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Speaker 1: What's up, y'alls? Your girl xpe and is Sugar Drea

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Speaker 2: By special request, Detroit, we come in your way November tenth.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm excited. I have never been to Detroit.

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Speaker 2: I've never been to Detroit either, So y'all know I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna step out in my far now.

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Speaker 1: And I'm trying to give me a cony. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to go to the coney, y'all, and.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, so listen. November ten. Doors

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Speaker 2: open at six, show starts at seven. We will be

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Speaker 2: at the Garden Theater. And I'm telling y'all Detroit, y'all

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Speaker 2: been asking, so y'all better show up. The tickets are

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Speaker 2: available at poor minds dot com.

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Speaker 3: What a though period, What'll see y'all soon?

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Speaker 1: November ten, by y'all.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Y'all's your girl lexp and it's your girl Dre and

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Speaker 2: the call and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 2: of Poor.

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Speaker 1: Mine where drunk Mine speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: We got some guess.

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Speaker 2: So excited, I cannot contain myself halfway, So let me

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Speaker 2: say this. First of all, y'all know, like we have

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Speaker 2: all been friends for a very time we the first

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Speaker 2: time we did well, obviously I don't even have to

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Speaker 2: give them a introduction.

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Speaker 3: First of all, the.

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Speaker 2: Originally originated to me, this is the first sex podcast

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Speaker 2: I ever saw black women really teaching women, like, it's

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Speaker 2: okay to be sexual, It's okay to love yourself, touch yourself.

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Speaker 3: Five people at the.

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Speaker 4: Same time, that's okay, it's okay, but it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Wait a second, keep shaming, y'all coin that term.

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Speaker 3: Keep shaming all that good.

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Speaker 1: Taking back the word whore and taking back the word horror.

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Speaker 1: People always want to thank you about that. On the

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Speaker 1: podcast that we just did. Yes, yes, they were talking

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Speaker 1: about oh whores, this and that.

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Speaker 2: Yes we have Weezy and Mandy from the Horror that sision.

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Speaker 3: Let me give myself there horn.

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Speaker 2: But but seriously, let me just say this, because we

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Speaker 2: have all been friends and been cool for so long,

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Speaker 2: and we first went on horrible decisions a long time ago.

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Speaker 3: You weren't there virtually no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: I'm talking about you with me came and Wednesday, That's

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Speaker 4: how long ago it was. That was.

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Speaker 5: Yes, let me give y'all some Okay, Okay, I.

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Speaker 4: Have been so impressed with like so I don't listen

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Speaker 5: It was crazy because podcast running a podcast division.

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Speaker 4: I don't even fucking listen because I feel like it

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Speaker 4: makes me, you know, start taking other words shit. But

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Speaker 4: just watching your clips, seeing almost the evolution of like

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Speaker 4: your studio, just everything that I think y'all are doing.

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Speaker 4: It's so intentional now, and it's very impressive because I

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Speaker 4: think a lot of podcasts that we see that do well,

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Speaker 4: they don't really change the format or flow because they're scared.

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Speaker 5: Everything y'all done is elevating.

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Speaker 3: It have a good up grade.

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Speaker 2: So before we get started, I always tell you this,

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Speaker 2: you have the best nail beds.

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Speaker 3: I think crazy. Our nail beds are fired the best bands.

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Speaker 2: I always every time I see your nils, I'm like, wow, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't I think all of y'all have like nice hands though,

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Speaker 1: like I always tell like she has, really you do?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, you very longer.

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Speaker 6: If you figure a bitch, that's like a dick because

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying fat.

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Speaker 3: They're skinny, but they're just thank you you, Sue. Look

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Speaker 4: It's okay, Like you know, I got my nails on

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Speaker 4: for y'all because even Mandy. Y'aller than nail girls, and

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Speaker 4: I don't wear nail Yeah, so I'd be like, damn,

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Speaker 1: Got fat ass, Like I have fat fingers. Like if

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Speaker 3: Well I doing your girl? This is.

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Speaker 5: You put your finger in since you got fat fingers.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, you get in a booty hole, you get

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Speaker 2: Okay, So first I want to I want to start

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Speaker 3: But it's.

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Speaker 2: We're literally sitting in your suit time we were here,

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Speaker 2: we sat in your studio. Bitch, you had fucking David

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Speaker 2: Letterman recording at your studio.

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Speaker 3: Like ship on me really quick.

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Speaker 5: You know, we had recorded in our studio.

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Speaker 4: Jack Thriller, don't do that. It's funny because recently somebody

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Speaker 4: was like writing up something for me and they were like,

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Speaker 4: I said, Jaylen, I said Scarlett Johansson. I said, let

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Speaker 4: me just say all black. There's a black news outlet,

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Speaker 4: I said, Charlemagne, Doctor Umar. It's the fact that we

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Speaker 3: Was so funny that crazy Nick Cannon. Yeah, okay, that's

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Speaker 1: We were leaving asap rock. He was leaving out of

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, his next door.

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Speaker 4: That don't mean he went in a studio. I mean,

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Speaker 4: it's been really dope because like I think we genuinely

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, We're gonna do this PPP.

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Speaker 4: And I think that's what made it like such a blessing.

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Speaker 4: Like I've really like enjoyed it and to the point

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Speaker 4: Like I'm shocked, and I tell people all the time,

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I believed it was crazy here.

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Speaker 7: We talked about it, but we ain't get to where

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Speaker 1: And I think we do have to always clarify that.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean we talk about sex though also, you

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Speaker 5: I would be like, I'm a sex that. Now I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: But for real, you know, once you're like.

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Speaker 7: And I think that that's like the addition, right, like

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Speaker 7: the things like we I think all of us, like

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Speaker 7: we're not one trick pony and we actually do. Even

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Speaker 7: though having money and being independent don't make these men

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Speaker 1: It's something you and I used to do.

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Speaker 3: I think, like let me go to college, let me

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Speaker 7: And what's crazy is it kind of intimidates men a

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Speaker 5: Independence has got me more lit women friends. That's probably it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah's anything like you said, it definitely intimidates the men.

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Speaker 1: And I think it causes more problems in your relationship

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Speaker 1: we started making this kind of money, right, but.

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Speaker 7: Also the access that you have, like right, we talk

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Speaker 3: We actually just talk about that.

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Speaker 7: But with Hall passes, I don't I hate saying regular

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Speaker 7: Civilians because listen, we're not civilians civilians. And I'm gonna

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Speaker 7: say only because my brother and my sister are both

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Speaker 7: say civilians, but civilians. When you have a celebrity crush, right,

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Speaker 8: Right, Yeah, so for majority of the people, majority of people,

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Speaker 7: But I'm saying, if you don't have a lot of followers,

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Speaker 3: A lot of times you may get a hall pass.

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Speaker 7: You and your partner talk about like, yeah, if you

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Speaker 7: get the chance, you can fuck Rihanna. Yeah, if you

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Speaker 4: The fact of the Minu Skepta, It's like, this is

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Speaker 3: Okay, right behind you.

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Speaker 4: Must you know it's I really like that.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know I love beans, making beans in the mall.

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Speaker 3: That's who you want to be like, you know, just

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Speaker 5: I think he's a good baked bean for you see

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Speaker 3: Because she thought I wanted the beans the rapper. I

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Speaker 6: At least right there, I'm sorry Beanie Seagull, my favorite Beanie.

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Speaker 2: She's, oh my god, right, he was trying to go

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Speaker 5: Nia gets so angry with him?

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Speaker 3: Do you remember Troll I love with me.

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Speaker 7: I ended up seeing him when we were checking into

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Speaker 3: I don't know how many years ago now, but he

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Speaker 1: I said, that's what I think it is, ain't it?

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Speaker 7: But he's like such an old rapper, like an older rapper.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, I'm sure he's like. But also this

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Speaker 7: Talking about Baked Bee's bitch, I'm sitting here thinking about

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Speaker 7: rapper exactly?

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Speaker 3: Would you guys have a hall pass four?

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Speaker 7: I know y'all talked about this already, but did y'all

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Speaker 7: say who y'all wanted to fuck because y'all got access?

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Speaker 3: Shoot your shot? Now, Bitch, the.

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Speaker 1: Person I used to want to fuck with or have

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Speaker 7: Yes, Betterhelp dot com backslash poor minds.

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Speaker 7: I mean the person that I would have wanted it

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Speaker 4: I did have two of them, but this one, this

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Speaker 7: And I said, now, Mama, you ain't gonna believe whose

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Speaker 7: Actually I'm lying because he dropped me off in my house,

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Speaker 1: Doors open, their saving.

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Speaker 7: Baby, he's a mutual friends.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. He's around. I know that's

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Speaker 5: Say, I feel like the kind of motherfucker good.

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Speaker 3: But also a friend. Why would you do that to X?

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Speaker 3: Why would you see here?

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Speaker 4: Let everyone know it's good. Well, my good sister is like,

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Speaker 2: I just want to get y'all's opinion on it before

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Speaker 2: love bombing. So for y'all listening, if y'all don't know

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Speaker 2: love bombing is a manipulative tactic often used by people

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Speaker 2: with narcissistic personality disorder to gain control in a relationship. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So basically they can partners can love bomb you by

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Speaker 7: I just broke up with a narcissist just talked about actually, like,

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Speaker 7: I'm having a problem differentiating between someone just really being.

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Speaker 3: Nice, someone being a nice guy.

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Speaker 7: Who may actually be into me, and someone loved bombing

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Speaker 3: I think that my ex absolutely.

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Speaker 7: Did do that in the beginning, and it's because I

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Speaker 3: Saw them when they had time, and that was really it.

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Speaker 7: And so I feel like I overshared on all my traumas,

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Speaker 3: Tray, all the simple things that I.

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Speaker 4: Thought, like, dang, I didn't get this, I was getting bad.

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Speaker 5: Of taking a trashot made you buss it all?

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Speaker 7: Well not only that, well it wasn't even that, it

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Speaker 7: was really just the time, right, Like I got the gifts,

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Speaker 7: I got the trips, I got the access with my friends.

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Speaker 7: You take us out to an expensive dinner, you paying

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Speaker 7: for everybody, like I got that from my previous partners.

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Speaker 3: But to me.

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Speaker 7: I think as I started getting to the place where

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Speaker 7: Let's be very clear, I liked just having sex, and

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Speaker 7: I was like, this is the most amazing shit in

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Speaker 7: though I didn't ask for it, you was like, well,

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Speaker 3: Even though it was nothing.

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Speaker 7: Right, was something that you had never experienced, and he

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Speaker 3: We'll see.

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Speaker 1: I have this theory. I think it's very easy to

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Speaker 3: I talk.

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Speaker 1: You got to do is listen to poor mind that

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Speaker 1: listens to horrible decisions that he know exactly what he

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Speaker 3: So he got to be a because I don't.

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Speaker 5: That's a little bit of like a different thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm just thinking, just say, he don't know, you don't

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Speaker 3: Right right.

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Speaker 5: But I think last year I called him London hotel guy.

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Speaker 5: For a few episodes. He was loved bombing me.

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Speaker 4: But I was very aware and I was enjoying it,

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Speaker 4: and I looked at it at spoiling I like it.

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Speaker 3: I like it, but don't though you.

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Speaker 7: No, they're gonna stop it. But once I stop it,

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Speaker 7: I need I need to learn how to exit. So

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Speaker 2: How to exit because once I stop having fun, that's

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Speaker 2: when you realize, I don't know if you love bombing

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Speaker 2: when we need to learn to go. What is the

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Speaker 3: We know how to move around.

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Speaker 5: So here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: Right, when we can talk about a guy spoiling us,

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Speaker 4: with shit, right. I think sugar daddies have possibly loved

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Speaker 4: like this is definitely something you enjoy. Women forget, just

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Speaker 4: because a man is doing something nice for you doesn't

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Speaker 5: Right. Niggas sometimes love pouring into you because they like

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Speaker 5: You're like, ooh, I'm excited.

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Speaker 4: That I'm getting this and that and the dinner, and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 1: And also it's not always that they even fuck with

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Speaker 1: you like that. I just feel like sometimes has got

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Speaker 4: To the problem with the thing that you read for

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Speaker 4: some situations, you said it's somebody that's looking to gain control.

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Speaker 4: Narcissism is such a big word right now in just

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Speaker 4: like conversation about people, right that like not everyone is

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Speaker 4: like I don't know, I mean, there's not that much

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Speaker 4: of a masterful exactly.

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00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,360
Speaker 1: Oh, it takes a lot to be exactly, and that's

446
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 1: what I wanted to get to. Everybody had the mind

447
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 1: to do that, because when we talk about love Vomby,

448
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 1: I see so many people saying like, oh my god,

449
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 1: this's God love Bomby. I'm like, y'all, that is a

450
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: that's something that somebody is really now in your situation.

451
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 7: Do I think that that happened, girl? I honestly yes,

452
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:40,200
Speaker 7: I really do.

453
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:40,800
Speaker 3: I believe.

454
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes niggas just like doing nice ship

455
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 2: and you fell too hard and sometimes you're like, Okay,

456
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 2: I'm bored. But he didn't go into the situation trying.

457
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 3: To manipulate you and planning to control you.

458
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: And sometimes women have never had somebody do certain things

459
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: for them, so it's like that one nigga in your

460
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 1: life and start.

461
00:21:59,320 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 3: I love.

462
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 4: I want to flip this a little bit because we

463
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,879
Speaker 4: a few weeks ago had an episode with somebody and

464
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 4: I asked Mandy and that person like, now, I really

465
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 4: like this conversation because I feel like, as attractive women

466
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 4: that are sought after and like are doing well, we

467
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 4: never think about this. What do you think about when

468
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 4: it comes to dating somebody that is getting money?

469
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:24,479
Speaker 5: Attractive anyway?

470
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 4: It could be broken fine, good dick and fine whatever,

471
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 4: and having to kind of compete with someone else. Are

472
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,640
Speaker 4: there any moments where y'all have done that, have known

473
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 4: maybe you aren't the only girl in the picture, and

474
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 4: you've been like, you know what, let me step it up,

475
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 4: maybe let me do X y Z.

476
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:40,400
Speaker 5: For a nigga.

477
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 7: No, I don't compete. I look ignorance is bliss. I

478
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 7: don't want to know if you are.

479
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 2: I don't care about this shit, I know, but honestly,

480
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 2: if I find out that you're fucking with another girl,

481
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:52,879
Speaker 2: that's a turn off to me.

482
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 3: So, especially at this.

483
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: Age, like when I'm dating, I'm dating for a purpose

484
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,679
Speaker 2: more so now like in my younger days.

485
00:22:58,720 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 3: Probably so.

486
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 2: But now I'm like, okay, so if he's dating other people,

487
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 2: then we're not on the same page and what we're

488
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 2: looking for him conversation.

489
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 5: I agree, I agree, But now I'm not saying on

490
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 5: the first date, second day.

491
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 3: But if this is somebody I've.

492
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: Been dating for six seven months and I find out

493
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 2: that's crazy.

494
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 4: You haven't talked about or excluse no, you'll give it

495
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 4: her pressure, That's what I'm saying.

496
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 3: Okay.

497
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 2: My scenario is I meet somebody right, Uh, two weeks later,

498
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: we fucking we hanging out. It's months go by like

499
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,199
Speaker 2: we're like, okay, you know shit cool, we like it

500
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 2: how it is. I'm the type of person. I'm definitely

501
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 2: like a go with the phone. Now we don't have

502
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 2: had a conversation. But sometimes niggas will be like, yeah,

503
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,959
Speaker 2: you're the only girl I'm fucking with. We may not

504
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 2: be in a relationship, but it's like me and you,

505
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 2: you might find out, oh he fuck with another girl.

506
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 2: Me I'm not being like, oh, let me step my

507
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,719
Speaker 2: pussy up, let me step my cookies up.

508
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 3: For the crumbled nigga, I'm out.

509
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes you dating somebody, Yes, y'all are together for six

510
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 2: seven months. Y'all may not be in a relationship. You know,

511
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: there's no commitment there, but just like y'all rocking with

512
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: each other.

513
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 4: So I feel like, no, if I found out about

514
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 4: another girl, I'm gone, I'm not got two things that

515
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 4: you're making me think. One six months and you find

516
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 4: out he's dating with someone else. Maybe six months is

517
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 4: too far, but let's say three four months. Yeah, if

518
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 4: you're fucking with someone else, not fucking with someone else.

519
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 5: That means we're exclusive. That means you my nigga.

520
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

521
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: But you know what, I've realized though in my dating

522
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: that I had to stop doing. I had to stop

523
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 2: being scared to say I want a boyfriend because something

524
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 2: about and I hate to say this is not against

525
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 2: black men.

526
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 3: Black men feel like commitment folks, Oh my god, the commitment. Nigga.

527
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 5: Don't want a motherfucker.

528
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 3: If you say girlfriend, they're like, oh what. I have

529
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 3: to be held accountable for my exactly.

530
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 2: So in my younger dating, I used to be like, Okay,

531
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 2: I don't I don't want nothing serious.

532
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 5: I'm just having fun. Then I end up gett my feeling. Sis.

533
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 3: I wasn't honest.

534
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 2: Now I'm like, yeah, I want this and I expect

535
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 2: this and I expect that, you know. So Danny has

536
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 2: been much more pleasant for me because I'm honest, and

537
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: if we're not on the same you're honest your vocal.

538
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I men think they're going to sound too thirsty.

539
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 5: I was telling Mandy.

540
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 4: I recently told someone like, listen, you're my favorite, but

541
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 4: I'm dating because I'm looking for a boyfriend. Maybe what

542
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 4: I'm doing with you may not end up in that,

543
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,199
Speaker 4: which is pie. You're my favorite for right now, but

544
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 4: if another nigga steps up, you probably go lose egg exactly.

545
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 4: Do what you want to do to stay in that range. Now,

546
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 4: the other thing I was going to say to you

547
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,239
Speaker 4: was you mentioned what was it, Oh, competing? Okay, So

548
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 4: this conversation is like interesting to me because immediately when

549
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 4: someone said this to me, I'm like, no, I'm not

550
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 4: competing with no Hope. We talked about this on our

551
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 4: podecy Competitive Dating. I'm talking about whether you know it

552
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,439
Speaker 4: or not, right, So there it is. This was a

553
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 4: separate conversation I had off the podcast Mandy, which made

554
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 4: me bring it up. The girl was like, what do

555
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 4: you mean you're not competing? Like, of course you are,

556
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 4: look at the nigga you're dating.

