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Speaker 1: expressing frustration. How many of you guys have been at

429
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: a job and you're frustrated with a manager or a

430
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: situation and you didn't want to say anything because you

431
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: didn't want to go back to your dad. You might

432
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: be taking care of your dad, you know what I'm saying.

433
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: He might be elderly, and this person at your job

434
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: can treat you a certain way because you're not gonna

435
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: lose that position because you know, you got to take

436
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: care of your dad. So you deal with a lot

437
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: of things. You know, you saw what Adidas is trying

438
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: to do. They showed you the reason why I put

439
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: in the termination notice Adidas originally a couple of months.

440
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: So this is a lot to unpack. I do remember

441
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: him saying that he wanted to terminate the relationship and

442
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: then some kind of way they came out and firing him.

443
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: So that was some confusion there as to where that

444
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: first started or who actually initiated the divorce of the relationship.

445
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: But he spoke to something. He said, though, there's a

446
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: lot of people out there that have a job that

447
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 1: they're dealing with certain circumstances, atmospheres and scenarios that they're

448
00:27:55,680 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with. But because their livelihood lands at the hands

449
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: of some person that's called a supervisor at their job,

450
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 1: they let him talk to him a certain kind of

451
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: way and do certain kind of things. I would always

452
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 1: be amazed that you know, you'll be cuse your boyfriend now,

453
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: but your supervisors won't let you be a minute late.

454
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: And you don't say nothing. But I understand he got

455
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: you up against the ropes because that's funding your kids

456
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 1: eating and things like that, and so he's speaking to that.

457
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: I remember one time where I had a job, and

458
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this to people. This is a funny thing, right.

459
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: I remember I had a little job, and sometimes you

460
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: deal with racist people. And sometimes it ain't racist that say,

461
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: you don't like all black people, but you don't like

462
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: my kind of black See, sometimes it ain't that you

463
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: don't like my race. You don't like my kind as

464
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: a specific kind of black person. You're like a specific

465
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: kind of white boy. You on like specific kind of

466
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: white person, black man, you understand me. So you had

467
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: these specific kind of people that you don't really care

468
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: for and you can do without bumping into them for

469
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. And I happened to be

470
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: one of them, caring for the supervisor, and I felt

471
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: this energy. Literally, he know, I come on the compound,

472
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: the plantation that I call it. I come on the

473
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: job with a house bigger than his and more money

474
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: than him. The problem is I'm I'm on a bullshit

475
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: probation that put me in a situation the way I

476
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: gotta get a job, and now I didn't gotta hen

477
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: figure out, oh man, this is easy money. But it

478
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: was interesting to me because he thought my lifeline depending

479
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: on that job, and like so many other black people

480
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: in that position, you would take him kind of Damn,

481
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: they're pushing up on you. Damn, they're treating you bad.

482
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: You know you Damn they're picking on me old school

483
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: because in a weird way, you know, I was straighten

484
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: him and he got me fired. But in a weird way,

485
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,959
Speaker 1: I started to feel like I see him doing that

486
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: to just the certain kind of black people black certain people,

487
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: and it was almost like, I think you get off

488
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: by this. You did you feel a way by doing

489
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: this to people up here, like to making people spooked

490
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: and make them Man, I don't can't lose my job.

491
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: I gotta do what he's say. But a lot of

492
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: them type motherfuckers be powerless in real life. You know,

493
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,479
Speaker 1: anytime I see a girl on the phone and they

494
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: like to show out around her friends and you know,

495
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: do all these kind of things. I say, Oh man,

496
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: that's that let me know that you're really powerless, and

497
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: this is your way of trying to snatch your power.

498
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: You know, some people only get that kind of verification

499
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: at the job and ship where they are supervised or

500
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: or where somebody may need them for some money or

501
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: need some help on something. So now they're talking extra

502
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: loud to you, and they being hard and nasty to

503
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 1: you because they helped you out. You know them them

504
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: kind of people there. You got to be careful of

505
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: them people then forced the dangerous individuals. You understand me.

506
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: They is a different kind of species. Yeah, I mean,

507
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: but he's speaking right here about a lot of black people,

508
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: and not even black people, about a lot of people

509
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: that's in a situation at a job where you just

510
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: can't even speak your mind about what's happening in in field,

511
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: losing that position. Fact, as they were trying to steal

512
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: my company from me and steal my designs, they hired

513
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: my lawyer. They paid the lawyer equon row. They paid

514
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: this lawyer to sign off my IP North Saint Chicago

515
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: PSALMS IP to Adidas. This is a major company doing this,

516
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: a major person in front of everyone. So what happens

517
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: behind closed doors. Damn, he just said they stole his

518
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: p hold up running to sign off my IP. It's

519
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: originally thanks. You know, you saw what Adidas is trying

520
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: to do. They showed you. The reason why I put

521
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: in the termination notice Adidas originally a couple of months back,

522
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: is they were trying to steal my company from me

523
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: and steal my designs. They hired my lawyer, They paid

524
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: the lawyer equon row. They paid this lawyer to sign

525
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: off my IP North Saint Chicago psalms IP to Adidas.

526
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 1: This is a major company doing this to a major

527
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: person in front of everyone. So what happens behind closed doors?

528
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: If that can happen to Yay, what can happen to you,

529
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: to your grandparents, to your parents, to your children, to

530
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: your cousin and heieceas your nephews. This is the reason

531
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: why Jesus has to sit after throning it and this

532
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: Christian company, this Christian country that's a forty in slip

533
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: because we are the youngest startup in history. What can happen?

534
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: Run their back one more time? I put in the

535
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 1: termination notice Adida's originally a couple of months back, is

536
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: they were trying to steal my company from me and

537
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: steal my designs. They hired my lawyer. They paid the

538
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: lawyer equon row. They paid this lawyer to sign off

539
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: my IP North Saint Chicago PSALMS IP to Adidas. This

540
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: is a major company doing this to a major person

541
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: in front of everyone. So what happens behind closed doors?

