And it's so and it's 737 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,840 Speaker 1: so funny. One day I was like, I was like, 738 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 1: let me look in the mirror. Figure out what these 739 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 1: people are talking about. This is probably last year, Okay, 740 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 1: Robin's hilarious. So I literally stood in the mirror and 741 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 1: was like and I looked, and I was like, oh, okay, 742 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 1: it's the color of my eye. I can't, y'all, Robin Dixon, 743 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm as okay, I'm so dumb, y'all I'm so dingy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 744 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 1: I'm so so. I'm glad you figured out how old 745 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,920 Speaker 1: were you when you figured it out? Green eyes? I 746 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: said you had green eyes? We I mean, dingy is 747 00:39:55,080 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: just for life. So yes, Um, I don't really know 748 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 1: how old I was. I can't remember. I can't put 749 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: like a number on that, but I just remember being 750 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 1: so confused. I feel like I probably was like a 751 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 1: little girl, like five years old or something, you know 752 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,320 Speaker 1: what I mean, like, and I would just be like, 753 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,319 Speaker 1: thank you, Like what are you talking about? Like no idea? Well, 754 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, because did you know when you were five? 755 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 1: Did you did you know you had green ups? I 756 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,839 Speaker 1: knew that people people cut the same thing. People come 757 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 1: to my mom and they would they asked because I 758 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 1: had like a dark rim around my eyes, especially at 759 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 1: the bottom, and they would ask my mom why did 760 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: she put makeup on me? And she would get mad, 761 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 1: like who are these white ladies talking to me about 762 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,840 Speaker 1: my child and thinking that I put makeup on a 763 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,840 Speaker 1: five year old like I did not, and that's ridiculous 764 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,080 Speaker 1: and why can't my child just be pretty? Right? So 765 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 1: I knew it was something different because it was all 766 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:53,760 Speaker 1: this discussion, but it was like, my sister was always 767 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,359 Speaker 1: like if I have an older sister who is um 768 00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 1: always keeps it real, And she was always like, yeah, 769 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 1: you pretty at you and had nothing to do with that. 770 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 1: That was mommy and daddy and that was their genes, 771 00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:07,279 Speaker 1: and UM had nothing to do with you. So, um, 772 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: you know, you need to be smart and that's what 773 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 1: you can control, but your face and you had nothing 774 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,839 Speaker 1: to do with that. Don't even get too excited. I said, well, God, 775 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:21,640 Speaker 1: damn no, that was Mama and Papa Graves. Ship. Well, 776 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: let me just stay in the bed today. Good God. Anyway, 777 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 1: thank god I have thick skin. All right. So we're 778 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: gonna take one more of what you guys asked before 779 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 1: we wrap up. Okay, so how do your boys handle 780 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: filming now that they have done it for a while 781 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:38,879 Speaker 1: and they are getting older? Good ask a good question. 782 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 1: So I have to pay my children to go to work, Okay, Okay, 783 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: So okay, I'm gonna stop you right there. Okay. So 784 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,360 Speaker 1: Robin and I had this discussion prior to us filming. 785 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,440 Speaker 1: I think see this past season season six, and I 786 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, the girls have given me 787 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: a hard time about filming, and Robin was saying the 788 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,280 Speaker 1: same thing about her kids. So she was like, Giselle, 789 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to pay them and I was like, what, 790 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's a good idea. And in that way, 791 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: they'll feel a sense of ownership they have a job. 792 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm literally like, all y'all, you'll have to work today. 793 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,840 Speaker 1: It's time to go to work. And so now like 794 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,880 Speaker 1: when they aren't going to work, they're like, when do 795 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: I go to work next? Because they want you pay them, 796 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 1: like an hour they rate I pay them, and this 797 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,760 Speaker 1: is the other thing. I pay them according to the scene. 798 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: And how well they did my god, Robert the producer, 799 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: now what I mean by like how well they like 800 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: do they behave or were they like being difficult or 801 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 1: because that's the other thing. They get in front of 802 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,280 Speaker 1: the camera and they act like they have no sense 803 00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 1: and they want to give me the hardest time, and 804 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 1: they like, you know, they just they roll along the floor. 805 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,919 Speaker 1: When I'm trying to have a conversation. I'm like, y'all 806 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: are killing me right now. And I'm like, Okay, I 807 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,880 Speaker 1: don't want to look crazy and where I'm like yelling 808 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,759 Speaker 1: at my kids and stuff. So I'm just gonna let 809 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: y'all just do whatever. But they'll literally be like, you know, 810 00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 1: hiding under a blanket, and I'm like, okay, like y'all 811 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 1: cut it out. So they get paid based on you know, 812 00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,359 Speaker 1: how long of a period of time and how well 813 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 1: they performed. Wow, Wow, that that's okay. So it's this 814 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:14,440 Speaker 1: like ten dollars an hour, twenty dollars an hour. So 815 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,719 Speaker 1: I've paid them anywhere between, like so it's per scene, right, 816 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 1: So I paid them, I want to say, anywhere between 817 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:23,520 Speaker 1: like ten to thirty dollars. It's nice, depending on like 818 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 1: what it was, like, how how much they did or 819 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: like what you know what I mean? Okay, I like that. Yes. 820 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,719 Speaker 1: I actually told my girls, um the same thing. I 821 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,759 Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna give you guys an hourly rate. Right. 