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Speaker 1: My partner is furious that I ruined his image to

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe you shouldn't have done that.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you ruined your own image. My partner and

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Speaker 1: I have been together for over four years, and I

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Speaker 1: recently gave birth to our daughter. We had kept the

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Speaker 1: due to worries about complications as I faced a high

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Speaker 1: risk pregnancy. By the way, this comes from professional essay

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Speaker 1: sixty ten on the Best of Redditor Updates subverreed it.

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Speaker 1: So we told our families after she was born. While

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Speaker 1: my family was ecstatic, his was questioning if we hit

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Speaker 1: it for ulterior reasons. They've always heavily disliked me and

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Speaker 1: believe I'm just with their son for money.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, shoot, unpleasant, Okay, I can't.

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Speaker 2: I'll do the whole song.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday we took her to meet her grandparents from his side,

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Speaker 1: and after some polite conversation, they dropped the bomb that

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Speaker 1: they would be doing a paternity test that he agreed.

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Speaker 2: To look and it's high risk pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: It's like I've I've had people who have like you know,

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Speaker 2: It's hard.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you just got to keep stuff close to the

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Speaker 1: But the fact that he agreed to it, but maybe

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Speaker 1: that's for medical reasons, Yeah, but exactly saying the DNA

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Speaker 1: test is for medical reasons. Yes, no, no, but maybe

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Speaker 1: y because I'm talking.

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Speaker 3: About different things.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, To not make myself look suspicious, I agreed

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Speaker 1: to it, but afterward made it clear to my partner

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Speaker 1: that I felt incredibly disrespected. Quan argument where he told

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Speaker 1: and that the test was requested for by them to

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Speaker 2: Who cares if they're uncertain, it's not.

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Speaker 1: A big deal if the kids actually mind?

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Speaker 3: What is this guy a cop? Where's the baby cop?

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Speaker 1: Baby cop?

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Speaker 4: If you've got nothing to hide, then why can't I

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Speaker 4: search or attire everything that you own?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What about these? Did you even read her her rights?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Couple fast forward Today, I was having lunch with my

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Speaker 1: mother and told her about the incident, which left her

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Speaker 1: pie sed off and called my partner a couple couple

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Speaker 1: of names for insinuating I could have cheated my mother

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Speaker 1: for disrespecting me in such a way when the child

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is that's crazy because it's like you could

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Speaker 3: why don't we get a paternity test to rub it

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Speaker 3: in their dumb faces? Yeah, don't you.

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Speaker 1: Completely Yeah, my parents are being crazy.

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Speaker 3: Like we've all had one of those moments where you

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Speaker 1: But instead he kind of doubled down. He's like, you've

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Speaker 4: Maybe they were right, after all, you're acting like this

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Speaker 1: This child may look exactly like me, but you never know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like if this person tries to stand up,

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Speaker 3: Ah, it's hot.

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Speaker 5: Over there, dude, I'm feeling it.

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Speaker 2: Housa ouch.

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Speaker 1: We had another argument about it, and he screamed, saying

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Speaker 3: What do you mean ruined his image by telling them alrighty,

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Speaker 3: it seems like you ruined her image to your parents. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and you made her you made them think that she's

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Speaker 3: saying that it's an unreasonable kind of ridiculous thing for

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Speaker 1: You can't ruin someone's image if they're you know, they've

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Speaker 3: It's like you did it by being like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: She she's just the journalist in this situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're the story, You're the catalyst.

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Speaker 1: Edit. Some of you are concerned about the hiding my

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Speaker 1: I faced horrible anxiety due to constant bleeds throughout my pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: Which made me fear the worst. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and to be scared.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to come out of that, like to come out

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, also they said university, like how they I

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Speaker 3: don't know the age? Did we get an age for

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Speaker 1: Twenty one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Children, they're also a little they're a little young. Yea,

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Speaker 3: so maybe you know, just this could be a foolish

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's listening to his parents, who are like, she

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Speaker 3: You have to get it's a test.

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Speaker 1: She's like, she's like, you're right.

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Speaker 2: That's the only way. Clearly, I have to listen.

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Speaker 3: I live with them. They're like, we're paying your school.

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Speaker 2: You have to get the fraternity test.

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Speaker 1: But there are some comments and an update. Sorry earthquake.

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Speaker 3: Riley.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you said that you disrespect You said you never

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Speaker 1: Danny Belle says, he didn't care how she looked to

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Speaker 1: Personally, someone asking this of my daughter would find their

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Speaker 1: Engineered says, not the a hole. He didn't care about

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Speaker 1: how you felt when he asked you for the paternity test,

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Speaker 1: The road goes both ways, and there is an update.

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Speaker 1: Two way street, two way street. But these folks, you're young,

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Speaker 1: Like it's definitely like a ah, why did you do this?

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Speaker 2: It's like, don't let the test. Like, I mean, well,

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Speaker 1: It really just depends on how the I mean, I

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's the parent's influence too.

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Speaker 3: It's like, you're right, it is messed up, but like

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Speaker 3: that was clearly I mean.

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Speaker 2: They had the whole kid to get.

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Speaker 3: You think he would have brought this up if he

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Speaker 1: Definitely the parents. But I think that is kind of

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Speaker 1: two weeks later at it before any more comments are

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Speaker 3: From our child.