542
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: If that can happen. I need y'all to be clear

543
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: what he's saying. If I'm taking Kanye Wai, what he

544
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: just said right there, Basically, he just lost all his

545
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: designs from this point prior. He owns none of that.

546
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: And if that's the case, I'm sure he gets a

547
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,959
Speaker 1: royalty at some point. But if that's the case, now

548
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: I want people to have the conversation, what is this

549
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: standing in regards to the move that he pulled? Me

550
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: and nineteen Keys had a long conversation about it. I'm

551
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: about to drop that too, because of the culture needs

552
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: that Sometimes. I believe that we gotta just be diligent

553
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: in our approach. We gotta be very particular in how

554
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: we do these things. And I believe he has a plan.

555
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: I think he doesn't understand how far they're willing to go.

556
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 1: I think he thinks that I right, we blow them

557
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: up on social media, they let me go and then

558
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,479
Speaker 1: that's that on that No, sir, they just activated something

559
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a long fight. They're gonna do everything

560
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: in their power to come back and make sure you

561
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: don't be successful without them, because if you're successful without them,

562
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: you just effectively broke the mold. So they're gonna do

563
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: some things into it's just visible that they're doing and

564
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: even then they may not stop. Um, but you're dealing

565
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: with it's gonna be. It's gonna be some consequence, right,

566
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: and we're not afraid of that. We gotta stand on that.

567
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 1: But I want him to know that, Yo, it ain't

568
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,760
Speaker 1: just social media talk. There was a multi billion dollar

569
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: deal that they broke off. Some people are highly upset

570
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: on that side, Like Kanye better watch the food to eat,

571
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 1: He better watch the cause he get in. Like this

572
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 1: is high level business, right. I hope Kanye Wits is

573
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: paying attention. This is a multi billion dollar deal he

574
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: just broke up. And I know where I'm from what

575
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: they're do for next to nothing. So again, this is

576
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: ain't even an American company. This is a multi billion

577
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: dollar deal with a black dude that has broken the

578
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,720
Speaker 1: situation up and basically saying he did it on purpose

579
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: to try to be free. Now we'll see what, well,

580
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: what will help him do with his brand, because I'm

581
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: sure that black people are gonna support him. But it's

582
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 1: interesting to hear him hand off the IP just like YO,

583
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 1: they just whooped us out the IP. They took it.

584
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: It's over. They literally just took the IP. Pay attention

585
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: to how many billions of dollars that's worth, because guess

586
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: what they gonna make sure of. And this is what

587
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: I tell people about the law and about everything that

588
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: you see that's held in so high regard what they

589
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: tell you. There's no way we can let somebody out

590
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: if they commit that kind of crime or do that

591
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 1: kind of thing. That's always a loophole or way around

592
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: it in case they get involved, so they can get out.

593
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: It was no way Adidas was gonna lose in this,

594
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: Like just let him go and he leave what that

595
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't have happened. They would have probably tried to I'll

596
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: leave that alone, right. I got sponsors in there, as

597
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: they paid me a lot of money. Let's leave that way,

598
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 1: it said. But I'm telling you it's they had some

599
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 1: bullet proof techniques in there where they wouldn't lose. He

600
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: just told you. They came and hired his lawyer and

601
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: made him saying over the ip. You know what type

602
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: business that is? They big mob business happened to Yay?

603
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 1: What can happen to you? To your grandparents, to your parents,

604
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 1: to your children, to your cousin and heniece, is your nephews.

605
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: This is the reason why Jesus has to sit after

606
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: throwing it. And this Christian company, this Christian country that's

607
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: a forty in slip because we are the youngest startup

608
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: in history. You know, America, this is a Christian country

609
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: that has to be ran with strong Christian values, not

610
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: this cafeteria. Pick and choose what you want. You know

611
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like, let's take the topic of life. Yes,

612
00:37:56,239 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: all of my family out Adidas for so many years.

613
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: We put together incredible work and incredible designs to change

614
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: the game. You know, when we did the phone Runner,

615
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: people from Mercedes Benz called us and said this is

616
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: the design of the year. We are leading design organization.

617
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: When we designed the McDonald's box and got Nato Fukasawa,

618
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: the lead designer Moogie to design this box. I know

619
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:29,240
Speaker 1: that Johnny Ives and Mark Newsom saw that the Apple desires.

620
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: I know that you guys in the design we're all

621
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: see what we're doing. So at Adidas, what you're doing

622
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: the price points with the Demna collaboration of Valenciaga collaboration,

623
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: it's not right. It's a thousand dollars, it's two thousand dollars.

624
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: You have Dimna and a golden cage, and Adidas to

625
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 1: take what he's doing and put it inside of a

626
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: two thousand dollars box. So it's only for the rich

627
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: people that mentality is played out. It's a dinosaur mentality

628
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: and it's only a matter of time till we get

629
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: hit with Iceberg. We have to raise our consciousness and

630
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: how do we have people scamming, selling dope, selling messages

631
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 1: of death in order to buy a jacket for five

632
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: thousand and six thousand dollars. So going into Thanksgiving, I

633
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 1: know the people at Adidas are not going to have

634
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: the best Thanksgiving. I know that they're not going to

635
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: have the best Christmas. But if any way I could

636
00:39:55,120 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: indemnify what they've done, even though they took that, I

637
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: p they hired lawyers to sign it over. I promise

638
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: everyone out there, those designs they're still good by me.

639
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,919
Speaker 1: Those designs still go by me. I know y'all saying

640
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 1: we're not gonna buy him, let's shake out him. If

641
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Speaker 1: y'all want those designs, they're still good by me. I

642
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: promise you. I can hear you on. I can guarantee

643
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: you one thing. Thanksgiving on Christmas, North saying Chicago song,

644
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: They're gonna all have a good meal. You gotta ask

645
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: yourself a real question, bro, like how far did he go? Right? Is?