557
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 3: And I'm like, lex I hate you. I mean, we

558
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 3: don't want no niggas don't want let me.

559
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 4: So then the conversation comes of like what are and

560
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 4: I'm curious for y'all too, What are things you do that,

561
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 4: even if you're not directly like.

562
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 5: I gotta be better than the bitch fucks on Friday?

563
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 4: What are the things you're doing that you believe are

564
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 4: helping you stand out too?

565
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 5: Man? Because I think people need to hear that.

566
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not gonna lie.

567
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 2: I will say this, This is a conversation that me

568
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 2: and the guy like I'm dating actually.

569
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 3: Talk about a life where you found him and don't

570
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 3: get it to me, he's still that ship. But he

571
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 3: going on tour with you, he going on vacations.

572
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: I won't want to know he hasn't been to a

573
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 2: show yet because we're kind of like in a weird

574
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: But you know, I funk with him. But I will

575
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 2: say I think it's because I am very very understanding.

576
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I listen, you know what I'm saying. Like

577
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 2: we talk, the communication is there. It's not like when

578
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 2: he does something wrong or I do something wrong, we're

579
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 2: not oh, let me act funny or let me not

580
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: call him for two days. But it ain't no game playing.

581
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, you did this, I don't like. Let

582
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 2: what's up we're going on?

583
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 3: It is? It's not no like and I feel like

584
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 3: we don't play games with each other. We're very honest.

585
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: Communication is open, and honestly, I feel like if we're

586
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 2: getting to the physical stuff, we have fun.

587
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 3: In the bedroom.

588
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 5: Like I'm not gonna let that nigga do whatever you

589
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 5: want do.

590
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 3: Me and we be having a good time.

591
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 2: What I mean like, look at like we just be

592
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 2: having a ball in a bedroom by y'all ain't doing it.

593
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 3: But no, I'm working on it, bitch. I'm not there yet.

594
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 3: I'm trying to. I haven't done anal.

595
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 2: I've never done an I want to help you because

596
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 2: I love an You want to help me in ways

597
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: that I don't need you to help me, bro, I.

598
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 3: Want to be friends that I know.

599
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 7: Look at me, the only one from including myself, okay,

600
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 7: experienced an anal orgasm.

601
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: I've never had that.

602
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I've.

603
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 7: Shi It is amazing and like, to me, it makes

604
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 7: sense why a lot of y'all are gay.

605
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 3: That type of orgasm from your Buddha.

606
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 4: My my biggest ones have been from being fucked in

607
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 4: my pussy and a finger in my eyes.

608
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: It's all they ever had, like an orgasm though from

609
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 1: Justin I don't know.

610
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 3: She only had the head in it. She'd be trying

611
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 3: to say she ain't had.

612
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 5: But to me, the head didn't count because I didn't

613
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 5: get fucks.

614
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 7: I love how we talk about the head don't count

615
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 7: oral sex sometimes I'm right.

616
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: But back to the topic in hand. I feel like

617
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,719
Speaker 2: I told this to Dre. We were talking about this yesterday.

618
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: I said the thing that I hate to say this,

619
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: but I'm so content in my life right now and

620
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: I'm happy. I really I'm a peaceful person. So I

621
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 2: know when he comes with me, he knows like she

622
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 2: ain't fin a trip on me, we finna get hot,

623
00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: have a good time, We're about to eat good food,

624
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 2: We're gonna go on a little trip or do something like,

625
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm a peaceful person. So I think out of all

626
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: of that, that's probably what he's like, Okay, you know

627
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: what I rather go.

628
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 5: See.

629
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 4: This is also really difficult for women as well, because

630
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 4: that what you're doing by not stressing them out yep

631
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 4: is also like I think that and maybe even in

632
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 4: my life, I don't even know if I know it,

633
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 4: cause like I'm very vocal that I want a boyfriend,

634
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 4: but also like how long will be that bitial too?

635
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm like, what's the marker for me where I'm like

636
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 4: nigga six months?

637
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 5: Seven months? Like if I'm that chill, then what?

638
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 3: So?

639
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 5: I think that's really tough.

640
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 4: But I just was really curious because that conversation really

641
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 4: like spoke out to me because the person that I

642
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 4: had it with was like, and this is not on something.

643
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 4: I feel like people always like they're pick me if you're.

644
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 3: Trying to like, you know, be guys to.

645
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 5: But like, for real, what are women doing that?

646
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 4: Because most of the time, if you're gorgeous, you're like,

647
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 4: you're lucky to fuck me.

648
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 5: We act like that, We act like niggas is so

649
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 5: lucky for a taste. Don't be real with you.

650
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 4: I know so many bad bitches. Bro, that's fucking these niggas,

651
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 4: Like who's to say it? He doesn't have another not you.

652
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 3: But love alone one too.

653
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, not only another bad bitch, but I was poor

654
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 7: in two hundred and thirty pounds at five to one,

655
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 7: getting flout out getting these So even I'm like, the

656
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 7: way even we define a bad bitch or what we

657
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 7: think is not the other girl may.

658
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: Even be women that you might not even think that

659
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: you may not.

660
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 7: Even think, which is why, like I think I connect

661
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 7: still to so many people, like in terms of like

662
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 7: women who may be low self esteem or not thinking

663
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 7: that they can get certain When I look back at

664
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 7: my own pictures, mind yaw, y'all don't even know I

665
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 7: phone got me is five different people in my phone,

666
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 7: five different people at like different people.

667
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 3: Bro, I can't be.

668
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 5: Playing with people.

669
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 3: But like to me, that's the thing too, Like that's me.

670
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 3: But you may think it.

671
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 7: You may be thinking that you're only competing against bad bitches.

672
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 5: And you may be against the girl who work at wrong.

673
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 3: Don't do that. I'm saying one of my homeboys, I'm.

674
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 5: Gonna say this nigga might be worth maybe maybe in

675
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 5: a fifty million.

676
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 3: Okay, telling myself was good. You don't even know.

677
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 7: She'd be so singsy. Don't worry about it. She ain't

678
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 7: gonna put him on.

679
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 5: I know I'm not gonna put nobody on. What the

680
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 5: niggas that ain't ship?

681
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: And so say, if you want to.

682
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 4: Like his favorite beach working motherfucker TJ Max girl and we.

683
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: Don't get beach because why she works, talk about it.

684
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 3: Oh wait, hold on, I want to hear Drean talk

685
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 3: after this one. That's a really good point.

686
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 4: But he told me recently, like, yo, I met this

687
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 4: girl out. He's like, I'm treating her to the things

688
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 4: while she's with me. He's like, but I am really

689
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 4: she gonna shoot out caviar. It's like that is more like,

690
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 4: you know, he's the girl wanted. He's giving her some cash,

691
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 4: but he's like, but I can't make her feel because

692
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 4: I was like, well, if you like her so much,

693
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,479
Speaker 4: why she's still working at TJ. He was like, because

694
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 4: if I change her life now, she's a part of mine.

695
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 4: And he was like, so that commitment ain't something I want.

696
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 4: He's like, so I'm gonna make sure this girl is

697
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 4: like take care.

698
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 5: I don't want to ever.

699
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 7: Man, I'm going to make sure she's a peasant for ever. No,

700
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 7: I don't think that's dating somebody to where you're like,

701
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 7: you quit your job. I mean, I'm not gonna lie

702
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 7: dating someone worth fifty milks and me still having to

703
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 7: depend on my nine to five of TJ Rock.

704
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 3: That's how you know this got too bad?

705
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 5: Keeping her ass wrong?

706
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: But now it's the true thought, because how am I

707
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,959
Speaker 2: Because I'm not saying that you got to take care

708
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: of me? But how come you've never had a conversation.

709
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 3: With this girl? Hey, so where do you see your

710
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 3: life going? Like what do you want to do?

711
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 5: Because you could have invested in something that she want

712
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 5: to do.

713
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 4: Ton Mark you that that he said that this is

714
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 4: my favorite bro, he said to me because I need mothering.

715
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 3: Way, But what is she doing?

716
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 10: Real?

717
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 5: No?

718
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 3: Keep makes it?

719
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 5: Now favorite?

720
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 3: Why is she not the favorite?

721
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 5: Two months?

722
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: Two months into this sheep, I just feel like, bitch,

723
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: you could have had a conversation with this nigga being like, hey,

724
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: I have a business idea, Hey I have something I

725
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: want to do. Hell, at the end of the day,

726
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: if she his favorite, pay her fucking rent up period.

727
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 3: I don't believe that he's not giving her cash.

728
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 5: But whatever she's doing with it.

729
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 4: But two mark, you met a girl at the airport.

730
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 4: He didn't know she worked at TJ maxim first. Now

731
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 4: they go, we really.

732
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 5: Got to be the TJ Max.

733
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: Bitch, I feel like when a nigga really like you,

734
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: when a nigga really fuck with you, he wants to change.

735
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: Your life, he wants to elevate. That's true.

736
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: He's not changing her life. He's not elevating her. Yeah,

737
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: maybe she's experience experiencing these experiences when she's with him.

738
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 5: What are you supposed to do for someone in two months? Bro, bro,

739
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 5: a nigga me.

740
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 3: On payroll.

741
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 4: That two months whatever, but by a range, rubber in

742
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:10,439
Speaker 4: two months to quit your job?

743
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,479
Speaker 5: But you don't have to quit your job.

744
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 7: But to me, even like I said, with my friends,

745
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 7: I know I show up where I make their life

746
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 7: easier if you deal with if you dealing with a

747
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 7: nigga that really cares about your well being and he

748
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 7: wants you maybe when he wants you, Because let's be

749
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 7: very honest, a man who's worth that much money and

750
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 7: probably has power in whatever industry wants to see you

751
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 7: when he wants to see you.

752
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 3: And probably doesn't care.

753
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 7: He's probably paid for your little days off of work,

754
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 7: which was always normal, Like when I worked at bartending.

755
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,240
Speaker 7: I will lie and be like, this is my biggest

756
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 7: night nigga Tuesday evening.

757
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm making a thousand.

758
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 4: No, I managed the T Mobile store. She might manage

759
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 4: the TJ Max. I don't fucking know. I was fucking

760
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 4: with a millionaire that still got me an apartment that

761
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 4: fucking which is what buddy.

762
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 3: She said to me, quit your job, and it took

763
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 3: mad long for that's the same for her to quit

764
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 3: her jockey. No no, no, no no no.

765
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 7: No no no no no, none of us said she

766
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 7: should quit her job.

767
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 3: I don't believe in quitting job or calling off work

768
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 3: for niggas.

769
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 7: And I've said that and I stand on that, even

770
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 7: as a bartender who did that ship.

771
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 3: Do not call if you are dealing with a man,

772
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 3: If you are dealing with a man who is worth

773
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 3: fifty million, do taxes.

774
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 7: Cut that shit in half and still look at what

775
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 7: that nigga make a month. Then divide that shouldn't see

776
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 7: what that nigga make a week and compare that ship

777
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 7: to you. Let's be really, let's be very clear on

778
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 7: what maybe he should be doing for you compared to

779
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 7: a man who maybe works at FedEx, or who works

780
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 7: on Wall Street, or men who do not make a

781
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 7: million dollars.

782
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 3: Let me say that.

783
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 4: Let me say this, Okay, let me say let me

784
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,959
Speaker 4: finish my thought. We are not entitled to these men's money.

785
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 3: Let me just say that.

786
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 5: First of all, we're not entitled to nobody's money.

787
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 3: Because guess what.

788
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: If I'm making a and I'm fucking with a nigga

789
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 2: for two months, I ain't gonna change your life in

790
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: X y Z. But if I'm fucking with somebody and

791
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: I'm telling everybody, oh, this is my favorite nigga, this's

792
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 2: my favorite nigga. If you my favorite person. Then I'm like, okay, favorite,

793
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 2: it's the favorite.

794
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,240
Speaker 5: It's the favorite.

795
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 3: That's the part is for me. Powersation with him.

796
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 5: About He's like, I'm telling him my favorite.

797
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 4: He told me his favorite, and he's like, bro, but

798
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,800
Speaker 4: this where I met her favorite part.

799
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 3: I gotta be real with you.

800
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 4: I felt like from what I heard, it's like, I

801
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 4: guess she wanted to take some trip with her friends

802
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 4: or whatever, for like a bachelrette or something.

803
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 5: This hold on, listen, poor minds.

804
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 3: Whatever it was, everybody said that.

805
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 5: He said she was in a group chat. They were

806
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 5: all sending the money for ship.

807
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 4: He was like, I paid for everything for them, and

808
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 4: they was like five girls. Like to me, that's a lot.

809
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 4: That is a lot of me and all my bitches

810
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 4: getting our hotels and flights covered and meals.

811
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 3: And he said, because you just want to pay.

812
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 6: He's really thinking that money where you got money, Like

813
00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 6: that's sweet. I would not be even that mother fucking

814
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 6: t J backs yet. Just see, I know, Lex said, if.

815
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 1: Getting the money, that's okay, fine, I'm not gonna quit

816
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: TJ Max. You don't want me to quit TJ Max?

817
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,240
Speaker 1: Can you get me a bit of New York fifty

818
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: million dollar nigga. I know you have relationships something, but

819
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 1: you may not be qualified.

820
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 4: Now you gotta get this whole job too much.

821
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not saying that he has to do all that,

822
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 2: but I'm just saying, but why is she his face?

823
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 3: But is she his favorite? Fuck? Like that? She said,

824
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 3: what is it?

825
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 4: This to me was very very interesting and it shows

826
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 4: a lot about maybe how we all think it right now,

827
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 4: this nigga can pull up some bad ass wholes. He

828
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 4: was like, Bro, this girl is beautiful. And he was like,

829
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 4: in her expectations.

830
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: Are long long.

831
00:37:49,920 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you hold me off Trump hero, just like.

832
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 4: These niggas probably how we think expectation.

833
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: She's still my wife though he's still talking to you

834
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: about why he thinks maybe he's.

835
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 5: If he's talking to me, I mean about her.

836
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 3: I guess your expectations. And the nigga said, listen, we

837
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 3: got another.

838
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 4: Few weeks before I think the family lives in some

839
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 4: other country for Thanksgiving and he was like, yeah, I

840
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 4: always leave the country because work is done for me

841
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 4: for that week. He's like, oh yeah, Like I want

842
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 4: to introduce her to me.

843
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not asking for a card no more.

844
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 3: I never.

845
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 4: Like she might be like she might have some friends,

846
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,959
Speaker 4: and the motherfucking TJ. Mac like, look you tonight, don't

847
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 4: be acting like you.

848
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 3: Know, but she might have a plan. Some woman have

849
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,959
Speaker 3: a plan. They act like they're alone. They haven't planned.

850
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 5: And then he got me surprime. You also know which

851
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 5: niggas like to trick.

852
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 4: You know, there's some niggas that will feed you that,

853
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 4: like I've had dinner with niggas that be like you

854
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 4: want to go shopping tomorrow or that's the first.

855
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 5: Date you want to go shopping. If that man.

856
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 4: Ain't giving you that type of energy, maybe she do

857
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 4: got to maybe.

858
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 3: This that's what I'm saying. She might have a plan

859
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 3: or maybe.

860
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 7: But nonetheless, we are here and maybe he don't like

861
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 7: to trick on bitches or spend his money to you know.

862
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 7: But going back to what we're talking about, did he

863
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 7: tell you why she was his favorite?

864
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,919
Speaker 3: He didn't say why. He just said she was the favorite.

865
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 4: He said, you know, he felt like she was somebody

866
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 4: that was very interested with his life and as far

867
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 4: as like his his interest, he said, like she sends

868
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 4: him like music and poetry, and he's like, I don't

869
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 4: even know if women do this for me, said she

870
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,919
Speaker 4: was fine, she's beautiful, but also though, like, I think

871
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 4: that that.

872
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 5: Sending poetry, bitch, that's first.

873
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 3: Let me you don't.

874
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 5: Remember too, this is l a and I think in.

875
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 4: A world where everybody knows you the rich nigga, and

876
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 4: you can have access city, bitch them holes and for

877
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 4: the most part, like how many beautiful women do we

878
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 4: all know that?

879
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,240
Speaker 5: Aren't that instant.

880
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 7: William Shakespeare everything, especially if you live in a major

881
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 7: city Atlanta, I would say.

882
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 3: New York, l A, Chicago. I would say, go ahead.

883
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 4: And just google top really nice books that make me

884
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 4: look smart.

885
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm reading this book. I'm not gonna excerpt.

886
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,439
Speaker 7: Send that nigga a song to go with it. Pick

887
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 7: some jazz. Niggas be like, oh, you know jazz.

888
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 5: Not gonna.

889
00:40:51,200 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 3: That's how my next day, bitch, you're gonna be like,

890
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 3: and I'm.

891
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: Like to reach the last book she read. She say

892
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:06,479
Speaker 1: The Coldest Winter.

893
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 3: That is a great soldier. That's crazy. You need to

894
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 3: go to hang on. I'm saying, brother, you gotta call that.

895
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,720
Speaker 3: I'm serious. She's a little droom dickens.

896
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 5: So this is really funny.

897
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 1: Not be reading.

898
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 3: I'm seriously, I do think that. What you're saying, though,

899
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 3: is because even.

900
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 4: If I do have a person that I'm talking about

901
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 4: books with.

902
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 5: It's always erotica.

903
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: They always tell me about some erotica. I do not

904
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 3: like mettleica. But I'm reading Zane right now. You heard like, no, bro,

905
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 3: y'all got to make sure.

906
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:58,720
Speaker 5: And it's not just for these niggas to catch a niggas.

907
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 4: When you have genuine interests like that, A girl really

908
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:01,720
Speaker 4: is sending the man poems.

909
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, That's beautiful.

910
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 4: That kind of is maya Angelo. I'm about to get

911
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 4: deep in my bag.

