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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsty.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you want to say together the Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 1: The book is out. The book is out. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: can now go get no holes barre. It is available.

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Speaker 1: We have made it to that day. We're literally on

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Speaker 1: the day of recording.

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Speaker 2: You guys know this is not our jam, but we

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Speaker 2: have been flying and traveling so much it was only

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Speaker 2: right to do a super fresh episode only a day late.

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Speaker 1: But it's such a special day for us.

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Speaker 2: I think one of the biggest days, if not the

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Speaker 2: biggest day of our entire careers. A friend of mine

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Speaker 2: sent us the photo in Calabasas.

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Speaker 1: First of all, we've been puffing all these black old stores.

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Speaker 1: Tell of what calabas Lets put our motherfucker book on

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Speaker 1: the shelf early and they're not the white got a

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Speaker 1: goddamn book out. First of all, I was like, who's

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Speaker 1: tricking on you? In Calaba's death that I really wanted

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Speaker 1: to know what you lived at Calabs.

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Speaker 2: But it was amazing to see and it was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was right in the front. And I always when

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Speaker 2: I go to a bookstore and I'll see the books

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Speaker 2: in the fight, I always wonder, why, oh who are they?

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Speaker 2: Is a special so it'll be so cool to just

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Speaker 2: see everybody's share and please we're reposting like we are

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Speaker 2: re close when you walk in a store and see

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Speaker 2: it tag us, because it's surreal to me, Like I

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I never really thought for a second

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Speaker 2: when we were writing the book that I could just

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Speaker 2: be walking in and grabbing it and taking photos where

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Speaker 2: they're like having a tangible thing in my hand. I

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Speaker 2: didn't actually see it the hard copy until Mandy came

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Speaker 2: to the South of France and we just yeah, we

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Speaker 2: just left can Lions. It's Can, y'all. I know y'all

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Speaker 2: haven't seen everybody.

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Speaker 1: It is not Con.

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Speaker 3: It is not Kansa. It's not Cannics.

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Speaker 1: It is Can. I think it might not Gone. It's

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Speaker 1: not Cone. It's not Cone. It's not gone An. When

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Speaker 1: French people say, they don't say can no, it's can Lions.

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Speaker 3: It's can't. Oh they can? You know, I don't know

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Speaker 3: how did friend we listen?

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Speaker 1: Friends is like my least favorite place, but the South

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Speaker 1: of France is one of my favorite places to go,

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Speaker 1: but I think it's only because it's full of Americans

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Speaker 1: that week. So I had a wonderful time. Tuesday, I

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Speaker 1: brought the book because we had dinner with our iHeart family.

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Speaker 1: It was all the exacts. Black Effect was there, so

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Speaker 1: Dolly and Charlemagne was there, Malcolm Gladwell was there, quest

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Speaker 1: Love was there. Shout out to them, and we was there.

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Speaker 1: How we got to invite y'all. Listen, we were negroes

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Speaker 2: They said, hey not just bring one and they put

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Speaker 2: us in, you know, all together. But it was crazy

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Speaker 2: just to think these are the people that are being

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Speaker 2: celebrated with iHeart just this.

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Speaker 1: You know. It was a very small dinner.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like they were honoring all of iHeart shit

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Speaker 2: last clone, no, no, no, no, it was.

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Speaker 1: It was two tables and we was a part of them.

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Speaker 1: Two tables. It was a good time. I brought the book.

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Speaker 1: It was Weezy's first time seeing the hardcover, like, and

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Speaker 1: it's really dope. Our pictures bitch right down in the bag.

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Speaker 1: It's cute or whatever. So I brought it and Weezy

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Speaker 1: it was like writing the book and weasy and true

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Speaker 1: weezy fashion brought my future wife up with us. If

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Speaker 1: y'all my future wife, let me tell y'all a story

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Speaker 1: we ain't never heard of one. No, let let me

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Speaker 1: let me tell y'all a story. And I'm not a

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Speaker 1: lot of Latino puss. I am gonna share love latinas

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Speaker 1: I love women I date. The only type of woman

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Speaker 1: like that's literally it. I haven't been with a white woman.

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Speaker 3: I have been with a lot of motherfucker carry.

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Speaker 1: I loved in Miami. Okay, carry on, man, listen, I'm

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Speaker 1: actually gonna share a story because I have a question.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna share the Latino puss that I had

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Speaker 1: in Miami one time that didn't make the book. Anyways.

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Speaker 1: So we get into the iHeart Cafe, I'm talking with everyone.

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Speaker 1: Eva's talking to like a group of people. Eva is,

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Speaker 1: Then she stops talking to the people and it's like,

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Speaker 1: do you love me? No, I'm not gonna lie. Normally

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Speaker 1: don't care how if she was or not. I'm saying

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Speaker 1: goes and she embraces me and gives me a hug,

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Speaker 1: and she's like, so good to see you. And I

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Speaker 1: So as soon as I leave her, bitch, you would

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Speaker 1: heart pumping. So I go over to Charla and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: people embraced me, and I was like, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: I loved evil loungorid like this, I ain't gonna hold you.

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Speaker 3: She had that energy. She had that energy.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, I go and I'm like, y'all, I'm sliding

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Speaker 1: in them gms. When I tell you, Charlotte. Everyone was like,

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Speaker 1: don't you do that. I was like, don't you slide

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Speaker 1: on her? Dem don't And I was like, could I

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Speaker 1: do it, just real nicely, like let me do it.

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Speaker 3: He's like, don't slide in evil Loungaria DM.

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Speaker 1: I said, fine.

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Speaker 3: So we're the last to speak at this I Heeart dinner.

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Speaker 1: And we go up.

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Speaker 3: I'm holding the book and I immediately go.

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Speaker 1: And shout out that I don't that it's fucked them

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Speaker 1: kids for life. This is mine. He was speech in

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Speaker 1: front of all the execs and everything, and I pretty

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Speaker 1: much shout out Charlamagne for being my baby daddy. I

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Speaker 1: guess we're kind of in a thruffle cause I'm like, Charlot,

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Speaker 1: I don't want kids, but you allowing us on this

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Speaker 1: this is my legacy, and I want to thank you.

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Speaker 1: So we start talking about the book.

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Speaker 2: We might as well have been sexy read the second

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Speaker 2: we started talking about so we're like, we're like, ooh,

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Speaker 2: it's ronchy is this? So Will asked the question and

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Speaker 2: to ask us. If anybody could read the book, who

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Speaker 2: would you want to read it? So Weezy go ahead

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Speaker 2: and share your part. So while we're up there, we're

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Speaker 2: basically speaking to people in between courses. So as each

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Speaker 2: I heart talent coming out. So Malcolm spoke, Quest spoke,

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Speaker 2: once I get up there, I said, well, even though

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Speaker 2: I would love to see Malcolm Gladwell's face reading the

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Speaker 2: world word pussy out of our book, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: go with Eva Longoria because I read once in an

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Speaker 1: But she looked like I said, and I said, smile.

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Speaker 1: She smiled. Maybe she's like maybe I said that, And

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I love her to read our book.

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Speaker 1: So she gets off, she get up. We don't know

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Speaker 1: She she stands up, smiling and joins us in front

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Speaker 1: Weezy was like, pick a number from zero two, so no,

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Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy. So that's when I as soon

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Speaker 1: as she says fifteen, I was like.

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Speaker 3: The first words.

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Speaker 2: The first words are the only thing that can seal

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Speaker 2: what she That's what she read. No, so you were

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Speaker 1: This is what she read alone and satisfy.

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Speaker 2: Satisfied tells you this is when people starting to take

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Speaker 1: Bro. So she literally is is thump thump thumping. Like

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Speaker 1: reading that sentence, Eva goes, oh my god, let me read.

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Speaker 1: So Luckily there's those bullet points. And so in front

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Speaker 1: of all these execs, we have Eva Longoria read the

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Speaker 1: benefits of masturbation at dinner. It was so good. It

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Speaker 1: came up to shar and I said, do you remember

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Speaker 1: when you sniffed j Low's chair? Oh god, that's how

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Speaker 2: Mike was right there, I know, he was like, wait,

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Speaker 2: we got to get into some key that happened and

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Speaker 2: can I wasn't really a part of it, but we

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Speaker 2: saw in the breakfast the whole thing with Blake Lee Thornton.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I just talked to Sean about my thoughts on it.

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Speaker 1: But I know that's your friends, so it will be nice.

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Speaker 1: So because I was like, oh no, he didn't. I didn't.

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Speaker 3: We should talk about that etiquette too, because I think

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Speaker 3: he was wrong.

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Speaker 1: You feel listen to that situation, I don't think. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So we're head that doesn't know what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know him well, but I'm a fan

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Speaker 2: and I actually wanted to produce his pod back in

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Speaker 2: the day. We were gonna makebe figure out if he

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Speaker 2: would make a solo one. Now shout out to Blakelee Thornton.

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Speaker 1: He's a really dope influencer and he covered the met

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Speaker 1: gala carpet. That's how a lot of people recently found him. So,

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Speaker 1: uh shared a store. We were supposed to do their

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Speaker 1: pod now was week that was whose podcast it was?

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Speaker 1: So I don't know him. So long story short. We

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Speaker 1: My thing. There is club etiquette. This is Charlemagne's table.

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Speaker 1: Charlemagne is a man. Whether you are gay, straight, yellow, purple, whatever,

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Speaker 3: Charlie got it.

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Speaker 3: Fair, like, hey, my brother, this is my bottle.

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Speaker 1: When I saw him say Charlaonmae's I'm like, I want

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Speaker 1: Brilliant Idiots talking about well, he's saying he cool with Weezy.