646
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: I mean again, I believe that the value that yeah,

647
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: he has is the value that he has. But that's

648
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: his life work that he just had stolen from him

649
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: because of the things that he said. And as I

650
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: get older, I started to teach myself that alone, avoiding

651
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: conflict is a win. Right, Avoiding conflict is the victory. Now.

652
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: It ain't getting in the conflict and see who win.

653
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: It's avoiding the conflict now becomes the victory. So when

654
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: you look at this like man as his life work,

655
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: those designs, those classic easy that designs, the foam Runner,

656
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: the all of that, what people are winning, all of

657
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,879
Speaker 1: that's gone, not that he can't make new ones. But

658
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: his life work is gone, his plan has been exposed.

659
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: Now he has an enemy in the space that's going

660
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 1: to be diligent. Right, it's probably in the wheel over there.

661
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: As long as he's trying to kick up over there,

662
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: we're trying to kick him down forever. We never want

663
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: to see right. So now again, sometimes this is necessary,

664
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: but we're just for the sake of the podcast and

665
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: trying to get some information. We're just trying to understand

666
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: the gravity, you know, based on what he's saying. They've

667
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 1: frozen for of his accounts, They've kicked him. They've stopped

668
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: him from being able to do tours in the stadiums,

669
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: which would let him make money. So he can't do

670
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: tours and stadiums to even get more income that way.

671
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: So they're trying to really put him in a situation

672
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: where they're buckling down on him, and they want anybody

673
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: to watch. I look across the street, even at Kyrie,

674
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 1: and again I see everybody in my comments. Now alone,

675
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: we got to talk about it. We gotta say what

676
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 1: we mean and say what's on our mind. And I

677
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: say to myself, these be the people that don't got nothing,

678
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 1: and I get it. But but, but but we gotta

679
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: understand that our powerful black men ain't got no business talking.

680
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:03,479
Speaker 1: They got other resources. See, the tongue is the poor

681
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: man swore, that's the poor man resource. That's all he

682
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 1: got is the screaming holler. He defenseless. He don't got

683
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: the man with resources. He go get his gun when

684
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,240
Speaker 1: you come in his house. He ain't doing no screaming

685
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: and hollering. He going to get something. He gonna get

686
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 1: this situation together. And that's what sometimes we gotta understand

687
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: that ain't no need to expose the plan. Gotta remain

688
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 1: powerful and remaining stealth mold. Right. There's an old saying

689
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: that that says the true strength of the crocodiles in

690
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: the water. And if that goes over your head, I can't.

691
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing else for you. But what that's telling

692
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: you is that because of the water, the crocodile is

693
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 1: so strong, right, because it's able to sneak up on you.

694
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: It's hiding in the water. Right. And so in my opinion,

695
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 1: we don't necessarily have to be loud about what we're

696
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 1: gonna do. You know, I always been the kind of

697
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 1: guy to be over here, man I showed boop hit him.

698
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 1: It doesn't popped it off. I ain't really got to

699
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: come over here, Come on over I remember, dude did

700
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: all that to me. We finn We come on over here,

701
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 1: we Finnih get the fighting. You ain't got to do

702
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: all that when you're really trying to fight, when you

703
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: really you ain't got to do all that. So again

704
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: I try to view this and look at it. He

705
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 1: don't look like he's beat down. He looked like he

706
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: feels like, Yo, I did this, I've got out this contract.

707
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: I just want him to know that he's activated a wall,

708
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: not just a little play play, that this is gonna

709
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 1: be a long term thing. Families. So I'm telling you

710
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: this Christmas, this Thanksgiving, whatever Edidas wants to drop, and

711
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: you know that that was a design that we put in.

712
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: Those are good by me. And hopefully this can like

713
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: heal this, can this can heal some of the bleating. Also,

714
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: I know another thing is for everyone in contracts, I

715
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: know that this will never happen again in history. There

716
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: would never be a situation where people end a multi

717
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: billion dollar deal off of a tweet. Got you, got you?

718
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: So I would like to thank everyone that was involved

719
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,320
Speaker 1: with this negotiation. Thank god, no one's hurting the process

720
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: and I feel free. All right, let's talk about this

721
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: Joe Buddon podcast. I think it's reportedly going to start

722
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,839
Speaker 1: doing one show a week. I don't know if those

723
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: reports are true or not, but he had a conversation

724
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: with someone about flirting with the idea of doing one

725
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,479
Speaker 1: a week again. I think it's interesting to watch what's

726
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: happening over there. The workload has doubled, and he's putting

727
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: new people in position that he's doubled the workload in.

728
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: I think it's very interesting. I think he's trying to

729
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 1: find a way to bring it down, but he doesn't

730
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: want to affect that Patreon money. For those of you

731
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 1: that don't know his Patreon get down, he has three

732
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: or four different tiers. Those tiers make his workload. One

733
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: of such. He has to create enough content to drop

734
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 1: almost every day on that channel. Right, two of those

735
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: podcasts will accounted for because he would always drop two

736
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: a week, not every day. Five days a week, he

737
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: would have to drop something so the other three days

738
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: he would have to record on those two days enough

739
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: to get those two podcasts as well as fill in

740
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: those other three days, and I just think the workload

741
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: is a lot for those guys. I'm not sure if

742
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: Ice is, I don't know. I don't know, so I

743
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: won't speak on that. Let's listen to a little bit

744
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 1: of what he said. And they're attempting to dug people

745
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: when you're gonna make the pots once a week, so

746
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: like there's risk attached to that, but once a week,

747
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: got to just think of help in a lot of areas,

748
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: the hosting the hosting companies are merging with the advertising

749
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: company and they're attempting to thug people. That's what's happening.

