WEBVTT - EP 426: No Holes Barred

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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<v Speaker 1>decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.

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<v Speaker 1>You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, you want to say together the Decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>The book is out. The book is out. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>can now go get no holes barre. It is available.

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<v Speaker 1>We have made it to that day. We're literally on

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<v Speaker 1>the day of recording.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys know this is not our jam, but we

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<v Speaker 2>have been flying and traveling so much it was only

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<v Speaker 2>right to do a super fresh episode only a day late.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's such a special day for us.

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<v Speaker 2>I think one of the biggest days, if not the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest day of our entire careers. A friend of mine

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<v Speaker 2>sent us the photo in Calabasas.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, we've been puffing all these black old stores.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell of what calabas Lets put our motherfucker book on

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<v Speaker 1>the shelf early and they're not the white got a

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn book out. First of all, I was like, who's

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<v Speaker 1>tricking on you? In Calaba's death that I really wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to know what you lived at Calabs.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was amazing to see and it was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was right in the front. And I always when

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<v Speaker 2>I go to a bookstore and I'll see the books

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<v Speaker 2>in the fight, I always wonder, why, oh who are they?

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<v Speaker 2>Is a special so it'll be so cool to just

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<v Speaker 2>see everybody's share and please we're reposting like we are

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<v Speaker 2>re close when you walk in a store and see

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<v Speaker 2>it tag us, because it's surreal to me, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I never really thought for a second

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<v Speaker 2>when we were writing the book that I could just

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<v Speaker 2>be walking in and grabbing it and taking photos where

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<v Speaker 2>they're like having a tangible thing in my hand. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't actually see it the hard copy until Mandy came

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<v Speaker 2>to the South of France and we just yeah, we

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<v Speaker 2>just left can Lions. It's Can, y'all. I know y'all

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<v Speaker 2>haven't seen everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>It is not Con.

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<v Speaker 3>It is not Kansa. It's not Cannics.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Can. I think it might not Gone. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not Cone. It's not Cone. It's not gone An. When

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<v Speaker 1>French people say, they don't say can no, it's can Lions.

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<v Speaker 3>It's can't. Oh they can? You know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how did friend we listen?

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<v Speaker 1>Friends is like my least favorite place, but the South

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<v Speaker 1>of France is one of my favorite places to go,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think it's only because it's full of Americans

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<v Speaker 1>that week. So I had a wonderful time. Tuesday, I

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<v Speaker 1>brought the book because we had dinner with our iHeart family.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all the exacts. Black Effect was there, so

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<v Speaker 1>Dolly and Charlemagne was there, Malcolm Gladwell was there, quest

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<v Speaker 1>Love was there. Shout out to them, and we was there.

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<v Speaker 1>How we got to invite y'all. Listen, we were negroes

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<v Speaker 1>and half I say that.

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<v Speaker 2>They said, hey not just bring one and they put

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<v Speaker 2>us in, you know, all together. But it was crazy

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<v Speaker 2>just to think these are the people that are being

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<v Speaker 2>celebrated with iHeart just this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It was a very small dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like they were honoring all of iHeart shit

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<v Speaker 2>last clone, no, no, no, no, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was two tables and we was a part of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Two tables. It was a good time. I brought the book.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Weezy's first time seeing the hardcover, like, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's really dope. Our pictures bitch right down in the bag.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cute or whatever. So I brought it and Weezy

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<v Speaker 1>got to see it for the first time. We ended

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<v Speaker 1>up uh being able to talk about like just what

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<v Speaker 1>it was like writing the book and weasy and true

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<v Speaker 1>weezy fashion brought my future wife up with us. If

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<v Speaker 1>y'all my future wife, let me tell y'all a story

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<v Speaker 1>we ain't never heard of one. No, let let me

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell y'all a story. And I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of Latino puss. I am gonna share love latinas

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<v Speaker 1>I love women I date. The only type of woman

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been with was a white woman. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's literally it. I haven't been with a white woman.

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<v Speaker 3>I have been with a lot of motherfucker carry.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved in Miami. Okay, carry on, man, listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually gonna share a story because I have a question.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna share the Latino puss that I had

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<v Speaker 1>in Miami one time that didn't make the book. Anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>So we get into the iHeart Cafe, I'm talking with everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I go to set the book down because we have

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<v Speaker 1>a signed seating. So I go to set the book

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<v Speaker 1>down and all my way back to go join Will

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<v Speaker 1>and Charlotte, Dolly, Me and Eva catch eye mind you.

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<v Speaker 1>Eva's talking to like a group of people. Eva is,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, gorgeous. So literally I'm walking back and

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<v Speaker 1>I had to pass Eva. Me and Eva lock eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she stops talking to the people and it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, hey, bitch embraces me, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>does she see my clip online? Does she know who

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<v Speaker 1>I am? Or she just gonna do that. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you love me? No, I'm not gonna lie. Normally

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<v Speaker 1>were we these like everyone's flirting with her, bitch. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care how if she was or not. I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>evil on Glory was flirting with me. So anyway, she

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<v Speaker 1>goes and she embraces me and gives me a hug,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, so good to see you. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, bitch, good to see you. Okay, I just

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<v Speaker 1>say it like that, but I just smiled. I was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So as soon as I leave her, bitch, you would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought I just met god bitch, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>my heart was beating like a little fast, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, so you're a little social hold on, she's thumping,

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<v Speaker 1>heart pumping. So I go over to Charla and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want her, I said, and she knows me. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how she knows me or don't know if she

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<v Speaker 1>was just being nice, but she stopped talking to the

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<v Speaker 1>people embraced me, and I was like, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>I loved evil loungorid like this, I ain't gonna hold you.

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<v Speaker 3>She had that energy. She had that energy.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, I go and I'm like, y'all, I'm sliding

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<v Speaker 1>in them gms. When I tell you, Charlotte. Everyone was like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you do that. I was like, don't you slide

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<v Speaker 1>on her? Dem don't And I was like, could I

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<v Speaker 1>do it, just real nicely, like let me do it.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, don't slide in evil Loungaria DM.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, fine.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're the last to speak at this I Heeart dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>And we go up.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm holding the book and I immediately go.

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<v Speaker 1>And shout out that I don't that it's fucked them

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<v Speaker 1>kids for life. This is mine. He was speech in

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<v Speaker 1>front of all the execs and everything, and I pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much shout out Charlamagne for being my baby daddy. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we're kind of in a thruffle cause I'm like, Charlot,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want kids, but you allowing us on this

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<v Speaker 1>journey to write a book. This is now my baby,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my legacy, and I want to thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>So we start talking about the book.

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<v Speaker 2>We might as well have been sexy read the second

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<v Speaker 2>we started talking about so we're like, we're like, ooh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's ronchy is this? So Will asked the question and

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<v Speaker 2>we reposed a question. Weezy said, here's a good question

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<v Speaker 2>to ask us. If anybody could read the book, who

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<v Speaker 2>would you want to read it? So Weezy go ahead

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<v Speaker 2>and share your part. So while we're up there, we're

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<v Speaker 2>basically speaking to people in between courses. So as each

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<v Speaker 2>course come out, they have like a different piece of

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<v Speaker 2>I heart talent coming out. So Malcolm spoke, Quest spoke,

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<v Speaker 2>Charlis poke, and then white folks and then us. So

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<v Speaker 2>once I get up there, I said, well, even though

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to see Malcolm Gladwell's face reading the

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<v Speaker 2>world word pussy out of our book, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>go with Eva Longoria because I read once in an

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<v Speaker 2>article that she said she was irritated that men don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how to please women.

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<v Speaker 1>But she looked like I said, and I said, smile.

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<v Speaker 1>She smiled. Maybe she's like maybe I said that, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I love her to read our book.

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<v Speaker 1>So she gets off, she get up. We don't know

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<v Speaker 1>she she gets up and comes and joins us. I've

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<v Speaker 1>just met, Like, oh, well, we'll get you a book, girl. No.

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<v Speaker 1>She she stands up, smiling and joins us in front

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<v Speaker 1>of everyone, and here go Weezy impum two. If you've

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<v Speaker 1>been listening to the pod anytime we had a guest,

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<v Speaker 1>Weezy was like, pick a number from zero two, so no,

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<v Speaker 1>from one to three hundred, and she's like, okay, Eva

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<v Speaker 1>Longoria says fifteen. I was like, I don't think. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think anyone has picked a number that long. Fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>is like yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh, I hope, I said, it's usually

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<v Speaker 4>forty plus.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's crazy. So that's when I as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as she says fifteen, I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me read you what's on page fifteen, y'all, which,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, the start of page fifteen was a

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<v Speaker 2>dud for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no, no. First words.

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<v Speaker 3>The first words.

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<v Speaker 2>The first words are the only thing that can seal

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<v Speaker 2>me up. And I was like, okay, this is about

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<v Speaker 2>to turn up. So then we try to find, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>obviously a good entry point for it. So I'm like, okay, Eva,

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<v Speaker 2>this is about masturbation. Masturbation can release sexual tension. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what she That's what she read. No, so you were

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<v Speaker 2>at something said dump the thumb thump is now the

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<v Speaker 2>sound of my heart pounding after I've come.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what she read alone and satisfy.

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<v Speaker 2>Satisfied tells you this is when people starting to take

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<v Speaker 2>their phones out.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro. So she literally is is thump thump thumping. Like

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<v Speaker 1>reading that sentence, Eva goes, oh my god, let me read.

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<v Speaker 1>So Luckily there's those bullet points. And so in front

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<v Speaker 1>of all these execs, we have Eva Longoria read the

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<v Speaker 1>benefits of masturbation at dinner. It was so good. It

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<v Speaker 1>came up to shar and I said, do you remember

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<v Speaker 1>when you sniffed j Low's chair? Oh god, that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Mike was right there, I know, he was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>we got to get into some key that happened and

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<v Speaker 2>can I wasn't really a part of it, but we

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<v Speaker 2>saw in the breakfast the whole thing with Blake Lee Thornton.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I just talked to Sean about my thoughts on it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I know that's your friends, so it will be nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So because I was like, oh no, he didn't. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>We should talk about that etiquette too, because I think

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<v Speaker 3>he was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel listen to that situation, I don't think. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're head that doesn't know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know him well, but I'm a fan

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<v Speaker 2>and I actually wanted to produce his pod back in

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<v Speaker 2>the day. We were gonna makebe figure out if he

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<v Speaker 2>would make a solo one. Now shout out to Blakelee Thornton.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a really dope influencer and he covered the met

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<v Speaker 1>gala carpet. That's how a lot of people recently found him. So,

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<v Speaker 1>uh shared a store. We were supposed to do their

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<v Speaker 1>pod now was week that was whose podcast it was?

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know him. So long story short. We

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<v Speaker 1>are hanging out on Wednesday night and can club. Oh no.

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<v Speaker 1>His wife was like, I can't never get him to

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<v Speaker 1>go out, but he might go to a dec D

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<v Speaker 1>Nights party.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, fuck it, let's go out. We meet up

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<v Speaker 2>with Debbie's Brown birthday. Should we have a little dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>We walk across the street to Club Quarantine, which d

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<v Speaker 2>Nice does every year in Dan and basically he redes

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<v Speaker 2>his thing.

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<v Speaker 1>He did on IG. When we first walked in, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a little bit oldheadish. It was like just oldies.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say. Mary J. Blige walked in and that

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<v Speaker 1>did pique my interest. I was like, oh, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like you know, but then it started getting

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<v Speaker 1>young and cool. So for some reason, for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>people were being brought to different tables. JB.

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<v Speaker 2>Smooth or No One. If you don't know who that is,

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<v Speaker 2>he was in, curb your enthusiasm.

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<v Speaker 1>He's black, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>People brought someone brought Lucky Day, Steve Stout came over.

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<v Speaker 2>People kept being brought to Charlotte's section. Now, everything during

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<v Speaker 2>Canned Week is this long in the week is free

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<v Speaker 2>except for bottle service. But all the cocktails were free, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But not bottle service. So that it's very it's very

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<v Speaker 1>important it is. But I don't know if I would

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<v Speaker 1>have known that. So let me elaborate. Blakely did not

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<v Speaker 1>walk into the section. He was brought into the section. Blakelee,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, is a man. Just want to add

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<v Speaker 1>that context. He was brought into the section. Again.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why that was happening. He's not lying

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<v Speaker 2>about that. Now, me and Nina Park are sitting together.

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<v Speaker 2>We're saying, hey, we're chatting it out with Blakelee. Whatever

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<v Speaker 2>bottles come out.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm repeating what I heard what Charlotte name Blakeley said

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<v Speaker 2>on their instagram. Huh, Charlotte does buy bottles of Dom,

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember he came over to me.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes, what do you want to drink three at

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<v Speaker 1>twenty hundred dollars a piece? Yes, he said, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want vodka ort tequila? I said, I'm not drinking as

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<v Speaker 1>a matter of fact, because my man wants tequila. But

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<v Speaker 1>don't even buy anything. We'll go to the bar. It's free.

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<v Speaker 2>He just gets the Dom for him, Dolly and his wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Blakelee has a toast with everybody. I don't see this

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<v Speaker 2>because I really think Crystal Waters was on and I

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<v Speaker 2>was in my household. So i get on my phone

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<v Speaker 2>still in France, and I'm seeing Charlotte. Man hit me

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm homophobic now, and I'm like, yes, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>So Blake Lee basically is like Charlotte said to me,

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<v Speaker 2>you know you're drinking my bottles?

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<v Speaker 1>Dog and Blake Lee was wearing thigh high boots.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, they were flat, they weren't heels, and he said

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<v Speaker 2>he was being homophobic for doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I hated that. Then he said shout out and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, ah, So Charlotte responded on the Bronx, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm brilliant Idiots club.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched a breakfast I watched his brilliant idiots, he

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<v Speaker 2>said with justin envy and baby gave me doc here

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<v Speaker 2>of the day. It wasn't like a dog. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think it was doc here the day. But he was like,

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<v Speaker 2>how am I homophobic?

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<v Speaker 1>Et cetera. I agree. Blakelee hit me like, yo, are

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<v Speaker 1>you good? Like are we good? Or over this?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, it was a breakfast court, breakfast club court,

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<v Speaker 4>that's court, all right, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like yeah, I mean, I think he was joking,

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<v Speaker 1>but it didn't come off funny because char really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know him at the time, and it got really awkward

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<v Speaker 1>in this whole exchange. Now, while he was there, I

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<v Speaker 1>will say there were maybe fifty other people that came.