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Speaker 2: I was like, Charla Way is feeling hurt because he

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Speaker 3: Connecting changes everything Well.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do a quick story about getting to

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Speaker 1: can because while these white prices are pricing, while the

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Speaker 1: weather is weathering, while we may be entering World War

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Speaker 1: three and don't have access to go to other countries.

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Speaker 1: Because she keep getting on the band list. So y'all

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Speaker 1: know I're living Atlanta now, and so I was like, oh, okay,

458
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Speaker 1: where normally I got to add on the tail in

459
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Speaker 1: last year, I had it on the tail end and

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Speaker 1: didn't say Trumpe and was like, ooh, well, this year

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Speaker 1: I had to come back because I had to host

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Speaker 1: Juneteenth on the East Shout out to JB, shout out

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Speaker 1: to the entire city of Oklahoma City, like it was

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Speaker 1: really dope. And now y'all are NBA champs as well. Ay,

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Speaker 1: And so literally I'm like, okay, I'm gonna leave Thursday.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to Nice on Friday, so I have

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Speaker 1: a day in Nice and then Saturday I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: a Dan Monaco and then I had to can on Sunday. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: I get to the airport. My flight is at eight

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Speaker 1: fifty pm on Thursday. It gets it gets good, It

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Speaker 1: gets good. This is a script. Okay, I'm gonna make

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Speaker 1: this into a fucking sketch comedy. If Kemp Pill was

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Speaker 1: still on, I'd be like, hey, guys, I got one

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Speaker 1: for you. So I get a direct flight from Atlanta

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Speaker 1: to Nise. Not sure how I was like, oh, thank God,

476
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Speaker 1: because I did not want to do all the la

477
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Speaker 1: in Europe. So I get a direct flight from Atlanta

478
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Speaker 1: Tonise leaving Thursday, getting in Friday at noon. I said,

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Speaker 1: this is perfect. So I get to the airport, get

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Speaker 1: there a little early because my luggage is heavy. I'm

481
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Speaker 1: bringing books. It's fucking it's I'm like, this is a heavy,

482
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Speaker 1: goddamn luggage. So I get there early, go to the lounge.

483
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Speaker 1: It like it's delayed, Like okay, supposed to be a fifty.

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Speaker 1: It gets turned to nine thirty. Okay. I get to

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Speaker 1: the gate at nine thirty. They're like, well it's now

486
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Speaker 1: ten fifteen. Okay, we start boarding. Get on the plane.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, good, we're getting out of here.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 3: I might get get in it like one or two whatever, Get.

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Speaker 1: On the plane. I'm sitting here talking to the guy

491
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Speaker 1: next to me. Cool ass, white dude, tat it up, bitch.

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Speaker 1: He gives me the nude beach. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: we got here to the nude beach, but clearly he

494
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Speaker 1: saw it was one of those. He gives me the

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Speaker 1: nude beach. A nie. I said, yo, we gotta go

496
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Speaker 1: to the new beach. We sitting there talking, drinking our wine,

497
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Speaker 1: getting ready to take off. I'm like, okay, let me

498
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Speaker 1: put on a movie. I can fall asleep too. I

499
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Speaker 1: put on Ten Things I Hate About You. Oh, good movie,

500
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Speaker 1: such a good movie. None of them looked like high schoolers.

501
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, how do we hear? Anyways, So

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Speaker 1: watching ten Things I Hate About You, we go to

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Speaker 1: take off. I'm like, okay, I fall asleep. Fall asleep

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Speaker 1: in the middle of ten Things I Hate about You,

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Speaker 1: I get woken up by Okay, guys, we'll be going

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Speaker 1: to the gate. Da da da da. Please make sure

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Speaker 1: you take everything off with you. I'm scared. I'm like, buddie,

508
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Speaker 1: we had to land in another country. Like, what you

509
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Speaker 1: mean were going to the gate. I'm like, I'm freaking out.

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Speaker 1: A nigga a bish beIN sleep. No, it is one

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Speaker 1: thirty in the morning. We never left goddamn Atlanta. We're

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Speaker 1: going back to the gate because the hours was it

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Speaker 1: from when it was taxi, Well, the flight was already

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Speaker 1: delayed by like two hours, and then I guess we

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Speaker 1: were on the tarmac for about another hour hour and

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Speaker 1: a half. Ooh, Like weather was bad. That sucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so it was so it's it's one thirty in

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Speaker 3: the morning.

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Speaker 1: So we all get off and they're just telling us, Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: they'll let you know up details at the gate, y'all.

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Speaker 1: This is Delta. By the way, I preface that because

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Speaker 1: what happened next made me question who the fuck I

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Speaker 1: was lying. So we get out to the gate, and

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Speaker 1: in the most Atlanta fashion, because we have no answers,

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Speaker 1: she says, check in, check in, Hello, Hello. I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna let y'all know because y'all crew ain't had the

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Speaker 1: balls to tell you. Literally, this is on the The

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Speaker 1: reason y'all ain't taken off tonight is because they didn't

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Speaker 1: want to take the trip.

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Speaker 3: They timed out and said they don't want to take

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Speaker 3: the trip.

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Speaker 1: Suck. Let me tell y'all was about to happen. It's

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Speaker 1: one thirty in the morning, which means we gotta find

534
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Speaker 1: y'all a new crew. The chances of that happening at

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Speaker 1: one thirty in the morning are very high. Give me

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Speaker 1: five minutes, but do not come up here. Your crew

537
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Speaker 1: chose not to take this flight. Give me five minutes.

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Speaker 1: We're all sitting around and I'm like, okay, she said,

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Speaker 1: give me five minutes. Come back on No Live five

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Speaker 1: minutes later. All right, whatever number in email you use,

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Speaker 1: there's a hotel voucher and food vouchers for y'all. Y'all

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Speaker 1: gonna have to go stay in a hotel tonight because

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Speaker 1: we don't think that y'all.

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Speaker 3: Gonna be able to get out tonight.

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Speaker 1: So I'm looking around, looking around, and they're like, okay, well,

546
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Speaker 1: none of us can leave because even if we get

547
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Speaker 1: hotels for tonight, we don't know what time we got

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Speaker 1: to be back to the airport. So the funniest thing happens.

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Speaker 1: Mind you, this is a direct flight to the south

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Speaker 1: of France. I'm looking at people, look at these hotels.

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Speaker 1: It's the La Quinta, it's the it's the red roof

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Speaker 1: in hold On.

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Speaker 3: So see, and here goes weezy. I think it's so easy.

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Speaker 3: I can't stay that.

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Speaker 1: So literally, I'm across and they're like, what kind of

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Speaker 1: hotels do they think we're gonna stay at tonight? And

557
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm hearing all these bougie people look at the list

558
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: of hold On and then they give us. Then they

559
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Speaker 1: give us two food vouchers twelve dollars apiece, and let

560
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Speaker 1: us know, y'all better go. The only thing open right

561
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: now is McDonald's and they about to close. What are

562
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: you in the morning. McDonald's is the only thing open,

563
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: and everyone's like, I'm not staying at these hotels. But

564
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: mind you, it's one thirty in the morning, so many

565
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: of these hotels are already booked, like two or three options.

566
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Speaker 1: So I'm listening to all these bourgie as people complain

567
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Speaker 1: about not want to say at the Laquenza or the

568
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Speaker 1: Holiday Inn. So then she comes back five minutes later,

569
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Speaker 1: it is two o'clock in the morning, because she says, hey, guys,

570
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Speaker 1: before we get a time that we can land, we

571
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Speaker 1: have to call air traffic control because Nice is such

572
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Speaker 1: a small airport they only allow one flight a day,

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Speaker 1: so we need approval to land this plane for tomorrow.

574
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: Shit bitch, She comes back. Flights officially been canceled, y'all.

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00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: Y'all gotta figure out how to get there because they're

576
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: not allowing two planes to land tomorrow and Nice so

577
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: the desk is down the hall. Good luck, y'all. No,

578
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: there's nothing she could do. She since now it's three

579
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Speaker 1: hundred people literally at two thirty in the morning. Hold on,

580
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: you're doing it too hold on. First off, I call

581
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Speaker 1: the Diamond Line. I get booked on the next direct flight.

582
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: I don't cause it's premium. I know, lucky there was

583
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: one seat left in premium, so there was no extra charge.

584
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 1: She put me on. I looked up. Here go Atlanta Airport.

585
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm in the international terminal. So y'all already sending people

586
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: to hotels. Everyone's on the phone or lined up, and

587
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: it's three hundred people. The fucking trains are down. It

588
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: is a twenty three minute walk air trams. Oh shit,

589
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: not only it is a twenty three minute walk. Oh

590
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:36,239
Speaker 1: my god, terminal E to motherfucking ground transportation. And then

591
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: you know you got to call it Uba two thirty

592
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: when I tell you so on the way. Walking on

593
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Speaker 1: the way there, I'm like, well, let me call my

594
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Speaker 1: hotel and niece cause they better give me a refund

595
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: because I make it there covering. No. No, no, no,

596
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: well I'll do I'm plotting them with Bear. So they said,

597
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: no worries, I'll just modify the reservation. The Marriott was great,

598
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: and so I'm walking and I'm like, wow, the growth.

599
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: Normally I would have been pissed about. My blood pressure

600
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: would have been hot I would have been like just miserable.

601
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: And as I'm walking from twenty three minutes down all

602
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Speaker 1: the goddamned terminals at the Atlanta Airport, I'm like, Giry,

603
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: you came so far. I'm talking to myself at this point.