750
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: It's not really it's not really a Patreon thing. Like

751
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,879
Speaker 1: the hosting is about to be a thing widespread, so

752
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: it's not really a Patreon thing. We use over nine

753
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: hundred thousand gigabytes a month. You do with that what

754
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 1: you will? Yeah, so I mean you keep everything. I

755
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: haven't seen you delete one thing yet. Yeah, No, I

756
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 1: don't delete. I'm either gonna I'm either going to have

757
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: to ruin some of the listener experience and I don't

758
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: want to do that, or yeah, I want to try

759
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: to once a week thing publicly. Publicly, every podcaster but

760
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 1: me has resorted to a clipping y'all to death. They'll

761
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: record two to three hours bleed ya alway clips for

762
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 1: a month and then put it out. That's what everybody doing.

763
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: That's been math thing for a minute. But it's not

764
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: just him. So again he's speaking about the business model

765
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:21,399
Speaker 1: of lad Math Adam people like that. I don't think

766
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: his model will work like that. He's doing current event

767
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 1: type things. It may, it may can, I don't know.

768
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: I think with him wanting to go publicly, you know,

769
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: you see I made that clear publicly one a week

770
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: because he wants to keep that Patreon as steady as

771
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: he can, because that's guarantee money. That's that's that's like

772
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: owning the house, owning several houses. I want you to

773
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: understand what he's speaking to. Everybody else is hustling with

774
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: their podcast like I'm hustling with man. I just had

775
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 1: a meeting with Slipping Husk and see what they doing.

776
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: I got Blue Chee on the line, I got gold

777
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: Puff on the line, right, and so we got to

778
00:48:56,400 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: put ads in to pay the bills. My supporters understanding

779
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: that we have to pay the bills, just like Wallow

780
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: and getting them doing a great job at showing you

781
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: how to make the piece of content worth money. The

782
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: several different ways that you can make this one piece

783
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,240
Speaker 1: of content worth money, whether that be sponsorship with a shirt,

784
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: whether that be plugging somebody's song at the beginning, all

785
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: these different ways are It's almost like a fighter with

786
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: his boxer short song. Right at some point my podcast,

787
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 1: we're gonna it's gonna be logos and shit popping up.

788
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna, Yeah, it's like the super Bowl, you know,

789
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: and so that's what we're going for. But he's speaking

790
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 1: about yo, I ain't took no money to do nothing.

791
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin the listening experience. But you're

792
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: leaving a lot of money on the table, right, And

793
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 1: so again, your people are wanting more money. They're working

794
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: a lot, so you gotta figure out a way to

795
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: make more money to pay them more money. And I

796
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: think that they don't have merch that's an issue. I

797
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:52,720
Speaker 1: think that they can't go on tour, that's an issue.

798
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: Or haven't went on tour, that's an issue. I think

799
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 1: that I think that him not taking ads and doing

800
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: any partnerships is is an issue with that large audience,

801
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: the CPM, all of that shit took in consideration. I

802
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 1: just think that those things an issue. Now, can't you

803
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: negotiate what he wants? I don't know. Let's listen to

804
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: a little more. Um, there's a few other podcasters that

805
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: there's a lot of Man your podcast to be free now,

806
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: to understand it for a bit, it's gonna move into

807
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: a different phase, and that phase is not going to

808
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: be so much free. It's the same as that artist

809
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: that don't really put out albums anymore. They've just switched

810
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,919
Speaker 1: to something different and they've done it seamlessly, so people

811
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: don't really know. Oh it's dangerous. It's dangerous and it's bad.

812
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: I can't get into it too much publicly, but that

813
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: moves that that singular move, it's gonna be detrimental for

814
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: some people. Well, I can't even say that because I

815
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: don't know what people are using. I know what I'm using, Terrybody, Like,

816
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: it's just this is this is ridiculous. It's right, you're

817
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 1: you're talking about like your cloud storage, like what you're

818
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 1: using that coupled with ads, neither one of them isolated

819
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 1: is a big issue. Like I've been paying these fees,

820
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: and the fees are not a big deal, but as

821
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: the audience grows, the fees get exponential. I guess yeah,

822
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: them coupled with ad companies. That's like streaming companies partnering

823
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: with labels like it's dangerous, right, Like patreon schedule will

824
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 1: remain the same twice a week. I've been trying to

825
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: scale this thing back in terms of time where if

826
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: we could just end this at two fifteen, that would

827
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: be awesome. To thirty that would be awesome, But we

828
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: want to unpack everything in the world, so we're unable

829
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 1: to do that, and that's expensive. So we'll see. We'll

830
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: see what happens one hundred dollars to twenty five hundred

831
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 1: dollars and then you know, somebody's negotiations with those guys

832
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: behind the scene. Man, you guys are unpacking it so

833
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 1: you can't you're charging me, and you the one making

834
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 1: us stay here longer. Man, I see him doing that,

835
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: just being clear because I peeped the technique. It's per

836
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: ad from giant corporations, and I understand that because if

837
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: you times that a few times, that's a good and

838
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: check every month that people really can't afford to turn

839
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: away from. So I get that holding out was a

840
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 1: whole different thing with plenty of reasons attached to it,

841
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: but they're they're making it difficult to do. So even

842
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 1: if I do, even if to mix some to these ads,

843
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: it won't be it won't just be literature. I might

844
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 1: do a mid role and a pre role and call

845
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: it a day because I hate it. I hate listening

846
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: to a podcast. And then you can add it's it's

847
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: like nails on a chalkboard for me. But there's a

848
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: solution in here. And again this is only publicly right

849
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 1: like Patreon schedule will remain the same twice a week.

850
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know where it's going with that.

851
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: I mean, well, we'll keep it out on that. That's interesting.

852
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: Now let's get into this young jock and his wife

853
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 1: had a conversation that's been going valid. I have not

854
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 1: seen this, so I'm gonna watch it with We're about

855
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: to watch it together. I want to see what everybody's

856
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,839
Speaker 1: talking about. Let's take a look at what happened or

857
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 1: are those things like still there and it's like something

858
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: that has to be worked on during the marriage, well

859
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: the things, because I just want to be clear and

860
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: I guess this will set it straight. For everybody anything

861
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: that was that is being divulged on the show. So

862
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: basically I did not get blindsided by anything on the show.