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Speaker 1: This was due to how horrific she treated us both

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Speaker 3: This is what he told me. At least you.

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Speaker 2: Hate to see it.

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Speaker 4: Helicopter Chinook, the chinook with really big guns on it.

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Speaker 1: That's knowing this, I'm obviously wary of his mother around

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Speaker 3: So when you get that deep into a relationship like that,

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Speaker 1: When I was a child. I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: Opie is saying. She's like, I saw how he turned out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but there is an update. So two days ago, my

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Speaker 1: of course showed my partner to be the.

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Speaker 2: Father ding dong.

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Speaker 3: They immediately called.

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Speaker 1: Him super ecstatic and ready to take their place in

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Speaker 1: the life of my daughter. No, No, that's not how

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Speaker 2: Well, who's the suspect here? Where do they have like

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Speaker 2: a list of people that they were thinking?

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Speaker 3: They're like, oh, we know she's come out of nowhere.

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Speaker 3: That's what it seems like.

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Speaker 1: My partner was also incredibly happy as well, since we

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Speaker 1: of my daughter being his four reference. Since he's studying

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Speaker 2: And where France seen France France in your pants?

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Speaker 3: Antony says, Now, I feel bad for him. He's super

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Speaker 1: Infidelitious, infidelitus a new word unlocked, No freaking way, whoa qualified?

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Speaker 2: That's not true.

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Speaker 1: There is a difference in like her, she doesn't have

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Speaker 3: But she can keep them from your family, speaking in

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Speaker 2: Going away from the child. They could theoretically maybe abuse

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Speaker 3: And now come on, you know double and back.

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Speaker 2: Now, Oh, now that we know, it's like, come on, too.

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Speaker 1: Little, too late. I disagreed, though, advising him that if

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Speaker 1: I don't think my position on the matter is wrong,

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Speaker 3: It's a lean breakup leading into the breakup.

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Speaker 3: Why don't shake the baby?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I think if if she does end up,

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Speaker 1: Guess if he gets custody then you know, but he

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Speaker 2: Right, She's still going to school.

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Speaker 1: There and he's a dependent. But there are more comments

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Speaker 1: In an update, this new word says Notice he says

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Speaker 1: his family not his rights. Get a family lawyer, which

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Speaker 1: is what you said. Knitted Jedi says, yep, Oh, he

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Speaker 3: Don't you just get a fake paternity test that actually

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Speaker 1: Not twisted, just switched around switch true.

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Speaker 3: Oh we're right.

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Speaker 1: You guys were right. You shouldn't have access to this child.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't planning to update, but upon seeing all the requests,

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Speaker 2: Dude, no wonder they wanted the paternity tests.

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Speaker 1: The projection once again, we have a freaking projector in

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Speaker 5: Wow, dude, thanks for this. It's like a cherry on

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Speaker 1: He's like, yo, we have to get a paternity test

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Speaker 3: Imagine he actually wants to pre test because he's also

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Speaker 3: so dumby understand works. That must be how it works.

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Speaker 2: She's actually pregnant with That's why he's going to school. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, boy, I'm a baby ologist. According does that, it's

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Speaker 1: According to him, it was all emotional and nothing physical.

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Speaker 1: He got caught after deciding last second to meet up

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Speaker 1: Since then, we obviously broke up and I moved down

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Speaker 1: Soon enough, he also moved down to his mother's house

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Speaker 3: He needs to go back to school. This guy flunked

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Speaker 3: out of Babyology, Like, come on, you're the only guy

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Speaker 3: in the class and you're gonna flunk out. What are

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Speaker 1: This is your you made that major? He just it's

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Speaker 2: With the guys I got it hit me with one detail.

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Speaker 3: Augum, well it's about that.

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Speaker 1: So all these kids don't get into any of the

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Speaker 1: I want to say something like that, you're right, actually yeah,

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Speaker 2: I almost said fired up, but that's definitely not the

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Speaker 1: I think Blake Lively is in it, except I was right,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that movie.

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Speaker 1: But he he made Babyology Babyology accepted, university granted. Up

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Speaker 1: If he saw her, it was his choice. And I

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Speaker 1: After going to court. Not only does he have to

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Speaker 3: He can't support himself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and also, the baby is breastfeeding.

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Speaker 3: You don't. You can't do that, have the breast. You

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Speaker 2: Go back to school, hot take.

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Speaker 5: Men can do that. Breastfeed.

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Speaker 4: Steven, No, you can practice. If d Code and I

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Speaker 5: We could do it.

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Speaker 4: I'm we could lactate our own things. Do this have

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Speaker 3: Hello, FBI, Department of Homeland Security, anyone.

447
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Speaker 5: Is this true? You're just scared of the truth.

448
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 1: No, it's like, yeah, I was gonna say it's it's

449
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 1: in some cases.

450
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna take work.

451
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 2: No, it's not all that.

452
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 3: Not everything's peach cobbler and apple pie ice cream all

453
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Speaker 3: the time. It's like sometimes he got to work for

454
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Speaker 3: that milk cases.

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Speaker 1: And also I think if you had to wait three months,

456
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Speaker 1: it's just kind of that's a long time.