604
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: It's three o'clock in the morning, and I'm like, you

605
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Speaker 1: know how you normally respond to things, And I'm just like,

606
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: in my mind, I'm genuinely like, I'm gonna make it

607
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: there because I'm supposed to be there, and I'm like,

608
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: there's a reason why we didn't get on that goddamn plane. True,

609
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: it might be that the new final destination just dropped.

610
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've been just listen Bad Brother's Bad Brother, though.

611
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: I've been saying I don't need the stress of doing that,

612
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: and I was just like a good attitude. So I

613
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: got then, I got that. On Saturday, got to spend

614
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: I ended up cutting out Monacos, but the whole day

615
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: and Knees got to cam the next day.

616
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Speaker 3: And I was just like everything the entire week.

617
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fine. No, When I say, yeah, everything

618
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: that we said we wanted, the people we said we

619
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: wanted to meet, we met.

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Speaker 3: And I was just like, it's because I came into

621
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 3: this week with that energy. It had to be and

622
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Speaker 3: it was just like so great.

623
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Speaker 1: But no, as I was sitting there, I think it was.

624
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Speaker 3: I think it was just funny. First off, the lady

625
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: at the gate talking like this is so plain.

626
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Speaker 1: I get it.

627
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,479
Speaker 4: Though she did it, it's not her. It was three

628
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 4: hundred people to attack her. And thank god, by the way,

629
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 4: that you took a nap right before that long walk.

630
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 4: At least you were arrested.

631
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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie rest imagine you didn't take it nap.

632
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 4: You're gonna be cranky walking all the way down to

633
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Speaker 4: the Brown Transportation.

634
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Speaker 1: I told you.

635
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 5: I got home because I forgot my toy and still masturbating.

636
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 5: When I get home, I said, oh my god, cleaning.

637
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: Really, they'll do anything you want. They gat meet up

638
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 2: looking same liquid to ship. Bitch didn't say there and

639
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Speaker 2: I said, sorry, this is what I book.

640
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: They gave it back. I started ordering food that they

641
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't let me get. They gave it back. Yeah. I

642
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I remember when I what

643
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,479
Speaker 1: was it? I was telling y'all, oh, when we were

644
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: supposed to make it to another country, what was it? Vietnam,

645
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: and then we couldn't get in with the visa and

646
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: we were sitting in the airport like what do we do? Yeah?

647
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: And you know what's hard of the same latitude, Like

648
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: you know, it'starting together. We forgot to tell you about

649
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: that too, because that almost happened to me a Crystal

650
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: because we were traveling with Adriana. Adriana has a German passport,

651
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: so she booked our routing to Vietnam. Bitch me and

652
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: Crystal get there, they say, oh no, y'all, bitches need visas.

653
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: Now we literally had that day.

654
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 3: They will, y'all they're on a weekend. Y'all were there

655
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:30,959
Speaker 3: on a weekend.

656
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think if any fun travel stuff happened

657
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: with us. No, but the one thing, obviously the Old

658
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: Bay story is tea, but that's a whole episode. So

659
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 2: there's this club I don't know if anyone's ever heard

660
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 2: of it. Listening, it's called Berghein, And actually last week's

661
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 2: episode with Jerry, she talks about going in there.

662
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so my man and I are playing this yer

663
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: trip and he is very like he would rather travel

664
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: to like Brazil, Japan or South Africa.

665
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 3: I love that you get him to do everything he

666
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 3: don't want to do the cruise in now Europe.

667
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: Oh he loved Europe though, And it sound funny because

668
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: when you were in pairs together, he's like, I get

669
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 2: it now, baby, He's like, I see because he would

670
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: make fun of me and be like, oh you like

671
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 2: that white shit. The second he got there, he's like,

672
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 2: I've seen more niggas than I thought I would like.

673
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: So we get We've been listening to a lot of

674
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:26,479
Speaker 2: House and more recently Techno at a spot called Basement

675
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: in New York, which I mentioned was in the Baby

676
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: Girl movie for that crazy club scene. So we're like,

677
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: all right, we gotta go to the real shit. And

678
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 2: I have heard the real shit is in Berlin. This

679
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 2: club called Berghein. Berghein is basically this I don't even

680
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: know how to describe it. It's maybe five stories warehouse building,

681
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: a five story dungeon imagine.

682
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: So all he's the club. No, it's just a club,

683
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: and it's open because you're a dungeon're a dungeon.

684
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 2: But ohrs, But we'll talk about what's in there a

685
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: little bit because I want to keep the code and

686
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 2: get back in one day four days. The club is open,

687
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 2: okay from Thursday to Monday. So we're like talking to

688
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 2: people in Germany, like how do we get in? What's

689
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 2: the best way to get in. I spoke to Liz

690
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 2: Knebridch because she loves techno and she's like, tell you today, bitch,

691
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: you get their Sunday morning, you have brunch. And then

692
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 2: he stayed on London warning and I'm like what, So

693
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: I was really worried.

694
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: We wouldn't get in.

695
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: The door guy whose name's Spenn, actually he was in

696
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 2: john Wick for he's a well known doorman. He's in interviews.

697
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 2: Everybody's terrified at this guy. I watched this interview they

698
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: had to like dub it. He basically is like what

699
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 2: I do is face control. You can't pay me.

700
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: No one's gonna convince me you can get it.

701
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 2: If I say no, it's me and a team of

702
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 2: other people and we decide if you fit the energy

703
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: for this club, and if you don't, you don't get in.

704
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: If he says no, there's no talking. There's also tiktoks

705
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: and Reddit threats where you can figure out how to

706
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: get in.

707
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 3: That's spin okay.

708
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: So basically when they ask you how many people are

709
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: you hold up the fingers.

710
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,719
Speaker 2: You don't speak. They look you up and down. They

711
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 2: may ask you what dj you know? They may not

712
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: they may say why are you here? Like you got

713
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 2: to figure out your answer. You wear all black, you

714
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: don't smoke in line, you don't get on the phone

715
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 2: in line.

716
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: If you can google rules. I'm telling you this is

717
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: what I know. This is insane.

718
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 4: This man looks by the way all the audio listen

719
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 4: is very intimidating. Man face covered in tattoos, snake bites,

720
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 4: gray beard and looks like would crushed by school at Harby.

721
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: And then something interesting he said. He's like, listen, uh,

722
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: there's places I can't get into because of how he looks.

723
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: Right for ta to tase.

724
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 2: He's like, so there's just places you can't get into,

725
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 2: like if you don't get the vibe in it. So

726
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 2: me and my man get there around four pm on

727
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: a Sunday. We heard that's when the line is low,

728
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: because you may be in hours for three hours in line.

729
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 2: But it's the best club in the world, they say

730
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 2: Elon Musk got rejected.

731
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: It's a whole thing. You can't get it. Not that attractive.

732
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: No tables just to say, like, you could be the

733
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: richest man in the world. Right. So we're watching people

734
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: get turned away and my niggas like damn, like they

735
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: kind of look like they fit, Like why the fuck

736
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 1: they get it? So then we get closer, He's like,

737
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: we don't need niggas in this line. We get ain't

738
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: no way, I'll blow this shit up. Not getting in

739
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: is the fucking culture of this club. So we get

740
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: to the door. I'm thinking this guy is the urban myth.

741
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm thinking because he's been working at twenty years. I'm

742
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: not thinking we all see him, bitch, we see you.

743
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh fuck, because there are other door

744
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: guys people talk about, but this is the one. My

745
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: man's wearing black, black pans, thick, chunky, like those big

746
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: botaga booze, and just some cool shit. He got his

747
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: shirt open a little bit so you might see a

748
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: little nipple ring. I was just wearing all black and leather.

749
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: So the door guys look at us, say how many?

750
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: They look us up and down. He says something in

751
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: German to the guy next to him. Then they pull

752
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: out spend he's the main guy. He's looking us up

753
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: and down. They start talking to each other. Bro, I

754
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: didn't know it was gonna take this long. So I'm swimming, bitch,

755
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, this feels like racism and oppression.

756
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: This is too much. And then finally it's just boom

757
00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: one head nod and does this like go in. Well,

758
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: you can't say anything, you know, So we're just walking

759
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: in and he squeezing them olve and I'm like, oh shit,

760
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 1: oh shit, oh shit. They cover your phones. This is,

761
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: by the way, German thing phones covered.

762
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: First thing I see when I get in, literally a

763
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 2: dude with his dick out and wearing wristlets to hold

764
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: his phone on his ankles.

765
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 1: Did he go in with his dick out? Not set?

766
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: But this was another tip I got for anyone going

767
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 2: to berg Hine. So you bring a bag with you

768
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 2: and they know you're gonna change. The first floor is

769
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:31,919
Speaker 2: the cod check.

770
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 1: The code check is so full because everybody's getting undressed.

771
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,879
Speaker 1: So now at this point I told all like, I'm

772
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: taking my pants off, like now I want to get undressed.

773
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking I'm about to walk into a sex club.

774
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: It's not a sex club, but I don't know what

775
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 1: to call it. You walk in it's a nude club.

776
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: It's not even a nude club.

777
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 3: If you saw a whole dick, girl, it's a nude club.

778
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 1: People wearing clothes, some people are not, some people have

779
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: their tips out. I don't know what it is a club,

780
00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: so my nudity, it's not. You saw dick a titty

781
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: the club. It has no rules period. A club with

782
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: no rules. No, so you cut a stuff your man

783
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: dick in the club. I'm gonna tell you what I

784
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 1: saw a little bit. Oh, I'm gonna tell you everything.