912
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 3: I don't know. Let me look about what to said.

913
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 5: Two niggas.

914
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: Not seriously though, I feel like bitches need to read

915
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,720
Speaker 1: Yeah book you read I'm reading.

916
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 5: I told you I'm actually reading it again.

917
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 2: What was the book I made for my item of

918
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 2: the week, How to Control your Emotions?

919
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, I'm really I I was.

920
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 2: And you know what, when the first time I read

921
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: this book, I started feeling a lot better. And I

922
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 2: learned because they got they get into the psychological part

923
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 2: of it. So I really started learning how my brain worked,

924
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 2: just not how humans brains work, but mine in particular.

925
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 3: So I'm reading that again.

926
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 2: Because it's like certain exercises that I work on that

927
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: I like to do. I'm trying to be a better person.

928
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 2: I told this to Drey other day. I'm trying to

929
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: be a better friend. I'm trying to be a better sister.

930
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 7: I'm trying to be a better co worker, boss and everything.

931
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 3: So I am that kind of like person that reads like.

932
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,959
Speaker 2: Self I love a good self help books.

933
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, like somebody that is really interested in like how

934
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 4: to put Yeah, that doesn't surprise me. For me, I

935
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 4: think sometimes when I start reading self help, I get

936
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 4: really overwhelmed.

937
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 5: Actually, my god, I'm already doing therapy.

938
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 4: I'm already doing this sometimes for reading and television like

939
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 4: as much as like niggas that I would be joking about,

940
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 4: how I love.

941
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:39,439
Speaker 5: It's a release, you do love that love. That's a show.

942
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 4: It's a real like, Oh, I can't watch anything that

943
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 4: will make me think right now. But sometimes the pressures

944
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 4: of life, you know what I'm saying now, I feel

945
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 4: like I'm gonna say the most shallow thing ever. I

946
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 4: probably read like two books a month. That's not as

947
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 4: many as I would like, but a.

948
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 3: Lot bitch bitches reads books a year.

949
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 5: A reading book up pretty and rich right.

950
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 3: Now, okay, okay, all right.

951
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 4: Today, you know I love it. On my mantle, I'll

952
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 4: be looking like and it was bitch. Hold on, I'm

953
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:11,760
Speaker 4: looking at the best poet.

954
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 7: So Saxty got books, y you I do, uh quite

955
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 7: all a lot.

956
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 3: From black authors. Okay, I like memoirs.

957
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 7: To me, So set Boundary's Fine Piece has been one

958
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 7: of the books that I've been adamant on. So my

959
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:33,439
Speaker 7: most reason book is I reread for good reasons because

960
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 7: I've been saying that this is the book that I love.

961
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 7: Is what I know for sure by Oprah Winfree. But

962
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 7: I've been I've been really into like journaling. Now got

963
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 7: some crystals.

964
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 2: I got a new journal for it was a gift

965
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 2: for my birthday, and it is the best.

966
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. First of all, journaling changed

967
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 3: my life.

968
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 2: I was able to get over a situation I never

969
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 2: thought I was gonna get over just from journaling, because

970
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 2: I was able to go back to certain moments and

971
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 2: be like, this is what you're walking now, I'm not

972
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: gonna get it twisted. I mean, this person is still friends.

973
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 2: But the emotion that Locke, that hole that he had

974
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: on me is completely gone and we are able to

975
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 2: have a relationship that's healthy for me because this is

976
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 2: somebody that's going to be in my life, I know,

977
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 2: but not in that capacity that I thought journaling saved

978
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: my life. I have a new journal that I got

979
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 2: for my birthday and it's actually personalized. It's I'm gonna

980
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 2: send it to you because it's going if you're a journaler,

981
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:30,399
Speaker 2: it's going to.

982
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,919
Speaker 4: Literally ask you the question it asks you the questions

983
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 4: it asked you.

984
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 5: I used to, Yeah, something, it's hard. That's difficult.

985
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 4: It's like having a routine even when you're having bad days.

986
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 5: Is what's hard about journaling.

987
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 4: Right now, I do it in my iPhone. I actually

988
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 4: unleash my emotions about people.

989
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 2: They have a new app on it on the update

990
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 2: for that right, Yeah, for journaling. Really, I saw that

991
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 2: in the update. I haven't tried it out, but there's

992
00:45:58,239 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 2: something on the iPhone.

993
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna confience nobody scared.

994
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 5: Of you do And I don't know if this is

995
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 5: healthy or not.

996
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 4: Y'all have Brionda on and Brionda told me once she

997
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 4: said she keeps a file on people, and she said

998
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 4: a mind on you like is hilarious because a lot

999
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 4: of the things you've said, you've come I have come

1000
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 4: to position. I'm like fruish And at first I felt

1001
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 4: a little violated when she said that, but I was like,

1002
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 4: she's like, you know, I'm a writer. I like to see,

1003
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,399
Speaker 4: even if it's someone in the street, like something someone did,

1004
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 4: and so I've tried to do that, especially with like

1005
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,240
Speaker 4: men i've dated, or people like care about her, even things.

1006
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 5: My parents want for me.

1007
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 4: And I realized like, oh my god, like I am

1008
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 4: growing with this shit, like I have a file on

1009
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 4: my mom and some funny shit she said about I

1010
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 4: was like telling her, I think.

1011
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 5: I'm a fuck this nigga tonight and I was just

1012
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 5: joking around, and she was like, that's exactly what you

1013
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 5: should be and deserve to be doing. That. Shit was

1014
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 5: so funny to me. I shouldn't be getting abdictionated. You

1015
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 5: should every night.

1016
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: Please go get.

1017
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 5: You some dick.

1018
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 3: I am weak, so.

1019
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 4: Go ahead, say my boom, I'm sorry, go ahead.

1020
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 3: I read that twelve.

1021
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: And the last book that I read was Disruptive Thinking

1022
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 1: by tdj Oh.

1023
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love.

1024
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 5: She is she.

1025
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:25,439
Speaker 3: I do.

1026
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: I feel like she'd be having a message and she

1027
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: was it Roberta Jakes? Roberta is nuts.

1028
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 3: What's the thing? But what's the book about?

1029
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: Dis work thinking? It's just about how us as creative thinkers,

1030
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: those of us in the world who are blessed enough to,

1031
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: I guess, be influencers. We just always have these thoughts

1032
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: that we don't want to m necessarily like go after

1033
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: everything that we're thinking we should do makes.

1034
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 5: Like holding us back, should be holding us back.

1035
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: We just don't want to be damn what the fun

1036
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: was in their dress?

1037
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 5: Because I'm like, bro, I don't know, I'm getting nervo.

1038
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,439
Speaker 3: Hold on by the way, real quick, y'all don't even

1039
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 3: know y'all tell drink one me and dre all drink three.

1040
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, the conversation and on drinking.

1041
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 4: I don't believe that.

1042
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 7: I thought her name was a Berta.

1043
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: Roberta is Roberta Jakes is absolutely insane?

1044
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 5: What is it?

1045
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 3: I don't I can't remember.

1046
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 2: I thought it was like Sarah is I gonna say,

1047
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 2: Sarah jas? Hey, the book is good disruptive minds, disruptive,

1048
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: disturbing thinking, horrible thoughts, poor minds. Decision we're gonna do,

1049
00:48:58,280 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 2: We're gonna go on to the next topic real quick,

1050
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 2: because I really want.

1051
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 3: To touch on it real y'all the session.

1052
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 5: I'm not even drinking what you be She's I'm not fucking.

1053
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 3: With y'all get it together like I'm trying to be

1054
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 3: passed out.

1055
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 2: So we just don't touch on this real quick before

1056
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 2: we move on. Do y'all believe in a happily ever after?

1057
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 3: Though?

1058
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 2: Like, do y'all think that one day your career is

1059
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: going to be where you want, your love life is

1060
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 2: going to be where you want? You have the white

1061
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 2: picket fits. Do y'all believe in a happily.

1062
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 3: You know I do?

1063
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 5: I do too.

1064
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 3: I think, okay, so why don't you believe in a

1065
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 3: happily ever after?

1066
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 7: I think the reality of circumstances right, I think, to me,

1067
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,879
Speaker 7: the pandemic really brought me to reality in the fact

1068
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 7: that I don't have control over all the things I

1069
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 7: think I have control over. We were in the middle

1070
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 7: of touring. I just quit my my career six months prior.

1071
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 7: I think that there's a lot of variables right in

1072
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 7: terms of what actually we also affects our lives. I

1073
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 7: think in terms of humans and our lives and the

1074
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 7: way that we coexist with each other, whether it be

1075
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:16,240
Speaker 7: family members, whether it be friendships, whether it be romantic relationships.

1076
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 7: I know that's really what I had to hit you

1077
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 7: with your mom with friendships, with.

1078
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 3: Me not seeing y'all as much.

1079
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 7: When I come to Atlanta with my relationship with someone

1080
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 7: who I thought was my soulmate and ended up really

1081
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 7: like affecting me traumatically.

1082
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 3: Right Like, we are all living in this.

1083
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 7: Sphere and I ain't gonna get real conspiracy theorists on

1084
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 7: it with how I feel like y'all be jumping through

1085
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 7: metal verses and shit.

1086
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 3: But to me, the.

1087
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 7: Reality is there's all of these other variables that we

1088
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 7: don't have control over. So where we can want happiness,

1089
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 7: where we can want a certain outcome, I genuinely think

1090
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 7: you can't control the actions of somebody else.

1091
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 3: You can't control where we're.

1092
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 7: At in this podcast industry in terms of what the

1093
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 7: deals are looking like, what's being offered, what tickets are

1094
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 7: being sold at, what venues. I think even financially, I

1095
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 7: think we all like to have an idea that we

1096
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 7: control our lives, but there's all these outstanding variables that

1097
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 7: we don't.

1098
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 4: I think it's a complete wrong answer, the complete opposite

1099
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,240
Speaker 4: of I wanted to finish.

1100
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:23,240
Speaker 3: I wanted to I wanted to finish only.

1101
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 7: Because I only bring up control because when you think

1102
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 7: of your happiness, you think of how you feel like

1103
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 7: you will obtain something, how you will get there, what

1104
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 7: you will do. You could set all of the boundaries,

1105
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 7: all of the ex like you can set up your

1106
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 7: pieces right in a game, how you think it's going

1107
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 7: to get you to the to the way. The thing is,

1108
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 7: you have all of these outside variables that will, inevitably,

1109
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 7: that's the reality, inevitably affect whatever.

1110
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 3: End goal you want.

1111
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 7: And so even though you find somebody you love and

1112
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 7: who treats you right in a moment, do I think

1113
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 7: that your friendships, your professional life, your a monetic life

1114
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 7: will end in the absolute.

1115
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 3: Way that you want it. Here's the thing. When we

1116
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 3: think about living till old age, that's the thing.

1117
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 7: Right, living till one hundred plus years old, achieving all

1118
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 7: those things, That's where I feel like it's an unrealistic

1119
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 7: feat because if we look at even industries that have

1120
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 7: crumbled over just technology changes and things like that, when

1121
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 7: we see the way relationship goals have changed in terms

1122
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 7: of we're introducing ethical nominogamy, now as a as a

1123
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 7: basic regular topic. You know, to me, it's the change

1124
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 7: of times that will not get you to me to

1125
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 7: your end results.

1126
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: I'll say these what is a fairy to personally because

1127
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: I feel like the way that people have like glorified

1128
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: certain relationships over time and then we found out.

1129
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 3: I'm not talking about from like a relationship, I just

1130
00:52:55,120 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 3: mean whatever. But to me, you did say though professionally romance.

1131
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes romantically somebody would be like, my happy ending

1132
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 2: is me being alone by myself and not having a partner, which.

1133
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 3: Could be it. That's what I'm saying. But even in

1134
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 3: terms of all women speaking right, we.

1135
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 7: All still have also the societal goddamn pressures of becoming

1136
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 7: a wife and a mother.

1137
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: And when I think a fairy tale, I think more

1138
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: so of what like the biggest women, like we idealize

1139
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,439
Speaker 1: this is the goal, agree, this is what we want,

1140
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: like this is what we need? Yeah, in general, and

1141
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: also looking up to other people's relationships.

1142
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 3: What is it real? Quick? What were you saying about

1143
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 3: the control aspect that she was saying.

1144
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 4: I think hopefully ever after is like in the in

1145
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 4: the story book way, it's like picking right, but as

1146
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 4: people that are realists, Right. I have a lot of

1147
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 4: love in my life. I am I have an amazing job,

1148
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:56,760
Speaker 4: I'm able to take care of myself.

1149
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 5: I'm a happy person. Don't want a kid, yeah, the

1150
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 5: own a husband. Yeah.

1151
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,879
Speaker 4: But like everything else is on track, and like I'm

1152
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 4: actually living in it, and I think the control thing

1153
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 4: ruins our lives, like being so angry. Like there's moments,

1154
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 4: you know, we've talked about it, like even at Our

1155
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,439
Speaker 4: Lives show where I'm like, Mandy, Everything's.

1156
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 5: Gonna be okay.

1157
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 4: I say that a lot because I worry so much

1158
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 4: about being so obsessed with control that we can't look,

1159
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 4: that we can't live, that we can't even see. There

1160
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 4: was like a moment I think maybe it was in

1161
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,280
Speaker 4: Detroit and we had kinsters for every show, but Detroit

1162
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 4: was the only one where we had to like improvise

1163
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,799
Speaker 4: with the dog cage, and I remember we were all

1164
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 4: feeling like anxious about it, and I was like, bro,

1165
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 4: I'm in another city aboutcast, Like sometimes you have.

1166
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 5: To lie pull your brain out.

1167
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 4: And the problem is a lot of successful people the

1168
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 4: control ruins our fucking happiness because we need to know

1169
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 4: that we're moving.

1170
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 2: And one thing I'd say to add on that, I

1171
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 2: think I believe in the happily ever after because I've

1172
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: learned that you have to curate your happiness for the situation.

1173
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 2: So like when the pandemic happened and I was still working,

1174
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 2: I couldn't work. I curated my happiness. I was like,

1175
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 2: fuck it were about to go to KICKI house and record.

1176
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 4: You curate your happiness and you learn how to adapt.

1177
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna say this to you, Mandy, as your friend.

1178
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 2: Yes, ma'am, I really want you to heal from this

1179
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 2: relationship because this is not the Mandy I know, because

1180
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 2: for you to say something like that, it surprised the

1181
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 2: fuck out of me. For her to say that, like

1182
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: you would let all these other factors, and I think

1183
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 2: that's not. I think that's because of the damage that

1184
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 2: he did.

1185
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:35,320
Speaker 3: I mean, he did a lot of damage.

1186
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 7: But I think also to me, it's when we think

1187
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 7: of a forever ever after. I think I've gotten to

1188
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 7: a point where I realized, more so than not, people

1189
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:46,840
Speaker 7: are here for reasons and seasons.

1190
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, and people are allowed to come back.

1191
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 7: But when I think of forever after, we think of

1192
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 7: this person, we think of this soul.

1193
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 3: May I actually.

1194
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 7: Referred to this last person as my soul man. Yeah,

1195
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 7: I know, and I thought that this was going to

1196
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 7: be my person, right, And so I think that when

1197
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 7: we have this idea of a fairy tale and ever after,

1198
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 7: we have the the adaptation that this person is forever,

1199
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 7: this person will be there till I end. And that's

1200
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 7: where I feel like that And it doesn't mean your

1201
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 7: happiness ends, however, I think when I'm sitting here looking

1202
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 7: at Michelle Obama just said she there was.

1203
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,240
Speaker 3: Ten years where she wasn't happy with Barack.

1204
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 7: When I sit here and see Jada's still talking about

1205
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 7: to ten.

1206
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: Years and me, I think, like the guy I was

1207
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: dating recently, he's talked to me about that situation and

1208
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: he was like, he feels like it's a sacrifice ten

1209
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: years of being it was a it was a just come,

1210
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: I love somebody that's gonna come with the because because

1211
00:56:56,560 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: I was like, but eight years of being unhappy with

1212
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,439
Speaker 1: the man? Is that fair to us?

1213
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 5: But I don't know if she meant unhappy always.

1214
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 3: I mean, well she said that in her book.

1215
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: I think she means.

1216
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 4: Like the theatrics of like, which is when she said happiness,

1217
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 4: you're unhappy for eight to ten years.

1218
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: It's eight years of being unhappy like as women is

1219
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: that sounds like like your nigga might be a barade,

1220
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: Like you might end up getting that nigga that ended

1221
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: up being the barade.

1222
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 3: No no with you.

1223
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 4: But when you walk, I mean I had a government.

1224
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, I don't necessarily mean a president guy

1225
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: like I don't mean like nigga who end up doing

1226
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: exactly what he said he was.

1227
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 4: You know, I want I really don't want to cut

1228
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 4: you off, but you're really making me feel something right now,

1229
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 4: I am saying happily ever after is like a dream scenario.

1230
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 4: But right when you were saying eight years, like, I

1231
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 4: had a boyfriend and I was living in tuloom y'all

1232
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 4: know that I was fucking in the world with him

1233
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 4: and we had a great life, but I wasn't necessarily

1234
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:18,439
Speaker 4: happy with him. Now he has someone else and they're

1235
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 4: probably they're doing the same.

1236
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 5: Shit he was doing.

1237
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 4: Right, do you ever regret that, No, bro, like I

1238
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 4: was being single. As much as we think it's some

1239
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:32,919
Speaker 4: sad shit, Bro, it takes a lot that's not ship

1240
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 4: and and to know that, like I almost felt sorry

1241
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 4: for her.

1242
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 3: I saw that at.

1243
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 4: Dumble house recently when I was with my dud dread

1244
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 4: nigga and he's not even my band, but I literally

1245
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 4: looked at her and I was like, oh my god,

1246
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 4: this nigga's trash bro. Like sure, like I've clicked on

1247
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 4: his Instagram to see what he's up to, Like maybe

1248
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 4: you guys just got back from Italy and enjoyed your

1249
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 4: time there, But like he's an awful partner. And I

1250
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 4: don't think there's a world where like we're really celebrating

1251
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 4: women that leave and how single can be happy. Happiness

1252
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 4: also is a choice I continue to make daily work.