457
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Speaker 3: Wow. Wow, well some people, baby, baby's a little hungry

458
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Speaker 3: after three months, baby's hungry saving money after three months?

459
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Speaker 1: Dude, After going to court, not only does he have

460
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Speaker 1: to pay me quite a half to eat some for

461
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Speaker 1: child support, but he wasn't even.

462
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Speaker 3: Awarded partial custody.

463
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Speaker 1: The court discovered that on top of not having a

464
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Speaker 1: stable job, he also doesn't have a stable living situation

465
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Speaker 1: after his mother kicked him onto the streets, probably because

466
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Speaker 1: he's not going to school. Yeah, the mother dearest that

467
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Speaker 1: he was at beck and call for him afore left

468
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Speaker 1: him homeless and disowned him after she discovered he was

469
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Speaker 1: kicked out of the university. I mean, yeah, his parents

470
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Speaker 1: still suck, but he can suck and his parents can

471
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Speaker 1: also suck.

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Speaker 3: Two things can exist at once.

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Speaker 1: For as much as I want to say it's karma,

474
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Speaker 1: I don't believe anyone deserves to be in a situation

475
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Speaker 1: like that. This was all back in June. Now he

476
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Speaker 1: and I are doing better. He moved into a studio

477
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Speaker 1: and we agreed he could have her every other week

478
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Speaker 1: plus on his off days from work.

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Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 1: Admittedly, it's been hard to not break down whenever he's

481
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Speaker 1: around me. I still feel a lot of pain from

482
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Speaker 1: what I discovered. I endured so much just for him

483
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Speaker 1: to find solace with other women. But he and I

484
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Speaker 1: have moved past it for the most part and are

485
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Speaker 1: co parenting without problems.

486
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Speaker 3: Thankfully.

487
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Speaker 1: I want to say I've come out stronger. Our daughter

488
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Speaker 1: has become my main focus, and I've even advanced in

489
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Speaker 1: my career to a place where I can live rather comfortably.

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Speaker 1: It's not the happy ending I wish I could have gotten,

491
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Speaker 1: if I'm honest, but I think, given everything, it's the

492
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Speaker 1: best one. And there are some more comments to finish

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Speaker 1: this story.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't even sound like it's over to me.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, you know, you've got a whole lot

496
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Speaker 3: ahead of you, and it's probably not being married to

497
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Speaker 3: that guy, which is okay, that's your old life, you know,

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Speaker 3: and if you guys can co parent.

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Speaker 2: Like I think that's the only thing that's best for

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Speaker 2: the kid.

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Speaker 3: I think is now that got to be your focus,

502
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Speaker 3: and I think that focus is correct on co parenting.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: Concur i concur. I mean I think that she's she's

505
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Speaker 1: doing better in her career. The ex boyfriend is out

506
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Speaker 1: of his kind of crappy situation with.

507
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Speaker 3: His parents and realized, oh, maybe my parents do suck

508
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Speaker 3: after they kicked me out onto the street.

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Speaker 2: Dang I didn't.

510
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Speaker 3: I just I couldn't put my finger on it before.

511
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Speaker 1: But now I think there's something up with them.

512
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Speaker 5: I saw a video, a TikTok video of this woman.

513
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Speaker 5: She had a plant.

514
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 4: It had like the elephant ear one and she cut

515
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Speaker 4: it and she said, I think this will go back,

516
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 4: and then after some time it grew back even better,

517
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Speaker 4: and it was like talking about how it's okay to

518
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Speaker 4: restart because this plant.

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Speaker 1: Hell, sometimes you gotta clip your plants leaves to make

520
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Speaker 1: them healthier.

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Speaker 3: But that is.

522
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Speaker 1: There are some comments before we finished the story off.

523
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Speaker 1: Fuzzy Medicine says, I'm concerned that you're setting him up to.

524
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Speaker 3: Get Riley is so chivalrous.

525
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 2: He's willing to breastfeed for his woman.

526
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Speaker 3: What a man.

527
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Riley, prove it.

528
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Speaker 5: Give me a baby, prove it. Where's the baby?

529
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Speaker 2: Baby?

530
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Speaker 3: Who's got a spare a baby, who's.

531
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Speaker 1: Got a baby on him? Do we have any PA?

532
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 4: I know, I know there's one chat because all I see,

533
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 4: Oh I'm in labor.

534
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Speaker 5: I know there's some Okay, storytimee baby.

535
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Speaker 3: We have a po box. You can ship your baby.

536
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Speaker 5: Yep, we'll all feed them.

537
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 3: Don't do that. Disclaimer, do not send your baby in

538
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 3: the public mail. You send them through you Joe ps.

539
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: You send them through a private service. Yeah, you don't.

540
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 3: Don't rely on the federal government to ship your baby.

541
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Speaker 5: He put some bubble wrap around it over here.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Fuzzy Medicine says, I'm concerned that you're setting them up

544
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: to get fifty percent custody at his convenience, and it

545
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: will lower your child support payments if the court makes

546
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Speaker 1: the arrangement official. It might be wise to consult an

547
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Speaker 1: attorney before giving up more custody than you want to

548
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Speaker 1: permanently establish. Also, it seems like you are bending over

549
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Speaker 1: backward to conform to his schedule. It really should be

550
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Speaker 1: the other way around.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: And then another comment basically talking about the custody agreement.