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<v Speaker 2>People were walking in and out of Charlemagne's section, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>not fifty, maybe twenty, but anyone of influenced. I guess

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<v Speaker 2>they just kept getting sent over to the celebrity tables,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I really will stand on believing he thought

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<v Speaker 2>the bottle was free. However, I don't think that makes

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<v Speaker 2>Charlot homophobe, even if it was a joke, for being like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's ever a joke the contact someone

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<v Speaker 2>there maybe only were eight people in the section, so

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<v Speaker 2>the segment was not my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>My thing. There is club etiquette. This is Charlemagne's table.

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<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne is a man. Whether you are gay, straight, yellow, purple, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are a man, you should not be reaching

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<v Speaker 1>into another man's bottles pouring your own drink without putting in. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think it's a man. Excuse me. Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>don't agree. I think fuck putting in.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're gonna be at someone's table, I don't give

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<v Speaker 2>a fucking fee. The baddest visial world you ask, can

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<v Speaker 2>I make myself a cocktail?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Either either or yet not speaking is awkward, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that's the thing on brilliant idiots. He

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<v Speaker 1>led to the fact that even him saying your name

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<v Speaker 1>on the clip, Charlotte man was like, we didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>introduce me to this guy. He comes over and is

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<v Speaker 1>the as they're doing the toes Charlotte's, Like the waitress

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<v Speaker 1>asked if it's okay for a drink, he said yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He he told him this is my bottle, a after

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<v Speaker 1>he reached to make his own drink, which I agree, like, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't know nobody at this table, like you

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<v Speaker 1>just reached him making your own eye and that's the thing, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he thought, I'm going to say this, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know Blakely well, but I'm going to assume

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<v Speaker 2>because I can't see why he made that comment otherwise.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he thought all of the celebs were getting

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<v Speaker 2>sat together, and I think he thought there's charlott and

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<v Speaker 2>Nina Parker, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think he and he got brought into it. He did

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<v Speaker 1>not jump in there to say, hey to me, your Nina.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, he a goofy ass,

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<v Speaker 1>goof leaning into homophobia and making that a comment because

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<v Speaker 1>the man said, hey, brother, that's my bottle. It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't call you out your name, He didn't sit

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<v Speaker 1>here and say you couldn't be here because of your sexuality.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's very irresponsible to start labeling people

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<v Speaker 1>in that manner, especially when you went a club and hey, brother,

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<v Speaker 1>the Saint Shoe bottle, it's mine. And it's funny because

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<v Speaker 1>talking to Charlamagne at the breakfast club, he was like, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know how expensive the bottles were. He

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<v Speaker 1>said they were twenty four hundred yuo. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>easily about a seven eight thousand dollars check for three bottles.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, man, well, I'm here now, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating Debbie's birthday, and so I just thank it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think I just think the labeling of him

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<v Speaker 1>as a homophone like and that that's unfortunately what makes

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<v Speaker 1>this space kind of difficult, Like there are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of black men, Charlotte being one who's very inclusive and

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<v Speaker 1>welcoming to all people, so you don't want to like

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<v Speaker 1>put out that narrative, even even the cloth that he's

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<v Speaker 1>getting like like around it. I just hate that his

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<v Speaker 1>his thing was to lean into the homophones. A twenty

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred dollars bottle, by the way, bruh, dog bruh.

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<v Speaker 3>Charlie got it.

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<v Speaker 1>Rich as I think it's a fair the.

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<v Speaker 3>Fair, like, hey, my brother, this is my bottle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's weird. I'm looking at every ounce of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I feel really embarrassed. I really wouldn't ever

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<v Speaker 1>bring someone in your section section. I said, this is

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<v Speaker 1>my next thing. Oh my god, not you, and just

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<v Speaker 1>getting attacked primly. Oh, I'm not gonna lie. It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Alex is a great point. Hey, Alex, I'm Brilliant.

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<v Speaker 3>Idiots Alex Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>When I saw him say Charlaonmae's I'm like, I want

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<v Speaker 1>now you gotta go breakfast club. Now, you guys, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta you gotta get on your partner. Alex was on

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<v Speaker 1>Brilliant Idiots talking about well, he's saying he cool with Weezy.

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<v Speaker 1>That means Weezy need to put on that bottle.

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<v Speaker 3>Go ahead of send we the invoice for a portion

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<v Speaker 3>of that bottle. That's what Alex said.

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<v Speaker 1>Friend, So Alex said, go ahead of charge. That was man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but bro find it out water bottles all night and

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<v Speaker 1>I was dancing for four hours. Please, but I'll say this,

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<v Speaker 1>I said. I me and Blakely were talking and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Charla Way is feeling hurt because he

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<v Speaker 2>really is not that nigga. And I said, but I

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<v Speaker 2>do think you should send bottles to Charlemagne on some

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<v Speaker 2>drake shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that he should.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think like, look, I've been a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>his content for maybe two or three years, and then

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<v Speaker 2>the look as though I think he could get it

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<v Speaker 2>for about one hundred and fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he should go ahead of the dog and the

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<v Speaker 1>hook of the whole bottle.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think people can miss, and I think that

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<v Speaker 2>one just happened to be a miss because all of

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<v Speaker 2>his content hits for me, he'd be calling out the

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<v Speaker 2>White House.

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<v Speaker 1>He does a very good job at calling out who

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be called out. But that joke just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>land because I really don't think she is that nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>He asked, why are you leading into it being a joke?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a joke. He seemed offended, and he called a

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<v Speaker 1>man homophobic. I don't think that was a joke. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping it was a joke, okay, because I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have spoken because he made the dawn joke.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm i sss upbout his boots and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, maybe that was it, but okay, So here

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to talk about the free ship in

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<v Speaker 1>Can a little bit because at one point, bitch, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a whole day. I haven't had a day in

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<v Speaker 1>a while, and I challenge everyone to do this day.

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<v Speaker 1>I talk about this in our master class, which you

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<v Speaker 1>can go get. It's free if you ordered the book

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<v Speaker 1>before July.

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<v Speaker 2>First you need to try to have a zero dollar

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<v Speaker 2>spend day. I was able to do it in Campo

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<v Speaker 2>Holy multiple days.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, we got to Friday and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been here since Monday in Can because I spent

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<v Speaker 1>two days the niece. Literally we got to Thursday and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, bro, we may have paid for two meals, drinks, meals, everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Its basically just taking over every single portion of the beach,

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<v Speaker 2>taking over a restaurant and point.

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<v Speaker 1>IHeart the iHeart cafe. I'm thinking it's just the dinner

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy night rat when I walk back in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, stays all day, all day. And when a check

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<v Speaker 2>didn't come, my nigga looking at me, he said, hold on,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go. And actually we do want to representde it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want house to get I got it again, nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't believe it. I did want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>this little moment I had in Germany. So I told you,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I told you in person that

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Old Day in Europe the first time in

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<v Speaker 1>two years. I'm gonna do a little solo episode on

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<v Speaker 1>Patreon because we need that catch up Nigga him giving

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<v Speaker 1>Miami and a hug and saying, treat her well. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>get in read anyway, We'll get into it. It's that

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<v Speaker 1>and at and t dreaming Black is doing it big

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating who we are, fostering connections and inspiring creativity because

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<v Speaker 1>express ourselves. While connecting with others. On the podcast Decisions Decisions,

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate with us and don't miss our live taping on

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<v Speaker 1>July fifth in the Convention Center on the AT and

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<v Speaker 1>T Dream and Blackstage. See you there.

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<v Speaker 3>Connecting changes everything Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do a quick story about getting to

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<v Speaker 1>can because while these white prices are pricing, while the

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<v Speaker 1>weather is weathering, while we may be entering World War

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<v Speaker 1>three and don't have access to go to other countries.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she keep getting on the band list. So y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know I're living Atlanta now, and so I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where normally I got to add on the tail in

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<v Speaker 1>last year, I had it on the tail end and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say Trumpe and was like, ooh, well, this year

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<v Speaker 1>I had to come back because I had to host

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<v Speaker 1>Juneteenth on the East Shout out to JB, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to the entire city of Oklahoma City, like it was

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<v Speaker 1>really dope. And now y'all are NBA champs as well. Ay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so literally I'm like, okay, I'm gonna leave Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get to Nice on Friday, so I have

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<v Speaker 1>a day in Nice and then Saturday I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>a Dan Monaco and then I had to can on Sunday. Y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I get to the airport. My flight is at eight

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<v Speaker 1>fifty pm on Thursday. It gets it gets good, It

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<v Speaker 1>gets good. This is a script. Okay, I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>this into a fucking sketch comedy. If Kemp Pill was

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<v Speaker 1>still on, I'd be like, hey, guys, I got one

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<v Speaker 1>for you. So I get a direct flight from Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>to Nise. Not sure how I was like, oh, thank God,

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<v Speaker 1>because I did not want to do all the la

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<v Speaker 1>in Europe. So I get a direct flight from Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>Tonise leaving Thursday, getting in Friday at noon. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this is perfect. So I get to the airport, get

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<v Speaker 1>there a little early because my luggage is heavy. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>bringing books. It's fucking it's I'm like, this is a heavy,

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn luggage. So I get there early, go to the lounge.

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<v Speaker 1>It like it's delayed, Like okay, supposed to be a fifty.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets turned to nine thirty. Okay. I get to

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<v Speaker 1>the gate at nine thirty. They're like, well it's now

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<v Speaker 1>ten fifteen. Okay, we start boarding. Get on the plane.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, okay, good, we're getting out of here.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>I might get get in it like one or two whatever, Get.

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<v Speaker 1>On the plane. I'm sitting here talking to the guy

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<v Speaker 1>next to me. Cool ass, white dude, tat it up, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>He gives me the nude beach. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>we got here to the nude beach, but clearly he

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<v Speaker 1>saw it was one of those. He gives me the

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<v Speaker 1>nude beach. A nie. I said, yo, we gotta go

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<v Speaker 1>to the new beach. We sitting there talking, drinking our wine,

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to take off. I'm like, okay, let me

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<v Speaker 1>put on a movie. I can fall asleep too. I

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<v Speaker 1>put on Ten Things I Hate About You. Oh, good movie,

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<v Speaker 1>such a good movie. None of them looked like high schoolers.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, whoa, how do we hear? Anyways, So

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<v Speaker 1>watching ten Things I Hate About You, we go to

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<v Speaker 1>take off. I'm like, okay, I fall asleep. Fall asleep

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of ten Things I Hate about You,

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<v Speaker 1>I get woken up by Okay, guys, we'll be going

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<v Speaker 1>to the gate. Da da da da. Please make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you take everything off with you. I'm scared. I'm like, buddie,

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<v Speaker 1>we had to land in another country. Like, what you

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<v Speaker 1>mean were going to the gate. I'm like, I'm freaking out.

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<v Speaker 1>A nigga a bish beIN sleep. No, it is one

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<v Speaker 1>thirty in the morning. We never left goddamn Atlanta. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going back to the gate because the hours was it

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<v Speaker 1>from when it was taxi, Well, the flight was already

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<v Speaker 1>delayed by like two hours, and then I guess we

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<v Speaker 1>were on the tarmac for about another hour hour and

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<v Speaker 1>a half. Ooh, Like weather was bad. That sucks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it was so it's it's one thirty in

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<v Speaker 3>the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So we all get off and they're just telling us, Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll let you know up details at the gate, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Delta. By the way, I preface that because

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<v Speaker 1>what happened next made me question who the fuck I

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<v Speaker 1>was lying. So we get out to the gate, and

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<v Speaker 1>in the most Atlanta fashion, because we have no answers,

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<v Speaker 1>she says, check in, check in, Hello, Hello. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna let y'all know because y'all crew ain't had the

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<v Speaker 1>balls to tell you. Literally, this is on the The

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<v Speaker 1>reason y'all ain't taken off tonight is because they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to take the trip.

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<v Speaker 3>They timed out and said they don't want to take

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<v Speaker 3>the trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Suck. Let me tell y'all was about to happen. It's

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<v Speaker 1>one thirty in the morning, which means we gotta find

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<v Speaker 1>y'all a new crew. The chances of that happening at

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<v Speaker 1>one thirty in the morning are very high. Give me

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes, but do not come up here. Your crew

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<v Speaker 1>chose not to take this flight. Give me five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all sitting around and I'm like, okay, she said,

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<v Speaker 1>give me five minutes. Come back on No Live five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes later. All right, whatever number in email you use,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a hotel voucher and food vouchers for y'all. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to go stay in a hotel tonight because

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<v Speaker 1>we don't think that y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Gonna be able to get out tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm looking around, looking around, and they're like, okay, well,

0:26:17.119 --> 0:26:19.239
<v Speaker 1>none of us can leave because even if we get

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<v Speaker 1>hotels for tonight, we don't know what time we got

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<v Speaker 1>to be back to the airport. So the funniest thing happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Mind you, this is a direct flight to the south

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<v Speaker 1>of France. I'm looking at people, look at these hotels.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the La Quinta, it's the it's the red roof

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<v Speaker 1>in hold On.

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<v Speaker 3>So see, and here goes weezy. I think it's so easy.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't stay that.