1253
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 4: And when we're talking about loss, like you know, it's

1254
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 4: hard for me to watch people my age as a parent,

1255
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 4: because my parents are very old and I'm only thirty two,

1256
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 4: and like I think all the time, like.

1257
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 5: What would I do? What would I do? And it's

1258
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 5: very scary. But what I know is like.

1259
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 4: Yes, loss is going to happen having my parents live

1260
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 4: to one hundred and fifty whatever the fuck.

1261
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 5: Sure, But like.

1262
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 4: I'm so lucky to have them right now. Absolutely, I'm

1263
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 4: so lucky to have spend the time with real friends

1264
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 4: that didn't have a kid, I mean, a parent at ten.

1265
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: Bitch, we're at the same age. Like my dad died

1266
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: when I was twenty nine, right before I turned thirty.

1267
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: It's amazing to have both of your parents at thirty two.

1268
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that it is such a blessing. But

1269
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: and you cannot take those moments for granny.

1270
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 3: I can't.

1271
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 4: And I'm really trying to live in this like even

1272
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 4: if God forbid something happens I love my parents and

1273
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 4: have to see something like that, I'm still going to

1274
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 4: have to live this happy life.

1275
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 3: Exactly, y'a.

1276
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 4: I really think that, like my parents are gonna want

1277
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 4: me fucking sy and whatever, like of course we're gonna.

1278
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 5: Mourn, but like, of course life is going to happen.

1279
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 4: But while life is happening, I have to choose to

1280
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 4: be happy, and like daily, I literally have to do it.

1281
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 2: And that's why I said, you have to curate your

1282
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 2: happiness because even me, I don't got no parents none.

1283
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 4: I don't have a parent because it's not But let

1284
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 4: me tell you why.

1285
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 3: I didn't want to get emotional. And I'm like, but

1286
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 3: let me.

1287
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 5: Tell you why.

1288
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 3: It's not an emotional thing because I had to. I

1289
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 3: had to.

1290
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 2: But let me but let me say this so, but

1291
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 2: that's why I said, you have to curate your happiness,

1292
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 2: because yes, you know what my fairy tale looks like,

1293
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 2: me growing old with my mom and me and her,

1294
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 2: me having a kid, and her helping me raise my children.

1295
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 2: That's what my fairy tale looks like.

1296
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 7: But guess what, just because that fairy tale didn't happen, Okay,

1297
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 7: let's try this fairy tale, and.

1298
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,440
Speaker 2: We're gonna keep c We're gonna keep it pushing. And

1299
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 2: that's why I said. It surprised me that you said that,

1300
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 2: because you were the one that told me. But you

1301
01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 2: gotta keep doing this ship. You gotta keep put, you

1302
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 2: gotta keep you gotta.

1303
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 3: Figure something out. So that's what I feel like. But

1304
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 3: I like that what you just said. There can be

1305
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:08,439
Speaker 3: multiple fairy tales. It is, and we think there is.

1306
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 7: We think of the one fairy tale, right, and you

1307
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 7: think it's it.

1308
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: But it changes going through sheet changes people changes your narrative.

1309
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 3: I mean, the same thing that she said, right, like,

1310
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 3: I think it gets to where.

1311
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 7: I mean, two of the four women that he cheated

1312
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 7: on me with called me and one of them bitch.

1313
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 3: Jay z and so.

1314
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 7: But the one the one that decided to keep trying

1315
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 7: to like be around and text my phone about how.

1316
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 4: She's like, yeah, he's an artists don't want to help

1317
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 4: him through this.

1318
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 3: And I was like, why are you still on my phone?

1319
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 4: And a very white thing for her to say, and

1320
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 4: she she was.

1321
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 7: No, So why that I've seen the four that he

1322
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 7: cheated on me with, Uh, two were Latine, three were

1323
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 7: two were Latino, woe was black, one was white.

1324
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 3: Now he said all over the w in.

1325
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 7: Every ethnicity, like to the point where I was like, Okay,

1326
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:13,440
Speaker 7: you don't.

1327
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 3: Have a type. It's women.

1328
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 7: But that's why when I when I saw like the

1329
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 7: things that connected him to women, I was like, oh no,

1330
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 7: real true narcissists because it didn't have there was no

1331
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 7: faith or body type or color to whoever it was

1332
01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 7: who that woman wasn't what they needed from and how

1333
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 7: to validate him.

1334
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 4: Let's just said there's different happiness happy like fairy tales.

1335
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 7: Right.

1336
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think mine was always when I was

1337
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 4: a kid, Sex and the City. I wanted to be

1338
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 4: carry Bradshaw, you I did.

1339
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 3: She quotes that ship all the time.

1340
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 5: She loves Sex and the City.

1341
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I love the city, but I never wanted

1342
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: to be carrying her story.

1343
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 3: Was away, who did you want to be?

1344
01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: For me? Who did you want to be?

1345
01:02:57,680 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 3: I really like, you know, be in New York.

1346
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 4: And but like honestly, even when I was like struggling

1347
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 4: in New York, like that's the same time, I still

1348
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 4: felt like I was living in this one of the beings.

1349
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 3: And also like bro I I think I might have

1350
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 3: say it on Horrible.

1351
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 4: I had a really emotional moment when the new one came,

1352
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 4: even though it's trash and she was a podcaster, she

1353
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 4: was like, oh.

1354
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 3: My bad she became.

1355
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 1: They showed us to like podcasting is really a thing

1356
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: now to be funny. People used to be trying to

1357
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 1: think we was lame.

1358
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 7: Now put together.

1359
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like now the way the way that

1360
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: podcasts are, it really shows people like we really out here?

1361
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 3: Do you still stay when they ask what do you do?

1362
01:03:58,400 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 3: And do you say? I'm a podcast?

1363
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 2: I haven't really last God dated not the God i'm

1364
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 2: seeing now. Well, the guy i'm seeing now like he's

1365
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 2: been knowing who I was because we've always followed each

1366
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 2: other on social media. But the God before that, y'all

1367
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 2: know him as nail shop guy. And we went on

1368
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 2: our first date I. He thought he was being slick

1369
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 2: because he we started. He asked me what I do

1370
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 2: for a living. I always say I'm in media, work

1371
01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 2: in media because I don't like to get into it

1372
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 2: and things like that.

1373
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 3: We hadn't exchanged.

1374
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 2: Social media is nothing, and then he said something like

1375
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 2: oh he mentioned He was like oh yeah.

1376
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 3: He was like, well, what are you doing media?

1377
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I have a show and then

1378
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 2: I'll then I'll get into it when they want to

1379
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 2: be particular. And he was like, oh yeah, I'll be

1380
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 2: watching podcasts and songs. I seen this guy named x

1381
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 2: y Z. I said, oh, yeah, I know him. He

1382
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 2: came on my show before.

1383
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 3: He was like, oh yeah, I think I've seen that cli.

1384
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 3: I think I seen that clip. You know exactly who

1385
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 3: I am, watched the whole episode.

1386
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 4: I think people know our faces, but recently I believed it.

1387
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 4: I was on a plane next to this dude and

1388
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 4: we were like joking about being the only niggas first

1389
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 4: of last, and so we're talking about work or whatever,

1390
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 4: and like I said, horrible decisions. He's like, oh my god, yeah,

1391
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 4: I've heard the name of that show that's you. I

1392
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, I do it with it's two of us,

1393
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 4: and he's like, oh okay. Now why I believe him

1394
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 4: is because, like I do, think some people are audio

1395
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 4: only and we are sometimes performing so much that we

1396
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 4: forget niggas might have just heard it in passing, seen

1397
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 4: the name, like maybe it doesn't connect with you. Well,

1398
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 4: y'all's is different because y'all.

1399
01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 7: Are audio hand We bitch, we're visual here we are,

1400
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 7: but because y'all eighty five Soft Network, they are a

1401
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 7: heavy visual visual. Yes, we because we're talking about every day.

1402
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 3: Because because literally, because what we.

1403
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 7: Talked about, we were not as monetized on YouTube. And

1404
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 7: if people who are heavy in the podcast streets look

1405
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 7: at our numbers, they're like, y'all, but just at it.

1406
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 7: Our numbers are heavily probably five six, seven times more

1407
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 7: on audio.

1408
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 5: This is crazy then because it's so backwards.

1409
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 3: But it's different from New York too, Atlanta.

1410
01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 4: To be fair, we started seven years ago podcast and

1411
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 4: we were like.

1412
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 7: You guys had video, whether it y'all was at your

1413
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 7: goddamn counter, at your apartment or kikiS or wherever we

1414
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:25,439
Speaker 7: all were.

1415
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 3: You had the video element for a long time.

1416
01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 4: For Wine Down Wednesday, Yeah, I feel like we're such

1417
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 4: industry talk right now. I mean our first year and

1418
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 4: a half, we didn't have video content, right and you

1419
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 4: know who probably living there happily ever after, right now,

1420
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 4: that motherfucker TJ Max bitch, she happiest. That was one

1421
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 4: of the things he told me he liked about her.

1422
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 4: He said what he met her at the airport and

1423
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 4: he was like, I was like, where's she going? She

1424
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 4: was going out with a biggat somewhere. He was like, no,

1425
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 4: he said she was going to explore some fucking jungle.

1426
01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 5: So we were selling you like that and so like she.

1427
01:06:58,720 --> 01:06:59,919
Speaker 3: Probably TJ Max check.

1428
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 5: Know that's right, man, that I was broke as fuck

1429
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 5: many traveling.

1430
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 7: Friends your city is not saying that it's no slight.

1431
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 7: Let me not sing here and get that energy sent

1432
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 7: my way. As someone who works hard for their money,

1433
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 7: you have to save for trips, and so I think

1434
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 7: for a man to be like, actually, just so you know,

1435
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 7: I'm booking this trip on my own with my TJ

1436
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 7: Max money leadership.

1437
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

1438
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 2: What's up, y'all is your girl Lexip and is sugarl

1439
01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 2: Dery and the call and y'all know were wrapping up

1440
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 2: the tour. So y'all know, we had to come home.

1441
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: We had to come home, and you know we love

1442
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 1: a good thing. We wanted to do a theme, so

1443
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 1: we doing a freakingick thing for the Houston Show. It's

1444
01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: gonna be stoutly y'all.

1445
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 2: Yes, November twenty fifth. Doors open at six pm. Show

1446
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 2: starts at seventh at House the Blues. Y'all, we got

1447
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 2: bping coming through. We got zero coming through, and I'm

1448
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 2: telling y'all, it's a lot more people coming through because

1449
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 2: we own.

1450
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we surprise.

1451
01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 3: We have so many surprises. It's freakni things.

1452
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:09,880
Speaker 2: So get your hair up, put your grills in, your

1453
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 2: spripes and T shirts, get real good because we finished.

1454
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:17,800
Speaker 2: Have the time, were finish, shake some pass eternal, your bet,

1455
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:21,600
Speaker 2: your best nineties attire, put that ship on periods.

1456
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,960
Speaker 3: So we'll see y'all soon. Nomber fifth House the Blues

1457
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 3: and Houstad.

1458
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:38,840
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, y'all, well, into the bow.

1459
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 7: Supposed to be, but we go to the know it's

1460
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 7: supposed to be the bad.

1461
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 3: The bad is always after the second topic.

1462
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about hm hm talk to

1463
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:52,679
Speaker 1: because mandatory. So watch y'all, HOUCHI before said.

1464
01:08:53,000 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 3: No you this is last night walked up like a

1465
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:05,799
Speaker 3: little our thump.

1466
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: You like a little.

1467
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 3: So I used to be.

1468
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 5: I used to be very like, oh my god, I

1469
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 5: want to be clean before they eat me.

1470
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:17,680
Speaker 4: Right. But if you have good vaginal health, like it's

1471
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:19,640
Speaker 4: I dated a woman for a few years, like, you

1472
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:21,920
Speaker 4: have good vaginal health, there's really not gonna be a

1473
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:25,799
Speaker 4: bad pussy day for you. Because fish and funk is issue.

1474
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 4: Musk is a thing that's normal. Maybe you're pussy. There

1475
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 4: are some girls pussies.

1476
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 5: That smell like water. Mine's not one of them.

1477
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 4: I have a very sweet pussy smell. I love when

1478
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 4: I masturbate and getting the car with my nigga and

1479
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 4: be like like.

1480
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 3: Sweet pussl sald do. I love the smell of my vagina.

1481
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 3: So we go for a walk.

1482
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 4: It's hot day in the Lower east Side, not that

1483
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 4: hot back and he was like before I go home,

1484
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 4: comes in on my face and I was like, oh

1485
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 4: my god, no, I was just walking around.

1486
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 5: He was like, so what you have to smell you pussy? Now,

1487
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:54,719
Speaker 5: no you don't, And I.

1488
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,680
Speaker 4: Was like, girls had right on that face, opening the

1489
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 4: and then I was like, let me test my own pussy.

1490
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 5: So I started kissing him and I was like, Okay, you.

1491
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 3: Do not have to watch it.

1492
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:07,679
Speaker 4: You don't.

1493
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 3: This is what I hate.

1494
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna lie like if I'm like fresh out

1495
01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 7: the shower and then like a nigga eat my pussy.

1496
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:15,719
Speaker 2: And then he kissed me, and I don't taste nothing.

1497
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:18,599
Speaker 2: I like the taste of my vagina. I like, I

1498
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 2: love bearding niggas. So it's like if you go down

1499
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 2: and you get all them juices in there and then

1500
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 2: you come up and kiss me and I smell it

1501
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 2: and I taste it.

1502
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 3: I like it.

1503
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 5: I won't puss it, you know, running around walking around.

1504
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 3: A little bit.

1505
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 5: Ruining moments. Recently, he came there later to seeing me

1506
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 5: be in a car.

1507
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 4: He under the finger of me before the airport and

1508
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:42,640
Speaker 4: I was like, no, I'm not ready, and he was

1509
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 4: like brow, you'd be fucking taking.

1510
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 5: The fun out of shit. And I was like, wow,

1511
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 5: I'm actually like really ruined.

1512
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:51,640
Speaker 4: He's right because and I've told women not to do

1513
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:53,599
Speaker 4: this on horrible but like sometimes you can't help your

1514
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 4: own neurosis.

1515
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 5: But like I definitely was like wanting to be.

1516
01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 4: Super pressed and super this and when you said you're

1517
01:10:58,720 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 4: ruining this ship right.

1518
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 3: Now, I was like, you're ruining it.

1519
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 6: I would hate you're ruining it.

1520
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:08,360
Speaker 3: You're ruining it.

1521
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, but I feel like, like you said, if

1522
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:14,560
Speaker 7: you have good vagina health, like it should.

1523
01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 3: Be okay, thank you, it's never gonna be.

1524
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 4: And if it takes a long time to get your

1525
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 4: pussy and smell, okay, that's.

1526
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 7: Baby pussy first off, because pussy don't smell like water.

1527
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 3: It don't smell like hell something.

1528
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 5: I need two vegan girls that did smell like nothing.

1529
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 5: That was crazy.

1530
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 2: I don't even like you tell when people eat different though.

1531
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 2: A long time ago, when I was fucking with this nigga,

1532
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 2: he was an athlete.

1533
01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:42,480
Speaker 3: He was very serious, and I swear.

1534
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 2: He was a hard core because you know how some

1535
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:49,440
Speaker 2: niggas like that on the It wasn't a practice squad nigga,

1536
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 2: like you know what I'm saying.

1537
01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 7: It was the one that doesn't fuck on game days

1538
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 7: because he was very serious.

1539
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 3: Fish the game, so you can't. I'm sorry.

1540
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 2: I feel like that's another topic though, but like this

1541
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 2: age fucking with like rappers and athletes like pointless. Why sorry,

1542
01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,559
Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie like it tasted like water,

1543
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 2: so you can really tell a difference in somebody what

1544
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 2: they eat.

1545
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 3: You can't what they can. You know what I'm saying.

1546
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,640
Speaker 2: So we all agree you don't have to wash a

1547
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:25,599
Speaker 2: couchie before six.

1548
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:27,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know it's cool to have.

1549
01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 5: I agree with you.

1550
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 3: I like that stink on you sweating. It's not But

1551
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 3: that's the thing is women.

1552
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:39,719
Speaker 7: Lets me very clear, fellas, if you smell a smell,

1553
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,840
Speaker 7: that bitch is disrespectful because she smelled it before you didn't.

1554
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 3: We can smell ourselves. I don't think.

1555
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 7: I don't believe that all the women can smell herself.

1556
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 7: You can't hope that someone ignores their smell like they've

1557
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 7: been ignoring their own smell.

1558
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,639
Speaker 1: That sweet that would viral with his girl was like

1559
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,679
Speaker 1: she went and wiped her couchie off with a also

1560
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: in the bathroom with a sick and he did under

1561
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: the nigga.

1562
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 3: On his cabinet.

1563
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,599
Speaker 5: Yeah hand.

1564
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:11,639
Speaker 3: But my thing is he said he went to either

1565
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 3: and he smelled like pomegranate. Right up, pomegran ain't got

1566
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 3: no taste.

1567
01:13:17,800 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 4: He's really come back to a nigga after like we've

1568
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:20,400
Speaker 4: been clogging.

1569
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:22,800
Speaker 1: Who ever washed your cool chee in the sink with

1570
01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 1: some soap?

1571
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 3: Yes, and a sock.

1572
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 5: Not a sock, not a sock.

1573
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 3: But no, I'm not gonna lie. I've done a little

1574
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:31,920
Speaker 3: water though.

1575
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 5: I came to an.

1576
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:38,920
Speaker 3: Right back on.

1577
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 4: I'm a very shameless like I would like to clean

1578
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 4: myself firston now, Okay, years ago I was scared of,

1579
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 4: like being honest about a whole bath. But now I'd

1580
01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:49,640
Speaker 4: be like, hey, i just want to wash up for

1581
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 4: a second, like I'm a fucking adult.

1582
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:53,719
Speaker 2: But I've always looked at it like a classic woman,

1583
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:54,639
Speaker 2: let me go fresh.

1584
01:13:54,960 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 3: Classic. I ain't gonna hold you.