553
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Speaker 1: I do think it's smart to kind of again iron

554
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: out those custody agreements and make sure that everyone's got

555
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Speaker 1: like a fair share.

556
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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, that's I didn't really consider that, yeah when

557
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Speaker 3: I was. But however, it just goes to the kid,

558
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Speaker 3: does the kid, if the kid likes yeah, the dad,

559
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Speaker 3: that's I don't think it matters. I think it should

560
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Speaker 3: be like a fifty to fifty split.

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Speaker 1: I agree. I think that is long. I think smart

562
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: to go through like a like a you know, like

563
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: a court system. However, I think that what's best for

564
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: the kid should be trying to get them back to,

565
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 1: you know, having both parents in their life, if both

566
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Speaker 1: parents are going to be safe, you know, responsible parents

567
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Speaker 1: and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think there's a situation where they

569
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Speaker 3: can both thrive while being in the child's life. I uh, Stella,

570
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Speaker 3: Stella is so enthusiastic.

571
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Speaker 2: We love to see it.

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Speaker 3: Stella, there's so many.

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Speaker 1: Angela Gella Connolly, Oh, Jella Gella.

574
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Speaker 2: Or j Yella Angela and Angela Gela.

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Speaker 1: Well, I would assume if it was Angela, it would

576
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Speaker 1: be Jella Gela Yella. Anyway, Connolly, thank you, says you

577
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Speaker 1: guys need to get Riley a breast pump to bring

578
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Speaker 1: his milk in. By the way, it hurts. Wow, That's

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Speaker 1: what I've heard, and they play no game. Thank you

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Speaker 1: Melissa for the five bucks. Happy Tuesday. I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: My son said he's care he said, careful. The pigeons

582
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Speaker 1: in the back. Don't eat your worm. Sophia, You're so right.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for looking out for me. I appreciate your son.

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Speaker 1: What else have.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the five gifted memberships Giants Milk, thank

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Speaker 1: for the being a member for.

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Speaker 5: I used to have.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to do the impression now because it's

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Speaker 3: not going to be that good, but I'll work on

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Speaker 3: it and i'll do it a different time and come on,

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Speaker 3: that's like my favorite character from Game of Thrones.

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Speaker 1: Here's to seven more months. This is the one place

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Speaker 4: Hope.

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Speaker 1: John is a I haven't seen him for a bit.

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Speaker 1: He's doing so well. John's just downstairs away.

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Speaker 3: He's Yeah, He's he's here, He's he's John.

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Speaker 1: Hey, John, you know Fluffy Saffie. Thank you for being

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Speaker 1: Artemis fans, thank you for the five bucks. Sorry, I

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Speaker 1: to say thank you for the membership gift. Having a

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Speaker 3: That's milkless breast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't mis.

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Speaker 3: No, that's incorrect.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for.

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Speaker 3: Anyone who's here.

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Speaker 1: being a member for four months. Yeah, four months, Hey

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Speaker 1: v four Vanni, thank you for the one gifted membership

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah it is.

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Speaker 2: Is that Croatian?

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Speaker 1: Maybe remember when Riley used to be so calm and demure.

632
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: Missed those times he was calm and demure.

633
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Speaker 2: I love the word.

634
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Speaker 3: You have to you have to go way back for

635
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Speaker 3: the for those Maybe it was just shy.

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Speaker 5: Was a little shot camera.

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00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not shy about.

638
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 2: What did a creature just crash land into this room?

639
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 3: You know, I can't take over.

640
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: I did just finish those great I felt like I

641
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: was gonna be like taking care of today. I felt

642
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 1: like I was being honored. And the second the stream starts,

643
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Speaker 1: no no, no, five minutes after it is shot after shot,

644
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm down. I'm taking strays. I'm probably gonna die by

645
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Speaker 1: the end of this.

646
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 3: Well, you got your loyal subjects right behind you, your

647
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 3: left shoulder than you. Hey, yeah, we got we got Uhmi,

648
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Speaker 3: you got wormy Wormo. We're Mormo, We're mingus, We're Mongish.

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Speaker 1: Baby do Dudius. Thank you for those twenty five books.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for always making laugh happy Tuesday.

651
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Speaker 3: Worms. Yes, worm, worm, you worm.

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Speaker 1: Let's read this story though, dirt, dirt, my partner.

653
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Speaker 4: Is we already read that, We already read that, we

654
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Speaker 4: already read that wounds over you, we already.

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Speaker 3: Read, we already read that. I'm gonna take this off

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Speaker 3: and screams, boy, I'm gonna do it again. Oh terrifying.

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Speaker 1: Still, I don't watch. My boyfriend cheated on me and

658
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Speaker 1: I revealed it twenty years later. Hey, it's got a

659
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Speaker 1: hold on to that info. The play drop it when.

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Speaker 3: It's the long con for context.

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Speaker 1: We dated twenty years ago. It was twenty one. I

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Speaker 1: was twenty one when we broke up and he was

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Speaker 1: twenty six. We dated for two years. I was very

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Speaker 1: close to his family during this time, but after the

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Speaker 1: very sudden breakup left without an explanation. This was before

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Speaker 1: the era of social media. Well, I think I might

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Speaker 1: have had a Nokia I occasionally used when I remember

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Speaker 1: to buy.