785
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: This is a sex club, bro. It's not as like, okay,

786
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: we're not going to label it like how. People don't

787
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: want to be lax, so they say it is at

788
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:17,959
Speaker 1: the best club of the world.

789
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: And I was talking to this black girl in the

790
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: bathroom who she doesn't know me or you, but she

791
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: was like, I feel.

792
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: Like you do something with someone someone hold I know you.

793
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, maybe. So I was like, what

794
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: do you think? She was like, I only came here

795
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: because I heard it was hard to get in and

796
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to know I could get in. She was like, but.

797
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 2: I hate techno and I hate house music. She's like,

798
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 2: I fucking I cannot believe how much I love this thing.

799
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: She's like, it is just the weirdest energy. So basically

800
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 2: we start walking through the club and my man and

801
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 2: I were still geeked off the fact that we got

802
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 2: in this shit. We want to talk about it, like

803
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 2: why are you looking at this a long?

804
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,399
Speaker 1: Did he say? Nigga? What did you say?

805
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 2: So we're walking by and there's these little inlets like

806
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: it looks like closets but with no door, private rooms,

807
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 2: but only one two people could fit in, like literally

808
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: if it looked like a box, like if you walked in,

809
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: someone that got in there would have to squeeze and

810
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: be suffocated.

811
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: Or put their dick in you yep, And that's what

812
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: I saw. And oh, so we're looking at it and

813
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I need to get high out. I

814
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: need to do some drugs. Now, do some drugs. So

815
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to go to the bathroom and do my

816
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 1: drugs like a good person. And then finally I'm waiting

817
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: online and someone just pulls some shit out. She says,

818
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: would you like some spid? Do some spid? I was like,

819
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: oh no, and I will go do my ecstasy alone.

820
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: Ye go back out and it's like, it's five forty

821
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: five the club closed at eight am to night. It's

822
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 1: five forty five pm. He's like, what are we gonna do?

823
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, dude. It is wild. I've

824
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: never seen anything like this in my life. I'm like,

825
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 1: I got to get out of here. Let's go get

826
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: a drink. I go get a drink. I'm waiting on

827
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: the bartender. Bartender is standing next to three on the

828
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: bartender is wearing like all techno clothing, and another one

829
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: comes out fully naked with a huge, huge rabbit's foot

830
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: hanging from the chain on his dick, and he says, oh,

831
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: but are you from would you like to drink? And

832
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, dick water, I don't bitch? What dick out? Bitch? Wait?

833
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: Are all the bottles okay? Sorry, this is where my

834
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: mom went. Are all the bottles at least on the wall,

835
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 1: like above them? Because all I'm thinking is, as a

836
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: former bartender, sometimes it's down anywhere else is his dick

837
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: slanging possibly touching the tops of the bottles where it

838
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: pours out.

839
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 4: I just would like to also, also, is it like

840
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 4: sacrilegious to share bottles there? Because that was a problem

841
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 4: earlier in this Oh.

842
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: There's no tables, okay, everyone, there's no tables. There's no

843
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: way you can pay to get there is no exclusive No.

844
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, honestly, unless the bottle are coming from

845
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: above you, I don't know if I want a dick

846
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: slinging bye ma ba.

847
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 2: Well, no choice match. And you know what else is crazy?

848
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 2: This club is so true to the fact that no

849
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 2: one's above anyone. When the DJ walked in, he walked

850
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 2: in through the front door, I saw people bugging out

851
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 2: about him. No oh well, he then climbed up a

852
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: ladder to get to a section, to put his things down,

853
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: and climb down the ladder to get to the fucking

854
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 2: bro best anciste I've ever heard, I've never I was

855
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: just wow, it was a lot.

856
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: And then it's an unlabeled sex club. I think it's

857
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 1: just a very pre for all love call free. I

858
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: really don't think it's a sex sob. I swear to God,

859
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 1: like if there's no there's no, there's no. But there's

860
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: no way of fun. There's clearly a lot of places

861
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: as the bathroom a little slits in a world. I

862
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: think it's them all. It's just cool to me.

863
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 5: Though.

864
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: To me, though I think it's to me, I would say,

865
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: and maybe because we we in Europe. But to me,

866
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,959
Speaker 1: if I'm going to a place that's not a sex club,

867
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: like you and I are liberated. To me, if I'm

868
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: going to a club, I don't believe that I'm going

869
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 1: to see anybody's dick or anyone's think Like to me,

870
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: that's like there's that sexual assault technically their sex.

871
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 2: It's to rest why that is why all of these

872
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 2: people are judged based on if they fit the vibe.

873
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 2: Maybe you will see four fucking niggas fucking each other.

874
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: Are you gonna be weird about it? I don't know

875
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: how one guy with face tattoos can determine it. Well no, no, no, no, apparently,

876
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: And I don't know because now after we got in

877
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 2: we've just been googling, like trying to figure out about

878
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 2: this club. There's a rumor online that he's been paid

879
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 2: to like do the most.

880
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: Like curate vibes and like do shit like that. Like

881
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: I actually think that you can do that.

882
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 2: I think for twenty years, if you've been running one

883
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 2: of the most well known clubs in the world, Yes,

884
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 2: I do think you can do that.

885
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: I think I could look at somebody and be like,

886
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: you ain't about this life one hundred percent. I think

887
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: we all can do that. And I think in my

888
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: in my first thirty seconds of just looking at someone

889
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: where you can't say words, which means you can't have

890
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: a conversation and you're just looking at energy, has energy bro.

891
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: For example, there's a clip of Peggy Goose, she's a

892
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: really dope DJ who is talking to another DJ in

893
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: BBC and the girl goes, how do I get in?

894
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: She was like, you gotta look ready, and the other

895
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: girl are you huh? I agree, I agree, I think

896
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: you gotta know. So then we start talking about this. Right.

897
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: I talked to my homeboy who runs Jerk and Joel

898
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: Off shout out to Sante. He's like, damn, nigga, you

899
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: got in. I didn't get in, And I'm like.

900
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 2: Hell because I'm thinking he's a handsome looking guy and

901
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 2: he's like I had so many people I was with,

902
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 2: So I'm like, all right, now, I don't think he

903
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,320
Speaker 2: means black shit. I think he means he throws the

904
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 2: afrobeats party basically, right, Afrobe's anshult.

905
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 1: So if you bring a niggas from the club with you.

906
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: How are they dressed? Are they dressed in just like regularly? Shit?

907
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: Like what they looking like?

908
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: Because you really got to fit the bill for people

909
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 2: that like this music, for people that do this, like

910
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 2: you can't look like a first timer. And I heard

911
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 2: them say to the guy before us, have you been

912
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 2: here before? And he said no, and they talked and

913
00:42:57,840 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: then they.

914
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: Still let him in. But he kind of a little

915
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: life vibe.

916
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that if more people did this

917
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: instead of being for example, little Sisters Adore in New

918
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: York that a lot of people can't get into. They're

919
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 2: known notoriously for letting in skinny model girls and it's

920
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 2: turned into this whole cool kid's culture.

921
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: But it used to be a cool.

922
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: Club, but it's not really anymore. What if it was

923
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 2: just based off people that looked like they were ready

924
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 2: to fucking dance and.

925
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 1: That were cool, not hot, cool, that whatever, short, just

926
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: a cool motherfucker instead of skinny model white.

927
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 3: You just think even cool. But I think even cool.

928
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 3: It's subjective.

929
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: I do want to shout out to Okay, see because

930
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: I found out cold they there's something called an unction

931
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: and it's a thirty and up crowd. You cannot get

932
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 1: it unless you are thirty plus and she's twenty seven.

933
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 3: So she was like, oh, you gotta be thirty. And

934
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 3: she said it like it was real old.

935
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, did you go? I didn't.

936
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: I was so tired. I had just lend it from France.

937
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 1: I had to go from France. Okay, see the whole festival.

938
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: I was like, ain't no way, I'm making it out.

939
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: But she was telling me by the unction and I said, yea,

940
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: I love that name. And what I'm realizing too is

941
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: thirty enough crowds are loving R and B. It's why

942
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: almost the only time I go out, even in Atlanta,

943
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,919
Speaker 1: were looking for the R and B parties And I'm like, damn,

944
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: that's a good name, I said, because I like a

945
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 1: little thirty up crowd. Although I do like my Wyans too,

946
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 1: But the Wayians in the South dress a little too

947
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: Yanish for me. Oh.

948
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 2: I like Kawaiians everywhere doing you know what? Learn that

949
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 2: in London the Wayans the like that culture of like drill,

950
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 2: like nog the cdentral Sea. Look, let me tell you something.

951
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: Hate it crossing people's street, Hate it not crossing the street.

952
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: I don't like them.

953
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,280
Speaker 2: I'm walking down the Lower east Side. Yo, I'm sorry

954
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 2: if I sound like a fucking Karen. Me and my

955
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 2: nigga are mid thirties.

956
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 1: The other day we saw some niggas we were walking

957
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: in it. I said, get him out of here, go left.

958
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to, he laughed. He's like, I'm like

959
00:44:56,120 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: eight niggas, bunched up, thirteen years old after school. You marijuana,

960
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: get up in marijuana?

961
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 3: Well, no, I ain't gonna need you to me.

962
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 1: It's it's not for shown. I hate it the Jesus.

963
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,280
Speaker 1: And here's my problem with the Yan fashion in Atlanta.