1585
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you put it from my pussy to

1586
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 7: the man to my asshole. So clean bitch doing anal. Yeah,

1587
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:13,560
Speaker 7: ain't nothing come out your But sometimes.

1588
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 3: I put the little I take a douche, I empty,

1589
01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:17,759
Speaker 3: I just put a little long. You carry a douche

1590
01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 3: with you to dinner.

1591
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:21,720
Speaker 1: And she had one in her part recently, and I

1592
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: seen I'm looking like and put it in his I

1593
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 1: swear you carry a douche with yeah, because I like

1594
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 1: to clean my booty.

1595
01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 7: You never know you're not getting.

1596
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 3: Off the I don't have to retire. That's pretty up there.

1597
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:43,640
Speaker 1: I mean it was a bottle in her perse, But

1598
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,640
Speaker 1: I will say that. I probably forgot to take it

1599
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 1: out though.

1600
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:46,920
Speaker 3: But I do care.

1601
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:49,879
Speaker 1: We had the last shot we had was in Charlotte.

1602
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 1: You had a douch.

1603
01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:54,680
Speaker 3: Yes, I haven't. With me.

1604
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 2: Well, I always bring it to me, especially when I

1605
01:14:57,400 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 2: go to Houston, because you know he likes to I

1606
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,599
Speaker 2: like to wear the but loves and to make sure

1607
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 2: it's clean.

1608
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 5: Okay, to be honest, if you really, if you're.

1609
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 6: Thinking anything in your ass, you can make sure it's

1610
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 6: fucking cleaning that fleeting.

1611
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,760
Speaker 5: That's what the game niggas called and my game.

1612
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that's where you're wrong. If you have

1613
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:18,960
Speaker 7: an antal sex, you know there might be a mess.

1614
01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 7: So listen, this is anatomy and you just need to.

1615
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 3: Be okay with what may or may not. I'm not

1616
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:26,679
Speaker 3: there yet.

1617
01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 2: I need to keep my Dutch showing me I keep

1618
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:30,559
Speaker 2: that thing on surfaces.

1619
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 7: I mean, but if I drank coffee that day or

1620
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,599
Speaker 7: a Mexican food, were not having antal sex, I'm also thoughtful.

1621
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not.

1622
01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna clean that ship out and let's get to it, bitch,

1623
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 2: let's get let's get into the box.

1624
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 4: Okay, exactly now it's time say into the.

1625
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 7: Bop hey, bow about, bow about.

1626
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 3: I like how we all got different dance moves. She

1627
01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:55,799
Speaker 3: hitting the robots.

1628
01:15:56,520 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 7: We're half white over here, you know to y'all, don't

1629
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 7: make a nigga, don't do this.

1630
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 4: Twitter was saying that we're gonna get our superpowers.

1631
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 5: Everybody was.

1632
01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 1: I was.

1633
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:09,240
Speaker 5: They were like, which one would you want? I was like,

1634
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 5: I want to fly. They were like, you're gonna go

1635
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:15,600
Speaker 5: up and go in. I'm saying, say like, if you

1636
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 5: got a black.

1637
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:23,679
Speaker 7: Mom my mom black, if you're coming, that's bullshit.

1638
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 3: No, you're fifty, babe. You're fifty babe. You're fifty babe.

1639
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 5: You know you know you more.

1640
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:34,840
Speaker 1: I will say this. They say, whatever your mama is,

1641
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 1: that's what you are.

1642
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 3: That's why this b you're We don't do that your mom.

1643
01:16:41,400 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 4: I love your mom and I love that.

1644
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 5: I know we don't have to do that.

1645
01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:48,080
Speaker 3: You know. That's why my mom.

1646
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:51,320
Speaker 4: Had to convert my Like, but she's saying, that's like

1647
01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:53,719
Speaker 4: some old ship that people do say that, So it's

1648
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,160
Speaker 4: really people like my dad. She was like, oh you

1649
01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:58,240
Speaker 4: have to convert to Judaism. It's like we get married

1650
01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:01,559
Speaker 4: and ship because like whatever the baby you I was like, okay,

1651
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 4: I'm really a Jewish nigga.

1652
01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 3: Girl. LX cream is so good.

1653
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:22,639
Speaker 1: It's so good, you know, vanilla, coconut, cinnamon and mudmeg.

1654
01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 1: It's the perfect bleed.

1655
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:24,640
Speaker 3: I love it.

1656
01:17:24,680 --> 01:17:26,479
Speaker 1: I wish there was a way we could get more

1657
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 1: people to drinking. I know, what about a gunt is Ooh,

1658
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 1: that's a great idea.

1659
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 3: Let's call it the.

1660
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:35,520
Speaker 5: LS Cream Challenge.

1661
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, let's recap this. This is how it's going

1662
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 1: to go down. First, you take a picture of your

1663
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:45,880
Speaker 1: original LS cream cocktail recipe.

1664
01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:47,759
Speaker 3: Whatever it is, and make sure the LS.

1665
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:50,800
Speaker 1: Cream bottle is visible in the picture. Then you post

1666
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 1: it on your Instagram and tag at LS cream Liqueur

1667
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: and at poor Mindes in the caption with the LS

1668
01:17:57,400 --> 01:18:02,720
Speaker 1: cream hashtag hashtag ls Cream five k challenge. Also, make

1669
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:05,599
Speaker 1: sure to tag three of your friends to invite them

1670
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:07,680
Speaker 1: to the challenge. The team will choose eight of the

1671
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 1: most original pictures, so remember to be creative. Then we're

1672
01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: gonna post the eight pictures on our Instagram story so

1673
01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:16,680
Speaker 1: you can vote which ones are gonna be going to

1674
01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: the next round. Then we'll do the same thing for

1675
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,160
Speaker 1: the final four until we get to the top two

1676
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 1: and the winner will get five thousand dollars dollars. Listen, y'all.

1677
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 1: To enter the competition, you need to go to creamls

1678
01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: dot com slash challenge to register for age verification. We

1679
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 1: need to make sure that you are twenty one. This

1680
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 1: is also where you'll find the official rules to read.

1681
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 1: We can't wait to see what you guys have in

1682
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:45,240
Speaker 1: sore for us. Make us proud.

1683
01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 2: Cheers, y'all cheers, because I said, I saw somebody say

1684
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:56,599
Speaker 2: this a long time ago, because they were like, cauld

1685
01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:58,640
Speaker 2: y'all say, oh, the first black women and do this

1686
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 2: because y'all are black to megas to me, I think

1687
01:19:01,560 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 2: to me, and I don't care what anybody else say,

1688
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 2: but I know people mess with y'all about the light

1689
01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 2: skin thing, like, oh, y'all only got this because y'all

1690
01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 2: are light skinned.

1691
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:11,560
Speaker 3: The light skin thing. They do it to the rapper girls.

1692
01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 2: You know, they say, so, how does that make y'all

1693
01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 2: feel some type of way when that happens and people say,

1694
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,560
Speaker 2: y'all got heart?

1695
01:19:20,640 --> 01:19:24,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, first of all, like yes, but I also have

1696
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 4: to understand where it's coming from me because it's kind

1697
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 4: of true, Like there's a lot of fucking light skin

1698
01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:32,559
Speaker 4: doors to be opened, Like I remember this girl said

1699
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 4: that I had only had an experience because like in

1700
01:19:35,280 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 4: my life with a nigga because I was light skinned.

1701
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 4: I was like, maybe she right me. I don't know,

1702
01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 4: but at the end of the day, I think that's why,

1703
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 4: like my EXI sway joke with me, you know, you

1704
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:45,640
Speaker 4: only a little freedom for it because you light skin like,

1705
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 4: and it's true, like bro, Like I mean maybe because

1706
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:52,439
Speaker 4: you know it is my mom, so I'm like closer

1707
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:55,400
Speaker 4: to her, but like maybe that was what birthed a

1708
01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 4: lot of it for me. My mom's not light skin

1709
01:19:57,560 --> 01:20:00,360
Speaker 4: so like that kind of made me feel a little

1710
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:02,280
Speaker 4: bit more like you, I gotta step it up, and

1711
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:03,680
Speaker 4: not because of my mama, you.

1712
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying.

1713
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:08,679
Speaker 4: But yeah, I do feel like Horrible Decisions has paved

1714
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 4: ways for a lot of black podcasts. But if people

1715
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:12,760
Speaker 4: believe that there is some light skin shit in there,

1716
01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:14,960
Speaker 4: be that as it may. Even if there was, we

1717
01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 4: still worked really hard, bro, And I do feel like

1718
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:21,520
Speaker 4: y'all always talk about black black issues.

1719
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:23,880
Speaker 3: And blacks a little bit of the.

1720
01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:29,600
Speaker 7: Difference to me, So to me, when we have those conversations,

1721
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 7: I understand and respect that colorism is a real thing right. However,

1722
01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:37,840
Speaker 7: my white family disowned me because of my blackness. So

1723
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:40,719
Speaker 7: I only grew up with my Jamaican family. I only

1724
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:42,840
Speaker 7: know my white mom you.

1725
01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:46,679
Speaker 3: And so the thing.

1726
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 7: Like the family that I group around was all my

1727
01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:58,000
Speaker 7: Jamaican ass cousins. I grew up actually wishing and I

1728
01:20:58,040 --> 01:21:00,400
Speaker 7: just spoke about this as well. One the thing is

1729
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:03,840
Speaker 7: I grew up wishing I was darker. I loved the

1730
01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 7: summertime when I was a darker complexion, Like all of

1731
01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:10,760
Speaker 7: my cousins were dark skin, and so I have a

1732
01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:13,599
Speaker 7: different experience in the fact that I didn't grow up

1733
01:21:13,600 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 7: around whiteness. Also, socio economically, all of the schools that

1734
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:21,439
Speaker 7: I went to were ninety plus percent black. So of

1735
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 7: the three high schools that I went to in Orlando,

1736
01:21:23,479 --> 01:21:27,519
Speaker 7: FO seven Chapa City but I went to I graduated

1737
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 7: from Evan's High School and I went to offer it.

1738
01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 7: But like my come up is that even the schools

1739
01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:38,679
Speaker 7: that I went to when I grew up, everyone around

1740
01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:42,240
Speaker 7: me was black. So like I went to Doctor Phillips

1741
01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:44,839
Speaker 7: for one year only because I got into a Managet program.

1742
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 3: However, how I.

1743
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 7: Grew up, the people I grew up with were black.

1744
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:53,120
Speaker 7: My family was black. I didn't have much of my

1745
01:21:53,160 --> 01:21:54,559
Speaker 7: white family that I got to grow up.

1746
01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:59,479
Speaker 4: With because the black ass, Right, but your experience, you

1747
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 4: feel like through life has been like a black woman.

1748
01:22:02,520 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 3: Well, and it wasn't until I got into corporate right.

1749
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 7: So I worked at Goldman Sachs, I worked at Ey

1750
01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 7: and it wasn't until I realized, bitch braids is not

1751
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:12,640
Speaker 7: working in this environment, or at least I didn't think so.

1752
01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:14,840
Speaker 7: And I couldn't rely on my mom to call. And

1753
01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 7: there was a lot of things that happened when I

1754
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:20,880
Speaker 7: got into corporate America where at one point I was like, ooh,

1755
01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 7: then go to Columbia my master's degree. I'm gonna go here,

1756
01:22:24,320 --> 01:22:27,760
Speaker 7: and I remember very much, so into my last like

1757
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:30,280
Speaker 7: year and a half of college, I was like, fuck that,

1758
01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 7: I want to go to HBCU, Like I want to

1759
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 7: stay in that space because that's the space that I

1760
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:36,599
Speaker 7: feel comfortable.

1761
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 3: And then at one point I was like, wait, this.

1762
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,120
Speaker 7: Has been my experience my whole life. So a part

1763
01:22:44,120 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 7: of me was like, Nope.

1764
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:45,719
Speaker 3: Go to London.

1765
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:48,280
Speaker 7: See if you can get into these other schools, because

1766
01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:50,200
Speaker 7: you do have to learn how to work with white people.

1767
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 3: Even though your mama was white mam.

1768
01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:56,200
Speaker 7: If y'all have met Miss Tammy, that whole may cock oxtails, okay,

1769
01:22:56,720 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 7: and that's how babey No, my dad's hard to make

1770
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 7: fail in oxtail. Would I'm adding as because I'm drunk, bitch,

1771
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:10,200
Speaker 7: I know not to add an, but like to me,

1772
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 7: it's like more so that has been my experience to

1773
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:15,880
Speaker 7: be fair, white people have never been like.

1774
01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 2: Accepted you because I'm not y'all not white past and I.

1775
01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 1: Feel y'all we probably have to defend y'all blackness.

1776
01:23:25,920 --> 01:23:28,800
Speaker 3: We did in the first couple of years of the I.

1777
01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:31,840
Speaker 4: Don't be real with y'all if when it came to

1778
01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 4: corporate America, like in a way that I didn't even realize,

1779
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:37,000
Speaker 4: like I was working.

1780
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:38,519
Speaker 5: At like an exact level really young.

1781
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 4: I didn't even realize the acceptance I needed while wearing

1782
01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:44,040
Speaker 4: so wings and flat iron in my hair, Like I

1783
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:45,680
Speaker 4: didn't realize what I was trying to do more than

1784
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:47,120
Speaker 4: I thought that was the professional look.

1785
01:23:47,320 --> 01:23:47,479
Speaker 5: Right.

1786
01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 4: But you know, even if I'm white, passing like my

1787
01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:52,479
Speaker 4: hair has always gave it away.

1788
01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 5: So I've always felt like, oh, I wish I was

1789
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 5: one of the other.

1790
01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:57,519
Speaker 4: Like I remember used to feeling like a weird looking nigga,

1791
01:23:57,560 --> 01:23:59,280
Speaker 4: like my ex said one of the most hurtful things

1792
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 4: to me, like, why don't you like the other light

1793
01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:02,160
Speaker 4: skined girls with curly hair?

1794
01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:05,720
Speaker 3: M my god, I'm glad you broke up with that.

1795
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 4: Fuck really fucked me up because I think it was

1796
01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:10,240
Speaker 4: a joke, like every light skin got curly hair, but

1797
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,720
Speaker 4: two and I was like ooh, and yeah, I mean,

1798
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:17,680
Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess like living in that confusion

1799
01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:20,280
Speaker 4: fucks you up. And every mixed person has these woes, right,

1800
01:24:20,560 --> 01:24:25,000
Speaker 4: And it's funny if you're a mixed girl listening, it's

1801
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:27,320
Speaker 4: always like you feel like you got to pick one.

1802
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:28,920
Speaker 5: But I think the reason it.

1803
01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:33,320
Speaker 4: Was already like eating that destiny for me was probably

1804
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 4: because of my parents and even with my dad, right,

1805
01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 4: my dad's Israeli all his parents. I didn't grow up

1806
01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:42,960
Speaker 4: with my father's family, but everything like Jewish people don't.

1807
01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:44,879
Speaker 5: Want you fucking with on niggas, Like his son didn't really.

1808
01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:47,519
Speaker 4: Talk to him, he is, you know, a son that like,

1809
01:24:47,720 --> 01:24:49,759
Speaker 4: they don't really fuck with you having a black wife.

1810
01:24:49,800 --> 01:24:52,240
Speaker 4: My mom made it go into the synagogue, like you know,

1811
01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:53,599
Speaker 4: it's pretty much what Mandy was saying.

1812
01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:55,280
Speaker 5: It was exactly the same in Middle Eastern ship. You

1813
01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:58,679
Speaker 5: know that real serious. I mean, I'm.

1814
01:24:58,520 --> 01:25:00,559
Speaker 4: Fully a person of color in that way, but it

1815
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:04,720
Speaker 4: feels really like weird sometimes. Like I always felt like

1816
01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 4: I was getting made fun of with the Jewish thing,

1817
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:09,599
Speaker 4: especially with nine to eleven, even though that was Israel

1818
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 4: and like it was a totally different thing. People always say,

1819
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:12,639
Speaker 4: I was in a bomb.

1820
01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:13,720
Speaker 3: In school, and I.

1821
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:19,200
Speaker 4: Know what to do when it comes to podcasting and

1822
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 4: people saying, you know, we've gotten far because we're light skin,

1823
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:26,400
Speaker 4: be real with you, Like, I think beauty is something

1824
01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 4: that kind of pushes further than light skin ship. I

1825
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:34,200
Speaker 4: think hot people can get further than anyone else. I've

1826
01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:38,320
Speaker 4: always believed that, Okay that.

1827
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:40,800
Speaker 1: Even when it comes to our show, like I feel

1828
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:46,760
Speaker 1: like people say that about this because nobody even not

1829
01:25:46,800 --> 01:25:49,800
Speaker 1: look the way nobody would listen to y'all.

1830
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:51,560
Speaker 3: Wait, nobody really.

1831
01:25:56,880 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 1: Or they even say, oh, one of you bitches must

1832
01:25:59,880 --> 01:26:01,599
Speaker 1: be fucking one of them eighty five South.

1833
01:26:01,800 --> 01:26:05,880
Speaker 7: But here's the thing, even if you were then maybe

1834
01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 7: five South listeners or or that person that you may

1835
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 7: or may not be fucking doesn't bring in the hundreds

1836
01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:14,479
Speaker 7: of thousands of listeners that you guys get and to

1837
01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:17,840
Speaker 7: be fair too, like, just because you look good doesn't

1838
01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 7: mean people want to listen to you.

1839
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,080
Speaker 3: That's not going week.

1840
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,160
Speaker 4: I think people get people to think that it gets

1841
01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:27,360
Speaker 4: people you prost them thirst tracks cool.

1842
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:30,559
Speaker 7: But to get someone to tune in every hour every

1843
01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:33,960
Speaker 7: week for years and that's more years. Mind you, y'all

1844
01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 7: also on amp us every Wednesday.

1845
01:26:42,840 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 3: Here, but.

1846
01:26:46,120 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 7: Not to get actually people to tune in, actually listen,

1847
01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:52,759
Speaker 7: engage and care or not care but also still engaged.

1848
01:26:54,080 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 4: Since I've been working in podcast production, how many hot

1849
01:26:57,240 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 4: girls come for.