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<v Speaker 1>So literally, I'm across and they're like, what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hotels do they think we're gonna stay at tonight? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hearing all these bougie people look at the list

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<v Speaker 1>of hold On and then they give us. Then they

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<v Speaker 1>give us two food vouchers twelve dollars apiece, and let

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<v Speaker 1>us know, y'all better go. The only thing open right

0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:58.640
<v Speaker 1>now is McDonald's and they about to close. What are

0:26:58.680 --> 0:27:00.920
<v Speaker 1>you in the morning. McDonald's is the only thing open,

0:27:01.440 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 1>and everyone's like, I'm not staying at these hotels. But

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:06.680
<v Speaker 1>mind you, it's one thirty in the morning, so many

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 1>of these hotels are already booked, like two or three options.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm listening to all these bourgie as people complain

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<v Speaker 1>about not want to say at the Laquenza or the

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<v Speaker 1>Holiday Inn. So then she comes back five minutes later,

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<v Speaker 1>it is two o'clock in the morning, because she says, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>before we get a time that we can land, we

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<v Speaker 1>have to call air traffic control because Nice is such

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<v Speaker 1>a small airport they only allow one flight a day,

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<v Speaker 1>so we need approval to land this plane for tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit bitch, She comes back. Flights officially been canceled, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all gotta figure out how to get there because they're

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<v Speaker 1>not allowing two planes to land tomorrow and Nice so

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<v Speaker 1>the desk is down the hall. Good luck, y'all. No,

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:55.160
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing she could do. She since now it's three

0:27:55.320 --> 0:27:59.920
<v Speaker 1>hundred people literally at two thirty in the morning. Hold on,

0:28:00.160 --> 0:28:02.040
<v Speaker 1>you're doing it too hold on. First off, I call

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<v Speaker 1>the Diamond Line. I get booked on the next direct flight.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't cause it's premium. I know, lucky there was

0:28:06.840 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 1>one seat left in premium, so there was no extra charge.

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:13.199
<v Speaker 1>She put me on. I looked up. Here go Atlanta Airport.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the international terminal. So y'all already sending people

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>to hotels. Everyone's on the phone or lined up, and

0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>it's three hundred people. The fucking trains are down. It

0:28:23.880 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>is a twenty three minute walk air trams. Oh shit,

0:28:27.840 --> 0:28:31.080
<v Speaker 1>not only it is a twenty three minute walk. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, terminal E to motherfucking ground transportation. And then

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<v Speaker 1>you know you got to call it Uba two thirty

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<v Speaker 1>when I tell you so on the way. Walking on

0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>the way there, I'm like, well, let me call my

0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:46.080
<v Speaker 1>hotel and niece cause they better give me a refund

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:48.120
<v Speaker 1>because I make it there covering. No. No, no, no,

0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>well I'll do I'm plotting them with Bear. So they said,

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 1>no worries, I'll just modify the reservation. The Marriott was great,

0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 1>and so I'm walking and I'm like, wow, the growth.

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Normally I would have been pissed about. My blood pressure

0:29:06.240 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 1>would have been hot I would have been like just miserable.

0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:12.640
<v Speaker 1>And as I'm walking from twenty three minutes down all

0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:17.280
<v Speaker 1>the goddamned terminals at the Atlanta Airport, I'm like, Giry,

0:29:17.320 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 1>you came so far. I'm talking to myself at this point.

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>It's three o'clock in the morning, and I'm like, you

0:29:22.520 --> 0:29:24.800
<v Speaker 1>know how you normally respond to things, And I'm just like,

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:28.160
<v Speaker 1>in my mind, I'm genuinely like, I'm gonna make it

0:29:28.200 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 1>there because I'm supposed to be there, and I'm like,

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>there's a reason why we didn't get on that goddamn plane. True,

0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:36.040
<v Speaker 1>it might be that the new final destination just dropped.

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I've been just listen Bad Brother's Bad Brother, though.

0:29:41.160 --> 0:29:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I've been saying I don't need the stress of doing that,

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:46.720
<v Speaker 1>and I was just like a good attitude. So I

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:49.360
<v Speaker 1>got then, I got that. On Saturday, got to spend

0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I ended up cutting out Monacos, but the whole day

0:29:51.600 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>and Knees got to cam the next day.

0:29:53.280 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 3>And I was just like everything the entire week.

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was fine. No, When I say, yeah, everything

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:01.280
<v Speaker 1>that we said we wanted, the people we said we

0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 1>wanted to meet, we met.

0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:05.160
<v Speaker 3>And I was just like, it's because I came into

0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:07.280
<v Speaker 3>this week with that energy. It had to be and

0:30:07.400 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 3>it was just like so great.

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:11.480
<v Speaker 1>But no, as I was sitting there, I think it was.

0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 3>I think it was just funny. First off, the lady

0:30:13.640 --> 0:30:16.040
<v Speaker 3>at the gate talking like this is so plain.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Though she did it, it's not her. It was three

0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:21.600
<v Speaker 4>hundred people to attack her. And thank god, by the way,

0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:23.320
<v Speaker 4>that you took a nap right before that long walk.

0:30:25.000 --> 0:30:25.960
<v Speaker 4>At least you were arrested.

0:30:26.000 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie rest imagine you didn't take it nap.

0:30:29.800 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 4>You're gonna be cranky walking all the way down to

0:30:32.160 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 4>the Brown Transportation.

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I told you.

0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 5>I got home because I forgot my toy and still masturbating.

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 5>When I get home, I said, oh my god, cleaning.

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 2>Really, they'll do anything you want. They gat meet up

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:49.960
<v Speaker 2>looking same liquid to ship. Bitch didn't say there and

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:51.880
<v Speaker 2>I said, sorry, this is what I book.

0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>They gave it back. I started ordering food that they

0:30:54.840 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't let me get. They gave it back. Yeah. I

0:30:57.200 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, I remember when I what

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:01.479
<v Speaker 1>was it? I was telling y'all, oh, when we were

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:04.760
<v Speaker 1>supposed to make it to another country, what was it? Vietnam,

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>and then we couldn't get in with the visa and

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>we were sitting in the airport like what do we do? Yeah?

0:31:08.680 --> 0:31:10.480
<v Speaker 1>And you know what's hard of the same latitude, Like

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:13.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, it'starting together. We forgot to tell you about

0:31:13.280 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 1>that too, because that almost happened to me a Crystal

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:18.960
<v Speaker 1>because we were traveling with Adriana. Adriana has a German passport,

0:31:19.320 --> 0:31:22.680
<v Speaker 1>so she booked our routing to Vietnam. Bitch me and

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:25.760
<v Speaker 1>Crystal get there, they say, oh no, y'all, bitches need visas.

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 1>Now we literally had that day.

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 3>They will, y'all they're on a weekend. Y'all were there

0:31:30.440 --> 0:31:30.959
<v Speaker 3>on a weekend.

0:31:37.440 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think if any fun travel stuff happened

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 2>with us. No, but the one thing, obviously the Old

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Bay story is tea, but that's a whole episode. So

0:31:47.360 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 2>there's this club I don't know if anyone's ever heard

0:31:49.800 --> 0:31:53.440
<v Speaker 2>of it. Listening, it's called Berghein, And actually last week's

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 2>episode with Jerry, she talks about going in there.

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so my man and I are playing this yer

0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.160
<v Speaker 1>trip and he is very like he would rather travel

0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:04.600
<v Speaker 1>to like Brazil, Japan or South Africa.

0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:05.920
<v Speaker 3>I love that you get him to do everything he

0:32:05.960 --> 0:32:07.600
<v Speaker 3>don't want to do the cruise in now Europe.

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh he loved Europe though, And it sound funny because

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 2>when you were in pairs together, he's like, I get

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 2>it now, baby, He's like, I see because he would

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 2>make fun of me and be like, oh you like

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 2>that white shit. The second he got there, he's like,

0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 2>I've seen more niggas than I thought I would like.

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 2>So we get We've been listening to a lot of

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:26.479
<v Speaker 2>House and more recently Techno at a spot called Basement

0:32:26.520 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 2>in New York, which I mentioned was in the Baby

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.400
<v Speaker 2>Girl movie for that crazy club scene. So we're like,

0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 2>all right, we gotta go to the real shit. And

0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:36.320
<v Speaker 2>I have heard the real shit is in Berlin. This

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 2>club called Berghein. Berghein is basically this I don't even

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:45.680
<v Speaker 2>know how to describe it. It's maybe five stories warehouse building,

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 2>a five story dungeon imagine.

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:52.480
<v Speaker 1>So all he's the club. No, it's just a club,

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.280
<v Speaker 1>and it's open because you're a dungeon're a dungeon.

0:32:55.640 --> 0:32:59.360
<v Speaker 2>But ohrs, But we'll talk about what's in there a

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 2>little bit because I want to keep the code and

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 2>get back in one day four days. The club is open,

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 2>okay from Thursday to Monday. So we're like talking to

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 2>people in Germany, like how do we get in? What's

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:11.240
<v Speaker 2>the best way to get in. I spoke to Liz

0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Knebridch because she loves techno and she's like, tell you today, bitch,

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 2>you get their Sunday morning, you have brunch. And then

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.680
<v Speaker 2>he stayed on London warning and I'm like what, So

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 2>I was really worried.

0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>We wouldn't get in.

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:23.160
<v Speaker 2>The door guy whose name's Spenn, actually he was in

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:27.280
<v Speaker 2>john Wick for he's a well known doorman. He's in interviews.

0:33:27.320 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Everybody's terrified at this guy. I watched this interview they

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 2>had to like dub it. He basically is like what

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 2>I do is face control. You can't pay me.

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>No one's gonna convince me you can get it.

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 2>If I say no, it's me and a team of

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 2>other people and we decide if you fit the energy

0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:42.520
<v Speaker 2>for this club, and if you don't, you don't get in.

0:33:43.000 --> 0:33:47.760
<v Speaker 1>If he says no, there's no talking. There's also tiktoks

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 1>and Reddit threats where you can figure out how to

0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 1>get in.

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:50.760
<v Speaker 3>That's spin okay.

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 1>So basically when they ask you how many people are

0:33:53.760 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 1>you hold up the fingers.

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:56.719
<v Speaker 2>You don't speak. They look you up and down. They

0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 2>may ask you what dj you know? They may not

0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 2>they may say why are you here? Like you got

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 2>to figure out your answer. You wear all black, you

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:04.960
<v Speaker 2>don't smoke in line, you don't get on the phone

0:34:05.000 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 2>in line.

0:34:05.680 --> 0:34:07.240
<v Speaker 1>If you can google rules. I'm telling you this is

0:34:07.280 --> 0:34:08.400
<v Speaker 1>what I know. This is insane.

0:34:08.520 --> 0:34:10.399
<v Speaker 4>This man looks by the way all the audio listen

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:14.680
<v Speaker 4>is very intimidating. Man face covered in tattoos, snake bites,

0:34:14.760 --> 0:34:17.240
<v Speaker 4>gray beard and looks like would crushed by school at Harby.

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 1>And then something interesting he said. He's like, listen, uh,

0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:22.600
<v Speaker 1>there's places I can't get into because of how he looks.

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:23.359
<v Speaker 1>Right for ta to tase.

0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:24.960
<v Speaker 2>He's like, so there's just places you can't get into,

0:34:25.040 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 2>like if you don't get the vibe in it. So

0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 2>me and my man get there around four pm on

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 2>a Sunday. We heard that's when the line is low,

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:32.719
<v Speaker 2>because you may be in hours for three hours in line.

0:34:33.640 --> 0:34:35.080
<v Speaker 2>But it's the best club in the world, they say

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Elon Musk got rejected.

0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:39.680
<v Speaker 1>It's a whole thing. You can't get it. Not that attractive.

0:34:39.800 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>No tables just to say, like, you could be the

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:46.080
<v Speaker 1>richest man in the world. Right. So we're watching people

0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 1>get turned away and my niggas like damn, like they

0:34:50.160 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of look like they fit, Like why the fuck

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:54.880
<v Speaker 1>they get it? So then we get closer, He's like,

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:57.960
<v Speaker 1>we don't need niggas in this line. We get ain't

0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 1>no way, I'll blow this shit up. Not getting in

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:04.400
<v Speaker 1>is the fucking culture of this club. So we get

0:35:04.440 --> 0:35:06.759
<v Speaker 1>to the door. I'm thinking this guy is the urban myth.

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking because he's been working at twenty years. I'm

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 1>not thinking we all see him, bitch, we see you.

0:35:12.560 --> 0:35:16.440
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, oh fuck, because there are other door

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 1>guys people talk about, but this is the one. My

0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:23.960
<v Speaker 1>man's wearing black, black pans, thick, chunky, like those big

0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:26.840
<v Speaker 1>botaga booze, and just some cool shit. He got his

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:28.440
<v Speaker 1>shirt open a little bit so you might see a

0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:31.239
<v Speaker 1>little nipple ring. I was just wearing all black and leather.

0:35:32.600 --> 0:35:34.279
<v Speaker 1>So the door guys look at us, say how many?

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>They look us up and down. He says something in

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:40.399
<v Speaker 1>German to the guy next to him. Then they pull

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.920
<v Speaker 1>out spend he's the main guy. He's looking us up

0:35:43.960 --> 0:35:46.960
<v Speaker 1>and down. They start talking to each other. Bro, I

0:35:47.000 --> 0:35:50.239
<v Speaker 1>didn't know it was gonna take this long. So I'm swimming, bitch,

0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:52.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my god, this feels like racism and oppression.

0:35:52.880 --> 0:35:56.360
<v Speaker 1>This is too much. And then finally it's just boom

0:35:56.480 --> 0:36:01.000
<v Speaker 1>one head nod and does this like go in. Well,

0:36:01.040 --> 0:36:02.880
<v Speaker 1>you can't say anything, you know, So we're just walking

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:04.680
<v Speaker 1>in and he squeezing them olve and I'm like, oh shit,

0:36:04.719 --> 0:36:07.440
<v Speaker 1>oh shit, oh shit. They cover your phones. This is,

0:36:07.480 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 1>by the way, German thing phones covered.

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:12.920
<v Speaker 2>First thing I see when I get in, literally a

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 2>dude with his dick out and wearing wristlets to hold

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 2>his phone on his ankles.

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Did he go in with his dick out? Not set?

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 2>But this was another tip I got for anyone going

0:36:24.200 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 2>to berg Hine. So you bring a bag with you

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:31.279
<v Speaker 2>and they know you're gonna change. The first floor is

0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:31.919
<v Speaker 2>the cod check.

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.800
<v Speaker 1>The code check is so full because everybody's getting undressed.

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:36.879
<v Speaker 1>So now at this point I told all like, I'm

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 1>taking my pants off, like now I want to get undressed.

0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:41.839
<v Speaker 1>So I'm thinking I'm about to walk into a sex club.

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.800
<v Speaker 1>It's not a sex club, but I don't know what

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:47.919
<v Speaker 1>to call it. You walk in it's a nude club.

0:36:48.120 --> 0:36:49.160
<v Speaker 1>It's not even a nude club.

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:51.560
<v Speaker 3>If you saw a whole dick, girl, it's a nude club.