822 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 1: So we had our first scene season six and we 823 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:41,320 Speaker 1: were done with it and I was like at the 824 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:42,480 Speaker 1: end of it, I was like, all right, guys, I'm 825 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,719 Speaker 1: gonna give you y'all y'all's earnings and they were like, no, Mom, 826 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 1: it's fine, we just want like they literally would not 827 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 1: take money. They were like, it's fine, you know, we're 828 00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 1: here for you, like they were. They shocked me, and 829 00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 1: I think it's a difference between girls and boys. Like 830 00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: they shocked me. They were just we're just here for you, 831 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,920 Speaker 1: like whatever, it's fine. And I think it's also like 832 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: they're teenagers, so they're probably actually enjoying like the show now, 833 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 1: you know, Like now it's like, okay, we're actually a 834 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:15,720 Speaker 1: little popular. People know who we are. My kids are boys, 835 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: and like their friends, like they get stick with their 836 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: friends because their friends. Mom was watched the show to come, 837 00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 1: you know, come telling them about themselves showed it like, 838 00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 1: oh my god. So that that really shocked me. And 839 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,279 Speaker 1: because they that was so sweet at themselves. And you 840 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 1: never paid them, no, I mean I've given them whatever 841 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 1: they want. Of course they get paid in other ways. Yes, 842 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: all right, So this is my last one. So because 843 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: this is really sweet, So Kelly says to me, I 844 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 1: love your spirit. How do you keep it up when 845 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,960 Speaker 1: things get tough, because you know, things always get tough, 846 00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 1: and my mom always told me that when that, when 847 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: things get tough, make sure you wear your lipstick. They 848 00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 1: keep your lips popping. So I always have lip gloss 849 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,880 Speaker 1: with me. As long as my lips are popping, I 850 00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 1: feel good about myself. Okay, yeah, all right, well, I 851 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: love that. I mean, that's not my solution. I don't. Yes, 852 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,720 Speaker 1: it just makes you know, if your lips are popping 853 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 1: and you feel good and and you know you got 854 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 1: a little yellow shine on the lips, there's no way 855 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 1: you can have a bad day. Right, That's that's very true. 856 00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 1: And to piggyback off of that in closing, um, I 857 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,600 Speaker 1: want to leave you know everyone, I think we wanta 858 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 1: we gotta start giving some motivational Yes, we do kind 859 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,799 Speaker 1: of messages, so we want to motivate people. Yes, yes, yes, 860 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,800 Speaker 1: so I actually shared this on my Instagram story. But 861 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,520 Speaker 1: I want to reiterate two traps you need to avoid 862 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:45,400 Speaker 1: because I'm very good at this. Avoid caring what they 863 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:50,839 Speaker 1: think and avoid thinking that they care. So I feel 864 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 1: like that's the solution to like, okay, when things are 865 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: going wrong or bad women. Gotta read the second one again. 866 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:59,760 Speaker 1: I was confused on the second thinking that they care. Okay, 867 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 1: that so avoid stops like, don't even think that they 868 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 1: care that they care. Okay, I got it right, because 869 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 1: because I find a lot of times when you're like 870 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 1: beefing with someone or like you have a you know, 871 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 1: falling out with someone and you're sitting at home and 872 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,640 Speaker 1: you're like thinking about it all the time, and you're 873 00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 1: mad and angry that person ain't think about you, ain't 874 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,399 Speaker 1: going about you. They're going to live their life they 875 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: you know. So it's like you're sitting here giving them 876 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 1: all of your energy. Yeah, and they over there, you know, 877 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 1: yeah the cheesecake factory eating exactly exactly. So so yeah, 878 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 1: so so let's let's stop caring what people think or 879 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,279 Speaker 1: thinking that anyone cares. And that is like, I feel 880 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,080 Speaker 1: like that's a solution to like when you do have 881 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 1: issues and problems, like just you know, face some head on, 882 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 1: like don't be embarrassed, no, you know, just go through 883 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,320 Speaker 1: your struggles and and do what's best for you and 884 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,920 Speaker 1: don't worry about what anybody thinks. No, because guess what, 885 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 1: it don't matter. It don't matter. That just stinks to 886 00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,400 Speaker 1: That is our show, and always remember to either live 887 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,839 Speaker 1: your life reasonable or shady. Yes, thank you guys. Talks 888 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 1: to you next week by Reasonably Shady is a production 889 00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:15,560 Speaker 1: of the Black Affect podcast Network. For more podcasts from 890 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:19,240 Speaker 1: Our Heart Radio, visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, 891 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,520 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows and you 892 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 1: can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon 893 00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 1: ten Giselle, briant and reasonably shady