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Speaker 3: Minutes shout out shu.

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Speaker 1: So we caught so we couldn't instantly get in touch

671
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: with people, nor did we know what theF was going

672
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: on in everyone's lives. By the way, this comes from

673
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: crazy Mastive on the r slash. Okay, storytime suffered it

674
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: so at the wedding, I see him and his entire family.

675
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that my friend was marrying into the

676
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: family different names and really didn't talk to the groom much.

677
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: It was a shock to everyone. Oh way, way, who

678
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: hold on happen? Whose wedding?

679
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 5: What's wed?

680
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 3: I think it's I think it's uh because we already

681
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 3: she left him because she cheated. He cheated and then, okay,

682
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 3: you know that. I think she left his friend's wedding.

683
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 3: I think he's going to be involved. I think I

684
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 3: think she's about to drop the Yeah, you know, I

685
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 3: knew him for a long time, especially back when he

686
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 3: cheated on me.

687
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: It was a shock to everyone. I expected awkwardness at

688
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: the reception, but his family was being cool to me,

689
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: which was strange.

690
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 3: But whatever he was like, they weren't rude. The heck,

691
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 3: I'm not want to.

692
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: Force myself onto someone if I'm not wanted important for later. Eventually, Polly,

693
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: the friend I believe, is trashed and pulls me aside.

694
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: She wants to thank me for leaving Buzz alone after

695
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: our breakup. I'm thrown by the strange comment, but drug

696
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: people say strange things. I say, yeah, no problem. She

697
00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: continues to say, he was heartbroken when you cheat, but

698
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: I convinced him you were just an ore and to

699
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: get over you.

700
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sorry.

701
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: Is this her friend?

702
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 3: Buzz? Why don't you go ahead and go back to

703
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 3: the moon, buddy? Is that her?

704
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 5: Okay?

705
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: End? Sorry?

706
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 3: Who's Polly? And what if she's Polly Pocket? She's pocket

707
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 3: a pockets, Polly Pocket. We don't like Polly.

708
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: I laughed and said, what are you talking about? He

709
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: cheated on me because I chose studying for a final

710
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: instead of going out and getting drunk.

711
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 5: Wow, barfin.

712
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: I left the reception without another word to anyone on

713
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: his side of the family. I went over and kissed

714
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: my friend goodbye, sighting a migraine, which I'm prone to get.

715
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: No drama, okay, I'm sorry, there's a there's There's not

716
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: a lot of clarification here. Polly is someone else maybe,

717
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: and the friend is still cool with op because that's

718
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: what it seems like. It says I went over and

719
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:07,719
Speaker 1: kissed my friend goodbye.

720
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 3: Well, no, because Polly's Polly's her ex. Okay, so maybe

721
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 3: the ex isn't in the wedding, But the ex was

722
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 3: at the wedding with Polly, who he's dating now, and

723
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 3: Polly dropped the bomb.

724
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: On her that he's been saying that the reason they

725
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 2: broke up is because she cheated, not him.

726
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 3: Okay, which is the biggest scumbag lie you could tell.

727
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 1: I understand now, everyone, I get it. So Op is

728
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: at this wedding with that like for a friend, and

729
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: this friend happens to be marrying into the family of

730
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: Op's ex and is with his current wife. That's where

731
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: we're at. That's what we're at.

732
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 3: And she was like, that's what I'm just so glad

733
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 3: that you just left him and cheated on him. Olli

734
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: is the cloty little girl that you are.

735
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,959
Speaker 1: She's a nast little current wife. Opie's friend is chill.

736
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 3: Chill.

737
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 5: I went to the original story. I think there was

738
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 5: something left out.

739
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there was. I don't know what happened there,

740
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: but uh, you put it together, so we got we

741
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: got Op used to date x X has a current wife,

742
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: Polly Pollie's current wife, and they both are connected through this. Uh,

743
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: Opie's friend. That's where we're at.

744
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 3: If I had a magnifying glass, I would bust it.

745
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: Out right now, boy, oh boy, Okay. I left the

746
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: reception without another word to anyone on his side of

747
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 1: the family. I went over and kissed my friend goodbye,

748
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: sighting a migraine which I am prone to get. No

749
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: drama though a Through a strange twist of fate, I

750
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: was at a wedding this weekend.

751
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 3: Oh, so that's the the pre Okay, okay.

752
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: Wait, editor, we go so sorry? Can we put this

753
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: at the beginning of the story. Ye that I found

754
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: that Okay, through a strange twist of fate. I was

755
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: at a wedding this weekend with my ex boyfriend Buzz

756
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: for now and his wife Polly for now. Okay, now

757
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: we're going back to the story. That's the dog.

758
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 2: There we go.

759
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: Now, family members who got my cell number from our

760
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: mutual friend or found me on Facebook are messaging me

761
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: like crazy. Rewind twenty years ago when we learned about

762
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: the cheating the very next day from his BFF, who

763
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: hated me. I called Buzz for the truth and he said,

764
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm coming home now, we'll talk in a few don't

765
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: do anything.

766
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: Stupid, m Thanks Buzz.