0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:53.800
<v Speaker 1>People wearing clothes, some people are not, some people have

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:56.120
<v Speaker 1>their tips out. I don't know what it is a club,

0:36:56.480 --> 0:37:00.520
<v Speaker 1>so my nudity, it's not. You saw dick a titty

0:37:00.719 --> 0:37:05.000
<v Speaker 1>the club. It has no rules period. A club with

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 1>no rules. No, so you cut a stuff your man

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:09.440
<v Speaker 1>dick in the club. I'm gonna tell you what I

0:37:09.440 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 1>saw a little bit. Oh, I'm gonna tell you everything.

0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:13.640
<v Speaker 1>This is a sex club, bro. It's not as like, okay,

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 1>we're not going to label it like how. People don't

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:17.160
<v Speaker 1>want to be lax, so they say it is at

0:37:17.160 --> 0:37:17.959
<v Speaker 1>the best club of the world.

0:37:18.040 --> 0:37:19.520
<v Speaker 2>And I was talking to this black girl in the

0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 2>bathroom who she doesn't know me or you, but she

0:37:22.760 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 2>was like, I feel.

0:37:23.800 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Like you do something with someone someone hold I know you.

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, okay, maybe. So I was like, what

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:31.239
<v Speaker 1>do you think? She was like, I only came here

0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:32.279
<v Speaker 1>because I heard it was hard to get in and

0:37:32.320 --> 0:37:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know I could get in. She was like, but.

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I hate techno and I hate house music. She's like,

0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:40.480
<v Speaker 2>I fucking I cannot believe how much I love this thing.

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 2>She's like, it is just the weirdest energy. So basically

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 2>we start walking through the club and my man and

0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 2>I were still geeked off the fact that we got

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:48.840
<v Speaker 2>in this shit. We want to talk about it, like

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:49.920
<v Speaker 2>why are you looking at this a long?

0:37:50.040 --> 0:37:51.399
<v Speaker 1>Did he say? Nigga? What did you say?

0:37:51.719 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 2>So we're walking by and there's these little inlets like

0:37:55.320 --> 0:37:58.279
<v Speaker 2>it looks like closets but with no door, private rooms,

0:37:59.320 --> 0:38:01.840
<v Speaker 2>but only one two people could fit in, like literally

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:04.960
<v Speaker 2>if it looked like a box, like if you walked in,

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:07.120
<v Speaker 2>someone that got in there would have to squeeze and

0:38:07.160 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 2>be suffocated.

0:38:08.400 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Or put their dick in you yep, And that's what

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I saw. And oh, so we're looking at it and

0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:18.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, I need to get high out. I

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:21.640
<v Speaker 1>need to do some drugs. Now, do some drugs. So

0:38:22.080 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to go to the bathroom and do my

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:26.359
<v Speaker 1>drugs like a good person. And then finally I'm waiting

0:38:26.440 --> 0:38:30.600
<v Speaker 1>online and someone just pulls some shit out. She says,

0:38:30.840 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 1>would you like some spid? Do some spid? I was like,

0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 1>oh no, and I will go do my ecstasy alone.

0:38:39.160 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 1>Ye go back out and it's like, it's five forty

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:44.839
<v Speaker 1>five the club closed at eight am to night. It's

0:38:44.880 --> 0:38:47.239
<v Speaker 1>five forty five pm. He's like, what are we gonna do?

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:49.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't know, dude. It is wild. I've

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:52.279
<v Speaker 1>never seen anything like this in my life. I'm like,

0:38:52.320 --> 0:38:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I got to get out of here. Let's go get

0:38:53.920 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 1>a drink. I go get a drink. I'm waiting on

0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:58.160
<v Speaker 1>the bartender. Bartender is standing next to three on the

0:38:58.160 --> 0:39:00.920
<v Speaker 1>bartender is wearing like all techno clothing, and another one

0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:06.279
<v Speaker 1>comes out fully naked with a huge, huge rabbit's foot

0:39:06.440 --> 0:39:11.480
<v Speaker 1>hanging from the chain on his dick, and he says, oh,

0:39:12.520 --> 0:39:14.680
<v Speaker 1>but are you from would you like to drink? And

0:39:14.719 --> 0:39:20.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, dick water, I don't bitch? What dick out? Bitch? Wait?

0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 1>Are all the bottles okay? Sorry, this is where my

0:39:23.640 --> 0:39:28.120
<v Speaker 1>mom went. Are all the bottles at least on the wall,

0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:30.920
<v Speaker 1>like above them? Because all I'm thinking is, as a

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:35.000
<v Speaker 1>former bartender, sometimes it's down anywhere else is his dick

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 1>slanging possibly touching the tops of the bottles where it

0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>pours out.

0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:45.000
<v Speaker 4>I just would like to also, also, is it like

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:47.480
<v Speaker 4>sacrilegious to share bottles there? Because that was a problem

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:49.280
<v Speaker 4>earlier in this Oh.

0:39:49.480 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 1>There's no tables, okay, everyone, there's no tables. There's no

0:39:53.520 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 1>way you can pay to get there is no exclusive No.

0:39:57.560 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, honestly, unless the bottle are coming from

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.000
<v Speaker 1>above you, I don't know if I want a dick

0:40:03.080 --> 0:40:05.120
<v Speaker 1>slinging bye ma ba.

0:40:05.239 --> 0:40:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, no choice match. And you know what else is crazy?

0:40:08.000 --> 0:40:10.400
<v Speaker 2>This club is so true to the fact that no

0:40:10.480 --> 0:40:13.839
<v Speaker 2>one's above anyone. When the DJ walked in, he walked

0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:16.000
<v Speaker 2>in through the front door, I saw people bugging out

0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:19.880
<v Speaker 2>about him. No oh well, he then climbed up a

0:40:20.000 --> 0:40:22.680
<v Speaker 2>ladder to get to a section, to put his things down,

0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 2>and climb down the ladder to get to the fucking

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 2>bro best anciste I've ever heard, I've never I was

0:40:27.680 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 2>just wow, it was a lot.

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.239
<v Speaker 1>And then it's an unlabeled sex club. I think it's

0:40:34.360 --> 0:40:40.320
<v Speaker 1>just a very pre for all love call free. I

0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:42.120
<v Speaker 1>really don't think it's a sex sob. I swear to God,

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:44.680
<v Speaker 1>like if there's no there's no, there's no. But there's

0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:47.360
<v Speaker 1>no way of fun. There's clearly a lot of places

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 1>as the bathroom a little slits in a world. I

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:51.680
<v Speaker 1>think it's them all. It's just cool to me.

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 5>Though.

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 1>To me, though I think it's to me, I would say,

0:40:55.440 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 1>and maybe because we we in Europe. But to me,

0:41:00.120 --> 0:41:02.959
<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to a place that's not a sex club,

0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 1>like you and I are liberated. To me, if I'm

0:41:07.120 --> 0:41:10.640
<v Speaker 1>going to a club, I don't believe that I'm going

0:41:10.719 --> 0:41:12.800
<v Speaker 1>to see anybody's dick or anyone's think Like to me,

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:16.239
<v Speaker 1>that's like there's that sexual assault technically their sex.

0:41:16.320 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 2>It's to rest why that is why all of these

0:41:19.360 --> 0:41:21.400
<v Speaker 2>people are judged based on if they fit the vibe.

0:41:21.960 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you will see four fucking niggas fucking each other.

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:26.440
<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna be weird about it? I don't know

0:41:26.520 --> 0:41:31.520
<v Speaker 2>how one guy with face tattoos can determine it. Well no, no, no, no, apparently,

0:41:31.640 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know because now after we got in

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:35.520
<v Speaker 2>we've just been googling, like trying to figure out about

0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:37.759
<v Speaker 2>this club. There's a rumor online that he's been paid

0:41:38.239 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 2>to like do the most.

0:41:39.400 --> 0:41:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Like curate vibes and like do shit like that. Like

0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I actually think that you can do that.

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.000
<v Speaker 2>I think for twenty years, if you've been running one

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:49.279
<v Speaker 2>of the most well known clubs in the world, Yes,

0:41:49.320 --> 0:41:50.200
<v Speaker 2>I do think you can do that.

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:51.840
<v Speaker 1>I think I could look at somebody and be like,

0:41:51.920 --> 0:41:54.880
<v Speaker 1>you ain't about this life one hundred percent. I think

0:41:54.920 --> 0:41:56.520
<v Speaker 1>we all can do that. And I think in my

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 1>in my first thirty seconds of just looking at someone

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:02.040
<v Speaker 1>where you can't say words, which means you can't have

0:42:02.080 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 1>a conversation and you're just looking at energy, has energy bro.

0:42:05.160 --> 0:42:07.600
<v Speaker 1>For example, there's a clip of Peggy Goose, she's a

0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:10.200
<v Speaker 1>really dope DJ who is talking to another DJ in

0:42:10.280 --> 0:42:12.000
<v Speaker 1>BBC and the girl goes, how do I get in?

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:14.239
<v Speaker 1>She was like, you gotta look ready, and the other

0:42:14.400 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 1>girl are you huh? I agree, I agree, I think

0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you gotta know. So then we start talking about this. Right.

0:42:20.080 --> 0:42:22.239
<v Speaker 1>I talked to my homeboy who runs Jerk and Joel

0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:24.520
<v Speaker 1>Off shout out to Sante. He's like, damn, nigga, you

0:42:24.600 --> 0:42:26.440
<v Speaker 1>got in. I didn't get in, And I'm like.

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 2>Hell because I'm thinking he's a handsome looking guy and

0:42:28.880 --> 0:42:30.520
<v Speaker 2>he's like I had so many people I was with,

0:42:30.960 --> 0:42:33.400
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, all right, now, I don't think he

0:42:33.480 --> 0:42:35.320
<v Speaker 2>means black shit. I think he means he throws the

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:37.840
<v Speaker 2>afrobeats party basically, right, Afrobe's anshult.

0:42:38.000 --> 0:42:39.480
<v Speaker 1>So if you bring a niggas from the club with you.

0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:43.080
<v Speaker 1>How are they dressed? Are they dressed in just like regularly? Shit?

0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Like what they looking like?

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Because you really got to fit the bill for people

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:48.680
<v Speaker 2>that like this music, for people that do this, like

0:42:48.719 --> 0:42:51.080
<v Speaker 2>you can't look like a first timer. And I heard

0:42:51.120 --> 0:42:53.040
<v Speaker 2>them say to the guy before us, have you been

0:42:53.120 --> 0:42:57.719
<v Speaker 2>here before? And he said no, and they talked and

0:42:57.840 --> 0:42:58.160
<v Speaker 2>then they.

0:42:58.160 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Still let him in. But he kind of a little

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:01.120
<v Speaker 1>life vibe.

0:43:01.239 --> 0:43:04.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think that if more people did this

0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 2>instead of being for example, little Sisters Adore in New

0:43:09.080 --> 0:43:10.640
<v Speaker 2>York that a lot of people can't get into. They're

0:43:10.680 --> 0:43:13.879
<v Speaker 2>known notoriously for letting in skinny model girls and it's

0:43:13.920 --> 0:43:15.760
<v Speaker 2>turned into this whole cool kid's culture.

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>But it used to be a cool.

0:43:16.840 --> 0:43:18.960
<v Speaker 2>Club, but it's not really anymore. What if it was

0:43:19.120 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 2>just based off people that looked like they were ready

0:43:21.160 --> 0:43:23.040
<v Speaker 2>to fucking dance and.

0:43:23.120 --> 0:43:28.160
<v Speaker 1>That were cool, not hot, cool, that whatever, short, just

0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:32.120
<v Speaker 1>a cool motherfucker instead of skinny model white.

0:43:32.600 --> 0:43:34.719
<v Speaker 3>You just think even cool. But I think even cool.

0:43:34.760 --> 0:43:35.480
<v Speaker 3>It's subjective.

0:43:35.560 --> 0:43:37.439
<v Speaker 1>I do want to shout out to Okay, see because

0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I found out cold they there's something called an unction

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:42.920
<v Speaker 1>and it's a thirty and up crowd. You cannot get

0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 1>it unless you are thirty plus and she's twenty seven.

0:43:47.360 --> 0:43:48.960
<v Speaker 3>So she was like, oh, you gotta be thirty. And

0:43:49.040 --> 0:43:50.319
<v Speaker 3>she said it like it was real old.

0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:52.920
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh, did you go? I didn't.

0:43:52.960 --> 0:43:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I was so tired. I had just lend it from France.

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:57.440
<v Speaker 1>I had to go from France. Okay, see the whole festival.

0:43:57.800 --> 0:43:59.239
<v Speaker 1>I was like, ain't no way, I'm making it out.

0:43:59.239 --> 0:44:02.000
<v Speaker 1>But she was telling me by the unction and I said, yea,

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I love that name. And what I'm realizing too is

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:09.279
<v Speaker 1>thirty enough crowds are loving R and B. It's why

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 1>almost the only time I go out, even in Atlanta,

0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:14.919
<v Speaker 1>were looking for the R and B parties And I'm like, damn,

0:44:15.000 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>that's a good name, I said, because I like a

0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:20.520
<v Speaker 1>little thirty up crowd. Although I do like my Wyans too,

0:44:20.800 --> 0:44:22.640
<v Speaker 1>But the Wayians in the South dress a little too

0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Yanish for me. Oh.

0:44:23.840 --> 0:44:26.680
<v Speaker 2>I like Kawaiians everywhere doing you know what? Learn that

0:44:27.080 --> 0:44:32.759
<v Speaker 2>in London the Wayans the like that culture of like drill,

0:44:32.960 --> 0:44:35.919
<v Speaker 2>like nog the cdentral Sea. Look, let me tell you something.

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:40.239
<v Speaker 1>Hate it crossing people's street, Hate it not crossing the street.

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't like them.

0:44:42.120 --> 0:44:45.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm walking down the Lower east Side. Yo, I'm sorry

0:44:45.480 --> 0:44:47.920
<v Speaker 2>if I sound like a fucking Karen. Me and my

0:44:48.040 --> 0:44:49.000
<v Speaker 2>nigga are mid thirties.

0:44:49.200 --> 0:44:51.359
<v Speaker 1>The other day we saw some niggas we were walking

0:44:51.400 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 1>in it. I said, get him out of here, go left.