863
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: You know, like I had a knowledge, Like the lady meta,

864
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: like she inquired to close alone at my Title Companies

865
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: SRS Title here in Atlanta, I'm a closing attorney, so

866
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: and John Sill whenever she did reach out for that,

867
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: he gave me her information and you know, basically, you

868
00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: know we were gonna do business. He let me know

869
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: that he had a had previous dealings with the ladies.

870
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, cool, whatever, money green, like whatever,

871
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: And so I had a working knowledge of all of this.

872
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 1: My issue though, is that when John still brought this

873
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,919
Speaker 1: situation to me in the form of a business opportunity,

874
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: I guess he was forthcoming with me. Now he just

875
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 1: said that it was something from the past, like before

876
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: he is in our relationship. But the way that she

877
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: is making it seem is that she's been dealing with

878
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: him since two thousand and eight when he was a

879
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 1: married man, and you know, so it's like that's weird,

880
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: that's horrible, and it's not far from I guess his

881
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 1: character at the time or a part of his character,

882
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: but still, it still would make my ears raise, you know,

883
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 1: then for her to go in to say that she

884
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: was dealing with him at times where him and I

885
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 1: were in a relationship. All this is prior to marriage, Like,

886
00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: that's unacceptable to me. So basically one is informing her

887
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: that her fiance has been dealing with them as well,

888
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 1: has been in relationship with her, just so we're clear,

889
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: let's continue. Because again, John still and I have had

890
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: issues in our past where you know, I was unfaithful,

891
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: you know, stuff like that, but that was also the

892
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: year of us knowing and meeting each other, you know,

893
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: But the time frame that she's speaking of, like we

894
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: were like serious living together. So it's just like if

895
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: any of that is true, like he would be a

896
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: foul of our relationship and just so wrong, you know.

897
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 1: And so that's my thing. And so I know that

898
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: everybody is of the opinion I shouldn't care because it's

899
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 1: before the marriage, but I do care because it's like,

900
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:51,399
Speaker 1: don't lie to me and don't have me out here

901
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: looking like a fool, you know. And I know that

902
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: sometimes people say, oh, that's cliche, but I'm real serious

903
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 1: because in real life, I'm really this girl in real life,

904
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: Like none of my businesses are fabricated, none of my

905
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: accolades are exaggerated. No net worth estimates, hell they might

906
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 1: be estimate net too low, you know what I mean.

907
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 1: So like in real life, Kindred the person independent of

908
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:24,280
Speaker 1: all of this messy, cloudy mess that you know, Josel has,

909
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean, It's like I could

910
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 1: do without that and be probably better, you know, arguably

911
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: better off, you know what I mean. So like that

912
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,280
Speaker 1: stuff bothers me, A ring doesn't make it go away.

913
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: And I have said this to him several times. And

914
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: I say this on any platform. I don't care which

915
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: one it is, because it's the truth. She sounds like

916
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: she's unhappy. She sounded like she ain't happy. And this

917
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: is what I don't Again, this ain't about home or

918
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,799
Speaker 1: his woman. But it's important to listen when these women talk,

919
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: because what happens is then you can listen in here.

920
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 1: Then you unhappy, and you you are unhappy with everything

921
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 1: got got. You weren't happy with me pushing and pulling

922
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: for the family, and you weren't happy. And so you

923
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: gotta be able to peep that because you're dealing with

924
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 1: somebody that can't wait to deal with somebody else pay attention,

925
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: care about if you were a liar up until the

926
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: day we got married, or if you know you were

927
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: living whatever type of life while we were just in

928
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 1: a relationship. A marriage doesn't cure it that, you know,

929
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: if somebody's a gambling crackhead on one side of the broom,

930
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: when they step on the other side of the room,

931
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,959
Speaker 1: they still let the blackjack still basing up, like it's

932
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: no difference. So like I actually care about that, and

933
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: I share with him, and I was rattlesnake serious, like

934
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: we still within a noment period, Okay, you know the

935
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: pre dump there, right, I'm serious, Like we can go

936
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: ahead and undo this and I can continue to move

937
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: north and you can continue to be in this array.

938
00:57:56,480 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: Like and I just I'm just see is it's always

939
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: just like I care about what happened before. It's like

940
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 1: we was living together, like we were married and stuff.

941
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, and I explained this to him,

942
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: I explain this to the world and my friends and

943
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: everybody else if any like, if any of this stuff

944
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: is true, even though it was before we jumped the broom,

945
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm not okay with it. I'm not gonna be

946
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 1: okay with it. And so to answer your question, you know,

947
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 1: we would need to work on stuff like that, like

948
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 1: if you like, for instance, if he lied to me

949
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: about anything, that's something that in my opinion, needs therapy,

950
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: if we need counseling, stuff like that, Because I don't

951
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 1: want to stay together with a man who is a liar,

952
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: a cheater, a deceiver, and a womanizer, a gaslight. I don't.

953
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like that. It's plenty of

954
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: men out here who do not fit that description who

955
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 1: I feel like would be worthy in my time. And

956
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: it's just like if that's who he is, if that's

957
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: who you are, that you know, I gave the option

958
00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: of an old man. I'm a lawyer. I know everybody

959
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: in the county where we live at when our houses there,

960
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 1: I know, I know people in out of the counties

961
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 1: we got property in. So it would take it would

962
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: literally be quick. So I just I don't. I just

963
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 1: you know, it don't matter that it was before marriage.

964
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 1: I just think that even still when your woman is

965
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: it's so quick to do things like that, you know. Um,

966
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: And again I'm only using her as an example. I

967
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: don't know this to be the case with them, and

968
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm clearing that, and I try to be not out

969
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: of field of anyone, out of respect of the game.