767
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: That told me all I needed to know. So I

768
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: got my few items. I kept at his place and

769
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: left before he got there. Like I said earlier, I'm

770
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: not going to force myself and if I'm not wanted,

771
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: Buzz didn't want me otherwise, didn't want me otherwise he

772
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't have done that, So why bother with waiting for

773
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: the effing excuses? For months, I refused to answer calls.

774
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: When he came to my dorm, he was immediately denied

775
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: a mission and esquirted out as I had put him

776
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: on a no visitor list. He wasn't a student apparently.

777
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: For the last twenty years, his family that loved me

778
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,239
Speaker 1: was told that I was cheating, that I was a

779
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: cheating ar and as BFF, who masterminded the whole cheating setup,

780
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: seconded Buzz Buzz's story.

781
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, Woody, what are you doing?

782
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: But would he Now everyone is pissed at him for

783
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: hurting me and lying to them for twenty years. They're

784
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: trying to find the full story. But I just kept saying,

785
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,919
Speaker 1: it's twenty years ago. It doesn't matter anymore. I'm good

786
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: and Buzz is good.

787
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,959
Speaker 3: That's a perfect Ada's pretty healthy at ancient history.

788
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, I literally don't care.

789
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, now, you guys clearly all see that guy was crazy.

790
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know.

791
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't even call, Like, I don't even talk.

792
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 3: To you guys anymore. Why do rehash it? It's over.

793
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 1: Some family have apologized for icing me out at the

794
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: wedding and spreading the rumors Polly thought. Polly, though, is

795
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: freaking out. She's convinced that because he cheated on me,

796
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 1: he'll cheat on her and keeps calling me for more info.

797
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,839
Speaker 1: Our last conversation, I said that I was blocking her

798
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: and have She tried to call me from an app

799
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 1: though a few times, but I'm not I'm just not

800
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: picking up numbers. I don't know at this point, and

801
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: there is an edit.

802
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: What is this?

803
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 3: What is this?

804
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,280
Speaker 2: Spin? Spinning of the wheel?

805
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: So we have once we're going to do it after

806
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: I think this story.

807
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're all finished the story.

808
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: But basically, while we're at a pause, when we reach

809
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: a certain like count, we spin the wheel and there's

810
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: there's fun little activities on the wheel. Oh fun activity, fun,

811
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:27,919
Speaker 1: little fun little things.

812
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: I love activity.

813
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: I love octobreters.

814
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 3: That's that's not one of them. Hot dog, hot dog.

815
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: But there is an edit. But before we get into it,

816
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: I think that Op's really taken this well. And I

817
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: would be pretty annoyed if I had kind of forgotten

818
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: about this family and you see them and you're like,

819
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? I never cheated, and then

820
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: you're launched into this whole drama thing. Yeah, but you're

821
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: not even a part, like twenty years old. Yeah, twenty

822
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: years have gone by.

823
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 3: It's like, I think at that point, there's no sense

824
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 3: in trying to.

825
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,760
Speaker 2: Be like, wait, no, I'm not that person.

826
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 3: It's like, all right, that's ridiculous, and you just have

827
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 3: to be at peace knowing like that that was not

828
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 3: the truth and just know like, wow, what a great

829
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 3: thing that you didn't spend any more time, thank God

830
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: with that jerk off of a person.

831
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and trying to defend yourself there's.

832
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 3: Nope, okay, I was just shocked that you said whoa.

833
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, you know you've been saying some shocking stuff today, right.

834
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that Angel, it's almost Angel Riley our.

835
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 3: Oh not quite yet.

836
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 2: Oh we're getting there.

837
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: At it, attempting to recall a conversation I had over

838
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: twenty years ago while I was shaking and about to vomit,

839
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: all the while attempting to sound confident. It was like me, Buzz,

840
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: just tell me the truth. Did you treat on me

841
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: when you went out with bff? Buzz sigh, And we

842
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 1: all know what that sign is. It's resignation and a

843
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: last ditch attempt to get your thoughts in order. It

844
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: was the side that told me everything I needed to know, Opie.

845
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: I'm going to leave work now and we'll talk when

846
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: I get home. Don't do anything stupid. I'll be right there.

847
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 3: I love you. Yeah, resign side. Ooh. Shout out to

848
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 3: Kimberly Holly for saying I know, I think you meant

849
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,760
Speaker 3: to say, Polly, Polly is out of pocket.

850
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: Polly is out of pocket for show.

851
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 3: We like a good word association.

852
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 2: We like it, we like it, we do.

853
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: It is possible that Polly is who cheated on me

854
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: with I don't know. I wish them the best, though,

855
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: and they've been together for at least eighteen years or

856
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: was it twenty years. Buzz was not under the impression

857
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: I ever cheated. I had imagined. I had imagined that

858
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: Buzz had to tell his family something since I disappeared

859
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 1: so suddenly. I think he just tried to save face

860
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: and his BFF was there to back up the line,

861
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: I do not know the full story of the conversation

862
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: or who it was told to. I have no idea

863
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 1: what happened to BFF again over twenty years ago. I

864
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: am more WTF than I am upset. I'm sad that

865
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: his father, who I was close to, died believing that

866
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: I did that. But other than that, I don't really care.

867
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah that does that does really stink?

868
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, oh, this person thought, yeah, something of

869
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: me that I read like a person I respected.

870
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 2: It's final.

871
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 3: It's final. You can't really come back from that one.