0:44:54.120 --> 0:44:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to, he laughed. He's like, I'm like

0:44:56.120 --> 0:45:01.440
<v Speaker 1>eight niggas, bunched up, thirteen years old after school. You marijuana,

0:45:01.640 --> 0:45:03.279
<v Speaker 1>get up in marijuana?

0:45:03.760 --> 0:45:05.239
<v Speaker 3>Well, no, I ain't gonna need you to me.

0:45:05.680 --> 0:45:11.320
<v Speaker 1>It's it's not for shown. I hate it the Jesus.

0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:14.280
<v Speaker 1>And here's my problem with the Yan fashion in Atlanta.

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:16.919
<v Speaker 1>Like me and my friend now have a game where

0:45:16.960 --> 0:45:19.520
<v Speaker 1>when we go out, we literally try to decipher who's

0:45:19.560 --> 0:45:23.480
<v Speaker 1>hetero and who's not. The why in look is a

0:45:23.560 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 1>mix between guess real hood. But in Atlanta they bedazzle

0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:29.640
<v Speaker 1>ships and they wear ship no, and then it be

0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:32.320
<v Speaker 1>crop top like you go white there. So I'm like,

0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 1>you know why under me in my head is like that,

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:38.520
<v Speaker 1>hold no, no, no, let me finish. It'll be bedazzled

0:45:38.600 --> 0:45:40.399
<v Speaker 1>tight with the crow top and it's still a ski

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:44.640
<v Speaker 1>mask where it's ninety degree. That's okay for Atlanta. That's

0:45:44.680 --> 0:45:47.160
<v Speaker 1>what that is it's the white. It looks like that's

0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:49.799
<v Speaker 1>my life with this is the way. That's the look,

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:53.080
<v Speaker 1>the way the that's the way the drill rappers dressed.

0:45:53.120 --> 0:45:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Don't like it, like you know, I don't like it.

0:45:55.280 --> 0:45:57.160
<v Speaker 1>He is you know, like if you know, like you

0:45:57.200 --> 0:45:58.719
<v Speaker 1>went to Paris for fact music.

0:45:58.840 --> 0:46:01.240
<v Speaker 2>It's this thing I kate when rain into on accidents,

0:46:01.239 --> 0:46:04.319
<v Speaker 2>basically just music day. It started in the seventies where

0:46:04.360 --> 0:46:07.080
<v Speaker 2>free concerts were all over the streets in France, and

0:46:07.200 --> 0:46:11.359
<v Speaker 2>now it's turned into people could just play music from

0:46:11.400 --> 0:46:14.520
<v Speaker 2>their homes like you basically follow the street to different sounds.

0:46:14.560 --> 0:46:18.000
<v Speaker 1>It's so much fun. So my whomeboy invites me to

0:46:18.160 --> 0:46:20.359
<v Speaker 1>this party. Be on my nigga about the pull up.

0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:22.759
<v Speaker 1>I want to say it was sponsored by Snipes or

0:46:22.840 --> 0:46:26.239
<v Speaker 1>Nike and it's free. Right. We got up there, I

0:46:26.360 --> 0:46:30.399
<v Speaker 1>see thirty niggas with Travis Scott Braids and Nike Tech.

0:46:30.440 --> 0:46:32.800
<v Speaker 1>I said, we're not going They're gonna be shooting we

0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:37.359
<v Speaker 1>are No, Wow, that's crazy. I'm going to daily paper, bitch.

0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to motherfucker every day pop why I'm not

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:42.040
<v Speaker 1>going to ask shit, Y'all'm n exactly going to be

0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:44.319
<v Speaker 1>trying to kill me. Oh, it's funny. I've been trying

0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:47.319
<v Speaker 1>to figure out where to go in Atlanta because it's

0:46:47.360 --> 0:46:49.840
<v Speaker 1>a mix. I do want to go where the Waiians are,

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:51.439
<v Speaker 1>not the ones that just like the Wayans, but y'all

0:46:51.480 --> 0:46:53.360
<v Speaker 1>know I like me a little Wayian, so I've been

0:46:53.400 --> 0:46:56.040
<v Speaker 1>trying to go there. And then also them's her crowd,

0:46:56.200 --> 0:47:00.160
<v Speaker 1>so the cigar bars. So it's like been interesting to

0:47:00.200 --> 0:47:02.480
<v Speaker 1>figure out where the hell just to go out where, Yeah,

0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:12.680
<v Speaker 1>you know people you know makes sense. Yeah, let's get

0:47:12.719 --> 0:47:17.279
<v Speaker 1>into y'all. We are now authors. We authors, Baby, We're

0:47:17.280 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 1>gonna get into a little bit of the book to

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:22.120
<v Speaker 1>share with y'all some things, talk about it and really

0:47:22.640 --> 0:47:24.640
<v Speaker 1>hopefully get y'all just as excited as we are that

0:47:24.719 --> 0:47:26.279
<v Speaker 1>the book is now out, that you get to read

0:47:26.760 --> 0:47:27.760
<v Speaker 1>all the things we shared.

0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:30.360
<v Speaker 3>We'd be vulnerable on the podcast, but we even more

0:47:30.440 --> 0:47:31.319
<v Speaker 3>vulnerable in the book.

0:47:31.400 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 1>And listen, you may just be.

0:47:32.680 --> 0:47:37.719
<v Speaker 2>A listener that doesn't really care about reading anything about us.

0:47:38.360 --> 0:47:39.600
<v Speaker 2>You don't need to care about me and die it

0:47:39.680 --> 0:47:42.520
<v Speaker 2>easy to read this. It's really that good of a book.

0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:45.239
<v Speaker 2>I will say different compliments I received from this book.

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Last night when Shara hit me, he said, everyone that

0:47:47.800 --> 0:47:51.480
<v Speaker 2>loved to say and will love this book. One of

0:47:51.680 --> 0:47:55.200
<v Speaker 2>my other homegirls said, I kind of feel like I'm

0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:57.479
<v Speaker 2>reading a self help book for help that I didn't

0:47:57.520 --> 0:48:00.160
<v Speaker 2>ask for, but now I kind of like it. I

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:05.000
<v Speaker 2>like reading about tips about BDSM. She's like, I like

0:48:05.080 --> 0:48:07.239
<v Speaker 2>reading about these heartbreak tips. She's like, I feel like

0:48:07.280 --> 0:48:10.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm married, but just reading on how I should have

0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:13.920
<v Speaker 2>done things feels good. And I think it's all of

0:48:14.160 --> 0:48:17.520
<v Speaker 2>this juicy detail about someone that you don't know.

0:48:17.800 --> 0:48:20.840
<v Speaker 1>But it's non fiction. When we read nonfiction, we're normally

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:24.000
<v Speaker 1>reading it to better our money or mental health. We

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:28.520
<v Speaker 1>never think about nonfiction for the sex. Yeah, so I'm

0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:31.200
<v Speaker 1>like excited for you to dig in. I wanted to

0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:35.120
<v Speaker 1>break up real quick some conversations for us based on

0:48:35.200 --> 0:48:37.440
<v Speaker 1>the sections of the book, just so that we can

0:48:37.960 --> 0:48:40.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe add some elements to it, tell them something they

0:48:40.280 --> 0:48:43.080
<v Speaker 1>may not know, get deeper into something. So I wanted

0:48:43.080 --> 0:48:45.920
<v Speaker 1>to start with pleasure, because pleasure outside of our introduction

0:48:46.040 --> 0:48:51.080
<v Speaker 1>is where the book starts. And so for pleasure, I

0:48:51.239 --> 0:48:53.879
<v Speaker 1>wanted you to share your favorite moment in the book

0:48:53.920 --> 0:48:56.719
<v Speaker 1>from this section. Really, it could be a sense of

0:48:56.880 --> 0:48:59.120
<v Speaker 1>a tip or a specific story about a certain person.

0:48:59.520 --> 0:49:03.560
<v Speaker 1>So for me. Specifically, my three chapters and the Pleasure

0:49:03.600 --> 0:49:07.240
<v Speaker 1>of Portion are about masturbation, being a unicorn on vacation,

0:49:07.520 --> 0:49:12.439
<v Speaker 1>and anal sex, which I love. Y'all, actually has something

0:49:12.480 --> 0:49:15.439
<v Speaker 1>to do with that chapter title. We literally leaned into

0:49:15.520 --> 0:49:18.120
<v Speaker 1>something that was said on the podcast when Vinnie joined us.

0:49:18.480 --> 0:49:20.680
<v Speaker 1>But can I put it back there? That's the title

0:49:20.760 --> 0:49:24.600
<v Speaker 1>of that chapter. But I wanted to actually add because

0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:28.200
<v Speaker 1>this is a story told on the podcast. Y'all remember

0:49:28.320 --> 0:49:32.040
<v Speaker 1>when I took my solo trip to Mexico and became

0:49:32.239 --> 0:49:35.120
<v Speaker 1>a unicorn for a couple and it was just super wonderful.

0:49:36.040 --> 0:49:39.080
<v Speaker 1>This chapter, even though you've heard the story on the podcast,

0:49:40.160 --> 0:49:44.160
<v Speaker 1>I kind of tied into the fact that so many

0:49:44.280 --> 0:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>of us maybe stop ourselves from exploring or doing things

0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:51.160
<v Speaker 1>that we want to do because of how we think

0:49:51.200 --> 0:49:54.040
<v Speaker 1>people will perceive us. So that chapter, the theme is

0:49:54.040 --> 0:49:56.800
<v Speaker 1>about would this have happened if I came with friends?

0:49:57.200 --> 0:49:59.960
<v Speaker 1>Would this have happened if I was thinking too much

0:50:00.160 --> 0:50:02.040
<v Speaker 1>about what the people on the boat would.

0:50:01.800 --> 0:50:04.200
<v Speaker 3>Have thought about me for staying on this island with strangers?

0:50:04.600 --> 0:50:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Would I have got to experience this dope ass experience

0:50:09.520 --> 0:50:13.680
<v Speaker 1>of a weekend? Had I let what public perception would

0:50:13.680 --> 0:50:16.200
<v Speaker 1>have took about this experience from me, and so I

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:21.600
<v Speaker 1>really lean into hopefully the reader from that reading that chapter,

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:24.200
<v Speaker 1>the reader gets that, damn, how many times did I

0:50:24.280 --> 0:50:26.720
<v Speaker 1>not shoot my shot because I was in fear of rejection?

0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:31.320
<v Speaker 1>How many times did I not date this person because

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I just knew my friends wouldn't like him or my

0:50:33.719 --> 0:50:35.960
<v Speaker 1>mama wouldn't like him, And I want to make all

0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:39.080
<v Speaker 1>those people happy instead of choosing my own happiness first.

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:41.879
<v Speaker 1>So that was, like I would say, my favorite chapter

0:50:41.960 --> 0:50:44.160
<v Speaker 1>of the pleasure section, but also the theme that I

0:50:44.239 --> 0:50:46.120
<v Speaker 1>was able to bring around a story that y'all already

0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:46.680
<v Speaker 1>heard on the pod.

0:50:46.880 --> 0:50:49.520
<v Speaker 2>I think the pain section will be people's favorite because

0:50:49.560 --> 0:50:51.880
<v Speaker 2>it jumps around. Oh no, I want to think it's no, no, no,

0:50:52.040 --> 0:50:53.560
<v Speaker 2>I know I'm just saying, but I think the pleasure

0:50:54.080 --> 0:50:57.920
<v Speaker 2>starting with the pleasure is really fun because when you

0:50:58.000 --> 0:50:59.919
<v Speaker 2>pick up a book like this, that's what you respect read.

0:51:00.600 --> 0:51:03.680
<v Speaker 2>I think for me one that I haven't really discussed

0:51:03.800 --> 0:51:05.960
<v Speaker 2>the safety chapter. You don't really hear me talk a

0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:07.480
<v Speaker 2>lot about, but I'm thinking about it because we did

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:08.320
<v Speaker 2>the breakfast club.

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:13.880
<v Speaker 1>This morning and I kind of forgot about how necessary

0:51:13.920 --> 0:51:14.160
<v Speaker 1>it is.

0:51:14.440 --> 0:51:17.080
<v Speaker 2>For so in the safety chapter I reference needing a

0:51:17.120 --> 0:51:19.920
<v Speaker 2>devil and an angel on your shoulder. Mine is Vinnie

0:51:19.960 --> 0:51:23.440
<v Speaker 2>and Brionda. And I know if I'm about to do

0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:26.600
<v Speaker 2>some crazy shit, I'm gonna call any and he's gonna

0:51:26.600 --> 0:51:29.960
<v Speaker 2>be like, bitch, go thought that nigga Brionda.

0:51:29.600 --> 0:51:32.759
<v Speaker 1>Be like, oh my goodness, okay, well I'm here.

0:51:33.239 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 2>She'll never tell me no, she'd never judge. And I

0:51:37.120 --> 0:51:42.040
<v Speaker 2>think surrounding yourself with that community in your pleasure seeking journey,

0:51:43.440 --> 0:51:45.160
<v Speaker 2>there does need to be someone else oden than you,

0:51:45.600 --> 0:51:48.000
<v Speaker 2>because a lot of the inner turmoil I'd experienced with

0:51:48.360 --> 0:51:51.239
<v Speaker 2>sexuality was because I didn't have anyone to relate to,

0:51:51.960 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 2>and many times people kind of shame you for it,

0:51:55.200 --> 0:51:56.719
<v Speaker 2>or you feel like they're gonna talk behind your back.

0:51:57.000 --> 0:51:58.720
<v Speaker 2>Many of us have a group of a few friends,

0:51:59.200 --> 0:52:00.960
<v Speaker 2>and I actually just recently said, I don't know if

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:02.839
<v Speaker 2>you've had this experience recently, but it's such a good

0:52:02.880 --> 0:52:05.560
<v Speaker 2>place of comfort. My all girls are in a group

0:52:05.640 --> 0:52:08.719
<v Speaker 2>chat with me and I was telling them something don't

0:52:08.760 --> 0:52:10.040
<v Speaker 2>lie did and they were about to go to lunch.