970
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,479
Speaker 1: Um for your woman to be so quick to say

971
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 1: things about you this unfavorable, I think people that are

972
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: narcissists don't even understand when they're tearing people down. So

973
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 1: if every time I come around you, you got a

974
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 1: negative thing to say, or you trying to tear away

975
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: from how everybody else look at me, say that I'm

976
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: Lebron James, and everybody calling me King, King, King, and

977
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: anytime you come into house, you ain't no king. I

978
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: don't know why that's getting to your head. Ria Kings

979
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: were born in the seventeen hundreds. It's clearly two thy

980
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: twenty three. It's like yo yo, yo, yo yo. Seemed

981
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: like you playing defense, seemed like a hater than me,

982
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: just like and he knows that. So I'm not saying

983
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 1: shouted seemed like I hate. I'm saying those kind of scenarios,

984
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: watching to see, you know what way he was lying

985
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: about what he was telling the truth about if we

986
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 1: even find that out, because I'm not even sure we

987
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: find that out. So we flow no faith. You want

988
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 1: to let that one go where it's out old on.

989
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 1: I didn't know if it's gonna ask another question like that.

990
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 1: I mean, she gave you such a spell, so so

991
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: question Attorney Lee. Let him figure out all that other stuff.

992
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:00,400
Speaker 1: I don't care about it, you know what I mean.

993
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: But it's like, don't I just don't want to appear

994
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: to look weak and look like I'm being lied to

995
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: and manipulated by somebody who's supposed to be my husband,

996
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: my rock, and my protector. So you know, that's just

997
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: where all of this comes comes. It boils down to

998
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: just that it's it's not a good look, and it's

999
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 1: not a good look for like young girls and for

1000
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: our daughters. It looks horrible. Like I told him, I said,

1001
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 1: now take take one of our daughters meeting and falling

1002
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: in love with a man like you who exudes and

1003
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 1: exhibits the behavior and has every trait that you have,

1004
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: the good, the bad, the ugly in between, and would

1005
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: you be comfortable giving him away to her? One thing?

1006
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: And I meant that answer that question whole hard, and

1007
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: like I stand on it, I would not be mad

1008
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: because one thing, all right, So this is a conversation.

1009
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: What she's basically saying she doesn't want their son to

1010
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: be like him. So I'm good enough for you to

1011
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: have a son with. I'm good enough for you to

1012
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 1: live with. I'm good enough for me to pay half

1013
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 1: the bills and for me to help you understand life

1014
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: and all these things. But I ain't good enough for

1015
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 1: your son to act like me or for our son

1016
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 1: to exhibit the things that I exhibit. Right. See, they

1017
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: want to pick and choose. This is how you know

1018
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: you deal them with people. They're using you because people

1019
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: don't love you for who you are. People love you

1020
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: for what they want from you. And a lot of

1021
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 1: times they don't even gotta be financial. It's even if

1022
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 1: they want your love, even if they want your attention,

1023
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: even if they want your affirmation, whatever it might be.

1024
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: They just want that. They don't want to understand these

1025
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 1: other things. And that's important to understand. But when you

1026
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: deal with these women or these guys, pay attention to

1027
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 1: the things that they say. Pay attention to the things

1028
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: that people say, because oftentimes, wrapped up in what comes

1029
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:59,439
Speaker 1: out of people mouths, it's what lives in their heart.

1030
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: So pay attention to what people say. Well, I mean,

1031
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna provide it. I'm a protector. But being a

1032
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 1: provider a protector does not it does not make it

1033
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: okay to be a liar. Don't listen, Let me get

1034
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 1: and let me Let me respect shorty too, right, let

1035
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: me respect this woman. Because everybody, and this is important,

1036
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 1: everybody has a right to choose whether or not they

1037
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: want to be with people. You can't make me feel

1038
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: like that what you consider normal is okay for me.

1039
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: I might not like baking in my eggs, you might

1040
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: like bait. You can't convince me that I'm dumb or

1041
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm overreacting, right, even I had a conversation over on

1042
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving with my family about like noise, and as people

1043
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: get older, they get they get more affected by noise

1044
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: in the house, like smaller children banging and making noise

1045
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 1: and getting up and doing stuff at all times of

1046
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: the night, and um, you know, using the kitchen for

1047
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 1: this or using the bathroom for this when you know, damn,

1048
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be doing that in the bathroom, or you

1049
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing that in the kitchen type thing. And

1050
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: so we had a long conversation just about position, about

1051
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: just about convenience, because if you work hard, you try

1052
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: to provide your life convenience, especially when you get home,

1053
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 1: and so anyway people can't force on you what they

1054
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 1: feel like is normal and cool. If you don't like

1055
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: people knowing where you live at, you can't be with

1056
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 1: somebody that's cool with people knowing where they live at,

1057
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 1: because then you'll be living in hell because you're gonna

1058
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 1: spend all your time trying to convince this person. Now,

1059
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 1: don't let nobody now why they letting people know? Why

1060
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 1: they gonna know you can? And now now your life

1061
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 1: turns into Now your life turns into that. Now that's

1062
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: a whole nother Probably you wouldn't have had had you

1063
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: just been with somebody who felt the same. Yeah, I

1064
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: don't like people knowing why I live in That be

1065
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: the thing you try to force these shits you let

1066
01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:13,400
Speaker 1: na na let me explain to you why people shouldn't

1067
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: know where you live that and then you still don't

1068
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: get it. Well, now let me break it down first,

1069
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 1: I explain. Let me break it down, you know. Then

1070
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,959
Speaker 1: you try to break it down. They just they ain't

1071
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: getting it, man, they ain't thinking like that. They're on

1072
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 1: some other ship. So there you created a problem based

1073
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: on who you dated. But she's basically telling this, dude,

1074
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: I don't want my son to be a womanizer. I

1075
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 1: don't want my son to be like you. And if

1076
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 1: that's your true feelings, baby girl, I get it. But

1077
01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: we shouldn't be together. Not that you wrong. If you

1078
01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: if that's your experience with me, that's cool, right, it

1079
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 1: ain't cool, But that's your experience with me. I can't

1080
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: change that. If you if you left whatever idealings was

1081
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: feeling like I was a woman nizer or I lied

1082
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: to you or I mistreated or mishandled you. Right, as

1083
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 1: deep as I want to apologize, that ain't gonna change

1084
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 1: your experience. So I gotta deal with what you dealt

1085
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 1: with however you feel about that. I can't change that.