872
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: And there is another two edits to finish this story

873
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: off edit to Okay, you guys are putting forth some

874
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 1: excellent questions that I'm not sure about. I unblocked Polly

875
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,720
Speaker 1: and reached out through text.

876
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 3: I said that I'm.

877
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: Sorry for blocking her, but twenty years ago, I was

878
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: broken and it hurts to relive that, no matter how

879
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: healed we are. I didn't appreciate being quartered at an

880
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: already horribly awkward situation and called that. But I can

881
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 1: call her after work later. Also pretty ridiculous before we

882
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: read this last update that Polly kind of expects all

883
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 1: of this information and all of this, you know, mental

884
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: effort from Ope after literally calling her an org yeah, being.

885
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I got him to move on by literally

886
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 3: just disparaging you, just making you look like she's just

887
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 3: saying you were bad.

888
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: Oh, Like it's kind of I don't know, after twenty years,

889
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 1: do you really need to kind of confront someone at

890
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: a wedding that you know it's not about that.

891
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you need to? Even if she if sheed

892
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 3: to do that. It's time for you to move on

893
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 3: to Polly. Come on, you got him, it's over. You

894
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 3: got the man.

895
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 1: Edit three. I posted an update in another postp So

896
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: I called Polly a little bit over an hour ago,

897
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: and it's very anti climactic. I talked to Polly and

898
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: she wanted to know dates that he was still chasing me.

899
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: I told her what I could recall, and it seems

900
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 1: that there were a few months gap between the meeting

901
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 1: and his last attempt. I assured her that never once

902
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: since social media became a thing, did Buzz try to

903
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: reach out to me. She said that about six to

904
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 1: seven years ago she found out the Buzz had tried

905
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: to find me on Facebook by stalking some of my

906
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: old friends. He knew, which added to her paranoia. They

907
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 1: went to marriage counseling and all that Polly was exceptionally talkative.

908
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: Apparently Buzz was a mess, went deep into alcohol, even

909
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: screwed around with Oh no heroes. Oh, screwed around with

910
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 1: the big old h big old by none other than

911
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 1: the BFF. This BFF sucks.

912
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh who odida. A few years after all this

913
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 3: went down, Yeah, I've had some I've had some friends

914
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: that have gone through like struggling with that kind of stuff,

915
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 3: and it's it's.

916
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:32,959
Speaker 2: It's ever good.

917
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't seem like good.

918
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: Like Buzz was in a very I mean, obviously he

919
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: has to take responsibility for his own actions, but it

920
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: does seem that he was not in a good crowd.

921
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: Polly hated and was hated by BFF, and when he

922
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: tried to come between Polly and Buzz a bit uh

923
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: into the relationship, Buzz saw BFF was a massive a

924
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: hole and went no contact. She said that she didn't

925
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: mean to a cost me at the wedding, but she's

926
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: always been insecure about me. She was drunk and those

927
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: first years of insecurity all came back to her. She said,

928
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: I was prettier than her saw picks that he had

929
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: stashed away or in family photo albums. While she always

930
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: felt felt deformed because of her repaired cleft palate, she

931
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: is very pretty. And I reassured her that is that

932
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: must be such.

933
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 3: A weird dynamic.

934
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: This a like reassure your ex's new wife.

935
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that. It's so weird that she's going

936
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 3: to her for the reassured.

937
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

938
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 3: Twenty years later, there's layers. This is another Lasagnia type.

939
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, sounds like a TV show.

940
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 3: I saw a Garfield that was really good. Thank you,

941
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 3: I'm I'm Latin.

942
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 5: Nice.

943
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: She said that the family was in disbelief over my

944
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: sudden abandonment, and a few times shortly into the relationship,

945
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: his family would slip and call her my name, youch

946
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: or she'd hear them reminiscing about a family vacation I

947
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: was on with them, or how good a few dishes

948
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: I made were. She also said that Buzz did confirm

949
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: that he cheated, followed by a bunch of excuses. I

950
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: said that I really didn't care to hear what he

951
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: told her. I did say that I wish him no

952
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: ill will, and I'm truly glad that he settled down

953
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: and found happiness. But I'm done with this.

954
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, it's been twenty years.

955
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 1: Twenty years, I don't know. I don't want to reconnect

956
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: with any family members. I don't want her calling to

957
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: commiserate with his wrongdoings. I just want to return to

958
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 1: our very separate lives and I want you guys to

959
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: return to us. Live every weekday at three pm. Psta

960
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:39,760
Speaker 1: just tap her profile.

961
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 3: Smooth with it like Lida. Uh.

962
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,919
Speaker 1: She did ask how I found the strength to just leave?

963
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: Like that?

964
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 3: Sounds like she's kind of considering Yeah, him, Maybe that's

965
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 3: why she's so desperate to be like, tell me what

966
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 3: you're thinking, show me what you're feeling, because.

967
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 2: We're in the same boat now.