964
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,919
Speaker 1: Like me and my friend now have a game where

965
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: when we go out, we literally try to decipher who's

966
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: hetero and who's not. The why in look is a

967
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: mix between guess real hood. But in Atlanta they bedazzle

968
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: ships and they wear ship no, and then it be

969
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: crop top like you go white there. So I'm like,

970
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: you know why under me in my head is like that,

971
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: hold no, no, no, let me finish. It'll be bedazzled

972
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,399
Speaker 1: tight with the crow top and it's still a ski

973
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: mask where it's ninety degree. That's okay for Atlanta. That's

974
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: what that is it's the white. It looks like that's

975
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: my life with this is the way. That's the look,

976
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: the way the that's the way the drill rappers dressed.

977
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: Don't like it, like you know, I don't like it.

978
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: He is you know, like if you know, like you

979
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: went to Paris for fact music.

980
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,240
Speaker 2: It's this thing I kate when rain into on accidents,

981
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 2: basically just music day. It started in the seventies where

982
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: free concerts were all over the streets in France, and

983
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 2: now it's turned into people could just play music from

984
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 2: their homes like you basically follow the street to different sounds.

985
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: It's so much fun. So my whomeboy invites me to

986
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 1: this party. Be on my nigga about the pull up.

987
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: I want to say it was sponsored by Snipes or

988
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: Nike and it's free. Right. We got up there, I

989
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: see thirty niggas with Travis Scott Braids and Nike Tech.

990
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 1: I said, we're not going They're gonna be shooting we

991
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 1: are No, Wow, that's crazy. I'm going to daily paper, bitch.

992
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to motherfucker every day pop why I'm not

993
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 1: going to ask shit, Y'all'm n exactly going to be

994
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: trying to kill me. Oh, it's funny. I've been trying

995
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: to figure out where to go in Atlanta because it's

996
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: a mix. I do want to go where the Waiians are,

997
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,439
Speaker 1: not the ones that just like the Wayans, but y'all

998
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: know I like me a little Wayian, so I've been

999
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: trying to go there. And then also them's her crowd,

1000
00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: so the cigar bars. So it's like been interesting to

1001
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: figure out where the hell just to go out where, Yeah,

1002
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: you know people you know makes sense. Yeah, let's get

1003
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: into y'all. We are now authors. We authors, Baby, We're

1004
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: gonna get into a little bit of the book to

1005
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: share with y'all some things, talk about it and really

1006
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: hopefully get y'all just as excited as we are that

1007
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 1: the book is now out, that you get to read

1008
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: all the things we shared.

1009
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 3: We'd be vulnerable on the podcast, but we even more

1010
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 3: vulnerable in the book.

1011
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: And listen, you may just be.

1012
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: A listener that doesn't really care about reading anything about us.

1013
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: You don't need to care about me and die it

1014
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: easy to read this. It's really that good of a book.

1015
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: I will say different compliments I received from this book.

1016
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 2: Last night when Shara hit me, he said, everyone that

1017
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 2: loved to say and will love this book. One of

1018
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: my other homegirls said, I kind of feel like I'm

1019
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,479
Speaker 2: reading a self help book for help that I didn't

1020
00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 2: ask for, but now I kind of like it. I

1021
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 2: like reading about tips about BDSM. She's like, I like

1022
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: reading about these heartbreak tips. She's like, I feel like

1023
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 2: I'm married, but just reading on how I should have

1024
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 2: done things feels good. And I think it's all of

1025
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 2: this juicy detail about someone that you don't know.

1026
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 1: But it's non fiction. When we read nonfiction, we're normally

1027
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: reading it to better our money or mental health. We

1028
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: never think about nonfiction for the sex. Yeah, so I'm

1029
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: like excited for you to dig in. I wanted to

1030
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: break up real quick some conversations for us based on

1031
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: the sections of the book, just so that we can

1032
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: maybe add some elements to it, tell them something they

1033
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: may not know, get deeper into something. So I wanted

1034
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: to start with pleasure, because pleasure outside of our introduction

1035
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: is where the book starts. And so for pleasure, I

1036
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 1: wanted you to share your favorite moment in the book

1037
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 1: from this section. Really, it could be a sense of

1038
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: a tip or a specific story about a certain person.

1039
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: So for me. Specifically, my three chapters and the Pleasure

1040
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:07,240
Speaker 1: of Portion are about masturbation, being a unicorn on vacation,

1041
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:12,439
Speaker 1: and anal sex, which I love. Y'all, actually has something

1042
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 1: to do with that chapter title. We literally leaned into

1043
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: something that was said on the podcast when Vinnie joined us.

1044
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: But can I put it back there? That's the title

1045
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 1: of that chapter. But I wanted to actually add because

1046
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: this is a story told on the podcast. Y'all remember

1047
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: when I took my solo trip to Mexico and became

1048
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: a unicorn for a couple and it was just super wonderful.

1049
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: This chapter, even though you've heard the story on the podcast,

1050
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: I kind of tied into the fact that so many

1051
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: of us maybe stop ourselves from exploring or doing things

1052
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: that we want to do because of how we think

1053
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: people will perceive us. So that chapter, the theme is

1054
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 1: about would this have happened if I came with friends?

1055
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 1: Would this have happened if I was thinking too much

1056
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: about what the people on the boat would.

1057
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 3: Have thought about me for staying on this island with strangers?

1058
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: Would I have got to experience this dope ass experience

1059
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: of a weekend? Had I let what public perception would

1060
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: have took about this experience from me, and so I

1061
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: really lean into hopefully the reader from that reading that chapter,

1062
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: the reader gets that, damn, how many times did I

1063
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,720
Speaker 1: not shoot my shot because I was in fear of rejection?

1064
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 1: How many times did I not date this person because

1065
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: I just knew my friends wouldn't like him or my

1066
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: mama wouldn't like him, And I want to make all

1067
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: those people happy instead of choosing my own happiness first.

1068
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,879
Speaker 1: So that was, like I would say, my favorite chapter

1069
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: of the pleasure section, but also the theme that I

1070
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: was able to bring around a story that y'all already

1071
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: heard on the pod.

1072
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 2: I think the pain section will be people's favorite because

1073
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 2: it jumps around. Oh no, I want to think it's no, no, no,

1074
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 2: I know I'm just saying, but I think the pleasure

1075
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 2: starting with the pleasure is really fun because when you

1076
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 2: pick up a book like this, that's what you respect read.

1077
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 2: I think for me one that I haven't really discussed

1078
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 2: the safety chapter. You don't really hear me talk a

1079
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 2: lot about, but I'm thinking about it because we did

1080
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 2: the breakfast club.

1081
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 1: This morning and I kind of forgot about how necessary

1082
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: it is.

1083
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 2: For so in the safety chapter I reference needing a

1084
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 2: devil and an angel on your shoulder. Mine is Vinnie

1085
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 2: and Brionda. And I know if I'm about to do

1086
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: some crazy shit, I'm gonna call any and he's gonna

1087
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 2: be like, bitch, go thought that nigga Brionda.

1088
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 1: Be like, oh my goodness, okay, well I'm here.

1089
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 2: She'll never tell me no, she'd never judge. And I

1090
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 2: think surrounding yourself with that community in your pleasure seeking journey,

1091
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 2: there does need to be someone else oden than you,

1092
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 2: because a lot of the inner turmoil I'd experienced with

1093
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 2: sexuality was because I didn't have anyone to relate to,

1094
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 2: and many times people kind of shame you for it,

1095
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 2: or you feel like they're gonna talk behind your back.

1096
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 2: Many of us have a group of a few friends,

1097
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 2: and I actually just recently said, I don't know if

1098
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 2: you've had this experience recently, but it's such a good

1099
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 2: place of comfort. My all girls are in a group

1100
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 2: chat with me and I was telling them something don't

1101
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: lie did and they were about to go to lunch.

1102
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 2: I was like, I don know, y'all, I was about

1103
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 2: to talk about me and they were like, olla, well,

1104
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 2: and we are with a smile, and I was like, damn,

1105
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 2: I am in such a good safe place, and you

1106
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 2: don't really.

1107
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 1: Get here till you're in your thirties. Right, there's always

1108
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: a bitch you can't staying something wrong, And it feels

1109
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: good to know that I've built that for myself, much

1110
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: like Chosen Family. So in the pleasure chapter, just knowing

1111
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: I got to do something fun and then sneaking call

1112
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: a friend and having that safety net, like, it didn't

1113
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: hit me that that was that pivotal for this book.

1114
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: Now there's the off the cuss question. There's sex throughout

1115
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: the book. Is there a sexual experience or story that

1116
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: you wish made the book cheating all old Bay? Probably okay,

1117
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: okay for me, I think, And I questioned myself, y'all know,

1118
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: I told y'all a story about the editor not allowing

1119
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: me to be the bi sexual bitch that I am. Yeah,

1120
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: And so I did at one point want to make

1121
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 1: a story about my frivolous casual sex with women because

1122
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 1: back in Miami. And it's so funny because this story

1123
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 1: just I don't remember who I was talking to. I

1124
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: think I was talking to somebody who No, it would

1125
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: have been a new story. It would have been a

1126
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: new chapter. But I remember having this conversation about what

1127
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: the club scene is like now, and I was like, yeah, man,

1128
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,359
Speaker 1: back when I lived in Miami, I remember being able

1129
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: to eat couci in the in the bathroom saws. They

1130
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: were like, wait, how did you eat pussy in the

1131
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: bathroom sauce. I said, yo, I did it twice, No,

1132
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: maybe three times twice in play well, okay, I did

1133
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: it twice and play.

1134
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 3: Once it Jerry's if y'all know Jerry's, if y'all in

1135
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 3: your thirties. Jerry's was the.

1136
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: Diner on South Beach that is no longer open, and

1137
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 1: then I ate Pussy. I shared the story a story.

1138
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: No story was this side of the beach. No, it

1139
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: was down on the other side. And then I ate Pussy.