1086
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: But if that's how you feel, we need not be together.

1087
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 1: Why would you marry me? And I'm the nigga that

1088
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:22,520
Speaker 1: you would truly believe is a woman? Now? It is

1089
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 1: a liar? Is it? This? Is it that? Why do

1090
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: you want to be with me? Because I don't want

1091
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: to be with somebody that's calling me that. This is

1092
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: another thing that I think people get confused. Sometimes you

1093
01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: can have two different kind of people. You can have

1094
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 1: somebody that's calling you that thing, those kind of things,

1095
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: and you can have another person that ain't gonna be

1096
01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: with somebody that's calling them those kind of things, that's

1097
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: diminishing them and trying to take from them. I just

1098
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: don't understand how you can tell a man how you

1099
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 1: expect a man to feel in that moment, me as

1100
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,560
Speaker 1: a man, how i'mposed to feel what you telling me.

1101
01:06:56,840 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: I don't want my son to act like you. Don't

1102
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 1: you think it's probably a better way to say that

1103
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 1: special on TV unless it's for TV. Wink wink Wool

1104
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 1: is a liar. I was a cheater. It was a womanize.

1105
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 1: That's not I do not practice lyne on the regular.

1106
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: One thing about it, when you talk about any human

1107
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 1: that you're gonna ever encounter, everybody told a lie. Yeah

1108
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 1: I know, okay, everybody. Everybody ain't did what you did. Hey,

1109
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: you right, don't don't try to I know, but don't

1110
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: try to normalize. I'm not what you have done. Absolutely

1111
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 1: am not. I Your life is not normal. It's not

1112
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 1: no model that I won't a mirror to follow, a

1113
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 1: money to follow, cadence to follow, Okay, not and I

1114
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: don't think their mothers would either, so let's be let's

1115
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: be honest. So okay, So what are you saying? What

1116
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 1: is that saying about me? So she's not even the mother,

1117
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 1: Let's run that back. Don't try to I know, but

1118
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 1: don't try to normalize. I'm not what you have done.

1119
01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely am not. I Your life is not normal. It's

1120
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 1: not no model that I won't a mirror to follow,

1121
01:07:57,000 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 1: a money to follow, cadence to follow, Okay, and I

1122
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: don't think their mothers would either, So let's speak. Let's

1123
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 1: be honest. A man, I thought you was the man here,

1124
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 1: I am made bad for you. Now hold on, you

1125
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell my baby mama what her son need

1126
01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 1: to be like? Now that's now, that's a bit. I

1127
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: don't know. That's deep. How you gonna test that? Ain't

1128
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: your son? Oh man? That's deep? So okay, So what

1129
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 1: are you saying? What is that saying about me? I'm

1130
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 1: your husband? Well are you basically saying you wouldn't you

1131
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:31,559
Speaker 1: wouldn't want my sons to be I wouldn't. I wouldn't.

1132
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 1: I would not want okay, and I would not want

1133
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 1: them to have all of these different situations. That's not something.

1134
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:44,679
Speaker 1: Let me ask, y'all, this is that indicators of how

1135
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 1: women feel in that conversation? I believe it is. It

1136
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: sounds like to me, she feel like, deep down she

1137
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: settled because don't sound like I'm good enough to be yo. Man,

1138
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:02,320
Speaker 1: let me run some of that bag saying what is

1139
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,559
Speaker 1: that saying? What either? So let's be let's be honest.

1140
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:07,600
Speaker 1: So okay, so what are you saying? What is that

1141
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: saying about me? I'm your husband? Well, are you basically

1142
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: saying you wouldn't You wouldn't want my sons to be

1143
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 1: like I wouldn't. I would not want I take care

1144
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: of it, okay, And I would not want them to

1145
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 1: have all of these different situations. That's not something I

1146
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 1: would wander say I would. I don't necessarily want that

1147
01:09:24,080 --> 01:09:27,800
Speaker 1: for them either. But I don't want me up just

1148
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: in the fact because I got kids. Because let me

1149
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 1: tell you something. I tell you it's not I'm gonna

1150
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 1: say it like this, not just because you have children.

1151
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's not what I was saying. Put it

1152
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 1: on the table, come down. That's not what I was saying,

1153
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 1: because it's not. Well, I'm sure you would, but if

1154
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 1: you listen to it from a logical standpoint, it's not

1155
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 1: the fact that you have children as well. You say

1156
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,559
Speaker 1: that children are not say that. Don't just make it

1157
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: seem like I'm a bad person. Don't say and make

1158
01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:56,439
Speaker 1: something so fucked up individual. What you're not gonna do

1159
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 1: is do that. I didn't say that, but that's how

1160
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 1: you put it. You said you want want my son

1161
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:02,920
Speaker 1: to be like me. I wouldn't want them to do

1162
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: some of the things that you and I wouldn't want

1163
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 1: what you say is respectfully to do some of the

1164
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: things you've done, and that's the things that I've done.

1165
01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: Send What I'm saying is when you talk about me,

1166
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: don't sum mer. Don't sum me up on the worst

1167
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 1: side of me or what you consider the worst side

1168
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: of me, because I ain't nobody fucking perfectly, So don't

1169
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: do that. That's what we're not gonna do because as

1170
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: a man, guess what, I got to stand on mine too,

1171
01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 1: because I because guess what, let me let me say something.