1850
01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:01,320
Speaker 5: A podcast and I think they find aware to you.

1851
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:05,160
Speaker 4: One girl literally said to me she wanted free studio time,

1852
01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:07,040
Speaker 4: and I was like, bro.

1853
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:08,280
Speaker 5: I paid for my studio time.

1854
01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:08,800
Speaker 3: Same.

1855
01:27:09,120 --> 01:27:11,479
Speaker 5: I don't know what the fuck you talk. But at

1856
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 5: the same time, like, you know, what are you gonna

1857
01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:14,559
Speaker 5: do you making?

1858
01:27:14,640 --> 01:27:16,040
Speaker 4: Like are you huge on TikTok? You about to make

1859
01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:17,200
Speaker 4: videos about how the studio works?

1860
01:27:17,240 --> 01:27:17,840
Speaker 5: Da da da?

1861
01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:20,080
Speaker 4: And she was like listen, Like I'm just here. I'm

1862
01:27:20,080 --> 01:27:24,439
Speaker 4: an attractive girl. People intensely follow my content and that's

1863
01:27:24,439 --> 01:27:27,040
Speaker 4: how I became an influencer. So she was super probably

1864
01:27:27,520 --> 01:27:31,960
Speaker 4: studio and I was like wow, Like that's such a

1865
01:27:32,200 --> 01:27:33,519
Speaker 4: dense thing to say.

1866
01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:35,080
Speaker 5: But the problem with.

1867
01:27:35,520 --> 01:27:37,200
Speaker 4: The way that the internet works and how people make

1868
01:27:37,200 --> 01:27:39,799
Speaker 4: money now is like beauty is truly that thing. Lucky

1869
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:42,120
Speaker 4: for us, I went through a very ugly phase and

1870
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 4: that's when horrible started.

1871
01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 7: So I feel like showing videos and I'd be like

1872
01:27:46,960 --> 01:27:51,559
Speaker 7: this was by the number two, I'm same number three

1873
01:27:52,080 --> 01:27:58,799
Speaker 7: I was. You know, no, I was always a beautiful

1874
01:27:58,800 --> 01:28:00,920
Speaker 7: girl and nobody might feel no type of way.

1875
01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:03,439
Speaker 2: But you know, my wigs were stiff, I didn't have

1876
01:28:03,479 --> 01:28:07,240
Speaker 2: no money, nails wasn't done. You know, makeup wasn't that.

1877
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:08,679
Speaker 2: We used to be getting fed up because I would

1878
01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:11,240
Speaker 2: drink myself to a slumber because I was depressed.

1879
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:13,360
Speaker 3: But it was just like I was just being me.

1880
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:16,160
Speaker 2: I was relying on these jokes in this personality and

1881
01:28:16,200 --> 01:28:16,920
Speaker 2: me just being me.

1882
01:28:17,080 --> 01:28:24,799
Speaker 3: I ain't phone. When we was poor, did.

1883
01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:32,919
Speaker 7: Be like you fine, but this about.

1884
01:28:34,920 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 4: And niggas would be on we was broke this TJ

1885
01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:39,880
Speaker 4: Max girl, oh not back to.

1886
01:28:42,120 --> 01:28:42,479
Speaker 3: From now.

1887
01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 4: She was like, girl, I was pulling millionaires when I

1888
01:28:44,320 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 4: was at the motherfucking TX.

1889
01:28:48,320 --> 01:28:54,719
Speaker 3: I want this same same same.

1890
01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:57,280
Speaker 5: Okay, so we're gonna get into our bops.

1891
01:28:57,880 --> 01:28:59,719
Speaker 3: Going this week. What you've been listening to this week.

1892
01:29:00,080 --> 01:29:04,559
Speaker 2: Oh so you don't want to watch You don't gotta

1893
01:29:04,560 --> 01:29:07,120
Speaker 2: watch your coushie first, bring it here sweat.

1894
01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:11,880
Speaker 7: No, we don't, but I will say I am really

1895
01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:14,360
Speaker 7: glad if y'all know anything about me, y'all know, let

1896
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:17,360
Speaker 7: me some HIPPIEI high. And the Fixed before the Six

1897
01:29:17,680 --> 01:29:21,719
Speaker 7: Wayne is back and he is spitting like the Carter Wayne.

1898
01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:23,880
Speaker 3: So okay, what do you think?

1899
01:29:23,920 --> 01:29:26,720
Speaker 7: He is a song called birds I Think on there

1900
01:29:27,520 --> 01:29:30,360
Speaker 7: that I played. He also has to the Bank and

1901
01:29:30,439 --> 01:29:33,360
Speaker 7: No New Bitches. Those are my three favorite records on

1902
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:34,000
Speaker 7: the project.

1903
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:37,559
Speaker 3: So The Fix.

1904
01:29:37,400 --> 01:29:40,160
Speaker 7: Before the Six, The Fix before the Six, that's Wayne

1905
01:29:40,200 --> 01:29:42,040
Speaker 7: and his new project, and I'm glad.

1906
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:44,400
Speaker 2: He's the reason I haven't listened to it because the

1907
01:29:44,439 --> 01:29:46,320
Speaker 2: things I was hearing people say about it, I wasn't

1908
01:29:46,360 --> 01:29:47,879
Speaker 2: like running.

1909
01:29:47,920 --> 01:29:48,639
Speaker 5: So here's the thing.

1910
01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:51,400
Speaker 7: What I what I see that people are responding to

1911
01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 7: the album before this that I was completely into is

1912
01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 7: Dooja Scarlet.

1913
01:29:56,520 --> 01:29:59,160
Speaker 3: I like we were talking about, like, I like ninety

1914
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:00,439
Speaker 3: percent of the Guy project.

1915
01:30:00,439 --> 01:30:02,880
Speaker 7: I may not like one song, and when you go

1916
01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 7: to of course online, they're like demon worshiping. Oh my god,

1917
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:11,679
Speaker 7: this isn't as great as her last project. I love Scarlet,

1918
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:15,400
Speaker 7: so I'm a Doja Cat fanatic, and I love Wayne

1919
01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:19,800
Speaker 7: O'wayne benefit of him boys, so I'm here for both

1920
01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 7: of them. And that's kind of what I'm going back

1921
01:30:21,280 --> 01:30:23,880
Speaker 7: and forth with. But Scarlett and the Fixed before the

1922
01:30:23,920 --> 01:30:25,639
Speaker 7: sixth Okay.

1923
01:30:25,280 --> 01:30:28,960
Speaker 3: We now weezy. I'm not gonna lie. You don't see

1924
01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:30,960
Speaker 3: me music, no more gonna hurt me.

1925
01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:32,719
Speaker 5: Right when you said this, I was like, I gotta

1926
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:33,639
Speaker 5: send like some ship.

1927
01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:36,880
Speaker 1: Because when I tell you, because you.

1928
01:30:43,080 --> 01:30:50,000
Speaker 4: Not like like like you know, hip hop hip hop beza.

1929
01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:50,439
Speaker 1: I was.

1930
01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:57,680
Speaker 3: Five days, three days. It was really close. Okay, I'm

1931
01:30:57,680 --> 01:31:02,640
Speaker 3: gonna se you some ship because I'm like the but

1932
01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 3: I'm saying, when when you're at home getting dressed, you

1933
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:07,439
Speaker 3: know you listening to yo?

1934
01:31:08,040 --> 01:31:10,559
Speaker 1: Might I mean I might listen to money bag Yo,

1935
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 1: I might listen to bad Money.

1936
01:31:12,320 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 4: Okay, if you all want some black ownsoons, there's a

1937
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:15,639
Speaker 4: dude name Channel Today.

1938
01:31:15,960 --> 01:31:16,799
Speaker 3: And a song.

1939
01:31:19,200 --> 01:31:22,160
Speaker 4: He's called top Down and that ships such about my

1940
01:31:22,200 --> 01:31:24,479
Speaker 4: niggas and my bitches brooming with the top.

1941
01:31:24,320 --> 01:31:32,200
Speaker 5: Down boom boom boom, and that's all I do.

1942
01:31:32,320 --> 01:31:35,040
Speaker 4: Like alternative hip hop. I listened to Paris Texas a lot.

1943
01:31:35,640 --> 01:31:37,120
Speaker 4: He got a song called heavy Metal.

1944
01:31:37,160 --> 01:31:41,400
Speaker 5: That's fire. I listen to Q Stave Steve Lacy.

1945
01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:46,280
Speaker 3: That's my bop. This is what my bop of the week. Q.

1946
01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:48,000
Speaker 5: Oh my god, bro.

1947
01:31:48,920 --> 01:31:52,679
Speaker 3: That's my bobs.

1948
01:31:53,240 --> 01:31:56,479
Speaker 4: I just feel like sometimes hip hop we're not recycling,

1949
01:31:56,520 --> 01:32:00,719
Speaker 4: Like these are all like rapping, like we're recycling niggas

1950
01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:02,000
Speaker 4: and that's the fucking problem.

1951
01:32:02,040 --> 01:32:02,880
Speaker 5: We're not tapping in.

1952
01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:05,559
Speaker 4: Like I remember when I loved Sunder and Brent Fayaz

1953
01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:07,160
Speaker 4: and I was so excited when he blew up because

1954
01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:08,559
Speaker 4: I was like, damn, no one's listening to news.

1955
01:32:08,880 --> 01:32:10,840
Speaker 5: So like, I really like finding.

1956
01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:12,960
Speaker 4: Like right in the middle, when I can go to

1957
01:32:13,000 --> 01:32:14,360
Speaker 4: the show and still write these niggas.

1958
01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:15,360
Speaker 5: Shout out to Jordan Ward.

1959
01:32:15,560 --> 01:32:17,519
Speaker 3: He's an R and B saying I love Jordan Ward

1960
01:32:17,720 --> 01:32:18,880
Speaker 3: and hold on. I like that now.

1961
01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 4: I remember I was writing him like he's gonna he

1962
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:24,400
Speaker 4: wants to come on horrible too, but like, yo, he's

1963
01:32:24,439 --> 01:32:27,280
Speaker 4: at this point right now, we're like he's replying to fans.

1964
01:32:27,320 --> 01:32:28,280
Speaker 5: I love finding if he.

1965
01:32:28,320 --> 01:32:30,760
Speaker 7: Were right in the beginning, right in the beginning, I

1966
01:32:30,920 --> 01:32:31,719
Speaker 7: love that.

1967
01:32:31,760 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 4: Well.

1968
01:32:32,040 --> 01:32:33,799
Speaker 2: That was my My bop of the week is today

1969
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:36,559
Speaker 2: by Q's It's real funking.

1970
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:38,720
Speaker 3: I love a focus.

1971
01:32:40,880 --> 01:32:44,120
Speaker 7: To me, it gives me like it gives me vibes

1972
01:32:44,160 --> 01:32:47,879
Speaker 7: of like this is something that like if the times

1973
01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:51,680
Speaker 7: were different, and like social media wasn't a thing, and

1974
01:32:51,800 --> 01:32:54,720
Speaker 7: like pet Girl still in the bathroom getting ready, you know,

1975
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:56,680
Speaker 7: getting our little hair, and.

1976
01:32:56,640 --> 01:32:58,880
Speaker 2: People wasn't being weird. Like that's the vibes it gives me.

1977
01:32:58,920 --> 01:33:02,719
Speaker 2: It's like an updated wunk song, you know what I'm saying. So, yeah,

1978
01:33:02,760 --> 01:33:04,680
Speaker 2: that's my bop of the week today by Q.

1979
01:33:04,880 --> 01:33:07,000
Speaker 3: See. That's what I told you. We are not realized

1980
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:11,960
Speaker 3: that we are. One time she was working out. This

1981
01:33:12,000 --> 01:33:12,599
Speaker 3: is a long time ago.

1982
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:15,800
Speaker 2: You were working out and you were playing body that

1983
01:33:15,960 --> 01:33:17,080
Speaker 2: that luxury you know.

1984
01:33:17,160 --> 01:33:22,000
Speaker 3: My I said that rights, I was.

1985
01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:25,080
Speaker 2: Like, okay me and I love that for y'all. No, seriously,

1986
01:33:25,360 --> 01:33:27,640
Speaker 2: you send me some songs ones. Bro, you sent me

1987
01:33:27,680 --> 01:33:29,400
Speaker 2: this one so I can't thinking the name of it,

1988
01:33:29,840 --> 01:33:31,160
Speaker 2: but I ran that hole in the.

1989
01:33:34,400 --> 01:33:36,680
Speaker 5: It's a love language. Niggas love when you send them

1990
01:33:36,680 --> 01:33:37,800
Speaker 5: to put them on music.

1991
01:33:38,160 --> 01:33:39,920
Speaker 3: They do nigga ladies.

1992
01:33:40,080 --> 01:33:42,040
Speaker 7: That would be the tip for like, what the is

1993
01:33:42,080 --> 01:33:46,880
Speaker 7: this the same type of playlist? Love languages? You go

1994
01:33:46,880 --> 01:33:49,080
Speaker 7: ahead and send before.

1995
01:33:48,840 --> 01:33:49,360
Speaker 3: We move on.

1996
01:33:49,680 --> 01:34:02,599
Speaker 10: Well, said go ahead, get her okay, So I thought

1997
01:34:02,640 --> 01:34:03,439
Speaker 10: we kind of talked.

1998
01:34:03,240 --> 01:34:05,200
Speaker 1: About this a little bit on AMP when we did

1999
01:34:05,320 --> 01:34:08,519
Speaker 1: the show, talked about Did's albums. But remember I didn't

2000
01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:12,439
Speaker 1: play my song did. I really loved the song Space

2001
01:34:12,760 --> 01:34:16,559
Speaker 1: when Didy's album the album by her, I don't listening

2002
01:34:16,560 --> 01:34:18,960
Speaker 1: to y'all. It's so it is a beautiful song if

2003
01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:23,400
Speaker 1: you want to have a baby, notting to baby making

2004
01:34:23,479 --> 01:34:25,280
Speaker 1: song Closer to the Guy.

2005
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:29,800
Speaker 4: Is my favorite record album.

2006
01:34:30,000 --> 01:34:31,400
Speaker 3: Safey Bar was a part of that.

2007
01:34:31,680 --> 01:34:34,400
Speaker 2: Just her Crazy Bar is the one that did the

2008
01:34:34,520 --> 01:34:40,479
Speaker 2: Nipsey Hustle song did which found out brought her to

2009
01:34:40,600 --> 01:34:41,599
Speaker 2: working with Beyonce.

2010
01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:47,360
Speaker 3: Wow. Like but all the we we that's the ultimate goal.

2011
01:34:49,240 --> 01:34:49,720
Speaker 5: Work will be.

2012
01:34:51,400 --> 01:34:57,040
Speaker 4: Podcast department already get We're there, We're there, Charlotte Mane.

2013
01:34:57,040 --> 01:34:57,880
Speaker 5: I just want to make.

2014
01:34:57,800 --> 01:34:59,600
Speaker 3: I like, I like Mary J.

2015
01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:05,479
Speaker 7: I also think it's the records called Nobody, I think

2016
01:35:05,520 --> 01:35:06,880
Speaker 7: by Jasmine Sullivan.

2017
01:35:07,040 --> 01:35:11,320
Speaker 3: Ye like, it's a good album. There's a lot of

2018
01:35:11,320 --> 01:35:11,959
Speaker 3: good songs.

2019
01:35:11,720 --> 01:35:13,640
Speaker 4: That you know who you know A nigga said to

2020
01:35:13,680 --> 01:35:16,000
Speaker 4: me once I was out with him and he was like,

2021
01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:17,679
Speaker 4: you know, I said something.

2022
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:20,240
Speaker 5: I bring this up a lot on Horrible because I've been.

2023
01:35:20,360 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 5: I stole this from him.

2024
01:35:21,520 --> 01:35:23,400
Speaker 4: He told me, when he meets the woman that's for him,

2025
01:35:23,640 --> 01:35:26,240
Speaker 4: he's gonna know because their taste levels match. And he

2026
01:35:26,320 --> 01:35:29,320
Speaker 4: explained it in like this way of maybe she's never

2027
01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:32,599
Speaker 4: been to I don't know Asia, but she knows about

2028
01:35:32,600 --> 01:35:34,559
Speaker 4: a few cool things she's seen on Instagram, like her

2029
01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:37,760
Speaker 4: taste levels there, right, And he said another thing. He said,

2030
01:35:37,760 --> 01:35:39,320
Speaker 4: I just want to start by saying I love Beyonce.

2031
01:35:39,800 --> 01:35:41,840
Speaker 4: When I ask women who their favorite artists are and

2032
01:35:41,840 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 4: they say Beyonce, I feel like it's not enough for me.

2033
01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:47,360
Speaker 4: He's like, I want her to say something more interesting,

2034
01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:49,240
Speaker 4: more like deep.

2035
01:35:49,280 --> 01:35:52,439
Speaker 5: He's like, obviously we all love this bitch. What do

2036
01:35:52,520 --> 01:35:52,960
Speaker 5: you think of that?

2037
01:35:53,800 --> 01:35:55,799
Speaker 1: I think that's a very valid point because.

2038
01:35:55,560 --> 01:35:57,120
Speaker 5: If a niggy like I love jay Z, You're like,

2039
01:35:57,160 --> 01:35:59,160
Speaker 5: I know what, we all love Z.

2040
01:36:00,080 --> 01:36:02,519
Speaker 1: I think Beyonce has a resume as well, so I

2041
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:06,240
Speaker 1: think that's not fair. I think Beyonce has done many tours.

2042
01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:08,840
Speaker 1: It's probably her biggest tour that she just finished, but

2043
01:36:08,880 --> 01:36:12,479
Speaker 1: she's done many tours. She is very talented, she has

2044
01:36:12,520 --> 01:36:15,360
Speaker 1: the range. How many people have y'all seen in concert

2045
01:36:15,720 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 1: that can.

2046
01:36:16,120 --> 01:36:22,360
Speaker 11: Anybody can actually perform and still singing like I'm talking

2047
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:27,679
Speaker 11: about dancing. Didn't have the vocals, not even the fucking

2048
01:36:27,760 --> 01:36:29,599
Speaker 11: vocals and the dancing bro To be honest with you,

2049
01:36:29,680 --> 01:36:32,960
Speaker 11: that wasn't what impressed me show.