1140
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 1: Y'all heard the story when I went to Tutsis and

1141
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: so I'm literally like talking about the clubs and I

1142
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I used to pussy the stalls da da,

1143
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: And so I go to start talking about like my

1144
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend and me that I dated when I was.

1145
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 3: In Miami and what that, and I was like, damn, okay.

1146
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: I realized that there was this questionable part of me,

1147
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: and it didn't make it in there because I was like,

1148
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm not changing none of my chapters, but for me,

1149
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, if I really could have shared

1150
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 1: all the wild, random sex with women I had, like

1151
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:27,439
Speaker 1: on the dock and tootsies and stalls, I was like, wow,

1152
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 1: I actually don't have those stories with a lot of men,

1153
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: Like Bro.

1154
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 2: That's because of safety. That's a good point to like

1155
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 2: ring up. And so I don't know if it was safety, no, no, no, no,

1156
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,280
Speaker 2: Bro were in the bathroom, I was on my knees

1157
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 2: like crazy. They could take me to give me head,

1158
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 2: and for some reason, niggas made me feel insafe. I

1159
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,320
Speaker 2: don't know if I was letting man just take me

1160
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 2: in the bathroom and do shit strangers, yes, I mean

1161
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 2: my niggas. Yes, I've done it with like people that

1162
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 2: I know what you're saying. Safety is your thing, Okay.

1163
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: Like the way that I've learned how women respond to me,

1164
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,839
Speaker 1: it's not because I'm the baddest man in world, even

1165
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: though i'd like to think. So. Women feel safer with women,

1166
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,399
Speaker 1: like we're fucking area of sault. So we were able

1167
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: to eat each other pussy because we feel safe in

1168
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: the club safety O show us. Also all the women

1169
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: who have sucked digging a club, good for you, but yeah,

1170
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 1: you're right safe spacey plussy in a club.

1171
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 2: By the way, the reason I would want to add

1172
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 2: the old Bay thing is because, oh, that sounds so suitable.

1173
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say this out loud say it.

1174
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people feel really bad

1175
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 2: for me after reding that chapter, and I had some

1176
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 2: bad moments, but I had another boyfriend I was okay,

1177
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 2: which I was really living it up like I thought

1178
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 2: he was going to be my central relationship because it

1179
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 2: looked so good on paper, and I didn't really think

1180
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: I needed.

1181
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: Much more for stability for me. In the beginning of.

1182
00:55:57,080 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 2: That relationship, I really didn't focus on I always thought

1183
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 2: everything could be fixed, which isn't true. Like I always

1184
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 2: just kind of thought, hey, great on paper, we'll fix

1185
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 2: this other shit, I'll go to therapy, I'll figure it out.

1186
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,399
Speaker 2: But this is a great catch to the point where

1187
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 2: I didn't really care about much else. Now, I didn't

1188
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 2: need a relationship that badly. I was having so much

1189
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 2: fun in my life and it's stumbled on one. But

1190
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,399
Speaker 2: at that particular time I met him I was coming

1191
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 2: off of Scissors rebounding a little bit, and I felt

1192
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,439
Speaker 2: like I needed that with a man, and I felt

1193
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 2: like he was a perfect man for it, and I

1194
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,760
Speaker 2: also had a lot of fun with him. But the chapter,

1195
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 2: when I read it back, and it's some one that

1196
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 2: people talked to me about the.

1197
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: Most, it does feel sad.

1198
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 2: But I really was getting fucked, like I had two

1199
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 2: other niggas, Like I really was giving my lick.

1200
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: Back in real time. But I felt like bringing it

1201
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: up in the chapter with Muddy, how terrible he was,

1202
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: so I needed people to know he wasn't shit. Before

1203
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: I told you that you, I didn't start until he started.

1204
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:08,240
Speaker 1: Guess crazy. Sorry for pain, we talk enjoyment, consequences, and trauma.

1205
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: Why did we and I want to talk to the

1206
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 1: to the audience here. Why did we feel it was

1207
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: important in this pain section to include BDSM or the

1208
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: pleasure of pain? I think it was because we definitely

1209
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: knew we didn't want to make this book too dark,

1210
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,919
Speaker 1: and so yeah, the way of making it fun pain

1211
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: pleasure like it went hand in hand and someone and sometimes,

1212
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: to be truthful, when I say pleasure and pain, I

1213
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: don't think of heartbreak, pain I think of sex pain.

1214
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 1: So I think when the reader picks this up, they're like, ooh,

1215
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: pleasure and pain. So when you fucking hear about a

1216
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: story that's violent, you're like, oh shit, I think that

1217
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: is the unexpected party. I know we got our trigger

1218
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: warnings too, and I love that. Lauren on Breakfast Club

1219
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: was like, I really loved that y'all included these trigger

1220
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: warnings because when you're reading a book and you get

1221
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: into hearing about fucking a couple and eating pussy and

1222
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: taking dick in your ass, and then you get to

1223
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 1: a sexual assault chapter, it's like, WHOA, So you guys

1224
00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: do have the trigger wanting to be able to flip

1225
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: through the book on your own time, because we definitely

1226
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: don't want to trigger you why you read this, But yeah,

1227
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: I was it was important for us to include that,

1228
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: and it's in the master class. I decided to do

1229
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: a whole breakdown of BDSM and then the dungeon that

1230
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm actually speaking about in the book get the master class.

1231
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 1: I have a whole video in the exact room, so

1232
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 1: the way I described the space and what it looks like,

1233
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: you actually have a visual representation of the rig that

1234
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 1: suspended me in the air, and I literally also bring

1235
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: out the chastity belt that I put my exes Dick in,

1236
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: and you also get to see the thing that electrocuted me.

1237
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 3: So the electro play toy is there. Everything is in

1238
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 3: the master class.

1239
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 1: So again, make sure you get that it's only available

1240
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 1: till July first, and then for free, for free, for

1241
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: all of you out.

1242
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 3: Progression Healing is a journey. Where do you think you

1243
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 3: still have the most work to do?

1244
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: Like, even based on the stories you narrated in your

1245
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 1: progression part, is there anyone that still seems like a

1246
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: work in progress. I think.

1247
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 2: Myself is the work in progress for the story, particularly

1248
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 2: about depression and suicide and all that stuff.

1249
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm such a happy person in my day to day that.

1250
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 2: It doesn't really come up often, but when it does,

1251
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 2: it's hard to get out of it because I'm so

1252
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 2: emotional when.

1253
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm happy, I'm so happy. I'm not just content, I'm excited,

1254
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: and I'm screaming it at you.

1255
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 2: I feel like more recently in my life, just just

1256
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: said it to me when we were walking out of

1257
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 2: the Bakfast club. You look really good, and I was like,

1258
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 2: oh god, I'm just really happy. Like, that's my answers continually.

1259
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 2: I'm really happy and I feel it in and out,

1260
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 2: and I lost ten pounds.

1261
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: That added to it. Everybody keeps saying, oh, you look great,

1262
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: don't know you? I got it off. Now what I

1263
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: will say when those sad moments come.

1264
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:11,560
Speaker 2: I then almost re tracked back to like this dark

1265
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 2: place of who I was, because it can really take

1266
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 2: me down. So some of the tools that I've used

1267
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 2: that I even talk about, how I talk about what

1268
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 2: my therapist did for me, automatic thoughts, how to fix them,

1269
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 2: sometimes I forget. I forget how to use them, and

1270
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 2: I really need to start practicing what I preach all

1271
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 2: the time. This week, we're gonna be doing so much

1272
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 2: extra work. I'm sure it may take my bad thoughts down. Like,

1273
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 2: for example, I don't know if this has ever happened

1274
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 2: to someone. It happened to me last night, and I

1275
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 2: was able to get through it. So I knew I

1276
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 2: had to go to bed by a certain time because

1277
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:45,080
Speaker 2: make up was six forty five, with the breakfast club

1278
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 2: at nine whatever. Right around ten forty five, I'm like, Oh,

1279
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 2: if I keep staying up, I'm only gonna have seven

1280
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 2: hours and fifteen minutes. It's like, oh, if I'm still awake,

1281
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 2: I'm only have six hours to sleep. Then I went

1282
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 2: to the bathroom and I see the clock at four am.

1283
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, wow, so now I only have ninety minute.

1284
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 2: Like the way that my brain starts to spiral, it's

1285
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 2: so awful and I can't stop myself sometimes, And I

1286
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 2: think that is the biggest piece of work for me.

1287
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,480
Speaker 2: How am I talking to myself when I'm stressed out?

1288
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 2: Why don't wake up every daytime?

1289
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: All? I just talked about going through the airport. That's

1290
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 1: the That's the thing that I'm like, so glad that

1291
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: I have in control.

1292
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 2: I did that a little bit when with the Reckfast

1293
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 2: club today, actually, and I helped myself, so I inverted

1294
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 2: the address, y'all.

1295
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: I left my house early. I was so proud of myself.

1296
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 2: Got to one twenty fifth instead of one twenty five

1297
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: West fifty fifth.

1298
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 5: What was it?

1299
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: Bruh.

1300
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 2: The second I started seeing horle, I'm like, this don't

1301
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 2: feel right. And after it got fixed, I'm looking at

1302
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 2: the clock. I'm watching it go from thirty two minutes

1303
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 2: to get there twenty nine minutes to get there.

1304
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm late. I'm embarrassed, and I'm like, I go, oh, yeah,

1305
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: they were trying to start without you, and I was like, no,

1306
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,439
Speaker 1: let's again, God right, only six minutes. You were forty

1307
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: minutes late. No, no, no, six minutes from when we

1308
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: were recording. Oh, as soon as you got there, we started.