0:52:10.040 --> 0:52:11.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don know, y'all, I was about

0:52:11.040 --> 0:52:12.239
<v Speaker 2>to talk about me and they were like, olla, well,

0:52:12.400 --> 0:52:15.520
<v Speaker 2>and we are with a smile, and I was like, damn,

0:52:15.520 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I am in such a good safe place, and you

0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:18.200
<v Speaker 2>don't really.

0:52:18.080 --> 0:52:20.239
<v Speaker 1>Get here till you're in your thirties. Right, there's always

0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:23.480
<v Speaker 1>a bitch you can't staying something wrong, And it feels

0:52:23.640 --> 0:52:26.200
<v Speaker 1>good to know that I've built that for myself, much

0:52:26.360 --> 0:52:29.319
<v Speaker 1>like Chosen Family. So in the pleasure chapter, just knowing

0:52:29.400 --> 0:52:31.880
<v Speaker 1>I got to do something fun and then sneaking call

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:35.640
<v Speaker 1>a friend and having that safety net, like, it didn't

0:52:35.719 --> 0:52:37.520
<v Speaker 1>hit me that that was that pivotal for this book.

0:52:37.760 --> 0:52:42.560
<v Speaker 1>Now there's the off the cuss question. There's sex throughout

0:52:42.600 --> 0:52:47.239
<v Speaker 1>the book. Is there a sexual experience or story that

0:52:47.400 --> 0:52:51.400
<v Speaker 1>you wish made the book cheating all old Bay? Probably okay,

0:52:51.960 --> 0:52:55.640
<v Speaker 1>okay for me, I think, And I questioned myself, y'all know,

0:52:55.680 --> 0:52:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I told y'all a story about the editor not allowing

0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:01.640
<v Speaker 1>me to be the bi sexual bitch that I am. Yeah,

0:53:02.239 --> 0:53:05.160
<v Speaker 1>And so I did at one point want to make

0:53:05.239 --> 0:53:09.320
<v Speaker 1>a story about my frivolous casual sex with women because

0:53:09.400 --> 0:53:12.000
<v Speaker 1>back in Miami. And it's so funny because this story

0:53:12.200 --> 0:53:14.840
<v Speaker 1>just I don't remember who I was talking to. I

0:53:14.880 --> 0:53:17.799
<v Speaker 1>think I was talking to somebody who No, it would

0:53:17.840 --> 0:53:19.560
<v Speaker 1>have been a new story. It would have been a

0:53:19.600 --> 0:53:24.759
<v Speaker 1>new chapter. But I remember having this conversation about what

0:53:24.880 --> 0:53:27.480
<v Speaker 1>the club scene is like now, and I was like, yeah, man,

0:53:27.560 --> 0:53:29.359
<v Speaker 1>back when I lived in Miami, I remember being able

0:53:29.360 --> 0:53:31.920
<v Speaker 1>to eat couci in the in the bathroom saws. They

0:53:31.960 --> 0:53:33.600
<v Speaker 1>were like, wait, how did you eat pussy in the

0:53:33.640 --> 0:53:36.719
<v Speaker 1>bathroom sauce. I said, yo, I did it twice, No,

0:53:36.840 --> 0:53:39.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe three times twice in play well, okay, I did

0:53:39.600 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 1>it twice and play.

0:53:40.440 --> 0:53:42.719
<v Speaker 3>Once it Jerry's if y'all know Jerry's, if y'all in

0:53:42.800 --> 0:53:44.279
<v Speaker 3>your thirties. Jerry's was the.

0:53:44.360 --> 0:53:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Diner on South Beach that is no longer open, and

0:53:47.160 --> 0:53:49.400
<v Speaker 1>then I ate Pussy. I shared the story a story.

0:53:50.600 --> 0:53:52.480
<v Speaker 1>No story was this side of the beach. No, it

0:53:52.560 --> 0:53:56.160
<v Speaker 1>was down on the other side. And then I ate Pussy.

0:53:56.239 --> 0:53:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Y'all heard the story when I went to Tutsis and

0:53:58.600 --> 0:54:01.480
<v Speaker 1>so I'm literally like talking about the clubs and I

0:54:01.600 --> 0:54:03.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I used to pussy the stalls da da,

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:06.279
<v Speaker 1>And so I go to start talking about like my

0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:08.319
<v Speaker 1>ex girlfriend and me that I dated when I was.

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:11.440
<v Speaker 3>In Miami and what that, and I was like, damn, okay.

0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I realized that there was this questionable part of me,

0:54:14.719 --> 0:54:16.160
<v Speaker 1>and it didn't make it in there because I was like,

0:54:16.160 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not changing none of my chapters, but for me,

0:54:18.200 --> 0:54:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I was like, damn, if I really could have shared

0:54:20.760 --> 0:54:23.320
<v Speaker 1>all the wild, random sex with women I had, like

0:54:23.920 --> 0:54:27.439
<v Speaker 1>on the dock and tootsies and stalls, I was like, wow,

0:54:27.719 --> 0:54:29.879
<v Speaker 1>I actually don't have those stories with a lot of men,

0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Like Bro.

0:54:31.560 --> 0:54:33.480
<v Speaker 2>That's because of safety. That's a good point to like

0:54:33.560 --> 0:54:35.400
<v Speaker 2>ring up. And so I don't know if it was safety, no, no, no, no,

0:54:36.520 --> 0:54:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Bro were in the bathroom, I was on my knees

0:54:38.440 --> 0:54:41.920
<v Speaker 2>like crazy. They could take me to give me head,

0:54:41.960 --> 0:54:43.920
<v Speaker 2>and for some reason, niggas made me feel insafe. I

0:54:43.960 --> 0:54:45.320
<v Speaker 2>don't know if I was letting man just take me

0:54:45.360 --> 0:54:47.239
<v Speaker 2>in the bathroom and do shit strangers, yes, I mean

0:54:47.280 --> 0:54:48.800
<v Speaker 2>my niggas. Yes, I've done it with like people that

0:54:48.840 --> 0:54:50.920
<v Speaker 2>I know what you're saying. Safety is your thing, Okay.

0:54:51.200 --> 0:54:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Like the way that I've learned how women respond to me,

0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:58.839
<v Speaker 1>it's not because I'm the baddest man in world, even

0:54:58.840 --> 0:55:01.560
<v Speaker 1>though i'd like to think. So. Women feel safer with women,

0:55:02.000 --> 0:55:04.399
<v Speaker 1>like we're fucking area of sault. So we were able

0:55:04.440 --> 0:55:06.759
<v Speaker 1>to eat each other pussy because we feel safe in

0:55:06.840 --> 0:55:10.640
<v Speaker 1>the club safety O show us. Also all the women

0:55:10.680 --> 0:55:13.520
<v Speaker 1>who have sucked digging a club, good for you, but yeah,

0:55:13.560 --> 0:55:15.359
<v Speaker 1>you're right safe spacey plussy in a club.

0:55:15.600 --> 0:55:17.600
<v Speaker 2>By the way, the reason I would want to add

0:55:17.600 --> 0:55:22.040
<v Speaker 2>the old Bay thing is because, oh, that sounds so suitable.

0:55:22.080 --> 0:55:24.279
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to say this out loud say it.

0:55:26.840 --> 0:55:28.960
<v Speaker 2>I feel like a lot of people feel really bad

0:55:29.040 --> 0:55:33.279
<v Speaker 2>for me after reding that chapter, and I had some

0:55:33.400 --> 0:55:38.680
<v Speaker 2>bad moments, but I had another boyfriend I was okay,

0:55:39.400 --> 0:55:44.279
<v Speaker 2>which I was really living it up like I thought

0:55:44.480 --> 0:55:46.640
<v Speaker 2>he was going to be my central relationship because it

0:55:46.680 --> 0:55:49.200
<v Speaker 2>looked so good on paper, and I didn't really think

0:55:49.280 --> 0:55:50.120
<v Speaker 2>I needed.

0:55:51.320 --> 0:55:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Much more for stability for me. In the beginning of.

0:55:57.080 --> 0:56:02.920
<v Speaker 2>That relationship, I really didn't focus on I always thought

0:56:02.920 --> 0:56:06.360
<v Speaker 2>everything could be fixed, which isn't true. Like I always

0:56:06.400 --> 0:56:08.920
<v Speaker 2>just kind of thought, hey, great on paper, we'll fix

0:56:09.000 --> 0:56:11.000
<v Speaker 2>this other shit, I'll go to therapy, I'll figure it out.

0:56:11.080 --> 0:56:13.399
<v Speaker 2>But this is a great catch to the point where

0:56:13.600 --> 0:56:19.319
<v Speaker 2>I didn't really care about much else. Now, I didn't

0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:21.759
<v Speaker 2>need a relationship that badly. I was having so much

0:56:21.800 --> 0:56:23.600
<v Speaker 2>fun in my life and it's stumbled on one. But

0:56:23.719 --> 0:56:26.399
<v Speaker 2>at that particular time I met him I was coming

0:56:26.440 --> 0:56:30.000
<v Speaker 2>off of Scissors rebounding a little bit, and I felt

0:56:30.080 --> 0:56:32.439
<v Speaker 2>like I needed that with a man, and I felt

0:56:32.480 --> 0:56:34.000
<v Speaker 2>like he was a perfect man for it, and I

0:56:34.040 --> 0:56:36.760
<v Speaker 2>also had a lot of fun with him. But the chapter,

0:56:36.920 --> 0:56:38.480
<v Speaker 2>when I read it back, and it's some one that

0:56:38.520 --> 0:56:40.000
<v Speaker 2>people talked to me about the.

0:56:40.040 --> 0:56:42.719
<v Speaker 1>Most, it does feel sad.

0:56:42.840 --> 0:56:47.560
<v Speaker 2>But I really was getting fucked, like I had two

0:56:47.640 --> 0:56:49.920
<v Speaker 2>other niggas, Like I really was giving my lick.

0:56:49.840 --> 0:56:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Back in real time. But I felt like bringing it

0:56:52.160 --> 0:56:55.080
<v Speaker 1>up in the chapter with Muddy, how terrible he was,

0:56:55.440 --> 0:56:57.560
<v Speaker 1>so I needed people to know he wasn't shit. Before

0:56:57.600 --> 0:57:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I told you that you, I didn't start until he started.

0:57:02.480 --> 0:57:08.240
<v Speaker 1>Guess crazy. Sorry for pain, we talk enjoyment, consequences, and trauma.

0:57:10.160 --> 0:57:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Why did we and I want to talk to the

0:57:12.880 --> 0:57:15.120
<v Speaker 1>to the audience here. Why did we feel it was

0:57:15.160 --> 0:57:19.520
<v Speaker 1>important in this pain section to include BDSM or the

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:22.920
<v Speaker 1>pleasure of pain? I think it was because we definitely

0:57:23.000 --> 0:57:24.560
<v Speaker 1>knew we didn't want to make this book too dark,

0:57:24.800 --> 0:57:27.919
<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, the way of making it fun pain

0:57:28.120 --> 0:57:31.480
<v Speaker 1>pleasure like it went hand in hand and someone and sometimes,

0:57:31.560 --> 0:57:34.640
<v Speaker 1>to be truthful, when I say pleasure and pain, I

0:57:34.720 --> 0:57:37.360
<v Speaker 1>don't think of heartbreak, pain I think of sex pain.

0:57:37.840 --> 0:57:40.520
<v Speaker 1>So I think when the reader picks this up, they're like, ooh,

0:57:40.600 --> 0:57:43.200
<v Speaker 1>pleasure and pain. So when you fucking hear about a

0:57:43.240 --> 0:57:46.520
<v Speaker 1>story that's violent, you're like, oh shit, I think that

0:57:46.720 --> 0:57:50.000
<v Speaker 1>is the unexpected party. I know we got our trigger

0:57:50.040 --> 0:57:53.240
<v Speaker 1>warnings too, and I love that. Lauren on Breakfast Club

0:57:53.360 --> 0:57:55.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, I really loved that y'all included these trigger

0:57:55.920 --> 0:57:58.200
<v Speaker 1>warnings because when you're reading a book and you get

0:57:58.240 --> 0:58:02.240
<v Speaker 1>into hearing about fucking a couple and eating pussy and

0:58:02.800 --> 0:58:04.960
<v Speaker 1>taking dick in your ass, and then you get to

0:58:05.080 --> 0:58:07.760
<v Speaker 1>a sexual assault chapter, it's like, WHOA, So you guys

0:58:07.840 --> 0:58:10.680
<v Speaker 1>do have the trigger wanting to be able to flip

0:58:10.720 --> 0:58:12.720
<v Speaker 1>through the book on your own time, because we definitely

0:58:12.720 --> 0:58:14.760
<v Speaker 1>don't want to trigger you why you read this, But yeah,

0:58:14.960 --> 0:58:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I was it was important for us to include that,

0:58:18.160 --> 0:58:21.640
<v Speaker 1>and it's in the master class. I decided to do

0:58:21.720 --> 0:58:24.640
<v Speaker 1>a whole breakdown of BDSM and then the dungeon that

0:58:24.680 --> 0:58:29.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually speaking about in the book get the master class.

0:58:29.240 --> 0:58:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I have a whole video in the exact room, so

0:58:33.240 --> 0:58:35.520
<v Speaker 1>the way I described the space and what it looks like,

0:58:35.960 --> 0:58:39.040
<v Speaker 1>you actually have a visual representation of the rig that

0:58:39.160 --> 0:58:42.040
<v Speaker 1>suspended me in the air, and I literally also bring

0:58:42.120 --> 0:58:44.360
<v Speaker 1>out the chastity belt that I put my exes Dick in,

0:58:44.840 --> 0:58:47.280
<v Speaker 1>and you also get to see the thing that electrocuted me.

0:58:47.720 --> 0:58:51.800
<v Speaker 3>So the electro play toy is there. Everything is in

0:58:51.960 --> 0:58:52.720
<v Speaker 3>the master class.

0:58:52.840 --> 0:58:54.600
<v Speaker 1>So again, make sure you get that it's only available

0:58:54.640 --> 0:58:59.520
<v Speaker 1>till July first, and then for free, for free, for

0:58:59.640 --> 0:59:00.240
<v Speaker 1>all of you out.

0:59:01.400 --> 0:59:04.800
<v Speaker 3>Progression Healing is a journey. Where do you think you

0:59:04.920 --> 0:59:06.000
<v Speaker 3>still have the most work to do?