2050
01:36:33,280 --> 01:36:35,040
Speaker 5: And everybody was sitting here talking about.

2051
01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:36,840
Speaker 4: Oh, she's okay, I don't really enjoy her musica, da.

2052
01:36:36,840 --> 01:36:39,479
Speaker 3: Da, and yet they're there on Twitter a ticket back.

2053
01:36:39,840 --> 01:36:42,080
Speaker 3: It was blown away, can what's the weird thing?

2054
01:36:42,120 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 2: I was in PERNSI by she was wiping her face

2055
01:36:45,400 --> 01:36:47,479
Speaker 2: and her makeup didn't move, and she was doing like

2056
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 2: this the whole time and her makeup was on.

2057
01:36:50,360 --> 01:36:50,760
Speaker 5: She was.

2058
01:36:54,160 --> 01:36:55,920
Speaker 3: Because she was doing like this the whole time.

2059
01:36:57,520 --> 01:37:00,840
Speaker 1: About nitty real quick, how do y'all feel about the

2060
01:37:00,920 --> 01:37:04,760
Speaker 1: interview that he did do with a breakfast club where

2061
01:37:04,760 --> 01:37:07,240
Speaker 1: he finally said what he does in the studio. He

2062
01:37:07,320 --> 01:37:08,759
Speaker 1: was like, I just feel like I have the sound,

2063
01:37:08,800 --> 01:37:12,479
Speaker 1: I have the ear, I know what good music sounds like.

2064
01:37:12,600 --> 01:37:15,479
Speaker 5: And they played that clip of Keisha, Well, no.

2065
01:37:15,479 --> 01:37:22,480
Speaker 4: I'm just talking about Yeah that's what it doesn't that person, Because.

2066
01:37:24,880 --> 01:37:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, thirty years people have been trying to figure out

2067
01:37:28,080 --> 01:37:30,080
Speaker 1: exactly what did he does because he doesn't make me.

2068
01:37:30,479 --> 01:37:32,400
Speaker 1: I agree, he is not a producer.

2069
01:37:33,120 --> 01:37:33,679
Speaker 3: You know why.

2070
01:37:33,760 --> 01:37:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, he said he has that sound, but bitch,

2071
01:37:35,960 --> 01:37:36,200
Speaker 1: she do.

2072
01:37:36,520 --> 01:37:39,080
Speaker 7: But I'm telling him because this is why, you know

2073
01:37:39,160 --> 01:37:41,719
Speaker 7: how a lot of bullshit gets to our ears, because

2074
01:37:41,720 --> 01:37:44,160
Speaker 7: there was nobody with a good ear in that fucking studio.

2075
01:37:44,800 --> 01:37:46,040
Speaker 3: That's the hardest part.

2076
01:37:46,160 --> 01:37:49,000
Speaker 1: He said, he can't explain it. He just knows what

2077
01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:51,600
Speaker 1: what he wants to hear sounds like. And when he

2078
01:37:51,680 --> 01:37:54,680
Speaker 1: goes into the booth with these artists, he's like, Okay, no,

2079
01:37:54,960 --> 01:37:56,840
Speaker 1: this sounds right, this doesn't sound right.

2080
01:37:56,880 --> 01:37:59,360
Speaker 4: I'm fucking with you. Gotta be a smart bro. I

2081
01:37:59,400 --> 01:38:01,840
Speaker 4: went to but he is, Oh, I mean, I'm not

2082
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:03,920
Speaker 4: saying it, dull. I went to an on a night

2083
01:38:04,680 --> 01:38:07,120
Speaker 4: and Tyler the creators, having a conversation with Babyface.

2084
01:38:07,479 --> 01:38:09,320
Speaker 5: I'm not violating the fucking rules.

2085
01:38:11,280 --> 01:38:13,920
Speaker 4: It was so interesting to me when Babyface was giving

2086
01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:16,479
Speaker 4: him his flowers and then you're giving each other these

2087
01:38:16,479 --> 01:38:20,439
Speaker 4: flowers and he's talking about how different Tyler's music is,

2088
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:23,839
Speaker 4: and Tyler's like, I never love perfection, Like I almost

2089
01:38:23,920 --> 01:38:26,719
Speaker 4: love listening to offbeat shit. Yeah, He's like when something

2090
01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:30,680
Speaker 4: just a little bit off and it's flawed, and then Babyface,

2091
01:38:32,240 --> 01:38:34,439
Speaker 4: I like perfection. They were talking about how one of

2092
01:38:34,479 --> 01:38:37,320
Speaker 4: the most perfect singers of all time was Steve Stevie

2093
01:38:37,360 --> 01:38:41,320
Speaker 4: Wonder and I was like, Damn, I wonder if each

2094
01:38:41,400 --> 01:38:44,759
Speaker 4: person is listening, like do we know what? Are people

2095
01:38:44,800 --> 01:38:46,479
Speaker 4: just listening to what they think will be hot?

2096
01:38:47,200 --> 01:38:50,200
Speaker 5: What'll pop you know, the cue or whatever, or like.

2097
01:38:50,120 --> 01:38:52,599
Speaker 4: When you find that like fine tune thing, like when

2098
01:38:52,600 --> 01:38:55,280
Speaker 4: people really like music, like.

2099
01:38:55,240 --> 01:38:56,080
Speaker 3: It's a pocket.

2100
01:38:56,360 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 2: But she was talking about when that guy said, don't

2101
01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:01,240
Speaker 2: get me wrong, Beyonce is in that pocket. But there's

2102
01:39:01,240 --> 01:39:04,000
Speaker 2: a different like sound that you said, that's why you

2103
01:39:04,040 --> 01:39:06,320
Speaker 2: like to find the artist before it's it's different.

2104
01:39:06,439 --> 01:39:09,080
Speaker 7: You really like music, but it's still all subjective, Like

2105
01:39:09,160 --> 01:39:11,439
Speaker 7: to me, I like to come in with a fucking

2106
01:39:11,479 --> 01:39:14,360
Speaker 7: outline on a podcast. We he likes the free flowing.

2107
01:39:14,800 --> 01:39:17,000
Speaker 7: We know that there might be a mix of that

2108
01:39:17,040 --> 01:39:19,040
Speaker 7: in an episode. We may be more stuck to an

2109
01:39:19,040 --> 01:39:21,639
Speaker 7: outline and we may be more free flow like when

2110
01:39:21,800 --> 01:39:23,760
Speaker 7: you listen to music or any sort of thing.

2111
01:39:23,920 --> 01:39:25,920
Speaker 2: Like But what she's saying as far as like cause

2112
01:39:25,960 --> 01:39:28,400
Speaker 2: you said he said, I like a woman that if

2113
01:39:28,439 --> 01:39:30,679
Speaker 2: I ask her favorite artist, she's gonna say something different.

2114
01:39:30,880 --> 01:39:32,479
Speaker 2: When me and this nigga bond, let me tell you

2115
01:39:32,479 --> 01:39:34,040
Speaker 2: when I knew I fucked with this nigga.

2116
01:39:34,400 --> 01:39:36,479
Speaker 3: It was two moments and they were both behind music.

2117
01:39:36,560 --> 01:39:38,760
Speaker 3: Tell me. I got in the car. We was on

2118
01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:39,120
Speaker 3: the Ober.

2119
01:39:39,120 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 2: This is our first day. I started playing a Louisiana

2120
01:39:42,960 --> 01:39:46,000
Speaker 2: song that people really don't really know, like that unless

2121
01:39:46,040 --> 01:39:48,040
Speaker 2: you grew up in Louisian It's called dumb Dick.

2122
01:39:48,360 --> 01:39:51,280
Speaker 3: He was like, Nigga started rapping the song, and it

2123
01:39:51,320 --> 01:39:52,680
Speaker 3: was like, how the fuck you know this?

2124
01:39:52,880 --> 01:39:54,760
Speaker 2: So then another night I was like, okay, I can

2125
01:39:54,840 --> 01:39:58,120
Speaker 2: rock with him. Like then he starts playing. We start playing,

2126
01:39:58,120 --> 01:40:01,120
Speaker 2: like you know, white music. He started he played this

2127
01:40:01,160 --> 01:40:04,639
Speaker 2: band called Friends further than that I know people don't remember,

2128
01:40:05,040 --> 01:40:07,320
Speaker 2: and he played and I started singing it. He was like,

2129
01:40:07,360 --> 01:40:09,080
Speaker 2: how the fuck you know this song? So we started

2130
01:40:09,080 --> 01:40:11,000
Speaker 2: going back. He started playing all he was like, let

2131
01:40:11,080 --> 01:40:12,640
Speaker 2: me see how deep in your back? And I'm just

2132
01:40:12,680 --> 01:40:16,040
Speaker 2: like naming the song. So we're like, He's like, how

2133
01:40:16,040 --> 01:40:18,000
Speaker 2: do you know he played a song by Jack White.

2134
01:40:18,280 --> 01:40:20,760
Speaker 3: He was like, oh it was we got deep in

2135
01:40:20,840 --> 01:40:23,720
Speaker 3: that but R and B.

2136
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:26,519
Speaker 4: I've been around so many niggas that love when you

2137
01:40:26,560 --> 01:40:28,880
Speaker 4: know some ship from the nineties to me, I love

2138
01:40:29,960 --> 01:40:30,320
Speaker 4: J Cole.

2139
01:40:30,479 --> 01:40:30,880
Speaker 3: That's when.

2140
01:40:32,280 --> 01:40:39,000
Speaker 7: Some old Jake Cole, were you coming with me to dreamt?

2141
01:40:39,880 --> 01:40:44,040
Speaker 1: I love a nigga who knows some old school ass

2142
01:40:44,200 --> 01:40:44,799
Speaker 1: rock music.

2143
01:40:45,200 --> 01:40:49,120
Speaker 4: Honestly, I think that once you see range, it shows

2144
01:40:49,120 --> 01:40:51,360
Speaker 4: you that someone's like willing to have some fuck like this.

2145
01:40:52,120 --> 01:40:54,439
Speaker 4: We were on our way to hip hop club. I

2146
01:40:54,479 --> 01:40:56,840
Speaker 4: was like, bro, and honestly, all niggas love k now

2147
01:40:56,840 --> 01:41:01,040
Speaker 4: I get it. But I started playing some old labouchel.

2148
01:41:02,720 --> 01:41:06,680
Speaker 5: And he's looking at me and at this and we're

2149
01:41:06,720 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 5: in there.

2150
01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:07,880
Speaker 3: I love it.

2151
01:41:08,080 --> 01:41:09,040
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying.

2152
01:41:09,320 --> 01:41:13,760
Speaker 4: Like, if your playlist can go from Boosy the Dolly pardon.

2153
01:41:14,920 --> 01:41:16,960
Speaker 3: Telling you, I swear y'all, my.

2154
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:21,559
Speaker 2: Playlist gets real real, So you that.

2155
01:41:28,680 --> 01:41:31,160
Speaker 1: To get into the next segment, which is for your

2156
01:41:31,160 --> 01:41:34,120
Speaker 1: Heart Out, which is our favorite segment of the show.

2157
01:41:34,600 --> 01:41:36,400
Speaker 1: We love this segment. So y'all know, if y'all have

2158
01:41:36,400 --> 01:41:38,760
Speaker 1: any questions, you'all can always send them in to ask

2159
01:41:38,960 --> 01:41:41,040
Speaker 1: Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

2160
01:41:41,360 --> 01:41:42,519
Speaker 3: That's a s k p O.

2161
01:41:42,680 --> 01:41:45,000
Speaker 1: You are in my n d A s at gmail

2162
01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:48,759
Speaker 1: dot com. Send us your questions Sena Show testimonials. Sometimes

2163
01:41:48,800 --> 01:41:52,000
Speaker 1: we be your life and we want to hear about

2164
01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:54,559
Speaker 1: that too, So we just gonna do one.

2165
01:41:54,600 --> 01:41:57,720
Speaker 3: So go ahead and read the first one, the only one.

2166
01:41:57,800 --> 01:42:00,320
Speaker 1: The first one is like more of a testimony. We'll

2167
01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:04,160
Speaker 1: read the second one the second one, right, Come on, Haley,

2168
01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:08,240
Speaker 1: Haylex Andrea. First, I love what you guys have built

2169
01:42:08,280 --> 01:42:10,600
Speaker 1: so far, and I'm super proud of your growth. You

2170
01:42:10,720 --> 01:42:13,559
Speaker 1: both represent it will So. I'm a twenty three year

2171
01:42:13,600 --> 01:42:16,479
Speaker 1: old lesbian and I've been dating a woman for about

2172
01:42:16,479 --> 01:42:19,559
Speaker 1: four months now, and we've previously dated in the past

2173
01:42:19,600 --> 01:42:22,120
Speaker 1: as well, but we cut things short because we had

2174
01:42:22,120 --> 01:42:25,400
Speaker 1: two different intentions, which lasted for ten months. The first

2175
01:42:25,479 --> 01:42:28,320
Speaker 1: time we went out after reuniting, she told me that

2176
01:42:28,400 --> 01:42:30,720
Speaker 1: her ex had moved in and that she had been

2177
01:42:30,760 --> 01:42:33,800
Speaker 1: helping co parent with their kids, but they didn't view

2178
01:42:33,840 --> 01:42:37,519
Speaker 1: each other in a romantic way. I decided that I

2179
01:42:37,560 --> 01:42:41,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't take the relationship seriously anymore, but I still would

2180
01:42:41,040 --> 01:42:43,320
Speaker 1: come over and chilled with her and the BM and

2181
01:42:43,760 --> 01:42:47,760
Speaker 1: X would be there sometimes. Hold on, sorry, y'all, we'll

2182
01:42:47,800 --> 01:42:49,559
Speaker 1: be there sometimes. And I noticed that they had a

2183
01:42:49,640 --> 01:42:53,599
Speaker 1: very close and touchy friendship, and it wasn't until then

2184
01:42:53,680 --> 01:42:55,960
Speaker 1: that I realized I had already gained feelings, and she

2185
01:42:56,080 --> 01:42:58,920
Speaker 1: convinced me that she would set boundaries and move in

2186
01:42:59,000 --> 01:43:02,080
Speaker 1: with me so that I would be more comfortable from then.

2187
01:43:02,200 --> 01:43:05,320
Speaker 1: We've been building a household with just her and her

2188
01:43:05,360 --> 01:43:09,200
Speaker 1: biological child for months. Recently, we both had tragic close

2189
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Speaker 1: debts in our families. Of course, our excess showed to

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Speaker 1: the funerals, okay whatever. Of course our exit showed up

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01:43:16,160 --> 01:43:19,240
Speaker 1: to the funerals and sent their condolences. And we parted

2192
01:43:19,479 --> 01:43:22,080
Speaker 1: shortly after, and realized that they had the same to

2193
01:43:22,200 --> 01:43:25,360
Speaker 1: she close relationship, and also found out that they had

2194
01:43:25,400 --> 01:43:29,200
Speaker 1: been intimate weeks before we rekindled. I expressed that I

2195
01:43:29,280 --> 01:43:32,799
Speaker 1: wasn't comfortable working with towards I wasn't comfortable working towards

2196
01:43:32,800 --> 01:43:36,719
Speaker 1: our relationship anymore unless she said boundaries, which she agreed

2197
01:43:36,760 --> 01:43:39,000
Speaker 1: to as long as they continue to have an open

2198
01:43:39,040 --> 01:43:41,880
Speaker 1: line of communication for the kids and as long as

2199
01:43:41,960 --> 01:43:44,479
Speaker 1: she could be more active in the kids' life. I

2200
01:43:44,520 --> 01:43:47,639
Speaker 1: feel like I am being manipulated into a situation I'm

2201
01:43:47,640 --> 01:43:51,080
Speaker 1: not comfortable with. Are you guys are are you guys

2202
01:43:51,160 --> 01:43:53,240
Speaker 1: okay with that? And what is your outlook? Are the

2203
01:43:53,320 --> 01:43:55,160
Speaker 1: kids being used as pawns?

2204
01:43:56,320 --> 01:44:02,439
Speaker 3: Yes? Yes, she wanted all kids exactly. That's what it

2205
01:44:02,439 --> 01:44:02,920
Speaker 3: sounds like.

2206
01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:07,280
Speaker 2: And you said you answered your own question you're uncomfortable, leave,

2207
01:44:08,120 --> 01:44:12,800
Speaker 2: stop staying somewhere. It stopped being somewhere where you feel

2208
01:44:13,120 --> 01:44:16,920
Speaker 2: unhappy at are you lucky? We get delusional and we

2209
01:44:17,000 --> 01:44:19,760
Speaker 2: try to lie. We try to lie to ourselves that

2210
01:44:19,840 --> 01:44:22,639
Speaker 2: were happy. If you were really happy, you wouldn't even

2211
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:26,479
Speaker 2: be writing in I always tell people that you already

2212
01:44:26,520 --> 01:44:28,720
Speaker 2: know the answer, you just want us to confirm it

2213
01:44:28,760 --> 01:44:30,000
Speaker 2: for you, or you want us to tell you that

2214
01:44:30,040 --> 01:44:34,840
Speaker 2: you stop gassing people what they want. I think that

2215
01:44:34,880 --> 01:44:37,000
Speaker 2: they just want people like us who are on a

2216
01:44:37,479 --> 01:44:43,479
Speaker 2: bigger platform to confirm for you, or they want us

2217
01:44:43,479 --> 01:44:45,920
Speaker 2: to say, oh girl, no, work it out, work it out,

2218
01:44:46,000 --> 01:44:47,360
Speaker 2: that they really want us to say.

2219
01:44:47,439 --> 01:44:49,240
Speaker 4: Of my favorite things I ever heard with somebody say

2220
01:44:49,280 --> 01:44:51,679
Speaker 4: I know two things for show. I'm gonna die one day,

2221
01:44:51,720 --> 01:44:54,760
Speaker 4: and my gud is never wrong. Hello, And when you're

2222
01:44:54,800 --> 01:44:58,240
Speaker 4: really eating that feeling of like this isn't feeling right,

2223
01:44:58,320 --> 01:44:59,000
Speaker 4: This isn't feeling right.