968
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: I told her that I had an amazing role mother,

969
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: strong support system of family and friends, We had no

970
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: shared resources to divide, and I have a low tolerance

971
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: for bs. Polly was quiet and said thank you. We

972
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: then hung up. Of course, now I'm wondering if she's

973
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: thinking Buzz is cheating on her and that's why she's

974
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: asking me about strength. I blocked her again, so I'll

975
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: never know. I do wish her all the best, but

976
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to return to my apathetic life and that

977
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: is the end of that story. Sorry for exiting out

978
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:33,959
Speaker 1: so quickly, but I think, yeah, Op just needs to

979
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: cut everyone off. I mean, it's it's nice that I

980
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: think Angel move that she talked to Polly and tried

981
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: to work this, you know, work it.

982
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 3: Out with you.

983
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 2: Lightened move.

984
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: But she did not need to like cut them out.

985
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 2: Of course she didn't need to.

986
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 3: She's just like, she's like.

987
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm like feeling great after twenty years. Help I'll help

988
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:51,879
Speaker 1: another gal out.

989
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 3: It's just like, yikes, Yeah, you really took that bullet

990
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 3: for me, didn't you. I got out twenty years ago

991
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 3: and you took my place.

992
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: Indeed, but it is time to spin a wheel.

993
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:07,720
Speaker 3: Shout out to everybody from the old world before social media.

994
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: Social media was on the Nokia.

995
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 3: That's part of Yeah, I think that's part of why

996
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 3: the twenty year gap was there was no way to

997
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 3: get was like.

998
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,720
Speaker 5: You know, does home phone count?

999
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 3: I home phone counts if you have your home phone

1000
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 3: number memorized, I did. You're from the old world, all right,

1001
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 3: A two eight Oh, I don't still have it memorize.

1002
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 2: Six eight zero.

1003
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: It is defunct. You cannot you can't it's call it.

1004
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: I don't think I still have it memorized, but I have,

1005
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: actually maybe I do. But yeah, that was my first phone.

1006
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: That in my mom's number, the first and only numbers

1007
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 1: that I have memorised for a really long time.

1008
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 3: Does anyone remember fireflies? Like the cell phones that were

1009
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 3: like little they were like little.

1010
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 5: Pill I have a slide phone where you like you?

1011
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 3: Yeah? Sam? I that? Yeah, I had a panteic duo.

1012
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, my first phone phone was an iPhone. But that

1013
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,240
Speaker 1: is because I didn't get a phone until eighth grade.

1014
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 3: So like if wow, that's actually wild that your first

1015
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 3: phone is the iPhone? Yeah? Wow, Well look at the

1016
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 3: generation gap here. What can I say?

1017
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,919
Speaker 2: Damn, hey, why don't you get the milk in over there?

1018
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1019
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 3: Before you keep.

1020
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: I didn't get a phone until length. No, everyone had

1021
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: a phone before me.

1022
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: Okay, my first phone was brought firefly, and then I

1023
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 3: had the brick phone.

1024
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 1: That I could play a freaking phone. Riley eighteen, What

1025
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: you got your first phone.

1026
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 3: When you're eighteen?

1027
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: I didn't say first iPhone. I said first.

1028
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 5: Phone, oh sixteen?

1029
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 3: Really yep?

1030
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 5: Interesting, when I learned how to drive.

1031
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 3: That's cool. Wow, my phone the firefly was basically a

1032
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 3: walkie talkie. You couldn't make any calls with it that

1033
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 3: weren't like saved in your contact like list, So you

1034
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 3: couldn't like make a call to like a random number.

1035
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 3: You couldn't get a call from a random number. It's

1036
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 3: only the numbers in your contacts that were allowed to

1037
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 3: call you.

1038
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: Done, we're talking, Ah, but you know what I also

1039
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: want to talk about before we on the stream?

1040
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 3: Whoa this? We's been go here we go.

1041
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:18,439
Speaker 5: We might have a chance for trivia trivia membership. Yes,

1042
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 5: I love trivia and fifteen more minutes trivia.

1043
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: That trivia trivia, Trivia, trivia, trivia, trivia.

1044
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 1: Give me trivia.

1045
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 5: More memberships, baby.

1046
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 3: Okay, your babies. I was trivia.

1047
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: I do love members but I also love Trivia's we

1048
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: can just.

1049
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 2: Do some trivia right now.

1050
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 1: We have and the stream.

1051
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 2: What kind of rock is granite?

1052
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 5: Granite?

1053
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 3: Is it? What's what is the what is the lowest

1054
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 3: on the More? I think it's the more More's hardness scale.

1055
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 3: It corundum or sapphire. No, corundom is almost as hard

1056
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 3: as diamond. Riley got it. It was it was sapphire. Wait,

1057
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 3: I didn't actually understand the question which which is a harder?

1058
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:23,919
Speaker 3: Which rock is harder a diamond or like my, oh diamond. Yeah,

1059
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 3: well the diamond. That was an easy one. Talk is

1060
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 3: the Yeah that was I set that one up for you.

1061
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 3: That's easier.

1062
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: Well, but I didn't understand does.

1063
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 3: A dragon have arms and legs? It does.

1064
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 1: We had an entire discussion and discussion dragon worms, yburns

1065
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: and all that.

1066
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 3: Because there's one over there that you can't see. It's

1067
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:45,720
Speaker 3: you can see its feet, its knees.

1068
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 2: Which worms do not have?

1069
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 5: No one here?

1070
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, are we gonna get another worm?

1071
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 3: Time?

1072
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: But that is the end of the stream. I hate

1073
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:58,680
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1074
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