1309
01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, I got there in nine thirty six. They

1310
01:01:58,080 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 1: said nine thirty start.

1311
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no this Yeah, they

1312
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 3: were ready to go at night.

1313
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, they were ready going night. I'm glad. I

1314
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: didn't know that. It would have gave me anxiety. I

1315
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: literally had to say to myself, this is a mistake.

1316
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 1: It happened. If I start to get upset, then it's

1317
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 1: gonna throw the vibe oup with the both of us.

1318
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: It's gonna read on my face.

1319
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 2: I'm not able to help talk about this book because

1320
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be so overworked and upset I can't think

1321
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 2: about it. I made a mistake. I got to accept

1322
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 2: my fate. I'm gonna get there. It's gonna be great.

1323
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 2: Everything will be okay. Like it's tough because we are

1324
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 2: our biggest critic and I'm about to tear myself up

1325
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 2: in the car and fuck all this shit up.

1326
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: Fuck all this energy up, not just for myself but

1327
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:43,439
Speaker 1: everybody else around me. So like, yeah, my thoughts get dark, dude,

1328
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: and when they do, I've just got to learn how

1329
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: to be better about it. And talking about that in

1330
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: the book was very freeing, just about ay, like life

1331
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 1: goes on, everything wound up being good.

1332
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 3: I think, Yeah, that's that's where I've had the most work.

1333
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: I used to get worked on hoping that people showed

1334
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: up how I wanted them to show up, or do

1335
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: as I wanted them to do, or be who I

1336
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: wanted them to be, whether it be a partner, whether

1337
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: it be you, whether it be a friend, whether it

1338
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: be my mom, my dad, my dad. Definitely, that's a

1339
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 1: whole nother story. And now I just exist where I'm

1340
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: like people are in their own worlds. I have my

1341
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: own world. I can't make make anyone get out of

1342
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: the own world that they existed, I said, So I

1343
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: just have to exist with my own thoughts. I only

1344
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: have control over how I show up. And like I said,

1345
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: even when that plane canceled, I talked to my best

1346
01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 1: friend the next morning. She's like, ooh, bitch, I know

1347
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: you was tight, And I said, actually, friend, I wasn't.

1348
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 1: Everything that happened was completely out of my control. And

1349
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 1: I said, the only thing that I could control was

1350
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: how I felt in the moment. And I said, at

1351
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: that moment, I made the decision, You're not gonna be mad.

1352
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 1: There was nothing you could do. You're gonna get home,

1353
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna go to sleep, you're gonna take the flight

1354
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:58,439
Speaker 1: tomorrow and hopefully everything works out. And that's been such

1355
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: a freeing thing to get to. Like I used to

1356
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: be in therapy, like I don't understand like why this,

1357
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,439
Speaker 1: and I would just get so upset that things didn't

1358
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:12,800
Speaker 1: happen the way I thought everything should happen. And now

1359
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 1: that I just be like, Okay, well there's nothing you

1360
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: can do. Don't even get mad at this person. Just

1361
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: allow them to be who they are. You are who

1362
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 1: you are. You can only control who you are. How

1363
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: do you want to be today? Do you want to

1364
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 1: be upset? Do you want your energybo? Do you want

1365
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 1: to be nasty? Because if you don't want to be,

1366
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: those things show up the way that like allows you

1367
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: to have a good day. And when I allow you,

1368
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,360
Speaker 1: boy that having a good day, everything just kind of

1369
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 1: works out.

1370
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 2: Like I talked about this before bringing up the manifestation

1371
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 2: visualization rituals I did on the master class.

1372
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 1: But like in my story, I'm headed to the airport.

1373
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 2: I had to leave earlier because I had a meeting,

1374
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:54,919
Speaker 2: so my man is still in bed on our original flight,

1375
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 2: but I had to get to New York, you know.

1376
01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 2: And I'm tired because we went out the night before

1377
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 2: and we're all cutled up, and I gotta get up

1378
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 2: at six am. I'm on the way to the airport. Mandy,

1379
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 2: I'm not even joking. The Uber driver says, excuse me,

1380
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 2: excuse me.

1381
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 1: One moment and he points to the wheel of his

1382
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: car like outside, and I'm like, okay. One moment he

1383
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 1: starts to blow up his shit with a little bike pump.

1384
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, dog, I'm fucking late. I'm already in a

1385
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: bad mood because I lost my first class seat because

1386
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 1: I switched to my flight.

1387
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 2: This is total rich people problems. And let me tell

1388
01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 2: you something, I don't care this flight I paid for

1389
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 2: my seat on because I said, hey, Mandy and I

1390
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 2: are doing the breakfast club right after this trip, and

1391
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 2: we uppress every single day. I'm gonna spend this money

1392
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 2: on my seat because I deserve.

1393
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 1: To lay it down. Lost the seat because I had

1394
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 1: to fucking leave early, so fucking tire boom blows out.

1395
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:52,560
Speaker 2: Then on the highway tire goes out again. I gotta

1396
01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 2: get another uber. Thirteen minutes to get this other uber.

1397
01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 2: It's me and the luggage. While I'm rolling the luggage

1398
01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 2: to the car, there was so much cobblestone spalls off.

1399
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: Well fall up. It's now I'm lugging sixty pounds bag

1400
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: stressed Mandy, this ah get to the airport. Flight is

1401
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 1: at nine thirty. I'm there at eight twenty seven. You know,

1402
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: the bag don't go on if it's not an hour

1403
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 1: before I run. I get there. My seat was thirty

1404
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 1: four J not lying to you get to the thing?

1405
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: She answered, my ticket there's four A on the ticket

1406
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:27,680
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, and she goes, I

1407
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: guess people didn't make it, so you got upgrade it

1408
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 1: to verse class, Nigga. I paid six hundred dollars for

1409
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 1: that seat. Do you know how much I paid for

1410
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 1: the one before? Forty seven? I was like, dog, this

1411
01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 1: is just good karma, because you know what my text

1412
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: message was to my man about the about the flight.

1413
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 1: Fuck it, I said, this is shitty. I'm in a

1414
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 1: hot ass cart this nigga and got a c It's

1415
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: my second crid to grave on a highway and I

1416
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: wrote the God damn, I had a great time. Life

1417
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: is Good book comes out tomorrow. Boom.

1418
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 2: The way that we are starting to move through life,

1419
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's something we could have done.

1420
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 2: In the beginning of the show, I had to chip

1421
01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 2: on my shoulder about so many things. I've had so

1422
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 2: much anger, so much confusion. Why is it happening to

1423
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 2: me just letting that shit go? Like life is good, I'm.

1424
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 1: Going to be tired this week. You're gonna get on

1425
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: my nerves. I'm gonna get on your nerve. Absolutely damn.

1426
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:22,040
Speaker 1: I mean it already happened, you know, you know time

1427
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:25,600
Speaker 1: to this, I'm I'm at the thing. She's like, girl,

1428
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 1: I went to Harlem. I switched to that address twenty

1429
01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 1: four minutes away. I'm like, well the thing is so.

1430
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:32,760
Speaker 1: I was just like, but you know, it was only Parson.

1431
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, we got a long week. She gonna get here.

1432
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 1: And I literally was like, hey, you know I got

1433
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: anxiety to tell Mandy that because I know what she

1434
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 1: feels about.

1435
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 2: Time let alone fucking Charlamagne and breakfast club and is

1436
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 2: our first thing we stay back, and I hate that.

1437
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 2: That's the first place my brain went. But it's like,

1438
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 2: what are you gonna?

1439
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 1: What can you do? Man?

1440
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 2: You gotta just be happy. And at the end of

1441
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 2: the day, this shit just came out. I fucked up

1442
01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 2: because when we still does the breakfast club it sucks.

1443
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 2: I was late, but this just happened, Like I really

1444
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 2: want to just feel good about my life instead of

1445
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:07,160
Speaker 2: putting myself in this I hate everything mode.

1446
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 1: Every flight goes through turbulence, like you got to go

1447
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: through ship, not every flight with me all that, and

1448
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: I've been on some flights where I ain't feel a

1449
01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:20,679
Speaker 1: shake get to the first flight. Okay, where were you looking?

1450
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm just I don't know. I went home. Let's be

1451
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:29,560
Speaker 1: very clear. I live in Atlanta. That's that run you know,

1452
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,839
Speaker 1: bring out in the city and there's you know jfkn

1453
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 1: or you know, you know you in that whole for hour.

1454
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:39,800
Speaker 2: Atlanta's a really they set their airport up. Even though

1455
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 2: it's amazed, it's convenient to the city. That is one

1456
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 2: thing that Atlanta has.

1457
01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:46,600
Speaker 1: I was about to say or not if you got

1458
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 1: to go on the outskirts. I just happened to live centrally,

1459
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:55,760
Speaker 1: but yeah, no, that shit is what happened. The last

1460
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 1: question that I want to ask, and I brought this

1461
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:01,040
Speaker 1: up on the Breakfast Club, but it was just so

1462
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 1: powerful to me when I think about, like how everything

1463
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: pans out. So we're in the south of France. The

1464
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 1: last thing that I do for my trip, I went

1465
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 1: to like this beautiful villa. It's funny because I'm so American.

1466
01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 1: I kept calling it the strip, but it's the quassette,

1467
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: oh right, strip, the strip, like the cossette. But I

1468
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:24,840
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I on the strip because that's what

1469
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 1: she used we used to call South Beach.