2224
01:44:59,040 --> 01:45:02,080
Speaker 3: If it's not feeling right, love man genuinely.

2225
01:45:01,680 --> 01:45:04,479
Speaker 4: Speaking, like as someone that's been fortunate enough to be

2226
01:45:04,560 --> 01:45:05,639
Speaker 4: in super love.

2227
01:45:05,479 --> 01:45:08,080
Speaker 3: Before it felt right right.

2228
01:45:08,560 --> 01:45:10,920
Speaker 4: I've loved niggas that didn't feel right, don't get me wrong,

2229
01:45:11,120 --> 01:45:14,200
Speaker 4: but it was when it was in his greatest same. Oh,

2230
01:45:14,240 --> 01:45:16,479
Speaker 4: when I met that person, the signs, all of it,

2231
01:45:16,520 --> 01:45:19,599
Speaker 4: they were green, green, green, green flags. Now I didn't

2232
01:45:19,680 --> 01:45:21,479
Speaker 4: end up being with that person because our lives just

2233
01:45:21,520 --> 01:45:25,759
Speaker 4: didn't match up, but like there were green flags about

2234
01:45:25,880 --> 01:45:28,680
Speaker 4: what the trajectory was, right, the way that they were

2235
01:45:28,720 --> 01:45:34,320
Speaker 4: cheating me. Like, so I think that when you're feeling confused, bitch.

2236
01:45:35,880 --> 01:45:40,400
Speaker 5: I save yourself home. So have you ever felt confused?

2237
01:45:40,400 --> 01:45:43,360
Speaker 7: And it's hard for me because if you didn't grow

2238
01:45:43,400 --> 01:45:45,840
Speaker 7: up as someone who was constantly in relationships or saw

2239
01:45:45,880 --> 01:45:46,599
Speaker 7: real love.

2240
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Speaker 4: Around you and your family and friends and things like that, Like.

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01:45:49,520 --> 01:45:52,599
Speaker 7: No one in me growing up in my family upbringing,

2242
01:45:52,640 --> 01:45:55,000
Speaker 7: no one was married, right, A lot of.

2243
01:45:54,920 --> 01:45:56,360
Speaker 3: People had different relationships.

2244
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:58,080
Speaker 7: I had a lot of different uncles and aunties that

2245
01:45:58,160 --> 01:46:00,400
Speaker 7: wasn't my uncles and aunties. You feel me, and so

2246
01:46:00,439 --> 01:46:03,719
Speaker 7: to me as an adult, like when something feels good,

2247
01:46:04,200 --> 01:46:06,360
Speaker 7: you want to believe it feels good. But not only that,

2248
01:46:06,840 --> 01:46:10,519
Speaker 7: we're told that relationships are hard work. So we're kind

2249
01:46:10,520 --> 01:46:13,479
Speaker 7: of also pushed towards Okay, I gotta make this work.

2250
01:46:13,880 --> 01:46:17,240
Speaker 7: It's not gonna feel perfect, it's not gonna feel always right.

2251
01:46:17,400 --> 01:46:19,280
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to work through this. To get to

2252
01:46:19,439 --> 01:46:20,439
Speaker 4: the result that I want.

2253
01:46:20,520 --> 01:46:21,519
Speaker 3: Well, I'll say this too.

2254
01:46:21,640 --> 01:46:24,320
Speaker 2: If you bring it up to the person and they

2255
01:46:24,720 --> 01:46:27,559
Speaker 2: actively try to change it and you see the effort

2256
01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:30,000
Speaker 2: being made, cool, maybe we can move towards something better.

2257
01:46:30,000 --> 01:46:31,360
Speaker 3: But if you tell somebody.

2258
01:46:31,000 --> 01:46:34,200
Speaker 4: Something once, I'll even maybe give you twice and the

2259
01:46:34,280 --> 01:46:35,439
Speaker 4: same shit is still going on.

2260
01:46:35,479 --> 01:46:37,439
Speaker 3: They showing you that they don't give a fuck and

2261
01:46:37,520 --> 01:46:39,160
Speaker 3: they want to have their cake and eat it too

2262
01:46:41,200 --> 01:46:43,960
Speaker 3: the hard way. So good luck girl to girl.

2263
01:46:44,080 --> 01:46:46,479
Speaker 2: All right, so let people know everything. I mean, everybody

2264
01:46:46,520 --> 01:46:48,280
Speaker 2: already knows because everybody Washington knows.

2265
01:46:48,520 --> 01:46:52,519
Speaker 1: But but I can find question now, Okay, go ahead,

2266
01:46:53,720 --> 01:46:59,200
Speaker 1: because because we just had this conversation, one another show

2267
01:46:59,240 --> 01:47:01,920
Speaker 1: that we just need. But I would now like, do

2268
01:47:02,000 --> 01:47:06,080
Speaker 1: y'all really feel like pussy got writings? Like you could

2269
01:47:06,080 --> 01:47:08,880
Speaker 1: write some pussy like she got a saving, Her pussy

2270
01:47:08,960 --> 01:47:10,559
Speaker 1: is a saving, her pussy is a teen, and her

2271
01:47:10,560 --> 01:47:13,040
Speaker 1: pussy's a four. Her pussy's a one.

2272
01:47:13,040 --> 01:47:17,240
Speaker 7: As as someone who has a strap on who eats pussy.

2273
01:47:17,640 --> 01:47:20,800
Speaker 7: I don't write pussy because I'm not inside of it.

2274
01:47:20,840 --> 01:47:26,080
Speaker 7: I can't feel the different. However, However, sexually I know

2275
01:47:26,120 --> 01:47:30,880
Speaker 7: what my compatibility is differently with women who enjoy like

2276
01:47:31,040 --> 01:47:35,519
Speaker 7: there's a reciprocation energetically, But me as a woman, I

2277
01:47:35,520 --> 01:47:38,519
Speaker 7: don't feel like I can tell the difference whether I'm

2278
01:47:38,520 --> 01:47:40,120
Speaker 7: a strap, whether I eat you, whether I.

2279
01:47:40,120 --> 01:47:41,040
Speaker 3: Sing or you.

2280
01:47:42,479 --> 01:47:46,320
Speaker 4: Say that right, But I definitely think for sure you

2281
01:47:46,360 --> 01:47:50,439
Speaker 4: can rate pussy as a man as a woman too.

2282
01:47:51,040 --> 01:47:53,160
Speaker 4: And I just had this conversation with a friend of

2283
01:47:53,160 --> 01:47:55,400
Speaker 4: mine who had sex with three different women in a week,

2284
01:47:56,000 --> 01:48:00,880
Speaker 4: and I asked them who is the best, said man

2285
01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:04,719
Speaker 4: Tuesday night, I said why, They were like fun as fuck.

2286
01:48:04,840 --> 01:48:07,080
Speaker 5: She was fun as fuck and.

2287
01:48:07,120 --> 01:48:09,639
Speaker 4: Just excited to fuck me and whatever she was doing.

2288
01:48:09,880 --> 01:48:12,280
Speaker 4: And then they mentioned that like another girl that they

2289
01:48:12,360 --> 01:48:15,719
Speaker 4: was fucking with were like going super hard, like during

2290
01:48:15,840 --> 01:48:18,439
Speaker 4: head and like sucking is crazy whatever, and He's like, bro,

2291
01:48:18,960 --> 01:48:19,360
Speaker 4: that's why.

2292
01:48:19,280 --> 01:48:19,679
Speaker 5: I just said.

2293
01:48:19,720 --> 01:48:21,320
Speaker 3: It has more to do with the chemistry and how.

2294
01:48:21,640 --> 01:48:22,639
Speaker 5: But like, but that's why.

2295
01:48:24,080 --> 01:48:26,639
Speaker 4: That's why I think lesbians can also say pussy is great.

2296
01:48:26,680 --> 01:48:30,080
Speaker 4: But also here's what's made good pussy for me one,

2297
01:48:30,240 --> 01:48:36,120
Speaker 4: not just wetness, but like for specifically with like scissoring

2298
01:48:36,200 --> 01:48:38,960
Speaker 4: and eating it, Like there's a definite hygiene that women

2299
01:48:39,040 --> 01:48:43,160
Speaker 4: have to it's an internal organ versus external. I think

2300
01:48:43,320 --> 01:48:47,400
Speaker 4: pussy just being ready like dry is the thing that's

2301
01:48:47,400 --> 01:48:53,560
Speaker 4: turned me off them. Hold I think molly pussy, motherfucker

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01:48:53,600 --> 01:48:54,519
Speaker 4: ecstasy pussy.

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01:48:54,880 --> 01:48:57,000
Speaker 1: That's why I think it's crazy when people love to

2304
01:48:57,000 --> 01:48:59,200
Speaker 1: have drunk sex. I think if you're too drunk, sex

2305
01:48:59,320 --> 01:49:01,840
Speaker 1: is not it's not My pussy is not going to be.

2306
01:49:02,479 --> 01:49:03,679
Speaker 5: Pussy is never good for me.

2307
01:49:04,840 --> 01:49:05,799
Speaker 3: All over my walls.

2308
01:49:06,120 --> 01:49:07,360
Speaker 7: But that's why he had to fuck me in the

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01:49:07,439 --> 01:49:13,680
Speaker 7: apartment the next day, because I knew my pussy was dry.

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01:49:13,760 --> 01:49:17,040
Speaker 1: Like but see, y'all, for me, it's like, I definitely

2311
01:49:17,120 --> 01:49:19,600
Speaker 1: think it's an anatomy thing. And I said that I

2312
01:49:19,600 --> 01:49:23,879
Speaker 1: feel like Peo feel right pussy off of how it feels.

2313
01:49:24,280 --> 01:49:27,120
Speaker 1: It's not about the actual sexual act because like the bit,

2314
01:49:27,280 --> 01:49:29,639
Speaker 1: you can know how to fuck, but if your pussy

2315
01:49:29,720 --> 01:49:31,960
Speaker 1: is dry or if you're ship not tight.

2316
01:49:32,080 --> 01:49:34,200
Speaker 4: And I don't want y'all feeling secure about having dry

2317
01:49:34,200 --> 01:49:36,320
Speaker 4: pussy because I know it's a thing, but it is.

2318
01:49:36,600 --> 01:49:38,519
Speaker 4: It's much like a hard dick if your pussy is.

2319
01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:42,840
Speaker 7: Dry and some other factors that we've been drinking for

2320
01:49:42,880 --> 01:49:45,000
Speaker 7: seven hours straight, that's why it's dry, nigga.

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01:49:45,200 --> 01:49:50,679
Speaker 3: Well, according to what we do all this motherfucking drinking,

2322
01:49:50,760 --> 01:49:52,679
Speaker 3: so she don't.

2323
01:49:52,520 --> 01:49:56,120
Speaker 2: Never really be dry where they can find y'all.

2324
01:49:56,520 --> 01:49:58,760
Speaker 3: I believe you mean it gives me.

2325
01:49:59,080 --> 01:50:04,439
Speaker 5: I have what also here, I feel like you guys,

2326
01:50:05,240 --> 01:50:05,959
Speaker 5: she's amazing.

2327
01:50:08,800 --> 01:50:12,799
Speaker 3: Like I'm not gonna lie. Everything that Drea gets she deserves. Okay,

2328
01:50:12,840 --> 01:50:16,200
Speaker 3: let's ride. Okay, you can listen.

2329
01:50:16,880 --> 01:50:21,839
Speaker 7: You can look to The Horrible Decisions every Monday wherever

2330
01:50:21,840 --> 01:50:24,920
Speaker 7: you listen to your favorite podcast or also YouTube. We

2331
01:50:24,960 --> 01:50:27,080
Speaker 7: have an announcement coming soon where you guys can hear

2332
01:50:27,160 --> 01:50:30,759
Speaker 7: us every month live. Yes, an announcement coming soon. Also,

2333
01:50:30,800 --> 01:50:34,160
Speaker 7: we are on tour depending on when this drops. For

2334
01:50:34,280 --> 01:50:35,800
Speaker 7: the end of the month, I will say we are

2335
01:50:35,800 --> 01:50:39,559
Speaker 7: in London October twenty eighth, We are in Toronto November fifth,

2336
01:50:39,880 --> 01:50:41,839
Speaker 7: and then we are sold out in Philly and Boston,

2337
01:50:41,840 --> 01:50:42,679
Speaker 7: but you can still.

2338
01:50:42,439 --> 01:50:45,040
Speaker 3: Catch us in DC and hopefully New York.

2339
01:50:45,600 --> 01:50:48,559
Speaker 7: I'm here in November, so go to horror Hive dot

2340
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Speaker 7: com and you.

2341
01:50:49,960 --> 01:50:51,120
Speaker 3: Can get your tickets there.

2342
01:50:51,439 --> 01:50:57,920
Speaker 1: Here everything else you got to say, wheezy, weezy, I'm away.

2343
01:50:58,640 --> 01:51:03,599
Speaker 7: And y'all be talking too much over can you talk

2344
01:51:03,600 --> 01:51:05,360
Speaker 7: about sex sales? What's going on with sex sales and

2345
01:51:05,400 --> 01:51:05,880
Speaker 7: all that stuff?

2346
01:51:06,080 --> 01:51:12,120
Speaker 4: Absolutely? Season three drops November twenty ninth is also dark

2347
01:51:12,160 --> 01:51:15,240
Speaker 4: red that they started cooking me where you can see

2348
01:51:15,760 --> 01:51:18,479
Speaker 4: like the unedited ship now my pussy. I begged to

2349
01:51:18,520 --> 01:51:20,080
Speaker 4: not be on there, but you will see some wild

2350
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:21,200
Speaker 4: ship this season.

2351
01:51:21,280 --> 01:51:23,360
Speaker 7: I think she wanted on there because we did a

2352
01:51:23,400 --> 01:51:24,040
Speaker 7: set together.

2353
01:51:24,320 --> 01:51:25,920
Speaker 3: Her whole pussy look was out, and I think she.

2354
01:51:25,880 --> 01:51:29,360
Speaker 4: Did my episode and Mandy is really fun. It's the

2355
01:51:29,400 --> 01:51:31,599
Speaker 4: episode about sex tape. So Sex Sales is a show

2356
01:51:31,600 --> 01:51:34,680
Speaker 4: where basically we discovered the business of sex and I

2357
01:51:34,760 --> 01:51:36,439
Speaker 4: wanted to make a sex tape to like, you know,

2358
01:51:36,439 --> 01:51:37,559
Speaker 4: see if it would blow me up.

2359
01:51:37,520 --> 01:51:39,639
Speaker 5: And Mandy helped me make it. It wasn't.

2360
01:51:39,640 --> 01:51:46,760
Speaker 3: It wasn't fucking yes. On November November.

2361
01:51:46,400 --> 01:51:49,679
Speaker 4: Twenty ninth, you watch a bunch of the old content

2362
01:51:49,720 --> 01:51:50,400
Speaker 4: on fuse.

2363
01:51:50,280 --> 01:51:51,120
Speaker 5: Bits is so crazy.

2364
01:51:51,160 --> 01:51:52,920
Speaker 4: The demographic of this sh it's some old white man.

2365
01:51:52,960 --> 01:51:54,240
Speaker 4: Literally yesterday, I was right in my bike.

2366
01:51:54,240 --> 01:51:54,720
Speaker 3: He's like, I know you.

2367
01:51:54,800 --> 01:51:56,320
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't think so, He's like, you're

2368
01:51:56,360 --> 01:51:57,160
Speaker 5: on television.

2369
01:51:57,320 --> 01:51:59,599
Speaker 4: I said, oh yeah, I loved it. Well this has

2370
01:51:59,680 --> 01:52:02,920
Speaker 4: been yeah, my fat this was so over and out.

2371
01:52:02,960 --> 01:52:05,160
Speaker 4: It just so you know we'll be on time. It's

2372
01:52:05,160 --> 01:52:07,639
Speaker 4: an hour and that it was supposed to be an hour.

2373
01:52:07,720 --> 01:52:08,920
Speaker 4: We're at an hour forty five.

2374
01:52:08,960 --> 01:52:13,400
Speaker 3: Bitch. We like to catch Yeah, I'm going to do.

2375
01:52:13,439 --> 01:52:16,320
Speaker 3: But I love y'all. This was so fun. Like there,

2376
01:52:16,520 --> 01:52:18,479
Speaker 3: we get up more. We will be in Atlanta in

2377
01:52:18,520 --> 01:52:21,519
Speaker 3: two weeks. Okay, so we all dinner the last time.

2378
01:52:21,600 --> 01:52:23,960
Speaker 7: The last time in Atlanta, we went to Blue y'all

2379
01:52:24,000 --> 01:52:27,120
Speaker 7: had me doing the hoox and then my girl hooked

2380
01:52:27,120 --> 01:52:27,519
Speaker 7: you up with.

2381
01:52:27,479 --> 01:52:29,840
Speaker 3: All the Africans. But that was a long.

2382
01:52:29,720 --> 01:52:31,479
Speaker 7: Time ago and I still got them.

2383
01:52:31,479 --> 01:52:35,439
Speaker 3: Still we're gonna be legos in the sail ball you

2384
01:52:35,479 --> 01:52:38,720
Speaker 3: know me are still see what I'm saying. We got

2385
01:52:38,840 --> 01:52:43,040
Speaker 3: to do dinner. Yeah, thank y'all for having y'all. I

2386
01:52:43,040 --> 01:52:46,320
Speaker 3: love y'all. Y'all are so proud of y'all.

2387
01:52:46,360 --> 01:52:50,240
Speaker 7: Seriously, we're just taking pictures of time Square come down

2388
01:52:51,400 --> 01:52:53,200
Speaker 7: your life.

2389
01:52:53,439 --> 01:52:57,360
Speaker 4: Yours y'all were both of our studios. Now, I love it.

2390
01:52:59,040 --> 01:53:00,960
Speaker 4: Next week, by y'all.

2391
01:53:03,240 --> 01:53:04,480
Speaker 3: Gonna be here for another.

2392
01:53:06,160 --> 01:53:40,559
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