0:59:07.360 --> 0:59:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Like, even based on the stories you narrated in your

0:59:10.200 --> 0:59:13.440
<v Speaker 1>progression part, is there anyone that still seems like a

0:59:13.520 --> 0:59:15.360
<v Speaker 1>work in progress. I think.

0:59:17.760 --> 0:59:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Myself is the work in progress for the story, particularly

0:59:21.040 --> 0:59:23.760
<v Speaker 2>about depression and suicide and all that stuff.

0:59:24.280 --> 0:59:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm such a happy person in my day to day that.

0:59:29.480 --> 0:59:31.840
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't really come up often, but when it does,

0:59:32.000 --> 0:59:36.000
<v Speaker 2>it's hard to get out of it because I'm so

0:59:36.480 --> 0:59:37.880
<v Speaker 2>emotional when.

0:59:37.720 --> 0:59:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm happy, I'm so happy. I'm not just content, I'm excited,

0:59:42.280 --> 0:59:43.320
<v Speaker 1>and I'm screaming it at you.

0:59:43.600 --> 0:59:46.800
<v Speaker 2>I feel like more recently in my life, just just

0:59:46.880 --> 0:59:48.280
<v Speaker 2>said it to me when we were walking out of

0:59:48.280 --> 0:59:49.520
<v Speaker 2>the Bakfast club. You look really good, and I was like,

0:59:49.560 --> 0:59:52.960
<v Speaker 2>oh god, I'm just really happy. Like, that's my answers continually.

0:59:53.040 --> 0:59:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm really happy and I feel it in and out,

0:59:55.520 --> 0:59:56.760
<v Speaker 2>and I lost ten pounds.

0:59:56.840 --> 0:59:59.560
<v Speaker 1>That added to it. Everybody keeps saying, oh, you look great,

0:59:59.600 --> 1:00:03.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know you? I got it off. Now what I

1:00:03.200 --> 1:00:06.160
<v Speaker 1>will say when those sad moments come.

1:00:08.240 --> 1:00:11.560
<v Speaker 2>I then almost re tracked back to like this dark

1:00:11.600 --> 1:00:13.640
<v Speaker 2>place of who I was, because it can really take

1:00:13.720 --> 1:00:16.480
<v Speaker 2>me down. So some of the tools that I've used

1:00:16.480 --> 1:00:18.680
<v Speaker 2>that I even talk about, how I talk about what

1:00:18.800 --> 1:00:21.840
<v Speaker 2>my therapist did for me, automatic thoughts, how to fix them,

1:00:22.040 --> 1:00:25.120
<v Speaker 2>sometimes I forget. I forget how to use them, and

1:00:25.240 --> 1:00:28.120
<v Speaker 2>I really need to start practicing what I preach all

1:00:28.200 --> 1:00:31.160
<v Speaker 2>the time. This week, we're gonna be doing so much

1:00:31.240 --> 1:00:34.560
<v Speaker 2>extra work. I'm sure it may take my bad thoughts down. Like,

1:00:35.080 --> 1:00:36.760
<v Speaker 2>for example, I don't know if this has ever happened

1:00:36.760 --> 1:00:39.280
<v Speaker 2>to someone. It happened to me last night, and I

1:00:39.400 --> 1:00:41.720
<v Speaker 2>was able to get through it. So I knew I

1:00:41.760 --> 1:00:43.240
<v Speaker 2>had to go to bed by a certain time because

1:00:43.280 --> 1:00:45.080
<v Speaker 2>make up was six forty five, with the breakfast club

1:00:45.080 --> 1:00:48.720
<v Speaker 2>at nine whatever. Right around ten forty five, I'm like, Oh,

1:00:48.840 --> 1:00:50.600
<v Speaker 2>if I keep staying up, I'm only gonna have seven

1:00:50.640 --> 1:00:52.960
<v Speaker 2>hours and fifteen minutes. It's like, oh, if I'm still awake,

1:00:52.960 --> 1:00:54.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm only have six hours to sleep. Then I went

1:00:54.600 --> 1:00:56.560
<v Speaker 2>to the bathroom and I see the clock at four am.

1:00:56.600 --> 1:00:58.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, wow, so now I only have ninety minute.

1:00:58.800 --> 1:01:01.640
<v Speaker 2>Like the way that my brain starts to spiral, it's

1:01:01.800 --> 1:01:05.680
<v Speaker 2>so awful and I can't stop myself sometimes, And I

1:01:05.760 --> 1:01:07.880
<v Speaker 2>think that is the biggest piece of work for me.

1:01:08.280 --> 1:01:10.480
<v Speaker 2>How am I talking to myself when I'm stressed out?

1:01:11.160 --> 1:01:12.280
<v Speaker 2>Why don't wake up every daytime?

1:01:12.400 --> 1:01:14.160
<v Speaker 1>All? I just talked about going through the airport. That's

1:01:14.200 --> 1:01:16.320
<v Speaker 1>the That's the thing that I'm like, so glad that

1:01:16.440 --> 1:01:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I have in control.

1:01:18.800 --> 1:01:20.920
<v Speaker 2>I did that a little bit when with the Reckfast

1:01:20.960 --> 1:01:24.520
<v Speaker 2>club today, actually, and I helped myself, so I inverted

1:01:24.560 --> 1:01:25.360
<v Speaker 2>the address, y'all.

1:01:25.680 --> 1:01:27.840
<v Speaker 1>I left my house early. I was so proud of myself.

1:01:29.040 --> 1:01:31.520
<v Speaker 2>Got to one twenty fifth instead of one twenty five

1:01:31.600 --> 1:01:32.400
<v Speaker 2>West fifty fifth.

1:01:33.760 --> 1:01:34.120
<v Speaker 5>What was it?

1:01:34.480 --> 1:01:34.680
<v Speaker 1>Bruh.

1:01:34.840 --> 1:01:36.720
<v Speaker 2>The second I started seeing horle, I'm like, this don't

1:01:36.760 --> 1:01:39.960
<v Speaker 2>feel right. And after it got fixed, I'm looking at

1:01:40.000 --> 1:01:41.760
<v Speaker 2>the clock. I'm watching it go from thirty two minutes

1:01:41.760 --> 1:01:43.160
<v Speaker 2>to get there twenty nine minutes to get there.

1:01:43.320 --> 1:01:46.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm late. I'm embarrassed, and I'm like, I go, oh, yeah,

1:01:46.120 --> 1:01:49.120
<v Speaker 1>they were trying to start without you, and I was like, no,

1:01:49.360 --> 1:01:51.439
<v Speaker 1>let's again, God right, only six minutes. You were forty

1:01:51.480 --> 1:01:53.520
<v Speaker 1>minutes late. No, no, no, six minutes from when we

1:01:53.560 --> 1:01:56.480
<v Speaker 1>were recording. Oh, as soon as you got there, we started.

1:01:56.520 --> 1:01:58.040
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I got there in nine thirty six. They

1:01:58.080 --> 1:01:59.000
<v Speaker 1>said nine thirty start.

1:01:59.320 --> 1:02:02.520
<v Speaker 3>No no, no, no, no, no, no this Yeah, they

1:02:02.560 --> 1:02:03.440
<v Speaker 3>were ready to go at night.

1:02:03.640 --> 1:02:05.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, they were ready going night. I'm glad. I

1:02:05.600 --> 1:02:07.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't know that. It would have gave me anxiety. I

1:02:07.560 --> 1:02:10.400
<v Speaker 1>literally had to say to myself, this is a mistake.

1:02:10.920 --> 1:02:13.840
<v Speaker 1>It happened. If I start to get upset, then it's

1:02:13.840 --> 1:02:15.360
<v Speaker 1>gonna throw the vibe oup with the both of us.

1:02:15.560 --> 1:02:16.600
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna read on my face.

1:02:16.680 --> 1:02:18.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not able to help talk about this book because

1:02:18.760 --> 1:02:21.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be so overworked and upset I can't think

1:02:21.760 --> 1:02:24.160
<v Speaker 2>about it. I made a mistake. I got to accept

1:02:24.200 --> 1:02:26.520
<v Speaker 2>my fate. I'm gonna get there. It's gonna be great.

1:02:26.760 --> 1:02:31.160
<v Speaker 2>Everything will be okay. Like it's tough because we are

1:02:31.200 --> 1:02:34.440
<v Speaker 2>our biggest critic and I'm about to tear myself up

1:02:34.480 --> 1:02:36.760
<v Speaker 2>in the car and fuck all this shit up.

1:02:36.800 --> 1:02:38.640
<v Speaker 1>Fuck all this energy up, not just for myself but

1:02:38.680 --> 1:02:43.439
<v Speaker 1>everybody else around me. So like, yeah, my thoughts get dark, dude,

1:02:44.120 --> 1:02:47.120
<v Speaker 1>and when they do, I've just got to learn how

1:02:47.160 --> 1:02:48.760
<v Speaker 1>to be better about it. And talking about that in

1:02:48.840 --> 1:02:52.560
<v Speaker 1>the book was very freeing, just about ay, like life

1:02:52.640 --> 1:02:54.080
<v Speaker 1>goes on, everything wound up being good.

1:02:55.280 --> 1:02:58.320
<v Speaker 3>I think, Yeah, that's that's where I've had the most work.

1:02:59.240 --> 1:03:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I used to get worked on hoping that people showed

1:03:01.520 --> 1:03:03.160
<v Speaker 1>up how I wanted them to show up, or do

1:03:03.320 --> 1:03:05.320
<v Speaker 1>as I wanted them to do, or be who I

1:03:05.360 --> 1:03:07.280
<v Speaker 1>wanted them to be, whether it be a partner, whether

1:03:07.320 --> 1:03:08.760
<v Speaker 1>it be you, whether it be a friend, whether it

1:03:08.800 --> 1:03:12.240
<v Speaker 1>be my mom, my dad, my dad. Definitely, that's a

1:03:12.280 --> 1:03:16.400
<v Speaker 1>whole nother story. And now I just exist where I'm

1:03:16.480 --> 1:03:18.560
<v Speaker 1>like people are in their own worlds. I have my

1:03:18.680 --> 1:03:22.520
<v Speaker 1>own world. I can't make make anyone get out of

1:03:22.600 --> 1:03:24.720
<v Speaker 1>the own world that they existed, I said, So I

1:03:24.880 --> 1:03:27.640
<v Speaker 1>just have to exist with my own thoughts. I only

1:03:27.720 --> 1:03:30.400
<v Speaker 1>have control over how I show up. And like I said,

1:03:30.440 --> 1:03:34.320
<v Speaker 1>even when that plane canceled, I talked to my best

1:03:34.320 --> 1:03:36.200
<v Speaker 1>friend the next morning. She's like, ooh, bitch, I know

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<v Speaker 1>you was tight, And I said, actually, friend, I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything that happened was completely out of my control. And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, the only thing that I could control was

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<v Speaker 1>how I felt in the moment. And I said, at

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, I made the decision, You're not gonna be mad.

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<v Speaker 1>There was nothing you could do. You're gonna get home,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna go to sleep, you're gonna take the flight

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow and hopefully everything works out. And that's been such

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<v Speaker 1>a freeing thing to get to. Like I used to

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<v Speaker 1>be in therapy, like I don't understand like why this,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would just get so upset that things didn't

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<v Speaker 1>happen the way I thought everything should happen. And now

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<v Speaker 1>that I just be like, Okay, well there's nothing you

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<v Speaker 1>can do. Don't even get mad at this person. Just

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<v Speaker 1>allow them to be who they are. You are who

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<v Speaker 1>you are. You can only control who you are. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to be today? Do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be upset? Do you want your energybo? Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be nasty? Because if you don't want to be,

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<v Speaker 1>those things show up the way that like allows you

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<v Speaker 1>to have a good day. And when I allow you,

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<v Speaker 1>boy that having a good day, everything just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>works out.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I talked about this before bringing up the manifestation

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<v Speaker 2>visualization rituals I did on the master class.

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<v Speaker 1>But like in my story, I'm headed to the airport.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to leave earlier because I had a meeting,

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<v Speaker 2>so my man is still in bed on our original flight,

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<v Speaker 2>but I had to get to New York, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm tired because we went out the night before

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<v Speaker 2>and we're all cutled up, and I gotta get up

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<v Speaker 2>at six am. I'm on the way to the airport. Mandy,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even joking. The Uber driver says, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 2>excuse me.

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<v Speaker 1>One moment and he points to the wheel of his

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<v Speaker 1>car like outside, and I'm like, okay. One moment he

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<v Speaker 1>starts to blow up his shit with a little bike pump.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, dog, I'm fucking late. I'm already in a

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<v Speaker 1>bad mood because I lost my first class seat because

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<v Speaker 1>I switched to my flight.

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<v Speaker 2>This is total rich people problems. And let me tell

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<v Speaker 2>you something, I don't care this flight I paid for

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<v Speaker 2>my seat on because I said, hey, Mandy and I

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<v Speaker 2>are doing the breakfast club right after this trip, and

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<v Speaker 2>we uppress every single day. I'm gonna spend this money

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<v Speaker 2>on my seat because I deserve.

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<v Speaker 1>To lay it down. Lost the seat because I had

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<v Speaker 1>to fucking leave early, so fucking tire boom blows out.

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<v Speaker 2>Then on the highway tire goes out again. I gotta

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<v Speaker 2>get another uber. Thirteen minutes to get this other uber.

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<v Speaker 2>It's me and the luggage. While I'm rolling the luggage

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<v Speaker 2>to the car, there was so much cobblestone spalls off.

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<v Speaker 1>Well fall up. It's now I'm lugging sixty pounds bag

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<v Speaker 1>stressed Mandy, this ah get to the airport. Flight is

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<v Speaker 1>at nine thirty. I'm there at eight twenty seven. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the bag don't go on if it's not an hour

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<v Speaker 1>before I run. I get there. My seat was thirty

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<v Speaker 1>four J not lying to you get to the thing?

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<v Speaker 1>She answered, my ticket there's four A on the ticket

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, oh my god, and she goes, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess people didn't make it, so you got upgrade it

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<v Speaker 1>to verse class, Nigga. I paid six hundred dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>that seat. Do you know how much I paid for

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<v Speaker 1>the one before? Forty seven? I was like, dog, this

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<v Speaker 1>is just good karma, because you know what my text

1:06:42.960 --> 1:06:45.080
<v Speaker 1>message was to my man about the about the flight.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck it, I said, this is shitty. I'm in a

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<v Speaker 1>hot ass cart this nigga and got a c It's

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<v Speaker 1>my second crid to grave on a highway and I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote the God damn, I had a great time. Life

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<v Speaker 1>is Good book comes out tomorrow. Boom.