1470
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:29,680
Speaker 2: Basically, the beach is a really long road, maybe it's

1471
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:31,639
Speaker 2: like a mile and a half. You all the restaurants

1472
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:32,599
Speaker 2: and you have all the shops.

1473
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:35,720
Speaker 3: So colleagues, I called the trip a little like South

1474
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 3: Beach to me, just in the south of France.

1475
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: So I go to this thing. Shout out to Sharon.

1476
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:43,760
Speaker 1: I was invited. She was on my flight, saw me

1477
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: sitting down. I got invited to do this salon culture

1478
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: conversation and it was just really dope that what's the company.

1479
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 1: It's salon culture conversations, A long culture conversation everything. I

1480
01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 1: host something and I go to this villa up. Oh

1481
01:09:57,280 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: my god, it's so gorgeous. And we get to this

1482
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: last thing. It's like a kind of you know, relaxing

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01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 1: thing for the end of the week. And this lady

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01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:13,639
Speaker 1: comes up and starts talking and heard her tone. Everything

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01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:16,360
Speaker 1: was just so beautiful. And she has this bag she

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01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 1: starts handing around. She's like, pull out a card. People

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01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:23,280
Speaker 1: start pulling out cards, and I want to read the card.

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01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 1: I literally took a picture of it because I was

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01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 1: like wow. So I pull out this card and it

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01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 1: said when did you know your story has power? And

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01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 1: I immediately read it and my eyes get watery. And

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01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 1: at this point I'm like, which is drunk? Like you

1493
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:42,759
Speaker 1: had that much rose? Why is this making you so emotional?

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01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:45,640
Speaker 1: And it made me so emotional because immediately I'm like,

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01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: my story is right here in this book, Like I

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01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 1: knew it had power when I was able to quit

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Speaker 1: my job and do this for a living, Like I

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01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:58,120
Speaker 1: quit my career in twenty nineteen, and I don't even

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01:10:58,160 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: want to call it a job because I fucking bust

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01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,560
Speaker 1: my in school for four years, got two degrees and

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01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 1: was like, this is about to be my career. I

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01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: finally made it, and now I left that and have

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01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 1: been doing what I've been doing based on my story.

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01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:13,960
Speaker 1: Charlemagne doesn't give us the opportunity to have this book

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01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:17,680
Speaker 1: if we weren't sharing our story every goddamn week on

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01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:20,519
Speaker 1: this podcast. And so when I when I read that

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01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 1: card in front of there was probably maybe twenty twenty

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01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 1: five other people there, and I start sharing about this

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01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:29,679
Speaker 1: book and like what it is meant over the last

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01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 1: year and a half to write it, what it's meant

1511
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 1: over the last eight years to be on a podcast

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01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:37,759
Speaker 1: to share it. And right before coming to this event,

1513
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: I met the Martinez on the strip and this girl

1514
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:45,920
Speaker 1: comes up and it's like, Mandy, it's you. Her eyes

1515
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:51,560
Speaker 1: start watering and she's like like like this, like she's like,

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01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:53,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to cry. I just want you to

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01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 1: know that you helped me get through a really dark

1518
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 1: time with a breakup and just thank you. And then

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01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 1: we just embraced, hugged and we both just started bawling,

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01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's when I knew my story

1521
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 1: had power. From the meet and greets to us going

1522
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:12,120
Speaker 1: on tour to us really being able to meet the

1523
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,960
Speaker 1: people that we've had impact on. I was like, maybe

1524
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: it's powerful. And I know, like people be in the

1525
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,640
Speaker 1: comments and have their talks about we need to go

1526
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: to therapy, we'll be single forever. No, it's gonna want

1527
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 1: us well or me whatever. I'll speak for myself. It's

1528
01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 1: just really it meant so much to not only pull

1529
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: this card but get that story right before it and

1530
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:34,120
Speaker 1: now all week we get to talk about our goddamn

1531
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: stories in a motherfucking book and for it to end

1532
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 1: with power to say power, that's what this book ends with.

1533
01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my Gody hat Yonnavirus, I

1534
01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 1: see you. And it's just been that. Everything has been

1535
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: like so amazing. So y'all getting the book this week,

1536
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: we're putting it in the air. We all thought, but

1537
01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 1: we're gonna be New York Times bestsellers because we are,

1538
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:00,920
Speaker 1: y'all rock with us. That's time what happened, I said,

1539
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 1: because we live in New York and it's time eight

1540
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 1: that too, that too. But I'm just really excited about

1541
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:08,680
Speaker 1: this book. And I don't know if you have a

1542
01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: different story, but I wanted to literally on that. I

1543
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,760
Speaker 1: think it's how did you know your story has power? No? No,

1544
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 1: let's have not yet. Okay, good story. Well, guys, the

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01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 1: book of that motherfuckers by the way, just got word.

1546
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: If you're listening to this, if you're listening to this

1547
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:31,280
Speaker 1: today Brooklyn, we sold out, So we're excited to see

1548
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: y'all tonight at Word Bookstore in Brooklyn. However, if y'all

1549
01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: want to see us in Philly, pull up Wednesday. That's tomorrow,

1550
01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:43,759
Speaker 1: the twenty fifth, y'all pull up to Uncle Bobby's and Philly.

1551
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 1: We will be there from seven to eight thirty signing books,

1552
01:13:47,640 --> 01:13:50,640
Speaker 1: meeting and greeting with y'all and really really excited to

1553
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 1: touch y'all and feel y'all.

1554
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 2: Remember what Saucy Santana said, what what meeting agreed? Charlottagne

1555
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 2: was like you outside, he's out just meeting a greeting.

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01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,759
Speaker 1: We meet in agreeting y'all at Uncle Bobby's on Wednesday,

1557
01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 1: and then Thursday, y'all, we are at State Solid State

1558
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 1: Solid State Books there where we are having a conversation.

1559
01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:12,120
Speaker 1: So we and I will be joined by our co

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01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:15,600
Speaker 1: author Tempest X, and we will be having a conversation

1561
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 1: where y'all also get to do Q and A with

1562
01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: us as well as signing your books. And then Friday, y'all,

1563
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:24,200
Speaker 1: New Haven, Connecticut at the Pride Center, We'll be doing

1564
01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:27,880
Speaker 1: a conversation with what does it black girls read books to?

1565
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 1: Or black kids? Yeah? Hold on, let me make sure.

1566
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 1: Let me make sure I got cuz, y'all, I think

1567
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 1: my boyfriend parents going so that Connecticut. Will hold on,

1568
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 1: I want to make sure I get his name. Here

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01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 1: we go, Here we go.

1570
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:50,800
Speaker 3: Kids with two d's read two so the kid Pig

1571
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:51,800
Speaker 3: will be.

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01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 1: Interviewing us about the process of writing the book, and

1573
01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 1: then we will also be signing those also, if you

1574
01:14:57,439 --> 01:15:00,639
Speaker 1: are in Atlanta, meet me at forty fourth and third

1575
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: Bookstore on Sunday three pm, right after the brunch. Baby,

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01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,599
Speaker 1: I'll be there also with tempest X as well as

1577
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:12,360
Speaker 1: a nice friend of mine moderating. And then weezy on Tuesday,

1578
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 1: coins and you got to go to Atlanta to La

1579
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: July Second. I'm gonna be with our girl, Shan Boody,

1580
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 1: our Reparations bookstore.

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01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 2: Shan's gonna be interviewing me. But I thought it might

1582
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:24,160
Speaker 2: be fun because my mom is there.

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01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:25,479
Speaker 1: Oh, that'll be fun.

1584
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 2: A little I'm gonna do a little second, since she

1585
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 2: went viral for talking about stroking that I'm a man

1586
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 2: at Ralph's on Woolshir asked her.

1587
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 3: About that doubt that's crazy. No one that knows what

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01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 3: my mom said.

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01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 1: Every loves that. And guess what really really really excited

1590
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: to let y'all know, bitch, we will be at Essence Festival.

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01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:47,680
Speaker 1: We got a mother fucking lot this baby. There we go,

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01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 1: There we go, there we go. Well, I want to

1593
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: wait till you sit down so I can shout out

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01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:58,559
Speaker 1: our sponsor. Well, shout out to AT and T driven

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01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:02,560
Speaker 1: Black Stage. Not only are they bringing us at the

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01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:07,719
Speaker 1: German Black Stage, we will be sitting with the Candy Burusts.

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01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:10,040
Speaker 1: Really excited to be talking to Candy. Y'all know I'm

1598
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 1: a housewives stand so we'll be having a conversation with her.

1599
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 1: And also AT and T is supporting us as authors.

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01:16:16,479 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 1: So if you come to Essence Festival, Wall supplies last.

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01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 1: You can go to the AT and T booth and

1602
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:25,839
Speaker 1: get No Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration

1603
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 1: and power. Also, right after our live show, we will

1604
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 1: be signing books, so you can bring it, you can

1605
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 1: buy it against the port of local bookstore or if

1606
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: you go to the marketplace at essenspest As Wall Supplies

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01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:41,479
Speaker 1: last you could pick it up. Yeah. Also believe us

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01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 1: Guilla is also sponsoring books for that weekend as well, So.

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01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we man, we're gonna be having some really

1610
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:53,360
Speaker 2: cool talks about HIV, black women and how to stay safe,

1611
01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:56,559
Speaker 2: sponsored by Gilliad who are coughing some books for all

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01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 2: the girls that need to read too.

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01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:00,400
Speaker 1: So come and see you some on Saturday. Inter you can,

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01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:07,040
Speaker 1: I can, I really ruin your walt and there you go, y'all.

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01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:10,080
Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for tuning in to yet another

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Speaker 1: episode of This is the This is the Hi