1172
01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 1: I didn't go to college. Guess what, I want my

1173
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: kids to go to college. So we can say that

1174
01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: right now. That's I don't want them to go that direction.

1175
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:40,720
Speaker 1: I want them to go to college. I can say

1176
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,120
Speaker 1: that with you too, but don't sit here in front

1177
01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:47,080
Speaker 1: of the world, in front of a medium and say, oh,

1178
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want my son or your sons to be

1179
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 1: like you. Hold on a respect on my name because

1180
01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 1: successful I take care of my kids. Ain't none of

1181
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:01,960
Speaker 1: my kids out here in dire need of love and support.

1182
01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: So we're gonna do that, okay, because I don't appreciate that,

1183
01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 1: because there's some things about you that I could say

1184
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want my daughters to do. I respect you love, no, no, no, no, no,

1185
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: I respect. I'm not gonna do that. I'm not gonna

1186
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 1: do that. I'm I'm not gonna do that. That's that's

1187
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 1: where that's where we have to draw the line. Because

1188
01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't care because the camera in front of me

1189
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 1: or somebody to asking me questions, I'm not gonna reveal

1190
01:11:32,760 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 1: my everything that go on me, just like right now,

1191
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: you don't see in front these people, tell with your

1192
01:11:36,479 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 1: credits go you're gonna see him and tell me you're

1193
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 1: so scared you ain't gonna see him, and telling what's

1194
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 1: in your bank account either, I want? Okay, So something's

1195
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: a better left fucking unsaid. And then the private and

1196
01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna do. So when you're addressing me,

1197
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 1: don't ever, don't ever make it seem like I'm the

1198
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: worst of the worst, because I'm not, because I can't

1199
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 1: do and change your life. And it wasn't about me

1200
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 1: having no money. It was about the integrity it was

1201
01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 1: about it was about my integrity. It was about me

1202
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 1: standing up for you. It was about me help when

1203
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 1: you open your eyes to see things that no other

1204
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 1: man has gotten you to do. So when you talk

1205
01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:10,920
Speaker 1: about me and address me, please be mindful of that

1206
01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 1: because I love you for who you are, good and bad.

1207
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 1: But I would never say to the world she's still

1208
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 1: dissing him in my opinion, you know I love you

1209
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 1: for who you are. What else I love you for? Nigga?

1210
01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:26,599
Speaker 1: You ain't having nothing now, you ain't having no emotion.

1211
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 1: I got to love you, bamba ass for you who

1212
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 1: y'all bomb ass nigga and what it sounds like to me.

1213
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 1: Let me make sure I ain't made that up good

1214
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 1: and bad. But I would never say to the world

1215
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:42,799
Speaker 1: you for And so what's all so interesting is often

1216
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 1: times when people explain relationships that's two totally different experiences

1217
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 1: as you see his experience in her life from his

1218
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 1: perspective versus his experience to her life from her perspective.

1219
01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: She says that, Yo, you came in. It wasn't about

1220
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,639
Speaker 1: the money because you ain't have no money, so it

1221
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 1: was integrity and this and that. And she also said

1222
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't want them to be like you because

1223
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 1: you had so many kids and this and that and

1224
01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: a lot of kids. Speak to your behavior, I guess,

1225
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:22,400
Speaker 1: or your sexual activity, and she spoke to that. But

1226
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:24,720
Speaker 1: he said that, Yo, I came in your life. I

1227
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 1: changed your life. I showed you this, I stood up

1228
01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 1: for you. I showed you things that no other man

1229
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:32,759
Speaker 1: has showed you. And just think about that, two people

1230
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 1: are married with that much confusion in the middle of

1231
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:39,679
Speaker 1: what each other offered to each other. That's why, if

1232
01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:42,639
Speaker 1: you're confused about what I've done in your life, don't

1233
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 1: worry about me being with you. I don't care about

1234
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 1: being with you. If you can't see the value I've

1235
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:54,719
Speaker 1: added to your life from every perspective, don't even worry

1236
01:13:54,760 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 1: about it. I'm not even trying to make you understand it.

1237
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:00,400
Speaker 1: But what happens is people all get married and have

1238
01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 1: no understanding of what each other felt like they even contributed.

1239
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 1: Because he thinks he changed your life, put you on

1240
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 1: TV picture, you think you changed the girl life, and

1241
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 1: all she got to say about you is, I don't

1242
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 1: want your little boys to be like you. Damn, man,

1243
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: I changed your life. You was living like this when

1244
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 1: I mention you was doing this when I mention the

1245
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:29,240
Speaker 1: critics critical on men. How we go from that to dad?

1246
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: That's weird, but that's how it is. It's interested in relationships,

1247
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: though people have two totally different perspectives on the same events.

1248
01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: Oft the time, you got the man saying, yo, shout out.

1249
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,679
Speaker 1: I taught you, I was faithful, I came home every night,

1250
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 1: I took you on dates. You'll have her saying you

1251
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: didn't talk to me, you never listen to me. And

1252
01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:56,520
Speaker 1: it's like, yo, damn, I thought I provided what men provide.

1253
01:14:56,640 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 1: Man If I didn't and you didn't say nothing, you

1254
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: throw this all. Let me six seven, eighteen, twelve years

1255
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:06,680
Speaker 1: in and expect me to understand it. There's a problem.

1256
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 1: Do we've identified an issue? Most men run from complicated

1257
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:16,000
Speaker 1: issues with people they care about. Dummy. This is why

1258
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:20,960
Speaker 1: people don't a lot of people wonder why these people

1259
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:23,559
Speaker 1: from these other races take their men or the men

1260
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: tend to lean that way. A lot of people call

1261
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: these dumb women, but it be the situation. What dudes

1262
01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:33,120
Speaker 1: don't have to go back and forth about all listen

1263
01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 1: that dadd and this, this and that dadding all day

1264
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 1: every day, dad, and this and that dadding, this all

1265
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:46,559
Speaker 1: day every day, dadd and did this and that dadd

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