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<v Speaker 2>The way that we are starting to move through life,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's something we could have done.

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<v Speaker 2>In the beginning of the show, I had to chip

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<v Speaker 2>on my shoulder about so many things. I've had so

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<v Speaker 2>much anger, so much confusion. Why is it happening to

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<v Speaker 2>me just letting that shit go? Like life is good, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to be tired this week. You're gonna get on

1:07:16.440 --> 1:07:19.800
<v Speaker 1>my nerves. I'm gonna get on your nerve. Absolutely damn.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it already happened, you know, you know time

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<v Speaker 1>to this, I'm I'm at the thing. She's like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to Harlem. I switched to that address twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four minutes away. I'm like, well the thing is so.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, but you know, it was only Parson.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, we got a long week. She gonna get here.

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<v Speaker 1>And I literally was like, hey, you know I got

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety to tell Mandy that because I know what she

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<v Speaker 1>feels about.

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<v Speaker 2>Time let alone fucking Charlamagne and breakfast club and is

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<v Speaker 2>our first thing we stay back, and I hate that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the first place my brain went. But it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you gonna?

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<v Speaker 1>What can you do? Man?

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta just be happy. And at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the day, this shit just came out. I fucked up

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<v Speaker 2>because when we still does the breakfast club it sucks.

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<v Speaker 2>I was late, but this just happened, Like I really

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<v Speaker 2>want to just feel good about my life instead of

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<v Speaker 2>putting myself in this I hate everything mode.

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<v Speaker 1>Every flight goes through turbulence, like you got to go

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<v Speaker 1>through ship, not every flight with me all that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on some flights where I ain't feel a

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<v Speaker 1>shake get to the first flight. Okay, where were you looking?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I don't know. I went home. Let's be

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<v Speaker 1>very clear. I live in Atlanta. That's that run you know,

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<v Speaker 1>bring out in the city and there's you know jfkn

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, you know you in that whole for hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Atlanta's a really they set their airport up. Even though

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<v Speaker 2>it's amazed, it's convenient to the city. That is one

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<v Speaker 2>thing that Atlanta has.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say or not if you got

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<v Speaker 1>to go on the outskirts. I just happened to live centrally,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, no, that shit is what happened. The last

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<v Speaker 1>question that I want to ask, and I brought this

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<v Speaker 1>up on the Breakfast Club, but it was just so

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<v Speaker 1>powerful to me when I think about, like how everything

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<v Speaker 1>pans out. So we're in the south of France. The

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<v Speaker 1>last thing that I do for my trip, I went

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<v Speaker 1>to like this beautiful villa. It's funny because I'm so American.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept calling it the strip, but it's the quassette,

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<v Speaker 1>oh right, strip, the strip, like the cossette. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I on the strip because that's what

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<v Speaker 1>she used we used to call South Beach.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, the beach is a really long road, maybe it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a mile and a half. You all the restaurants

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<v Speaker 2>and you have all the shops.

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<v Speaker 3>So colleagues, I called the trip a little like South

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<v Speaker 3>Beach to me, just in the south of France.

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<v Speaker 1>So I go to this thing. Shout out to Sharon.

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<v Speaker 1>I was invited. She was on my flight, saw me

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down. I got invited to do this salon culture

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and it was just really dope that what's the company.

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<v Speaker 1>It's salon culture conversations, A long culture conversation everything. I

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<v Speaker 1>host something and I go to this villa up. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it's so gorgeous. And we get to this

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<v Speaker 1>last thing. It's like a kind of you know, relaxing

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<v Speaker 1>thing for the end of the week. And this lady

1:10:10.200 --> 1:10:13.639
<v Speaker 1>comes up and starts talking and heard her tone. Everything

1:10:13.760 --> 1:10:16.360
<v Speaker 1>was just so beautiful. And she has this bag she

1:10:16.439 --> 1:10:20.320
<v Speaker 1>starts handing around. She's like, pull out a card. People

1:10:20.360 --> 1:10:23.280
<v Speaker 1>start pulling out cards, and I want to read the card.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally took a picture of it because I was

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<v Speaker 1>like wow. So I pull out this card and it

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<v Speaker 1>said when did you know your story has power? And

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<v Speaker 1>I immediately read it and my eyes get watery. And

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<v Speaker 1>at this point I'm like, which is drunk? Like you

1:10:40.320 --> 1:10:42.759
<v Speaker 1>had that much rose? Why is this making you so emotional?

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<v Speaker 1>And it made me so emotional because immediately I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>my story is right here in this book, Like I

1:10:49.600 --> 1:10:52.000
<v Speaker 1>knew it had power when I was able to quit

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<v Speaker 1>my job and do this for a living, Like I

1:10:55.120 --> 1:10:58.120
<v Speaker 1>quit my career in twenty nineteen, and I don't even

1:10:58.160 --> 1:10:59.760
<v Speaker 1>want to call it a job because I fucking bust

1:10:59.800 --> 1:11:02.560
<v Speaker 1>my in school for four years, got two degrees and

1:11:02.720 --> 1:11:04.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, this is about to be my career. I

1:11:04.200 --> 1:11:06.479
<v Speaker 1>finally made it, and now I left that and have

1:11:06.600 --> 1:11:09.000
<v Speaker 1>been doing what I've been doing based on my story.

1:11:09.840 --> 1:11:13.960
<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne doesn't give us the opportunity to have this book

1:11:14.520 --> 1:11:17.680
<v Speaker 1>if we weren't sharing our story every goddamn week on

1:11:17.840 --> 1:11:20.519
<v Speaker 1>this podcast. And so when I when I read that

1:11:20.720 --> 1:11:23.880
<v Speaker 1>card in front of there was probably maybe twenty twenty

1:11:23.920 --> 1:11:26.479
<v Speaker 1>five other people there, and I start sharing about this

1:11:26.640 --> 1:11:29.679
<v Speaker 1>book and like what it is meant over the last

1:11:29.760 --> 1:11:31.400
<v Speaker 1>year and a half to write it, what it's meant

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<v Speaker 1>over the last eight years to be on a podcast

1:11:33.320 --> 1:11:37.759
<v Speaker 1>to share it. And right before coming to this event,

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<v Speaker 1>I met the Martinez on the strip and this girl

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<v Speaker 1>comes up and it's like, Mandy, it's you. Her eyes

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<v Speaker 1>start watering and she's like like like this, like she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to cry. I just want you to

1:11:53.720 --> 1:11:55.880
<v Speaker 1>know that you helped me get through a really dark

1:11:55.960 --> 1:11:59.120
<v Speaker 1>time with a breakup and just thank you. And then

1:11:59.160 --> 1:12:02.320
<v Speaker 1>we just embraced, hugged and we both just started bawling,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, that's when I knew my story

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<v Speaker 1>had power. From the meet and greets to us going

1:12:08.160 --> 1:12:12.120
<v Speaker 1>on tour to us really being able to meet the

1:12:12.160 --> 1:12:14.960
<v Speaker 1>people that we've had impact on. I was like, maybe

1:12:15.000 --> 1:12:16.920
<v Speaker 1>it's powerful. And I know, like people be in the

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<v Speaker 1>comments and have their talks about we need to go

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<v Speaker 1>to therapy, we'll be single forever. No, it's gonna want

1:12:21.840 --> 1:12:25.000
<v Speaker 1>us well or me whatever. I'll speak for myself. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just really it meant so much to not only pull

1:12:27.680 --> 1:12:30.280
<v Speaker 1>this card but get that story right before it and

1:12:30.439 --> 1:12:34.120
<v Speaker 1>now all week we get to talk about our goddamn

1:12:34.200 --> 1:12:37.840
<v Speaker 1>stories in a motherfucking book and for it to end

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<v Speaker 1>with power to say power, that's what this book ends with.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh my Gody hat Yonnavirus, I

1:12:45.120 --> 1:12:48.000
<v Speaker 1>see you. And it's just been that. Everything has been

1:12:48.080 --> 1:12:51.040
<v Speaker 1>like so amazing. So y'all getting the book this week,

1:12:52.240 --> 1:12:54.519
<v Speaker 1>we're putting it in the air. We all thought, but

1:12:54.560 --> 1:12:57.240
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be New York Times bestsellers because we are,

1:12:57.920 --> 1:13:00.920
<v Speaker 1>y'all rock with us. That's time what happened, I said,

1:13:00.920 --> 1:13:02.519
<v Speaker 1>because we live in New York and it's time eight

1:13:03.600 --> 1:13:06.960
<v Speaker 1>that too, that too. But I'm just really excited about

1:13:07.040 --> 1:13:08.680
<v Speaker 1>this book. And I don't know if you have a

1:13:08.720 --> 1:13:12.080
<v Speaker 1>different story, but I wanted to literally on that. I

1:13:12.160 --> 1:13:15.760
<v Speaker 1>think it's how did you know your story has power? No? No,

1:13:15.920 --> 1:13:19.960
<v Speaker 1>let's have not yet. Okay, good story. Well, guys, the

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<v Speaker 1>book of that motherfuckers by the way, just got word.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're listening to this, if you're listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>today Brooklyn, we sold out, So we're excited to see

1:13:31.320 --> 1:13:36.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all tonight at Word Bookstore in Brooklyn. However, if y'all

1:13:36.240 --> 1:13:40.000
<v Speaker 1>want to see us in Philly, pull up Wednesday. That's tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 1>the twenty fifth, y'all pull up to Uncle Bobby's and Philly.

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<v Speaker 1>We will be there from seven to eight thirty signing books,

1:13:47.640 --> 1:13:50.640
<v Speaker 1>meeting and greeting with y'all and really really excited to

1:13:51.400 --> 1:13:52.400
<v Speaker 1>touch y'all and feel y'all.

1:13:52.439 --> 1:13:56.200
<v Speaker 2>Remember what Saucy Santana said, what what meeting agreed? Charlottagne

1:13:56.320 --> 1:13:58.320
<v Speaker 2>was like you outside, he's out just meeting a greeting.

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<v Speaker 1>We meet in agreeting y'all at Uncle Bobby's on Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Thursday, y'all, we are at State Solid State

1:14:05.720 --> 1:14:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Solid State Books there where we are having a conversation.

1:14:10.400 --> 1:14:12.120
<v Speaker 1>So we and I will be joined by our co

1:14:12.320 --> 1:14:15.600
<v Speaker 1>author Tempest X, and we will be having a conversation

1:14:15.680 --> 1:14:17.400
<v Speaker 1>where y'all also get to do Q and A with

1:14:17.560 --> 1:14:20.920
<v Speaker 1>us as well as signing your books. And then Friday, y'all,

1:14:21.439 --> 1:14:24.200
<v Speaker 1>New Haven, Connecticut at the Pride Center, We'll be doing

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with what does it black girls read books to?

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<v Speaker 1>Or black kids? Yeah? Hold on, let me make sure.

1:14:32.320 --> 1:14:36.439
<v Speaker 1>Let me make sure I got cuz, y'all, I think

1:14:36.479 --> 1:14:39.920
<v Speaker 1>my boyfriend parents going so that Connecticut. Will hold on,

1:14:39.960 --> 1:14:43.280
<v Speaker 1>I want to make sure I get his name. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Kids with two d's read two so the kid Pig

1:14:51.439 --> 1:14:51.800
<v Speaker 3>will be.

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<v Speaker 1>Interviewing us about the process of writing the book, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we will also be signing those also, if you

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<v Speaker 1>are in Atlanta, meet me at forty fourth and third

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<v Speaker 1>Bookstore on Sunday three pm, right after the brunch. Baby,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be there also with tempest X as well as

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<v Speaker 1>a nice friend of mine moderating. And then weezy on Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 1>coins and you got to go to Atlanta to La

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<v Speaker 1>July Second. I'm gonna be with our girl, Shan Boody,

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<v Speaker 1>our Reparations bookstore.

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<v Speaker 2>Shan's gonna be interviewing me. But I thought it might

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<v Speaker 2>be fun because my mom is there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that'll be fun.

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<v Speaker 2>A little I'm gonna do a little second, since she

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<v Speaker 2>went viral for talking about stroking that I'm a man

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<v Speaker 2>at Ralph's on Woolshir asked her.

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<v Speaker 3>About that doubt that's crazy. No one that knows what

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<v Speaker 3>my mom said.

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<v Speaker 1>Every loves that. And guess what really really really excited

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<v Speaker 1>to let y'all know, bitch, we will be at Essence Festival.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a mother fucking lot this baby. There we go,

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<v Speaker 1>There we go, there we go. Well, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>wait till you sit down so I can shout out

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<v Speaker 1>our sponsor. Well, shout out to AT and T driven

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<v Speaker 1>Black Stage. Not only are they bringing us at the

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<v Speaker 1>German Black Stage, we will be sitting with the Candy Burusts.

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<v Speaker 1>Really excited to be talking to Candy. Y'all know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a housewives stand so we'll be having a conversation with her.

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<v Speaker 1>And also AT and T is supporting us as authors.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you come to Essence Festival, Wall supplies last.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go to the AT and T booth and

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<v Speaker 1>get No Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration

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<v Speaker 1>and power. Also, right after our live show, we will

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<v Speaker 1>be signing books, so you can bring it, you can

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<v Speaker 1>buy it against the port of local bookstore or if

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<v Speaker 1>you go to the marketplace at essenspest As Wall Supplies

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<v Speaker 1>last you could pick it up. Yeah. Also believe us

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<v Speaker 1>Guilla is also sponsoring books for that weekend as well, So.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe we man, we're gonna be having some really

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<v Speaker 2>cool talks about HIV, black women and how to stay safe,

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<v Speaker 2>sponsored by Gilliad who are coughing some books for all

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<v Speaker 2>the girls that need to read too.

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<v Speaker 1>So come and see you some on Saturday. Inter you can,

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<v Speaker 1>I can, I really ruin your walt and there you go, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank y'all so much for tuning in to yet another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of This is the This is the Hi